Podcasts about best yes

10/5/2026

Have you ever felt so busy doing good things that you started missing God in the middle of all of it? In this solo episode, I'm sharing something that has been very personal and real in my own life — what it looks like to steward our calling well, why we need to stop treating our God-given calling like a hobby, and how to create the margin we need for God to actually move.I'm sharing what the Lord has been teaching me through my own season of burnout, over-committing, and unintentionally taking control. If you've been filling your life so full that there's no room to breathe — or to hear from God — this episode is for you.In this episode, we cover:Why your calling is not a hobby — and what happens when we treat it like oneHow filling our lives too full can cause us to miss divine appointmentsThe story of Jesus and the bleeding woman and what it teaches us about being interruptibleWhat Mary and Martha remind us about misplaced prioritiesA powerful verse from Leviticus 19:9 about not reaping to the very edges of your fieldHaggai 1:5-9 and the conviction of building our own house instead of God'sPractical ways to create margin in your schedule, your business, and your everyday lifeHow to steward your "yes" well — and a book recommendation that will helpMentioned in this episode:The Best Yes by Lisa TerkeurstMark 5Leviticus 19:9Haggai 1:5-9Reflection questions from this episode:Where in your life do you need to create more margin?How have you been stewarding your time?What might God be asking you to lay down in this season?Are there good things in your life that could be crowding Him out?Sign up for our Second Cup Newsletter for weekly encouragement: https://courtneyhopejones.com/#newsletterConnect with us:Instagram: @thevesselspodcast and @courthopejonesWebsite: vesselspodcast.comSubscribe & leave a review — it helps more women find this podcast!Vessels Podcast (formerly The Trailblazer Talks Podcast)

In Episode 5 of Your Best Yes, we revisit the story of Esther—not the simplified childhood version, but the complex and costly reality behind her courage. Living as a Jewish woman in Persia, married to an unpredictable king, surrounded by insecure and power-hungry men, Esther had every reason to stay silent. Yet when faced with the annihilation of her people, she chose a courageous yes, shaped by fasting, prayer, and deep trust in God's sovereignty. This message explores how Esther's bravery was rooted in a quiet trust that God was working behind the scenes, even when He seemed absent. As the story unfolds, we see a remarkable reversal: a passive queen becomes a bold strategist, mourning turns to celebration, and destruction gives way to deliverance. Esther's yes reminds us that when we trust God's providence, seek His guidance, and step forward despite fear, He meets us with the courage and wisdom we need. And ultimately, her story points us to the greatest reversal of all, the grace we receive through Jesus.

Have you ever asked God for help and received an answer you didn't want? We often come to God expecting a dramatic fix, a breakthrough moment, or a clear resolution. Instead, sometimes He gives us a simple instruction. In this final message of Your Best Yes, we look at the story of Naaman in 2 Kings 5, a powerful, respected man desperate for healing who almost walked away because God's solution felt too ordinary. Naaman's story reminds us that the best yes is often an ordinary yes. The small step. The unimpressive act of obedience. The humble decision to forgive, confess, serve, or try again. Healing didn't come when Naaman understood the plan. It came when he obeyed it. If you've been resisting a step because it feels too small or too slow, this message is an invitation to trust God with the next faithful thing. Your delay does not cancel His grace, but your obedience opens you to receive it.

Scripture: Jeremiah 12:1-2; Esther 3:1-15; Psalm 73:2–3, 16–17; Revelation 13:5,7; Daniel 3:16–18; Isaiah 58:6–7; Luke 4:18–19

Ever faced a moment when you knew the right thing to do, but also knew it would cost you something? This message explores that tension through the story of Nehemiah, a man whose life was comfortable, influential, and secure until he heard a report that broke his heart. From a place of distance and safety, Nehemiah chose to say yes to God's call to step into brokenness he did not create, taking responsibility rather than deflecting it. His yes pulled him out of comfort and into a story much larger than himself. As the story unfolds, we see how Nehemiah's obedience cost him his comfort, his career, and his sense of control. He leaves the security of the Persian palace, risks his position with the king, and steps into uncertainty without guarantees of success. Like Dietrich Bonhoeffer decades later, Nehemiah models a faith that refuses to stay safe when faithfulness requires courage. This is not reckless obedience, but prayer-soaked trust that chooses faithfulness over self-preservation. For most of us, a costly yes won't involve rebuilding a city wall or confronting an empire. It will show up in ordinary places: relationships, work decisions, acts of service, or steps of faith we've been delaying. This message invites us to pray long enough to gain clarity, then place the outcome in God's hands. Because clarity doesn't always come all at once, and certainty rarely comes before obedience. Sometimes your yes is costly. Say yes anyway—because every costly yes we give flows from the costly yes Jesus already gave.

Scripture References:Joshua 2:1-13Matthew 1:5Hebrews 11:31Hebrews 12:2Proverbs 16:9

Scripture ReferencesNumbers 22:5–31Deuteronomy 2:9Deuteronomy 23:42 Peter 2:15 Primary SourcesWenham, Gordon J. Numbers: An Introduction and Commentary. Vol. 4. Tyndale Old Testament Commentaries. Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity Press, 1981.Wiersbe, Warren W. Be Counted. “Be” Commentary Series. Colorado Springs, CO: Chariot Victor Pub., 1999.Matthews, Victor Harold, Mark W. Chavalas, and John H. Walton. The IVP Bible Background Commentary: Old Testament. Electronic ed. Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity Press, 2000.

In this final episode of the SGF Insider "Plugged In" segment, the Leadership Springfield team sat down to talk about what it means to say your best yes. We talk about celebrating wins, cultivating our team culture, hopes for 2026, and so much more as we say goodbye to this chapter of storytelling. More to come on what sharing alumni and community stories will look like very soon, but for now, tune in and help us reflect on the past 5 years of "Plugged In"! A huge thank you to KPM CPAs & Advisors for sponsoring the 2025 Plugged In episodes! Your support brings these interviews to life.

What if the secret to balance wasn't managing your time better… but aligning it with what truly matters?In this episode, I'm joined by Dr. Amy Loden Tiffany — Christian, physician, entrepreneur, TEDx speaker, and mom — who helps women navigate the toughest transitions of health and life with faith and purpose. From postpartum recovery to perimenopause, she knows firsthand that “time management” isn't enough if your heart and priorities are out of alignment.We talk about the moments that changed everything for her (including landing herself in the hospital) and what she learned about saying no as a form of stewardship — because when you don't say no to anyone, you can't say yes to God.Here's what we cover in this conversation:Why alignment matters more than balance or a perfect scheduleHow to protect your time by prioritizing what you say matters mostWhat it means to live by your VIPs: Values, Impact, and PrioritiesThe surprising cost of saying “yes” too often — personally and professionallyHow to steward your God-given gifts instead of carrying everyone else'sPractical ways to invite God into your daily decisions and listen for His directionIf you've ever felt stretched thin trying to do it all, this episode will remind you that boundaries aren't barriers — they're blessings.

 If you're feeling overcommitted, I have one question for you in this episode: What are you saying yes to? In this episode, we examine overcommitment and the importance of giving your best YES aligned to God's will. Inspired by 'The Best Yes' by Lysa TerKeurst and scripture from James 5:12 and Matthew 5:33-37, you'll learn practical tools like the Decision Tree to ensure your choices align with God's direction. Tune in for insights on making meaningful, God-centered decisions, embracing trust in Jesus' leading, and finding clarity, serenity, and fulfillment in your God-given mission. Don't miss these highlights: 01:42 The Cost of Saying Yes03:00 Aligning Priorities with Faith04:43 Scriptural Insights on Commitment06:04 The Decision Tree Tool Let's talk about your God-honoring strategy at https://erinharrigan.com/strategyday BIG NEWS! My next book, Redefining Hustle: Navigating Success with Jesus, is publishing in JANUARY 2026! Be sure to join my email list for the updates and your exclusive invitation to join the book launch team! YOUR CALL TO ACTIONDownload the Decision Tree Tool at https://erinharrigan.com/decisiontree LET'S BE FRIENDS ON SOCIALLinkedIn: @erinharriganIG: @erindharrigan SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNELhttps://youtube.com/@erinharrigan If this show brings you value, please give it a follow on Apple Podcasts and leave a review. If you listen on Spotify, be sure to click the follow button and the notification bell so you don't miss an episode.

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This week at LYA, we explore the life-changing reality of what it means to be “in Christ.” If God has said “no” to everything else, He has already said the ultimate “yes” in Jesus. The resurrection isn't just hope for tomorrow—it's power for today. From Romans 8 to Galatians 5 and Philippians 1, we see how the Spirit sets us free, gives us access to the Father, and secures our place as children of God. Because of Jesus, there is no condemnation, no separation, and no limit to the life He offers. Discover how to step out of sin cycles, live in the Spirit, and embrace the abundant life Jesus promises. Join us every Tuesday at 7 & follow us on Instagram @lyahampton!

You know boundaries matter — so why does saying no still feel like betrayal? This episode exposes the deeper identity-level misalignment and shows you how to create boundaries that don't just work… but feel like you.You know the script: You say yes, even when you're stretched thin. You keep the peace, carry the load, and tell yourself, “This is just what it takes.”But beneath that over-functioning is a quieter truth: Saying no still feels wrong — not because you're weak, but because your identity is wired for performance and approval.In this episode of the Identity-Level Recalibration podcast, Julie Holly shares a deeply personal reflection on the tangled guilt behind boundary-setting — and why sustainable boundaries require an identity shift, not a time hack.You'll explore:The real reason saying no triggers guilt, obligation, and confusionWhy high performers override their own needs, even with the best boundary scriptsA powerful reframe that moves you from resentment to rhythmHow your yes might be protecting a role that's quietly eroding your alignmentYou'll also hear a faith-rooted story about The Best Yes by Lysa TerKeurst — and how one friend's timely suggestion led Julie to rewire her understanding of identity, boundaries, and divine alignment.—Today's Micro Recalibration:Ask yourself:“Where in my life have I been saying yes out of fear or obligation, not alignment?” Then ask: “What would a boundary rooted in self-trust look like in that space?”For leaders:“Where have we been absorbing friction instead of setting clear expectations?”You weren't meant to burn out to be trusted.Sustainable boundaries don't come from behavior tweaks — they come from identity recalibration.RESOURCES:BOOK: The Best Yes, by Lysa TerKeurstIf this episode gave you language you've been missing, please rate and review the show so more high-capacity humans can find it. Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Join the waitlist for the next Recalibration cohort This isn't therapy. This isn't coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.

Today, I speak with Jenn Blessing, owner and founder of Makers Ekklesia Dance Company in Knoxville, TN. Jenn has been teaching for over 20 years. She danced while attending Texas A & M, and directed Company AbunDance, danced in Chara Dance Company, Talitha Dance Company and served as the Artistic Director for the Knoxville Dance Project after moving to TN in 2012. In our conversation she shares about saying yes to leadership, communicating with intention, and shaping a culture that is recognizable and relatable. Learn more about Makers Ekklesia Dance Company: https://makersdance.com/.Learn more about studio management resources Jenn shared about: https://morethanjustgreatdancing.com/ and https://www.ypad4change.org/.Learn more about dance education and career planning for dancers: https://www.theballerinatist.com/.

In today's episode, we chat all about navigating the busy summer season filled with vacations, grad parties, and spontaneous weekends away while keeping our goals on track. We share our insights on how to stay focused and resilient, even when life gets a bit chaotic. We walk you through a flexible mindset and a few go-to plans for eating events, parties, vacations, and those unexpected curveballs that summer often throws our way, as well as a “Vacation Re-Entry Plan” into your fitness and nutrition routine.We discuss planning for those tricky moments when our usual routines are disrupted and how to be proactive rather than reactive with our nutrition. We challenge you to rethink your relationship with summer, discuss how you might lessen some food noise, and explain how “best yeses” can help you remain aligned with your goals during busy, food-heavy times of year.Tune in and get ready to tackle summer with confidence and clarity, ensuring you enjoy every moment without losing sight of your goals!“It's easy to stay on track when everything is going smoothly. But it's the tough days where preparation really counts.”- Amy Rudolph"Confidence comes from doing something you think is uncomfortable over and over again and realizing it wasn't that bad in the first place."- Iris Deadlifts"Your vacation is not the five days leading up to it and the five days after.”- MeriThis week on Here's the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don't Want Life to Suck:How to develop Plans A, B, and C for life's curveballsWhat are “best yeses” and how to embrace flexibilityHow a Vacation Re-Entry Plan can help you get back on track with food and exerciseHow to navigate social events and stay on trackHow to give yourself a break and enjoy life without guilt3 actions strategies to avoid floundering during summer chaosConnect with Iris, Meri, and Amy:Iris Deadlifts on InstagramMeri on InstagramAmy Rudolph on InstagramThanks for tuning in to this week's episode of Here's the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don't Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts | SpotifyBe sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram, Meri on Instagram, and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

Not every ‘yes' is a good one. In this episode, I'm talking about how confident women identify, protect, and act on their best yes—and why self-discovery, self-trust, and self-expression are essential to building a life that feels like yours. If you've been feeling stretched thin, out of alignment, or like you've been saying yes to everyone but yourself… this one's for youResources Mentioned & Show Notes  I created the Inner Strength Journal to help you recognize that sneaky voice of fear, pretending and performing so you can choose authenticity and courage instead. Because you deserve to live a life that's truly YOU.Your favorite version of you is waiting to be discovered, buy your copy today -– https://www.innerstrengthjournal.com.Connect Elsewhere:www.confidencecoachingforher.cominstagram.com/confidencecoachingforherfacebook.com/confidencecoaching4her

Are you feeling overwhelmed and busy this Holiday season? Do you wish you could simplify and slow down? I am so excited to tell you about a book I read called *The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer.  It is fun—my dad was reading the exact same book at the exact same time! So, I am so excited to have my dad back on the podcast and together we are going to talk about some of the take aways we got from the book as well as how to live with intention and simplify for this next year since we are coming into the end of 2024. I know you are going to love hearing from my dad- he is so wise! Also, I am so excited for someone to win a copy of John Mark Comer's book: . All the details of the book giveaway are on my website at jodisnowdon.com or you can click this direct link: https://kingsumo.com/g/3qvlov1/the-ruthless-elimination-of-hurry-book-giveaway Depth Podcast Episode links: Depth Podcast Episode 37 with my dad- we talk about Father's Day. Depth Podcast Episode 199 with Julie Lefebure- She shares about replacing Busy with Full! Depth Podcast Episode 203- learn more about embracing Your Roles Depth Podcast Episode 214- Living Intentionally Book Recommendations Depth Podcast Episode 150- What is your Best Yes? Depth Podcast Episode 197- Seeing Time as a Gift For those walking through grief this Holiday Season, I have some encouragement for you: First, please check out the post I wrote called  Grieving Through the Holidays where I share 10 Steps to Help your Hurting Heart. I have them in a downloadable file for you! Second, here is a link to Chapter 17 in my book where I write about my own personal experience with grief during the Holidays. Praying this will offer you encouragement. Lastly, I highly recommend listening to Depth Podcast Episodes 188-196 where I do one episode for each letter in my STRENGTH Acrostic in my book! See details below: Seek God and Invite Him into the Pain -- Depth Podcast Episode 188 Tearfully Allow Yourself Time to Grieve and Process the Emotions -- Depth Podcast Episode 189 Replace your Finite View with God's Infinite Perspective -- Depth Podcast Episode 190 Embrace God's Character Development in the Midst of the Chaos -- Depth Podcast Episode 191 Never Lose Sight of God's Grace -- Depth Podcast Episode 193 Give Praise to God Even as Your Heart Breaks -- Depth Podcast Episode 194 Trust God is Good When Your Mind is Doubting and You Don't Understand -- Depth Podcast Episode 195 Honestly Share Your Story and Help Another Hurting Heart -- Depth Podcast Episode 196 *Note: If you are interested in purchasing this book or the books recommended, I would love for you to use the Amazon Affiliate link above to help support the podcas

Do Less.All those hopes...all those dreams...all those GREAT ideas...say no to them.Your brain is gonna argue with you and tell you how good all those things are...It's gonna tell you how impactful, meaningful, and memory stacking they're going to be for your kids...for you...for your family.But the truth is, kids are gonna whine, someone's going to lose their shoes, siblings are going to find a reason to argue...and you're gonna come home tapped out...That's okay for some things...that are actually worth it...but for all the rest...it won't be.It's going to leave you feeling resentful, tired, and asking why you even do these nice things if your kids are just going to complain about it and fight the whole time. The Calendar (01:05)Prayerful Discernment (05:11)The Best Yes (07:40)Less Chaos Through Planning Like a Mother (11:35)Find the complete podcast notes on our website.To find The Deliberate Day on Instagram, click here.Looking for items shared in our podcasts?! Grab the Plan Like a Mother: Holiday Edition! Here's our Homeschool Plan Like A Mother Guide! Here's the Editable Homeschool Clipboard Template For the 12 Week Planner, click here! (Use code PODCASTMOM for 20% off!) Get your FREE Meal Planning Kit here. For the Favorites List, go here.

In case you didn't know this, I love my Tuesday episodes because they are unscripted! In this particular batch of my unscripted Tuesday thoughts, I open up about the challenges of staying focused as a creative entrepreneur. If you're like me, then you have very likely experienced “shiny object syndrome” - that temptation to jump from one exciting idea to the next, but this year, my mission has been to dial in on what truly matters to my business and heart, which is serving the surface pattern design industry! Listen in as I will be sharing how I had to make some tough decisions, like sadly having to cancel our highly anticipated Professional Creative Conference, despite how incredible that it definitely would have been! That was a moment that was painful, but it also felt like a weight lifted off my shoulders because it allowed me to stay true to my mission. Refining focus has been far from easy, but it is truly necessary to make room for our best yeses! We have some truly exciting new things in the works, including a product shop that will be a living example for our students, a brand-new in-house art agent, and a potential journal publication for our industry! I am so excited to explore these opportunities while staying aligned with our core mission, and I really hope that you will walk away from this episode of the show inspired to take a closer look at your own focus! What can you say no to in order to protect your best yes?

Today Karen is answering questions from moms juggling packed schedules, managing family commitments, and trying to make a little time for themselves! From balancing kids' activities with family time to learning when to say no, in this episode you'll hear practical advice to help you protect your energy and prioritize what matters most. Pop in those earbuds or grab a basket of laundry to fold and let's figure out what your best "yes" is for this season.Episode Recap:- 3:57 Survival Guide to Motherhood is now available as an online course! Register today- 6:14 My schedule is packed and I was recently asked to lead a group at church. I want to say no, but how can I?  - 8:37 I'm conflicted about travel sports - help! - 12:31 I'm exhausted, how do I stay connected to my husband in this season of parenting?- 15:42 How can I set boundaries now to avoid overcommitment in the future? Scripture for Reflection:Matthew 6:33 (NIV) "But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”Questions for Discussion:How do you evaluate whether a commitment is a “best yes” for your family? What criteria do you use to make sure your commitments support your family's well-being?How can you ensure that your marriage remains a priority amidst the busyness of life? Is this easy for you or is it a struggle? Karen talks about dividing your time into three categories: essentials, non-negotiables, and bonuses. How do you currently categorize your commitments? What activities or priorities fall into each category in your life? Are there any adjustments you feel called to make after reflecting on this concept?What strategies can you implement to create intentional rest and unstructured family time in your weekly routine?Resources:Register for Survival Guide to Motherhood today: www.boaw.mom/SGTM Use coupon code THRIVE for your exclusive Wire Talk listener discount.Come hear Karen teach at an event near you: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/eventsJoin our private BOAW Moms FB group for community and collective wisdom: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms

How can we celebrate our own individuality (and the individuality of others) by being honest about our needs, finding unique ways to meet them, and saying out loud the things we appreciate about each other? How can we celebrate children's individuality in school settings and beyond?What happens when we learn, not only how to tell our own story, but to hear the stories of others as well?What does it look like to set boundaries that allow us to say our "Best Yes"?...Stephanie Higgs is, above all else, a passionate educator. Since graduating with her Master's Degree in Education she has taught pre-K, second grade, and fourth grade; she now works as a gifted educator and differentiation coach, where she supports both students and her fellow teachers in accommodating individual learning needs. In 2021, Stephanie was named the Tennessee Performing Arts Center (TPAC) Teacher of the Year. After 13 years in education, Stephanie is expanding her reach by sharing resources, ideas, and advice for educators around the world on her Instagram page.In this conversation- originally published in February 2023- Stephanie tells the story of her path to becoming a gifted educator. Abbie and Stephanie discuss differentiation, what it looks like for her to balance educational standards with individual needs, and the value of the support system of teachers that Stephanie collaborates with. Stephanie shares her teacher's perspective on storyliving, storytelling, and storyhearing. Stephanie and Abbie reflect on mystery in our lives. Stephanie shares how learning about self-regulation has helped her heal and find more empathy for herself and others. Abbie and Stephanie talk about the classroom through the lens of social worlds. Finally, Stephanie describes her idea of a better social world....Stories Lived. Stories Told. is created, produced & hosted by Abbie VanMeter.Stories Lived. Stories Told. is an initiative of the CMM Institute for Personal and Social Evolution....Music for Stories Lived. Stories Told. is created by Rik Spann.Find Rik on  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Listen to our conversation with Rik in ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ep. 8⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠....Visit the Stories Lived. Stories Told. website.Follow Stories Lived. Stories Told. on Instagram.Subscribe to Stories Lived. Stories Told. on YouTube.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Explore all things Stories Lived. Stories Told. here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Subscribe to CMM Institute on Substack.Connect with the CMM Institute on LinkedIn and Facebook.Access all CosmoActivities for FREE!Subscribe to the CosmoParenting Substack.Visit the CMM Institute website.Learn more about Cosmopolis 2045.

In this episode of The Brave Collective, we're celebrating 15 episodes and over 1000 downloads!Thank you to this community for all your support and be sure to check out the giveaway details below.Decluttering our lives and choosing our best “yes”Listen in as we tackle the issue of burnout and how this hurts our leadership. I'll share my own experiences and offer practical strategies to manage a full schedule without losing yourself in the chaos. Whether it's my personal rule of keeping evenings sacred or choosing not to overload my kids with activities, I've learned that decluttering my own life is essential. I'll share how to build margin into your own schedule and the importance of saying "no" when necessary.If you're ready to declutter your life and leave burnout behind you, listen in!⭐️GIVEAWAY DETAILS⭐️To celebrate this milestone of 1000 downloads and to say “THANK YOU!” I'm giving away a 1-hour coaching session absolutely FREE to one of my listeners this summer!Here's what you have to do to qualify:* Subscribe to the Brave Collective letter on substack here: If you're not already following, click the Follow button on The Brave Collective wherever you listen to podcasts.* Rate and/or leave a review on the podcast (this really helps the show get discovered by others).* and send me an email with “Summer Coaching” in the subject line and be sure to let me know one area you'd love to experience personal growth this summer.* Make sure to do all of the above by June 10th.Winner will be selected after the 10th and contacted personally by yours truly.Lead well friends,Resources & LinksThe Brave Collective on Substack: hereCoaching & Speaking Resources:Speaking/Workshop Inquiry: hereExplore coaching services hereWays to connect on socialFollow on Instagram hereFollow on Threads here Get full access to The Brave Collective at daniellemorgan.substack.com/subscribe

We are SO glad to be back with everyone for season 3!!!Let's catch up with our lives and the business of it all (which we are so thankful for)we dive into how we juggle so many things by ensuring we are giving our BEST YES and what that looks like.Instagram:Curve @ccurvepodcastFollow Kristin @black_dahlia_nailsFollow Erin @mangos_manisMusic: Royalty Free Music www.bensound.comAre you a nail technician/artist/owner with a story to share? If so, please reach out to our email at blackdahlianails@gmail.com

It is said that when you say YES to something, you're saying no to something else, and which gets what answer is truly a picture of your values and priorities - particularly where God falls in your priorities!   On this episode, I welcome my client Jess Cutler, multi-business owner who shares her personal testimony of how God showed her what saying YES to Him meant for her first business and what was coming next. Follow along with her journey of entrepreneurship, first in her own strength and then through her surrender. It is a powerful example of one woman's obedience and desire to glorify God and let Him use her through three different businesses!   She also shares how saying yes to working with me has impacted her business and leadership over the last two years - and she practically makes me cry!   Listen to her podcast at https://jessmcutler.com/podcast Learn from her at https://www.enforms.co/ Let her team plan your next amazing event at https://www.envents.com/ And follow her fun, behind-the-scenes reels on https://www.instagram.com/enventplanner/ GIFT FOR YOU! Get the 4 Keys to Redefine Hustle Audio Devotional: https://erinharrigan.com/4Keysdevotional WORK WITH ME Schedule your FREE discovery call to explore 1:1 coaching: https://erinharrigan.com/discoverycall GET YOUR SIGNED COPY OF MY BOOK https://erinharrigan.com/PursuingSuccessGodsWaySignedBook LET'S BE FRIENDS ON SOCIAL IG: @erindharrigan LinkedIn: @erinharrigan SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL https://youtube.com/@erinharrigan If this show brings you value, please give it a follow on Apple Podcasts and leave a review. If you listen on Spotify, be sure to click the "follow" button and the notification bell so you don't miss an episode.

Context I need to get better at saying no, don't want to get too good at saying no. I want to be strategic about saying yes. Big Idea Good leadership & great leadership is time well spent. My Goal: In every moment to say yes to the best thing. “The Best Yes” I don't want to get better at no, I want to get more deliberate about my yes. Factors Energy: A yes now can't inhibit a better yes later. Relationship: A yes needs to prioritize people. Scheduling: Don't say yes in advance that I'll regret later: need more “maybes”

Saying "Yes" to God's invitation requires an unwavering trust in His plan, unwavering courage in the face of uncertainty, and a continual willingness to realign our priorities and perspectives with His perfect agenda. Simon Peter moves from semi-follower of Jesus to forsaking all and following Him after taking Jesus at His Word.  Have you forsook all and followed Jesus?  Have you became a fisher of people?

A pivotal moment in history occurred when God approached Mary and entrusted her with a crucial role in His grand plan of redemption for all humanity. Her unequivocal and resounding YES set in motion a series of events that would ultimately change the course of the world.  Similarly, God is approaching you with a crucial role to play in His plan of redemption.  Will you say, “Yes”?

The young boy Samuel heard God's voice but needed help discerning who was speaking to him.  We also need help recognizing God's voice experientially and through reading His Word.

Hey friends! We have another incredible Turquoise Talk guest here today. Dana Lewis is a stress specialist, nutrition hacker, and host of the Stop Faking Fine podcast.    In this episode, we discuss the concept of "faking fine" and how society often encourages us to put on a brave face, even when we're struggling. Dana shares her personal story of losing her husband to cancer in 2013 and how she learned to stop faking fine by making simple, sustainable changes in her daily habits.   We also discuss the challenges of being a people pleaser and the importance of finding your "best yes." The episode is sure to offer hope and encourage you to take small steps toward positive changes in your life.   Visit www.danalewis.com for links to Dana's book, podcast, and her Stress Less Solution.   Get started with Happy Juice: https://www.amare.com/et/h0u1at/15537    Connect with Dana on social media Instagram: @msdanalewis LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/msdanalewis/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCW3P5u0tMS9P04W4dc5zeCQ  FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/goodmoodcrew   Be sure to get my FREE Stress-Free Holiday Toolkit at: https://www.martinewilliams.com/holidaylist    Check out shop.martinesfavoritethings.com for my favorite books and items to make life and business a little more simple and a lot more fun!   Click here to book your free clarity call: https://calendly.com/martinewilliams/clarity-call   Connect with me on your favorite social media platform: Instagram: www.instagram.com/martine31williams Facebook: facebook.com/martinenwilliams   Be sure to follow this podcast to automatically receive your episodes!!!   Hey!! Send me a DM on IG and tell me what you think about the show!   Believing in YOU always! Martine   Podcast edited and managed by Haili Murch LLC.   If you are interested in starting a podcast or you are currently a podcaster needing help managing or relaunching your podcast, you may email Haili Murch at hello@hailimurch.com or you can click here to book a call: https://calendly.com/hailimurch/podcast-discovery-call

Are you ready to Step into the adventures of midlife transition.  Today, I'm talking about what defines a midlife woman and the exciting reasons that ignite your quest for a new purpose where God's guidance takes center stage, leading us toward a fulfilling life transformation. Our compass? Wisdom from Scripture, revealing the everlasting  principles that empower midlife women to choose the right 'yes' in every domain of our lives. From introspective self-reflection to setting unshakable boundaries, we'll talk about  the steps that will guide you on this exhilarating new journey. Whether your quest is to uncover your purpose, make a daring career shift, or align your life with your deepest values, this episode will ignite the spark within you. Are you stressed and anxious at work and feel like your life is out of control?Do you want to work for yourself and own your time but don't know what to do or how to do it?Do you have passions and projects you want to pursue?Are you ready to follow God's plan for your life?Learn to hear and listen to God's voice, turn your chaos into calm, and battle and win the war against stress and anxiety.My mission is to empower you to dig deep and know when to say yes to the things God wants you to and no to everything else, learn to move forward and pursue your passions, and stay emotionally healthy while doing it. Let me teach you how to create a vision, identify goals, and start your own online business. If you're ready to ditch that unfulfilled life for the life that God meant for you, then you're in the right place.Grab a complimentary Career emPOWERment session by scheduling through this link: Career Clarity EmPOWERment Sessionemail: melvandevort@gmail.com

Are you ready for a life-changing adventure with Jesus?In this inspiring message titled "Give Your Best Yes," join us as we dive deep into the heart of Jesus' calling to his disciples and discover the transformative power of saying the right "yes" in our lives.Life is an adventure, and Jesus calls us to step out of our comfort zones and embrace the unexpected. He invites us to journey with Him, leaving behind the mundane and ordinary to find purpose and fulfillment in the extraordinary mission He has for us. It's easy to get caught up in the busyness of life, saying "yes" to countless obligations and distractions. But are we saying "yes" to what truly matters most? Are we giving our best "yes" to Jesus and His mission for us?Join us as we explore how to discern our true calling, prioritize what matters most, and learn the art of saying "no" to the distractions that hinder us from giving our best "yes" to Jesus.Discover the joy, purpose, and fulfillment that come when you align your life with God's divine adventure.Don't miss this opportunity to grow in faith and embark on an extraordinary journey with Jesus. Hit the "Subscribe" button, give us a thumbs up, and share this message with your friends and family. Let's say our best "yes" to Jesus and experience the adventure of a lifetime!Stay connected with our church community:Website: www.hopecitysrq.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/HopeCitySRQInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopecitysrq/

Most every episode a guest says something that hits me as a profound truth, one I have probably heard before and forgotten, and certainly one I need to be reminded of. Robyn Rebold-Smith spoke of making choices very intentionally. How giving her ‘best yes' to one thing meant saying no to other things. No to things that she would be missing out on but would give more quality and strength to the ‘yes' somewhere else. I have been sitting in this wisdom, how simple and balanced it is.Robyn is committed to being real and that means having challenging conversations when necessary. She investigates and gathers information to see things from all perspectives. Then she looks at her part in the situation to see how to make things better. She loves people and wants to have positive impact. And her greatest passion? Raising the two human beings that call her mom. Thank you for being a part of the UY conversation.The Unabashed You website has a page for each guest of photos, quotes and a blog with embedded audio at unabashedyou.com. You can find the show on other podcast platforms. Want to lend your support and encouragement? We invite you to follow, rate, review and share.Social media (direct links):FacebookInstagramIf you have questions or comments email us at: unabashedyou@gmail.com.We build upon on website visits, social media and word of mouth to share these episodes. We appreciate growth knowing these conversations help you think, celebrate who you are, and move you in some way.So be encouraged and continue to listen, read and be inspired.

Episode Overview: In each episode of the Say Yes Anyway Podcast, we embark on an inspiring journey through conversations and insights that celebrate the courage to say yes, even in the face of uncertainty. From uncovering the hidden potential within to navigating the treacherous waters of self-doubt, we're here to guide you through the essential steps of embracing your dreams and making them a reality. Why Saying Yes Matters: Discover the profound impact of saying yes to your aspirations, whether they're personal or entrepreneurial. We delve into the reasons why saying yes can lead to personal growth, fulfillment, and transformation. Learn how even seemingly crazy decisions can pave the way for unprecedented success. It also allows you to say your BEST YES, which means NO to the right things! In this episode we go into a 3 step process that I wish I knew when I started my first non-profit and then multiple businesses since then! Conquering Fear and Self-Doubt: Fear is a universal emotion, but it doesn't have to dictate our choices. Dive into strategies for confronting and conquering fears that hinder your progress. We explore how acknowledging fears and reframing them as opportunities can empower you to move forward. Turning Dreams into Reality: Dreams are the seeds of greatness, waiting to be nurtured and cultivated. Join us as we share practical steps to translate your dreams into actionable plans. From setting clear goals to implementing strategies, we guide you towards achieving your dreams step by step. The Power of Conviction and Purpose: Discover the role of conviction in shaping your journey towards success. We explore the significance of aligning your actions with a purpose that resonates deeply with you. Learn how conviction can provide the fuel you need to overcome challenges and keep moving forward. Overcoming Challenges and Obstacles: Success is not without its hurdles, but the way you navigate challenges defines your journey. We provide insights on building resilience, adapting to change, and maintaining focus in the face of adversity. Discover strategies to keep your motivation and determination unwavering. Empowering Women in Business: Explore our ongoing series "Anyone Can Start a Business" dedicated to empowering women to build impactful businesses and nonprofits. Learn from practical advice, expert interviews, and real-life stories on how to create ventures that align with your values and aspirations. Conclusion: Thank you for tuning in to the Say Yes Anyway Podcast, where we celebrate the power of embracing life's challenges and saying yes to your dreams. Remember, every episode is a step towards unlocking your full potential and achieving the success you deserve. Keep saying yes, anyway! Share this episode with a friend, or on socials and tag @jessdahl_ and we will reshare! Subscribe and leave a review! If you're a woman who is ready to take your personal life to the next level and create a purposeful business or non-profit that aligns with you and your life while making an impact in the world, ⁠The Dreams to Reality Mastermind⁠ is for you! We start THIS NOVEMBER! You don't want to miss this! ⁠Set up a call here⁠ You can also check it all out at ⁠www.jessdahl.com⁠

Hey Friend- I'm just gonna say it like it is…or at least how someone else said it in something I read recently…. “Most BUSYNESS comes from our wild, ongoing attempts to PLEASE others." Whether you've labeled yourself a PEOPLE-PLEASER or not, you have to admit, a lot of what we run around doing is because of the EXPECTATIONS we receive or perceive from those around us.Ever said (or thought)...I dread saying yes but feel powerless to say no, I hope there's more to life than my to-do list, I'm a little overwhelmed and a lot worn out, I'm drowning in regrets of too many commitmentsWe say YES to a lot of things…but are they what we're called to?Why do we as women and as Christians feel bad about saying NO…and how do you get comfortable with saying NO when you're at capacity or it's just not a fit for you? If you're serious about REDEEMING your time this fall, you're gonna have to let those go… and actually say the “N-word”On today's episode I have 3 ways to lovingly say NO….without the guilt.Who needs permission right now? Let's dive in together….WITH God. I pray this blesses, challenges and moves you to action!L.Y.L.A.S. (Love Ya Like A Sis)LissaP.S. REDEEM YOUR TIME THIS FALL CHALLENGE Aug 21-25Wanna get clear on what your BEST YES is this fall (and what ISN'T)? Be sure to join me for this free 5-day Challenge next right here on the podcast and inside my communityHere are 3 QUICK STEPS to GET READY…STEP 1: Follow the REDEEM Her Time PodcastSTEP 2: Join the REDEEM Her Time CommunitySTEP 3: Complete the REDEEM Her Time WorksheetSee you on the Challenge soon!Visit the REDEEM Her Time Website https://redeemhertime.com> Schedule a 1 Hr Schedule-Shaping Strategy Session> Join the free REDEEM Her Time Community> Schedule a free 5 Min Find-the-Time Chat> Submit a question or comment…or leave a review>>> or DO ALL-THE-ABOVE!

Hey Friend- I'm just gonna say it like it is…or at least how someone else said it in something I read recently…. “Most BUSYNESS comes from our wild, ongoing attempts to PLEASE others." Whether you've labeled yourself a PEOPLE-PLEASER or not, you have to admit, a lot of what we run around doing is because of the EXPECTATIONS we receive or perceive from those around us.Ever said (or thought)...I dread saying yes but feel powerless to say no, I hope there's more to life than my to-do list, I'm a little overwhelmed and a lot worn out, I'm drowning in regrets of too many commitmentsWe say YES to a lot of things…but are they what we're called to?Why do we as women and as Christians feel bad about saying NO…and how do you get comfortable with saying NO when you're at capacity or it's just not a fit for you? If you're serious about REDEEMING your time this fall, you're gonna have to let those go… and actually say the “N-word”On today's episode I have 3 ways to lovingly say NO….without the guilt.Who needs permission right now? Let's dive in together….WITH God. I pray this blesses, challenges and moves you to action!L.Y.L.A.S. (Love Ya Like A Sis)LissaP.S. REDEEM YOUR TIME THIS FALL CHALLENGE Aug 21-25Wanna get clear on what your BEST YES is this fall (and what ISN'T)? Be sure to join me for this free 5-day Challenge next right here on the podcast and inside my communityHere are 3 QUICK STEPS to GET READY…STEP 1: Follow the REDEEM Her Time PodcastSTEP 2: Join the REDEEM Her Time CommunitySTEP 3: Complete the REDEEM Her Time WorksheetSee you on the Challenge soon!Visit the REDEEM Her Time Website https://redeemhertime.com> Schedule a 1 Hr Schedule-Shaping Strategy Session> Join the free REDEEM Her Time Community> Schedule a free 5 Min Find-the-Time Chat> Submit a question or comment…or leave a review>>> or DO ALL-THE-ABOVE!

"No" is not a bad word. "No" is just as productive as "yes." Today's conversation is an honest look into how Tara has been slowing down, learning to give her best "yes" and "no", and making the most of her time. This conversation is rooted in Ephesians 5:5-17 so grab your headphones and tune into the conversation for practical, biblical encouragement. For more on God's will and biblical decision making, grab a copy of Tara's book, "Surrender Your Story", here or anywhere books are sold. -- This episode is sponsored by Faithful Counseling. Give online therapy a try at faithfulcounseling.com/TRUTHTALKS and get on your way to being your best self. -- Subscribe to Tara's YouTube channel for video podcasts: https://www.youtube.com/c/TaraSun Connect with Tara on: Instagram: www.instagram.com/misstarasun Her website: www.tarasunministries.com Her Bible resource page: www.tarasunministries.com/recommended YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/TaraSun The free, email family: www.view.flodesk.com/pages/5f5293472c60490027bc8d16 Shop Tara's stickers: www.the-tara-sun-shop.myshopify.com/ Sponsor a child through Compassion: www.compassion.com/tarasun Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As Christ-followers and servant leaders, sometimes we get confused and overwhelmed by all of the opportunities to serve that come our way.  I recently spoke to an amazing Christian woman who serves in and outside her work place in so many ways.  It is amazing that she is still standing upright.   This lovely woman serves professionally in profound ways.  She serves her family and her church in huge ways.   But as I listened it sounded as if all of the commitments related to serving are squeezing out time for herself, and she's struggling to create more time and space for quiet time with God, for things that bring her joy and for healthy goals that she has.   Her beautiful service-oriented heart leads her to feel like she has to say yes to everything that would be considered God-honoring work. It's so important to her to be a dedicated follower of Christ.   Christ is an example of servant leadership. But are we actually supposed to say yes to every form of service that comes our way?  If not, how do we know when it is ok to say “no” to God-honoring work?   Today we are talking about ways to determine what is truly a God-assignment for you and what is perhaps intended for someone else.  God-honoring does not always equate to God-assigned or God-appointed.  I am giving you permission to say “no” when you can't give it your “Best Yes”.   I hope this episode blesses you!   Xoxo,   Tanya   The Grace Filled Leader Resources:   Connect: support@gracefilledleader.com Community: Christian Women in Leadership Community Coaching:  Christian Life Coaching with Tanya Time Management Coaching:  More Time Method Strategy Session Leave me a question or comment for the show: Leave a Message for Tanya Freebies: 7 Day Gratitude Journal                   Time Audit Tool   If you enjoyed today's episode, the best way you can thank me is to leave a 5-star rating and a written review on apple podcast.  This is the best way for other listeners to find the show and for me to know how best to serve you with the content you enjoy.   Click on “written review” link above, scroll all the way to the bottom, and click on the little purple link that says “Write a Review”  

Today we have a special guest! Lissa Figgins, host of the REDEEM Her Time podcast is joining us.  Lissa shares all kinds of wisdom when it comes to prioritizing your time in a way that allows you to live your best “With-God” Life.     In today's episode, we talk about discerning when to say yes and when to say no to things that demand our time.  Lissa talks to us about giving things our “Best Yes” or a grace-filled “no”.    Lissa and I align so much on our philosophy around time management starting with our hearts and being built on a foundation of faith.  Lissa shares about the importance of pouring from a full cup.    Lissa's mission is to inspire & equip busy Christian women to be more present with who + what matters most and to make the best use of your time in this season...and in light of eternity    What she loves most is helping women discover that by creating a WITH-God life and REDEEMING your time, you really do have all the time you need for all you are called to.   I know this episode will bless you!     Xoxo,   Tanya   Below are the links to find Lissa and her resources:   Website:  https://redeemhertime.com Podcast:  REDEEM Her Time Free Resource:  Redeem your time in 5 Min Guide     The Grace Filled Leader Resources:   Connect: support@gracefilledleader.com Community: Christian Women in Leadership Community Coaching:  Christian Life Coaching with Tanya Time Management Coaching:  More Time Method Strategy Session Leave me a question or comment for the show: Leave a Message for Tanya Freebies: 7 Day Gratitude Journal                   Time Audit Tool   If you enjoyed today's episode, the best way you can thank me is to leave a 5-star rating and a written review on apple podcast.  This is the best way for other listeners to find the show and for me to know how best to serve you with the content you enjoy.   Click on “written review” link above, scroll all the way to the bottom, and click on the little purple link that says “Write a Review”

There are a million and one things vying for our attention in today's busy, constantly-on-the-go world. It can feel exhausting knowing what opportunities to accept and which ones to turn down — especially if it's a choice between very good things!  Janet and Jocelyn explore what biblical wisdom has to say about our decision-making and how to ensure we are giving our “best yes.” Episode Transcript Resources Books/Worksheets From Pride to Humility - Stuart Scott Gospel Treason - Brad Bigney Decisions, Decisions - Dave Swavely Crazy Busy - Kevin DeYoung Bullseye Diagram of Priorities Questions to Answer When Setting Priorities Psalm 90 verses for 3rd Quarter Podcasts The Danger of Living Without a Purpose - Joyful Journey Purpose: The Creation Mandate - Joyful Journey Videos The Heart of Change - Brent Aucoin A Woman's Priorities Series - Bev Moore Visit the Joyful Journey website to sign up for our newsletter, view a transcript, and search previous episodes. Emails us with questions or comments at joyfuljourneyquestions@outlook.com Facebook, Instagram  Donate to Joyful Journey Podcast Joyful Journey Podcast is a ministry of Faith Bible Seminary. All proceeds go to offset costs of this podcast and toward scholarships for women to receive their MABC through Faith Bible Seminary.

In this episode podcast original co-host Diane Bradley returns to join Chris to discuss the challenges of building a legacy in your everyday life when God is calling you to a “new thing.” Show Notes & Links (Click' em, they're live) -The heart of Women Finishing Well's calling: Romans 12:1-2 -God has called us to run a race with others and pass our faith to others in the race (Heb. 12:1-2, 12-13) -Review of the legacy seasons: Spring: women ages 25-40 Summer: women ages 40-54 Fall: women ages 55-75 Winter: women over 75 -Our circle of influence can change in various seasons. Be open to the people God puts in your life as you get older. -Moving into a new season can bring a sense of urgency and anxiety. But God will show you the next thing as you follow Him in trust. Scriptures about trusting God in a new season : 2 Peter 1: 13-15, Isaiah 43: 18-19 - When you want to take on something new, you need to put something down. How do we choose what to give up when God calls us to something new? Diane calls it “finding your best yes.” -Our stories: what we are moving on to. -When God does something new, it's exciting! Links and stuff you need: -Stay connected over the summer with a new devotional series, giveaways, and news by signing up for our email list. We won't spam you—just the good stuff about once a week. Click here to sign up.** -Link to the Legacy inventory -Link to Saundra Dalton Smith book, Sacred Rest -Link to Building a Legacy of Faith Bible study book (print edition on sale)   **Note: The Women Finishing Well Facebook page will be closing this summer. The cost to run a Facebook page to reach people who already like your page is becoming prohibitive. We thank you all for your support! Please sign up for the email list (above) so you can stay in touch.

Do you struggle to say "no"? Or worry about missing an opportunity, disappointing someone, or just missing out on all the fun? FOMO is real! Listen is as Ruth and Eve discuss how saying no, even to really good things, is an essential part of embracing our limitations.Scripture referenced:Luke 10:38-42Resources mentioned:The Best Yes by Lysa TerKeurstGraceLaced Collective S5 | Embrace Your LimitationsHear more from Ruth and GraceLacedFind Ruth Chou Simons: Instagram | WebsiteFind GraceLaced: Instagram | Facebook | Website

Do you struggle to say “no”? Or worry about missing an opportunity, disappointing someone, or just missing out on all the fun? FOMO is real! Listen is as Ruth and Eve discuss how saying no, even to really good things, is an essential part of embracing our limitations.Scripture referenced:Luke 10:38-42Resources mentioned:The Best Yes by Lysa TerKeurstGraceLaced Collective S5 | Embrace Your LimitationsFind Ruth Chou Simons on Instagram & onlineFind GraceLaced on Instagram, Facebook, & online

Saying no to something means saying yes to something else. Saying yes to something means saying no to something else.     So why is it so hard? Why is it so hard to say NO to someone?    Recently on multiple occasions, I've had someone ask if I could meet up with them for coffee.  My immediate response in my head was “I don't want to” quickly followed by the self-condemning thoughts of ”ugg I”m such a horrible person.”     Why was I equating the thought  “I don't want to do something” to me being a horrible person?!    Co-Dependent much? Sidenote- Co-Dependent basically is being so concerned about making others happy or desperately doing all you can to please other people, to make everyone else happy, and is a strong sense to be needed and wanted by others. It is very common but what you may not know is it's actually a form of manipulation…you rarely show up authentically and leads to a lot of bitterness and resentment which is a LOT to unpack maybe at a later date.  (if you want to learn more about that the book The New Codependency by Melody Beattle is a great resource)   But I don't want her to think I'm too busy for her or too busy for anyone, I want to be perceived as having time for everyone because that would make me a good “Christian Friend”.    So basically I want to be in control of how I'm perceived by others I want to be in control of what others think of me. Basically, I want to be in control, HAHA!     So why does one seek to “control”? Often the root is to feel SAFE. It feels REAL unsafe to not be able to control someone's perception of us because if we can't then there is the possibility that they could choose to judge us, reject us, or decide to think something about us that isn't true.     But you know what the craziest thing of all is, even if I was perfect and truly had complete control of how I'm perceived they could STILL choose to judge, reject or decide differently about me (its called free will) and that, if I'm being honest initially feels downright terrifying.   That feels out of control.   That feels unsafe, doesn't it?!    What's even more fascinating to me is that Jesus Christ, LITERAL perfection, God incarnate, who was without sin, had people HATE him, misjudge him, mock him, reject Him, and ultimately kill him!  And you know that the Bible says over and over and over and over in between His time being with and ministering to people…He went to a solitary place to pray. He tapped into and prioritized connection, communion, and TIME with God REGULARLY.  He knew what “his assignment” was and what it wasn't.  He was able to handle the opinions of others because he was SOLID in his opinion and God's opinion and identity of himself.    So many of us walk around this life being extra careful and extra cautious of what we allow others to see and don't even realize that our motivation to appear so put together or so “perfect” is because we DESPERATELY grasping at avoiding the possibility of feeling an uncomfortable or out of our control feeling someone else “might” have of us.     Did you know everything we do or don't do is because of a feeling?!   The reason you do everything you do and the reason you don't do the things you don't do it because you are trying to FEEL a certain way or NOT FEEL a certain way.     It's truly fascinating. Test it out.  Our THOUGHTS are what create certain FEELINGS and from FEELINGS we are motivated to do or NOT do anything and everything.     No seriously, test it out.     The reason you work out or don't work out is because of a feeling….that is fueled by a thought you are choosing to think.   The reason you are bad with money or good with money is because of a feeling you have towards money…that is fueled by a thought you are choosing to think about it.     The reason you show up as a leader or shy away from leading is because of a feeling you have about your leadership….that is fueled by a thought you are choosing to think about it.    The reason you spend time working or don't spend time working is because of a feeling you have about your work from a thought you have.    And here's a kicker, we don't fall out of love with our spouse, we just stop thinking loving thoughts towards them….which makes our feelings change.     FEELINGS AREN'T FACTS!   We'll really be diving into this one in February inside of Leading Leading on the topic of transformation and unconditional love for ourselves and others and how we get to create as much love in our lives as we want ANYTIME WE WANT!  The only way to FEEL more love in your life is to THINK more loving thoughts   And in turn, this even affects our PHYSICAL bodies, it's fascinating!  Are you blessing or cursing your body with your thoughts about yourself?!    But back to feeling bad for saying no to someone.   A couple of guidelines I ask myself is “is this my assignment?” If we are here by assignment and in partnership with God in our calling some things will be FOR us and some won't.  Sometimes we have to trust that we aren't the one to help them and that someone or something else is. (We might need to give up that hero complex, we can't save them all and that's ok)   Also, when I'm saying no to someone what is the YES I AM saying yes to? Celebrate and focus on that! Don't just focus on the no, focus on when you said no it meant you saying YES to something else that is important.  For me, I KNOW that I know that I know if I don't have down time and time to process and reflect and have the energy to pour into my family and into Leading Ladies then I'm doing what I've been CALLED to do a disservice.  They aren't getting the BEST of me if I exhaust myself with what “isn't my assignment” in this season.      I'm not saying use being an introvert or come in agreement with debilitating anxiety and never have a face-to-face conversation with someone…that's a whole different podcast episode.  But do take a moment and be aware of your thoughts and feelings….aware that feelings aren't facts and make POWERFUL DECISIONS on purpose.  Powerful decisions produce the fruit of refinement and peace…not bitterness and resentment.     And as always check in with yourself….and if your motivation to do something is only because you don't want to be perceived or judged a certain way if you don't….probably not the best or healthiest motivation.     Blessing to you and blessings to your BEST YES and trusting God with the rest ;)  Join me at leadingladiesmovement.com to sign up!

"God will never ask you to do more than Mary did." And what did Mary do? She said "yes". Today, on the eve of the celebration of Mary's Immaculate Conception, Fr. Mike wants us to meditate on how we can learn to say "yes" to God from the ultimate example of what a "yes" looks like: Mary, our mother.

Do you have margin in your schedule? Do you have white space on your calendar where you have flexibility and can move appointments around or are you so busy and packed that you are at full capacity with no wiggle room? Oh friends, I feel like this is a struggle for many women and especially it has been a struggle for me over the years.  And I remember reading back in 2015, Lysa Terkeurst's book, *The Best Yes.  So I have some nuggets to truth to share with you her book as well as My Best Yes for this Fall. You don't want to miss this important announcement. Also, I am so excited for someone to win a copy of Lysa's book: *The Best Yes. All the details of the book giveaway are on my website at jodirosser.com or you can click this direct link: https://kingsumo.com/g/dbegp3/the-best-yes-giveaway *Note: If you are interested in purchasing this book, I would love for you to use the Amazon Affiliate link above to help support the podcast. Thank you!

Heather Avis is the founder of The Lucky Few, a New York Times best-selling author, podcaster and a Down syndrome advocate, working to create a more inclusive world where everyone belongs. For more than a decade, she has led this effort by shouting worth, shifting narratives, and reimagining what it looks like when we embrace our differences. Heather just released her 3rd book called Everyone Belongs, a children's book that teaches kids about being loving and inclusive especially to those who have disabilities. Heather patiently and graciously talked through all my questions about what it's like to be a mom of kids who have Down syndrome and gave beautiful advice on how we can teach our kids to be more inclusive and why she believes it starts with our kids. I learned so much from this interview and was left feeling so uplifted and I know you will too.   Time Stamps: [00:59] - Heather Avis talks about The Lucky Few and where the phrase comes from. [02:22] - How can we tell a “truer story” about Down syndrome? [05:19] - Who is Heather's “Scariest and Best Yes”? [07:04] - “You can't know what you don't know.” [09:27] - When speaking about people outside of our own community, we should get our cues from that community. [12:17] - Heather shares the spark she felt the moment she read this email from a social worker. [14:54] - What was it like to finally complete the adoption? [16:39] - How did Heather's family react to the decision? [19:22] - Heather talks about dealing with society systems that try to put a limit on who her children are as people. [21:04] - Every person is already valuable, even when in pursuit of better. [24:02] - What made Heather decide to say “yes” to another baby diagnosed with Down syndrome? [26:50] - Parenting is one step at a time for every parent. [28:11] - Everyone belongs. [30:56] - Heather shares examples of how parents can have open conversations with their kids around disability and differences. [33:47] - You are equipped to handle your journey, and there is a community here to help you. [36:14] - “Exactly who you are is exactly who we pick.”   Supporting Resources: Heather's Website: Heatheravis.com “Everyone Belongs” Book by Heather Avis