Podcasts about emotional neglect

In this episode, I read a personal essay about growing up as an undiagnosed PDA-profile autistic child. It's a story about control, shame, and the misunderstood ways resistance shows up in kids who are fighting for autonomy. I talk about meltdowns, self-harm, emotional neglect, and the long path toward healing and self-trust.This is about what happens when you bury parts of yourself to survive... and what it looks like to slowly bring them home.Content note: This episode includes reflections on childhood trauma, spanking, emotional neglect, self-harm, and depression. Please listen with care.

In this eye-opening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt tackles the complexities of dysfunctional family systems and offers practical strategies for fostering healthier relationships. Drawing from her extensive experience, Brianne delves into the root causes of family dysfunction, including poor communication, emotional neglect, and unresolved trauma. With her signature blend of humor and honesty, she shares five actionable ways to improve family dynamics and promote emotional well-being.Brianne introduces the concept of the "feelings wheel," a tool designed to help family members articulate their emotions and foster deeper connections. She emphasizes the importance of allowing everyone to experience their feelings without judgment, encouraging listeners to embrace their moods and create a safe environment for emotional expression. The conversation also covers the significance of shared experiences, such as learning new activities together and enjoying quality time without screens.As the episode progresses, Brianne highlights the value of healthy conflict in relationships, asserting that disagreements can lead to greater understanding and intimacy. By demonstrating how to navigate conflicts openly, she aims to equip listeners with the skills to resolve issues constructively. Tune in for a transformative discussion that empowers you to break free from dysfunctional patterns and cultivate a more supportive and loving family environment.

The quietest form of trauma often leaves the deepest marks. If you've always been "the strong one," the helper, or the person who never rocks the boat, this episode on emotional neglect might explain why you still struggle with relationships as an adult.Emotional neglect isn't defined by dramatic incidents but rather by what didn't happen in your childhood. Your basic needs may have been met, but when you experienced difficult emotions, no one helped you name them or comfort you through them. Those experiences taught you that your feelings were inconvenient, that you were inconvenient when you had needs – setting the perfect foundation for codependency.When your emotional blueprint was built on the belief that love had to be earned by being easy, helpful, or low maintenance, it's no wonder you might find yourself drawn to emotionally unavailable people. That familiar feeling of longing, of waiting for someone to finally choose you, isn't just chemistry – it's your nervous system trying to resolve old wounds through repetition compulsion.The most damaging side effect of emotional neglect is the quiet belief that you were somehow the problem – that if you had just been better, quieter, or less emotional, someone would have loved you properly. This hidden narrative drives perfectionism, people-pleasing, and the exhausting cycle of trying to earn love that should have been freely given.Healing begins when you recognize that you were never too much; you were simply not given enough.What would change if you stopped trying to be chosen and started choosing yourself? The answer might just be everything.Send me a messageI am so excited to share my codependency recovery workbook with you. Click on the link to be brough to Enough As I Am on Amazon.

Are you ready to build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship? In this episode, we're joined by Shiloh Minor, a certified relationship coach who specializes in helping individuals and couples create deep emotional connection, improve communication, and build strong, intentional partnerships. Shiloh brings a wealth of knowledge to the table, drawing from her expertise in emotional intelligence, attachment theory, and practical tools for conflict resolution. Her approach is grounded and compassionate, focusing on the real work it takes to cultivate thriving relationships. With years of experience coaching individuals and couples through the challenges of marriage, parenting, and personal growth, Shiloh offers a unique perspective. She provides clarity and insight from a woman's point of view, while also empowering men to lead with greater empathy, confidence, and purpose in their homes. Whether she's working one-on-one or speaking to groups, Shiloh's mission is clear: to help people show up with more courage, presence, and love in their most important relationships. Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage Here's what you can expect: Heartwarming stories of transformation and growth from Dad Edge Mastermind members. Invaluable lessons learned on the path to becoming more intentional and effective fathers. Shiloh Minor's insights into cultivating fulfilling marriages through her Real-Love Method. Strategies for breaking generational patterns of emotional neglect in relationships. Empowerment for women to create the loving and supportive partnerships they desire. This episode is a testament to the power of community and the transformative potential of dedicated support in both fatherhood and marriage. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.1stphorm.com/dadedge

What if the thing you're grieving never even happened?In this mini episode, Sarah explores the quiet ache of emotional neglect—the grief of what you didn't get. No big event. No goodbye. Just an invisible heaviness that lingers. If you've ever felt sadness you can't explain, this one's for you.Thanks for listening to Reclaim You with Reclaim Therapy!To learn more about Reclaim Therapy and how to work with a therapist on the team, head to https://www.reclaimtherapy.org.Be sure to comment, like and subscribe here, or on YouTube and come follow along on Instagram!

Have your inner wounds ever stopped you from setting a boundary or speaking your truth? If so, this episode of Breakdown to Breakthrough with Codependency Expert and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Life Coach is for you. In this episode, you will find the encouragement you need to go from the fear of disapproval to the approval of self, knowing the value of divine selfishness. Let's face it, it's impossible to tap into your dreams, attract wealth, get healthy or manifest the type of love relationships or friendships we desire if we do not honor the self. Lisa A. Romano is an expert in the self healing, mental and emotional wellness space and she is dropping pearls of golden wisdom for the one who is ready to be codependent no more, self reliant and unapologetically operating from self love.  Ready to transform those inner wounds to inner strength? If so, it's time to invest in yourself, and your authentic self with The 12 Week Breakthrough Codependency Bootcamp System. Break free of faulty beliefs tied to the wounds of the inner child and start living from your authentic self in 12 weeks or less. Grab this offer before the price increase!  https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp  

Are you a caregiver by nature, and do you overgive at the expense of yourself, and wish you knew how to say no, or how to take care of yourself without feeling selfish? Were you raised in a dysfunctional home, and did you grow up feeling unseen and unsafe emotionally? If so, this podcast will empower you on your inner healing journey, as you learn to appreciate the universal lessons childhood trauma and codependency recovery has the potential to teach you, if you adopt a proper mindset.  Lisa A. Romano is an expert in the field of emotional wellness. She is an expert in the field of codependency recovery and overcoming the mental and emotional scars caused by narcissistic abuse, and emotional neglect. In today's episode, Lisa offers you the chance to perceive your past as a springboard for transformation. If you are ready to breakthrough and breakfree, this episode is for you.  Stop waiting! Start your codependency recovery journey today, and begin stepping into your authentic self!  The 12 Week Breakthrough Codependency Program is for those who are ready to learn when to stop helping others, so they can learn to start loving the self just as much as they have loved and cared for anyone else. https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp Embark on the path to conscious awakening, emotional healing, and transformation with Lisa's Conscious Healing Academy, which includes a 3 tier coaching system that assists with one's awakening, emotional intelligence, and mental and emotional mastery.  12 Week Breakthrough Program (Level One - The Awakening) 8 Week Master Your Reality (Level 2 -- Deliberate Creating) Soul School - (Level Three -- Ascending Ego) To learn more, contact Lisa and her team members here; Contact Website Spotify Award Winning Books  Facebook Support Group

Are you codependent? Do you lack self worth, and focus more on others happiness, needs, and expectations than you do on your own happiness, desires or wants? When you are codependent, it implies that you have been raised to be detached from the self. In this case, you are hypervigilant but might not even know it. You may spend your entire life trying to please people, only to discover that in time, you feel drained, not good enough and disillusioned.  It's not your fault if you are codependent, lack boundaries and don't feel good enough. As a child, you may have had to abandon your true self just to survive. Remember, that the most important thing for a child is to attach to their mother and when this connection goes awry, a child's sense of safety suffers and that is not their fault.  In this episode, learn about some of the codependent fantasies we create in our minds that help us survive our toxic lonely childhoods. And remember Dear One, that you are enough and that finding ways to survive was necessary. As an adult, however, we must grow up and let go of the codependent fantasies if we wish to experience the joy of the authentic self.  Breakthrough Codependency in 12 Weeks or Less with The Breakthrough Coaching Program https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp work with me LIVE for 12 Weeks starting February 9th. https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp On Demand 50% off Embark on the path to conscious awakening, emotional healing, and transformation with Lisa's Conscious Healing Academy, which includes a 3 tier coaching system that assists with one's awakening, emotional intelligence, and mental and emotional mastery.  12 Week Breakthrough Program (Level One - The Awakening) 8 Week Master Your Reality (Level 2 -- Deliberate Creating) Soul School - (Level Three -- Ascending Ego) To learn more, contact Lisa and her team members here; Contact Website Spotify Award Winning Books  Facebook Support Group  

Ghouls break down the emotional depth and trauma explored in Your Monster (2024), highlighting themes of childhood neglect, feminine rage, and trauma responses like fawning. We dive into how Laura's emotional repression—stemming from both physical and emotional neglect in childhood—shapes her adult life, relationships, and health. The film subtly explores how neglect, especially in Latine communities, goes beyond the physical and deeply affects emotional well-being, often manifesting as chronic illness. Laura's experiences reflect how people-pleasing and fawning behaviors become survival mechanisms when one's emotional needs are constantly dismissed. We also examine how societal structures like capitalism exacerbate childhood neglect, forcing parents into difficult situations where emotional care is neglected. Through Laura's journey, Your Monster reveals the profound effects of generational trauma, microaggressions, and the systemic forces that limit the expression of emotional needs. In addition to the exploration of emotional neglect, the film gives voice to Latine anger, showcasing how Laura's repressed rage becomes a form of empowerment and healing. This is a story about confronting the monsters inside, healing from trauma, and seeking self-empowerment in a world that often tells marginalized groups they don't have permission to be angry.

Uncovering the Hidden Layers of Your Fertility Journey: Radical Responsibility, Intuition & Trust Welcome back, conscious mamas-to-be! In this week's Finding Fertility podcast, I take you behind the scenes of what it really takes to navigate your fertility journey with radical responsibility, trust, and deep surrender. "Your body is time-based, your spirit is timeless. If you don't integrate healing into the body, it doesn't stick." The Addiction to Busyness: How high-achieving women tie self-worth to staying busy and the impact on fertility. Deep Surrender & Letting Go: Why releasing control is the hardest yet most powerful step in the fertility journey. Patterns & Quantum Psychology: The role of pattern recognition in identifying emotional and subconscious blocks. Inner Work vs. External Fixes: How true transformation comes from within, not just more information. The Feminine Wound & Burnout: Why so many women are exhausted and how embracing feminine energy is the key. Energy Medicine & Quantum Healing: Bridging psychology, spirituality, and energy work to heal from the inside out. Spiritual Detours & Avoidance: The danger of chasing external validation through plant medicine, psychedelics, and endless courses. The Power of Integration: Why embodying healing is more important than constantly seeking the next thing. Surrendering to True Leadership: The deep desire for strong, grounded masculine energy and why many women struggle with it. "If you actually tune into the energy of the universe, you'll see that guiding a soul is the highest level mastery position you could have as a woman." Hello, Beautiful - Monica here to shake things up, ruffle some feathers, and most importantly, get you to stop overthinking yourself into infertility hell. This episode? It's personal. I'm talking about the addiction to busyness—something I know way too well. I built my entire business off of it, and guess what? It wasn't sustainable. We're diving into patterns, surrender, and why you might be subconsciously blocking your own success—not just in fertility but in life. And because I'm all about keeping it real, I'm not just talking theory here. I'm sharing my own struggles of letting go, especially when life threw me into deep surrender with my father's passing. (Spoiler: The universe doesn't let you fake it.) But wait, it gets juicier. I'm also bringing you part one of an epic conversation with my mentor, Talie Miller. This woman reads patterns for a living, and trust me, she has a gift. If you've ever felt like you're doing ALL the things but still stuck, this episode is a must-listen. We also tackle the wild world of quantum psychology, energy medicine, and why some of the most popular self-development spaces are basically cults (yep, I said it). And for my Type-A ladies who are trying to “fix” themselves into pregnancy? Oof. You might not love hearing this, but you cannot logic your way into surrender. So buckle up, because we're talking intuition, feminine energy, the illusion of control, and why women secretly want strong masculine leadership (but won't admit it). Oh, and I'll probably get canceled for saying some of this, but Monique and I are fine with that. "You can clear your energy all you want, but until your body understands the assignment, nothing changes." Connect with Talie Miller: https://taliemiller.com/ https://www.instagram.com/taliemiller https://substack.com/@taliemiller Is this all there is?: Awaken to a Deeper Life off of Amazon: https://amzn.to/4hty8ja Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome & Why This Episode Almost Didn't Happen 01:20 – The Addiction to Busyness & How It's Shown Up in My Own Life 03:06 – Introducing My Mentor, Tali Miller & Why I Love Her Work 04:59 – Why Type-A Women Struggle With Surrender & Stillness 07:25 – What Quantum Psychology Really Is & Why It Matters 12:30 – The Dangers of Spiritual Detours (and Yes, Plant Medicine Too) 17:01 – Emotional Neglect & Why It's Harder to Heal Than Big Trauma 20:23 – The Role of the Body in Healing & Why It's Ignored 26:10 – The Importance of Staying in Your Body for True Healing 32:16 – Feminine Energy, Masculine Leadership & Why We're Burnt Out 36:38 – Motherhood as a Sacred Calling vs. A Box to Check Off 38:05 – Wrapping Up: Next Week's Episode & Why You Need to Be There "Your body is time-based, your spirit is timeless. If you don't integrate healing into the body, it doesn't stick." Full Transcript Over on the Blog: https://www.findingfertility.co/blog/is-your-infertility-ivf-journey-just-another-way-you-re-feeding-your-addiction-to-busyness-with-talie-miller Let's Do This Together

Throwback Episode: https://thefranciskashow.libsyn.com/a-gaslighting-case-in-the-literal-sense-with-shulim-leifer Do Diaspora Jews Care (Orthodox Conundrum) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JdIh-tnFszE   In this episode of The Franciska Show, host Francisca interviews Fradel Neuman, an ultra-Orthodox Hasidic woman from Monroe, about her personal journey through child sexual abuse, depression, and her ongoing healing process. Fradel reveals the impact of her upbringing on her mental health and spiritual life, her struggles with trust and emotional intimacy, and the steps she took toward recovery. Despite the challenges, she has found support in her husband and professional therapy. Fradel also discusses the importance of addressing shame, the need for supportive environments, and shares her aspirations of becoming a professional singer. This powerful episode highlights Fradel's resilience and offers hope and understanding to survivors and those supporting them.     00:00 Introduction and Warm Wishes 01:12 Reflecting on the Hostage Situation 01:49 Revco Fox's Blind Date Initiative 02:27 Throwback Episode and No More Silence Series 03:02 Interview with Freidel Newman Begins 03:15 Freidel's Background and Family Life 03:50 Discussing Child Sexual Abuse 07:48 Therapy and Healing Journey 17:35 Confronting the Abusers 26:11 Witnessing Abuse and Emotional Neglect 28:17 Therapy and Healing Journey 30:33 Impact on Marriage and Trust Issues 33:21 Struggles with Depression 39:32 Religious Life and Personal Changes 44:28 Emotional Intimacy and Family Relationships 47:56 Message to Survivors and Mothers 56:10 Hopes and Dreams for the Future   Fradel Neuman is a mental health advocate, survivor of sexual abuse and photographer sharing her mental health journey. www.instagram.com/Fradelneuman   Check out www.JewishCoffeeHouse.com To contact Franciska: email franciskakay@gmail.com  

In this episode Cath was joined by Dr Kathrin Stauffer. They chatted about how the body remembers in multiple ways and how not getting what we need in childhood impacts multiple systems in our bodies (not just the nervous system). When we are on a healing journey the expression of sadness and grieving are an important part of this journey. However, it may be that we are blocked from crying by our defences. We dived into this and talked about food, body shape, body psychotherapy, the the function of comfort eating, shame and much more. Kathrin Stauffer PhD, UKCP Registered Body Psychotherapist, is the author of ‘Emotional Neglect and the Adult in Therapy: Lifelong Consequences to a Lack of Early Attunement' (W.W. Norton 2020).Kathrin was born and educated in Switzerland. Originally a research biochemist, she retrained at the Chiron Centre for Body Psychotherapy. She lives in Cambridge in the UK and works in private practice as a body and humanistic psychotherapist, EMDR practitioner, trainer and supervisor. She previously wrote ‘Anatomy & Physiology for Psychotherapists: connecting Body & Soul' (W.W. Norton 2010). Currently she is the President of the European Association for Body Psychotherapy EABP.You can contact her via her website which is www.stauffer.co.uk.If you're enjoying this podcast. Please leave a review and rate the podcast, this really helps others to find it.To sign up for the journal prompts and Nurture.Heal.Grow (on Substack) please head to www.cathcounihan.com or @cathcounihan on Instagram. Follow Cath on social media here:Instagram: @cathcounihanSubstack: Nurture.Heal.GrowFacebook: Cath Counihan Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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The narcissistic discard can come on suddenly and when you least expect it. Often, discards occur in the face of conflict when a narcissist is in fear of being exposed. If you are a somewhat healthy person, who believes in fairness, and authenticity, in time, the narcissists inability to go deep and to live with accountability will be revealed. If you are not prepared for what happens when you and a narcissist experience even a minor conflict, you might go down a rabbit hole looking for ways to resolve an issue they are incapable of resolving. Instead, a narcissist positions themselves as a victim, demonized you and relies on backward rationalization to help justify discarding you before their shortcomings become exposed. If you have ever experienced a discard, this episode will undoubtedly help clear your mind from the tangled web of disordered thinking and self preserving rationalizations of a narcissist.  Make 2025 your breakthrough year and join Lisa in her next live online course, beginning February 9th. Participate from anywhere in the world. Follow the course material online at your leisure throughout the week, and join Lisa and her life coaches daily in a private support group. Every Saturday at 9:00 am EST, join a live group coaching call where Lisa answers members' questions.  Join Lisa's grassroots efforts to awaken consciousness one breakthrough at a time despite a painful past. It's not you--it's your programming.  Join Lisa this February. Early Bird Discount Going on Now Embark on the path to conscious awakening, emotional healing, and transformation with Lisa's Conscious Healing Academy, which includes a 3 tier coaching system that assists with one's awakening, emotional intelligence, and mental and emotional mastery.  12 Week Breakthrough Program (Level One - The Awakening) 8 Week Master Your Reality (Level 2 -- Deliberate Creating) Soul School - (Level Three -- Ascending Ego) To learn more, contact Lisa and her team members here; Contact Website Spotify Award Winning Books  Facebook Support Group  

Take advantage of our Boxing Week Sale! Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for FREE for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=boxing-week-7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-12-10-24&el=youtube It's time to transform your career, life & future with our Live Relationship Coaching Program! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-12-10-24&el=podcast Have you ever wondered why dismissive avoidants often struggle with long-term commitment? Learn about their relationship history, common challenges, and how to foster deeper, more meaningful connections. In today's episode, Thais Gibson delves into the relationship history of the dismissive avoidant attachment style, highlighting patterns shaped by childhood experiences and emotional neglect. Learn why dismissive avoidants struggle with vulnerability and long-term commitment and discover actionable steps to bridge these gaps for healthier connections. Listen now to uncover insights into attachment theory, emotional healing, and building fulfilling relationships. Timestamps 00:00:00 – Exploring Relationship Patterns 00:01:10 – How Childhood Shapes Relationship Expectations 00:02:03 – Emotional Neglect and Repression of Feelings 00:03:37 – Understanding Emotions as Feedback 00:05:10 – Impact of Independence vs. Interdependence 00:07:17 – Misconceptions About Compromise in Relationships 00:09:03 – Patterns of Short-Term Relationships 00:10:27 – The Six Stages of Relationship Development 00:12:15 – The 6-Month and 2-Year Breakup Patterns 00:14:30 – Importance of Vulnerability and Communication 00:16:30 – Vetting Partners and Personal Growth Let's connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is an episode with a couple who courageously shares their real story dealing with sex addiction. Their voices have been altered to maintain their anonymity. 00:00 Explicit Content Warning00:50 Introduction to the Stories of Healing Series01:09 A Unique Episode: Live Interview with a Couple03:16 Discussing Sex Addiction and Betrayal Trauma05:17 Yael's Experience: Discovery and Disclosure15:01 Moshe's Perspective: Realization and Admission23:02 The Impact of Emotional Neglect and Trauma29:20 Yael's Background: Shame and Childhood Trauma32:26 Early Years of Marriage32:54 Struggles with Intimacy34:13 Therapy and Silence35:59 Road to Recovery36:32 12-Step Program and Healing41:02 Challenges Beyond Addiction43:05 Personal Growth and Empathy44:05 Yael's Journey48:21 Impact on Family Life49:47 Religious Journey55:00 Advice for Others01:00:14 Final ReflectionsTo join our WhatsApp Status for consistent updates, short snippets and more ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Our content can be found on:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠

Have you ever wondered why some people are able to move beyond painful, traumatic circumstances and why others tend to get stuck? Have you ever wondered how some people can achieve joy, serenity, harmony, balance, and contentment despite painful past experiences, while others tend not to achieve such inner states? If so, you're not alone.  In this episode of Breakdown to Breakthrough by Life Coach Lisa A. Romano, you will be blown away by the insights shared. Learn about transforming pain into passion and joy with a profound shift in perspective. In this episode, Lisa shares personal stories regarding breakthrough moments in awareness that allowed her to recognize that from the same well of her deepest pain, sprung forth her greatest joys!  If you have been impacted by what is shared in this podcast, share the love and let us know what you think. And be sure to leave a comment telling us what topics you'd like Lisa to discuss on her show.  Make 2025 your breakthrough year and join Lisa in her next live online course, beginning February 9th. Participate from anywhere in the world. Follow the course material online at your leisure throughout the week, and join Lisa and her life coaches daily in a private support group. Every Saturday at 9:00 am EST, join a live group coaching call where Lisa answers members' questions.  Join Lisa's grassroots efforts to awaken consciousness one breakthrough at a time despite a painful past. It's not you--it's your programming.  Join Lisa this February. Early Bird Discount Going on Now Embark on the path to conscious awakening, emotional healing, and transformation with Lisa's Conscious Healing Academy, which includes a 3 tier coaching system that assists with one's awakening, emotional intelligence, and mental and emotional mastery.  12 Week Breakthrough Program (Level One - The Awakening) 8 Week Master Your Reality (Level 2 -- Deliberate Creating) Soul School - (Level Three -- Ascending Ego) To learn more, contact Lisa and her team members here; Contact Website Spotify Award Winning Books  Facebook Support Group    

Free Cyber Monday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/cyber-monday-14-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=cyber-monday&utm_content=mg-12-03-24&el=podcast Are you confused about why your partner keeps avoiding commitment? Learn the hidden fears driving dismissive avoidants and what you can do to create clarity and deeper connection in your relationships. In today's episode, Thais Gibson delves into the psychology behind why dismissive avoidants prefer casual relationships over-committed ones. Learn how fears of vulnerability, emotional neglect, and subconscious conditioning contribute to their behavior, and discover actionable steps to navigate these dynamics effectively. Listen now to uncover how communication and self-awareness can transform your approach to relationships. Timestamps 00:00:00 – Why Avoidants Prefer Casual Relationships 00:00:33 – The Frustration of Feeling Stuck in Limbo 00:01:01 – The Three Core Reasons Avoidants Avoid Commitment 00:01:22 – Understanding the Dismissive Avoidant's Fear of Vulnerability 00:02:05 – Emotional Neglect and its Long-Term Impact on Attachment 00:03:37 – How the Subconscious Mind Drives Avoidant Behaviors 00:05:12 – Misconceptions About People-Pleasing in Relationships 00:06:16 – Why Dismissive Avoidants Fear Feeling Trapped 00:08:44 – The Role of Self-Sabotage in Avoidant Dynamics 00:10:01 – Avoidants' Search for Perfection to Avoid Conflict 00:13:15 – How to Break the Cycle: Communication and Inner Work 00:15:25 – Final Thoughts: Finding Closure and Certainty Let's connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if every time you prioritize others over yourself, you're abandoning a part of you that needs to be seen and healed?Today, I explore the concept of self-abandonment and how it often stems from unresolved wounds from childhood. From people-pleasing tendencies to prioritizing everyone else's needs over our own, I dive deep into how these patterns play out in everyday life and the toll they take on our well-being. I share insights on recognizing these behaviors, the root causes of self-abandonment, and how to start the journey back to valuing yourself fully.You'll learn about my Dissolve Your Abandonment Wound training, which is designed to help you heal these patterns permanently.If you're struggling with staying committed to yourself or feel like you're always putting others first, this episode will resonate deeply. TODAY'S HIGHLIGHTS(00:00) Intro(02:05) In today's episode...(03:16) All about the Dissolve Your Abandonment Wound program(06:40) Upcoming events and programs(09:06) Understanding self care, abandonment, and its patterns(15:56) Parental influence on self abandonment: others' needs before yours(18:20) The Wizard of Oz: what Dorothy?(21:32) The role of people pleasing(26:15) Commitment to self(27:32) An absent parent - How it shows up(30:32) Shifting the self abandonment pattern(32:22) Conclusion and Final Thoughts **WAYS TO ENTER MY WORLD**Leave a review, send us a screenshot and get a $250 credit, you can apply to anything else in my world.Dissolve Your Abandonment Wound is coming up on November 18. It's a 5 day Telegram training where you'll pinpoint the origin of your abandonment wound and discover where it's showing up for you.The Mothership  gives you full premium access to my entire body of work. You'll also be included in my exclusive 4 week mastermind TURNING POINT to create a permanent shift to get you to the next level.The Metamorphosis Method starts February, 2025 and you can now enroll. Master my proven methodology to guide your clients to rapidly and efficiently transmute lifetimes of familial and ancestral trauma. Book a FREE call today with me.CONTACT ALYSEJoin my FB groupIG @alyse_breathesVisit alysebreathes.cominfo@alysebreathes.com

On today's show, I discuss the often-overlooked struggle for emotional intimacy in BDSM relationships. Join me as I explore the concept of emotional neglect and its impact on our ability to feel wanted and connected. We'll dive into the triggers that can stir up feelings of inadequacy, the weight of past experiences that shape our emotional responses, and the essential practices of self-advocacy and open communication. Whether you're new to BDSM or have been navigating these dynamics for a while, this episode offers valuable insights and strategies to help you reclaim your space, assert your worth, and foster deeper emotional connections. Don't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now! #BDSM #Psychology #Emotions #Neglect

What is emotional neglect? How does it impact the way you see yourself? How does this idea interact with your emotions, like anxiety and fear? Join us as one of our favorite Christian counselors tackles this issue from both a biblical and a clinical perspective. Don’t miss this encouraging conversation.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Like a pebble thrown into a pond, childhood emotional neglect can have a ripple effect into adulthood and beyond. In this episode I am joined by Shelley Bradley-Scholey, an accredited trauma therapist.  We discuss the often invisible scars of emotional neglect, and provide a roadmap for recognizing and addressing these deep-seated issues. Through our conversation, we delve into generational shifts in understanding emotional neglect and underscore the essential role of self-compassion and practical steps towards healing.Life's inevitable stresses—from work and finances to relationships and personal losses—can further complicate our emotional landscape. Shelley introduces us to the transformative power of neuroplasticity, offering hope that emotional skills can be relearned and repaired, even after significant setbacks. For parents, the concept of rupture and repair is discussed as a cornerstone of healthy emotional development, reminding us that it's the acknowledgment and mending of mistakes, rather than striving for perfection, that truly matters. Shelley's insights highlight the spectrum of childhood emotional neglect and the importance of contextual understanding in therapy, equipping listeners with strategies to navigate and heal from their emotional past. Highlights of the episode include:01:07 Recognizing Signs of Emotional Neglect03:30 The Impact of Emotional Neglect on Relationships and Self-View06:54 Generational Patterns and Emotional Neglect08:33 Consequences of Emotional Neglect on Mental Health17:17 Healing from Childhood Emotional NeglectThis week's guest:Shelley is an Accredited EMDR Consultant and Training Facilitator, Accredited CBT Therapist, Supervisor, Lecturer and Registered Mental Health Nurse. Shelley is the founder of Fortitude Psychological Therapy, an independent therapy practice.  A published author, academic and speaker who puts authenticity and compassion at the heart of everything.  Shelley has worked in mental health for two decades, in the NHS, Private Sector and the UK Armed Forces.Shelley's websiteFollow Shelley on Instagram************************What did you think of this episode?More free downloads and resources to support your mental health and wellbeing: https://www.harleyclinical.co.uk/free-mental-health-downloadable-guidesJoin our email list for more mental health tips: https://mailchi.mp/harleyclinical/newsletter-sign-upFor private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

Are you a child of emotional neglect, or were you raised by toxic, alcoholic, or narcissistic parents? Abandonment issues from childhood often stem from insecure attachments. When a child is unable to bond with their parent, specifically their mother, the psyche of the child develops a false and negative narrative about the self. This inner narrative is embedded into the fibers of the subconscious mind and until one awakens, these false narratives remain in control of one's decision making faculties, and all perceptions.  In this episode, Lisa A. Romano, Breakthrough Life Coach and Award-Winning-Author, dives deep into how and why children of trauma, emotional neglect and unpredictable homes, remain blocked from their authentic self. The good news is, it is possible to awaken and breakthrough! Ready to confront the false narrative in your head, that is responsible for rumination, feeling not good enough, codependency, and insecure attachments? If so, begin your inner healing and transformation journey with Lisa's 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program, step one of The 3 Part Transformation Conscious Healing Academy System.  Learn more below: Embark on the path to conscious awakening, emotional healing, and transformation with Lisa's Conscious Healing Academy, which includes a 3 tier coaching system that assists with one's awakening, emotional intelligence, and mental and emotional mastery.  12 Week Breakthrough Program (Level One - The Awakening) 8 Week Master Your Reality (Level 2 -- Deliberate Creating) Soul School - (Level Three -- Ascending Ego) To learn more, contact Lisa and her team members here; Contact Website Spotify Award Winning Books  Facebook Support Group    

Were you raised by a narcissistic mother and are you the scapegoat daughter ready to let go of the fantasy, trauma bond, cognitive dissonance, and emotional manipulation you have endured? Are you awakening to the toxic family dynamics, and the ways in which you may have been exploited as a source of narcissistic supply by a covert, vulnerable narcissistic mother? If so, this episode is for you.  Lisa A. Romano Breakthrough Life Coach and award-winning author hopes to support those scapegoat and golden child daughters of narcissistic covert mothers, who are coming out of the fog of this sadly unnatural and exploited mother-daughter dynamic. It is important to get as much information as possible regarding your relationship with your mother, father, or any other person you think might be exploiting you emotionally and psychologically so that you can gain the mental and emotional leverage you need to set healthy boundaries.  If you are a scapegoat daughter and you are ready to heal the shadows and mother wounds created by a toxic mother-daughter dynamic, consider Lisa's conscious healing modality. Embark on the path to conscious awakening, emotional healing, and transformation with Lisa's Conscious Healing Academy, which includes a 3 tier coaching system that assists with one's awakening, emotional intelligence, and mental and emotional mastery.  12 Week Breakthrough Program (Level One - The Awakening) 8 Week Master Your Reality (Level 2 -- Deliberate Creating) Soul School - (Level Three -- Ascending Ego) To learn more, contact Lisa and her team members here; Contact Website Spotify Award Winning Books  Facebook Support Group

Narcissistic Mothers and the Scapegoat-Golden Child Trap  In this episode of the Breakdown to Breakthrough Podcast, we delve into the toxic dynamics often found in families with narcissistic mothers, focusing on the devastating roles of the scapegoat and the golden child. Lisa A. Romano, a leading expert in codependency and narcissistic abuse recovery, breaks down how these roles are created, maintained, and manipulated by narcissistic mothers to uphold their fragile egos and maintain control over the family narrative. Listeners will gain insight into how a narcissistic mother's need for validation and superiority often results in one child being idolized as the golden child while another is targeted as the scapegoat. This divisive dynamic not only pits siblings against each other but also inflicts deep emotional wounds that can take a lifetime to heal. Key Takeaways: Understanding the Roles: Learn about the characteristics of the scapegoat and golden child roles, and how these roles serve a narcissistic mother's need for control. The Impact on Siblings: Explore the long-term psychological effects of being cast as the scapegoat or golden child, including issues with self-esteem, relationships, and identity. Breaking Free: Lisa offers strategies for recognizing these toxic dynamics and steps for healing and reclaiming your sense of self, whether you were the scapegoat, the golden child, or an outsider looking in. Rebuilding Relationships: Discover how to navigate the complicated relationships between siblings who have been pitted against each other and how to set healthy boundaries with a narcissistic mother. Quote from the Episode: "You didn't ask to be the scapegoat, and you didn't ask to be the golden child. These roles were thrust upon you by a mother who needed to control the narrative of her life at your expense. Understanding this is the first step toward reclaiming your power. Embark on the path to conscious awakening, emotional healing, and transformation with Lisa's Conscious Healing Academy, which includes a 3 tier coaching system that assists with one's awakening, emotional intelligence, and mental and emotional mastery.  12 Week Breakthrough Program (Level One - The Awakening) 8 Week Master Your Reality (Level 2 -- Deliberate Creating) Soul School - (Level Three -- Ascending Ego) To learn more, contact Lisa and her team members here; Contact Website Spotify Award Winning Books  Facebook Support Group  

Your brain is a quantum processor capable of healing generations of emotional trauma in an instant and in this episode of the Sovereign Sisterhood Movement we explore the link between quantum science, breathwork, and generational healing. Here's what we cover on this Episode: Weekly Astrological Insights -Pisces Full Moon Lunar Eclipse (Sept 17th) and its emotional impact-Mars in Cancer transit (Sept 4th - Nov 4th) and its effects on your actions -Practical strategies for this intense astrological period -Generational Healing Through Breathwork -The science behind inherited trauma responses-How your brain processes generational patterns -A Kundalini yoga breathwork technique for emotional healing -Steps to change subconscious patterns, break the cycle, and reshape your reality Tarot Guidance -Insights on recent material and financial accomplishments-Developing emotional mastery and leadership -The role of surrender in gaining new perspectives-Integrating past success with current spiritual growth This episode offers practical knowledge at the intersection of neuroscience, quantum physics, and ancient wisdom. Join us to learn how you can use these insights to create positive change for yourself and past and future generations.Sat Nam Click Here to Download Complimentary Generational Healing Affirmation Cards www.veronicabarraganiam.com/affirmationcards Join un in or Free Facebook Group Community The Sovereign Sisterhood Movement: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sovereignsisterhoodmovement --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sovereignsisterhood/support

In this episode of the Breakdown to Breakthrough Podcast, Lisa A. Romano delves into the five toxic family members you need to avoid while on your healing journey: The Critic, The Denier, The Controller, The Martyr, and The Drama King/Queen. Lisa explains how each of these archetypes can undermine your progress, making it difficult for you to trust your version of reality and personal feelings. Understanding the importance of autonomy and the necessity of rebuilding healthy ego boundaries, Lisa emphasizes that distancing yourself from these toxic influences is not only a form of self-protection but also a crucial step in reclaiming your personal power. Doing so creates the space needed to heal, grow, and evolve into the person you were always meant to be. Tune in to learn how to recognize these toxic patterns and take actionable steps toward a healthier, more empowered life. Embark on the path to conscious awakening, emotional healing, and transformation with Lisa's Conscious Healing Academy, which includes a 3 tier coaching system that assists with one's awakening, emotional intelligence, and mental and emotional mastery.  12 Week Breakthrough Program (Level One - The Awakening) 8 Week Master Your Reality (Level 2 -- Deliberate Creating) Soul School - (Level Three -- Ascending Ego) To learn more, contact Lisa and her team members here; Contact Website Spotify Award Winning Books  Facebook Support Group  

Host: Celeste, Therapist from Boston In this episode, Celeste, a therapist from Boston, discusses the difference between emotional neglect and emotional abuse in the context of dealing with emotionally immature parents. She highlights how emotional neglect often stems from parents who are not emotionally available for themselves, making it challenging for them to be present for their children. Listeners can learn more about this topic and access other episodes on Celeste's website.protect their energy.   Streaming Platforms: Available on all major social media platforms and audio podcast services. Links to resources mentioned: Dr. Nicole Pera: How to deal with emotionally immature parents. Adult child of emotionally immature parents How to do the work  

What to Do When Someone Crosses Your Boundary: Codependency Recovery in Action In this powerful episode, we dive into the crucial topic of boundaries. Boundaries are essential for maintaining healthy relationships and protecting your emotional well-being. However, for those who have struggled with codependency, setting and enforcing boundaries can be particularly challenging. Lisa unpacks the dynamics of boundary violations, offering practical advice and insights to help you confidently reclaim your power and navigate these situations. Key Takeaways: Understanding Boundaries: Boundaries are the invisible lines that define what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior in your relationships. They reflect your values, needs, and limits and serve as a guide for how you expect to be treated by others. Relationships can become imbalanced without clear boundaries, leading to resentment, frustration, and emotional exhaustion. The Link Between Boundaries and Codependency: Codependency often stems from childhood experiences where your needs were dismissed or invalidated. As a result, you may have developed a tendency to prioritize others' needs over your own, making it difficult to set and enforce boundaries. This pattern can lead to a cycle of people-pleasing, self-sacrifice, and emotional burnout, further eroding your sense of self-worth. Recognizing Boundary Violations: Boundary violations can be subtle or overt, ranging from someone dismissing your feelings to outright disrespect or manipulation. Recognizing when someone crosses your boundary is the first step toward addressing the issue. Pay attention to your emotions—feelings of discomfort, anger, or resentment often signal that a boundary has been crossed. What to Do When Someone Crosses Your Boundary: Pause and Reflect: Before reacting, assess the situation. Ask yourself what boundary was crossed and how it made you feel. Communicate Clearly: Express your feelings and needs calmly and assertively. Use "I" statements to avoid sounding accusatory and to keep the focus on your experience. Reaffirm Your Boundary: Reinforce the importance of your boundary and what you expect moving forward. Be prepared to follow through with consequences if necessary. Practice Self-Care: Setting boundaries can be emotionally taxing, especially if you're not used to it. Take time to nurture yourself and seek support from trusted friends or a therapist. Healing Codependent Patterns: Healing from codependency requires recognizing your worth and the right to have your boundaries respected. Challenge the belief that setting boundaries makes you selfish or unlovable. Healthy boundaries are a sign of self-respect and are crucial for fostering mutual respect in relationships. Start small by setting boundaries in less challenging situations, gradually building confidence and assertiveness. Final Thoughts: Establishing and maintaining boundaries is vital to your journey from breakdown to breakthrough. It's about reclaiming your power, honoring your needs, and creating healthier, more balanced relationships. Remember, you have the right to protect your emotional well-being, and doing so is an act of self-love and respect. Tune in to this episode to learn how to navigate boundary-crossing with grace and strength, especially if you're on the path to overcoming codependency. Healing Resources: Embark on the path to conscious awakening, emotional healing, and transformation with Lisa's Conscious Healing Academy, which includes a 3 tier coaching system that assists with one's awakening, emotional intelligence, and mental and emotional mastery.  12 Week Breakthrough Program (Level One - The Awakening) 8 Week Master Your Reality (Level 2 -- Deliberate Creating) Soul School - (Level Three -- Ascending Ego) To learn more, contact Lisa and her team members here; Contact Website Spotify Award Winning Books  Facebook Support Group    

In this episode, I sit down with my friend Grace for a deeply emotional conversation. We dive into Grace's experience as the black sheep of her traditional family, where she faced emotional neglect for daring to challenge their beliefs and stand out. We discuss the pain of feeling disconnected and the anxiety she feels as she navigates her artistic journey. Tune in for a raw and heartfelt discussion about breaking free from expectations and embracing one's true self. Support Grace here: https://www.instagram.com/g_goi_/

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Are you an adult child from a toxic, narcissistic, alcoholic or emotionally neglectful home? And are you on the inner child healing journey? If so, you'll want to understand how to tell if you're healing and on the right track. In this episode of Breakdown to Breakthrough, Lisa A. Romano, codependency expert, and mental wellness coach, shares her #1 sign you're healing from childhood trauma.  Embark on the path to conscious awakening, emotional healing, and transformation with Lisa's Conscious Healing Academy, which includes a 3 tier coaching system that assists with one's awakening, emotional intelligence, and mental and emotional mastery.  12 Week Breakthrough Program (Level One - The Awakening) 8 Week Master Your Reality (Level 2 -- Deliberate Creating) Soul School - (Level Three -- Ascending Ego) To learn more, contact Lisa and her team members here; Contact Website Spotify Award Winning Books  Facebook Support Group

In this episode, Sarah covers eight signs of emotional MATURITY, as well as ways to heal from a parent (or other relationship) who is emotionally harsh or dismissive. Identifying the people in your life who are emotionally mature and making time to connect with them, is key to healing. Setting boundaries is also instrumental in regaining a safe space for you to grow and heal. Sarah walks listeners through best practices for setting boundaries. Sarah also explains what getting stuck playing roles can do to impede your healing journey. As well as, how hanging on to healing fantasies can interfere with forward growth. Sarah discusses Dr. Gibson's book "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents." If it is your parent who is emotionally immature, the effects can be especially hard.Handout for "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents": http://curioushealing.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/ACEIP_exercises.pdfImportant links:TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center https://www.tsdmind.orgSarah's Mindfulness Coaching website: https://www.sarahvallely.comThis episode is a meditation for beginners, and mindfulness for beginners resource. Intermediate and advanced meditators will also benefit. The Aware Mind produces content that supports stress reduction, anxiety relief, better concentration and focus, and trauma healing.The Aware Mind is produced by TSD Mindfulness, a virtual meditation center, offering mindfulness classes, certifications and private coaching for people with past trauma, anxiety and depression disorders, business leaders, and people who work in the helping professions (i.e. counselors, healers and yoga and meditation teachers).

In this episode, Sarah covers eight signs of emotional immaturity and shows how being in a relationship with someone who is emotionally immature can be traumatic. Understanding these eight signs of emotional immaturity will help you identify where you end and the other person begins, which is the start of any healing journey for emotional abandonment. Explosive anger, self-absorption, and discomfort with disagreement are a few examples. Sarah discusses Dr. Gibson's book "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents." If it is your parent who is emotionally immature, the effects can be especially hard. Handout for "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents": http://curioushealing.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/ACEIP_exercises.pdfImportant links:TSD Mindfulness Virtual Meditation Center https://www.tsdmind.orgSarah's Mindfulness Coaching website: https://www.sarahvallely.comThis episode is a meditation for beginners, and mindfulness for beginners resource. Intermediate and advanced meditators will also benefit. The Aware Mind produces content that supports stress reduction, anxiety relief, better concentration and focus, and trauma healing.The Aware Mind is produced by TSD Mindfulness, a virtual meditation center, offering mindfulness classes, certifications and private coaching for people with past trauma, anxiety and depression disorders, business leaders, and people who work in the helping professions (i.e. counselors, healers and yoga and meditation teachers).

Healing generational trauma starts with how we treat ourselves, including the way we approach our own emotions. This week on the podcast I continue to speak about emotional neglect, focusing on what we can do to help ourselves heal from its consequences. Tag along and leave your thoughts about the episode if you want to! If you prefer reading, check out my website to read the full transcription: ⁠⁠⁠changeradically.com/podcast Could you leave us a review? Open the podcast on your phone if you aren't already there and rate Empowered to Thrive! This helps us bring content to more people interested in the healing journey. Want to know more about how you can radically change your life? Check my resources at MemberVault Find me at Instagram: ⁠@corinne_changeradically⁠ Website: ⁠changeradically.com⁠ Facebook: ⁠Change Radically with Corinne⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠@corinneguidopowell⁠ Email me at corinne@changeradically.com

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Who are you? How do others view you? And why do we care so much about what others think of us, especially when they probably aren't spending as much time thinking about us as we think they are? When they do think about us, they see us through their own lens. It's time to discover who you are. So, how exactly do you do that? Tony Overbay, LMFT, reads a heartfelt letter from a long-time listener, Jamie, who is struggling with issues in her marriage and recognizing patterns from her childhood that affect how she interacts with her spouse and children. Tony explores the concept of the 'Looking Glass Self' by Charles Horton Cooley, discussing how our self-identity is shaped by our perceptions of how others view us. He explains how these early experiences impact our self-esteem and relationships, using examples from listeners and clients. Tony introduces the modern-day concept of the 'reflected sense of self' from David Schnarch's theories of differentiation and provides practical advice on overcoming the need for external validation, forming healthier attachments, and developing a stable self-identity. Join Tony as he navigates these deep psychological concepts and offers insights into creating more emotionally secure and fulfilling connections. 00:00 Listener's Heartfelt Letter 02:31 Introduction to Episode 424 03:10 Exploring the Concept of the Mirror 03:29 Charles Horton Cooley and the Looking Glass Self 09:00 Real-Life Examples of the Looking Glass Self 16:16 Differentiation and Emotional Independence 16:57 Balancing Connection and Individuality 18:47 The Reflected Sense of Self 27:00 Understanding Identity and Self-Worth 27:55 The Role of External Validation 29:25 Parent-Child Dynamics and Conditional Love 30:53 Emotional Neglect and Its Impact 33:21 Attachment Styles and Emotional Support 40:13 The Concept of Shame and Guilt 46:26 Overcoming Childhood Wounds 49:35 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this powerful video, Teal Swan delves into the hidden pain of emotional neglect - a relationship dynamic she argues is even more damaging than overt physical abuse. Through vivid examples, Teal illustrates the lose-lose trap victims face and the psychological toll it takes. She distinguishes between willful and unintentional neglect, and outlines steps to break free, heal, and get your needs met.

In this podcast episode, learn about the hidden signs of childhood trauma as they relate to stuffing your emotions, dissociation, denying what you feel, pretending not to feel what you feel and three life transforming mind hacks that will boost your emotional intelligence, self awareness and success quotient.  Lisa A. Romano shows you how to live an empowered life despite a painful childhood past.  Follow along on Spotify http://bit.ly/2wndwHI_LARSpotify Please subscribe, like, share and review if doing so resonates with you. Register for The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program and begin the journey back to feeling your authentic feelings. https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp  Want Lisa to be your coach and or mentor? Reach out to learn more about coaching packages; coach@lisaaromano.com   Mention this podcast episode for a free gift. 

Tony delves into the origins of people pleasers, empaths, highly sensitive individuals, and the emotionally immature, highlighting the similarities that arise from childhood abandonment and neglect. He explains that even the best parents can't always be emotionally available for their children and how various factors influence how we show up for ourselves and our relationships with partners and children. Tony explores the pivotal moments where a child might develop narcissistic-like behaviors versus becoming a people pleaser and emphasizes that with awareness, healing can begin. This healing journey not only benefits individuals but also positively impacts their children. Tony also shares listeners' stories and a poem, providing insights into how childhood experiences shape narcissistic traits and pathological kindness in adults. Join us to learn how to recognize, validate, and address your emotional needs as you embark on your path to emotional well-being and healthier relationships. Tony references Jonice Webb Ph.D.'s article "Why Emotional Neglect Can Feel Like Abandonment" https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/childhood-emotional-neglect/202303/why-emotional-neglect-can-feel-like-abandonment and Elinor Greenberg, Ph.D.'s article "The Truth About Narcissistic Personality Disorder" https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-narcissism/201708/the-truth-about-narcissistic-personality-disorder? in this episode. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 01:09 Listener's Poem: A Day After You 05:10 Starting Today's Topic: Emotional Neglect and Immaturity 07:25 Exploring Childhood Neglect and Narcissism 14:38 Attachment Theory and Emotional Development 20:49 Emotional Neglect and Its Long-Term Effects 24:58 Understanding Childhood Emotional Needs 25:25 The Invisible Impact of Emotional Neglect 26:43 The Importance of Emotional Validation 28:58 Teaching Emotional Education 34:13 The Consequences of Emotional Neglect 39:13 Healing from Emotional Neglect 42:20 Exploring Emotional Immaturity 46:54 Final Thoughts and Reflections Available NOW Tony's "Magnetic Marriage Mini-Course" only $25. https://magneticmarriage.mykajabi.com/magnetic-marriage-mini-course Find all the latest links to podcasts, courses, Tony's newsletter, and more at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouch Subscribe to Tony's latest podcast, "Waking Up to Narcissism Q&A - Premium Podcast," on the Apple Podcast App. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/waking-up-to-narcissism-q-a/id1667287384 You can learn more about Tony's pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com And visit http://tonyoverbay.com and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs and podcasts. Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the "uh's" and "um's" that, in his words, "must be created by wizards and magic!" because it's that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=bSWcEQ

When we think about adverse childhood experiences, emotional neglect is often seen as less significant compared to other forms of trauma. Its subtleties make it easy to overlook, but the truth is that emotional neglect has a profound effect on our relationships and health as adults, from the detrimental effects on the brain and immune system. In this episode, hosts Jennifer and Elisabeth define emotional neglect and go over the signs and behaviors of those who've experienced it in childhood. They outline how it affects one's ability to self-regulate, discern and express emotions, form healthy attachments, and more. As they explore the topic of emotional neglect, you'll gain a better understanding of the nuances of emotional neglect, and how emotional neglect manifests in your adult behaviors. Most importantly, Jennifer and Elisabeth tools and strategies that can help you heal and learn emotional regulation. Tune in as we peel back the layers of emotional neglect and teach you how to nurture your emotional well-being! Topics discussed in this episode:   Subtleties of emotional neglect The impact of neglect on emotional regulation Signs of childhood emotional neglect What healthy emotional modeling looks like Emotional repression and immune function Boundaries and parentification Strategies to heal emotional neglect   Listen to Trauma Rewired's episode on “ACE Scores & Health Across Your Lifetime” here: https://illuminatedwithjennifer.libsyn.com/ace-scores-health-across-a-lifetime   UNLOCK ANXIETY with Matt Bush!  https://neurosomaticintelligence.com/rewireanxiety/   Become NSI certified and bring Neuro-Somatic Intelligence into your practice. 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Justin B. Long is a prolific author, entrepreneur, and podcast host. Justin bravely delves into his past, sharing his transformative journey from a childhood overshadowed by perfectionism and neglect to his current reality of success and self-awareness. His story underscores the resilience of the human spirit, the power of self-discovery, and the crucial role of confronting and overcoming negative self-perceptions.Major Takeaways:The impact of childhood experiences on self-perceptionThe journey towards self-discovery and healingThe power of sharing personal experiences to inspire and empower othersImpact of Childhood Experiences on Self-Perception: The episode opens a window into Justin's childhood, which was dominated by his father's unattainable standards and his mother's emotional neglect. Despite his efforts, this upbringing instilled a belief that he would never be good enough. This powerful narrative illustrates how early experiences can mold self-perception and personal development.Journey Towards Self-Discovery and Healing: Despite his challenging beginnings, Justin made a remarkable transformation. His journey towards self-discovery and healing kickstarted at age 32 when he embraced sobriety. He underlines the importance of self-understanding and addressing past trauma to realize one's full potential.Power of Sharing Personal Experiences: By sharing his life story, Justin showcases the strength inherent in overcoming adversity. His story can inspire listeners to confront their personal challenges and seek growth and healing. The episode emphasizes the importance of sharing personal journeys, not just for self-healing but to inspire and empower others.The Life Shift bonuses on Patreon: https://patreon.com/thelifeshiftpodcastJustin B. Long is a celebrated author, business owner, and podcast host. His popular podcast, Straight from the Horse Doctor's Mouth, which he co-hosts with his wife, Dr. Erica Lacher, and his best-selling book series, The Adventures of the Horse Doctor's Husband, have resonated with audiences worldwide. His latest book, The Righteous Rage of a Ten-Year-Old Boy, provides a raw, intense examination of his early life, negative self-image, and the path toward healing.Connect with Justin:Business WebsitePersonal Website/BlogBook LinkFacebookInstagramYouTube ChannelStay updated with The Life Shift PodcastInstagramYouTubeTwitterWebsite

In this episode, learn how to better manage strong negative emotion with Lisa A. Romano's explanation of the necessity of developing a new cognitive pathway. If you struggle with emotional regulation, it is helpful to understand why before trying to manage strong negative emotions. Feeling invalidated as a child teaches you to deny your emotions. In addition, when you are taught your emotions are wrong, or you should not trust them, as an adult, you are not always conscious of how these faulty pathways can interrupt one's ability to effectively manage strong negative emotions.  In this episode, you will discover Lisa A. Romano's third pathway; one you can use to help you better develop emotional regulation.  Learn more about Lisa A. Romano's Conscious Healing Online Programs Here: https://www.lisaaromano.com/store

Feeling unheard and unseen in your relationship?Is your spouse constantly seeking admiration or making you feel like you're never good enough? You might be dealing with narcissistic traits in your partner. But before you throw in the towel, listen up!This episode of Relationship Radio dives deep into the world of narcissism, unpacking the two major types: grandiose and vulnerable narcissism. Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes will help you identify these behaviors and offer practical communication tips to navigate a challenging relationship.Here's what you'll learn:How to identify the signs of grandiose and vulnerable narcissism in your spouseEffective communication strategies to deal with narcissistic behaviors ️Ways to build a stronger, healthier marriage, even with narcissistic challengesThe importance of self-esteem in navigating difficult relationshipsIs this episode for you?Are you constantly walking on eggshells around your spouse?Does your partner put you down or constantly need reassurance?Do you feel unheard and unseen in your relationship?Are you committed to making your marriage work, despite the challenges?If you answered YES to any of these questions, then this episode is a MUST-LISTEN!Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.Be sure to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review. We love hearing from you!For more resources about your specific situation, visit marriagehelper.com.

Women who love men they can't have are those who attract and are attracted to emotionally unavailable men. Emotionally unavailable men, spouses and boyfriends often mirror the relationships women have had with the male role models in their lives. In some cases, women who have suffered emotional neglect of a mother can also find themselves settling for emotionally unavailable partners. Women who lack a healthy sense of self, and who have been conditioned to feel as if they need to prove themselves worthy of love, generally do not attract high quality men. We are women who settle for breadcrumbs, beg for approval, are often codependent and emotionally dependent.  The good news is, Lisa A. Romano has found a way to breakthrough the cognitive distortions, subconscious programs, and habitual thought processes that keep women seeking the love of men they can't have.  Ready to take a 90 day deep dive into healing from the patterns and programs that keep so many women seeking the love of those they can't have? If so, click this link to learn more about Lisa's highly successful 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program  https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp  This class starts soon! Participate from anywhere in the world. Follow along on Facebook and join the live Q&A sessions with Lisa herself, as your coach and mentor. 

Regulating strong negative emotions is like having a superpower for your well-being. Managing those intense feelings—like anger, sadness, or anxiety—helps us navigate life's challenges more smoothly. It's like being the captain of your own emotional ship, steering through stormy waters with control. If we let those emotions run wild, they can take over and make everything feel more difficult. Learning to regulate them is like having a toolkit for emotional balance, allowing us to respond thoughtfully instead of reacting impulsively. It's not about ignoring or suppressing feelings but finding a healthy way to deal with them, so they don't control us. Like superheroes learn to use their powers wisely, regulating emotions empowers us to handle life's ups and downs with resilience and grace. In this episode, learn from Lisa A. Romano how to best regulate strong emotions through the power of validation.  Join Lisa this April, as she relaunches her 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program for those wishing to heal codependency and break free of the chains of generational trauma, rooted in abandonment.  https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp

Episode Highlights With RajHow to start identifying the cause of the triggers when we're triggered by our kidsWays to help kids not learn that their emotions are bad or create patterns of shutting down emotionsLearning to create space between a trigger and a reaction to have more choice in our reactionsWhat the core childhood wounds are, and where they often come fromMany subconscious beliefs are formed before age seven, and what to understand about this in parentingWays to create nervous system safety in your homeStudies about adverse childhood experiences and how things like emotional neglect can lead to nervous system dysregulationHow to get to know your inner child and understand your core needs and wounds Common triggers and themes among parentsFeelings of rejection as a parent can trigger a deeper core woundResources We MentionLiber8 - Use the code wellnessmama

In this profound episode of Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt confronts the underestimated force of trauma and its pervasive influence on our lives. With unflinching honesty, Brianne delves into the myriad ways trauma manifests, from addictions and toxic relationships to relentless pursuits of success and material possessions. Through a powerful narrative, she shares a gripping intervention story, shedding light on trauma's role in substance abuse and the often overlooked emotional wounds beneath.Join Brianne as she emphasizes the importance of facing our past pains and the dangers of trivializing our experiences by comparing them to others'. She encourages listeners to ask themselves hard-hitting questions about their behaviors and to recognize the signs of unaddressed trauma. Whether it's neglect, abandonment, or abuse, Brianne stresses that trauma doesn't discriminate and can impact anyone, regardless of their outward success or happiness.This episode is a call to action to stop running from our shadows and to start the healing process. Brianne offers practical advice for uncovering and confronting the trauma that lies hidden within, advocating for a life of true freedom and release from the patterns that hold us back. If you're ready to break the cycle and face the trauma that's been steering your life, this episode is an essential listen.#SecretLifePodcast #Trauma #HealingJourney #Addiction #MentalHealth #EmotionalPain #Recovery #SelfDiscovery #Intervention #TrueFreedom #HealingTrauma #PersonalGrowth

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