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Have you ever wondered if the key to solving a problem isn't having the right answer—but asking the right question?In this Boss Up Books episode, Monica Allen revisits Ask for More: 10 Questions to Negotiate Anything by Alexandra Carter. As a law professor and negotiation expert, Carter challenges the traditional view of negotiation by showing how meaningful conversations begin with self-reflection. Monica explores the powerful questions that help entrepreneurs, leaders, and everyday people gain clarity before difficult conversations and better understand the needs of others. From business partnerships to family relationships, this episode reveals how thoughtful questions can create stronger communication, deeper understanding, and better outcomes.Episode Quote: The ability to answer questions is the greatest resource in learning the truth. ~Carl Jung.What you will learn in this episodeHow to identify the real problem before trying to solve itHow to uncover your true needs without self-censorshipHow to recognize the role emotions play in decision-makingHow to use open-ended questions to create better conversationsHow to listen with the goal of understanding instead of respondingHow to build confidence by learning from past successesHow to determine the first step toward resolving a challengeHelpful Entrepreneurial Resources from Become Your Own BossSign Up for the Level Up Living NewsletterKICKSTART YOUR BUSINESS PROGRAMMonica's FREE ebook: 11 Essential Secrets for Small Business SuccessGet your Become Your Own Boss PlannerNote: As an Amazon affiliate, I may earn a commission for the purchase of the book above. Listen to this episode to discover how asking better questions can transform your business, relationships, and leadership. Be sure to subscribe to the Become Your Own Boss podcast and leave a review to help more entrepreneurs find the show.
Most people are doing branding completely backwards — and it's killing their results. In this powerful conversation, global CEO and marketing thought leader Giuseppe Stigliano reveals why everything you thought you knew about branding is wrong, and what to do instead. You'll discover: Why “pushing” your brand no longer works in today's saturated market The shift from making people want things to making things people want How to apply marketing principles to your career, relationships, and personal brand The five steps every human relationship — and every great brand — follows Why trying to be on every platform is a losing game, and the smarter alternative Giuseppe has advised some of the world's top business leaders, co-authored books with Philip Kotler (the father of modern marketing), and his work has reached over 100,000 people worldwide. This episode isn't just about selling products — it's about understanding people, creating real value, and building a brand that attracts without chasing. If you want to stand out in a world drowning in choices, this is your blueprint. Connect with Giuseppe giuseppestigliano.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Kwame Christian, negotiation expert and host of Negotiate Anything, reveals the conversation tactics most speakers never have time to share on stage — including how to regain control when someone else is running the room, how to draw out a person who goes completely silent, and why most hard conversations at home are doomed before they even start. This is a reverse interview. Kwame was the keynote speaker at the Life and Annuity Conference (hosted jointly by the Society of Actuaries, ACLI, and LIMRA LOMA) — and the audience Q&A ran so long they ran out of time on stage. So conference organizers Karen Terry and Joe Wurzburger brought the best questions straight to the podcast.
Jessica Kriegel, Chief Science Officer at Culture Partners, lost her father two days after he came home for good — and spent the next year drinking to forget it. What pulled her out wasn't hustle. It was surrender. Jessica is the Chief Science Officer of Culture Partners, a global workplace consulting firm that drives results for some of the world's largest organizations. She's also the author of Surrender to Lead and host of the CEO Daily Brief podcast. Her research sits at the intersection of culture, belief systems, and measurable business outcomes. In this episode, Kwame and Jessica unpack why the need to control is quietly destroying results — and why the fastest path to what you want requires you to give up the illusion you ever had control in the first place. Connect with Jessica www.jessicakriegel.com Buy the book: Surrender to Lead: The Counterintuitive Approach to Driving Extraordinary Results Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian welcomes back Brian Ahearn, Chief Influence Officer at Influence People, to discuss the powerful lessons and insights from Brian's new book, "His Story, My Story, Our Story." The book chronicles the complexities of Brian's relationship with his late father, a Marine Corps veteran who faced significant challenges after serving in Vietnam. Brian shares how understanding his father's experiences helped him develop empathy and strengthen their relationship. This episode delves into how these personal revelations can apply to negotiations and influence in everyday life. What will be covered: The story of Brian Ahearn's relationship with his father and the personal journey of reconciling past issues. Insights on establishing empathy and connection with loved ones who are military veterans. Techniques from the science of influence and negotiation applied to personal relationships. Connect with Brian https://brianahearn.biz/ Follow Brian On LinkedIn Order now the Book His Story, My Story, Our Story by Brian Ahearn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if the most powerful stress-relief tool you have access to is completely free — and you've been ignoring it your whole life? In this episode, Kwame sits down with Tracy Teuscher — PR strategist, branding expert, and certified eco-therapist — to explore why modern life is burning us out, and how reconnecting with nature can restore what chronic stress quietly destroys. They dive into the science of forest bathing and phytoncides, why kindness is not weakness, how to set better boundaries without losing your warmth, and what it really means to lead with authenticity in a world designed to distract you. Tracy also shares her deeply personal journey through loss, grief, and a decade of using nature as medicine — and gives you simple, actionable practices you can start today, whether you have a forest nearby or just a stone in your pocket. Connect with Tracy LinkedIn - Tracy Teuscher https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracyteuscher Nature Therapy Earth Website - https://naturetherapy.earth/Nature Therapy Earth Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/naturetherapy.earthNature Therapy Earth YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@naturetherapyearth The Buzz Maker® Website - https://www.thebuzzmaker.com/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thebuzzmaker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thebuzzmaker LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/thebuzzmaker/ Save Ohio Bees Website - https://saveohiobees.org/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/saveohiobees Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/saveohiobees Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
You think you're being authentic. You're not. In this powerful conversation, media expert, keynote speaker, and author Jeanne Sparrow breaks down the real meaning of authenticity — and it's not what you think. Most people confuse authenticity with oversharing. Others stay silent, mistaking fear for integrity. Jeanne explains why true authenticity isn't about saying everything — it's about knowing who you are, what you bring to the table, and how to use that power with intention. You'll learn: Why oversharing kills trust (and isn't real connection) How to tell the difference between fear and truth How to adapt without losing yourself Why your presence speaks louder than your words — and how to own it Whether you're leading a team, having a tough conversation, or just trying to show up more powerfully — this episode will change how you think about being “yourself.” Connect with Jeanne jeannesparrow.com Buy now The Book - FEARLESS AUTHENTICITY - by Jeanne Sparrow Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The future you're building is scaring the people around you — and that's exactly why you feel stuck You're not stuck because you lack vision — you're stuck because the system fears the future you're trying to build. In this powerful conversation, futurist and strategist Hussein Hallak joins Kwame Christian to unpack what it really takes to lead when the future is uncertain, the past is pulling you back, and the system resists every step you take. We dive deep into: Why most people live according to decisions they made 10 years ago How to reclaim your narrative and stop outsourcing your future The real reason leaders burn out when trying to create change How AI is accelerating faster than we can psychologically handle What to do when your organization isn't ready for your vision This episode is for you if you're building something that doesn't exist yet — and you're tired of asking for permission to do it. husseinhallak.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
You're not being ignored because your ideas are bad — you're being ignored because your delivery is forgettable. Buy the book: Speak, Memorably: The Art of Captivating an Audience by Bill McGowan In this episode, Emmy-winning journalist and communication coach Bill McGowan joins Kwame Christian to expose the hidden mistakes even smart professionals make when they speak. From meetings to pitches, presentations to interviews, you're probably missing key moments to influence — and you don't even realize it. You'll learn: Why “winging it” is sabotaging your credibility The 3 parts of a message your audience always remembers How to craft punchy openings, unforgettable closings, and sticky metaphors What “theftosterone” is — and how to protect your ideas from being stolen The truth about authenticity (and why faking it isn't always bad) Whether you're a leader, speaker, or content creator, this episode will sharpen the way you speak — forever. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
For a lot of people, the idea of negotiating feels uncomfortable—something to avoid if possible. It can feel confrontational, awkward, or even risky. But what if negotiating didn't have to be that way? What if it wasn't about pushing harder or being more aggressive—but simply about asking better questions? It turns out that the most effective negotiators don't rely on pressure or persuasion nearly as much as you might think. Instead, they guide conversations in a way that uncovers what really matters to the other person—and to themselves. And that shift can completely change the outcome. Alexandra Carter, Clinical Professor of Law and Director of the Mediation Clinic at Columbia Law School, has spent years teaching people how to negotiate more effectively. In her book Ask for More: 10 Questions to Negotiate Anything (https://amzn.to/2T6WaY8), she outlines a simple but powerful framework built around asking the right questions at the right time. In our conversation, she explains how this approach works, why it's often more effective than traditional negotiating tactics, and how you can use it in everyday situations—from work conversations to personal decisions—without feeling uncomfortable or confrontational. PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS AQUA TRU: Take the guesswork out of pure, great-tasting water. Head to https://AquaTru.com now and get 20% off your purifier using promo code SYSK. AquaTru even comes with a 30-day best-tasting water guarantee or your money back. POCKET HOSE: For a limited time, when you purchase a new Pocket Hose Ballistic, you'll get a FREE 360 degree rotating pocket pivot and a FREE thumb drive nozzle! Just text SYSK to 64000 RULA: This Mental Health Awareness Month, don't just think about your mental health - actually take the step to take care of it. Visit https://Rula.com/sysk to get started. QUINCE: Refresh your everyday with luxury you will actual use! Go to https://Quince.com/sysk for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada, too! SHOPIFY: It's time to turn those "what ifs" into CHA CHING with Shopify Today! Sign up for your $1 per month trail and start selling today at https://Shopify.com/sysk PLANET VISIONARIES : We love the Planet Visionaries podcast! In partnership with The Rolex Perpetual Planet Initiative. Listen or watch on Apple, Spotify, YouTube or wherever you are listening to this podcast. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
We don't get dopamine at the finish line — we get it in the chase. Which means every goal you're killing yourself to reach is quietly wired to disappoint you the moment you arrive. Jess Ekstrom found this out the hard way. She scaled Headbands of Hope to millions in revenue, got acquired, hit the Inc. 500 — and felt nothing within minutes. Her new book, Making It Without Losing It, is the framework she built from the wreckage of that realization. Connect with Jess jessekstrom.com Buy the Book Making it Without Losing It by Jess Ekstrom Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The Love, Happiness and Success Podcast With Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Scientists gave people Tylenol before a social rejection. It worked. Your nervous system treats being left out the same way it treats a broken bone. That is why telling yourself to just get over it has never, ever worked. And it is why this conversation with negotiation expert Kwame Christian is going to change how you see your own fear of conflict. If you're non confrontational by nature, or you've spent years being a people pleaser to keep things smooth, what Kwame explains in this episode is going to feel like the first time someone has accurately described what is actually happening inside you. The fear is not weakness. It is biology. And there is a way through it. In this episode, I sit down with Kwame Christian, CEO of the American Negotiation Institute and host of Negotiate Anything. His framework, Compassionate Curiosity, is built entirely on empathy, genuine curiosity, and a clear sense of what you actually value. We did a live roleplay about household labor and invisible work, and I want to be honest with you: I felt the shift in real time. The resistance just left. That is what this approach does. In This Episode The neuroscience behind conflict avoidance, including why social rejection activates the same neural pathways as physical pain Kwame's origin story as a people pleaser and exactly how he treated his fear of conflict like a phobia to overcome it The difference between being liked and being respected, and why only one of them gets you where you want to go A complete reframe of what negotiation actually is, and why the goal is never to win but to discover what is possible The Compassionate Curiosity framework step by step, including the pre-conversation internal work that makes you harder to rattle The Situation/Impact/Invitation opener that dissolves defensiveness before the hard conversation even begins A live roleplay on the invisible work conversation with a real-time demonstration of the shift that happens when you stop fighting What confidence in conflict actually looks like when it is not swagger Why This Matters This episode is for anyone who has ever bitten their tongue in a conversation that needed to happen. For anyone who has let something slide one too many times and felt a piece of themselves go with it. And for anyone who suspects that the life they want is on the other side of a conversation they have been too afraid to have. The best things in life are on the other side of difficult conversations. This episode will help you get there. Episode Breakdown 03:01 Why Difficult Conversations Feel Like a Threat (Not a Choice) 05:56 Kwame's Origin Story — From People Pleaser to Negotiation Expert 10:16 The Difference Between Being Liked and Being Respected 16:36 Every Difficult Conversation Is a Relationship Test 26:01 How to Stop Caring If People Are Mad at You 39:21 Negotiation Isn't What You Think It Is 51:37 The Compassionate Curiosity Framework — Live Roleplay 01:06:02 What It Actually Means to Be Confident in Conflict Resources Full article: https://www.growingself.com/how-to-have-difficult-conversations/ Free Communication Training (2-part video + workbook): https://www.growingself.com/communication/ Relationship coaching at Growing Self: https://www.growingself.com/relationship-coaching/ If today's conversation stirred something in you, you do not have to work through it alone. My team of coaches and therapists at Growing Self is here. A free consultation, no pressure, just a real conversation about where you are and what might help. Come find us at growingself.com. And if you know someone who avoids conflict to keep the peace, please share this one. I bet you already have someone in mind. With love, xo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Special thanks to this month's sponsors: Upwork — When you need specialized talent fast, Upwork gives you access to vetted professionals. No long recruiting cycles. No guesswork. Just the right person, when you need them. Check it out at upwork.com — posting a job is free. Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts. OSEA - Amazing, clean, science-backed skincare made with the power of the sea. Use code LHS at oseamalibu.com for 10% off your first order Quince — Quality products you'll actually use that feel like luxury without the price tag. Get free shipping and 365-day returns at quince.com/lhs. LNutra Prolon — A science-backed, plant-based nutrition program that supports fat loss, metabolism, cellular rejuvenation, and overall longevity. Head to ProlonLife.com/LHS for 15% off your first order + a bonus gift.
This episode is a special reverse interview. Kwame was invited onto Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby's Love, Happiness and Success podcast, where she turned the tables and dug into the psychology, personal history, and hard-won inner work that built the negotiation expert you know from this feed. If you've ever wondered who taught the teacher — this is that conversation. Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, LP, LMFT is a licensed psychologist, therapist, and relationship coach whose work lives at the intersection of emotional intelligence and real, lasting change. She asked the questions most podcast hosts don't think to ask. The result is one of the most honest, personal episodes Kwame has ever recorded. Listen to the Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
In this episode, world-renowned chef and entrepreneur Robert Irvine reveals the turning point that changed his leadership forever. He built his empire through grit and command — but it wasn't until he embraced empathy that everything truly leveled up. Robert shares the raw, behind-the-scenes lessons that reshaped how he leads people, grows businesses, and connects in high-stakes negotiations. If you think success is just about pushing harder, this conversation will flip that idea on its head. chefirvine.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
They judge you in milliseconds — before you say a single word. And if your presence doesn't match your message, you're not just being ignored — you're being dismissed. In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with presence expert Evan Weiner to explore the hidden science behind how people experience you — and why that can instantly boost or sabotage your power in negotiation, leadership, and life. From physical presence and aesthetic identity to the neuroscience of dopamine and status, you'll learn: Why your style, posture, and polish matter more than you think How to build presence that defends your reputation and commands respect The surprising way your body language could be creating “communication dissonance” What to do today to become instantly more persuasive — without changing who you are If you've ever felt like people don't take you seriously — or don't listen no matter how well you speak — this episode will shift the way you show up forever. Connect with Evan Weiner www.evangweiner.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if the hardest part of negotiation isn't the other person — but the story you're telling yourself? In this masterclass episode of Negotiate Anything, two expert perspectives reveal how identity, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence shape every conversation you have. Columbia professor Beth Fisher-Yoshida shares how slowing down, asking better questions, and resisting snap judgments can transform conflict into connection. Then, negotiation strategist Glenn explores why your identity — who you choose to be in the moment — is your greatest advantage. It's not just about tactics; it's about showing up with clarity, empathy, and intention. You'll learn: Why curiosity outperforms confrontation How your internal narratives drive your outcomes When to push forward—and when to walk away This episode isn't just about negotiating better deals — it's about becoming a better communicator in every part of your life. Because how you show up changes everything.
Most high achievers don't have a skills problem. They have a belief problem — and the scariest part? The very belief that made them successful is often the one quietly holding them back. Muriel Wilkins is an executive coach with over 20 years of experience, co-founder of Paravis Partners, host of the Coaching Real Leaders podcast, and author of Leadership Unblocked: Breakthrough the Beliefs That Limit Your Potential. She has coached some of the most accomplished leaders in the corporate world — and what she keeps finding is that the ceiling isn't strategy. It's a story. Connect with Muriel www.murielwilkins.com www.linkedin.com/in/murielwilkins IG: coachmurielwilkins Buy the Book: Leadership Unblocked: Break Through the Beliefs that Limit Your Potential Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Most people are failing at their goals because they've been taught the wrong way to set them. Buy Now: Big Goals: The Science of Setting Them, Achieving Them, and Creating Your Best Life by Caroline Miller In this transformative episode, Caroline Miller, a leading expert in goal setting and positive psychology, exposes the fatal flaws of the widely accepted SMART goals approach. Caroline reveals the difference between learning goals and performance goals, explains why most people are stuck with "zombie goals," and offers a revolutionary, evidence-backed method for achieving big, life-changing goals. Through powerful stories and actionable insights, she shows you how to cultivate resilience, unlock your true potential, and shield your dreams from those who unknowingly sabotage them. This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to achieve their biggest ambitions without falling into the trap of mediocrity. Connect with Caroline Buy Now: Big Goals: The Science of Setting Them, Achieving Them, and Creating Your Best Life by Caroline Miller www.carolinemiller.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Andy Henriquez turned a rejected job application into a masterclass in human influence — and the only tool he used was a 30-second story. Andy Henriquez is a business storytelling coach, founder of the Master Storyteller Academy and the Million Dollar Storyteller Mastermind, and a keynote speaker who has trained executives at Google, Accenture, Bacardi, and Pratt & Whitney. He's a protégé of the legendary Les Brown — and in this conversation, he makes a compelling case that storytelling isn't a soft skill; it's the most underutilized negotiation weapon you already own. This is one of those rare episodes where the guest doesn't just talk about their craft — they demonstrate it in real time, and Kwame admits on mic that this conversation fundamentally changed how he shows up as a speaker and negotiator. Connect with Andy Andy's YouTube channel www.fivestoryframework.com Andy's Instagram Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if the biggest mistake in your next negotiation isn't what you say—but when you say it? In this masterclass episode, Negotiate Anything pulls back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood—and most high-stakes—moments in your career: the conversation that determines your value. From first impressions to final offers, you'll hear how elite negotiation minds approach the same challenge from radically different angles—and how you can build a strategy that actually works for you. Join host Kwame Christian as he sits down with top experts to break down the psychology, strategy, and subtle language shifts that can mean the difference between leaving money on the table and commanding the offer you deserve. Learn how to master the infamous “tell me about yourself,” navigate early salary questions without losing leverage, and deploy powerful tactics like anchoring, deflection, and strategic repetition—all while staying gracious, confident, and in control. You'll also uncover: Why “no numbers until they love you” can transform your negotiating power The simple phrasing shift that instantly elevates your perceived value How to structure a counteroffer that can add tens of thousands to your salary The hidden role of tone, timing, and emotional discipline in high-stakes conversations This isn't theory—it's real-world negotiation, broken down step by step. And with multiple expert perspectives, you'll gain the clarity to craft your own approach—because success doesn't look the same for everyone. If you've ever second-guessed your worth, stumbled through a high-pressure conversation, or wondered how top performers consistently get more—this episode will change how you negotiate, forever.
When a negotiation catches you off guard, the real battle isn't with the other person — it's with your own mind. Buy the Book Sharp 14 Simple Ways to Improve Your Life with Brain Science Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this eye-opening conversation, cognitive scientist Dr. Therese Huston joins Kwame Christian to reveal how to recover quickly, stay calm, and turn unexpected pressure into strategic advantage. Drawing on neuroscience and real-world stories, they break down why your brain freezes under stress — and how simple techniques can help you think sharper, react smarter, and protect the deal when it matters most. If you want to master emotional resilience and negotiate like a true pro, this episode is for you. Connect with Dr. Therese Huston theresehuston.com Buy the Book - Sharp - 14 Simple Ways to Improve Your Life with Brain Science Follow Therese on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Damon West, Coffee Bean author & ex-felon sentenced to 65 years, reveals the 4-word message from a jail cell that flipped a life sentence into a global movement — and the exact mindset that can do the same for your hardest negotiations. Connect with Damon damonwest.org Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
From sleeping on the beach to building a billion-dollar empire — this episode proves that adversity isn't the end of your story, it's the beginning of your edge. In this powerful masterclass from Negotiate Anything, you'll hear how top performers across industries transform setbacks into strategic advantage—and how you can do the same. Entrepreneur Shaheen Shahn unpacks the mindset behind mastering negotiation, revealing why success isn't about memorizing tactics, but about showing up with presence, authority, and authenticity. Along the way, he shares hard-earned lessons from surviving adversity, navigating high-stakes business, and turning rejection into rocket fuel. Then, through real-world stories of crisis, competition, and resilience, you'll discover what it truly means to negotiate—not just with others, but with yourself. From managing emotions under pressure to building trust in chaotic situations, this episode breaks down how elite performers stay grounded and decisive when it matters most. Whether you're closing deals, leading a team, or navigating life's toughest conversations, this episode will challenge how you think about influence, confidence, and human connection. Because at the highest level, negotiation isn't about winning—it's about becoming the kind of person others trust to win with.
If you've been pushing hard but feeling empty, this episode will challenge everything you believe about high performance. DJ Vanas — Air Force veteran, member of the Ottawa Nation, and author of The Warrior Within (Penguin Random House) — brings centuries of tribal wisdom into a single, urgent message: you cannot be of service to anyone when you are falling apart. DJ has spoken at Fuqua School of Business at Duke University and Yakima Tribal Jail in the same week. His work spans 574 federally recognized tribes, healthcare systems, military organizations, and Fortune-level business teams. He doesn't teach cutting-edge frameworks — he teaches ancient ones that have been proven under the worst conditions in human history. Connect with DJ Vanas nativediscovery.com Buy the Book: The Warrior Within Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Ben Swire is an organizational consultant, facilitator, and author whose work with Fortune 500 teams, law firms, and schools reveals a hard truth: what passes for "connection" at work is mostly just noise. Water cooler talk. Weekend recaps. Friendly but forgettable. [0:08] Ben has built his entire methodology — called Safe Danger — around a single, deceptively simple idea: real trust only forms when people take small, intentional risks to let others actually know them. And the results are stunning — from IT teams at law firms sharing stories of divorce and addiction to leaders rebuilding their teams after workplace tragedies. In this episode, Kwame and Ben go deep on what curiosity, vulnerability, and psychological safety actually mean — and why most people are only operating at a surface level of all three. Connect with Ben Swire benjaminswire.com Buy the book: Safe Danger Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
In this engaging episode, Lauren Sabo takes the reins to explore negotiation strategies with challenging clients. The conversation delves into the intricacies of managing client expectations, recognizing the characteristics of difficult interactions, and setting effective boundaries in professional relationships. Drawing from both their experiences and professional backgrounds, Christian and Sabo provide listeners with practical insights that transcend the legal industry, applicable to anyone navigating complex client interactions. Listeners are invited to learn the art of deal discovery and enhance their emotional intelligence to foster more successful negotiations. What will be covered: Common traits and characteristics of difficult clients and how to anticipate challenges in negotiations. Strategies for managing client expectations and aligning goals for successful negotiation outcomes. Techniques for setting clear boundaries and knowing when to part ways with a challenging client. Follow Lauren on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
They told us that vulnerability was a flaw — a sign of weakness. But what if the truth is the opposite? In this powerful and deeply human conversation, Kwame Christian, bestselling author and CEO of the American Negotiation Institute, sits down with Jamie Librot, former Global Head of Executive Talent Management at JPMorgan and author of Find Your Gobi. Together, they flip the script on what real strength looks like — exploring why our greatest growth begins the moment we stop pretending to have it all figured out.
Joshua Weiss—co-founder of the Global Negotiation Initiative at Harvard University—explains why your greatest set of facts will always lose to a compelling narrative. Josh has spent years collecting real-world experiences through the Negotiation Stories Project to show how conflict actually works when emotions run deep and the "ivory tower" theories hit the real world. If you've ever felt like your perfectly articulated strategy fell on deaf ears, this masterclass on storytelling and "intelligent failure" is for you. Connect with Joshua Weiss The Negotiation Stories Project: NegotiationStories.net Website: JoshuaNWeiss.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
AI can write, edit, even cast—but it still can't do what made TV legend Bonnie Hammer unstoppable: read the room. In this candid conversation with Kwame Christian, Bonnie unpacks the human meta‑skill behind great leadership and negotiation—reading people and context in real time—and how it powered her “Blue Skies” era at USA & SYFY (Monk, Psych, Burn Notice). She shares why “fake it till you make it” fails (and what to do instead), how to hire for humility and team-first culture, why presence matters (“be in the room”), and how to build a spider‑web career that thrives through industry upheaval, streaming shakeups, and the rise of AI. What you'll learn Reading the room: the irreplaceable skill that beats AI and drives better decisions, deals, and teams. Face it till you make it: Bonnie's upgrade to the old career cliché—and how to apply it immediately. Hiring & culture: spotting humility, collaboration, and truth‑tellers (not cheerleaders). Media shifts: streaming, bundling, budget pressure—and what creators should do now. AI & guardrails: what to protect, what to embrace, and where human storytelling wins. Presence & influence: first impressions, listening deeply, and speaking the language of the room. Mentorship that works: why challenging mentors accelerate growth (Barry Diller story inside). Women at work: the most damaging “lie” and how to replace it with actionable strategy. Discount code "KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months TL;DR what is folk? folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build real relationships and close deals. Why is folk better? folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use. folk's value proposition? folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on growing your service business. folk's tagline folk, like the sales assistant your team never had What product details will most excite your audience? • Our seamless integrations with social channels • Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y ou • Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up s Useful links & resources • folk's website • folk's Linkedin • Simo, our CEO's, LinkedIn • folk's Youtube Keywords: Bonnie Hammer, reading the room, negotiation, leadership, team culture, hiring, mentorship, women at work, Blue Skies brand, USA Network, SYFY, Monk, Psych, Burn Notice, streaming strategy, AI in media, presence, career advice, spider‑web career, truth‑teller mentors, Kwame Christian, Negotiate Anything Podcast Connect with Bonnie Buy Bonnie's new book, 15 Lies Women Are Told at Work bonnie-hammer.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Master the secret tactics spies use to win trust and uncover the truth. In this gripping episode, Jeremy Hurewitz, corporate intelligence expert and author of "Sell Like a Spy," reveals the secret persuasion tactics used by the CIA, FBI, and elite intelligence officers. Hurewitz draws on his years of experience working alongside former CIA case officers, FBI negotiators, and counterintelligence experts to share powerful strategies for winning trust, gathering intelligence, and persuading anyone — even when they don't want to share. From the art of elicitation and radical empathy to mastering deception detection and reading people like a book, this episode is packed with real-world spycraft secrets you can use in sales, negotiations, and everyday interactions. Hurewitz also shares jaw-dropping stories of espionage, including how intelligence agents use access agents and covert techniques to gain crucial information. How spies turn targets into traitors — and how you can ethically turn leads into loyal customers. The secret to asking questions that reveal everything without raising suspicion. Why detecting deception is about recognizing red flags — and how to spot them. How to use intelligence techniques to build trust and influence anyone. If you've ever wanted to know how spies get people to reveal their deepest secrets, this episode will show you how to apply the same tactics in your life. Connect with Jeremy Jeremy Hurewitz Buy the Book Sell Like a Spy: The Art of Persuasion from the World of Espionage Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Aaron Calafato — master storyteller, consultant, and creator of the 7 Minute Stories podcast — reveals why showing up as your real self in high-stakes moments is actually a skill you have to train, and exactly how to build it. Aaron has spent 15+ years helping leaders, founders, and sales professionals communicate with genuine confidence. He's built a global audience across Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, and Pandora — with zero ads, zero scripts, and zero pretense. Connect with Aaron Calafato www.7minutestoriespod.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Energy beats strategy — and former Siemens & Alcoa CEO Klaus Kleinfeld reveals the playbook to end burnout, regain focus, and execute at the highest level. In this conversation, Klaus Kleinfeld breaks down why energy management—not tactics—separates elite leaders from exhausted teams. You'll hear how to turn purpose into a “laser,” control emotions under pressure, win buy‑in without formal authority, and build routines that actually stick when life is chaotic. Connect with Klaus Kleinfeld: Buy the Book: Leading to Thrive: Mastering Strategies for Sustainable Success in Business and Life Follow Klaus Kleinfeld on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! Discount code "KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months TL;DR what is folk? folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build real relationships and close deals. Why is folk better? folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use. folk's value proposition? folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on growing your service business. folk's tagline folk, like the sales assistant your team never had What product details will most excite your audience? • Our seamless integrations with social channels • Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y ou • Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up s Useful links & resources • folk's website • folk's Linkedin • Simo, our CEO's, LinkedIn • folk's Youtube In this episode, you'll learn: The Energy Stack: body, mind (emotional + mental), and spirit—and how each fuels performance. Purpose as a Force Multiplier: why purpose focuses energy like a laser and makes hard work feel lighter. Emotion Control Under Fire: observer mindset (“interesting…”), the Buddha “gift” story, and box breathing (4‑4‑4‑4) you can use mid‑negotiation. Beating Burnout with Micro‑Habits: morning training, sleep + light discipline, intermittent fasting, and travel resets that keep leaders sharp. Compartmentalization & Presence: shutting the “monkey mind” to be fully with family or fully at work—on purpose. Buy‑In Without Authority: build a burning platform (competition + customer reality), tell human stories, and pass the “Saturday morning” test. #Leadership #Burnout #HighPerformance #Energy #Purpose #EmotionalIntelligence #Negotiation #ChangeManagement #TeamCulture #KlausKleinfeld #Siemens #Alcoa #CEO #Mindset #Routines
Mónica Guzmán is a journalist who couldn't even have an honest conversation with her own parents about politics — and she turned that painful personal failure into a methodology that works in boardrooms, courtrooms, and living rooms. Mónica is a bridge-builder journalist, Senior Fellow at Braver Angels, host of A Braver Way podcast, and bestselling author of I Never Thought of It That Way. In this episode, she breaks down the neurological and psychological forces that shut down curiosity at the exact moment you need it most — and gives you a practical framework to stay grounded when every instinct tells you to run, fight, freeze, or fold. Connect with Mónica Guzmán Website / Braver Angels: braveerangels.us Podcast: A Braver Way — available wherever you listen Book: I Never Thought of It That Way Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! Resources Mentioned Book: I Never Thought of It That Way — Monica Guzman Book: How Minds Change — David McRaney Book: We Were Made for These Times — Lingo (Black Buddhist nun) Book: American Covenant — Yuval Levin Podcast: A Braver Way with Monica Guzman Concept: Conflict Resilience (CQ) — Bob Bardone [00:21:52] Research: Receptive Language — Julia Minson, Harvard Business School [00:14:00]
Patrick Leddin reveals the negotiation mindset that helped him close a 50/50 book deal with James Patterson — and the one relationship trap that nearly cost him everything. Patrick Leddin is a professor at Vanderbilt University, former U.S. Army Ranger, and co-author of the New York Times bestselling book Disrupt Everything — co-written with James Patterson. He has taught negotiation and leadership for over a decade, and his work has been brought to life as a Franklin Covey course: Disrupt Everything: Innovate for Impact. In this episode, Patrick unpacks the surprising link between disruption and negotiation — and why the habits of a positive disruptor make you a sharper negotiator. Connect with Patrick Leddin: Website: patrickleddin.com / disrupteverything.com Buy The Book: Disrupt Everything Community: Share your disruption story at the community page on his website Franklin Covey Course: Disrupt Everything: Innovate for Impact Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian sits down with expert Jack Schafer to explore the intricate dynamics of deception and how it fits into the broader context of negotiation and human interaction. Schafer, with his extensive background in law enforcement and behavioral analysis, shares insights into understanding deception not merely as a negative influence, but as a complex element of communication. The discussion covers the art of deception detection and techniques to manage conversations where dishonesty is present, emphasizing empathetic and respectful approaches that maintain relationships. Listeners are equipped with innovative techniques that integrate strategic questioning, observation of non-verbal cues, and ways to make people feel respected and valued, which can transform the negotiation landscape. What will be covered: Techniques to detect deception through behavioral and verbal cues. The use of elicitation in negotiations to gain truthful information without direct confrontation. Strategies to handle deception while preserving relationships in negotiations. Connect with John R. "Jack" Schafer Buy Now: The Truth Detector: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide for Getting People to Reveal the Truth (The Like Switch Series Book 2) Buy Now: The Like Switch: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Influencing, Attracting, and Winning People Over (1) (The Like Switch Series) Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Why do smart, successful people feel trapped in constant busyness? In this episode, Dorie Clark — author of The Long Game — joins Kwame Christian to reveal why thinking long-term feels almost impossible in a world that rewards urgency. They explore the psychology of busyness, how scarcity rewires our decisions, and what it takes to find courage, patience, and joy in the process — even when the world keeps screaming “faster.” In this episode: Why “I'm busy” has become the new humble brag The emotional roots of scarcity and overwork How to build meaning instead of chasing more The courage required to think long-term What AI and technology mean for the future of communication Connect with Dorie dorieclark.com Buy the Book: THE LONG GAME How to Be a Long-Term Thinker in a Short-Term World Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
When life shatters everything you thought was safe, what do you do next? In this powerful conversation, emotional recovery coach Louize Yafai shares how she rebuilt her life after losing everything — her marriage, her company, and her sense of self. From surviving financial and emotional abuse to helping others turn pain into strength, Louize reveals the mindset shifts and daily actions that transform suffering into resilience. You'll learn: How to rebuild confidence when you've hit rock bottom The secret power of changing your inner language Why self-compassion isn't weakness — it's strategy How hidden personal struggles silently shape workplaces and leadership Whether you're healing from heartbreak, burnout, or loss, this episode will show you that your lowest point can become your turning point. Connect with Louize www.louizecoaching.co.uk Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
In this episode, Jimmy Wales, the founder of Wikipedia, joins Kwame Christian to explore one of the biggest challenges of our time: the collapse of trust. From misinformation and social media outrage to AI deepfakes and short-term thinking, Jimmy shares what he's learned about truth, integrity, and human connection after decades shaping the world's largest source of information. Discover why trust is disappearing—from our politics to our personal relationships—and what it actually takes to rebuild it. This conversation dives deep into how algorithms shape what we believe, how technology manipulates emotion, and how each of us can bring honesty and balance back into our lives. If you've ever felt that the Internet is dividing us more than connecting us, this episode will change how you see the digital world—and what you can do about it. Connect with Jimmy Buy the book The Seven Rules of Trust: A Blueprint for Building Things That Last by Jimmy Wales Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this gripping episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes self-defense guru Tony Blauer to delve into the intricate relationship between fear and negotiation. The conversation explores how fear impacts decision-making and performance, emphasizing practical mechanisms for mastering fear in high-stress situations. Tony shares insightful stories and psychological frameworks, equipping listeners with strategies to convert fear into a dynamic driving force. Their discussion reveals how understanding and negotiating with oneself can drastically improve handling confrontational scenarios, making it a must-listen for anyone seeking to enhance their negotiation prowess and emotional resilience. - Exploring Tony Blauer's concept of "Making Friends with Fear" and its application to negotiation - The role of self-awareness and stress inoculation in mastering fear in sudden violent or high-pressure negotiations - How to practice and apply fear management techniques in professional and personal situations Listeners will learn: - Strategies to enhance negotiation skills by managing personal fear and self-talk - The importance of maintaining focus and presence in achieving a flow state during negotiations - Practical tips on translating fear into constructive energy that enhances performance and decision-making in high-stake scenarios Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect with Tony Follow Tony Blauer on LinkedIn Blauer Tactical Systems LinkedIn page Blauer Spear website Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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In this episode, Dr. Sunita Sah, a physician turned organizational psychologist, reveals the hidden costs of excessive compliance and how it silently destroys your self-worth. Learn why we mistake compliance for consent, how social conditioning traps you in silence, and the psychology of "insinuation anxiety"—the fear of offending others that keeps you stuck. Discover the true power of defiance, the skill of saying no without guilt, and how to reclaim your voice, your values, and your authentic self. Negotiate Anything:Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan:https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect with Dr. Sunita Sah sunitasah.com Buy The Book Defy: How to Speak Up When It Matters Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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What if everything we've been told about self-improvement is wrong? In this episode, Daniel Coyle, the New York Times bestselling author of The Culture Code and The Talent Code, reveals why he "stopped the presses" on his latest book to change its entire focus. After years of studying high-performers, Daniel realized that flourishing isn't a solo sport—it's a shared experience. We dive deep into why the modern world feels so isolating and how "late individualism" is hitting its limit. Daniel explains the scientific definition of flourishing: joyful, meaningful growth shared. In this episode, you'll learn: The "Stop the Presses" Moment: Why Daniel changed his book's subtitle to focus on the transformative power of community. The Vulnerability Reflex: Why a Navy SEAL commander says the four most important words a leader can speak are "I screwed that up." The Death of Perfection: How to embrace imperfection as the core of creative energy and growth. Mattering vs. Success: A look at Zingerman's $90 million "community of businesses" and how they prioritize soul over scale. The Humanist Revival: Why AI is forcing us to rediscover what it actually feels like to be alive. If you've ever felt like your morning routine or "grind mindset" was leaving you empty, this conversation will show you how to find the "shared improvement" that leads to a truly rich life. Connect with Daniel Coyle Website & Social Media Links: https://danielcoyle.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniel-coyle-32830310/ https://x.com/danielcoyle https://www.facebook.com/danielcoyleauthor/ Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni!Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anythingincogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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If you've ever felt like quitting, this conversation will help you keep going. In this episode, we sit down with Shawn French, creator of The Determined Society, to break down what it really takes to push through setbacks, stay disciplined, and keep moving forward when life gets hard.Negotiate Anything:Take your personal data back with Incogni!Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan:https://incogni.com/anythingincogni.comPersonal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect with Shawn French: • Instagram: @theShawnFrench • Podcast: The Determined Society (Spotify, YouTube, Apple Podcasts) Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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Most people burn out chasing success… but what if “fun” is the missing ingredient for sustainable growth? In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Dr. Mike Rucker (behavioral scientist, author of The Fun Habit) to unpack the science of fun, why chasing happiness can trap you on the hedonic treadmill, and how small “micro-moments” of joy help you build resilience, connection, and long-term performance. Negotiate Anything:Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan:https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect With Dr. Mike Rucker michaelrucker.com Buy the Book The Fun Habit: How the Pursuit of Joy and Wonder Can Change Your Life Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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Kwame Christian and Tom Hardin (Tipper X) explore why ethical breakdowns happen before anyone can see them—inside private rationalizations. Tom explains how to reduce risk by addressing the Fraud Triangle and creating a culture where people feel safe surfacing pressure, uncertainty, and gray-area requests. Negotiate Anything:Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan:https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect with Tipper X tipperx.com Order the book: Wired on Wall Street: The Rise and Fall of Tipper X, One of the FBI's Most Prolific Informants by Tipper X Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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What if the biggest deals you're negotiating aren't across the table—but inside your own mind? In this powerful Negotiation Masterclass edition of Negotiate Anything, you'll hear three world-class experts tackle one shared truth from completely different angles: success in business — and life — comes down to mastering difficult conversations. First, behavioral economist Melina Palmer reveals the hidden brain biases silently sabotaging your goals — optimism bias, planning fallacy, bike shedding, and the “I'll start Monday” effect. You'll learn how to outsmart your own psychology, negotiate with your future self, and finally follow through on what matters most . Next, startup CEO Naved Iqbal, PhD, dives into one of the hardest conversations a founder can face: telling a co-founder their equity needs to be reduced. Through raw storytelling, he breaks down how conviction, fairness, and radical transparency can preserve trust — even when the stakes are high and the outcome uncertain . From negotiating with vendors as a David facing Goliath to aligning with your spouse before taking entrepreneurial risks, you'll discover how clarity and honesty become your greatest leverage. Finally, negotiation specialist Nicole Davidson pulls back the curtain on what really happens in mediation. She explains why the key to unlocking deadlocked disputes isn't having better arguments — it's asking better questions. You'll explore cognitive biases, subconscious decision-making, and the power of stepping onto the “balcony” to see your negotiations more clearly . This isn't theory. It's practical wisdom from experts who've lived the tension, faced the fear, and navigated the toughest conversations of their careers. If you're ready to: Stop procrastinating on your biggest goals Handle high-stakes conversations with integrity Build stronger partnerships at work and at home Make better decisions by understanding how your brain really works Then this masterclass is for you. Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anything Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it.
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Unlock the hidden negotiation advantage you never knew you had. What if the very trait you've been told is holding you back is actually your greatest strength at the bargaining table? In this powerful Negotiation Masterclass edition of Negotiate Anything, Kwame Christian curates three eye-opening conversations that challenge everything you think you know about introversion, persuasion, and performance. From bestselling author Matthew Pollard's journey from terrified door-to-door salesman to the #1 rep in the largest sales organization in the Southern Hemisphere, to expert insights on energy, silence, storytelling, and strategy, this episode reveals why introverts may have a natural edge in sales, networking, and negotiation. You'll discover: Why introversion isn't about shyness—but energy. How systems and preparation outperform “winging it” every time. The storytelling framework that can make you 22x more memorable. How silence, listening, and strategic pacing become persuasion superpowers. Practical ways introverts (and extroverts) can negotiate more effectively. Whether you identify as an introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between, this episode will reshape how you see communication, confidence, and influence. Because success doesn't belong to the loudest voice in the room — it belongs to the most strategic one. Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anything Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it.
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Managing up is not about flattery. It's about influence, and taking control of your career before someone else does. Order Now the Book: Managing Up: How to Get What You Need from the People in Charge In this episode, Melody Wilding—executive coach, professor, and author of Managing Up—joins Kwame to unpack one of the most overlooked (and misunderstood) career skills: learning how to manage your boss. If you've ever felt invisible, undervalued, or like you're doing everything right but still not moving forward, this conversation will shift your entire perspective on leadership at work. You'll learn: • Why “being a team player” might be damaging your reputation and future • How to set boundaries without making enemies or risking your job • What managing up really means—and why it's not the same as sucking up Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anything Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect with Melody melodywilding.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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Reinvention isn't a nice-to-have — it's survival. In this episode, Kym Ali breaks down how to recognize the warning signs before things fall apart, how to audit what's no longer working, and how to pivot with clarity (instead of panic). Get the key takeaway: reinvent before life forces your hand — so you stay in control of your identity, income, and impact. Negotiate Anything:Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan:https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect with Kym Follow Kym on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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You've done the work. You've checked every box. But somehow, promotions pass you by, your ideas go unheard, and less qualified people keep rising faster. Why? Because in today's world, connection beats competence. In this episode, you'll learn why being excellent isn't enough—and how to start building the kind of strategic relationships that actually move careers forward. Our guest is a top relationship strategist who has coached leaders around the world on how to turn their network into a true competitive edge. You'll walk away with practical tools to be remembered, respected, and recommended—without ever feeling fake. If your work isn't speaking for itself, maybe it's time to let the right people do the talking. Connect with Ronen Book a call with Ronen Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! Negotiate Anything:Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan:https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it.
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We unpack the hidden psychological costs of wealth: why “more” stops feeling like more, how status reshapes identity, and how to stay grounded as your life upgrades. In this episode, Dave Verhaagen breaks down what money can quietly change—your motivation, relationships, self-image, and the way you define “enough.” If you're building success (or chasing the next milestone), this conversation will help you keep your peace while your life expands. Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect with Dave Dave's Website drverhaagen.com Dave's Books Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!