Podcasts about Vince Miller

What if the greatest transformation in a man's life happens because you stepped in? In Lesson 6 of the Men's Leadership Training series, Vince Miller unpacks K.M.S. — Knowledge, Modeling, Skills — the same pattern Jesus used to build His disciples. This framework gives you a simple, repeatable path for discipling and mentoring men with clarity and confidence. In this session you'll discover: ✔ Why knowledge forms conviction and anchors a man's life ✔ Why modeling matters more than another lesson ✔ Why skills are formed only through real-life practice ✔ How Jesus used KMS to transform ordinary men into world-changers ✔ A simple weekly challenge you can do to start shaping men right now If you want to build men with depth, conviction, and the ability to lead others… this is your blueprint.

You can't do ministry alone. Great leaders don't just lead—they build other leaders. In this lesson, you'll learn how to train a wingman—a brother who stands with you, grows with you, and eventually leads with you. Jesus did it. Paul did it. Jonathan and David did it. Now it's your turn. In this video you'll walk through: • How to identify F.A.T. men (faithful, available, teachable) • How to go deeper in brotherhood • How to equip a wingman using K.M.S. (knowledge, modeling, skills) • How to call out his God-given gifts • How to give him the mission and bring him with you • Why praying together locks hearts and strengthens courage • How to train him to multiply and raise up his own wingman This is how men grow into leaders—side by side, shoulder to shoulder. "Every man needs a brother, and every brother needs a mission." — Vince Miller 1 Samuel 18:3 • 2 Timothy 2:2

Most men think Bible study requires a seminary degree. It doesn't. God's Word is for every man, and Jesus gave us the simplest blueprint: hear it… and do it. In this video, Vince Miller breaks down a 3-step process any man can use to open the Bible, understand it, and apply it—today. No fluff. No confusion. Just a clear path toward transformation. Open the Bible. Run the process. Watch God work.

Launching a men's Bible study? The first meeting sets the tone—and most guys underestimate how much it matters. In this session, Vince Miller walks you through the exact 5-step format he's used for decades to launch strong, intentional, Christ-centered first meetings that build trust and ignite brotherhood. You'll learn: ✔️ How atmosphere speaks before you ever open your mouth ✔️ Why preparation communicates value and safety ✔️ How to lead prayer and purpose with clarity—not pressure ✔️ The secret to building fast trust through story-sharing ✔️ How to cast vision without selling or hyping ✔️ Why a strong closing prayer seals the moment and sets direction Whether you're meeting in a church classroom, a garage with a space heater, or your living room—this format works anywhere. If you can follow five steps, you can lead a fantastic first meeting. REFLECTION + SMALL GROUP DISCUSSION QUESTIONS 1. What's one first impression you've had walking into a room that shaped how you engaged? 2. Which part of prepping the room do you think communicates the most value to men? 3. How does starting with a short, intentional prayer shape the tone of a meeting? 4. Why do men need to hear a clear "why" before they engage the "what"? 5. When have you seen vulnerability build trust in a group? 6. Which type of men are hardest for you to lead—talkers or quiet guys? Why? 7. How can you guide story-sharing without making it feel forced or clinical? 8. What vision do you feel called to cast for the men you're leading? 9. Why is a closing prayer powerful, even when it's short? 10. What step from this format do you need to grow most in before leading your next meeting?

What if the next great men's movement doesn't start in a stadium… but in your living room? In this first training video, Vince Miller gives you the exact framework he's used to launch men's groups across the country. It's simple. It's biblical. And every man can do it. You'll learn The Three M's—and you'll walk away with real names to invite, a study to pick, and a time and place to launch your first group. This isn't theory. This is action. Men follow intentional leadership—and today, you step into it. If you're ready to build a men's ministry, disciple men, or create brotherhood around Scripture… this is your starting point. SUBSCRIBE for more men's leadership training, Bible teaching, and practical discipleship content.

In this episode of Faith + State, Vince Miller and his son-in-law, Minnesota State Rep. Elliott Engen, talk about what it means to stand for truth in an age of moral confusion. From discipleship to politics, they challenge believers to stop spectating and start engaging—because when good men do nothing, evil wins by default. Summary: We live in a world that's lost its moral compass—where "my truth" replaces the truth. In this conversation, Pastor Vince Miller and Politician Elliott Engen discuss how moral relativism is shaping our schools, laws, and even our churches. They call Christians to engage—not just complain—by discipling, serving, and standing for what's right. Whether you're a pastor, parent, or policymaker, this episode will equip you to fight for truth with both conviction and compassion. Subscribe for more Faith + State episodes: https://beresolute.org/ Comment below: Where do you see truth being redefined in our culture today? Support Project23: https://beresolute.org/give Timestamps: 00:00 – Welcome to the Vince Miller Show 00:32 – The Pastor and the Politician 01:10 – How Moral Relativism Invades Everything 03:00 – Gen Z's Activism and the Church's Silence 06:10 – Discipleship Everywhere, All the Time 09:00 – Truth as a Religion: The Rise of Subjectivism 12:10 – Lukewarm Churches and Lost Generations 15:30 – Political Apathy and Spiritual Confusion 18:30 – When Older Generations Disengage 20:15 – The Sin of Doing Nothing 21:00 – Jesus: The Man Who Did and Said Something 22:30 – How You Can Join the Fight 23:30 – Final Challenge: Live All In for Him Who Was All In for You Reflection & Discussion Questions Where do you see moral relativism most clearly affecting culture today? Why do many Christians hesitate to "enter the fight" for truth? How does moral confusion in education and politics affect the next generation? What does true discipleship look like in everyday life—not just on Sundays? Why do you think many churches avoid preaching hard truth? How can older generations re-engage in mentoring younger believers? What's the danger of being a "lukewarm" Christian in today's world? What does it mean to "fight" spiritually without being combative? How can believers support godly leaders—both pastors and politicians? What's one action step you can take this week to live "all in for Him who was all in for you"?

We live in an age where truth is no longer discovered—it's declared. Everyone's got "their truth," but what happens when my truth and your truth collide? Summary: In this foundational episode of Faith + State, Vince Miller and Elliott Engen explore how our culture has replaced absolute truth with subjective truth, and why that shift is at the root of today's moral and political chaos. From the public square to personal identity, they unpack how abandoning biblical authority has left us in confusion—and how returning to the Word of God restores clarity, conviction, and courage. Big Idea: The world says truth is subjective. The Bible says the truth is revealed. One leads to chaos. The other to clarity. John 17:17 — "Sanctify them in the truth; your word is truth." Reflection & Discussion Questions: How does the modern idea of "your truth" conflict with the Bible's view of absolute truth? Where do you see "subjective truth" showing up most in today's culture? Why do you think people prefer relative truth over revealed truth? How does John 17:17 define truth in a way that challenges cultural norms? What dangers arise when a society loses belief in objective truth? How can Christians speak truth boldly without becoming combative? What role should Scripture play in shaping your understanding of truth? How can we model truth to the next generation in a post-truth culture? Why is truth foundational to justice, morality, and identity? What step can you take this week to align your beliefs with God's revealed truth?

In a world where everyone is busy redefining themselves, have we forgotten who defines us? Summary In this Faith + State conversation, Vince Miller and his son-in-law, Representative Elliott Engen, tackle one of the most pressing cultural crises of our time—identity. They expose how politics and ideology have turned identity into a battlefield of self-fabrication and division, contrasting it with God's unchanging design revealed in Scripture. Together they call believers to find their true identity not in feelings, movements, or ideologies—but in Christ alone. Chapter Timestamps 0:00 - Opening banter and intro 0:50 - The political manipulation of identity 2:10 - How identity politics divides and conquers 4:45 - The rise of fabricated identities in culture 7:10 - The gender debate: God's design vs. man's redefinition 9:45 - Loving people without compromising biblical truth 11:30 - Why all identities must be surrendered to Christ 13:40 - The confusion and consequences of self-made identities 16:30 - How believers can respond with conviction and compassion 18:30 - Why the church must address identity and gender directly 25:45 - Finding clarity and purpose through Scripture 28:00 - Final call: Live out your God-given identity Reflection & Small Group Discussion Questions 1. Why do you think identity has become such a central issue in today's culture? 2. How do you see “self-fabricated” identities being promoted in schools, media, and politics? 3. What does Scripture say about where our identity truly comes from (see Genesis 1:27, Ephesians 1:3-7)? 4. Why is it hard for people to accept God's definition of gender and purpose? 5. How can Christians show compassion without compromising biblical truth? 6. What does it mean to “lay down your identity” to receive Christ's identity? 7. How does the world's definition of love differ from God's definition? 8. What practical steps can parents and grandparents take to help younger generations understand identity in Christ? 9. How should the church respond to cultural ideologies that oppose biblical truth? 10. What part of your own identity do you need to surrender to God today?

Winning the battle is one thing — staying faithful after the victory is another. Summary: Gideon's story in Judges 8 shows us a hard truth: success can be more dangerous than struggle. After a miraculous victory over Midian, Gideon let pride, vengeance, and compromise creep in — and it unraveled his leadership and legacy. This chapter warns every man that the fight doesn't end when the enemy falls; it often begins when the applause starts. In this study, Vince Miller challenges us to examine how we lead after the win and how we guard our hearts against the subtle traps that success brings. Reflection & Discussion Questions 1. Why do you think success often exposes more about a person's character than failure? 2. What signs of pride or self-reliance do you see in Gideon after the battle? 3. How did Gideon's pursuit of revenge distort his leadership? 4. What does this chapter teach us about the danger of power without accountability? 5. How might Gideon's refusal to be king sound humble, yet still reveal compromise? 6. In what ways can spiritual success lead to spiritual complacency in our lives? 7. How did Gideon's choices impact the nation after his death? 8. Where are you most tempted to relax spiritually after a “win”? 9. What safeguards can you put in place to stay faithful after seasons of victory? 10. How does Jesus model the opposite of Gideon's leadership in success?

What happens when pastors and politicians stay silent? The culture fills the void. Summary In this podcast episode, Vince Miller and his son-in-law, Minnesota State Rep. Elliott Engen, discuss the dangers of silence in both the church and the political arena. They unpack how cultural drift on issues like gender ideology, abortion, and education has accelerated because believers have stayed quiet. Together, they call men and Christians everywhere to break the silence, speak truth with grace, and lead courageously in their families, churches, workplaces, and communities. Reflection & Small Group Questions 1. Why do you think so many pastors and politicians have remained silent on cultural issues? 2. In your own life, where have you been tempted to stay silent instead of speaking truth? 3. Elliott mentioned toxic empathy—how do you see this playing out in today's culture? 4. What practical steps can you take to articulate biblical truth with love in your workplace or home? 5. How does silence lead to complicity in both politics and faith? 6. What did you think about the phrase: “If you're not doing politics, politics is doing you”? 7. What “small untruths” in your own life need to be confronted before tackling bigger cultural battles? 8. What hill are you personally willing to die on for your faith? 9. How can Christians model courage without being needlessly combative? 10. What does it mean for you to “live all in for Him who lived all in for you” in this cultural moment?

This week on the No Regrets Podcast, Vince Miller joins us to share practical guidance for men's small group leaders. As an author, speaker, and daily devotional writer, Vince brings decades of experience and insight on how to lead groups that are meaningful, relational, and spiritually effective. Vince dives into four of the most common challenges small group leaders face: handling the talkative guy, encouraging men to open up, supporting someone in crisis, and modeling the Body of Christ within the group. He offers actionable advice to help leaders create safe, authentic spaces where men can grow in their faith and care for one another. The episode also explores current trends in men's small groups. Men today are seeking meaningful community, opportunities to explore God's Word, and relational environments where they can be challenged and supported. Vince emphasizes that leadership often begins with vulnerability and giving others permission to seek help—for themselves, their families, and the group. Whether you're a seasoned leader or just starting out, this episode will equip you to lead a small group that truly impacts lives. Resources Mentioned: Vince Miller – Resolute Men's Ministry – daily and weekly studies, books, and study guides for small groups

Defining true manhood has never been more challenging. Vince Miller offers a clear, compelling look at what it means to be a man of God. Authentic manhood brings purpose and joy, shown most clearly in the life of the God-man, Jesus. Join Dr. Jeff as he chats with Vince Miller. Vince is the author of over twenty books, a popular speaker nationwide, and the founder of the men's ministry platform Resolute, which provides the largest online library of men's Bible study resources. Vince also reaches hundreds of thousands of viewers through his YouTube channel.  Listen to every episode of the Dr. Jeff Show wherever you listen to podcasts. For more from Dr. Jeff on YouTube visit http://bit.ly/3flbj2j For more resources from Summit Ministries visit their Resource Library at www.summit.org/resources/

Vince Miller is an esteemed author and speaker who has dedicated nearly three decades to men's ministry. In this episode, we explore his insights into the challenges and opportunities men face today, as well as the essential elements of forging godly men.Vince draws upon his personal experiences, including the transformative influence of his grandfather, to offer a much-needed perspective on what it truly means to be a man in today's world. We discuss the importance of using natural gifts for spiritual purposes, tackling spiritual complacency, and the power of pain as a teacher.Vince also shares his optimistic vision for a cultural revolution grounded in biblical principles and the resurgence of a younger generation seeking spiritual truth.Whether you're looking to lead a more purposeful life or seeking to understand the intersection of faith and masculinity, this conversation with Vince Miller provides valuable wisdom and practical guidance. Takeaways: Miller emphasizes the importance of understanding masculinity through a biblical lens, advocating for men to embrace their identity in Christ as the foundation of true manhood. He draws from his personal experiences and the wisdom gained from his grandfather, illustrating how mentorship can profoundly shape a man's character and faith journey. He believes that addressing shame and internal struggles is crucial for men to achieve spiritual growth, as it enables them to confront and move past their hidden fears. The podcast discusses the need for proactive spiritual leadership among men, encouraging men to take initiative in their faith and community rather than remaining passive or reactive. CONNECT WITH VINCE MILLERBuy "Essential Elements: Forging Godly Men"Vince Miller's WebsiteSubscribe to the Daily DevoYouTubeInstagram

Send us a textMeet Vince Miller: Author, speaker and bible study author for men. Vince's website Be Resolute (beresolute.org) is the largest online library of men's bible study resources and is a wealth of useful studies for every format and topic.In this episode, we discuss the new study "Forging Godly Men" which I did and found it applies to women as well! Vince shares his personal journey of growing up with a single mother post-divorce and his quest to find a father figure, which led him to his grandfather's structured, faith-centered home. This pivotal chapter of his life instilled values of patience and spirituality, leading him to a life of ministry devoted to teaching men about faith.Vince shares stories that give insights into the challenges men face, emphasizing the importance of seeking internal change and a new identity in God. Vince candidly shares the brokenness of his personal experience to inspire others to seek an authentic relationship with Christ.For those eager to grow in their faith, Vince Miller offers a wealth of resources tailored for spiritual enrichment. From daily devotionals and Bible studies to engaging speaking engagements, there's something for everyone, both men and women alike. Connect with Vince and discover his Bible Study resources at https://beresolute.org/ Order Stephanie's new book Imagine More: Do What You Love, Discover Your Potential Learn more at StephanieNelson.comFollow us on Instagram @stephanie_nelson_cmFollow us on Facebook at CouponMom

Vince Miller is an author, speaker, and men's ministry leader. In this episode we talk about men's based ministry, a true “Guys” Like Us themed podcast ! We talk about our identity and relationship with God as we are Son's of the Father. In particular we ask the question if men's rites of passages are helpful or not! Guys, tune in and jump on the conversation about some important moments of discussion we need to have together. Vince can be found where books are sold and beresolute.org. If you are interested in connecting with the Guys Like Us, email Tyler at tbrondyk@theguyslikeus.com!

In this episode, Sathiya talks to Vince Miller to tackle the big questions men wrestle with in today's world. Together, they uncover the timeless challenges men face, explore the powerful connection between identity in Christ and true purpose, and offer fresh insights into the difference between cultural masculinity and biblical manhood. From navigating sin patterns to establishing daily spiritual rhythms, this conversation dives deep into how men can transform their lives through prayer, repentance, and meaningful connection with God. Vince also shares practical strategies for integrating faith into everyday life, especially in the midst of parenting and the fast-paced demands of modern life. If you're looking for inspiration, clarity, and actionable steps to redefine your walk with God, this episode is a must-listen! 00:00 The Evolution of Men's Ministry 04:48 Understanding Identity in Christ 10:40 Core Needs and Sin Patterns 17:50 Defining Manhood vs. Masculinity 21:55 Finding Purpose Through Following 41:23 Practical Tips for Consistent Spiritual Practices 45:43 Navigating Spiritual Rhythms in Parenthood 55:52 Understanding and Communicating Repentance Vince Miller's website Follow Sathiya on Instagram Check Out Sathiya's Personal YouTube Channel

Send us a textEpisode 185 features author, Vince Miller, who addresses the question of What makes a man? head-on in his first book of the Forged: Godly Men series, providing a clear, compelling look at what it means to be a man of God. Through his own story and life experiences, Vince shares how God took the many shattered pieces of his broken life to shape and grow him for ministry to men. About VinceVince Miller is an author and speaker to men. He has authored 20 different books and is hosted on platforms like RightNow Media, Faithlife TV, and FaithRadio. One of his most widely read resource is the Men's Daily Devo, read by 100,000's. He is a 28-year ministry veteran and the founder of Resolute.  Connect with Vince here.About the Book Essential Elements: Forging Godly Men is a five-lesson Bible study for men, which delves beyond societal views to explore Jesus' life, understand authentic masculinity, emphasize repentance, and align with God's intent. Through personal stories and Scriptural insights, it showcases how God has shaped men throughout history. About Empowered Homes Who we are? The primary purpose of Empowered Homes is to connect church and home by equipping families, leaders and ministries to grow in the areas of marriage, parenting, personal growth. discipleship strategy, family ministry, and leadership development. We value the family as the first institution designed by God for spiritual formation, relationships, and reflecting His image. We seek to ensure that every element of church life supports and equips that essential role. What we do? Empowered Homes Ministry provides practical, gospel-based resources to connect church and home. The majority of our resources are offered online through our website empoweredhomes.org. We also partner with churches and ministries to provide conferences, equipping events & ministry coaching.Empowered Homes Podcast Show us some Love! Do you appreciate The Empowered Homes Podcast? Like, subscribe, comment, share. Every bit of your engagement helps us be open-handed in sharing resources to grow strong families, leaders and ministries. Thanks for your help in Empowering Homes for the gospel! FB : https://www.facebook.com/EmpoweredHomesResources Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/empoweredhomesresources/ Youtube: ...

Subscriber-only episodeOn today's PoM Podcast I sat down and spoke with Vince Miller, author of "Authentic Masculinity in a Chaotic World." In his book he tackles the topic of “What makes a man?” It's a tough question to answer, particularly in today's chaotic world. Defining authentic manhood has never been more challenging. Vince Miller tackles this crucial topic head-on in his new book, Essential Elements: Forging Godly Men—the first in his anticipated Forged: Godly Men series. Just released, this five-lesson Bible study goes beyond the surface, challenging men to delve deep into the heart of authentic masculinity as designed by God.Vince invites readers on a transformative journey that redefines manhood not by societal standards, but by the timeless truths found in Scripture. Drawing from personal experiences and biblical insights, Miller's study examines the life of Jesus as the ultimate blueprint for true masculinity. Through this exploration, men will discover how to align with God's intent, embrace repentance, and lead with purpose. Learn more here: https://beresolute.org/To learn more about 90 Days of Discipline: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/90-days-of-discipline Build your own local Tribe with Tribe Builder: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/tribe-builderRegister for our 2025 Fall Men's Retreat: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/2025-mens-retreatThis podcast is sponsored by Dark Water Woodwork. Dark Water Woodwork is offering a discount code exclusively for the podcast listeners. Use the discount code "PSALM824" to save 15% off of your next beard oil purchase. https://www.darkwaterkc.com

On today's PoM Podcast I sat down and spoke with Vince Miller, author of "Authentic Masculinity In A Chaotic World." In his book he tackles the topic of “What makes a man?” It's a tough question to answer, particularly in today's chaotic world. Defining authentic manhood has never been more challenging. Vince Miller tackles this crucial topic head-on in his new book, Essential Elements: Forging Godly Men—the first in his anticipated Forged: Godly Men series. Just released, this five-lesson Bible study goes beyond the surface, challenging men to delve deep into the heart of authentic masculinity as designed by God.Vince invites readers on a transformative journey that redefines manhood not by societal standards, but by the timeless truths found in Scripture. Drawing from personal experiences and biblical insights, Miller's study examines the life of Jesus as the ultimate blueprint for true masculinity. Through this exploration, men will discover how to align with God's intent, embrace repentance, and lead with purpose. Learn more here: https://beresolute.org/To learn more about 90 Days of Discipline: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/90-days-of-discipline Build your own local Tribe with Tribe Builder: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/tribe-builderRegister for our 2025 Fall Men's Retreat: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/2025-mens-retreatThis podcast is sponsored by Dark Water Woodwork. Dark Water Woodwork is offering a discount code exclusively for the podcast listeners. Use the discount code "PSALM824" to save 15% off of your next beard oil purchase. https://www.darkwaterkc.comSupport the show

ANNOUNCEMENT: After Christmas, we will begin a 22-year journey through the Bible. The first book is The Letter of James. The new format will be 7 days in the chapter (Daily Devo) and then one longer form of teaching from that chapter (The Vince Miller Show). It will feel like seven days of close examination of Scripture, with one high-level teaching that is practical and applicable, tying the chapter together. Also, I want you to pray that God will use this in a special way so that people everywhere will know, grow, and go in their faith, living all-in for Him. Don't force open a door that God has locked shut. Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. In this chapter, we look behind enemy lines at the Philistines as they line up for battle, and David just got shut out from joining the Philistines. Let's see how he responds in 1 Samuel 29:8-9: And David said to Achish, “But what have I done? What have you found in your servant from the day I entered your service until now, that I may not go and fight against the enemies of my lord the king?” And Achish answered David and said, “I know that you are as blameless in my sight as an angel of God. Nevertheless, the commanders of the Philistines have said, ‘He shall not go up with us to the battle.' — 1 Samuel 29:8-9 David is too cunning for his own good. Even his mortal enemy believes he is as blameless as an angel. The swagger, the scheming, and the strategy of this man were unmatched. He managed to stay loyal to Saul and Achish at the same time while surrounded by nothing but enemies. Now you know why he later got into trouble with Bathsheba. He was too cunning for his own good but not clever enough to pull one over on God. As I said yesterday, God had different plans for this battle. David could outstrategize everyone alive, but he wasn't about to outstrategize God. In moments like this, we need to recognize God's sovereignty at work instead of trying to force our own strategies. David's cunning may have kept him alive and in Achish's good graces, but it wasn't enough to override God's plan. Achish's hands were tied—not by his own authority but by the unseen hand of God, working through the Philistine commanders to keep David out of a battle he had no business fighting. Sometimes, God intervenes in ways we don't expect—or even understand. David might have felt ready to fight, but God knew the battle wasn't his to fight. If David had taken one more step, he would have forced a conflict that wasn't part of God's plan. Perhaps you've been there too—eager to step into a situation, convinced you're prepared, only to find the door slammed shut. When that happens, it can feel frustrating, but often it's God who has closed the door. Like David, you must trust that God's plans are better than your strategies. Even when you feel capable and confident in your abilities, remember that God sees what you cannot. He knows which battles will grow you and which ones could destroy you. So today, take a moment to reflect on the doors God has closed in your life. Instead of trying to force open a door He has locked shut, trust His sovereign protection. It's not rejection—it's redirection toward a better purpose. #TrustGod, #GodsPlan, #FaithOverStrategy Ask This: What doors in your life might God be closing for your protection or redirection? How can you trust God's plan over your strategies today? Do This: Reflect on one door God has closed and why. Pray This: Father, thank You for protecting me from battles I'm not meant to fight. Help me trust Your wisdom and follow Your direction. Amen. Play This: Every Closed Door.

ANNOUNCEMENT: After Christmas, we will begin a 22-year journey through the Bible. The first book is The Letter of James. The new format will be 7 days in the chapter (Daily Devo) and then one longer form of teaching from that chapter (The Vince Miller Show). It will feel like seven days of close examination of Scripture, with one high-level teaching that is practical and applicable, tying the chapter together. Also, I want you to pray that God will use this in a special way so that people everywhere will know, grow, and go in their faith, living all-in for Him. Does a present rejection feel like protection or only rejection? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. In this chapter, we look behind enemy lines at the Philistines as they line up for battle, and David just got shut out from joining the Philistines. Let's read 1 Samuel 29:6-7: Then Achish called David and said to him, “As the Lord lives, you have been honest, and to me it seems right that you should march out and in with me in the campaign. For I have found nothing wrong in you from the day of your coming to me to this day. Nevertheless, the lords do not approve of you. So go back now; and go peaceably, that you may not displease the lords of the Philistines.” — 1 Samuel 29:6-7 Achish is trying to save face here. First, it is clear that Achish doesn't have much clout with the other four Kings. Second, it is clear that Achish is also a little embarrassed because it was the "Commanders" and not the "Kings" who pushed back on David's presence. Third, Achish is also trying to be diplomatic in his approach to David by addressing his "Lord or Yahweh" and reassuring him that he has "found nothing wrong" in him. Sometimes rejection is God's protection. David was running a long-range covert plot against the Philistines. There is no doubt in my mind that David and his men were convinced that this would be the moment they would wipe out the Philistines forever. But God had other plans (as you will see in the coming chapter). Right now, God wants to remove David completely from this situation because the Philistines were his tool to remove Saul as King over his people. David doesn't know this but God does. Many times in my life, God has not done what I have wanted him to do. In plenty of these moments, I have thought that God is rejecting my request or even me. But in hindsight, I have learned that his rejection is often my protection. He has protected me from being in a career, on a team, with a person, or in a relationship where I did not need to be. So keep in mind that rejection is not always rejection. It might be God's protection. Ultimately, you might thank the God who was protecting you all along. #GodsProtection, #RejectionIsRedirection, #TrustHisPlan Ask This: Where have you experienced rejection, and how might God use it to protect or redirect you? How can trusting God's plan help you face rejection with confidence and peace? Do This: Praise God for his rejection and protection. Pray This: Lord, thank You for the times You've protected me through what felt like rejection. Help me trust Your greater plan, even when I don't understand. Amen. Play This: Protector.

Author of 31 books and a 29-year ministry veteran, Vince Miller has served in and advised the most notable ministry names. But it hasn't always been this way. Abandoned by his father at the age of two, Vince grew up in a challenging and anxiety-producing environment. He endured the strain of his mother's two failed marriages, as well as her poor choices and drug use. Fortunately, during Vince's formative teen years, his grandfather, a man of faith, stepped up to mentor Vince, and because of this, he devoted his life to mentoring others. Today, he is hosted on major video and radio platforms like RightNow Media, Faithlife TV, and Faith Radio. One of his most widely read resources is the Men's Daily Devo, read by 100,000 worldwide (beresolute.org/mdd). 

ANNOUNCEMENT: After Christmas, we will begin a 22-year journey through the Bible. The first book is The Letter of James. The new format will be 7 days in the chapter (Daily Devo) and then one longer form of teaching from that chapter (The Vince Miller Show). It will feel like seven days of close examination of Scripture, with one high-level teaching that is practical and applicable, tying the chapter together. Also, I want you to pray that God will use this in a special way so that people everywhere will know, grow, and go in their faith, living all-in for Him. Does your obedience make your allegiance obvious? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. In this chapter, we look behind enemy lines at the Philistines as they are lining up for battle. Remember, David still resides in Philistine territory; thus, Achish, a Philistine King, brings David to the battle staging area. Let's read 1 Samuel 29:4-5: "But the commanders of the Philistines were angry with him. And the commanders of the Philistines said to him, 'Send the man back, that he may return to the place to which you have assigned him. He shall not go down with us to battle, lest in the battle he become an adversary to us. For how could this fellow reconcile himself to his lord? Would it not be with the heads of the men here? Is not this David, of whom they sing to one another in dances, "Saul has struck down his thousands, and David his ten thousands"?'” — 1 Samuel 29:4-5 This is more than a slightly embarrassing situation for Achish. He has brought David and his men to battle, but the other Commanders and Kings want nothing to do with David. They cannot imagine battling the Israelites before them with an Israelite “defector” taking up the rear. The Philistine commanders recognized the risk, even when Achish didn't. Even though David had duped one King, he had not duped the other four Kings. David's allegiance was too tied to his past loyalties. Even though he now lived temporarily among the Philistines, his past actions and previous allegiance echoed into the present. His reputation followed him and framed him. So how about you? Does your obedience make your allegiance obvious? Too often, believers live in a way that blurs their obedience and allegiance to Christ. Our lack of allegiance becomes the mark of who we are. Thus, we send mixed signals about our loyalty to the Lord. But David did the opposite. He was unmistakably known for his allegiance to God. What reputation precedes you? If someone at work, out with your friends, or at your kid's sporting event witnessed you and examined your life from the outside, would they see someone loyal to the Lord or struggle to discern where your allegiance lies? If you have any questions about this, it's time to declare your loyalty to the Lord today. Do so with small, consistent, allegiant actions. I promise you, these allegiant actions speak louder than you think and, over time, will define your identity and make your allegiance to the Lord obvious. Let's live loyal and make our loyalty to the Lord unmistakable. #LoyalToGod, #FaithInAction, #ObedienceMatters Ask This: What actions in your daily life clearly show your allegiance to God? Does your reputation reflect unwavering loyalty to Christ? Do This: Take a small, consistent, allegiant action. Pray This: Lord, help me to live in a way that makes my allegiance to You unmistakable. Strengthen my obedience so my life honors You. Amen. Play This: Obey.

Are you fighting a spiritual culture war with those at work? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. In this chapter, we will see the stage for the battle that will end King Saul's life. We are looking behind enemy lines. Let's read 1 Samuel 29:3: The commanders of the Philistines said, “What are these Hebrews doing here?” And Achish said to the commanders of the Philistines, “Is this not David, the servant of Saul, king of Israel, who has been with me now for days and years, and since he deserted to me I have found no fault in him to this day.” — 1 Samuel 29:3 Aphek was the staging area for the battle. All five Kings of the Philistines were gathered there, and it's interesting that the Commanders of the four other Kings questioned Achish's plan to include David and his men. The Commanders are right to question Achish's judgment because he has been duped. Severely duped. David has never compromised his allegiance to Israel or to Saul. Yet, David has made it look like he is fully allegiant to Achish. But he is not! His plan is so convincing that even Achish comes to David's defense, but David has very different plans for this battle. Our workplace can sometimes feel like Aphek—a staging ground for battles against biblical values and godly principles. As believers, we can feel like we are behind enemy lines, navigating a culture that doesn't always align with God's truth. Like David, we have to be strategic and steadfast in our allegiance to the Lord, even when it seems the world is pulling us in another direction. David never compromised his loyalty to Israel or to God's anointed king, Saul. Yet, his strategy made Achish believe he was fully on his side. This wasn't deception for personal gain but a deliberate and righteous tactic to protect his men and God's purposes. In the workplace, we, too, face pressures to compromise—whether it's ethical shortcuts, going along with a toxic culture, or remaining silent in the face of injustice. But God calls us to a higher standard, and we need a counter-strategy to stand firm. Here are three ways to develop a counter-strategy against workplace challenges: Anchor Your Identity in God: Like David, remember where your ultimate loyalty lies. You are first a servant of Christ (Colossians 3:23). When you work as unto the Lord, you can resist the pull to compromise your values. Act with Wisdom and Integrity: David was shrewd in his actions, navigating a complex situation with wisdom. In the same way, we must be “wise as serpents and innocent as doves” (Matthew 10:16), making decisions that honor God and reflect his character. Fight the Right Battles: Not every workplace challenge is worth engaging in, but when the stakes involve truth, integrity, or faith, we must take a stand. Equip yourself daily with prayer and God's Word to discern which battles God is calling you to fight. Even behind enemy lines, God is in control. Make your plans. Develop a spiritual strategy. Trust God to guide your steps. And then remember God may fight this battle for you, which is exactly what God is going to do for David. #FaithInTheWorkplace, #StandFirmInGod, #UnshakenLoyalty Ask This: Where have you felt pressure to compromise your faith, and how can you anchor your identity more firmly in Christ? What workplace battles might God be calling you to face with wisdom and integrity today? Do This: Anchor, act, and fight. Pray This: Lord, help me to remain steadfast in my faith, even when I feel surrounded by challenges. Guide my actions with wisdom and integrity, so I can honor You in every situation. Amen. Play This: Champion.

Are you preparing for a battle, or have you let your guard down? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. In this chapter, we are going to see the stage for the battle that will end King Saul's life. It is going to give us a look behind enemy lines. Let's begin with 1 Samuel 29:1-2: Now the Philistines had gathered all their forces at Aphek. And the Israelites were encamped by the spring that is in Jezreel. As the lords of the Philistines were passing on by hundreds and by thousands, and David and his men were passing on in the rear with Achish. — 1 Samuel 29:1-2 Aphek was the staging area of a battle described in 1 Samuel 4. The Philistines gathered here right before the Ark of the Lord was taken. But this time, we notice "all" the Philistines gathered. This would have included all five Lords, of which Achish was one. The Philistines were organizing, preparing, and plotting their next move. Their forces were united. Their strategy was clear. But here's the detail we can't miss: David and his men, though aligned with Achish for the moment, were strategically stationed in the rear—a precarious position for the Philistines but strategic for David. This scene reminds us of an essential spiritual truth: the enemy is always preparing for the next battle, often behind enemy lines. Just as the Philistines gathered their forces, our spiritual enemy is always on the move, scheming and searching for vulnerabilities. This is why we cannot afford to let our guard down. In Ephesians 6:11, Paul reminds us to "Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil." The battle we face is not one of flesh and blood but a spiritual one, and spiritual preparation is key. If we become complacent, we risk being caught off guard, just like Saul in this moment. Are you preparing for the spiritual battle out there today, or have you let your guard down? Are you starting your day steadfast in prayer, rooted in the truth, and keenly aware? Or have you settled into a false sense of security, assuming the enemy has retreated when actually he is organizing, preparing, and plotting the next move? David was fully prepared for this moment, which is why he was strategically at the rear. Even so, David was about to learn that God had his own plan, but this did not mean David's plans were a waste of time. So again, are you ready for the battle today or at least to see the revelation of God's battle plan? I know this: the enemy is plotting to go to war with you behind enemy lines. #SpiritualBattle, #StayAlert, #ArmorOfGod Ask This: Are you actively preparing for spiritual battles through prayer and Scripture, or have you grown complacent in your daily walk? How can you stay vigilant against the enemy's schemes while trusting in God's battle plan for your life? Do This: Armor up! Pray This: Father, help me to stay alert and prepared for the battles I cannot see. Strengthen me with Your truth and guide me by Your plan. Amen. Play This: Bulletproof.

Have you ever fallen flat on your face? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. In this chapter, King Saul is at rock bottom. He's been abandoned by God, tormented by fear, and reduced to consulting a witch. His desperation is matched only by his hopelessness when Samuel's spirit tells him the worst: there's no escape. Tomorrow's battle will end in his death. Here is how he responds to the news in 1 Samuel 28:20-25: Then Saul fell at once full length on the ground, filled with fear because of the words of Samuel. And there was no strength in him, for he had eaten nothing all day and all night. And the woman came to Saul, and when she saw that he was terrified, she said to him, “Behold, your servant has obeyed you. I have taken my life in my hand and have listened to what you have said to me. Now therefore, you also obey your servant. Let me set a morsel of bread before you; and eat, that you may have strength when you go on your way.” He refused and said, “I will not eat.” But his servants, together with the woman, urged him, and he listened to their words. So he arose from the earth and sat on the bed. Now the woman had a fattened calf in the house, and she quickly killed it, and she took flour and kneaded it and baked unleavened bread of it, and she put it before Saul and his servants, and they ate. Then they rose and went away that night. — 1 Samuel 28:20-25 Saul crumples under the weight of the news, lying face down on the ground, paralyzed by fear and weakened from fasting. But what happens next is unexpected. The very woman he turned to in disobedience—the Witch of En-Dor—steps in to care for him compassionately. She risks her life again by preparing a meal to sustain him. This is a strange scene. Saul, the chosen king of Israel, is reduced to eating a final meal prepared by a witch. It's a sad and sobering reminder of what happens when we live without total dependence on God. Saul's decisions led him to this moment. Step by step, he prioritized his pride over obedience, human approval over divine direction, and his desires over God's will. Staring death in the face should shift life into focus. When we stare death in the face, life suddenly becomes crystal clear. We realize how brief our time is and how much our choices matter. Every funeral I've officiated has been a sobering reminder of this truth. We're not thinking about our accomplishments, possessions, or accolades in those moments. Instead, we're confronted with questions: What will be said of me, and where will I spend eternity? Saul's story is tragic because he had so many chances to turn back to God, but he didn't. His pride, fear, and sin led him to a desperate, empty end. And here's the thing: Saul didn't have to finish life by falling on his face. Neither do you. If you're reading this today, it's not too late. You still have the opportunity to surrender your life to Jesus and let Him rewrite your story. The brevity of life isn't meant to paralyze us like it did Saul; it's meant to wake us up. Jesus Christ came to give you new life—an eternal one filled with hope, forgiveness, and purpose. He gave His life on the cross for your sins, and He rose from the grave to conquer death for you. But here's the key: you have to make a decision. You must trust Him, let go of your pride and sin, and follow Him wholeheartedly. Don't wait until it's too late, like Saul. If you feel God stirring in your heart today, I invite you to take that step. Pray this simple prayer: “Jesus, I need You. I believe You died for my sins and rose again to give me life. Forgive me for my sins and take control of my life. I choose to follow You today and every day. Amen.” If you prayed that prayer, you've just made the most important decision of your life. Let me know by leaving a comment below. #EternalPerspective, #ChooseJesus, #LifeAndLegacy Ask This: Are you living in a way that reflects dependence on God or reliance on yourself? What steps can you take today to prepare for eternity with Jesus? Do This: Don't fall on your face. Pray This: Lord, help me see the brevity of life and turn to You with all my heart. I surrender my pride and choose to follow You today. Amen. Play This: We Fall Down.

Is God not answering? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. King Saul is freaked out right now. God is not answering, and this is what he decides to do. 1 Samuel 28:8-9: So Saul disguised himself and put on other garments and went, he and two men with him. And they came to the woman by night. And he said, “Divine for me by a spirit and bring up for me whomever I shall name to you.” The woman said to him, “Surely you know what Saul has done, how he has cut off the mediums and the necromancers from the land. Why then are you laying a trap for my life to bring about my death?” — 1 Samuel 28:8-9 Saul is working very hard to ignore God's silence! Saul's issue wasn't that God wouldn't answer; it was that God's silence was the answer. Saul had spent years hardening his heart through disobedience. His life was a string of compromises, and now, in desperation, he wants God to come through on his terms and timeline. But God's silence was God's answer to Saul's unrepentant heart. Instead of addressing the core issue—his sin—Saul doubles down, disguises himself, disobeys God again, and seeks out a medium. He knew it was wrong; after all, he had banned necromancers from the land! But Saul wanted what he wanted, even if the means of a medium meant disobeying God again. Isn't that how we can act sometimes? When we don't get the answer we want—or no answer at all—we panic. We rush ahead, trying to make things happen our way. But sometimes, the silence is God's way of pointing us to the core issue: our sin and disobedience. Often this is not the answer we want, but it is the one God wants. So, if you're in a season where God seems silent, ask yourself these four questions: Am I open to hearing His solution, or do I only want a quick solution? Am I seeking His will for my life or help for my immediate circumstances? Am I asking God to fix my situation or to refine my soul? Am I ready to accept His plan, or do I want Him to approve my plans? #GodsTiming, #TrustInTheSilence, #ObedienceMatters Ask This: How do I typically respond when God seems silent? Do I seek His will or rush to my own solutions? Is there any unaddressed sin or disobedience in my life that could hinder my connection with God? Do This: Listen carefully in the silence. Pray This: Lord, help me to trust Your silence and seek Your will instead of rushing ahead with my own plans. Reveal any sin in my life that keeps me from hearing You clearly. Amen. Play This: Trust In God.

Are you talking with the wrong people? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. King Saul is freaked out right now. He glared down at an inevitable war with his two great enemies, Achish and David. And in his despair, he will do exactly what he shouldn't. Let's read verses 6-7: And when Saul inquired of the Lord, the Lord did not answer him, either by dreams, or by Urim, or by prophets. Then Saul said to his servants, “Seek out for me a woman who is a medium, that I may go to her and inquire of her.” And his servants said to him, “Behold, there is a medium at En-dor.” — 1 Samuel 28:6-7 Are you talking with the wrong people? In Desperation, We Make Devastating Choices Saul's fear drove him to desperation, and in that desperation, he made a devastating choice. This decision not only disobeyed God's orders (Deuteronomy 18:10-12) but also disobeyed his own order and reflected his unwillingness to listen to God in his anxiety and impatience. We often do the same, don't we? When life presses in and we feel anxious, we can seek answers in all the wrong places. We might turn to: People: People who have opinions that are opposed to God. Friends: Friends who only tell us what we want to hear. Feelings: Your own feelings that lead you astray. Time To Evaluate So today, I want you to evaluate: Have you deafened your ears to God and turned to consulting the wrong people? Instead, try this: Talk with God in prayer about your issues. Dig into God's Word by reading Scripture. Seek counsel from God-fearing people. Just so you know, consulting mediums are not the right medium. #SeekGodFirst, #GodlyWisdom, #RightVoices Ask This: Who are you turning to for advice when you're anxious—God, His Word, or people who may lead you astray? How can you ensure you listen to God's voice rather than letting fear guide your decisions? Do This: Consult with God and his people. Pray This: Lord, help me to seek Your wisdom above all else and trust Your timing, even when I feel anxious or afraid. Guard my heart from turning to the wrong voices and guide me to listen to You alone. Amen. Play This: God Who Listens.

Are you in a mess? Maybe it is time to reach out for help. Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. At the beginning of Chapter 28, we got a snapshot of what was going on with Achish (the Philistine King) and David, who were planning to go to war with Israel. But for much of the rest of the chapter, we are going to jump to King Saul, and we are going to see a spiritual downward spiral that is demonic. This has been the trajectory of his life and legacy, so let's see what happens first in verses 3-5: Now Samuel had died, and all Israel had mourned for him and buried him in Ramah, his own city. And Saul had put the mediums and the necromancers out of the land. The Philistines assembled and came and encamped at Shunem. And Saul gathered all Israel, and they encamped at Gilboa. When Saul saw the army of the Philistines, he was afraid, and his heart trembled greatly. — 1 Samuel 28:3-5 The Weight of Opposition Saul realizes that powerful and longstanding opposition is coming after him—the Philistines and David. David had been merciful many times, but Achish would not be. Considering both were acting in tandem, it was emotionally overwhelming for Saul. In addition, the Judge and Prophet who once provided Saul direction in these moments, Samuel, is gone, and he had ordered the slaughter of all the other priests. Therefore, Saul is about to be attacked, emotionally distraught, and lacking a voice of wisdom, and now he is looking for something, anything, to grab hold of in the mess he has made. If you have been in this situation, you know nothing is more lonely. Like Saul, we all face challenges that seem insurmountable, whether they're personal struggles, leadership crises, or spiritual battles. The Missing Components But those of you who have been reading Saul's story with me know that Saul made this mess. His spiritual rejection, disobedience, resistance, and denial of community support led him to this outcome. My advice is not to do what Saul did. Instead, GRAB onto these principles and avoid the mess altogether: Guidance: Keep your connection with God strong. Repent: Acknowledge and correct your mistakes. Adhere: Follow God's guidance faithfully. Brotherhood: Foster a supportive faith community. Time To Grab Hold? Maybe today, as you hear this, you feel overwhelmed by life's challenges. You've been trying to face the battles of life alone, and it's left you anxious, uncertain, and maybe even hopeless. Or perhaps you've drifted from God as Saul did, and you sense it's time to return to Him. Jesus came to meet you in the middle of your mess. He offers guidance when you are lost, grace when you've failed, and peace when you're afraid. If you've never given your life to Him, today is the day to grab hold of His truth and surrender to His leadership. Or, if you've been distant, this is your moment to return to the One who never left you. Here's How: Confess your mess, stop trying to be your own king and lord, and surrender to following the Only King and Lord, Jesus, from this day forward. If you're ready to make that decision—whether for the first time or to come back to Him—let me know by writing “Jesus Is My Lord” in the comments below. I want to celebrate and pray for you as you take this life-changing step. When you reach out for the Lord, He grabs hold of you—and He never lets go. Don't wait; reach out to him today. #ReachOutForHelp, #TrustInGod, #FaithOverFear Ask This: What challenges in your life feel overwhelming, and how can you invite God into those moments for guidance and peace? Have you been trying to face life's battles alone, and what step can you take today to reconnect with God? Do This: Grab a hold of Jesus. Pray This: Lord, I confess the mess I've made trying to do life on my own. Help me surrender to Your guidance and trust in Your unfailing love. Amen. Play This: Never Let Go.

Are you cornered by a deception? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. Today, we begin 1 Samuel 28. This chapter is interesting, to say the least. For the most part this paints a final picture of the downward progression of Saul. But before we get to that we see one more glimpse of David and Achish as they prepare to go to war with Israel together! Here are verses 1-2: In those days the Philistines gathered their forces for war, to fight against Israel. And Achish said to David, “Understand that you and your men are to go out with me in the army.” David said to Achish, “Very well, you shall know what your servant can do.” And Achish said to David, “Very well, I will make you my bodyguard for life.” — 1 Samuel 28:1-2 Here, we learn that David might be too clever and cunning. His deepfake is so convincing to the enemy king that he is convinced David should be chief of his secret service detail for life. David has overplayed his hand and now backed himself into his own corner, as he is compelled to wage war against his own people. This is the problem with deception. The storyline must be developed; otherwise, the initial deception falls apart. This means one deception must be built on another and another. If a construction is too perfect, like David, you risk overplaying your hand and cornering yourself. Later in this chapter, David will find a way out of this situation, but in the meantime, we are left wondering, and so is David. When you are in a compromising position, the best thing to do is to be honest and not practice to deceive. Otherwise, the situation will become more complicated, and the deceptive storyline will become more challenging to maintain. Is it time to stop your deception and come out from hiding? #IntegrityMatters, #TruthOverDeception, #FaithfulLoyalty Ask This: When have you relied on deception to avoid conflict, and what consequences followed? How does choosing honesty, even when risky, shape your character? Do This: Stop being deceptive. Pray This: Lord, help me walk in truth, even when it's hard or costly. Keep me from the traps of deception and make me trustworthy in all things. Amen. Play This: The Struggle.

Is another's misconception your deception? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. Here is the final verse in 1 Samuel 27: And Achish trusted David, thinking, “He has made himself an utter stench to his people Israel; therefore he shall always be my servant.” — 1 Samuel 27:12 Achish was convinced that David had turned his back on Israel, pledging allegiance to him for life. But David hadn't abandoned his people, faith, or God. But he was navigating a tight spot he got himself into. David's “deepfake” was a carefully crafted illusion that walked a fine line given the expanse of the deception. This moment reminds me that our decisions sometimes place us in situations where those around us misunderstand our position of faith. People will sometimes misjudge you, seeing your actions without understanding your loyalty to God. In these times, you must remember who you are and who you belong to. As you continue reading, you will see that David's loyalty to God never wavered, even in these tenuous circumstances. Remain faithful if you're in a tenuous situation. Unbelievers around you may perceive a different reality, but don't let that skew your reality or cause you ever to compromise your faith and integrity. Be loyal to God; when the time comes, be clear and uncompromised. Don't let others' misconceptions become your deception. #FaithfulLiving, #IntegrityUnderPressure, #StayTrue Ask This: How do you handle situations where others misjudge your actions or intentions due to your faith? In what ways can you remain faithful when surrounded by misunderstandings about your beliefs? Do This: Don't let a deepfake lead you to deception. Pray This: Lord, help me stay true to You, even when others don't understand my actions or intentions. Strengthen my resolve to honor You above all else. Amen. Play This: Truth Be Told.

What happens when skill becomes a snare? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. David is currently residing in Philistine territory under the shield of Achish, and he is battling enemies of Israel that Saul has left unaddressed. But listen to this interaction with David and Achish in 1 Samuel 27:10-11: When Achish asked, “Where have you made a raid today?” David would say, “Against the Negeb of Judah,” or, “Against the Negeb of the Jerahmeelites,” or, “Against the Negeb of the Kenites.” And David would leave neither man nor woman alive to bring news to Gath, thinking, “lest they should tell about us and say, ‘So David has done.'” Such was his custom all the while he lived in the country of the Philistines. — 1 Samuel 27:10-11 So David was battling enemies of Israel, but according to this text, he was telling Achish he was battling territories in Israel. This was an outright lie. But as you can see, Achish never found out about it because David was wiping everyone and everything out, so there was no paper trail. This is quite a cunning deception by David. It is hard to endorse what David chose to do in this situation. Yes, it was a tenuous situation. Yes, it was cunning. But David is also starting to slip up, and rather than trust in God with a sense of abandonment like he had before, he is now beginning to use his skill and strategy to save himself. And in my humble opinion, the deception and strategy used here remarkably resemble the situation with Uriah and Bathsheba. He uses deception to hide the pregnancy, deception to lure Uriah home, deception to persuade Uriah to sleep with his wife, and deception to put Uriah in a situation that leads to his death. David is trying to hide the paper trail. But in this case, he is trying to hide the paper trail of his sins from God, not Achish. As Sir Walter Scott once wrote: "Oh, what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive" This is the problem with deception. If you practice it even one time, and it works, you will practice it again. Eventually, deception will become entangled with your skill, and you will try your hand at deceiving God, which will bring you to ruin. David's skill once served him well, but that skill became a snare. My advice? Don't follow his example. Don't put yourself in situations that tempt you to deceive. Instead, stay reliant on God. Let Him be your shield, and practice obedience—not deception—in every situation! #TrustGodNotDeception, #LessonsFromDavid, #ObedienceOverStrategy Ask This: Where might you be tempted to rely on your own skill instead of trusting God's guidance? How can you pursue transparency with God in challenging situations? Do This: Don't be deceptive, ever! Pray This: Lord, help me to trust in Your ways above my own skills or strategies. Keep my heart honest and my steps obedient to You. Amen. Play This: Clear the Stage.

Waiting doesn't mean wasting time. Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. David is currently residing in Philistine territory and the enemy king Achish gave him and his army a city called Ziklag where they resided which was right on the border of Philistine and Israelite territory, and here is what happened in the 16 months they resided here: But for today, let's dive into 1 Samuel 27:8-9: Now David and his men went up and made raids against the Geshurites, the Girzites, and the Amalekites, for these were the inhabitants of the land from of old, as far as Shur, to the land of Egypt. And David would strike the land and would leave neither man nor woman alive, but would take away the sheep, the oxen, the donkeys, the camels, and the garments, and come back to Achish. — 1 Samuel 27:8-9 While David is in the "land between," we learn that he does not just sit idly. He is busy doing what he has always done — engaging his call and God's anointed. He is using his time and skill to fight the enemies of Israel. The Geshurites, the Girzites, and the Amalekites were all long-standing enemies of the nation of Isreal that God ordered Israel to devote to destruction, which Saul had not addressed (Deuteronomy 7:1-5; 20:16-18) And there is some violence and gore that might be disturbing here, but you will see tomorrow more detail on why this is. If you are in a "land between," don't sit around idly. Act in obedience. Take the time to refine your God-given skills and talents and do what you see others are not doing that needs to be done. In the doing, God shapes you and reveals to you what you'll do next. #InBetweenSeasons, #ActInObedience, #FaithInAction Ask This: How can you use your current season to refine your God-given skills and purpose? What tasks or battles around you need action that others have left undone? Do This: Don't be idle. Be faithful. Pray This: Lord, help me to stay active and obedient, even in seasons of waiting. Strengthen my hands to do the work you've called me to today. Amen. Play This: Give Me Faith.

Are you in the "land between"? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. We want you to live all in and know, grow, and go with Jesus every day. Check out the show that dropped yesterday on Spiritual Leadership In Your Family. This might be a helpful video if you have been trying to figure out how to do this. Also, we are just a few chapters away from finishing 1 Samuel. So, I want to prepare you for our next book. We are moving to the New Testament and will start the new year with the Book of James! So go to our website and get the Scripture Journal for this book. There is a link below the video or in the show notes. But for today, let's dive into 1 Samuel 27:5-7: Then David said to Achish, “If I have found favor in your eyes, let a place be given me in one of the country towns, that I may dwell there. For why should your servant dwell in the royal city with you?” So that day Achish gave him Ziklag. Therefore Ziklag has belonged to the kings of Judah to this day. And the number of the days that David lived in the country of the Philistines was a year and four months. — 1 Samuel 27:5-7 Achish allotted David a "land grant." In some ways, Achish believed that he was buying David's loyalty when, in reality, David was distancing himself from Achish. Ziklag was a border town between Philistine and Israelite territories. Allotted initially to the tribe of Judah (Joshua 15:31) and later to Simeon (Joshua 19:5), it was lost and came under Philistine control, where it remained until David received it. It was situated in the Negev territory, close enough to Israelite lands for David to maintain connections with his people, but still under Philistine rule, keeping him out of Saul's reach. This strategic positioning allowed David to gain resources and operate independently while avoiding complete alignment with either Israel or Philistia. It was the "land between." Are you living in the "land between"? If so, it's an uncomfortable, undefined space. David left the land of his people but had yet to step into his calling as king. For David, Ziklag was the land between. And sometimes, we find ourselves in similar places — in the middle of what was and what will be. Maybe you're between jobs, between relationships, or in a season of waiting for something God promised but has not yet delivered. In this "land between," God often works in hidden and unexpected ways. In Ziklag, God provided for David through unusual means — through Achish, the Philistine king, who, likely unknowingly, became a part of God's provision. It's a reminder that God can use anyone or anything to sustain us in our “land between.” The people we least expect, the circumstances that seem out of our control — God is weaving all these elements together to prepare us for something greater. But this "between" season can stretch our faith, especially when we don't know how long it will last. Like David, who lived in Ziklag for 16 months, we often want to know the timeline. But the “land between” doesn't come with timelines and deadlines. God uses these spaces to prepare our hearts, refine our character, and strengthen our trust in Him. It's a holding place but also a growing place. If you're in that space today, trust that God is at work. He knows where you are and what you need. And just as David eventually left Ziklag to step fully into his calling, God will lead you out of your “land between” in His perfect timing. So, lean into this season. Grow. Trust. And have faith that God is shaping you for what's next. I love you and pray that even today, God will provide you with resources, reasons, and resolutions to your "land between." #ZiklagSeason, #FaithInTheWaiting, #TrustGodsTiming Ask This: In what ways are you experiencing a “land between” season right now, and how is God calling you to trust Him in it? How might God use unexpected people or circumstances to sustain you during this season? Do This: Be faithful in the land between. Pray This: Lord, help me trust You in this season of waiting, even when I can't see the full picture. Strengthen my faith and prepare me for what's next. Amen. Play This: Make A Way.

Don't let secular ideologies erode your faith. Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. We want you to live all in and know, grow, and go with Jesus every day. Check out the show that dropped yesterday on Spiritual Leadership In Your Family. This might be a helpful video if you have been trying to figure out how to do this. Also, we are just a few chapters away from finishing 1 Samuel. So, I want to prepare you for our next book. We are moving to the New Testament and will start the new year with the Book of James! So go to our website and get the Scripture Journal for this book. There is a link below the video or in the show notes. But for today, let's dive into 1 Samuel 27:3-4: And David lived with Achish at Gath, he and his men, every man with his household, and David with his two wives, Ahinoam of Jezreel, and Abigail of Carmel, Nabal's widow. And when it was told Saul that David had fled to Gath, he no longer sought him. — 1 Samuel 27:3-4 I mentioned this yesterday, but this could have easily been 2000-3000 people. It's an overwhelming invasion of people in the Philistine city of Gath, and there is no way this did not create social, economic, and religious disruption for either Achish or David. Although David sought temporary refuge in Gath to escape Saul's pursuit, he definitely faced new challenges when he exposed his people to the vanity of spiritually "uncircumcised" individuals. Living among the Philistines for sixteen months subjected David and his followers to ideologies and practices that were contrary to God's ways. In their quest for safety, the people became vulnerable to secular beliefs. We are engaged in an ideological battle in our time, one that is particularly evident in corporate workplaces, educational institutions, and across various forms of social and traditional media. Unfortunately, many believers are unaware of these threats, and in their passivity, they are being actively indoctrinated with beliefs that contradict the truth found in God's Word. What makes this situation even more concerning is that if believers do not regularly engage with God's Word, they may unknowingly accept these opposing ideas as truth, ultimately undermining their faith in God. This is the battle we fight today. Dial up your spiritual awareness today. Spend more time in God's Word. Test ideologies against God's truth. Stop being passive to secular ideas that don't make any sense. Talk with other believers and vet out the ideas that don't seem to align with God's Word. You are always being discipled. It is either by the secular or the spiritual. If you don't engage, you might look up one day to realize that you or maybe your family don't believe in God because you have been too passive for too long. For those of you who have seen this happen in your family and feel responsible for being too passive, I want you to know—it is never too late. Choose to stop being passive and get engaged in the battle. Believe the Father can draw them back. Be active in faith. Pray persistently. Engage in conversation. Be a godly example. Challenge any and all forms of passivity within your heart. Active faith conquers all past passivity. Father, we come to you to seek forgiveness for our passivity. We also ask that you draw our families and friends back to you and the truth in Jesus' name. Amen. #FaithInAction, #TrustGod, #RestoreFaith Ask This: How am I relying on my own strength instead of trusting God in my current challenges? In what ways can I actively engage and disciple my loved ones today? Do This: Stop being passive and engage. Pray This: Heavenly Father, help me to trust in You rather than my own solutions and to actively engage in discipling my loved ones. Strengthen my faith and guide my actions to reflect Your love and truth. Amen. Play This: Lion.

Have you ever met someone whose words appeared genuine but felt unsettling? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. Today, we. Here is what happens next in verses 22-25: And David answered and said, “Here is the spear, O king! Let one of the young men come over and take it. The Lord rewards every man for his righteousness and his faithfulness, for the Lord gave you into my hand today, and I would not put out my hand against the Lord's anointed. Behold, as your life was precious this day in my sight, so may my life be precious in the sight of the Lord, and may he deliver me out of all tribulation.” Then Saul said to David, “Blessed be you, my son David! You will do many things and will succeed in them.” So David went his way, and Saul returned to his place. — 1 Samuel 26:22-25 There are people in this life who make proclamations and pledges that are less than promising. You have known these kind of people. Their motives seem inconsistent or appear to have some hidden underlying agenda. David experienced this firsthand with Saul—numerous times. Saul confesses his sin, professes this to all, calls David "his son,” and invites him to return. However, David knew Saul's heart better than even Saul did and saw right through his empty confession. Still, David's response was both gracious and wise. Instead of accepting Saul's invitation to return, he asked a young man to come and retrieve the king's spear. This was a profound statement about the nature of their relationship. David understood that genuine reconciliation between him and the king would require more than a show and spectacle; it would demand a change of heart and action. David's final words to Saul highlight a vital spiritual principle: “The Lord rewards every man for his righteousness and his faithfulness.” This is the law of sowing and reaping. What we sow in our hearts is reaped in our relationships. David's refusal to engage with Saul was a verdict on the hidden seed sown in Saul's heart. Saul sowed unrighteousness in his heart, and therefore, he reaped it in his relationship with David (and many others). And David was not falling for his empty words and hallow promises. We should always be discerning in our relationships. Believers should practice forgiveness and grace, but we must also recognize when words do not align with actions so as not to subject ourselves to vengeful people. This week, take a moment to evaluate your relationships. If someone consistently speaks one way but acts another, consider how you can maintain healthy boundaries while still demonstrating Christ-like love. Either it's time to have a candid conversation or, like David, extend grace while guarding yourself from ongoing harm. #Discernment, #HealthyBoundaries, #FaithfulRelationships Ask This: How can you discern genuine intentions in your relationships while still extending grace and forgiveness? Are there relationships in your life where words don't match actions? How will you address them? Do This: Evaluate and proceed with caution. Pray This: Lord, help me discern the true intentions of those around me and give me the wisdom to set healthy boundaries. May I extend grace while protecting my heart from harm. Amen. Play This: Trust In God.

Have you ever found yourself in a conflict where emotions ran high, and the path to resolution felt unclear? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. Today, Saul is going to respond to David, who is standing on the hill holding his weapon and water jug. Here is what happens next in verses 17-21: Saul recognized David's voice and said, “Is this your voice, my son David?” And David said, “It is my voice, my lord, O king.” And he said, “Why does my lord pursue after his servant? For what have I done? What evil is on my hands? Now therefore let my lord the king hear the words of his servant. If it is the Lord who has stirred you up against me, may he accept an offering, but if it is men, may they be cursed before the Lord, for they have driven me out this day that I should have no share in the heritage of the Lord, saying, ‘Go, serve other gods.' Now therefore, let not my blood fall to the earth away from the presence of the Lord, for the king of Israel has come out to seek a single flea like one who hunts a partridge in the mountains.” Then Saul said, “I have sinned. Return, my son David, for I will no more do you harm, because my life was precious in your eyes this day. Behold, I have acted foolishly, and have made a great mistake.” — 1 Samuel 26:17-21 David's statement to Saul includes curiosity about two items: The injustice: What David has done to deserve the justice of the Lord's army? The instigator: Who has stirred Saul to pursue him, God or man? Thus, David's reconnaissance mission was not about stealing Saul's weapon and water but about using them to gain intelligence into the injustice and instigator of the current inquisition. David understood that sometimes the battles we fight are not wars fought with weapons but wars fought off with careful questions and inquisitive words. In our own lives, we often find ourselves in similar situations. Maybe it's a conflict with a colleague or a misunderstanding with a friend or family member. The instinct is to react emotionally or defensively, but David shows us a different path. He chooses to address the issue head-on with wisdom. When you are in a verbal skirmish, pause and ask yourself the same questions David did. First, identify the injustice: What is the injustice in this situation? What have I done or not done that has led us to this point? Second, seek to understand the instigator: Who or what is instigating this conflict? Has a fear or misunderstanding ignited the flames of conflict? We can defuse situations by approaching conflicts with this wisdom before they escalate. Use thoughtful questions and words of mercy to seek clarity and understanding rather than allowing human emotions to guide your responses. David didn't return anger for anger, and neither should you. Be inquisitive and let your words be infused with grace, aiming for reconciliation rather than division, vengeance, and war. God, forgive me when I act with a vengeance. May my words and curiosity be filled with wisdom and mercy in every interaction today. #ConflictResolution, #WisdomInAction, #GracefulCommunication Ask This: What steps can you take to approach conflicts with curiosity rather than defensiveness? How can identifying the true instigator in a situation change your response? Do This: Seek wisdom and mercy in conflicts with intriguing questions. Pray This: Lord, help me to approach conflicts with a heart full of curiosity and grace, seeking understanding rather than division. May my words reflect Your wisdom and mercy in every interaction today. Amen. Play This: Kindness.

In the second half of this conversation, Vince Miller shares a vulnerable Prodigal Son story that demonstrates the gracious love of God. He'll also challenge you to pray the hardest prayer you'll ever pray to experience real change. Tune in for timely insights on discipleship, leadership, and embracing your identity as a son of God.   Key Takeaways   The Bible is a story about men.  It's not about being the hero dad; it's about being a child of the Dad who is the hero of the story. If you really want change in your life, you have to pray the hardest prayer of your life: "God, do whatever you want to change me." When you follow the Lord well as a son, you can lead other people into the same following.   Vince Miller   Vince Miller is a passionate speaker, prolific author, and dedicated mentor to men. As the founder of Resolute, he exists to disciple and develop men to lead. Vince has three grown children and one grandchild.    Key Quotes   15:19 - "The reality is that you're going to leave this life with only three titles, disciple, father, husband. That's it. We spend all this time and energy working on all these other titles in our life, and these are the only three you're going to die with. And if we can come to terms with that and become the very best disciple, father and husband we can be, we learn how to do that by being a child of the Father of all mankind. And if we can live in that role and that identity, it makes everything else easier and better, and then we it relieves us of the responsibility to try to be the perfect dad, perfect husband, hero dad, hero, father. It doesn't matter anymore because we follow One who is the hero of the story and we're just a child of Him pointing everyone else to the same Father that we follow. So that's my hope for books like this, especially this one right here that you're talking about today." 18:25 - "Men want you to pray for a change in their life, but they don't often want to be change. In other words, of all these prayer requests I've gotten, I can count on maybe 1 or 2 hands today, how many men have written me saying it is me who needs to be changed, not their circumstances? And that's what I think men fail to understand, is we need identity. We need old identity, a whole fail identity transformation. In other words, when Jesus said, Come follow me, what He was saying is actually come follow Me and leave everything else behind. And we just don't like that. We want our circumstances to change, not us to change. And that's unfortunate because Jesus wants us to change, not our circumstances."   Links from Today's Conversation   Send a Voice Message to DadAwesome Manhood, Courage & Adventure (episode 031 w/ Vince Miller) Resolute  Essential Elements: Forging Godly Men by Vince Miller The Vince Miller Show   Connect with dadAWESOME   Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team Receive weekly encouragement by texting "dad" to 651-370-8618

Stop Drifting & Come Home   Stop Drifting & Come Home P P  GET THE JOURNAL FOR THIS STUDY  THE VINCE MILLER SHOW Do you feel like you are drifting spiritually? There is something and someone that could help. Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. At this point, David and Abishai sneak into Saul's camp, swipe the spear and jar of water, and position themselves on a hill far from Saul. Here is what happens next in verses 14-16: And David called to the army, and to Abner the son of Ner, saying, “Will you not answer, Abner?” Then Abner answered, “Who are you who calls to the king?” And David said to Abner, “Are you not a man? Who is like you in Israel? Why then have you not kept watch over your lord the king? For one of the people came in to destroy the king your lord. This thing that you have done is not good. As the Lord lives, you deserve to die, because you have not kept watch over your lord, the Lord's anointed. And now see where the king's spear is and the jar of water that was at his head.” — 1 Samuel 26:14-16 Have you ever found yourself drifting? Difting from responsibilities that you know are yours alone? We all drift. We get tired, possibly lazy, and drop the ball. That's precisely what Abner has done. He has dropped the ball. The one thing he was responsible for doing was protecting the Lord's anointed, but in this story, he is found sleeping on the job rather than doing his job. This puts everyone at risk, but especially the "Lord's anointed"—Saul! So David literally calls Abner out in front of everyone, which I assume was rather embarrassing for Abner, and Saul, and the entire army of 3000 men. No one likes this experience, especially when it happens publicly. But the truth is sometimes we all need it. So maybe today, if you are drifting, it's time to be vulnerable instead of made vulnerable. Be vulnerable about your spiritual drift. Get honest with yourself about it. Find a believer to help who is through the same drift and who can point the way out. If you can be vulnerable and vigilant, it will save you shame and a lot of public embarrassment. If this hits home today and you have been drifting and feel it's time for a more profound change, you need to know that sometimes the drift we experience isn't just about everyday slip-ups. It's the slippery slide of sin that separates us from God. It reveals a more prominent and deeper longing that can only be satisfied by God. The good news is that no matter how far you've drifted, God has not moved. He's right where he's always been, ready to welcome you home, no matter the distance of your drift. God invites you into a relationship where you don't just survive your spiritual drift—you thrive in a spiritual relationship with him. If you're ready to stop drifting and begin new, you can make a choice today. Choose to surrender your ways, will, weariness, and wandering and accept His salvation and leadership in your life. Jesus's life, death, and resurrection are the only solution to your spiritual drift. If you are ready to do that, you can choose Jesus right now. If you are ready to do that right now, write "I choose Jesus" in the comments below. Let me pray for you: “Jesus, I know I've been drifting, and I want to come back to You. I'm done wandering, and I'm ready to surrender my life to You. Forgive me, guide me, and help me walk with You daily. Amen.” #SpiritualDrift, #ChooseJesus, #ComeHome Ask This: Where in your life do you sense a drift from God's purpose, and what steps can you take to refocus? Who could you reach out to for accountability and support in restoring your spiritual walk? Do This: Stop Drifting and come home. Pray This: Lord, I admit I've been drifting and need Your guidance to return to You. Help me surrender my heart fully and walk closely with You each day. Amen. Play This: Broken Together.

Are you fighting the right battles, or just charging into the chaos without a strategy? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. At this point, David and Abishai sneak into Saul's camp and steal the spear and jar of water from the head of his bed. Here is what happens next in verses 12-13: So David took the spear and the jar of water from Saul's head, and they went away. No man saw it or knew it, nor did any awake, for they were all asleep, because a deep sleep from the Lord had fallen upon them. Then David went over to the other side and stood far off on the top of the hill, with a great space between them. — 1 Samuel 26:12-13 So the obvious question is, why does David take the spear and jar? "The spear" is Saul's instrument of leadership and aggression. "The jar of water" is Saul's source of sustenance in the desert wasteland. Without any act of violence, David symbolically disarmed Saul and took his life. This is a fascinating and strategic move by David. Years ago, I remember my daughter, during her teen years, hitting a phase where she refused to keep her room clean. This was an ongoing battle between her and her mother and I. We would go back and forth about this for months until finally, she drew a line with us and declared her room "eminent domain." We thought this was a bold move because it was "our house" in which "her room" resided. So, one day, when she was gone, I decided to take her door off the frame, hoping that her lack of privacy would motivate her to clean her room. When she returned home, she came stomping upstairs to protest that I had taken her door off her room. To which I responded, "That may be 'your room' but it's 'my door' and I will put 'my door' back on when 'your room' is clean."  She spent the next seven hours cleaning her room because her privacy was more valuable than "her room." There are a lot of ways to fight battles. David's move was strategic. He didn't kill Saul. Instead, he targeted the symbols of Saul's power and sustainability—the spear and the jar. This choice spoke louder than violence because it demonstrated his stealth skill and targeted objects of value to Saul to corner him into a change of heart. Too often, we charge headlong into battles, attacking only the surface issues. We fight for the "room"—the immediate felt need—without considering the real need. For example, when I removed my daughter's door, I wasn't just trying to get her to clean up; I was targeting what mattered most to her: privacy and what mattered most to me: respect. The lesson was more than a lesson in a clean room—it was about responsibility, respect, and meeting the real underlying needs. When you encounter a challenge today, take a moment to ask yourself, "Am I fighting the right battle?" Avoid getting caught up in superficial issues and overlook the deeper needs. If you do, your battles might have more positive and godly results. #StrategicWisdom, #FightSmart, #DeeperLessons Ask This: What symbols of power or value in your life might you need to address to create lasting change? Are you focusing on surface issues, or are you targeting the deeper needs in your battles? Do This: Fight the right battle. Pray This: Lord, help me to see beyond the surface of my challenges and recognize the deeper needs that require attention. Grant me the wisdom to fight battles with strategy and grace, reflecting Your guidance in all I do. Amen. Play This: Surrounded.

Will you take the silent advantage or do what is right? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. This week, Saul is on the hunt for David, determined to capture and kill him. David hears he is camped on the hill beyond him, so he and Abishai go on a reconisence mission. They sneak into the center of camp, where Saul and his commander are dead asleep, and Abishai suggests pinning Saul to the ground with his spear. Then here is how David responds in verses 9-11: But David said to Abishai, “Do not destroy him, for who can put out his hand against the Lord's anointed and be guiltless?” And David said, “As the Lord lives, the Lord will strike him, or his day will come to die, or he will go down into battle and perish. The Lord forbid that I should put out my hand against the Lord's anointed. But take now the spear that is at his head and the jar of water, and let us go.” — 1 Samuel 26:9-11 How do you respond when faced with an opportunity that would give you a silent advantage? Are you spiritually centered or privately selfish? At this point, we know David is tired of Saul's games. It has been years of going around in circles with this man. God has presently given him the upper hand by allowing him to sneak into the center of camp. He is standing at the head of the Commander and the King. He could easily take matters into his own hands and selfishly take advantage. Even Abishai sees the advantage. This is like that moment when you are in line at the grocery store, and the cashier hands you too much money in return. Do you choose to be silently selfish and take the advantage, or do you do what is spiritually right and righteous? Yet David's situation is not simply a matter of incorrect counting by a counter cashier. The man sleeping on the ground before him has acted unfairly and unrighteously for years. Saul has broken promises, divided him from his friends, taken his wife, driven his family into exile, and tried to kill him numerous times. Still, David stands over him and makes a just judgment even when persuaded and presented with the opportunity. David fought many battles. However, it is these battles that capture my attention most in his story. David fights valiantly with the enemy that lies within his own heart—the silent and persuasive battle with his own selfishness. How are you fighting these battles today? When given the opportunity for an unfair advantage do you take it? Financial Gain: Benefiting from overpayments or errors. Workplace Politics: Taking credit for others's work or insider information. Relationships: Exploiting trust or vulnerabilities. Competitions: Cheating to gain a win. Academics: Using unauthorized help or copying. Reputation: Exaggerating achievements. Business: Cutting ethical corners or withholding information. Leadership: Using authority for personal benefit. Job Searching: Misrepresenting qualifications. Social Influence: Slandering to gain a status. Legal Loopholes: Avoiding consequences through technicalities. Consider this list and examine your response when opportunities arise to gain these silent advantages. Remember some of the greatest battles you will ever fight are fought in silence with the sin and selfishness that lie within your own heart. Isn't it time to fight the silent battles and let God claim the victory? #IntegrityInAction, #UnseenBattles, #GodGetsTheGlory Ask This: When faced with silent opportunities for personal gain, do you pause to consider what choice honors God most? How do you respond when integrity challenges you to act righteously, even if no one else will ever know? Do This: Fight the battle with yourself! Pray This: Lord, help me to choose integrity over personal gain, even when no one is watching. Strengthen my heart to fight the silent battles that honor You alone. Amen. Play This: Great Are You, Lord.

Do you act too impulsively, derailing the mission? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. This week, Saul is once again on the hunt for David, determined to capture and kill him. With new knowledge of David's whereabouts, he has assembled a hardened army of 3,000 men. Under the cover of darkness, they lie in wait, encamped near the last known location of David's men As the evening draws near, the tension thickens—what will unfold next in 1 Samuel 26:5-8? Then David rose and came to the place where Saul had encamped. And David saw the place where Saul lay, with Abner the son of Ner, the commander of his army. Saul was lying within the encampment, while the army was encamped around him. Then David said to Ahimelech the Hittite, and to Joab's brother Abishai the son of Zeruiah, “Who will go down with me into the camp to Saul?” And Abishai said, “I will go down with you.” So David and Abishai went to the army by night. And there lay Saul sleeping within the encampment, with his spear stuck in the ground at his head, and Abner and the army lay around him. Then Abishai said to David, “God has given your enemy into your hand this day. Now please let me pin him to the earth with one stroke of the spear, and I will not strike him twice.”  — 1 Samuel 26:5-8 David is fearless, isn't he? But don't forget, he knows Saul, the warriors of Israel, their tactics, and the opportune times to infiltrate their ranks. They are exhausted from a long trip and tired, and David knows gathering intelligence will aid him in understanding his next move. So David and Abishai go on a fast covert mission. What David does here is how every believer should attack sin in our lives. Like David, we should never rush headlong into battle without gathering a battle buddy and intelligence for the challenge. Abishai's eagerness to take immediate action can be tempting, yet it serves as a warning for the eager who want to "throw the spear." When we act too quickly, driven by impulsive emotions or the allure of immediate victory, we risk losing sight of the bigger mission, thus winning a battle and losing a war. We may even find ourselves trapped and surrounded holding a spear of sin in our hand. David's mission is clear: gather intelligence, understand God's will, and then take action. One consistent lesson David has taught us in all his years of running from Saul is not to act impulsively; he gathers intelligence, understands God's will, and then takes action. Today, you should do the same before reacting or responding to any challenge. First, gather intelligence about the situation. Second, take a moment to pray and ask God for insight into the problem. If you have time, journal your thoughts, pray aloud with a battle buddy, write out the pros and cons, and consult God's Word. If you don't have this kind of time, shoot up one of those "silent shotgun" prayers. The ones you say quickly in your head, like: "God, I need your help right now!" Do your best in the heat of the moment to align your actions with God's Will. In the battlefield of life, don't let impulse be your spear; gather wisdom and aim true before you strike. #WisdomInAction, #BattleReady, #FaithfulDecisionMaking Ask This: What strategies do you use to gather insight before responding to challenges in your life? How can prayer shape your decision-making process during moments of impulse? Do This: Gather wisdom, then strike. Pray This: Lord, help me to pause and seek Your wisdom before acting in haste. Grant me the clarity to align my decisions with Your will. Amen. Play This: The Battle Is Yours.

Have you ever felt trapped in a cycle of conflict, wondering if there's a way out? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. This week, we will see a new encounter unfold between David and Saul. You thought Saul was done with David, but he is not. Let's dive into chapter 26, entitled "Restraint & Righteousness." Let's read 1 Samuel 26:1-4: Then the Ziphites came to Saul at Gibeah, saying, “Is not David hiding himself on the hill of Hachilah, which is on the east of Jeshimon?” So Saul arose and went down to the wilderness of Ziph with three thousand chosen men of Israel to seek David in the wilderness of Ziph. And Saul encamped on the hill of Hachilah, which is beside the road on the east of Jeshimon. But David remained in the wilderness. When he saw that Saul came after him into the wilderness, David sent out spies and learned that Saul had indeed come. — 1 Samuel 26:1-4 So we learn David was right back in the same wilderness where he had previously been chased—a barren, rugged place called Jeshimon, a wilderness “wasteland.” This wasn't just a wasteland; it was symbolic of David's life—cut off from his community and clan and constantly on the run. Though Saul had once admitted his wrongdoing outside the cave of Engedi, here he is back to his relentless pursuit with 3,000 of Israel's elite troops. Despite David's hope that Saul's confession would result in a change, the spies' confirmation brought the cold reality: Saul was again back to his old tricks. David, however, did not react or run in despair when he heard Saul's troops were encamped on the hillside. Instead, he wisely gathered intelligence. This wasn't just tactical; it was David's steady, courageous faith at work. David understood that advantage often comes not from sheer strength or emotional responses but from seeking wisdom, practicing obedience, and taking action with faith, even in the wilderness moments of life. When you face repeated challenges or find yourself surrounded, don't let pressure push you into impulsive decisions. Pause for a moment seek wisdom, practice obedience, and take godly action. You will blessed if you do. The impulsive response often results in bloodshed and leaves you living with a lot of regret. #FaithUnderPressure, #WisdomInWilderness, #DavidAndSaul Ask This: How can you seek wisdom in your current challenges rather than reacting impulsively? What steps can you take to practice obedience during difficult times? Do This: Be wise under pressure. Pray This: Father, help me to remain steadfast in my faith during life's wilderness moments. Grant me wisdom and obedience to respond to challenges with courage and grace. Amen. Play This: God I Look To You.

Was it a divine event or only natural? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. In yesterday's devotional, we saw that Abigail's appeal to David works. But now she has to return home to the celebration and tell her husband what she did. Let's see how this plays out in 1 Samuel 25:36-44: And Abigail came to Nabal, and behold, he was holding a feast in his house, like the feast of a king. And Nabal's heart was merry within him, for he was very drunk. So she told him nothing at all until the morning light. In the morning, when the wine had gone out of Nabal, his wife told him these things, and his heart died within him, and he became as a stone. And about ten days later the Lord struck Nabal, and he died. When David heard that Nabal was dead, he said, "Blessed be the Lord who has avenged the insult I received at the hand of Nabal, and has kept back his servant from wrongdoing. The Lord has returned the evil of Nabal on his own head." Then David sent and spoke to Abigail, to take her as his wife. When the servants of David came to Abigail at Carmel, they said to her, "David has sent us to you to take you to him as his wife." And she rose and bowed with her face to the ground and said, "Behold, your handmaid is a servant to wash the feet of the servants of my lord." And Abigail hurried and rose and mounted a donkey, and her five young women attended her. She followed the messengers of David and became his wife. David also took Ahinoam of Jezreel, and both of them became his wives. Saul had given Michal his daughter, David's wife, to Palti the son of Laish, who was of Gallim. — 1 Samuel 25:36-44 I think it is essential to see the comparison between Saul and Nabal today. They are comparable men—wealthy, entitled, and benefiting from David's protection equally. Both had their lives spared by David, both had females who married David, both women confided in David to help him avoid inevitable disasters, and both men died under God's judgment. The comparison is remarkable. But the result is Nabal dies. In contemporary medical terms, it sounds like Nabal had an initial stroke and then fell into a coma and died of starvation. However, we cannot avoid David's divine diagnosis. When David hears about Nabal, he perceives a double divine blessing in this event. First, a blessing of vengeance by God for Nabal's insult. Second, Abigail's blessing of protection for holding him back from doing wrongful harm to Nabal. This is intriguing because we often wonder about God's use of natural means to bring justice and blessing. God often uses natural events as instruments of justice. For example, in Genesis 6-9, He brought justice to a corrupt world through the flood. Also, in Exodus 7-12, God sent plagues involving natural elements—frogs, hail, and darkness—to confront Pharaoh's defiance. In the same way, God also uses natural events to grant blessings. For example, in Exodus 16, he provided manna to sustain his people in the wilderness. Then, in Deuteronomy 11, God promised rain for crops as a reward for obedience, using natural weather to nurture provisions for his people. So, the question remains: Should we interpret Nabal's death as natural or divine? Did God do this? Or was this merely a natural circumstance? And the answer to this question is "Yes!" Like Nabal, we will all die. Death is God's judgment for all creation. What bothers us is the connection of death with God's divine providence. Are they connected? Should we see them as one and the same? David's answer is "Yes!" Those of you who believe in Jesus see the connection here. This is because a spiritual reality is more real than the natural. Your redeemed mind sees the divine work in the natural, and there is great hope for you. While you face physical death, you escape eternal death to live forever with God. When you die, you will be raised into eternal life! This is because those who call on the Lord receive the promise of eternal life in heaven, thanks to Jesus Christ's victory over sin and death. And for those who do not know this, you can enjoy this blessing right now by acknowledging Jesus as your Savior and Lord and choosing to live under his grace and blessings. I invite you today to trust in Jesus and choose life. We all will die as God has determined. But you can live now and forever with God. Surrender your life to Jesus right now. Acknowledge your sins, call on his mercy, and accept his gift of salvation—live now and into eternity with Jesus. Don't be foolish like Nabal, living and dying only to yourself, thus dying here and spending eternity in Hell. Death comes to us all. Choose life in Jesus and receive his blessings. If you're ready to make this decision, you can acknowledge Jesus right now. Take this step by saying out loud, "I choose Jesus." And if you just declared that, pray this short prayer with me: "Lord, I choose life. I recognize my need for You. I surrender my life to Your will, trusting in Jesus as my Savior. I want to live under Your grace and blessings. Amen." If you made this decision today, write "I choose Jesus" below, and we will reach out to you with free resources to help you on your journey with Christ. #DivineProvidence, #FaithAndLife, #ChooseJesus Ask This: How do you see God's hand in the natural events of your life? What steps can you take to trust in God's divine plan amidst difficult circumstances? Do This: Choose Jesus. Pray This: Lord, help me to recognize Your presence in both the natural and divine events of my life. Strengthen my faith as I choose to trust in Your perfect plan. Amen. Play This: I Choose Jesus.

When God interrupts, do you listen? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. In yesterday's devotional, we saw that Abigail interceded for Nabal's foolishness. Let's see if her charming approach works with David in 1 Samuel 25:32-35: And David said to Abigail, “Blessed be the Lord, the God of Israel, who sent you this day to meet me! Blessed be your discretion, and blessed be you, who have kept me this day from bloodguilt and from working salvation with my own hand! For as surely as the Lord, the God of Israel, lives, who has restrained me from hurting you, unless you had hurried and come to meet me, truly by morning there had not been left to Nabal so much as one male.” Then David received from her hand what she had brought him. And he said to her, “Go up in peace to your house. See, I have obeyed your voice, and I have granted your petition.” — 1 Samuel 25:32-35 Have you ever felt the weight of a confrontation and felt tempted to take matters into your own hands? Heated moments cloud our judgment and make it hard to see what God wants to do because we are too focused on what we want to do. In this text, David is hot. He is about to make a grave mistake. He is about to slaughter all the men of Nabal's house at the celebration of the year. But Abigail intervenes. And instead of ignoring her intervention, David interprets it as God's intervention. If you have been reading the story with me, there is an about-face in his attitude and actions. He goes from proclaiming acts of vulgarity to proclaiming a threefold blessing: A blessing to the Lord. A blessing for her wise discretion. And a blessing on her. You need this type of intervention in your life sometimes, especially when you are hot. We all do. But when the intervention shows up, you must see it, receive it, and change. Since many of you have been following me for a while through 1 Samuel, this again is one of those instances in which we see God's wisdom in choosing David. David was willing to see God's intervention and adjust his intention. As you face the challenges of today, be open to God's voice through the people he places in your path. When tempers flare and stress mounts, don't hesitate to pray for God's intervention. Then, when God intervenes, be willing to accept the interventions that interrupt your intentions. Don't plow over people and miss a prophetic voice from God. If you ignore these prophetic whispers, you might miss God's redirect and do something you regret. #Intervention, #DivineWisdom, #ListeningToGod Ask This: How can you better recognize and respond to God's interventions in your life during challenging moments? Who in your life embodies the wisdom of Abigail, guiding you toward God's will? Do This: Pray for divine interruptions in anger and stress. Pray This: Lord, help me to recognize Your voice through the people You place in my life, especially in moments of anger or frustration. Grant me the humility to accept divine interventions that guide my actions and intentions. Amen. Play This: Interruptions (Comedy by Mark Lowry)

Six months ago, Vince Miller became a first-time grandfather. He joins today's episode to share personal insights around multigenerational thinking, assuming the role of patriarch, and the power of being physically, mentally, and emotionally available to your kids.    Key Takeaways   You can be given a title—like father or grandfather—without assuming the role.  Proverbs is predominantly about a father passing on wisdom to a son.  A 30-second conversation can change the trajectory of someone's life.  Fathers need to be present, available, and engaged.   Vince Miller   Vince Miller is a passionate speaker, prolific author, and dedicated mentor to men. As the founder of Resolute, he exists to disciple and develop men to lead. Vince has three grown children and one grandchild.    Key Quotes   16:15 - "I went from a dad who really didn't want to spend time with me to a dad who did want to spend time with me. And he happened to be a Christian and who imparted basic, basic things to me that I needed as a young man and basic lessons like how to treat women, how to eat a meal, how to be polite, how to confront difficulty. And the very, very important things like who is Jesus? What has He done for you? How to have a relationship with Him." 29:31 - "I've also learned a valuable lesson, just about presence. Just about being there when they need you, and that means not being somewhere else. It means not being somewhere else. It means you're physically not somewhere else and that your mind is not somewhere else. I think sometimes for dads, that's a hard mechanism to turn off in our minds because there's plenty of dads who are present but not available. But we need to be both present and available at the same time and engaged."   Links from Today's Conversation   Send a Voice Message to DadAwesome Manhood, Courage & Adventure (episode 031 w/ Vince Miller) Resolute  Essential Elements: Forging Godly Men by Vince Miller The Vince Miller Show   Connect with dadAWESOME   Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team Receive weekly encouragement by texting "dad" to 651-370-8618

When God needs a voice of reason he sometimes sends a charming woman. Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. In this chapter, David sends some men to Nabal to seek generosity. Nabal refused and insulted David. David finds out about it and marches 400 men to confront David. But Abigail, Nabal's wife, will secretly try to intervene and appease David with an extensive goodwill offering. Let's see if this works in 1 Samuel 25:23-31: When Abigail saw David, she hurried and got down from the donkey and fell before David on her face and bowed to the ground. She fell at his feet and said, "On me alone, my lord, be the guilt. Please let your servant speak in your ears, and hear the words of your servant. Let not my lord regard this worthless fellow, Nabal, for as his name is, so is he. Nabal is his name, and folly is with him. But I your servant did not see the young men of my lord, whom you sent. Now then, my lord, as the Lord lives, and as your soul lives, because the Lord has restrained you from bloodguilt and from saving with your own hand, now then let your enemies and those who seek to do evil to my lord be as Nabal. And now let this present that your servant has brought to my lord be given to the young men who follow my lord. Please forgive the trespass of your servant. For the Lord will certainly make my lord a sure house, because my lord is fighting the battles of the Lord, and evil shall not be found in you so long as you live. If men rise up to pursue you and to seek your life, the life of my lord shall be bound in the bundle of the living in the care of the Lord your God. And the lives of your enemies he shall sling out as from the hollow of a sling. And when the Lord has done to my lord according to all the good that he has spoken concerning you and has appointed you prince over Israel, my lord shall have no cause of grief or pangs of conscience for having shed blood without cause or for my lord working salvation himself. And when the Lord has dealt well with my lord, then remember your servant." — 1 Samuel 25:23-31 There are only a few female-initiated encounters between a man and a woman in the Bible: Adam and Eve (Gen 3). Judah and Tamar (Gen 38). Deborah and Barak (Judg 4). Ruth and Boaz (Ruth 3). The woman who anointed Jesus (Matt 26). Abigail and David (1 Sam 25). Of all these, this one is by far one of the most remarkable and longest addresses by a woman in the Old Testament. Abigail accomplishes three goals in this encounter: She intervened for Nabal. She proclaimed David's destiny. She prevented David from sinning. What captures me is how remarkable she is in her approach. First, she comes alone to the dark of the forest to intervene before a powerful man with 400 strapped men. Second, she brings food, the language of active men, to attempt to butter them up. Third, she takes responsibility for her husband, explaining that she should have been more careful to protect him from himself. She feels to blame because she did encounter David's initial messengers and thus feels responsible. Fourth, she uses a prophetic word about David's future to persuade him to look beyond this foolish man and moment into the future and not do something now that would alter his future. Fifth, she constantly calls him "lord," a title repeated 14 times in her speech that women use for their husbands. (Spoiler Alert) Abigail is about to become David's wife. This moment is an incredible moment made so by a charming woman. Here are the C-H-A-R-M-I-N-G qualities we see in Abigail: Courage – She bravely approaches David despite the danger. Humility – She lowers herself, calling David "lord" and offering herself as a servant. Awareness – Abigail wisely understands the situation and David's heart. Respect – She honors David's role and God's future for him. Mindfulness – Her careful actions show respect and wisdom. Integrity – Abigail's words align with her faith in God's plan. Nurturing – She brings provisions, showing care and peace. Godliness – Abigail acts out of reverence for God. Application for Unmarried Men If you are an unmarried man, take note of Abigail's qualities. Look and pray for a woman like this. You might find her in the most unexpected place and encounter. Application for Husbands For those who are married, Abigail's qualities should inspire us to pray over our wives. Pray that God nurtures these charming qualities in her. Affirm your wife's beauty today, and don't be the fool Nabal was. Application for Women Be this woman: C-H-A-R-M-I-N-G. Abigail is a charming woman even though her husband is an entitled fool. But her obedience to God is about to change her life forever. #WisdomInAction, #CharmAndCourage, #BiblicalWomanhood Ask This: When facing conflict, how can you seek wisdom to bring peace rather than escalate tension? What steps can you take to grow in humility, courage, or discernment today? Do This: Pray for a charming woman. Pray This: Lord, give me the wisdom and courage to bring peace and honor into difficult situations. Help me to act with humility, strength, and faithfulness in every moment. Amen. Play This: O Praise The Name.

Three lessons from a stupid man. You can learn from stupidity. Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. Yesterday, we discovered that David sent some men to Nabal to ask for some generosity, and Nabal rejected and insulted David and his men. Today David and 400 of his men are coming to confront Nabal. Let's see what happens in 1 Samuel 25:14-22: But one of the young men told Abigail, Nabal's wife, “Behold, David sent messengers out of the wilderness to greet our master, and he railed at them. Yet the men were very good to us, and we suffered no harm, and we did not miss anything when we were in the fields, as long as we went with them. They were a wall to us both by night and by day, all the while we were with them keeping the sheep. Now therefore know this and consider what you should do, for harm is determined against our master and against all his house, and he is such a worthless man that one cannot speak to him.” Then Abigail made haste and took two hundred loaves and two skins of wine and five sheep already prepared and five seahs of parched grain and a hundred clusters of raisins and two hundred cakes of figs, and laid them on donkeys. And she said to her young men, “Go on before me; behold, I come after you.” But she did not tell her husband Nabal. And as she rode on the donkey and came down under cover of the mountain, behold, David and his men came down toward her, and she met them. Now David had said, “Surely in vain have I guarded all that this fellow has in the wilderness, so that nothing was missed of all that belonged to him, and he has returned me evil for good. God do so to the enemies of David and more also, if by morning I leave so much as one male of all who belong to him.”  — 1 Samuel 25:14-22 There is a lot here, so let me make three observations and points today. First, one of Nabal's servants clarifies that David is a shepherd of shepherds. The young man makes numerous flattering comments that David's men were "very good" to them, they "suffered no harm," they "did not miss a thing," they were "a wall" to us. We learn that his first career as a shepherd had a principled impact on his second career as a leader of men. Never take for granted what God might be preparing you for in one part of your life for the next part of your life. David was the youngest in the family, and while shepherding might have seemed like a meaningless job in the hills of Bethlehem, God used it to prepare David for a career of leadership and protection over the hills of Israel. Sometimes, what appears to be drudgery at the moment might be divine preparation for later. So, if you feel like your present job is drudgery, pay less attention to the drudgery and more attention to the divine lessons. Second, it's evident that everyone in Nabal's family and on his staff knows he is worthless and resistant to feedback. The picture painted of Nabal is complete. He is more than a fool. He is rich and resistant to feedback, which makes him an "entitled fool." Nobody is more stubborn than a leader, husband, or father who is relatively skilled, rich, and resistant to feedback. But resisting all feedback from people, especially godly people, is foolish. Resistance stunts our growth, damages our relationships, and stalls spiritual maturity. When we go too far, it might lead to isolation, getting us fired, or, in Nabal's case, getting him killed. Don't be an entitled fool. Pay attention to feedback from a friend, family member, or colleague today. It might just be feedback from the Father. Third, a savior is inserted into the story—a noble wife and brave woman—Abigail. There is a lot to love about this woman, but notice the similarity between Saul and Jonathan and now Nabal and Abigail to David. David is about to find another ally in the house of an adversary. Like Jonathan had been to David, Abigail is about to be to David. You need allies in this life, godly men and women, to give you direction. Sometimes, you stumble upon them; other times, you must work and find them. Regardless, build alliances with godly believers in this life. They are a source of substance and sanity when stupid people do stupid things, and they might steer you away from becoming stupid yourself. #LeadershipLessons, #FoolishnessToWisdom, #FaithfulAllies Ask This: How can you identify areas in your life where feedback might help you grow spiritually and relationally? Who are the godly allies in your life, and how can you strengthen those relationships? Do This: Have godly allies, and don't be stupid. Pray This: Lord, help me recognize the valuable lessons hidden in my daily experiences and remain open to feedback that fosters my growth. May I build strong alliances with godly people who guide me through life's challenges. Amen. Play This: Christ Our Wisdom.

Have you ever said something foolish because you were thinking something foolish? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. Yesterday, we discovered that David traveled south and learned that Nabal, a wealthy man, was holding his annual sheep-shearing event and celebration. David was seeking a bit of generosity from his fellow countrymen because his men were hungry, and he had provided generous protection to Nabal's shepherds. To make his request, David sent ten young warriors to ask Nabal for help. Here is what happens in 1 Samuel 25:9-13: When David's young men came, they said all this to Nabal in the name of David, and then they waited. And Nabal answered David's servants, "Who is David? Who is the son of Jesse? There are many servants these days who are breaking away from their masters. Shall I take my bread and my water and my meat that I have killed for my shearers and give it to men who come from I do not know where?" So David's young men turned away and came back and told him all this. And David said to his men, "Every man strap on his sword!" And every man of them strapped on his sword. David also strapped on his sword. And about four hundred men went up after David, while two hundred remained with the baggage. — 1 Samuel 25:9-13 Here are a few observations: Nabal pretends not to know David, but he knows who David is. Everyone knows who David is. Even Nabal's shepherds know because David has been protecting them. But Nabal's resistance becomes apparent when he refers to David as "the son of Jesse." This was Saul's derogatory name for David, which tells us he is aligned with Saul. Like the party division we witness in our country, Nabal has a political sign in his front yard, and it doesn't say, "Make Israel Great Again." (Probably too soon.) Second, to add insult to injury, Nabal compares David to a common slave and servant. He says, "There are many servants these days who are breaking away from their masters." Third, Nabal displays his selfishness in his response: "Shall I take my bread, my water, my meat, for my shearers?" My, my, my, my. Nabal's response is more selfish and sinister than simply saying no. He is treating his fellow countrymen who have treated him with respect and charity and returning it with rejection and contempt. David is insulted by this and arms 400 men to confront this foolish man. Compared to Saul, Nabal has no unique anointing and appointment by God. Thus, Nabal (whose name means "Fool") is living up to the definition of his name. Nabal is a fool not because of the political sign he has in his yard but because he lacks relational tack, godly wisdom, and awareness that God has blessed him with wealth to be a blessing. Nabal is a selfish and self-centered fool whose mouth spouts foolishness, and it's going to get him killed. Your mouth exposes your heart. You might be able to fake it till you make it for a while. But if you feel cornered, threatened, or attacked, your mouth will expose what your heart holds and your brain believes. Sometimes, what is stirring around in your heart and mind is not right or righteous. So before you say something foolish today, address the foolishness within your heart and mind. Otherwise, when you are cornered, threatened, or attacked, you might express foolishness and start a war you will not win. #GuardYourHeart, #SpeakWisely, #BiblicalWisdom Ask This: What foolish thoughts are lingering in your heart that could lead to harmful words? How can you speak with greater wisdom today? Do This: Address the foolishness in your heart and mind. Pray This: Lord, help me to guard my heart and mind so that my words reflect Your wisdom. Give me the strength to speak with grace and truth today. Amen. Play This: I Need You/Change My Heart, O God.

Do you ever give without expectation? Welcome to the Daily Devo. I am Vince Miller. So Samuel dies, and after the event, David returns south and here is what happens in 1 Samuel 25:4-8: David heard in the wilderness that Nabal was shearing his sheep. So David sent ten young men. And David said to the young men, “Go up to Carmel, and go to Nabal and greet him in my name. And thus you shall greet him: ‘Peace be to you, and peace be to your house, and peace be to all that you have. I hear that you have shearers. Now your shepherds have been with us, and we did them no harm, and they missed nothing all the time they were in Carmel. Ask your young men, and they will tell you. Therefore let my young men find favor in your eyes, for we come on a feast day. Please give whatever you have at hand to your servants and to your son David.'” — 1 Samuel 25:4-8 Here is the situation: After returning through the wilderness of Paran, David rejoins his men. We assume they are still about 600 men strong. Right about this time, he learns that Nabal is shearing his sheep, which would have been a significant event given the size of his flock. Given that his men are hungry and need a reprieve, David sends some men to greet Nabal, hoping for reciprocity in preserving and protecting them rather than plundering them, which would have been expected given the size of their army. David's request is simple: he hopes they can join the upcoming feast, celebrating Nabal's growing wealth. After all, David understands the life of a shepherd, having been one himself. He merely seeks a little goodwill in return for his already-established protection. In the coming verses, we will see Nabal's harsh and ungrateful response. It's disheartening when you do something good and it's met with a sour-hearted and selfish person. But our frustration is not just an issue of the other person. It sometimes stems from our unspoken and unmet expectations. When we give with the expectancy of receiving something in return—e.g., a simple thank you—and that doesn't happen, it stings. You may not be able to change the heart of a sour-hearted and selfish person, but you can change your heart and expectations. Practice giving without expectation. Buy a friend a meal, give a compliment, offer a gift, and work out the silent force of your expectations. Train your heart to give without expectation, and learn the heart of Jesus, who gave everything to humankind that could offer nothing in return. #GivingWithoutExpectation, #SelflessGenerosity, #HeartOfJesus Ask This: How can you practice giving without expectations in your daily life? What unspoken expectations do you need to let go of to foster a more generous heart? Do This: Give without expectation. Pray This: Lord, help me to give freely and generously without the weight of expectation, reflecting Your heart in my actions. Teach me to find joy in selfless giving, just as You did for us. Amen. Play This: Generous Giver.