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We're bringing back a special conversation between Dedeker and Orit Krug! Orit is an award-winning Board-Certified Dance/Movement Therapist and Licensed Creative Arts Therapist. Orit helps individuals & couples expand their capacity for self-love and intimacy in relationships by processing past trauma stored in the body. Orit is polyamorous, partnered, and a parent to a toddler. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community. Get 10% off our private, discreet STD tests at stdhero.com when you use promo code MULTI10 Get 20% off your first order of the world's smartest cat litter at prettylitter.com/multiamory with promo code MULTIAMORY Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack. Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand. Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we're dressing up for Halloween! Instead of our regular weekly interview we're bringing you episode 377 of the Multiamory Podcast "Polyam Beginners, Healthy Boundaries, and Ethical Hierarchy!" We don't normally give advice on our show but when you have a chance to tap into the brilliance of Dedeker, Emily, and Jase... You take it! This is a listener Q+A episode where they discuss: What was the biggest challenge in your polyam journey, and how did you overcome it? What are some good steps to reconnect after initiating a break in the relationship? Any advice for someone looking to explore other polyam sites away from the safe harbor that the Multiamory Discord has become? How can one be a good beginner? What are some red flags or warning signs you see many fledgling polyam folk brush past or ignore? When de-escalating or transitioning relationships to one with less closeness and frequency, do you have any tips for adjusting your expectations or managing hurt feelings? How to set healthy and ethical boundaries within the context of a highly entangled, mutually desired lifelong commitment. Specifically, boundaries that don't look like “veto power” or interference in other relationships, but also don't just come down to “walking away” in the presence of incompatible strong preferences (not needs). How do you know the difference between genuine third party trauma or if emotions are being used to force a certain result? How do you spot this before becoming invested? To learn more about the incredible work the Multiamory team does, please check out their website at multiamory.com Check out the full show notes here. Join the most amazing community of open-minded humans on the planet!   Click here to order your very own NNM shirt! $10 Off - Online STI Testing

Today's episode features Jase, Emily and Dedeker from the renowned Multiamory podcast. With hundreds of episodes, millions of downloads around the world, and a thriving community Multiamory has been featured in numerous publications, including NPR, Vice, Huffington Post, Cosmopolitan, and Elle.In today's episode we discuss Emily's recent transition back to non-monogamy from a long term monogamous relationship, the history of Dedeker, Jase and Emily's own romantic relationship, connections between creativity and non-monogamy, links between communication styles and music, how the success of Multiamory has impacted their own personal dating lives, Jase and Dedeker finding non-monogamous community in Japan, and so much more. Guest Links:Multiamory WebsiteMultiamory BookDedeker's CoachingEvolving Love Links:WebsiteSubstack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Dedeker is back after more than four years and an entire pandemic! As always, there's so much to get out of this beautiful conversation without listening to round one first (Episode 104).  Dedeker digs into the transitions and shifts in her own relational journey, including a moment of monogamy and the journey she's been on rekindling a partnership from over a decade ago. One of the things we love about talking with Dedeker about is how seamlessly she weaves humor and wisdom together into powerful and relatable lessons for all of us. Don't skip this one or you'll miss out on all of that plus one of the greatest confessionals we've ever had on the show! Dedeker is one of the co-hosts of the Multiamory podcast, a relationship coach, writer, and advocate for polyamory and non-traditional relationships. She is the author of The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory: Everything You Need to Know about Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Alternative Love and the co-author of Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships. Learn more about all her work at www.dedekerwinston.com. Check out the full show notes here.   Submit a question for our Ask Us Anything Episodes! Click here to join our upcoming Virtual Meet and Greets! Join the most amazing community of open-minded humans on the planet!   Check out our weekly peer support groups!   Skip the ads and sign up for the Premium Feed!   Click here to order your very own NNM shirt! $10 Off - Online STI Testing

We're excited to have a special episode this week! Today Dedeker is flying solo and having a fantastic conversation with board-certified dance/movement therapist Orit Krug. Orit Krug is an award-winning Board-Certified Dance/Movement Therapist and Licensed Creative Arts Therapist. Orit helps individuals & couples expand their capacity for self-love and intimacy in relationships by processing past trauma stored in the body. Orit is polyamorous, partnered, and a parent to a toddler.Dedeker and Orit discuss their experiences working with non-monogamous clients, dive into why there can be such a disconnect between your body and your brain when undertaking something new and scary like a non-traditional relationship, moving through sensations of jealousy, generating a sense of safe boundaries, and more! If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of like-minded listeners at patreon.com/Multiamory. You can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, bonus episodes, and more! Quality lube is essential for good sexual experiences. Try our absolute favorite, Uberlube and get 10% off plus free shipping with promo code MULTIAMORYGet a personalized original song and put it on Spotify for free at our special link Songfinch.com/multiamory This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/multi and get 10% off your first month.Connect with your partner every day using Paired. Download the app at paired.com/MULTI. Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, find us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast, tweet at us @Multiamory, check out our Facebook Page, visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 081:Your Body Never Lies: How Somatic Therapy Can Catapult Your Diverse Relationship Experience with Dedeker Winston and Orit KrugDo you feel like you have been working on your stuff for years and yet can't seem to release old hurt and trauma?  Have you listened to hour after hour of podcasts, ready a bookshelf full of books and yet still feel uncomfortable in a diverse relationship dynamic - even if it's one you really want?In this enlightening conversation with Dedeker Winston and Orit Krug, we learn why somatic therapy may be the thing that moves you closer to a more fulfilling, happier relationship experience.We deep-dive into the intricacies of somatic therapy and how it helps release trauma and build resilience. We also explore the profound effects of survival responses on relationships, and how healing these wounds can lead to more fulfilling, desired connections.  Orit and Dedeker reveal how somatic therapies can be particularly helpful for individuals and couples navigating the complexities of non-monogamous or non-traditional relationships.Finally, we put the spotlight on the power of movement and its transformative impact on relationships. We delve into the role of embodied emotions and the honest revelations that come from our bodies, often more truthful than our minds. Together, we explore the transformative power of vulnerability, and how we can physically learn to be more comfortable in our bodies. Orit and Dedeker also share details on a life-changing Costa Rica retreat designed to employ somatic approaches for individuals ready to bridge the mind-body disconnect and create lasting change. This is Relationships Reimagined.There are only a few rooms left for the retreat in April. Learn more here.Connect with Orit | Connect with Dedeker✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️Get Your Free Relationship Diversity GuideConnect with me:Instagram YouTubeTikTokWebsiteGet my book, “Why Do They Always Break Up with Me? The Ultimate Guide to Overcome Heartbreak for GoodPodcast Music by Zachariah HickmanBook Ad Music by MadirfanSupport the show Please note: I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or social worker. I am not attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental, or emotional issue, disease, or condition. The information provided in or through my podcast is not intended to be a substitute for the professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment provided by your own Medical Provider or Mental Health Provider. Always seek the advice of your own Medical Provider and/or Mental Health Provider regarding any questions or concerns you have about your specific circumstance.

Today we have a special episode highlighting an interview Dedeker did on the podcast Initiated Survivor, hosted by Kelsey Harper. Kelsey is a clinical psychologist and a survivor of sexual violence, and on her show she speaks directly with other survivors to hear their stories and offer practical skills for reclaiming their lives. Dedeker shares her experience with intimate partner violence within a non-monogamous context, since there are very few (if any) resources for survivors of violence that center queer people or non-monogamous people. If you enjoyed this episode, go check out the rest of Initiated Survivor! If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of like-minded listeners at patreon.com/Multiamory. You can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, bonus episodes, and more! This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/multi and get 10% off your first month.To obtain DoxyPEP today and take charge of your sexual health, please visit shamelesscare.com/preventative-treatments.Treat yourself to some stories to turn you on or help you drift off to sleep with an extended 30-day free trial at DipseaStories.com/multi Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, find us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast, tweet at us @Multiamory, check out our Facebook Page, visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we're highlighting an interview Dedeker did on Rachel Krantz's show, Help Existing. Rachel is also the author of Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogamy. Rachel and Dedeker have a great conversation about boundaries, covering topics like, How do you figure out what your boundaries are? How should you go about communicating boundaries in a way that is both firm and compassionate? How can you remain flexible and open to change without having porous boundaries? Do the same strategies apply to both familial and romantic relationships? Make sure you check out more of Rachel's show! Get hair care that is completely customized to your hair and your life AND get 15% off at Prose.com/multiQuality lube is essential for good sexual experiences. Try our absolute favorite, Uberlube and get 10% off plus free shipping with promo code MULTIAMORY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dedeker Winston was last on the podcast to discuss her somatic practitioner training and how somatic experience can help you on your recovery journey. Today, she shares her story of surviving domestic violence in one of her romantic partnerships. Dedeker talks about what it was like leaving an abusive relationship, the challenges and rewards of practicing non-monogamy, and the importance of community support in healing from trauma. We discuss the harmful stereotypes surrounding victims and perpetrators of abuse and the need for a more nuanced understanding of these dynamics. Dedeker also shares her perspective on the power of embodied experiences of safety and security in healing from trauma. Join us for this powerful conversation on healing, community, and the importance of breaking out of societal norms to find new ways of relating and connecting with others. Connect with Dedeker: • Website: https://www.dedekerwinston.com/ • Multiamory Podcast: https://www.multiamory.com/podcast-summary Topics/Triggers: • Consensual Non-monogamy • Domestic Abuse • Intimate Partner Violence • The Feeling of Paralysis • Cognitive Dissonance • PTSD • The Image of an Abuser • Telling Your Partner About Your Trauma • Finding a Safe, Secure Attachment • Shame • Polyamory • The Variety of Responses from People in Your Life • Signs of Abuse in a Relationship ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ If you took anything away from today's podcast, please share it with someone who may need to hear it. And if you really want to support the podcast please give us a rate/review. If you or anyone you know is suffering through trauma contact the National Sexual Assault hotline at 1-800-656-4673 or online for 24/7 support. (This podcast is not a replacement for psychotherapy or mental health care. You can obtain a referral for mental health care provider from your primary care physician, or search on Psychology Today's Find a Therapist directory) Find more Initiated Survivor content here and on Instagram!

What is multiamory? How can the "triforce of communication" help our relationships? What tools work for all relationships, no matter the style? Find out in this week's episode of The Learn to Love Podcast, where your host Zach Beach interviews Jase Lindgren, Dedeker Winston, and Emily Sotelo Matlack. For more on this episode click here: the-heart-center.com/ep-123-multiamory-with-jase-lindgren-dedeker-winston-and-emily-sotelo-matlack/ Learn more about your guests below: Jase, Emily, and Dedeker created the Multiamory Podcast in 2014 to raise awareness, provide approachable resources, and combat the stigma faced by people in non-traditional relationships. Today, with hundreds of episodes, millions of downloads around the world, and a rapidly growing community, they are dedicated to offering practical advice and communication tools, grounded in the latest relationship research, guest experts, and years of professional experience. Multiamory has been featured in numerous publications, including NPR, Vice, Huffington Post, Oprah Daily, Cosmopolitan, and Elle. In addition to their national tours, they have presented at the Google campus in Seattle and have been keynote speakers and presenters at numerous conferences. For more information, please visit: https://www.multiamory.com/book. Learn more at - https://twitter.com/multiamory - https://www.facebook.com/multiamory/ - https://www.instagram.com/multiamory_podcast/ Learn more about your host and the show at: www.zachbeach.com www.the-heart-center.com *****Support The Show****** If you like the show there are many ways you can support it, such as, - Schedule a FREE love coaching session with Zach: https://www.zachbeach.com/coaching/ - Check out one of our sponsors, Listenable, and use the discount code “zachbeach” for the first seven days on the platform for free. There you can find Zach's How To Be a Better Partner Course: https://frstre.com/go/?a=76205-87a7d9&s=1256514-e13191&p_affiliate.referral_code=zachbeach - Purchase a book from our blossoming professional network: https://www.the-heart-center.com/books/ - Purchase one of Zach's books: https://www.amazon.com/author/zach_beach - Review, Like, and Subscribe to the show on iTunes. - Like us on Facebook facebook.com/learntolovenow - Join the Facebook Community Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1428012130828678/

Today we're joined by Emily, Dedeker and Jase from the Multiamory Podcast. We discuss conflict, how to be better at it and tools to help everyone in a relationship feel understood after an argument. We also put some non-monogamous conflict scenarios to Multiamory and get their take on how to navigate them.First, Rich and Siobhan unpack some questions sent in by a listener about their goals for their relationships outside each other. A huge thank you to Jase, Dedecker and Emily for joining us on the show. Their podcast, Multiamory has a catalog of hundreds and hundreds of episodes. Their book Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships was released this year. You can also find more things Multiamory at their website. You can follow us on socials, @poly_podcast on Instagram, Threads and Twitter. Find us at our website, the-poly-podcast.captivate.fm. Get in touch with us at our email address, podcastthepoly@gmail.com.

In the latest episode of Bad Bitch Therapist Podcast, we're diving into the realm of relationships that defy mononormativity and the Relationship Escalator. Not sure WTF any of that means? No worries— just buckle up and put on those headphones! Val here, and I'm not gonna lie— I was nervous AF jumping into this interview, because these 3 guests have hosted their own podcast, Multiamory, for almost a decade… and by this point have something like eleventy-zillion downloads. No pressure!

In the latest episode of Bad Bitch Therapist Podcast, we're diving into the realm of relationships that defy mononormativity and the Relationship Escalator. Not sure WTF any of that means? No worries— just buckle up and put on those headphones!Val here, and I'm not gonna lie— I was nervous AF jumping into this interview, because these 3 guests have hosted their own podcast, Multiamory, for almost a decade… and by this point have something like eleventy-zillion downloads. No pressure!

In this episode, relationship coach and co-host of the Multiamory podcast, Dedeker Winston joins us to discuss her new book, “Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships” that she wrote along with co-authors Jase Lindgren and Emily Sotelo Matlack. Dedeker unpacks some fascinating key concepts in her book, like RADAR check ins and the Triforce of Communication, that will be game changers for your relationships. We also get into vulnerabilities as she explains that writing has been emotionally harder for her than nude modeling and why. Then, we shift gears as she elucidates how the combination of being a digital nomad and being non-monogamous has been especially epic for her. Side note: I have to say, her goat story got me incredibly envious. She tells us how jealousy has been her teacher, why she loves relationship anarchy, and finally, why she now endeavors to live a “f*ckless life”. Please join us for this detailed look into the non-monogamous mind of Dedeker Winston as we once again dare to Open Deeply. Bio: Dedeker Winston is an educator, relationship coach, and co-host of the Multiamory podcast, a research-backed relationship advice show that centers non-traditional relationships. She is the author of The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory, which I personally love, and the newly published Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships. How to find Dedeker Winston: IG and twitter: @dedekerwinston Website: dedekerwinston.com How to find Sunny Megatron: Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk How to find Kate Loree: Website http://kateloree.com Facebook http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@opendeeplywithkateloree https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithKateLoree YouTube https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy.

In this episode, Kate & Liam speak with Dedeker, Emily & Jase of the Multiamory Podcast. They share information about creating healthy boundaries and avoiding common relationship pitfalls. To find out more about them, go to their website,,,https://www.multiamory.com/Support the show

Stuck in a dating loop? The third episode of Damona's Summer Series features a recent interview with Jase and Dedeker on the Multiamory podcast. Together they discuss Damona's tips for overcoming dating app fatigue, how to know if you should go on a second or third date, and why you should microdose your dating. Be sure to follow Emily, Dedeker, and Jase on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and check out the Multiamory podcast wherever you listen to Dates & Mates. Want personalized dating help? For a limited time, Damona is taking applicants for the Diamond VIP one-on-one coaching program. Book an assessment session with Coach Yogi Marquis to see if it's a fit! DamonaHoffman.com/vipprogram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Thank you for listening to the Left of Str8 Show, hosted by Scott Fullerton. The Left of Str8 Show was created for the LGBTQ Community and our Straight Allies, and we interview celebrities and personalities from the worlds of Entertainment, Foodies, Books, and Advocacy. We post our weekly lgbtq news show, The Rainbow Rundown on Mondays, Our Interviews post on Thursdays and Fridays, and we post our bonus "5 Questions With...." our Interviewee's on Tuesdays. Please share with your friends, follow us on social media @leftofstr8 and if you like us, please give our episodes a 5 star rating so more people will find them in the Algorithm. My guests today are fellow podcasters from the long running interesting and very informative, "Multiamory." Co-Hosts Dedeker Emily and Jase have been normalizing and providing information on Polyamory and frank sexual discussions since 2014 and have amassed a LOT of followers and over 3 million downloads of their podcast. They have recently written a book with their tools for approaching sexuality and toured the country speaking out about the subjects. Dedeker is also a relationship coach, with her own thriving practice and has written her own book. Jase and Emily have experience in what they speak and have connected with their audiences thru their Discord chat and Q and A's on their podcast. If you can get past the first blush, you will find three very smart people, speaking smart truths for our lgbtq community at large Be sure to check out the men and their website at www.multiamory.com and you can follow them on most social media sites.Please give this interview a thumbs up here on YouTube and a 5 star rating on your favorite podcast distributor, and share with your friends so we can keep sharing great LGBTQ Content with you all. Also please support the show on our Patreon Page for as little as $3 a month, $8 a month, or $13 a month, to help cover show expenses and other costs. you can find us over at www.patreon.com/leftofstr8 .............Thanks, Scott

For the 120th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes the long-time co-hosts of the Multiamory podcast, Jase Lindgren, Emily Sotelo Matlack, and Dedeker Winston, to celebrate the publication of their new book, Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships. Today we're talking about non-monogamy with a triad of podcasting OGs. Jase, Emily, and Dedeker have been podcasting together for nearly a decade… so long that they've developed their own relationship tools and co-authored a new book that just came out. In this episode, we discuss the romance that preceded the podcast, podcasting through a breakup, the cultural shift toward non-monogamy — which they helped forge — their favorite chapters and tools from the book, their keys to good relationships of any kind, and tips for open relationships in specific. For more from today's guests, Jase, Emily, and Dedeker, from the Multiamory podcast: Check out their website multiamory.com Check out multiamory.com/book for more info about their new book and how to order it Order their new book Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships on Bookshop.org Follow Multiamory on Twitter @multiamory Follow Multiamory on Instagram @multiamory_podcast Psst, Courtney has an OnlyFans: onlyfans.com/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: As the evolution of dating, Feeld is a positive space for intense human experiences. For a limited time, listeners of Private Parts Unknown will receive a free month of Majestic Membership (Feeld's premium tier) when they download the app for the first time. Head to feeld.co/ppu. Allow 24 hours for this to activate. https://feeld.co/ppu https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private  Psst... sign up for our Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.com Let's be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with host Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Multiamory Podcast hosts - Dedeker, Jace, and Emily – join Natasha Chandel to talk about one of her favorite subjects – commitment issues! The Multiamory trio explain their journey in ethical non-monogamy, the labels they have been called, and if it really is a more acceptable form of commitment-phobia. They discuss the importance of communication at all stages, how one might approach their partner to open the relationship, and unlearning everything society has told them about love. It's a fascinating, honest, fun conversation of Kinda Dating! → Watch video clips from the show, laugh at hilarious memes, and talk to us by following Kinda Dating on Instagram and TikTok! ← And check out our brand new website!  www.kindadating.com Kinda Dating is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at Frolic.media/podcasts!  Follow the Multiamory Podcast: Website, Apple Podcasts, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter Follow Natasha Chandel: Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, Facebook Follow Aisha Holden: Instagram, Facebook, Twitter Follow Adam Pineless: Instagram, Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Jess connects with Emily, Dedeker, and Jase from the Multiamory podcast, who are also the co-authors of their recently released book, "Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships." They share the inspiration behind their book and explore the journey they took to bring it to life. The hosts engage in a lively discussion about the various relationship tools and chapters featured in their book. This is not another “How To” book! Additionally, the Multiamory hosts reveal their favorite tools and explain why they find them valuable. The conversation takes a deeper dive into the realm of creating healthy communication within relationships and offer insightful advice on overcoming disagreements in relationships in a simpler way.   In this episode of Open Late:   The story behind the Multiamory book Different tools to create safe conversation in your relationship The significance of scheduling Radar Check-ins Discussing also why things are going well in relationships Finding community that understands and listens to your needs Connect with Multiamory: • Website: https://www.multiamory.com/ • Book: https://www.multiamory.com/book • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/multiamory_podcast/ • Become a Patreon/ Join the Discord : https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?c=256168 • Link to buy the Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships book: multiamory.com/book Connect with Jessica: • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com • Youtube: Open Late Podcast • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp • Open Late Dictionary   Quotes from the episode: 9:05  It's inevitable that whether you're in a triad, trying to get a threesome, solo poly, or maybe you want to find your monogamous married soulmate, or whatever it is, you're going to run into some communication problems. So we wrote a book and mapped out some tools you can use. Dedeker  12:48 The point is to not just jump to what it is that you think your partner needs but rather ask. Maybe say “what are you looking for here” or for you to tell your partner “hey all that I need from you right now is this”. Emily 13:45 I don't always know what I want, especially with my partner. Jessica Esfandiary 16:50 What people struggle with the most is how to communicate about their relationship choices to the people that don't understand their relationship choices. Jessica Esfandiary 19:00 Finding a good online community is difficult. Jase 19:10 I found that it is often better to communicate in person because we tend to be less shitty to each other face-to-face than we are online. Jase 24:00 When I say “I want to have a talk” it's often associated with “Oh that's gonna be bad. This is gonna be stressful. You have a complaint.” What I love about Radar Check-in is, that it helps to take away some of those notions because in it you also talk about the stuff that's going well, stuff that's challenging, future plans and, maybe things you want to try.. Jase 28:48 Even if you know a person extremely well, you can never fully know exactly what's going on with them. Their desires and needs for something new and exciting in the relationship, even if things are going great, is a great opportunity for a Radar Check-in. Emily Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions. • Open Smarter Course The product I love who support this show: • Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20 • The Oh Club OPENLATE • Desire Resorts  This is a Sabbatical Jess Production Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why do we feel jealous? Jealousy is often a complex, catch-all word that encompasses the emotions of fear, anxiety, disappointment, or anger.   Some people romanticize this feeling in relationships. Others use jealousy as a justification for controlling and destructive behaviour.   On this episode, Sara sits down with Emily, Dedeker, and Jase, the hosts of the Multiamory Podcast (https://www.multiamory.com/), to unpack the topic of jealousy.   We start off by defining what jealousy is, and sharing candid personal experiences to show it's a familiar, normal feeling.   Instead of trying to avoid or repress jealousy at all costs, Emily, Dedeker and Jase provide a healthy perspective and evidence-based tools on how to deal with jealousy, based on their own relationship research.   Ultimately, feeling some jealousy could be a sign that there's something you need to work on in a relationship with a partner or on yourself. And it's crucial to do some self-reflection to identify the root cause of the emotion.   This episode is filled with practical advice about navigating difficult emotions in relationships. Tune in now to understand what your jealous feelings are telling you, and how you can manage them the next time you experience it.   ---    Unlock the secrets to female orgasm  http://sarasense.com/ohhh. Use code BETTERINBED30 for 30% off the masterclass   Visit Sarasense website http://sarasense.com    Follow @hellosarasense on Instagram   Check out Multiamory's book for relationship tools http://multiamory.com/book   Support this show http://patreon.com/betterinbed or https://www.buymeacoffee.com/sarasense

In this episode, I talk with Dedeker, Emily, and Jase of the Multiamory Podcast! We talk about some top tools and tips for relationship communication, relationship check-ins, going from non-monogamy back to monogamy, triads, and how to repair ruptures in partnerships. We also tease their new amazing book-  Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships.  Ads: -        Unlock your radical path to holistic wellness with Back to the Body and their Sexual Wellness Quiz for Women at backtothebody.org. Plus use SandS for $500 off selected retreats. -  FREE EVENT: Join me at Thriving in Purpose LIVE virtual Masterclass on Friday, June 2nd!  You can sign up at rebrand.ly/sluts_scholars   Multiamory: https://www.multiamory.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.   Loving disclaimer:  Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show. 

We are thrilled to have all three co-hosts of the Multiamory podcast on this week. Or as they sometimes refer to themselves... "An emotionally bonded triad who are coparenting a podcast baby." All funny stuff aside, these three have an incredible story and have been in various relationship dynamics together including a quad, a triad, and *gasp* even monogamy. Along the way, they learned a whole lot.   Lucky for you (and us), they took many of those hard-earned lessons and have shared them over the last nine years on their podcast. And just yesterday, (May 23, 2023) they released their new book! Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships. We highly recommend it as a practical set of tools and strategies for improving your relationships of any kind.   We're delighted that in our conversation with them, they took some of these tools and wove them into their individual and collective non-monogamous journeys. We found it powerful to hear how some of these tools came to be and how they've personally field-tested them for us. This interview is packed with amazing stories and wisdom.   Check out the full show notes here.   Join the most amazing community of open-minded humans on the planet!   Skip the ads and sign up for the Premium Feed!   Click here to order your very own NNM shirt! Click here to join our upcoming Virtual Meet and Greets! $10 Off - Online STI Testing https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

How can relationship structures evolve over time? How can we thrive as our relationships change? What are some essential communication tools that can support our relationships and those in it? In this week's episode Effy is joined by fellow podcasters Dedeker, Emily and Jase of Multiamory.  Dedeker, Emily and Jase share how their relationship evolved from a quad to a long term triad to now a whole other structure and reflect on highs and lows of each phase of their relationship. Effy, Dedeker, Emily and Jase also discuss the communication tools they have developed over the years and now published as a book of the same name. You can get a copy of Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships on the Curious Fox Bookshop. To find out more about Multiamory - Dedeker Winston, Emily Matlack, Jase LindgrenJase, Emily, and Dedeker created the Multiamory Podcast in 2014 to raise awareness, provide approachable resources, and combat the stigma faced by people in non-traditional relationships. Today, with hundreds of episodes, millions of downloads around the world, and a rapidly growing community, they are dedicated to offering practical advice and communication tools, grounded in the latest relationship research, guest experts, and years of professional experience. Multiamory has been featured in numerous publications, including NPR, Vice, Huffington Post, Oprah Daily, Cosmopolitan, and Elle. In addition to their national tours, they have presented at the Google campus in Seattle and have been keynote speakers and presenters at numerous conferences.Instagram: @multiamory_podcastTwitter: @multiamoryTikTok: @multiamoryBook: Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern RelationshipsSupport the showConnect with us on IG and more:Curious Fox @wearecuriousfoxesEffy Blue @coacheffyblueJacqueline Misla @jacquelinemisla Email us or send a voice memo: listening@wearecuriousfoxes.comJoin the conversation: fb.com/WeAreCuriousFoxes

The hosts of the Multiamory podcast, Jase, Emily, and Dedeker, give insights on boundaries, micro-scripts for tough conversations, non-traditional relationships and other juicy tidbits from their new book Multiamory: Essential Tools For Modern Relationships. The Dating Dish this week: Why has height become such a significant factor in dating? The Dear Damona question is: How can I help my brother get back on the dating scene after divorce?  Follow them on Instagram @multiamory_podcast and grab a copy of their new book, Multiamory: Essential Tools For Modern Relationships, by visiting Multiamory.com/book Get Damona's free profile starter kit for a limited time only at DatesandMates.com Sponsor: Green Chef is the #1 Meal Kit for Eating Well. Go to GreenChef.com/datesandmates60 and use code datesandmates60 to get 60% off plus free shipping. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Relationships require so many different skills. Do you ever struggle to process an argument, or to identify what you really want and need? Dedeker, Emily, and Jase, the hosts of the Multiamory podcast and authors of the book Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships, talk with us about relationship tools that work for ALL relationship structures. This is a must-listen whether you are non-monogamous, monogamous, or just want to upgrade your communication skills for every area of your life! Order their book at multiamory.com/book. (order your copy now!) Subscribe to the multamory podcast in your favorite podcast player app. Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com Want support on your opening? Click here to apply for individual coaching.

You may know Emily, Dedeker, and Jase as the hosts of the world-renown podcast, Multiamory. And now you can officially add 'authors' to their bio lines! Dropping May 23rd, 2023 (though available for pre-order today), "Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships" is a curated collection of the most popular communication tools, advice, and wisdom from the Multiamory podcast that have helped thousands of listeners improve their communication and create healthy relationships. In this book, you'll learn how to: Get what you need out of conversations with your partner with the Triforce of Communication, create Microscripts that will interrupt old patterns, diffuse tension, and form better communication habits, set up a regular RADAR check-in to support the long-term health of all of your relationships, determine your unique processing style, and how it may be clashing with your partner's, process and reconnect after an argument with Repair SHOP, and more! Learn more about their book at www.multiamory.com/book. *** Producers: Jessica Levity, Homeslice Productions Intro song: Rachael McIlhiney covering HozierGuests: Emily, Dedeker, and Jase of Multiamory ***

You probably know them as the trio that started the Multiamory podcast, and I'm so honored to know them as peers, friends and colleagues. When they reached out to let me know that their book was getting ready to be released and that they wanted to come on the podcast to share, it was an easy f*ck yes. If you are new to these incredible humans, Jase, Emily, and Dedeker have spent the last decade raising awareness, providing approachable resources, and combat the stigma faced by people in non-traditional relationships. Today, with hundreds of episodes, millions of downloads around the world, and a rapidly growing community, they are dedicated to offering practical advice and communication tools, grounded in the latest relationship research, guest experts, and years of professional experience. I'm so grateful for them and their commitment to this work. And if you happen to be experiencing them for the first time via this podcast, I'm so stoked to introduce you to all things Multiamory. Things we talk about in todays episode:what their work in the relationship sphere has taught them most about their own experience in relationshipswhy there's been a surge of folks stepping into non monogamy the last few yearswhat tools in the book that they personally use the most how it's okay to breakup navigating conflict, PTSD and somatic support, praise kinks, fighting for visibility & beyond!CONNECT WITH EMILY, JASE & DEDEKER:Get the Multiamory book - preorder today, available 5/23/23Multiamory's Instagram | Tik Tok ADDITIONAL RESOURCES MENTIONED:Dedeker's original episode Ambiamory Fucking Queer Merch - use code QUEERDO for 15% off WORK, SUPPORT & CONNECT WITH AMANDA:Fucking Queer Merch — 100% of proceeds from now through the end of Pride Month will go towards the LGBTQ+ charity/organization the community chooses Amanda's Instagram | Website | Tik TokAmanda's book, I Chopped Off My TitsPatreon to support the pod Join her email list for free curated playlists and very occasional gifts & announcements in your inbox

Episode 93. Kender du det at blive dumpet af en ven? Venskaber er en vigtig relation for os i vores liv. Og i dag taler vi om hvorfor vi nogle venskaber går i stykker. Og hvad man evt kan forsøge sig med, hvis man gerne vil have vennen tilbage i sit liv.   Musik: Yuiliana Wijaya Referencer: Multiamory: When Friends Kick You to the Curb (podcastværter: Emily, Dedeker and Jase) Gerald Mollenhorst: Half Of Your Friends Lost In Seven Years Social Studies Find Følg os eventuelt på Misforståetpodcast på InstagramOg endnu vigtigere T A K fordi du lytter med. Venlig hilsen Laura og Pia fra Misforstået-podcast

How do you figure out what your boundaries are? How should you go about communicating boundaries in a way that is both firm and compassionate? How can you remain flexible and open to change without having porous boundaries? Do the same strategies apply to both familial and romantic relationships?  I knew just who to ask: Dedeker Winston, relationship coach, host of the Multiamory podcast, and author of The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory, along with the excellent forthcoming communication guide Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships.  Dedeker is one of the smartest, most articulate people I know, and this conversation was incredibly helpful to me on a practical, nitty-gritty-communication-tips level. I hope you find it useful as well!

Themes: Relationships, Non-Monogamy, Polyamory, Sexuality, Communication Summary: The Multiamory Podcast was created by Emily Matlack, Dedeker Winston, and Jase Lindgren in 2014 to fill the lack of voices about polyamory who were young and accessible to a modern audience. They were also tired of hearing all the same old, traditional, sometimes toxic dating advice. After years of creating episodes, connecting with listeners, and growing an amazing community, they have broadened their own views on relationships and are now helping people in a wide variety of relationship formats from polyamory, to monogamy, to Relationship Anarchy. Emily, Dedeker, and Jase believe in looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the status quo of the past. They value ethics over tradition, and believe that a healthy world is one where everybody has agency in their relationships. Today, with three and a half million podcast downloads and a rapidly growing community, they are dedicated to providing the best possible transformational information, including new research, practical communication tools, a diverse group of guest experts, and more.    Discover: Different types of monogamy (yes, they exist!) The variety of ways that non-monogamy is practiced How Emily, Jase and Dedeker came together as a triad and some of the challenges they faced What do to if you're in a monogamous relationship and want to explore non-monogamy Links: www.multiamory.com Instagram: @multiamory_podcast Twitter: @Multiamory  Patreon: patreon.com/multiamory  Polysecure by Jessica Fern Multiamory Relationship Radar   Sponsors: Cured Nutrition | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% all products at curednutrition.com/createthelove Organifi | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at organifi.com/createthelove Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's episode I interview Dedeker Winston, cohost of the Mutliamory podcast.  Dedeker is also a relationship coach specializing in non-traditional relationships and the author of The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory. We dig into the process of deciding what kind of relationship you REALLY want, not just what you think you're supposed to want. We also discuss the similarities between monogamous and polyamorous relationships and what each can learn from the other. Even if you're committed to being monogamous forever, this episode will help you explore other areas of your relationship and your life to decide what it is is you REALLY want.  CLICK HERE to find out more about Dedeker and how to work with her!Also mentioned in this episode:  What Love Is And What It Could Be by Carrie JenkinsThe Love Starts Here Facebook Group

We're turning the tables today, Dedeker is running our traditional end of book quizzes!If you want MORE drinking and bible-ing, including bonus episodes, interviews with experts, fun mini series', and more, consider becoming a ‘parishioner' at Patreon.com/DrunkBibleStudy Our theme music is Book Club by Josh and Anand.

Dedeker Winston is a relationship coach, writer, podcast host, and advocate for polyamory. She is a somatic-practitioner-in-training, and joins us to introduce another therapeutic intervention method for you to consider on your recovery journey. Somatic experiencing is all about bodily sensations. It ties together both our physical and psychological experiences to guide our nervous system through its trauma response and into healing. Not all practitioners come from psychiatry, with some having backgrounds in physical therapy, dance, or being a chiropractor. One of the things that draws people — including myself — to this method of intervention is that you do not have to talk about your trauma. Instead, its main focus is understanding what it means to feel things in our bodies, and to stop the feedback loop of body sensations triggering trauma responses that then trigger body sensations. Topics/Triggers: What somatic experiencing is based on, as per its creator Peter A. Levine, PhD How Dedeker's experience with PTSD led her to somatic experiencing + why "talk therapy" wasn't the solution for her A breakdown of Dedeker's 1st session of somatic experiencing, including how she finally started to feel good in her body again Why embodiment leads us back into being a whole being connected to nature in a way that psychotherapy does not What capitalism's influence on therapy has done + the reason it keeps us from knowing ourselves Christianity/Catholicism's influence on our western cultural ideology that being in tune with our flesh is bad A step-by-step of what somatic experiencing is, why it could work for you, personal experiences from our own sessions, and what you can expect from a session of your own Dedeker's personal word of advice for survivors, especially those that are LGBTQ+ and/or in nontraditional relationships Multiamory Podcast Dedeker's book: The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory Peter A. Levine's website, Ergos Institute of Somatic Education Peter's books: In An Unspoken Voice + Waking the Tiger ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ If you took anything away from today's podcast, please share it with someone who may need to hear it. And if you really want to support the podcast please give us a rate/review. If you or anyone you know is suffering through trauma contact the National Sexual Assault hotline at 1-800-656-4673 or online for 24/7 support. (This podcast is not a replacement for psychotherapy or mental health care. You can obtain a referral for mental health care provider from your primary care physician, or search on Psychology Today's Find a Therapist directory) Find more Initiated Survivor content here and on Instagram!

Who is the prince? What is the priestly bro code? What song brings up memories of the past for Dedeker?If you want MORE drinking and bible-ing, including bonus episodes, interviews with experts, fun mini series', and more, consider becoming a ‘parishioner' at Patreon.com/DrunkBibleStudy Our theme music is Book Club by Josh and Anand.

This episode is packed with all kinds of goodies on how to navigate modern day relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, or wanting to add a third, the hosts of the Multiamory Podcast offer tools and tips on how to deepen connection, sharpen communication skills, and do relationships in a way that works for you as a unique sexual being.  About our guests: Jase, Dedeker, and Emily, created the Multiamory Podcast in 2014 because they were tired of the same old toxic dating advice. They offer new ideas and advice for multiple forms of love: everything from conscious monogamy to ethical polyamory and radical relationship anarchy. They combine the knowledge from their years of personal experience with the best information available and present it in a way that's entertaining, thought-provoking, and easy to apply to your relationships to. They have been featured in Cosmopolitan, Self Magazine, Vice, as well as offering talks at large-scale companies such as Google. Learn all about Multiamory at multiamory.com. Follow them on Instagram @multiamory_podcast and on Twitter and Facebook @multiamory.   Other links from our beloved sponsors: Get 20% off (and free shipping) your ultimate V-Day Couple's Gift Box at likeakitten.com/shameless  Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com    

From June 2017: Ever thought maybe you were meant to be with more than one person? As times change, so do the way relationships look, which is why host Natasha Chandel and author (“The Smart Girl’s Guide to Polyamory”) Dedeker Winston discuss polyamory. Dedeker helps us better understand this specific type of ethical non-monogamy. Are poly peeps just closet commitment-phobes? Do they ever get jealous? Is it an actual lifestyle? Dedeker breaks down the myths and facts in this uber interesting episode of Kinda Dating! Kinda Dating is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at Frolic.media/podcasts! GET EXCLUSIVE KINDA DATING MERCH HERE: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/kinda-dating?ref_id=15658 Email us your thoughts at kindadating@gmail.com Follow Kinda Dating: www.instagram.com/kindadating www.facebook.com/kindadating www.twitter.com/kindadating Follow Natasha Chandel: www.instagram.com/natashachandel www.facebook.com/natashachandelofficial www.twitter.com/natashachandelofficial Follow Aisha Holden: www.instagram.com/aishasaysdance www.facebook.com/aishasaysdance www.twitter.com/aishasaysdance Follow Dedeker Winston: https://www.dedekerwinston.com/ https://twitter.com/dedekerwinston Follow Adam Pineless: https://www.instagram.com/adampineless Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is fasting a way to extort Yahweh or feast on him? Why are some Christians so obsessed with Satanism and spiritual warfare? How much does Dedeker know about armor, specifically biblical armor? What pieces of music did Psalm 23 inspire?If you want MORE drinking and bible-ing, including bonus episodes, interviews with experts, fun mini series’, and more, consider becoming a ‘parishioner’ at Patreon.com/DrunkBibleStudy Our theme music is Book Club by Josh and Anand.

What is love? More books, songs and movies have been written about the topic than any other combined. And yet we still have that one answer. What we do know is love is the greatest human experience of all. And with regards to relationship models and recent years, some of us have become aware that the one-size-fits-all is not the solution for everyone, and that monogamy is not the only way to successfully conduct a relationship. In fact, growing numbers of people are living non-monogamous lifestyles. A 2017 study found at least one in five people have engaged in some form of consensual non-monogamy before. One approach to living a non-monogamous lifestyle could be to adopt a philosophy and lifestyle of polyamory. And this is what I will discuss with today's guest. Dedeker Winston is a relationship coach, writer and co-creator of the Multiamory podcast. And she is the author of https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Girls-Guide-Polyamory-Relationships/dp/1510712089 (The Smart Girls Guide to Polyamory: Everything You Need to Know About Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Alternative Love). 02:40...What polyamory is 03:47...Dedeker‘s own journey into polyamory 11:19...The number of people that are openly living non-monogamous relationships currently in the US 13:57...Why polyamory is still stigmatized in the West 18:21...The different relationship structures and practices that fall under the term consensual non-monogamy 23:16...Pop culture and cultural narratives vs the reality of alternative relationship models 27:10...The concept of Relationship Anarchy 30:21...Love is not a limited resource: Operating from fear and lack and what the industrial revolution has to do with it 34:42...The most common misconceptions about polyamory 37:05...People who identify as asexual in the polyamorous community 39:24...Dedeker‘s advice for people interested in polyamory who want to take the first steps 44:26...How to keep polyamorous relationships happy and successful vs monogamous relationships 46:19...Jealousy and how to handle it and what it can teach us 51:05...Coloring outside of the lines: the judgements one can be faced with with when choosing to live differently and how to counter them with grace 54:50...The things that would fundamentally change in society if we opened up to accept all kinds of different relationship models 56:24...Dedeker‘s practices Resources mentioned:-http://www.multiamory.com (Multiamory website) -http://www.dedekerwinston.com (Dedeker's website) -https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Girls-Guide-Polyamory-Relationships/dp/1510712089 (The Smart Girls Guide to Polyamory: Everything You Need to Know About Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Alternative Love) -http://www.instagram.com/dedekerwinston (Dedeker's Instagram) http://www.instagram.com/multiamory_podcast (Multiamory Podcast on Instagram)

After a moment of joy we dive into cannibalism, profane evil doers, and lots of fire. After realizing Yahweh is not mad, just disappointed, one might feel like they are a puddle of embarrassment. Judah's idolatry leaves us with questions about the fruit of the stout-hearted, what happens when a standard-bearer faints, and rods for days. Still tripping, Isaiah makes another important prophecy, Dedeker reveals an interesting fact about Jase, and Emily might doom it all with a plea.If you want MORE drinking and bible-ing, including bonus episodes, interviews with experts, fun mini series’, and more, consider becoming a ‘parishioner’ at Patreon.com/DrunkBibleStudy Our theme music is Book Club by Josh and Anand.

Today's chapters start with a bang, women grabbing men, and Dedeker setting boundaries about biblical fan fiction. Latchets, crucibles, and terebinth trees all get a moment... as does a metaphor about shaving. Is it really a metaphor? If you thought Bic was the first to create gender specific pens, you're wrong! Although it's highly likely that he was tripping and will be for some time, Isaiah shares an important prophecy.If you want MORE drinking and bible-ing, including bonus episodes, interviews with experts, fun mini series’, and more, consider becoming a ‘parishioner’ at Patreon.com/DrunkBibleStudy Our theme music is Book Club by Josh and Anand.

Today we're hopping in the way back machine to talk about Sarah and Dedeker's trip to Jerusalem. Scholars weigh in on Bathsheba's possible manipulation and we discuss interesting ways to preserve youth and virility.If you want MORE drinking and bible-ing, including bonus episodes, interviews with experts, fun mini series’, and more, consider becoming a ‘parishioner’ at Patreon.com/DrunkBibleStudy Our theme music is Book Club by Josh and Anand.

Social ladders are being climbed, servants are revealed to have servants of their own, and Dedeker's hopes are smashed when biblical commentary reveals that a plot point from recent chapters turn out to be hyperbole. Also, Emily gets her first taste of Monty Python!If you want MORE drinking and bible-ing, including bonus episodes, interviews with experts, fun mini series’, and more, consider becoming a ‘parishioner’ at Patreon.com/DrunkBibleStudy Our theme music is Book Club by Josh and Anand.

Today's episode is all about the different ways the story of David and King Saul in the cave is represented in art, entertainment, and Sunday School. Check out Drunk Bible Study Fans & Fellowship on Facebook to view Everything Butt, an exhibit curated by Dedeker. If you want MORE drinking and bible-ing, including bonus episodes, interviews with experts, fun mini series’, and more, consider becoming a ‘parishioner’ at Patreon.com/DrunkBibleStudy Our theme music is Book Club by Josh and Anand.

People are shady, slaughtered, and subdued. The Ark (which is probably radioactive) is stolen, likenesses of diseased body parts are cast in gold, Eli topples over, and Dedeker has a life revelation. If you want MORE drinking and bible-ing, including bonus episodes, interviews with experts, fun mini series’, and more, consider becoming a ‘parishioner’ at Patreon.com/DrunkBibleStudy Our theme music is Book Club by Josh and Anand.

Emily pulls random Olympic facts out of her brain-butt (what?), the story of Achsah is interpreted by some dude from okchrist.com, and Jase tests Dedeker's and Emily's knowledge of Pokémon, pharmaceuticals, and biblical cities with quiz he created. Check it out at https://www.drunkbiblestudy.com/pokemon-quiz and be sure to let us know your score in the Drunk Bible Study Fans & Fellowship Facebook Group!

In her early twenties Dedeker continually found herself wanting to cheat on her partners even though she loved them and still wanted to be with them. She never cheated, but after confessing this to a friend of hers one night, he pitched the idea of open relationships to her. After she was done being offended, she researched it extensively and began the incredible journey that led to the story she shared with us. Beyond that, her experiences and wisdom have helped her craft the incredible Multiamory podcast as one of its three co-hosts. This conversation literally takes us around the world and across pretty much the entire spectrum of non-monogamy. Enjoy! Show Notes Multiamory Podcast Fun MyOneCondom Holiday Survey! Try BeachBody On-Demand free for 14 days! Join Our Patreon Community!  $10 Off - Online STI Testing 6 Free Month Trial on Kasidie https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Dedeker, Emily, and Jase wrap up the Torah, the Pentateuch, and Deuteronomy by taking a quiz from https://biblequizzes.org.uk/.

Cheers to Moses, who sings for us the much hyped 52 verse song before dying on the top of Mount Nebo, overlooking the Promised Land he was not allowed to enter. Dedeker, Emily, and Jase take on new roles as casting directors for a Drunk Bible Study adaptation of the Bible, currently titled Pokémon Sword & Shield, Be Excellent to Each Other: Yahweh Says So. It'll likely feature drunken arrows, lightening swords, and boomers ranting about millennials.If you want MORE drinking and bible-ing, including bonus episodes, interviews with experts, fun mini series’, and more, consider becoming a ‘parishioner’ at Patreon.com/DrunkBibleStudy Our theme music is Book Club by Josh and Anand.The song for the book of Deuteronomy is “Truth in the Stones” by Kevin McLeod (incompetech.com). Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0.

Numbers is numbing sometimes. A lot of animals die and men get to well women what to do. Hopefully Moses is taking notes when Yahweh sets new standards for offerings because things are getting pretty specific. Emily practices her speed reading and Dedeker is looking for recommendations for sulfite free wines that actually taste like wine.If you want MORE drinking and bible-ing, including bonus episodes, interviews with experts, fun mini series’, and more, consider becoming a ‘parishioner’ at Patreon.com/DrunkBibleStudy Our theme music is Book Club by Josh and Anand.The song for the book of Numbers is “Motivator” by Kevin McLeod (incompetech.com). Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0.

Today Jase finally gets to start introducing Emily and Dedeker to the music of Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat! They are regailed with songs and everyone loves it and definitely doesn't make fun of it at all.

Emily reads a little bit of the King James translation to see just how archaic it is. Dedeker also has some information about the history of the King James Bible and Jase shares some interesting stits and stats about who uses the version today.

Dedeker Winston was raised to be a wholesome Christian conservative, but later opted to be a sex-positive polyamory activist, relationship coach, and nude model. She currently provides one-on-one coaching services for people transitioning into non-monogamy and is one of the hosts of the Multiamory podcast. She has been sought out as an expert for Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Newsweek, Vice, Bustle, AskMen, and recently presented a Talk at Google on non-monogamy. She is the author of The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory. Here are a few things we discuss in todays episode: Polyamory 101: what does it even mean to be polyamorous? Dedeker’s journey from conservative Christian to sex positive and ethical non monogamy activist Removing the stigma from ethical non monogamy Infidelity, affairs and being attracted to someone else when you’re already in a relationship Cultural norms and the expectations placed on us without being aware of it The relationship escalator and how more of us are on it without even realizing it Jealousy The multiple ways you can dive into the world of ethical non monogamy

No defaults. That's how Dedeker Winston, and her romantic partners Jase and Alex, see the foundation of their relationship structure: conscious, intentional choice around a lifestyle that works for the people involved in it, rather than defaulting to the monogamy (or serial monogamy) of our culture. As a former evangelical Christian, Dedeker not only left behind her faith but also many of the ideas based on it, like its messages about sex and relationships. In this conversation with Bart Campolo, Dedeker talks about hierarchy in poly relationships like hers, the 'relationship escalator', expression of ultimate values, the fallacy of thinking that one person can play every role in one's life, commitment, financial and legal matters, comparisons with blended families and LGBTQ families, the difficulties of being in alternative lifestyles in a society that doesn't see them as normal or good, and takeaways for couples who plan to stay in monogamous relationships. Dedeker's website can be found at DedekerWinston.com, her poly podcast can be found at Multiamory.com and her book can be found on Amazon. -- Tell us what you think about the conversation with Dedeker in our top-secret Facebook Group! This week's episode features Heathen by Stars From Streetlights. Get the song on iTunes or Spotify! 'Bart's Book List (Part 1)' can be found at our Patreon page. Not a supporter yet? Join up at Patreon.com/HumanizeMe and get extra content for it! Got a question for Bart to answer in a future show? Call the ‘Q Line' at (424) 291-2092. Humanize Me is hosted by Bart Campolo and is produced by JuxMedia.com.

No defaults. That's how Dedeker Winston, and her romantic partners Jase and Alex, see the foundation of their relationship structure: conscious, intentional choice around a lifestyle that works for the people involved in it, rather than defaulting to the monogamy (or serial monogamy) of our culture.As a former evangelical Christian, Dedeker not only left behind her faith but also many of the ideas based on it, like its messages about sex and relationships.In this conversation with Bart Campolo, Dedeker talks about hierarchy in poly relationships like hers, the 'relationship escalator', expression of ultimate values, the fallacy of thinking that one person can play every role in one's life, commitment, financial and legal matters, comparisons with blended families and LGBTQ families, the difficulties of being in alternative lifestyles in a society that doesn't see them as normal or good, and takeaways for couples who plan to stay in monogamous relationships.Dedeker's website can be found at DedekerWinston.com, her poly podcast can be found at Multiamory.com and her book can be found on Amazon.--Tell us what you think about the conversation with Dedeker in our top-secret Facebook Group!This week's episode features Heathen by Stars From Streetlights. Get the song on iTunes or Spotify!'Bart's Book List (Part 1)' can be found at our Patreon page. Not a supporter yet? Join up at Patreon.com/HumanizeMe and get extra content for it!Got a question for Bart to answer in a future show? Call the ‘Q Line’ at (424) 291-2092.Humanize Me is hosted by Bart Campolo and is produced by JuxMedia.com.

For this bonus, we go into more detail about this servant who found Rebekah, a little more about her, and then we play Guess The Miracle where Emily and Dedeker try to guess the three miracles that were present at Sarah's and Rebekah's tent!

After SO much buildup, Elihu finally drops his transcendental wisdom on Job and friends. Elihu might even make Dedeker cry today... If you want MORE drinking and bible-ing, including bonus episodes, interviews with experts, fun mini series’, and more, consider becoming a ‘parishioner’ at Patreon.com/DrunkBibleStudy Our theme music is Book Club by Josh and Anand.The song for the book of Job is “Agnus Dei X” by Kevin McLeod (incompetech.com). Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0.

In this bonus episode, we continue our conversation with Cooper S Beckett, asking him to give Emily some more background on Catholicism, since Dedeker and Jase were raised protestant and only have that experience. We also go more in depth about translations of the Bible and Cooper's personal relationship with the church.

Dedeker Winston is a relationship coach, a podcaster, a public speaker, and the author of The Smart Girl’s Guide to Polyamory. She joins us to talk about her journey with polyamory, and the ABCs of alternative relationship models. Polyamory, Ethical Non Monogamy, Open Relationships -- these concepts can be daunting, but Dedeker helps us navigate them with insight and grace.

A chat with Dedeker Winston, author of The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory and host of the Multiamory podcast. Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com Today’s cohost is Lusty Guy 1:30 Host chat Planet Money NPR podcast And then what exercise Lusty Guy's My Poly Story Lusty Guy will be doing a Poly in the Heartland road trip. Email him at lustyguy@polyweekly.com if you want to be interviewed! The Art of Three blog interview 9:10 Poly in the news A New York judge has officially awarded custody to three parents in a landmark case The Poly in the News coverage 14:20 Interview: Dedeker Winston, author of Smart Girl’s Guide to Polyamory Dedeker Winston   The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory.  Facebook and Instagram at @dedekerwinston. Multiamory podcast 37:45 Feedback episode 501 episode 502on coming out to kids 43:00 Happy poly moment 47:10 Thank you! 49:00 How to make this podcast better Email polyweekly@gmail.com Call the listener comment line at 802-505-POLY Twitter  Facebook polyweekly.libsyn.com write an iTunes review  Our intro and outro music is courtesy of Pacemaker Jane, “Good Suspicions.”

Our own Dedeker Winston's book, The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory comes out internationally today and we are so excited to be able to interview her about the book and share our own experiences with reading it. Dedeker talks to us about the importance of creating a book that empowers women to have agency in their relationships and shares some of the insights she gained and experiences she had during the two-year process of writing this comprehensive guide to Polyamory for the modern world. Though the book may be aimed toward women, it's inviting and accessible to anybody regardless of gender. 10/10 Would Recommend!If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of like-minded listeners at patreon.com/Multiamory. You can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, bonus episodes, and more!Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, find us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast, tweet at us @Multiamory, check out our Facebook Page, visit our website Multiamory.com, or you can leave us a voicemail at 678-MULTI-05. We love to hear from our listeners and we read every message.