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In this episode, Lundy Bancroft, a renowned expert on narcissism, abusive relationships, and the family court system, reveals how abusive men manipulate both their partners and the legal system to maintain control. With over 30 years of experience working with abusers and training professionals, Lundy exposes the subtle and overt tactics used by high-conflict individuals to gain power in custody disputes and other legal battles. He shares eye-opening insights from his books, Why Does He Do That? and The Batterer as Parent, highlighting the systemic failures in family courts that often work in favor of abusers, despite clear evidence of harm. Lundy explains why survivors of abuse find themselves in difficult, uphill battles when trying to protect their children and the emotional toll this takes. Lundy also provides practical advice for mothers navigating high-conflict divorces and custody disputes, outlining critical steps to level the playing field and protect children from further harm. He dives deep into the biases within the legal process that enable dangerous individuals to gain access to their children, even when their behavior is abusive. Through this conversation, Lundy offers a powerful look into how the family court system operates, how survivors can reclaim their power, and the ways in which we can push back against a broken system. This episode is an essential listen for anyone dealing with narcissism, abuse, and the complexities of high-conflict divorce and custody battles.   Connect with Lundy: Book - Not To People Like Us: https://www.amazon.com/People-Hidden-Abuse-Upscale-Marriages/dp/B0009K75UO Book - When Dad Hurts Mom: https://www.amazon.com/When-Dad-Hurts-Mom-Witnessing/dp/0425200310 Book - The Batterer as Parent: https://www.amazon.com/Batterer-Parent-Addressing-Domestic-Violence/dp/1412972051 Book - Should I Stay or Should I Go?: https://www.amazon.com/Should-Stay-Relationship-Can-Should-be/dp/042523889X Book - Daily Wisdom: https://www.amazon.com/Daily-Wisdom-Does-That-Encouragement/dp/0425265102#:~:text=Book%20details&text=Lundy%20Bancroft%20expands%20on%20his,what%20is%20happening%20to%20you. Book - The Joyous Recovery: https://www.amazon.com/Joyous-Recovery-Approach-Emotional-Wellness/dp/0578464691 Book - In Custody: https://www.amazon.com/Custody-Carrie-Green-Novel/dp/B09BGLY3P8 Website: https://lundybancroft.com/ Listen to Lundy's BorderlinerNotes YT episode: https://youtu.be/ywsTdzkiPF0?si=TUOmWrBy1pH8u7n1   Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com  Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg A word from our sponsor: TalkingParents provides a comprehensive platform designed to simplify co-parenting and enhance communication between parents. With secure messaging, a shared calendar, and features for tracking parenting time, TalkingParents ensures that all important details and agreements are documented and accessible.  We're grateful for TalkingParents' support in simplifying co-parenting and enhancing communication for our listeners. Discover how TalkingParents can bring clarity and organization to your co-parenting journey at www.talkingparents.com/jbd

It is episode 100 and we are flipping the script and doing something completely different.  My good friend, Lundy Bancroft is interviewing ME, so that you can get a behind the scenes look at how I got started doing this work and why I am so passionate about helping you.We touch on the lack of training mental health professionals get specific to working with domestic violence and coercive control, some of the shifts in the field that I have seen and the shifts that need to happen, how I make decisions that are in the best interest of the survivors I serve and more.This was a fun episode and a way for you to get to know the woman behind the microphone.  I hope you enjoy it!Lundy's Bio: With over thirty years' experience specializing in interventions for abusive men and their families, Lundy Bancroft has authored seven books, including the world's best-seller on domestic violence, Why Does He Do That? and the prizewinning professional book The Batterer as Parent. Lundy is the former Training Director of Emerge, the U.S.'s first counseling program for men who batter, and was involved in over 2000 cases as counselor and clinical supervisor. He has served extensively as a custody evaluator, child abuse investigator, and expert witness. His new book and first novel is In Custody: A Carrie Green Mystery, in which domestic violence meets the family law system.Show Resources:Order Lundy's many booksAnd Then We Do Harm - E-Book by Sybil CumminWe're running a contest, come join! If you have ever wanted to ask me a direct question, I am doing a live ask me anything on Friday, May 31. To get the link to join, either write a review for the Rising Beyond Podcast on Apple Podcasts, or repost one of our 100th episode posts on Instagram (@risingbeyondpc) to your Instagram stories and send me a picture of whichever one you do, or both! Then send me a pic and fill out this form so we know who has entered into the contest. https://forms.gle/foEqGpEAHGnv6jyP8. For the contest, I'm going to choose 2 people who entered who will get a free month in the Rising Beyond Community and 1 additional winner will get a free 45 minute consult call with me. The contest ends at 11:59 MST on May 28, 2024. Please leave us a review! Reviews help the show get out to more people. Register Here for our June 5th Parenting Workshop - https://mailchi.mp/risingbeyondpc/parenting Where to find more from Rising Beyond:Rising Beyond FacebookRising Beyond LinkedInRising Beyond Pinterest

What does an expert with over 30 years of experience specializing in interventions for abusive men and their families think about our family court system?  I had the privilege to sit down with Lundy Bancroft to discuss the current state of our family court system and his thoughts on how it is continuing to harm mothers and their children.  We discuss the recent passing of Kayden's Law in Colorado and his thoughts on the impact of legislation.  His belief is that we should not be creating a movement solely to pass a law, but use the momentum from the passing of a law to create a movement.We take a look at how many advocacy groups passionate about supporting survivors of domestic violence and narcissistic abuse are working within silos, which is preventing the movement from generating the traction needed for significant change.Lundy shares the approach for writing his first novel with the hopes that it will have a greater reach to helping family and friends of survivors dealing with post-separation abuse and the family court system.And in case you don't know who Lundy Bancroft is:Lundy Bancroft has over thirty years' of experience specializing in interventions for abusive men and their families. He has authored seven books, including the world's best-seller on domestic violence, Why Does He Do That?, and the prizewinning professional book The Batterer as Parent. Lundy is the former Training Director of Emerge, the U.S.'s first counseling program for men who batter and was involved in over 2000 cases as a counselor and clinical supervisor. He has served extensively as a custody evaluator, child abuse investigator, and expert witness. His new book and first novel is In Custody: A Carrie Green Mystery, in which domestic violence meets the family law system.References:Order Lundy's book In CustodyCenter for Judicial ExcellenceConnie Valentine of the California Protective Parents AssociationCome join us, and others like you, for a mini retreat in Golden, Colorado on Thursday, October 5, 2023. The Journey Back to You is an opportunity to begin practicing the skills that will help you get back to you post-separation. Rediscover who you are again. Wake up each morning knowing you can find more joy and meaning each day. Knowing you are showing up and modeling authenticity and integrity for your children each day. We can't wait to see you there.

Are you looking for ways to get the best ROI in life and the marketplace? If you are, then this is the podcast for you! Today, we'll be exploring the vital skill of communication and how it can help you achieve success in all aspects of your life. Our special guest for today is Oscar West, the CEO and Founder of West Development Solutions (WDS), a company that specializes in Relationship Development. WDS believes that Kingdom principles prepare, protect, and promote healthy relationships, and their vision is to restore relationships after trauma. In this episode, Oscar will be sharing his insights on significant factors that leaders miss when dealing with "difficult" employees or even family members. He will also share WDS's 4-Step framework to help deescalate negative communications between leaders and subordinates, which can be used in your home and business. But that's not all! Oscar will also be sharing his heart for bringing healing into relationships through the communication process. Topics that will be covered in this episode include the difference between bad behavior and survivor habits, soft skills vs. hard skills, how the brain reacts to trauma, how to get people connected to your vision, and much more! So get ready to take some notes, as this is a writer-downer episode! Oscar works alongside his wife Tamika as Kingdom Entrepreneurs promoting healthy relationships between partners and spouses. Tamika and Oscar have been teaching soft-skills specifically conflict resolution and emotional intelligence since 2005.  Additionally, Oscar is a Lieutenant 1st Class law enforcement officer.  He's been an academy instructor for ten years, C.A.M.F. (Certified Anger Management Facilitator) and de-escalation instructor for 17 years, has been a Batterer's Intervention Facilitator for 5 years, and is a Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI®) Practitioner.  Since December 2022, he has presented over 300 professional development trainings across Louisiana.  To find out more about Oscar Contact info:  website: www.westdevelopment.org (education) specific: education.westdevelopment.org email: info@westdevelopment.org  From our sponsor announcement use this link to access the Your Voice Matters - Start Your Podcast Challenge Online Course at https://course.yourvoicematterscoaching.com/ Remember to like, comment, share, and subscribe to this podcast! To find out more about our coaching services go to www.joedetre.com. Show your support for this podcast at https://paypal.me/CU2Sjoedetre or CashApp $JoseDetre Music by ⁠Hot_Music⁠ from ⁠Pixabay --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joeonthemic/support

Lundy Bancroft wrote the book on exposing abusive men and domestic violence. For over 20 years he has helped survivors and professionals in the field of domestic violence answer the question: why does he do that? In this episode, Lundy interprets the contents of his best-selling work, "Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men", identifying common abusive personalities, behaviors, tactics, intentions, causes of abuse, and a whole lot more while offering no excuses for men who act from a position of entitlement toward women. Lundy also shares a passage from his new novel, "In Custody: A Carrie Green Mystery", a fictional work that explores the corruption in the family court system. Lundy Bancroft has over thirty years of experience specializing in interventions for abusive men and their families. He has authored seven books, including the world's best-seller on domestic violence, Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men, and the prizewinning professional book The Batterer as Parent. Lundy is the former Training Director of Emerge, the U.S.'s first counseling program for men who batter, and was involved in over 2,000 cases as counselor and clinical supervisor. He has served extensively as a custody evaluator, child abuse investigator, and expert witness. 

Lundy Bancroft wrote the book on exposing abusive men and domestic violence. For over 20 years he has helped survivors and professionals in the field of domestic violence answer the question: why does he do that? In this episode, Lundy interprets the contents of his best-selling work, "Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men", identifying common abusive personalities, behaviors, tactics, intentions, causes of abuse, and a whole lot more while offering no excuses for men who act from a position of entitlement toward women. Lundy also shares a passage from his new novel, "In Custody: A Carrie Green Mystery", a fictional work that explores the corruption in the family court system. Lundy Bancroft has over thirty years of experience specializing in interventions for abusive men and their families. He has authored seven books, including the world's best-seller on domestic violence, Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men, and the prizewinning professional book The Batterer as Parent. Lundy is the former Training Director of Emerge, the U.S.'s first counseling program for men who batter, and was involved in over 2,000 cases as counselor and clinical supervisor. He has served extensively as a custody evaluator, child abuse investigator, and expert witness. 

This is an exciting episode, and not only because I had to quickly learn how to use a virtual interview on Zoom as a podcast episode.  Whether or not Abusers can change is the #1 question I'm asked by those who've been involved with these individuals. Yes and no.  That's the answer and why it takes two episodes to discuss it.I interviewed my first guest, Kevin (Michael) Tarrance, an experienced Domestic Violence Intervention Specialist in Jacksonville, Florida.  Kevin has been put in charge of monitoring and certifying Florida's Batterer's Intervention Programs (BIPs). He discusses whether or not he believes abusive men can change, what he's experienced, and where he thinks it should go. His manner is warm, engaging, and very knowledgeable.You'll finish these episodes with specific tools in hand to assess whether or not the person you care for is willing - and genuinely trying - to change. Is it real or is it a smokescreen to keep you involved? You'll also learn information you can use for yourself to change, and grow, and learn.Don't miss these episodes! And as always, email me with any questions or comments at unmaskingpodcast@gmail.com. 

In this episode I am talking with 2 other members of the COR Therapeutic team about domestic violence. October is domestic violence awareness month so we wanted to have a discussion on the topic including what defines domestic violence, misconceptions of domestic violence, and how culture and gender norms can play a role. Some information is taken from our work in therapy with abusers and abuse victims as well as our Batterer's Intervention Class. Intro and outro music by Broke for Free.

A 2-part series with researcher, educator, and licensed psychologist Dr. Lenore Walker who coined the term "battered woman syndrome." Dr. Walker has spent more than 4 decades investigating violence against women, publishing peer-reviewed research and authoring several books including "The Battered Woman Syndrome" now in its 4th edition.Together we explore the progress and pitfalls in the domestic violence movement since the 1980s including the emergence of advocacy and shelters for survivors, the evolution of psychotherapy for PTSD and trauma, and the work of the family court system. In part 2, we dive into her controversial work for the defense during the OJ Simpson trial and how that experience led to breakthroughs for domestic violence research findings, publications, prosecutions and how we talk about domestic violence.Dr. Lenore Walker is a licensed psychologist in several states and Board Certified in Clinical Psychology and in Couples and Family Psychology by the American Board of Professional Psychology. She has practiced all over the U.S. and in several other countries around the world. She earned her doctoral degree in psychology from Rutger's, The State University in N.J. in 1972 after attaining an M.S. in Psychology from City College of the City University of New York (CCNY) in 1967 and a B.A. from Hunter College of CCNY in 1962. In 2004, she earned an M.S. in Clinical Psychopharmacology from Nova Southeastern University. She is a retired professor of psychology at Nova Southeastern University and the author of multiple articles and books, including her most recent novel, "Madness to Murder."

A 2-part series with researcher, educator, and licensed psychologist Dr. Lenore Walker who coined the term "battered woman syndrome." Dr. Walker has spent more than 4 decades investigating violence against women, publishing peer-reviewed research and authoring several books including "The Battered Woman Syndrome" now in its 4th edition.Together we explore the progress and pitfalls in the domestic violence movement since the 1980s including the emergence of advocacy and shelters for survivors, the evolution of psychotherapy for PTSD and trauma, and the work of the family court system. In part 2, we dive into her controversial work for the defense during the OJ Simpson trial and how that experience led to breakthroughs for domestic violence research findings, publications, prosecutions and how we talk about domestic violence.Dr. Lenore Walker is a licensed psychologist in several states and Board Certified in Clinical Psychology and in Couples and Family Psychology by the American Board of Professional Psychology. She has practiced all over the U.S. and in several other countries around the world. She earned her doctoral degree in psychology from Rutger's, The State University in N.J. in 1972 after attaining an M.S. in Psychology from City College of the City University of New York (CCNY) in 1967 and a B.A. from Hunter College of CCNY in 1962. In 2004, she earned an M.S. in Clinical Psychopharmacology from Nova Southeastern University. She is a retired professor of psychology at Nova Southeastern University and the author of multiple articles and books, including her most recent novel, "Madness to Murder."

I am incredibly honored to have Lundy Bancroft on the show with me to talk about what life is like after domestic abuse, post-separation abuse, and healing from trauma. Lundy Bancroft is the author of five books in the field, including the national prize-winner The Batterer as Parent, Why Does He Do That?, When Dad Hurts Mom, Daily Wisdom and Should I Stay Or Should I Go? He has worked with over a thousand abusers directly as an intervention counselor, and has served as clinical supervisor on another thousand cases Show Highlights Acknowledging that you do have a right to be heard about the injustice that was done. But do it in a way that is not hurting you (8:20) What to do when you get in a custody dispute with your abuser, why you need an attorney who understands divorcing an abuser, as well as, what to know if you represent yourself (10:51) The myth that a man can abuse a child's mother and still be a great dad. It's impossible. The single best predictor of how a man will treat their children is how they treat their child's mother (28:34) How a woman can increase her chance of a favorable divorce outcome (34:05) Social change and what is really needed to reform the family court system (45:14) How the fathers' rights movement is an abusers' movement and what we can do in the face of it (50:37) Learn more about Lundy Bancroft: Lundy Bancroft is the author of five books in the field, including the national prize-winner The Batterer as Parent, Why Does He Do That?, When Dad Hurts Mom, Daily Wisdom, and Should I Stay Or Should I Go? He has worked with over a thousand abusers directly as an intervention counselor and has served as a clinical supervisor on another thousand cases. He has also served extensively as a custody evaluator, child abuse investigator, and expert witness in domestic violence and child abuse cases. Lundy appears across the United States as a presenter for judges and other court personnel, child protective workers, therapists, law enforcement officials, and other audiences. Resources & Links: Links and resources may also be found at: https://kateanthony.com/podcast/lundy-bancroft Last chance to Book a Sanity Saver Session in June!Lundy's website  Lundy's books Mothers on the Rise TODAY'S EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY: THE REVISED SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO? PROGRAM   An online coaching program designed to help you make the right decision about your marriage...once and for all.  In this groundbreaking online coaching program, you'll unlock the support, education and deep transformational work you need to finally answer to your most burning question: should I stay or should I go? JOIN THE SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO FACEBOOK GROUP

Host Jeremy C. Park talks with Lynn Schroeder, Development Director with Bridges Domestic Violence Center, who highlights the nonprofit organization's mission and efforts to serve women, men and their children affected by domestic violence, ensuring a safe transition to successful independent living through education, intervention, and case management. During the interview, Lynn shares some of the history for the organization and then talks about their various programs and impact. They offer a 24/7/365 Hotline, 615-599-5777, along with a Crisis Intervention Team, double shifts of Case Managers, a Court Advocate for assistance with Orders of Protection, A Children's Advocate to act as a liaison between parents and school administrators, an Outreach Advocate for support groups in both English and Spanish, a Transitional Housing Advocate to assist those leaving their emergency shelter in finding affordable housing, a pet shelter on premises so the family pet can come to safety with the family, and a Batterer's Intervention Program, which is usually court ordered. Lynn also talks about ways to support their efforts, including their Annual Jokers & Jackpots Gala, which will be held on November 5, 2022.Founded in 1998 by Linda Crockett, an 8th generation Franklinite.Only domestic violence shelter in Williamson CountyMission is to serve women, men and their children affected by domestic violence, ensuring a safe transition to successful independent living through education, intervention, and case management.We hold 2 fundraisers a year.  Our upcoming Golf Scramble May 16, 2022 at Temple Hills Country Club is our second biggest fundraiser of the year.  Please gather a team, enjoy of day out with lunch, dinner and many prizes in support of our mission.Our largest fundraiser of the year is our Annual Jokers & Jackpots Gala which will be held November 5, 2022 at the Embassy Suites in Cool Springs and is a fun night of casino games, dinner, entertainment and a silent auction.Learn more:Facebook:             @Bridgesdvc  Twitter:                  @BridgesdvcWebsite:                www.bridgesdvc.orgInstagram:             @Bridgesdvc

Leah Niehaus has been a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for almost twenty years, primarily working with adolescents, young adults and their families.  Leah worked at UCLA Neuropsychiatric Hospital as a Clinical Social Worker and has been a private practice psychotherapist  in Hermosa Beach for 17 years.  Leah has always had a passion for group therapy—going back to her training days running Teen Mother Groups, Gang Diversion Groups, Batterer's Treatment Groups, and groups for survivors of Domestic Violence.  Leah has been running out patient Adolescent Girls' Groups since 2014—she currently has three High School Girls' Groups running and one Middle School Girls' Group weekly in her practice.  She is a member of GPALA (Group Psychotherapy Association of Los Angeles) and AGPA (American Group Psychotherapy Association) and is a local speaker and writer on group therapy, adolescents, and parenting.   Leah Niehaus, LCSW & Associates Los Angeles CAMFT Group Psychotherapy Association of Los Angeles ------ Instagram Facebook

Will he change? How will you know if the change is real? How do you protect your kids? Why is the legal system backtracking in this area? About Lundy:Lundy Bancroft is an author, workshop leader, and consultant on domestic abuse and child maltreatment. His work focuses on three areas:-Training professionals on best practices for intervening with male perpetrators of violence against women, toward the goal of promoting accountability and requiring change.-Training professionals on the dynamics of emotional injury and recovery in children who are exposed to a man who abuses their mother, to prepare participants to offer the most effective and safe assistance possible to children and their mothers.-Supporting healing and empowerment for abused women, with an emphasis on advocating for the human rights of mothers and their children.Lundy has authored several books including the national prize-winner The Batterer as Parent, Why Does He Do That?, When Dad Hurts Mom, Daily Wisdom and Should I Stay Or Should I Go?, and The Joyous Recovery. To find out more about Lundy visit: https://lundybancroft.com/Sarah helps high-performing, ambitious and exceptional women who want to create AMAZING lives despite having been hurt by a toxic partner or parent.Private Facebook Group for women currently in a confusing relationship. Private Facebook Group for women out of their relationship and ready to find love and success.Sarah's BlogA Free gift from SarahClick HERE to check out what others are saying about Sarah.Click HERE if you are ready to work with Sarah.

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Resources for people who suffer from substance abuse disorder.https://www.ddap.pa.gov/Pages/Parent-Panel-Advisory-Council-(PPAC).aspxIt is the mission of the Pennsylvania Parent Panel Advisory Council, working in collaboration with the Commonwealth Department of Drug and Alcohol Programs, to advocate for and promote individual and family recovery, hope and healing by improving the understanding and access to, a continuum of care and supports for those who are impacted by substance use and substance use disorders throughout Pennsylvania. https://yorkopioidcollaborative.org The Mission of the York Opioid Collaborative is to coordinate efforts in our region to reduce overdose deaths and to minimize the impact of the opioid epidemic in our community through four areas of focus: Prevent - Rescue - Treat - Recover https://raseproject.org Our MissionTo assist all those individuals affected by substance use issues, problems and concerns by fostering progress, enriching lives and ultimately enhancing the recovery process. https://balmfamilyrecovery.com  We are a full service online educational program focused on helping ALL families be their loved one’s BEST chance at recovery from Substance Use  Disorders and other Use Disorders. This we do through providing International Coach Federation (ICF) Accredited Family Recovery Life Coach Training,  Family Recovery Facilitator Certification, and  Family Recovery Education and Coaching. https://www.nar-anon.org Mission StatementThe Nar-Anon Family Groups are a worldwide fellowship for those affected by someone else’s addiction. As a twelve step program, we offer our help by sharing our experience, strength, and hope.Vision StatementWe will carry the message of hope throughout the world to those affected by the addiction of someone near to them. We will do this by https://www.notonemoreyorkpa.org  Our Mission is to raise awareness and prevent drug abuse in the community through education and community partnerships. https://yorkcountypa.gov/courts-criminal-justice/prison/prison-treat-reentry.html  Ready to Reenter - A resource guide for ex‐offenders returning home.  Returning home can be difficult – we hope that this guide helps you to find resources that make you ready to reenter!  York County Prison Re‐entry Dept. ~ 717‐840‐7579Treatment & Re-entry Programs - These programs aim to target criminal thinking, address substance abuse concerns, and teach life skills - all with the intent to reduce recidivism. Programs include: Batterer's Intervention, Career Development (females only), Community Orientation Reintegration (COR), Freedom Program, Thinking for a Change, Victim Awareness and Violence Prevention. Community Re-entry and Celebrate Recovery are programs facilitated by volunteers from the community. 

This is Day 2 of the 3-day pop-up podcast series, #InvisibleNoMore. Today, we will discuss how domestic violence can be police violence and how police views on black domestic violence victims maintain domestic violence in black communities and against black women.

In this episode, Will Windham talks with Stuart about the Batterer's Intervention and Prevention Program (BIPP).  Most people probably don't realize that the Family Crisis Center of East Texas also works with men who are accused of domestic violence.  We take a look at details of this program.   

In this episode of Braveheart Conversations, Marie and Jillian are speaking about "Colluding with a Batterer" and how we unknowingly perpetuate the cycle of gender violence. As well as how we can all support equal rights honoring relationships. Join the conversation next week at facebook.com/groups/braveheartconversations Contact Marie (marie@mariesgold.com) or Jillian (defytheaverage@gmail.com) to request a topic or ask a question! goddesslifecoaching.com mariesgold.com

Surprise -- bonus episode today! The YWCA is a leader in providing a safe place for survivors of domestic violence. From housing, to childcare, to dealing with the legal process, there are so many resources that are available. Today is an interview with the CEO of YWCA USA, Alejandra Castillo as she discusses what the YWCA does as well as the disparate amount of violence for people of color.This is a Targeted Topic, which means it is a stand-alone episode, not tied to other miniseries.Promos for: Just the Tip-Sters https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/just-the-tip-sters-true-crime-podcast/id1335317858Bad in the Boondocks https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-in-the-boondocks/id1450344469Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/targetedpodcast/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/TargetedPodcast/website: www.targetedpodcast.comemail: targetedpodcast@gmail.comTwitter: @targetedpodcastMerchandise: We have two store now!https://targetedpodcast.threadless.com https://www.teepublic.com/user/targetedpodcast Resources in the US: Need help? In the United States call 800.656.HOPE (4673) to be connected with a trained staff member from a sexual assault service provider in your area.http://www.thehotline.org/resources/ Resources in Australia: The Allison Baden-Clay Foundation has an excellent list of many resources availablehttps://www.allisonbadenclayfoundation.org.au/website-resources/ Resources in the UK:Paladin: National Stalking Advocacy Service,http://www.https://paladinservice.co.uk

Lundy Bancroft has specialized for thirty years in confronting domestic abusers and supporting their victims and children. He has authored six books, including the U.S.'s best-selling book on domestic violence, Why Does He Do That?, and the national prizewinner The Batterer as Parent. He trains professionals across the continent including advocates, therapists, social workers, judges, and police. Lundy also leads weekend healing retreats for women who have escaped abusive partners. His new book (his first one for a general audience) is The Joyous Recovery: A New Approach to Emotional Healing and Wellness.   Find Lundy: www.LundyBancroft.com www.PeakLivingNetwork.org www.facebook.com/LundyBancroft

When we left Jane last week, she had just opened the door to her abusive husband.  Hear the rest of her story, including the DA’s infuriating decision regarding her case. If you want to skip the recap, begin the episode at 5 minutes 45 seconds.   Facebook Page:  https://www.facebook.com/targetedpodcast/ Facebook Group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/TargetedPodcast/ website:  www.targetedpodcast.com email:     targetedpodcast@gmail.com Twitter:  @targetedpodcast   Merchandise: We have two store now! https://targetedpodcast.threadless.com         https://www.teepublic.com/user/targetedpodcast   Resources in the US:   Need help? In the United States call 800.656.HOPE (4673) to be connected with a trained staff member from a sexual assault service provider in your area. http://www.thehotline.org/resources/   Resources in Australia:  The Allison Baden-Clay Foundation has an excellent list of many resources available https://www.allisonbadenclayfoundation.org.au/website-resources/   Resources in the UK: Paladin: National Stalking Advocacy Service, http://www.https://paladinservice.co.uk

Today we are going to hear the story of Jane, a strong woman who first worked to provide her husband with a good life and then worked very hard to get away from him.  Jane is a listener of the podcast who shared her story with me and I asked if she would share it with you.   As you listen to Jane Smith’s story,  I think you’ll be able to chart her love for him, her increasing awareness of his potential for violence, and then his overt abuse.  We’ll be listening to her story in a few parts, with today’s episode only being the first.   Facebook Page:  https://www.facebook.com/targetedpodcast/ Facebook Group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/TargetedPodcast/ website:  www.targetedpodcast.com email:     targetedpodcast@gmail.com Twitter:  @targetedpodcast   Merchandise: We have two store now! https://targetedpodcast.threadless.com         https://www.teepublic.com/user/targetedpodcast   Resources in the US:   Need help? In the United States call 800.656.HOPE (4673) to be connected with a trained staff member from a sexual assault service provider in your area. http://www.thehotline.org/resources/   Resources in Australia:  The Allison Baden-Clay Foundation has an excellent list of many resources available https://www.allisonbadenclayfoundation.org.au/website-resources/   Resources in the UK: Paladin: National Stalking Advocacy Service, http://www.https://paladinservice.co.uk

I wanted to pop back in during our mid-season break to wish you a happy holiday season.  Today I’m going to tell you a brief case about a case that escalated on Christmas Day a few years ago.   There’s an often said truism that domestic violence rates spike during the holidays.  This makes a sort of sense, doesn’t it?  After all, we’re already anxious and overworked, so we reason that it would be logical for this to be time where an abuser has less self control and may blow up more often.  Does the research back this up?  Let’s investigate. Facebook Page:  https://www.facebook.com/targetedpodcast/ Facebook Group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/TargetedPodcast/ website:  www.targetedpodcast.com email:     targetedpodcast@gmail.com Twitter:  @targetedpodcast   Merchandise: We have two store now! https://targetedpodcast.threadless.com         https://www.teepublic.com/user/targetedpodcast   Resources in the US:   Need help? In the United States call 800.656.HOPE (4673) to be connected with a trained staff member from a sexual assault service provider in your area. http://www.thehotline.org/resources/   Resources in Australia:  The Allison Baden-Clay Foundation has an excellent list of many resources available https://www.allisonbadenclayfoundation.org.au/website-resources/   Resources in the UK: Paladin: National Stalking Advocacy Service, http://www.https://paladinservice.co.uk

“The Intersectionality of Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault and Substance Use/Substance Use Disorders” was presented on October 23, 2018; by David J.H. Garvin, LMSW; Vice President of Programs and Facilities for Catholic Social Services of Washtenaw County and Founder, Alternatives to Domestic Aggression, Catholic Social Services of Washtenaw County; and Barbara Niess May, MPA, MSW; Executive Director, SafeHouse Center. There is a strong correlation between domestic violence/sexual assault and alcohol/other drug use – and correlation does not equal cause/effect nor does it define personal responsibility. Intoxication does not explain abuse or assault, excuse a perpetrator’s behaviors, or justify a person being assaulted or abused. Domestic violence/sexual assault offender and survivor alcohol and other drug use will be central to this discussion. The audience will be provided with a primmer regarding perpetrator tactics, strategies, and core beliefs which hold the perpetrator accountable for abusive/assaultive behaviors while maintaining and promoting survivor safety. The program will help participants to recognize the critical importance of understanding the relationship between domestic violence/sexual assault and alcohol/other drug use and substance use disorders in order to safely and effectively intervene and/or interrupt the perpetrator's behaviors and support the survivor. This program is part of the Dawn Farm Education Series, a FREE, annual education series developed to provide accurate, helpful, hopeful, practical, current information about substance use disorders, recovery, family and related issues. The Education Series is organized by Dawn Farm, a non-profit community of programs providing a continuum of addiction treatment and recovery support services. For information, please see http://www.dawnfarm.org/programs/education-series. About the presenters: David J.H. Garvin, LMSW:  David J.H. Garvin is the Vice President of Programs and Facilities for Catholic Social Services of Washtenaw County and Founder of the Alternatives to Domestic Aggression Program, Catholic Social Services of Washtenaw County. David previously served as Chief Operating Officer of Catholic Social Services of Washtenaw County, and for many years prior to this David served as the Senior Director at Catholic Social Services of Washtenaw County. During this tenure David was responsible for the management of the Alternatives to Domestic Aggression (ADA) Program, and served as the Clinical Director for the Behavioral Health Services program and Substance Abuse Treatment Services, and was Program Manager for the Supervised Parenting and Exchange Program and the Adoption and Pregnancy Programs. David has been directly involved in the anti-domestic violence movement since 1986 when he founded the ADA Program. He is a co-founder and current Chair of the Battering Intervention Services Coalition of Michigan (BISC-MI). David was selected to serve as the co-chair of the Michigan Governor’s Taskforce on creating standards for batterer intervention programs. He has conducted trainings, consultations, conferences, workshops and in-services around the country and has been featured on local, state and national television, in magazines, professional journals and newspapers. David earned the prestigious honor of being named the 2009 National Association of Social Workers-Michigan (NASW-MI) Social Worker of the Year for his work in the areas of domestic violence, mental health and adoption. Barbara Niess May, MPA, MSW:  Barbara Niess May, MPA, MSW is the Executive Director of SafeHouse Center, a supportive service and social action agency which provides help to approximately 5,000 Washtenaw County residents who are impacted by domestic violence and sexual assault annually through its 50 bed emergency shelter and its counseling and advocacy programs. Barbara has worked toward supporting survivors of sexual assault and domestic violence since 1996 in various micro- and macro-system capacities. This has included agency management as well as state-wide level advocacy and support. In addition to these activities, Barbara has also been very involved in legislative work and has provided expert testimony in a variety of venues, including various levels of court and at the state and federal legislative level. She is also involved in her community in a variety of ways as a member of Rotary International, and as an adjunct lecturer at Eastern Michigan University. Barbara has served on several boards and committees, is a member of several national honor fraternities and is active in her church. Barbara holds Master’s degrees from the University of Arkansas at Little Rock in Public Administration and in Social Work. VIDEOGRAPHY: DALE SCHOTTS. VIDEO PRODUCTION ASSISTANCE: BILL HALL, PODIUM VIDEO.

On this episode of en(gender)ed, our guest is Lisa Fischel-Wolovick, an attorney who has represented battered women for almost thirty years. She is also the author of numerous publications including her recent book: Traumatic Divorce and Separation:  The Impact of Domestic Violence and Substance Abuse in Custody and Divorce, just recently published by Oxford Univ. Press, this past March.  Lisa also helped to organize the first Criminal Court that specialized in domestic violence. Before becoming an attorney, Lisa obtained her Master's in Social Work and worked in hospital social work which included advocacy and counseling for battered women. Lisa also currently teaching courses in Family Violence and Child Maltreatment at the City University of New York, in John Jay's Graduate Program in Forensic Psychology. Lisa speaks with us about her new book and how divorce impacts families differently, especially for those experiencing high-risk factors of domestic violence, mental illness, and/or substance abuse and the risks and harms that they face in the process.  We will also explore the recommendations and conclusions she has to improve our family and criminal court systems and practices and policy reforms she believes is necessary to see real, significant, positive change. In our conversation, Lisa and I touch upon the following topics: The difference between domestic violence and high-conflict cases vs. "traumatic divorce and separation" The impact of traumatic divorce and separation on survivors and children Judith Herman's book, Trauma and Recovery How survivors and children from the US Border migrant children crisis and from the US family court crisis are at similar health risks from the trauma of separation Lundy Bancroft's book, The Batterer as Parent Evan Stark's interest and research into how batterers are using coercive control on children The problems with Kelly and Johnson's Typology of Domestic Violence which fail to take into account the history and pattern of coercive control The research of Kathleen Kendall-Tackett on how Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) from trauma and domestic violence puts children at greater risk of adult illness Gender bias in family courts and the task forces that attempted to study it. Legal Momentum has a guide for establishing them. Family court gender bias studies from the Voices of Women Organizing Project and from the Wellesley's Center for Women and its report The work of Dr. Kathleen Faller and of Viola Vaughn-Eden on how child welfare workers and other professionals should assess child sexual abuse Ross Cheit and his book, The Witch Hunt Narrative:  Politics, Psychology and the Sexual Abuse of Children Daniel Saunders' study published for the National Institute of Justice/DOJ, entitled, "Child Custody Evaluators' Beliefs About Domestic Abuse Allegations:  Their Relationship to Evaluator Demographics, Background, Domestic Violence Knowledge and Custody-Visitation Recommendations" --- Thanks for tuning in to the en(gender)ed podcast! Be sure to check out our en(gender)ed site and follow our blog on Medium. Consider donating because your support is what makes this work sustainable. Please also connect with us on Twitter, Instagram and Facebook. Don't forget to subscribe to the show!

Taking the advice(albeit well-meaning) can and does often result in being a Target, of Narcissistic Abuse. Our culture and society has become one that values PROFIT over PEOPLE. Therefore, much of the information we received, even from TRUSTED, WORLD RENOWNED SOURCES, is often "sugar-coated", "watered-down", and in some cases blatant deception by omission of very relevant terminology/language that would make it perfectly clear, that there was a clear and present, impending DANGER. In particular, dating. Including agencies that are supposed to be protecting women, and receive millions of dollars in funding, as well as, donations. They have been painting men with the broad stroke of "Abuser" and "Batterer" when in all actuality, these men may very well be Narcissists, Sociopaths, and/or Psychopaths. And, women are dying because of it. To imply that a woman "SHOULD JUST LEAVE" when the truth is, there is no place for her to go, INCLUDING DV shelters, is a crime, in and of itself IMHO

On this episode, our guest is Phyllis B. Frank, the Senior Director of VCS, a mental health counseling and family service agency located in Rockland County, with an anti-racist, social justice mission.  Phyllis has dedicated herself to the battered women's movement for the past 40 plus years, starting the first NY Model for Batterer Programs. Phyllis shares with us her journey over the past four and a half decades from volunteer counselor to battered women's activist to social justice legend.  She is here to talk to us about the program and its impact, shortcomings of the program, and other ways in which we can strengthen our systems to hold abusers accountable to their actions and keep survivors and their children safe. During our show, Phyllis and I spoke about a variety of topics and thought it would be helpful to share links to those references and resources: Effectiveness of Batterer Intervention Programs Best Practices for Batterer Intervention Programs The Emerge Website explaining why Anger Management is not appropriate for Batterers/Abusers --- Thanks for tuning in to the en(gender)ed podcast! Be sure to check out our en(gender)ed site and follow our blog on Medium. Consider donating because your support is what makes this work sustainable. Please also connect with us on Twitter, Instagram and Facebook. Don't forget to subscribe to the show!  

On Saturday 5th September 1901, two year old Thomas James Mills was brutally beaten to death by his death by his depressed, unemployed and alcoholic father, but what initially seemed like a simple case of infanticide may actually be a lot more complicated, and although almost entirely forgotten, it is a murder case which will give you a shocking insight into the brutal and cruel life as a pauper living in one of London’s worst slums.Murder Mile is a true-crime podcast and audio-guided walk of London’s most notorious (and often forgotten) murder cases, all set within one square mile of the West End. Each episode is accompanied by photos, videos and an interactive murder map, so that no matter where you’re listening to this podcast, you’ll feel like you’re actually there. https://www.murdermiletours.com/podcast.htmlMurder Mile is researched, written and performed by Michael J Buchanan-Dunne of Murder Mile Walks with music written and performed by Erik Stein and Jon Boux of Cult With No NameFOLLOW US HERE:FacebookTwitterInstagramMurder Mile Discussion GroupFor a transcript of each episode, click here. If you’d like to sign-up for exclusive Murder Mile content, check out our Patreon Page by CLICKING HERE. And for OFFICIAL MERCHANDISE, please visit the Murder Mile Shop. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Kathy Haley is a 1985 graduate from the Tampa campus of The University of South Florida earning a B.S. Degree in Criminal Justice.  Since her graduation she has held various positions with the Florida Department of Corrections to include Probation Officer, Drug Court Officer, and Correctional Services Assistant Administrator where she was directly involved in the certification and monitoring of Batterers’ Intervention Programs throughout the state of Florida. Haley was selected by the late Governor Lawton Chiles to serve as a member of the Commission on Minimum Standards for Batterer’s Treatment.  Kathy has also been an active volunteer for various non-profit organizations dedicated to serving victims of domestic violence as well as the Auburndale Police Department.  She has been honored for her work in the area of Domestic Violence by J.C.Penney, The City of Lakeland, and the Florida Department of Corrections. Kathy knows what it means to be a victim and survivor of Domestic Violence having been a victim herself and survived a near fatal incident in 1992.  She is dedicated to educating the public about Domestic Violence and is a strong advocate for changes to the laws that effect victims.  

This week on ...   For the People... law in plain language  with Debra D. Rainey, Esq. Love Shouldn’t Hurt, Part 3  Behind the scenes of Domestic Violence featuring  A Former Batterer, Victims & film/screen! Di the comedienne – Former, Female batterer, comedian, and actress, Danielle Erwin - actor, director, filmmaker and producer, Sabrina Ne’chelle - Writer/ Director/DV survivor/playwright, certified life coach, radio personality and motivational speaker along with Alice Wells, actor, community activist; all joined the FTP Fam as we discussed Domestic Violence, its potential roots, the impact of Domestic Violence on our families as well as on our society.  Our discussion was real, raw and poignant. You gotta tune in for this one! Studio line: (215) 609-4301 TEXT LINE (215) 435-4099 Listen. CALL. talk LIVE. DiScUsS. G-town Radio Ftplawradio.com  TUESDAY'S 8-9:30 PM (EST) Host: Debra D. Rainey, The Compassionate Lawyer Cohosts: Blaq aka the “Broke” Poet and Chamara Cotton aka “Cheddar”  Executive Producer: Renee Norris-Jones  Managing Producer: Chamara Cotton aka “Ladygohard”  Assistant Producer: Robbin K. Stanton aka “Aunt Robbin”  FTP Team: Senorita Nora Norris, BreeAyre Anderson aka “Kewl Breeze”  FTP Team Hopefuls: Asia Proctor, aka "P-roc”, Marcha Hilaire aka “Mary H”  This episode was produced by Renee Norris-Jones  Weekly Podcasts: iTunes & Podomatic Like us FACEBOOK    ~   Follow us TWITTER  Air date: April 29, 2014  ~ LISTEN with the TUNEIN APP on your SMARTPHONE ~   

Violence against women, a worldwide epidemic! Oscar Pistorius, a national HERO in So. Africa, allegedly killed his girl friend. We can stop domestic violence if we understand the root cause and stop tolerating abuse. Every 13 seconds a woman is battered in the U.S.

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