Podcast appearances and mentions of rosalia rivera

Rosalia Rivera is a consent educator and abuse prevention specialist who works to help parents break cycles of abuse through empowered, proactive conversations. In this episode of Consider Before Consuming, she shares her personal experiences with pornography, the dangers of leaving sex education to the internet, and how parents can build safe, shame-free spaces for their children to learn about consent and autonomy. She also dives into how pornography plays a role in grooming, the rise in child-on-child sexual abuse, and why media literacy and digital safety are more important than ever.Episode ResourcesConsent ParentingPodcast: Consider Before Consuming Ep. 17: Heidi OlsonBook: I Said No by Kimberly KingBook: Good Pictures, Bad Pictures by Kristen JensonFTND Parent Resource Page

Episode Summary In this episode of the Autism Blueprint Podcast, we're in the classroom today with Rosalia Rivera, an expert in body safety education. Our conversation centered around the critical importance of teaching children about their bodies, boundaries, and consent, particularly in the context of preventing abuse. Rosalia introduced the concept of “body safety,” practical […] The post Understanding Consent | Body Safety Strategies for ALL Families | A conversation with Rosalia Rivera appeared first on Puzzle Peace Counseling.

Hi friends! Welcome back to the Heartful Parent Podcast. This week, we're diving into an important but tough topic: child safety. Specifically, we're discussing child sexual abuse in educational settings. As parents, grandparents, and loved ones, it's our responsibility to ensure kids grow up brain and body safe. This episode might be triggering for some of you, especially if this is part of your history. If that's the case, please take care of your heart. Pause or come back when you're ready. Also, this episode isn't suitable for little ears, so if kids are around, come back to it later. If you're co-parenting, consider listening with your partner so you're both aligned on this critical topic. I'm honored to have Rosalia Rivera with us today. She's a consent and child sexual abuse prevention specialist, speaker, and co-founder of the BRAVE Movement. Rosalia's insights offer practical, empowering steps to help us protect our children and move from fear to action. Without further ado, let's get started!     Key Takeaways: How to protect kids from educator sexual misconduct Moving from fear to empowerment as a parent Practical steps to ensure kids are both brain and body safe Resources Mentioned: Rosalia Rivera's work: Consent Parenting https://www.consentparenting.com About Consent podcast Thanks for joining me today! If this episode was helpful, please share it and subscribe for more. Stay safe, and see you next week!   Follow Us: https://theheartfulparent.com/heartful-parent-academy/   Facebook: @theheartfulparent Instagram @theheartfulparent Subscribe & Leave a Review: Don't forget to subscribe to The Heartful Parent Podcast and leave a review if you enjoyed this episode!     Stay tuned for more Heartful conversations on parenting, love, and inclusivity. Thank you for listening!  

Teaching body safety and consent has always been a priority for me as a mother, and I was so excited to chat with Rosalia Rivera , a renowned consent educator and child sexual abuse prevention specialist, to discuss how parents can transition from feeling fearful and anxious to confident and empowered when teaching their kids about body safety, boundaries, and consent. In this episode, we explore practical tips for teaching consent at different ages, setting boundaries, and empowering your child to prevent sexual abuse. Follow Begin with Shaolin:Instagram: @beginwithshaolinYoutube: @beginwithshaolinTiktok: @beginwithshaolinhttps://www.beginwithshaolin.com/ Follow Shaolin:Instagram: @studioshaolinYoutube: @studioshaolinTiktok: @studio.shaolinhttps://www.studioshaolin.com/ Follow Rosalia:Instagram: @consentparenting https://aboutconsent.com Watch "Begin with Shaolin"Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@beginwithshaolin

Rosalia Rivera discussed the reboot of the podcast for season 3 and what the season will bring. That includes talking about the Brave Movement's online safety campaign, Safer Internet, through an exciting new series. She's also releasing episodes about the growing influence of the pedophile movement in society. She emphasized the importance of prioritizing mental health, exposing red flags, and creating a consent culture to prevent child sexual abuse and promote healing and justice. Rivera highlighted the need for collective action to address this complex issue and ensure a safer world for all children and adolescents. She'll also be addressing issues around Indigenous abuse and school safety.

Teaching kids sexual values and beliefs can be challenging when you've got your own baggage! Dr. Camden Morgante is back to help us know how to talk about sexual purity with our kids, while leaving out negative messages from purity culture. Listen in for practical tips on giving our kids a reason to stay sexually pure without the baggage!    Get my FREE download here: 10 Conversation Starters About Sex Freebie   Find Dr. Camden on instagram @drcamden and on her website drcamden.com   Take Dr. Camden's free purity culture quiz here!   Missed the previous episode with Dr. Camden? Listen to Season 2 Episode 22: Unpacking Purity Culture // with Dr. Camden Morgante   Learn more about teaching consent from Rosalia Rivera in Season 2 Episode 8: Empowering Kids by Teaching Consent   Join the conversation @ladies.talkinglove on Instagram or visit ladiestalkinglove.com   This podcast does not replace professional or medical advice. We will be talking about sex, so some content may not be suitable for children and could be triggering to some individuals. Everything discussed is for general information only and is not to be used to diagnose or treat any medical or psychological conditions. Music: MastaBlack_fK and https://envato.com/  

We know this can be a hard conversation, but it's critical in order to protect our children from the very real threats and predators. You might think that trafficking is something that is distant or would not affect your area or town. But as you'll learn from today's guest, Rosalia Rivera, the abuse and trafficking of children occurs mostly in plain sight, in areas near and around you. But this episode is not to put you in fear; in fact, it's to empower you to have specific ACTIONS to take, whether your kids are 2 or already up to teens.  You will hear: The difference between human trafficking and sexual abuse of children What it means to teach “consent” to children, and conversations to have from parent to child What age you can start having these conversations about body autonomy and consent 3 specific ways to protect children from online predators or exploitation 3 specific ways to protect children from local threats, even that can occur in their clubs, sports activities, and sleepovers with neighbors Conversations to start with your local community, their schools, and daycares,  And so much more. All of it is sobering and somewhat shocking that we have to think about this, but we DO   Dive into her helpful resources here on her website and instagram!   

Rosalia Rivera is a consent educator and child sexual abuse prevention specialist, sexual literacy advocate, 2x TEDx speaker, rape culture disruptor, Chair of SAGE (Survivor Advocates Globally Empowered) representing the BRAVE Movement, co-founder of the Survivors Council of Canada, and the founder of CONSENTparenting™, the host of the AboutCONSENT™ podcast and creator of CONSENTwear™.consentparenting.com@consentparentingIf you want a speaker in your school, email heynate@savethekids.org and we will get you hooked up! OR fill out the form below.Link to speaker formMake sure to check us out on Instagram!@savethekidsincSupport the show

Welcome to the official start of Season 4 of We Gotta Talk! We are kicking things off this season with a conversation all parents need to hear. I'm talking with the founder of CONSENTparenting, Rosalia Rivera, whose work is dedicated to preventing childhood sexual abuse. On her website and Instagram account @consentparenting, Rosalia breaks down how exactly to talk to kids to help them develop boundaries, understand consent, and learn to trust their instincts. A survivor of sexual abuse herself, Rosalia dedicated herself to healing her own trauma to help others learn about sexual abuse prevention. Her words are direct and impactful, and she helps parents go from discomfort to confidence when it comes to tackling topics that will help keep their kids safe. In this episode, we talk: + How to talk with kids from age 0-3, 3-6, 6-9 and beyond about body safety and predators+ How to spot grooming+ What it was like recalling her own abuse trauma and why she decided to come forward with her story+ Are sleepovers ever safe?+ How to help a victim come forward with their story+ What are “exit strategies” and how to teach them to kids+ How to have “the talk” with kids, and why it's vital to helping prevent abuse+ The questions to ask before sending your kid to a sleepover…and more. Follow CONSENTparenting on Instagram here, and check out their website, which is full of free resources and education, here. Follow me on Instagram here, and check out the WGT blog here. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/wegottatalkwithsonni/support

Rosalia, a consent educator and child sexual abuse prevention expert, shares her journey of how she went from having an idea to building a successful business centered around consent parenting. During our conversation, we explore the importance of teaching consent as a parenting style, empowering individuals to understand their agency, boundaries, and rights.  Follow Rosalia on all things social: Instagram Facebook Verywell Mind Website Follow Cafe con Pam on all things social Instagram Facebook http://cafeconpam.com/ Secure your spot for Be Heard and Launch Your Podcast Join the FREE Cafe con Pam Challenge Join our Discord space and let's keep the conversation going!   Subscribe, rate, review, and share this episode with someone you love! And don't ever forget to Stay Shining!

This episode of The Fresh Start Family Show welcomes back a cherished guest Rosalia Rivera. Rosalia is the founder of Consent Parenting, a consent educator and child sexual abuse prevention specialist, sexual literacy advocate and the host of the About Consent Podcast. She is also a child sexual abuse survivor, turned thriver. You'll learn how to avoid the pitfalls that many well meaning parents make when it comes to educating ourselves and our children on these topics. This conversation is often uncomfortable or even taboo, but it doesn't need to be and it's absolutely essential that every parent listens since the stats are staggering when it comes to how common sexual abuse with kids is. The more literate we are ourselves, the easier it is to address our own family, friends and others in our children's lives so they stay SAFE! Tune in to learn 5 mistakes parents often make when it comes to keeping kids safe from sexual abuse: 1. Not knowing the stats  2. Thinking that your child will recognize red flag behavior/grooming  3. Not being proactive because you believe your neighborhood/school/religious institution/family circle are all safe 4. Allowing sleepovers without fully vetting where your child will be staying 5. Telling your child that no one should touch their private parts and not telling them what to do IF someone does touch them (and it's not go, run, yell, tell) For links & more info about everything discussed in this episode, head to www.freshstartfamilyonline.com/167. Join us for our Fast Track Cooperation Workshop on Sat. April 22 - Grab your seat here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Rosalia Rivera joins me to talk about teaching children about body safety, boundaries and consent. One of the key takeaways from our conversation is the importance of empowering children with knowledge and tools to recognize and communicate boundaries. Parents can help their children understand the difference between safe and unsafe touch, and good touch/bad touch.  When it comes to teaching children about consent, Rosalia suggests starting with modeling consent in everyday life. This can include asking for permission before giving a hug or sharing personal information. Additionally, parents can teach children about body literacy and the foundational blocks of sex ed in developmentally appropriate ways. Balancing a child's natural curiosity with their safety is a delicate balance. Rosalia shares some strategies that can help parents strike this balance effectively. She also talks about the importance of reinforcing 'stranger danger' and building strong relationships with children. Rosalia Rivera is a consent educator and child sexual abuse prevention specialist, sexual literacy advocate, TEDx speaker, Chair of SAGE (Survivor Advocates Globally Empowered) representing the BRAVE Movement, and the founder of CONSENTparenting™, the host of the AboutCONSENT™ podcast and creatrix of CONSENTwear™. She is also a CSA (child sexual abuse) survivor, turned thriver. She helps busy parents go from fearful and anxious to confident and empowered, about teaching their kids about body safety, boundaries, and consent to prevent sexual abuse.    We talk about: [3:10] How Rosalia helps parents teach their kids about body safety boundaries  [4:15] The greater risk for survivor parents when it comes to this work and having hard conversations with their kids [7:25] Where to start when it comes to teaching about consent [12:10] Teaching kids about body literacy and the foundational blocks of sex ed [12:50] The difference between safe and unsafe touch, and good touch/bad touch [16:05] Helping kids learn that they should never say yes to something that doesn't feel good for them [20:00] How to balance letting your child explore with also teaching concepts to keep them safe [21:30] The opportunity to reinforce 'stranger danger' [24:30] 'Grooming' signs and red flags  [29:55] Why kids with challenging relationships to their parents can often be easily targeted  [32:10] When would you explain what grooming is and what to be aware of [35:55] Rosalia's advice to her younger parent self   As a CSA survivor and parent, from a family of survivors, she discovered how triggering it was to learn about abuse prevention when it was time to educate her own kids once she became a mother. Determined to break the intergenerational cycle of abuse, Rosalia dedicated herself to her healing so she could overcome the anxiety and triggers that kept coming up when learning about abuse prevention so she could teach her kids.    Rosalia is certified in the Canadian Centre for Child Protection® COMMIT TO KIDS® Child Sexual Abuse Prevention Training Program and is a Certified Facilitator of the Stewards Of Children® Training by Darkness to Light, as well as OnWatch™.   Resources mentioned in this episode: Free ‘How to Stop Yelling' Course: www.sarahrosensweet.com/yelling  Join us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/peacefulparenting  Private Part Safety Workshop: https://www.consentparenting.com/getting-started   Connect with Rosalia On Instagram On Facebook On Twitter On LinkedIn https://aboutconsent.com/  https://www.consentparenting.com/    Connect with Sarah Rosensweet   On Instagram On Facebook https://www.sarahrosensweet.com  Book a short consult or coaching session call  

We can all agree that education around women's bodies is lacking; for a lot of us, we aren't taught anything past penis and vaginas. Today we're talking to Jo Corrall about all things vulva – including anatomy, vaginal discharge, female pleasure, and more! This was a super informative episode and I think we're really going to learn a lot together! In this episode we talked about the vulva – what it's made up of, how it often gets mistaken for the vagina, and even the strange names we often call it! Learning our anatomy can seem intimidating, but it actually helps us to empower ourselves. When we go to the doctor (a task that can already seem hard, hello anxiety!), we need to be able to be as accurate as possible about what's going on with us, and learning the inner workings of vulvas is going to help us get there. We also talked about something that we don't really like to talk about: discharge. This topic is one that can be a little uncomfortable, but it's something that is totally normal, and really alleviating to actually learn about. Jo truly knows so much about helping us to feel empowered in our bodies, and to learn all about our vulvas. Guest Expert Founded in 2016 by, Jo Corrall, This is a Vulva is a sex education and vulva diversity campaign with the aim of stemming the rise in people wanting labiaplasty. In This Episode We Talk About 00:02 - Who is Jo? 05:58 - The anatomy of vulvas. 12:45 - Vulva checks and what that means. 17:05 - Discharge and how normal it actually is (spoiler: very). 31:35 - Teaching our kids proper terms for genitalia. 37:26 - How to start becoming comfortable with your vulva. 41:37 - Where to find Jo! Resource Links Women of the World Festival This is a Vulva @ThisIsAVulva Monthly Vulva Check The Discharge Gallery UM Club episode 20 - Rosalia Rivera from Consent Parenting (Originally published Feb 2022) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unapologeticjannine/message

Fran chats to Rosalia Rivera about talking to children about consent as a way to educate them about their bodies and their right to safety and bodily autonomy. They chat about what this might look like, how it's a gradual process, how to chat to other adults in our lives about consent-based parenting and why creating a culture that is anti-abuse matters. They also talk about creating consent cultures within schools and other institutions, online safety, and changes that are happening on a wider scale. About Rosalia: Rosalia Rivera ia a passionate consent educator, child sexual abuse prevention expert, sexual literacy advocate, TEDx speaker, change agent, and survivor turned thriver. She's also the host of AboutCONSENT™ Podcast, the founder of CONSENTparenting™ and creatrix of CONSENTwear™. The Brave Movement: https://www.bravemovement.org/ CONSENTparenting™: http://www.consentparenting.com Instagram: http://Instagram.com/consentparenting Facebook: http://Facebook.com/consentparenting --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/consentbasedeverything/message

Rosalia Rivera is a Consent Educator, Sexual Literacy Advocate, Speaker, change agent, founder of CONSENTparenting, host of the AboutCONSENT Podcast, creatrix of CONSENTwear and child sexual abuse survivor turned thriver. In this episode we talk about body boundaries, safe people and safety networks, how to respond to a child who comes to you with information that they may be ashamed ... more »

How do we prevent our children from becoming victims of child abuse? While we as parents would rather just not think about it, the reality is that at least one in seven children in the United States experience child abuse. But, we as parents can do a lot to prevent it. Consent educator and child abuse prevention specialist Rosalia Rivera discusses how to educate our children about body safety, boundaries, and consent along with how we as parents can minimize opportunities for abuse. She also talks about how to keep an open line of communication with our children to talk about these matters so that if they find themselves in a bad situation, they can tell us parents so that we can get them out of that situation. Although most of us think of abuse happening at the hands of a stranger, Rosalia also explains that a lot of abuse happens between children or by a trusted adult, who gain access to children by grooming. She gives many tips on what to look out for in order to avoid children getting into these situations, how rape culture affects everything, how to teach our kids about secret safety, and shares invaluable resources, plus must more.

Today's episode is a re-airing of one of our top podcasts where we explore 10 ways we are attempting to parent for sanity and social change through our discipline. We'll be on a quick spring break and back to you all soon!Parenting is revolutionary and the way we treat our kids can change the world. Last chance to enroll in the virtual Parenting Forward Conference, beginning April 25th! We loved connecting with Cindy Wang Brandt about how to support sensitive kids. The conference also hosts some of our favorite parenting leaders of all time: Mr. Chazz, Rosalia Rivera, Jen Lumanlan, Shelly Robinson, Leslie Priscilla Arreola-Hillenbrand and Vivek Patel, among others -- Learn from experts and join the revolution! Virtual Conference topics:- Raising Sensitive Children- Preventing Childhood Abuse- Helping Kids Develop Socio-Emotional Tools- 3 Things You Need to Know about the Teenage Brain- Repairing Parenting Mistakes- Advocating for Trans Families- Representing Marginalized Stories in Children's Lit- Taming Your Triggers- Reparenting Yourself- Parenting the Early Years- Befriending Anger and Grief in Parenting- Breaking Cycles of Traditional ParentingEnroll in the Parenting Forward Conference, beginning April 25th!#DoTheWork #SpiritedKids #AntiracistParenting #ParentingTips #Reparenting #RespectfulParenting #RIE #ConsciousParenting #Parenting #FeministParenting #GentleParenting #PositiveDiscipline #Selfhealers #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfImprovement #RaisingTheFutureDisclaimer: Hannah & Kelty are parenting coaches and do not work in a professional therapist's or MD capacity to diagnose or treat mental health disorders. They cannot advise parents on issues such as drug addiction, eating disorders, self-harm, severe psychiatric disorders, child abuse, assault, etc. Work with us to explore topics such as: parenting, motherhood, discipline, resistance, RIE parenting, feminist parenting, toddlers, tantrums, potty training, mindful parenting, conscious parenting, evidence-based parenting, positive parenting, respectful parenting, simplicity parenting and positive discipline.Relevant Links:- Our Freedoms Model- Our RESIST Approach- Our Shop - GUIDES + PRINTS!- Our Resources Page- Our Coaching page- Amber Okamura, Upbringing's Artist- Mary Schroeder, Upbringing's Letterer- Alex Olavarria, our producer, musician, editor + husband/brother in lawVisit our website, www.upbringing.co to learn more about us and sign up for our newsletter! We want to hear your thoughts. We care deeply about what you think and how you're doin', so get in touch -- we're better together.Email us: info@upbringing.coFollow Upbringing on Instagram: @upbringing.coJoin us to explore topics such as: parenting, motherhood, discipline, resistance, RIE parenting, feminist parenting, toddlers, tantrums, potty training, mindful parenting, conscious parenting, evidence-based parenting, positive parenting, respectful parenting, simplicity parenting and positive discipline.

Thank you for a great convo!Parenting is revolutionary and the way we treat our kids can change the world. Last chance to enroll in the virtual Parenting Forward Conference, beginning April 25th! We loved connecting with Cindy Wang Brandt about how to support sensitive kids. The conference also hosts some of our favorite parenting leaders of all time: Mr. Chazz, Rosalia Rivera, Jen Lumanlan, Shelly Robinson, Leslie Priscilla Arreola-Hillenbrand and Vivek Patel, among others -- Learn from experts and join the revolution! Virtual Conference topics:- Raising Sensitive Children- Preventing Childhood Abuse- Helping Kids Develop Socio-Emotional Tools- 3 Things You Need to Know about the Teenage Brain- Repairing Parenting Mistakes- Advocating for Trans Families- Representing Marginalized Stories in Children's Lit- Taming Your Triggers- Reparenting Yourself- Parenting the Early Years- Befriending Anger and Grief in Parenting- Breaking Cycles of Traditional ParentingEnroll in the Parenting Forward Conference, beginning April 25th!Looking for some support for challenges within mealtime, bedtime, hygiene, transitions, big feelings, resistance, screentime, homework, sibling conflict, anxiety, yelling, mean words and more?TUNE IN and VISIT OUR WEBSITE to build skills in:

Rosalia Rivera, consent educator and child sexual abuse prevention specialist, joins me to share incredibly important insight every parent needs to know. Keeping your child in your sight at all times for 18 years is not an option.We need to know how to equip ourselves so we can equip our kids with *uncomfortable* conversations.Conversations like body autonomy, anatomically correct names for private parts, secrets vs. surprises, safe vs. tricky people, online safety and much more.Conversations not only with our child but all of their care providers.As Rosalia says, "I'd rather have an uncomfortable conversation than my child BE in an uncomfortable situation."The more we can have these conversations the safer the world is going to be for our kids.// CONNECT WITH ROSALIA//ConsentParenting.comInstagram: @consentparentingPodcast: About ConsentMarch Private Parts Safety Workshop*FREE* CALM BIG EMOTIONS GUIDEwww.parentingwholeheartedly.com/emotionsCHAOS TO CALM: FREE Recorded Masterclasswww.parentingwholeheartedly.com/masterclass//SCHEDULE YOUR CONSULTATION CALL//FREE No-obligation zoom for more info-https://wholeheartedly.as.me/callMore details on my Sanity + Solutions 5-S Framework -www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/coachingI believe in you & I'm cheering you on.Come say hi!  I'm @parent_wholeheartedly on Insta.Subscribe in Apple Podcasts, Write a Review & Share with a friend!Support the show (https://www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/community)

*Trigger warning: child sexual abuse*   Rosalia Rivera is a consent educator who, as a survivor of child sexual abuse, is committed to sharing her story to help release shame, de-stigmatize this issue and allow other survivors to know they're not alone. In this candid conversation, Rosalia talks about how becoming a mom forced her to face the repressed memories from her childhood that came to the surface when educating her own kids about consent. She discusses her healing journey and shares how she has learned to manage triggers and break the cycle of abuse. Rosalia is now on a mission to educate parents on how to teach their children about body rights, boundaries and consent. She reminds us how vital it is to educate all genders to not only keep their own bodies safe, but to also treat others respectfully, in order to prevent abuse.   Connect with Rosalia:   Empower your family at CONSENTparenting.com     Keep learning at Instagram.com/consentparenting     Follow me on Facebook.com/consentparenting     Listen to the podcast at aboutCONSENT.com     Create #consentculture with CONSENTwear.com   Creator and Host: Kim Short Guest: Rosalia Rivera Editing and Production: Kim Short

Tune in for our interview with Rosalia of the About Consent Podcast and Consent Parenting Community!In this episode we talked about: How we got started and why it was important to teach consent principles to our kids What our ‘freedoms' model is all about How our parenting practices intersect with consent parenting and feminism How parents can enjoy these practices and let go of the guilt of not always getting it right And more! Rosalia Rivera is a passionate consent educator, child sexual abuse prevention expert, sexual literacy advocate, TEDx speaker, change agent, and survivor turned thriver. Her mission is to #1: To help parents & caregivers to empower the children in their lives through consent education (and irradicate child sexual abuse like we irradiated polio), #2: To help childhood sexual trauma survivors find their voice, rediscover their power and reclaim their innate sexual divinity and #3: To dismantle shame around sexuality through education and awareness.On her podcast, she offers education, information, resources, and inspiration to help you achieve your most beautiful life- because she believes we all have the right to live a life of internal peace, freedom, and joy. Each week, she connects with a guest mental health professional, trauma specialist or wellness expert surrounding all the topics discussed on her platform, offering expertise, advice, tools, and resources.Consent Parenting on InstagramAbout Consent Podcast on InstagramConsent Parenting WebsiteAbout Consent PodcastThe Podcast on AppleMarch small group coaching is now open for enrollment!Join us Mondays at 11-1pm PST or 6-8pm PST!You'll receive:✔️4 coaching sessions with Hannah & Kelty✔️2 hrs per weekly session (recording emailed)✔️7 families to commiserate + connect with✔️LIVE Resources, discounts + more!DOORS CLOSE SOON! If you're looking for some support in showing up for your brilliant / infuriating kids, join us while there's still space! ✨ Learn more and sign up: www.upbringing.co/smallgroupcoachingJoin us to realign your personal values with your daily parenting practices when it comes to supporting your kid's big feelings + challenging behaviors. We'll build skills, connection and solidarity together over four 2-hour sessions. Head on over to our link in bio or www.Upbringing.co/smallgroupcoaching to learn more…Tune in and connect on our LIVE Q&As every week on Instagram. Catch up on past LIVE session on our IGTV tab. As always, we laugh, we cry, we lean in… join us!Relevant Links:- Our Freedoms Model- Our RESIST Approach- Our Shop - GUIDES + PRINTS!- Our Resources Page- Our Coaching page- Amber Okamura, Upbringing's Artist- Mary Schroeder, Upbringing's Letterer- Alex Olavarria, our producer, musician, editor + husband/brother in lawVisit our website, www.upbringing.co to learn more about us and sign up for our newsletter! We want to hear your thoughts. We care deeply about what you think and how you're doin', so get in touch -- we're better together.Email us: info@upbringing.coFollow Upbringing on Instagram: @upbringing.coJoin us to explore topics such as: parenting, motherhood, discipline, resistance, RIE parenting, feminist parenting, toddlers, tantrums, potty training, mindful parenting, conscious parenting, evidence-based parenting, positive parenting, respectful parenting, simplicity parenting and positive discipline.

In todays episode we talk with expert Rosalie Rivera about having the tough conversations to keep our kids safe, how to establish boundaries within ourselves and model that for our future generation. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sweetestlittlelife/message

In todays episode we talk with expert Rosalie Rivera about having the tough conversations to keep our kids safe, how to establish boundaries within ourselves and model that for our future generation. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sweetestlittlelife/message

Have you ever had a bad feeling about dropping your child off at an unfamiliar place? Whether it's a daycare, camp, or even a friend's house, there's likely a reason that our mother's instinct kicks in. Rosalia Rivera joined me in a conversation regarding child abuse and I was shocked to hear how prevalent it is. Although the topic may seem uncomfortable, Rosalia provides us with tips to educate and empower our children to ensure their safety. Rosalia is a passionate consent educator, sexual literacy advocate, TEDx speaker, change agent, and survivor turned thriver. She is also the host of the About Consent Podcast, the founder of Consent Parenting, and Consentwear. She has three missions; to help parents and caregivers to empower their children and lives through consent education, to help childhood sexual trauama survivors find their voice, rediscover their power, and reclaim their innate sexual divinity, and to dismantle shame around sexuality through education and awareness. In this episode we discuss: How to start teaching your children about body safety Reframing the conversation of sexual abuse prevention with our children The definition of grooming and signs to look out for What “secret safety” is and how it can be a great defense Different safety strategies to give your child based on their age  Recommendations to educate children who are at a higher risk for abuse Resources: CONSENTparenting Tools and Resources Grooming Handout Consent Letters Book: Can I Give You a Squish Book: C is for Consent Book: A Hug Book: I said No Kimberly King Body Boss Bootcamp Connect with Rosalia: Website Podcast Facebook: @CONSENTparenting Instagram: @consentparenting Vlog/Blog SHOW NOTES: https://lynzyandco.com/podcast/ Follow along on Instagram @motherhoodmeetsmedicine.  Join the Motherhood Meets Medicine community at patreon.com/motherhoodmeetsmedicine. Disclaimer: This podcast does not provide medical advice. The information on this podcast is for informational purposes only. No material on this site is intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. 

It can be hard to know how to talk about sexual abuse prevention and consent with our children. In this episode, Rosalia gives age appropriate insights and tips for starting the conversation with your kids! Find Rosalia at consentparenting.com or on Instagram @consentparenting, or listen to her podcast About Consent Find her book recommendations here. Her official Bio Join the conversation @ladies.talkinglove on Instagram or visit ladiestalkinglove.com This podcast does not replace professional or medical advice. We will be talking about sex, so some content may not be suitable for children and could be triggering to some individuals. Everything discussed is for general information only and is not to be used to diagnose or treat any medical or psychological conditions. Music: MastaBlack_fK and https://envato.com/

**Trigger warning**: This episode contains content describing physical, mental, emotional, and sexual abuse. If this is not in line with something that you want to or are able to listen to today, I strongly suggest that you do not listen to this episode.   Many victims of abuse live in fear. Fear of telling their parents. Fear of setting boundaries. Fear of passing their trauma onto their children. But it doesn't have to be this way. It is possible to heal your trauma. It is possible to break the cycle of not talking about trauma. It is possible to have open communication with your children.   In today's episode, I'm speaking with Rosalia Rivera of Consent Parenting, who empowers parents to be sex-positive and confidently teach their children about body autonomy and safety, boundaries, and consent. Rosalia is on a mission to normalize the conversation around consent and dismantle the shame that comes with abuse. If you are a survivor of abuse, Rosalia can help teach you how to not pass your triggers and trauma to your kids. All parents can learn how to prioritize self-love and boundary setting, and how to put fear-based methods of parenting in the past for good.   It isn't our children's job to prevent abuse; it's ours. What's in this episode: Rosalia's family history of sexual abuse and how it influenced her own healing The difference between consent education and abuse prevention education Why it's important to teach body autonomy from a young age How to empower your children to recognize that their voice matters Why discussions around consent and abuse shouldn't be taboo Creating a space of open communication with your child Why support systems are so important as a parent with a history of abuse Tools and resources for communicating and setting healthy boundaries How to work with Rosalia   For full show notes, resources, and links, head to: https://www.meredythwillits.com/podcast   Are you ready to go deeper? I am giving you the keys to the castle. If you enjoyed this podcast and want to hear more, make sure to subscribe so you'll never miss an episode! You can also join us on Patreon for exclusive content you'll only hear there: https://www.patreon.com/MeredythWillits You can connect more by visiting me on my website at https://www.meredythwillits.com/ or connecting with me on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/MeredythWillits34 or Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/meredyth_willits.

‘The very first sex education lesson we teach our children is body parts. This is where we talk about private part safety. We give them the tools and language to know right or wrong; what's appropriate or how to access help.' Rosalia Rivera on teaching Sex Positivity in the home.   Rosalia Rivera is a consent educator, abuse prevention specialist, sexual literacy advocate, speaker, change agent, and the founder of CONSENTparenting™. She is the host of the AboutCONSENT™ podcast and creator of CONSENTwear™. Rosalia teaches parents, particularly child sexual abuse survivors, how to educate their children on body safety, boundaries, and consent so that they can empower their families to prevent abuse and break intergenerational cycles. Rosalia is on a mission to end child sexual abuse, dismantle shame, and help survivors heal and become thrives.   Rosalia is certified through the Canadian Centre for Child Protections COMMIT TO KIDS® program, and Darkness To Light Stewards of Children® program, as well as the human trafficking prevention training program: OnWatch™ by Safe House Project. Although Rosalia was born in El Salvador and grew up in NY, she now resides in northern Canada with her partner and three young kids.   In this episode we'll discuss: What is Sex Positivity and why it's important Teaching Consent Education The Madonna/Whore Construct How to teach body autonomy and boundaries to kids How to put a shield of protection around your children while they're at school Why kids touch themselves at young ages   Show links: The Consent Parenting Website: https://www.consentparenting.com/ Follow Consent Parenting here: @consentparenting Watch Our FREE Get Booked Masterclass: https://bit.ly/wmpgetbooked

There are topics that, as parents, we push away because they are not fun to think about. For example, when my wife and I sat down to write our will I balled my eyes out because if that document were to be enacted it would mean our daughter was an orphan. But it is so important to do these things to make sure our kids are protected.Today's conversation falls under that heading of “things that are SUPER uncomfortable to think about but SO important to move forward with”. Our guest today is Rosalia Rivera, founder of Consent Parenting, and she is going to give us some tips and strategies to help us with the critical conversations surrounding abuse prevention.After you listen, let's continue the conversation over on Instagram or get additional support inside our free community of Mamapreneurs.Until next time...TCKS,Lynn______________________________________________________________Rosalia Rivera is a consent educator, abuse prevention specialist, sexual literacy advocate, TEDx speaker, change agent, and the founder of CONSENTparenting™. She is the host of the AboutCONSENT™ podcast and creator of CONSENTwear™. Rosalia teaches parents, particularly child sexual abuse survivors, how to educate their children on body safety, boundaries, and consent so that they can empower their families to prevent abuse and break intergenerational cycles. Rosalia is on a mission to end child sexual abuse, dismantle shame, and help survivors heal and become thrivers.Rosalia is certified through the Canadian Centre for Child Protections COMMIT TO KIDS® program, and Darkness To Light Stewards of Children® program, as well as the human trafficking prevention training program: OnWatch™ by Safe House Project.Although Rosalia was born in El Salvador and grew up in NY, she now resides in northern Canada with her partner and three young kids.Connect with Rosalia:Website - https://www.consentparenting.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/consentparenting/Podcast - https://aboutconsent.com/

This week on the Mimosas with Moms Podcast, Abbey welcomes Rosalia Rivera! Rosalia is a consent educator, abuse prevention expert, child rights advocate, TEDx speaker, change agent, founder of CONSENTparenting™, host of the AboutCONSENT™ Podcast, creatrix of CONSENTwear™ and child sexual abuse survivor turned thriver. Rosalia talks with us about consent parenting, how to start and continue difficult conversations, and how to feel empowered in keep your child safe. Internet safety, conversations to get the extended family on board, and respecting our children's boundaries are all conversations in this episode. How can we use Rosalia's abuse prevention tools with confidence? Let's talk about it, CHEERS! ——————————————— You can find Rosalia Rivera: Instagram: @consentparenting Website:  www.consentparenting.com Podcast: About Consent ——————————————— Instagram @mimosaswithmoms FB /mimosaswithmoms Email 2mimosamoms@gmail.com An ABC of Families by Abbey Williams - https://www.amazon.com/ABC-Families-Abbey-Williams/dp/0711256535 ———————————————— This episode is sponsored by: * Cozi! An organizing app designed just for families! Download the Cozi app for free in the App Store!

Todos los días existen muchos casos de niños abusados. Los abusadores se esconden tras las mascaras de personas cercanas, buenas y que les importa nuestro bienestar; sin olvidar de aquellas personas que son extraños, jóvenes o adultos. El abuso de menores deja irreparables consecuencias emocionales, psicológicas y físicas en niños que son difícil de borrar aun llegando a la adultez, manteniendo a la victima en un estado donde se repite los episodios torturándose, creyendo que es culpable en esa experiencia. En este episodio Pals Charles tiene una conversación profunda con Rosalia Rivera creadora y coach de @Consentparenting. Una valiente mujer que supero sus traumas personales dejados a causa de abuso infantil y hoy en día alienta a los padres sobrevivientes de experiencias similares a confiar en la vida y educar a sus hijos sobre la prevención de abuso sexual con herramientas y mentorías adecuadas para vivir una vida remarkable. Conoce mas sobre Rosalia Rivera Aprende sobre #ViveRemarkable --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/viveremarkablepodcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/viveremarkablepodcast/support

**Trigger warning**This week on the podcast, we are talking about childhood sexual abuse. According to CDC (2021), “1 in 4 girls and 1 in 13 boys experience child sexual abuse at some point in childhood, and 91% of child sexual abuse is perpetrated by someone the child or child's family knows.” Child abuse occurs at every socioeconomic level, across ethnic and cultural lines, within all religions, and at all levels of education, but 95% of abuse is preventable through education and awareness.Today on the show, I'm honored to have Rosalia Rivera share with us what we can do to prevent this from happening to our children. We talk about her experience as a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and teaching our children about consent. Rosalia is a consent educator and abuse prevention specialist, sexual literacy advocate, speaker, and the founder of CONSENTparenting™, the host of the AboutCONSENT™ podcast, and creator of CONSENTwear™.  She is also a CSA (child sexual abuse) survivor, turned thriver.She teaches adult and child sex abuse survivors, that are parents, how to confidently keep their kids safer with abuse prevention tools! She helps parents learn how to educate their children on body safety, boundaries, and consent so that they can empower their children to prevent abuse. Special offer from Rosalia: Use code CONSENTCULTURE to get 50% off of any of her workshops! Do you know about my coaching services? My mission here at Wholy Mom is to empower women to find and nurture their true selves through the transformation of mind, body, and spirit. With my coaching clients, I focus on your individual needs, to understand your specific situation. Together, we create a personalized plan to help you meet your goals. These sessions can take place in person or virtually.I only have 9 spots left. For my podcast listeners, I am offering $50 off any package with the code “50off” So shoot me an email at info@wholymom.com with 50off in the subject line and let's book your FREE discovery call today! Could you do me a favor? Would you please subscribe and leave a 5-star review so that other mamas can find out about this podcast! RESOURCES - My Website: http://www.wholymom.com Follow me on IG: @wholymom or Facebook: facebook.com/wholymomHave Questions? Send me an email at: info@wholymom.comRosalia Rivera's Info:Follow Rosalia on IG:  Instagram.com/consentparentingFollow Rosalia on FB:  Facebook.com/consentparentingEmpower your family at CONSENTparenting.comGrooming Signs PDF https://aboutconsent.lpages.co/grooming-signs-pdf/To get the full version of the show notes - https://wholymom.com/podcast/episode9/Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/wholymom)

For this week, I have invited Rosalia Rivera of Consent Parenting to talk more about bodies, particularly: consent, body safety, and boundaries. She is a consent educator, abuse prevention specialist, and sexual literacy and child's rights advocate. She is a speaker and host of the fabulous AboutCONSENT™ podcast for survivors. As a founder of CONSENTparenting™, Rosalia is on a mission to help all parents educate their children about body safety and consent so that they can empower their families to prevent abuse. I know that this can be an uncomfortable and scary topic to even think about, but it is so important. I know your child's safety is so important to you and I want to equip you with the skills and tools you need to keep your kids safe. We will be providing you information & solutions so that you can protect your children. To get more resources on this topic, follow Rosalia's social media handles and visit her website: Website: www.consentparenting.com Instagram: @consentparenting Facebook: www.facebook.com/consentparenting Find show notes for this episode here: www.laurafroyen.com/podcast

Content Warnings: General discussions of sexual abuse and violence against children. Please check the show notes for more detailed descriptions and take care of yourself.Today, we are going to speak with Rosalia Rivera, a consent educator, abuse prevention specialist, sexual literacy advocate, speaker, and founder of Consent Parenting. She is someone who helps busy parents go from fearful and anxious to confident and empowered about teaching their kids about body safety boundaries and consent to prevent sexual abuse. She is also the host of the AboutCONSENT podcast. Rosalia is on a mission to end child sexual abuse, dismantle shame and help survivors heal and become thrivers.We talk about…[4:13] - About Rosalia's work[8:29] - Taking back strength from trauma[13:33] - Understanding statistics of abuse[22:25] - Perpetuation of abuse in media[26:24] - Ways survivors cope[32:38] - Adults identifying sexual values[42:47] - How parents can educate their kids[50:47] - Rosalia's book recsQUOTES“So there's mental boundaries, physical boundaries, sexual boundaries, spiritual boundaries and we get to say what those boundaries are. So when we're teaching that to kids, we need to know what those are for ourselves.” - Rosalia“Sexuality is such a powerful force, that is part of our humanity that we need to reclaim and it actually gives you so much more power in all other areas of your life. It's almost like reclaiming a part of yourself that you had pushed away and you can now welcome back in and integrate into your whole self.” - RosaliaTHIS WEEK'S INTENTIONI am empowered to create and set boundaries with full love and total ease.RESOURCES AND LINKS:Order our productivity eBookDM me with thoughts or questions on InstagramSex Positive Talks to Have with Kids* by Melissa Pintor CarnageySexploitation* by Cindy PierceConversations With A Pedophile* by Amy Hammel-ZabinListen to AboutCONSENT podcast by Rosalia RiveraLearn more about Rosalia's work at consentparenting.comFollow Rosalia on Instagram @consentparenting_________Do you have a spiritual or mindfulness problem that you want me to unpack on an upcoming The Good Space episode? Leave a voicemail right now at (917) 719-0867Join our private Facebook group here_________FOR FULL SHOW NOTES: Click here_________LET'S STAY CONNECTEDSubscribe: Apple, Spotify, StitcherFollow us on Instagram: click hereGet free weekly emails on spirituality: click hereVisit our website: click here

On today's episode, Rosalia Rivera of AboutConsent joins me to discuss how she challenged cultural norms to allow herself to break the cycle of abuse within her own life. Rosalia Rivera is a consent educator, abuse prevention specialist, sexual literacy advocate, speaker, change agent, and the founder of CONSENTparenting™. She is the host of the AboutCONSENT™ podcast and creator of CONSENTwear™. Rosalia teaches parents, particularly child sexual abuse survivors, how to educate their children on body safety, boundaries, and consent so that they can empower their families to prevent abuse and break intergenerational cycles. Rosalia is on a mission to end child sexual abuse, dismantle shame, and help survivors heal and become thrivers. Be sure to follow Rosalia on social media @consentparenting and to find out more about abuse prevention go to https://www.consentparenting.com/

On today's episode, Rosalia Rivera of AboutConsent joins me to discuss how she challenged cultural norms to allow herself to break the cycle of abuse within her own life. Rosalia Rivera is a consent educator, abuse prevention specialist, sexual literacy advocate, speaker, change agent, and the founder of CONSENTparenting™. She is the host of the AboutCONSENT™ podcast and creator of CONSENTwear™. Rosalia teaches parents, particularly child sexual abuse survivors, how to educate their children on body safety, boundaries, and consent so that they can empower their families to prevent abuse and break intergenerational cycles. Rosalia is on a mission to end child sexual abuse, dismantle shame, and help survivors heal and become thrivers. Be sure to follow Rosalia on social media @consentparenting and to find out more about abuse prevention go to https://www.consentparenting.com/

Content Warnings: General discussions of sexual abuse and violence against children. Please check the show notes for more detailed descriptions and take care of yourself.Today, we are going to speak with Rosalia Rivera, a consent educator, abuse prevention specialist, sexual literacy advocate, speaker, and founder of Consent Parenting. She is someone who helps busy parents go from fearful and anxious to confident and empowered about teaching their kids about body safety boundaries and consent to prevent sexual abuse. She is also the host of the AboutCONSENT podcast. Rosalia is on a mission to end child sexual abuse, dismantle shame and help survivors heal and become thrivers.We talk about…[4:13] - About Rosalia's work[8:29] - Taking back strength from trauma[13:33] - Understanding statistics of abuse[22:25] - Perpetuation of abuse in media[26:24] - Ways survivors cope[32:38] - Adults identifying sexual values[42:47] - How parents can educate their kids[50:47] - Rosalia's book recsQUOTES“So there's mental boundaries, physical boundaries, sexual boundaries, spiritual boundaries and we get to say what those boundaries are. So when we're teaching that to kids, we need to know what those are for ourselves.” - Rosalia“Sexuality is such a powerful force, that is part of our humanity that we need to reclaim and it actually gives you so much more power in all other areas of your life. It's almost like reclaiming a part of yourself that you had pushed away and you can now welcome back in and integrate into your whole self.” - RosaliaTHIS WEEK'S INTENTIONI am empowered to create and set boundaries with full love and total ease.RESOURCES AND LINKS:Order our productivity eBookDM me with thoughts or questions on InstagramSex Positive Talks to Have with Kids* by Melissa Pintor CarnageySexploitation* by Cindy PierceConversations With A Pedophile* by Amy Hammel-ZabinListen to AboutCONSENT podcast by Rosalia RiveraLearn more about Rosalia's work at consentparenting.comFollow Rosalia on Instagram @consentparenting_________Do you have a spiritual or mindfulness problem that you want me to unpack on an upcoming The Good Space episode? Leave a voicemail right now at (917) 719-0867Join our private Facebook group here_________FOR FULL SHOW NOTES: Click here_________LET'S STAY CONNECTEDSubscribe: Apple, Spotify, StitcherFollow us on Instagram: click hereGet free weekly emails on spirituality: click hereVisit our website: click here

Alex and Shane chat about Shane's experience working outside the home for the first time in a year, the best and worst things about his time away, rapid covid tests, and the success of the DATE NIGHT takeover.   Rosalia Rivera of Consent Parenting discusses how to keep children safer with abuse prevention tips, what parents can do to foster body autonomy, and the importance of prevention education.   Alana Kayfetz describes her journey as the mother of a son with a rare genetic disorder, and how these health complications have impacted her life - both at home, and in the community she has created in her work, The Mom Halo.   Listener questions are answered in the mailbag segment, hitting topics like baptizing children, Shane's COVID19 predictions, what not to say to a couple who is trying to conceive, and the laws of attraction and manifestation.   . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .    This episode is proudly supported by:   The Dove Self Esteem Project is the worlds largest provider of self-esteem education. Dove has partnered with educators around the world to provide evidence-based printable resources to help young girls and boy’s reach their full potential. You can find those at https://bit.ly/36FQxbd   Mabel's Labels - visit www.mabelslabels.ca to start creating your very own labels, and use promo code THISFAMILYTREE15 for 15% your order!   Hello Bello - for 30% off of your first plant-based diaper and wipes bundle, use promo code THISFAMILYTREE30 or click the following link: https://hellobello.ca/products/diaper-bundle?discount=thisfamilytree30&utm_source=familytree&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=30off (Canadian listeners only).   Mini Mioche - use promo code THISFAMILYTREE15 at www.minimioche.com for 15% off of your ethically made, organic, and sustainable kids’ apparel.   Bravado Designs - Use promo code THISFAMILYTREE20 for 20% off of what will become your favourite nursing bra at www.bravadodesigns.com, or try their new Everyday Collection (not nursing bras/no clips/for all womxn) at ca.bravadodesigns.com.   Seedlip - Go to www.seedlipdrinks.com or www.seedlipdrinks.ca, and use promo code THISFAMILYTREE10 for 10% off the world’s first nonalcoholic spirit!   My Brest Friend - Buy the #1 choice of nursing pillow by moms and lactation consultants, at www.buybuybaby.com, www.target.com, www.walmart.com, and www.babylist.com! 

Rafe was sexually assaulted as a teen, and only began to open up to his family about it and his sexual identity as an adult. He now feels very much loved but bears the scars of the incident and the silence around it. And, Juleyka speaks with Rosalia Rivera, an abuse prevention expert who works with survivor parents, about how to teach consent and body autonomy in our families.Our expert is Rosalia Rivera, a consent educator, abuse prevention expert, and sexual literacy advocate who works  with child sexual abuse survivors who are now parents.  She is the founder of Consent Parenting and the host of the About Consent podcast, and the creatrix of CONSENTwear. To learn more about her work visit her website here.We'd love to hear your stories of triumph and frustration so send us a detailed voice memo to hello@talktomamipapi.com. You might be on a future episode! Let's connect on Twitter and Instagram at @TalkToMamiPapi and email us at hello@talktomamipapi.com. And follow us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and anywhere you listen to your favorite podcasts. 

Rosalia Rivera is a passionate consent educator, abuse prevention specialist, sexual literacy advocate, speaker, change agent, and survivor turned thriver. She is the host of AboutCONSENT™, a podcast for survivors and those who support survivors. Rosalia is also the founder of CONSENTparenting™, an online platform with courses, workshops and a membership for adults CSA* survivor parents to learn how to protect their families from abuse. She's also a Latinx mother of three young children and lives in Canada with her husband. Facebook: @Consentparenting Instagram: @Consentparenting www.consentparenting.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/katie846/support

Today Dannie and Caitlyn are talking with Rosalia Rivera of About Consent Podcast. We believe in accessible content and that anyone who wants to learn from this content should be able to. In order to support this, we've had every episode of Season 4 transcribed. The transcriptions are available at the bottom of every episode blog post. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:Knowing when it is time to turn away from something because the passion is gone.The impact that the cultural landscape can have on your side hustle.being able to take a step back and separate family life from your side hustle.GET MORE: RainnPod: Website | Instagram | Facebook | Parenting: Website | Instagram | Facebook | YouTube FOLLOW YOUR HOSTS: D Website | D Instagram // C Website | C Instagram Get the Side Hustle Starter Kit Episode Transcript Caitlyn Allen: [00:00:21] Hey guys, welcome back to the side hustle gal podcast. I am so excited today because we have Carey of cor marketing. Um, Carey and I met a couple of years ago, um, when Rosemary Watson, um, connected us. We went to a like retreat together type thing. Um, and it was just, it was so much fun to connect with entrepreneurs and that's something that a lot of us probably don't do, especially for side hustling. There is a lot of work that's going into it. So I'm taking the time to go out and meet people, uh, can bring you business because now Carey and I work together. So Carey, tell us a little bit about, you. Carey Osenbau: [00:01:06] Um, my name is Carey Osenbau I have kind of been in this, um, what you would call like web and marketing space, probably almost 15 years now.I started back in early two thousands before this whole. Online VA space really was a big thing. It was just starting to pick up steam. I worked in the legal field and realized very quickly with two small children that that wasn't going to be an option for me anymore unless I wanted to pay massive amounts of money to.For daycare costs and what's the point of working at that point? So, um, I quickly, I had to find another solution and I stumbled upon this world of, um, designing websites, designing e-commerce. So I quickly dove in, made some connections, and. Started, um, providing those services, um, learning all that I could about design and development.I'm pretty much self, self taught myself from the very beginning. Um, since then I worked for multiple companies, um, worked for startups, Mmm. Wellness practitioners. And so learning the ins and outs of all their different types of businesses, but all while still continuing to provide, Mmm. You know, services to other clients on the side.So I was still, while I had like full time jobs throughout my, um, for the last 15 years, I always continue to work on the side building websites, um, making connections, um, and essentially continuing to run that type of business. Ref mainly off of just referrals. So, you know, I would do something for somebody and then they're like, Hey, you know, Carrie's really good at what she does.If you need a website, go give her a call. So. For the longest time, I've essentially grown my side business based purely off of referrals. Um, I did go back to school and get my biz finished up, my business degree. So I was able to kind of connect all the pieces as far as being able to help small businesses and medium sized businesses, tie everything together through marketing, through business structure, and then also design and development and marketing their businesses online.Mmm. So I think seven years ago, after working full time for a wellness practitioner, I, um, was pregnant with my now seven year old and I decided to jump back into taking my side hustle full time. And so, um, continued to grow. Over the last two years, I've gotten so busy that I decided, um, that it was time to build a team.And so, I mean, last year we did our first, um, six figure year, and it's been a, an amazing kind of journey and all the, uh, the Austin businesses that we get to work with. Caitlyn Allen: [00:04:08] So it really sounds like a lot of connections have brought you the business that you've had. How do you. Like, how do you build those connections, um, outside of like, of course somebody is a, a client and then they're referring, but how have you really built those connections? And then the followup question to that is, are the. Times that you connect with people who are referrals. Is that ever awkward? Um like, Oh, well this person knew you, so you must be good type of thing, versus they're finding you organically and they think that you're good, if that makes sense?Carey Osenbau: [00:04:49] Okay. Um, so as far as being able to connect with people, that's always been a big struggle for me.Um. I don't know. I don't consider myself an introvert. Once I get to know somebody, I kind of like open up and like blossom. And then, you know, I'm a chatterbox, but it's, I've always been kind of shy in nature. So that's always been one area that I've struggled in. So I've been, I kind of look for opportunities and honestly, um, with the online Instagram community has really, um, made it easier to connect with people.That are doing the same types of work that you're doing and being a, you know, a work from home entrepreneur, it's really hard to get out unless there's somebody that's put something together. I'm some kind of community to where that you can get out and meet other type of like minded business owners.So having the Instagram community has been amazing. Um, and the opportunities that have actually come from that. And being able to promote other people because you're meeting all different types of people that do different things. So if you're niched and specialized in one specific thing, you may have, um.Somebody that you've connected with that maybe does similar type of work, but if they say, specialize in Squarespace and they come across a client that needs Shopify help, then they're, because you've made that connection and you've built that trust factor with them, they're more willing to give you that referral because you have built that.Um. That relationship with them. Um, and then one thing that has really helped too with the referral base business is is essentially how you treat your customers. And, you know, I tried to always provide the best experience, um, go above and beyond. Um. What my offering is, and really tried to educate and, and give the best product that I can.And that has really helped too. Um, it's, the service that you provide is also self-promotion because if, if your client has a great experience, obviously they're going to refer you to other people because once you build that trust with a client, there. More willing to give you, like they're trusted people that they have relationships with. So, um, and then the second part of your question was, can you, um, Caitlyn Allen: [00:07:21] yeah. So do you ever find it awkward when you have a. Referral come through, um, where they just, instead of knowing your work and knowing what you offer, they just kind of come in and are like, well, you've worked with this person, so I'm sure that you can do this. Like, is it ever awkward trying to explain your products to somebody who already thinks that you can give them what they need? Carey Osenbau: [00:07:48] Um, I think I've been in this business so long that maybe in the beginning it was, I mean, I've had some, um. Maybe drawbacks to that. But as I've continued to grow and I'm actually like one of the things that has helped with that as, as far as like niching, but I do understand what you're saying.Cause sometimes if you niche so far down, people are like, well, do you do this? And being like. With my company, we are kind of like a one stop shop. We do a lot of different things. So, um, it is surprising to clients sometimes all of the different types of services that we offer because we don't always communicate that in our marketing and advertising.Um, and then also, um, as far as people that maybe just organically have found me, um, it's usually based. Same. It's based on what we have advertised our services to be, but then once you get to know the the customer, then it's easier to kind of just tell them like all the additional stuffCaitlyn Allen: [00:08:50] So some things that he liked to go above and beyond for a client. But let's talk about going above and beyond for a client because there can be going above and beyond and shooting yourself in the foot. So how have you dealt with that? Um, are you dealing with that? Has that been a struggle? Carey Osenbau: [00:09:08] Well over, probably I say the last, um, this last phase of my business going, working for myself full time.I have dealt with lots of issues as far as, you know, undercharging, undervaluing my work. Um. And, and as a freelancer in the beginning, trying to do and serve and do more, like going above and beyond essentially is led myself to burn out multiple times and having, you know, adrenal fatigue and then finding out I have thyroid issues.So through that whole process, I've had a lot of growth as far as, and I've worked with some like one-on-one coaches as far as. Um, learning to, you know, value my time and my energy. And so part of that growth has led to building a team. So then we can still go above and beyond, provide value for the client at a rate that is.You know, we're able to charge our customer a rate that values our time and abilities, but still to the point where I'm not taking everything on myself. It's distributed. And, Through throughout my team. So then I can focus on my strong points. And then the other people within my team focus on their strong points.So it's, it's, uh, it's a group effort as far as that, because now with some of the health issues that I have, stress plays a big factor in it. So I have to. Be very specific about how much I can take on, um, to continue to keep up with, um, some of my health struggles that I have.Dannie Lynn Fountain: [00:10:53] So there's a lot that has to be balanced here, and there's a lot that you're juggling and there's a lot that requires open transparency with your clients. I think I can relate to this in terms of like being really transparent about when Google completely sucks over my business schedule, right? Caitlyn can relate especially with what's been going on recently in her life.how do you. Cause I struggle with this too. How do you let go of the pride and the fear around sharing what's going on so that your clients like understand what's going on in it doesn't just come across that you're screwing around. Cause that's always my fear. Carey Osenbau: [00:11:35] Right. Um, that's a hard one because there is that whole thing.Do you share your struggles online in fear of then people aren't going to book you because. They have issues and they probably can't give my Mmm. My project, their full attention. So it's been interesting because one of the groups that I have found through the rising tide society, there is a small group called the, um, for people with chronic illnesses.So that's been interesting to be able to connect with people who are struggling with some of the same issues that you have. But, um, I am not, I haven't been 100% that's one thing I still do struggle with. Like for instance, and I haven't shared this with a lot of people. Last summer I had a miscarriage and I was down for probably a month and I didn't, I didn't share it with many people, but I think one of the things that really helped was.Building. And I think with, with having a team in place, um, that is really important as you continue to like grow a business is you can have people that you depend on that can be there to pick up those pieces when you can't. And that has been a huge game changer. Like having people on my team, like Caitlyn, like I know. Without a doubt that I can rely on her. If I have to step up, step back, that she can, she can do everything in my business. And that's a little scary sometimes, but I have that full trust in her and it's also like, yes, having somebody that works for you, but building those relationships with those people that you can build that trust in them and they can take over for you if you are not being able or if you're not, to be able to.Be there 100% and take a step back.Caitlyn Allen: [00:13:26] I agree. I mean, outside of the fact that I love working with you, Carey, I think that when you have health issues, knowing that. Somebody can be there to pick up the Slack if, if you need, like that is a game changer for business owners. Um, and I think that so many people are afraid to grow their team, but at the end of the day, if, especially if there are things like that, it's super important to make sure that you're sharing your knowledge with your team in case anything happens. Because. I actually had a client two years ago who went to the hospital for two weeks, like was in the hospital, couldn't communicate with anybody and. The team had to keep working. We couldn't just stop our work. Um, so making sure that you're communicating with your team in case you ever do, find yourself outside of, outside of your position or in a place where you know, you, you have a miscarriage or you're having a baby. Um, making it self-reliant a little bit. Carey Osenbau: [00:14:33] Yeah. And I think that goes both ways. Like just in the last few weeks, like even with your situation, not being able to be like 100% I recognize that. And so like we just shift focus to other things at the time until you're able to come back and be like 100% so I think that that goes, I think when you have a really.Good, cohesive team. Um, there can be a lot of sliding back and forth and focusing on what needs to at the time. So if anybody's going through, because I mean, business is business and we're not big giant corporate businesses where, okay. Jim's gone for the week. Like Bob, you take over. Right? So, I mean, these are small businesses.We work closely with clients, and so you have to be able to be flexible and there's always seasons. So just having that strong, team environment and communication is really important when you're running a small business.Dannie Lynn Fountain: [00:15:33] So I want to shift gears a little because I think that this also delves into just overall project management and the way that you're thinking about things and legacy planning. We hear all the time about business owners who haven't planned for what happens for their business, and then it ends up in probate and it's a whole thing.Um, what. Project management tools are you using? How do you use them? What are the processes that you really get excited about that make all of this shifting and adjusting more logical? Carey Osenbau: [00:16:06] So doing this for a long time for, I was in the camp of let's fly by the seat of your pants, right? So when you go through things like.You know, health issues, you realize, well, this isn't really working for me anymore and I should probably be a little bit more organized. So even before I brought a project manager on, I started using tools. So one of the things that I love using, I can't remember it, he's a couple of years back because to me it doesn't matter anymore.But we love asana I love I love Google Google calendar If I didn't have Google calendar my whole life would fall apart Mmm And I use a CRM that kind of manages all of our clients and everything So I use 17 hats I've gone through and used them all and that seemed to be the one that worked the best for my business So we've set up automations for um lead generation Um And I think onboarding and those types of things But one of the really cool things by bringing somebody in like caitlyn is she um with her help we've been able to develop processes for the different types of services that we offer So and what's so we have taken like a whole project So say you're building a site from scratch We have everything from Collecting information from the client to onboarding them to the design phase the development phase review launch and then offboarding So we have gone through multiple projects We're able to look at look at each one after we finish and say okay so when we have our quarterly business meetings we say okay let's go over each one of our projects and say what was great about this one and what could we have done differently So then we're able to find tune our processes and then and so with each different type of project now it's kind of like second nature So it was interesting I think even the last um this last year We had issues where we had all these clients booked and then some of these clients were getting held up and one of the processes and then it created this like you know uh everything ended up getting backed up So then we had like three or four projects all at once So then our small team is not able to give the level of focus to the each of the clients So then we realized okay then we need to go back and Essentially even we decided even to put in a week zero for our process So are we zero is everything that the client actually has to get to us before we will even start or touch anything Cause we realized With clients not providing us content or things that we needed that that's started to bunch up our systems So being able to recognize that put new things in place for processes So now we've almost have it to where our process essentially if anybody else had to come in they could see that the way that we have it all laid out and take over if needed Caitlyn Allen: [00:19:26] Yeah Having a full process outlined It also helps with that legacy right Because if for whatever reason carey or I was out for a week we could have one of our other people on the team come in and see where we are in the process and be able to walk through those steps pretty pretty smoothly Um so I think Making sure that you have those in place especially as you're hiring or hiring somebody to help you make those is a really good business move. Carey what what is something that you've seen so you've been doing this for a while What is something that you've seen change in the business or entrepreneur online entrepreneur world? From the beginning to now? What is something like a big shift that you've seen?Carey Osenbau: [00:20:14] Um the way that it's really the way that marketing is done Um even in the beginning working for companies we didn't have the whole social media space We didn't have I mean there were still Google search. There was like if you really want to get any advertisement we I worked for an ergonomic company and the like you know Mid two thousands and you'd have to send in a whole request to get your product reviewed So they would stick it in the you know Mack magazine at the time and then that could take like months and you know or even advertising in print There's a lot of advertising in print So that's before The online space really completely like ramped up You'd have websites for information and then we started getting into being able to purchase online Um but that has been the biggest shift is is The ability to be able to market yourself online essentially for little to no cost and connect with people and build a community with with the inter with the internet and the social media channels like that has been a huge thing And and also the shift in And I talked to my husband about this all the time because he works in corporate America The way that the advertising of old and the way that we connect and advertise and build relationships now online is a lot different especially for I think females in this space to be able to like you know I know a gal in California and she does this and I have friends up in Michigan So uh one of the biggest changes that ha I have seen in over the last years is how female entrepreneurs have kind of changed the space to be able to connect and market products I'm using social channels Mmm Even a few years back The options for women We're to essentially be secretaries or go through um different you know if they went for further in college work for advertising agencies you can work in some kind of like corporate So to be able to be a female entrepreneur to raise families you really had limited options um for like stay at home moms Like you could get a couple more kids and like start you know babysit kids and make some extra money or different things Or maybe start A little side crafting or um but just the ability to for women to be able to shift and use the online space to be able to develop a product develop idea and market and make just as much money as they could working You know a nine to five job has has been a huge shift and the community aspect of it the way that women are supporting each other It's not this you know Mmm dog eat dog You know You know I'm not going to support you because I'm out there trying to get the same type of business that you are You can have Connections with people that do the same type of thing because like they say there is enough you know there is is enough work There is enough opportunities out there because you can reach so many more people Now Dannie Lynn Fountain: [00:23:37] I think that that's so spot on We have such an opportunity to be stronger here and in a lot of ways that needs to be done So this has been a truly awesome episode Thank you so much for uh giving us your time I would love for the audience to be able to connect with you. Where can they come hang out with you online? Carey Osenbau: [00:23:58] Um I'm mainly on Instagram just at Cor marketing And um that's my main thing I also website cormarketinggroup.com he can connect with me there Also believe we're on Pinterest and LinkedIn Um so yeah. Dannie Lynn Fountain: [00:24:17] Well thank you so much for hanging out today and we'll have all of that length in the show notes

Messages related to sexual shame are ingrained from a young age and they affect how we feel about our bodies, how we interact with sexual partners and how we experience sexual pleasure. This week, we discuss a range of approaches to relinquishing sexual shame. Consent educator, survivor-turned-thriver and founder of CONSENTParenting, Rosalia Rivera joins Jess and Brandon to share her story and insights. They discuss: Rosalia's personal path to recovery after assault Pleasure as a route to relinquishing sexual shame How partners can support survivors when they disclose past trauma/abuse The importance of your inner compass in recognizing sources of shame Prompt questions to help you examine shame-based beliefs including: What messages did you receive about sex from your parents? What did your parents tell you about sex with their words? What did your parents tell you about sex with their actions? How did your parents react to sexual depictions on TV? What messages did you receive about sex from your peers? What messages did you receive about sex from your teachers? What messages did you receive about sex from media sources? What messages did you receive about sex from your religion? Am I okay with these belief systems? What do I want to do differently for myself? What do I want to do differently for my kids? Follow CONSENTParenting on Instagram and Facebook. Listen to the AboutCONSENT Podcast here. This episode was brought to you by We-Vibe, use code DRJESS on their website for a small discount off your purchase. :)       If you've got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone's headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. How to Overcome Sexual Shame 00:00:05 - 00:06:26 You're listening to the sacs with Dr Jess podcast sacks and relationship advice you can use tonight Welcome to the sex with Dr. Just podcast I'm your co host Brandon. Where here with my lovely other? Half Dr Jess how are you? I'm pretty good. I'm happy sunshine in ready to talk about a rather serious topic very serious sexual shame and childhood sexual abuse and just the General Topic of relinquishing sexual. Shame and as usual. I'll put you on the spot. Would you say you were raised with shame around sexuality? I wouldn't say that there was shame but there was certainly a lot of communication around sexuality as I. I remember learning about sex in anatomy in junior school from a bunch of my friends who had like a dictionary with a naked man and woman was like what. How do you think you are probably around? Eight seven or eight. And then. From that point onwards there wasn't really much said in my household probably because of discomfort. Either that or just don't remember anything from when I was a kid and then when I was in high school my parents said and I'm not faulting them because of their own perhaps Discomfort maybe or maybe once again I don't remember just don't come home with the kid. There wasn't really talk about a lot of discussion about sex and sexuality sort of like my parents said. Do not bring a dog home. Yeah so human. Don't you dare bring a dog home. Does the Chinese side the Jamaican side and my Dad's side He. He's not so comfortable with animals. But that's so broad to don't come home with a child because there is no directive of how you might come home with a child o...

Hola Flyers! Hoy tenemos a Rosalia Rivera, fundadora y CEO de CONSENTparenting, anfitriona de AboutCONSENT Podcast y creadora de CONSENTwear. Ella es una sobreviviente del abuso sexual quien gracias a su espiritú triunfador ha converido su historia a una comunidad llena de empoderamiento y enseñanza. En su episodio de GoDoFly, comparte su historia, marca y como está ayudando a sobrevivientes, padres y más a saber mas sobre el consentimiento y superar trauma. Como sobrevivente de abuso sexual, su programa me ha dado la fuerza y luz que necesito para sentirme más empoderada.  No os perdaís este episodio! Ven a darle apoyo, subcribir y escribirnos. Estamos en esto juntos. 

Hello Flyers! Today we have Rosalia Rivera, founder, and CEO of CONSENTparenting, host of the AboutCONSENT Podcast and creator of CONSENTwear. She is a sexually abused survivor who turned her story into a full-on empowering community and more.  On her #GoDoFly episode she shares her story, her brand, and how she is helping fellow survivors, parents, and more about consent and overcoming trauma. As a fellow survivor, what she stands for and how she helps us through her courses and light, has really given me the power I needed to reclaim my voice, sexuality, and spirit.  This is an episode not to be missed! Come support, subscribe, and reach out. We are all in this together. 

American Dirt was published in January by Jeanine Cummings about the ordeal of a Mexican woman who had to leave behind her life and escape as an undocumented immigrant to the United States with her son. Unfortunately, the fiction story failed to meet so many marks of authencity. In a collaboration with Denise Soler Cox of Proyecto Enye (www.instagram.com/proyectoenye)  and the Co-Founders of Latina Podcasters (www.instagram.com/latinapodcasters) , Rita Bautista (www.instagram.com/ritaebautista)  and Nicole Hernandez (www.instagram.com/thedaringkind) along with fellow latina podcasters, developed a piece with  community that involved the host of the podcasts Let there be Luz  (www.instagram.com/lettherebeluz) - Linda Garcia, Aboutconsent (www.instagram.com/aboutconsent) Rosalia Rivera and Tamarindo (www.instagram.com/tamarindo) -host Brenda Gonzalez. Everyone shares their personal perspectives on what was right, what was wrong and how we can do better in the future. Our goal with this episode is for you to listen with an open mind and open heart.  This podcast is dedicate to all my empowerment circle of supporters and patrons who are loyal followers and support this podcast. For more information on becoming part of the goddesses, visit: https://www.patreon.com/Empowermentandallthat --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rita-bautista/message

American Dirt was published in January by Jeanine Cummings about the ordeal of a Mexican woman who had to leave behind her life and escape as an undocumented immigrant to the United States with her son. Unfortunately, the fiction story failed to meet so many marks of authencity. In a collaboration with Denise Soler Cox of Proyecto Enye (www.instagram.com/proyectoenye)  and the Co-Founders of Latina Podcasters (www.instagram.com/latinapodcasters) , Rita Bautista (www.instagram.com/ritaebautista)  and Nicole Hernandez (www.instagram.com/thedaringkind) along with fellow latina podcasters, developed a piece with  community that involved the host of the podcasts Let there be Luz  (www.instagram.com/lettherebeluz) - Linda Garcia, Aboutconsent (www.instagram.com/aboutconsent) Rosalia Rivera and Tamarindo (www.instagram.com/tamarindo) -host Brenda Gonzalez. Everyone shares their personal perspectives on what was right, what was wrong and how we can do better in the future. Our goal with this episode is for you to listen with an open mind and open heart.  This podcast is dedicate to all my empowerment circle of supporters and patrons who are loyal followers and support this podcast. For more information on becoming part of the goddesses, visit: https://www.patreon.com/Empowermentandallthat --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rita-bautista/message

As a mother of two my number one priority is keeping my children safe In a world that is filled with uncertainty. It can be hard navigating how to keep our children safe as well as giving them tools to keep themselves safe. That's why I am so happy to have this episode's guest consent educator Rosalia Rivera.On today's episode Rosalia will be going over the importance of teaching our children to set boundaries for themselves. Having conversations about bodily autonomy, consent, and more with our children can be challenging at times but it is so necessary. And Rosalia's guidance parents can have these conversations with more insight and confidence.Discussing these topics can especially be triggering for parents who are survivors themselves, Rosalia understands this and provides parents with the tools and resources necessary to teach their kids in a way that feels empowering rather than fear based. Rosalia is such an incredible force who has already helped thousands of parents and I look forward to seeing her continue making this world a safer place for our children. If you'd like more information you can go to her website consentparenting.com where you can find the resources and tools to help guide you while educating your children on body safety as well as her podcast and blog! I am an independent podcaster and your monthly donations and partnerships help more than you can imagine - Join my Legacy membership on Patreon. Legacies are the founding members of a brand new type of mental health support channel and membership site where we empower and uplift each other and learn how to live healed and whole after traumatic life events. This is a place for trauma survivors as well as their friends and family. This is a safe environment to be vulnerable but it's also a place for celebration and moving forward. Let's all start to embrace who we are becoming by looking forward together! Join my Legacy membership on Patreon. https://www.patreon.com/judgingmeghan... #mentalhealth #selfcare #self #judgingothers #judgingmeghan #suicideawareness #suicideprevention #survivor #abuserecovery #traumahealing #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmatters #podcasts #selfhelp #addiction #addictionrecovery #lgbtqsupport #divorce #death #tragedy  #consent #depression #youth #boundaries #childabuse #parentingSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/judging-meghan/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy