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This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit www.louiseperry.co.ukMy guest today is the writer and expert on online culture Katherine Dee, also known as Default Friend. We spoke about why TikTok isn't as bad as everyone thinks, how the internet is warping women's sexuality, and what journalists misunderstand about femcels (that is, female incels). In the extended part of the episode, we spoke about whether elite polit…

Vers and Lukas  drop by and talk about e-dating, e-girls, e-ating disorders, and secret political Facebook groups. 

we met online. is a new show from Katherine Dee and Naama Kates. On episode one, Katherine and Naama discuss 2011's seminal documentary, Catfish: the movie that started a show, a phenomenon, and a prolific career for its star, Nev Schulman.Listen here.Follow on Twitter: @wemetonline   

Is Chat-GPT sentient? What does it think about when you log off? Steff and Katherine explore new developments in AI, as only non-technical people can. 

Katherine and Steff are joined by Perry Abbasi, a Chicago-based lawyer whose Twitter presence recently "made headlines" -- in other words, revealed just how reliant on Twitter modern-day journalists are. Katherine has also, once again, fucked with the theme. Someone help her.Pieces cited:Police district candidate's social media full of racist and misogynist postsHow the Online Right gave up on reality

Two of two in a series about Adam Lanza's digital footprint. This has some overlap with episode one, and they don't need to be listened to in order. Follow Gio on Twitter here and on YouTube here.Theme: Beehive Days by Locust Toybox

Angie Speaks and Kathryn Dee, AKA (Defult Friend) discuss digital alienation, seeking a place to belong and the horrors of the attention economy. follow us: twitter.com/lowsocietypod | support us: patreon.com/lowsocietypod | talk: reddit.com/r/low_society

Jesse's been off in Israel resolving and/or exacerbating tensions between the Israelis and Palestinians, FAR too busy to talk to some distant goy like Katie, so here's an interview he recently conducted with Katherine Dee, an extremely smart and perceptive writer and podcaster on internet culture. Topics include the very… *particular* nature of rationalist gatherings, the perils of parasocial relationships, and the question of what identity means when it's severed from any sort of embodied, real-world existence.Links:Aella comes on BARPod: Some of Dee's favorite articles that she has written:Tumblr Transformed American Politicshttps://theamericanconservative.com/tumblr-transformed-american-politics/ Mass Shootings and the World Liberalism Made Rise of the Female-to-Female Transsexual The Ghost of Adam Lanza, Pt. 1 The brief and wondrous life of a scene.The image is the ace pride flag: https://grpride.org/product/asexual-pride-flag/ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.blockedandreported.org/subscribe

Very pleased to be joined by Katherine Dee aka default_friend for a conversation about the internet, online cliques and whether we can survive more of our lives moving online. Here is the link to her excellent school shooting piece I mentioned. https://contra.substack.com/p/mass-shootings-and-the-world-liberalism

I speak with Katherine about a bizarre, relatively new outgrowth of the American psyche, the phenomenon of the school shooter. Beyond the "we need fewer/more guns" debate, there is a numb silence about the worldview that fuels the actual motivations of these young men. They are labeled and put away in the monster pile. But could it be that, in some ways, they see further than we can? Katherine Dee is *the internet historian* bar none, and she's been doing some necessary spelunking in the neglected digital footprints of people like Adam Lanza, with startling results. You can find her work on her Substack at defaultfriend.substack.com and on her podcast, The Computer Room. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/aksubversive/message

According to Merriam-Webster, “pseudonymity” is the fact or state of being signed with a pseudonym, and a pseudonym is a fictitious name.Tasheme Thomas, also known to some as Default Friend, is an internet historian who talks about the difference between pseudonymity and anonymity She breaks down the history of pseudonymity throughout different time periods, from the start of authors writing books under fake names, to its evolving to people existing in various digital spaces under a false or different identity. She breaks down why people have reverted back to this way of disguising themselves.-The panel discussion took place on June 10, the second day of CoinDesk's Consensus 2022 festival in Austin, Texas. The executive producer for CoinDesk Reports is Jared Schwartz. Nia Freeman edited this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if Adam Lanza went to church? David Gornoski is joined by Katherine Dee, a.k.a. Default Friend; for a conversation on serial killers; how media depictions of violence influence us; how church can strengthen communities; how media serves as a "babysitter" to our children; Gospel media technology; the interplay between the work of Rene Girard and Marshall McLuhan; the lack of substance in modern movies; the American church's complacency on war; Art Bell, and more. Check out Katherine Dee's substack here. Visit A Neighbor's Choice website at aneighborschoice.com

Default Friend is joined by a new cohost, Poetry Grifter, to talk about two digitally native pieces of literature, Finally, Some Good News and Bronze Age Mindset. The Rise and Fall of the Alt Right:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n887xDKppmE&ab_channel=BlitheringGenius Finally, Some Good News:https://www.amazon.com/Finally-Some-Good-Delicious-Tacos/dp/1790356229 Bronze Age Mindset:https://www.amazon.com/Bronze-Age-Mindset-Pervert-ebook/dp/B07DJQ89TD 

In this episode, Helen chats with internet historian Katherine Dee about the rise and fall of the girlboss meme and what the future holds for online feminism.    Follow KD on Twitter: @default_friend  Subtrack: https://defaultfriend.substack.com/  

Today's chat is another one with my soul sister, Default Friend, with whom podding is always such a pleasure that we're going to start doing it more often. Make it a regular thing. The prompts for today include a piece in Countere, an always interesting digital magazine, about an online support group for people with homicidal ideation. Specifically mass-homicidal ideation - Mass Murderers Anonymous - followed by a response piece, to a response piece about a response to a film review, a meta-criticism (of a criticism of a criticism) of the downtown New York arts scene known as Dimes Square. The art created by the scene has mostly been contained to substacks and podcasts, apparently, which is also fitting. So this is just one more of those to add to the list.  ——————————————————————“I Don't Like Mondays” by Tori Amos, 2001, courtesy of Atlantic Recordings.—————————————————————— Read the Countere article: Mass Murderers Anonymous: https://www.countere.com/home/mass-murderers-anonymous-how-recovery-groups-could-stop-the-next-mass-shooting, Crumps's piece: https://mcrumps.substack.com/p/my-own-dimes-square-fascist-humiliation/ and Default's piece about Crumps's piece:https://defaultfriend.substack.com/p/bad-anthropology—————————————————————— Today's episode is sponsored by Magic Mind Elixir! Hack your brain by heading over to magicmind.co/incel and using promo code INCEL for a 40% discount on your first subscription to Magic Mind, or 20% off your one-time purchase. —————————————————————— Please check out my all new Patreon for ad-free, uncensored episodes and weekly blogs! https://www.patreon.com/NaamaKates ——————————————————————— INCEL is created and produced by Naama Kates for Crawlspace Media. Music by Cyrus Melchor. —————————————————————— If you or someone you know is struggling emotionally, or having a hard time, please call someone, or contact one of the excellent resources provided below. —————————————————————— Suicide Prevention Lifeline w: https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ t: 1.800.273.8255 —————————————————————— Samaritans Website: https://www.samaritans.org and telephone (UK): 116.123 —————————————————————— Please contact Naama at INCEL with any comments, inquiries, or just random thoughts: e: theincelproject@gmail.com

This week, my guest Katherine Dee and I discuss a couple of the topics that she has tackled in her writings over at her Default Friend blog. We discuss what she sees as a sexual counterrevolution coming our way. Katherine writes, "If there's one drum I've been beating for a minute now, it's that I believe the pendulum with sexuality is going to swing, big time. And seriously, if you guys remember me for anything, have it be this." We dive right into that, and I think it helps bridge us to our discussion on the dark nihilism that pervades our culture and leads to these terrible mass shootings we keep seeing. The Left likes to focus on guns because they understand it won't actually do any good. The Right, in reaction to that, wants the band-aid of arming teachers and/or providing more security. When nobody wants to discuss the rot within our culture, nothing will ever be done. Where does this empty nihilism come from? Katherine believes that it is the modern American enlightenment tradition of liberalism. For more from Katherine, check out her blog here: For her articles that we discuss, go here: ...and here: Sponsors: The GOP Mises Caucus: Paloma Verde CBD ( ): Enter code BUCK at checkout for 20% off your order! Visit my website: Donate to the show here: Audio Production by Podsworth Media: Leave us a review and rating on iTunes! Thanks!

EPISODE 9: Katie Kahn joins me to critique Alex Lee Moyer's new documentary on Alex Jones, Alex's War. She attempts to convince me that it doesn't go deep enough and largely succeeds. We also chat about dissident culture, inevitably gossiping about Red Scare, which is like the Godwin's Law of 2022.Topics include:Katie's personal knowledge of Bohemian Grove.Alex Jones' strange cast of supporting characters including protege Owen Shroyer and chief bullhorn operator Ali Alexander. The stories the documentary omits, like Alex's supplement shilling, alcoholism, new wife, recent divorce, and legal framing as a “performance artist.” Comparisons to Netflix's Get Me Roger Stone, which explored Stone's penchant for orgies.NYC and San Francisco reuniting after decades of cultural separation. Osama bin Laden and why we had foreknowledge about 9/11 before it happened (Also mis-stating that Dar Es Salaam is in Sudan; it's in Tanzania.)Werner Herzog's ability to reveal complex characters by letting the camera linger, and why Alex's War doesn't do that. Sandy Hook shooter Adam Lanza's ridiculous intellectual justifications: “efilism” and “eulavism” as discussed by Default Friend.Sam Hyde's recent massive trolling of YouTube dork iDubbbz.Peter Thiel peoples' transformation from the khaki-wearing uncool kids of San Francisco to the edgy culture warriors of NYC.Follow Katie Kahn on Twitter or Substack. And here's a cool article she wrote about Red Scare v. Call Her Daddy.Watch Alex's War on YouTube, Apple, Amazon, Google, and many other platforms. You can listen to this podcast on Apple or Spotify.Thanks for reading The Carousel! Get full access to The Carousel at thecarousel.substack.com/subscribe

Emmet sits Geoff Shullenberger (https://twitter.com/daily_barbarian) and Default Friend (https://twitter.com/default_friend) to talk about their respective articles on the Uvalde shooting, school shootings in general, "zeitgeist killers," the spiritual hole in our society, and more! "The Faith of Mass Shooters (https://compactmag.com/article/the-faith-of-mass-shooters)" by Geoff Shullenberger, Compact Magazine. "Mass Shootings and the World Liberalism Made (https://contra.substack.com/p/mass-shootings-and-the-world-liberalism)," by Katherine Dee, Contra Closing Song: Lowered by Greg Puciato ft. Reba Meyers. (https://gregpuciato.bandcamp.com/album/mirrorcell)

Season 2, Episode 13 (finale) In this commemorative episode, default_friend and I cover all the major themes of the show: Tumblr, Anorexia, Fan fiction, Twitter, TikTok, and trying to grow older when the narrative is dead

You'll have to forgive me for being half-asleep on this one. Oliver Bateman of What's Left fame and I discuss sex negativity, dating apps, my dating history (here's where my fatigue becomes obvious), and female muscle morphs. We return to our regularly scheduled programming next week.

Today's episode is haute cuisine, the chef's special, a rare delicacy — well, hopefully, not too rare — with writer Katherine Dee (@default_friend), my content creation spirit animal. We've converged here thanks in no small part to a recent piece in the Atlantic entitled, What do Femcels Really Want? But we end up talking about all kinds of things, of course, from the class and geographic factors of the sexual marketplace, to hack journalism, to the odd allure of TikTok recipes, and much, much more. So buckle up for this extra special episode. “Sprout and the Bean” by Joanna Newsom (2004). Courtesy of Drag City Records. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Read Katherine's femcel piece (and check out her glorious substack) here: https://defaultfriend.substack.com/p/a-brain-dump-about-femcels-and-sex?s=r  —————————————————————— Please check out my all new Patreon for ad-free, uncensored episodes and weekly blogs! https://www.patreon.com/NaamaKates ——————————————————————— INCEL is created and produced by Naama Kates for Crawlspace Media. Music by Cyrus Melchor. —————————————————————— If you or someone you know is struggling emotionally, or having a hard time, please call someone, or contact one of the excellent resources provided below. —————————————————————— Suicide Prevention Lifeline w: https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ t: 1.800.273.8255 —————————————————————— Samaritans Website: https://www.samaritans.org and telephone (UK): 116.123 —————————————————————— Please contact Naama at INCEL with any comments, inquiries, or just random thoughts: e: theincelproject@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/incel/support

Recorded 4/27/22Matt chats with Default Friend, AKA Katherine Dee, about the role of technology in our lives, the intersection between the internet and the occult, how her work compares and contrasts with Frog Twitter, her excellent new advice column with Delicious Tacos, and other topics.Default Friend TwitterMatt Pegas TwitterDan Baltic Twitter

On this episode, I talk to the hostesses my favorite podcast, Nymphet Alumni. We talk about the lolcowification of TikTok, Marshall McLuhan, what would happen if Tavi Gevinson met Curtis Yarvin, incel ascension, digital game, and a hell of a lot more.  One of my favorite episodes yet. Also, I quote a hypothetical Russian person at some point. I'm not Russian. The person I made up for my example is!Listen to Nymphet Alumni here. Other relevant links:https://sherbert.biz/selected-workhttps://www.reddit.com/r/aliceandfernsnark/https://defaultfriend.substack.com/p/incels-incel-ascension-incel-chasers?s=whttps://defaultfriend.substack.com/p/the-inverse-of-the-fuck-boy/comments?s=wTheme: Lolita Ya-Ya by Nelson Riddle

We discuss the evolution of "alt lit," the formative experience of "indie sleaze" for millennials, why party photography went out of fashion, and the gathering wave of sex negativity.✦ Katherine's newsletter✦ Katherine on Twitter✦ Katherine on Urbit: ~hapnyx-tamnexOther Life✦ Subscribe to the coolest newsletter in the world OtherLife.co✦ Get a free Urbit planet at imperceptible.computer✦ We're building a new country at imperceptible.countryIndieThinkers.org✦ If you're working on independent intellectual work, join the next cohort of IndieThinkers.org

Today's guest is "Default Friend," an internet personality who writes about internet culture and digital communities.  Our discussion starts by using the recent Taylor Lorenz controversy regarding her story on Libs of TikTok to launch into a broader discussion of how the internet and tech are reported on, and why there's a one-dimensional focus on fear mongering or trend analysis in media coverage of internet culture and digital communities.  We then broaden our conversation to the different eras of the internet and its evolution through time, including the cultural effects of digital communities migrating from one platform to the next, the reversal of the sex-positive movement online, and why big tech vs. crypto vs. luddites may soon replace the culture wars.  It's a fascinating glimpse into the past and the future of the internet which highlights the increasing convergence between the internet and “real life”.  Hosted by Marshall Kosloff and produced by Jackson Steger

Default Friend joins the pod to talk about Tumblr, TikTok, atomization and assimilation in suburbia, transracialism, hyperlocalism, and thirst traps and the male gaze.

Default Friend joins the pod to talk about Tumblr, TikTok, atomization and assimilation in suburbia, transracialism, hyperlocalism, and thirst traps and the male gaze.

In episode 129 of The Just Checking In Podcast we checked in with Katherine aka Default Friend. Katherine has a Substack called Default Wisdom where she writes about sex and dating, internet history and has an advice column for people who need their burning dilemmas answered. She is also the host of the ‘The Computer Room' podcast. In this episode we discuss how she came to adopt the name Default Friend, where she believes women are going wrong in dating and what impact those choices have on their mental health, hook-up culture and why the concept of shame isn't always a bad thing. We also discuss Katherine's experience of anxiety, specifically severe social anxiety and health anxiety. As always, #itsokaytovent You can read and subscribe to Default Wisdom here: https://defaultfriend.substack.com/ You can follow Katherine on social media below: Twitter: https://twitter.com/default_friend Support Us: Patreon: www.patreon.com/venthelpuk GoFundMe: www.gofundme.com/f/help-vent-supp…ir-mental-health Music: @patawawa - Strange: www.youtube.com/watch?v=d70wfeJSEvk

DF and Emmet take a look at Phillip K Dick's 1972 lecture "The Android and the Human." They dive into his idea that we can learn about our inner lives by looking at the world of machines, the integration of man and machine, empathy, rebellion, totalitarianism, and weirdly hanging out with teenage girls getting late term abortions. Here's the lecture (https://sporastudios.org/mark/courses/articles/Dick_the_android.pdf). Subscribe to Default Wisdom. (https://defaultfriend.substack.com/) Subscribe to our patreon to get 2 exclusive episodes a month. (https://www.patreon.com/exhaust) Closing Song: Dream Evil - The Chosen Ones x Xavier Wulf - Fort Woe (KEIFFERGR33N Remix) (https://www.keifergr33n.com/music)

From the “glow up” to main character syndrome, the internet loves a hero (or an anti-hero, as it were). I sat down with my dear friend Meme Analysis to talk about what this has to do with the persistent popularity of MGMT's “Little Dark Age” on TikTok.Theme: Little Dark Age by MGMT

DF and Emmet had such a good time talking about early internet history they decided to do it again. This time, they're looking at humdog's seminal but half-forgotten essay "pandora's vox." DF and Emmet try to work through the internet as a form, it's incredible liquidity, how physical space has transubstantiated into the internet, things like the Slaves of Gor fandom as a substructure of the internet, what it means that humdog seems to have committed suicide over exactly the kind of relationship she warned about and more! "pandora's vox: on community in cyberspace (https://gist.github.com/kolber/2131643)" by humdog. "A Virtual Life. An Actual Death. (https://hplusmagazine.com/2009/09/02/virtual-life-actual-death/)" by Mark Meadows and Peter Ludlow

Jack Crum of 404Tales joins me for a conversation about internet ethnographies, the history of Tumblr, and what nobody had the balls to say about #GamerGate.Theme: The Great Fairy Fountain Etude

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Default Friend (https://twitter.com/default_friend) returns to talk with Emmet about Julian Dibbel's famous essay, A Rape in Cybserpace (http://www.juliandibbell.com/texts/bungle_vv.html), which presaged our digital social experience back in 1993. DF and Emmet talk about etiquette, digital governance, the weirdness of online life, the "distributed self," what it would mean to take the internet seriously, and more! Subscribe to our Patreon to get two exclusive episodes a month! (https://www.patreon.com/exhaust) Closing Song: The End of Love by Wimeanancas Cambodian Band. (https://littleaxerecords.bandcamp.com/album/wimeanacas-cambodian-band)

Happy New Years, Motherfuckers! For the first show of 2022, Adam, Will and reoccurring guest host Sandra are joined by writer Katherine Dee, aka Default Friend, specifically to discuss the limitations of the "dissident" branded publishers that have sprouted up throughout Covid in response to a renewed enthusiasm for anti-mainstream thought. Can there be genuine dissidence when art is tethered to political backing of any kind? Who the fuck knows. Whatever. We also talk about cinema and celebrity and plastic surgery and Zac Efron's fake jaw making him look like a mongoloid. Sorry for the hella fucked up audio on this one, the Chinese spy software wasn't functioning properly. This is a PREVIEW of the final episode, the full show is available to patrons only, which you can find here Soundtrack: Zoviet France “Something Spooked The Horses”  Brenoritvrezorkre “Borarp”  Ornette Coleman “Bird Food”  The Four Tops “Bernadette”  Walkingseeds “666 Squadron”  Butthole Surfers "Concubine"  Links: Katherine Dee at Twitter: @default_friend Katherine at Substack Katherine Dee "A Critique of Right Wing Art" Katherine Dee at Unherd

WARNING: This episode's audio quality is exceptionally, exceptionally bad. Special thanks to Will Kraus for cleaning it up. In future episodes, I'll be using a better mic.Is a journalist who reports on virtual events that happen in a virtual world still a journalist? If you choose to present yourself as a rabbit online, does that say anything meaningful about who you really are? I spoke with Peter Ludlow, founder of The Alphaville Herald about living your life—fully online.Referenced articles:Raking muck in "The Sims Online" by Farhad Manjoo (Salon, 2003)Evangeline: Interview with a Child cyber-Prostitute in TSO by Peter Ludlow (2003)A Real-Life Debate On Free Expression In a Cyberspace City by Amy Harmon (2004)

Somehow, we never posted this excellent episode. I think this might be the last episode that we recorded together before the hiatus. -- Default FriendThe birds are chirping, the Gchats are pinging, and Default Friend and the Personality Girl interview the inimitable Tao Lin. TPG and Tao talk glyphosate; DF mixes up Terence McKenna and Timothy Leary; the three reverse engineer themselves into accepting Traditionalism wholeheartedly.

In an episode that may or may not be part of After the Orgy, Default Friend and friend of the pod and artist Gio Pennacchietti discuss internet-based creoles, the Internet's obsession with the body, the trad thots of yore, 'found footage' e-girls and self-posters, Girl Bosses as a sexual orientation, and why Default Friend wasn't bat mitzvahed.Theme: Sara perché ti amo by Ricche e Poveri Find Gio around the web: https://twitter.com/giantgiohttps://gioscontentcorner.wordpress.com/author/giopennacchietti/Get your Default Friend fix:defaultfriend.substack.com As for TPG, she has requested for me to amend to "you know where to find her." 

Default Friend is a writer investigating the deep history of the internet on her substack, Default Wisdom. She joins me to discuss one of our mutual interests: the work of the sociologist Sherry Turkle, and the light her pioneering 1995 study Life on the Screen sheds on the early history of the internet and the way the 90s internet anticipated present realities. We also explore the implications of Turkle's argument that the internet rendered concrete the abstractions of postmodern theory, as well as Default Friend's own work on fandom, Tumblr and other facets of "the millennial internet." https://defaultfriend.substack.com/ http://www.mit.edu/people/sturkle/Life-on-the-Screen.html

On a very special episode of After the Orgy, Default Friend and The Personality Girl talk to the one and only Marc Andreessen about the pilot of HBO's Silicon Valley. Default Friend may or may not be painfully starstruck this episode.Theme: Stretch Your Face by Tobacco

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Default Friend returns to ex.haust to talk about the death of sex positivity, the coming wave of sex negativity, affinity community online, how our identities are formed now, and a whole bunch of other stuff. The Coming Wave of Sex Negativity by Default Friend (https://defaultfriend.substack.com/p/72-the-coming-wave-of-sex-negativity/comments) Affinity vs. Experience by Default Friend (https://defaultfriend.substack.com/p/affinity-vs-experience/comments) Subscribe to our Patreon to get 2 exclusive episodes a month! (https://www.patreon.com/creator-home) Closing Song: I Can My Heart Touching You by Parannoul (https://parannoul.bandcamp.com/album/to-see-the-next-part-of-the-dream)

In this episode, we talk with Katherine Dee aka Default Friend about how the marketplace of ideas is seeded by internet communities.. Specifically, the example of Tumblr feeding attitudes towards social justice on college campuses. We also talk about social atomization and the future of the internet. Katherine blogs at https://defaultfriend.substack.com/?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=substack_profile

Katherine Dee is an internet historian and writer based in the Midwest. You might also know her as Default Friend on Twitter. Jordan Jensen is from upstate NY where she started started doing stand up then after a brief love affair with Nashville, she moved to Brooklyn where she was selected to be a new face of Just for Laughs Comedy Festival. She is a Comedy Cellar regular and opens for Louis CK. 

Katherine Dee is an internet historian and writer based in the Midwest. You might also know her as Default Friend on Twitter. Jordan Jensen is from upstate NY where she started started doing stand up then after a brief love affair with Nashville, she moved to Brooklyn where she was selected to be a new face of Just for Laughs Comedy Festival. She is a Comedy Cellar regular and opens for Louis CK. 

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Default Friend and the Personality Girl discuss the 2013 Elizabeth Wurtzel essay "Elizabeth Wurtzel Confronts Her One Night Stand of a Life" and Dan Sallitt's 2019 film Fourteen.  What does it mean for a woman not to grow up? What does it mean for anyone to accept responsibility for their lives, as an adult? Theme: Good Advice by The Growlers 

Kat is joined by Katherine Dee, a.k.a. Default Friend, for a conversation about Tumblr's discursive power and lesser-known internet subcultures .Katherine's work:Default WisdomTumblr U.Satire in the cityKatherine Dee (@default_friend)Advertising campaign for American Horror Story illustrating the tumblr-to-TV pipeline: 15 Times "AHS: Cult" Did It's Best To Make You TrypophobicTumblr's proto-#MeTooing of John Green: John Green Responded On Tumblr To Accusations Of Sexual AbuseA NYT essay from the creator of the "problematic fave" callout blog: I Was Your Fave Is Problematic See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit femchaospod.substack.com/subscribe

Kat is joined by Katherine Dee, a.k.a. Default Friend, for a conversation about Tumblr's discursive power and lesser-known internet subcultures .Katherine's work:Default WisdomTumblr U.Satire in the cityKatherine Dee (@default_friend)Advertising campaign for American Horror Story illustrating the tumblr-to-TV pipeline: 15 Times "AHS: Cult" Did It's Best To Make You TrypophobicTumblr's proto-#MeTooing of John Green: John Green Responded On Tumblr To Accusations Of Sexual AbuseA NYT essay from the creator of the "problematic fave" callout blog: I Was Your Fave Is Problematic See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Today, I sit down with podcaster, writer and commentator Default Friend to discuss the incubation and spread of radical left, woke concepts on Tumblr and TikTok, the rationale behind gatekeeping, Zoomer culture and more.You can follow Default Friend on Twitter @default_friendFollow me on Twitter @Scott_veritas and don't forget to leave a 5 star review and subscribe!

We spoke with writer, podcaster, and advice columnist Default Friend about our modern dating difficulties, the psychodramas that keep us from achieving real intimacy, and the unexamined role microblogging sites like Tumblr played in shaping a generation's sexuality and normalizing a culture of extreme sensitivity and offense-taking. Get full access to The Broken World at thebrokenworld.substack.com/subscribe

You follow him on Twitter. You've read his books. You've subscribed to his Substack. And now, you've seen him in the Thursday Styles section of The New York Times. Default Friend and the Personality Girl are stoked to welcome the inimitable Paul Skallas, aka the LindyMan, to After the Orgy, where they have a wide-ranging conversation about the Marvel Cinematic Universe, tech, strivers, Adderall, young adult literature, parenting, and everyone's favorite topic: women under 25.Theme: Lindy by  Kenny Chesney

Default Friend and the Personality Girl are joined by infamous playwright, director, screenwriter, and BYU alum Neil LaBute. Together they unpack the question, "What should you do if your boyfriend doesn't think you're a 10?" Theme: Jim Jim Falls by Morrissey

Contestants: Internet personality "Default Friend," Trey Kelso, Tom Colocci College football, DC Comics, The Office, Wicca, and Donny Osmond are all on the syllabus of an episode bookended, for no particular reason, by the works of Stephen King. Come for the realization that your favorite '80s one-hit wonder also wrote your favorite '90s Disney song; stay for the cautionary tale of what happens when you doodle a drag queen at the wrong moment (not a metaphor); savor hearing me recite the full title of "Marat/Sade" off the top of my head, because that's the kind of person I am. Like what you hear? Consider donating via PayPal or Patreon, and remember to leave a review and/or rating on iTunes!

Freddy Gray discusses the revolt against sexual liberalism with Mary Harrington, Louise Perry and Default Friend.  

Freddy Gray discusses the revolt against sexual liberalism with Mary Harrington, Louise Perry and Default Friend.

Default Friend's new podcast, After the Orgy ... 2008 as a hinge point in sexual culture ... Is sex positivity over? ... DF: Young people want to get married and have kids sooner ... Ancient wisdom and cosplaying as a way of life ... Get ready for hot vaxx summer! ... Why today's teens are confessing less online ... Has moral conservatism returned to the right? ...

Default Friend's new podcast, After the Orgy ... 2008 as a hinge point in sexual culture ... Is sex positivity over? ... DF: Young people want to get married and have kids sooner ... Ancient wisdom and cosplaying as a way of life ... Get ready for hot vaxx summer! ... Why today's teens are confessing less online ... Has moral conservatism returned to the right? ...

Emmet sits down with Default Friend (https://twitter.com/default_friend)of After the Orgy (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-orgy/id1560522568)about her piece on the Culture of Confession (https://defaultfriend.substack.com/p/48-the-culture-of-confession), the emotional history of the internet, millenial blues, how tumblr turned the academy woke, and more. Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/exhaust). Twitter (https://twitter.com/ex_haustpodcast). Closing Song: "Juliette's Window" by Black Print. (https://dupagecountyhardcore.bandcamp.com/album/black-print-demo)

In a special episode @default_friend joins to discuss the family, relationships, trads and the dating world.   Follow @default_friend and be sure to subscribe to her substack Outro music - "If You Want Me To Stay" by Sly and the Family Stone

Default Friend is a writer, cultural commentator, tech familiar, and, coincidentally, a friend. We talk about the future of tech and tech optimism under the dark cloud of a year of skepticism about technocratic forces at work in our world. We also chat about dating, sex work, Mormons, wine aunts, simps & incels. A fun conversation with a very smart lady. You can find her work at defaultwisdom.substack.com and on her Twitter @default_friend. You can support this podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/aksubversive Music: Discovery by Scott Buckley https://soundcloud.com/scottbuckley Creative Commons — Attribution 3.0 Unported — CC BY 3.0 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/aksubversive/message

Default Friend is a blogger and Twitter personality who decided to make friendship her mission.   After moving to the San Francisco Bay Area, DF made a vow to be available and willing to attend events with others, serving as an impromptu "plus one."    Her quest also resulted in an advice column (still continuing) called "Default Wisdom."    Hear us discuss the following:   ✅the reason for her advice column and focus on friendship  ✅why people hate therapy and discussing mental health  ✅the factors leading DF to implement stronger boundaries (online and off)   Find Default Friend:  

Join Josiah Neeley, Razib Khan, and Twitter/Substack renderer of advice, Default Friend, for a freewheeling conversation about all the things. No animals were harmed in the production of this podcast.

Default Friend's critique of dating apps ... Bumble's false aura of female empowerment ... An infinite number of alternative romantic partners/Netflix shows ... App dating vs. IRL dating ... The phony promise of the "best" mate for you ... Girlbossism, gender differences, and sexual shame ...