Podcasts about negotiation skills

Do you really win the negotiation if it means losing the relationship?You might think that successful negotiation means getting what you want here and now. But Stan Christensen says this short-sighted view is selling many negotiators short.Christensen is a professional negotiator, host of the All Things Negotiation podcast, and instructor of one of Stanford's most popular courses on the subject. His core insight: most negotiations happen with people you'll see again — which means success isn't about claiming victory, it's about building long-term, mutually beneficial relationships. “Most people think of negotiation statically,” he says. “It's you and I. There's a fixed pie. We're trying to get more for ourself and less for the other party. In reality, 95% of negotiations are gonna be with people you see again, so I define success as contributing to the value of the long-term relationship.”In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Christensen and host Matt Abrahams explore what it takes to negotiate well — from the power of listening and asking questions to managing emotions and communicating for collaboration. Whether you're negotiating a business deal or just deciding where to go to dinner, Christensen shows why every negotiation is an opportunity to strengthen the relationship.Episode Reference Links:Stan ChristensenAll Things Negotiation PodcastEp.15 The Art of Negotiation: How to Get More of What You WantEp.204 Tough Talks: Turn Tension Into Trust Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn Chapters:(00:00) - Introduction (02:11) - What Is Negotiation? (02:50) - Negotiating Every Day (03:52) - The Power of Listening (05:25) - Asking Better Questions (07:26) - Handling Emotions (08:24) - Authentic Emotion (09:22) - Body Language Matters (10:13) - Collaboration in Negotiation (11:51) - Framing Conversations (13:16) - Setting the Agenda (14:38) - Co-Creating Structure (16:14) - A Common Negotiation Mistake (16:53) - Why Start a Podcast (17:57) - Learning from Guests (18:54) - The Final Three Questions (26:15) - Conclusion ********Thank you to our sponsors.  These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.Unleash your Superhuman potential with AI that meets you where you work. Learn more at superhuman.comJoin our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be. 

What you'll learn in this episode Why listening—not talking—is the ultimate sales skill The 3 steps of the CPI framework: connect energetically, ask adept questions, actively listen How to uncover what clients are afraid to admit Why setting emotional expectations prevents frustration and blame How to turn predictable problems into opportunities for trust The difference between fake rapport and real connection Why influence is something you're given, not something you chase How authentic listening positions you as the trusted expert Teach to Sell Preorder: Teach to Sell: Why Top Performers Never Sell – And What They Do Instead To find out more about Dan Rochon and the CPI Community, you can check these links:Website: No Broke MonthsPodcast: No Broke Months for Salespeople PodcastInstagram: @donrochonxFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/NoBrokeMonths/Facebook: Dan RochonLinkedIn: Dan RochonTeach to Sell Preorder: Teach to Sell: Why Top Performers Never Sell – And What They Do Instead

Negotiation isn't a boardroom skill—it's a parenting skill, and every hard conversation with our teens is a training ground. In this episode, I talk with negotiation expert Atiya Qureshi about asking for what we need, managing our own emotional storms, and finding the relational middle ground between passive and aggressive. We dig into understanding interests over positions, the internal negotiation we have with ourselves first, and why being listened to opens our kids up to hearing us. Come learn alongside me. Guest Bio: Attia Qureshi is the founder of Attia Qureshi Consulting and an adjunct at the University of Michigan's Ford School of Public Policy. A former instructor at MIT Sloan and the Ross School of Business, she has worked on behalf of the US State Department in conflict zones around the world. She is the co-author, with John Richardson, of Never Settle: Persuasion and Negotiation Skills to Get What You Want (Simon & Schuster). For show notes and more info go to: https://www.besproutable.com/podcasts/eps-657-attia-qureshi-and-negotiating-with-teens/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Todd Caponi is a sales strategist, keynote speaker, author, and advisor passionate about elevating the sales profession through behavioral science and transparency. A three-time author—including The Transparency Sale and The Transparent Sales Leader—Todd helps organizations rethink how they sell, negotiate, and lead by building trust through honesty rather than perfection.Blending his fascination with decision science, sales methodology, and learning theory, Todd works with customer-facing teams to create more confident, frictionless B2B buying experiences. Through speaking, teaching, and advising, he equips leaders and sales professionals with simple, practical frameworks that drive stronger relationships, better outcomes, and long-term growth.SHOW SUMMARYIn this episode of the Selling from the Heart Podcast, Larry Levine and Darrell Amy welcome sales strategist, author, and transparency advocate Todd Caponi to explore why trust should never disappear when negotiations begin.Drawing from his latest book, The Four Levers of Negotiation, Todd challenges traditional negotiation tactics that often turn collaborative sales conversations into adversarial battles. He explains that while sales professionals spend months building credibility and trust, many unknowingly undermine those relationships the moment pricing discussions begin.Todd introduces a practical framework built around four universal business drivers—volume, timing of cash, length of commitment, and timing or predictability of the deal. By helping buyers understand the true factors that influence pricing, sales professionals can negotiate transparently, trade value instead of giving away discounts, and create outcomes that benefit both parties.The conversation dives into behavioral science, decision-making, confidence in pricing, and why transparency consistently outperforms manipulation. Whether you're negotiating enterprise contracts or everyday business agreements, this episode provides a modern, trust-centered approach to creating win-win outcomes while strengthening long-term customer relationships.KEY TAKEAWAYSTransparency creates stronger outcomes in sales, leadership, negotiations, and customer relationships.Many salespeople build trust throughout the sales cycle only to abandon it during negotiation.Every B2B pricing discussion is influenced by four key factors: volume, payment timing, contract length, and deal predictability.Buyers are less likely to push aggressively for discounts when they understand the rationale behind pricing.Negotiation works best when both sides openly collaborate rather than hide information and play games.HIGHLIGHT QUOTESTransparency sells better, leads better, negotiates better, and creates stronger customer advocates than pretending to be perfect.We spend months building trust with our buyers. Why would we risk losing it the moment the negotiation begins?The best negotiations don't feel like battles. They feel like two sides working together to create value.Every pricing conversation is driven by four simple levers: volume, timing of cash, length of commitment, and deal predictability.The minute you give away a concession for free, you diminish its value—and your own.ADDITIONAL RESOURCESExplore the secrets of heart-centered leadership and thriving workplace cultures with Culture from the Heart Podcast! Nominate a visionary CEO at www.culturefromtheheart.com!Listen to Larry Levine's Bestselling Book: Selling in a Post-Trust World! Now available on Audible! Transform your sales approach with insights that matter.  Subscribe to The Selling from the Heart Podcast Youtube Channel! Stay updated with the latest episodes and leadership tips: Selling from the Heart YouTubeGet Your Daily Dose of Inspiration:Click Here for Your Daily Dose

“Breakfast is the most important meal of the day.” We've all heard it countless times. But where did that idea come from—and is it actually true? Researchers have taken a much closer look at breakfast and the findings may surprise you. Source: https://www.bmj.com/content/364/bmj.l42 Whether you realize it or not, you negotiate all day long—with your spouse, kids, friends, coworkers, and even strangers. The ability to persuade people and navigate difficult conversations can dramatically improve your personal and professional life. Attia Qureshi has spent decades teaching negotiation and persuasion strategies to leaders and organizations. In our conversation, she explains the subtle skills that make people more influential, why persuasion is often misunderstood, and how small changes in communication can help you get better outcomes without being manipulative or aggressive. Attia is founder of AQ Consulting, former MIT faculty member, adjunct professor at the University of Michigan, and co-author of Never Settle: Persuasion & Negotiation Skills to Get What You Want (https://amzn.to/4ugR3US). Attia's exclusive link for SYSK listeners: https://www.attiaqureshi.com/something Most people embrace emotions like joy and happiness while trying to avoid emotions such as anger, jealousy, shame, envy, and regret. But those darker emotions may actually contain important information about who you are, what you value, and what's happening beneath the surface of your life. Daniel Smith, psychotherapist and author of Hard Feelings: Finding the Wisdom in Our Darkest Emotions (https://amzn.to/4dPzBkw), explains why these uncomfortable emotions exist, what purpose they serve, and why understanding them may be essential for emotional growth and self-awareness. Human attraction is far more complicated than simply “good looks.” In fact, repeated exposure, familiarity, attention, and several other subtle factors can quietly make someone seem more attractive over time—even when nothing about their appearance changes. https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/evolutionary-human-sciences/article/visual-attention-to-faces-during-attractiveness-and-dominance-judgements/38F4497B251EFE2D8ED9F4D37F82D9C5 PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS POCKET HOSE: For a limited time, when you purchase a new Pocket Hose Ballistic, you'll get a FREE 360 degree rotating pocket pivot and a FREE thumb drive nozzle! Just text SYSK to 64000 AQUA TRU: Take the guesswork out of pure, great-tasting water. Head to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://AquaTru.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now and get 20% off your purifier using promo code SYSK. AquaTru even comes with a 30-day best-tasting water guarantee or your money back. RULA: This Mental Health Awareness Month, don't just think about your mental health - actually take the step to take care of it. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://Rula.com/sysk⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to get started. QUINCE: Refresh your everyday with luxury you will actual use! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://Quince.com/sysk⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada, too! DELL:  With the Dell Pro laptop powered by Intel Core Ultra with vPro, no matter how many interruptions you have, your laptop won't be one of them. With battery that's optimized for the way you work, and built-in intelligence that quiets distractions the moment you're trying to focus, your tech won't slow you down.  Find out more at ⁠⁠⁠https://Dell.com/Dell-Pro⁠⁠⁠ SHOPIFY: It's time to turn those "what ifs" into CHA CHING with Shopify Today! Sign up for your $1 per month trail and start selling today at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://Shopify.com/sysk⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Attia Qureshi shares simple techniques to build up your negotiating skills, one step at a time.— YOU'LL LEARN — 1) How to take the fear and tension out of negotiating 2) The simple trick to arrive at more win-win solutions 3) How to feel comfortable making big asks and saying no Subscribe or visit AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep1153 for clickable versions of the links below. — ABOUT ATTIA — Attia Qureshi is a negotiation and influence expert, former MIT faculty member, adjunct professor at the University of Michigan, and the founder of Attia Qureshi Consulting — where she has spent two decades helping leaders, teams, and organizations negotiate better outcomes in every room they walk into. Her work spans Fortune 500 boardrooms, university classrooms, and conflict zones around the world, where she has negotiated on behalf of the U.S. State Department in some of the most complex environments imaginable.• Book: Never Settle: Persuasion and Negotiation Skills to Get What You Want• Tool: Emotion Wheel• Website: AttiaQureshi.com— RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW — • Article: “Ask For A Raise? Most Women Hesitate” by Jennifer Ludden• Study: “Evolution of responses to (un)fairness” by Sarah F. Brosnan and Frans B.M. de Waal• Book: Influence: Science and Practice by Robert Cialdini• Book: The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho• Past episode: 366: Mastering Conversations through Compassionate Curiosity with Kwame Christian• Past episode: 664: Dr. Robert Cialdini on How to Persuade with the 7 Universal Principles of Influence• Past episode: 873: Dr. Steven Hayes on Building a More Resilient and Flexible Mind— THANK YOU SPONSORS! — • Scribe. Book a personalized enterprise demo with scribe.how/awesome• Narwhal. Treat your home to spotless, fresh floors with us.narwhal.com/pete.• Monarch.com. Get 50% off your first year on with the code AWESOME.• Shopify. Sign up for your $1/month trial at Shopify.com/awesomepodSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

"Emotions drive 90 to 95% of our unconscious decision-making." Attia Qureshi is back — and this time, we go deeper. After her first interview, Attia's insights on persuasion and negotiation were so helpful that Anthony put them to the test in a real-life negotiation and said, "they changed the game." So, we invited her back to go deeper into the ideas behind her book, Never Settle: Persuasion and Negotiation Skills to Get What You Want, and explore how each Enneagram type approaches one of the most important conversations we can have: asking for what we need.But, as Attia explains, negotiation isn't just something that happens across a boardroom table. It happens every day – with our spouses, our kids, our coworkers, our neighbors, and perhaps most importantly, within ourselves. Before we ever make an ask, we have to face the internal stories, emotions, fears, and assumptions that often keep us from speaking up in the first place. In this episode, we explore how different Enneagram types navigate negotiation, conflict, emotional regulation, self-advocacy, and the art of creating value without damaging relationships. We unpack why some types avoid the ask, why others over-assert, why some need more clarity around what they actually want, and how every type can grow in confidence, courage, and self-awareness. You'll learn: How emotions shape the way we ask – or don't ask – for what we need How to identify and label your emotions so they stop driving your decisions unconsciously The worst-case scenario exercise that builds resilience and inoculates you against fear What each Enneagram type brings to the negotiation table — where they shine, where they get stuck, and what to do about it A breathing technique that signals your nervous system it's safe before a high-stakes conversation You can learn more about Attia and grab her free resource for Typology listeners, which includes a breakdown of each Enneagram type's negotiation strengths, blind spots, and exercises at https://attiaqureshi.com/typology.  Never Settle: Persuasion and Negotiation Skills to Get What You Want by Attia Qureshi and John Richardson is available now wherever books are sold.  

Forty Colombian farmers sat looking at her, completely unimpressed, when the cartel boss in the back of the room opened a case and a drone flew up out of it. In this episode, I sit down with Attia Qureshi, the negotiation teacher who learned her craft running State Department conflict-resolution work in cartel-controlled coca regions of Colombia, and who now teaches at the University of Michigan after a stint at MIT Sloan. Her new book Never Settle, with a foreword by Sheila Heen and endorsements from Daniel Pink, Robert Cialdini, and Chris Voss, hits shelves next week. The thing I love about her work is that she does not treat negotiation as a boardroom sport. She treats it as a daily relationship skill, the kind you practice with your barista so it is already in your hands when something hard comes up at home. In This Episode The four-step sequence Attia used to reset a room of 40 unimpressed farmers and a cartel boss with a drone, and how the same four steps work in your kitchen tonight Why "take out the trash" is the position and not the actual ask, and the one-sentence reframe that changes how you fight about household chores The fifth-grade bullying story that produced the hard shell most of us are still wearing into adulthood The seven-word test that tells you whether you are influencing someone or manipulating them Why the freeze you feel when you try to speak up is physiology, not personality, and what to do about it in real time How to know when you are giving too much to a taker, and the experiment Attia recommends before you decide to cut losses The literal glass of lemonade that turned a hostile next-door neighbor into a friendly one, and the Cialdini-backed science underneath it Why This Matters This episode is for anyone who knows what they want and goes quiet when it is time to ask. For anyone stuck in a loop with a difficult coworker or in-law that has been the same loop for three years. For anyone who has tried the assertive thing once and the people-pleasing thing once and is exhausted by both, and who wants a path that does not require a personality transplant. Episode Breakdown 0:30 How to Get What You Want: Without Fighting or Folding 2:52 Bethany and the Exoskeleton: Where the People-Pleaser-or-Hardener Split Begins 7:18 Why You Freeze When You Try to Ask for What You Want 14:19 A Drone, a Drug Cartel, and How to Negotiate Without Being Aggressive 28:39 Self-Negotiation: Emotional Regulation Before the Conversation Starts 33:22 Positions vs Interests: What You Are Really Asking For 36:01 The Lemonade Story: Reciprocity, Reset, and the Long Game 46:21 Givers, Takers, Matchers, and the Difference Between Influence and Manipulation Resources Free Communication Training (workbook plus two-part video) Schedule a free consultation with our team Relationship coaching at Growing Self If something in this conversation landed somewhere specific for you, the most generous thing you can do is share it with the friend who came to mind while you were listening. And if you are ready to stop having this same conversation in your head and start having a different one out loud, my free Communication Training is at growingself.com/communication. It is the workbook and video series I built for exactly the kind of conversation Attia and I were just having. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Special thanks to this month's sponsors of the podcast Upwork — When you need specialized talent fast, Upwork gives you access to vetted professionals across 125+ categories, from marketing to web development to operations support. No long recruiting cycles. No guesswork. Just the right person, when you need them. Check it out at upwork.com — posting a job is free. Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts. OSEA — Amazing, clean, science-backed skincare made with the power of the sea. Use code LHS at oseamalibu.com for 10% off your first order. Quince — Quality products you'll actually use that feel like luxury without the price tag. Get free shipping and 365-day returns at quince.com/lhs. LNutra Prolon — A science-backed, plant-based nutrition program that supports fat loss, metabolism, cellular rejuvenation, and overall longevity. Head to ProlonLife.com/LHS for 15% off your first order + a bonus gift.

Send us Fan MailWhat would ultra-wealthy investors do differently if they could start over?In this episode, experienced investors, operators, and family office leaders share powerful lessons from years of building wealth, making mistakes, and navigating changing markets.From negotiating contracts and staying curious to focusing on quality relationships and long-term thinking, these insights reflect real-world experience—not theory.If you're an entrepreneur, investor, or capital raiser, this episode delivers timeless advice on how to think, act, and grow like top investors.https://familyoffices.com/

If you've ever found yourself doing everything at home—managing schedules, picking up the slack, remembering all the little details—and then wondering why you feel so exhausted and resentful… you're not alone. So many working moms carry the emotional load without even realizing it. Not because they want to—but because it feels easier in the moment to just handle it yourself. But over time, all those “small things” add up. In this episode, I'm talking with negotiation expert Attia Qureshi about how the skills we often associate with boardrooms and big deals actually show up in our everyday lives—especially at home. And more importantly, how learning to use those skills can help you move from doing everything yourself… to creating a true partnership. This isn't about becoming more demanding or confrontational. It's about understanding what you need, communicating it clearly, and building a home dynamic that feels supportive—for everyone involved. What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why working moms often struggle to ask for help at home—even when they're confident communicators at work How unspoken expectations create resentment (and what to do instead) The difference between being a “giver,” “taker,” and “matcher” in your relationships A simple way to start shifting from doing everything yourself to shared responsibility Why naming your emotions is the first step to better communication boundaries How small moments of negotiation happen every single day—and how to use them to your advantage The key mindset shift that turns conflict into collaboration Why This Matters When you're constantly stepping in and taking care of everything, it might feel like you're helping your family. But what's really happening is that you're setting a pattern—one where you carry the weight, and everyone else assumes you've got it handled. And that's where mom burnout begins. Learning how to communicate your needs, ask for support, and create more balanced dynamics isn't just about getting help. It's about feeling seen, respected, and supported in your own home. Resources Mentioned: Never Settle: Negotiation Skills to Get What You Want by Atita Qureshi & John Richardson Attia Qureshi's Emotion Wheel Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Most leaders think negotiation begins when both sides sit down to talk numbers. By then, trust, incentives, timing, internal alignment, and first impressions have already shaped the outcome. That is why smart founders, executives, investors, and board members can have the right facts and still walk away with the wrong result.In this episode of Beginner's Mind, Stefanie Schubert explains why negotiation is not a last-minute performance at the table. It is a leadership capability that starts much earlier, in the way people prepare, build trust, frame value, listen, manage emotions, and understand what the other side truly needs.Stefanie is a Professor of Economics at SRH University Heidelberg, a Negotiation Advisor, Keynote Speaker, and ICF-certified Executive Coach. Her work combines behavioral economics, game theory, negotiation, executive coaching, and real-world business practice, with experience in complex business environments, alliance management, and biopharma. This conversation moves from the practical to the profound: why intelligent people still make weak decisions, why preparation often matters more than persuasion, why pushing people creates resistance, how ballroom dancing explains negotiation better than many textbooks, and why investors, scientists, founders, and corporate leaders often speak past each other without realizing it.We also explore John Nash, A Beautiful Mind, first offers, anchoring, emotional decision-making, AI-driven profiling, trust in virtual environments, and why rejection in fundraising is not necessarily the end of the negotiation.As Stefanie puts it:(01:50:33) “You bring in something. It's not that you beg for money with the investor.”That may be the core lesson of the episode.Good negotiation is not domination. It is not theatre. It is not a bag of tricks. It is the discipline of understanding value, shaping the game, and entering the room with enough clarity to build something useful with another person.Selected moments(00:00:00) Why smart people lose negotiations early(00:04:24) Negotiation starts before the table(00:07:57) Why smart people still decide poorly(00:13:25) Influence creates value not manipulation(00:18:21) Human shortcuts quietly kill opportunities(00:25:08) Ballroom dancing reveals negotiation resistance(00:28:44) Active listening creates leadership leverage(00:34:06) Authenticity beats dominance in leadership(00:37:05) How to de-escalate emotional negotiations(00:45:05) Game theory without mathematical intimidation(00:52:57) A Beautiful Mind and collaboration traps(01:00:47) First offers and anchoring pressure(01:06:37) Internal alignment before external negotiation(01:12:25) Why emotions can be rational(01:17:20) Fast thinking versus sustainable judgment(01:32:25) AI profiling can poison first impressions(01:40:59) Trust building before formal deals(01:45:04) Why investor rejection is not final(01:47:24) Designing negotiations from first contact(01:48:11) Create value before dividing value(01:50:28) Confidence before asking for Send us Fan Mail Join Christian Soschner for expert coaching. 50% Off - With 35+ years in deep tech, startups/scaleups, and public companies, Christian offers power video sessions. Elevate strategy, execution, and leadership. Book Now.Support the showJoin the Podcast Newsletter: Link

In this episode, we dive deep into essential relationship advice by exploring how improving your persuasion and negotiation skills can lead to healthier relationships. Many people misunderstand these skills as manipulative tactics, but in reality, they are grounded in respect, empathy, and clear communication. Whether you're navigating tough relationship questions or seeking ways to strengthen trust, mastering these abilities allows you to express your needs while honoring your partner's perspective. Discover how genuine persuasion, when practiced authentically, can support lasting bonds and mutual understanding in your relationships.

You can walk into a negotiation thinking you only need a number, a percentage, a quick yes. Then it turns into a psychological chess match where “standard terms” and sudden urgency start rewriting the value of what you built. We step back and treat negotiation the way innovators and creators need to treat it: as a moment where strategy, judgment, and intellectual property protection collide.We share a simple framework from Protection for the Inventive Mind that turns messy deal conversations into something you can actually navigate. We explain the five negotiation hats and when to wear each one: Chef Hat preparation so you know your floor and non-negotiables before anyone tests them, Top Hat positioning so your invention, brand, design, or know-how lands as commercial impact, Winter Hat flexibility so you can restructure terms without collapsing, Beach Hat communication so the tone stays productive, and Police Hat defense so you can slow down, question vagueness, and catch hidden risk in “boilerplate” contract language.Then we get personal and practical: what happens when pressure enters the room. We walk through five negotiation styles competitive, collaborative, accommodating, avoiding, and analytical and show how each can win the moment or lose the deal if you rely on it blindly. The goal is not a new personality. It's a better ability to choose your approach in licensing negotiations, partnership talks, investor conversations, and IP agreements.If this helps you, subscribe, share it with someone heading into a deal, and leave a review so more creators can negotiate with clarity and protect what they've built.Send us Fan MailCheck out "Protection for the Inventive Mind" – available now on Amazon in print and Kindle formats.The views and opinions expressed (by the host and guest(s)) in this podcast are strictly their own and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the entities with which they may be affiliated. This podcast should in no way be construed as promoting or criticizing any particular government policy, institutional position, private interest or commercial entity. Any content provided is for informational and educational purposes only.

Why mastering unspoken workplace communication is essential to long-term career success.Succeeding at work doesn't just depend on how hard you work or how smart you are. According to Erin McGoff, it often comes down to whether you understand the “secret language” everyone else seems to be speaking.McGoff is a career creator, Forbes 30 Under 30 honoree, and author of The Secret Language of Work: Hyper Helpful Scripts for Every Situation. Known for her wildly popular AdviceWithErin platform, she helps millions of professionals phrase things more effectively — without sounding stiff or robotic. “It's this hidden curriculum to the workforce,” she explains, describing the unwritten rules of interviews, negotiations, and professional etiquette. “It's not written down anywhere. It's not equally distributed.” Her mission is to make those invisible rules visible — and usable.In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, McGoff and host Matt Abrahams explore how to communicate with confidence, advocate for yourself strategically, and build a professional brand with intention. Confidence, she says, isn't fixed: “Confidence isn't binary. Confidence is a spectrum.” It starts internally, with how we speak to ourselves, and strengthens when we “get really good at what you do.”Episode Reference Links:Erin McGoffErin's Book: The Secret Language of Work202. Own Your Brand: How to Communicate with Presence and Impact Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (04:56) - The Secret Language of Work (06:32) - Building Confidence (08:39) - Creating Your Professional Brand (10:00) - Setting Expectations at Work (12:31) - Advocate Strategically (14:34) - Mastering First Impressions (15:50) - Professional vs. Personal (18:19) - Interview Before, During, After (22:55) - Nonverbal Presence (23:19) - The Final Three Questions (27:18) - Conclusion  ********Thank you to our sponsors.  These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.This episode is brought to you by Babbel. Think Fast Talk Smart listeners can get started on your language learning journey today- visit Babbel.com/Thinkfast and get up to 55% off your Babbel subscription.Join our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be. 

Get a FREE DOWNLOADABLE COPY of Jeff Dudan's Book Discernment HERE What can an FBI hostage negotiator teach entrepreneurs, franchise owners, and business leaders about getting better outcomes? A lot. In this episode of Unemployable with Jeff Dudan, Jeff sits down with Chris Voss — former FBI hostage negotiator, author of the global bestseller Never Split the Difference, and founder of The Black Swan Group. Chris spent more than two decades negotiating life-or-death situations around the world. Now he teaches the same negotiation frameworks to business leaders, entrepreneurs, and Fortune 500 companies.  In this conversation, Chris and Jeff break down: • The power of tactical empathy • Why making people feel understood changes behavior • The hidden danger of high anchoring in negotiations • How to slow down and avoid deal fixation • The negotiation techniques Chris used in real hostage situations • Why most people unknowingly leave value on the table Whether you're negotiating deals, leading teams, building companies, or navigating everyday conversations, the principles in this episode can change the way you communicate and make decisions.  Learn more about Chris Voss and The Black Swan Group here: https://www.blackswanltd.com  Black Swan Group Negotiation Resources and Newsletter: https://www.blackswanltd.com/newsletter/  Chris Voss Fireside Coaching Platform: https://firesidechat.com/chrisvoss  If you enjoy conversations with elite entrepreneurs, operators, and thinkers, subscribe to the channel and turn on notifications.  Get a FREE DOWNLOADABLE COPY of Jeff Dudan's Book Discernment HERE

Get a FREE DOWNLOADABLE COPY of Jeff Dudan's Book Discernment HERE What can an FBI hostage negotiator teach entrepreneurs, franchise owners, and business leaders about getting better outcomes? A lot. In this episode of Unemployable with Jeff Dudan, Jeff sits down with Chris Voss — former FBI hostage negotiator, author of the global bestseller Never Split the Difference, and founder of The Black Swan Group. Chris spent more than two decades negotiating life-or-death situations around the world. Now he teaches the same negotiation frameworks to business leaders, entrepreneurs, and Fortune 500 companies.  In this conversation, Chris and Jeff break down: • The power of tactical empathy • Why making people feel understood changes behavior • The hidden danger of high anchoring in negotiations • How to slow down and avoid deal fixation • The negotiation techniques Chris used in real hostage situations • Why most people unknowingly leave value on the table Whether you're negotiating deals, leading teams, building companies, or navigating everyday conversations, the principles in this episode can change the way you communicate and make decisions.  Learn more about Chris Voss and The Black Swan Group here: https://www.blackswanltd.com  Black Swan Group Negotiation Resources and Newsletter: https://www.blackswanltd.com/newsletter/  Chris Voss Fireside Coaching Platform: https://firesidechat.com/chrisvoss  If you enjoy conversations with elite entrepreneurs, operators, and thinkers, subscribe to the channel and turn on notifications.  Get a FREE DOWNLOADABLE COPY of Jeff Dudan's Book Discernment HERE

Avoiding negotiation might feel safer, but it could be costing you more than you think. Linda Babcock explains why shifting the conversation from conflict to collaboration can create wins in real life.If you're interested in learning more, please visit: www.thenoclub.comLinda Babcock is not affiliated with Hartford Funds.

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 1967: Brian Tracy explains how objections are actually signals of interest, and how top salespeople use them to build trust and guide buyers toward action. With simple yet powerful closing techniques like “Feel, Felt, Found” and the “Directive Close,” he shows how to turn hesitation into confident decisions and dramatically increase your closing rate. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.briantracy.com/blog/sales-success/sales-process-handle-objections-and-use-closing-techniques-sales-funnel/ Quotes to ponder: "Objections indicate interest. And successful sales have twice as many objections as unsuccessful sales." "Virtually every objection on the basis of price is made for a reason other than price. Your job is to find the real reason." "Remember, the future belongs to the 'Askers.' The future belongs to people who ask for appointments, ask for information and ask for the order." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 1967: Brian Tracy explains how objections are actually signals of interest, and how top salespeople use them to build trust and guide buyers toward action. With simple yet powerful closing techniques like "Feel, Felt, Found" and the "Directive Close," he shows how to turn hesitation into confident decisions and dramatically increase your closing rate. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.briantracy.com/blog/sales-success/sales-process-handle-objections-and-use-closing-techniques-sales-funnel/ Quotes to ponder: "Objections indicate interest. And successful sales have twice as many objections as unsuccessful sales." "Virtually every objection on the basis of price is made for a reason other than price. Your job is to find the real reason." "Remember, the future belongs to the 'Askers.' The future belongs to people who ask for appointments, ask for information and ask for the order."

Grab my book Discernment here Before you ever try to “sell” anything… before you try to impress someone… before you try to win a room — what state are you in? In this segment with Michael Bernoff, we talk about what really happens in the first three minutes of meeting someone. It's not about scripts. It's not about charisma. It's about awareness, outcome, and control. If you want to communicate at a higher level in business, relationships, or leadership — this one is for you. Watch the full episode here:

Grab my book Discernment here Before you ever try to “sell” anything… before you try to impress someone… before you try to win a room — what state are you in? In this segment with Michael Bernoff, we talk about what really happens in the first three minutes of meeting someone. It's not about scripts. It's not about charisma. It's about awareness, outcome, and control. If you want to communicate at a higher level in business, relationships, or leadership — this one is for you. Watch the full episode here:

Send a textWondering What You're Actually Worth at Work?In this Unarmored Talk Pro Tip episode, we break down how to determine your worth at work without ego or guesswork. This conversation focuses on clarity—using market-backed information to make confident decisions in reviews, negotiations, and career moves.We start by separating identity from market value. Your worth as a person isn't up for sale; the market pays for outcomes. From there, we cover how to research compensation by comparing roles, scope, and responsibility across your industry—because data beats hope.Finally, we define the importance of your minimum acceptable offer. When you know the line that protects your peace, growth, and financial goals, decisions become clearer and negotiations become calmer.If this conversation helps you—or someone in your network—share it and keep the momentum going.

In this conversation, negotiation expert Derrick Chevalier discusses the importance of strong negotiation skills, particularly in real estate. He emphasizes focusing on the human element of negotiation rather than viewing it as purely transactional. The discussion explores whether negotiation skills are innate or learned, the balance between deal volume and relationship-building, common negotiation mistakes, and how negotiation plays a role in everyday life. Derrick also shares resources for improving negotiation skills, including his book, Evolve or Be Slaughtered.   Professional Real Estate Investors - How we can help you: Investor Fuel Mastermind:  Learn more about the Investor Fuel Mastermind, including 100% deal financing, massive discounts from vendors and sponsors you're already using, our world class community of over 150 members, and SO much more here: http://www.investorfuel.com/apply   Investor Machine Marketing Partnership:  Are you looking for consistent, high quality lead generation? Investor Machine is America's #1 lead generation service professional investors. Investor Machine provides true 'white glove' support to help you build the perfect marketing plan, then we'll execute it for you…talking and working together on an ongoing basis to help you hit YOUR goals! Learn more here: http://www.investormachine.com   Coaching with Mike Hambright:  Interested in 1 on 1 coaching with Mike Hambright? Mike coaches entrepreneurs looking to level up, build coaching or service based businesses (Mike runs multiple 7 and 8 figure a year businesses), building a coaching program and more. Learn more here: https://investorfuel.com/coachingwithmike   Attend a Vacation/Mastermind Retreat with Mike Hambright: Interested in joining a "mini-mastermind" with Mike and his private clients on an upcoming "Retreat", either at locations like Cabo San Lucas, Napa, Park City ski trip, Yellowstone, or even at Mike's East Texas "Big H Ranch"? Learn more here: http://www.investorfuel.com/retreat   Property Insurance: Join the largest and most investor friendly property insurance provider in 2 minutes. Free to join, and insure all your flips and rentals within minutes! There is NO easier insurance provider on the planet (turn insurance on or off in 1 minute without talking to anyone!), and there's no 15-30% agent mark up through this platform!  Register here: https://myinvestorinsurance.com/   New Real Estate Investors - How we can work together: Investor Fuel Club (Coaching and Deal Partner Community): Looking to kickstart your real estate investing career? Join our one of a kind Coaching Community, Investor Fuel Club, where you'll get trained by some of the best real estate investors in America, and partner with them on deals! You don't need $ for deals…we'll partner with you and hold your hand along the way! Learn More here: http://www.investorfuel.com/club   —--------------------

How do you turn a seemingly impossible situation into a win-win solution? High stakes and intense pressure often accompany negotiation, making it feel like navigating a minefield. Whether you're haggling over a business contract, settling a dispute, or trying to make a major purchase, the ability to negotiate effectively is a crucial skill. Successful negotiations are based on the principles of collaboration and mutual gain. Understanding those principles can transform your approach, allowing you to transform daunting challenges into opportunities for collaboration and mutual benefit. Alexandra Carter, a renowned negotiation expert and professor at Columbia Law School, has dedicated her career to helping individuals and organizations master the art of negotiation. With her wealth of experience and practical insights, she offers a fresh perspective on how to approach negotiations with confidence and clarity. In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius is joined by Alexandra Carter to delve into the art of negotiation and its profound impact on both personal and professional success, sharing her insights on how to navigate complex negotiations with confidence and finesse. The conversation also covers essential strategies like understanding psychological drivers, leveraging alternatives, and the power of asking the right questions.  Topics include: Setting perceptions of your worth to influence how others see your value Recognizing the mirror and window phases in negotiation Maintaining integrity and honesty after deals are made Managing emotional reactions to keep negotiations focused Addressing issues, not personal conflicts Balancing short-term needs with long-term goals Understanding fallback positions to anticipate alternatives Asking open-ended questions to gain deeper insights Reading vocal tones and non-verbal cues for better understanding Finding win-win solutions through effective partnerships And other topics… Connect with Alexandra: Website: https://alexcarterasks.com/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrabcarter/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexandrabcarter/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/alexbcarter/  Book: https://www.amazon.com/Ask-More-Questions-Negotiate-Anything/dp/1982130482  Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever walked into a negotiation feeling unsure where to start, or wondered why doing “all the right things” still didn't get you the outcome you hoped for? What if the problem isn't your confidence or your ask, but the lack of a clear system guiding your decisions?In this episode, I'm sharing a behind-the-scenes look at the ASPIRE ™ framework, the six-step system I created to help clients navigate everything from salary conversations to high-stakes workplace negotiations. I break down why mindset isn't “woo-woo” but a strategic advantage, how misidentifying powerbrokers and decision-makers can derail your efforts, and why focusing on interests - not positions - can unlock better outcomes for everyone involved. I also walk through how to plan your moves thoughtfully, frame your asks as Win-Wins, and avoid common traps that leave people feeling stuck or resentful.If you or someone you care about is preparing for a negotiation - or avoiding one because it feels overwhelming - this episode will give you language, structure, and clarity you can apply immediately.JOIN THE PRIORITY LIST FOR JOAN'S NEXT COHORT OF THE ADVANCED NEGOTIATION INTENSIVEhttps://course.moonnegotiation.com/Join-the-Priority-List—This podcast is a call-in show, so if you or a woman you know needs help in this area, feel free to contact me at joan@moonnegotiation.com to submit your questions or join me in our next episode. CONNECT WITH JOAN:⚉ Website: https://www.moonnegotiation.com/ ⚉ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joanmoon413/ ⚉ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moonnegotiation⚉ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moonnegotiationJOIN THE MAILING LIST FOR NEWS AND NEGOTIATION TIPS:https://www.moonnegotiation.com/social-media Send us a text

A FREE COPY OF JEFF'S Book Discernment What if the same skills used to recruit assets, spot deception, and run covert operations could make you a sharper leader, a better negotiator, and a more dangerous competitor in business? In this episode, Jeff Dudan sits down with Andrew Bustamante — former CIA intelligence officer and founder of EverydaySpy — for a conversation that hits hard on the real mechanics of influence: how trust is built, how outcomes get shaped, why most entrepreneurs burn out building from scratch, and why a franchise model is often the smartest path for high performers who want to scale with less chaos. We get into: Why entrepreneurship can crush your family if you build alone The “outcome → plan → execute” flywheel (and how leaders apply it) Humility vs. confidence when money, pricing, and negotiation are on the table The difference between method acting and true undercover compartmentalization Why CIA hiring is a masterclass in vetting, training, and capability testing The uncomfortable truth about “manipulation,” motivation, and behavioral control How EverydaySpy skills can upgrade your relationships and business fast Andrew's 30-day business answer: recurring repair = recurring revenue Andrew's book: Shadow Cell (co-authored with Jihi Bustamante) Hachette Book Group Connect with Andrew / @EverydaySpy Website: EverydaySpy.com Instagram: @EverydaySpy X: @EverydaySpy X (formerly Twitter) YouTube: @Andrew-Bustamante A FREE COPY OF JEFF'S Book Discernment Find Out More About Jeff Dudan at www.jeffdudan.com  #Unemployable #JeffDudan #Entrepreneurship #Leadership #BusinessGrowth #Sales #Negotiation #Influence #CommunicationSkills #DecisionMaking #RiskManagement #HighPerformance #Franchising #Mindset #PersonalDevelopment #CIA Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

A FREE COPY OF JEFF'S Book Discernment What if the same skills used to recruit assets, spot deception, and run covert operations could make you a sharper leader, a better negotiator, and a more dangerous competitor in business? In this episode, Jeff Dudan sits down with Andrew Bustamante — former CIA intelligence officer and founder of EverydaySpy — for a conversation that hits hard on the real mechanics of influence: how trust is built, how outcomes get shaped, why most entrepreneurs burn out building from scratch, and why a franchise model is often the smartest path for high performers who want to scale with less chaos. We get into: Why entrepreneurship can crush your family if you build alone The “outcome → plan → execute” flywheel (and how leaders apply it) Humility vs. confidence when money, pricing, and negotiation are on the table The difference between method acting and true undercover compartmentalization Why CIA hiring is a masterclass in vetting, training, and capability testing The uncomfortable truth about “manipulation,” motivation, and behavioral control How EverydaySpy skills can upgrade your relationships and business fast Andrew's 30-day business answer: recurring repair = recurring revenue Andrew's book: Shadow Cell (co-authored with Jihi Bustamante) Hachette Book Group Connect with Andrew / @EverydaySpy Website: EverydaySpy.com Instagram: @EverydaySpy X: @EverydaySpy X (formerly Twitter) YouTube: @Andrew-Bustamante A FREE COPY OF JEFF'S Book Discernment Find Out More About Jeff Dudan at www.jeffdudan.com  #Unemployable #JeffDudan #Entrepreneurship #Leadership #BusinessGrowth #Sales #Negotiation #Influence #CommunicationSkills #DecisionMaking #RiskManagement #HighPerformance #Franchising #Mindset #PersonalDevelopment #CIA Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What you'll learn on this episode:Why success in real estate requires full commitment—not half-measuresHow to shift from outcome obsession to mastering the right daily activitiesThe five critical money-making activities every real estate agent must prioritizeThe role of Teach to Sell in building trust, credibility, and authorityHow to set “pre-decision compasses” to stay consistent when things get toughWhy consistent lead generation + conversion is the key to no broke monthsHow to avoid the biggest mistake that keeps agents stuck in meager resultsWhy structured role play and negotiation practice build elite sales confidence To find out more about Dan Rochon and the CPI Community, you can check these links:Website: No Broke MonthsPodcast: No Broke Months for Salespeople PodcastInstagram: @donrochonxFacebook: Dan RochonLinkedIn: Dan RochonTeach to Sell Preorder: Teach to Sell: Why Top Performers Never Sell – And What They Do Instead

What you'll learn in this episode:● How to use automatic presuppositions to create a sense of inevitability in your client's mind● The power of embedded commands and why they make your suggestions more influential● What tie-downs are and how they subtly guide buyers and sellers to agree with you● How to layer multiple NLP techniques in a single conversation for maximum impact● Why effective persuasion isn't manipulation—and how to use these tools ethically in real estate To find out more about Dan Rochon and the CPI Community, you can check these links:Website: No Broke MonthsPodcast: No Broke Months for Salespeople PodcastInstagram: @donrochonxFacebook: Dan RochonLinkedIn: Dan RochonTeach to Sell Preorder: Teach to Sell: Why Top Performers Never Sell – And What They Do Instead

What you'll learn in this episode:● The real reason clients push back and it's not what you think● How to navigate emotional conversations with ease using the CPI model● The psychology behind resistance and how to transform it into agreement● A behind-the-scenes look at launching high-converting sales campaigns● How to use A/B testing with text messaging scripts to improve response rates● The “duck and tickle” method for defusing tough conversations To find out more about Dan Rochon and the CPI Community, you can check these links:Website: No Broke MonthsPodcast: No Broke Months for Salespeople PodcastInstagram: @donrochonxFacebook: Dan RochonLinkedIn: Dan RochonTeach to Sell Preorder: Teach to Sell: Why Top Performers Never Sell – And What They Do Instead

In Episode 19, retired SWAT hostage negotiator Scott Tillema joins Nolan and Aram to share the crisis negotiation skills every leader needs. He explains how understanding, timing, delivery, and respect form the foundation of influence in high-pressure situations. Scott shows why leadership improves when connection becomes the goal and ego moves aside.  He discusses the value of patient listening, the importance of emotional awareness, and the impact of intentional communication. His insights reveal how crisis-tested skills can help leaders guide teams, reduce conflict, and build trust in daily interactions across professional and personal settings.  

This episode makes asking simple and seamless. Discover practical negotiation strategies, language techniques, and mindset shifts to help you advocate for yourself while maintaining strong professional relationships.You'll Learn How To:Silence self-doubt and reframe your mindset so it works for you, not against you Use language and positioning strategies that increase your chances of hearing “yes” Negotiate with confidence and assertiveness—without damaging relationships Build your case in advance so you're fully prepared when it's time to ask Tune In If You Want To:Finally stop second-guessing yourself when talking about money Learn what to say (and not say) when asking for more Get paid what you're worth—without the guilt Some resources for you:Project more confidence and credibility with my free tips: 9 Words to Avoid & What to Say Instead: Words to Avoid | Karen LaosMy book “Trust Your Own Voice”: https://karenlaos.com/book/Episodes also available on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEwQoTGdJX5eME0ccBKiKng/videos Karen Laos, Communication Expert and Confidence Cultivator, leverages 25 years in the boardroom and speaking on the world's most coveted stages such as Google and NASA to transform missed opportunities into wins. She is fiercely committed to her mission of eradicating self-doubt in 10 million women by giving them practical strategies to ask for what they want in the boardroom and beyond. She guides corporations and individuals with her tested communication model to generate consistent results through her Powerful Presence Keynote: How to Be an Influential Communicator. Get my free tips: 9 Words to Avoid & What to Say Instead: https://karenlaos.com/words-to-avoid/ Connect with me:Website: https://www.karenlaos.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karenlaosofficial Facebook: Ignite Your Confidence with Karen Laos: https://www.facebook.com/groups/karenlaosconsultingLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karenlaos/Episodes also available on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEwQoTGdJX5eME0ccBKiKng/videosMy book “Trust Your Own Voice”: https://karenlaos.com/book/

Master Tactical Empathy and Emotional Intelligence Techniques That Transform High-Stakes Conversations Into Collaborative SuccessDo you avoid difficult conversations at work? Does the word "negotiation" make you uncomfortable? You're not alone. Research from Cornell University reveals that many women would rather go to the dentist than negotiate for themselves—yet negotiation is one of the most critical leadership skills you must master to advance your career.Here's the surprising truth: Women leaders actually possess natural strengths that lead to superior negotiation outcomes. New 2025 research from Columbia Business School shows that women's relational negotiation approaches result in 23% fewer impasses and often achieve better deals than aggressive tactics—especially when alternatives are weak.In this groundbreaking episode of the Women's Leadership Success podcast, I sit down with Scott Walker, a former Scotland Yard kidnap negotiator who spent five years negotiating the release of hostages from dangerous criminals. Now a keynote speaker and author of the Sunday Times bestseller "Order Out of Chaos," Scott reveals how the same techniques he used to save lives can transform how women leaders navigate workplace negotiations, difficult conversations, and high-stakes decisions.What Is Negotiation Really? (It's Not What You Think) Negotiation Skills for Women Leaders - Reframing Negotiation as a Conversation With Purpose "Life is one big negotiation," Scott explains. "We're negotiating all day, every day. It's simply a conversation with a purpose—whether you're dealing with kidnappers in a boardroom or with your teenagers who just do not want to do what you want them to do."Most women run from negotiation because they've been taught it's:- Aggressive and confrontational- A sleazy sales tactic- A win-lose battle where someone gets hurt- Incompatible with creating equity in relationshipsBut this outdated view keeps talented women leaders from asking for what they deserve and advocating effectively for their teams.The New Definition of Negotiation for Women Leaders:Negotiation is any conversation where you're looking to:- Influence or persuade others- Bring about cooperation or collaboration- Achieve a specific outcome- Solve a shared problem- Build understanding across different perspectivesWhen you reframe negotiation this way, it becomes less about combat and more about connection—which aligns perfectly with women's documented strengths in relational communication.Why Women's Negotiation Skills Are Actually Superior in Leadership Roles Contrary to persistent myths, recent research reveals that women's negotiation approaches often produce better results:Columbia Business School (September 2025): Women negotiators who use relational strategies achieve better outcomes than those using aggressive tactics, particularly when negotiating from positions with weak alternatives. Their approach of "asking for less but receiving more" avoids impasses that derail deals.Darden Business School (2025): Women who secure leadership positions typically use "shaping strategies"—proposing creative solutions that go beyond the immediate scope of negotiation to create value for both parties. This approach generates better long-term outcomes than traditional positional bargaining.Harvard Program on Negotiation (2025): While women still face backlash for negotiating assertively, those who frame their asks around mutual benefit and relationship preservation achieve similar or better outcomes than aggressive negotiators.The bottom line? Your natural inclination toward relationship-building and creative problem-solving isn't a weakness in negotiation—it's a strategic advantage.Scott Walker's Background: From Scotland Yard to Business Boardrooms The Making of a Master NegotiatorScott Walker spent 16 years as a career detective at Scotland Yard, dealing with organized crime and counter-terrorism investigations.

Welcome to the Master The NEC Podcast, the show where we don't just talk theory — we talk truth about the National Electrical Code, real-world installations, and what it actually takes to be a professional in this trade.I'm your host, Paul Abernathy — The Electrical Guru — and today we're stepping outside the codebook for a minute to talk about something that every contractor faces sooner or later:That gut-twisting moment when a customer suddenly acts like they don't want to pay once the job is done.You've been there — you did the work, passed inspection, the system's clean, neat, and labeled… and now you're standing there with an invoice that's somehow “a surprise” to them.So how do you handle it? How do you protect your business, get paid, and still maintain your professional reputation?Today, I'm sharing 10 proven negotiation tactics that'll help you de-escalate these situations, stay calm, and even turn them into future opportunities.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/master-the-nec-podcast--1083733/support.Struggling with the National Electrical Code? Discover the real difference at Electrical Code Academy, Inc.—where you'll learn from the nation's most down-to-earth NEC expert who genuinely cares about your success. No fluff. No gimmicks. Just the best NEC training you'll actually remember.Visit https://FastTraxSystem.com to learn more.

Welcome to the Master The NEC Podcast, the show where we don't just talk theory — we talk truth about the National Electrical Code, real-world installations, and what it actually takes to be a professional in this trade.I'm your host, Paul Abernathy — The Electrical Guru — and today we're stepping outside the codebook for a minute to talk about something that every contractor faces sooner or later:That gut-twisting moment when a customer suddenly acts like they don't want to pay once the job is done.You've been there — you did the work, passed inspection, the system's clean, neat, and labeled… and now you're standing there with an invoice that's somehow “a surprise” to them.So how do you handle it? How do you protect your business, get paid, and still maintain your professional reputation?Today, I'm sharing 10 proven negotiation tactics that'll help you.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/ask-paul-national-electrical-code--4971115/support.

What if the words you use every day are quietly deciding your success? In this episode of Unemployable with Jeff Dudan, we're joined by one of the most powerful communicators on the planet — Phil M. Jones, the legendary author of Exactly What to Say and one of the world's most in-demand speakers and sales trainers. Phil has taught millions of people across 59 countries how to transform results in business, relationships, and leadership — simply by mastering the language of influence. From boardrooms to living rooms, Phil shows how the right words, spoken with intention, can change everything — your income, your impact, and your relationships. You'll learn how to create tension that drives attention, how to lead critical conversations with empathy and precision, and how to make every word you speak truly count. If you've ever lost a sale, fumbled a tough talk, or felt unheard, this episode will change the way you think about communication forever.

What if the words you use every day are quietly deciding your success? In this episode of Unemployable with Jeff Dudan, we're joined by one of the most powerful communicators on the planet — Phil M. Jones, the legendary author of Exactly What to Say and one of the world's most in-demand speakers and sales trainers. Phil has taught millions of people across 59 countries how to transform results in business, relationships, and leadership — simply by mastering the language of influence. From boardrooms to living rooms, Phil shows how the right words, spoken with intention, can change everything — your income, your impact, and your relationships. You'll learn how to create tension that drives attention, how to lead critical conversations with empathy and precision, and how to make every word you speak truly count. If you've ever lost a sale, fumbled a tough talk, or felt unheard, this episode will change the way you think about communication forever.

In this episode of the Real Estate Pros podcast, Kristen interviews Brandon Waters, an entrepreneur with a diverse portfolio in real estate and digital marketing. Brandon shares his journey from a small farming community to becoming a successful investor, discussing the importance of hard work, integrity, and adaptability in business. He emphasizes the significance of identifying needs in the market, scaling businesses sustainably, and the value of mentorship. The conversation also touches on current market trends and the importance of networking and communication in real estate.   Professional Real Estate Investors - How we can help you: Investor Fuel Mastermind:  Learn more about the Investor Fuel Mastermind, including 100% deal financing, massive discounts from vendors and sponsors you're already using, our world class community of over 150 members, and SO much more here: http://www.investorfuel.com/apply   Investor Machine Marketing Partnership:  Are you looking for consistent, high quality lead generation? Investor Machine is America's #1 lead generation service professional investors. Investor Machine provides true ‘white glove' support to help you build the perfect marketing plan, then we'll execute it for you…talking and working together on an ongoing basis to help you hit YOUR goals! Learn more here: http://www.investormachine.com   Coaching with Mike Hambright:  Interested in 1 on 1 coaching with Mike Hambright? Mike coaches entrepreneurs looking to level up, build coaching or service based businesses (Mike runs multiple 7 and 8 figure a year businesses), building a coaching program and more. Learn more here: https://investorfuel.com/coachingwithmike   Attend a Vacation/Mastermind Retreat with Mike Hambright: Interested in joining a “mini-mastermind” with Mike and his private clients on an upcoming “Retreat”, either at locations like Cabo San Lucas, Napa, Park City ski trip, Yellowstone, or even at Mike's East Texas “Big H Ranch”? Learn more here: http://www.investorfuel.com/retreat   Property Insurance: Join the largest and most investor friendly property insurance provider in 2 minutes. Free to join, and insure all your flips and rentals within minutes! There is NO easier insurance provider on the planet (turn insurance on or off in 1 minute without talking to anyone!), and there's no 15-30% agent mark up through this platform!  Register here: https://myinvestorinsurance.com/   New Real Estate Investors - How we can work together: Investor Fuel Club (Coaching and Deal Partner Community): Looking to kickstart your real estate investing career? Join our one of a kind Coaching Community, Investor Fuel Club, where you'll get trained by some of the best real estate investors in America, and partner with them on deals! You don't need $ for deals…we'll partner with you and hold your hand along the way! Learn More here: http://www.investorfuel.com/club   —--------------------

Before we can negotiate with others, we must first learn to negotiate with ourselves — to balance our inner voices, our fears, and our dreams. Imagine if children were taught early on to recognize their emotions, to pause before reacting, and to choose compassion over self-criticism. How different might their futures be? In a world that often rushes them to grow up too fast, teaching children to understand and value themselves may be one of the most powerful life lessons we can offer.    In this episode, Cindy Watson sits down with the inspiring Armida Espinoza to explore “Teaching Our Children To Negotiate With Themselves.” Armida, a first-generation Mexican American and retired bilingual teacher, has dedicated her life to empowering young minds. As an author and advocate for children's emotional and cognitive development, she brings a powerful message about nurturing self-awareness, confidence, and inner dialogue from an early age. Through her work, Armida encourages children to find their voice, recognize their worth, and understand that no matter their age, they have the power to make a meaningful impact in the world.   This conversation with Armida Espinoza reminds us that self-negotiation isn't just a skill — it's a foundation for resilience, empathy, and authentic confidence.   In this episode, you will learn:   Why it's critical to start learning at a very young age. How can parents or educators support kids in developing their skills? How does the book help children negotiate with fears and uncertainties when they are faced with unfamiliar experiences or environments to learn new things. How can hope be a part of a child's internal negotiation process. How to recognize which voice to listen to. How to negotiate your own inner critic. And many more!   Learn more about Armida: Website: https://www.armidaespinoza.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/armiespinoza/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ArmidaEspinozaAuthor/   Get her book! Amazon US Amazon Canada   If you're looking to up-level your negotiation skills, I have everything from online to group to my signature one-on-one mastermind & VIP experiences available to help you better leverage your innate power to get more of what you want and deserve in life. Check out our website at www.artofFeminineNegotiation.com if that sounds interesting to you.   Get Cindy's book here: Amazon   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1 EBook   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1 Barnes and Noble   https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-art-of-feminine-negotiation-cindy-watson/1141499614?ean=9781631959776 CONNECT WITH CINDY: Website: www.womenonpurpose.ca Website: www.practicingwithpurpose.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/womenonpurposecommunity/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenonpurposecoaching/ LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/thecindywatson Show: https://www.womenonpurpose.ca/media/podcast-2/ X(Twitter):  https://twitter.com/womenonpurpose1 YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@hersuasion Email: cindy@womenonpurpose.ca

What does it really mean to live a happier life? So many people chase success, achievements, or external validation, only to discover that joy still feels just out of reach. In this episode, your host, Cindy Watson sits down with Dr. Ron Schneebaum for a powerful conversation on Negotiating a Bigger Heart: Life Lessons From a Pediatrician Turned Author.    With over 40 years as a primary care pediatrician, Dr. Schneebaum witnessed firsthand how deeply love impacts the human spirit—how it nurtures resilience, strengthens self-worth, and elevates joy. Now retired from clinical practice, he has dedicated himself to helping broader audiences discover pathways to healing and happiness. As a Diplomate of the American Board of Pediatrics, a fellow of the American Academy of Pediatrics, and the author of Bigger Hearted: A Retired Pediatrician's Prescriptions for Living a Happier Life, he brings wisdom and compassion to every platform—whether through his book, podcast, workshops, lectures, or consultations. Together, Cindy and Dr. Schneebaum explore how love can be the ultimate negotiation tool for living a fuller, more meaningful life.   In this episode, we will discover:   Discover how vulnerability can be your strength The role emotion plays in the negotiation How compassion or soft skills are undervalued in the profession The role emotional intelligence play in resolving conflict or negotiating difficult conversations The importance of Self-care and being kind to yourself and how to develop good feelings How to develop good feelings The biggest problem in medicine And many more!   Learn more about Dr. Ron Schneebaum:   Website: https://www.biggerhearted.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerHearted/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biggerhearted Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@biggerhearted LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ronschneebaum/   Get his book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DQK171YM   If you're looking to up-level your negotiation skills, I have everything from online to group to my signature one-on-one mastermind & VIP experiences available to help you better leverage your innate power to get more of what you want and deserve in life. Check out our website at www.artofFeminineNegotiation.com if that sounds interesting to you.   Get Cindy's book here: Amazon   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1 EBook   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1 Barnes and Noble   https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-art-of-feminine-negotiation-cindy-watson/1141499614?ean=9781631959776 CONNECT WITH CINDY: Website: www.womenonpurpose.ca Website: www.practicingwithpurpose.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/womenonpurposecommunity/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenonpurposecoaching/ LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/thecindywatson Show: https://www.womenonpurpose.ca/media/podcast-2/ X(Twitter):  https://twitter.com/womenonpurpose1 YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@hersuasion Email: cindy@womenonpurpose.ca

In this episode of Negotiate X in Rewind, hosts Aram Donigian and Nolan Martin sit down with negotiation strategist Keld Jensen to explore the intersection of Trust, Strategy & the Science of Negotiation. Keld reveals why negotiation isn't instinct—it's a learned discipline grounded in research and structure.  Additionally, he introduces his SMARTnership approach, explaining how trust, clear strategy, and measurable value creation transform deals into true collaborations. From redefining partnership to using data-driven insights that uncover hidden value, this episode challenges professionals to approach negotiation scientifically—balancing analytical rigor with human connection for lasting results.  

We all carry wounds—some visible, others tucked away deep inside. But what if those very wounds could become the source of your greatest strength? What if the challenges you've encountered could be used as springboards to help you regain your voice, your purpose, and your power? Today's conversation is about that transformation—about rising from the ashes, embracing your inner warrior, and discovering how feminine negotiation can become a tool for healing and empowerment.   In today's episode, Cindy Watson sits down with Tiffany Owen for a powerful and inspiring conversation on From Wounded to Warrior: Reclaiming Power Through Feminine Negotiation. Tiffany is a transformational health and mindset coach, a sought-after keynote speaker, and a published author whose mission is to help people rise from the ashes of their past and step fully into the lives they were meant to live. Together, Cindy and Tiffany will explore how embracing feminine negotiation principles can help you shift from a place of pain to one of strength, reclaiming your power and rewriting your story.   Key takeaways:   How to negotiate yourself and turn pain into purpose. What are some of the biggest mindset blocks? How to identify limiting beliefs and the things that you're saying to yourself that are holding you back. How to reclaim your power. The role forgiveness plays. How does the physical fitness piece intersect with that emotional or psychological empowerment? And many more!   Learn more about Tiffany.   Website: https://coachtiffanyowen.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tiffany.owen.991325/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tiffany-owen-texas/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachtiffanyowen/   FREE GIFT!!!   Send a DM to Tiffany to any of her platform to claim your free gift, the keyword is “Power”.   If you're looking to up-level your negotiation skills, I have everything from online to group to my signature one-on-one mastermind & VIP experiences available to help you better leverage your innate power to get more of what you want and deserve in life. Check out our website at www.artofFeminineNegotiation.com if that sounds interesting to you.   Get Cindy's book here: Amazon   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1 EBook   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1 Barnes and Noble   https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-art-of-feminine-negotiation-cindy-watson/1141499614?ean=9781631959776 CONNECT WITH CINDY: Website: www.womenonpurpose.ca Website: www.practicingwithpurpose.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/womenonpurposecommunity/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenonpurposecoaching/ LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/thecindywatson Show: https://www.womenonpurpose.ca/media/podcast-2/ X(Twitter):  https://twitter.com/womenonpurpose1 YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@hersuasion Email: cindy@womenonpurpose.ca  

Too often, money is seen as cold, rigid, and disconnected from purpose. But what happens when we approach finance through a more human, heart-centered lens? What if money could align with mission—and leadership could balance strength and empathy? In today's episode, your host, Cindy Watson, sits down with Anastasija Ristovska for a powerful conversation on Money Meets Mission: Feminine Leadership in the Financial World. Together, we will explore how feminine leadership is reshaping the financial world, offering a fresh perspective on how we manage, measure, and ultimately make peace with money.    Anastasija is a financial expert, educator, and entrepreneur who is reshaping the way small businesses and accounting firms think about bookkeeping and financial strategy. As co-founder of Books at Ease, an online accounting agency that partners with small and medium-sized U.S.-based businesses—especially those without a CFO or internal accounting team—she helps leaders gain clarity, confidence, and control over their finances. In this interview, we'll explore how money and mission intersect and how feminine leadership can transform the financial landscape.   In this episode, you will discover: Myths about financial success. How to empower your team to step into leadership and negotiate their value. what are some other traits that would typically be considered so-called feminine traits that you find actually have helped you lead and scale your ventures? The different feminine traits that shows weaknesses and strengths. What it means to be a leader. The definition of feminism. Advice for negotiating for growth.   Learn more about Anastasija Ristovska:   Website: https://booksatease.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BooksAtEase1/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/books-at-ease/   If you're looking to up-level your negotiation skills, I have everything from online to group to my signature one-on-one mastermind & VIP experiences available to help you better leverage your innate power to get more of what you want and deserve in life. Check out our website at www.artofFeminineNegotiation.com if that sounds interesting to you.   Get Cindy's book here: Amazon   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1 EBook   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1 Barnes and Noble   https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-art-of-feminine-negotiation-cindy-watson/1141499614?ean=9781631959776 CONNECT WITH CINDY: Website: www.womenonpurpose.ca Website: www.practicingwithpurpose.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/womenonpurposecommunity/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenonpurposecoaching/ LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/thecindywatson Show: https://www.womenonpurpose.ca/media/podcast-2/ X(Twitter):  https://twitter.com/womenonpurpose1 YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@hersuasion Email: cindy@womenonpurpose.ca

In this episode of the Real Estate Pros podcast, host Erika chats with Jamie Mazuryk, a former police officer turned real estate agent. Jamie shares how her protective instincts and direct communication style shape her approach, emphasizing client education, honesty, and preparation for homeownership. She discusses the impact of new buyer broker laws, the importance of strong relationships and negotiation, and her passion for helping clients build wealth. Driven to protect, empower, and inspire, Jamie views every challenge in real estate as an opportunity to serve others.   Professional Real Estate Investors - How we can help you: Investor Fuel Mastermind:  Learn more about the Investor Fuel Mastermind, including 100% deal financing, massive discounts from vendors and sponsors you're already using, our world class community of over 150 members, and SO much more here: http://www.investorfuel.com/apply   Investor Machine Marketing Partnership:  Are you looking for consistent, high quality lead generation? Investor Machine is America's #1 lead generation service professional investors. Investor Machine provides true ‘white glove' support to help you build the perfect marketing plan, then we'll execute it for you…talking and working together on an ongoing basis to help you hit YOUR goals! Learn more here: http://www.investormachine.com   Coaching with Mike Hambright:  Interested in 1 on 1 coaching with Mike Hambright? Mike coaches entrepreneurs looking to level up, build coaching or service based businesses (Mike runs multiple 7 and 8 figure a year businesses), building a coaching program and more. Learn more here: https://investorfuel.com/coachingwithmike   Attend a Vacation/Mastermind Retreat with Mike Hambright: Interested in joining a “mini-mastermind” with Mike and his private clients on an upcoming “Retreat”, either at locations like Cabo San Lucas, Napa, Park City ski trip, Yellowstone, or even at Mike's East Texas “Big H Ranch”? Learn more here: http://www.investorfuel.com/retreat   Property Insurance: Join the largest and most investor friendly property insurance provider in 2 minutes. Free to join, and insure all your flips and rentals within minutes! There is NO easier insurance provider on the planet (turn insurance on or off in 1 minute without talking to anyone!), and there's no 15-30% agent mark up through this platform!  Register here: https://myinvestorinsurance.com/   New Real Estate Investors - How we can work together: Investor Fuel Club (Coaching and Deal Partner Community): Looking to kickstart your real estate investing career? Join our one of a kind Coaching Community, Investor Fuel Club, where you'll get trained by some of the best real estate investors in America, and partner with them on deals! You don't need $ for deals…we'll partner with you and hold your hand along the way! Learn More here: http://www.investorfuel.com/club   —--------------------

Why what isn't said can communicate more than what is spoken.We often speak in hints and half-truths, not because we can't be direct, but because subtlety protects our relationships. “An awful lot of the time, we don't just blurt out what we mean,” says Steven Pinker. “We hint, we wink, we beat around the bush — counting on our listener to read between the lines, connect the dots, catch our drift.”Pinker is the Johnstone Professor of Psychology at Harvard University, a celebrated linguist and cognitive scientist, and the author of twelve influential books. His latest, When Everyone Knows That Everyone Knows: Common Knowledge and the Mysteries of Money, Power, and Everyday Life, explores how our shared understanding of awareness — what Steven refers to as common knowledge — and the way we signal it, governs everything from friendships to authority to negotiations. “Common knowledge is what ratifies or annuls social relationships, and that's why blurting something out that contradicts the assumptions of the relationship can blow everything up and be deeply awkward.” In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Pinker joins host Matt Abrahams to discuss why humans lean on innuendo, euphemism, and strategic ambiguity. They examine how culture and context shape what we hear, why our social fabric depends on more than just literal meaning, and offer practical ways to refine our communication by paying attention not just to what we say, but to what others know we know.To listen to the extended Deep Thinks version of this episode, please visit FasterSmarter.io/premium.Episode Reference Links:Steven PinkerSteven's Book: When Everyone Knows That Everyone KnowsEp.91 Um, Like, So: How Filler Words Can Create More Connected, Effective CommunicationEp.225 Speaking Fluent Internet: How Algorithms Are Changing the Way We Speak  Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (02:23) - Why We Speak Indirectly (06:39) - The Role of Context (10:35) - Cross-Cultural Perspectives (11:51) - Hypocrisy as Social Glue (13:43) - Clarity, Conciseness, & Grace (17:07) - Metaphors We Live By (20:06) - The Final Three Questions (24:02) - Conclusion ********Thank you to our sponsors.  These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.Build a better website with Squarespace today. Try Squarespace free for 14 days and receive 10% off your first purchase Become a Faster Smarter Supporter by joining TFTS Premium.  

Conflict is often seen as something to fear—something disruptive, divisive, and best avoided. But what if we've misunderstood its true nature? What if, instead of being a problem, conflict is an invitation—an opening to deeper understanding, connection, and transformation?   In this episode, your host, Cindy Watson sits down with Ursula Taylor to explore a transformative approach to one of the most misunderstood dynamics in human interaction—conflict. Together, they'll be reimagining conflict not as something to avoid or suppress, but as a powerful opportunity for connection, growth, and transformation. Ursula Taylor believes exactly that. As a former litigator turned conflict resolution consultant, she has come to see that the root of most disputes isn't found in facts, laws, or arguments—but in human emotion. And when we learn to address that core truth, everything changes.   This conversation is a call to rethink everything we thought we knew about conflict. To stop managing it—and start reimagining it.   Key takeaways:   What is the driving force that keeps us in a protracted dispute or tension point? Definition of conflict and the common misconception about it. In what ways do traditional conflict resolution methods differ from a more empathetic and feminine approach? The role empathy plays in conflict. Internal and external strategies How to distinguish between healthy boundaries versus avoidance in conflict. And many more!   Learn more about Ursula:   Website: https://conflictreimagined.com/ LinkedIn: Ursula Taylor   If you're looking to up-level your negotiation skills, I have everything from online to group to my signature one-on-one mastermind & VIP experiences available to help you better leverage your innate power to get more of what you want and deserve in life. Check out our website at www.artofFeminineNegotiation.com if that sounds interesting to you. Get Cindy's book here:   Amazon   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1   EBook   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1   Barnes and Noble   https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-art-of-feminine-negotiation-cindy-watson/1141499614?ean=9781631959776 CONNECT WITH CINDY: Website: www.womenonpurpose.ca Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/womenonpurposecommunity/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenonpurposecoaching/ LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/thecindywatson Show: https://www.womenonpurpose.ca/media/podcast-2/ (X) Twitter:  https://twitter.com/womenonpurpose1 YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@hersuasion Email:cindy@womenonpurpose.ca

Be ready, stay grounded, and communicate clearly — no matter what's at stake.Communicating under pressure isn't just a useful skill — it can be the difference between escalation and resolution. For Chris Voss, former FBI hostage negotiator and CEO of The Black Swan Group, it's a daily discipline built on empathy, self-regulation, and intentional listening. In this expanded conversation from our Spontaneous Speaking miniseries, Voss offers a rare window into the mindset and methods that helped him show up calm, focused, and adaptable when the pressure is sky-high.“Emotional intelligence is an insane accelerator to outcomes,” Voss shares, explaining how empathy, tone, and timing can shift the direction of any conversation. He breaks down techniques like labeling and mirroring, explores how to use silence and word choice strategically, and explains why overthinking can be just as risky as acting too fast. From gut-level pattern recognition to tactical use of voice, Voss shows how communication becomes more impactful when we're not trying to control — but to connect.In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Voss and host Matt Abrahams dive into how negotiation techniques developed for life-or-death situations can be applied far beyond them — offering powerful takeaways for anyone who needs to think clearly under pressure, stay agile in the moment, and communicate effectively when it matters most.Episode Reference Links:Chris Voss Chris's Book: Never Split the Difference Ep.197 Prep or Perish: Mastering In-the-Moment Communication (1 of 3)Ep.198 Pause and Effect: Mastering In-the-Moment Communication (2 of 3)Ep.199 Blunder Pressure: Mastering In-the-Moment Communication (3 of 3)Ep.203 No Script, No Problem: Final Secrets to Speaking Under Pressure (Bonus)   Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (02:50) - Path to Hostage Negotiation (03:42) - Power of Emotional Intelligence (05:00) - Staying Calm Under Pressure (06:10) - Mental Prep & Mindset (07:18) - Trusting Your Gut (07:58) - Avoiding Overthinking (09:01) - Flexibility in Negotiations (10:15) - Listen More, Talk Less (10:31) - Labeling & Mirroring (12:51) - Tone Shapes Impact (14:06) - The Final Three Questions (19:37) - Conclusion  *****Thank you to our sponsors:Strawberry.me. Get $50 off coaching today at Strawberry.me/smartSupport Think Fast Talk Smart by joining TFTS Premium.     

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The path to fertility can be one of the most profound negotiations a woman will ever face—not just with doctors, treatments, or her own body, but with her sense of identity, self-worth, and surrender. For many, the journey is filled with hope and heartbreak, resilience and renewal. It challenges us to redefine what strength looks like, and how much control we're willing—or able—to let go of. In this space, where science meets spirit and determination meets grace, women are called to lean into their deepest feminine power.   In this episode, Cindy Watson sits down with Monica Cox to explore The Ultimate Feminine Negotiation: Fertility, Surrender, and Self-Worth. Monica is a Holistic Functional Fertility Health Coach, a certified Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner, Subconscious Empowerment Facilitator, and renowned Fertility Issues Solver. As both a miscarriage survivor and IVF mom, she brings deep personal insight and professional expertise to her work. Monica helps women who feel like they've “tried everything” finally uncover what their bodies truly need to conceive and carry to term—without exhausting themselves with endless protocols, restrictive diets, or overwhelming treatments. This conversation invites us to reimagine fertility not as a battle to be fought, but as a relationship to be nurtured—with ourselves, our bodies, and our dreams of motherhood.   In this episode, you will learn:   How does the fertility journey reflect our inner negotiation with our self-worth, or even our identity? What does it mean to negotiate with your body? How surrender can actually be a negotiation of strength. Radical responsibility, the boldest feminine power move. How to deal with burnout. And many more!   Learn more about Monica:   Website: https://www.findingfertility.co/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@findingfertility Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/findingfertility/ Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-fertility/id1467058429 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCARY6ftLoWk5-N9FHVYtzHw If you're looking to up-level your negotiation skills, I have everything from online to group to my signature one-on-one mastermind & VIP experiences available to help you better leverage your innate power to get more of what you want and deserve in life. Check out our website at www.artofFeminineNegotiation.com if that sounds interesting to you.   Get Cindy's book here: Amazon   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1 EBook   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1 Barnes and Noble   https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-art-of-feminine-negotiation-cindy-watson/1141499614?ean=9781631959776 CONNECT WITH CINDY: Website: www.womenonpurpose.ca Website: www.practicingwithpurpose.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/womenonpurposecommunity/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenonpurposecoaching/ LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/thecindywatson Show: https://www.womenonpurpose.ca/media/podcast-2/ X(Twitter):  https://twitter.com/womenonpurpose1 YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@hersuasion Email: cindy@womenonpurpose.ca

What if the very thing that made you feel different—like an outsider, or not enough—was actually your greatest strength? Too often, we're taught to downplay or hide the parts of ourselves that don't fit the mold. But what if embracing those differences could unlock new levels of personal power, purpose, and possibility?   In this compelling conversation, your host, Cindy Watson will interview John Kippen. John Kippen's journey is a testament to the transformative magic of owning your story. From navigating adversity to rising as a CEO, coach, and world-class magician, John didn't succeed in spite of his difference—he succeeded because of it.   This episode is a reminder that when we shift our mindset, reclaim our power, and negotiate from a place of authenticity, our so-called weaknesses can become our greatest assets. So lean in, listen closely, and get ready to discover how your difference might just be your superpower.   In this episode, you will discover:   How to reframe your difference as an advantage. How to own your unique qualities and show up with confidence during negotiations. How to deal with people who underestimated you. How to navigate the line between vulnerability and strength. How does vulnerability makes you stronger. And many more!   Learn more about John:   Website: https://www.johnkippen.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kippen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/johnkippen/ X: https://x.com/johnkippen   Free gift: https://www.johnkippen.com/freegift   If you're looking to up-level your negotiation skills, I have everything from online to group to my signature one-on-one mastermind & VIP experiences available to help you better leverage your innate power to get more of what you want and deserve in life. Check out our website at www.artofFeminineNegotiation.com if that sounds interesting to you.   Get Cindy's book here: Amazon   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1 EBook   https://www.amazon.com/Art-Feminine-Negotiation-Boardroom-Bedroom-ebook/dp/B0B8KPCYZP?inf_contact_key=94d07c699eea186d2adfbddfef6fb9e2&inf_contact_key=013613337189d4d12be8d2bca3c26821680f8914173f9191b1c0223e68310bb1 Barnes and Noble   https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-art-of-feminine-negotiation-cindy-watson/1141499614?ean=9781631959776 CONNECT WITH CINDY: Website: www.womenonpurpose.ca Website: www.practicingwithpurpose.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/womenonpurposecommunity/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenonpurposecoaching/ LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/thecindywatson Show: https://www.womenonpurpose.ca/media/podcast-2/ X(Twitter):  https://twitter.com/womenonpurpose1 YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@hersuasion Email: cindy@womenonpurpose.ca