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John continues his conversation with Lena Sisco. In the previous episode, Lena shared her journey from studying archaeology to becoming a US Naval Intelligence Officer and developing the Sisco Method of Interviewing. In this episode, they discuss the hurdles Lena faced in the early days of entrepreneurship, the importance of self-awareness and situational awareness in building better relationships, asking interrogative questions (who, what, when, where, why, how), and much more! Listen to this episode to learn more: [00:00] - The role of a great leader [04:08] - Hurdles Lena overcame in becoming an entrepreneur [07:04] - The hidden workload of entrepreneurs [08:44] - How Lena improves her significant relationships [11:42] - The waiting in conversations [13:48] - Defining sales and marketing [16:31] - Choosing the right clients and saying no [20:14] - The importance of vetting potential hires and clients [24:09] - Why people avoid calling a lie what it truly is [27:18] - Dating someone who is an expert in human behavior [28:31] - Advice for entrepreneurs and leaders [32:32] - How Lena got involved in TV [35:05] - Analyzing serial killers [38:24] - Lena's ideal client [39:23] - Best way to connect with Lena [40:48] - Lena's definition of success [41:24] - #1 daily habit [42:56] - Traits of a great leader [44:13] - How Lena invests in her growth [48:31] - Book recommendations [50:36] - Closing thoughts NOTABLE QUOTES: “I did not make a salary that could pay my bills for three years… Now I'm making money. So it's being patient, it's being persistent. It's failing and getting back up.” “You have got to be self-aware because if you're not, you cannot be situationally aware.” “Never partner up with someone who's either going to treat you with disrespect or create chaos and negativity.” “The number one, most accurate indicator of deception is behavioral incongruence.” “Ask an interrogative question. Make it clear, concise, and specific. You'll get the answer you want and need.” “Be super clear, concise, direct, and deliberate in your questioning and communication.” “Just because you're asking these very direct, specific, pinpointed, good questions doesn't mean you have to sound like a robot.” “If your gut feeling is saying, ‘Don't trust them,' pay attention to that gut feeling.” “Be ready to lead when you have to, and be ready to serve when you have to.” BOOK MENTIONED: Leading Leaders: How to Manage Smart, Talented, Rich, and Powerful People by Jeswald W. Salacuse (https://a.co/d/gFQU7Vb) PODCAST MENTIONED: Craig Groeschel Leadership Podcast (https://tinyurl.com/CraigGroeschelLeadershipPod) USEFUL RESOURCES: https://www.thecongruencygroup.com/ https://www.sectorintell.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/lena-sisco-8a31b451/ https://www.instagram.com/lenasisco11/ https://x.com/lenasisco https://www.facebook.com/lena.sisco https://www.facebook.com/lenasiscoTCG https://www.youtube.com/@therealinterrogationroom "My Secret to Breaking Terrorists: Detecting Deception & Rapport" - TEDx Talk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q9j8iJHSCbY&t=63s You're Lying: Secrets From an Expert Military Interrogator to Spot the Lies and Get to the Truth (https://a.co/d/1kQm5eg) Marine Scout Snipers: True Stories From U.S. Marine Corp Snipers (https://a.co/d/94OrIqW) Honest Answers: Interview and Negotiation Skills to Get to the Truth (https://a.co/d/9g5VBK5) CONNECT WITH JOHN Website - https://iamjohnhulen.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnhulen Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/johnhulen Twitter - https://www.twitter.com/johnhulen LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnhulen YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLX_NchE8lisC4NL2GciIWA EPISODE CREDITS Intro and Outro music provided by Jeff Scheetz - https://jeffscheetz.com/
John talks with Lena Sisco — former U.S. Naval Intelligence Officer and U.S. Marine Corps Certified Interrogator, CEO and founder of Sector Intelligence Group and The Congruency Group, body language expert, TEDx presenter, international speaker, and entrepreneur. Lena is also the author of “You're Lying: Secrets From an Expert Military Interrogator to Spot the Lies and Get to the Truth”, “Marine Scout Snipers: True Stories From U.S. Marine Corp Snipers”, and “Honest Answers: Interview and Negotiation Skills to Get to the Truth.” Listen to this episode to learn more: [00:00] – Intro [00:57] – Lena's bio [03:08] – What is dark psychology? [04:52] – Red flags to watch out for in online dating profiles [07:03] – Be wise as serpents, but gentle as doves [08:39] – Lena's journey from archaeology to naval intelligence [11:15] – The value of detail-oriented minds [15:52] – Lena's experiences as an interrogator after 9/11 [22:23] – Lena's approach to interrogation [25:13] – Why she left the military [27:15] – Sisco Method of Interviewing [30:36] – Interrogations during her time at GITMO [31:39] – A case where she missed an important detail [33:42] – Being fully commissioned [35:14] – Leaving the military and transitioning to entrepreneurship [38:02] – Lena's businesses [38:25] – Her journey into writing [46:51] – Lena's book: Honest Answers [49:06] – Understanding personality types in communication [51:07] – The role of a great leader in creating the next leader NOTABLE QUOTES: “Be wise as serpents, but gentle as doves.” “Details matter. Big ideas and big visions are great, but you've got to have people who know how to put them together. That's where the details come into play.” “It is so easy to go in, lose your cool, act with disrespect, yell, and squeak. A two-year-old can do that. But show me somebody who has the skill, the emotional intelligence, and the mental agility to use all of our tactics and traits—remain respectful, build that rapport, and let everything coming at you just flow right off of you.” “The art of effective communication is how you sound. Body language, your tone of voice, and your personality—all of that plays a role.” “Interrogation is just a conversation and a story. You have a conversation with an intent and an objective. You are communicating with another human being for a purpose.” “Every possible thing that comes up that can create negative thoughts—you've got to get rid of it, work through it, and move past it.” “When you're writing nonfiction, you have to keep that person in mind that you're writing to. But the easiest person to write to is your formerly stuck self, because you know that person intimately.” “Negotiation starts with a mindset, and that mindset is critical to success and getting what you want because that's what negotiation is.” “I can do it when there's nothing stopping me from doing anything. So why not?” “If you know someone's personality preferences, it's going to make your communication so much more effective.” “Your role as a leader is to create the next leader.” USEFUL RESOURCES: https://www.thecongruencygroup.com/ https://www.sectorintell.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/lena-sisco-8a31b451/ https://www.instagram.com/lenasisco11/ https://x.com/lenasisco https://www.facebook.com/lena.sisco https://www.facebook.com/lenasiscoTCG https://www.youtube.com/@therealinterrogationroom "My Secret to Breaking Terrorists: Detecting Deception & Rapport" - TEDx Talk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q9j8iJHSCbY&t=63s You're Lying: Secrets From an Expert Military Interrogator to Spot the Lies and Get to the Truth (https://a.co/d/1kQm5eg) Marine Scout Snipers: True Stories From U.S. Marine Corp Snipers (https://a.co/d/94OrIqW) Honest Answers: Interview and Negotiation Skills to Get to the Truth (https://a.co/d/9g5VBK5) CONNECT WITH JOHN Website - https://iamjohnhulen.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/johnhulen Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/johnhulen X - https://x.com/johnhulen LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnhulen YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLX_NchE8lisC4NL2GciIWA EPISODE CREDITS Intro and Outro music provided by Jeff Scheetz - https://jeffscheetz.com/
BECOME A MASTER AT NEGOTIATION AND COMMUNICATIONNever go into an important conversation feeling unheard, unprepared, or uninformed again—apply the proven SISCO method for communication to become a master negotiator, trusted interviewer, and engaging conversationalist. No matter the conversation, detecting honesty and persuading others to be honest are some of the most valuable skills you can learn. With these skills, you can master your daily conversations and interactions with others. The Strategic Interviewing Skills and Competencies (SISCO) Method will help you see the full picture, have all the facts, and make effective decisions.Former Navy interrogator, Lena Sisco, created this method during challenging investigative and information-gathering interviews. Her 5-step program focuses human-to-human interaction. When you can gain someone's trust you can get truth in any scenario. She teaches readers how to validate their gut feeling when they think someone is lying, unassumingly control a conversation, and persuade others to be honest.These skills are not only applicable in an interrogation room, but they can be relevant in everyday life. In this book, you will learn how to:Apply the strategic interviewing skills behind the SISCO method to your everyday life to discover the information and the honest answers you need.Create an environment of trust that will facilitate the fact finding necessary to be more effective at your job while encouraging others to be more accountable.Control the signals you may or may not be inadvertently sending to others.Know the right words to say during a disagreement in order to de-escalate conflict, gain respect, and create a win-win situationNot only does she teach you techniques and methods to negotiate and interview with confidence, she shares the neuroscience behind why they are effective. You will be able to interpret patterns of behavior and influence positive behaviors in others, as well as enhancing the effectiveness of your communication practices; both verbal and nonverbal.Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/houseofmysteryradio. Become a member at https://plus.acast.com/s/houseofmysteryradio. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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This week on Fraudish Lena Sisco and I discuss all things spies! Lena is a TV expert in deceptive analysis and interrogation, author of “Honest Answers” and “You're Lying,” keynote speaker, trainer specializing in human behavior, truth and deceptive analysis, enhanced communication, elicitation, counter-elicitation and questioning techniques. Sign up for my newsletter Breaking Fraud, here! Show Notes Lena Sisco LinkedinSector Intell The Congruency GroupSector Intell Webinar Registration
Have you ever wanted to know if someone is lying to you or manipulating you in a conversation? In this episode, former Naval Intelligence Officer and Marine Corps certified interrogator Lena Sisco shares her expertise on how to detect honesty and persuade others to be honest in any conversation. Lena has conducted hundreds of interrogations during her service in the Global War on Terror, and she is now the CEO and Founder of two companies, The Congruency Group and SECTOR INTELLIGENCE, where she teaches effective communication practices for interviewing, elicitation, and negotiation. Join us as Lena discusses the benefits of understanding people, the importance of being more trustworthy, and how these communication skills can benefit all facets of your life. Whether you're going into a big purchase or just trying to build stronger relationships with those around you, Lena's insights and advice can help you feel more prepared, informed, and heard in any important conversation. “Sometimes, we just need to stop talking and listen more.” - Lena Sisco This Week on Young Money: What a day in the life of Lena Sisco entails. How communication skills can benefit all facets of your life. The importance of spending time trying to understand people. How to make people feel more comfortable with you. Advice for going into a big purchase. How to create an environment of trust. Key takeaways: Don't be accusatory. Listen to those you're speaking with. Do your homework. Know what you're willing to pay for. Be trustworthy. Own your mistakes. We don't know what we don't know. Connect with Lena Sisco: Email Facebook LinkedIn Twitter Instagram The Congruency Group SECTOR INTELLIGENCE Resources Mentioned: EP130 Show Me The Fraud – Fraud Prevention Month EP023 How to Protect Yourself from Fraud EP074 How to Protect Your Business from Fraud EP132 How to Protect Yourself from Fraud with Julie Kuzmic of Equifax EP215 Detecting Deception and Understanding Body Language with Lena Sisco EP235 How to Protect Yourself from the Romance Scam EP236 Good Investment or Investment Scam? EP237 Fun with Fraudsters EP278 Say Less Get More with Fotini Iconomopoulos Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre Rate, Share & Inspire Other Young Millionaires-in-the-Making Thanks for tuning into the Young Money Podcast - the advice show for young millionaires-in-the-making! If you enjoyed this week's episode, head over to Apple Podcasts and leave us a rating and review. Visit our website to learn how easy it is to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Don't forget to share your favorite episodes on social media! Follow the Young Money Podcast on iTunes so you never miss an episode and reach out to us on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, our LinkedIn Company Page, or by visiting our website.
WANT THE FULL EPISODE?Check out yesterday's episode, or download it directly using this link: https://api.spreaker.com/v2/episodes/52323741/download.mp3“What drives you to make the decisions you make? There's intent. There's motivation. There's your personality…that profile is what helps you decide to do or say something.” – Lena Sisco Lena Sisco, interrogator, joins the show to discuss ways to accurately detect lies, gain rapport, and ultimately get the truth from the people you interact with daily. KEY TOPICSReverse engineering conversations, so you get the answers you're looking for.Cognitive overload and how it can reveal the truth.Denying, justifying, and qualifying lies – you may not even know you're lying to yourself!The ingredients of rapport. The foundation of building trusting relationships.Don't forget to listen to our last episode with Lena!Ep.21 I Lena Sisco & Elly Johnson I Deciding to Seek the Truth: https://api.spreaker.com/v2/episodes/48445769/download.mp3 CONNECT WITH USDecidedlypodcast.comInstagram: @decidedlypodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/decidedlypodcastShawn's Instagram: @shawn_d_smith Sanger's Instagram: @sangersmith MAKING A FINANCIAL DECISION?At Decidedly Wealth Management, we focus on decision-making as the foundational element of success, in our effort to empower families to purposefully apply their wealth to fulfill their values and build a thriving legacy.LEARN MOREwww.decidedlywealth.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/decidedlywealth/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DecidedlyWealth/ Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly decision-making tips: https://visitor.r20.constantcontact.com/manage/optin?v=001aeU_pPBHJPNJWJBdVbaci6bjGIuEJurH12xHBWDEVT_NxyCadMd7wLSZjcEZglkSjDjehuIbTHD8nABOIdV69ctfYpSzg24RCIytetBUrlIPPKgaGzjGZ8DkM0Wp1LMjbErcYUur7PbZGjeVo4gyXlz821AoJGZR Join us every Wednesday for more strategies to DEFEAT bad decision-making - one episode at a time! MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODEWargames: https://www.amazon.com/Wargames-Dabney-Coleman/dp/B0011EQBOSCouples Court: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCis8-aFFycLZgNI4bqNcE5gEp.8 I Eric Maddox I Deciding to Find Saddam Hussein: https://api.spreaker.com/v2/episodes/47176211/download.mp3Ep.9 I Eric Maddox I Deciding to be an Empathetic Listener: https://api.spreaker.com/v2/episodes/47282845/download.mp3Ep.54 I Dandapani I Deciding to Have Unwavering Focus: https://api.spreaker.com/v2/episodes/51234904/download.mp3 CONNECT WITH LENA SISCOYou're Lying: Secrets from an Expert Military Interrogator to Spot the Lies and Get to the Truth: https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Lying-Secrets-Military-Interrogator/dp/1601633629Honest Answers: Interview and Negotiation Skills to Get to the Truth: https://www.amazon.com/Honest-Answers-Interview-Negotiation-Skills/dp/1400226406/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1671312172&sr=1-1Instagram: @lenasisco11Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lenasiscoTCG/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lena-sisco-8a31b451/ lenasisco@thecongruencygroup.comwww.thecongruencygroup.comwww.sectorintell.com Lena Sisco is a former Department of Defense (DoD) certified Military Interrogator and Naval Intelligence Officer who served in the Global War on Terror conducting hundreds of interrogations collecting high-value intelligence information to thwart terrorist attacks. She is the recipient of the Joint Service and the Navy/Marine Corps Commendation and Achievement Medals. Lena is a former TEDx speaker (My Secret to Breaking Terrorists: Detecting Deception & Rapport) and a TV personality who served as an interrogation/body language/deceptive analysis expert for three seasons on the Emmy-nominated court show called Couples Court. Lena partnered with the International Spy Museum and is a Spy's Eye View speaker. In 2019, she was a panelist at their prestigious annual event called Mother, Daughter, Sister, Spy, and she is featured in two Spy Museum exhibits. She is also partnered with SPYEX and participated in their annual celebrity event as an expert intelligence panelist at SPYSCAPE in NYC. Lena is the author of Honest Answers, Interview, and Negotiation Skills to Get to the Truth, You're Lying! Secrets From an Expert Military Interrogator to Spot the Lies and Get to the Truth, and Marine Scout Snipers; True Stories from Marine Corps Snipers. Since 2003, Lena has worked as a government civilian and contractor for the Office of Naval Intelligence (ONI), Joint Forces Command (JFC), U.S. Marine Corps Intelligence Schools (MCIS), and Naval Criminal Investigative Service (NCIS). She has partnered with the Defense Intelligence Agency (DIA) and the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) in human intelligence (HUMINT) Collection Activities. Since then, she has trained the DoD and federal and state law enforcement agencies in interviewing and interrogation techniques, including in-depth deceptive analysis, body language, and elicitation. She is the CEO and founder of two companies, The Congruency Group, where the art & science of human interaction meet, and SECTOR INTELLIGENCE, a global company providing elite training and consulting services in elicitation and game-changing sales prospecting. As an international keynote speaker, she speaks to audiences in various industries located around the globe. Some of her clients include the International Association of Arson Investigators (IAAI), the Virginia Homicide Investigators Association (VHIA), the Virginia Crime Analysis (VCANN), Texas Crime Stoppers, The Collaborative Rehab Council, the Alliance Safety Council, Michigan Association of Community Mental Health Boards, accountants, auditors, aerospace professionals, realtors, sales associates, consultants and more. Lena has numerous leadership certifications; Organizational Change Management, Discovery Learning Institute's Change Style Indicator, Change Navigator, and Power + Systems Organizational Workshop. In June 2020, she received her certificate in the Psychology of Leadership from Cornell University. She holds numerous instructor certifications, is certified in Instructional Systems Design for curriculum development and continues to train government agencies and law enforcement in leadership competencies. Lena received her Master of Arts degree in Old World Archaeology and Art from Brown University in 1997 and excavated overseas in Italy and Greece. She received her Bachelor of Arts degree in Anthropology from the University of Rhode Island in 1993 and conducted a field school in San Salvador. She has been volunteering as a specialist in animal care and animal educational programs at zoos and museums since 2010. In her spare time, she is either sailing or traveling.
“What drives you to make the decisions you make? There's intent. There's motivation. There's your personality…that profile is what helps you decide to do or say something.” – Lena Sisco Lena Sisco, interrogator, joins the show to discuss ways to accurately detect lies, gain rapport, and ultimately get the truth from the people you interact with daily. KEY TOPICSReverse engineering conversations, so you get the answers you're looking for.Cognitive overload and how it can reveal the truth.Denying, justifying, and qualifying lies – you may not even know you're lying to yourself!The ingredients of rapport. The foundation of building trusting relationships.DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THE FULL EPISODE?Listen to the 15-minute highlight episode from our conversation with Lena! Check it out by going to tomorrow's episode, or download it directly using this link: https://api.spreaker.com/v2/episodes/52346098/download.mp3Don't forget to listen to our last episode with Lena!Ep.21 I Lena Sisco & Elly Johnson I Deciding to Seek the Truth: https://api.spreaker.com/v2/episodes/48445769/download.mp3 CONNECT WITH USDecidedlypodcast.comInstagram: @decidedlypodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/decidedlypodcastShawn's Instagram: @shawn_d_smith Sanger's Instagram: @sangersmith MAKING A FINANCIAL DECISION?At Decidedly Wealth Management, we focus on decision-making as the foundational element of success, in our effort to empower families to purposefully apply their wealth to fulfill their values and build a thriving legacy.LEARN MOREwww.decidedlywealth.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/decidedlywealth/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DecidedlyWealth/ Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly decision-making tips: https://visitor.r20.constantcontact.com/manage/optin?v=001aeU_pPBHJPNJWJBdVbaci6bjGIuEJurH12xHBWDEVT_NxyCadMd7wLSZjcEZglkSjDjehuIbTHD8nABOIdV69ctfYpSzg24RCIytetBUrlIPPKgaGzjGZ8DkM0Wp1LMjbErcYUur7PbZGjeVo4gyXlz821AoJGZR Join us every Wednesday for more strategies to DEFEAT bad decision-making - one episode at a time! MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODEWargames: https://www.amazon.com/Wargames-Dabney-Coleman/dp/B0011EQBOSCouples Court: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCis8-aFFycLZgNI4bqNcE5gEp.8 I Eric Maddox I Deciding to Find Saddam Hussein: https://api.spreaker.com/v2/episodes/47176211/download.mp3Ep.9 I Eric Maddox I Deciding to be an Empathetic Listener: https://api.spreaker.com/v2/episodes/47282845/download.mp3Ep.54 I Dandapani I Deciding to Have Unwavering Focus: https://api.spreaker.com/v2/episodes/51234904/download.mp3 CONNECT WITH LENA SISCOYou're Lying: Secrets from an Expert Military Interrogator to Spot the Lies and Get to the Truth: https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Lying-Secrets-Military-Interrogator/dp/1601633629Honest Answers: Interview and Negotiation Skills to Get to the Truth: https://www.amazon.com/Honest-Answers-Interview-Negotiation-Skills/dp/1400226406/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1671312172&sr=1-1Instagram: @lenasisco11Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lenasiscoTCG/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lena-sisco-8a31b451/ lenasisco@thecongruencygroup.comwww.thecongruencygroup.comwww.sectorintell.com Lena Sisco is a former Department of Defense (DoD) certified Military Interrogator and Naval Intelligence Officer who served in the Global War on Terror conducting hundreds of interrogations collecting high-value intelligence information to thwart terrorist attacks. She is the recipient of the Joint Service and the Navy/Marine Corps Commendation and Achievement Medals. Lena is a former TEDx speaker (My Secret to Breaking Terrorists: Detecting Deception & Rapport) and a TV personality who served as an interrogation/body language/deceptive analysis expert for three seasons on the Emmy-nominated court show called Couples Court. Lena partnered with the International Spy Museum and is a Spy's Eye View speaker. In 2019, she was a panelist at their prestigious annual event called Mother, Daughter, Sister, Spy, and she is featured in two Spy Museum exhibits. She is also partnered with SPYEX and participated in their annual celebrity event as an expert intelligence panelist at SPYSCAPE in NYC. Lena is the author of Honest Answers, Interview, and Negotiation Skills to Get to the Truth, You're Lying! Secrets From an Expert Military Interrogator to Spot the Lies and Get to the Truth, and Marine Scout Snipers; True Stories from Marine Corps Snipers. Since 2003, Lena has worked as a government civilian and contractor for the Office of Naval Intelligence (ONI), Joint Forces Command (JFC), U.S. Marine Corps Intelligence Schools (MCIS), and Naval Criminal Investigative Service (NCIS). She has partnered with the Defense Intelligence Agency (DIA) and the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) in human intelligence (HUMINT) Collection Activities. Since then, she has trained the DoD and federal and state law enforcement agencies in interviewing and interrogation techniques, including in-depth deceptive analysis, body language, and elicitation. She is the CEO and founder of two companies, The Congruency Group, where the art & science of human interaction meet, and SECTOR INTELLIGENCE, a global company providing elite training and consulting services in elicitation and game-changing sales prospecting. As an international keynote speaker, she speaks to audiences in various industries located around the globe. Some of her clients include the International Association of Arson Investigators (IAAI), the Virginia Homicide Investigators Association (VHIA), the Virginia Crime Analysis (VCANN), Texas Crime Stoppers, The Collaborative Rehab Council, the Alliance Safety Council, Michigan Association of Community Mental Health Boards, accountants, auditors, aerospace professionals, realtors, sales associates, consultants and more. Lena has numerous leadership certifications; Organizational Change Management, Discovery Learning Institute's Change Style Indicator, Change Navigator, and Power + Systems Organizational Workshop. In June 2020, she received her certificate in the Psychology of Leadership from Cornell University. She holds numerous instructor certifications, is certified in Instructional Systems Design for curriculum development and continues to train government agencies and law enforcement in leadership competencies. Lena received her Master of Arts degree in Old World Archaeology and Art from Brown University in 1997 and excavated overseas in Italy and Greece. She received her Bachelor of Arts degree in Anthropology from the University of Rhode Island in 1993 and conducted a field school in San Salvador. She has been volunteering as a specialist in animal care and animal educational programs at zoos and museums since 2010. In her spare time, she is either sailing or traveling.
FROM INDIANA JONES TO JAMES BOND Both Spies and Archeologists have a curiosity for the truth. But, the key to unlocking the secrets within humans requires a mastery of soft skills such as empathy and self-awareness. Therefore, tune into this captivating episode and learn how my guest, Lena Sisco, applied her curiosity, passion for the truth, and her amazing interpersonal skills and became a world renown military interrogator. What We Discuss with Lena:⁃ Lena's journey from archeologist to military interrogator⁃ The critical need to be self-aware⁃ Manipulation and our moral compass⁃ Elicitation techniques⁃ And so much moreLena Sisco:Lena Sisco is a former Naval Intelligence Officer and Marine Corps certified interrogator who served in the Global War on Terror conducting hundreds of interrogations. She is a published author, keynote speaker, former TEDx speaker, and was an expert witness on an Emmy nominated court TV show for three years. She keynotes around the world and is a speaker for SPYEX, and the SPY Museum in Washington D.C. Since 2003, Lena has been training the Department of Defense, government agencies, law enforcement, special forces, and private sector industries in interviewing and interrogation, statement analysis, body language, detecting deception, elicitation, and change leadership. Lena is also certified in Organizational Change Management and received her certificate in the Psychology of Leadership from Cornell University. She has master's from Brown University in Archaeology and her BA is in Anthropology from the University of Rhode Island. In 2013, Lena started her own company, called The Congruency Group.Featured Resources: (Help us keep the lights on ) Robin's Speaking, Coaching and Online Courses: http://www.peopleformula.com Thanks, Lena Sisco!If you enjoyed this episode with Lena, let her know by clicking on the links below, connect, and send her a quick shout out:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lena-sisco-8a31b451/ FB: TCG TRIBE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2900337606846378 Instagram: @lenasisco11 Twitter: https://twitter.com/lenasisco Website: www.thecongruencygroup.com Resources mentioned in the podcast:Lena's Book and Advanced Elicitation Course: http://thecongruencygroup.com
This week, “Truth Sisters”, Lena Sisco and Elly Johnson, join the show to share their expertise in all things body language.This episode focuses on methods of telling whether someone is telling the truth, how to ensure that your body language confirms that you are telling the truth, and how to expel the truth from others.What if you could know someone's true intentions, even when their words aren't portraying them? Tune in to learn how the Truth Sisters find out the facts.ABOUT THE TRUTH SISTERSInstagram: @truthsisters_academyFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/truthsistersWebsite: https://www.truthsistersacademy.com/ABOUT LENA SISCOInstagram: @lenasisco11Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lena.siscoWebsite: thecongruencygroup.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lena-sisco-8a31b451/Lena Sisco has an extensive background in conducting interrogations/interviews and detecting deception. She has published books, given a TEDx talk, and served as a detecting deception expert on a TV show working alongside private investigators and polygraphers. Lena has been training the Department of Defense, military and law enforcement personnel, including the Department of Homeland Security, U.S. Border Patrol, Defense Intelligence Agency, Navy Special Warfare, as well as other local, State, and Federal Agencies, in interrogation and advanced strategic interviewing techniques since 2003. She is a former certified Military Interrogator who has interrogated members of Al Qaeda and the Taliban while deployed to Guantanamo Bay, Cuba, shortly after 9/11. Her ability to build rapport, employ effective questioning techniques, accurately read body language, conduct statement analysis, and ultimately gain trust and cooperation from radical individuals with strong allegiances to each other, led to numerous successes that saved American lives. Her techniques have been used to apprehend criminals, collect necessary intelligence for our military and assist individuals in their personal and professional lives. Lena has her certificate in the Psychology of Leadership from Cornell University and is certified in Organizational Change Management, Discovery Learning Institute's Change Style Indicator and Change Navigator, and Power + Systems Lab's Organizational Workshop. As a SAIC facilitator, she trains numerous government agency personnel in leadership skills, organizational change management, and enhanced interpersonal communication skills. She founded her company, the Congruency Group, in 2013. Lena Sisco trains clients in elite and specialized skill sets such as conversational elicitation, body language, deceptive analysis, leadership, and enhanced interpersonal communication skills to help them succeed both personally and professionally. Her unique ability to connect with diverse people and a wide spectrum of audiences results in countless success stories from various leaders, executives, entrepreneurs, investigators, and more. Since 2003, Lena Sisco has had the privilege of providing her expertise to organizations and agencies of all sizes from a variety of industries. Her motto is "always remain a student." Indeed she does, even as she trains others, she continually seeks opportunities to grow. She holds a Master's Degree from Brown University in Old World Archaeology and Art and at some point in the future, her goal is to enter into a Ph.D. program in Forensic Psychology. Keep reading to learn more about what Lena has to offer you or your organization, and feel free to contact her at any time for additional information.ABOUT ELLY JOHNSONFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/thetruthsisterWebsite: ellyjohnson.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellyjohnsontruthsister/Former police officer turned communication specialist, Elly Johnson, shines a spotlight on the impact of truth and deception in our daily lives.Elly's provocative and illuminating presentations and training programs equip audiences with an expanded awareness of the power of truth and how to better navigate interactions to achieve optimal results in business, in relationships and in life. Elly consults to and trains our highest national security agencies, in unique programs designed to build skills to uncover vital information.CONNECT WITH USInstagram: @decidedlypodcastFacebook: @decidedlypodcast or https://www.facebook.com/decidedlypodcastShawn's Instagram: @ampadvisorSanger's Instagram: @sangersmithMENTIONED IN THIS EPISODEPower Pose Ted Talk: https://youtu.be/Ks-_Mh1QhMcThe Truth Sisters Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/truthsistersEric Maddox Episode – “Deciding to Find Saddam Hussein”: https://api.spreaker.com/v2/episodes/47176211/download.mp3Eric Maddox Episode – “Deciding to be an Empathetic Listener”: https://api.spreaker.com/v2/episodes/47282845/download.mp3Join us every Wednesday for more strategies to DEFEAT bad decision-making – one episode at a time!
Lena Sisco is a former Department of Defense (DoD) certified Military Interrogator and Naval Intelligence Officer who served in the Global War on Terror. In 2013, Lena started her own company called The Congruency Group to offer specialized consulting and training services. Today Lena joins the show to discuss body language and the power of being able to detect deception, as well as some helpful tips for us to use in our personal and professional lives. Listen in as Lena shares several examples of how to build trust with someone in order to get the truth. You will learn how to set the tone of a meeting simply through your body language, how to make a stronger connection with someone, and why we should never jump to conclusions. “When you can connect with people, that's when they start to trust you. That's when the guard goes down.” - Lena Sisco This Week on Young Money: What we can learn from others' body language. How to tell if someone is lying. How to build trust with someone in order to get the truth. The best way to validate our observations to make sure we aren't jumping to conclusions. How you can feel empowered to move forward after deception has happened. How to strengthen your connection to someone. The importance of letting your body language remain natural. Key takeaways: Be mindful of your body language. Communication is a combination of verbal and non-verbal. Don't jump to conclusions. Talk with your hands. Have open conversations. Let people know how you feel. Be confident in yourself. Connect with Lena Sisco: Website LinkedIn Truth Sisters Academy Resources Mentioned: Tracey Bissett – Money Coach YouTube Channel Join us for the Financial Foundation to Entrepreneurial Peace Training – Learn the Keys to Financial Basics & Money Mastery With Money Coach Tracey Bissett Starting Monday, October 11. Register at bizpeace.com! This LIVE training has been specifically designed for future and existing entrepreneurs across all industries online and offline who want to proactively change the way they are handling their money matters and navigate the current environment with success. In this LIVE Training You Will Learn: Session 1: Cash Flow 101 & Why it is Important to Know your #s (Key #1) & Cash Flow Forecasting 101 (Key #2)Monday, October 11 at 2pm EST Session 2: Pricing 101 (Key #3)Tuesday, October 12 at 2pm EST Session 3: Stakeholder Conversations (Key #4)Wednesday, October 13 at 2pm EST Session 4: Putting into Practice your Full Set of Keys (Key #5)Thursday, October 14 at 2pm EST Bonus Sessions: Money Mindset, Success Stories & Q&AFriday, October 15 starting at 2pm EST If you want to make informed, powerful money decisions, you do not want to miss this important LIVE training. We kick things off on Oct. 11th so head over to bizpeace.com to get registered today. Rate, Share & Inspire Other Young Millionaires-in-the-Making Thanks for tuning into the Young Money Podcast - the advice show for young millionaires-in-the-making! If you enjoyed this week's episode, head over to Apple Podcasts and leave us a rating and review. Visit our website to learn how easy it is to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Don't forget to share your favorite episodes on social media! Follow the Young Money Podcast on iTunes so you never miss an episode and reach out to us on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, our LinkedIn Company Page, or by visiting our website.
Lena Sisco of Congruency Group, LLC shares some practical tips to easily detect lies and deceptions. Do you know you can do this in 5 minutes and by only paying attention to pronouns? In this episode, Lena will share her journey to the intelligence world and how it turned her into a renowned expert in rapport- and trust-building interrogation. She is currently training individuals and organizations to read people better, improve their presence in front of others, control a conversation, and separate deception from the legitimate and the authentic. Tune in! Let's learn how to build rapport from a GITMO interrogator! In this Episode: [00:01 - 07:17] Opening Segment Boost your EQ by 10% and your sales by 20%! Free e-course link below I introduce and welcome Lena Sisco Her path to the intelligence world [07:18 - 16:20] Rapport-Based and Non-Accusatory Her transition to a more rapport-based interrogation Why it's easy being a woman in the interrogation space Detect lies in 5 minutes with these tips from Lena [16:21- 29:01] Pay Attention to Pronouns and Accountability How to better pay attention to verbal and nonverbal cues Shut down the internal chatter Read a statement and find a deception! Listen to Lena's advice here The golden rule of interviewing [29:02- 40:04] Lead Your Team and Protect Them Better Lena's tips for leaders to lead better The conversation that left you with the most impact With her former student What communication skill would you have wanted to learn sooner? Getting feedbacks The best communicator you know Kelly Roach Grant Cardone [40:05 - 41:52] Closing Segment How to find Lena Links below Final words from me Tweetable Quotes: “You have to have amazing awareness, focus, and concentration...you need that open awareness so you can take in the verbal and nonverbal.” - Lena Sisco “I wanna make [my people] happy, they wanna make me happy, and all it takes is a little tweaking and adjusting on how we speak to people.” - Lena Sisco Resources Mentioned: FREE e-course to master body language and micro-expressions to boost your EQ by 10% and sales by 20%. Check it out https://bit.ly/3bGGN2Z (here). Test your observation skills by watching this YouTube channel: https://bit.ly/2OwBRnK (To Tell TheTruth) https://unstoppableentrepreneur.com/ (Kelly Roach) https://grantcardone.com/ (Grant Cardone) Email lenasisco@thecongruencygroup.com to connect with Lena or follow her on https://bit.ly/2OvOQpL (LinkedIn), https://bit.ly/3jJerqx (Facebook), https://twitter.com/lenasisco (Twitter), https://bit.ly/3adpXYb (YouTube), and https://bit.ly/376ltkq (Instagram). Check out her personal https://www.lenasisco.com/ (website) and Congruency Group https://www.thecongruencygroup.com/ (online) to learn more about her work. Check out her online courses https://tcg.thinkific.com/ (here). You can connect with me on https://www.linkedin.com/in/gregricecxeffortgeek/ (LinkedIn), https://twitter.com/gregjrice (Twitter), https://www.instagram.com/gregjrice/ (Instagram), and https://www.facebook.com/gregory.rice.372/ (Facebook). Join https://www.facebook.com/groups/jointhecommunicationnation/ (The Communication Nation) and learn from others in the community. Feel free to email me at gregrice79@yahoo.com, I'd love to hear from you! Want more help with your digital marketing? Go to my website https://gregjrice.com/inflection/ (https://gregjrice.com/inflection/) and let's have a conversation. LEAVE A REVIEW + help someone who wants to expand their communication capacity by sharing this episode and listen to our previous episodes.
You can understand people by simply looking at how they behave. Human behavior hacker Susan Ibitz of Human Behavior Lab has been hacking people for 27 years. Susan talks a little bit about her background, including being dyslexic, studying psychology, and producing a TV show. In this episode, she introduces hacking, which includes face reading, personality assessments, micro-expressions, body language, deception detection, statement analysis, and forensic. [00:01 – 03:02] Opening Segment I talk briefly about valuable information that you can take advantage of in this episode. I introduce and welcome our guest Susan Ibitz. Connect with Susan. See the links below. [03:02 – 15:59] The Human Polygraph, Susan Ibitz Susan shares how she learned to get to where she is right now Susan talks about her background Think outside the box learning Learn more from people than books Susan talks about the people she learned from and is currently learning from How she found her mentors Susan's guide to finding the right mentors: Learn who you want to learn from Make sure everything you are putting in your brain is equally important to what you're putting in your body. [16:00 – 24:24] How Masterminds/Mentors Helped Susan in her Journey Stuck and having trouble executing what's inside your mind? Susan has some tips for you! Adapting to the "new normal." Never ask a compulsive question. [24:25 – 31:49] Power of Self-Education Susan shares her view on the future of self-education and masterminds Knowledge not taught in school Learning from mentors Finding someone that compliments you [31:50 – 43:22] Susan as a Mastermind Things to expect when you enter Susan's reality: Adult education needs to be fun Learn how to see others better Learn how to communicate What you see is what you get Susan talks about her line of work Susan talks about the people attending her meetups Surprised by what they can achieve after getting mentored [43:23 – 48:32] How To Create Success Susan weighs in on what it takes to create success and pass it along Push people to do what they love Have meaning Why people don't want to talk about success [48:23 – 53:10] Closing Segment What are you working on right now that's gonna take place in the next 12 months that really excites you? Pushing the message of the importance of masks in this pandemic Susan shares amazing tips and tricks that will help you get in front of the line Listen to understand Final thoughts Tweetable Quotes: "You can give everybody everything they want, but your time and your knowledge is something that cannot be replicated." – Susan Ibitz "The WAIT: You can decide where you're gonna go and when you wanna learn." – Susan Ibitz "You need to pick your battles." – Susan Ibitz Resources Mentioned: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lena-sisco-8a31b451 (Lena Sisco) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Junto_(club) (The Leather Apron Club) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Napoleon_Hill (Napoleon Hill) You can connect with Susan through the following: susan@humanbehaviorlab.com https://humanbehaviorlab.com/ (https://humanbehaviorlab.com/) https://www.humanbehaviorhackerschool.com/ (https://www.humanbehaviorhackerschool.com/) https://www.linkedin.com/in/susan-ibitz/ (https://www.linkedin.com/in/susan-ibitz/) LEAVE A REVIEW + help someone who wants to become a master of their own mind by sharing this episode or click https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mastermind-effect/id1524511812 (here) to listen to our previous episodes. You can connect with me onhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/brandonstraza/ ( LinkedIn),https://www.instagram.com/brandonstraza/ ( Instagram), or send me an email athttps://my.captivate.fm/brandon@thesuccessfinder.com ( brandon@thesuccessfinder.com). I'd love to get in touch and talk more about personal development and how you can live past beyond your limits.
Whatever business you’re in, you need to develop enhanced communication skills and get a good grasp of human behavior and get the truth out of people. Former Navy Intelligence Officer, DoD certified interrogator, published author, and TEDx speaker Lena Sisco is an expert in this field. Since 2003, she has been training clients from both the government and private sectors in interviewing, interrogation, body language, detecting deception, elicitation, leadership, and enhanced communication skills. More than just acquiring these incredible skills, what people get from her courses is a journey of self-discovery that turns them into better communicators, leaders, and humans. Join in as she gives some very juicy nuggets on this topic as she talks with Jennifer Whitacre.Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share!Here’s How »Join the Yes, And… community today:jenniferwhitacre.comYes, And… TwitterYes, And… FacebookYes, And… LinkedIn
Our guest today on the Success InSight Podcast is Lena SiscoLena is the founder and president of the Congruency Group. She is the author of "You're Lying!" Secrets From an Expert Military Interrogator to Spot the Lies and Get to the Truth and "Marine Scout Snipers".Lena is a former Navy Intelligence Officer and DoD certified interrogator. Since 2003 she has been training the government, military, law enforcement, and the private sector in interviewing, interrogation, body language, detecting deception, elicitation, leadership, and enhanced communication skills.Lena has trained and been a keynote speaker around the globe and is internationally recognized as an expert in her field.She is also an accomplished TEDx Speaker and Expert Witness on the TV Show Couples Court. Lena is also a guest speaker for the International SPY Museum and featured in their Mata Hari exhibit.To learn more about Lena and her work, you can visit her on her website at https://www.thecongruencygroup.com/You can also connect with Lena and learn more about The Congruency Group on the following social sites:https://tcg.thinkific.comClick here to find Lena’s books, You're Lying: Secrets From an Expert Military Interrogator to Spot the Lies, and Get to the Truth on Amazon.The SuccessInSight Podcast is a production of Fox Coaching, Inc. and First Story Strategies.
This episode was also a video interview - https://youtu.be/lhr8kFqlu0s Lena Sisco is a former US Navy Intelligence Officer and U.S. Marine Corps certified interrogator who deployed during GWOT. She is a published author, TEDx presenter, keynote speaker, TV expert, instructor/trainer, and Instructional Systems Design (ISD) certified curriculum developer. Other certifications include Six Sigma, Change Style Indicator, Change Navigator, and Power + Systems Lab's Organizational Workshop. She brings her human intelligence (HUMINT) skills to you no matter what industry you are in. She has trained thousands of military, law enforcement, and DoD personnel as well as various organizations in the private sector industries such as sales, marketing, health, business intelligence, and finance. Lena's links Web: https://www.thecongruencygroup.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Congruency-Group-790560620963996/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lenasisco And don’t forget to support the podcast by subscribing for free, reviewing, and sharing. New Livestream https://youtube.com/erichunley Web: https://unstructuredpod.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/unstructuredp Facebook: https://facebook.com/unstructuredp Instagram: https://instagram.com/unstructuredp Join the Facebook group: fb.com/groups/unstructured
Lena Sisco with Scott Cluthe Author of Your Lying ! Lena wrote You're Lying! because no matter what your profession or life circumstances, you need the skills to take control of a situation, detect deception, and reveal the truth. While you probably won't ever have to interrogate a detainee who doesn't want to tell you about an upcoming terrorist attack--as Lena has--You're Lying! will help you deal with that salesperson trying to rip you off, the kid bullying your child who claims innocence, a cheating spouse, or dissembling boss. As the adage says, knowledge is power. Lena interrogated numerous members of Al Qaeda and the Taliban while stationed at Guantanamo Bay, Cuba, then taught those skills to Defense Department personnel for years afterward. Her ability to build rapport, accurately read body language, and employ effective questioning techniques led to numerous successes that saved American lives. You will also learn her easy-to-follow five-step program on how to accurately detect verbal (both spoken and written) and non-verbal deceptive tells, how to conduct an effective line of questioning, and what to do after you identify the lies we all face every day. Take the knowledge in You're Lying! and empower yourself.
On The Gist, former military interrogator Lena Sisco on deception detection. Her book is called You’re Lying: Secrets From an Expert Military Interrogator to Spot the Lies and Get to the Truth. For the Spiel, a few thoughts on the shooting in Orlando. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
On The Gist, former military interrogator Lena Sisco on deception detection. Her book is called You’re Lying: Secrets From an Expert Military Interrogator to Spot the Lies and Get to the Truth. For the Spiel, a few thoughts on the shooting in Orlando. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Lena Sisco is live with Scott Cluthe tonight at 8 EST-7 CST-6 MST-5 PST Call in: 347-308-8478 Lena wrote You're Lying! because no matter what your profession or life circumstances, you need the skills to take control of a situation, detect deception, and reveal the truth. While you probably won't ever have to interrogate a detainee who doesn't want to tell you about an upcoming terrorist attack--as Lena has--You're Lying! will help you deal with that salesperson trying to rip you off, the kid bullying your child who claims innocence, a cheating spouse, or dissembling boss. As the adage says, knowledge is power. Lena interrogated numerous members of Al Qaeda and the Taliban while stationed at Guantanamo Bay, Cuba, then taught those skills to Defense Department personnel for years afterward. Her ability to build rapport, accurately read body language, and employ effective questioning techniques led to numerous successes that saved American lives. You will also learn her easy-to-follow five-step program on how to accurately detect verbal (both spoken and written) and non-verbal deceptive tells, how to conduct an effective line of questioning, and what to do after you identify the lies we all face every day. Take the knowledge in You're Lying! and empower yourself.
Roy speaks with Lena Sisco, author of “You're Lying”. Lena Sisco is a former U.S. Navy officer and certified military intelligence interrogator who interrogated Taliban and Al Qaeda prisoners at Guantanamo Bay prison. “You're Lying” also provides the reader with information on how to detect if you're being lied to in your personal and professional lives. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.