Surviving to Thriving: A Podcast for Women

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Are you a woman that is ready to start a new chapter and not sure where to even begin? On the Surviving to Thriving weekly podcast, host and expert career coach, speaker and trainer Jennessa Durrani gives you strategies and frameworks to put into immediate practice to move you out of survival mode and into a life that is thriving. A life where you are doing work in the world that you LOVE and getting paid your value to do it. Since 2017, Jennessa has empowered countless women to design lives they love using her proven Life by Design and ignitHER signature programs all with the mission to help every woman on Earth carve out a role they adore! Her audiences benefit from her extensive business background and creative flair. And they can’t help but have fun along the way, as Jennessa lends her positive personality, exceptional humor, and high energy to every engagement. You’ll love her down-to-earth advice and storytelling as she takes you on your journey to YOU!

Jennessa Durrani


    • Oct 27, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 22m AVG DURATION
    • 121 EPISODES


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    119: INDIVIDUALITY: A Case Study in the Power of Human Design

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2024 24:54


    Send us a textIn this week's Surviving to Thriving, I share a powerful story of an ignitHER client who thought time was her biggest obstacle in prioritizing her goals. *SPOILER ALERT* Time is never the issue!But in just our second session, a Human Design reading revealed her true strengths as a Manifestor—a powerful initiator. This realization transformed her perspective, allowing her to see that what she had viewed as her big weakness, was in fact her greatest strength. Her confidence and clarity skyrocketed, unlocking possibilities she'd never considered.You're ready to discover your own unique superpowers, aren't you? Tune in!To pull your own blueprint free, visit: https://humandesignblueprint.com/Book a reading with me to gain clarity and direction for your next chapter: https://bookme.name/jdurrani/lite/initial-human-design-readingDon't forget to share this episode with anyone who could benefit from discovering their own Human Design! Watch it here: https://youtu.be/cMmA26hem8oGet the transcript: https://bit.ly/3Z9JMtgSubscribe to my Weekly Spark newsletter for a micro dose of inspiration and tips for living a joyful, vibrant life: https://bit.ly/4gpBILtReady to make a career transition? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call and let's discover your next steps: https://bit.ly/4chLQDQDon't forget to like and share this episode with anyone who could benefit!Have questions or ideas for future episodes? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    118: RESUMES: 5 Biggest Resume Mistakes

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2024 12:47


    Send us a textIn this week's episode of Surviving to Thriving, I'm addressing the five biggest mistakes I see on people's resumés—and trust me, these are mistakes you don't want to make if you're serious about landing your next opportunity and they are easy fixes! Here's what we'll cover:Formatting Flaws: Why first impressions matter and how poor formatting can cost you the job before they even read your qualifications.Lack of Direction: How your resumé might be missing a clear narrative and failing to communicate your career goals.Missing Company Overviews: Why including a brief description of your previous employers can give crucial context to your experience.Weak Bullet Points: The importance of impactful, results-driven bullet points to showcase your achievements.Ageism Concerns: How to limit your exposure to ageism and position yourself in the best possible light.If you're tired of sending out resumé after resumé and not hearing back, this episode is for you. Fix these common mistakes and you'll finally start getting the attention you deserve.You want to be noticed, don't you!?!Watch it here: https://youtu.be/B31rRLrpV8oGet the transcript: https://bit.ly/3Z9JMtgSubscribe to my Weekly Spark newsletter for a micro dose of inspiration and tips for living a joyful, vibrant life: https://bit.ly/4gpBILtReady to make a career transition? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call and let's discover your next steps: https://bit.ly/4chLQDQDon't forget to like and share this episode with anyone who could benefit!Have questions or ideas for future episodes? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    117: AI: 3 Simple Ways to Leverage ChatGPT in Your Job Search

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2024 17:18


    Send us a textIn this week's episode of Surviving to Thriving, I dive into how you can leverage ChatGPT to streamline your job search and take the overwhelm out of the process. Whether you're unsure about what roles you're qualified for, struggling to craft the perfect resume, or dreading interview prep, AI can make these tasks much more manageable.Here's what we cover:Discovering Your Career Path: How to use ChatGPT to analyze your skills, experience, and unique knowledge to identify roles you're qualified for—and maybe even uncover opportunities you hadn't considered.Resumé Building Made Easy: Tips on how ChatGPT can help you build or rewrite your resumé, ensuring it's tailored for success and highlights your strengths in the best light.Mastering Interviews: Learn how ChatGPT can help you practice interview questions for specific roles, so you feel confident and prepared when it's time to meet with potential employers.If you've been putting off your job search because these tasks seem too daunting, this episode is for you. AI can simplify the process and give you the momentum you need to start taking action.You want to make your job search easy, don't you!?Watch it here: https://youtu.be/0bBMimOqAeQGet the transcript: https://bit.ly/3Z9JMtgSubscribe to my Weekly Spark newsletter for a micro dose of inspiration and tips for living a joyful, vibrant life: https://bit.ly/4gpBILtReady to make a career transition? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call and let's discover your next steps: https://bit.ly/4chLQDQDon't forget to like and share this episode with anyone who could benefit!Have questions or ideas for future episodes? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    116: VISUALIZATION: A Simple Technique to Help You Shift Your Beliefs for Good

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2024 15:26


    Send us a textIn this week's episode of Surviving to Thriving, we tackle a tough reality: If you believe you're too old, overqualified, or underqualified for a position—then you're right. Our words, beliefs, and mental images are shaping our reality, whether we realize it or not.I dive into the world of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) and how the subconscious mind works, explaining how the beliefs we hold can either limit or propel us. I'll guide you through how to create powerful visualizations that can reshape those limiting beliefs, and show you how to align your mindset with your goals. Once you shift your beliefs, it's about packaging yourself in a way that supports your new reality—so you can transition into that next chapter with confidence.Tune in for actionable insights on rewiring your beliefs and unlocking the career opportunities you've been telling yourself are out of reach!Watch it here: https://youtu.be/nRUogYXnMlgGet the transcript: https://bit.ly/3Z9JMtgSubscribe to my Weekly Spark newsletter for a micro dose of inspiration and tips for living a joyful, vibrant life: https://bit.ly/4gpBILtReady to make a career transition? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call and let's discover your next steps: https://bit.ly/4chLQDQDon't forget to like and share this episode with anyone who could benefit!Have questions or ideas for future episodes? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    116: NETWORKING: Easiest Ways to Leverage Your Network for a Job Transition

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2024 17:43


    Did you know that 80% of jobs are filled through networking, and 40% of jobs are never even posted? In this episode of Surviving to Thriving, I break down how to leverage your network to land one of those hidden opportunities in ways that even an introvert will be comfortable with.Key takeaways:Optimizing your LinkedIn profile and presence. (3-minute mark)Reaching out to your network organically. (6-minute mark)Asking for informational interviews. (9-minute mark)Taking action today! (12-minute mark)Ready to use your connections to find your dream job? Tune in for the strategies that will get you there!Watch it here: https://youtu.be/6HIeOFVXdhYGet the transcript: https://bit.ly/3Z9JMtgSubscribe to my Weekly Spark newsletter for a micro dose of inspiration and tips for living a joyful, vibrant life: https://bit.ly/4gpBILtReady to make a career transition? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call and let's discover your next steps: https://bit.ly/4chLQDQDon't forget to like and share this episode with anyone who could benefit!Have questions or ideas for future episodes? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    114: WHAT DO YOU WANT: The First Critical Step in Moving Forward

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2024 21:19


    In this episode of Surviving to Thriving, I dive into a critical truth: you won't land a new role or create a meaningful path forward if you don't know what you truly want. I share two powerful case studies of women who had sent out over 50 resumes with no success—until they clarified their goals and found their game-changer.Key Takeaways:The consequences of not knowing what you want (2-minute mark)What's possible when you gain clarity—case studies (7-minute mark)Simple steps to help you get closer to what you really want (16-minute mark)Watch it here: https://youtu.be/vcgfRyQDUTEGet the transcript: https://bit.ly/3Z9JMtgSubscribe to my Daily Spark newsletter for a micro dose of inspiration and tips for living a joyful, vibrant life: https://bit.ly/4gpBILtReady to ignite your next chapter? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call and let's discover your next steps: https://bit.ly/4chLQDQDon't forget to like and share this episode with anyone who could benefit!Have questions or ideas for future episodes? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    113: MY MISSION: 3 Things I Want Every Woman on Earth to Have

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2024 14:42


    In this episode of Surviving to Thriving, I ask you...do you love the work that you do in the world? I'm a woman on a mission and there are three things that I want for you. And in this episode I lay them all out on the line. In just 12 minutes, you'll walk away with a clear understanding if your current role stands up to the test. Is it time to stay or is it time to go. Here are the key takeaways:My mission for every woman on earth (00:36)#1 A role that fills you up (01:31)#2 In an organization that respects you (03:13)#3 Where you are paid your value (06:37)How our beliefs dictate our reality (09:57)Watch it here: https://youtu.be/diF71FqtadwGet the transcript here: https://bit.ly/3Z9JMtgSubscribe to my Daily Spark newsletter for a daily micro dose of inspiration and practical tips for living a fulfilled, joyful, and vibrant life. https://bit.ly/4gpBILtReady to ignite your next chapter? Wondering if ignitHER is for you? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call, and let's discover what you need next! https://bit.ly/4chLQDQDon't forget to like and share this episode with anyone who needs this message!Have questions or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.Only 12 spots available. Registration closes on 9/22 @ 7 PM. Get your spot before they are gone. https://bit.ly/46bPtHTThe ignitHER group is designed to do 3 things:Help you see all that you have to offer the world.Guide you through a proven curriculum to choose a new path forward.Help you articulate your value, so that you have the confidence to present yourself to the world.

    112: EDIT: 6 Valuable Lessons Learned at College Orientation

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2024 25:22


    In this episode of Surviving to Thriving, I'm sharing the 6 valuable lessons I learned at my son's college orientation that we all can put into action today so that we can approach our next chapter with the same wisdom, confidence, and intention as any college student venturing out into the world.In just over 20 minutes, you'll walk away with actionable steps to evaluate what stays and what goes so that you can live the most joyful and vibrant life possible. Ready to edit? Here's where you can dive in and find the key takeaways:Lesson 1: Be open to possibilities (01:03)Lesson 2: Edit! (03:27)Lesson 3: Don't be afraid to lose money (06:49)Lesson 4: Utilize your available resources (10:23)Lesson 5: Don't spread yourself too thin (12:15)Lesson 6: We need friends for every season (I cried here) (13:13)How to put all the lessons into action (17:04)Watch it here: https://youtu.be/d7Llk0PpqNsGet the transcript here: https://bit.ly/3Z9JMtgSubscribe to my Daily Spark newsletter for a daily micro dose of inspiration and practical tips for living a fulfilled, joyful, and vibrant life. https://bit.ly/4gpBILtReady to ignite your next chapter? Wondering if ignitHER is for you? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call, and let's discover what you need next! https://bit.ly/4chLQDQDon't forget to like and share this episode with anyone who needs this message!Have questions or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.Only 12 spots available. Registration closes on 9/22 @ 7 PM. Get your spot before they are gone. https://bit.ly/46bPtHTThe ignitHER group is designed to do 3 things:Help you see all that you have to offer the world.Guide you through a proven curriculum to choose a new path forward.Help you articulate your value, so that you have the confidence to present yourself to the world.

    111: Healthy Habits: How to Flip the Switch from Summer to Fall with Ease

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2024 15:45


    In this episode of Surviving to Thriving, I'm sharing a straightforward framework to help you seamlessly transition from summer to fall. It's all about getting back to basics and effortlessly returning to the routines and behaviors that support your vision for yourself.In just over 15 minutes, you'll walk away with actionable steps to reconnect with what matters most to you. Ready to get back to you? Here's where you can dive in and find the key takeaways:00:50 Where to start02:51 How to evaluate the goal04:00 Two critical steps that are often overlooked07:22 How to overcome perfectionism08:43 How to guarantee your success12:57 Create your personalized planWatch it here: https://youtu.be/MogPGQ8izssGet the transcript here: https://bit.ly/3Z9JMtgSubscribe to my Daily Spark newsletter for a daily micro dose of inspiration and practical tips for living a fulfilled, joyful, and vibrant life. https://bit.ly/4gpBILtReady to ignite your next chapter? Wondering if ignitHER is for you? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call, and let's discover what you need next! https://bit.ly/4chLQDQDon't forget to like and share this episode with anyone who needs this message!Have questions or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    110: HUMAN DESIGN: Learn Your Blueprint with Heather Vickery

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2024 44:13


    "The delights of self-discovery are always available." --Gail SheehyDo you have a propensity for rest while you watch everyone race around you?Do you have more ideas then you know what to with them?Do you every feel out of alignment...with everything and everyone?In my ongoing exploration into my own self discovery, I stumbled upon Human Design and was so floored with the information that I learned, that I had to invite Heather Vickery onto the podcast to talk all things Human Design. And believe me, there is a lot!Human Design is a psychological concept and system of self-discovery that combines ancient and modern sciences to create a unique energetic blueprint for each person. The blueprint, or "design", is decoded using a person's birth data and can be represented by a complex diagram called a Human Design chart.Human design combines astrology, I Ching, and the Chakras...so if you like all things woo and are open to learning more about YOU, then this is the episode for you!Heather's Bio:Heather Vickery is an achiever of unrealistic dreams. The transformational success coach and celebrated public speaker leverages over 20 years of entrepreneurial experience to help her clients master the “Trifecta of Self” knowing, liking and trusting themselves so they can elevate, expand, and grow. Through this process, clients learn to authentically like and trust themselves, leading to inspired, authentic action in both personal and professional realms. As an accomplished author, Broadway producer, and podcast host, Heather's work resonates globally, promoting everyday bravery and self-empowerment. She's the co-host of Was it Chance? The podcast about taking intentional risk for creative success. And best-selling author of F*CK FEARLESS: Making The Brave Leap. Join us as we explore:The different energy types within Human Design and their attributes: Manifesters, Generators, Manifesting Generators, Projectors and Reflectors.How to leverage your human design to level up and thrive in your life.You're ready to level up and find your alignment, aren't you?What to listen to next:Episode 89: CAUSE VS EFFECT: Which Side Are You On?Episode 91: BEHAVIOR: Mindset Shifts That Will Change Your WorldEpisode 85: VISUALIZATION: The Pull We Need To Keep Us on TrackLEARN MORE about Heather Vickery:www.vickeryandco.com/social https://vickeryandco.com/hd-accelerator Not sure what you want to be when you grow up? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call for us to discover what you need next! https://bit.ly/4chLQDQDon't forget to like and share the podcast with those who need this message!Have questions or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    109: SOMATIC: Getting In Touch With Your Body with Somatic Coach Sara Vatore

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2024 37:05


    "If you listen to your body when it whispers, you don't have to listen to it when it screams."I don't know about you, but I can't open Instagram, Facebook, or my newsfeed without seeing the word SOMATIC. There is somatic yoga, somatic workouts, somatic therapy, etc. So when I met Sara Vatore, a somatic and peak performance coach, last fall I knew I needed to have her on the podcast.As it turns out, SOMA means the body and these "new to me" modalities are all about getting in tune with our bodies so that we can heal--emotionally, spiritually and physically. I don't know about you, but I spend WAY much time thinking about my body and all of its flaws, but I very little time on actually listening to her. In this episode we dig into powerful, but simple ways, to get in tune with our bodies and all that's possible in the way of health, wellness, and healing when we are in alignment.  Sara shared so many actionable tidbits! We actually spoke for an hour, but we lost the last 20 minutes, so if we stop short, you know why!Sara's Bio:Sara Vatore (Vator-EE), is the owner of Somasynthesis Studios, where she creates spaces for healing, integration and expansion to cultivate wellness, vitality, thriving and wholeness across all layers of being. Through 1-1 Somatic and Peak Performance Coaching, hands-on-healing, Somatic Integration Sessions, nervous system nourishment retreats and group workshops, and more, Sara supports leaders, entrepreneurs, and busy humans to expand their capacity to be in the flow of life and business with more ease without overwhelm or burnout to access their potential. Sara lives in Belchertown, Massachusetts with her husband and 2 boys.Join us as we explore:The three basic bodily needs that we ignore and need to start paying attention to.A simple and powerful way to stay in constant connection to our needs throughout the day.Burnout...what it is, what we need to look for, and how we can prevent it.If you struggle with your body, your health, your energy, and/or struggle with pain, then please take the 35 minutes to listen to this powerful episode. You're ready to become one with your body and start healing, aren't you?What to listen to next:Episode 107: EFF DIET CULTURE: An Interview with Kim Barnes JeffersonEpisode106: HEARTBREAK TO WHOLENESS: An Interview with Break Up Coach Emmi FortinEpisode 71: 101: RELEASING TRAUMA: An Interview with Dr. Colleen NorrisLEARN MORE about Sara Vatore:www.saravatore.com www.peakperformwithsara.com https://www.facebook.com/expandyourcapacity  https://www.instagram.com/sara.vatore/https://www.linkedin.com/in/sara-vatore  :  http://www.saravatore.com/multidimensional-transmissions-podcast Not sure what you want to be when you grow up? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call for us to discover what you need next! https://bit.ly/4chLQDQDon't forget to like and share the podcast with those who need this message!Have questions or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    108: THE SUMMER OF YOU: A Simple Framework To Maximize Your Summer

    Play Episode Play 60 sec Highlight Listen Later May 21, 2024 24:41


    "'Cause a little bit of summer is what the whole year is about." --John MayerIn this week's episode, we're diving into creating The Summer of YOU. We all start summer with high hopes of resetting, recharging, and rejuvenating, but often find ourselves looking forward to fall, exhausted and disappointed by winging it and not keeping ourselves top of mind. This episode is all about changing that narrative. I'll guide you through a 7-step framework designed to set an intention for your summer and align it with your current needs. We'll explore how to use memories of your best summer ever to craft a meaningful bucket list, engage your subconscious mind through visualization, and develop a detailed action plan that includes macro monthly goals and daily practices to ensure accountability.Join us as we explore:The importance of setting a clear intention for your summer and aligning it with your personal needs.How to create a personalized bucket list using positive past memories and visualization techniques.Develop an actionable plan that includes monthly goals, daily practices, and accountability measures to ensure a fulfilling summer.Join me as we break down these steps and transform your summer into a season of fulfillment and joy. Whether you're aiming for relaxation, adventure, or personal growth, this episode offers tangible strategies to make your summer dreams a reality.You are ready to to create the Summer of YOU, aren't you?What to listen to next:Episode 42: NEVER TOO OLD TO PLAY: Playing For the Sake of Practice Brings JoyEpisode 35: SUMMER OF INDEPENDENCE: We Control What We Do Not TrustEpisode 9: SELF-CARE: A Deep Dive with the Author of Flourish for Mums Sonia BestulicTrying to figure out what you want to be when you grow up? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call for us to discover what you need next! https://bit.ly/4chLQDQDon't forget to like and share the podcast with those who need this message!Have questions or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    107: EFF DIET CULTURE: An Interview with Kim Barnes Jefferson

    Play Episode Play 59 sec Highlight Listen Later May 14, 2024 34:55


    "Don't let your mind bully your body." --June Tomaso WoodIs your life on hold until you can lose those last pounds? Are you still pining for the body you used to have? Are you constantly on the search for the solution to your weight loss woes? Can you rattle off the macros, points, and calories of every food under the sun, but still struggle?You are not alone my friend.Diet culture has stolen our agency and our ability to make sound decisions that are in alignment with what WE need to live a fully vibrant and energetic life. And if you have had enough and are ready to take back your life, your health, and your agency, then you are going to love this discussion with trainer and wellness coach Kim Barnes Jefferson of Fit Girl Magic. Kim's Bio:Kim Barnes Jefferson is the host of the Fit Girl Magic podcast and the creator of the Belly Fat Code. She specializes in helping women over 40 kick menopause's ass. She says, if you feel like your body gave you the finger and left you with a body you don't even recognize anymore…she's got you.  Her coaching comes with a side of real talk so that you are not left spinning your wheels. And by the time her clients are done working with her, they realize that it's their strong habits that have led them to create repeatable routines that have ultimately given them the results that they have been seeking. Join us as we explore:How we've ignored our bodies for years as we've obsessed over our weight.Simple strategies to find your own non negotiables that will help you incrementally get to your goals.The impactful part daily routines has on your success, vibrancy, and energy. As Kim says, "How you get to your goals is how you will keep your goals." Slow and steady my friends.If you struggle with your body, your health, your energy, and/or your view of yourself, then please take the 30 minutes to listen to this powerful episode. If diets worked, you'd be at your goal right now. #$%^ diet culture! It's time to get real and get healthy on your own terms!You're ready to take back your agency and live your life on your terms, aren't you?What to listen to next:Episode 74: TRUST YOURSELF: Breaking Down the Disorder of ControlEpisode 72: STOP LOOKING AWAY: See Yourself As Those That Love You See YouEpisode 71: THE BINGE: Self-Care or Self-Sabotage?LEARN MORE about Kim Barnes Jefferson: https://www.instagram.com/kimjeffersoncoach/  https://www.facebook.com/groups/fitgirlmagic Fit Girl Magic podcast https://fitgirlmagic.libsyn.com/siteGet her 10 Ways To Lose The Belly Fat https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/bellyfat10_organicReady to ignite your next chapter? Wondering if ignitHER is for you? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call for us to discover what you need next! https://bit.ly/4chLQDQDon't forget to like and share the podcast with those who need this message!Have questions or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    106: HEARTBREAK TO WHOLENESS: An Interview with Break Up Coach Emmi Fortin

    Play Episode Play 58 sec Highlight Listen Later May 7, 2024 30:26


    "Some things break your heart but fix your vision."In this week's episode, I had the pleasure of chatting with Emmi Fortin, a break up coach, about the parallels between coming out of a relationship and changing direction in our careers. She and I both agree that you can't find fulfillment in your careers or your relationships unless you are whole. We tend to jump from one situation to another certain that we will find the answer in the new place, when the answer actually lies within us. We need to do our own inner work first.Emmi's Bio:Emmi Fortin specializes in helping women and men rebuild themselves after a breakup, divorce, or a relationship that is keeping them stuck. With her proven 3-step RED Process™, Emmi guides her clients through the phases of heartbreak recovery, providing an action plan for moving forward with confidence, clarity, and peace. Emmi is a recognized expert in her field and has been featured in prominent media outlets such as Katie Couric Media, Newsweek, Ask Men, Cosmopolitan, Medium, and various podcasts and radio shows. She is also a 2x Award Winning and International Best Selling author.Join us as we explore:The journey of becoming a breakup coach and Emmi's unique approach to guiding clients through heartbreak.The parallels between relationship breakups and career transitions, and the importance of understanding oneself in both situations.Insights into the challenges faced by clients seeking help after a breakup and the commonalities in their journeys.Lessons learned from those post breakup to help us understand what we can do now to strengthen our relationships.If you are struggling with heartbreak at home or in the office, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in for valuable insights, actionable advice, and empowering strategies to shift from surviving to thriving in your life.You're ready to move forward with confidence, aren't you?What to listen to next:Episode 102: BREAKING FREE: Eliminating Limiting Beliefs Once and For AllEpisode 98: LOVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE: Ecstasy, Then DishesEpisode 84: HOLIDAY HAVOC: Navigating Stressful Conversations with Well-Meaning FamilyLEARN MORE about Emmi Fortin:Emmi can be found @emmifortin on LinkedIn, FB, IG, and YouTube. You can connect with her via email at info@emmifortin.comGet her Free Relationship Cheat Sheet at www.emmifortin.com/whoihelp and Free Mini-Guide: 3 Things You Can Do Now to Get Over Your Breakup at www.emmifortin.com.Ready to ignite your next chapter? Wondering if ignitHER is for you? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call for us to discover what you need next! https://bit.ly/4chLQDQDon't forget to like and share the podcast with those who need this message!Have questions or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    105: FLEXING YOUR FUTURE: Career Wisdom with Leanne Rodd

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2024 39:56


    "The only way to do great work is to love the work you do." --Steve JobsIn this episode of the Surviving to Thriving podcast, we're joined by Leanne Rodd. Leanne leads recruiting and programming in the Boston Metro area for FlexProfessionals. I learn more about Leanne's journey and expertise in supporting individuals seeking flexible and meaningful work opportunities and she imparts a ton of wisdom on the best way to market yourself in your next chapter.Leanne's Bio:Leanne has more than twenty years' experience in learning and development, coaching, sales, marketing, and entrepreneurship. Throughout her career, she has advocated for flexible work options to help professionals stay engaged and purposeful in their careers, and as a career coach and adviser helps job seekers develop the skills they need to convey their value and pursue meaningful roles.Join us as we explore:The value of hiring seasoned professionals and the benefits they bring to the table.Key considerations for individuals navigating career changes and interviews later in life.Expert insights on crafting resumes to showcase your skills and experience in the best light.If you're ready to take the next step in your career journey with confidence and clarity, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in for practical tips, invaluable advice, and empowering strategies to position yourself for success.You're ready to take control of your career and thrive, aren't you?What to listen to next:Episode 96: CAREER MAGIC: Transforming Your Journey with Transferable SkillsEpisode 70: SKILL BUILDING: Start Where You AreEpisode 59: THE EASY WAY OUT: It Doesn't Exist. The Power of Change Lives in the Root CauseLEARN MORE about Leanne Rodd and FlexProfessionals:https://www.linkedin.com/in/leannerodd/      https://www.linkedin.com/company/flexprofessionalsllc/        https://www.instagram.com/flexprofessionalsboston/Ready to ignite your next chapter? Wondering if ignitHER is for you? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call for us to discover what you need next! https://bit.ly/4chLQDQJoin my FREE ignitHER campfire community for ongoing support and empowerment! https://bit.ly/3v4cr6aDon't forget to like and share the podcast with those who need this message!Have questions or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    104: UNLOCK YOUR NEXT CHAPTER: A Guide to Fulfilling Work

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2024 22:04 Transcription Available


    "It's not about how much money we make that ultimately makes us happy between 9 to 5. It's whether or not the work fulfills us." --Malcom GladwellIn this episode of Surviving to Thriving we are getting down to the nitty-gritty of your skills and superpowers and discussing the difference between finding a job and discovering a role that is made for YOU. I'm sharing a fantastic exercise straight from my 8-week ignitHER program. It's like a spotlight on your talents, unique knowledge, and what makes you truly special in minutes. Trust me, it's a game-changer.Let's dive into:Why it's crucial to know and leverage your skills and superpowers.Simple steps to uncovering what makes you shine and what drives you.How this exercise can fast-track your journey to finding a fulfilling career or role.If you're itching to step into your greatness and align your skills with your purpose, this episode is for you. Tune in for insights, inspiration, and practical exercises to unlock your full potential.You are ready to uncover your superpowers and find your why aren't you?What to listen to next:Episode 100: RISK TAKERS: Inspiring Stories of Courage and RewardEpisode 96: CAREER MAGIC: Transforming Your Journey with Transferable SkillsEpisode 90: DREAMS: 3 Exercises to Ignite Your Next ChapterReady to ignite your next chapter? Wondering if ignitHER is for you? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call for us to discover what you need next! https://bit.ly/4chLQDQJoin my FREE ignitHER campfire community for ongoing support and empowerment! https://bit.ly/3v4cr6aDon't forget to like and share the podcast with those who need this message!Have questions or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    103: UNLOCKING CALM: An Interview with OT Jessica Addeo

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2024 31:32


    "Self-regulation is not self- control. In fact, self-regulation is what makes self-control possible."Welcome back to Surviving to Thriving! In this enlightening episode, we're joined by Jessica Addeo, a former pediatric occupational therapist turned nervous system coach for women. I explore Jessica's journey from pediatric OT to empowering women in navigating the challenges of motherhood through nervous system regulation.Jessica's Bio:With 16 years of experience as a pediatric occupational therapist, Jessica has transitioned her practice to focus on supporting women as a nervous system coach. Drawing on her deep understanding of the sensory and nervous system, Jessica applies her expertise to help adults navigate the complexities of stress, anxiety, and overwhelm. As a mother of three young children herself, Jessica intimately understands the highs and lows of motherhood and emphasizes the transformative power of working WITH your nervous system.Join us as we explore:The intersection of occupational therapy and nervous system regulation for women.Practical strategies for managing stress and anxiety through sensory experiences.Jessica's personal journey and insights into the transformative power of nervous system regulation.If you're ready to reclaim your calm and embrace the joys of life with resilience and ease, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in for practical tips, empowering insights, and actionable strategies to bring peace and balance into your life.You are ready to nurture your nervous system and thrive, aren't you?

    102: BREAKING FREE: Eliminating Limiting Beliefs Once and For All

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2024 26:58


    "Whether you think you can, or you think you can't, you're right." -Henry FordWelcome back to Surviving to Thriving! In this new episode, we're diving into the powerful world of single belief change—an NLP modality that allows us to replace limiting beliefs with affirming ones. I will explore the origins of limiting beliefs, their impact on our lives, and how single belief change can liberate us from their grip.Join us as we explore:The roots of limiting beliefs and how they shape our reality.The traditional coaching approach versus the transformative power of single belief change.Understanding the subconscious mind and its role in perpetuating limiting beliefs.Practical strategies for identifying and replacing limiting beliefs with empowering ones.If you're ready to break free from the chains of self-doubt and step into your full potential, this episode is a game-changer. Tune in for insights, inspiration, and actionable steps to transform your life by changing your beliefs.You are ready to break free from limiting beliefs and thrive, aren't you? What to listen to next:Episode 94: READY SET GO: A 5 Step Framework to Move Forward Once and for AllEpisode 80: STUCK: 5 Strategies to Lift You Out of Your RutEpisode 74: TRUST YOURSELF: Breaking Down the Disorder of ControlReady to ignite your next chapter? Wondering if ignitHER is for you? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call for us to discover what you need next! https://bit.ly/4chLQDQJoin my FREE ignitHER campfire community for ongoing support and empowerment! https://bit.ly/3v4cr6aDon't forget to like and share the podcast with those who need this message!Have questions or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    101: RELEASING TRAUMA: An Interview with Dr. Colleen Norris

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2024 34:03


    "Trauma creates change you don't choose. Healing is about creating change you do choose." -Michelle RosenthalWelcome back to Surviving to Thriving! In this first interview (and hopefully not my last) episode, we're joined by Dr. Colleen Norris, a visionary chiropractor and intuitive healer. I delve into Dr. Norris's personal journey from trauma to thriving, exploring her unique approach to wellness and healing.Dr. Norris's Bio:In 2010, Dr. Norris's life took a profound turn when severe anxiety and panic attacks surfaced, leading her to uncover childhood trauma. This awakening propelled her towards studying Network Spinal chiropractic, a gentle "no crack" technique that unlocks the body's natural healing abilities. Today, Dr. Norris combines her intuitive gifts, expertise in the Akashic records, and life experiences to facilitate deep healing and transformation in her clients.Join us on the Surviving to Thriving podcast, as we explore:The intersection of physical, energetic, and trauma-induced health issues.Dr. Norris's holistic approach to healing, including her unique modalities and techniques.Empowering listeners with actionable steps to support their own healing journey.If you're ready to break free from the shackles of trauma and unlock your potential for healing and growth, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in for insights, inspiration, and practical tips to shift from surviving to thriving.You want a life that is free and joyful, don't you!?

    100: RISK TAKERS: Inspiring Stories of Courage and Reward

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2024 34:05


    "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.” — Wayne GretzkyWelcome to a special milestone episode of Surviving to Thriving! In this celebratory 100th episode, we're diving into the world of risk-taking. I share six inspiring case studies from clients who dared to step out of their comfort zones and reap the rewards of their bravery.Join us on the Surviving to Thriving podcast, as we explore:The courage to join a new community, even when starting from scratch.Embracing change by leaving a profession for a more aligned life.The journey of returning to education later in one's career.Harnessing vulnerability to advocate for oneself and others.Letting go of financial security for personal growth and fulfillment.If you're ready to prioritize your happiness and take bold steps towards your dreams, this episode is your guide. Tune in for a dose of inspiration and empowerment as we celebrate the power of taking risks.You're ready to step into the unknown and claim your rewards, aren't you? 

    99: TRIGGER WARNING: Decoding the Triggers in Our Lives

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2024 26:49


    "Be grateful for triggers. They point you to where you aren't free."Welcome back to Surviving to Thriving! In this episode, we're diving into the complexity of triggers—the situations, emotions, and reactions that shape our responses. I explore a systematic approach to understanding and managing triggers, empowering listeners to reclaim control of their reactions.Join us as we explore:Identifying the diverse triggers in our lives, from overstimulation to unresolved emotions.Understanding the ripple effect of triggers and their impact on self-soothing behaviors.Practical strategies for mitigating triggers and fostering resilience in challenging situations.If you're ready to take radical responsibility for your responses, this episode is for you. Tune in as we journey towards greater self-awareness and emotional mastery.You are ready to reclaim control of your reactions, aren't you? What to listen to next:Episode 89: CAUSE VS EFFECT: Which Side Are You On?Episode 85: VISUALIZATION: The Pull We Need To Keep Us on TrackEpisode 59: THE EASY WAY OUT: It Doesn't Exist. The Power of Change Live in the Root CauseReady to ignite your next chapter? Wondering if ignitHER is for you? Book a free 30-minute laser coaching call for us to discover what you need next! https://bit.ly/4chLQDQJoin my FREE ignitHER campfire community for ongoing support and empowerment! https://bit.ly/3v4cr6aDon't forget to like and share the podcast with those who need this message!Have questions or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.You're ready for a joyful, vibrant life, aren't you!? One where you are doing work in the world that fills you up where your amazing skills and superpowers are valued! Then book a complimentary 30 minute coaching call where we can discover together how we can get you there! The 30 minutes are for you, no selling! Book it today!https://bit.ly/4chLQDQ

    98: LOVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE: Ecstasy, Then Dishes

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2024 25:04


    "Love your whole entire life, you created it."Welcome back to Surviving to Thriving! In this week's episode, we're diving into the concept of embracing our entire lives—not just the highlight reel, but all the nooks, crannies, and under utilized parts as well. I draw on the analogy of a house with unused rooms to illustrate the importance of finding balance and alignment in every aspect of our lives.Join us in this episode of Surviving to Thriving, as we explore:Embracing the diversity of our experiences and letting go of the pursuit of a "picture-perfect" life.Recognizing what truly matters and giving each aspect of our lives the attention it deserves.Strategies for cultivating balance and harmony amidst life's chaos.If you're ready to step into a life that's authentically yours, this episode is for you. Because true fulfillment isn't about perfection—it's about embracing the beautiful diversity of life.You're ready to create a life that reflects your wholeness, aren't you?What to listen to next:Episode 90: DREAMS: 3 Exercises to Ignite Your Next ChapterEpisode 89: CAUSE VS EFFECT: Which Side Are You On?Episode 72: STOP LOOKING AWAY: See Yourself As Those That Love You See YouReady to take radical responsibility for your life? Then join me in my next cohort of ignitHER where you can walk confidently into your next chapter in just 8 weeks! http://www.jennessadurrani.com/ignitherJoin my FREE ignitHER campfire community for women!  https://bit.ly/3v4cr6aAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.Looking for a new role in the world? One that will align with your genius, provide you with the fulfillment, flexibility and impact that you desire AND pays you your value? Then join my next ignitHER launching on March 26th. Early bird pricing expires on the 18th! http://www.jennessadurrani.com/ignither

    97: AIM, FIRE, THRIVE: Overcoming Perfection by Embracing Imperfect Action

    Play Episode Play 58 sec Highlight Listen Later Mar 3, 2024 25:30


    "You don't have to get it perfect, you just have to get it going."Ever find yourself endlessly aiming but never firing? In this episode of Surviving to Thriving, we're flipping the script on the "Ready, Aim, Fire" paradigm. I share my own eye-opening archery mishap to illustrate why it's time to fire before we're perfectly ready.Tune in to this episode of Surviving to Thriving, as we explore:The paralysis of over-analysis and the quest for perfection.Why taking imperfect action is crucial for progress.Practical strategies to push past hesitation and start moving forward.If you're stuck in the cycle of indecision and perfectionism, this episode is your game-changer. Join us as we shift from aiming endlessly to firing boldly. Because sometimes, the greatest victories come from embracing the imperfect journey. I know you are ready to take aim and fire towards your dreams, aren't you?What to listen to next:Episode 92: LEVERAGE: 4 Surefire Steps to Power Up Your GoalsEpisode 85: VISUALIZATION: The Pull We Need To Keep Us on TrackEpisode 80: STUCK: 5 Strategies to Lift You Out of Your RutReady to take radical responsibility for your life? Then schedule a 1:1 session with me and let's dig in: https://jennessadurrani.com/private-coachingJoin my FREE ignitHER campfire community for women!  https://bit.ly/3v4cr6aAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.Looking for a new role in the world? One that will align with your genius, provide you with the fulfillment, flexibility and impact that you desire AND pays you your value? Then join my next ignitHER launching on March 26th. Early bird pricing expires on the 18th! http://www.jennessadurrani.com/ignither

    96: CAREER MAGIC: Transforming Your Journey with Transferable Skills

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2024 29:29


    "Transferable skills turn your past experience into your future asset." Hana DhanjiIt does not matter if you have been with the same company for 10 years or 25, or have taken a hiatus and are wanting to return to work. Changing direction can be daunting. We become experts at what we've been doing for so long, that we no longer see the value in our experience and our talents. We find it hard to see how we can go and do something else. What could we possibly provide a new employer? TONS! That's what. You are teeming with transferable skills that you can throw into your toolbox and take anywhere you go!In today's Surviving to Thriving Podcast, we talk about the unsexy topic of transferable skills:How to uncover all of your awesomeness that you take for granted.How to leverage the skills you have.How to articulate the skills you have to move you to your next chapter.If your resume is in need of an upgrade, then this is definitely the episode for you!What to listen to next:Episode 75: GETTING OUR POOP IN A GROUP: The Art of Starting AgainEpisode 72: STOP LOOKING AWAY: See Yourself As Those That Love You See YouEpisode 70: SKILL BUILDING: Start Where You AreHere is the book Soundbite by Sara Harberson that I make not of in this episode. https://amzn.to/3IeuZ71Need a fresh set of eyes on your resume? Then schedule a 1:1 session with me and let's dig in: https://jennessadurrani.com/private-coachingJoin my FREE ignitHER campfire community for women!  https://bit.ly/3v4cr6aAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.Looking for a new role in the world? One that will align with your genius, provide you with the fulfillment, flexibility and impact that you desire AND pays you your value? Then join my next ignitHER launching on March 26th. Early bird pricing expires on the 18th! http://www.jennessadurrani.com/ignither

    95: HOW: The 3 Invisible Blocks Standing In Our Way Named HOWard

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2024 32:43


    "HOW does not have a place at the table when we are in dream mode." -Jennessa DurraniHave you ever been walking down the street and all of a sudden you trip…over nothing? You look down sure you will see a hole, rock, or a crack in the sidewalk, and there is nothing. That can be what life feels like at times. We are just walking towards our goal, minding our own business, when we get stuck. When we trip over an invisible block.It's these seemingly invisible blocks that I dig into in this episode. The three most prevalent blocks that stand in our way that I've renamed HOWard. HOWard be his name, and we have no time for him and his nonsense.  In today's Surviving to Thriving Podcast, I will review the steps we need to take to get over, under, and through HOWard and his invisible blocks and:How we need to take radical responsibility for our lives and path forward.How we need to be very clear on what we truly want to assure we can actually move forward.How we finally can navigate over, under, through and around these blocks that plague us.If you are ready to finally see these blocks for what they are and navigate them once and for all, then this is the episode for you!What to listen to next:Episode 89: CAUSE VS EFFECT: Which Side Are You On?Episode 92: LEVERAGE: 4 Surefire Steps to Power Up Your GoalsEpisode 80: STUCK: 5 Strategies to Lift You Out of Your RutLooking to create your next chapter, and need more than a podcast to get started? Then learn how to work with me at: https://jennessadurrani.com/private-coachingJoin my FREE ignitHER campfire community for women!  https://bit.ly/3v4cr6aAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.Looking for a new role in the world? One that will align with your genius, provide you with the fulfillment, flexibility and impact that you desire AND pays you your value? Then join my next ignitHER launching on March 26th. Early bird pricing expires on the 18th! http://www.jennessadurrani.com/ignither

    94: READY SET GO: A 5 Step Framework to Move Forward Once and for All

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2024 25:42


    "Before everything else, getting ready is the secret to success." -Henry FordOne of the most heard quotes from the women in my world is, "Jennessa, I'm not ready...not yet." I'm sure you can relate. There is likely something that you've been batting around in the back of your mind that you are going to "take on", but right now you just aren't ready. The thing is that we don't have a handle on what ready even looks like. When will the time be right? What needs to be in place? How do we get to ready?"Not ready" is a default mode that is neutral. That is keeping us stuck. In this week's episode, I help you shift out of default mode, and shift into "getting ready" one incredibly small step at a time!In today's Surviving to Thriving Podcast, I will give you a 5 step framework to shift into "getting ready" using these tools:Visualization to help you picture what ready looks like.Commitment to help you to place ready on your timeline in the future.Breaking down the big hairy scary into small manageable pieces.If you are ready to take an active role in your life and start moving towards ready, then this is the episode for you!What to listen to next:Episode 85: VISUALIZATION: The Pull We Need To Keep Us on TrackEpisode 70: SKILL BUILDING: Start Where You AreEpisode  65: DOING MORE WITH LESS: The Power in 10 Minutes A DayLooking to create your next chapter, and need more than a podcast to get started? Then learn how to work with me at: https://jennessadurrani.com/private-coachingJoin my FREE ignitHER campfire community for women!  https://bit.ly/3v4cr6aAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    93: STORIES THAT BIND: 6 Steps to Release Your Limiting Beliefs

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2024 30:19


    “To change our circumstances, we need to change our story: edit it, modify it, or completely rewrite it. ” --Harold R. JohnsonAs Harold R. Johnson said, "We are all story. We are the stories we are told and we are the stories we tell ourselves." Now who doesn't love a good story. An origin story. A comeback story. A harrowing tale. But when these stories become so engrained. So much a part of us that we can not see them for what they really are they bind us. They keep us stuck right where we are. Why do some stories hurt? Why do some stories stay with us for years and years? This is where we explore in this week's podcast episode. In today's Surviving to Thriving Podcast, I will illustrate how our stories are keeping us stuck and 6 steps to release ourselves from their binds, as well as:What stories are actually limiting beliefs.How to gain awareness around our stories and deconstruct them to take away their power.Step by step process for releasing their hold on us so that we can create a new reality.If you are ready to retire your outdated narrative and begin a new chapter, then this is the episode for you!What to listen to next:Episode 80: STUCK: 5 Strategies to Lift You Out of Your RutEpisode 64: LOVE YOURSELF: Stop Punishing Yourself On Your JourneyEpisode  18: UNLIMITED: A Framework for Identifying and Overcoming Our Limiting BeliefsLooking to create your next chapter, and need more than a podcast to get started? Then learn how to work with me at: https://jennessadurrani.com/private-coachingJoin my FREE ignitHER campfire community for women!  https://bit.ly/3v4cr6aAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    TRAILER: Welcome to Surviving to Thriving

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2024 1:59


    Are you a woman that is ready to start a new chapter and not sure where to even begin? Then you are in the right place my friend.Welcome to Surviving To Thriving, the weekly podcast for women ready to move beyond just getting by and into the realm of thriving. I'm Jennessa Durrani, a life coach who's empowered countless women to design lives they truly love. And my mission to help every woman on earth carve out a role they adore, one that's fulfilling and provides them the rewards they're seeking. Now, if the idea of that both excites and terrifies you, then you are firmly sitting in the intersection of oh crap and oh yea! And you're in the right place. Each week I share my strategies, frameworks, and a few stories along the way for you to put into immediate application guiding you through incremental changes on your journey to your what's next.So often we feel like everyone else has life figured out and we're the only ones lost. Think again! We are all looking to gain the confidence, competence, and clarity we need to have the life we know we are meant to have. I'm so thrilled you've joined us. Welcome to our journey together. Let's go. Learn more at http://www.jennessadurrani.comOr email me your questions or show ideas: jennessa@jennessadurrani.comJoin my free online community, the ignitHER Campfire: https://bit.ly/3v4cr6a

    92: LEVERAGE: 4 Surefire Steps to Power Up Your Goals

    Play Episode Play 57 sec Highlight Listen Later Jan 30, 2024 14:16


    “Once the subconscious mind accepts an idea, it begins to execute it.” --Joseph MurphyYour subconscious mind is your secret weapon, but if you don't understand how she ticks, she could be your Achilles tendon. Today I want to share with you some of the amazing things that the subconscious mind is capable of and how you can leverage her amazingness to actually get what you want. Once you are on the same page, you are unstoppable! In today's Surviving to Thriving Podcast, I will share with you the four steps to create a new reality where your goals come with ease and you have peace of mind:How to focus on what you want and not what you don't want.How to be clear and concise.How you can leverage repetition for success.And how your words and thoughts must remain positive for everyone!If you are ready to get what you want once and for all, then this is the episode for you!What to listen to next:Episode 89: CAUSE VS EFFECT: Which Side Are You On?Episode 91: BEHAVIOR: Mindset Shifts That Will Change Your WorldEpisode 74: TRUST YOURSELF: Breaking Down the Disorder of ControlLooking to create your next chapter, and need more than a podcast to get started? Then learn how to work with me at: https://jennessadurrani.com/private-coachingJoin my FREE ignitHER campfire community for women!  https://bit.ly/3v4cr6aAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    91: BEHAVIOR: Mindset Shifts That Will Change Your World

    Play Episode Play 46 sec Highlight Listen Later Jan 22, 2024 25:49


    "It's not the mountain that we conquer, but ourselves." -Edmund HillaryOur words, thoughts and images do not describe our reality, they are creating it. Read that again. Let it sink in. Our state of mind, our thoughts, our internal dialogue, the stories that we believe to be true about ourselves, is keeping us in our current reality.The only way we can change our reality, is to change our thoughts, our inner self talk, the images that we have, and our belief system. It's simple, but not easy. But it's absolutely amazing to think that by putting into place simple mindset changes that we can change our world. And I've got the starting point for you!In today's Surviving to Thriving Podcast, you'll learn:7 of the 14 Presuppositions of NLP that I think will blow your world wide open and help you see yourself and those that you love in a completely new light.How to view the world from the perspective of others and how this respect will strengthen your relationships and understanding.How you are doing the absolute best that you can with what you have and how you can use that to move forward.If you are ready to change your reality and move forward stronger, then this is the episode for you!What to listen to next:Episode 80: STUCK: 5 Strategies to Lift You Out of Your RutEpisode 77: BUILDING YOUR FOCUS MUSCLE: And Increase Your HappinessEpisode 74: TRUST YOURSELF: Breaking Down the Disorder of ControlLooking to create your next chapter, and need more than a podcast to get started? Then learn how to work with me at: https://jennessadurrani.com/private-coachingJoin my FREE ignitHER campfire community for women!  https://bit.ly/3v4cr6aAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    90: DREAMS: 3 Exercises to Ignite Your Next Chapter

    Play Episode Play 59 sec Highlight Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 19:01


    "No matter where you are from, your dreams are valid." -Lupita Nyong'OI say that the women that I work with are at the intersection of oh crap and oh yeah. Oh yeah I am ready to pursue a new start (excited), but oh crap I don't know where to begin (terrified). Can you relate? I think this intersection is where the magic happens. Where you can play and dream. But only if you let yourself go there. Otherwise, you are bound to get stuck!I believe that everyone has available to them right now everything they need to create their next chapter, they just need help teasing it out. In my signature ignitHER program I have dozens of exercises that I facilitate to help each student's discovery. In this episode I share 3 of my favorite dream exercises to help you get started!In today's Surviving to Thriving Podcast, I share:An exercise to help you start recycling your past dreams.An exercise to start clearing the way for new dreams to develop.A simple exercise to help you discover what you need more of right NOW.If you are ready to play with what your next chapter could look at and find a structure to get there, then this is the episode to put you in motion!What to listen to next:Episode 85: VISUALIZATION: The Pull We Need To Keep Us on TrackEpisode 63: INTENTION: The Key to Living in the Present and Not on Auto PilotEpisode 17: MANIFEST: My 8 Steps to Manifesting Your DreamsJoin my newest ignitHER group launching January 23rd--walk confidently into your next chapter in just 8 weeks, guaranteed! www.jennessadurrani.com/ignitherNeed more than a podcast to get you back on track? Then learn how to work with me at: https://jennessadurrani.com/private-coachingJoin my FREE ignitHER campfire community for women! And please like and share the podcast with those that need the message! https://bit.ly/3v4cr6aNeed more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.Join our next ignitHER group starting on January 23rd. Early bird pricing expires on January 17th. Buy now and save $300 and get all of your bonuses instantly! http://www.jennessadurrani.com/ignither

    89: CAUSE VS EFFECT: Which Side Are You On?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2024 11:56


    "Words and images do not describe our reality, they define it."Do you find yourself feeling like nothing is going right? Life intervenes at every turn? We've been conditioned for years to be in busy mode. Making sure everyone is cared for. Every fire is put out. Every whim is attended to. We have been in effect of everyone and everything while we use busy as a badge of honor.I've recently begun a new certification program that is all based on Neuro Linguistic Programming which is like the lost user manual for our brains. And one of the first techniques I have learned is a powerful empowerment formula C > E, or Cause is greater than Effect and I want to lay it all out for you as it's a game changer to get us to finally break busy.In today's Surviving to Thriving Podcast, we talk about:How to shift our mindset to see all that is happening in our lives as a result of the many decisions we've made in our life--or being at cause.The benefits of staying in cause and no longer falling prey to the effect of others.The difference between being at cause and being to blame for everything in our lives.If you are you ready, willing, and able to play at 100% to create your desired result and to focus on what you want, then this is the episode for you! What to listen to next:Episode 80: STUCK: 5 Strategies to Lift You Out of Your RutEpisode 74: TRUST YOURSELF: Breaking Down the Disorder of ControlEpisode 70: SKILL BUILDING: Start Where You AreJoin my newest ignitHER group launching January 23rd--walk confidently into your next chapter in just 8 weeks, guaranteed! www.jennessadurrani.com/ignitherNeed more than a podcast to get you back on track? Then learn how to work with me at: https://jennessadurrani.com/private-coachingJoin my FREE ignitHER campfire community for women! And please like and share the podcast with those that need the message! https://bit.ly/3v4cr6aNeed more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    88: CLOSE OUT: My Favorite Way to Close Out a Month and Year

    Play Episode Play 56 sec Highlight Listen Later Jan 1, 2024 25:16


    "Celebrate endings for they precede new beginnings." Jonathan Lockwood HuieHappy New Year my friend! Everywhere you look this week is talking about starting fresh, starting over, clean slate. And I'm with you. I'm ready to start new, BUT let's celebrate the ending of 2023 FIRST. Even if you didn't feel like it, you've grown significantly over the past year. You have learned valuable lessons. And you have made it possible for you to be right here, right now, ready to move forward. Let's work together through two exercises--one to use every time you close out a month or a project. And the other to close out the year and start your goal setting for the following year.In today's Surviving to Thriving Podcast, we talk about:The value of seeing where you have come from so that you can use that to launch you into your what's next.My monthly closeout methodology to keep you motivated and on track throughout the year.The annual closeout exercise I have been doing for years that gives us valuable insight as to where we need to go next by leveraging all that we've learned throughout the year.If you don't even know where to begin your new year, then this episode will give you the step by step approach to dig in!What to listen to next:Episode 53: YOUR WORD: Intuitive Vision Boarding Process for Finding Your Word of the YearEpisode 52: INTENTION SETTING: How to Make Your Goals StickEpisode 37: PREPARE: Because Planning is OverratedNeed more than a podcast to get you back on track? Then learn how to work with me at: https://jennessadurrani.com/private-coachingJoin my FREE ignitHER campfire community for women! And please like and share the podcast with those that need the message! https://bit.ly/3v4cr6aNeed more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    87: PAUSE: The Permission We Need to Thrive

    Play Episode Play 43 sec Highlight Listen Later Dec 25, 2023 24:34


    "Don't underestimate the power of a pause. It allows you to recharge and refocus."We have been grinding for nearly 365 days to get to this place right here, right now. If you are like me you are torn between "I want to sleep for a year" and "I can't wait to put this year behind me and move forward." But our best bet is to lean into the pause. To give ourselves the space and time to rest, recharge...to pause. By doing so we can start to see what's most important and where we truly want to go next.There are times like these that are natural pauses, but what is the impact that we can create in our lives if we were to intentionally build in pauses daily, weekly, monthly and quarterly? In today's Surviving to Thriving Podcast, we talk about:Giving ourselves permission to take a pause for clarity, strength and rest.How to use a simple "should" exercise to help you narrow your initiatives down.My method for creating pauses daily, weekly, monthly and quarterly.If you are feeling torn between rest and leaping, take a few minutes to listen to this episode to get intentional tools to set you up for success.What to listen to next:Episode 65: DOING MORE WITH LESS: The Power in 10 Minutes A DayEpisode 63: INTENTION: The Key to Living in the Present and Not on Auto PilotEpisode 59: THE EASY WAY OUT: It Doesn't Exist. The Power of Change Live in the Root CauseNeed more than a podcast to get you back on track? Then learn how to work with me at: https://jennessadurrani.com/private-coachingJoin my FREE ignitHER campfire community for women! And please like and share the podcast with those that need the message! https://bit.ly/3v4cr6aNeed more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    86: STORY TIME: How I Met My Husband In an AOL Chat Room

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2023 26:32


    “We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.” -Joseph CampbellA few weeks ago, I started the episode with "When I met my husband in an AOL chat room..." and never told the whole story. I do love telling this story and I figured that it's the week before the holidays and you might just need a good story to keep you going while you are wrapping the 100th gift on your list. In today's Surviving to Thriving Podcast, I give you all the details of how Sam and I met by chance (or not) in an AOL chat room in 1997 and how the rest is history! So burning life lessons, or are there! Check it out!What to listen to next:Episode 43: HAPPY MAIL: An Amazing Story About the Power of the Written WordEpisode 29: STORY TIME: How I Manifested My Way Into a PageantEpisode 11: FINDING YOUR WHY: How I lost 160 pounds by deciding NOT to lose weightNeed more than a podcast to get you back on track? Then learn how to work with me at: https://jennessadurrani.com/private-coachingAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    85: VISUALIZATION: The Pull We Need To Keep Us on Track

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2023 26:24


    "Visualization is daydreaming with a purpose." -Bo BennettThrowing out ideas, initiatives and goals is the easy part. Getting them over the finish line is the near impossible part. I talk a lot about daily practices and actions and breaking big into little as tactical measures to help us succeed. They serve as the "push" we need to stay on the course. But they alone will not get us through the hard times when we just plum lose our energy and our steam. What we need is a "pull" to be our backup when willpower and discipline fall to the wayside. This week I share my framework for visualizing our success to create that "pull" that we need. That visceral connection to our goal that we must create out of our intuition and not our of our heads.  In today's Surviving to Thriving Podcast, I walk you through my framework for creating a solid visualization of you AFTER you have reached your goal and how to use that to create a failproof action plan, including:Why goal and action setting isn't enough to succeed.How to create your own meditative visualization.How to utilize the visualization to set yourself up for success, now and into the future.If you truly want to follow through on all of your declarations, resolutions, goals, and proclamations--this is the episode for you!Get your Crazed to Calm guide plus ALL THE BONUSES to get my Ideal Holiday Guided Visualization that you can use now for the holidays and for any initiative in the future!https://bit.ly/40LCYRAWhat to listen to next:Episode 17: MANIFEST: My 8 Steps to Manifest Your DreamsEpisode 52: INTENTION SETTING: How To Make Your Goals StickEpisode 53: YOUR WORD: Intuitive Vision Boarding Process for Finding Your Word of the YearNeed more than a podcast to get you back on track? Then learn how to work with me at: https://jennessadurrani.com/private-coachingAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    84: HOLIDAY HAVOC: Navigating Stressful Conversations with Well-Meaning Family

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2023 20:35


    "All stress, anxiety, and depression is caused when we ignore who we are, and start living to pleasing others." -Paulo CoelhoDo you laugh in the face of those that say the holidays are the most wonderful time of the year, and instead want to avoid them like Aunt Mary's fruitcake? Are you bracing yourself for all of the awkward and hurtful conversations that inevitably come with the gathering together of all that are supposed to love us? I get it. And I have a secret for you. It's not about you, its about them. Or at least most of it is. In this episode I'm going to share with you a new perspective and mindset to try on this holiday season that will be another tool in your toolbox to go from surviving to thriving this December. Today on the Surviving to Thriving Podcast, I share with you a new perspective and mindset to try on this holiday season that will help you see these conversations for what they are--a lot of insecurities, anxiety, and malaise!I'll teach you an awareness game that will help you see that these hurtful comments aren't about you, it's about them.We'll then identify the root cause of why these comments hurt so much.And then brainstorm ways to help head these conversations off at the pass.Just because you are related to these people does not give them the permission to take you down! Don't use all of your valuable time and energy bracing for the what ifs. Don't go looking for the jabs and the zings. You are a strong, exceptional, creative, and able individual. Don't let anyone try to convince you otherwise. Get your Crazed to Calm guide plus ALL THE BONUSES today so that you can do less and get so much MORE. More smiles. More memories. More Sleep!What to listen to next:Episode 68: SELF-ADVOCATE: My Lesson From Dr. PhilEpisode 64: LOVE YOURSELF: Stop Punishing Yourself On Your JourneyEpisode 8: IMPOSTER SYNDROME: How I Overcame it in 2021!Need more than a podcast to get you back on track? Then learn how to work with me at: http://www.jennessadurrani.comAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    83: STRESS FREE HOLIDAYS: My 6 Secrets

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2023 22:48


    "It's not the load that breaks you down. It's how you carry it." -Lou HoltzMy first year as a solopreneur I sold 750 home baked gift boxes. The year that my oldest son was born, I not only delivered 700+ gift boxes, but also published my fourth cookbook with my mom. He was 5 weeks old. Add in the fact that we are a multicultural family. Believe you me, I get how stressful the holidays are!I had to learn early on how to streamline, delegate, and align our holiday festivities and traditions to what matters most for us as a family. As the mom we have taken on the primary role of planning, buying and executing every aspect of our holidays and want them to be PERFECT. As a result, we sacrifice our sleep, our sanity, and our valuable time to do it all.  It's not sustainable my friend. Eventually you will become resentful of the holidays and everyone around you. Today on the Surviving to Thriving Podcast, I want you to see how you can reduce the stress, increase your sleep, and 10x your enjoyment of the holidays!We will start with the why and create a vision.Then work through how to navigate the inevitable crazy.And then layout how to make sure you don't miss a beat, a teacher, or a loved one.And a few bonuses along the way!Just because the holidays have always been crazy, hectic and/or a nightmare, does not mean that is how they must continue. You have it in your power to make this your ideal holiday season!Get your Crazed to Calm guide today so that you can do less and get so much MORE. More smiles. More memories. More Sleep!What to listen to next:Episode 82: HOLIDAYS: How to Thrive in the Holidays That Makes Sense to YOUR FamilyEpisode 42: NEVER TOO OLD TO PLAY: Playing For the Sake of Practice Brings JoyEpisode 46: EXPECTATIONS: The Joy Killer of the HolidaysNeed more than a podcast to get you back on track? Then learn how to work with me at: http://www.jennessadurrani.comAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    82: HOLIDAYS: How to Thrive in the Holidays That Makes Sense to YOUR Family

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2023 17:11


    "The best view comes after the hardest climb." --Benjamin FranklinAs moms we have been in survival mode for so long that we can't even see it for that. It's just become our natural state. As a result, we are prone to being stuck and blaming ourselves for our inability to get ourselves going. But this week we talk about how survival mode is not only dictating how we treat ourselves body, mind, spirit, and place, but also how we do our holidays. If we want to thrive in the holidays, we must first identify where we are just surviving. Where we have been dragging traditions along just because. And stop and just think about how we can do things differently. If turning the calendar to December sends you into a fit of twitches and makes you want to curl up in a ball and hide until January, then this is the episode for you.Today on the Surviving to Thriving Podcast, I challenge you to look at your holiday and family traditions with a new lens. To really look at what it includes and why you continue to include them.We revisit the idea of survival mode and how it is the origin of our stucknessWe discuss the fact that you have everything within you RIGHT NOW to thrive both in your life and in your holidaysAnd then I challenge you to look with fresh eyes on every aspect of your holidays to lean into what matters mostI want you to think of your holidays as a trip you are packing for each year. Feel free to bring along all that are must haves, and feel just as comfortable leaving behind what no longer fits.What to listen to next:Episode 54: SURVIVING: Bringing Awareness to Where We Are "Just" Surviving in Our LivesEpisode 55: THRIVING: The First 3 Steps to Your Best SelfEpisode 46: EXPECTATIONS: The Joy Killer of the HolidaysNeed more than a podcast to get you back on track? Then learn how to work with me at: http://www.jennessadurrani.comAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    81: LESS IS MORE: The Answer To Your Ideal Holiday

    Play Episode Play 60 sec Highlight Listen Later Nov 5, 2023 23:24


    Doing less is often harder than doing more.Do you see the holidays fast approaching and start to hyperventilate? Are you exhausted just thinking about all the "extra" that is the holiday season? We have conditioned ourselves to believing that if we are not exhausted, overdrawn, overextended, and going out of our minds to make everything PERFECT, then we are failing as a mom.STOP! The answer to having a memorable holiday season of more hugs, more smiles, more memories, and more gratitude, is to do less. Yes...less.If you can't even imagine a restful holiday, then this is the episode for you.Today on the Surviving to Thriving Podcast, I share a simple exercise to reevaluate your family holiday traditions and "right size" them to what matters most to you and those you love:We will start by looking at holidays of the past and where they went awryWe will inventory all that goes into your holidaysWe will find you whyAnd then we will conceive of a new way of doing each aspect that requires less time, but results in more of what matters!Gone are the days of more is more is more for the holidays. What our families want is more of US. More of our time, attention and presence, not presents. So listen in to see how you can deliver!What to listen to next:Episode 49: MEANINGFUL CONNECTIONS: Leaning Into What Matters Most During the HolidaysEpisode 46: EXPECTATIONS: The Joy Killer of the HolidaysEpisode 6: FAMILY FIRST: How Putting Family First is Sucking Us DryNeed more than a podcast to get you back on track? Then learn how to work with me at: http://www.jennessadurrani.comAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    80: STUCK: 5 Strategies to Lift You Out of Your Rut

    Play Episode Play 59 sec Highlight Listen Later Oct 30, 2023 23:28


    Being stuck is not a sign of failure, but rather a symptom of growth.Are you feeling stuck? Is your rut so deep you can't see over the rim? You are not alone my friend. In this episode I share with you one of my favorite children's books…My Truck Is Stuck and show it as a metaphor for our lives. Giving you 5 strategies to getting unstuck before you are completely sucked dry. If you feel like you can't get out of your own way and keep throwing solutions at your problems to now avail, then this is the episode for you!Today on the Surviving to Thriving Podcast, I'll share with you my 5 strategies to LIFT you out of your rut so that you can:Gain awareness to your situationFind your root causeAccept there is no easy fixReset your mindsetAnd find the expert help YOU needSpoiler alert, it's not a quick fix, there is no magic bullet. But if you are willing to do the work, you can be lifted up and on your way in no time! Let's go.What to listen to next:Episode 59: THE EASY WAY OUT: It Doesn't Exist. The Power of Change Lives in the Root CauseEpisode 55: THRIVING: The First 3 Steps Towards Your Best SelfEpisode 67: PROCRASTINATION: You Are Not Lazy! You are OverwhelmedNeed more than a podcast to get you back on track? Then learn how to work with me at: http://www.jennessadurrani.comAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    79: KEEPING OUR FOCUS: Setting Ourselves Up for Success

    Play Episode Play 32 sec Highlight Listen Later Oct 24, 2023 19:18


    Starve your distractions. Feed your focus.Here is the third in my series on focus. We've worked through building our focus muscle with techniques on staying in the present and determining what is actually keeping us from getting to the work. We then went through three strategies to get your focus and get you to the page and this week I share my three strategies for maintaining our focus once we get started. If you are running on empty and lie pray to your mind wandering and constant distractions, then this episode is for you!Today on the Surviving to Thriving Podcast, I'll share with you my three strategies that allow you to:Be your best self so that you have the energy you need to tackle the hard stuff.Create a space that is most conducive to the work you need to accomplish.Use essential tools to help you keep your head in the game until the timer goes off!Did you know that it takes 23 minutes to recover from a single distraction? It's no wonder we can't get anything done. If you feel like you are in the "I've got no focus gene" camp, then this is the perfect episode for you.What to listen to next:Episode 67: PROCRASTINATION: You Are Not Lazy! You are Overwhelmed.Episode 55: THRIVING: The First 3 Steps Towards Your Best SelfEpisode 45: DITCH THE LIST: How The Tickler File Changed My LifeI mentioned Executive Functioning Coach Sara Ward in this episode. She's amazing! https://www.efpractice.com/about-5-1Need more than a podcast to get you back on track? Then learn how to work with me at: http://www.jennessadurrani.comAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    78: FINDING YOUR FOCUS: 3 Strategies to Beat Busy

    Play Episode Play 33 sec Highlight Listen Later Oct 17, 2023 23:26


    "Energy flows where attention goes." --Tony RobbinsThe opposite of focused is distracted. If you can't find your focus, it's because it's buried in your busy life, as you are meeting everyone else's expectations but your own. If you're ready to beat busy and find your focus, then this episode is for you. Today on the Surviving to Thriving Podcast, I'll share with you my three strategies that allow you to:Weed through the superfluousBreak down the hard, andPrioritize what matters most to you. This is the perfect episode if you spend your days chasing shiny objects and putting out fires and thus feel dazed, confused and unproductive by the end of each day.What to listen to next:Episode 77: BUILDING YOUR FOCUS MUSCLE: And Increase Your HappinessEpisode 74: TRUST YOURSELF: Breaking Down the Disorder of ControlEpisode 69: MOTIVATION: Using Your Values to Keep You GoingAre you unhappy in your current role?  Join me in ignitHER to create a role that is in complete alignment with your superpowers, loves, and skills today...not someday! http://www.jennessadurrani.com/ignitherOr learn how to work with me at http://www.jennessadurrani.comAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    77: BUILDING YOUR FOCUS MUSCLE: And Increase Your Happiness

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2023 22:05


    "Ignore the noise."Are you sure that you are missing the focus gene? Sure that everyone else has the ability to get things done, but you are destined to have high expectations and low results? Then you are going to enjoy this episode my friend. We are going create a strategy for building your focus muscle, that will not only help you get it all done, but will make you a happier person in the process. Today on the Surviving to Thriving Podcast, we'll talk about how:Focus really isn't our issue, distraction and multitasking is.Lack of focus is robbing us of satisfaction and contentment.A simple framework and intention can help us build our focus.Making focus a daily practice is an essential key to increasing our happiness!This is the perfect episode if you need to hit pause, reset, and start again with intention and are ready to be fully present in your life!What to listen to next:Episode 73: DISTRACTIONS: Allowing Others to Dictate YOUR Next StepsEpisode 63: INTENTION: The Key to Living in the Present and Not on Auto PilotEpisode 50: SLOW DOWN: How We Need to Slow Down to Go FastAre you unhappy in your current role?  Join me in ignitHER to create a role that is in complete alignment with your superpowers, loves, and skills today...not someday! http://www.jennessadurrani.com/ignitherOr learn how to work with me at http://www.jennessadurrani.comAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    76: ALIGNMENT: 5 Lessons Learned from Top Chef to Get You Back into Alignment

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2023 22:16


    "When you are in alignment with the desires of your heart, things have a way of working out. " --Iyanla VanzantI am obsessed with competition shows like Amazing Race, Project Runway and Top Chef--I have seen every episode…twice! What I love is seeing how everyone approaches a challenge. How they have moments to decide what they are going to do and then actually follow through. Reflecting on Top Chef I have pulled together my 5 biggest lessons learned that, when put into practice, help us get our life back into alignment.Today on the Surviving to Thriving Podcast, we'll talk about:How we need play to our strengths…not other's.Honing in on what matters most…we can do anything, just not everything!Preparing for roadblocks and not letting them derail us.How self-advocacy is the name of the game! We must use our voices!Pacing ourselves so that we do not run out of steam!This is the perfect episode for you if you are feeling off kilter and are need to get your life back into alignment with what matters most…YOU!What to listen to next:Episode 66: QUITTING: Debunking the Adage That Quitters Never WinEpisode 37: PREPARE: Because Planning is OverratedEpisode 68: SELF-ADVOCATE: My Lesson From Dr. PhilAre you ready to live a life of more in 10 minutes a day or less? Visit: http://adailypractice.mn.coOr learn how to work with me at http://www.jennessadurrani.comAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    75: GETTING OUR POOP IN A GROUP: The Art of Starting Again

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2023 23:30


    "It's time to get your poop in a group." --Cindy Molgaard (my mom)Starting is hard, but starting over is even harder. When we have let our practices, routines and projects languish it is really hard to get back into the swing of things. We are so tied to what we "used to" be able to--I used to run 5 miles a day without thinking. I used to meditate 30 minutes every day, I used to be the first one into the office. But that was the old bar and if we can't let that go we will never start again. In this episode I go through the seven steps of getting your poop in a group as my mother would say and how to restart any practice, routine, or project to get you onto the road for successWhat to listen to next:Episode 1: STARTING: It's So Hard!!Episode 39: MIND DUMPS: A Valuable Tool to Clear Your Mind and Explore What's PossibleEpisode 47: HARD RESET: How to Reboot Yourself in 4 StepsAre you ready to live a life of more in 10 minutes a day or less? Visit: http://adailypractice.mn.coOr learn how to work with me at http://www.jennessadurrani.comAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    74: TRUST YOURSELF: Breaking Down the Disorder of Control

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2023 26:15


    "The best proof of love is trust." --Joyce BrothersTrust is a crucial component to any relationship. If you don't trust someone, then you can't connect. You can't work together. You can't grow and appreciate one another. We focus so much on trusting those around us, that we rarely see the mistrust we have with ourselves. I talk a lot about the fact that we control what we do not trust. We orchestrate. We create rules. We dictate situations where we do not trust.  Where are we doing that in our own life? Where are we creating disorder, to keep order? In this episode, I talk about how I have come to a place of overcoming my disorder around food and now how I am using the same process to trust myself and Universe around money so that I can live more fully in my life with peace of mind. I give you four questions to identify your mistrust and four steps to regain it again. Let's go.What to listen to next:Episode 64: LOVE YOURSELF: Stop Punishing Yourself On Your JourneyEpisode 61: AFFIRMATIONS: The First Critical Step to Loving Ourselves UnconditionallyEpisode 35: SUMMER OF INDEPENDENCE: We Control What We Do Not TrustAre you ready to live a life of more in 10 minutes a day or less? Visit: http://adailypractice.mn.coOr learn how to work with me at http://www.jennessadurrani.comAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    73: DISTRACTIONS: Allowing Others to Dictate YOUR Next Steps

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2023 31:15


    "An addiction to distraction is the end of your creative production." --Robin SharmaDid you know that it takes 23 minutes on average to get resettled into a task after even a 5 minute interruption? Now think of how many times, as a mom, you are distracted each day. About 3 million times. So it's no wonder that we can't ever make progress on initiatives…especially those focused on ourselves. Making sure that we are taking care of every stakeholder in our life before us keeps us firmly in survival mode. We are great at surviving and keeping the balls in the air. But what can we do to create space for us and keep the distractions at bay? That's where we are headed today my friends. Let's go.What to listen to next:Episode 54: SURVIVING: Bringing Awareness to Where We Are "Just" Surviving In Our LivesEpisode 55: THRIVING: The First 3 Steps Towards Your Best SelfEpisode 56: FIRST ON OUR LIST: That is the Next Step in a Thriving LifeAre you ready to live a life of more in 10 minutes a day or less? Visit: http://adailypractice.mn.coOr learn how to work with me at http://www.jennessadurrani.comAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    72: STOP LOOKING AWAY: See Yourself As Those That Love You See You

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2023 20:08


    "Make peace with your broken pieces." --r.h. SinA few weeks ago I shared photos from an event I did and I received an email from one of the women who attended pleading with me not to post the photo of her. She said that when she saw it, it made her cry. This is not an isolated incident. I've really paid attention to this concept over the past few weeks, and it's a topic that pops up almost daily. Hating on ourselves. Looking at ourselves with disgust. And feeling like we don't even recognize that person anymore. Here's the thing my friend. You are in there! You are beautiful. You are strong. You are powerful. And that's what those that love you, see in the same photo. But you are just allowing yourself to fade away. And it's time to take a stand. Let's sort through the photos together. Let's go. What to listen to next:Episode 64: LOVE YOURSELF: Stop Punishing Yourself On Your JourneyEpisode 61: AFFIRMATIONS: The First Critical Step to Loving Ourselves UnconditionallyEpisode 47: HARD RESET: How to Reboot Yourself in 4 StepsAre you ready to live a life of more in 10 minutes a day or less? Visit: http://adailypractice.mn.coOr learn how to work with me at http://www.jennessadurrani.comAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    71: THE BINGE: Self-Care or Self-Sabotage?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2023 26:44


    "I am the biggest obstacle to my dreams." --Craig D. LounsbroughI have yet to find a mom who does not identify as a perfectionist. Even those that swear they aren't are really just in denial. For so long we have been in survival mode. Putting our head down and getting it done. Let me just get through today, this week, this month…sound familiar? When you combine perfectionism with survival you get a perfect storm of all or nothing. We're either giving it our absolute all, or we are binging the next season of our favorite show. We are either eating only green juice, and fasting 18 hours, or eating to abandonment all weekend. All or nothing. And as a result, we are averaging out to exhaustion, shame, and disappointment. But what would living in a state of moderation or neutral look like? In this episode, I layout the dangers of what we are considering self-care in survival mode, and I give my strategies on shifting to thriving and how that changes our perspective on how we approach our work, our health, our movement, and our peace of mind. Let's go.Two mentions in the episode:My colleague Mel Pierce the parenting coach: https://www.melpeirce.com/Big Life Journal's post on the Tolerance Cup: https://www.instagram.com/p/CsbjD6eu9o8/What to listen to next:Episode 57: WE ARE NOT FINE: It's Time We Start Walking Our TalkEpisode 54: SURVIVING: Bringing Awareness to Where We Are "Just" Surviving In Our LivesEpisode 55: THRIVING: The First 3 Steps Towards Your Best SelfAre you ready to live a life of more in 10 minutes a day or less? Visit: http://adailypractice.mn.coOr learn how to work with me at http://www.jennessadurrani.comAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

    70: SKILL BUILDING: Start Where You Are

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2023 23:23


    "The best way to change the world is in concentric circles: start with yourself and work your way out from there." --James ClearI can't tell you how many times a week women say, “I've tried that…it just doesn't work?” Or, “I was doing so well, and then I fell down.” Or, “I so desperately want to lose weight, get stronger, find new work, connect more with friends, try new things, (whatever) but…I can't seem to follow through.” We all have our list of I Can't statements. Things that everyone else seems to be able to do, but we just can't. That's because we have been focusing on trying to build new skills without honing our foundational skills. When really we need to go up stream and understand what is keeping us from making good choices. What do we need to do to keep from becoming overwhelmed, over tired, over scheduled, and stressed. Because those things my friend are what are keeping us from being successful, not the lack of the “right” program. In this episode, I give you the 5 skills that everyone needs to hone to build their foundation for long term success in their personal development journey. Let's go.What to listen to next: Episode 64: LOVE YOURSELF: Stop Punishing Yourself On Your JourneyEpisode 59: THE EASY WAY OUT: It Doesn't Exist. The Power of Change Live in the Root CauseEpisode 61: AFFIRMATIONS: The First Critical Step to Loving Ourselves UnconditionallyAre you ready to live a life of more in 10 minutes a day or less? Visit: http://adailypractice.mn.coOr learn how to work with me at http://www.jennessadurrani.comAnd please like and share the podcast with those that need the message!Need more support, have questions, or an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at jennessa@jennessadurrani.com.

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