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On this week's episode of Missin Curfew, the boys are back with a rundown of all things hockey and more. Coming off Cinco de Mayo, Obs had some fun at the Big Canyon fiesta, while Updogg took in game 2 of the Vegas-Edmonton series from the second row of T-Mobile Arena. With the news about about Gabriel Landeskog's injury dropping shortly before the recording, the fellas each had some feelings to express.The conversation then takes a wild turn as they discuss Trainwreck Woodstock 99', a documentary on Netflix which covers the chaos that ensued during the festival. In the AHL, Obs has a shout for Chase De Leo who won Man of the Year. And they take a trip down memory lane, comparing this year's Team Canada roster in the World Championship to the one Uppy played on in 2009. Curfew Calls features a loyal listener sticking up for the Updogg in one of the most legendary calls to date.Then getting into NHL news, they discuss the recent NHL Draft Lottery with the Chicago Blackhawks getting the #1 pick, Gerard Gallant's firing, and the finalist announcement of some NHL Awards. In addition to going into all 4 second round playoff series', the fellas give out some beers to guys doing some f*cking, and place a few others on the milk carton for their lack of performance. Tune in for another entertaining and informative episode of Missin Curfew, full of predictions, laughs, off-ice antics and more!
Loved having people's thoughts on buffets and then a 2ND DATE UPDATE that sparked convo on changing you eating habits for love and Obie's dad is still the manny of the house over the kids
Join Obie and Updogg for a great conversation with Calgary Flames defenseman and friend of the pod, MacKenzie Weegar! The fellas chat about his year-end bender and escape to the sun after the Flames season ended. Weegsy baby also shares his insights on Calgary's performance down the stretch and his experiences battling against Connor McDavid in the Battle of Alberta. The fellas discuss their favorite moments from Darryl Sutter's tenure as coach, including some classic moments. They also talk about the Flames' offseason moves and what changes they can expect for the upcoming season. Weegsy talks about his impact on Calgary's new barn, and the owner's pitch for naming rights. And with World Championships right around the corner, they hit on Weegsy playing for Team Canada, and what the experience was like for the Updogg. Tune in for all this and more!
After taking it on the chin in Round 1, Obie and Updogg try to rebound on their predictions for Round 2 of the Stanley Cup Playoffs! After back to back to back wild Game 7's to close out the 1st round, the fellas have a lot to discuss, from the teams moving on to the ones that are now teeing it up! The Oilers are now their new favorites, while the Panthers are now a dark horse in the east that no one wants to run into. Outside of the NHL, Obs admires the big weekend the NFL put on at their draft, and he's got a shoutout for some good 'ol Port Hope boys tearing it up in the OHL playoffs. In Uppy's world, he's riding high after jumping on the Kraken and Devil's bandwagons in round 1. Tune in for another entertaining and informative episode full of hockey talk, gambling insights, off-ice antics, and more!
Chris Buttenham, CEO and Co Founder of Obie (acquired by Seismic), joins the show to talk aboutHow Chris' experience installing security cameras that led to the customer insight behind founding ObieCreating and falling into startup categoriesThe process Chris took to successfully sell Obie to Lessonly and Seismic. Suggestions on how to grow the aSaaSins podcast
We opened up the lines with the question "worst part of divorce". Plus, Obie's got an issue when his wife is the storyteller of their lives at a party and then a 2ND DATE UPDATE where he preferred to text
We're hearing Slater's story about superstitions and then Obie's daughter blew everyone's socks off and then a 2ND DATE UPDATE that had us talking bout silly last names!
On today's show former NHL player and coach Rick Tocchet joins us to talk about his transition back to coaching with the Vancouver Canucks. The fellas also gets Tocchet's thoughts on the playoffs, his friendship with Wayne Gretzky, and some fun Gozzer Ranch stories! Tocchet also talks about working for TNT and gives some insight into the Vancouver Canucks offseason. Don't miss this candid conversation with one of the most respected names in the NHL.
Plus, Chloe had her speaking engagement at UCF, The Clubs and Bars will be experiencing some major changes after this weekend and the most streamed 2ND DATE UPDATE of the week is next!
The Fellas are back in the studio and heated up over the recent news about Cale Makar's suspension from Game 5 of Round 1 of the Stanley Cup Playoffs! In 'Uppy's World,' Scottie recaps his recent weekend trip to Seattle to take in the first ever Kraken playoff game inside Climate Pledge Arena, while Obie spent his weekend rubbing elbows with superstars in Vegas at the Garcia vs. Davis fight.With the playoffs well under way, the Milk Carton has plenty of worthy recipients, including someone from Twitter that Uppy has to air out some beef with, and of course, the refs! Following some in depth discussions regarding the state of each Round 1 series, Obs and Updogg hand out some Labatt Blue's to a few fellas that have been out there F@cking so far in the playoffs! All in all, it's another entertaining and informative episode full of hockey talk, gambling insights, and off-ice antics.
It's Obie's bday and both Slater and Chloe have surprises up their sleeve Plus, we're revisiting all the winners that got their hands on $1000 yesterday and more money today!
Episode 191 - Obelit “Obie” Yadgar is an Assyrian-American radio personality from Glendale, Wisconsin. He was born in Baghdad, Iraq. Raised in Tehran, he moved to the United States in 1957. He was drafted into the US Army's 4th Infantry Division, serving as a combat correspondent in Vietnam in 1967 and 1968. In this episode we talk about his time in Vietnam, his connection to music and the radio, the loss of his mom and wife, and the art of shaving.
In this episode, former NHLer Sean Avery (@imseanavery) and actor Kevin Connolly (@mrkevinconnolly) join the fellas from the APM Studios. Aves shares his opinions on Blue Light, while Conz had some recent excitement due to bitcoin. Then the conversation veers toward Avery's time playing for the Rangers, including a discussion about team gear and practice fights. He also enlightens Obs and the Updogg on the benefits of jiu-jitsu, how it stacks up to golf for him, and what future role he and Conz would be perfect for. Then they dive into NHL playoffs predictions, with Avery expressing his concerns about the Devils and Obie rooting for the Rangers. They also discuss the Leafs vs. Lightning series and which team has the upper hand. Finally, the group shares their thoughts on watching NHL games on ESPN versus TNT and who some of their favorite up and coming musical acts are. It's another lively episode full of laughs and interesting insights from two guests with unique perspectives on the NHL and entertainment industries.
The fellas have some laughs at Uppy's expense to get this one started, as he's a little banged up in the studio today after a minor scooter incidence. But we don't feel too bad for him, as he spent the weekend in Palm Springs for his brother Brento's birthday checking out the Firebirds and teeing it up with Justin Bieber! Then it was off to Tahoe for him and the crew in remembrance of the late Chris Tschupp. Moving onto the NHL playoffs, the guys make their predictions for the first round matchups, causing some controversy and heated debates. They also discuss Larry Bettman's fantasy league and what the teams that missed the playoffs need to do to improve for next season. Finally, the episode wraps up with the Labatt's "Get This Guy a Beer" segment and the Cannadips "The Milk Carton" segment. All in all, it's another entertaining and informative episode of Missin Curfew, full of predictions, laughs, and off-ice antics.
Slater hit the streets again with Morgan Wallen tix and then Obie's kids went to the dentist and came out with a large bill. Plus, we have a date gone wrong with Gene and Tiffany
Plus, more of your Morgan Wallen tix out in the streets near you! We also had a 2ND DATE Update where his coffee gesture burned him and their relationship
In today's episode the fellas are joined by former NHLer Jason Strudwick to discuss his love for traveling, his relationship with "Noodles", and his thoughts on the current state of the game. Strudwick shares his favorite cities to visit and play in, and discusses the importance of hard work and playing to win, regardless of a team's standing. The conversation turns to the Edmonton Oilers, and Strudwick offers his insight on the team's future, including the impressive young players in their system and the importance of depth in winning championships. The fellas also touch on Evander Kane's role in the league. Overall, Strudwick offers a unique perspective on the game and what it takes to succeed at the highest level.
The fellas are back in the studio and ready to snap it around this week with a TON to rehash in the NHL and all over the sports universe. Obs delves into more details about his Pamela Anderson story, then shares love for the movie Air. Updogg came up unlucky on his Masters picks, and both of the fellas were able to see the Jays take the field in person last weekend.Then in the rundown they dive into the NHL playoff scenarios as we inch closer! The Bedard tankathon is nearly over for some of the bottom teams in the league, and Obs has some words for the Canucks' captain after his recent remarks. Finally, we have the last Milk Carton of the regular season, and there are some guys heading to the playoffs that are f@cking.
Jared Mezzocchi (jaredmezzocchi.com)(TW:@JaredMezzocchi) is an two-time Obie Award-winning theater artist, working most notably as a director and multimedia designer. Mezzocchi's work has appeared at theaters nationwide, including the Kennedy Center, the Geffen Playhouse, Vineyard Theater, Arena Stage, Woolly Mammoth (company member), Milwaukee Rep, South Coast Rep, Portland Centerstage, and many more. In 2016, he received an Obie, Lucille Lortel and Henry Hewes Award for his work in Qui Nguyen's “Vietgone” at the Manhattan Theatre club. In 2020, the New York Times spotlighted his multimedia innovations during the pandemic alongside the work of four other theater artists, including Andrew Lloyd Webber and Paula Vogel. His work on Sarah Gancher's digital premiere of “Russian Troll Farm” (co-director & multimedia designer, and second Obie) was also celebrated as a New York Times critic pick, and praised for being one of the first digitally native successes for virtual theater. Mezzocchi is a two-time Macdowell Artist Fellow, a 2012 Princess Grace Award winner, and is an Associate Professor at The University of Maryland, where he teaches in the MFA Design program for the projection and multimedia track. He grew up in New Hampshire, and returns every summer to serve as Producing Artistic Director of Andy's Summer Playhouse, an innovative children's theater producing original work by professional artists from across the country.
2Eleven returns with Jolt!Welcome to Session Zero for Jolt! A Champions Now actual play. I feel like I must remind you I do not receive any kickbacks for the millions of Champions Now sessions, content, or name drops!
Slater's been coming up w ways to win these Morgan Wallen tix he stole from the boss that the boss (who's pissed) will actually approve. Plus, Obie's kids are getting the full grandpa experience w their Manny
What's it been like growing into one of the most influential Church Leaders in America, having a super sized family of 8 kids, a thriving coffee brand w/ AXUM Coffee and a non profit that saves children in need w/ Love Made Visible? It's Obie here and with him being my Pastor, I'm not holding back. Meet Renaut Van Der Riet
Obie and Updogg are joined in studio this week by the shortest goalie to ever suit up in the NHL and current broadcaster Darren Pang (@Panger40)! They discuss a range of topics, including the best chirpers in the game today, the prevalence of power plays in today's NHL, and the impressive play of Clayton Keller. Pang also shares his experiences meeting the legendary Wayne Gretzky, the NHL's TNT broadcasting deal, and even includes a look at some of Pang's most memorable goalie gear.
Jared Mezzocchi (jaredmezzocchi.com)(TW:@JaredMezzocchi) is an two-time Obie Award-winning theater artist, working most notably as a director and multimedia designer. Mezzocchi's work has appeared at theaters nationwide, including the Kennedy Center, the Geffen Playhouse, Vineyard Theater, Arena Stage, Woolly Mammoth (company member), Milwaukee Rep, South Coast Rep, Portland Centerstage, and many more. In 2016, he received an Obie, Lucille Lortel and Henry Hewes Award for his work in Qui Nguyen's “Vietgone” at the Manhattan Theatre club. In 2020, the New York Times spotlighted his multimedia innovations during the pandemic alongside the work of four other theater artists, including Andrew Lloyd Webber and Paula Vogel. His work on Sarah Gancher's digital premiere of “Russian Troll Farm” (co-director & multimedia designer, and second Obie) was also celebrated as a New York Times critic pick, and praised for being one of the first digitally native successes for virtual theater. Mezzocchi is a two-time Macdowell Artist Fellow, a 2012 Princess Grace Award winner, and is an Associate Professor at The University of Maryland, where he teaches in the MFA Design program for the projection and multimedia track. He grew up in New Hampshire, and returns every summer to serve as Producing Artistic Director of Andy's Summer Playhouse, an innovative children's theater producing original work by professional artists from across the country.
Jerry Zaks currently directs his 26th Broadway show, The Music Man. He has received four Tony Awards and been nominated eight times. He's also received four Drama Desks, two Outer Critics Circle Awards, and an Obie. His credits include Mrs. Doubtfire, Hello, Dolly!, A Bronx Tale: the musical, Steve Martin's Meteor Shower, Nantucket Sleigh Ride, Shows For Days, Sister Act, The Addams Family, Guys and Dolls, Six Degrees of Separation, Lend Me a Tenor, House of Blue Leaves, The Front Page, A Funny Thing...Forum, Smokey Joe's Café, Anything Goes, La Cage aux Folles, Little Shop of Horrors, The Man Who Came to Dinner, The Foreigner, A Bronx Tale, Laughter on the 23rd Floor, and the original production of Assassins. He began his career directing the extraordinary plays of Christopher Durang including Sister Mary Ignatius..., Beyond Therapy, Baby with the Bath Water, and The Marriage of Bette and Boo. He directed the award-winning film Marvin's Room, starring Meryl Streep and Diane Keaton; and Who Do You Love, which was featured in the Toronto Film Festival. Mr. Zaks is a founding member, and serves on the board, of the Ensemble Studio Theater. He received the SDC's George Abbott Award for Lifetime Achievement in the Theatre. Philanthropic/Activist Causes: Ensemble Studio Theatre
Partnerem odcinka jest wydawnictwo Czwarta Strona Kryminału, za sprawą którego w Polsce właśnie ukazała się książka "Rzeźnik i Strzyżyk" Alainy Urquhart. Link do zakupu książki ➡ https://bit.ly/3Kd4GyG Zbrodnia po polsku to seria, w której przedstawiam 16 polskich spraw, po jednej z każdego województwa. Dziś zaczniemy od województwa małopolskiego, a potem przeniesiemy się na Śląsk. Opowiem Wam historie kobiet, które zaufały temu samemu mężczyźnie i źle na tym wyszły. ------------------------------------------------------------------- PATRONITE: https://patronite.pl/kryminalnehistorie E-BOOK: www.kryminalnehistorie.com/ebook Dziękuję także moim Patronom, którzy wspierają mnie na Patronite oraz osobom wspierającym na Youtube :) A także za każdą inną formę Waszego wsparcia! Przypominam, że podcast tworzony jest na podstawie ogólnodostępnych źródeł, które znajdziecie poniżej :) ☛ Sklep: https://kryminalnehistorie.com/sklep ☛ Facebook: http://www.facebook.pl/kryminalne0historie ☛ Grupa na Facebooku: https://www.facebook.com/groups/kryminalnehistorie ☛ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kryminalne ☛ Youtube: https://youtu.be/J2tDw-dn36M ☛ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4MP3dZZu5efb5qvPSXu89k ☛ iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/pl/podcast/krym…ie/id1474480349 ☛ Mail: kryminalnehistorie@gmail.com ✔Montaż: Paulina Kulpińska ✔Animacja w intro została stworzona przez Sławka: www.vimeo.com/smdesigns ✔Muzyka: - Kai Engel - Great Expectations - Slow Hammers ✔Źródła: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1f9ELxJ1sasm7ACnifztISUFH6qO0Ej_CfpWTbD7Ohds/edit?usp=sharing
Well, Obie’s officially stolen a car. So has Liz, but that feels less notable. The team made off with this The post C2E65. In the Rain (Clear Skies Part 5) first appeared on Nerd & Tie Podcast Network.
In this episode, Obie's back from a quick trip to Canada, and Updogg has returned from a weekend in Aspen! For once Obie shows some love to a ref, as they dive a little deeper into the career of a Linesman. Then with Master's Week upon us, the fellas give their predictions on who they think will do well this year. The NHL playoffs are right around the corner, so Obie and Uppy had to take a deeper look into a few of the teams on the bubble, including Calgary, Winnipeg, Florida, Pittsburgh, and the Islanders! Then they're handing out beers to some National Leaguers who've been f@ckin and putting a couple others on the Milk Carton for their performances lately. Tune in for all this and more on the latest edition of Missin Curfew!
Obie and Chloe get into sexy jobs after a 2ND DATE UPDATE where she taught spin class. Plus, Obie's still looking out for the family's new nanny!
Insurance Dudes: Helping Insurance Agency Owners Gain Business Leverage
In this episode, we are going to talk about Insurance, AI, and Tech. Will AI take over Insurance? See what Matt Sutika has to say about this. A discussion about how artificial intelligence is impacting the insurance industry. Is Insurance Simple? Insurance is often perceived as a complex industry. However, that's not the case. If a customer requires internet leads, provide them with what they ask for. Ending with Matt's Advice; It's not to make it through in insurance, it's grind, grind, grind, till you hit it up. Tune in for a fun conversation on insurance and much more. Highlights:15:06- AI is going to take over?27:13- Insurance Is Simple39:48- Agencies' perceptions 48:33- Matt's Advice50:29- Insurance Is a gameThe Insurance Dudes are on a mission to find the best insurance agentsaround the country to find out how they are creating some of the top agencies. But they do not stop there, they also bring professionals from other industries for insights that can help agents take their agencies to the next level. The Insurance Dudes focus on your agency's four pillars: Hiring, Training, Marketing and Motivation! We have to keep the sword sharp if we want our agencies to thrive. Insurance Dudes are leaders in their home, at their office and in their community. This podcast will keep you on track with like minded high performing agents while keeping entertained!About Jason and Craig:Both agents themselves, they both have scaled to around $10 million in premium. After searching for years for a system to create predictability in their agencies, they developed the Telefunnel after their interviews with so many agents and business leaders. Taking several years, tons of trial and error, and hundreds of thousands of dollars on lead spend, they've optimized their agencies and teams to write tons of premium, consistently, and nearly on autopilot!LEARN MORE BY Registering for TUESDAY's LIVE CALL With The Insurance Dudes!Bio of Matt SutikaMatthew Sutika is an award-winning entrepreneur and business owner in the insuretech sector. Following a 5-year tenure as a top ranked State Farm agent, Matt founded Skylight Insurance and within two years, he grew it to be a $5M+ brokerage through unique partnerships and technology within the multi-family community, a staff of less than five, and zero marketing budget. Bridging tried and true insurance principals with tech, Skylight merged with Obie, an insurance distribution platform for real estate investors that employs more than 70 and has raised nearly $14M. Today, he serves as their Chief Insurance Officer.ReferencesWebsite: https://www.obieinsurance.comTwitter - https://twitter.com/obieriskFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/ObieRisk/LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/joinobie & https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthew-sutika-a9a98013a/
Chloe's Dad checks off a bucket list item, HBO's plan for Harry Potter is gold and Chloe and Obie are opposites with warranty purchases
In this episode, we sit down with Matt Chapman, third baseman for the Toronto Blue Jays, to discuss his journey from playing high school ball at El Toro to becoming a professional athlete. We delve into the day-to-day life of spring training, and the similarities of baseball's of minor league life to hockey's. Chapman also shares his thoughts on the Toronto Blue Jays and the atmosphere in Toronto, along with the new SkyDome Stadium and its new concession menu items. We also touch on the business side of baseball and clubhouse culture, including the importance of DJs and walk-up songs. Lastly, Chapman talks about his favorite cities to play in, the defensive skills that have earned him multiple Gold Gloves, and the players who have inspired him throughout his career. Tune in for all this and more on the latest episode on Missin Curfew!
Insurance Dudes: Helping Insurance Agency Owners Gain Business Leverage
In this episode, we are going to talk about Insurance, AI, and Tech. Will AI take over Insurance? See what Matt Sutika has to say about this. A discussion about how artificial intelligence is impacting the insurance industry. Is Insurance Simple? Insurance is often perceived as a complex industry. However, that's not the case. If a customer requires internet leads, provide them with what they ask for. Ending with Matt's Advice; It's not to make it through in insurance, it's grind, grind, grind, till you hit it up. Tune in for a fun conversation on insurance and much more. Highlights:15:06- AI is going to take over?27:13- Insurance Is Simple39:48- Agencies' perceptions 48:33- Matt's Advice50:29- Insurance Is a gameThe Insurance Dudes are on a mission to find the best insurance agentsaround the country to find out how they are creating some of the top agencies. But they do not stop there, they also bring professionals from other industries for insights that can help agents take their agencies to the next level. The Insurance Dudes focus on your agency's four pillars: Hiring, Training, Marketing and Motivation! We have to keep the sword sharp if we want our agencies to thrive. Insurance Dudes are leaders in their home, at their office and in their community. This podcast will keep you on track with like minded high performing agents while keeping entertained!About Jason and Craig:Both agents themselves, they both have scaled to around $10 million in premium. After searching for years for a system to create predictability in their agencies, they developed the Telefunnel after their interviews with so many agents and business leaders. Taking several years, tons of trial and error, and hundreds of thousands of dollars on lead spend, they've optimized their agencies and teams to write tons of premium, consistently, and nearly on autopilot!LEARN MORE BY Registering for TUESDAY's LIVE CALL With The Insurance Dudes!Bio of Matt SutikaMatthew Sutika is an award-winning entrepreneur and business owner in the insuretech sector. Following a 5-year tenure as a top ranked State Farm agent, Matt founded Skylight Insurance and within two years, he grew it to be a $5M+ brokerage through unique partnerships and technology within the multi-family community, a staff of less than five, and zero marketing budget. Bridging tried and true insurance principals with tech, Skylight merged with Obie, an insurance distribution platform for real estate investors that employs more than 70 and has raised nearly $14M. Today, he serves as their Chief Insurance Officer.ReferencesWebsite: https://www.obieinsurance.comTwitter - https://twitter.com/obieriskFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/ObieRisk/LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/joinobie & https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthew-sutika-a9a98013a/
We're bringing Dalton Dover on the show for our FAST FIVE hot seat questions and then Obie's got drama left and right with new fish tanks and a Nanny that's on to her next gig!
Good Grief—Featuring Mike Christensen Mikes' beloved friend, Kris Yip, word-ranked bicyclist who suddenly and tragically died. Mikes' beloved dog and best friend, Josie, who died the day before the podcast was recorded In today's podcast we feature one of our favorite people, Mike Christensen. Mike is a Certified Level 5 Master TEAM CBT Therapist and Trainer, and is the Director Feeling Good Institute, Canada. Mike is a Registered Clinical Counsellor with the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors and holds a Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology degree. His diverse background in business, community organizations, and family support roles has provided Mike with a wide array of experience in leadership, administration, parenting training, and team building. He provides advanced level online training with the Feeling Good Institute for therapists around the world and is currently co-authoring a book with Maor Katz on Deliberate Practice of TEAM-CBT. Mike specializes in treating depression and anxiety, with experience and training in addictions, PTSD, and relationship challenges. Today, Mike comes to us today with a personal issue, grief and loss. The day before the recording Mike's beloved dog, Josie, died, and this came on the heels of the death of one his best friends, Kris Yip, a month earlier. Kris had died suddenly and unexpectedly at the age of 47. Kris was 7 or 8 years younger than Mike, and appeared to be the perfect example of health and fitness, so his loss was an unexpected and devastating punch in the gut. Mike explained that Kris was a celebrity in the bicycling community. He was the Canadian national champion and war ranked 59th in the world. However, he was humble and never promoted himself. Instead, he always focused on others, encouraging even those who were just beginners. Mike has also been a competitive bicyclist, and Kris had invited Mike to join an online racing team consisting of four friends who got together daily on stationary bikes linked by videos on the internet so they could talk while biking. In January of 2023, while riding, Kris's heart suddenly stopped. A friend of Kris called Mike to say, “Kris is gone!” This was devastating to Mike, who said: “He was the fittest of our group. The impact was profound.” He had trouble sleeping and was in disbelief. He said, “It felt surreal. It felt like something is wrong. He told himself, “I should be able to keep it together without falling apart.” Mike also told himself that Kris, was too young to go, and missed him tremendously. Mike thought of Kris's mom, and how much she was suffering, so he spent a week with Kris' family and friends in Prince George. Which was where Mike was born, and his brother and his other biking buddies live. He said, “We cried together and were together.” He explained, “Whenever I got on my bike to ride, Kris was always there. He'd always say, ‘Let's ride.' I miss his voice.” He also said that during his rides, you could see Kris' face on the video feed, and he was always struggling, digging deep, suffering, but loving it! Mike said that all of his losses, including his sister, his son, and Kris, were actually double losses, because “I lost not only what had been, but what was to come in the future, and didn't.” Mike said, “Kris was so humble, so I want to brag for him. He always cared and made all of us feel so encourage and inspired!” Mike mentioned some of the positives he saw in the pain of grief: It honors the depth of the love and the depth of our relationship with Kris. Our grief has motivated us to cherish our riding group and to cling together even more closely. Tears can be the purest form of love. Tears allow us to keep the other person alive in our hearts and minds. I mentioned how I talk to three people I've lost every day when I do my “slogging:” my beloved cat Obie, and two dear colleagues I've lost, Ann Hantz in Philadelphia and Marilyn Coffy from Oakland. Mike described how touched he was when visiting Kris' family, and how his mom had arranged all of Kris' bicycles in the garage, ready to be ridden, with all of his racing jerseys on display. Mike confessed that also felt angry and often thought: “You bugger. It should have been someone else!” Mike has endured many tragic losses in his life, including the devastating death of his older sister when he was just 15, and the tragic loss of his son, Graeme Michael, who died shortly before birth. Mike reminded us about the various conceptualizations we use in TEAM-CBT, which can include individual mood problems (like depression or anxiety), personal relationship problems, habits and addictions, and “non-problems.” A non-problem refers to people who do not have distorted negative thoughts or problems that need to be solved—they just have strong and appropriate negative feelings, and the job of the therapist is simple: resist trying to “help,” and instead use the Five Secrets of Effective Communication to listen and give the grieving person the chance to vent and expression their feelings. With this in mind, Mike described the support he received from colleagues at the Feeling Good Institute, including one who told him to make sure he was feeling sad! He greatly appreciated this! In my clinical experience, “non-problems” were actually rare, but there were several patients who only needed to vent and receive support. one of my favorite chapters In my first book, Feeling Good, was Chapter 3. entitled Sadness is not Depression. I described my experience as a medical student with a terminally ill elderly man in the Stanford Hospital who reminded me of my grandfather. His extended family had gathered around the bedside as he was slipping into a coma from liver failure due to metastatic kidney cancer, and asked “Would it be okay for you to remove his catheter? It was a bit uncomfortable for him, and we're not sure if he still needs it.” I was very inexperienced and asked at the nursing station if it would be okay to remove it, and if so, how would I do it. They said he was, in fact, dying, and would not last much longer, and explained how to remove the catheter. I pulled the curtain around his bed, and did that and told the family, with tears in my eyes, “He can still hear you, but not for much longer, so it's time to tell him how much you love him and say goodbye.” Tears were flowing down my cheeks and they began to cry as well, and began saying good bye. I went to the room where the medical students and resident make their notes, and wept. The family later told the department chairman how much they appreciated what I did for them. I was a pretty terrible medical student, and for the most part had a bad attitude, but that was on moment I still feel very proud of. There are several differences between sadness and depression. First, the thoughts that trigger depression, like “I'm defective. There must be something wrong with me,” are distorted. Depression, as I've often said, is the world's oldest con. In contrast, Mike's thoughts, like the thoughts that trigger healthy grief, are not distorted, like “I miss Kris. I admired him and loved him, and he made a tremendous difference in my life, and the lives of all who knew him.” Second, depression can go on and on endlessly. I've had patients who told me that they'd never had even one happy moment in their entire lives. Healthy grief, in contrast, only needs to be accepted and expressed, and runs its course naturally, If grief is extended, or impairing the person's life, then it's a certainty that distorted thoughts are present and preventing the person from healthy grieving. In this case, treatment can be enormously helpful. Finally, depression robs us of joy, hope, and productivity. Life often seems meaningless and worthless. Grief, in contrast, though painful, enriches us and provides us with a deeper level of meaning and gratitude for life. Rhonda and I are very sad for Mike's many losses, now and in the past as well. But we are both grateful to have him as a friend, and cherish him tremendously. Thank you, Mike, for letting us in today! Warmly, Mike, Rhonda and David Following the session, I emailed Mike to ask a couple questions about peoples' names, and also find out if we might have perhaps let him down during the podcast, not given him enough space to grieve, and so forth. When I get worried about things like that, I have found that checking it out usually beats “Mind-Reading” by a pretty huge margin. Here's the wonderful email that Mike sent. It will give you a deeper view of his inner warmth and depth. Hi David, Thank you for your kind words. I experienced our time together as deeply moving and came out of it with a renewed sense of purpose in the sadness. I guess my hope was that we might be able to illustrate and share the value in empathy and the positive reframe in our grief work. That was enhanced to a new level for me with the way you guided me to explore some aspects I had missed. I wouldn't change a thing about it. It also opened up the way in which your stories and the journey we go on with clients can provide healing for others. I am so grateful that you were willing to take that time to revisit them. Our son's name was Graeme Michael. He was in between our oldest (Thomas now 25) and our middle daughter (Janae now 22). We (my wife Janna and I) never had the opportunity to hear his voice or see him smile. We were informed that it was a chord accident. Janna knew something was wrong and an ultrasound confirmed that she would have to deliver him knowing he was already gone. The first time we held him was also the last. Whenever people ask me how many children I have I say 3 (Thomas, Janae & Caelyn -19 & you will meet soon) but in my mind it is always 4. Thank you for asking. My wife Janna is a nurse and the director of a pregnancy outreach program. She has been blessed with the opportunity to work with at-risk pregnant moms and young families for 17 years and our experience has brought incredible connection and support to so many (I also worked there for 7 years part time with the young dads). While we would never wish our journey on anyone, the suffering of loss has given us insight, motivation, inspiration, understanding and opportunities that we would never have without it. The sadness has deep purpose and meaning and continues to be an expression of our love for Graeme and all the young families we meet. Mike
From good vs bad driver calls into the show to Obie working out with his kids and having an epiphany. Plus, on Friday's we're highlighting the most streamed 2ND DATE UPDATE of the week
In this episode, Updogg and Obie discuss their recent golf outings with Darren Pang at Big Canyon, as well as their experiences this past week running the everyman errands at the DMV and post office. Jumping off Chicken Parm's comments, they debate the importance of home ice advantage in the NHL playoffs and discuss the most important categories of the recent NHLPA player poll. The guys also share their thoughts on the new uniform deal with Fanatics, Mike Hoffman's suspension, and the Bruins' ability to rest players. As always, there's a list of guys making their way onto the Milk Carton, they're handing out beers to a number of fellas across the league, and they look at who the Brinks truck is backing up for this week! Tune in for all this and more on the latest episode of the podcast!
Chloe has a ton of quirks we'll have to unpack during the shows to come and one of them is her set of keys! Plus, Obie's daughter is quite the little chef this week!
Tony and Emmy Winning Production Designer Derek McLane and Eila Mell have come together to create the new hit book Designing Broadway, available wherever books are sold! This episode is incredible for all artists – especially theatre designers who are beginning to explore their multi-hyphenate identities. Together with other leading set design and theatre talents, McLane invites us into the immersive and exhilarating experience of building the striking visual worlds that have brought so many of our favorite stories to life. Discover how designers generate innovative ideas, research period and place, solve staging challenges, and collaborate with directors, projectionists, costume designers, and other artists to capture the essence of a show in powerful scenic design. With co-writer Eila Mell, McLane and contributors discuss Moulin Rouge!, Hamilton, Hadestown, Beautiful, and many more of the most iconic productions of our generation. Among the Broadway luminaries who contribute are John Lee Beatty, Danny Burstein, Cameron Crowe, Ethan Hawke, Moisés Kaufman, Carole King, Kenny Leon, Santo Loquasto, Kathleen Marshall, Lynn Nottage, David Rabe, Ruben Santiago-Hudson, Wallace Shawn, John Leguizamo, and Robin Wagner. Filled with personal sketches and photographs from the artists' archives, this stunningly designed book is truly a behind-the-scenes journey that theatre fans will love. Derek McLane is an Emmy and Tony Award winning production designer for Broadway and television, who's nearly 350 designs include: Broadway credits such as MJ, The Michael Jackson Musical, Moulin Rouge! (Tony Award), A Soldier's Play (Tony Nomination), American Son, Parisian Woman, The Price, Beautiful, Fully Committed, Noises Off, Gigi, 33 Variations (with Jane Fonda) (Tony Award), China Doll (with Al Pacino), How to Succeed in Business Without Even Trying (with Daniel Radcliffe), Follies, Anything Goes, Bengal Tiger at the Baghdad Zoo (with Robin Williams), Ragtime, The Pajama Game, I Am My Own Wife. Off-Broadway: Buried Child, Jerry Springer The Opera, Merrily We Roll Along, The Spoils, If I Forget, Love, Love, Love; The Night of the Iguana, Sweet Charity, Buried Child, Into the Woods, Ruined, The Last Five Years, Television 6 years of Academy Awards, NBC Musicals: The Sound of Music, Peter Pan, The Wiz & Hairspray. Derek is the Chairman of the Board of The New Group Theatre. His many awards include: 2 Tony Awards, 2 Emmy's, 2 Obie's, 2 Drama Desks, 3 Lucille Lortel Awards, and 3 Art Directors Guild Awards. @derekmclane Eila Mell is the author of Designing Broadway as well as the official guide to the hit television series Project Runway, titled Project Runway: The Show That Changed Fashion. Among her other books are New York Fashion Week and, with Ty Hunter, Makeover from Within: Lessons in Hardship, Acceptance, and Self-Discovery. Mell has been featured in the New York Times, Marie Claire, Glamour, and CBS's The Insider, as well as in the documentary Scatter My Ashes at Bergdorf's. She is the co-host of the podcast Jiffy Pop Culture with comedian Frank Liotti. @eilamell Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Obie had to have a serious convo with his kids after hearing about the shooting with them in real time. How'd that convo go and what did our Country Artists say with this being so close to home.
On this week's episode, Obie and Updogg are joined by 2x Stanley Cup Champion and now Player Development Assistant for the Los Angeles Kings, Jarret Stoll (@jarretstoll)! The fellas discuss their recent golf tournament at Bel-Air Country Club and the origins of the "fella" term. They then dive into the trade of Jonathan Quick, Stoll's former teammate on the LA Kings, and the teams outlook for the rest of the season. And finally, they reminisce on some of their favorite teammates, and how much they've all enjoyed trading cardio workouts for hot yoga! Tune in for all this and more on the latest episode of the show!
Obie took the kids out on the water with a guide who knew his stuff! Plus, Chloe brings in her check book and baffles Obie and Slater. And, a brand new 2ND DATE UPDATE where he was accused of kissing horribly
In today's episode, the fellas recap their St. Patrick's Day weekends, rehash their golf outings and reveal their favorite personal grooming services. Our friend of the pod, Sean Avery, has picked up Jiu Jitsu while Ob's is dreaming about Scottie Scheffler's Master's Champions Dinner menu. Uppy spent the weekend around some hall of famers at Bel-Air CC's Member-Guest tourney, yet somehow still managed to get his entry in to Top Titty! The Lock of the Week has been cashing in as of late as the fellas reveal some more picks. Then they dive into some NHL happenings from the past week, including Jordan Binnington vs Marc-André Fleury, the dwindling list of NHL players with no visor, Connor McGregor attending a Rangers game, Landeskog back skating with Avalanche, and the Calgary Flames being done. They also discuss Reavo's Gordie Howe hat trick and Sarah Nurse's appearance on TNT before ending with a fun game of "Name That National Leaguer!" Can you guess how many Updogg got right?! Tune in for all this and more!
Not only do we get a special visit from newborn baby Christian but Obie's taking his kids fishing with a pro who does this for a living and a special 2ND DATE UPDATE with a baseball player who cat fished his date
We're getting into showering before bed where Obie only showers at night and Chloe in the morning and night. Then, Obie introduces Chloe to old school tech like his beeper and iPod video
Orlando Nightlife will get a tightening up after a few shooting last year that prompted big changes. Plus, Obie hugged a dude who's cologne immediately transported him back to high school
In this episode of the Missing Curfew podcast, the guys kicked things off by reminiscing about their partying experiences in Dublin, just in time for St. Patrick's Day. They also discussed the Players Championship and highlighted Scottie Scheffler's impressive $4.5 million win. Then in the first edition of Uppy's World, Updogg shares about his weekend rubbing elbows with Aaron Rogers, Josh Allen and several other NFL super stars.The fellas also fielded a great fan question in this weeks Curfew Call and chirped some beauties who took them down in last week's Draft Kings Top Titty contest!The Norris Trophy was discussed, with Obs proposing a change to how the top defenders in the league are recognizing. And they handed out beers to some impressive young stars, as well as speculated what's happening this week at the annual NHL GM meetings in Boca Florida. Ob's distributed out the Green Jacket to the lowest plus/minus of the year and revealed what his and Uppy's career numbers were that stat category. Lastly, there's a couple guys making their way onto the Milk Carton, while someone else was found and has been taken off! Tune in now for all this and more on Missin Curfew!
In this episode of Missing Curfew, the fellas sit down with former NHL legend and current broadcaster, Kelly Chase(@ChasenPucks39), at the Rock Bar in Ft. Lauderdale. They discuss Barry Melrose the "Toughest Team There Ever Was," the toughest player Chaser grew up playing against, and the difference in toughness between his era and now.As a St. Louis native, Chaser explains why he loves going back and supporting his hometown, and shares his experience of the alumni locker room in St. Louis. The conversation then turns to the NHL Alumni and how it has improved over the years, with Chase discussing the impact of Bobby Hull. He also shares his experience of becoming a broadcaster and how it made retirement easier for him as he still felt part of the game. Overall, this episode is a fascinating look into the career of Kelly Chase and his views on the NHL past and present.
In this episode of Missing Curfew, the fellas kick things off with a recap of Obie's trip to Dallas to see the Stars game and discuss the recent changes to the PGA Tour format. They also touch on Players Week and which friend of the pod they're taking to win the whole thing! And in other sports news, they give their take on UFC 285 and the Lightning's Backyard BBQ content.Then the fellas dive deep into their favorite moves from the recent NHL Trade Deadline. Including Jacob Chychrun going to the Senators and Max Domi heading to the Stars. They also mention the surprising trade of the Ritchie brothers for one another and Patty Kane's fresh new threads. Next up is Rick Rowleys' concerns about the Maple Leafs' chemistry, Dylan Larkin's 8-year $69 million deal and David Pastrnak's 8-year $90 million contract. Earning a spot on the Milk Carton this week is the LA Kings, despite their rising up the Pacific Division standings, because of their handling of Jonathan Quick. Obie also expresses his skepticism over Don Waddell's decisions in Raleigh at the trade deadline. Finally, there's a couple guys in the league that need a beer, in this week's Labbatt Blue 'Get this Guy a Beer' segment. Tune in now for all this and more on Missin Curfew!
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