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Nikki's wisdom is drawn from her personal journey, making each episode a heartfelt exploration of the dynamics that make a house a home. Whether you're a seasoned parent, a newlywed, or someone navigating the intricacies of family life, this podcast offers insights, anecdotes, and a genuine camaraderie that will resonate with your own experiences. Focusing on parenting, marriage, work/life balance, building healthy relationships, and cultivating faith into the everyday, this podcast reaches to all who want to build strong families.

Nikki Smith


    • May 22, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    66. The Power of Pause: Finding Joy in Summer's Unstructured Days

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2025 35:37 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Summer beckons – that magical time when routines relax and possibilities unfold like wildflowers. But how do we make these precious months truly matter?Instead of approaching summer with the typical achievement-oriented mindset that dominates the rest of our year, what if we shifted our focus to growth? Not the kind measured in completed checklists or Pinterest-worthy activities, but genuine expansion in relationships, rest, adventure, and joy.That's exactly what I'm exploring in this final episode before our summer podcast pause. I'm sharing my own summer intentions, challenging the anxiety-producing "18 summers" mantra that haunts parents, and offering practical ways to cultivate meaningful moments without the pressure of perfection.For those who thrive on structure, I've included practical frameworks like themed days and helpful resources in the show notes. For free spirits, there's permission to embrace spontaneity and the simple art of saying "yes" more often when our children invite us into their worlds.From yard games that create hilarious family memories to intentional digital detoxing that allows us to be truly present, this episode is filled with attainable ways to make this summer one of connection rather than accomplishment.When September arrives and we return with fresh episodes, I hope you'll have spent these months growing, resting, adventuring, and savoring the relationships that matter most. Because ultimately, that's what makes a summer that truly matters. Join me in embracing this pause, friends – I'll be waiting with new conversations, insights, and interviews when we return.Printable Resources: Printable Summer Bucketlist:https://sunriseelementarycounseling.weebly.com/blog/summer-bucket-list4977644Printable Summer Goals:https://writtenreality.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/free-summer-activities-chart-goals.pdfhttps://drive.google.com/file/d/17yNYnbDAFhRE5x_nHO8wG1u8LP9zY9jD/viewPrintable Weekly Summary:https://www.unoriginalmom.com/free-printable-weekly-summer-activity-plan/Printable Five Goals:https://www.pinterest.com/pin/71916925287715966Resources For A Great Summer:https://www.thebettermom.com/summer-with-kidsBook Resources:A Million Tiny Moments: Refections to Refresh a Mom's Spirit:https://amzn.to/43cByT6Homegrown Disciples: Parenting Rythmnsfor Drawing Your Kids Into Life With God:https://amzn.to/44J4FOXFrom Grouchy to Great - Finding Joy in the Journey of Motherhoodhttps://amzn.to/45myYLwPressing Pause- 100 Quiet Moments for Moms to Meet with God:https://amzn.to/4jjWkotRisen Motherhood - Gospel Hope for Everyday:https://amzn.to/3H39ngBhttps://amzn.to/3SOgNXy (beautiful deluxe edition)Gospel Moms - How to Make Biblical Decisions and Discover the Mom Go God Created You to Be:https://amzn.to/4dqnSqO Habits of the Household:https://amzn.to/438lFNhThe Flourishing Family: A Jesus-Centered Guide to Parenting with Peace and Purpose:https://amzn.to/3GZkpDIFun Yard Games:Kubb:https://amzn.to/3SJSXwaCrossnet:https://amzn.to/3SJSXwaSpikeBall:https://amzn.to/4dCfm8sYard Dice:https://amzn.to/3GZmFeaJOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    65. The Package Deal: Marriage, Intimacy, and Keeping the Spark Alive with NFL Chaplains LaMorris and Megan Crawford

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2025 37:02 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Lamoris and Megan Crawford return for a candid, humorous, and deeply insightful conversation about keeping the spark alive in marriage through busy seasons, kids, and ministry demands.The Crawfords don't hold back as they share their family hierarchy—God first, spouse second, kids third, then ministry—and how this ordering has sustained their relationship for almost two decades. "We found that as kids exit the homes, the spouses didn't stay connected," Lamoris explains, highlighting why prioritizing your marriage isn't selfish but essential.Things get particularly interesting (and yes, a bit spicy!) when they discuss their innovative "package system" for communicating intimate expectations. Their honest approach to the different ways men and women experience connection creates both laugh-out-loud moments and profound realizations about meeting each other's needs.For couples struggling or feeling their marriage hanging by a thread, the Crawfords offer transformative wisdom about agape love. "Most of us don't understand the kind of love that God loves us with," Megan shares, challenging listeners to exhaust themselves in loving their spouse before considering other options.Whether you're newly married or decades in, this conversation delivers practical tools, spiritual insights, and the permission to laugh at the beautiful mess that is marriage. You'll walk away with strategies for communication, intimacy, and remembering why you fell in love in the first place. Their journey from Cincinnati to their new role as chaplains for the Carolina Panthers shows how a marriage centered on covenant can impact not just a family but entire communities.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    64. Beyond Contract: The Sacred Covenant of Marriage with NFL Chaplains LaMorris and Megan Crawford

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2025 38:36 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. From the projects of Chicago to the cornfields of rural America, Lamoris and Megan Crawford's love story defies cultural expectations while illuminating the transformative power of covenant marriage. Their journey began at Olivet Nazarene University where two worlds collided – his marked by inner-city hardship and her steeped in traditional religious values that initially rejected their relationship.What makes their story extraordinary isn't just their diverse backgrounds, but their unwavering commitment to honor God's process. For three and a half years, Lamoris faithfully called Megan's father asking permission to date his daughter, receiving "no" after "no" until a divinely orchestrated breakthrough. The moment Megan's father tearfully asked forgiveness for his racism and acknowledged Lamoris's Christlike character became the foundation for not just their relationship, but a generational healing that continues today.The Crawfords now lead Covenant Culture, a marriage ministry born from their experiences as NFL chaplains with the Cincinnati Bengals. They challenge the prevailing contract mentality of modern relationships with a profound truth: "You die to get in and you die to get out." Their teaching that "God created marriage to make us holy, not happy" reframes the entire purpose of matrimony, revealing how true happiness emerges from obedience rather than self-fulfillment.Drawing on their powerful personal testimony and ministry experience, the Crawfords identify pride as the root of most marital struggles – whether manifesting as superiority or self-pity. Their story demonstrates how patient obedience to God's process can transform not just a relationship, but entire family legacies, breaking cycles of racism and establishing new foundations of faith.Don't miss part two next week where we'll explore more marriage wisdom and some lighter moments as the Crawfords answer some spicy questions! If their story has touched you, please share this episode with someone who might benefit from hearing about the power of covenant marriage.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    63. The Silent Weight We Carry: Understanding Mental Load in Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2025 46:54 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. The invisible weight of mental load is crushing marriages silently - creating resentment where there once was partnership. Continuing with a candid exploration of household management,I delve deeper into why the mental burden of maintaining a home can fall unevenly and how couples can recalibrate their approach through genuine connection.Drawing from Dr. Morgan Cutlip's groundbreaking book "A Better Share," I shares six practical strategies couples can implement to better distribute the mental workload, including the powerful practice of "overdosing on appreciation". TThe episode introduces John Gottman's ATTUNE framework as an essential tool for productive conversations around mental load: Attend with undivided attention, Turn Toward each other physically, Understand through questions rather than fixing, practice Non-defensive listening, and Empathize genuinely. This structured approach creates space for vulnerable discussions without defensiveness.We will explore how mental load distribution shapes children's future relationship templates. By establishing zone responsibilities, encouraging initiative-taking, and modeling healthy partnership, parents set their children up for balanced relationships. With the profound questions - "Would I want my children to marry someone who behaves as I do?" and "What skills do we want to instill in our children for healthy relationships?" - we can be challenged to examine how our current patterns influence generational outcomes.Ready to transform your home from a one-person show to a true partnership? Listen now to discover practical strategies that honor both partners' needs while creating a family culture where everyone contributes meaningfully to your shared life.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    62. The Weight We Carry: Understanding Mental Load in Motherhood

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2025 44:01 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Have you ever found yourself wondering how you spent an entire day feeling completely exhausted yet somehow accomplished "nothing"? The mental load you're carrying might be the answer, and you're not alone in feeling its weight.In this candid exploration of mental load, I dive into Dr. Morgan Cutlip's illuminating book "A Better Share" and unpack the hidden burden that many of us—especially mothers—carry silently every day. This isn't just about completing tasks; it's about the constant cognitive, physical, and emotional labor that goes into managing a household and caring for everyone within it.What exactly makes mental load so exhausting? It's the "triple threat" combination of cognitive tasks (the endless to-do lists), physical responsibilities (housework and errands), and emotional labor (managing everyone's feelings and needs) that creates an overwhelming burden. Research shows women typically shoulder all three simultaneously, while men primarily carry cognitive load concentrated in their work environment.The most revealing insight might be understanding what each partner truly needs. Women generally desire to be Pursued, Appreciated, and have a Reliable partner (PAR), while men typically seek Peace, Affection, and Respect (PAR). When mental load isn't shared effectively, both partners end up with unmet needs, creating cycles of resentment and disconnection.This conversation isn't about assigning blame—it's about recognizing a scientifically documented imbalance affecting countless relationships. By understanding mental load and learning to communicate about it honestly, we can create partnerships where both people feel seen, valued, and properly supported. Join me next week for practical strategies on managing mental load as a team and involving children appropriately in household responsibilities.A Better Share by Dr. Morgan Cutlip:https://amzn.to/4itJm6YJOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    61. When Letting Go Is The Hardest (and Best) Thing You'll Do

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2025 40:29 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Watching your child walk across the college graduation stage is a moment filled with contradictory emotions – fierce pride alongside the bittersweet realization that a significant chapter is closing. After navigating four transformative years of college parenting, I'm pulling back the curtain on what this journey really feels like from a mother's perspective.Remember that gut-wrenching college drop-off day? I describe it as "excruciatingly beautiful" – perhaps the hardest yet most necessary parenting moment I've experienced. Walking away from your child when every instinct tells you to stay is an act of profound love and faith in their ability to thrive independently. Those first days of adjustment at home without them test every emotional muscle you have.The unexpected gifts of this separation surprised me at every turn. Madison transformed from a somewhat timid high schooler into a confident leader who now comfortably steps into roles that once intimidated her. Sibling dynamics evolved in beautiful ways, with relationships deepening rather than weakening. Sometimes, distance creates the perspective needed to truly appreciate what we have.Now, we're approaching an unexpected bonus chapter – Madison's coming home for a year before physician assistant school, giving our family of five one more season together. The dynamics have shifted; we're essentially five adults sharing space, with my role pivoting from daily manager to coach and mentor. We're adapting our rituals, planning early morning workouts and breakfasts instead of dinners to accommodate everyone's busy schedules.For parents walking this path now or soon, I share three practical approaches that preserved our connection: let your child lead the communication schedule without guilt or pressure, send spontaneous encouraging texts when they cross your mind, and learn to listen more than you advise, remembering that they're processing life through younger eyes. The greatest gift might be giving them space to stumble occasionally while keeping your heart wide open for whenever they need to land.Have a friend sending a child to college soon? Share this episode – because knowing others understand this emotional rollercoaster makes the journey a little easier for everyone.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    60. Do I Pass the Joy Test?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2025 42:53 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. What if the atmosphere in your home isn't determined by circumstances, but by something deeper you can actually control? In this intimate conversation, we explore the powerful distinction between happiness (that fleeting emotion dependent on everything going right) and joy (the intentional choice that transcends situations). The truth is, as mothers and wives, we often hold the emotional thermostat for our homes. When we operate from depletion, overwhelm, and frustration, that energy permeates everything around us. But what would change if we became what Proverbs calls "good medicine" for our families instead?Through vulnerable personal stories and practical wisdom, we unpack five transformative practices that cultivate genuine joy: shifting from achievement to fulfillment, creating intentional connection moments, eliminating excessive multitasking, practicing strategic self-care, and nurturing gratitude. These aren't just nice ideas—they're concrete shifts that can revolutionize your family dynamics.One particularly powerful insight addresses our tendency toward "superhero syndrome"—the compulsion to do everything at once, proving our worth through productivity. This mindset not only drains our joy but communicates to our loved ones that they're just another item on our checklist rather than hearts worthy of our full attention.Whether you're in the thick of raising small children, navigating the teenage years, or anywhere along the parenting journey, these principles offer a pathway to becoming the presence your family needs. Because ultimately, the environment we create doesn't happen by accident—it happens by choice, one small decision at a time.Ready to transform your home atmosphere? Let's discover together how to make joy our default setting rather than our occasional visitor.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    59. Menopause, Mom Life, and My 5pm Wednesday Meltdown

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2025 32:34 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Have you ever felt completely overwhelmed despite everything in your life looking "fine" on paper? This raw, unscripted episode emerged from my own struggles. Sitting in my bedroom with a makeshift recording setup, no makeup, and desperately needing a shower, I share honestly about my current season of diminished capacity. Menopause symptoms have left me crying unexpectedly, feeling overwhelmed by normal responsibilities, and questioning my ability to keep all the balls in the air. The irony? Much of what's overwhelming me consists of beautiful things—my children growing independent and pursuing their dreams, exactly as I've raised them to do.I explore how my default response to overwhelm is overconsumption—frantically seeking answers through endless podcasts, books, and expert advice. But this behavior only amplifies the noise instead of bringing peace. Drawing from a book about digital detoxing, I reflect on how we've become a culture that immediately turns to Google instead of sitting with our questions or seeking wisdom through prayer and stillness.The heart of this episode centers on the profound difference between happiness (which depends on circumstances) and joy (which transcends them). When we feel ourselves losing stability, it's often because we've allowed our joy to become dependent on external validation, perfect performance, or maintaining control. True joy—the kind the Bible refers to when it says "the joy of the Lord is my strength"—remains steady even when life feels chaotic.To the mothers feeling overwhelmed today: You are not alone. The work you do matters profoundly, even on days when you feel you're failing. We're all imperfect humans raising imperfect humans, but we do so under the guidance of a perfect parent who offers endless grace.Take a moment today to quiet the noise, open your Bible, and remember that what you're doing matters—even when you can barely keep your head above water.Reconnected: How 7 Screen-Free Weeks with Monks and Amish Farmers Helped Me Recover the Lost Art of Being Human by Carlos Whitaker:https://amzn.to/4lebDkPStory Behind the Hymn - It Is Well With My Soul:https://www.staugustine.com/story/lifestyle/faith/2014/10/17/story-behind-song-it-well-my-soul/985525007/JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    58. Beauty From Ashes Story - Walking Through Fire: A Mother's Story of Faith During Childhood Cancer with Alex Woldhuis

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2025 48:40 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Alex Woldhuis never expected to be sitting in a hospital room while doctors told her that her three-year-old son Nick had leukemia. What began as puzzling symptoms—persistent low-grade fevers, unusual fatigue, and mysterious spots under his skin—rapidly escalated into a diagnosis that would transform their family's life. With remarkable candor, Alex shares the raw emotional journey from those first alarming signs through the chaotic first days of treatment, when within hours they faced blood transfusions and learned their little boy would need surgery and chemotherapy the very next day.Behind every medical crisis lies a deeply human story, and Alex's narrative reveals both the crushing weight of childhood cancer and the surprising strength parents discover within themselves. What makes her perspective truly unique is her deliberate choice to reject fear-based living despite the diagnosis. Against conventional advice, she allowed Nick to continue swimming, attending events, and experiencing childhood joys whenever he felt well enough—decisions that helped preserve his emotional wellbeing alongside his medical treatment. The practical wisdom she offers about advocating for your child within medical systems provides invaluable guidance for any parent navigating a health challenge.Perhaps most powerful is Alex's spiritual journey through this ongoing trial. Having previously endured significant personal losses, including the death of her sister at a young age, Alex approached Nick's diagnosis with an unexpected peace and profound faith perspective. "I know you're not wasting my pain," she prayed, believing purpose would emerge even from suffering. This faith has transformed her parenting approach with all three children, incorporating daily gratitude practices and intentional conversations about God's presence even in hospital rooms. For anyone walking through darkness—whether a medical crisis or any profound challenge—Alex's story offers a compelling testament to how community support, parental advocacy, and unwavering faith can create moments of beauty even in life's most difficult seasons.Book:https://amzn.to/3DYHR2DSuggested Follows for Information:https://www.instagram.com/dagmarabeine?igsh=eGFjeHFlcHY3MGNjhttps://www.instagram.com/draonline?igsh=MXRmcGt3d2JqMnAxbQ==https://www.instagram.com/seasonjohnson?igsh=MXZ0dWNnNWx4aDc1ag==JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    57. Real Talk About Sibling Relationships with Olivia Smith - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2025 41:14 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. In this fun continuation of my conversation with my 20-year-old daughter Olivia, we peel back the layers of what has made our family relationships strengthen through the ups and downs of life.Olivia shares her beautiful philosophy that "your success is my success, and your failure is my failure," revealing how this mindset has shaped her role as both a middle child and a natural cheerleader within our family. From creating elaborate birthday celebrations to attending basketball games with homemade signs and team-colored overalls, her commitment to celebrating her siblings has helped weave the fabric of our family's supportive culture.We dive into the evolution of sibling relationships from childhood squabbles to adult friendships, particularly exploring how Olivia and her older sister have navigated their changing dynamic as they've grown. Through vulnerable late-night conversations and the willingness to express their feelings honestly, they've discovered that unlike friendships that might fade, siblings are "the ones who are going to be walking alongside you" through every season of life.The conversation takes a touching turn as we discuss fostering relationships despite age gaps, with Olivia sharing how she's built a meaningful connection with her younger brother by participating in his interests—from fishing trips to golf cart rides—guided by the wisdom that "I'll never regret doing things with him." We also explore the foundation of our family's relationship repair through consistent apologies and refusing to let conflicts remain unresolved.Whether you're struggling with sibling tensions, seeking to build stronger family bonds, or simply wanting to create more celebration in your home, this conversation offers genuine insights from a family that's learning to navigate life's complexities together—with plenty of coffee dates, sushi dinners, and unfiltered love along the way.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    56. Navigating Anxiety and Finding Joy with Olivia Smith

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2025 53:29 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. What happens when fiery mother-daughter personalities collide under one roof during the college years? Nikki Smith and her 20-year-old daughter Olivia pull back the curtain on navigating this delicate transition with raw honesty that will resonate with any parent of young adults.Olivia, currently balancing nursing school with weekend hospital shifts that fully cover her tuition, shares her journey from a kindergartener with severe separation anxiety to a confident nursing student finding her way. Their conversation explores the unique challenges of having an adult child living at home – where parents must thread the needle between respecting growing independence while maintaining appropriate boundaries.Mental health takes center stage as both mother and daughter candidly discuss Olivia's experiences with anxiety and depression. From the exhaustion of an overthinking mind that "feels like running a marathon mentally every single day" to practical strategies like gratitude journaling and therapeutic conversations, they offer wisdom born from years of trial and error. Parents will find tremendous value in Nikki's admission that she had to move from a "get over it" mentality to learning how to validate feelings first – "I'm sure that feels extremely overwhelming" – before problem-solving together.Educational paths form another fascinating thread as they discuss Olivia's journey through various school environments before finding her perfect fit in homeschooling. Their experience demonstrates how allowing children to find their best learning environment – sometimes against conventional wisdom – can transform academic struggles into success.The episode concludes with heartfelt advice from Olivia to her younger self and others battling similar challenges: "Don't let your anxiety and depression become who you are." This powerful reminder that we are more than our mental health struggles offers hope to listeners in similar situations. Join us next week as this intimate conversation continues, exploring Olivia's gift for relationships and building connections. JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    55. Roommates or Soulmates? A Marriage Check-In.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2025 35:22 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Dive into this heartfelt episode where we explore the canvas of marriage, navigating between being roommates or soulmates. Host Nikki Smith shares personal insights and lessons learned over 25 years of marriage and parenting, drawing inspiration from the book “Reconnected: Moving from Roommates to Soulmates.” With relevant anecdotes and practical tips, this episode encourages active engagement, less reliance on technology, and a return to meaningful, intentional communication.Listeners can expect to uncover 11 characteristics that signal a drop into roommate territory and discover timely strategies for reconnecting with their partners. Reflecting on the essential role of daily life-giving conversations, Nikki introduces the "10-minute rule" — a simple way to spend quality time focusing on deeper emotional exchanges.This episode also addresses the challenges of modern relationships, including the pitfalls of gentle neglect often caused by distractions like social media and busy schedules. It shines a light on nurturing your union to ensure it remains vibrant and alive, empowering couples to prioritize their bond above the chaos of life.Join us for a discussion filled with actionable advice that can transform your relationship dynamics by rediscovering the essence of love and partnership! Reconnected - Moving from Roommates to Soulmates in Marriage:https://amzn.to/3QJnTvzDownloadable Resource Guide: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/Reconnected-Study-Guide-gray.pdf?fbclid=IwY2xjawIusghleHRuA2FlbQIxMAABHYreffCli8ckYU4Aiq8kbMCzsSvDBtdJN4UtQTqYkdnE4Mk8AIB3BL50XA_aem__G-jQMghC_fgf3nnnuqIRwJOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    54. Jesus Doesn't Care About Your Messy House with Dana K. White

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2025 51:06 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Join us for a heartfelt conversation with Dana K. White, the creative genius behind "A Slob Comes Clean." Dana opens up about her journey from a theater arts teacher to a stay-at-home mom, sharing how her struggles with home organization propelled her into a successful writing career. With her books "Decluttering at the Speed of Life" and "How to Manage Your Home Without Losing Your Mind," Dana offers a refreshing perspective on finding beauty amid life's chaos. Her candid insights reveal how embracing imperfections can lead to profound personal and spiritualgrowth and inspire others to tackle the clutter in their lives.Explore the realities of maintaining a tidy home as we uncover practical strategies for decluttering and organization. Debunking the myth that daily maintenance requires perfection, we highlight how simple tasks like consistently doing the dishes can make a big difference. Dana introduces the concept of a "clutter threshold," offering valuable advice on starting with visible spaces to regain control. We challenge societal pressures and the misconception that a perfect home equates to a perfect life. Dana's latest book, "Jesus Doesn't Care About Your Messy House," questions the notion that cleanliness is tied to spiritual worth. We emphasize the importance of vulnerability, urging listeners to find peace in imperfection and to seek help when needed. As we wrap up, our focus shifts to cultivating strong families by fostering kindness and creating warm, accepting home environments. Join us on this journey to discover how embracing the mess can lead to a more fulfilling and joyful life.You can Find Dana at - https://www.aslobcomesclean.com/JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    53. Beauty From Ashes Story: Kristina Weir - Looking for God Winks in the Depths of Suffering

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2025 49:32 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback.  Our guest, Kristina Weir, bravely shares her journey through two major health battles, beginning with being diagnosed with breast cancer at just 30 years old. As Kristina recounts the whirlwind of emotions and the dismissal she faced, we reflect on the unexpected blessings that can arise from such challenges. Now a mother of two grown sons, Kristina offers a heartfelt perspective on embracing life's trials with grace and using them as a springboard for personal growth and to uplift.Kristina's experience with breast cancer sheds light on the profound role that helpers and a supportive network can play in our darkest moments. A simple act of kindness from another survivor illustrates the power of shared experiences and the comforting reassurance they can bring, showcasing the beauty of human connection.Striking a balance between traditional and holistic medicine, Kristina reveals how she managed her cancer treatments and inspired her oncologist along the way. Her story is one of resilience, faith, and gratitude, reminding us of the beauty that can emerge from life's ashes. JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    52. Cheers, Ears, and Prayers: 3 Concepts for Supporting Our Children Through the Tween, Teen and Adult Years with Your Children

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2025 38:14 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. What if some of the most powerful tools you have as a parent are simply your words, your ears, and your prayers? In this episode, you'll discover how focusing on character traits like diligence, responsibility, and kindness can build stronger, nurturing relationships with your kids, rather than merely celebrating their accomplishments. The impact of our words as parents is monumental, and learning to choose them wisely can create an environment where children feel valued and understood.Communication is often the linchpin in navigating conflicts, particularly between parents and children. Drawing lessons from the book of Proverbs, I share personal anecdotes and insights into handling tricky situations. Encouraging our kids to self-reflect and understand the importance of maintaining a calm spirit can prevent escalation and strengthen the parent-child bond. This episode is a reminder of the value of fostering an open space where children are comfortable discussing both the easy and tough topics, reinforcing the importance of effective communication in parenting.Lastly, hear about the role of prayer in parenting.  Discover how integrating prayer can be a powerful tool to guide and support your children through life's challenges.Praying the Scriptures Books:For Children-https://amzn.to/42QmOt1For Teens: https://amzn.to/3CEMcrgFor Adult Children:https://amzn.to/3CADdY8For Your Marriage: https://amzn.to/42UyT0CJOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    51. The Midlife Edit with Shannon Blas - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2025 33:08 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Shannon Blas joins us on an enlightening journey through the midlife transition as children leave the nest. With her engaging insights, discover how Shannon found purpose and fulfillment beyond motherhood, inspiring all of us to redefine our own paths. This episode offers a promise of renewed independence and personal growth, as we explore how to nurture a fulfilling life that empowers both ourselves and our adult children.Engage in a meaningful conversation about building new social connections and rediscovering forgotten passions. Shannon sheds light on her journey back to interior design and the joy it brings, showing that midlife isn't about slowing down but exploring exciting opportunities. Whether it's through exercise, pickleball, or heartfelt coffee meetups, we delve into the power of maintaining a vibrant social life and the graceful navigation of evolving family dynamics.Finally, we tackle the transformative stage of menopause with positivity and empowerment. Learn how to embrace this phase as an opportunity for growth, supported by practical tips to enhance communication with loved ones. Shannon offers wisdom on taking small, impactful steps toward personal improvement, making this episode a valuable resource for anyone looking to thrive in midlife. Join us as we celebrate the journey toward a more fulfilling and connected life.You can find Shannon @ www.shannonblas.comMenopause Symptom List:Menopause Symptoms Explained - an excerpt from “Next Level: Your guide to Kicking A*^, Feeling Great, and Crushing Goals Through Menopause - by Stacy T Sims “You have hormone receptors on every organ in your body so when your hormone start swinging and declining every part of your body is affected. We hear a lot about certain symptoms, like hot flashes and body composition changes and obviously your menstrual cycle becomes more regular, but there are common symptoms associated with menopause. Here is a fairly comprehensive list of what you make experience during this time in your life. We can't promise that we can make every single symptom go away, but we sure can make things a whole lot better!” Hot flashesLightheadedness HeadacheIrritabilityDepressionFeeling unlovedAnxietyMood changesSleeplessUnusual, tiredness or fatigueBackacheJoint painBreast tendernessLoss of mojo or motivationIncreased in breast size Muscle painNew facial hairDry skin, itchinessCrawling feelings on the skin (formication)Tingling, pins and needles sensation in extremitiesDecreases sexual sensation/trouble with orgasm Low libido Dry vagina, thinning vaginal walls Painful it uncomfortable intercourse Increased urinary frequencyUrinary incontinenceIncreased gas and bloatingBleeding gumBrittle nailsHair, thinning or lossHeart palpitationsBurning tongueHearing loss and or tinnitusFunctional Doctor Recommendations:Dr. Lauren Fitzgerald @ Larimar Med in St. Charles, Il https://larimarmed.comStacey Caler, NP @ Wellness Refinery in Roscoe, Ilhttps://www.wellnessrefineryclinic.comDr. Megen McBride in Encinitias, Cahttps://www.drmegenmcbridend.comWorldLink Medical Provider Locator:https://www.directory.worldlinkmedical.comRecommended Books:Fast Like a Girl by  Dr. Mindy Pelz:https://www.amazon.com/dp/1JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    50. The Midlife Edit with Shannon Blas

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2025 39:28 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Unlock the secrets to navigating midlife transitions with grace as we share a heartfelt conversation with my dear friend, Shannon Blas. We reflect on our 20-year journey from young motherhood to embracing the empty nester phase. Shannon generously opens up about her experiences, highlighting the importance of nurturing relationships with adult children and the profound life changes that follow their departure from the nest.Explore the empowering world of hormone health and functional medicine with us as we address the common challenges faced by midlife women. Shannon shares her personal success with BHRT (bioidentical hormone replacement therapy), emphasizing the need to seek out personalized solutions that go beyond conventional Western medicine. Discover how defining your "really good day" through journaling and the Midlife Edit course can foster self-awareness and well-being, empowering you to take control of your health with confidence and clarity.Dive into practical strategies for embracing midlife changes, from gratitude journals and intermittent fasting to decluttering your living space and finding joy in physical activities. We also discuss the evolving demands of parenting, offering tips for maintaining supportive relationships with adult children as you step into this new life chapter. Join us for an episode filled with wisdom, encouragement, and the tools to navigate midlife with a positive and empowered mindset.You can find Shannon @ www.shannonblas.com Functional Doctor Recommendations:Dr. Lauren Fitzgerald @ Larimar Med in St. Charles, Il https://larimarmed.comStacey Caler, NP @ Wellness Refinery in Roscoe, Il https://www.wellnessrefineryclinic.comDr. Megen McBride in Encinitias, Ca https://www.drmegenmcbridend.comWorldLink Medical Provider Locator: https://www.directory.worldlinkmedical.comRecommended Books:Fast Like a Girl by  Dr. Mindy Pelz:https://www.amazon.com/dp/1401969925/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_KZEHAMHFSWTW2SMWEX2B?linkCode=ml2&tag=heartthatbeat-20Miracle Morning by Hal Elrod:https://amzn.to/4geFgyxDoing Life With Your Adult Children- Keep Your Mouth Shut and the Welcome Mat Out by Jim Burns:https://amzn.to/4girECGNext Level by Stacy Sims:https://amzn.to/4aF4RzzRecommended Podcast: Labs to have done for BHRT:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-made-fitz-show/id1607565676?i=1000658431452JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    49. The Bladder Battle: Real Talk Around the Fear of a Cough or a Sneeze.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2025 31:35 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Urinary incontinence is a challenge many women face but often shy away from discussing. As someone who has personally experienced the impact of this condition, I take you through my journey of trying various treatments to regain control over my life. From the initial frustration of leakage during everyday activities to discovering the role fascia plays in pelvic health, this episode shares my candid exploration of solutions—from Kegel exercises to pelvic floor therapy—that might resonate with many of you who are navigating similar paths.Our conversation takes a deep dive into the decision-making process behind considering surgical options. With the guidance of Abraham R. Shashoua, M.D., a renowned urogynecologist, I faced the tough choice of undergoing a traditional bladder sling procedure. This segment delves into the emotional and practical considerations of opting for surgery after non-invasive methods proved insufficient. The aim is to provide insight and support for those weighing similar medical interventions, highlighting both the challenges and potential outcomes.The journey to overcoming bladder incontinence does not end with surgery. As menopause introduced new factors into the equation, I share my transformative experience with a Bulkamid procedure. This episode underscores the importance of understanding hormonal changes and their impact on women's health. By recounting my positive results and the support I received, I hope to empower other women to seek solutions and foster a community where we can openly discuss and address these issues. Let's work together to spread awareness and share knowledge, making the journey for others a bit easier.You can find Dr. Shashoua here: https://www.chicagourogynecologist.com/about-our-doctors/abraham-r-shashoua-m-d/Learn more about Bulkamid: https://www.bulkamid.com/JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    48. Beauty from Ashes Story: Hadley Eddings' Journey of Loss, Restoration, and Faith in the Face of Tragedy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2025 46:07 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. What if you could transform unimaginable grief into a beacon of hope? Hadley Eddings joins us this week on A Heart that Beats for Home to share her incredible journey through loss, resilience, and faith. In 2015, on what should have been a celebratory sixth wedding anniversary, Hadley and her husband Gentry faced a devastating tragedy—the loss of their young sons, Dobbs and Reed, in a tragic car accident. Despite this heart-wrenching sorrow, Hadley's story is one of strength.Hadley and Gentry's path forward was marked by a remarkable transformation of grief into hope. Amidst this journey of healing, the unexpected joy of welcoming twin sons, Isaiah Dobbs and Amos Reed, into their lives showcases a testament to their unwavering belief in God's divine kindness and purpose.We explore the emotional landscape of Hadley's journey, where grief evolves yet never completely dissipates, creating space for healing and joy. The importance of community support, faith, and personal resilience shines through her narrative, providing encouragement for those facing their own trials. Hadley's story is a powerful reminder of the enduring spirit of family and faith, offering hope and inspiration to anyone navigating their own path through hardship. Join us to embrace the themes of love, resilience, and the miraculous blessings that life can bring amidst sorrow.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    47. Welcome to Season Two!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2025 28:36 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Time is a precious yet fleeting element of life that shapes our experiences, especially within our families. In this episode, we reflect on the past year of the podcast, celebrate growth, and share exciting plans for 2025, including discussions on women's health, intimacy in marriage, and parenting young adults, all framed by inspiring stories of resilience.• Reflecting on the swift passage of time and its impact on family life • Celebrating the success of 46 podcast episodes and a global audience • Discussing the unique challenges of solo podcasting and gauging listener engagement • Importance of taking breaks for rest and personal reflections • Plans for season two: sustaining quality content and adapting to listener needs • Upcoming topics include women's health, intimacy in marriage, and parenting young adults • Introducing "Beauty from Ashes" series featuring inspiring life stories • Gratitude to listeners for their support and engagement throughout the journeyJOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    46. The Power of Patience and Gratitude in Marriage - Betsey Dirkse Part 2 -

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2024 40:12 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. After navigating the ups and downs of 31 years of marriage and ministry, Betsey joins us to share how she and her husband, John, have kept their relationship strong and full of joy. From the early years of marriage filled with youthful challenges to the quieter days of empty nesting, their story is one of enduring partnership rooted in gratitude and faith. In this heartfelt conversation, discover how they faced trials, such as their firstborn leaving for college and the loss of John's father, with resilience and a focus on the blessings at hand.Betsy opens up about the transformative role of being a pastor's wife, guided by mentors and love's strong foundation. As she recounts her personal journey alongside John, we uncover the beauty of empowering each other's callings and nurturing a partnership that respects and uplifts. Practical insights on creating thankful lists and understanding one another's weaknesses highlight the profound impact of gratitude and mutual support in a marriage. This episode offers valuable lessons on building a life together where communication and respect are paramount.Celebrate the sweetness of long-term commitment as we reflect on the marathon of marriage and family life. Betsy shares the importance of communication and mutual understanding, even during times of feeling misunderstood. Her stories of parenting and grandparenting reveal the joys and fulfillment found in staying true to family values and trusting the process. This episode is a testament to the rewards of patience, perseverance, and faithfulness in navigating the multifaceted journey of marriage and family.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    45. Finding Joy in Everyday Life with Betsey Dirkse

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2024 53:00 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Join us for a heartwarming episode of A Heart that Beats for Home as we are joined by the delightful Betsey, a pastor's wife, mother of five adult children, and grandmother of six. In this episode, we explore the themes of joy and gratitude within family and marriage, and Betsey shares her infectious joy and genuine spirit with us.  Learn how reflecting on the power of joy and gratitude in our everyday lives can become foundational elements in family dynamics and personal relationships. Get ready to be inspired and uplifted as we dive into this enriching conversation.In our conversation with Betsey, we delve into her personal faith journey and the transformative experiences that shaped her commitment to Christ. From a pivotal moment at a sixth-grade church camp to the influence of a dynamic youth pastor, we explore how joy and purpose became guiding forces in Betsey's life. We also discuss the lasting power of words and encouragement, even when the encourager's name fades from memory. Join us as we reflect on the profound impact of joy-filled living and the importance of using our gifts to uplift and encourage others.Parenting and marriage can be complex journeys, and in this episode, we navigate these challenges with Betsey's wisdom and insights. We explore the evolving dynamics of parenting adult children and the importance of maintaining positivity amidst life's pressures. We also discuss the significance of gratitude and flexibility in our faith, finding personal ways to connect with God throughout our busy days. From fostering independence in children to navigating the transition from parenting to developing friendships with adult children, we uncover the joys and struggles of these relationships. Join us as we embrace the beauty of family and marriage and prioritize relationships in this next season of life.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    44. The Impact of Living a Grateful Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2024 33:54 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. What role do you play in setting the emotional tone of your home? Join me, Nikki Smith, as I explore how embracing the spirit of gratitude can transform our family dynamics, even amidst the November hustle and bustle. We'll dive into the profound impact genuine gratitude can have, moving beyond mere positivity to truly appreciating the blessings around us. Through my personal stories, I'll inspire fellow mothers to foster gratitude in their lives and offer practical tips to make thankfulness an everyday practice.Shifting our mindset from negativity to appreciation is a powerful tool for personal growth and stronger relationships. In this episode of "A Heart that Beats for Home," we examine how gratitude touches every aspect of our lives, from influencing children to shaping communities. Each day, we often overlook simple blessings like health, shelter, and education. I'll share insights on recognizing these everyday comforts and encourage you to vocalize gratitude to those around you. By expressing appreciation, you can strengthen bonds with family members, friends, and colleagues, creating a ripple effect of thankfulness in your environment.Let's create a grateful family atmosphere filled with engaging activities that bring everyone together. From gratitude jars to thankfulness chains, and even a graffiti pumpkin, I'll guide you through fun and interactive ways to nurture a home environment where everyone feels valued. We'll also explore keeping a gratitude journal and undertaking a 30-day gratitude challenge to deepen your family's connection. By embracing gratitude as a core value, not just during the holidays but throughout the year, we can transform our homes into nurturing spaces that thrive on love and appreciation. Join me as we embark on this heartwarming journey to cultivate a lifestyle of gratitude.Gratitude Resources:30 Day Challenge-https://pickingdaisiesblog.com/gratitudechallenge/30 Gratitude Journal Prompts-https://www.coffeewithkinzy.com/30-gratitude-journal-prompts/JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    43. Nikki's Favorite Things - Holiday Edition

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2024 60:16 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Ever opened a gift box expecting something delightful, only to find a surprise that left you in stitches—or slightly terrified? Join me, Nikki Smith, as I recount the unforgettable Christmas when my husband decided to conquer my fear of firearms with a handgun, leading to a hilarious holiday tale of miscommunications in gift-giving. Explore the lighter side of family chaos and the lessons we can learn about communication and truly understanding what brings joy to our loved ones. It's all about expecting the unexpected and finding humor in life's well-intentioned blunders!From must-have gadgets to the transformative power of luxurious personal care, this episode is your ultimate guide to holiday gifting. I'll share some of my own beloved fashion and lifestyle essentials that have brought comfort and style into my life. Discover the fashion magic of New Balance shoes and Bombas socks, or the simple pleasure of high-quality bedding from Boll & Branch that can make every night feel like a dream vacation. Whether you're shopping for others or treating yourself, these recommendations are sure to spark joy and comfort.To wrap things up, we dive into practical tips for organizing holiday chaos and preserving precious family memories. I'll reveal how apps like Giftful and Forever can streamline your holiday planning and memory-keeping, reducing stress and focusing on what truly matters—celebrating with loved ones. Plus, get inspired with thoughtful stocking stuffer ideas and care packages that make every family member feel appreciated. Let's make this holiday season a memorable one filled with love, laughter, and perfectly chosen gifts!Link to Episode with Aro Co-Founder Joey Odom:https://www.buzzsprout.com/2232091/episodes/15202894Link to Forever episode:https://www.buzzsprout.com/2232091/episodes/14598639LINKTREE Gift List:https://linktr.ee/NikkiSmith815Giftful App:https://giftful.com/Stocking List For Her:Book/ MagazineCandle Essential OilsWine/ Fav BeverageCoffee/ TeaGift CertficatesPajamas SocksFavorite Treats Phone AccessoriesPerfumeBody Lotion/OilsSlippersMarshalls/ HomeGoods Stocking For Him:Grill SuppliesSpices/rubsBook/ Magazine (year subscription)Wine/ Fav BeverageCoffee/ TeaGift Certificates (hunting/fishing/Golf)Golf Balls Fishing Lures Camo something SocksFavorite Treats Phone AccessoriesJOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    42. 10 Interior Design Tips to Elevate Your Home

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2024 49:11 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Transform your living space into a serene sanctuary and explore fundamental design principles that balance tones, patterns, and textures, ensuring your space feels both aesthetically pleasing and deeply personal.Unlock the secrets of enhancing your home's ambiance with practical tips on drapery and furniture selection. From extending curtain rods to selecting furniture with visible legs, I offer strategies that will make your rooms appear larger and brighter. Dive into the world of paint and color, where consistent, grayed-down hues create a calming environment, and high-quality, neutral furniture provides versatility for evolving styles. With these tools, you'll craft a cohesive and welcoming home.Finally, embrace the joy of personalizing your space with meaningful decor. Discover budget-friendly ideas for transforming furniture, incorporating family heirlooms, and adding personal touches that reflect your unique style and memories. This episode is a treasure trove of creative possibilities, all designed to help you reimagine your home. Share these insights with friends who might benefit, and together, let's cultivate beautiful spaces that foster strong connections and cherished memories.Resources:How to Hang Drapery:https://mccabe-house.com/blog/how-to-hanging-drapery-panelsAmazon Custom Drapes:Pairing Furniture Legs:https://mccabe-house.com/blog/how-to-mix-the-right-furniture-pieces-in-a-spacePain Color:https://milliehartinteriors.com/products/warm-neutrals-sherwin-williams-paint-palette-neutral-interior-paint-colors-accessible-beige-color-scheme-aesthetic-white-complimentshttps://www.bhg.com/decorating/color/neutrals/neutral-paint-colors/https://freshabodes.com/benjamin-moores-best-neutral-paint-colors/How to Layer Accessories and Art:https://www.karacoxinteriors.com/journal/how-to-layer-accessories-like-a-proJOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    41. Choosing Sobriety with Heather Shields

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2024 42:35 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Join us as Heather courageously shares her story of overcoming alcohol's grip, especially the moment when her daughter witnessed a version of her that was far from her best. Her raw storytelling sheds light on the pivotal choices she made to reclaim her life, drawing strength from embracing vulnerability and authenticity. Together, we confront the hidden truths about how society shapes our relationship with alcohol and the personal growth that emerges from challenging these norms.Taking on a 100-day alcohol-free challenge turned into a life-changing milestone for Heather.  From the support of family and her best friend's unwavering commitment, to navigating tricky social terrains like the holiday season, this journey redefined Heathers understanding of sobriety. We dive into the societal expectations that make abstaining from alcohol a topic of scrutiny rather than celebration, and how these pressures can strain relationships when one decides to embrace a sober lifestyle.Heather and I explore the empowerment found in confronting personal battles, highlighting the incredible strength that blossoms from vulnerability. She shares invaluable resources for those considering sobriety, underlining the role of faith and accountability in sustaining change. Through this episode, our hope is to inspire others to reflect on their own lives, to break free from constraints, and to foster a supportive environment that promotes open communication and conscious choices. Our stories are a reminder that no one is alone on this journey, and with the support of loved ones and faith, overcoming challenges is within reach.Resources:I am Sober Apphttps://iamsober.com/en/site/homeThe Alcohol Experiment by Annie Gracehttps://a.co/d/8hf5nXwFind Heather @ https://www.instagram.com/heather_ellis_shieldsJOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    40. 25 Lessons Learned in 25 Years of Marriage: Creating Margin, Finding Mentors, and Keeping Christ at the Center / Lessons 21-25

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2024 32:44 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Jump into the final week of 25 lessons learned over 25 years of marriage. Reflect on the transformative journey my husband and I embarked upon, filled with wisdom from mentors and inspiration from couples we admire. Embrace the joy and challenges of marriage, and hear how a supportive community has helped us navigate through every stage—from nurturing a young family to wholeheartedly welcoming the adventure of empty nesting and retirement.Gain insights into creating space for what truly matters by exploring the concept of margin in your life. Uncover the peace that comes from decluttering not just physical spaces, but also managing time and finances wisely. We share the joy found in spontaneous, joyful family moments and highlight the importance of intentional family investment while keeping Christ at the heart of all our decisions. It's about making choices that place family first, even amidst the chaos and noise of modern life.Embrace the profound role of faith as more than just a fleeting crutch but as a cornerstone of meaningful relationships and daily life. Learn how treating faith as a relationship can breathe life into marriages, guiding us through the unpredictable journey of life. Discover how scripture can shape your prayers and enable you to lead a faith-centered life, providing stability and strength for you and your loved ones. As our series on marriage draws to a close, we hope these insights inspire and encourage you on your own journey.Resources: Praying the Scriptures for Your Children:https://amzn.to/3Yg6cs5Praying the Scriptures for Your Teens:https://amzn.to/4gZaP0YPraying the Scriptures for Your Adult Children:https://amzn.to/3ZZFtBwPraying the Scriptures for Your Marriage:https://amzn.to/405neu6Praying the Scriptures for Your Life:https://amzn.to/4dFb7r8JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    39. 25 Lessons Learned in 25 Years of Marriage: Insecurities, Laughter and the Power of Words / Lessons 16-20

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2024 39:12 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Stepping away from the familiar lure of sun-kissed beaches, my husband and I embraced the crisp allure of a 12-day escape to Vancouver Island for our 25th wedding anniversary. This wasn't just any getaway; it was a celebration of the lessons and love we've cultivated over a quarter of a century together. From the bustling charm of Victoria to the serene landscapes of Tofino, Join me, Nikki Smith, as I share how this adventure rekindled connections with mentors and offered a fresh perspective on marriage.As our series on marriage approaches its conclusion, explore the profound impact of identifying insecurities and promoting encouragement within relationships. Hear anecdotes about laughter and humor as vital tools for navigating the unpredictable challenges life throws our way. This episode also dives into the power of words in marriage, underscoring the need for mindfulness and grace in communication. With insights drawn from personal experiences, I invite you to reflect on how these lessons might resonate within your own relationships, fostering stronger bonds and creating a heart that beats for home.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    38. 25 Lessons Learned in 25 Years of Marriage: Avoiding Strings of Bad Days, Communicating Your Needs, and Knowing the Difference Between a Bad Habit and a Bad Heart/ Lessons 11-15

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2024 26:02 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. How do you keep the spark alive in a marriage that's spanned over two decades? Join Nikki Smith as she shares her 25 Lessons for Marriage Success, drawing from 25 years of marriage and 32 years of partnership. In this episode, we unpack the critical lesson of not letting bad days accumulate and how to prevent minor frustrations from snowballing into bigger issues. Through personal stories, Nikki illustrates the concept of the "slow fade" and emphasizes the importance of starting each day with a fresh perspective. Discover why the notion that your spouse should inherently know your needs is a myth that could be harming your relationship. Nikki dives deep into the necessity of clear, ongoing communication, explaining how changing life circumstances require constant dialogue. You'll also hear about the minor yet common annoyances, like half-finished projects and scattered contact lenses, and how understanding and managing these habits can lead to a more harmonious home life. Tune in for practical advice and heartfelt anecdotes aimed at helping you embrace both the joy and chaos of marital life, strengthening your relationship one lesson at a time.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    37. 25 Years of Marriage: Lessons in Love, Intentionality, and Intimacy / Lessons 6-11

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2024 21:43 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Can the words you speak really transform your marriage? After 25 years with my husband, Jed, I can confidently say yes. This week we will dive into 5 more lessons we have learned over our years being married, starting with the power of speaking life over your spouse. As we navigate the challenges of modern life, electronic distractions often get in the way of meaningful connections. Discover practical strategies to reclaim your time and attention, ensuring your relationships flourish in a distraction-filled world. By setting clear boundaries and presenting a united front as parents, we can create a stable, supportive environment for our children, even when disagreements arise. Learn how mindful communication in front of your kids can lay the groundwork for a cohesive family unit.Owning our responses in marriage is another cornerstone we'll explore. It's easy to blame our reactions on others, but taking full responsibility for how we handle conflicts is transformative. From heartfelt apologies to committing to personal growth, find out how these practices can enhance your relationship. I'll recap the essential lessons from the week, including speaking life over your spouse, covering each other's weaknesses, reducing distractions, being united as parents, and owning our responses. These insights aim to inspire accountability and proactive change, helping you foster a healthier, more supportive partnership. Tune in for candid conversations that will guide you in cultivating a strong, loving family.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    36. 25 Lessons Learned in 25 Years of Marriage: Love, Intentionality, and Intimacy / Lessons 1-5

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2024 26:41 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. What if the key to a thriving marriage isn't just love, but intentionality? Join me, Nikki Smith, as I celebrate 25 years of marriage by sharing the invaluable lessons we've learned along the way. From meeting in junior high to raising children and preparing for an empty nest, our journey is filled with both trials and triumphs that have shaped our relationship. In this special episode of A Heart that Beats for Home, "25 Lessons Learned in 25 Years," I open up about the importance of setting intentional goals for your marriage, the delicate balance of truth and love in communication, and how to maintain intimacy by truly understanding and connecting with your partner.You'll hear heartfelt personal stories and gain practical wisdom designed to encourage and guide couples in the early or hectic stages of their marriage. Discover why deliberate effort is crucial to achieving the relationship you desire and how filling gaps with grace, love, and truth can provide a stable foundation for your family. This episode is not just a reflection on our past but a roadmap for shaping the future of your own marriage, ensuring it remains strong and fulfilling for years to come.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    35. Cultivating Routine and Efficiency in a Busy Household

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2024 40:29 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. As we transition from the lazy days of summer to the structured routines of fall, how do we maintain balance and intentionality in our busy lives? Welcome back to A Heart that Beats for Home! As the freedom of summer wanes, I'll share my excitement for a more routine-driven lifestyle and discuss strategies for creating a harmonious and meaningful year ahead. With my youngest starting high school, the focus will be on the importance of intentionality in both parenting and marriage.Imagine making the most of every small pocket of time in your day, increasing your efficiency without adding stress. After a summer of disciplined health habits under the guidance of a functional medicine doctor, I'll share how I'm adapting to a busier schedule. From stepping back from cherished activities to manage homeschooling commitments better, to maintaining daily non-negotiables like Bible reading and prayer, this episode is packed with practical tips. We'll also discuss managing schedule anxiety and practicing grace when things don't go as planned, setting realistic expectations, and enlisting support to reduce stress and lead a more balanced life.Balancing multiple priorities requires a strategic approach, and this episode is all about sharing those strategies. From eating healthy with convenient options and ensuring quality family time, to maintaining a strong relationship with my husband through intentional dates, I'll dive into how I'm juggling back-to-school schedules, and homeschooling. We'll talk about the importance of decluttering, setting boundaries, and prioritizing personal health. Join me as we embrace this busy season together, stay connected, and aim to finish strong.ARO App & ARO Box:Code for 7 day free trial and $25 off ARO BOXhttps://goaro.link/nikkiJOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    34. Embracing Change and New Beginnings - Let's Talk Menopause, Empty Nesting, Launching Our Kiddos, and Keeping the Fire Alive in Marriage - Part 2 with KellieYurosek

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2024 52:38 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Have you ever felt like the end of hands-on parenting is as abrupt and jarring as losing a career? In this heartfelt episode of "A Heart that Beats for Home," my dear friend Kellie and I explore this transformative stage of life. Kellie shares an insightful analogy from her counselor that helps bridge understanding and empathy between moms and their spouses, easing the emotional and physical shifts that come with perimenopause and middle age. We also delve into the complexities of preparing for an empty nest and the importance of mental and physical preparation to thrive in this new chapter.We then explore the profound journey of self-discovery and personal growth. We chat about how hobbies like gardening, art, and pottery have been instrumental in finding happiness independently of our children and spouse. Together, Kellie and I discuss the value of embracing our children's significant others as part of the family, the necessity of maintaining a strong marriage through regular communication, and how fostering these relationships leads to a deeper, more fulfilling life. We underscore the importance of celebrating the evolving beauty of family dynamics, especially as our children transition into their own adult lives.Finally, we dive into the aspirations of transitioning to the empty nest phase with a focus on long-term family growth. How do we create lasting memories and stronger family bonds? By prioritizing shared experiences over material gifts and maintaining an adaptable mindset. We also touch on the crucial role of community support and the significance of moms taking care of themselves emotionally. This episode is brimming with encouragement and practical insights for anyone navigating middle age, emphasizing self-awareness, gratitude, and the joys of new chapters in family life.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    33. Family Rules and Open Communication with Kellie Yurosek - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2024 62:36 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Managing a household of five kids while juggling the demands of a traveling spouse can be a beautiful chaos, and Kellie Yurosek knows firsthand just how intricate and rewarding it can be. Join us for an intimate conversation with Kellie as she shares her experiences of raising children aged 14 to 26, from the bustling days of multiple school pickups to the quieter moments when only two kids are left at home. Kellie's heartfelt anecdotes and insights provide a window into her family's vibrant dynamic and the joys and challenges of nurturing different personalities under one roof.Balancing family and work responsibilities is a fine art, and Kellie's journey offers valuable lessons on meeting each child's unique needs. Learn how open communication, slowing down, and listening can transform the parenting experience, even amidst a hectic schedule. Kellie and I discuss the emotional and practical aspects of motherhood. Our conversation highlights the importance of mutual understanding, gratitude, and recognizing each other's strengths in maintaining a healthy family and marriage.Through relatable stories and practical advice, we explore the necessity of core family rules and the impact of good manners and gratitude on child development. From teaching humility through competitive sports to navigating the evolving boundaries of parenting and friendship, Kellie's experiences resonate on multiple levels. We also touch on the powerful moments of open communication, making every topic approachable, and ensuring children feel heard. Don't miss this enriching episode that celebrates the joy and chaos of cultivating strong, loving families.Follow Kellie at: https://www.instagram.com/mamabeholdingittogether?igsh=azhjOWRrM3VtY3duYou can follow Ben and cheer on Georgia Dogs Football at:https://georgiadogs.com/sports/football/roster/ben-yurosek/8297JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    32. Reflections on College Life and Family Connections with Madison Smith - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2024 32:41 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Sending your child off to college is an emotional rollercoaster, filled with moments of pride, anxiety, and bittersweet farewells. On this heartfelt episode of "A Heart that Beats for Home," I sit down with my daughter, Madison Smith, to reflect on her journey from freshman to senior year. We delve into the anxieties and guilt that many parents face during this transition, providing reassurance about giving ourselves grace and trusting in our children's ability to navigate their new environments. Through our candid conversation, we emphasize the importance of faith and resilience during these formative years.Madison and I explore how our family has managed the shifts in dynamics when a child leaves for college. From regular calls to inventive virtual game nights, we share practical tips and personal stories to help maintain those indispensable connections despite the physical distance. Madison opens up about the unique challenges of keeping sibling relationships strong and how integrating new routines can sustain the familial bond.The episode also celebrates the evolution of relationships during college, shining a light on the often-overlooked efforts dads make to stay connected. Through Madison's experiences, we discuss the emotional aspects of moving in and out each year and the personal growth that unfolds from freshman to senior year. As we approach the bittersweet senior year, we touch upon the mixed emotions of pride and nostalgia that accompany this milestone. Join us for an episode filled with love, support, and the shared wisdom of a family navigating the beautiful, challenging journey of college life.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    31. Navigating the Emotional Rollercoaster of Sending a Child to College with Madison Smith

    Play Episode Play 52 sec Highlight Listen Later Aug 8, 2024 50:17 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Ever wondered how to navigate the emotional whirlwind of sending a child off to college? Today, I sit down with my oldest daughter, Madison Smith, to share our deeply personal journey through her college years. We reflect on the poignant moments of her leaving home, the heartbreak of saying goodbye, and the bittersweet realization of new beginnings. Madison opens up about the challenges and triumphs she faced during her transition from high school to college life at Olivet Nazarene University, balancing roles as a student-athlete, resident assistant, and Bible study leader amidst the chaos of COVID-19.This episode is a heartfelt exploration of the emotional rollercoaster that comes with a college send-off, the importance of keeping busy to manage overwhelming feelings, and the rapid adaptation required when stepping into a new environment. Madison shares candid insights into her early days on campus, from the struggles of isolation during a COVID diagnosis to balancing the demanding schedules of online academics and athletic training. We discuss how our family maintained a close connection despite the distance, highlighting the pivotal role of small gestures and consistent communication in preserving strong family bonds.Listeners will find valuable advice on transitioning from high school to college athletics, the significance of engaging with college coaches early, and the necessity of overcoming shyness to become an effective team leader. Madison also emphasizes the importance of balancing academics, athletics, and spirituality, supported by a nurturing community and consistent spiritual practices. This episode is packed with practical tips for parents and students alike, covering everything from managing mental and emotional stress to embracing the growth and experiences that come with this significant life change. Join us for a candid and inspiring conversation that is sure to resonate with anyone preparing for or experiencing the college transition.Follow Madison and ONU Tigerball Basketball at:https://www.onutigers.com/sports/wbkb/2024-25/scheduleJOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    30. Strategies for Flourishing in a Teen-Filled Home with Annique Dean

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2024 52:44 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Prepare yourselves for an enlightening journey into the world of parenting teens and young adults with our guest, Annique Dean, a mother of five and a newly certified parent coach. Annique opens up about her unique experiences, offering practical advice on how to navigate the emotionally intense teenage years while maintaining your sanity. Discover her strategies for creating effective routines, practicing self-compassion, and ensuring that both you and your children get the sleep you need to thrive.As a parent managing a bustling household of athletes, Annique shares the realities behind the logistical and financial challenges, all while debunking myths about the tumultuous nature of teenage years. Expect to hear heartwarming personal anecdotes that illustrate the balance between chaos and joy, and learn about the unexpected fun that comes with raising teens. From grocery shopping to setting boundaries with smartphones and social media, Annique provides a reassuring perspective on managing a household filled with active teenagers.Finally, we delve into the bittersweet emotions surrounding children growing up and leaving the nest, and the importance of investing in your marriage to create a strong family foundation.  Join us for an episode packed with wisdom, humor, and heartfelt moments that will leave you feeling inspired and empowered in your own parenting journey.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    29. Fostering Connection in Your Family with Lisa Dooley

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2024 42:47 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Sitting down with Lisa Dooley was a gift, offering deep insights into the dynamics of parenting and marriage. We explore the highs and lows of raising teenagers and nurturing a growing marriage. Lisa shares how open communication and seizing moments with her children have been crucial to developing a close relationship.We wrap up by focusing on the foundation of family life—the marital relationship. Prioritizing this bond amidst parenting is crucial, and we discuss ways to keep the spark alive through date nights, shared experiences, and spiritual connection. We also touch on finding personal fulfillment and balance, highlighting that our roles extend beyond parenting and nurturing relationships is key to making our hearts beat for home.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    28. Balancing Family Life With Intentional Parenting with Alissa Lovett

    Play Episode Play 37 sec Highlight Listen Later Jul 18, 2024 52:35 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Ever wondered how to balance the chaos of family life with intentional parenting? Join me as I chat with my dear friend Alissa Lovett, a devoted wife, mother, and business owner, who shares her journey of raising children through various stages. Alissa and I dive into the heart of parenting, discussing the pivotal training stage (ages 5 to 12) and the transition into the coaching stage. We emphasize the importance of family time, mentorship, and growing together, offering valuable insights into young parenthood and the significance of being intentional in both parenting and marriage.Navigating the emotional landscape of growing children can be challenging. Alissa and I explore how to build strong relationships with our children by creating a safe space for them to express their feelings. We highlight the crucial role parents play in modeling emotional intelligence, turning difficult moments into opportunities for connection and growth. Alissa shares personal stories about the balance of nurturing both strength and vulnerability, especially in raising emotionally healthy boys, showing how patience and understanding can transform an angry outburst into a bonding experience.Alissa and I recount her family's transformative journey traveling across 49 states in an RV. This unique experience taught her invaluable lessons in flexibility, gratitude, and family unity. We also discuss the power of family traditions and the importance of shared mealtime, offering practical tips on managing family dinners amidst busy schedules. From limiting screen time to encourage sibling bonding to simple acts of investing in marriage, this episode is packed with wisdom on creating a nurturing and intentional home environment. Join us as we celebrate the beauty of intentionality in parenting, marriage, and family life.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    27. Creating Sacred Time and Space - Prioritizing Relationships Over Screen Time with Aro Co-Founder Joey Odom

    Play Episode Play 44 sec Highlight Listen Later Jul 11, 2024 46:43 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Have you ever found yourself missing out on life's precious moments because you were glued to your phone? In this compelling episode of A Heart that Beats for Home, we welcome Joey Odom, co-founder of Aro, who shares a deeply personal story about missing his son's first soccer goal due to phone distraction. Together, we examine the profound impact that technology has on family dynamics and the urgent need to be present in our children's lives. Joey's journey from that pivotal moment to co-founding Aro offers valuable lessons for all of us struggling to balance technology use with meaningful family interactions.We also delve into the critical role parents play in modeling healthy phone habits for their children. Joey and I discuss the irony of parents' frustrations when their children mirror their own poor phone behaviors. The conversation highlights the importance of self-awareness and personal responsibility in setting a positive example. Joey introduces Aro, an innovative platform designed to help families manage their phone use more mindfully. With practical insights and relatable stories, we emphasize the importance of creating new habits to reclaim control over our technology use without inducing guilt.In our discussion, we emphasize the transformative potential of reshaping our phone habits on relationships with our spouses, teenagers, and ourselves. By prioritizing relationships over screen time, we can foster genuine interactions and build stronger family bonds. Joey shares actionable steps like setting "sacred times" and "sacred places" to eliminate technology distractions and enhance family connections. The episode concludes with a powerful message: adopting a "stop at nothing" mindset to persevere through challenges and make meaningful changes in our family dynamics. Listen in for an episode filled with heartfelt insights and practical advice that could change the way you and your family interact with technology.Follow Joey and the Aro family on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/goaronow?igsh=Y2thZGg5b3U2YmJ0Aro Blog: https://www.goaro.com/aro-the-blogAro Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-aro-podcast/id1665937884Get your Aro Box here: https://www.goaro.com/membershipStarting in August you can access the benefits of Aro from the App alone.  Stay tuned for more details. JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    26. Sowing Seeds of Success in Young Minds with Erica McMullen

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2024 44:46 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Discover the art of igniting an entrepreneurial fire in our children with Erica McMullen, a seasoned entrepreneur and mother. Amidst a culture of abundance, we examine how to instill a work ethic in our kids and dismantle the myth that today's generation lacks drive. Erica shares her journey as the daughter of a business owner and her resolve to sow seeds of industriousness in her children, providing them the tools to dream big and chart their own paths to success.Venture into the world of pint-sized CEOs as we recount the awe-inspiring moments from a children's marketplace event. These young minds, with their uncanny grasp of ROI and marketing strategies, turned everyday interests into profitable ventures, demonstrating the profound impact of nurturing business savvy from a tender age. From selling homemade crafts to organic dog treats, these stories are not just about profit margins but also about instilling life skills, building confidence, and sparking the joy of turning ideas into tangible realities.In closing, we look at the broader horizon of how to foster communication skills and entrepreneurial thinking in our kids. Erica and I also trade our favorite parenting hacks and the humor we find in the everyday adventures of family life, offering a glimpse into the heartfelt process of parenting empowered, creative individuals. Join us for laughs, lessons, and a look at how we can equip our children for a world where the only constant is change.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    The Joys and Challenges of Parenting and Marriage with Nyisha Chu

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2024 47:37 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. What if balancing a career, family, and personal growth wasn't just a juggling act but a transformative journey? Join us on "A Heart That Beats for Home" as we hear from Nyisha Chu, a dedicated homeschool mom who shares her candid reflections on embracing motherhood and marriage.Flexibility and grace are our guiding stars in parenting, especially when shifting from a structured corporate mindset to a nurturing homeschooling environment. Through heartfelt stories, Nyisha and I emphasize the importance of understanding our children's unique learning styles and the profound connections formed by spending meaningful time together. Whether it's bedtime reading or simplifying play environments, these moments foster deep family bonds and enrich our lives beyond measure.Balancing work and family often feels like a daunting task, but our discussion sheds light on the significance of supportive partnerships and the value of seeking help when needed. We share practical advice on managing household responsibilities and navigating the emotional journey of prioritizing family over career aspirations. Nyisha's resilience and dedication are an encouragement for parents striving to cultivate strong, authentic family relationships amidst the chaos and laughter of daily life. Tune in for a genuine, heartfelt conversation that celebrates motherhood's rewarding and challenging aspects.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    24. Intentional Parenting and Connection with Lauren Bryant

    Play Episode Play 40 sec Highlight Listen Later Jun 20, 2024 54:42 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. This episode of A Heart that Beats for Home promises to equip you with heartfelt strategies for nurturing a strong family dynamic. We're thrilled to have Lauren Bryant, a mother of five and experienced homeschooler, sharing her journey and the invaluable lessons she's learned along the way. From heartwarming family anecdotes, like their soulful Bible song sessions in Hawaii, to actionable strategies for balancing quality time with kids, Lauren brings a wealth of knowledge and inspiration to our conversation.This episode delves into practical tips to make every moment count, showing how even car rides can become opportunities for meaningful connections. We also explore their inspiring story of missionary work in Hawaii, highlighting how authentic faith and intentional parenting can transform family life. Through these stories, we reflect on the power of intentionality and the importance of heart-to-heart connections, no matter how brief they may be.Feeling overwhelmed by the challenges of parenting? This episode offers a treasure trove of encouragement and practical advice, emphasizing humility, consistency, and the willingness to learn from our mistakes. We discuss strategies for managing technology use and fostering strong sibling relationships, creating a nurturing environment that defies cultural norms. Finally, we underscore the importance of investing time wisely and applying the lessons learned to your own family life, urging listeners to cultivate a home filled with peace, joy, and mutual support. Join us for a raw, inspiring, and deeply enriching conversation about the essence of strong family bonds.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    23. Ask the Therapist! - Mom Guilt, Shame and Effective Emotional Management Tips with Jody Striker

    Play Episode Play 40 sec Highlight Listen Later Jun 13, 2024 59:56 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Join us as we embark on our summer series on parenting with Jody, a licensed therapist and dear friend. We tackle the often overwhelming shift into summer schedules, discussing how to turn the chaos of changing routines and increased family time into a harmonious balance of structure and spontaneity. Jody shares her expert advice on preparing for these transitions, creating supportive routines, and embracing the adventurous spirit of summer days. Jody dives deep into emotional regulation, teaching us how to recognize, name, and understand our feelings to manage them better. We learn how not to label emotions as 'good' or 'bad' and gain practical strategies for dealing with uncomfortable emotions. By demonstrating emotional regulation ourselves, we can create a healthier emotional environment for our children, guiding them through their own emotional challenges with compassion and insight.Parenting teenagers comes with its own set of unique challenges, and Jody provides invaluable tips on effective communication and setting boundaries while maintaining a loving relationship. From managing children's anger to overcoming mom guilt and shame, we explore strategies to foster emotional strength and understanding within our families. Tune in for a rich conversation filled with expert guidance and practical tips to help you navigate the joys and challenges of parenting.You can find Jody @missjs81 on instagram or at her blog  at https://jodyhassomethingtosay.blogspot.com/Book Recommendation:Raising Emotinal Strong Boys by David Thomashttps://amzn.to/3z0oi7cJOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    22. Discipline, Training, Coaching & Friendship in Parenting - Summer Series

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2024 51:57 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. In our summer kickoff episode, we dive into the heart of parenting. We'll discuss the crucial role of having a clear destination and trusting God's plan over our personal understanding. Hear about the balance between striving for excellence in parenting and recognizing the value of a basis of faith and intentional relationship-building.We will get practical as we break down the four stages of parenting from the book "Parenting: Getting It Right.": discipline, training, coaching, and friendship. We are excited for a summer filled with genuine, raw conversations aimed at strengthening our parenting tool box.Parenting - Getting It Right by Andy & Sandra Stanley:https://amzn.to/4ca7wB4Reflection questions to ask yourself:Do I know what our "North Star" is for our parenting goals?In which area of your parenting do you wish you were more God-honoring?Looking ahead to the friendship years, is there anything I need to change now to build a relationship that my children will choose to invest in even when they don't have to?JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    21. 4 Stages of Parenting - Summer Series Kick-Off

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2024 12:04 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. As the sun lingers in the sky a little longer each day, I'm reminded of just how swiftly time with our children slips through our fingers. This episode is an invitation to a summer of intentional parenting; a season to bolster family bonds and savor each moment. I'll be bringing you fresh conversations with incredible women and family members who'll provide a wellspring of insight and encouragement. JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    20. Navigating Love Languages in Parenting and Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2024 27:46 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. 20th EPISODE!!!!!Celebrate with us as we hit a podcast milestone that only the top 1% achieve—over 21 episodes of heartfelt conversations and today, it's all about the transformative power of love languages within the family unit. As we sail past this landmark, my gratitude overflows for you, our cherished listeners, and I'm thrilled to share a special giveaway that's close to my heart (peek at the show notes below for the juicy details). We're on a mission to love our spouses and children most effectively by speaking their unique love languages . Discover how to let your partner's heart sing with the right compliments or how to light up your child's day with a simple yet powerful note of encouragement. We'll navigate the subtleties of giving undivided attention, sharing meaningful interactions, and surprising loved ones with just-right gifts that say "you matter." And for those who feel supported through acts of service, I'll share how taking on a task or running an errand speaks volumes. Join me, as we tailor our actions to each unique love language, nurturing the affection that makes every family member feel truly cherished.GIVEAWAY DETAILSValued at over $400!!Here's what's included:

    19. "What Can I Do To Help?" - The Question That Broke the Internet

    Play Episode Play 22 sec Highlight Listen Later May 16, 2024 37:11 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Join me as we explore how asking  the question, "What can I do to help?", can change the dynamics in your home. This principle of support is not just a biblical mandate; it's a practical tool for closing the gap of miscommunication and the feeling of bearing our burdens alone  in our daily lives.  I will share stories of how this simple question has become a cornerstone within our household, transforming the way we interact and care for one another. Join me as we step boldly into discussions that aim to fortify the bonds of family and faith, proving that even in an era saturated with digital connections, our most profound impact often occurs within the walls of our own homes.FUTURE FAMILY SERIES:https://series.northpointministries.org/future-familyJOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    18. Part 2 - Keeping Your Love On When Navigating Relationships With Missy Hydes

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2024 29:10 Transcription Available


    We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Join me and my friend, Missy Hydes,  as we delve into week two of our conversation. In this episode we will discuss the art of parenting and the delicate dance of family relationships. Imagine creating a home where actions speak louder than words, where trust is built on the solid ground of open communication, and where our children see in us the example of patience and self-awareness we hope to inspire in them. This episode is your key to unlocking the doors of understanding and growth, especially vital for those teenage years that can test the bonds of even the strongest families.Missy and I unravel the threads of fear that often tangle our best intentions, revealing how to foster a calm and nurturing environment that allows our teenagers to blossom into powerful individuals in their own right. Imagine a home where the fruits of the Holy Spirit guide us, where love trumps fear, and where our daughters and sons learn autonomy and the priceless lessons from natural consequences. We navigate the delicate balance between guiding principles and personal preferences, ensuring that as parents, we're not just leading with authority, but with a love that empowers and educates.Finally, we will discuss the art of setting healthy relationship boundaries, understanding that true listening involves hearing our children's feedback without an immediate rush to defense. Missy and I examine the significance of avoiding absolutes in our language, and setting personal limits that breed respect and joy. strong, wise, and loving families.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    17. Keeping Your Love On When Navigating Relationships With Missy Hydes

    Play Episode Play 47 sec Highlight Listen Later May 2, 2024 47:52 Transcription Available


    Ever wondered what it's like to transform a house into a sanctuary of joy? My conversation with Missy Hydes, a dear friend and seasoned navigator of family dynamics, promises to be a wise guide as we navigate through the fog of parenting and personal growth. We share laughs and lessons learned from Missy's experience raising a large family, developing through her faith, and the profound impact of cultivating warm relationships and setting healthy boundaries Missy brought to life the crucial role of embracing change and the continuous journey of self-reflection. We tackle the shift from feeling powerless to recognizing our own powerful capacity in shaping our lives and relationships.  For parents, there's an enlightening discussion on fostering teenagers' autonomy and the delicate art of guiding them with love and understanding. Join us next week as Missy continues to pour out wisdom as we tackle the topic of setting healthy boundaries.Resources: Books:Keep Your Love On by Danny Silkhttps://amzn.to/3UkpvNPLoving On Purpose by Danny Silk https://amzn.to/4doj1GoPodcast: KYLO  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-kylo-show/id810268320You can find Missy on Instagram @https://www.instagram.com/missyhydesJOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/

    16. Nurturing and Prioritizing Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2024 51:20 Transcription Available


    In this episode we explore how to prioritize our marriage.  I share how my husband and I strike a balance between our careers and family life. You'll hear firsthand how setting clear boundaries and understanding each other's love languages can lead to a robust and resilient union. Plus, I offer practical strategies for ensuring that your relationship is an oasis among daily commitments.To all  seeking  a resilient and vibrant marriage,consider this your call to action. Join me as we confront the tough conversations that fortify our relationships against life's storms and discover the joy of investing in your marriage. Let's connect beyond the podcast —find me on Instagram. JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/BOOKS- Praying the Scriptures for Your Marriage by Jodie Berndt:https://amzn.to/3UaWunsCherish by Gary Thomas:https://amzn.to/4aHpWZf PODCASTS - Why Most Marriages Don't Work:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/why-most-marriages-dont-work-save-the-date-part-1/id73802266?i=1000584389260 4 Lies That Destroy Marriages:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/4-lies-that-destroy-marriages-save-the-date-part-4/id73802266?i=10005868566473 Secrets to the Marriage you Want:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/3-secrets-to-the-marriage-you-want-book-club-part-5/id73802266?i=1000568631143BIBLE APP MARRIAGE STUDIES-Fighting For My Marriage (7 Day Study):https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/28061 Thing to Grow Your Marriage Each Day (31 Day Study):https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/1409231 Day Marriage Reset (31 Day Study):https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/16401RECONNECT - A Marriage Refreshing Plan (15 Day Study):https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/21044

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