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Welcome, writers and book lovers. The Bleeders is a podcast about book writing and publishing. Make sure you subscribe to the companion Substack: https://thebleeders.substack.com/welcomeToday's guest is Frances Badalamenti, author of Many Seasons, I Don't Blame You, and Salad Days. Follow Frances on Instagram @franbad and connect via her website francesbadalamenti.com.>>> Watch the full interview with Frances on YouTube: https://youtu.be/KajQ4_2K8fU?si=QHH4s8stLJapddWDThe Bleeders is hosted by Courtney Kocak. Follow her on X/Twitter and Instagram @courtneykocak. For more, check out her website courtneykocak.com.Courtney is teaching some upcoming workshops you might be interested in:Land Big Bylines by Writing for Columns: https://writingworkshops.com/products/land-big-bylines-by-writing-for-columns-zoom-seminarPodcasting for Writers: How to Start, Sustain & Grow Your Podcast: https://writingworkshops.com/products/podcasting-for-writers-how-to-start-sustain-grow-your-podcast-4-week-zoom-workshopHow to Build a “Platform” for Writers Who Shudder at the Thought: https://writingworkshops.com/products/how-to-build-a-platform-for-writers-who-shudder-at-the-thought-zoom-seminarStart a Newsletter to Supercharge Your Platform, Network and Business: https://writingworkshops.com/products/start-a-newsletter-to-supercharge-your-platform-network-business-zoom-seminar

Celebrating the release of their new smash "Blame You", Dan from NERO joins us for the first time on AD30, and shares how the song was born, how many Vs there were of it before it was released, and what's different about this song compared to past NERO releases.We also get to know Dan & NERO better w #FinkysFirsts!Find out about:what he first wanted to be growing upthe first song they producedthe first dance song that made him fall in love w EDMhow they first decided on the name 'NERO', and if there were other names being consideredthe first show they didthe first discussions on the return of NEROthe first thing Dan admits to loving too muchFollow: @AmericasDance30 on all socials!Count down the biggest dance songs in the country every week with Brian Fink on America's Dance 30; listen on stations around the world!

TEAM for Troubled Couples A New Twist! Today we are joined by a favorite guest, the brilliant Thai-An Truong. Thai-An is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and Alcohol and Drug Counselor (LADC). She is the first Certified TEAM-CBT Therapist and Trainer in Oklahoma. She has found TEAM-CBT to be life-changing professionally and personally and is passionate about training other therapists in this “awesome approach.” In her private practice, Thai-An specializes in the treatment of trauma and OCD. To learn more about her TEAM-CBT Trainings, visit www.teamcbttraining.com Thai-An has been featured on many Feeling Good Podcasts focusing on Depression and social anxiety (Live demonstration, 187) Postpartum Depression and Anxiety ( 218) How to Get Laid (Ep. 264) OCD ( 283) Grief (Ep 344) Now Thai-An adds an important dimension to the TEAM Interpersonal Model—working with trouble couples, as opposed to working with individuals with troubled relationships. She also describes a new way to use Positive Reframing to reduce patient resistance to giving up David's famous list of “Common Communication Errors,” and she adds five new errors to the list. At the start of the podcast, Thai-An described a woman who complained that her husband often “shuts down” when they are communicating about a sensitive topic, and she wondered why. Thai-An decided to invite him to join the session so his wife could find out why. This really opened things up, and the wife discovered that her husband shut down because he was feeling inadequate when she pointed out all the things that were wrong with the house, and he was taking her comments as criticism. However, the more he shut down, the more she complained, and this pushed him away even further since her criticisms intensified his feelings of inadequacy. Thai-An then used Positive Reframing to help her see why he shut down. One of Thai-An's new ideas was to use Positive Reframing to cast our list of “errors” on the “Bad Communication Checklist” in a positive light, just as we do with the negative thoughts and feelings of people who are using the Daily Mood Log. By siding with the patient's resistance and listing all the good reasons NOT to change, nearly all patients paradoxically let down their guard and powerful urges to oppose change. Instead, they open up and become receptive to the many methods for challenging distorted thoughts. Thai-An has observed the same phenomena with troubled couples. When they see the GOOD reasons to why they or their partners use dysfunctional ways of communicating, they paradoxically let down their guard and become more willing to use the Five Secrets of Effective Communication. She says: Positive reframing started to open them up to each other, and helped them see each other in a more positive light. At the same time, they discovered that they shared the same values. Voicing the good reasons to maintain the communication errors as well as the cost of change (e.g., it'll be hard work, I'll have to focus on changing myself, it'll be vulnerable) allowed each partner to melt away their resistance to change. David comment: This is an excellent example of a “double paradox.” Once again, instead of trying to “help,” which often triggers intense resistance, the therapist sides with the resistance, and this paradoxically triggers strong motivation to change! Thai-An reminded us that it's important to go through the TEAM structure before moving forward with tools to help the couple change. For testing, she asks both partners to complete the version of David's Brief Mood Survey that includes the Relationship Satisfaction Scale, and asks both to complete the Evaluation of Therapy Session at the end. She makes sure both partners rate her empathy toward them at 20/20 (perfect scores) before proceeding to the next steps. During the Assessment of Resistance, she begins to work with David's Relationship Journal to get a specific moment in time of conflict. Then when they do Steps 3 and 4, where they identify their own communication errors and their impact on their partners, she does positive reframing of the bad communication errors, which you can see here, along with five new errors that Thai-An has listed below.   The Bad Communication Checklist* Instructions. Review what you wrote down in Step 2 of the Relationship Journal. How many of the following communication errors can you spot? Communication Error (ü) Communication Error (ü) 1.      Truth – You insist you're "right" and the other person is "wrong."   10.   Diversion – You change the subject or list past grievances.   2.      Blame – You imply the problem is the other person's fault.   11.   Self-Blame – You act as if you're awful and terrible.   3.      Defensiveness – You argue and refuse to admit any imperfection.   12.   Hopelessness – You claim you've tried everything and nothing works.   4.      Martyrdom – You imply that you're an innocent victim.   13.   Demandingness – You complain when people aren't as you expect.   5.      Put-Down – You imply that the other person is a loser.   14.   Denial – You imply that you don't feel angry, sad or upset when you do.   6.      Labeling – You call the other person "a jerk," "a loser," or worse.   15.   Helping – Instead of listening, you give advice or "help."   7.      Sarcasm – Your tone of voice is belittling or patronizing.   16.   Problem Solving – You try to solve the problem and ignore feelings.   8.      Counterattack – You respond to criticism with criticism.   17.   Mind-Reading – You expect others to know how you feel without telling them.   9.      Scapegoating – You imply the other person is defective or has a problem.   18.   Passive-Aggression – You say nothing, pout or slam doors.     * Copyright ã 1991 by David D. Burns, MD. Revised 2001.   Thai-An Truong's 5 Additional Communication Errors: Shut down—You shut down and ignore the other person or give them the silent treatment. Avoidance—You hide your feelings and avoid talking about hard topics, or disconnect through some form of escape. Rejection—You make threats to leave – “I'm done with you,” or “I can't deal with this anymore,” or “I want a divorce.” Control—You insist that the other person “needs” to behave or communicate differently, or “should” or “shouldn't” behave the way they do. Invalidation—You tell the other person they shouldn't feel the way they feel. Here's how Thai-An did the Positive Reframing with this couple. First she asked the wife, “Why might your partner suddenly want to “shut down” and stop communicating during a conflicted exchange?” She also asked, “What does this do for the person who is shutting down?” This is the list of positives they came up with. Shutting down . . . Keeps me safe and protects me from more criticism Protects my partner from hurtful comments I might make. Shows that I value our marriage and my partner's feelings. Shows my love for my partner, and for myself. It shows that I'm feeling hurt and want to be appreciated. Guarantees that I won't make things worse. Shows that I want to protect myself from becoming overly vulnerable and getting invalidated again. Shutting down feels less risky than sharing my feelings. Once she saw why he shut down, she realized the negative impact of her complaints, and began to provide more genuine words of appreciation to him. He said that this meant so much to him and made all the hard work worth it. Her common communication errors included “truth” and “making complaints.” He realized, again through positive reframing, that she also wanted validation, that raising children can be hard, and that she ALSO wanted appreciation for how well she was keeping up with the home and the care of their children. So, when she wasn't getting validation and appreciation from him, she was even more likely to complain to try to voice her perspective. Once he was able to stop shutting down, and instead began to make more disarming statements, use feeling empathy, and stroking, she was much less likely to complain. They also realized they had the same values of wanting healthier communication and to provide a safe and happy home for their children. Was this effective? Both went from 10/30 and 11/30 on the relationship satisfaction scale (shockingly poor scores) to 26/30 by the end of the relationship work together (extremely high scores indicating outstanding scores on my Relationship Satisfaction Scale.) Thai-An provided us with a cool Positive Reframing document for all of the communication errors. You can check it out if you CLICK HERE. I (David) pointed out that Positive Reframing can also be used in conjunction with the Relationship Journal in another way. In step one of the RJ, you write down one thing the other person said, and you circle all the many feelings they were probably having, like hurt, alone, anxious, angry, sad, unloved, and many more. In step two you write down exactly what you said next, and circle all the feelings you were having. This would be an ideal time to do Positive Reframing of your partner's negative feelings, so as to shift you perception that the other person is “bad” or “to blame” or some negative interpretations that you may be making. This reframing might be helpful in the same sense that my technique, Forced Empathy, can sometimes cause a radical shift in how you see the person you're at odds with. Announcements On January 4, 2024, Thai-An Truong will be offering a 14-week training program in TEAM couples therapy for mental health professionals. The class will meet weekly from 11:30 to 1:30 East Coast time. To learn more, please go to Courses.teamcbttraining.com/relationships There will be a 4-day TEAM-CBT Intensive November 6-9, 2023, in Mexico City, at the Hotel Camino Real.  To learn more, please go to:  https://teamcbt.mx/welcome Thanks for listening today! Let us know what you thought about our show! Thai-An, Rhonda, and David

Listen every Friday from 21 till 22 (Moscow time) Jazz FM (radiojazzfm.ru) Subscribe in iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/ru/podcast/funk-and-beyond-weekly/id1063844118?mt=2 for more details please visit beyondfunk.ru 1. Apollo Suns - Serpentine 2. Sven Wunder - Take A Break 3. Cosmos Dwellerz Arkestra - Love Thoughts 4. Jalen Ngonda - Please Show Me 5. Dominique Fils-Aime - Just Let Me Go 6. Steven Bamidele - Misunderstood 7. TOMC - Ambience (feat. Nakamura Hiroyuki) 8. MMYYKK - Forbidden Fruit 9. Suff Daddy - Donte 10. Syrup - Don't Blame You (instrumental) 11. Slowe - A Simple Act 12. Little Dragon - Stay (feat. JID) 13. Red Astaire - The Arsta Bump 14. Kurt Elling - SuperBlue 15. Pale Jay - In Your Corner 16. Godfather Don, Parental - Waters (Instrumental) 17. Guinu - Raridade 18. Billy Hoyle - Os Afro-Sambas 19. Anatoly Ice - Shining 20. Waltel Branco - Meu Balanço

Cat Power is the stage name of American singer-songwriter, musician, and actress Chan Marshall. Born on January 21, 1972, in Atlanta, Georgia, she adopted the name Cat Power for her musical endeavors. Marshall is known for her minimalist style, sparse guitar and piano playing, and breathy vocals. She has produced a variety of work in the indie rock, folk, and blues genres."You Are Free" is the sixth album by Cat Power, released in 2003. The album features 14 tracks and includes guest appearances by musicians such as Eddie Vedder of Pearl Jam and Dave Grohl of Foo Fighters. "You Are Free" received critical acclaim for its raw sound and emotional depth, and it includes songs like "I Don't Blame You," "Good Woman," and "Free.""The Greatest" is another album by Cat Power, released in 2006. It consists of 12 tracks and was recorded in Memphis with a band of veteran session musicians. The album showcases a soulful sound, influenced by the musical heritage of Memphis. "The Greatest" received widespread acclaim from critics and won the Shortlist Music Prize in 2006. The title track "The Greatest" and "Lived in Bars" are among the notable songs on the album.

1.ª parte:   1 - Destroyer - Your Blues - Your Blues 2 - Helena Deland - Swimmer - Swimmer 3 - Arooj Aftab - Vulture Prince - Baghon Main (Feat. Darian Donovan Thomas) 4 - Eluvium - (Whirring Marvels In) Consensus Reality - Scatterbrains 5 - Shana Cleveland - Manzanita - Ten Hour Drive Through West Coast Disaster 6 - Shana Cleveland - Manzanita - A Ghost 7 - Sam Burton - Dear Departed - I Don't Blame You 8 - Richard Hawley - Not the Only Road - Not the Only Road 9 - Nev Cottee - Madrid - The Ring 10 - Jolie Holland - Haunted Mountain - Haunted Mountain 11 - The Clientele - I Am Not There Anymore - Through the Roses 12 - The Clientele - I Am Not There Anymore - Conjuring Summer In 13 - PJ Harvey - 'Peaky Blinders' Original Soundtrack - Red Right Hand 14 - Grandaddy - The Sophtware Slump .​.​.​.​. on a wooden piano - The Crystal Lake (Piano Version) 15 - Bill Fay - Countless Branches - Love Will Remain 16 - Tiny Ruins - Ceremony - Diving & Soaring 17 - John Cale - Vintage Violence - Amsterdam 2.ª parte: 18 - Anna von Hausswolff - Ceremony - Goodbye 19 - Deserta - Black Aura My Sun - Save Me 20 - Cocteau Twins - Milk & Kisses - Seekers Who Are Lovers 21 - Port St. Willow - Syncope - Three Halves Whole 22 - Florist - If Blue Could Be Happiness - Instrumental 3 23 - Mega Bog - End of Everything - Anthropocene 24 - Florist - If Blue Could Be Happiness - The Fear of Losing This 25 - Marisa Anderson, Tara Jane O'Neill - For All We Know - For All We Know 26 - Três Tristes Tigres - Mínima Luz - Tigre 27 - Arianna Casellas y Kauê - Rua Dura - Casa 28 - April Marmara - Still Life - Take Time 29 - Martha Wainwright - Martha Wainwright - Far Away 30 - John Southworth - When you're this, this in love - Vow 31 - At Swim Two Birds - Quigley's Point - Darling * imagem de (image by) Herbert List

  1.ª parte:   1 - The Montgolfier Brothers - All My Bad Thoughts - Journey's End 2 - Brian McBride - When the Detail Lost Its Freedom - Piano Abg 3 - Brian McBride - When the Detail Lost Its Freedom - Our Last Moment in Song 4 - Mary Lattimore - Goodbye, Hotel Arkada - And Then He Wrapped His Wings Around Me 5 - Lost Horizons - In Quiet Moments - Cordelia (Feat. John Grant) 6 - Adam Wiltzie & Bryan Senti - Apu (Remix) - Apu 7 - Sarah Davachi - Cantus, Descant - Play The Ghost 8 - Hauschka - Philanthropy - Loved Ones 9 - Orcas - Orcas - Until Then 10 - Fever Ray - Radical Romantics - Bottom Of The Ocean 11 - David Sylvian - Dead Bees On A Cake - Darkest Dreaming   2.ª parte:   12 - Soho Rezanejad, F. Valentin - "I Could Go Anywhere But Again I Go With You” - One Of My Shades 14 - Delaney Bailey - what we leave behind - bloomington 15 - Marisa Anderson, Tara Jane O'Neill - For All We Know - For All We Know 16 - Sam Burton - Dear Departed - I Don't Blame You 17 - Scott Walker - Scott 4 - Angels Of Ashes 18 - Red House Painters - Vanilla Sky (OST) - Have You Forgotten (Vinyl Version) 19 - Sam Burton - Dear Departed - Long Way Around 20 - Mac Demarco - Here Comes The Cowboy - Nobody 21 - Efterklang - Piramida - Sedna 22 - Feu! Chatterton - Le Sud - Le Sud 23 - Tom Waits - Rain Dogs - Time 24 - The Smile - Bending Hectic - Bending Hectic 25 - Elliott Smith - Figure 8 - Everything Means Nothing To Me   * imagem de (image by) Tadeusz Rolke

Summer school is officially in session, Bleeders! Today's instructor is Frances Badalamenti, author of I Don't Blame You and Salad Days. Follow Frances on Instagram @franbad and connect via her website francesbadalamenti.com.SUBSCRIBE TO THE NEW BLEEDERS YOUTUBE CHANNEL FOR FULL-LENGTH INTERVIEWS. https://www.youtube.com/@bleederspodcastWelcome, writers and book lovers. The Bleeders is a new podcast about book writing and publishing. Make sure you subscribe to the companion Substack: https://thebleeders.substack.com/welcomeThe Bleeders is hosted by Courtney Kocak. Follow her on Twitter and Instagram @courtneykocak. For more, check out her website courtneykocak.com.Check out Courtney's new podcast, Podcast Bestie, based on her popular Substack: https://pod.link/1670457783Subscribe to the newsletter: https://podcastbestie.substack.com/welcomeLooking to start, grow, and monetize a newsletter? In Courtney's first-ever newsletter intensive this August, she's going to share everything she's learned from growing Podcast Bestie into a popular newsletter with a paid membership and sponsorships. Sign up here: https://pandemicuniversity.com/supercharge-newsletters/

  1.  Salad Boys - Blown Up. 2.  Wireheads - Hook Echo 3.  Public Eye - Left Side. 4.  Marathon - Tired. 5.  Sam Burton - I Don't Blame You. 6.  Angelo De Augustine - The Ballad of Betty and Barney Hill 7.  Kevin Morby - Going To Prom. 8.  RF Shannon - Midnight Jewelry. 9.  Cold Cave - Confetti. 10.  The Dare - Sex   11.  Pale Blue Eyes - Takes Me Over. 12.  Nation of Language - Stumbling Still. 13.  Thee Oh Sees - Intercepted Message  14.  HotWax - Treasure. 15.  Iguana Death Cult - Radio Brainwave. 16.  The Shivas - Perder. 17.  Blonde Redhead - Snowman. 18.  Lorelle Meets The Obsolete - Invisible  19.  John Parish - Three Hours  20.  Tame Impala - Retina Show - Unreleased Demo. 21.  Monophonics - Untitled Visions. 22.  Obongjayar - Just Cool. 23.  Arlo Parks - Devotion. 24.  Holy Wave - Happier. 25.  Ought - Beautiful Blue Sky 

In this episode, Donald talks with Matthew Sharpe.  Matt is Associate Professor of Philosophy at Deakin University in Australia.  He's spoken at Stoicon in Athens.  He is the co-author of Philosophy as a Way of Life, and one of the translators of The Selected Writings of Pierre Hadot: Philosophy as Practice. His most recent book is titled Stoicism, Bullying, and Beyond: How to Keep Your Head When Others Around You Have Lost Theirs and Blame You.Stoicism: Philosophy as a Way of Life is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.Highlights* Stoicism and Philosophy as a Way of Life* Why isn't Stoicism more popular in academia?* Pierre Hadot and Stoicism* Philosophy and Spiritual Exercises* Philosophy and the History of Psychotherapy* Anger, Self-Estrangement, and Politics* The French Enlightenment and Philosophy as a Way of LifeLinks* Matthew Sharpe Profile at Deakin University* Stoicism, Bullying, and Beyond* The Other Enlightenment: Race, Sexuality and Self-Estrangement* The Selected Writings of Pierre Hadot* Philosophy as a Way of Life: History, Dimensions, DirectionsStoicism: Philosophy as a Way of Life is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Stoicism: Philosophy as a Way of Life at donaldrobertson.substack.com/subscribe

Todos se hacen los despistados, los que no sabían nada, lo que les coge de nuevas. Al mismo tiempo, resulta que sí lo hicieron, pero obligados, a regañadientes, víctimas de omnímodo poder del enemigo, y de las argucias de un extorsionador de primer nivel. Es curioso que se pase del no sé nada, nada hay que reprochar, a basar la defensa en el reconocimiento de los hechos, pero porque se vieron obligados a pagar por puro sentido de la supervivencia. Becarios: @galivanPollero @ArkansasDe3 Min. 01 Seg. 44 - Intro Min. 09 Seg. 28 - El escándalo viene de lejos Min. 13 Seg. 56 - Informes Guadiana, aparecen y desaparecen Min. 20 Seg. 05 - Reconicimiento del delito Min. 25 Seg. 52 - Cambiar las palabras no cambia los hechos Min. 35 Seg. 27 - Víctimas que sólo se defendían Min. 44 Seg. 31 - Alarma social Min. 49 Seg. 30 - Coacción real o imaginaria Min. 55 Seg. 06 - El polígrafo delator Min. 63 Seg. 36 - Cambalache Min. 68 Seg. 45 - Despedida Cat Power (Berlín 09/22/2006) Don't Blame You > Remember Me Islands Willie Crazy Cross Bones Style > (I Can't Get No) Satisfaction Jon Jon Naked, If I Want You The Moon Wild Is The Wind > House Of The Rising Sun Living Proof Lived In Bars Ramblin' Man Mocedades - Hold On

Join Massimo and Rob for another episode of the "Philosophy as a Way of Life" podcast as they talk with returning guest Matt Sharpe on his new book: Stoicism, Bullying, and Beyond--How to Keep Your Head When Others Around You Have Lost Theirs and Blame You.

Hello friends! Multi-instrumentalist, songwriter, podcaster, Robin Mordecai, is my guest for episode 1130! His latest single, the 80's, power-pop inspired, "Alive" from his up coming EP, "Portraits" (out 3/15), is available now. find "Alive" and his previous singles, "I Don't Blame You" and "Caroline" wherever you stream or download your jams. Go to robinmordecai.com for music, show dates and more. We have a great conversation about his writing and recording process, playing everything on "Portraits", playing the legendary Elephant Room jazz club in Austin a kid, growing up with musician parents, his Rock Detention Podcast, playing Eddie V's and much more. I had a great time getting to know Robin. I'm sure you will too. Let's get down! Get the best, full-spectrum CBD products from True Hemp Science and enter code HDIGH for a special offer from How Did I Get Here?      

Hello friends! Multi-instrumentalist, songwriter, podcaster, Robin Mordecai, is my guest for episode 1130! His latest single, the 80's, power-pop inspired, "Alive" from his up coming EP, "Portraits" (out 3/15), is available now. find "Alive" and his previous singles, "I Don't Blame You" and "Caroline" wherever you stream or download your jams. Go to robinmordecai.com for music, show dates and more. We have a great conversation about his writing and recording process, playing everything on "Portraits", playing the legendary Elephant Room jazz club in Austin a kid, growing up with musician parents, his Rock Detention Podcast, playing Eddie V's and much more. I had a great time getting to know Robin. I'm sure you will too. Let's get down! Get the best, full-spectrum CBD products from True Hemp Science and enter code HDIGH for a special offer from How Did I Get Here?      

This week, Dylan and Josh dive into the final CFP top 4: Alabama, Michigan, Georgia, and Cincinnati. If you missed the ACC Championship, which most people did (We Don't Blame You), then you may have missed Kenny Pickett's fake slide and the problem it now creates. In an NFL with many young elite QBs, which one, 25 and younger, would you pick to start your franchise with? The guys discuss their pick and their favorite moments from this past week in football. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

This interview first aired on Monday the 29th of November, 2021 on ONE FM 98.5 Shepparton. One FM Breakfast announcer Terri Cowley talks to Echuca's and Yorta Yorta man Benny Walker about the upcoming Secret Garden Gig at the Dookie Quarry. We also hear Benny's song 'I Don't Blame You' and 'Home' from local artist Eliott. To learn more about Benny's music you can go to http://www.bennywalkermusic.com/. The Secret Garden Gigs are BACK with Charlie McCosh & band, Aluka, Ryan Meeking, Eliott & Benny Walker All the details - https://www.thesecretgardengigs.com Proudly presented by JL & HD from The Secret Garden Gigs ⏰ Gates open at 5pm, Dec 11

This show features Harley McDonald-Eckersall from Animal Rebellion on the role of individual veganism and system change within the animal movement.  Links for the show: Find out more about Animal Rebellion here: https://animalrebellion.org/ This show builds on the themes covered on our previous episode: 1 in 3 People Support Plant-Based Diets – Progress for the Vegan Movement! https://www.3cr.org.au/freedomofspecies/episode-202104041300/1-3-people-support-plant-based-diets-%E2%80%93-progress-vegan-movement Please fill out our survey for Freedom of Species listeners! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeRAIRBPZ7ptOfuhJ8Nd_9JGBrBijPXMoAvsOSfBOZGqRryKA/viewform The phrase carbon footprint received “its biggest boost in 2005 through an enormous BP media campaign on the carbon footprint” – from William Safire in The New York Times magazine:  https://www.nytimes.com/2008/02/17/magazine/17wwln-safire-t.html The world’s top five meat and dairy corporations are already responsible for more emissions than ExxonMobil, Shell or BP – from Josh Gabbatiss in the Independent: https://www.independent.co.uk/climate-change/news/meat-dairy-industry-greenhouse-gas-emissions-fossil-fuels-oil-pollution-iatp-grain-a8451871.html  Music/clips: Adam Ruins Everything – Going Green: 'The Corporate Conspiracy to Blame You for Their Trash': https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koqNm_TgOZk Shoreline and Nervus ‘Meat Free Youth’: https://shorelineband.com/meat-free-youth/ MARINA ‘Purge the Poison’: https://marina.lnk.to/PurgeThePoisonID

Humans are social creatures. We live among each other and we communicate, we create and destroy. We are human. We blame, we feel shame, and that's okay. Accept them. Love and light, y'all. Playlist: Plus tôt by Alexandra Stréliski It's Nobody's Fault but Mine by Blind Willie Johnson I Don't Blame You by Cat Power Blame by Victoria Bigelow Homelands by Nitin Sawhney Borrow Your Heart by Alexa Rose Baby Where You Are by Lola Kirke featuring Wyndham A Bo Story: Together by Matthew Halsall Reminders, Defeats by Jesse Marchant Shame by Low I Blame Baltimore by Sebastian Blanck No Regrets by Tom Rush I Miss That Feeling by Tennis Shame by The Avett Brothers I by Aphex Twin

It is so sad to currently be living in a ‘blaming’ society. It is even worse to see it happening in marriages. Why is it that individuals would rather blame their spouse, for the issues that they suffer within themselves? Why hurt the one that you supposedly love by doing this? What is preventing you from just facing your demons, in order to be a better you? So many questions, but the King’s are going to dive in. Feel free to share. Blessings.

DISTORTED THINKING* 1. All-or-nothing thinking: You look at things in absolute, black-and-white categories. 2. Overgeneralization: You view a negative event as a never-ending pattern of defeat. 3. Mental filter: You dwell on the negatives and ignore the positives. 4. Discounting the positives: You insist that your accomplishments or positive qualities don't count. 5. Jumping to conclusions: You conclude things are bad without any definite evidence: (a) Mind reading: You assume people are reacting negatively to you. (b) Fortune-telling: You predict that things will turn out badly. 6. Magnification or minimization: You blow things way out of proportion or you shrink their importance. 7. Emotional reasoning: You reason from how you feel: “I feel like an idiot, so I must be one.” 8. “Should” statements: You criticize yourself or other people with “shoulds,” “shouldn'ts,” “musts,” “oughts,” and “have-tos.” 9. Labeling: Instead of saying “I made a mistake,” you tell yourself “I'm a jerk” or “a loser.” 10. Blame: You blame yourself for something you weren't entirely responsible for, or you blame other people and overlook ways that you contributed to a problem. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/suzanne-howard/support

Frances Badalamenti's debut novel I Don’t Blame You tells of the instability a young girl experiences when her mother’s mental and physical health decline after divorce. The novel closely reflects Fran’s own experience of a lost childhood. Sarah speaks to Fran about the grief she felt losing her mother, which was coupled with the joy of becoming a mother herself.Frances Badalamenti lives in Portland, Oregon with her husband and son. Her personal essays, interviews and short fiction have been featured in Longreads, Volume 1 Brooklyn, The Rumpus, and Mutha Magazine. In addition to her own committed writing practice, she holds a master’s degree in counseling psychology and works with other writers and creatives on their process.Grief Gratitude & Greatness is hosted by Sarah Shaoul and is a production of Recursive Delete Audio/Visual in Portland, Oregon.This episode was produced & edited by Jack Saturn, with additional production by Sarah. The music was by Samantha Jensen.If you appreciate the show, support us on Patreon!If you have a story of your own that you’d like to share or topics you’d like to hear more about, we’d love to hear from you! Call or text our show at 503-454-6646, or send us a message via the contact link on our website at https://griefgratitudegreatness.com/ .We're also on Instagram (@griefgratitudegreat) and Facebook.

Poverty Mindset – 3 Signs You Are Being Held Back From God’s Best   Do You Have a Poverty Mindset? Is a poverty mindset holding you back?  Have you been taught that money is evil?  Rather than the truth, which is that the LOVE of money is evil?  Money itself is just a measure of how much we are helping other people.  How much value we are adding to the world. I have struggled with that poverty mindset myself.  I grew up believing rich people were bad people.  And since I certainly didn’t want to become a bad person, even when I earned money–sometimes lots of it–I quickly gave it all away or lost it in unwise investments. It took me many decades to discover the problem wasn’t “out there” somewhere.  The problem was right between my ears.  The enemy was my poverty mindset. Why Is a Poverty Mindset So Destructive? A poverty mindset is incredibly destructive because it puts us in the role of helpless victim.  It tempts us to sit back as spectators to our own destiny.  We believe everything that happens to us is the result of outside forces.  We have no control. I see this among Christians all the time.  The bible commands us to be diligent and wise and promises that those traits lead inevitably to a prosperous life.  The opposite of diligence and wisdom is folly and the life of the sluggard.  If you think God has good things to say about the foolish, unwise person, you might want to re-read the Book of Proverbs. But instead of embracing the principles of Proverbs–of hard work, discipline, sowing and reaping–we embrace the poverty mindset, which says, “The mess I’m in isn’t my fault, so I’m powerless to change it.  I’ll just sit here watching TV, surfing the internet and chit chatting with my peeps.  God is in control, so I’m sure He’ll figure everything out eventually and make my life better.” One of my pet peeves is the way people love to “throw God under the bus.”  Hey, I’ve done it myself.  I neglected His principles, then when life turned out badly, I fell back on, “Well, God is in control, so He must have wanted me to gain 30 pounds and lose a fortune in real estate.” No, I gained 30 pounds by consuming more calories than I burned. I lost money in real estate because I was foolish. Let’s keep God on His Throne, where He belongs, ruling a universe that is governed by principles that are clearly spelled out for us in His Word. It’s time to take responsibility.  It’s time to admit our lives are where our own choices have taken us.  Time to break free from “poor, poor, pitiful me.” 3 Signs You Have A Poverty Mindset Clue #1: Blame You blame the economy, you blame the government, you blame the stock market, you blame your employer (or your employees).  If you’re in the direct sales industry, you blame your up-line or your down-line.  You blame your parents.  You blame your spouse, you blame your kids.  You blame your genes.  And the ever popular: it’s your thyroid’s fault. It’s always something else or someone else. The problem is always anything or anyone else, but you.  It’s not any of those things.  It’s a Poverty Mindset.  That’s what’s holding you back from God’s best. Clue #2: Justify Or you justify your situation by saying you don’t really care.  You justify being broke by declaring yourself too spiritual for money.  “Money isn’t important,” you say.  But can you name one good thing that can be accomplished in this world without money?  Not a single missionary can remain on the field without money.  Not a single medical facility can operate without money.  No church can keep it’s doors open without money.  And the truth is, financial stress is the leading cause of divorce in America. Stop justifying your lack of prosperity by declaring yourself too spiritual to abide by the clear principles of scripture: Lazy hands make for poverty, but diligent hands bring wealth.  Proverbs 10:4 A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest— 11 and poverty will come on you like a thief and scarcity like an armed man.  Proverbs 6:10-11 Whoever disregards discipline comes to poverty and shame.  Proverbs 13:18 All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty. Proverbs 14:23 The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty.  Proverbs 21:5 Those who work their land will have abundant food, but those who chase fantasies will have their fill of poverty.  Proverbs 28:19 God told Abraham:  “I will surely make you prosper”  Genesis 32:12 The Lord was with Joseph so that he prospered  Genesis 39:2 Walk in obedience to all that the Lord your God has commanded you, so that you may live and prosper.  Deut. 5:33 The Lord will grant you abundant prosperity—in the fruit of your womb, the young of your livestock and the crops of your ground  Deut. 28:11 Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.  Joshua 1:8 Well, you get the idea.  I could go on listing verses.  But the message is clear.  Faith and diligence bring prosperity.  Period.  

We've officially made it to 1 YEAR!!!!!!!!! In this episode we dive into what's going on in this new age of marriage, relationships and social media. We share how we even came to getting married and why it was more important for us to like and love each other than it was to date to marry. As always thank you all for the support! It's greatly appreciated. Musical Selection by: "Blame You" by Alycia Miles (IG: @trillqueenalycia) --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hoodxholistic/support

In this episode we dive into what's going on in this new age of marriage, relationships and social media. We share how we even came to getting married and why it was more important for us to like and love each other than it was to date to marry. As always thank you all for the support! It's greatly appreciated. Musical Selection by: "Blame You" by Alycia Miles (IG: @trillqueenalycia

Why so Neckative? Platesgiving day thankfuls, Melo’s rocket plummets, Draymond gives KD a earful, The Jilly from Philly challenge and we get a WHT SMMR preview from @maalhimself .And of course we're rejecting deposits!This weeks music brought to you by: @j.simunds "Blame You" and @maalhimself "Buck 30"Tune in to the Poddy Mouthz Podcast!

Why so Neckative? Platesgiving day thankfuls, Melo’s rocket plummets, Draymond gives KD a earful, The Jilly from Philly challenge and we get a WHT SMMR preview from @maalhimself . And of course we're rejecting deposits! This weeks music brought to you by: @j.simunds "Blame You" and @maalhimself "Buck 30" Tune in to the Poddy Mouthz Podcast!

I sat down with one of my oldest and dearest friends Cam Gillard of Apparitions and we spoke about a number of different topics super-late on a Thursday night at VIA Studios, Brisbane. LINKS: https://www.facebook.com/apparitionsmusic/ https://www.facebook.com/viastudios MUSIC: “Track 1” by Existence is Dead (from ‘split with Asherah’) “Lost” by Against (from ‘Won’t Be Your Fall’) “Anti-jock Revolution” by Conation (from ‘The Dichotomy of Earth and the Human Race’) “The Silence” by Conation (from ‘Troubled Waters & Fortresses’) “Tattoos Are For Lonely People” by Little Shadow (from ‘Possessions’) “Audience“ by Farside (from ‘Rigged’) “Movement is Vital” by Little Shadow (from ‘Healing’) “Akira” by Deafcult (from ‘self-titled’) “Denigrating in the Tanks” by Idylls (from ‘Prayer For Terrene’) “Don't Make a Sound” by Sleepwell (from ‘Rose-Tinted Gold’) “Japam” by Botch (from ‘An Anthology of Dead Ends’) “Death Dealer” by Sect (from ‘self-titled’) “Exit Fears” by Ceremony (from ‘The L-Shaped Man’) “Living Hell” by Ceremony (from ‘Violence Violence’) “Bleeder” by Ceremony (from ‘The L-Shaped Man’) “Keeper” by Super Unison (from ‘Auto’) “Super Unison” by Drive Like Jehu (from ‘Yank Crime’) “Time & Distance” by Super Unison (from ‘Auto’) “Peculiar People” by Frameworks (from ‘Smother’) “Marathon” by Birds in Row (from ‘Personal War’) “New Zealand” by Caravels (from ‘Lacuna’) “Chasing New York (feat. Aesop Rock)” by Atmosphere (from ‘Fishing Blues’) “Burgundy (feat. Vince Staples) by Earl Sweatshirt (from ‘Doris’) “Really Doe (featuring Kendrick Lamar, Ab-Soul and Earl Sweatshirt) by Danny Brown (from Atrocity Exhibition) “Smokin and Drinkin” by Danny Brown (from ‘Old’) “Lively Hood” by Doomstarks (from ‘Adult Swim Singles Series’) “Ray Guns (feat. DOOM) by BadBadNotGood with Ghostface Killah (from ‘Sour Soul’) “New Halloween” by Touche Amore (from ‘Stage Four’) “~” by Touche Amore (from ‘Parting the Sea Between Brightness & Me’) “Youreyeah” by Title Fight (from ‘Kingston’) “I Don’t Blame You” by Cat Power (from ‘You Are Free’) “The Greatest” by Cat Power (from ‘The Greatest’) “I Can’t Get No (Satisfaction)” by Cat Power (from ‘The Covers Record’) “Riot Season” by Planes Mistaken For Stars (from ‘Prey’) “World of Hope and No Pain” by Full of Hell & The Body (from ‘One Day You Will Ache Like I Ache’) “Postdoc Blues” by John K Samson (from ‘Winter Wheat’) “In Remission” by The Menzingers (from ‘Rented World’) “Refusal” by Strike Anywhere (from “Change is a Sound’) “We Amplify” by Strike Anywhere (from ‘Exit English’) “Unknown Road” by Pennywise (from ‘Unknown Road’) “Victim of Me” by Descendents (from ‘Hypercaffiam Spazzinate’) “Hope” by Descendents (from ‘Milo Goes to College’) “You Don’t Tell Me” by Super Unison (from ‘Auto’) “Second Son of R.” by Oathbreaker (from ‘Rheia’) “Control” by Manhunt (from ‘Permanent Pain’) “A Promising Future Behind You” by Shackles (from ‘split with Fissure’) “The Man” by Blister (from ‘Hoots Mon’) “Indiscretion” by To the North (from ‘Lustre’)