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In this episode, we sat down again with Tanya Crossman, a leading expert on Third Culture Kids (TCKs) to catch up on recent research findings. Understanding Third Culture KidsDefining the TCK Journey: Tanya clarifies what makes a Third Culture Kid—children growing up outside their passport country without plans to settle permanently—and why their experience differs from immigrant children.Hidden Struggles, Global Strengths: How TCKs develop unique perspectives while navigating complex identity formations that many parents and educators miss.Groundbreaking Research RevelationsData-Driven Insights: Discover findings from Tanya's landmark study of 1,900+ TCKs that challenge conventional wisdom about cross-cultural childhoods.The ACE Factor: Learn how Adverse Childhood Experiences appear at higher rates in TCK populations and what this means for their development and wellbeing.What Shapes TCK ExperiencesThe Sector Effect: Why a child's expatriate community (missionary, diplomatic, military, corporate) influences outcomes more powerfully than nationality or host country.Digital Natives, Global Lives: How today's tech-connected TCKs manage unprecedented pressure to maintain relationships across continents—and the surprising impact on their present-moment engagement.Practical Support StrategiesNavigating Transition & Grief: Actionable approaches for parents to help children process loss, including Tanya's insights on using tools like "The Grief Tower."Permission to Feel: Creating spaces where TCKs can express difficult emotions without judgment or minimization.The Evolving TCK LandscapeNew Pioneers: How global schoolers and digital nomad families are rewriting the TCK script—often without traditional institutional support.Bridging the Gap: TCK Training's initiatives to reach underserved global families with research-based resources.The TCK Advantage:Resilience Research: Despite facing unique challenges, discover why 98% of TCKs wouldn't change their upbringing.Protective Factors: The specific positive childhood experiences that help TCKs thrive despite higher adversity rates.Memorable Quotes"The majority of TCKs like the way they grew up… 98% said they would not take this back if they could." Tanya Crossman"When we talk about hard things, we give kids who are struggling the opportunity to talk. When we don't, we make them feel like they can't share what they're struggling with.""It's not culture alone that shapes a TCK—it's the combination of mobility, community, and how adults respond to their unique challenges."Essential ResourcesBooks:Misunderstood: The Impact of Growing Up Overseas in the 21st Century by Tanya CrossmanThe Grief Tower by Lauren WellsWhat Made That Feel So Hard? by Lauren WellsWebsites:TCK Training (featuring freely accessible research)https://www.tcktraining.comhttps://www.instagram.com/tcktraining/https://www.youtube.com/@tcktraining9213https://www.linkSupport the showHome is Where Your Story Crosses Borders!We aim to inspire expat solutions, by helping you navigate global living with Confidence.

In this episode of Nomadic Diaries, we sat down with Tanya Crossman, a leading expert on Third Culture Kids (TCKs) whose personal experiences and professional work have made her a trusted voice in the global mobility community. Tanya's Third Culture Journey Tanya Crossman's journey as a TCK began with moves between Australia and the United States during her childhood, following her father's career path. Her cross-cultural experiences deepened significantly when she later spent 13 years living and working in China. These formative experiences across different continents gave her unique insights into the TCK experience that would later inform her professional work and writing. Finding Community Among the Misunderstood After years of feeling like an outsider in her own culture, Tanya discovered the profound relief of finding others who shared similar experiences. This revelation became the foundation of her life's work, as captured in her powerful quote: "I'm not alone has become a mantra for so much of the work that I do." Defining the Third Culture Experience Tanya brings clarity to what it means to be a Third Culture Kid, addressing common misconceptions and explaining that the "third culture" isn't a specific place but rather the shared experience of growing up among different cultural worlds. She explores how TCKs develop a unique cultural identity that combines elements from their passport culture, host cultures, and the expatriate community itself. Emotional Intelligence and TCK Challenges One of the most valuable insights Tanya shares is how the TCK experience can affect emotional development:A tendency toward emotional suppression as a survival mechanism during frequent transitionsHow this suppression can hinder the development of healthy conflict resolution skillsThe importance of creating safe spaces for TCKs to process complex emotions about mobility, identity, and belongingGuidance for Parents and Caregivers Tanya offers practical wisdom for parents raising children across cultures:The importance of preventive care rather than crisis interventionCreating environments where emotions can be expressed safely and processedUnderstanding that TCKs are "growing up in a completely different world than you are"Recognizing the unique challenges and opportunities that come with a globally mobile childhoodResources for the TCK Journey Tanya highlights the growing body of resources available to support TCKs and their families:Her book, "Misunderstood," which explores common threads in TCK experiences"Third Culture Kids: Growing Up Among Worlds" (often called the TCK Bible)Practical tools for parents, educators, and caregivers working with globally mobile children Connect with Tanya For more resources on supporting Third Culture Kids:Personal website:  tanyacrossman.com TCK Training:  tcktraining.com  Support the showHome is Where Your Story Crosses Borders!We aim to inspire expat solutions, by helping you navigate global living with Confidence.

On this episode, we talk with TCK, friend, and co-founder of the podcast, Colton Shrader (TCK to Peru).Join our conversation as we talk about leading with your God-given strengths and how we can find hope and joy knowing that God is good and has purposes beyond what we can understand in a singular moment. You'll hear Colton share about what God is teaching him through his Master's in Organizational Leadership to become a ‘courageous follower.' This episode offers great perspective to high school and college seniors who are considering their future.What questions do you have about this episode? How can we help support you or your TCK? We'd love to hear from you! Connect with us HERE.HOST: Michelle EllisSONG: Sunscreen by Vic Davi SHOW NOTES:11:30, 29:16 | CliftonStrengths Assessment 2.025:10 | Daniel 2:36-45 - Daniel interprets Nebuchadnezzar's dream and expresses his concerns25:45 | Daniel 6 - Daniel opens his windows to pray28:34 | The Courageous Follower by Ira Chaleff39:08 | Ica, PeruKEY QUOTES:18:14 | “He's a strategic God that thinks way farther ahead than we have the ability to think, and He placed you where you are with a purpose.” 18:43 |  “We have this unprecedented opportunity as TCKs to be developed in ways that so many people would never have an opportunity to do".”20:29 | “A ‘successful' TCK will look at that and accept that there will be threats, but there will also be opportunities. So how do we take advantage of those and choose to say, ‘I'm going to approach this from the perspective that I'm not a victim [but] that I am a chosen son of God or daughter of God.”23:27 | “We don't have to approach [things] with hopelessness and despair.”26:12 | “The spirit that  I think we need to have as TCK is this, ‘no matter where I am, no matter the circumstance; I'm in a new culture, I'm in a new place, but my God is good and He has not abandoned me. At no point did my God abandoned me.”37:01 | “Trust God that He's designed you for this time and this place.”CONNECT WITH US: Instagram | FacebookInterested in partnering with John Michael & Nicole in prayer, one-time giving, or monthly giving? Do that HERE.COMMON TERMS:TCK - third culture kidMK - missionary kidLAC - Latin America Caribbean

A deep dive into what it means to be a Third Culture Kid “Letters Now Sent” Book Invitation: You are invited to submit a written piece for the book, “Letters Now Sent.” Inspired by Ruth Van Reken's book "Letters Never Sent", "Letters Now Sent" will be a collection of letters from TCKs, parents of TCKs, and system leaders to share personal stories about their experiences with TCKs/being a TCK themself/raising TCKs. This book is a fusion of both memoir and anthology written in a specific "Dear ___[name]___" format. Here is the Google Form link to submit a letter with additional details about length and content prompts: https://forms.gle/jQyzq3TtFqfyznvCA.  Please contact Megan Norton (megancnorton@gmail.com) if you have any questions about this book project. “A Work of Heart”, a project led by Simona Wiig and Megan Norton, invites any individual who has had a Third Culture experience to submit their artwork expressions depicting their cross-cultural story for the first volume of art collections (including any visual rendering, song lyrics, poetry, videography, etc.) for and by CCKs/TCKs/migrants/global nomads/whatever ‘label' that encompasses the Third Culture experience. Both Simona Wiig and Megan Norton are creators, artists, dreamers, and Adult TCKs who desire to showcase the Third Culture experience through visual artwork created by fellow friends who have grown up crossing-cultures. Submissions are due by May 1, 2025 for Volume 1. Please contact Megan Norton (megancnorton@gmail.com) if you have any questions about this book project.    

Today we're sharing Part 2 of our interview with Major Ben Scott, a US Army Signal Corps Officer who grew up as a Third Culture Kid in Kenya and Germany. He and his wife are now raising his five third culture kids of their own back in Germany where Ben is stationed. At 15 years old, Ben returned to the United States for high school. Despite a smooth first year, he entered a difficult time of negotiating what it meant to be an American teenager in a large suburban public school. Find out how Ben got through this reverse culture shock, finally got a car, and what his recommendations are for TCKs now.See photos of our guests and sign up for our email list at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠roundtripstories.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @roundtripstoriespodcast on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!

Thank you, friends, for clicking on this episode of the Pondering Purple podcast, a source of information, insight and inspiration for those who love MKs and those who are MKs. ··· This episode is based on an article by the same name: ⁠⁠The Incredible Power of Positive Childhood Experiences ... Other resources mentioned in this episode are: ⁠My previous article on TCKs, ACEs, and trauma⁠ ⁠TCK Training's research on TCKs and ACEs⁠ ⁠Misunderstood by Tanya Crossman⁠ ... More of my MK-related resources can be found at the following links: 1. My most-read articles listed on my⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.  2. My ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠playlist⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ of video "nuggets" on Youtube. 3. My novel about a missionary family, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Of Stillness and Storm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. ··· Four ways to make sure you don't miss an episode: 1. Click subscribe after you find Pondering Purple on the podcast platform of your choice. 2. Friend and follow me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠--I'll announce new episodes as they release. (Make sure you hit "Follow first" under the "Follow" tab.) 3. Join ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The MK Hub⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a group on Facebook solely devoted to sharing new materials as I produce them. 4. Receive email notifications by writing “subscribe to podcast” in the subject line of a message you send to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shellphoenix@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. (I promise--that's all you'll receive. No newsy epistles or cat pictures!) ··· Please share this resource in your missionary, MK, and TCK circles. I'd love it if you also left a comment on whatever platform you use, so Pondering Purple can be less of a monologue and more of a conversation. ··· The title of the podcast is a nod to the complex, beautiful, sometimes confounding, always life-shaping and ideally life-enhancing effects of growing up in the color swirl of cultures and worlds. ··· Helpful definitions: · MK or Missionaries' Kid - the child of missionaries. · TCK or Third Culture Kid - someone who has spent a majority of his/her formative years in a culture other than his/her passport culture. This includes missionaries' kids, military kids, business kids, diplomats' kids, etc.

"If you think you aren't doing it well, that thought means your heart is turned to your kid, and you are already 70% there," says Dr. Jean Kawiecki. As a psychologist, educator, and adult TCK Dr. Kawiecki is deeply passionate about helping TCKs and their parents through the various transitions of TCK life.      Talk with Sharoya directly to get more support in your parenting: www.embracebehaviorchange.com       Resources mentioned: The Place We Find Ourselves Podcast by Adam Young   Six Core Needs of Kids by Adam Young   Misunderstood by Tanya Crossman Raising Up a Generation of Healthy Third Culture Kids: A Practical Guide to Preventive Care by Lauren Wells The Grief Tower: A Practical Guide to Processing Grief with Third Culture Kids by Lauren Wells The RAFT

How big a part of your identity is 'helper'? And what happens when we find ourselves unable to help others, or even ourselves? What happens when we encounter helplessness? This episode ponders the ways in which our TCK experiences impact our experience of helplessness, and how we can meet it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I Never Signed Up for This is a brand new book for mothers of missionaries! During this episode, Ann tells us stories about her two daughters who live in parts of the world disrupted by illness, war, and political unrest, and the ways she has learned to cope with her resistance to their vocation and her fear for their safety. She also discusses the importance of ministering to TCKs when they return stateside and ways we, as churches and families can help them debrief and adjust to being kids who straddle two different cultures. Links to sites mentioned in program:Ann's Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DLYQ5Z99?ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_74V3YDAP3TC17FNT61N3&skipTwisterOG=1&bestFormat=true&newOGT=1Ann's Website: https://neversignedup.comhttps://www.alifeoverseas.com/https://storiessetfree.com/https://thriveministry.org/https://www.tcktraining.com/courses

Experienced headteacher Phil Hart joins Morgan and Tod to dive into the world of Third Culture Kids (TCKs). Together, they explore the unique challenges TCKs face—emotionally, cognitively, and socially—while navigating multiple cultures and identities. With Phil's expertise, they unpack the complexities of life as a TCK and discuss strategies for supporting these students as they thrive in a globalised world.

In January, many of us are reflecting on various ways to improve ourselves. In this episode I'm exploring how often I hear TCKs struggling with the need to be extraordinary, and the fear of identities more mundane. I'll share my observations about what's going on here, and a poem I wrote today, on the Forbidden Fruit of being Ordinary. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Some feedback from last episode on purpose and TCKs really brought home to me another challenge faced by many TCKs around purpose - which this episode attempts to do justice to. How do we navigate our own values when we've not been told stories of values, just observable differences? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I've been avoiding this episode - partly because I'm feeling how incredibly important it is. How does the experience of being a TCK interact with our purpose-seeking? And what do we do about it? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode delves into the unique experiences of our amazing guest, Lydia Chu, who grew up as a Third Culture Kid (TCK). TCKs are people who have spent a significant portion of their formative years living in cultures other than their parents' original culture - but as we've learned throughout the years, definition of a TCK can vary.The episode explores how this multicultural upbringing has shaped the way Lydia approaches travel. We discuss topics such as cultural adaptability, global perspective, and travel style.Thank you, Lydia, for your time and insight!Connect with Lydia Chu:IG: @thoughtfulwandersblog: www.thoughtfulwanders.comSend us a textSupport the show---Always protect yourself on your travels: get your own SafetyWing Nomad Insurance (affiliate link).Curious about our favorite gear, other excellent podcasts, and sneak peaks at upcoming IRL events and episodes? Don't miss out- get our monthly newsletter "THE CHECK-IN", delivered straight to your inbox every 1st Wednesday!Connect with Ticket 2 Anywhere Podcast!Instagram • Facebook • TikTok • TwitterIf you enjoyed this episode, consider supporting the show by Buying Us a Coffee! Click here to support the show. *Subscribe* to our Youtube Channel: Ticket 2 Anywhere PodcastListen to our podcast everywhere you streamMusic: Tropical ChillMusic produced by OrangeHeadWatch : https://youtu.be/UsI6VbzGlIAWebsite : http://www.orangehead.netProduction by Trizzy of TrizzInc

Time! How does the Third Culture Kid experience impact our sense of time? It's often said TCKs are somewhat allergic to the 10 year plan - but why? And what about the impact on how we do relationships? Join me in this week's ponderings - I'd love to hear your thoughts too! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What about the characters in our story that we struggle to find a place for? The people whose languages we've maybe lost but who cared for us as children, worked in our homes or with our parents; these are pivotal points of attachment safety for us. In this episode I explore the limits of attachment theory for TCKs, where it is getting delightfully expanded, and how we can honour attachment figures in our stories. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome back to Part 2 of our interview with Sam Fisher, adult TCK who grew up in Indonesia and Malaysia as a missionary kid to a local Indonesian mom and an American dad. Returning to the U.S. for college was another huge transition, but his network of relationships from boarding school and all the new university friends helped him feel at home. In this episode, listen to Sam discuss his journey defining his identity, embracing his superpower of fitting in, and processing his childhood even more as he and his wife raise their own children. He realizes that it is never too late for TCKs to have conversations about their growing up years. Find Sam on Instagram at instagram.com/losfisher. See photos of our guests and sign up for our email list at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠roundtripstories.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @roundtripstoriespodcast on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!

Money! What's it got to do with the Third Culture Experience? Between complex juxtapositions between wealth experiences between countries, modelled standards and shapes of living, expectations around meaningful employment - quite a lot! I wanted to spend some time here on this because it does come up in my work with TCKs, and my own life too, and feels an important element to understand in our stories. As always, I'd love to hear your thoughts! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For the last 60 years, many have studied the population known as Third Culture Kids (TCKs)—children who grow up outside their parents’ passport country(ies)/cultures. But the world has changed greatly in that time. What common characteristics for TCKs of the past remain for today’s TCKs? What are new benefits and paradoxical complexities globally mobile families face in today's world? If being a TCK is part of God’s ‘workmanship’ in our children's lives, how can we best nurture them in a cross-cultural, highly mobile lifestyle? Come join our discussion on these matters. An interactive presentation/discussion on how a changing world increases cultural complexity for many children who are growing up amid many cultural worlds. We will also share from audience and presenter strategies for helping our children maximize and use well the gifts of such a childhood. Session recorded on Friday, November 10th during Session Block #5 at 4:00 PM EST ; speaker: Ruth VanReken Session webpage: https://www.medicalmissions.com/events/gmhc-2023/sessions/third-culture-kids-phase-2-whats-the-same-whats-new-for-todays-tcks  

Lucca joins us to share his first-hand experience and ideas for going to University as he returns for a second year.  Susie leads a through parent-student talk to share insider tips for other TCKs and parents in our audience.   Thanks for being part of our Purple Blob community.  Find out more at: www.thebigpurpleblob.com    

Send us a textIn this episode of the Truly Expat Podcast, hosts Rachel and Paula explore the diverse experiences of expat life in Singapore with their inspiring guest, Mangla. As a third culture kid raising her own TCKs, Mangla is also a successful entrepreneur who co-founded a t-shirt printing company and launched 'Expat Business in a Bag,' a platform that helps expats monetise their skills seamlessly as they move. The conversation dives into Mangla's expat journey, her entrepreneurial ventures, and the challenges and strategies of starting over in new environments. The episode is packed with valuable advice for anyone navigating expat life and entrepreneurship.00:00 Introduction to the Truly Expat Podcast00:13 Meet Mangla: A Third Culture Kid Turned Entrepreneur01:02 Mangla's Expat Journey02:26 The Birth of Expat Business in a Bag03:26 Navigating Business Challenges During COVID-1904:37 Empowering Expats: Business Strategies and Mindset09:32 Networking Tips for Introverts13:03 Overcoming Money and Imposter Syndromes14:47 One-on-One vs. Group Coaching16:51 Finding Your Niche17:57 The Impact of Expat Business in a Bag21:09 An Entrepreneur's Journey24:32 Mindset and Money Stories27:51 The Importance of Authenticity29:37 Connecting and Sharing KnowledgeContact information for Mangla @ Expat Business in a BagWebsite: www.expatbusinessinabag.comemail: Hello@expatbusinessinabag.comInstagram: @expatbusinessinabag  Remember, the conversation doesn't end here. Join us on our social media platforms to share your thoughts and continue the dialogue:Email: podcast@trulyexpat.comFacebook Page: Truly Expat PodcastInstagram: @trulyexpatpodcastTikTok: @trulyexpatpodcastLinkedin: Truly Expat PodcastWebsite: www.trulyexpatlifestyle.comPodcast: https://podcast.trulyexpatlifestyle.comThanks for tuning in to our latest episode. Subscribe for more valuable insights and information for expats in Singapore and beyond.

Guilt - that horrible twisting feeling in our gut that so often shows up, unbidden and unwelcome. As awkward as it is, today I'm digging into what can trigger this in TCK stories especially, and how we can bring understanding and context to this sensation - and recognise it as something beyond a simple indicator we've done something 'wrong'. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This is Part 2 of our interview with Third Culture Kid expert Tanya Crossman who has worked over 20 years with and researching issues related to TCKs to support international organizations, schools, churches, and families.   Tanya is from Australia and is the director of research at TCK Training.  She is a TCK herself having spent her teen years in the United States.  In this episode we continue to discuss her book "Misunderstood," and her recommendations she has for parents of TCKs and even Adult TCKs (ATCKs). You won't want to miss all the wisdom she has for families! Tanya's latest book: Thongs or Flipflops? (thongsandflipflops.com) ⁠TanyaCrossman.com⁠ ⁠TCK Training

Episode 43: The wise, insightful, and generous college admissions expert, Kristi Steele of kc360.co joins Chris & Jerry to share tips, timelines, secrets, and strategies for TCKs, non-TCKs, and their families, navigating everything from essays and finances to major selection and common pitfalls on the way to reaching the finish line of academic goodness. Here … Continue reading College Admission Olympics!

This is Part 1 of our interview with Third Culture Kid expert Tanya Crossman who has worked over 20 years with and researching issues related to TCKs to support international organizations, schools, churches, and families.   Tanya is from Australia and is the director of research at TCK Training. She talks a bit about her time as a TCK in the U.S and transition back to Australia, and then she shares about her research and writings, including her book: Misunderstood: the Impact of Growing up Overseas in the 21st Century (book site) TanyaCrossman.com TCK Training Families in Global Transition (FIGT)

I'm noticing how many of us TCKs are struggling to set boundaries without feeling the need to build a case of moral justification - our own feelings and needs don't seem to be 'enough' to allow us to say, "No". Here I'm exploring what might be going on, the potential impact of this, and how important it is to listen out for this in our narratives. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Meet Jay, a Third Culture Kid who turned her struggles with identity and belonging into a mission of connection. Born in the Philippines and raised across continents, Jay knows firsthand the challenges TCKs face - the identity crises, the feeling of not quite fitting in anywhere. But she didn't let these hurdles define her. Instead, Jay founded TCK Global, a community where those with similar experiences can finally feel at home. In this episode, she opens up about her personal journey, shares insights on cultural adaptation, and discusses how she's building a global support network for TCKs. MY GUEST: JayTCK ShopTed Talk JOIN the Group for Women in Intercultural Relationships: https://chat.whatsapp.com/Fy5IOsGnOoN1D0foex9EBY YOUR STORY: Share your story here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/caT8Uh28cLPCrQyHA⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email: internationallovestorypodcast@gmail.com Leave a  ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️  review ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ABOUT US YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@internationallovestory⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/internationallovestory/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/internationallovestorypodcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@international.love.story⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 00:00 – Intro 00:49 – Jay introduces herself and TCK Global 05:35 – Defining "home" for a Third Culture Kid 11:15 – Challenges faced by Third Culture Kids 14:56 – Long-distance family relationships 20:53 – Jay's future plans and vision for TCK Global 27:53 – Resources for Third Culture Kids and their parents 36:22 – Advice --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/internationallovestory/support

Terapi med Jesus och missionärsbarn på läger, är ytan på det vi pratat om denna månad. Vi pratar med Ulrika Ernvik om hennes erfarenheter och kunskap om primärt dessa ämnen. Ulrika Ernvik är socionom, legitimerad familjeterapeut, missionärsbarn och mamma till missionärsbarn. Victor träffar henne på Missionärsbarnsträffen (MBT), och pratar om hur hon relaterar sin tro till sitt terapeutiska uppdrag. Vi går även in på tredjekulturs-barn (TCKs) och deras särskilda erfarenheter. Dessutom vill vi att människor med makt ska vara kristna och hur traumatiserad är egentligen Victor? --- Gilla oss på ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Följ oss på ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ och på ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Skriv till oss på ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠atenochjerusalem@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Stöd oss på ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!

"I saw the signs... and I went there anyway!" I hear this so often, and it's such a familiar cry of my own heart too. We are often admonished to 'watch out for the red flags' but I'm wondering how much this is the relevant issue. Here I'm exploring what can lead TCKs to be especially vulnerable to seeing the warning signs of incompatible behaviours or values, and going there anyway. I'm also sharing why I feel getting clearer about our 'green flags' can be a more helpful tool to many TCKs. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What are the implications of a life lived in adaptation? One of them seems to be a familiarity with discomfort! This can impact different TCKs different ways - some of us get super sensitive to challenge, over-saturated as we have been in early chapters. Some of us identify so much with challenge that we continue to seek it out in our adult lives. Either reaction may be working with an acclimatisation with discomfort. We can become so attuned to discomfort as our baseline that we normalise it - either in ways that keep us in it, avoidant or unclear about what changes we could make to improve our experience, or in ways that avoid comfort by seeking growth to exhausting degrees. Either way, what happens when we get acclimatised to discomfort? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So I messed up the timing of this one! Got all organised, and recorded before going away last week on holiday - then never scheduled it to post! So it's going out this week instead :) In this episode I ponder something that comes up a lot - with TCKs and in general discourse - the Selfie! I'm always fascinated when we have a resistance against something, and I wanted to explore this as something that I think is an untapped resource in our work around belonging. Here I explore how the simple selfie can be another tool for us to use to land our Selves in context, witness to our moments of connection and ground us. I'd love to know your thoughts! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For International TCK Day we are going back in our archives to our conversation with Michèle Phoenix from Season 1, Episode 22.   Michèle is known around the world as an advocate for Third Culture Kids (TCKs) and the children of missionaries. Listen in for a glimpse into the world of TCKs! “Passport culture plus adoptive culture(s) equals Third Culture Kid (TCK).” “Because I have those two cultures in me, my closest sense of belonging is with others who are, like me, multiculturally formed in their formative years. There's a misconception that third culture is actually my individual third culture that I form out of the two that shaped me [...] but actually the term means that we find belonging with others who are also third cultured.” “My differences were similar to their differences, and that I wasn't weird; I was a TCK.” “Mostly belonging in multiple places increases their skillset; it makes them bridge builders.” “To ask them to figure out what is uniquely one culture and uniquely another in the way they think and in the way they think, even in the way they speak, is going to be a real challenge for them.” “Something that feels fairly minor to a monocultural adult who has lived multiculturally for a while might feel like this tidal wave of all of these emotions coming back to the TCK or MK.” Article: Nine Tips for Living Well in a Season of Grief “The enormity of the blessing and the strength that comes from growing up as a TCK is immeasurable.  You have blessed them in ways that you probably won't ever be able to fully realize.” “Generalizations about TCKs are not always entirely helpful, but knowing what the majority of them tend toward I think can be a really helpful thing in mentoring them and walking with them.” “Because of our experience seeing things done differently in other parts of the world [...] we can start to draw people from their highly selective clusters toward each other.” Learn more about Michèle's ministry here! What's changing our lives: Keane: Reading more than one book at a time Heather: The Next Right Thing Journal by Emily P. Freeman Michèle: Four Tiny-Small Questions for the Quarantine-Weary What small thing can I do that will make me feel alive in this moment? What small thing can I do to take some sting out of this day? What small thing can I do to make today feel purposeful? What small thing can I do today that will connect me with God? We'd love it if you would subscribe, rate, review, and share this show! And as always, you can reach us at podcast@teachbeyond.org.

Meet Mariam,Pakistani, TCK and eternal expat, Mariam has lived in over 10 countries: moving alone, moving with her husband, and later moving as a multicultural family with their three children. Together, with her German-Italian husband, they have found different ways to bring their own cultures into their children's lives, creating traditions and some stability, all while embracing what each country has to bring. Each creating their own Mola as she likes to describe a TCKs identity.As her expat life evolved, Mariam found new ways to reinvent herself and shifted her career towards writing. In this episode, she shares the story behind her novel The Guilty Can't Say Goodbye, a love letter to Portugal, and the relationships between three expat women with their own secrets, guilt, and hopes for a new life.Now in Cascais, Portugal her recommendations are☕ Lusophonica café and radio for the best flat white in town

What do our TCK stories tell us about aging? And how does this impact our identities? This episode throws open this question and explores how we can use our stories as a resource to help us understand where our own (perhaps multiple) constructs of aging come from, and how we can navigate this with mindfulness and gentleness. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Send us a Text Message.In this episode of the 'Truly Expar Podcast', Third Culture Kids (TCKs) is explored with guests Maria, Laila, and Umila sharing their experiences and insights. The discussion covers the unique opportunities TCKs have, such as increased open-mindedness and resilience from living in multiple countries, and the challenges they face, like dealing with school transitions and the feeling of not belonging to a single culture. The guests also discuss their personal strategies for helping their children adapt to new environments and the importance of maintaining a sense of home, showcasing the complex yet enriching experience of raising TCKs.If you want to email Sophie Dunstan, Clinical Psychologist from part one of this two-part series, you can contact her here: info@marianstreetpsychology.com Books mentioned in the episode about Third Culture Kids:Third Culture Kids: The Experience of Growing Up Among World  by David PollockThe Optimistic Child: A Proven Program to Safeguard Children Against Depression and Build Lifelong Resilience  by Martin Seligman Remember, the conversation doesn't end here. Join us on our social media platforms to share your thoughts and continue the dialogue:Email: podcast@trulyexpat.comFacebook Page: Truly Expat PodcastInstagram: @trulyexpatpodcastTikTok: @trulyexpatpodcastLinkedin: Truly Expat PodcastWebsite: www.trulyexpatlifestyle.comPodcast: https://podcast.trulyexpatlifestyle.comDisclaimer:While we strive to provide accurate and up-to-date information, the nature of expat experiences can evolve. We encourage listeners to verify details independently. For inquiries or guidance, reach out to us at podcast@trulyexpat.com. Your questions are essential, and we're here to help you navigate expat life effectively.Thanks for tuning in to our latest episode. Subscribe for more valuable insights and information for expats in Singapore and beyond.

So birthdays can bring up a lot for people, and for TCKs, these were often affected by mobility: Who do you invite to a party when you are the new kid? How do people celebrate here? And mine tends to make me pensive around identity also - who have I been this year, and where am I at now? And so in this podcast, I invite you to ponder with me those identities we inhabit but especially those we might stop short of claiming, because we "can't do them properly" or may feel we don't have time to establish. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Send us a Text Message.In this episode of the Truly Expat Podcast, hosts Paula and Rachel and clinical psychologist Sophie Dunstan discuss the experiences and challenges of Third Culture Kids (TCKs). They explore the definition of TCKs, their multicultural upbringings, and the impact this has on their lives. The conversation touches on TCKs' different experiences based on their cultural backgrounds and the countries they grow up in. Additionally, they delve into the developmental challenges TCKs face, specifically during adolescence, and the advantages of being a TCK, such as adaptability and empathy. The episode also addresses TCKs' struggles, including identity confusion and adapting to new cultures or rules in different countries. It also highlights the role of patience, understanding, and support from parents in helping their children navigate these complexities. This is part one of a two-part episode discussing Third Culture Kids.If you want to email Sophie Dunstan, Clinical Psychologist, you can contact her here: info@marianstreetpsychology.com Books mentioned in the episode about Third Culture Kids:Third Culture Kids: The Experience of Growing Up Among World  by David PollockThe Optimistic Child: A Proven Program to Safeguard Children Against Depression and Build Lifelong Resilience  by Martin Seligman Remember, the conversation doesn't end here. Join us on our social media platforms to share your thoughts and continue the dialogue:Email: podcast@trulyexpat.comFacebook Page: Truly Expat PodcastInstagram: @trulyexpatpodcastTikTok: @trulyexpatpodcastLinkedin: Truly Expat PodcastWebsite: www.trulyexpatlifestyle.comPodcast: https://podcast.trulyexpatlifestyle.comDisclaimer:While we strive to provide accurate and up-to-date information, the nature of expat experiences can evolve. We encourage listeners to verify details independently. For inquiries or guidance, reach out to us at podcast@trulyexpat.com. Your questions are essential, and we're here to help you navigate expat life effectively. Thanks for tuning in to our latest episode. Subscribe for more valuable insights and information for expats in Singapore and beyond.

Lina used to be a NASA scientist studying the role of the ocean in global climate change. She was a research scientist, management consultant, Ph.D. scholar while working full-time, and has been working in the international development space with The World Bank since 2002, spanning multiple sectors and countries, building trust amidst uncertainty through supporting implementation of governments' reform projects while measuring results and impacts in the Global South. Lina has lived in five countries, on three continents, and is passionate about clarity amidst uncertainty. Lina coaches in the intersection of transitions, belonging, and purpose, and her clients are leaders, mostly expats and adult third culture kids (TCKs), who are in global transitions, excited about learning about themselves, to be more resilient and agile, and at the same time empathetic and mindful in a rapidly evolving world.Website: www.lina-lo.comLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/linalo202009/Email: lina@lina-lo.com

Eligible Family Members, Direct Hires, MoHs and TCKS....we have to factor in ALL the things when scoping out our next possible Post.  How do you choose?  Jennie and Angi share their process and ideas. To work with Jennie directly check out:    http://www.expatmom.com Angi works with teens who could use support in goal setting and emotional processing: www.teenlines.com  

In this episode, learn from Interaction International president Bret Taylor about the important work they are doing with the most vulnerable members of the Great Commission: Third Culture Kids (TCK), Missionary Kids (MK), and “hidden immigrants.” Bret leads the MK Caregivers Summit, is a co-founder and board member of TCK Care Accreditation, and developed the Adaptable TCK Model. He has traveled to 36 countries. Interaction International is a catalyst and a resource working cooperatively to develop programs, services, and publications that provide and contribute to an ongoing flow of care that meets the needs of Third Culture Kids (TCKs) and international mobile families. TCKs from all over the world can get a running start on transitioning to North America and life beyond at the Transit Lounge retreats! You can invest in the people who have the greatest impact on the great commission by sponsoring a day ($45) or week ($500) at a Transit Lounge! Here is another podcast episode on TCKs (with Brooke Wiens) you will find interesting: Episode #75 The Third Culture Kid (TCK) Cultural Adaptability in a Multicultural World with Brooke Wiens. In this episode, my guest Brooke Wiens discusses the topic "Cultural Adaptability in a Multicultural World (Third Culture Kids – TCKs)." Ms. Wiens holds the title of Emergent Bilingual Teacher in the most diverse elementary schools in the state of Missouri – North Kansas City Schools. She is a traveler, learner, coffee drinker, global thinker, a Third Culture Kid (TCK), and a board member of Interaction International, a ministry focused on providing resources for TCKs.

Join us for a conversation with Julia Walker, host of the Across Oceans podcast, and guest Brogan Lund.  Julia, a child of international school educators, and Brogan, a Third Culture Kid (TCK) and international school graduate, share what it means to be TCKs, as young adults and professionals. Together they share how growing up in various countries and attending different international schools has shaped their identities and perspectives. They share their stories and insights about growing up overseas, returning to their passport countries, and the unique experiences and challenges that come with being a TCK.    About Julia Walker   Julia grew up attending the international schools her parents worked at. As a family, they lived in Canada, Egypt and Singapore before she returned to Canada to study. Now, she is finishing her masters degree in Switzerland. In 2022, she started her own podcast, Across Oceans, discussing all things related to being a Third Culture Kid (TCK) and a child of international school educators.    Across Oceans Podcast Instagram:@acrossoceanspodcast acrossoceanspodcast@gmail.com   About Brogen Lund   Brogan was born in Dallas, Texas to Canadian parents. His family moved to Singapore, then Atlanta, before finally settling in Geneva where he attended the International School and eventually became a Swiss citizen.    After studying in Montreal, he has returned to his adopted home in Switzerland where he now works in IT.   Resources   Across Oceans Podcast    Across Oceans is a podcast where we discuss all things related to Third Culture Kids (TCKs), growing up overseas, returning to passport countries, unique travel stories and more. You will hear a unique TCK perspective of someone who is now an adult, but who grew up moving around the globe because of their international school teacher parents. We'll discuss the benefits, the challenges and everything in between with growing up as a global nomad.    https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/acrossoceans    Books:  Third Culture Kids: Growing Up Among Worlds by Ruth Van Reken and David Pollock  https://www.amazon.com/Third-Culture-Kids-Growing-Revised/dp/1857885252    Incredible Lives and the Courage to Live Them: Thoughts of a Third Culture Kid Therapist by Rachel Cason  https://www.explorelifestory.com/book/    Arrivals, Departures, and the Adventures In Between by Chris O'Shaughnessy  https://www.chris-o.com/chriso/index.html    Ted Talk:  Don't ask me where I'm from, ask where I'm  a local  https://www.ted.com/talks/taiye_selasi_don_t_ask_where_i_m_from_ask_where_i_m_a_local?language=en   John Mikton on Social Media LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jmikton/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/jmikton Web: beyonddigital.org   Dan Taylor on social media: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/appsevents  Twitter: https://twitter.com/appdkt  Web: www.appsevents.com   Listen on: iTunes / Podbean / Stitcher / Spotify / YouTube Would you like to have a free 1 month trial of the new Google Workspace Plus (formerly G Suite Enterprise for Education)? Just fill out this form and we'll get you set up bit.ly/GSEFE-Trial

Episode 40: The legendary Michael Pollock joins us for our 40th episode! Listen in as Michael reflects on the ITCK Conference and shares his thoughts on everything from epigenetics and three-legged stools to the future of TCKs and emerging understanding of Highly Sensitive People (HSPs). To get in touch with Michael and inquire about coaching, … Continue reading Deepoloonylooza!

Thank you for listening to the audio version of the blog posts you can find at ⁠⁠velvetashes.com⁠⁠. This week's post is called Raising TCKs in Light of Eternity by Ashley. Add your thoughts and comments on the blog post ⁠⁠here⁠⁠! Make sure you also check out the recipe that Ashley included in her post.  Ashley comes from a small town in Missouri and now lives in a city of millions in East Asia. She first fell in love with other cultures while spending time in Nigeria. She never dreamed of coming to the Far East, but has now fallen in love with those around her, finally beginning to see through the Father's eyes that all people are beautiful and need His love. She has two boys and a girl that keep her laughing and an innovative, encouraging husband that keeps her going. In her dubious amounts of free time, she enjoys reading a good novel (with a cup of chai in hand, of course), connecting with others, making lattes, trying new recipes, crafty projects, and perusing for more recipes and crafts. Learn more about ⁠⁠Velvet Ashes⁠⁠ Follow Velvet Ashes on ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠ Featured music is "Daughters and Sons" by Eine Blume. Check out more from them on ⁠⁠iTunes⁠⁠ or wherever you get music!

How do adult third-culture kids develop in their lives? How did their childhood experiences shape their emotions and personalities? Tanya shared in-depth theories and practical tips with us. Contact Tanya ⁠https://linktr.ee/TanyaCrossman⁠; IG @misunderstoodtck https://www.instagram.com/misunderstoodtck Tanya's previous episode: Ep48 Supporting Third Culture Kids w/ Tanya Crossman Ep86 Childhood Experiences & Third-Culture Kids? w/ Tanya Crossman Tanya's Book: Misunderstood: The Impact of Growing up Overseas in the 21st Century ⁠https://a.co/d/7BJA9e7⁠ TCK Survey till April 2024: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/TCKwellness Books: https://www.amazon.com.au/Incredible-Lives-Courage-Live-Them/dp/1399953109 https://www.amazon.com.au/Unstacking-Your-Grief-Tower-Processing/dp/B09GZKQ1P8 https://www.amazon.com.au/Belonging-Beyond-Borders-Culture-Cultivate-ebook/dp/B0BNLRZYL2 https://misunderstood-book.com/ https://www.tcktraining.com/for-atcks | IG @tcktraining

In this compelling episode, listeners delve into the transformative journey that Nate and Katy Wiens experienced as they transitioned from coaching at a prominent American university to embarking on a profound international ministry with Avant Ministries and serving at Black Forest Academy – an accredited international Christian school. Through candid insights, they share the arduous process of navigating the challenges inherent in such a significant life shift. From the complexities of identifying a suitable sending agency to the daunting task of uprooting their lives from familiarity, the family sheds light on the intricacies of raising essential financial support and acclimating to a foreign culture and language. Their narrative underscores the resilience required to navigate the uncertainties of transitioning into the world of Third Culture Kids (TCK) while maintaining a steadfast commitment to their faith-driven mission. At the heart of their narrative lies the family's poignant motto: "keeping our 'yes' on the table." This powerful mantra serves not only as a guiding principle but also as a testament to their unwavering faith and dedication to their missional journey. Through the lens of their experiences, listeners glean valuable insights into the profound impact of maintaining openness to life's myriad opportunities and challenges. Their story resonates as a testament to the transformative power of faith and perseverance in navigating the complexities of cross-cultural ministry and embracing the unknown with courage and conviction.   Another episode on the TCK The Third Culture Kid (TCK) Cultural Adaptability in a Multicultural World EP #75. In this podcast episode, my guest, Brooke Wiens, delves into the intriguing topic of "Cultural Adaptability in a Multicultural World," focusing on Third Culture Kids (TCKs). Ms. Wiens, an Emergent Bilingual Teacher in North Kansas City Schools, shares her unique perspective as a TCK herself, having grown up in West Africa and experiencing the challenges of re-entry into the US every four years. With a rich background as a traveler and global thinker, she emphasizes the importance of creating a sense of safety and belonging for children from diverse cultural backgrounds. As a board member of Interaction International, a ministry dedicated to supporting TCKs, Ms. Wiens sheds light on the increasing global population of over 220 million TCKs. The episode explores her role as a teacher in connecting with families and fostering a sense of belonging for children navigating the complexities of cultural adaptation.

Author Marci Renée shares about the adventures of Pierre in her latest children's book, My Tower Is Tumbling, and her family's experiences after many years of living overseas. Listen in for stories and practical tips for unstacking the accumulated griefs of Third Culture Kids. Marci's website, The Cultural Story-weaver Coloring book for My Tower Is Tumbling - complete this to be entered into a giveaway! “What is unique to TCKs is that there is so much transition.” “We stuff it all in our suitcase… and we take it to the next place, and it just starts getting heavier and heavier.” “If we as parents are able to share some of our own journey of processing our griefs and losses, that's going to create safety and trust.” “We know that there are going to be griefs and losses… There's something about preparing yourself. It makes the landing a little bit softer.” Past episodes related to this topic: Third Culture Kids with Michele Phoenix TCKs and the Grief Tower with Lauren Wells Transitions with Amy Young The Practice of Processing with Elizabeth Vahey Smith Returning Well with Melissa Chaplin What's changing our lives: Keane: Considering the question: Where do you typically see yourself in stories? Heather: Fireplace Marci: Changes in the lives of her children Weekly Spotlight: LIFE International School We'd love to hear from you! podcast@teachbeyond.org Podcast Website: https://teachbeyond.org/podcast Learn about TeachBeyond: https://teachbeyond.org/ 

Here are three key takeaways from the conversation with our exceptional guest, Rachel Cason author of

Ericka Lopez-Harris gives a Biblical and practical understanding of lament in the life of a global worker. ABOUT ERICKA LOPEZ-HARRIS: Ericka Lopez-Harris has been serving in cross-cultural ministries since 1992. In 2010, she joined Oasis Rest International (formally known as Life Impact Ministries) with a desire to further the Gospel by strengthening global Workers. Ericka Lopez-Harris also facilitates grief workshops for ministry leaders primarily living cross culturally. Providing coaching and caregiving retreats for countless leaders, she is honored that many find her “easy to talk to” including strangers in the grocery line. Her lamenting poem, "My Soul's Winter" received the “Author's Pick” award and is published in Poetry in Winter. She studied Psychology at California State University Long Beach. Her expansive learning of loss and life transitions occurred while living in 12 different countries. Most recently, she, her hubby and two active sons lived in Costa Rica for eight years. Currently living in Bend, Oregon, she enjoys walking near the Deschutes River in the summer and being fireside with a good biography in the winter. Ericka Lopez-Harris gives a Biblical and practical understanding of lament in the life of a global worker. ABOUT ERICKA LOPEZ-HARRIS: Ericka Lopez-Harris has been serving in cross-cultural ministries since 1992. In 2010, she joined Oasis Rest International (formally known as Life Impact Ministries) with a desire to further the Gospel by strengthening global Workers. Ericka Lopez-Harris also facilitates grief workshops for ministry leaders primarily living cross culturally. Providing coaching and caregiving retreats for countless leaders, she is honored that many find her “easy to talk to” including strangers in the grocery line. Her lamenting poem, "My Soul's Winter" received the “Author's Pick” award and is published in "Poetry in Winter". She studied Psychology at California State University Long Beach. Her expansive learning of loss and life transitions occurred while living in 12 different countries. Most recently, she, her hubby and two active sons lived in Costa Rica for eight years. Currently living in Bend, Oregon, she enjoys walking near the Deschutes River in the summer and being fireside with a good biography in the winter. Ericka is also nearing the publishing phase of a resource for teens/young adults TCKs. "Remembering: A creative memory journal about a special person in your life." This journal will use art, story, poems, nature and songs to create a very personal and treasured collection of memories. Find more information about her work at OasisRest.org ADDITIONAL RESOURCE: • Poetry in Winter by Christine Owens • No More Faking Fine: Ending the Pretending by Esther Fleece Allen • Ericka will also be co-facilitating a 5-month cohort for ministry leaders who are actively processing loss(es), meeting virtually starting February 2024. “Journey through Grief: A Cohort for Leaders” Link to Flyer | Link to Registration

On part-two of this episode, we continue our conversation with Gracie Bueno and Izzy Perez, TCKs from El Salvador and Costa Rica. These ladies are best friends that both inspire us and keep us laughing. Join our conversation as we talk about everything from identity, worth, failure, friendship, and clinging to Jesus through all of it. Gracie and Izzy share their own experiences of life before and after truly following Jesus and how they challenge themselves to grow closer to the Lord even on the days they don't feel like it. You'll hear their testimonies and plenty of stories that are real, relatable, and real encouraging as we press on towards following Jesus. What questions do you have about this episode? How can we help support you or your TCK? We'd love to hear from you! Connect with us HERE. HOSTS: Michelle Ellis & Maggi Cartwright SONG: Sunscreen by Vic Davi SHOW NOTES:Psalm 56:8 - “…you have collected all my tears in your bottle…” Proverbs 27:17 - “as iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”Galapagos IslandMacchu Picchu CONNECT WITH US: Website | Instagram COMMON TERMS: TCK - third culture kid MK - missionary kid LAC - Latin America Caribbean

We are thrilled to bring you a brand new episode of Nomadic Diaries featuring  Megan Norton. Megan, an author and daughter of a diplomat, shares her insights on cultivating a sense of belonging for adult Third Culture Kids (TCKs) in her latest book, "Belonging Beyond Borders: How Adult Third Culture Kids Can Cultivate a Sense of Belonging."During the podcast episode, Megan discusses how her book goes beyond the TCK community, exploring the universal human need for belonging. Using analogies from the garden, Megan delves into the patterns and opportunities for belonging, emphasizing the time, effort, and rooting necessary to thrive in new environments.Megan draws from her own highly mobile childhood, having grown up in six different countries. She shares some memorable gardening experiences, such as the beautiful gardens in Vienna, Austria, which hold a special place in her heart. Megan also discusses the significance of rooting in both the garden and human life, highlighting the attachment to people and places that contribute to a sense of belonging.During the episode, we delved into the themes of her latest book, "Belonging Beyond Borders: How Adult Third Culture Kids Can Cultivate a Sense of Belonging."Here are three key takeaways from our conversation that I believe you'll find valuable:1️⃣ Belonging is a universal human need: While the book focuses on TCKs, the concept of belonging extends beyond this specific demographic. Whether you're a TCK or not, understanding how to cultivate a sense of belonging is relevant to all of us.2️⃣ The garden analogy: In my book, I use analogies from the garden to explore patterns in belonging and opportunities for belonging. The garden metaphor is endless and helps us understand the time, effort, and rooting necessary to truly thrive in our sense of belonging.3️⃣ Rooting and attachment: Just like plants in a garden, we need to root ourselves to places and people in order to feel a sense of belonging. Rooting allows us to attach and thrive. However, uprooting can be traumatic, so it's crucial to minimize the associated trauma and invest in the skills required for successful transitions.Support the showNomadic Diaries hosts insightful interviews with professional expats from around the world regarding their experiences and how their worlds have changed!