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Most women think burnout just means being tired. But what if it's acutally a signal - a brutal nudge - to stop abandoning yourself? In this episode, I sit down with Leadership Coach and master hypnotherapist, Amy Green Smith, to talk about the real reasons women burn out and how to wake up before it wrecks you. We get into: The sneaky symptoms of engagement burnout and systemic burnout Why what you chronically complain about is your biggest clue How to communicate your needs without guilt or drama Why women struggle to receive help (and how to change it) The link between your body and your unmet emotional needs This fun, powerful conversation is your permission slip to stop playing nice and start listening to yourself. Grab Amy's free resource, Boundaries over Burnout Join Selfish Summer Camp
Kendall Berg pulls no punches in this conversation with certified life coach and communication expert Amy Green Smith. From the outside, high achievers seem like they have it all together—but beneath the promotions and packed calendars is a brewing identity crisis. Amy unpacks why burnout hits the most accomplished professionals the hardest—and how tying your self-worth to your performance is the fastest way to lose yourself. People-pleasing isn't just a “nice girl” habit. According to Amy, it's a survival strategy many of us learned as kids—and it's still running the show in the boardroom. Together, Kendall and Amy break down how to recognize those self-sabotaging behaviors, communicate assertively without coming off like a jerk, and set boundaries that actually stick. Plus, Amy offers her go-to scripts and practical tips to help listeners reclaim their bandwidth and emotional space. In this episode, we discuss: How do I stop tying my identity to my job? What are signs that I'm a people-pleaser at work? How can I be assertive without being aggressive? What's the right way to set boundaries in the workplace? How can high performers avoid burnout? ⭐️Get our FREE Accomplishments Tracker: https://fabulous-butterfly-83716.myflodesk.com/n8yzvrtw9v That Career Coach Want to know more about Kendal Berg, that career coach? Follow her on Instagram: @thatcareercoach_ Check out her courses on the website: https://thatcareercoach.net/ Build out the tools you need to navigate the corporate game: — Self Driven Mastermind Amy Green Smith is a certified and credentialed life coach and hypnotherapist, masterful speaker, and personal empowerment expert. Amy uses her roles as coach, writer, podcaster, and speaker to move individuals to a place of radical personal empowerment and self-worth. With acute focus on helping people “find their voice”, she is highly sought after for her uncommon style of irreverence, wisdom, and humor and has been a featured expert in Inspired Coach Magazine and on Fox 5 San Diego. website: https://amygreensmith.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heyamygreensmith Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith/
We've been taught that bragging is bad. That confidence is cocky. That talking about your wins makes you “too much.” But what if we've been buying into a lie that's keeping us small? Today, we're rewriting that story with Tiffany Houser—executive coach, leadership facilitator, and founder of EVOLVE and the Self Worth Advantage®. Tiffany's made it her mission to turn workplace insecurity into authentic self-worth and unapologetic impact. She brings the truth, the tools, and the tough love we need to finally start owning our brilliance—loudly and proudly. Whether you struggle to speak up in meetings, talk about your wins, or even recognize your own magic, this episode is a masterclass in self-advocacy. In This Episode, We Cover: ✅ Why self-promotion isn't selfish—it's strategic ✅ The connection between self-worth and visibility ✅ How to share your wins without feeling awkward or arrogant ✅ Tangible tools to start bragging (in a good way) today ✅ Why standing in your power helps everyone around you rise You have value. You have purpose. You're not here to dim your light—you're here to light others up just by being fully, unapologetically you. This isn't about ego—it's about impact. Connect with Tiffany: Website: https://evolveeq.com/ Self Worth Advantage: https://selfworthadvantage.com/ LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tiffanyhouser/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanyhouser/ Related Podcast Episodes: Be A Likeable Badass with Alison Fragale | 230 195 / Finding (And Using) Your Voice with Amy Green Smith 023 / Branding YOU With Terri Lomax Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform!
Boundaries vs. Ultimatums with Jan & Jillian Yuhas | 297 On this episode we dive into a topic that affects every single one of us: boundaries. But more specifically, we're breaking down the key differences between boundaries and ultimatums—because let's be real, people get these mixed up all the time. And who better to tackle this than two people who have probably had to master boundary-setting since birth? Identical twins Jan and Jillian Yuhas are Relationship and Conflict Resolution Consultants, as well as international best-selling authors of Boundary Badass: A Powerful Method for Elevating Your Value and Relationships. With backgrounds in psychotherapy and family mediation, they've spent over a decade coaching high-achieving entrepreneurs, companies, and families on how to build stronger relationships, set healthy boundaries, and communicate with clarity. Boundaries aren't about controlling others—they're about protecting your time, energy, and values. That means practicing:
In this empowering episode, we sit down with Amy Green Smith, a certified life coach, hypnotherapist, and courageous communication expert, to explore how to assert yourself and establish healthy boundaries during the challenging process of divorce.Amy, renowned for helping individuals overcome people-pleasing tendencies and self-doubt, shares her personal journey from chronic people-pleaser to confident communicator. She offers practical strategies to help you find your voice, set firm yet compassionate boundaries, and navigate divorce with dignity and self-respect.Tune in to discover how to reclaim your personal power and emerge from divorce stronger and more self-assured.
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Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian is joined by life coach and hypnotherapist, Amy Green Smith, for a deep dive into overcoming people-pleasing tendencies and enhancing self-worth. Amy unpacks the complex intersection of emotional intelligence, self-advocacy, and societal influences that affect our negotiation strategies in daily life, whether it's within the workplace or personal relationships. She discusses the evolutionary background of people-pleasing behaviors, offering a nuanced perspective on when such strategies can be beneficial and when they undermine self-worth. Listeners will gain a comprehensive understanding of the role self-perception plays in their negotiation effectiveness and overall life satisfaction. What will be covered: Definition and implications of people-pleasing behaviors and how they relate to negotiation. The impact of emotional intelligence on self-advocacy and boundary setting. The interplay between subconscious beliefs, societal influences, and personal empowerment. Connect with Amy https://amygreensmith.com/ Check out Amy's 1 on 1 Worthy Program: https://amygreensmith.com/worthy/ Follow Amy on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian is joined by life coach and hypnotherapist, Amy Green Smith, for a deep dive into overcoming people-pleasing tendencies and enhancing self-worth. Amy unpacks the complex intersection of emotional intelligence, self-advocacy, and societal influences that affect our negotiation strategies in daily life, whether it's within the workplace or personal relationships. She discusses the evolutionary background of people-pleasing behaviors, offering a nuanced perspective on when such strategies can be beneficial and when they undermine self-worth. Listeners will gain a comprehensive understanding of the role self-perception plays in their negotiation effectiveness and overall life satisfaction. What will be covered: Definition and implications of people-pleasing behaviors and how they relate to negotiation. The impact of emotional intelligence on self-advocacy and boundary setting. The interplay between subconscious beliefs, societal influences, and personal empowerment. Connect with Amy https://amygreensmith.com/ Check out Amy's 1 on 1 Worthy Program: https://amygreensmith.com/worthy/ Follow Amy on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
We will be replaying our episode on the Four Fear Responses this week! I am hoping that this episode will make you feel less alone if you are currently experiencing a lot of fear responses over the news, our current trying times, or anything else you may be going through. Hopefully if we can identify when our body is in a fear response, it can help us affirm ourselves and our feelings.Am I actually in danger or is this just new? Amy Green Smith, host of the Bold-Faced Truth podcast, is here to discuss the four fear responses. How does our fear manifest in a modern world where there's not a large animal chasing us and we have protection from the elements? Now we have the new fear response of fawning that manifests as people pleasing. Our flight response resonates in the way we experience depression. And how does misogyny use our fear responses as a tool to oppression and a way to keep us silent and small? All of it and more is discussed in this episode!Support the Show:Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram!https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you know when all bonus material is out and learn about all our other projects.Find Amy:Website: https://amygreensmith.com/Instagram: @heyamygreensmithYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/heyamygreensmith
In this follow-up episode, Bennett Maxwell welcomes back Amy Green Smith, a life coach and hypnotherapist, for an even deeper conversation. Together, they explore the transformative power of psychedelics, hypnotherapy, and emotional intelligence. Amy opens up about her journey from a strict religious upbringing to discovering self-worth and setting boundaries. They discuss groundbreaking ideas like the role of the subconscious, the future of human consciousness, and why emotional intelligence is key to personal growth. Whether you're curious about hypnotherapy, navigating family dynamics, or unlocking your potential, this episode is packed with thought-provoking insights and actionable advice. Grab Amy's FREE-SOURCES at: http://amygreensmith.com/free Connect with Amy http://instagram.com/heyamygreensmith http://facebook.com/heyamygreensmith https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith http://twitter.com/heyamygreen Connect with Bennett Instagram: @bennettmaxwell35 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/bennett-maxwell-703717126/ Subscribe to Deeper Than Dough Apple Podcasts: https://shorturl.at/bjozA Spotify: https://shorturl.at/klE37 Don't forget to like and subscribe to never miss a weekly episode!
Send us a textIn this powerful Part 2 episode, Andrea sits down again with the incredible Amy Green Smith to dive deeper into the complex world of people-pleasing. Together, they unpack the emotional roots of this behavior and explore how it affects our relationships, self-esteem, and overall happiness. Amy shares actionable strategies for breaking free from the cycle of over-apologizing, over-committing, and putting others' needs before your own.Discover how to tap into your inner strength, set boundaries with confidence, and embrace the liberating power of saying "no" without guilt. Whether you're a chronic people-pleaser or just need a boost to stand firm in your decisions, this episode is your guide to reclaiming your voice and living authentically.Tune in for relatable insights, practical tips, and a whole lot of inspiration! Don't miss it!IG: heyamygreensmithTikTok: heyamygreensmithFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/heyamygreensmithLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmithCreator of "Speak Up for Yourself Without Being a Dick"Get your copy for FREE at https://amygreensmith.com/free/Support the showInstagram: @from.mrs.2.msTikTok:@from.mrs.2.msWebsite: www.frommrstoms.netEmail: info@frommrstoms.netYouTube: @FromMrs2Ms
Send us a textOn this episode of From Mrs. to Ms., we're diving into the liberating (and sometimes uncomfortable) journey of letting go of people-pleasing with the incredible Amy Green Smith. Amy is a certified life coach, hypnotherapist, and personal empowerment expert who's helped thousands of women find their voices, embrace their self-worth, and step boldly into the lives they desire.Known for her mix of wisdom, humor, and unfiltered honesty, Amy shares powerful insights on breaking free from limiting beliefs and sabotaging mindsets. From tackling the root causes of people-pleasing to creating boundaries that actually stick, this conversation is packed with actionable tips to help you stop living for others and start living for yourself.If you've ever struggled to say “no” or put your needs first without feeling guilty, this episode is for you. Join us as Amy unpacks her unique blend of humor and empowerment to help you reclaim your voice and step into your authentic power.You won't want to miss this conversation—it's time to stop pleasing everyone else and start living your bold-faced truth!IG: heyamygreensmithTikTok: heyamygreensmithFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/heyamygreensmithLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmithCreator of "Speak Up for Yourself Without Being a Dick"Get your copy for FREE at https://amygreensmith.com/free/Support the showInstagram: @from.mrs.2.msTikTok:@from.mrs.2.msWebsite: www.frommrstoms.netEmail: info@frommrstoms.netYouTube: @FromMrs2Ms
Breaking free from the shackles of people-pleasing is a liberating journey. In this episode, Rosie Zilinskas chats with leadership coach Amy Green Smith about the hidden dimensions of people-pleasing, especially in high-powered corporate roles. Amy explains that people-pleasing goes beyond the stereotypical image of being demure or repressed; it often manifests as perfectionism and can be a form of self-preservation. Discover how this seemingly harmless habit can sabotage your career and personal life. Learn practical strategies to break free from the cycle of people-pleasing and step into your authentic leadership. If you're ready to lead with confidence and ditch the people-pleasing, this episode is for you.
Do you struggle to speak up and say how you truly feel in difficult situations? Staying silent or feeling a sense of fear about speaking up doesn't allow you to show up as your authentic self. While holding back your truth can help you feel accepted, it can also be damaging to your self-worth, hiding your authenticity when it matters most. But there IS a way to stand in your truth without damaging your relationships. Today on The Bridge to FulfillmentⓇ, Blake welcomes Amy Green Smith. She is a certified life coach, speaker, and personal empowerment expert. Through her work, she helps people transform from people-pleasing to a place of radical personal empowerment and self-worth. In this episode, you'll learn how to shift from people-pleasing behaviors into speaking your truth with respect. You'll hear boundary recipes that will help you overcome self-doubt and conquer the fear of rejection. You'll learn how to find your voice and speak your truth through fearless, authentic communication. Speaking up doesn't have to be confrontational. It's possible to share difficult truths with grace. What You'll Learn: What we're taught about acceptance (6:27) Looking to current relationships to heal past wounds (12:36) Determining when your fear is legitimate (21:49) What it looks like to be authentic in the moment (29:41) How to ask for what you need: a boundary recipe (38:31) Favorite Quotes: “We often think our experience is just our own, but very rarely are we actually alone.” –Blake “When we're talking about finding our voice or speaking up, almost always antithetical to that, is that investment in what other people think- that people pleasing.” –Amy Green Smith “Your bullshit tolerance starts to get lower and lower once you realize, like, oh, I should not be spoken to in that way.” –Amy Green Smith “That's often why we end up as people-pleasers, because we see things differently than the people around us, and we're told that we are wrong or not okay, or we should be compliant. And as a result of that, we lose connection with our inner compass.” –Blake “People feel safer with you if they know where you stand and where they stand with you.” –Amy Green Smith Additional Resources: Connect with Amy Green Smith: Website: https://amygreensmith.com/ Freebies: https://amygreensmith.com/free/ Social: https://www.instagram.com/heyamygreensmith/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith/ https://www.facebook.com/heyamygreensmith https://www.threads.net/@heyamygreensmith Get clarity on where you are on your journey to career fulfillment, where you're headed, optional paths to get there, and the right next step to take. Start your complimentary, Personalized Career Fulfillment Plan by going to www.thebridgetofulfillment.com/pcfp For programs and opportunities to work with Blake, go to www.BlakeSchofield.com
In this episode, Deanna asks some recent guests about what they are grateful for in their lives. Through heartfelt lessons and real-life stories, you'll discover practical ways to incorporate gratitude into your daily life. **************** Links in this episode (some may be affiliate links - thanks for supporting the show at no extra cost to you): Check out my favorite resources Join the Wannabe Minimalist Community on Facebook Episode with Amy Green Smith Episode with Jill Sirianni Episode with Shannon Leyko Episode with Haleh Shoa Episode with Kate House Episode with Sarah Horgan Follow Deanna Yates, the host of Wannabe Clutter Free on: Instagram Facebook Website Podcast **************** Do you ever wonder how embracing gratitude can unlock a happier, more fulfilling life? In this episode of the Wannabe Clutter-Free podcast, we delve into the secret ingredient to lasting happiness: gratitude. Our inspiring guests share their personal journeys and practical insights on what gratitude means to them, how they incorporate it into their lives, and the transformative impact it has had on their well-being. Whether it's through intentional daily practices, pausing to appreciate small joys, or finding gratitude in challenging times, their stories will motivate you to embrace thankfulness in your own life. Gratitude isn't just a fleeting emotion; it's a powerful tool for creating a mindset shift and strengthening connections with yourself and others. Let's explore actionable strategies to make gratitude a consistent part of your day, helping you feel more grounded, joyful, and resilient. In this episode, you'll discover: Simple gratitude practices to incorporate into your daily routine. Inspiring stories of how others have found joy through thankfulness. How gratitude can help you navigate life's challenges with grace. The surprising benefits of gratitude on mental and emotional well-being. Tune in to learn how to unlock the power of gratitude and experience its ripple effect on your happiness. 00:00 Welcome and Introduction 00:08 Special Episode on Gratitude 00:31 Listener Engagement and Housekeeping 01:16 Question 1: What Are You Grateful For? 01:42 Amy Greensmith's Unique Gratitude 03:05 Jill Sirianni's Simple Joys 03:34 Shannon Leyko's Family Health 04:02 Haleh Shoa's Business and Life Gratitude 04:50 Kate House's Season of Life 05:41 Sarah Horgan's Heartfelt Moments 06:46 Question 2: How Do You Practice Gratitude? 06:54 Amy Green Smith's Daily Practices 08:11 Jill Sirianni's Morning Reflections 09:02 Shannon Leyko's Thank You Habit 09:28 Haleh Shoah's Photo Memories 10:19 Kate House's Family Gratitude 11:16 Sarah Horgan's Intentional Pauses 12:32 Final Thoughts and Personal Gratitude 14:15 Thanksgiving Wishes and Conclusion **************** Music: Fresh Lift by Shane Ivers - https://www.silvermansound.com **************** Subscribe & Review Don't forget to subscribe to the show so you don't miss any tips for organizing, decluttering, and simplifying your home and life. And if you enjoyed today's episode, please consider leaving a rating and review on Apple, Spotify, Goodpods, or YouTube. Let me know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you! **************** We'd love to hear how you're applying the strategies discussed in this episode. Share your stories and tips with us on social media (@wannabeclutterfree). Don't forget to subscribe for more insightful episodes designed to make your busy life a bit easier.
Hey Warriors! Have you ever felt afraid to speak up for yourself, even in seemingly safe situations? In this episode of the Love Your Life Show, I'm joined by the incredible Amy Green Smith, and we're getting real about emotional safety, self-worth, and those sneaky patterns of self-abandonment that can keep us feeling small. For more resources, including links, click here smbwell.com/328 If you liked this episode, you'll love listening to this episode next: Stop People Pleasing with Amy G Smith on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/stop-people-pleasing-with-amy-g-smith/id1434429161?i=1000434571566 Stop People Pleasing with Amy G Smith on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6zxYox7xMtZaH8zI7QOI1H?si=TbaoLLuyQoWK_0--WKFBBg Keep the Party going! Opportunities for you: * Gain insight into the Life You're Living by taking Susie's Free Life Audit: https://smbwell.com/lifeaudit/ * Keep the conversation going! Tell me what you thought of this episode in Susie's Midlife Warrior Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/smbwell * See if the Love Your Life School is open for enrollment here: https://www.smbwell.com/LIFESCHOOL * Sign up for Susie's Weekly Wellness Newsletter: http://bit.ly/2gYQMlA * Support Susie's mission of helping as many women as possible live lives they love here: patreon.com/susiepettit) * Let's be friends on Instagram: https://instagram.com/smb.wellness * Don't have a life coach? My schedule has openings and I'd be honored to be yours: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11643751 The post Self-Worth: How to Feel Good Enough with Amy Green Smith appeared first on Susie Pettit.
Deanna Yates and Amy Green Smith discuss reclaiming your voice and the empowering act of saying no. This episode uncovers the hidden costs of people-pleasing, shares boundary-setting strategies, and reveals how to show up authentically in all areas of life. Amy provides insights on breaking free from societal pressures and fully embracing enough in all areas of life. **************** Resources Mentioned (some may be affiliate links - thanks for supporting the show at no extra cost to you): Check out my favorite tools & resources Burnout Book Connect with Amy Green Smith Instagram Website The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast Follow Deanna Yates, the host of Wannabe Clutter Free on: Instagram Facebook Website Podcast **************** In this empowering episode of the Wannabe Clutter Free podcast, Deanna Yates speaks with Amy Green Smith, a seasoned women's leadership coach known for her fresh approach to personal empowerment. Together, they explore the deep-seated habits and beliefs that drive people-pleasing and the struggle to set boundaries. Amy shares her expertise on how to break the cycle of automatic “yes” responses, embrace your own voice, and transform feelings of guilt into authentic self-worth. The conversation moves beyond surface-level advice, focusing on practical, actionable steps that anyone can apply to strengthen their boundaries and build confidence. Amy and Deanna explore ways to cultivate emotional intelligence, live in alignment with your values, and foster genuine connections. They also discuss how saying no can enhance your peace of mind, relationships, and self-respect. This episode is an inspiring guide to honoring your true self and embracing enoughness in every area of life. This episode of the Wannabe Clutter Free podcast will help you discover: Practical tools to set boundaries and say no with confidence Strategies to break free from people-pleasing and boost self-worth How emotional intelligence enhances personal and professional relationships Techniques for living authentically and aligned with your values Insights on overcoming societal pressures and fully embracing “enoughness” **************** Music: Fresh Lift by Shane Ivers - https://www.silvermansound.com **************** Subscribe & Review Are you subscribed to the Wannabe Clutter Free podcast? If you're not, I want to encourage you to do that today. I don't want you to miss an episode. I'm adding a bunch of bonus episodes to the mix and if you're not subscribed there's a good chance you'll miss out on those. And if you enjoyed today's episode, it would make my day if you left me a rating and review. You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts, a comment on Spotify Podcasts or Goodpods, or connect on guest video interviews on YouTube. Your review helps other people find my podcast and they're also fun for me to read. Let me know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you! **************** We'd love to hear how you're applying the strategies discussed in this episode. Share your stories and tips with us on social media (@wannabeclutterfree). Don't forget to subscribe for more insightful episodes designed to make your busy life a bit easier.
The Punch Drunk Soul Podcast - Soul Alignment + Business Chats
Join me and Amy Green Smith as we chat about self worth as an entrepreneur, setting boundaries, combatting people pleasing and learning to find your voice in business and life. Amy Green Smith is a certified and credentialed life coach and hypnotherapist, masterful speaker, and personal empowerment expert. Amy uses her roles as coach, writer, podcaster, and speaker to move individuals to a place of radical personal empowerment and self-worth. With acute focus on helping people “find their voice”, she is highly sought after for her uncommon style of irreverence, wisdom, and humor and has been a featured expert in Inspired Coach Magazine and on Fox 5 San Diego. Did you like this episode? Let us know by screenshotting & tagging us on Instagram! SCREENSHOT & TAG US ON INSTAGRAM: Ali: http://Instagram.com/punchdrunksoul Amy: http://instagram.com/heyamygreensmith Amy's Links: FREE-SOURCES: http://amygreensmith.com/free http://instagram.com/heyamygreensmith http://facebook.com/heyamygreensmith https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith http://twitter.com/heyamygreen OUR LINKS & RESOURCES: Soulfully Stand Out And Earn Your First (or Next $5K) as a New Coach Masterclass: http://punchdrunksoul.com/5ksoulmasterclass Path to Freedom: http://punchdrunksoul.com/pathtofreedom The Alignment Collective Spiritual Membership for Soul-Seekers and Entrepreneurs: http://punchdrunksoul.com/tac PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW: We would LOVE to hear your takeaways from today's episode. Please leave a Star Rating or a Review at PunchDrunkSoul.com/Review
As busy, hard-working professionals with families, demanding jobs, and multiple other obligations, we often go into auto-pilot. We mindlessly follow scripts and templates that were passed onto us about what success looks like. We rarely stop to ask "why?" and fail to see that saying yes to too much may in the end lead us on to the people-pleasing road to ruin. This week's guest, Amy Green Smith, has successfully navigated this dance, and has helped many clients get out of this trap. Amy is a certified and credentialed life coach and hypnotherapist, masterful speaker, and personal empowerment expert. Amy uses her roles as coach, writer, podcaster, and speaker to move individuals to a place of radical personal empowerment and self-worth. With acute focus on helping people “find their voice”, she is highly sought after for her uncommon style of irreverence, wisdom, and humor and has been a featured expert in Inspired Coach Magazine and on Fox 5 San Diego. We touched on many fascinating topics during our discussion including: The artificial distinction between intuition and inner critic, which are actually in many ways just opposite sides of the same coin The common tendency to focus on the fight / flight response associated with the sympathetic nervous system, and ignore the 3rd “F” – fawn. How people-pleasing plays into all of this. Amy's powerful conception of “self-sentiment,” which is a bit more nuanced than the traditional notion of self-talk. How emotional “entry points” help us unpack moments of high anxiety, and prevent us from getting taken down by black and white thinking. Amy's spiritual journey, which started with a dogmatic, devout Christian upbringing, and evolved into her exploring Buddhism, Universal Unitarianism, and numerous other schools of thought Amy's transition from a successful (but unfulfilling) career in corporate training for a large cosmetics manufacturer to life coaching, which was far more aligned with her soul purpose The role of consent in following the voices of our inner critic as adults (vs. when we were children) The power of hypnotherapy in unlocking alpha, theta, and delta brainwave states. How injecting mindfulness even in small doses can ultimately push humanity forward. The importance of distinguishing between "am I in danger?” or “is this something new?" when entering ambiguous situations. What it truly means "outsource our self worth" - i.e., please others for the sake of feeling better about ourselves. How progressive language, and a more incremental approach, can help us break down those “big hairy audacious goals,” and prevent us from getting mired in self-sabotage and defeat. The analogy of smoke alarm to help us take a more measured, nuanced view of our self-defense systems. The valuable insights of Bruce Lipton, Jose Silva, Richard Davidson on mindfulness, hypnosis, and meditation Amy's signature 9-month transformational group immersion program for women entitled “Worthy,” which includes two 5-day retreats, a supportive community, as well as numerous online and offline resources Do you want to feel more worthy? Get a better handle on your inner critic (or...intuition)? Reach out to Amy Green Smith today on Instagram or LinkedIn, check out her podcast, or visit her at amygreensmith.com. Connect with Nikhil to learn more about Untether Your Life and other projects: Instagram Website LinkedIn
Navigating a divorce is challenging enough without the added stress of difficult conversations that often arise during the process. Whether you're discussing finances, co-parenting arrangements, or simply setting new boundaries, these conversations can be incredibly daunting. In this episode, we explore how to approach these tough discussions with confidence, clarity, and compassion.Some of the key topics we discuss include: Understanding Emotional Triggers: Learn how to recognize and manage the emotional triggers that can escalate conversations, ensuring you stay calm and focused on your desired outcomes. Effective Communication Strategies: Discover practical tools to express your needs and boundaries clearly, without resorting to blame or anger. Navigating Co-Parenting Talks: Get tips on how to approach co-parenting discussions in a way that prioritizes your children's well-being while honoring your own boundaries. Setting Boundaries: Understand the importance of establishing and enforcing boundaries that protect your mental and emotional health during and after divorce.
Hey everyone! In this episode I'm joined by Amy Green Smith, a personal development coach from North Carolina. We're diving deep into the world of anxiety, and Amy shares her own personal journey. She talks about growing up in a conservative religious household and the impact of her father's passing. We discuss how these experiences led to people-pleasing behaviors and affected her self-worth. Together, we explore the effects of cultural conditioning, the power of emotional intelligence, and practical strategies for self-advocacy and setting healthy boundaries. It's a conversation that's both relatable and inspiring. Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG: @theanxietymd if you have any questions. PS. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 4000+ anxiety WARRIORS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX ______________________________ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Introduction 01:13 - Amy Green Smith's Journey 02:13 - Father's Death Impact 03:32 - Family Dynamics and Expectations 04:42 - Learning to Advocate for Oneself 06:50 - Litigating for Rightness 09:43 - Complexity of Childhood Emotions 11:57 - Roots of People-Pleasing 13:08 - Misconceptions about People-Pleasing 14:10 - Self-Worth and People-Pleasing 15:29 - Pain of Breaking the Cycle 16:45 - Understanding Motivations for People-Pleasing 18:24 - Oxytocin and Gender Dynamics 19:22 - Cultural Conditioning of Women 20:23 - Primitive Defense Mechanisms 22:07 - Cultural Reinforcement of Gender Roles 23:40 - The Impact of Religious Upbringing 25:09 - Cultural Shifts Post-WWII 25:59 - The Role of Medication in Women's Mental Health 26:17 - Pain and Change in Society 26:45 - Political Figures as Cult Leaders 27:45 - Religious Trauma and Identity 29:49 - The Search for Validation 30:11 - The Concept of the 'Magical Other' 31:36 - Critique of Religious Narratives 33:20 - Order vs. Chaos in Society 34:33 - The Feminine Perspective in Religion 40:48 - The Pressure of Social Media on Identity 42:09 - The Nuance of Societal Order 44:03 - Political Divisions and Identity 47:23 - Media Influence and Extremism 49:42 - Emotional Intelligence as a Solution 51:26 - Cultural Messaging of Emotions 52:36 - The Role of Emotions in Decision Making 53:35 - Order and Uncertainty 01:00:01 - Creating Emotional Intelligence in Women
Episode Summary:In this episode of the School of Healing, host Dominiece Clifton is joined by Amy Green Smith, a certified life coach, hypnotherapist, and communication expert. They discuss morning routines, essential business tools, productivity hacks, and overcoming obstacles in entrepreneurship. Amy shares her journey of self-discovery and transformation, highlighting the importance of understanding self-worth and advocating for oneself. They also explore the four fear responses—fight, flight, freeze, and fawn—and how they impact personal growth and decision-making. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-care, setting boundaries, and investing in support to prevent burnout and overwhelm.Key Takeaways From This Episode:How morning routines can set the tone for your day and help maintain your energy and focusThe role the four fear responses play in personal growth, and how understanding them can improve decision-makingHow self-worth and setting boundaries contribute to overcoming people-pleasing and advocating for yourselfWhy self-care is essential in combating burnout, and how can you incorporate it into your daily routineFire Soundbites You Don't Want To Miss!"Your intuition is your guiding compass, right? So too is your inner critic, but sometimes it just communicates very acerbically and frustratingly.""The modern iterations of the fight response are anxiety; flight response is depression; freeze response is procrastination; and fawn response is people-pleasing."About Amy Green Smith Name:Amy Green Smith is a certified and credentialed life coach and hypnotherapist, masterful speaker, and personal empowerment expert. Amy uses her roles as coach, writer, podcaster, and speaker to move individuals to a place of radical personal empowerment and self-worth. With acute focus on helping people “find their voice”, she is highly sought after for her uncommon style of irreverence, wisdom, and humor and has been a featured expert in Inspired Coach Magazine and on Fox 5 San Diego. Check out resources from Guest, and learn more about X:Grab Amy's FREE-SOURCES at: http://amygreensmith.com/freeConnect With Amy Green Smith:Website:https://amygreensmith.comConnect with Amy on Social Media:http://instagram.com/heyamygreensmithhttp://facebook.com/heyamygreensmithhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmithhttp://twitter.com/heyamygreenSupport the showIMPORTANT LINKS AND RESOURCES: Book a Free DISCOVERY CALL To Learn More About 1:1 Coaching With Dom Learn more about MOVE AND STILL'S service offerings CONNECT WITH DOM: Learn about my 12-week biz coaching program for women entrepreneurs IG - @DominieceRClifton LI- Dominiece R. Clifton Email: hello@movexstill.com A GIFT FOR YOU! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the show on Apple Podcasts to be entered into a drawing to receive my new book FREE! I will be picking one winner monthly. Just send me the screenshot at hello@movestill.com to enter.
In this lively episode of The Midlife Makeover Show, host Wendy Valentine welcomes the powerhouse Amy Green Smith, a certified life coach, hypnotherapist, and personal empowerment expert. Amy is renowned for blending wisdom and humor into her work, and she's here to help you step into your own power and find your voice. Whether she's coaching, writing, podcasting, or speaking, Amy's mission is clear: to move you to a place of radical self-worth and empowerment. Amy will dive into game-changing topics such as finding your voice, speaking up for yourself, and mastering the art of saying no. If you struggle with people-pleasing or feel overly invested in others' opinions, this episode is a must-listen. Get ready for a fun and enlightening conversation that will leave you feeling empowered and ready to take charge. Amy and Wendy discuss the biological and psychological factors that lead us to be our own worst critics and people pleasers. They explore the interplay between our inner critic and intuition, and how understanding this can help us navigate fear and new experiences. Amy shares practical tips for setting boundaries, reprogramming your subconscious mind, and embracing personal growth without falling into the trap of perfectionism. Join Wendy and Amy for an insightful conversation that will inspire you to embrace your worth and take actionable steps towards a more empowered life.
I'm pumped to welcome my new friend, Amy Green Smith, onto the podcast today! I honestly feel she's like my new best friend - she is SO freaking cool, and offers a very unique perspective on the topic of people pleasing (especially recovering people pleasers - I know there are many of us out there)!In today's episode, we cover crucial topics like people pleasing, unshakable boundaries, communicating with power, cultivating self-worth, and more. Boundaries are one of those things that can feel pretty intimidating (to both people enforcing and receiving them), but they are extremely important when it comes to your self-worth and ‘enoughness'. Taking a three-pronged approach (like Amy recommends) can be incredibly beneficial when you're ready to get serious about your boundaries and actually implement them (the follow through is key here). The world has plenty of badass, intelligent women who are incredibly brilliant, but they tend to doubt themselves, and feel like they don't have ‘enough' to offer. Contrary to what society had led us to believe, we ARE allowed to feel however the heck we want to, and we shouldn't feel ashamed or ‘less than' for our unique life decisions. In this episode, we cover:What boundaries are + why they are incredibly important in regards to your self-worth and ‘enoughness'Why you should not allow your silence to make you a liar + using Amy's three-pronged approach for setting boundaries when you need to have those tough conversationsThe detrimental impact that comes when you lose yourself and who you're really meant to be, simply to fit in and please everyone around youLearning to cultivate your value + genuinely believing that you ARE allowed to feel however you do, regardless of what others think Taking inventory of who you're willing/able to have difficult conversations with + practicing kindness and assertiveness when speaking with othersLetting go of societal pressures when it comes to your health & body as you age + continually prioritizing your relationship with your partnerResources & Links:Gather in Growth Sponsorship InquiryBook me as a speaker for your next eventGather in Growth podcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingConnect with Amy:Check out all of her free resources HEREFollow on Instagram @heyamygreensmithCheck out Amy's websiteListen to her podcast The Bold-Faced Truth PodcastConnect with Emily:Follow on Instagram and FacebookJoin my email listCheck out my websiteConnect with on LinkedInBe sure to hit subscribe so you never miss the latest...
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In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes life coach and hypnotherapist Amy Green Smith to delve into the intricate relationship between self-worth, people-pleasing, and negotiation skills. Kwame and Amy unpack the concept of emotional intelligence, exploring how one's self-perception impacts decision-making, boundary-setting, and relationship dynamics. Amy shares transformative stories that illustrate how changing beliefs about self-worth can lead to profound life shifts, while Kwame offers practical tips for cultivating confidence through skill-building and positive influence. Together, they provide deep insights into overcoming the subconscious barriers that affect our professional and personal negotiations. Topics Covered: - The impact of self-worth on professional and personal negotiations - The complexities and nuances of people-pleasing behaviors - Strategies for building emotional intelligence and setting healthy boundaries Connect with Amy https://amygreensmith.com/ Check out Amy's 1 on 1 Worthy Program: https://amygreensmith.com/worthy/ Follow Amy on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast What's in it for you? Exclusive Advice: Gain insights from top negotiation experts. Community Support: Connect with a like-minded community focused on growth. Personal & Professional Growth: Unlock strategies to enhance every aspect of your life. You deserve to negotiate more of the best things in life, and now you can! Don't wait—be the first in line to experience this game-changing resource.
In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes life coach and hypnotherapist Amy Green Smith to delve into the intricate relationship between self-worth, people-pleasing, and negotiation skills. Kwame and Amy unpack the concept of emotional intelligence, exploring how one's self-perception impacts decision-making, boundary-setting, and relationship dynamics. Amy shares transformative stories that illustrate how changing beliefs about self-worth can lead to profound life shifts, while Kwame offers practical tips for cultivating confidence through skill-building and positive influence. Together, they provide deep insights into overcoming the subconscious barriers that affect our professional and personal negotiations. Topics Covered: - The impact of self-worth on professional and personal negotiations - The complexities and nuances of people-pleasing behaviors - Strategies for building emotional intelligence and setting healthy boundaries Connect with Amy https://amygreensmith.com/ Check out Amy's 1 on 1 Worthy Program: https://amygreensmith.com/worthy/ Follow Amy on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast What's in it for you? Exclusive Advice: Gain insights from top negotiation experts. Community Support: Connect with a like-minded community focused on growth. Personal & Professional Growth: Unlock strategies to enhance every aspect of your life. You deserve to negotiate more of the best things in life, and now you can! Don't wait—be the first in line to experience this game-changing resource.
In this episode of the Deeper Than Dough podcast, Bennett Maxwell sits down with Amy Green Smith to discuss her journey of breaking free from a conservative, born-again Christian upbringing and finding her own voice and self-worth. Amy shares the impact of setting boundaries, speaking up for oneself, and recognizing the value of one's opinions and needs. She discusses societal pressures to achieve and the need to prioritize self-care and mental well-being. The conversation explores critical thinking and questioning beliefs while maintaining empathy and understanding in relationships and personal growth. Topics covered include self-interest, people-pleasing, religious extremism, deconstruction, and the concept of worthiness. Amy and Bennett explore the idea that all actions are driven by self-interest, whether immediate or delayed. They address the grief and identity crisis that can accompany leaving a religion and emphasize the importance of distinguishing between self-preservation and outsourcing self-worth. Additionally, they discuss the role of language and words in shaping our beliefs and experiences. Join us for an episode that aims to inspire and challenge your perspectives on personal growth, self-worth, and the journey to finding your true voice. Connect with Amy Green Smith: Grab Amy's FREE-SOURCES at: http://amygreensmith.com/free Connect with Amy on Social Media: http://instagram.com/heyamygreensmith http://facebook.com/heyamygreensmith https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith http://twitter.com/heyamygreen Connect with Bennett: LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/bennett-maxwell-703717126/ Instagram: @bennettmaxwell35 Subscribe to Deeper Than Dough: Apple Podcasts: https://shorturl.at/bjozA Spotify: https://shorturl.at/klE37 Share your thoughts! Leave a comment below or tag us on social media with your biggest takeaways from this episode. We'd love to hear from you!
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We will learn: How to master the art of setting boundaries without drama Why people emotionally regress and how to handle it with empathy How specificity in conversation might save your relationships Every gift has a shadow, and every shadow a gift. This has been one of my biggest lessons throughout my spiritual growth. I've learned that the impact of our actions or words can vary dramatically based on the energy we bring to them.Take serving others, for instance. It can spring from a sense of purpose and self-worth, or it can be rooted in people-pleasing. Same action, totally different vibe.This duality is everywhere in our lives. Confidence can be empowering or arrogant, depending on how you use it. Ambition can drive you to reach for the stars or have you stepping on others to get there.But is there a way to honor our truth while leaving space for others? I think there is.It's about finding that sweet spot between doormat and bulldozer. It's speaking your mind without steamrolling others. It's setting boundaries with kindness. It's disagreeing without dismissing.So that's what we're talking about today. Our guest is Amy Green Smith. She is a life coach and hypnotherapist, speaker, and communication expert. She helps people find their voice and move to a place of radical personal empowerment and self-worth.Links from the episode: Show Notes: https://mindlove.com/357 Become a Mind Love Member for high-value Masterclasses, Growth Workbooks, Monthly Meditations, and Uninterrupted Listening FREE 5-Days to Purpose Email Course Sign up for The Morning Mind Love for short daily notes to wake up inspired Support Mind Love Sponsors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Mind Love • Modern Mindfulness to Think, Feel, and Live Well
We will learn: How to master the art of setting boundaries without drama Why people emotionally regress and how to handle it with empathy How specificity in conversation might save your relationships Every gift has a shadow, and every shadow a gift. This has been one of my biggest lessons throughout my spiritual growth. I've learned that the impact of our actions or words can vary dramatically based on the energy we bring to them. Take serving others, for instance. It can spring from a sense of purpose and self-worth, or it can be rooted in people-pleasing. Same action, totally different vibe. This duality is everywhere in our lives. Confidence can be empowering or arrogant, depending on how you use it. Ambition can drive you to reach for the stars or have you stepping on others to get there. But is there a way to honor our truth while leaving space for others? I think there is. It's about finding that sweet spot between doormat and bulldozer. It's speaking your mind without steamrolling others. It's setting boundaries with kindness. It's disagreeing without dismissing. So that's what we're talking about today. Our guest is Amy Green Smith. She is a life coach and hypnotherapist, speaker, and communication expert. She helps people find their voice and move to a place of radical personal empowerment and self-worth. Links from the episode: Show Notes: https://mindlove.com/357 Become a Mind Love Member for high-value Masterclasses, Growth Workbooks, Monthly Meditations, and Uninterrupted Listening FREE 5-Days to Purpose Email Course Sign up for The Morning Mind Love for short daily notes to wake up inspired Support Mind Love Sponsors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This is the relationship and communication episode you've been waiting for! Amy Green Smith packed this hour FULL of powerful ways to create vulnerable, safe, and loving conversations with the people you love. As a certified coach and hypnotherapist trained in NLP, Amy knows how to walk us through the neuroscience of self-worth and actions necessary to make REAL changes. You'll hear about her healthy relationships and how she's personally navigated difficult conversations, her take on why we people please and choose not to speak up, and why this work is imperative for our children, relationships, and our own mental health. Oh, and be prepared for swearing and to laugh A LOT. Guest- Amy Green SmithInstagram- AMY GREEN SMITH
Imagine looking in the mirror and feeling empowered instead of insecure. In today's episode, we sat down with the incredible Amy Green Smith, a certified life coach and hypnotherapist, speaker, and courageous communication expert, to learn how to say goodbye to being a people-pleaser! Over the course of the next 35 minutes, we dive deep into the themes of self-worth, overcoming fear, and silencing the inner critic. This episode is packed full of information, so don't miss it if you are looking for strategies that will help you crush your limiting beliefs and step into your true potential! We explore: Fear optimization and how acknowledging and reframing our emotions can help us embrace fear as a stepping stoneThe importance of empowering self-talk by examining strategies like daily mirror work and hypnosis Overcoming people-pleasing and the importance of finding our voice and surrounding ourselves with those who see our potential.The importance of staying true to your message even through we know that not everyone will always agree with youCONNECT WITH AMY:Website: amygreensmith.comInstagram: @heyamygreensmithFree resource: http://amygreensmith.com/freeCONNECT WITH HOLLY:• ASK ME ANYTHING: www.hollymariehaynes.com/chat• WATCH THE EPISODE AND BONUS CONTENT ON YOUTUBE: www.youtube.com/@hollymariehaynes• SAVE YOUR SPOT IN ANTI-SOCIAL SCHOOL: https://www.hollymariehaynes.com/schooldeposit• WORK WITH HOLLY: www.hollymariehaynes.com/workwith me
In this episode, join us as we dive deep with Amy Green Smith, a powerhouse of transformation blending her expertise as a certified life coach and hypnotherapist with the art of masterful speaking and courageous communication. Amy channels her multifaceted roles—coach, writer, podcaster, and speaker—to guide souls to a place where radical empowerment and self-worth bloom. Renowned for her unique blend of irreverence, wisdom, and humor, Amy's mission to help others "find their voice" has made her a beacon of inspiration, earning her accolades in Inspired Coach Magazine and appearances on Fox 5 San Diego. Amy and I dish on: - Amy's two-fold methodology for building self-esteem - How our actions and behavior towards others dictate our own self-worth - How to break unconscious and habitual negative talk - The very best thing to do when you feel pressured to say “YES” (but don't want to) - Creating boundaries versus enforcing rules - How your emotional quotient affects your feelings of worthiness Purchase your copy of Love Based Feminine Marketing: The Art of Growing a 6-Figure Business Without Hustle, Grind, or Force, (https://tinyurl.com/ydmzb6qz) TODAY!!! Subscribe now so you'll never miss an episode and leave us a review. It really helps us know which content is most important to you. Join our Feminine Business Magic Facebook Group (https://tinyurl.com/ygdkw7ce) with your host, Julie Foucht. This is a community of women dedicated to connecting, supporting, and celebrating each other in growing businesses that honor their Divine Feminine while filling their bank accounts abundantly. Resources mentioned: Purchase Love-Based Feminine Marketing (https://tinyurl.com/ydmzb6qz) Amy Green Smith's Free Gift: Download: Speak Up for Yourself without Being a Dick: 9 Proven Strategies to Radically Improve Your Self-Confidence and Self-Worth. http://amygreensmith.com/free Connect with Amy on Social Media: http://instagram.com/heyamygreensmith https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith http://twitter.com/heyamygreen **Contact Amy Green Smith via Facebook or https://amygreensmith.com/** **Connect with Julie Foucht via Facebook (https://tinyurl.com/yeb82uuj) or email at https://juliefoucht.com/**
“You can actually speak up for yourself with poise and grace and kindness.” –Amy Green SmithCan you be compassionate and assertive at the same time? I'm really excited to talk with Amy Green Smith about self-empowerment and how she stopped being a people pleaser.Don't think you are a people pleaser? We go beyond the idea of people pleasing being something a timid wallflower does. Any time we alter who we are in order to gain favor from another person or party at a cost to us is people pleasing. Sometimes we people please to stay safe. It's important to see where people pleasing is keeping us safe and where it is stealing our joy.We don't always have to be disrupters. Sometimes we just want to be ourselves. The middle path can be messy, but it's possible to stand up for ourselves without anger. We can communicate without yelling and screaming or biting our tongue all the time. We talk about: Taking up equal space with people with different ideasSetting and holding boundaries around challenging areas in relationshipsHow to live life according to what you want, not other's demands Recognizing and feeling dichotomous feelings and not falling prey to guiltGoing back to your internal compass and checking your intentionQuestions to ask to find your truthABOUT AMYAmy Green Smith is a certified and credentialed life coach and hypnotherapist, masterful speaker, and personal empowerment expert. Amy uses her roles as coach, writer, podcaster, and speaker to move individuals to a place of radical personal empowerment and self-worth. With acute focus on helping people “find their voice”, she is highly sought after for her uncommon style of irreverence, wisdom, and humor and has been a featured expert in Inspired Coach Magazine and on Fox 5 San Diego.LINKSWebsite: https://amygreensmith.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heyamygreensmith/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith/DOABLE CHANGESAt the end of every episode, we share three doable changes, so you can take what you've heard and put it into action. Action is how change happens.Often we feel like our actions have to be huge to match the bigness of our desires, but we have seen over and over and over again that the little things add up. By stacking up a series of Doable Changes, you will create that big change that you crave. Choose the one that really resonates with you this week and really make it part of your life. Here are Three Doable Changes from this conversation:CHECK YOUR INNER COMPASS. You will get a lot of feedback from other people, and it's not helpful. When you are feeling bad about how people react to something you say or do, return to your inner compass and check your intention.FIND YOUR TRUTH. Use this three prong question to find your truth in any situation. Ask: What are the facts of the situation? What am I making up? What else could be true? SET A BOUNDARY. Boundary setting is not easy. It takes time and energy, but it is an important step to living the life you want to live and giving up harmful people pleasing. Start by getting really clear about what you will and will not tolerate. Then communicate that firmly and with compassion.
Our guest today, Amy Green Smith wants you to know: You are not a fraud. You are not uniquely broken. Your voice matters. But to believe all this, you must first know that you are worthy. Amy is a life coach, a hypnotherapist, and personal empowerment expert, but mostly, an amazing human. She's also the host of the Bold-Faced Truth Podcast and the author of Speak Up For Yourself Without Being a Dick. In today's episode, Rachael and Amy talk about people-pleasing and why we do it. You may be surprised to learn that some forms of people-pleasing are necessary and it's not just something that introverts do. And what does being assertive and setting boundaries have to do with your inner critic? They are all intertwined and they are all things that YOU, yes YOU can get a hold of. It just takes some awareness and some courage. Amy wants you to enjoy your badass self because you deserve it. And we want you to enjoy this episode! Amy's Links: Speak Up For Yourself Without Being A Dick Host of The Bold-Faced Truth podcast Free Hypno Track on Fear and Anxiety (00:00:00) Introduction (00:03:50) The importance of sisterhood (00:04:48) Amy's background and how she made her way to the self-empowerment space (00:11:01) What people pleasing means and why it applies to so many women (00:19:00) Whether or not there's a “right” way for women to communicate (00:25:40) Establishing strong boundaries instead of fuzzy ones (00:33:29) Your inner critic's set point and how to reset it (00:34:25) Looking for entry points to progressive language in your thoughts and feelings (00:42:24) Why so many women have imposter complex (00:50:13) Reframing fear so it's not something to be afraid of (00:51:22) What the world would look like if every woman felt like she mattered, deserved things, and could take up space CVG Related Links: The CVG Nation app, for iPhone The CVG Nation app, for Android Our Fitness FB Group. Thick Thighs Save Lives Workout Programs Constantly Varied Gear's Workout Leggings
This month is all about branding and specifically, we're helping you to be empowered to become the best version of you. We're talking to Amy Green Smith, a coach who specializes in teaching chronic people-pleasers how to speak up for themselves. Amy touches on topics such as navigating rejection to setting boundaries and overcoming people-pleasing tendencies. Amy shares her insights and experiences, shedding light on the complexities of asserting worth in a world filled with societal expectations. Amy shares her expertise on recognizing the subtle ways in which we internalize criticism and offers valuable advice on asserting ourselves authentically - and gives us actionable strategies for cultivating resilience, standing up for your values, and rewriting the narrative of your life. Everyone needs to listen to this episode! Follow Amy on IG: https://www.instagram.com/heyamygreensmith?igsh=cW8wdzd0dnY1bDE3 Calling All Brands is back!! I've compiled every tip, trick, and tactic to eliminate the guesswork from your business. Calling All Brands is the ultimate guide on how to build an intuitive brand tailored just for you. https://edenstrader.com/how-to-build-an-intuitive-brand Fill out an application for Becoming, our one-on-one business coaching for entrepreneurs: where artistic insight meets business strategy
This episode was a really fun one. In it, I chat with credentialed life coach, hypnotherapist, and personal empowerment expert, Amy Green Smith about fear, people-pleasing, feeling worthy, and taking up space. There's a lot more I want to say about it but it's one you should listen to and grab some nuggets from yourself! Here are some teasers... - Am I actually in danger or is this just new? - We have conflated what is familiar with what is comfortable. - Fear and people-pleasing aren't always "bad" - sometimes they're necessary and/or keep you safe. - Heightened emotional states require acute care, not personal development tools. - Our modern-day fear responses look different. - Progressive language (stating you are taking action toward something) can be really helpful in shifting beliefs. - Our bodies are forcing us to slow down... We have to TAKE rest because it is so rarely given. Want to grab Brené Brown's book as mentioned on the show? --> https://amzn.to/48yxPi8 ----- ** If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to hit that subscribe button and/or rate and review. I appreciate each one! ** ----- Prefer video (with closed captioning)? Head to YouTube: https://youtu.be/-oGM4DBq4vg - transcripts available there and on Apple Podcasts. ----- To learn more about Amy Green Smith and her work, head to amygreensmith.com. To hang out in her energy, connect with her on Instagram @heyamygreensmith. ----- To learn more about me, Caryn Gillen, and the work that I do with high-integrity coaches and remarkable humans… Sign up for my weekly newsletter, The Playbook: https://caryngillen.activehosted.com/f/25 Connect with me on social: I'm @caryngillen in all the places Get FREE coaching by taking my 30 Days of Powerful Questions journey: https://caryngillen.com/ (30-Days to Clarity box) If you think I'm the coach for you, you're probably right! Message me to connect and we can figure out together where you fit.
We're covering a topic that falls into the category of “we've covered it before but it's worth repeating”. Because I know most, if not all, women struggle with setting and communicating boundaries as it flies in the face of our people-pleasing, helpful and perfectionist tendencies. So we're going to talk about Boundaries, again, but we're going to focus more on the actual words and what to say. Amy Green Smith joins us again for her last episode in our 4-part series (if you haven't listened to our last three episodes, I'd highly encourage you to do that!) Communicating boundaries in a productive and responsible way is going to require practice. Probably lots and lots of practice, given however many years we've spent not communicating them. Don't wait for your mic drop moment – don't expect perfection – don't spend endless amounts of time worrying about what the other person thinks about your boundary – just start practicing. Because that's how you get good at anything. Connect with Amy: Grab Amy's FREE-SOURCES at: https://amygreensmith.com/free Only 2 spots available in Amy's Signature Worthy Program! To learn more visit https://amygreensmith.com/worthy Like what you heard? Please rate and review Thanks to our This Is Woman's Work Sponsor: To learn more about Snooze Fest and our other reTREATS hosted by Nicole Kalil, join my community or sign up here to confirm your interest and get additional information: https://forms.gle/NgLvgfVS7B91FUJE6
If you're tuning in for the first time, or just because this topic was of interest to you, I want to point out that this is Part 2 of our conversation on Fear & Failure, so if you didn't listen to part 1 just yet, I'd encourage you to go back to episode 197 from last week and start there. If you've already listened to Part 1, then I'm going to assume you're here because you've been not-so-patiently waiting for the completion of this conversation… and I can tell you it'll be worth the wait. I'm joined by Amy Green Smith, life coach, hypnotherapist, speaker, and communication expert. There is so much I could say about Amy, but I'm going to share something she has on her website that gave me the chills and brought tears to my eyes because it's so REAL, it's so relevant, and it's so HER – she says “I was fucking DONE being motivated from a place of guilt and fear. I realized that if push came to shove and I had to decide between making my family happy or making me happy, I CHOSE ME”. I feel everything about that, deeply. No matter what, I don't care what is happening or what you're going thru, you are worthy and valuable. Neither fear nor failure can change that. Connect with Amy: Grab Amy's FREE-SOURCES and check out her 1:1 “Worthy” Coaching Program at: https://amygreensmith.com IG: http://instagram.com/heyamygreensmith FB: http://facebook.com/heyamygreensmith LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith X: http://twitter.com/heyamygreen Like what you heard? Please rate and review Thanks to our This Is Woman's Work Sponsor: To learn more about Snooze Fest and our other reTREATS hosted by Nicole Kalil, join my community or sign up here to confirm your interest and get additional information: https://forms.gle/NgLvgfVS7B91FUJE6
FEAR and FAILURE – sounds like a party right? I promise we'll have some fun with it, and give you actionable tools, but my biggest goal is for all of us to create a new, more productive, more empowered interpretation of fear and failure. Because we had such a great conversation last week I've invited Amy Green Smith, life coach, hypnotherapist, speaker, and communication expert to join me again. I appreciate her uncommon style of irreverence, wisdom, and humor! She released episode 500 of her amazing podcast “The Bold-Faced Truth” and then stopped recording, so I'm eternally grateful to her for her time and wisdom in joining me, and stupid excited that we get to release a few episodes with her as a guest on our show! We'll bring the rest of this conversation on Fear & Failure to you next week… and trust me when I say we're just getting warmed up. Our brain is a wonderful thing, but it sees what we KNOW as safe and the UNKNOWN as dangerous, so we need to teach our brains that all risk is not the same. You can be scared, and you can be brave. In fact, you need to be scared in order to be brave. Connect with Amy: To inquire about having Amy speak at your next event, visit https://amygreensmith.com Grab Amy's FREE-SOURCES (like how to “Speak Up for Yourself Without Being a Dick” at: https://amygreensmith.com/free IG: http://instagram.com/heyamygreensmith FB: http://facebook.com/heyamygreensmith LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith X: http://twitter.com/heyamygreen Like what you heard? Please rate and review Thanks to our This Is Woman's Work Sponsor: Head to zenimals.com/NICOLEMKALIL and use my code NICOLEMKALIL to save 10% off your Zenimal! Whether you're looking for yourself, your kid(s)/teens, as a gift for someone else - everyone will benefit from more moments of zen!
One of the most powerful things you have, that is directly linked to your confidence, is your VOICE. And I don't just mean what you say, though there is so much power in that. I mean what you put out into the world for other people to see, hear, feel and experience. Your words, sure, but also the sharing of your beliefs, knowledge, opinions, stories. Your truth, as you see it. Back in the day, very few people had their voices heard beyond their inner circle – but in an age of global connectedness that has changed. How do you, how can you, and how will you use your voice? Here to help us with all the how's is Amy Green Smith. Amy is a certified and credentialed life coach and hypnotherapist, masterful speaker, and courageous communication expert. Amy uses her roles as coach, writer, podcaster, and speaker to move individuals to a place of radical personal empowerment and self-worth. With her focus on helping people “find their voice”, she is highly sought after for her uncommon style of irreverence, wisdom, and humor. There's a quote that says “it only takes ONE voice, at the right pitch, to start an avalanche” – I share that as a reminder that your voice has power. Even with your knees shaking, palms sweating, with your head filled with doubt, your heart pounding with uncertainty, stumbling over your words – USE YOUR VOICE. Connect with Amy: IG: http://instagram.com/heyamygreensmith FB: http://facebook.com/heyamygreensmith LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith X: http://twitter.com/heyamygreen Grab Amy's FREE-SOURCES at: https://amygreensmith.com/free Like what you heard? Please rate and review Thanks to our This Is Woman's Work Sponsor: For CakesBody's grippy, not sticky, nipple covers visit cakesbody.com and use Promo Code: TIWW to get your 10% discount!
You know that bitch inside your head that keeps telling you to stay quiet, be nice, don't rock the boat and DEFINITELY don't say no if it's gonna upset someone else? Yeah, you know. Well today, it's time to learn what's really going on, why you even have an inner bitch, and what to do about it. Amy Green Smith is here to rock your world and set you straight about how to get your power back, communicate with clarity, and have big fucking boundaries. Not only that, she's giving you specific, real life examples of what to say in those situations where you don't know what to say! We also chat about: how doing the makeup for her dead Dad was the wake-up call she needed why 'Declaring the Do-Over' is going to free you from guilt the real reason you're a people pleaser (which will set you free) how to get yourself out of any conversation you don't want to have Amy is the compassionate voice of truth that we all need in our lives! Grab Amy's free stuff here! http://amygreensmith.com/free And as always, please subscribe, share and leave a review!
Ever find yourself saying "YES" when every fiber of your being screams "NO"? Are you tirelessly tweaking your actions and words to fit into the molds of others' expectations? If so, you might be a people-pleaser. People-pleasing can seem like a safety net, ensuring harmony and acceptance. But at what cost? Our guest, Amy Green Smith helps you explore that very question. Amy is a certified and credentialed life coach and hypnotherapist, masterful speaker, and personal empowerment expert. Amy uses her roles as coach, writer, podcaster, and speaker to move individuals to a place of radical personal empowerment and self-worth. In this episode you'll hear: 1. How people-pleasing isn't always bad and how to discern when it's ok or not 2. Her 3-step process - FMT - to use anytime you assume bad intentions from a comment, email, etc 3. The key first step to having a tough conversation with your boss and the thing you MUST own first 4. The power in asking people "Yes, No, or Counteroffer? 5. Her powerful house metaphor to help you deal with both the shit and the gifts that people send your way So if you find yourself consistently feeling drained, resentful, or compromising your own happiness for the sake of others, this episode is one you don't want to miss. Instagram: @HeyAmyGreensmith Website: HeyAmyGreensmith.com If you'd like quick tangible tips and practical corporate career advice to level up your authentic leadership, download the 10 simple “plays” to stop selling out and start standing out at https://bauthenticinc.mykajabi.com/freebie To connect with Erin and/or Nicole, email: hello@bauthenticinc.com If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Follow b Cause on Twitter (really it's mostly Nicole) Follow Erin on LinkedIn or Instagram Join the b Cause Podcast Facebook Group Take our simple, fun and insightful"What's your workplace superhero name?”quiz Unleash your Authentic Superpower with Erin's book,"You Do You (ish)" Check out our blog for more no-BS career advice Work with Us Or just buy some fun, authentic, kick-ars merch here DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments “Am I going to choose you or am I going to choose me? I'm done choosing everyone else. I'm going to choose me.” “I care so much about my stance or my opinion that I'm willing to take up space.” “Start with owning your shit.” “What are the facts? What am I making up? What is the truth? Find my truth.”
DEATS with Deanna: Discussions around Food & Entrepreneurship
Joining the show today is the incredible Amy Green Smith! Amy is a certified and credentialed life coach and hypnotherapist, masterful speaker, and courageous communication expert. She is also the host of The Bold-Faced Truth podcast. She focuses largely on teaching chronic people-pleasers how to speak up for themselves without being riddled with guilt and fear. Over the next 40 minutes, we dive into all things people pleasing, what people pleasing actually is, and how you can finally stop. We discuss how you can ditch the self-limiting beliefs and grow on your self-discovery journey. We also dive into the intersection of being a female entrepreneur, a recovering people pleaser, and someone who is high achieving. Amy uncovers strategies that you can implement right now and find your voice. In today's episode, you will hear: Strategies that you can use to overcome being a people pleaser The science behind people pleasing Developing self-awareness to kick imposter syndrome to the curb How to find your voice and why it matters Connect with Amy: Website: https://amygreensmith.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/heyamygreensmith/ This episode is sponsored by the Online Entrepreneur Academy. Are you a dietitian or female wellness expert that's feeling undervalued in your job? Not passionate about what you're doing, or are you working one to one with clients now and want to scale your private practice to group an online coach courses and programs, then OEA is perfect for you. This is a three month high touch coaching program and we are currently enrolling for our next cohort. Find our more and apply here.
Margo is joined by certified and credentialed life coach and hypnotherapist, masterful speaker, and courageous communication expert Amy Green Smith. Amy uses her roles as coach, writer, podcaster, and speaker to move individuals to a place of radical personal empowerment and self-worth. With acute focus on helping people “find their voice”, she is highly sought after for her uncommon style of irreverence, wisdom, and humor. Margo and Amy discuss: Her life crisis moment that led her to leave an industry she had great success in The importance of effective communication and emotional well-being Learning to find your voice and powerfully say 'No' as an artist Combatting people-pleasing in business Finding the right words, creating boundaries, and cultivating self-worth as an entrepreneur Navigating uncomfortable conversations The science behind our four fear responses (and how they hold creatives back) Her amazing Free-sources And so much more! Connect with Amy: Amygreensmith.com http://amygreensmith.com/free http://instagram.com/heyamygreensmith http://facebook.com/heyamygreensmith https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith http://twitter.com/heyamygreen Connect with Margo: www.windowsillchats.com www.instagram.com/windowsillchats www.patreon.com/inthewindowsill
The Root and Rise Podcast | Personal Growth, Motherhood, & Healing Trauma
We are talking all things BOUNDARIES. This is the final episode of my series with Amy Green Smith. Whether you're joining us for the first time or have been following along with the rest of this series, you're in for a treat. Amy teaches us how to powerfully say no, how to set (and enforce) boundaries with others, and how to overcome guilt associated with any pushback. JOIN THE CONVERSATION: https://www.rootandriseblog.com/join-the-convo/ Let your voice be heard in future content through my Community Survey. It's the perfect place to ask any questions that may come up as you listen to this podcast —you could be featured in upcoming episodes! You can also share your story by filling out a Speaker Application. In my previous episodes with Amy, we dove into difficult conversations: How to start them, end them, what to say, and how to stand up for yourself. As well as how to overcome imposter syndrome and finally stop people-pleasing. And those themes didn't stop there. In this episode, Amy continues to provide even more strategies for navigating those uncomfortable conversations surrounding boundaries AND overcoming people-pleasing - this time in the form of overexplaining when setting a boundary and holding more of someone else's experience than is ours to hold. Amy walks us into actually embracing boundaries without the unnecessary justifications. And you know we can't talk about boundaries without talking about what happens when someone doesn't respect those boundaries. Don't worry, we got you. Amy gives us actionable advice on handling situations where others disregard your boundaries, advocating for your children, and enforcing consequences when those limits are crossed. Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@rootandrisepodcast TOPICS: How to powerfully say no Using emotional intelligence for stronger boundaries Overcoming guilt for setting boundaries How to stop apologizing as a woman How to not hold someone else's experience when setting boundaries How to reframe guilt An exercise for overcoming guilt Overexplaining and people pleasing Boundaries without explanation Buying yourself time to respond to someone When someone is demanding an answer right away from you Using vulnerability and connectedness to compassionately set boundaries Examples of setting boundaries compassionately and firmly How to say no without an explanation How to take up space as a woman What to do when other people don't respect your boundaries What to do when someone doesn't respect your boundaries When you feel like someone isn't respecting your boundaries How to decide on your boundaries Set firm boundaries Enforcing your boundaries with others Examples of setting boundaries around diet culture Examples of enforcing boundaries with someone who isn't respecting your boundaries Asking someone to stop talking about food around you Setting consequences for someone not respecting your boundary How to make sure people respect your boundaries Setting boundaries with friends Setting boundaries with family Advocating for your children Setting boundaries for your children Following up with your boundaries Staying strong with your boundaries “If I'm saying yes to this person, what am I saying no to?” “Am I doing anything wrong according to me?” Enforcing consequences with others Honoring yourself and your feelings Responding to someone crossing your boundary Reinstating boundaries with others for healthy relationships The role self-worth plays in setting and maintaining boundaries Self-worth determines our choices How to speak up for yourself When someone doesn't approve of your choices Taking up space in your life Valuing your needs as much (and if not more) than others Cutting off family Changing your belief from “i'm not enough” to “i'm enough” How to feel like you are enough How to begin believing you are enough Changing your environment to improve self-worth Creating personal mantras to improve your self-worth and self-esteem --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rootandrisepodcast/message
Today if you struggle with people pleasing this one's for you. My guest Amy Green Smith, life coach and communication expert, shares some insights to help empower people pleasers. She talks about the origins of people pleasing, why we people please, and when people pleasing makes sense. Amy defines people pleasing as sacrificing something of self to make sure that other people are happy. Often it's rooted in a feeling of self inflicted sense of threat, lack of value or unworthiness. When that's the case, we can equate pleasing others with our worth and self preservation. If this sounds familiar, grab a cuppa something wonderful and join us! https://amygreensmith.com/This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/4127929/advertisement
In this episode, Kristen sits down with Amy Green Smith, a certified life coach and courageous communication expert. They delve into overcoming the fear of difficult conversations and navigating self-worth and perfectionism in effective communication. www.amygreensmith.com Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.
As a reminder, I'll be offering Land Your Dream Job Accelerator again in January. Here's the link for more information and to register: https://bit.ly/lydja As those of you who listen to the podcast regularly know, I seldom have guests on the podcast – and only when they are fantastic and will add value to you listeners. Today's guest, Amy Green Smith, is a perfect example of this. We're talking about People Pleasing – something many of you are very familiar with. Amy tells us when it is okay to people-please in the workplace – and how to know if you're doing it for the right reasons. She gives several scenarios to help us understand people pleasing, when it's right, and when it isn't. You can grab Amy's free-sources including “How to Speak Up for Yourself Without Being a Dick: 9 Proven Strategies to Radically Improve Your Self-Confidence and Self-Worth” at Amygreensmith.com/free You can find Amy Green Smith on social media at:Instagram.com/heyamygreensmithFacebook.com/heyamygreensmithLinkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmithTwitter.com/heyamygreen Are you in the wrong job that chips away at you every day? The CareerSpring document and coaching program will help you find a job that uses your zone of genius, recognizes your value, and pays you what you're worth. If you're ready to take your job search to the next level by working with a highly experienced professional with a track record of client success, schedule a complimentary consult to learn more: https://calendly.com/lesaedwards/zoom-meetings2
Amy Green Smith is a certified Life Coach, masterful Speaker, and Host of The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast. She joins Kathryn today to break down what it looks like to speak kindly to ourselves when our bodies go through changes, how the sub-conscious and the conscious mind play a part in our thought patterns, and how we can add tools to our toolbelt to believe our worth!Follow me on Instagram: @kathryn_benkoHeart + Sole @heartandsolepodcastSole Fitness @sole_fitnessFollow me on TikTok: @kathrynbenkoVisit Amy's Website HERE! Follow Amy on Instagram: @heyamygreensmithSign up for the Sole Online Training App!Use coupon code 'SOLE20' for 20% off your first month!!
Amy Green Smith is a certified and credentialed life coach and hypnotherapist, masterful speaker, and personal empowerment expert. Amy uses her roles as coach, writer, podcaster, and speaker to move individuals to a place of radical personal empowerment and self-worth. With acute focus on helping people “find their voice”, she is highly sought after for her uncommon style of irreverence, wisdom, and humor and has been a featured expert in Inspired Coach Magazine and on Fox 5 San Diego. Check out Amy's profoundly transformational group coaching immersion WORTHY - which includes TWO luxury in-person retreats. It's been almost FIVE YEARS since Amy's original appearance on Thrive LouD (a true Classic) and this conversation between Amy and Lou is just as epic. ***CONNECT WITH LOU DIAMOND & THRIVE LOUD***