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The Doctor is back! Dr. Morgan Cutlip is our returning champion this week. She's an author, podcast, mother of two, and has a Doctorate in Counseling Psychology. Her latest book, 'A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great Sex,' arrives today and is a hands-on book for couples who want to form a deeper connection and balance the mental load that we all have.  Get Dr. Morgan's book: https://drmorgancutlip.com/bs-preorder/ Join us: http://dadville.substack.com Thanks to our sponsors! Shopify - Sign up for your $1-per-month trial period at http://shopify.com/dadville Good Ranchers - Visit http://goodranchers.com and use the code dadville to claim your free meat and get $25 off. Quince - Go to http://quince.com/dadville for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Morgan Cutlip is back—and this episode might just change everything about how you see your relationship. In one of Ginny's favorite conversations ever on the podcast, Morgan dives into the real reasons marriage shifts so dramatically after kids. Her new book The Better Share brilliantly names what so many couples experience but can't quite articulate: the invisible weight of the mental, emotional, and physical labor that moms often carry alone. From party balloons to Costco water bottles, Morgan and Ginny unpack everyday moments that represent something much deeper—why moms are overwhelmed, why resentment creeps in, and why it feels like everything has changed. But this isn't a book—or an episode—about blame. It's about breakthroughs. Morgan shares practical language, frameworks, and scripts to help couples finally get on the same team again. If you've ever wondered why you're carrying so much or how to get real help (without another argument), this episode is for you. It's laugh-out-loud relatable, deeply validating, and packed with hope. Marriage after kids can be good—it just takes a better share. ** Get your copy of the absolutely wonderful marriage book The Better Share here Learn more about Dr. Morgan Cutlip and all she has to offer here ** A huge thank you to our sponsors! Check them ALL out below:  Geviti: Visit https://www.gogeviti.com/1000hoursoutside for 20% off your first three months of membership! Active Skin Repair: Visit www.ActiveSkinRepair.com  to learn more about Active Skin Repair and their commitment to 1% for the planet and use code: 1000hours to save 20% on all Active Skin Repair products Select Quote: Head to www.selectquote.com/1000hours to learn more.  Crowd Health: Learn more at www.joincrowdhealth.com and get started today for just $99 per month for your first three months by using code 1000HOURS.  GoMinno: Download the Minno App or visit www.GoMinno.com  to become a member TODAY! BetterHelp: Visit  www.BetterHelplcom/1000HOURS  today to get 10% off your first month. Thrive Market: Visit www.thrivemarket.com/1000hours for 30% off your first order plus a FREE $60 gift! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Dr. Morgan Cutlips delve into the complexities of the mental load in relationships, particularly focusing on the emotional labor involved in parenting and household responsibilities. They explore how the mental load affects attraction and communication between partners, the importance of recognizing and sharing responsibilities, and strategies to navigate resentment and achieve a fair balance in relationships. In this conversation, Morgan and Nina explore the complexities of household responsibilities and the mental load that often falls disproportionately on women. They discuss the importance of communication, appreciation, and the need for couples to navigate their roles in a partnership effectively. Morgan shares practical strategies for making invisible tasks visible and framing conversations about the mental load in a way that fosters understanding and collaboration. The discussion also touches on how the mental load can impact intimacy and connection within relationships, emphasizing the need for appreciation and teamwork. 00:00: Understanding the Mental Load 12:10: The Emotional Labor of Parenting 23:46: Navigating Resentment and Fairness in Relationships 24:29: Navigating Household Responsibilities 26:10: The Piling On of Precedence 28:31: Making the Invisible Visible 32:31: Communicating the Mental Load 36:24: Framing Difficult Conversations 40:25: The Impact of Mental Load on Intimacy Dr. Morgan Cutlip, PhD in Psychology and highly sought after relationship expert, knows what it feels like to lose yourself in motherhood, and she's determined to help mothers navigate it better. Throughout her career, she has helped hundreds of thousands of people worldwide learn how to form and maintain healthy relationships. Dr. Morgan has been a featured relationship expert with Good Morning America, Teen Vogue, The New York Times, Women's Health Magazine, MOPS International, Loveology, and Flo, the #1 app in health and fitness. Her new book, A Better Share, is available now! Episode Sponsor: Visit activeskinrepair.com  to learn more about Active Skin Repair and to get 20% off your order, use code: MAMAKNOWS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Dream It, Do It Podcast, I'm joined by the amazing Dr. Morgan Cutlip—author, psychologist, and someone whose Instagram posts have stopped me in my scroll more times than I can count. Her take on relationships, motherhood, and that invisible “mental load” so many of us carry? Totally spot on. We talk about:

My guest today is the incredible Dr. Morgan Cutlip, a powerhouse psychologist and relationship expert who truly gets it. She knows firsthand what it's like to lose yourself in motherhood, and she's on a mission to help other women navigate this challenge. We're talking about her groundbreaking new book, "A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great Sex," which addresses something I know you've all felt—that mental load that's weighing you down. This conversation is real, raw, and exactly what you need to hear. Dr. Cutlip isn't just talking theory here—she's helped hundreds of thousands of people build stronger relationships, and she's been featured everywhere from Good Morning America to The New York Times. We dig into why so many women feel overwhelmed, how to build a truly great marriage, and how to stop seeing your partner as the enemy. Plus, her I Dare You challenge will instantly transform your relationship. If you're ready for an approach that empowers couples to understand each other better and helps you feel like a team again, hit play! Let's go! Connect with Dr. Morgan Cutlip: Instagram: @drmorgancutlip www.drmorgancutlip.com

Dr. Morgan Cutlip, relationship expert, is no stranger to the HERself Podcast and we are so excited to have her back for another episode! Together we will be tackling “mental load” with tangible strategies that can actually work for you, your relationship, and your home. We talked with Dr. Morgan in episode 162, and in episode 163 we shared how we implemented her wisdom. But today, we'll be diving deeper into our relationships to understand why sharing the mental load can prevent burnout and resentment and how to keep the spark alive to have a satisfying sex life. Like Amy and Colin, we know some of you in our community travel for work or have a spouse that travels for work. We acknowledge that this dynamic makes sharing the mental load challenging, and Dr. Morgan has some strategies to consider to foster communication while apart. Intimacy can play a major role in feeling connected to your partner too, so we encourage you to take to heart the details of Dr. Morgan's interview with us today to nurture your relationship and feel connected outside and inside of the bedroom!Links & Resources:Free Shipping at GOODR with code ‘HERSELF'20% off at Vuori ClothingJoin us for Book Club starting soon, plus so much more in our private Patreon community!Follow Dr. Morgan Cutlip on InstagramDr. Morgan's WebsiteOrder Dr. Morgan's Book; “A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great Sex”HERself Episode 162 - Dr. Morgan Cutlip Answers Our Top Relationship Questions HERself Episode 163 - Real Partnership: How We Implemented Dr. Morgan Cutlip's Relationship WisdomLet's connect!HERSELF PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/herselfpodcastJoin our exclusive community for bonus episodes, extra video content, book club and more!HERSELF INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/herselfpodcastMEET AMY: http://instagram.com/ameskieferMEET ABBY: http://instagram.com/abbyrosegreenThis episode was brought to you by the Pivot Ball Change Network.

Who can get in a sexy state of mind when they're dealing with the triple threat of emotional load, cognitive load, and the physical demands of partnership and parenting, too. Mental load inequity is now recognized as the leading source of relationship tension through research, but what can we do about that when not one but both partners feel equally burdened? In this enlightening conversation, we answer just that with relationship psychologist Dr. Morgan Cutlip (Type 9), as we explore the principles from her BRAND NEW book on a long-awaited topic, an already #1 Christian Marriage early marriage bestselling book "A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great Sex." Drawing from her expertise in relationship psychology and her peacemaker perspective, Dr. Cutlip offers practical strategies for mental load sharing that honor each partner's strengths and abilities realistically. Discover why traditional approaches to division of labor often fail, how to recognize invisible contributions and specific communication tools that prevent resentment. Whether you're struggling with household management, parenting responsibilities, or emotional labor imbalance, this episode provides a framework for creating harmony without sacrificing anyone's well-being. Learn how a better share of responsibilities can lead not just to more equitable partnerships, but also to more fun, less resentment, and yes—even better sex. Watch on YouTube www.DrMorganCutlip.com If you're listening on our E + M podcast release date of Monday, April 7th, you can also use this to get the pre-order bonuses! https://drmorgancutlip.com/bs-preorder Get the new book, A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great Sex here! https://a.co/d/g7e3qKv For more help discovering your relationship healing journey, visit www.EnneagramandMarriage.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of The Sabrina Zohar Show, psychologist and author Dr. Morgan Cutlip joins Sabrina to unpack the three silent relationship killers that derail connection: resentment, unmet needs, and unrealistic expectations. Whether you're single, dating, or married with kids, this conversation dives into how these patterns sneak in, how to name them before they take over, and how to build emotional safety without losing your voice. From the belief that “they should just know” to the fear of being too much, Dr. Morgan and Sabrina explore how communication, vulnerability, and clear needs are the foundation of sustainable intimacy. You'll learn how to express your needs without guilt, how to approach hard conversations without triggering defensiveness, and how to avoid falling into the toxic “mothering” dynamic that kills attraction. The episode is filled with personal stories, relatable insights, and no-BS tools to help you stop walking on eggshells and start creating the kind of partnership you actually want. Whether you're navigating a new relationship or reevaluating a long-term one, this episode offers the clarity and compassion you need to move forward. Get Dr. Cutlip's book: A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great Sex MERCH IS NOW AVAILABLE! Stuck After the Podcast? Master Implementation in 8 Weeks with Sabrina's Foundation Course HERE! Do you feel like your emotions run the show and react in ways you can't control? Join the Nervous System 101: Navigating the Unknowns In Early Dating from Sabrina and Masha Kay HERE! Struggling with a breakup? Join the Make It Make Sense: Getting Through a Breakup course from Sabrina and Britt Frank HERE! Get Ad free HERE! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Don't forget to follow Sabrina and The Sabrina Zohar Show on Instagram and Sabrina on TikTok! Video now available on YOUTUBE! Please support our sponsors! Get 25% Off @goPure with code SABRINA HERE! Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formally known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

Do you ever feel overwhelmed by the invisible yet relentless responsibilities that occupy your mind every single day? You're not alone. In today's insightful conversation, Dr. Alison welcomes psychologist and relationship expert Dr. Morgan Cutlip, author of a brand new book, A Better Share, to unpack the complexities of the mental load. Dr. Cutlip brings clarity and practical strategies to a topic that often creates tension and misunderstanding within families. Together, they explore: * The definition and dimensions of the mental load—physical, mental, and emotional. * Why women typically bear more of this invisible labor. * How to recognize signs of mental overload and prevent burnout and resentment. * Practical, real-world solutions for effectively communicating and sharing responsibilities with your partner. Have a question for Dr. Alison? Leave it here. Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here. If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love: Episode 122: Navigating Anxiety, Therapy, and Spiritual Formation—Balancing Mental, Emotional, & Spiritual Health with John Mark Comer Thanks to our sponsors: For 20% off your order, head to Reliefband.com and use code BESTOFYOU. Go to Quince.com/bestofyou for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! Visit GoGeviti.com to learn more about how you can start optimizing your health without leaving home today and use code BESTOFYOU. Contact Restoring the Soul today and learn how their Intensive Counseling Process can jump start your journey to the place you want to be. As a special gift for The Best of You podcast listeners, download their pdf called "5 Ways Unresolved Trauma May Be Derailing Your Relationship." I want all my listeners to enjoy a deep, restful night's sleep with a new mattress from Birch. Go to birchliving.com/bestofyou for 20% off sitewide! Music by Andy Luiten Sound editing by Kelly Kramarik While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You can love your spouse and still feel overwhelmed by the unspoken responsibilities constantly running through your mind. The mental load is the invisible to-do list in your head—and when roles and responsibilities feel imbalanced, it can quietly erode connection, create resentment, and impact intimacy. In this episode, we're joined by Dr. Morgan Cutlip— author of the upcoming book A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load—for one of the most important conversations couples need to have. Together we explore: • How to bring up the mental load in a way that unites you, not divides you • A simple but powerful question your spouse can ask instead of getting defensive • What unspoken resentment actually sounds like in day-to-day marriage • The surprising link between mental overload and decreased intimacy • And how to reset your roles and reconnect as a team Whether you're the one carrying the weight or you're not even sure what the “mental load” really is—this episode will open your eyes and strengthen your marriage.

Have you ever felt like the weight of the household is constantly on your shoulders? That you're the one keeping everything running while your partner is blissfully unaware of all the behind-the-scenes work? If so, you're not alone—and there's a way out of the cycle of frustration and resentment.This week, I sit down with Dr. Morgan Cutlip to talk about her new book, A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great Sex. She's here to unpack what the mental load really is, why it falls so heavily on women, and how couples can work together to create balance.We discuss:✅ What the mental load is and why so many moms carry an unfair share.✅ The resentment trap—why unspoken frustration builds and how to address it before it damages your relationship.✅ How to have ‘the talk' with your partner—effective ways to communicate about mental load without starting a fight.✅ Why equity in household labor leads to better intimacy (yes, there's a direct connection!).✅ Practical, real-world strategies to redistribute tasks in a way that actually works.See the full show notes here.You can find the Audiobook Version of Doing it All: Stop Over-Functioning and Become the Mom and Person You're Meant to Be HERE.

If you feel like you're the one keeping track of everything—from doctor's appointments to school forms to remembering what's in the fridge—you're not imagining it. The mental load is real, and for most women, it's overwhelming.In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Morgan Cutlip, a psychologist and relationship expert, to talk about why the mental load falls so heavily on women and, more importantly, how to start sharing it with your partner—without the resentment.In This Episode, We'll Explore:What the mental load actually is and why women carry more of itHow unspoken expectations create invisible responsibilitiesWhy simply asking for “help” isn't the answer—and what to do insteadReal-life strategies to rebalance household and family responsibilitiesConnect with Dr. Morgan Cutlip:Website: www.drmorgancutlip.comInstagram: @drmorgancutlipPre-order A Better Share: https://shorturl.at/2HtXk________________________________Overwhelmed? Frazzled? Tired of your calendar controlling you?You are in the right place! Sign up for this free, on-demand training and learn how to gain control of your time no matter what life throws at you!>>> https://www.megansumrell.com/freetraining ________________________________Thanks for tuning in!Megan

"What if our partner says they'll do something, but they don't follow through?" "How do we get our partners to care about all the details of home/family management?" These are just two of the questions I ask relationship expert and author Dr. Morgan Cutlip on today's episode of Paring Down. "The mental load" is a big term getting a lot of attention these days because it's an important component to healthy, happy relationships. Clutter can feel like one big "to-do" list, and if we shoulder the responsibility for dealing with it by ourselves, it's recipe for resentment and disconnection in our relationship. In today's episode, relationship expert Dr. Morgan Cutlip shares about her new book "A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great Sex," coming out April 15th. I think you'll love her positive yet realistic take. Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube DR. MORGAN CUTLIP INFORMATION: Order Dr. Morgan Cutlip's book: "A Better Share" HERE drmorgancutlip.com Dr. Morgan Instagram: @drmorgancutlip  PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free) Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm For Hers Hair Growth: https://www.forhers.com/paring Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at lumedeodorant.com- use code PARING 50% off your first box of EveryPlate meal service with code paring50: www.everyplate.com/podcast 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feeling buried under the invisible weight of family life? You're not alone. Dr. Morgan Cutlip joins us for a raw, honest conversation about the unspoken reality of marriage after children.This conversation tackles the infamous "mental load" – that seemingly endless running to-do list. Dr. Cutlip brilliantly breaks it down into three overlapping domains: physical tasks, mental planning, and emotional labor. The "triple threat" tasks requiring all three simultaneously explain why parenthood can feel so depleting. And yes, she confirms, this directly impacts desire and intimacy in ways other mental load discussions rarely address.What sets this discussion apart is the practical hope it offers. Rather than falling into what Dr. Cutlip calls the "hardship Olympics" where partners compete over who has it worse, she offers tools to break cycles of resentment that trap many couples.Dr. Cutlip's upcoming book "A Better Share" promises a refreshing approach that views couples as teammates against the impossible standards of modern parenting rather than opponents. For anyone feeling lost in the fog of early parenthood or wondering if their relationship struggles are normal – this conversation offers validation, practical tools, and most importantly, the assurance that you can find your way back to connection.Pre-order Dr. Morgan Cutlip's book "A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment and Great Sex" available April 8th, 2025, wherever books are sold.Follow Morgan @drmorgancutlip --------This episode is sponsored by Feast and Fettle Use code GATHER25 for $25 your first week of professional chef meals delivered straight to your door! 

We are in for such a fun conversation today with Dr. Morgan Cutlip, author of A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great Sex, which is out April 8. In today's episode, Morgan teaches us why understanding the mental load is so important to a successful partnership. She teaches us that the mental load is comprised of three parts—physical, cognitive, and emotional, and we talk about that, as well as the cycle of unmet needs, the PAR acronym and what it means for both men and women, and what the death spiral is in a relationship. We also talk about what the default partner versus the non-default partner means as far as ownership of a task, and so much more from this great book. Morgan calls herself a “lifelong lover of all things relationship,” and she has worked in the field of relationship education for over 15 years alongside her dad, Dr. John Van Epp, who is the founder of Love Thinks and the developer of multiple relationship education courses that have been taught to over one million people worldwide. Morgan is also the author of the 2023 book Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself: 5 Steps to Banish Guilt and Beat Burnout When You Already Have Too Much to Do, and she earned a master's degree in human development and family science and a doctorate in counseling psychology. She's also just so easy to talk to and so much fun. I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I enjoyed having this conversation.A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great Sex by Dr. Morgan Cutlip

Let's talk about that feeling. The one where you're managing doctor's appointments, school events, birthday gifts, grocery lists, carpool logistics—and yet somehow, it still looks like you're "just" staying on top of life. But under the surface? It's heavy. It's exhausting. It's invisible. In today's conversation, I sat down with Dr. Morgan Cutlip (yes, again—and you'll see why!) to talk about her brand-new book A Better Share and how we can finally name, understand, and redistribute the mental load many of us carry. We dive deep into what the mental load actually is (spoiler: it's more than just remembering appointments), how it shows up in your everyday life, and how to finally start conversations with your partner that don't end in frustration or tears. Even if you feel like you've already "tried talking about it," this episode offers powerful reframes, practical scripts, and gentle encouragement to keep going—because you deserve a life that doesn't constantly feel like one giant to-do list. In this episode, we chat about: Why "just tell me what to do" misses the mark in partnerships The 3 overlapping types of tasks that make up the mental load (and why they're so hard to delegate) The hidden cost of emotional labor in motherhood What to say when your partner gets defensive (and how to prep for the convo so you don't spiral) How to ask for appreciation (and why that's not needy—it's necessary!) If you've ever felt like you're carrying too much—and no one quite sees it—this episode is a must-listen.

#820: Join us as we sit down with Dr. Morgan Cutlip – relationship expert & author, who shares actionable strategies for navigating mental load, marriage, & motherhood. From identifying burnout in relationships to prioritizing self-care & overcoming guilt tied to household responsibilities, Dr. Morgan offers a roadmap for balancing it all. In this episode, Dr. Morgan dives into modern gender dynamics, shifting relationship roles, the power of appreciation, & the nuances of effective communication.   To Watch the Show click HERE   For Detailed Show Notes visit TSCPODCAST.COM   To connect with Dr. Morgan Cutlip click HERE   To connect with Lauryn Bosstick click HERE   To connect with Michael Bosstick click HERE   Read More on The Skinny Confidential HERE   Get your burning questions featured on the show! Leave the Him & Her Show a voicemail at +1 (512) 537-7194.   This episode is brought to you by The Skinny Confidential   Head to the HIM & HER Show ShopMy page HERE and LTK page HERE to find all of Michael and Lauryn's favorite products mentioned on their latest episodes.   To learn more about Dr. Morgan Cutlip and purchase her latest book, A Better Share, click HERE.   This episode is sponsored by The Skinny Confidential   Optimize your daily beauty routine. Shop The Skinny Confidential Mouth Tape at shoptheskinnyconfidential.com.   This episode is sponsored by Smart Mouth   Find SmartMouth at Walgreens, Walmart, Amazon or visit smartmouth.com/skinny to snag a special discount on your next SmartMouth purchase.   This episode is sponsored by NOBULL   Visit nobullproject.com/tsc for 30% off your entire order.    This episode is sponsored by Primal Kitchen   Head to primalkitchen.com/skinny to save 20% off your next online order with code SKINNY at checkout.   This episode is sponsored by Cymbiotika   Go to Cymbiotika.com/TSC for 20% off + free shipping.   This episode is sponsored by Skims   Check out SKIMS best intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection and more at skims.com/skinny #skimspartner   Produced by Dear Media

Looking for great sex in your marriage?In today's episode, I have a candid conversation with relationship expert Dr. Morgan Cutlip where we explore “the mental load” in marriage and how it can affect our sex life. Morgan defines the mental load as the invisible and seemingly ​never-ending ​to ​do ​list ​that ​we ​carry ​around ​in ​our ​heads (which often falls on women) and how it can lead to feelings of resentment in relationships. We also talk about the importance of communication and appreciation in marriage and we dive into practical steps for couples to enhance their connection (which can lead to great sex!). This discussion promises to challenge husbands to share the mental load with their wives and will equip listeners with practical tools for improving their relationships.Grab a copy of A Better Share (April 8, 2025)Thanks to our amazing partners on this episode: Vern Eide & International Justice Mission Vern Eide Motorcars is a growing employee-owned company that offers sales, service, and financing of automotive, motorcycle, and power sports lines, including Acura, Ford, Chevy, GMC, Honda, Hyundai and Mitsubishi brands. Whether you live locally or across the country, visit verneide.comInternational Justice Mission is a global nonprofit working to end slavery and violence around the world, taking special care of survivors from the moment they're rescued all the way through their healing and restoration. To learn more and support their mission, visit ijm.org Subscribe to The Conversation on YouTube and watch the full interview with Dr. Morgan: youtube.com/@adamaweber Sign up for The Crew: adamweber.com/thecrew  

My guest today, Dr Morgan Cutlip, is a sought-after relationship expert, but she doesn't talk down to moms - she's right in it with us.If you've ever had a disagreement with your spouse about who's doing more than the other in the home, how full your brain is, or whether one of you is angry or just using your “go time” or “business” voice – you need this info.We'll dig deep into mental load with topics such as:what the mental load IS and why it really really impacts our relationships…possible gender roles when it comes to mental load and how that impacts our marriagesthe conversations we need to have with spouses how to model good relationship building as a life skill for our kidsthe difference between discernment and judgement and how to teach that to our kidsone super practical tip to raise kids who take initiative as adultsResources We Mention for Balancing the Mental LoadCheck out Dr. Morgan's booksLove Your Kids Without Losing Yourself: Amazon, BookshopA Better Share: Amazon, BookshopFair Play by Eve RodskyMy interview with Tidy Dad Dr. Morgan's audio course for couplesFind Dr. Morgan onlineFollow her on social media: Facebook, Instagram, PinterestGet Dr. Morgan's free guide to talking to your partner about mental loadThanks to today's sponsor, Paleovalley. Shop here: https://kidscookrealfood.com/meatsticks Kitchen Stewardship Kids Cook Real Food follow Katie on Instagram or Facebook Subscribe to the newsletter to get weekly updates YouTube shorts channel for HPH Find the Healthy Parenting Handbook at kidscookrealfood.com/podcast Affiliate links used here. Thanks for supporting the Healthy Parenting Handbook!

If you enjoyed Part 1, you will love Part 2 of A Recipe for Success: Jeremy Cutlip's Rise in Insurance episode.  In this episode, Mike Papuc and John Ross Hopkin from our Health team continue the conversation with Jeremy and learn how he grew his insurance business in just 7 years with The Brokerage Inc. Jeremy's story starts in the restaurant industry where he created and cultivated many relationships.  Those relationships helped him transition to becoming a successful insurance agent.  If you missed Part 1, go back and listen here! Learn more about partnering with The Brokerage Inc. by visiting our website, www.thebrokerageinc.com. Remember to like, share, and subscribe to our show!  New episodes are available every Tuesday. Join our Community! Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brokerage-inc-/   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/thebrokerageinc/  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/thebrokerageinc/  YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@TheBrokerageIncTexas  Website:  https://thebrokerageinc.com/   

How can you go from working in the restaurant industry to thriving as an insurance agent?  It may not be everyone's story but it is agent Jeremy Cutlip's journey.  In this episode of The Broker Link, Mike Papuc and John Ross Hopkin from our Health team sit down with Jeremy to hear his story of success in just 7 years with The Brokerage Inc. Jeremy's story starts in the restaurant industry where he created and cultivated many relationships.  Those relationships helped him transition to becoming a successful insurance agent.  This is Part 1 of Jeremy's story of success. Learn more about partnering with The Brokerage Inc. by visiting our website, www.thebrokerageinc.com. Remember to like, share, and subscribe to our show!  New episodes are available every Tuesday. Join our Community! Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-brokerage-inc-/   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/thebrokerageinc/  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/thebrokerageinc/  YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@TheBrokerageIncTexas  Website:  https://thebrokerageinc.com/   

Motherkind Moment is your place for calm and connection and a shift in perspective before the week ahead.  When it comes to the mental load it can be very easy to feel like our partners aren't dragging their weight, and so often this results in feelings of resentment towards them. So this week we've brought in the incredible Dr. Morgan Cutlip to give us her best advice on how we keep those feelings at bay. For more powerful insights from Dr. Morgan Cutlip listen to the full episode here: Why you're resentful in your relationship - and how to fix it starting today Click Here to order your copy of 'Motherkind: A New way to thrive in a world of endless expectations' and gain access to a free 60 minute masterclass with Zoe - teaching the core principles of the book. This show is proudly sponsored by Stokke Shop Sambucol at Boots.com Get 15% off OneSkin with the code MOTHERKIND at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod Continue the Conversation: Join our community over on Instagram for inspiration, tips, and sometimes a bit of humour to get us through our day - @zoeblaskey Join our mailing list to receive news, updates and new episode releases Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this Monday episode of the brand new Ask Anna series, Anna is joined by Dr Morgan Cutlip relationship expert, psychologist and author. Together Anna and Morgan tackle the following connundrum: " I struggle to assert my needs after years of being the passive/happy to go along one in the relationship. How can I be more assertive?"About MorganDr. Morgan Cutlip is a relationship expert, psychologist, and author dedicated to helping people build and sustain meaningful connections.With a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology, Dr. Cutlip specialises in providing practical tools and insights to navigate the complexities of modern relationships.Her latest book, Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself, offers transformative advice for parents seeking balance and fulfillment. Learn more about her work on her official website or follow her on Instagram for daily inspiration and tips.

Do you feel like your mind is full of tasks making it hard to focus and be present with your family? Do you struggle to articulate what you need, feel, or want from your spouse?  Today, Dr. Morgan Cutlip is here to help us navigate the topic of mental load specifically as moms. Morgan is a psychologist and highly sought after relationship expert. Her book Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself helps moms advocate for their needs in a loving way. We cover a large range of issues facing parents today including…  The invisible running to-do list we keep in our minds. How to identify your needs and communicate them. How to get clear about what you feel and need so you do not confuse your spouse.  Identifying the two different types of guilt and how to respond.  The three domains of mental load- cognitive, physical, and emotional. Navigating the holiday season with the added tasks and pressure to make it magical.  Connect with Dr. Morgan Cutlip:  Website:  Dr. Morgan Cutlip Facebook: Dr. Morgan Cutlip Instagram:  Dr. Morgan Cutlip (@drmorgancutlip) Links Mentioned:   Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself by Dr. Morgan Cutlip A Better Share : How Couples Tackle the Mental Load  (pre-order)  How We Feel App  Related Episodes: Organize Your Mental Load  :: Laurel Denise [Ep 444] “How do I connect better with my kids?” [Ep 475] :: Summer of Mentorship Week 1 Body Awareness in Parenting :: Mary Van Geffen [Ep 333] Featured Sponsors:  Rosetta Stone - Start the New Year off with a resolution you CAN reach! Today Don't Mom Alone listeners can take advantage of this New Year's special of Rosetta Stone's LIFETIME Membership! Visit www.rosettastone.com/dma. That's unlimited access to 25 language courses for the rest of your life.  Thrive Market - Want to shop at a grocery store that actually cares for your health? Go to ThriveMarket.com/DMA for 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift.  Greenlight -A debit card and money app for parents to raise financially smart kids and families to navigate life, together. Sign up for Greenlight today at Greenlight.com/dma Find links to this week's sponsors and unique promo codes at dontmomalone.com/sponsors. 

Happened In the 90's hosted by Steve and Matt picks a day, any day, and then goes back in time to that magical decade we all know and love the 90's, to revisit episodes of tv, movies that premiered, or cultural events that occurred on that day in the 90's. This week Steve & Matt discuss part-time Santas & "crawlers" of the night!!! SEGMENT 1 Show: The Wonder Years Episode: “A Very Cutlip Christmas” (Season 4 | Episode: 9) Premiere Date: 12/12/1990 Story: Kevin discovers Mr. Cutlip moonlighting as Santa Claus and breaks his promise not to say a word when he tells Doug Porter, who then tells Randy, and so on. SEGMENT 2 Show: The Adventures of Pete & Pete Episode: “The Nightcrawlers” (Season 1 | Episode: 3) Premiere Date: 12/12/1993 Story: Believing that his early bedtime has resulted in countless hours of lost fun, Little Pete defies the International Adult Conspiracy by attempting to stay up 11 days in a row.

When it comes to the mental load it can be very easy to feel like our partners aren't dragging their weight, and so often this results in feelings of resentment towards them. So this week we've brought in the incredible Dr. Morgan Cutlip to give us her best advice on how we keep those feelings at bay. Dr. Morgan is a mental load and relationships expert who joins us to show us the best ways of approaching these feelings with our partners. She shares the root cause of the inequality that so many of us feel when it comes to the mental load, the domestic load, and being the default parent. She tells us what to do if our partner gets defensive whenever we mention the mental load, and the best things to say when that happens. By the end of this episode you'll have actionable steps to rebalance the load and to feel less resentful. Click Here to order your copy of 'Motherkind: A New way to thrive in a world of endless expectations' and gain access to a free 60 minute masterclass with Zoe - teaching the core principles of the book. This show is proudly sponsored by Stokke Shop Sambucol at Boots.com Sign up at gohenry.com/motherkind, and get £5 FREE pocket money to get them started, plus the first month is FREE! Continue the Conversation: Join our community over on Instagram for inspiration, tips, and sometimes a bit of humour to get us through our day - @zoeblaskey Join our mailing list to receive news, updates and new episode releases Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In the second episode with Dr. Morgan Cutlip, we dive deeper into the complexities of attachment styles and the mental load that accompanies parenting. Dr. Cutlip shares her insights on the invisible burdens we carry and how they impact our relationships.From balancing emotional well-being to the logistics of daily life, we explore the fine line between nurturing and overextending ourselves. As Max and Matt navigate the challenges of parenting, they discuss the often-unseen pressures that lead to burnout and resentment. Dr. Cutlip offers practical advice on how to foster healthier communication with partners, emphasizing the importance of mutual support and understanding.Whether you're knee-deep in laundry or juggling sports schedules, this episode is packed with valuable strategies to help you lighten your mental load and strengthen your family dynamic.And here's the link to the guide Dr. Cutlip mentions in the episode about how to talk about the mental load. And a link to her book, Love Your Kids Without Losing YourselfAnd a link to her new book, A Better ShareAnd a link to her InstagramBuy Violet Archer on Amazon HereMilkless on InstagramMilkless on TikTok

Dive in with the brilliant Dr. Morgan Cutlip, a psychologist and mother of two. Together, we tackle the often invisible mental load that comes with raising kids - and Max finds out who has been refilling the liquid soap dispensers in his house.Morgan helps us navigate the fine art of sharing the parenting load without turning it into a wrestling match. We discuss the surprising ways the mental load creeps into our daily lives and how it affects everything from dinner plans to bedtime routines.Whether you're juggling laundry, school projects, or just trying to get out of the house, this episode is packed with insights to help you lighten your load and keep the family ship sailing smoothly. So grab your favorite snack (even if it's gummy worms) and tune in!And here's the link to the guide Dr. Cutlip mentions in the episode about how to talk about the mental load. And a link to her book, Love Your Kids Without Losing YourselfAnd a link to her new book, A Better ShareAnd a link to her InstagramBuy Violet Archer on Amazon HereMilkless on InstagramMilkless on TikTok

Strap in for a delightful rollercoaster of emotions in today's episode as we dive deep into the bustling world of motherhood, relationships, and the secret spices (literally) that make or break our daily interactions.  We're joined today by Morgan Cutlip, Ph.D., who holds a PhD in Psychology, and is the author of the new book: Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself: 5 Steps to Banish Guilt and Beat Burnout When You Already Have Too Much to Do. Morgan shares the not-so-sparkly side of motherhood and how it's more teamwork than a solo mission. Husbands, take note: "Get in there" isn't just a suggestion—it's a necessity, especially when toddlers turn life into a full-contact sport!  Switching gears, Morgan breaks down her dad's legacy and her own work—the Relationship Attachment Model. Imagine your relationship as a stereo equalizer with sliders for 'know', 'trust', 'rely', 'commit', and 'touch'. Morgan encourages all moms (and dads) to know themselves and their needs. She offers up nuggets of wisdom on managing personal needs without turning into a walking mom-zombie of resentment. It's about finding that sweet spot where self-care meets care for others, without losing yourself to the daily grind. This episode isn't just a podcast; it's a survival guide, a therapy session, and a coffee chat with a good friend all rolled into one. Tune in, laugh, learn, and maybe even cry a little as we tackle the wild world of motherhood and relationships with humor, empathy, and expert insight. Resources We Shared: Follow Morgan on Instagram! Join our newsletter! Get connected to No Guilt Mom and get our FREE 7 ChatGPT prompts that manage your family and home like magic! Create a family meal plan and chore plan in seconds! No Guilt Mom Podcast Episode 267: What Parenting Style Is Best? A Real Life Case Study  Join our FREE No Guilt Mom Podcast group Visit No Guilt Mom Check out our recommended books and books from today's podcast guest HERE! Rate & Review the No Guilt Mom Podcast on Apple here. We'd love to hear your thoughts on the podcast! Listen on Spotify? You can rate us there too! Check out our favorite deals and discounts from our amazing sponsors here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this week's episode, we have special guest Dr. Morgan Cutlip, PhD in psychology and relationship expert, featured on Good Morning America, New York Times, Women's Health Magazine, and more, to talk about the mental load in motherhood. With back to school season upon us, Dr. Morgan shares tips for managing busy seasons as a family and finding ways to recalibrate and be intentional with your time and energy. If you've been navigating burnout, I hope this conversation resonates with you and that you'll know you're not alone.  LINKS Dr. Morgan on Instagram Morgan's Website Check out her book: “Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself” Pre-order her new book on mental load HERE Desirae on Instagram Minimal-ish Podcast Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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If you want to destroy your relationship, make assumptions. If you want to inject it with hope and joy, believe the best. In this week's podcast episode, we listen to Dr. Morgan Cutlip's (@drmorgancutlip) strong warning against making assumptions in relationships. We encourage people to instead believe the best. We actually did a whole miniseries episode on this idea, which you can find here. Dr. Cutlip suggests using the following questions and phrases to help when you feel assumption sneak in: The story I've been telling myself about why you do _____ is _____. Is this accurate? When you say _____ I am thinking you mean _____. Is this what you mean? I don't want to assume. This is what I'm hearing you say: _____. Is this right? “We judge ourselves by our intentions and others by their behaviour.” - Steven Covey Original Instagram Reel can be found here. Find and connect with us in more places and ways: Website: https://www.soulanchoring.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@soulanchoring Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/soulanchoring Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SoulAnchoring Twitter: https://twitter.com/SoulAnchoring Email: hello@soulanchoring.com Listen Now: ​​Apple Podcasts Spotify Website If you like what you hear from us, would you be so kind as to Follow Us / Subscribe, Give us a 5-Star Rating, Write a Glowing Review, and Pray for Us? You can also make suggestions of topics you'd like to hear us discuss. Thanks!!

For today's “Greatest Hits” episode, we are revisiting our interview with Dr. Morgan Cutlip. She joined us for episode 162 and episode 190. This episode we are focusing on how we take care of ourselves as mothers; how do we feel good inside motherhood? So many of her answers spoke directly to both of us.In her book, Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself, Dr. Morgan explains three core concepts moms face. She chats with us about these concepts including what we can do to help ourselves with the conflict of sacrificing our own identities in motherhood. We also discuss the core concept of idealization of motherhood and how intense our standards are on ourselves as parents. Ever feel like your needs aren't being met by your partner when it comes to sharing the load? Do you ask them for help but it never seems to go anywhere? Dr. Morgan shares actionable steps you can take when our own needs are not being met. She talks about how you can best manage all of our commitments and why that means you can't be 100 percent committed to everything at once. If the HERself podcast has made an impact on your life we would love it if you could help us in return. Leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to podcasts and while you're there also hit the follow or subscribe button. That way we will land in your inbox every single Monday!Sponsor: 10% off at BETTERHELPSponsor: Free Shipping at GOODR with code ‘HERSELF'Meet Dr. Morgan CutlipOrder Dr. Morgan's Book HERE - out now!Let's connect!HERSELF SHOPHERSELF PATREONHERSELF INSTAGRAMMEET AMYMEET ABBYThis episode was produced and edited by @pivotballchange.

In this episode, we dive into the concept of the mental load carried by mothers, exploring how it impacts relationships and self-identity. Dr. Morgan Cutlip shares with us about the invisible workload and the importance of making it visible through conversations with our partner. Join my Facebook community, Moms Without Capes to connect with other women reclaiming their sense of identity within motherhood. Visit my website www.momswithoutcapes.com to learn more! To learn more about Dr. Morgan Cutlip, click here or follow her on Instagram and TikTok. Thank you so much for tuning in and listening today. I'd love to hear what you thought of this episode and what ideas you may have for future episodes of the Moms Without Capes podcast! Email me at onnie@momswithoutcapes.com If you liked this episode, please show some love by leaving me a 5-Star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, subscribing, and sharing it with a fellow mom! Or buy me a chai latte at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/onnieM DISCLAIMER: Just because I'm a therapist, I'm not your therapist nor am I doing therapy in this podcast episode. Just saying. So enjoy Moms Without Capes for what it is- educational, entertaining, and a way to get my message out into the world!

Welcome back to Parenting Uncovered; today, we have a special guest, Dr. Morgan Cutlip. She discusses the concept of the mental load and its impact on relationships, particularly in the context of parenting. The mental load refers to the running to-do list that individuals, often parents, carry in their minds. It takes up cognitive real estate and includes invisible tasks that are often not shared with partners. The mental load can lead to frustration, resentment, and burnout. Dr. Cutlip suggests regular check-ins and open communication as ways to address the mental load and avoid burnout. She emphasizes the importance of self-care and self-check-ins to maintain mental health and offers insights on how couples can support each other in managing the mental load. The conversation also includes fascinating parenting facts and lighthearted jokes. ---------------------- For all links mentioned in the episode and more: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------------ Takeaways The mental load refers to the running to-do list that individuals, often women, carry in their minds. The mental load can lead to frustration, resentment, and burnout in relationships, particularly after having children. Regular check-ins and open communication are important for addressing the mental load and avoiding burnout. Self-care and self-check-ins are crucial for maintaining mental health and preventing burnout. Couples can support each other by being aware of each other's capacity and finding ways to serve and help each other. ------------------------ Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 01:07 Discussion on the Mental Load 09:08 Managing the Mental Load as a Single Parent 11:24 Importance of Self-Check-Ins and Replenishment 16:12 The Power of Grace and Humility in Relationships 22:06 Taking the First Step in Resolving Standoffs 25:21 Fascinating Parenting Fact: Nutrition and Technology in the 1940s 26:50 Dad Joke and Mom Joke 27:46 Where to Connect with Dr. Morgan Cutlip Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What is the impact of the arts around the world? Enjoy this bonus episode wrapping up our mini-series where we are diving into conversations focused on the global impact of the arts. It is such a joy to have Cheryl Cutlip back on the podcast! Cheryl Cutlip is the founding director of The Project Dance Foundation, formed in 2002 as a mission to bring hope and healing to the world through the universal language of dance.  Cheryl currently directs The Space @ Project Dance, the foundation's dance training and education program area as well as the precision dance company, The Carolina Snowbelles.In our conversation, we process the past few years and chat about how dance is a unifying art form that has the potential to heal and restore. Cheryl also shares about the importance of community for artists, having a strong "core," and the future of Project Dance! If you are interested in supporting Project Dance, visit https://www.projectdance.com/ for more details.The full show notes are available on our website https://creativeimpactpodcast.com!  You can be sure not to miss a Creative Impact conversation by subscribing through your favorite podcast app.  We are so grateful to have you as a part of the Creative Impact community and would love it if you would share the show with your friends!Support the show

Steph interviews Dr. Morgan Cutlip about practical strategies to feel good in motherhood and in your relationships. Dr. Morgan Cutlip, PhD is a highly sought-after relationship expert. She knows what it feels like to lose yourself in motherhood, and she's determined to help mothers navigate it better.  In this episode, they discuss what it means to “lose yourself” in motherhood and how to find yourself again; core conflicts moms are facing that make motherhood challenging; and how information consumption, societal messaging, and early experiences shape our perception of ourselves and our beliefs about our children. Dr. Morgan helps us identify and break apart impossible standards so moms find fairness in the mental load and care for themselves. Topics Discussed: Core conflicts moms face Impossible standards we place on ourselves Navigating the mental load of motherhood What it means to “go mom yourself” A better definition of self-care Show Notes: Follow @drmorgancutlip on Instagram Get Dr. Morgan's free gift Read Love Your Kid's Without Losing Yourself Check out Dr. Morgan's Website Click here to learn more about Dr. Elana Roumell's Doctor Mom Membership, a membership designed for moms who want to be their child's number one health advocate! Click here to learn more about Steph Greunke, RD's online nutrition program and community, Postpartum Reset, an intimate private community and online roadmap for any mama (or mama-to-be) who feels stuck, alone, and depleted and wants to learn how to thrive in motherhood Listen to today's episode on our website Dr. Morgan Cutlip, PhD in Psychology and highly sought after relationship expert, knows what it feels like to lose yourself in motherhood, and she's determined to help mothers navigate it better. Throughout her career, she has helped hundreds of thousands of people worldwide learn how to form and maintain healthy relationships. Dr. Morgan has been a featured relationship expert with Good Morning America, Teen Vogue, The New York Times, Women's Health Magazine, MOPS International, Loveology, and Flo, the #1 app in health and fitness. Her new book, Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself, is available now! This Episode's Sponsors  Enjoy the health benefits of PaleoValley's products such as their supplements, superfood bars and meat sticks.  Receive 15% off your purchase by heading to paleovalley.com/doctormom  Discover for yourself why Needed is trusted by women's health practitioners and mamas alike to support optimal pregnancy outcomes. Try their 4 Part Complete Nutrition plan which includes a Prenatal Multi, Omega-3, Collagen Protein, and Pre/Probiotic. To get started, head to thisisneeded.com, and use code DOCTORMOM20 for 20% off Needed's Complete Plan! Active Skin Repair is a must-have for everyone to keep themselves and their families healthy and clean.  Keep a bottle in the car to spray your face after removing your mask, a bottle in your medicine cabinet to replace your toxic first aid products, and one in your outdoor pack for whatever life throws at you.  Use code DOCTORMOM to receive 20% off your order + free shipping (with $35 minimum purchase). Visit BLDGActive.com to order. INTRODUCE YOURSELF to Steph and Dr. Elana on Instagram. They can't wait to meet you! @stephgreunke @drelanaroumell Please remember that the views and ideas presented on this podcast are for informational purposes only.  All information presented on this podcast is for informational purposes and not intended to serve as a substitute for the consultation, diagnosis, and/or medical treatment of a healthcare provider. Consult with your healthcare provider before starting any diet, supplement regimen, or to determine the appropriateness of the information shared on this podcast, or if you have any questions regarding your treatment plan.  

Experiencing a significant loss or trauma often leads to an identity crisis, a sensation comparable to losing footing on solid ground. You may suddenly feel untethered, as if the person you once knew as "you" has evaporated, replaced by an unfamiliar stranger. Your faith may seem hollow, your relationships distant. It's like you're lost in your own life, and you don't know how to get back.  Our guests this week share how they coped with grief and hardship, and how they found their way back from feeling disoriented and disconnected from themselves. Senior pastor of Fellowship Church Ed Young and his wife Lisa share the heart wrenching story of their daughter, LeeBeth, and her struggle with addiction, and how it forever altered the course of their lives. Dr. Morgan Cutlip looked forward to motherhood, but was quickly faced with the real struggles that come alongside it, and made it her life's work to help mothers cope with that loss of self, and show them how to remember who they are again.    Links, Products, and Resources Mentioned: Jesus Calling Podcast Jesus Calling Jesus Always Jesus Listens Past interview: Dr. Lee Warren Upcoming interview: Herman Mendoza Operation Christmas Child Jesus Listens for Advent & Christmas Reba McEntire Not That Fancy   Ed Young Lisa Young Fellowship Church AA [Alcoholics Anonymous] COVID A Path Through Pain   Dr. Morgan Cutlip Philippians 4:8 NIV Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself   Interview Quotes “Through that pain [of losing our daughter], God just surrounded us with His indescribable love. I still can't believe it to this day, but He did, and He has, and I know He will. We had just experienced something together that nobody wants to experience, but it was something that God was walking with us together.” - Lisa Young “Ed said right after LeeBeth passed away, ‘We will never, ever, ever be the same. We won't do church the same, I won't minister the same, I won't pastor the same.' And that's in a good way, and so it's continually God showing us new ways to live past this point of grief.” - Lisa Young  “Pour your heart out to God, your anger out to God, your questions out to God, but also realize, Man, God's got this, He's got me.” - Ed Young  “When things started happening, things that were painful, I was able to draw upon what God had given me, what God had instilled in me, and that's how joy and pain can coincide.” - Lisa Young  “Whatever we face, joy can be ever-present. It seems distant at times, but it's ever-present because of His Presence in my life.” - Lisa Young  “I think that we're in a society right now that is like, ‘Feelings are facts,' and they're just not. We put a lot of emphasis on feelings, but feelings are signals. Feelings are a warning bell that are calling you to tune in to you and say, ‘What's going on with me?'” - Dr. Morgan Cutlip “I just stay in conversation with God all day. I feel like it's a running dialog, and this really is what helps me in so many ways of feeling like I'm never really alone. I am in a relationship with Someone who knows me deeply, who loves me, who doesn't give me more than I can handle; who I can turn things over to.” - Dr. Morgan Cutlip ________________________ Enjoy watching these additional videos from Jesus Calling YouTube channel! Audio Episodes:     https://bit.ly/3zvjbK7  Bonus Podcasts:     https://bit.ly/3vfLlGw  Jesus Listens: Stories of Prayer:  https://bit.ly/3Sd0a6C  Peace for Everyday Life:     https://bit.ly/3zzwFoj  Peace in Uncertain Times:     https://bit.ly/3cHfB6u  What's Good?     https://bit.ly/3vc2cKj  Enneagram:     https://bit.ly/3hzRCCY  ________________________  Connect with Jesus Calling Instagram Facebook Twitter Pinterest YouTube Website

In the Finally Fearless book club last month ( October 2023) we read the book Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself and this episode is an interview with the author, Dr. Morgan Cutlip. I wish this book was around years ago when my kids were little and I would give this book to any and every mom out there.  Today's episode is a great conversation where we get to dive deeper into why she wrote the book, and so much more!  Before you go!   Make sure you are part of the Fearless Fam! Follow me on Instagram Join the Finally Fearless Book Club Here Connect more with our guest from today:  http://www.drmorgancutlip.com  Join my 21 Days to Confidence Course!    *******************   Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I'm honored and excited to be on this journey toward personal growth and greater confidence with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I'd love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app, that way we can help even more women to join us as we #dropkickyourinnermeangirl together.  

There is one guarantee in motherhood, at some point you are going to lose yourself in it. We chatted with Dr. Morgan Cutlip, PhD in Psychology and highly sought after relationship expert, determined to help mothers navigate motherhood better. She breaks down what it looks like to be lost. You're going to get burnt out and your relationships are going to get completely screwed up because life kind of gets in the way and that's normal. Dr. Cutlip's new book, Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself, is available now! Follow Dr. Cutlip @drmorgancutlip.Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the word "Podcast" to +1 (917) 540-8715 and we'll text you the new episodes when they're released!Tune in for new Cat & Nat Unfiltered episodes every Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday!Follow @catandnatunfiltered on Instagram: https://instagram.com/catandnatunfilteredOur new book "Mom Secrets" is now available! Head to www.catandnat.ca/book to grab your autographed copy! Come see us LIVE on tour!! To see a full list of cities and dates, go to https://catandnattour.com.Follow our parenting platform - The Common Parent - over on Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecommonparentBecome a Member of The Common Parent, our ultimate parenting toolkit for parents of teens and tweens for just $74.99/year: https://thecommonparent.comGet a FREE “Thoughts Between Us” Journal with The Common Parent Annual Membership: Click Here!Make sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel for our new cooking show and our #momtruth videos: https://bitly.com/catnatyoutubeCheck out our Amazon Lives here: https://bitly.com/catnatamazonliveOrder TAYLIVI here: https://taylivi.comGet personalized videos from us on Cameo: https://cameo.com/catandnatCome hang with us over on https://instagram.com/catandnat all day long.And follow us on https://tiktok.com/@catandnatofficial! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As a psychotherapist and relationship expert, Dr. Morgan Cutlip is on a mission to help women feel empowered in all of their relationships so that they feel whole, light, and deeply connected to those they love. To date, Morgan has helped more than 100,000 moms regain their sanity and prevent burnout. Today, Morgan shares her wisdom around how to prioritize your life, the myth around a permanent resting state of balance, the important of focusing on the good instead of the ways we fall short… and so much more. My friends, whether you're a parent or caregiver, or love someone who is, this conversation reminds each of us that we have the agency to make changes that can lead to massive transfer transformation in your relationships.

Today's guest is Dr. Morgan Cutlip. She holds a PhD in Psychology and is a highly sought after relationship expert, content creator and writer whose most recent book Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself helps women to mother themselves the way they mother their kids and reclaim their own voice.  I wanted to bring Morgan on because, to reiterate, I think we've set up a system that isn't putting Moms in a position to succeed. They are expected to be everything to everyone--of course there's burnout and a feeling of failure in all areas. Morgan provides a path to see that motherhood isn't a restriction to your life and creativity, but rather, can be an expansion. From this conversation you'll learn: How to navigate the journey of motherhood without losing yourself  How to go from dream to releasing your creative project Why it's important to mother yourself as you would mother your children How to let go of the dream of balance and STILL find a way to have a full life Why it's possible AND Probable for moms to still have their great creative renaissance and unleash after birth How to regain your creative juice, post-baby How to deal with kids protesting your creative time What is required of a mother's partner in order to make mothering not feel impossible Why Motherhood is an expansion not a restriction  And Much More! -Remember to subscribe/follow the show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you get your pods. Please leave us a rating and review- it helps SO much in getting the show out there. And tell a friend about the show- podcasts are very personal and tend to be spread person to person. If this show helped you or made you smile, share the love :) Follow the show: @unleashyourinnercreative      Follow me: @LaurenLoGrasso

EP341. Dr. Morgan Cutlip is a psychologist and author of the book, Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself: 5 Steps To Banish Guilt And Beat Burnout When You Already Have Too Much To Do! In this episode, Renee and Dr. Morgan chat about mom guilt, filling your cup, the modern day village, and so much more! Send this one to all your mom friends! RENEE REINA www.themomroom.com Instagram: @themomroompodcast | @thereneereina TikTok: @thereneereina Facebook Community Youtube: Renee Reina- The Mom Room Podcast DR. MORGAN CUTLIP: @drmorgancutlip SPONSORS KiwiCo. Earth Breeze. Jenni Kayne. Little Spoon. Delavie Sciences. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is for moms who are drowning in this season. After years of rarely talking about parenthood on this show, this topic suddenly continues to find me. I'm not sure if this because of my kids' ages (11 & 13) or just the season I'm in, but motherhood is something I want to talk about more now than I did when the kids were young.  My guest today is Dr. Morgan Cutlip, a highly sought after relationship expert, who has helped hundreds of thousands of people worldwide learn how to form and maintain healthy relationships. Dr. Morgan has been a featured relationship expert with Good Morning America, Teen Vogue, and The New York Times. Her new book, Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself, is out now. Dr. Morgan and I talk about motherhood as an identity and the mental load of parenting that so often falls more heavily on women. We also discuss how that affects our mood, our partnerships and sex drive. I even share a real life example of this dynamic happening in my home right now. If you've been carrying the mental load in your family, I hope this conversation resonates with you and that you'll know you're not alone.  LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. MORGAN CUTLIP HERE FOLLOW DR. MORGAN CUTLIP ON IG HERE BUY LOVE YOUR KIDS WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF    FULL SHOW NOTES HERE   MENTIONED in this episode: Come As You Are by Emily Nagowski Dr. Cutlip's free guide to talking to your partner about mental load     SUBSCRIBE to 10 Things To Tell You so you never miss an episode! CLICK HERE for episode show notes FOLLOW @10ThingsToTellYou on Instagram FOLLOW @10ThingsToTellYou on Facebook JOIN the 10 Things To Tell You Connection Group SIGN UP for episode emails, links, and show notes JOIN the Secret Stuff Patreon BUY THE BOOK: Share Your Stuff. I'll Go First. by Laura Tremaine BUY THE BOOK: The Life Council: 10 Friends Every Woman Needs by Laura Tremaine    

I'm so excited to welcome Dr. Morgan Cutlip back to the show. Dr. Morgan has a PhD in psychology, and she's a highly sought-after relationship expert. She knows what it feels like to lose yourself in motherhood and she's determined to help mothers navigate it better. Throughout her career, she has helped hundreds of thousands of people worldwide learn how to form and maintain healthy relationships.Dr. Morgan has been featured On Good Morning America, Teen Vogue, The New York Times, Women's Health Magazine, Mops International, Loveology. Her brand new book, Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself, is available now. In today's episode, we dive into what the research says about striving to be a perfect parent, and tools for managing the realities of motherhood. I love how Dr. Morgan gives examples from her own life showing how competing priorities and unmanaged expectations can lead us to feel like we're failing as parents – and uncovering why we put so much pressure on ourselves. She effectively combines her expertise as a psychologist and experience as a mom together in her book to provide practical tips for how to prioritize our time and check in with ourselves – all in order to show up in ways that bring us more peace. Check out Dr. Morgan's Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself to dive deeper into supporting yourself in parenthood and in life.We also cover…(01:00) Unpacking Identity Conflicts That All Moms Go Through• Read: Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself by Dr. Morgan Cutlip• Identity, your needs vs. the needs of everyone and everything else• Risk in losing touch with your own priorities • Tapping into your personal power to dictate your life• How Kelly's mom influenced her mindset as a mother • Acknowledging and reframing our judgements of other moms • We're not empty nesters, we're bird launchers (11:00) Ideals vs. Reality: Setting Healthy Expectations • Studying the the idealization of motherhood• What does it mean (to you) to be a good mom?• Understanding feelings of guilt, shame, and falling short• How Dr. Morgan's mom influenced her mindset as a mother• How Kelly manages her own expectations in the home• Grieving for your old narrative and accepting the pain of prioritization • Inherent risk in setting impossible standards • Untangling me time vs. work time• Finding untapped power in behavioral change (29:00) Identifying the 5 Components of Intensive Mothering• The Cultural Contradictions of Motherhood by Sharon Hays• Essentialism, believe that other people can dutifully care for your children • Child-centered, know that they can't be your entire world• Fulfillment, understand that being a mother won't complete you• Stimulating, stepping down as entertainment director for the family• Challenging, it doesn't have to be hard to be effective • Decoding a desire to create control over your environment• Removing perfection from parenting • Working with Tina Bryson • Panting positive seeds of personal growth (42:00) Loving Your Kids Without Losing Yourself• Background and meaning of Relationship Attachment Model (RAM)• Intro to the 5 points of connection • Knowing yourself...

Who is this episode for? Feeling burnt out? Skip the cliches - we don't need more lists of things to do in the time we don't have! If you're looking for practical, implementable advice you can begin today - this conversation is for you!Episode Summary: Motherhood Burnout: We've discussed it before but, if I'm being honest, discussions like this tend to just add to the overwhelm (and pile more on an incredibly full plate!) This episode had the opposite effect on me. My guest, psychotherapist and renowned relationship expert, Dr. Morgan Cutlip, brings an entirely new perspective to the mom burnout conversation. Morgan joined me to share her wisdom and insights from her debut book, "Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself." In this episode, we'll explore topics such as confidently expressing your needs, crafting a self-care plan that goes far beyond the stereotypical ideas, knowing yourself well enough to know how to ask for help and more.-------------------------------Links Discussed in This EpisodeOrder a Copy of Minimalist Moms: Living and Parenting with SimplicityBook: The Power of Fun by Catherine PriceCatherine Price on the Minimalist Moms Podcast - Episode 204Morgan's Resource: Come as You Are by Emily NagoskiConnect with Morgan:WebsiteInstagramBook: Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself by Dr. Morgan CutlipEnjoy this Podcast?Post a review and share it! If you enjoyed tuning into this podcast, then do not hesitate to write a review. You can also share this with your fellow mothers so that they can be inspired to think more and do with less. Order (or review) my recent book, Minimalist Moms: Living & Parenting With SimplicityQuestions? You can contact me through my website, find me on Instagram, or like The Minimalist Moms Page on Facebook.Thanks for listening! For more updates and episodes, visit the website. You may also tune in on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, or Stitcher.Checkout the Minimalist Moms Podcast storefront for recommendations from Diane.If you enjoyed today's episode of the Minimalist Moms Podcast, then hit subscribe and share it with your friends!Episode Sponsors |The Minimalist Moms Podcast would not be possible without the support of weekly sponsors. Choosing brands that I believe in is important to me. I only want to recommend brands that I believe may help you in your daily life. As always, never feel pressured into buying anything. Remember: if you don't need it, it's not a good deal!Right now my listeners can give Armoire a try and get up to 50% off their first month, that's up to $125 OFF! Just visit armoire.style/MINIMALIST.Trust and Will (Gain peace of mind today with Trust and Will. Get 10% off plus free shipping of your estate plan documents by visiting trustandwill.com/MINIMALIST.)Our Sponsors:* Check out Armoire and use my code MINIMALIST for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style* Check out Ideal Living and use my code MINIMALIST for a great deal: https://airdoctorpro.com/* Check out Quince: https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwjVtJG56NKAAxU-N0QIHQf1Bq8QFnoECBwQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.quince.com%2F&usg=AOvVaw15ySPxxJ1v1l0I4qSPAJS5&opi=89978449* Check out Thrive Market: https://thrivemarket.com/Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/minimalist-moms-podcast2093/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Dr. Morgan Cutlip is back on the show today. She first joined us for episode 162. Today we are focusing on how we take care of ourselves as mothers; how do we feel good inside motherhood? So many of her answers spoke directly to both of us.In her upcoming book, Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself, Dr. Morgan explains three core concepts moms face. She chats with us about these concepts including what we can do to help ourselves with the conflict of sacrificing our own identities in motherhood. We also discuss the core concept of idealization of motherhood and how intense our standards are on ourselves as parents. Ever feel like your needs aren't being met by your partner when it comes to sharing the load? Do you ask them for help but it never seems to go anywhere? Dr. Morgan shares actionable steps we can take when our own needs are not being met. She talks about how we can best manage all of our commitments and why that means we can't be 100 percent committed to everything at once. If the HERself podcast has made an impact on your life we would love it if you could help us in return. Leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to podcasts and while you're there also hit the follow or subscribe button. That way we will land in your inbox every single Monday!Sponsor: 20% off at Vuori Clothing: https://vuoriclothing.com/pages/pod_herself_fa22_HO22Sponsor: Free Shipping at GOODR with code ‘HERSELF': https://goodr.com/herselfMeet Dr. Morgan CutlipPre-Order Dr. Morgan's Book HERELet's connect!HERSELF SHOP: https://herself-podcast-favorites.myshopify.comHERSELF PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/herselfpodcastHERSELF INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/herselfpodcastMEET AMY: http://instagram.com/ameskieferMEET ABBY: http://instagram.com/abbyrosegreenThis episode was produced and edited by @pivotballchange.