Dear Future Husband

If you've ever felt like your breakthrough is taking too long—this episode is for you.In this episode, Mia Fieldes Dunnavant shares her remarkable journey of holding onto faith through decades of waiting—for direction, for healing, and for love. From meeting her husband after 20+ years of trusting God's promise to a miracle that left doctors speechless, Mia's story is raw, real, and full of hope.This episode is a reminder that delay doesn't mean denial—and that the God who made the promise is faithful to fulfill it.Connect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Meet today's guest, Jackie Dorman—author and successful matchmaker for thousands. She's giving us a breakdown into how YOU, yes you, can effectively know what to look for and find a partner.I'm encouraging you to take these practical tips and pair them with prayer so you can be expectant and led in your dating journey!Find Jackie's challenge and other resources at www.jackiedorman.com OR if you recognize this is a season of healing before you give your heart to someone, you can get the first chapter of Break Up with What Broke You free here: https://christianbevere.com/subscribefirstchapterConnect with Christian or find her book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

What is the waiting producing within you? A thought-provoking question that Pastor DawnCheré Wilkerson explores with us as we talk about how we can allow the waiting season to work wondrous things within us WITHOUT having to fake a smile or pretend our desires don't matter. Tune in and tell us what you got from this conversation!Don't wait to get your $40 off your Good Ranchers subscription with our code "DFH" at https://go.goodranchers.com/dfhGet DawnCheré's new book "Slow Burn" everywhere books are sold and check out Vous Church if you're in the Miami area!Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Men, we don't want you to be cocky we need you to be humble! In this episode, we explore the difference and what marks a man made through a confidence that is long lasting and not self-seeking.Godly Confidence Prayer for Your (Future) Husband:"Lord, I pray for my future husbands confidence that he would be found in You. Show him how to walk in humility. Tether his self-assurance to Your design. Like young David with his slingshot, grant him confidence in what YOU have placed in his hands. I rebuke insecurity and fear of man, and in it's place ask for humility and courage. Make him an example of GODLY confidence; bypassing the superficial and resounding the internal virtue you placed in him so that his very being glorifies you."Find more guided prayers for your future husband at our Instagram community @THEDEARFUTUREHUSBANDPODCASTConnect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Will he or won't he?! The battle of waiting to finding out if he is going to ask you out. It's led some to wonder if women can make the first move. Let's chat about that and these topics:•The difference in showing interest vs. initiating•Who should make the first move?•What to do if a guy is being slow or shy to ask you out.•How to show your available without coming across as desperate.Make the first move toward better food—use my code "DFH" to get $40 off your quality meat subscription at https://go.goodranchers.com/dfhConnect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Is prayer a sweet blessing or a potent tool in your marriage? In this episode, featuring Tori Masters, we share the ways we've seen power in praying over our husbands, as well as when we have not. This is something you can start doing if you have not AND even start during singleness.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Are we in the clear from doubt or hesitancy after we move from dating to engagement? For me, I didn't experienced either until AFTER he proposed

Of all the ways you can be investing in yourself, which areas will stand out to your future husband? Back by popular demand, my husband, Arden, shares 3 things Christian men may be looking for in a wife. How are you growing in these qualities throughout the season you're in?Speaking of qualities, get your quality meat from our sponsor at www.GoodRanchers.com! Use code "DFH" for $40 off your first meat subscription.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Sometimes in our fight to be strong women, we create a plight for brokenness... Where we think we have to have it all together and be completely independent. But what if I told you there was a way to be powerful yet poised? Prayerful for our dreams and talents and prayerful for our (future) husbands?In this episode, Courtney Garrett, renowned artist, mother and wife, shares how she's learned to embrace her authentic strength and use it as a tool for connection rather than friction.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

My thoughts on this controversial question as someone who did!Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Even if you dream of marriage and can't wait to say "I Do", you may not fully know what you'r signing up for... In the first year of marriage there is an undoing in yourself as the two become one. You'll face challenges and trying conversations as you begin to understand how to love this person you have vowed to love the rest of your life.In this episode, evangelist Keenan Clark shares what he and his wife faced and how they leaned in to allow it to better their marriage.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Wondering what you need to know about the person you're seeing in each season? Or what to discover during your dating and engagement season to make sure marriage lasts? Then you don't want to miss this episode.In his book Single, Dating, Engaged, Married, Ben Stuart, Author and Lead Pastor of Passion City Church DC, shares practical tips and takeaways you can use in every relationship season.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

I don't think we understand just how greatly patience can benefit our lives!!Patience is a fruit of the Spirit and attribute of love. It can bring a list of benefits including career success, peace, better relationships and MORE.Use this prayer prompt to start blessing your future husband in this area!Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Two dating podcasts should give the same Christian dating advice, right? The truth is not every believer will give the same advice because no two love stories are exactly the same. In this episode, Christian sits down with Kait and JJ from Heart of Dating to discuss the dating topics that matter, see if they agree on them, and what the Bible has to say!Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Lovers and friends—Who comes first? What do you do if one doesn't like the other? In this Valentine's episode with author Grace Valentine, we discuss the importance of quality friendships and how they can impact our relationships.GALentine's Day is TOMORROW! RSVP to join us for our virtual event: www.christianbevere.com/galentinesFind Grace's new book, The Better Friend, everywhere books are sold!Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Here's a question that's been debated for a while! Just how much of selecting your spouse is free will vs. God led? For this topic I wanted to bring on a trusted voice, so I asked my father-in-love, John Bevere.What do you think about this prerogative? And how are you trusting/have seen God direct and speak to you through dating?Are you a single woman praying for your future husband and want community to come alongside you? Join us for the 4th Annual Galentines Virtual Event where we gather, dream, and laugh together on Feb. 14th!! (Sign up here: https://christianbevere.com/galentines)Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Does dating today feel like a headache trying to figure out what stage your relationship is in or how long you should date? Even as Christians, we can get lost in the nuances of modern dating and find ourselves confused and frustrated. How can we get back to that old-school love? You know when courting was intentional and clear?Here's my suggestion: get rid of dating! Let me explain why....Be sure to listen and let me know what you're going to be doing differently in dating this year! Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Have you ever been in a relationship that you knew wasn't right but didn't want to give up? In that moment it can be hard to get your head and your heart on the same page.In this episode, Madison Prewett Troutt shares the lessons she's learned from overcoming heart break and trusting God's "yes"s and "no"s in dating. Find answers for common questions such as "Can you stay friends with an ex?" and "How do you move on?"Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

This month Arden and I celebrate our 6th wedding anniversary! But as we celebrate our marriage, we know that not every couple makes it the distance. So why do people seperate or say they regret getting married?Perhaps there are thoughts and traps we can avoid that are designed to dismantle relationships. Even if you're not yet married, dive into this topic so you're better equipped to protect and enjoy your spouse and your commitment!Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

We may tire of hearing dating referred to as a "waiting period" but that's often what we feel in the in-between. This is one of those messy, challenging topics that if we can embrace it and learn from it will do exceedingly more in and for us than we can yet see. Our guest, Ebie Hepworth, shares her testimony and the powerful lessons and gifts that waiting in the hard seasons has given her. Whether you are waiting on your future spouse or have been believing for a miracle—there is a way to wait, or in some instances suffer, WELL.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

It's a no-brainer that we want to help our husbands become their best when we're married, but have you ever thought, "Could I be doing something to aid him now even before we're together?"The power of prayer transcends time and understanding. You can begin praying for your future husband's character now with the key verses in this episode!Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

"Most people don't know they're in a toxic relationship until they're out of it." That's a scary reality! If you've been in an emotionally or physically toxic relationship, or want to learn how to avoid falling into one, our guest, Ashley Henriott, shares how to spot the warning signs and make a change!There IS better ahead for you. What will you choose today to make that next action, relationship or behavior different? Find Ashley's new book, "Confidence Is an Inside Job" here: https://www.amazon.com/Confidence-Inside-Job-Conquer-Self-Doubt/dp/0593601017Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Countless obstacles and temptations are coming after our men's sexuality today. They're constantly teased and pulled into areas of compromise or confusion from pornography to unfaithfulness. But what should we do, criticize, and turn away? Not on my watch.Your marriage is worth fortifying, and if the enemy is fighting to taint your (future) husband's sexuality then let us fight even harder to bless it!!Use this prayer over your spouse or future spouse to come alongside him and ask God to steward his sexuality in a way that betters him and benefits you both!Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

We long to be married, but what legacies from your marriage will last long after you say I do? As wives, or future wives, we want to make sure we don't just find a husband but cherish him without forgetting the gift our spouse is!Before her husband, American Sniper Chris Kyle, passed away, Taya and her husband created patterns and principles that led to a legacy of love. Now she helps other couples grow closer together and overcome life's hardest obstacles.To learn more about Taya and her foundation, visit https://www.tackf.org/Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Are you allowing your heart to properly heal after a heartbreak?We're often tempted to brush this pain off or push it under the surface... maybe buried beneath a pint of ice cream. Be it a breakup, loss, longing, or a traumatic event, we HAVE to give our hearts what they need when we're hurting.In this episode, Stefanie Rouse and I discuss how addressing pain-points authentically and timely allows us to grow through the hurt and into hope.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Prayer is powerful. Why wait to bless your marriage and your spouse until after you tie the knot?With so many distractions, options, and attacks against our men today, we have the powerful honor of interceding on their behalf. Let this prayer guide you in aiding his direction and believing that the call on his life is esteemable and achieveable!!Ladies, you can pray this over your husband if you're married, or over your future husband if you haven't met him yet.Prayer for His Direction—Lord, I pray over my future husband. Be an anchor and a guard all around. Cover and ground him. Lead him not into temptation nor distraction. I know that you have written eternity on his heart and direction in his purpose. Show him how to walk steadfast in the direction You have set before him. Illuminate Your Word to him afresh. Leading him specifically to what he needs to read today to be able to know how to step tomorrow. I pray he will be supernaturally immovable until he senses where You want him to go. Give him eyes to see what You have illuminated before him, and confidence to believe that in You, he will achieve it. God, I ask you to sweep away any passivity or worldliness that can thwart his efforts or steal Your glory. I pray as he commits all his work unto You, that You will establish him and give him favor amongst men. Thank you for his ability, thank you for his talents, and thank you for giving him clear direction.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

"Where are all the good Christian guys?" is a question we hear often. I brought my husband, Arden Bevere, onto the podcast to answer this question and offer advice on how you can interact with high caliber men and what you can do to enhance your likelihood of recognizing the right guy when you meet him—IF you haven't already!Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

There's no shortage of birth horror stories... I'm sure you can easily think of one you've heard or a horrendous scene from a movie now

Of course we want to answer this question with "yes" instantly. But how are we showing our love for Jesus as our first love? We express our love to a spouse or boyfriend through romance, touch and words. But let's fully assess how we are showing our love to Christ and how often

Some say praying for your husband while you're single is idolizing marriage... But is it?In this episode, we confront HOW and WHEN you should pray over your future spouse and marriage. My guest, Hope Harvard, shares what she's experienced praying for her husband while single. Has this been "hopeless" for Hope, or make single women in the same place as her naive? Find out by listening AND then let us know what you thought below

How much simpler would it be waiting for the marriage we pray for if we had a tracking number. But God is not Amazon; and where would our faith be produced if we never had questions? There is hope in the waiting and faith from the praying. I hope this episode encourages you, reminding us all why we pray, how vital the component of faith truly is, and that God's nature and His will are good indeed.Love you and grateful you're here!! —Xoxo, ChristianConnect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

There are mainly 2 scenarios that occur after going on a date: 1). You enjoy it and look forward to getting to know them more or 2.) You believe you have a clear "not for me" after the date is over. So what do you do? As women, we tend to want to avoid this guy/conversation or "kindly" reject them slowly into the friend zone. But KINDESS is not the best solution following a date, rather, it's CLARITY! Listen as my husband Arden and I share why it's important to communicate after a—good or bad—date and how you should progress if you believe this person definitely isn't for you or could be your future husband.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Whenever we feel our best we're more prone to show up as our best. On the contrary, when we feel physically, emotionally, or spiritually burnt out, we're more likely to burn out in our romantic and platonic relationships. Today Cara Clark, Integrative Nutritionist, CN, IHP, shares the intricate correlation between our overall health and our relational health AND how you can strengthen both!Find Cara's recipes and classes at https://caraclarknutrition.com/Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

When a subscriber asked me my thoughts on prenups from a Christian perspective, I became curious as to what most others thought. Learning that 1 in 5 millennial couples today are getting prenups and opting to keep their finances separate in marriage, I knew we had to have a conversation around this. Whether you're on the trail to engagement or prepping for the future, let's talk about how christian couples should approach these conversations.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

How does the right relationship allow us to embrace our divine femininity? In a union flowing in God's design, we as women can find freedom to be our true selves, safety to flourish in new ways and acceptance and love acting as the woman we were created to be without striving. In this episode I brought back my dear friend Nava to have girl talk about first dates, femininity & faith.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Whether it's because of acne, weight, upcoming wedding or period pain, most women in the US are offered birth control as a quick-fix oral solution. But what physicians such as Dr. Jennifer Mercier are finding today is that these synthetic hormones are not advisable for long-term fertility and health, nor the best answer to problems or circumstances many women face today. So before you add BC to your honeymoon packing list, listen to this episode and see if there's a better route for you as you're planning your life with your dear future husband.Connect with Jennifer at https://www.expectamiracle.life/ if you're experiencing pelvic pains or infertility.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

There comes a point in your dating when you ask, "How committed are we and should we take the next step?" There can be many evaluation strides you need to cover well to have clarity and peace in your decision. Whether that's bringing up the sometimes daunting expectations and timelines topics or navigating long-distance like my husband and I had, here's a glimpse into how we made that move with clarity.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Trying to explain to someone exactly how they'll know if a guy is THE guy or not is a lot like trying to solve a puzzle blindfolded... It's hard to know until the pieces are in front of you. BUT there is one person who will never lead you astray and who's advice you can always voice, even in dating. Join me and Juli Bevere as we share the best advice we can on "discernful" dating!Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

So you're praying for Mr. Right and have all this time on your hands until he comes. SO what are you going to do? If you're looking to grow yourself and start marriage off on the best possible foot, then set out to master these 3 areas that will help you become your best, thrive where you are, and be better prepared for where you're going! Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Purity is, well depending on your background, either confusing, shaming or plain weird. But that is not its true nature!! There is a protection and blessing that comes from enjoying our sexuality within God's design and that's simply what the purity message's goal is—enjoyment! In this episode, Nicole Ivanov shares what led her as a non-believer embracing hook-up culture to think, "There must be a better way!"Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

There is a lethal threat our (future) husbands are facing. One that has become overtly subtle and sneaky over the last few decades. As women of faith, we can become praying wives even now! In this episode, I'm joined by Emmanuel and Bekah of Team Vulnerable. They expose the truth on p*rn addiction and how communication and prayer can free us from any sin that hinders us as individuals and/or couples. Find their resources at https://www.teamvulnerable.com/Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

"If you wanna be my lover, you gotta be that friend!" A little spin on a classic but what an idea, right? Can being a good friend actually enable us to become a better future spouse? And is contentment in singleness just soemthing people say or something you can do? In this episode, our friend Riley Sewell Kehoe shares how she saw God develop her as a wife by focusing on the blessings in singleness and being a better friend.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

We are not shy about this movement to pray for your future spouse! But there is a question floating around—when you meet that someone, should you begin praying together during dating? Prayer is powerful and our guest, Scott Kedersha, created a devotional for engaged and (SPOILER ALERT) dating couples to use to enhance their relationship. P.S. - Find "Ready or Knot" at www.scottkedersha.comConnect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

"I started to wonder if I was waiting on God's timing or if guys simply didn't like me." —Allie Schnacky.  Phew! Okay if you too have ever thought that you were only ever seen as the friend, the last one single or the girl who's simply only an option, this episode is a reminder that you are NOT second tier and you are NOT forgotten! In this episode, the joyful and encouraging Allie Schancky shares how she went from friend to girlfriend and the way the Lord's instruction was vital to her story.Follow Allie's community @chosenandfreeco for daily encouragement!Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

"I'd never go out with someone who has watched p0rn," I thought when I was single. However, then I had no idea how rapidly young men, boys, and even women were being exposed to this addictive trap. In our part one episode on the topic, Joshua Broome shares his testimony as a former porn star transformed into a devoted preacher. We discuss how you can respond if your partner shares their past or current struggle and how to cover them in prayer for protection from it's effects.Joshua's new book 7 Lies that Will Ruin Your Life releases March 5th.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

This may be my most controversial episode to date. Flirting? Bad? "What am I supposed to do with someone I'm interested in, Christian?" Okay buckle up because I want to give you 3 reasons overtly flirting could be stifling your relationships.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

So you've reached that part in your dating trek where you have waved goodbye to dating the "bad guys" but you are not looking forward to dating the boring guy. Well, our guest Kait Tomlin from Heart of Dating has a few reasons why your heart and head will thank you if you do, AND how you will be delightfully surprised sooner than you think.Find more from Kait and JJ at www.heartofdating.com.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Let's make 2024 your year for successful dating!!Our guest, Bela Gandhi, is a dating Coach who is sharing her secrets for succeeding on your next date. Whether it's your first, second, tenth, or FIRST EVER date, these practical tips will help you be confident in how you present yourself and what you're looking for.Find more from Bela at www.smartdatingacademy.com.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

You don't want to hear this question yet again but you also don't want to be a single "scrooge" this holiday season either. So, what do you do? Çan you control this situation or avoid it altogether? Here are three practical tips to navigate the dating talk around the dinner table and still enjoy the holidays!Be sure to subscribe and stay tuned for Season 2 launching beginning of 2024!Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Never say never, unless it's about settling! Relationships are dynamic connections but when we settle we trade dynamic for potentially dangerous... In this episode, Madi Prewett  Troutt and I share testimonies and tips for avoiding settling.Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com