Podcasts about eggerichs

Marriage is arguably the most sanctifying relationship on the planet. Just consider the following questions:Why is it that we tend to think our spouse is out to get us? Why do we assume the worst about him / her? What causes us to get so defensive? Why do we get so offensive in our reactions? Are the offenses we carry worth it? Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, best-selling author of Love and Respect, joins us to talk about the lightbulb moments he discovered in 20 years of helping men and women stop living in their crazy cycle. What is the crazy cycle? Consider this: “Without love she reacts without respect. Without respect he reacts without love.” But what's more, Dr. Eggerichs discovered that “without love, defensively she reacts offensively without respect. And without respect, defensively he reacts offensively without love.” In this episode, Dr. Eggerichs shares the way out of the cycle through principles like “80/20” and “Seeing God over your spouse's shoulder.” With many incredible convicting and encouraging insights, this is an episode we hope brings your marriage closer together. Time Stamps:0:00 Dr. Emerson Eggerichs joins the show2:31 Where Love and Respect and the crazy cycle began8:21 How to interpret the crazy cycle in your relationship19:40 The ah-ha moment of 80/20 and the lens from which we view our spouse27:08 Looking at God over the spouse of your shoulder29:32 Your marriage within the Kingdom of God34:45 Victimhood, offense, and finding freedom in Christ44:44 Being offended by God and the power of a forgiving spirit48:55 The 2 degree shift that can change your marriage52:45 How to get your husband to pray with you Show Notes:Get Light Bulb Moments in Marriage by Emerson Eggerichshttps://amzn.to/4t9WAfP Get Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerichshttps://amzn.to/4kiuAmg Interested in our 8-week Love Your Marriage Cohort? Apply now. https://www.famousathome.com/loveyourmarriage Looking for a marriage intensive with Famous at Home? Apply now.  https://www.famousathome.com/coaching Download the Famous at Home app from Apple, click here. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/famous-at-home/id6502221394 Download the Famous at Home app from Google Play, click here. https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kj2147486660.app2&hl=en_US Sign up for our email list and Famous at Home Starter Bundle: https://www.famousathome.com/newsletter Download NONAH's single Find My Way Home by clicking here: https://bellpartners.ffm.to/findmywayhome

Marriage is one of God’s most beautiful gifts—but it can also be one of the most challenging. Even couples who love each other deeply and want to honor God can find themselves stuck in the same conversations, the same misunderstandings, and the same frustrations, wondering why nothing seems to change. That’s why I’m so excited to share this week’s episode of The Love Offering Podcast with you. I’m joined by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs to talk about his book Lightbulb Moments in Marriage: 12 Biblical Perspectives for Successful and Satisfied Couples. In our conversation, Dr. Eggerichs shares what he calls “aha” moments—simple, biblically grounded truths that have helped thousands of couples finally see what they were missing. These aren’t complicated formulas or trendy advice. They’re Scripture-shaped insights that often lead couples to say, “Why didn’t we see this sooner?” We talk about:• Why ignorance—not lack of love—is often what fuels conflict• How one small shift in perspective can break long-standing cycles• The difference between trying harder and understanding better• What it looks like to respond with responsibility, not react out of frustration• Letting God’s Word—not culture—define love, respect, and commitment Whether you’ve been married a few months or many decades, this conversation is full of wisdom, grace, and hope. Sometimes, it really does take just one lightbulb moment to bring clarity, peace, and renewal. I pray this episode encourages you to see your marriage—and your spouse—through fresh eyes. Much love,Rachael Connect with Rachael: https://rachaelkadams.com/ Connect with Dr. Eggerichs: https://www.loveandrespect.com/about-us Download your Free Love Always Devotional: https://rachaelkadams.com/free/ Support the Show: https://rachaelkadams.com/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, bestselling author of Love and Respect (2.3+ million copies sold), shares fresh insights from his new book Lightbulb Moments in Marriage. Drawing from his work with over 4,000 couples and 52 years of marriage to his wife Sarah, Dr. Eggerichs reveals why couples often feel miles apart when they're really just inches away from breakthrough. In this episode, we'll discover the biblical foundation of the love and respect connection, uncover practical ways to get out of the "Crazy Cycle," and learn how to establish our marriages in Christ first and foremost. 02:15 How to begin transforming a marriage (miles vs. inches) 06:25 Doing marriage unto Jesus even when it's hard 09:40 Why marital satisfaction flows from spiritual satisfaction 17:58 The facts: men feel disrespected, women feel unloved in conflict 20:49 – How to believe your spouse has goodwill (1 Cor 7 insight) 23:54 – The 80/20 principle & not defining your spouse by snapshot moments 25:11 – Women tend to rehearse negatives → practical steps on shifting mindsets 28:40 – Speak his language: "I need your strength" vs. criticism Learn more from Dr. Emerson Eggerichs at loveandrespect.com and buy his new book Lightbulb Moments in Marriage anywhere books are sold. More Resources from Arlene Pellicane: SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get access to 12 free resources to help you as a parent. Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier. Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE) Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Women carry a powerful key to connection—but most have no idea they even have it.In this powerful episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with bestselling author and relationship expert Dr. Emerson Eggerichs to unpack how men and women are uniquely wired by God—and how misunderstanding those differences can quietly sabotage our relationships.In this episode, we explore:1. Why conflict so often goes wrong between men and women2. How our natural wiring shapes the way we give and receive love3. The hidden cycle that fuels misunderstanding and emotional distance4. The often-overlooked power women carry for deep connection—a power many don't even realize they haveThis conversation brings biblical truth, practical wisdom, and eye-opening insight that will challenge the way you see relationships, communication, and your own influence within them. Whether you're single, dating, or preparing for marriage, this episode will help you navigate relationships with greater clarity, grace, and purpose.__Find Dr. Emerson's new book, Lightbulb Moments in Marriage, here: https://www.amazon.com/Lightbulb-Moments-Marriage-Perspectives-Successful/dp/1400352169Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Pre-order both at www.christianbevere.com

Here's a simple language shift that can reach the heart of your son.  When your boy is bickering with a sibling or a friend, your instinct might be to say “Son, you need to be kind.” But author Dr. Emerson Eggerichs says that you might need to say something else. Dr. Eggerichs is widely known for his writings about how a man's deepest desire is for respect. He says that desire starts when boys are very young. So much so, that if you tell your son to be kind and loving – that concept may not resonate very deeply with him. If you, however, tell your boy to be respectful to others— he may listen more closely. Young men crave respect so much that they understand why another person would need it, too. For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

Zwischen Angola und der DDR gab es ab den 1970er-Jahren enge wirtschaftliche und politische Beziehungen. Von sogenannten Bruderländern war immer wieder die Rede. Doch die Realität sah anders aus. Eggerichs, Grit www.deutschlandfunk.de, Hintergrund

Portugal war die letzte Kolonialmacht Europas. Bis 1974 besaß das Land Kolonien in Afrika. Die Nelkenrevolution beendete nach 600 Jahren das imperiale Begehren. Wer hat profitiert und wer hat gelitten? Die Aufarbeitung ist längst nicht beendet. Eggerichs, Grit www.deutschlandfunk.de, Gesichter Europas

Soziale Netzwerke bieten den perfekten Raum für populistische Stimmungsmache. Welche Strategien können Journalisten und Medienhäuser dem entgegensetzen? Es ist eine Gratwanderung, bei der es auch darum geht, ein junges Publikum zu gewinnen. Eggerichs, Grit www.deutschlandfunk.de, Hintergrund

Bilder von Bergen toter Fische in der Oder schockierten im Sommer 2022 die Öffentlichkeit. Viele Rätsel um die Ursachen der Umweltkatastrophe sind inzwischen gelöst. Doch was haben Deutschland und Polen getan, um ein neues Fischsterben zu verhindern? Eggerichs, Grit;Zuk, Przemek www.deutschlandfunk.de, Hintergrund

Zuk, Przemek; Eggerichs, Grit www.deutschlandfunk.de, Europa heute

Zuk, Przemek; Eggerichs, Grit www.deutschlandfunk.de, Europa heute

Zuk, Przemek; Eggerichs, Grit www.deutschlandfunk.de, Europa heute

Mit Waffengewalt kämpfte die Untergrundorganisation ETA lange für die Freiheit des Baskenlands. Ein Kampf, der Spanien über Jahrzehnte gespalten hat. Und doch waren Frieden und Aussöhnung möglich, mit Hilfe von außen.  Brockhues, Annabell; Eggerichs, Grit www.deutschlandfunk.de, Hintergrund

On today's podcast, Ashley unpacks Emmerson Eggerich's book "Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires and the Respect He Desperately Needs." She deconstructs the theology around Eggerichs' work and offers up a different definition of love inspired by Cater Heyward's book "Touching Our Strength: The Erotic as Power and the Love of God." In Heyward's book, she defines love as being rooted in mutual respect and discovery. Ashley offers Heyward's definition of love as a healthy alternative to Eggerich's patriarchal theology. To learn more about Ashley's ministry, visit ashleylhengst.com or connect with her on Istagram @ashleylhengst.

Dr. Emerson Eggerichs and special guest host Mike Sharrow join the show to take a candid look at how entrepreneurs can overcome the challenges they face in their personal and professional relationships.Dr. Eggerichs is a renowned counselor and author, as well as the founder of Love and Respect, a ministry that grew from the success of his best-selling marriage book of the same name and has expanded to include teachings and resources on business, leadership, and communication in addition to marriage and family concerns.In this conversation, he breaks down practical insights for bringing love and respect to all relationships.We can motivate and influence others by meeting their deepest core needs with love and respect.It is important to apologize and seek forgiveness when we come across as unloving or disrespectful.Trust and obedience are key in applying these principles over time.In marriage, it is important to communicate in a way that resonates with your spouse's natural language.Find more about Dr. Eggerichs' ministry at https://www.loveandrespect.com/Get the book https://www.loveandrespect.com/product/love-respect-book

Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on marriage, parenting, and communication. Based on over three decades of counseling and scientific and biblical research, Dr. Eggerichs developed the Love and Respect Marriage Conference, which he presents to live audiences around the country. Emerson has authored several books, including Love and Respect in the Family, Mother & Son: The Respect Effect, and the New York Times bestseller Love and Respect. Emerson is also the Founder and President of Love and Respect Ministries. I welcome Emerson to the Wow Factor today to discuss how God directs our steps and frees us to use our free will to direct our own lives. He believes that the Bible prompts people to recognize the answers to the big questions in life by understanding the four wills of God, which he calls the B.A.G.S, (Believe in Jesus, Abstain from sexual immorality, Give thanks always, Submit to the Lord). Emerson also shares how he realized that men and women communicate differently and why he was prompted to set up the Love and Respect conferences. “It doesn't hurt to ask God to bring about a coincidence every once in a while, and see what might happen.” - Emerson Eggerichs “The two key ingredients for a successful marriage are love and respect.” - Emerson Eggerichs “I just want to see the hand of God in my life; I really don't care what's in it.” - Emerson Eggerichs    This Week on The Wow Factor:  How the challenges in Emerson's family situation prompted him to know Christ and lead his family to Christ What Emerson learned about leadership in the early years of being a senior pastor Why Emerson made the decision not to write any books until he was 50 Why Emerson was inspired to develop some way to help people experience, love, and respect Emerson describes the four wills of God and shares why they remain central to almost every part of life What the ‘crazy cycle' is and how it can damage a marriage The importance of being honest with yourself about where you can do better in your life How the Bible gives us constant reminders of the critical factors in life Emerson's thoughts on the state of marriage in the US today Dr. Emerson Eggerichs' Words of Wisdom: God is using you to lead, that doesn't necessarily mean you'll be rich, but the most successful people in life are those that have loved God and loved others. Connect with Dr. Emerson Eggerichs: Love and Respect Website Love and Respect Podcast   Connect with The WOW Factor: I Like Giving: The Transforming Power of a Generous Life by Brad Formsma Words of Wisdom Website Brad Formsma on LinkedIn Brad Formsma on Instagram Brad Formsma on Facebook Brad Formsma on Twitter  

Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is a pastor, author, speaker, and founder of the Love and Respect Conference. His book, “Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs,” and his conference have helped thousands of couples learn how to resolve conflict and meet each other's needs. The book's inspiration comes from Ephesians 5:33, which commands husbands to love their wives and wives to respect their husbands. Approximately 3 out of 10 marriages end in divorce because love alone is not enough. Dr. Eggerichs and Les discuss the crazy cycle and the energizing cycle that marriages go through and how couples can work to bring peace, unity, love, and respect back into their marriage. Les shares things he wishes he could change if he could go back to the early years of his marriage, and Dr. Eggerichs reminds him that his current marriage is a testimony to the work God can and will do in any marriage. Learn more about Dr. Eggerich's work: https://www.loveandrespect.com/about-us

Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on the topic of male-female relationships. Based on over three decades of counseling as well as scientific and biblical research, Dr. Eggerichs and his wife, Sarah, developed the Love and Respect Conference which they present to live audiences around the country. This dynamic and life-changing conference is impacting the world, resulting in the healing and restoration of countless relationships. Dr. Eggerichs has authored several books, including the national bestseller Love & Respect, which is a Platinum and Book of the Year award winner, selling over 2.1 million copies. Emerson is the Founder and President of Love and Respect Ministries and his wife Sarah serves as Vice President. Married since 1973, they live in Grand Rapids, MI and have three adult children. In this podcast, Emerson shares about how his Bible-centered teaching on Love and Respect have brought wonderful healing to thousands of troubled marriages, and have made so many good marriages even better. Truth does, in fact, set us free!

Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on the topic of male-female relationships. Based on over three decades of counseling as well as scientific and biblical research, Dr. Eggerichs and his wife, Sarah, developed the Love and Respect Conference which they present to live audiences around the country. This dynamic and life-changing conference is impacting the world, resulting in the healing and restoration of countless relationships. Dr. Eggerichs has authored several books, including the national bestseller Love & Respect, which is a Platinum and Book of the Year award winner, selling over 2.1 million copies. Emerson is the Founder and President of Love and Respect Ministries and his wife Sarah serves as Vice President. Married since 1973, they live in Grand Rapids, MI and have three adult children. In this podcast, Emerson shares about how his Bible-centered teaching on Love and Respect have brought wonderful healing to thousands of troubled marriages, and have made so many good marriages even better. Truth does, in fact, set us free!

This summer, we're talking about seven principles of healthy relationships, according to relationship experts John and Julie Gottman. In the last two weeks, we've discussed the foundation of healthy relationships: curiosity. And in the next two episodes, we're talking about the practices of admiration and appreciation. Be curious. Be positive. Sounds simple enough. Except EMPish (Evangelical, Mormon, and Pentecostal) communities identify the success of the relationship not based on the ways that people solve problems together. Successful marriages happen when men and women effectively play the gender roles ascribed to them. And no Christian resource describes this better than Emerson Eggerichs' Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires, The Respect He Desperately Needs. In this episode, we compare the Eggerichs' and Gottman's processes for exploring admiration and appreciation: Parental Models (7:00): “We talked in church spaces and school spaces about being kind and grateful and positive, but I didn't see a lot of it modeled.” Young children model after their parents, and when the models do not admire each other, we tend to mirror that in our own relationships. This episode is about initially breaking that pattern. Jesus' Admiration (10:00): “I do have a deep hole within myself that the church told me only Jesus can fill, but perhaps the church created that hole with constant legalistic scrutiny for over two decades of my life, and now I am just constantly in need of someone telling me that I'm worthwhile and valuable. That is for my own therapy.” Julia shares how the Church created this idea that the only person that can fill your heart is Jesus. This does not actually teach anyone how to do relationships, and, when coupled with the anxiety that you constantly have to ask Jesus and an erratic God into your heart, this creates a compulsive need for validation from others rooted in a fear of never being good enough. Defaulting onto Gender Norms (11:00): Jeremiah shares, “If someone doesn't overtly teach you how to do something in a relationship, the easiest thing to do is to fall back on gender expectations. For me as a man, the most important gendered message was that men are leaders. Assume that you're gonna be in charge and that people want you to be in charge.” When admiration for our partners is not taught or modeled, people can default onto gender norms as a way to show their appreciation. Appreciation then becomes about performing the gender role as opposed to celebrating the holistic person and uniqueness of the relationship. What Does Respect Actually Mean? (27:00): Julia reflects, “I remember reading that sex was one of, if not the primary way, that men feel respected. The book also reinforced that I should be well groomed, made up, and lingerie wearing for when my husband comes home from work. Because of course I'm not working and he just needs sex for his own gratification.” Jeremiah responds, “Respect communicates a power hierarchy, and adhering to the power hierarchy means men are at the top.” The idea that women are “depriving” men of sex is a toxic idea that feeds into non-consent and un-enjoyable sex and relationships. When sex is viewed as a thing to be given and taken, it stops existing as a thing occurring between consenting people, but instead as a process of conquering. We conclude the episode with Relationship 101, where Jeremiah states, “For you and I, practicing the Gottman value of nurturing fondness and admiration requires us to develop new interaction patterns that move away from gendered scripts of love and respect, and into collaborative and non-gendered dynamics based on admiration and fondness.” The Gottman's labeled these six practices, the 6 magic hours, and Julia and Jeremiah offer advice on how to incorporate these into everyday life: 1. Partings. The Gottman suggests learning one thing that is happening in your partner's life before they leave for the workday or whatever else they may be doing. 2. Reunions. The Gottman suggests at least 20 minutes at the end of the day for a connection point that is purely for the sake of reestablishing intimacy and closeness. Julia offers, “For those of you who may be less inclined to physical touch, or need some other forms of connection before moving into a physical space. A reunion could include going out for ice cream, a short walk, or even just a curious conversation in which you take an active interest in your partner's day. Questions beyond “How was your day?” 3. Admiration and appreciation. Be explicit about what you love and value about your partner. Jeremiah shares how because of the context in which he grew up he sets reminders on his phone to text Julia appreciation and admiration, which can be helpful for those who also grew up in similar contexts. 4. Physical Touch. The Gottman suggests physical affection every day, especially before going to bed to be clear. This is not necessarily sexual affection. There will be episodes in the future tackling the topic for people who may not be comfortable with physical touch. 5. Date Night. The Gottman's encourage a two hour date night, once a week, the setting. “So do you go to a restaurant? Do you go out for a movie? The setting is less important than the process for communication and exploring deeper things about the other person.” Julia says, and then adds that though this may not be attainable weekly for many people, even monthly or bi-monthly is great, and everyone is just doing the best they can. 6. State of the Union meeting. Jeremiah explains, “Gottman encourages a one hour business meeting each week to discuss practical and logistical aspects of your relationship, such as finances. Trips, meal planning, childcare, chores, et cetera.” The state of the union keeps the administrative part of the relationship out of the romantic part of the relationship. Healthy relationships include all six of these items; this week, focus on developing two of these in your relationship with your partner. And then, for the next month, build one item a week into your relationship building. Let's heal together!

Links to things mentioned:Our Patreon community! It's super fun, and it helps fund our research! Join us for as little as $5 a month.Our book The Great Sex Rescue, plus our two books that look into the sexual response cycle in detail: The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex. Emerson Eggerichs: His podcast where the clips were taken from, plus the podcast where we analyzed his advice to the woman crying the shower; the post where we went into this in detail; and the podcast featuring the woman who wrote in to Eggerichs. Dr. Laura Robinson's critiques of Beautiful Union. Here's Part 6 with links to everything (so go here, but then start at post 1 that is linked at the top and work your way through). In this podcast we focused on parts 3 and 4. My original Twitter thread about the visceral reaction that women have to sex advice. An article earlier this week about how pastors aren't necessarily the experts; lots of links to other well thought out critiques of Beautiful Union by Joshua Butler. 

Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on the topic of marriage, parenting, communication and more. Based on over three decades of counseling as well as scientific and biblical research, Dr. Eggerichs developed the Love and Respect Marriage Conference which he presents to live audiences around the country. This dynamic and life-changing conference is impacting the world, resulting in the healing and restoration of countless relationships. Dr. Eggerichs has authored several books, including the national bestseller Love and Respect, which is a New York Times bestseller, Platinum and Book of the Year award winner, and sold over 2 million copies. Emerson and his wife Sarah live in Grand Rapids, MI and have three adult children. He is the Founder and President of Love and Respect Ministries. Emerson has blessed Katie and I in a tremendous way. The term love and respect is a common part of Christian vernacular all of a sudden now. It's a household term in Christian marriages. It's impacted countless homes. Ephesians 5:33 - “Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.” is the verse that the Love and Respect message is based off. I hope that listening to this interview today will bring as much value to your life like it did mine! You can learn more and follow Dr. Emerson Eggerichs on his podcast, blog and other resources through his website: https://www.loveandrespect.comEmerson's books mentioned in podcast: "Love and Respect" - https://amzn.to/3MsAbWK "Mother and Son" - https://amzn.to/3oo185I - The Growth Initiative: Now open for enrollment!https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/thegrowthinitiative - Top 5 Tuesday Join our weekly email list to keep up to date with the highlights of what is going on in our family life. https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/top-5-tuesday-newletter - Looking for more Now That We're A Family resources? We got 'em! Website: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nowthatwereafamily/ OUR FAMILY MUSIC ACADEMY: https://www.voetbergmusicacademy.com - Homeschool Course: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/homeschool Get it All Done Club: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/get-it-all-done-club - Is your life just too complicated to ever feel peaceful? Check out Katie's Free Home Management Masterclass: https://www.nowthatwereafamily.com/get-it-all-done-club

Seit dem 1. Januar 2023 hat Kroatien den Euro. Der Finanzminister freut sich auf die neue Währung. Auch der Chef der kroatischen Nationalbank sieht nur Vorteile. Doch die Menschen im Land sind sich da nicht so sicher.Eggerichs, Gritwww.deutschlandfunk.de, Gesichter EuropasDirekter Link zur Audiodatei

Seit dem 1. Januar 2023 hat Kroatien den Euro. Der Finanzminister freut sich auf die neue Währung. Auch der Chef der kroatischen Nationalbank sieht nur Vorteile. Doch die Menschen im Land sind sich da nicht so sicher.Eggerichs, Gritwww.deutschlandfunk.de, Gesichter EuropasDirekter Link zur Audiodatei

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Episode #37 Mothers, Adult Sons & Empty Nesting (Guest: George Stahnke from Focus on the Family) As a son grows into a young man, he needs his mother's love and, now, more than ever, her respect. This respect needs to be unconditional. We need to understand our son's: masculine drives. their desire to achieve, provide and protect. and his need for friendship with us. Listen in as Charlotte and George Stahnke from Focus on the Family discuss some key points from Dr. Emerson Eggerichs' new book entitled: Mother and Son – The Respect Effect. Your son does want to connect with you, but on his own terms. “Men do not fear transparency,” says Eggerichs, “they fear shame, disapproval or a lecture. They fear disrespect.” Charlotte and George dive in to unveil helpful understandings of your son and his need for your respect to establish deeper levels of trust in your relationship. Listen in to hear how to do life “shoulder to shoulder” with your son and more. Other topics discussed include: What to do when your son does not deserve respect. What to say during times of conflict. How to handle when your son is angry with you. How to honor their family unit. How our need to ask our son's advice is important. Listen more than you talk. Let your son see that you have your own life. Affirm him and his dreams. As we mothers believe in our sons and the person God made them to be, we can get through difficult seasons and enjoy the blessings found in good times together. Special thanks to George for his time and his own wise insight. Remember… “the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinth. 13:13. To reach George Stahnke: george@renewalcs.org For countless resources from Focus on the Family: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/ To reach Charlotte: https://charlotteguest.com/

After I recorded this podcast, I started promoting it on Instagram and an IG follower left this comment. soliloquy72 There was a D/S convention for men in Florida. One speaker recommended men have their women read "Love and Respect" by Eggerichs as a gateway to lure them into D/S against their will. I started Googling to see if I could track down more information about this, and it should come as no surprise by now that my search led me right back to Sheila Gregoire's Bare Marriage website, where her readers had led her to this same information. The relational dynamics created in Love & Respect are the exact same dynamics on which BDSM - or Bondage/ Sado-Masochism - relationships are built. What is exceptionally problematic about this is that these are the same relational dynamics that are constantly promoted in churches, which is why it literally should come as no surprise when sexual assault runs rampant in churches. Churches that promote these teachings and these relational dynamics are literally grooming women for sexual assault! Although there can be a healthy place in relationships for certain elements of BDSM, one of the most fundamental principles is that of informed consent. Women who are "groomed" into these relationships are denied the aspect of consent. This also means they are unlikely to create the type of emotionally fulfilling and satisfying relationships that can actually make it all the way to “till death do us part”. For many, the dynamics created by Love & Respect will simply result in a slow eating away of the cultural foundations that help hold marriages together. Perhaps the biggest of those being the reinforcement that organized religion provides. Following these dynamics will almost always result in the deep dissatisfaction of women. In a culture where women are free to leave their marriages, these dynamics will almost inevitably lead to divorce - even if it actually takes many years to get there. Although women are often blamed for leaving unhappy marriages, especially where there is no outright or visible abuse, emotional neglect is also a form of abuse. Churches that promote either the book or the underlying teachings of Love & Respect are signing off on the “slow rot” to a marriage that is emotional neglect. The bar for men is set way too low in too many churches, which only demands that - at best - a man simply not physically or outwardly abuse his wife. Any man that can meet that bar is generally considered to be a “good husband” and women who leave men like that are generally painted as selfish shrews. Women have needs that are just as great as those of men. Books like L&R focus solely on the needs of men while completely diminishing and ignoring the very real needs of women. This also doesn't just happen in marriages. Entire churches now exist largely to cater to the needs of men, while completely diminishing and denying both the real needs of women as well as the valuable gifts that women bring to the table. Join the Instagram community here // Twitter here // support me on Patreon here// subscribe to my Substack here. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/robin-thinks/message

Jahrhundertelang hat es im Erzgebirge Bergbau gegeben – begehrte Bodenschätze waren Zinn, Kupfer, Silber. Heute hoffen Unternehmen auf ein neues „Berggeschrey“ in Sachsen: Lithium, Zinn und Flussspat sollen umweltschonend gefördert werden. Eggerichs, Gritwww.deutschlandfunk.de, Das WochenendjournalDirekter Link zur Audiodatei

The reason religion is so damaging is because men take a kernel of truth and wrap it in a bunch of rules that are designed to give themselves power and authority. All the way back in Leviticus when God first give Moses the 10 Commandments, it wasn't long before men had wrapped a gift God gave His people in a bunch of rules man created to give themselves power. Rules that Jesus got in trouble for breaking many times. He broke them because they were never God's laws in the first place, they were man's rules. Rules they never had a right to make in the first place. In Love & Respect, Emerson Eggerichs takes a kernel of truth and wraps it in a massive shell of his own design. Today, we dig down deep to find that kernel of truth and unwrap it from all of the packaging placed on it by Eggerichs. Many thanks to Sarah D. for pointing me to Sheila Gregoire's podcast about the study Eggerichs mentions in his book, which you can find here. I have a new Instagram account just for this podcast, which you can find at @robinthinkspod and I'll have a Twitter account soon under the same name! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/robin-thinks/message

We've probably all heard the term “red flags” when it comes to recognizing narcissists and abusers, but many people are unaware of how to recognize those red flags when they see them - or hear them. This is complicated by the fact that our culture tends to value certain qualities and traits that should actually be red flags. Although an expert in certain subject matters should have confidence in their knowledge and expertise, there is a fine line between confidence and hubris or self-aggrandizement. Today, I'm going to talk about some of the “red flag language” that Emerson Eggerichs uses to help people better understand what to look for when deciding whether to trust a certain author, pastor or speaker. This is particularly important to understand when it comes to people that use the Bible to support their premises. I believe those that take upon themselves the task of teaching the Bible to others are called to a very high standard. A standard I do not believe Eggerichs meets. Here is Sheila Gregoire's Open Letter to Focus on the Family about Love & Respect. Follow me on Twitter // Follow me on IG // Visit my website If you enjoy this podcast or find it helpful, please consider sharing! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/robin-thinks/message

Join me as I have a conversation with Joy Eggerichs Reed about the up's, down's, and curveballs of life. Joy is the founder of Punchline Agency and is the definition of boss babe. She's also the daughter and former Conference Director of Dr. Emmerson Eggerichs, author of Love and Respect. Most importantly, Joy is a wife and mom who has lived life and seen God move in ways she never expected. *Full disclosure, this episode runs a little longer but it's worth it.* Season One of It's Like This is sponsored by Oyster Creek Studios. Learn more here https://www.oystercreekstudios.com/ Follow Laura Seifert on Instagram @LauraSeifertYes Learn more about Yes.ministries at https://www.yesministries.net/ Support this podcast through https://www.yesministries.net/ or Venmo @LSYES Learn about Punchline Agency here https://punchlineagency.com/

Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on marriage, parenting, and communication. Based on over three decades of counseling and scientific and biblical research, Dr. Eggerichs developed the Love and Respect Marriage Conference, which he presents to live audiences around the country. Emerson has authored several books, including Love and Respect in the Family, Mother & Son: The Respect Effect, and the New York Times bestseller Love and Respect. Emerson is also the Founder and President of Love and Respect Ministries.   I welcome Emerson to the Wow Factor today to discuss how God directs our steps and frees us to use our free will to direct our own lives. He believes that the Bible prompts people to recognize the answers to the big questions in life by understanding the four wills of God, which he calls the B.A.G.S, (Believe in Jesus, Abstain from sexual immorality, Give thanks always, Submit to the Lord). Emerson also shares how he realized that men and women communicate differently and why he was prompted to set up the Love and Respect conferences.   “It doesn't hurt to ask God to bring about a coincidence every once in a while, and see what might happen.” - Emerson Eggerichs   “The two key ingredients for a successful marriage are love and respect.” - Emerson Eggerichs   “I just want to see the hand of God in my life; I really don't care what's in it.” - Emerson Eggerichs    This Week on The Wow Factor:  How the challenges in Emerson's family situation prompted him to know Christ and lead his family to Christ What Emerson learned about leadership in the early years of being a senior pastor Why Emerson made the decision not to write any books until he was 50 Why Emerson was inspired to develop some way to help people experience, love, and respect Emerson describes the four wills of God and shares why they remain central to almost every part of life What the ‘crazy cycle' is and how it can damage a marriage The importance of being honest with yourself about where you can do better in your life How the Bible gives us constant reminders of the critical factors in life Emerson's thoughts on the state of marriage in the US today   Dr. Emerson Eggerichs' Words of Wisdom: God is using you to lead, that doesn't necessarily mean you'll be rich, but the most successful people in life are those that have loved God and loved others.   Connect with Dr. Emerson Eggerichs: Love and Respect Website Love and Respect Podcast   Connect with The WOW Factor: I Like Giving: The Transforming Power of a Generous Life by Brad Formsma Words of Wisdom Website Brad Formsma on LinkedIn Brad Formsma on Instagram Brad Formsma on Facebook Brad Formsma on Twitter    

On today's episode of How'd She Do That? host Emily Landers welcomes Joy Eggerichs Reed onto the show! Joy is a wife, mother, author, and the Founder of Punchline Agency, a literary and speaking agency for people good on the page and the stage! Joy has had several different roles, fields of study, and industry observations throughout her career and we discuss many of them in today's episode. As a longtime lover of communication, a natural promoter, and connector of people, Joy has used those passions to both hone her own craft and assist other authors and speakers in doing so themselves. In this episode, Joy shares the story of the early stages of her career all the way to the present day which includes her starting her own business, becoming a mother, and moving to France! We know you'll love this episode! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/howdshedothat/support

This week on Live Well Anyway, host MacKenzie Koppa chats with Joy Eggerichs Reed, and they do a little catching up on life since the last time Joy was on the show. After that, they diving into the topics of coaching authors, writing books, and what goes into publishing. Joy gives MacKenzie a little writing “tough love” on this episode, and their conversation is an encouraging and educational listen for anyone wanting to write a book. Be sure to stay tuned to the end of the episode after the interview with Joy because MacKenzie is reading a chapter from the book she is working on writing, as well as a chapter from Joy's new book! JOIN US ON PATREON Live Well Together! Patreon Community LINKS MENTIONED Joy's Instagram Joy's Agency: Punchline Agency Subscribe to MacKenzie's YouTube Channel Sign up for MacKenzie's newsletter “Well, anyway…” Follow MacKenzie on Instagram @mackenziekoppa Live Well Anyway Facebook Group WHERE TO FIND THE SHOW Apple Podcasts Google Play Music Spotify Player FM VISIT OUR SPONSORS Apostrophe- Go to Apostrophe.com/LIVEWELL and click Begin Visit, and use code LIVEWELL to get your first dermatology visit for ONLY $5. Uprising Food- Get $10 OFF a Starter Bundle when you go to uprisingfood.com/livewell and order your first bundle. SHOP WITH US THROUGH AMAZON Thank you for using our Amazon affiliate links to support the show! Get to the Publishing Punchline by Joy Eggerichs Reed

Sheila Wray Gregoire is an excellent and insightful  interviewer. This Bonus Episode for The Eden Podcast is taken from the last section of Episode 111 of The Bare Marriage Podcast where she interviews Bruce C. E. Fleming on the word "head" and his new book Beyond Eden, Ephesians 5-6.In this interview they both refer to her first interview of Bruce on Episode 99 on The Bare Marriage Podcast. There she questioned Bruce about The Book of Eden, Genesis 2-3 and the importance of getting right a verse that has been gotten wrong for the last hundred years. It is Genesis 3:16, and especially Line 1 in the Hebrew text. In her research Dr. Joy Fleming found that God didn't curse Eve (or Adam) or limit woman in any way! Though most all modern translations make the verse look like God did that. It turns out that when Genesis 3:16 is made clear the seven passages on women and men in the Bible can be made clear. This BONUS Episode of The Eden Podcast is about one of those passages, the one in Ephesians 5-6.  Beyond Eden, Ephesians 5-6 is available on Amazon HERE as a Kindle e-book and as a 118-page paperback complete with Study Guides after each chapter. Beyond Eden and The Book of Eden are also available as audiobooks on Audible.Go Deeper!

If you've ever had a dream of writing a book, this episode is for you. Our guest is Joy Eggerichs Reed - a literary agent, owner of a speakers bureau and author of the new guide - Get to the Publishing Punchline - a book that demystifies and defines exactly what it takes to develop a get-noticed book proposal. Joy shares all about the publishing world, why a book proposal is an important part of the writing process and gives us a sneak peak into her life in Paris, France. Find more info about Joy and her new book at www.publishingpunchline.com Follow Joy at @joyeggerichs and @punchlineagency Show notes and more available at www.pageofourlivespodcast.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pageofourlivespodcast/support

If you've ever had a dream of writing a book, this episode is for you. Our guest is Joy Eggerichs Reed - a literary agent, owner of a speakers bureau and author of the new guide - Get to the Publishing Punchline - a book that demystifies and defines exactly what it takes to develop a get-noticed book proposal. Joy shares all about the publishing world, why a book proposal is an important part of the writing process and gives us a sneak peak into her life in Paris, France. Find more info about Joy and her new book at www.publishingpunchline.com Follow Joy at @joyeggerichs and @punchlineagency Show notes and more available at www.pageofourlivespodcast.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pageofourlivespodcast/support

Love & Respect Author Speaks to Moms About God How do we find God's will for life's big decisions? Should you take the job? Quit the job? Begin a relationship? End a relationship? Move? Plant roots? There ARE answers according to Dr. Eggerichs, famed author of Love & Respect. Eggerichs believes the Bible itself reveals the clue--a secret hidden in plain sight. SIMPLE TRUTHS to set you free to make the best decisions for your mom life. Learn from Dr. E's new book: The Four Wills of God: The Way He Directs Our Steps and Frees Us to Direct Our Own Discover The Four Wills Of God Learn The Starting Point for Making Your Next Decision Find The Freedom God Gives You to Decide Tune in and ENJOY your Mom Life on THIS ChannelMom Podcast or...  Listen to ChannelMom Radio (or join us on Facebook LIVE) Fridays @ 1PM - Saturdays @ 7AM and @ 2:30PM Shop Amazon?? Go to Amazon Smileand choose ChannelMom Media as charity for Amazon Smile to donate to!

We are SO excited to have Dr. Eggerichs, founder of Love and Respect Ministries and author of "The Four Wills of God," on The Autumn Miles Show. Tune in as Autumn and Dr. Eggerichs discuss his book and the way God directs our steps and frees us to direct our own.

In this episode, we cover a passage from Ephesians and how it calls for us to be mutually submissive to each other when in a committed relationship.  We talk about the Love & Respect material from Dr. Eggerichs and how understanding this allows a married couple to influence each other to greater things.  Show Notes and Resources.

Tune in to hear Pastor Wilson talk about the broken window fallacy. Then he plugs Love & Respect, and wraps things up with a talk about the Greek word “Akrates”. Happy Plodding!  Show Notes: The Broken Window Fallacy: if I throw a brick through someones window, is that an economic stimulus? what if I throw a brick through every window? this will create a lot of work for glass companies, and this is what people see but the people don't see what the car owners would have spent their money on the money that they spend on the window is money that they won't spend anywhere else we can't just pretend that we are sophisticated because we intend to look at one half of the picture only Love & Respect written by Emerson Eggerichs addresses the differences in women when it comes to the desire in love and respect devoted to sort out marriage problems because of this difference in men and women the bible commands us according to our weakness and according to our spouses needs Eggerichs walks through this and gives a ton of advice for couples on how to walk through it all Akrates used once in NT (2 Tim. 3:3) it means incontinent  sins are cleary like grapes they come in clusters

On this episode of the Catalyst Podcast, Tyler Reagin sits down with Emerson Eggerichs to discuss some crucial questions one should ask before hitting send in order to prevent headaches and heartaches in communication. Slow down, take a few deep breaths, and consider before it's too late! Learn more about Emerson's book, Before You Hit Send, at beforeyouhitsend.org.

When Your Man Looks At Unmentionable Material...  Dr. Emerson Eggerichs gets REAL with BIGGEST challenges to LOVE As real mom shares hurt of a husband who looks ONLINE for satisfaction, Dr. E discusses WHAT to do about it. Eggerichs is best known for his bestselling book Love & Respect which revolutionized MANY love relationships! AND... we'll also chat about his NEW book Before You Hit Send (good stuff with timely advice) Catch it all on this ChannelMom Podcast... OR Listen to ChannelMom Radio Fridays @ 1PM - Saturdays @ 7AM and @ 2:30PM On Denver's 94.7 KRKS FM OR Stream at LISTEN LIVE link above.                             Save Save Save Save Save

A Little Love for Moms: Tips for Relationships and Fashion! MOPS on ChannelMom: MOPS Expert with FUN (easy) fashion tips for moms... and up-dating your look directly from your closet! PLUS Dr. Emerson Eggerichs will be here to help moms... with the LOVE DILEMMA as Valentine's Day draws near. Eggerichs is best known for his bestselling book Love & Respect which revolutionized MANY love relationships! AND... we'll also chat about his NEW book Before You Hit Send (good stuff with timely advice) Catch it all on this ChannelMom Podcast. OR Listen to ChannelMom Radio Fridays @ 1PM - Saturdays @ 7AM and @ 2:30PM On Denver's 94.7 KRKS FM OR Stream at LISTEN LIVE link above.   Save Save Save Save Save Save Save Save Save

Proof That Certain Words Work Best for Boys... Featuring Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, Author of new release, Mother & Son [WIN BOOK by tweeting us @ChannelMom #MotherandSon] Is there a magic key to break through to your boy(s) and build them up for success? Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, of Love & Respect fame, is sharing tips from his soon-to-be-released book... and we'll hear it first on ChannelMom Radio & Podcast Also catch ChannelMom Radio live... Listen Fridays @ 1PM - Saturdays @ 7AM and @ 2:30PM On Denver's 94.7 KRKS FM OR Stream the show at link above More from Dr. Eggerichs at loveandrespect.com

Making The Mother & Son Relationship Great Featuring, Dr. Eggerichs, sharing from his forthcoming book Mother & Son Best Tips for Raising Your Sons Successfully You may know him as the bestselling author of Love & Respect, the book that's helped save many marriages... but Dr. Eggerichs is now helping save and improve many mother and son relationships! More from Dr. Eggerichs at: loveandrespect.com You Can Hear us on Radio too! Listen Fridays @ 1PM - Saturdays @ 7AM and @ 2:30PM On Denver's 94.7 KRKS FM Or Stream show by clicking "Listen Live" at channelmom.com

Discover The Most Effective Tip To Relate To Your Son ~ Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, of Love & Respect, shares breakthrough advice from his upcoming book... on how Moms can relate better with Sons. Latest research points to most effective ways to communicate and relate to your boy(s) More from Dr. Eggerichs and his book, Mother & Son at loveandrespect.com You Can Hear Us On Radio Too! Fridays @ 1PM - Saturdays @ 7AM and @ 2:30PM On Denver's 94.7 KRKS FM OR Stream show by clicking "Listen Live" at channelmom.com

Dr. Eggerichs On #1 Marriage Problem For Couples Well, this is one of the biggest… Dr. Emerson Eggerichs explains very typical problem husbands and wives have… it's more simple to overcome than you might think!  Find out what the pattern is and how to fix it! What Men Won't Do And Women Love To Do I actually share about my own marriage with Dr. Eggerichs because I think the struggles my husband and I have are typical.  Hope this answer from Dr. Eggerichs helps YOU.  Dr. Eggerichs wrote the bestseller, Love & Respect, and offers marriage conferences. More On Biggest Marriage Problem More of this interview uploading soon to CM Podcasts and also find our more at loveandrespect.com

Most Want Marriage, But What's Stopping Them? Just when you thought marriage was washed up, we discover most people admit they'd like to be married.  The reasons why people stay away from marriage may ring a bell.  Joy Eggerichs (daughter of Love & Respect founder, Dr. Emerson Eggerichs) lets us in on the research. Marriage Still The Ideal Despite Other Choices Despite divorce and co-habitation, most people admit they'd just like to be married.  The age group between 18 and 35 have very specific fears about marriage, so Joy of LOVE AND RESPECT (NOW) works to dispel some of the scary myths about marriage.  One way Joy helps people get over marriage fears is through The Illumination Project, which she put together with her dad, Emerson. Get More Marriage Insights More of this interview uploading soon to CM Podcasts and you can get more fascinating insights from Joy at loveandrespectnow.com