Exit The Rat Race

1. The “Why” Question as a Source of Stagnation The conversation focused on the idea that asking “Why am I stuck?” can reinforce the very condition a person wants to change 00:00. Examples included: “Why am I not good enough?” “Why has he or she left me?” “Why am I not able to make more income or profit?” “Why am I not successful enough?” The discussion acknowledged that asking why is part of human curiosity, but connected the question to the way the brain searches for supporting evidence 00:57. People were described as “input and output” systems and learning machines that respond to the information being requested 01:07. 2. The Internal Waiter Metaphor One concept discussed was the brain as an internal waiter that serves the evidence requested through a question 01:34. Asking “Why am I not good enough?” was compared to placing an order for evidence proving that belief. The brain searches through experiences, memories, and internal information, described as an “internal map,” to find relevant examples 02:03. Once the evidence is found, the belief can feel like an objective part of reality 02:55. The metaphor was extended to beliefs about income, sales, dating, and personal capability 02:24. 3. How Questions Can Reinforce Personal Problems The discussion explored how asking another person why a problem exists can cause that person to search for more evidence supporting the problem 03:35. An external question can make the belief more solid because the person must locate the evidence internally and then explain it aloud 04:09. Speaking the explanation out loud was presented as an additional reinforcement of the belief 04:39. Statements such as “I'm not good enough because…” were described as shaping reality through language and repetition 04:52. The conversation compared this process to a spell or incantation that gains power when brought into the outside world 05:06. 4. The Power of Spoken Self-Descriptions A key theme that emerged was that words can influence how a person experiences identity, capability, and limitation 05:28. Negative explanations about business growth or personal ability were described as making change more difficult when repeated aloud. The discussion contrasted limiting declarations with constructive statements such as “I'm the most confident person in the room” 06:08. Positive statements were connected to deliberately finding evidence for a strength or area of expertise 06:16. The central warning was that the why question can help a person become even more stuck 06:36. 5. The Stories Produced by “Why” Several points were raised about the long narratives that can emerge when people are asked why they live in a particular reality 06:43. The response to a why question may become a 10-minute, 15-minute, 30-minute, or 45-minute account of personal history and circumstances 07:05. The discussion did not present storytelling or therapy as inherently wrong, but emphasized that the why question has a particular effect 07:27. The importance of recognizing when a question is producing explanation without creating movement was emphasized 07:43. 6. Replacing “Why” With “How” The discussion introduced the how question as a way to “open the door of the prison” created through limiting beliefs 07:49. The example of perfectionism showed how “Why am I a perfectionist?” invites evidence supporting the identity. Reframing the statement as “You are doing perfectionism” separates the person from the behavior 08:06. The shift from “I am a perfectionist” to “I am doing perfectionism” was presented as a move from identity to behavior 08:51. This change creates a different perspective and reduces the sense that the behavior defines the whole person 09:44. 7. Identity-Level Beliefs and Behavioral Patterns The conversation examined the strength of “I am” statements, including “I am powerful,” “I am confident,” “I am lovable,” and “I am good enough” 09:05. Negative identity statements, including “I'm a perfectionist,” “I'm a piece of shit,” and “I'm not good enough,” were described as powerful self-incantations 09:32. The discussion distinguished identity from behavior by moving statements such as “I am a perfectionist” down to “I am doing perfectionism” 09:41. This behavioral framing was presented as an initial form of liberation from an internal prison 09:55. 8. Exposing the Strategy Behind a Behavior One concept discussed was the question, “How are you doing perfectionism?” 10:03. The how question was described as a way to reveal the process and strategy behind a behavior rather than collect more evidence for why it exists 10:12. “Exposure” was identified as a central principle: bringing the current strategy into awareness 10:28. The process can include examining whether a person could deliberately teach or reproduce the behavior 10:44. Understanding the strategy behind a pattern was presented as a meaningful step toward change 10:57. Once the mechanics of perfectionism are exposed, the behavior can appear absurd enough to provoke laughter and distance 11:08. 9. The Two “Magic Questions” The discussion identified two central questions: “How are you doing something?” and “What do you actually want?” 11:47. The first question reveals the strategy behind a current behavior. The second question redirects attention toward a desired outcome rather than the historical evidence supporting a problem. The contrast between why and how was presented as the backbone of the approach discussed 11:55. Why questions were connected to reinforcing existing explanations, while how questions were connected to change and transformation 12:05. 10. Change, Transformation, and Identity The discussion distinguished temporary change from transformation at the level of identity 12:19. The process described involved: Identifying a limiting identity statement. Bringing the belief down to the level of behavior. Asking how the behavior is being produced. Exposing the strategy and recurring patterns. Returning to the identity level with new possibilities. After changing the strategy, possible identity statements included “I can be free,” “I can be myself,” and “I can love myself” 13:01. The physical experience of change was described through the image of weight dropping from the shoulders 13:15. 11. Applying the How Question in Daily Life The conversation encouraged awareness of when why questions are being asked internally or directed toward another person 13:29. Suggested alternatives included asking: “How are you doing this?” “How are you doing that internally?” “May I ask you a question?” Permission was included as part of the suggested approach when asking another person about an internal process 13:42. The how question was associated with unexpected and creative answers that can reveal previously hidden patterns 13:50. 12. Shame, Self-Compassion, and Recognizing Patterns The discussion acknowledged that exposing internal patterns can produce shame, especially when people recognize the cost of past behavior 14:20. Laughter was presented as useful when people notice the absurdity of patterns, but the emotional weight of those patterns was also taken seriously 14:48. The conversation included the recognition that discovering a new pattern does not mean personal work is complete 15:07. Shame about a newly recognized pattern was described as a personal experience that can arise even during ongoing self-awareness work 15:16. The idea that a person is already good enough was separated from the need to change unhelpful learned behaviors 15:30. 13. Learned Behaviors as Layers Over the Self A key theme that emerged was the distinction between a person's core essence and the learned patterns placed over it 15:37. Unhelpful lessons and behaviors were described as layers covering the core and essence of who a person is 15:49. These layers were connected to the metaphor of internal prisons that keep people stuck 16:12. The discussion emphasized that the “prisons” are not physical and are not imposed by an outside force 16:19. The underlying claim was that freedom already exists beneath the learned patterns 16:35. 14. Remembering Existing Freedom The discussion explored personal development as a process of remembering freedom rather than acquiring it from the outside world 16:46. Exposing the how of internal patterns can reveal that the supposed prison was built from learned behavior 17:03. Some patterns may have been learned at a young age because they were useful or appeared to work at that time 17:19. Those patterns can remain stored in a person's internal “archives” without continued examination 17:25. Awareness interrupts the reactive operation of those old strategies 17:30. 15. Business, Self-Expression, and Personal Stuckness The discussion connected internal patterns to areas where people may feel unable to express themselves fully 17:47. Business growth was used as an example of a situation where hidden beliefs or learned strategies may limit progress 17:54. The proposed focus was not simply asking why a business has not reached the next level, but exposing how the internal pattern is being performed 18:00. The process involved examining shame, restricted self-expression, and the internal prisons connected to those experiences 18:10. 16. The Ongoing Nature of Self-Observation The conversation framed recognizing internal patterns as a continuing life practice rather than a finished achievement 18:29. Everyday interactions and communication can reveal new habits, beliefs, and internal prisons 18:35. The process of discussing these ideas was itself presented as an opportunity to notice personal patterns in real time 18:40. The final practical shift was stated directly: replace the why question with the how question 18:56. Let's connect online: 1. INSTAGRAM: https://snip.ly/2ognlc 2. LINKEDIN: https://snip.ly/u6w6dg 3. WEBSITE: https://snip.ly/ys5h59 Questions? Email us at: contact@danielkluken.com    

1. The old gaming console as a metaphor for personal-development beliefs The conversation opened by connecting an old gaming console from the 1980s with beliefs that continue to circulate in personal development 00:00. Old gaming consoles were described as antiques, while repeatedly recycled personal-development sayings were presented as “belief antiques” 00:30. The discussion distinguished between appreciating old ideas and adopting them automatically without examining their effects. A key question emerged: what happens when a belief is installed unconsciously, and what price is paid for keeping it? 2. The belief that people must become a better version of themselves The central belief examined was “becoming the better version of yourself” 01:03. The idea was described as potentially useful in certain situations or stages, but harmful when treated as a permanent life objective 01:17. Constantly aiming to become better was connected with stress, fear, depression, and the feeling of never being good enough 01:36. The phrase was linked to the New Age movement of the 1970s and 1980s 01:55. The discussion questioned whether a person can ever finish the process of becoming better, or ever turn the pursuit off 03:06. 3. Personal development as distraction rather than transformation Several points were raised about people who are already working, moving, and doing constantly 02:12. Activity was described as potentially distracting when it fails to produce genuine transformation 02:27. The concept of “threshold addicts” was introduced to describe people who repeatedly approach progress without moving through a meaningful threshold 02:41. Examples included reading personal-development books, scrolling through social media for motivational quotes, and collecting insights that reinforce the feeling of working on oneself 02:46. The discussion challenged the assumption that consuming more personal-development content necessarily creates change. 4. Questioning inherited beliefs A key theme that emerged was the need to think independently about traditional personal-development sayings 03:12. Respect for older ideas was separated from unquestioned acceptance of those ideas. The discussion proposed examining whether a belief is still true. Another proposed test was to ask what the belief does to a person, what gain it provides, and what price it creates 03:26. “Becoming the better version of yourself” was criticized for implying that the current version is incomplete or inadequate 03:42. 5. The marketing power of inadequacy The phrase “become the best version of yourself” was described as highly effective marketing language 04:18. The promise of becoming better was connected to the human desire for validation. Courses, mentoring, and personal-development programs can use that promise to suggest that enrollment will produce a superior or complete version of the individual 04:30. The discussion questioned whether paying for and completing a course actually makes a person the “better” or “best” version of the self 04:42. The belief that improvement is required was connected to the pain of feeling inadequate, which can make promises of transformation especially persuasive 08:20. 6. The alternative belief that people are already enough The discussion offered a different starting point: a person is already the best version of themselves and does not need to move somewhere else to become complete 05:00. Salvation, solutions, and transformation were framed as things not ultimately found in the outside world 05:20. Courses and mentoring were not rejected, but their value was tied to increasing internal awareness rather than producing a new identity 05:43. The alternative perspective emphasized being already free, good enough, perfect, and permitted to be oneself 09:26. Personal growth was reframed as becoming more conscious of existing internal patterns, rather than constructing a superior self. 7. Programming, beliefs, and learned strategies One concept discussed was the idea that people are naturally capable of standing out as unique, but often learn strategies for fitting in 05:58. These strategies can include unconscious programming, beliefs, rules, and “laws” adopted earlier in life 09:52. Beliefs that once helped a person were described as potentially becoming restrictive later. The discussion focused on identifying internal programming that affects language, actions, patterns, and results 07:17. Limiting beliefs were compared with self-created prisons that need to be recognized and gradually uncovered 13:12. 8. Awareness as the purpose of courses, mentoring, and challenging experiences The discussion explored how courses, mentoring, nature experiences, mountain climbing, and ice baths can function as “training wheels” for increasing consciousness and awareness 06:38. External experiences were presented as useful when they direct attention back toward internal reality. A mentoring conversation was described as an interaction in which contrasting perspectives help reveal patterns, beliefs, word choices, actions, and consequences 07:17. The purpose was framed as going inward and becoming more aware of the reality a person carries internally. This approach was contrasted with working toward a future version of the self that is supposedly better than the present version 07:48. 9. The emotional cost of believing the current self is not good enough The belief that improvement is always required was linked to stress, depression, fear of exposure, and imposter feelings 07:56. The phrase “I'm not good enough” was presented as a source of pain that can keep the improvement cycle moving 08:58. The promise of eventually becoming perfect was described as a “magic pill” for salvation and validation 08:25. Replacing the assumption of inadequacy with “I am the best version of myself” was presented as a way to remove pressure from the process 08:41. The problem was located in internal patterning rather than in an external condition that must first be fixed 10:21. 10. Joy, laughter, and play as essential parts of growth The conversation shifted from serious inner work to the importance of joy, laughter, and play 10:56. A memorable concept was introduced: “joy and laughter, it's the lubricant of life” 11:13. People engaged in personal development were described as often forgetting how to play. Questions about the last experience of genuine joy revealed periods of five, six, seven, or ten years without intentional play, with some memories reaching back only to childhood 11:37. The discussion presented play as a way to change a person's state of being and experience life differently 14:00. 11. The gaming-console analogy and progressing through life The gaming device was connected with play, entertainment, fun, and connection with others 11:44. The phrase “playing the game of life” was used to describe engaging with life through joy rather than constant seriousness. Playing was presented as necessary for reaching the next level 12:27. Games from the 1980s were used to illustrate difficulty, limited support systems, the lack of save points, and the need to start over after mistakes 12:41. Life was compared with those games because there are no simple cheat codes, even though smarter thinking and different actions can create shorter paths 13:01. 12. Difficulty, mistakes, and starting over The discussion emphasized that recognizing limiting beliefs may not be complex, but can still be hard to do 13:12. Frustration in old games, such as getting stuck or losing progress at the end of the day, was compared with setbacks in life 13:33. Mistakes were framed as part of the process rather than evidence that a person is fundamentally inadequate. The gaming analogy was extended to stage presence, relationships, and other areas where people can practice responding with more fun and less fear 15:37. Allowing mistakes was presented as an alternative to approaching every situation through fear of judgment or exposure 15:01. 13. Bringing play into performance and relationships The discussion explored approaching public speaking with the intention to have fun, laugh with people, and allow mistakes 15:01. Stage presence was presented as something that can be practiced through a different emotional and physical state. The same idea was applied to relationships, including relationships with a wife or husband 15:37. Serious and connecting conversations were recognized as important, while joy and laughter were presented as equally necessary. People who authentically experience and bring joy were described as creating a presence others want to be around 15:58. 14. Seriousness, forgotten joy, and self-reflection Clients were described as sometimes being excessively serious, which was framed not as proof of imperfection but as evidence that joy has been forgotten 16:29. A self-reflective question was raised: “Would I marry myself?” 16:29. The point was not to abandon serious conversations or responsibilities, but to restore fun and pleasure to everyday life. The conversation distinguished between intellectually agreeing that joy matters and actually doing something joyful 16:44. 15. Action, slowing down, and integration One practical sequence was outlined: choose something genuinely fun, do it, slow down, and allow the experience to sink in 17:06. This process was described as integration and transformation. The intended result was not becoming a superior version of the self, but “chipping away” at the prisons created through unconscious conditioning 17:25. The discussion encouraged using an external or internal gaming device to create more play and recognize existing perfection 17:44. 16. Sharing experiences to increase awareness The closing section invited listeners to share what happened after recognizing that they were already good enough and had created limiting prisons for themselves 18:18. The prompt also asked what intentional action brought more play into life and changed the person's state 18:41. Sharing was framed as a way to inspire others and increase collective awareness. The discussion returned to exploring old beliefs rather than automatically discarding them 19:34. A final invitation was offered to identify a better belief that could help the individual and other people 20:11. Let's connect online: 1. INSTAGRAM: https://snip.ly/2ognlc 2. LINKEDIN: https://snip.ly/u6w6dg 3. WEBSITE: https://snip.ly/ys5h59 Questions? Email us at: contact@danielkluken.com  

Episode Introduction The conversation focused on a painful contradiction: having the company, car, income, family, and status society associates with success, yet feeling more broken than ever. The discussion explores the “broken masks of success” many men wear, and why checking off more external milestones can leave a person increasingly restless and disconnected 00:00. One concept discussed was the difference between outside-in validation and inside-out validation. Low energy was framed not as the root problem, but as a symptom of playing roles that consume energy, whether at work, at home, in relationships, or with family 11:47. A key theme that emerged was the fear that dropping those masks could cause everything to collapse, even when that fear is built more on imagined consequences than evidence 13:31. The discussion explored a practical first step: saying the honest thing that has been left unsaid, not to control the outcome, but to begin honoring the truth within. As the conversation puts it, freedom may not come from checking off the next box. It may begin with unburying who you already are 18:51.   Let's connect online: 1. INSTAGRAM: https://snip.ly/2ognlc 2. LINKEDIN: https://snip.ly/u6w6dg 3. WEBSITE: https://snip.ly/ys5h59 Questions? Email us at: contact@danielkluken.com

Episode: The Power of Conflict in a Relationship Welcome back to The Room Of Truth. Today Daniel sits down with Ingvild and they go straight at it. Conflict. The thing every couple runs from. The thing you were taught to fear, avoid, smooth over, bury. Here's the truth nobody told you. Conflict isn't the crack in your relationship. It's the door. Daniel and Ingvild aren't theorizing here. This is years of their own marriage, their own blowups, their own walls, laid bare. They rip open what's actually happening underneath the arguments. The agitation. The moment your voice rises and your guard goes up. The blame. The defensiveness. The retreat into silence because silence feels safer than the truth. And underneath all of it, the thing you actually want. To be seen. To be known. To stop performing for the person who's supposed to know the real you. This episode isn't about winning the fight. It's about what's on the other side of it, if you're willing to stop running. If you've been avoiding the conflict in your relationship thinking that's keeping the peace, this is the episode that breaks that lie wide open. Thank you for listening. Share it with your network and if you like it give it ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️.  Don't forget to subscribe so you will never miss an episode. Let's connect online: 1. INSTAGRAM: https://snip.ly/2ognlc 2. LINKEDIN: https://snip.ly/u6w6dg 3. WEBSITE: https://snip.ly/ys5h59 Questions? Email us at: contact@danielkluken.com

Daniël welcomes Gustavo a friend, client, and professional golf coach from the United States to his home in the Netherlands for a candid and spontaneous conversation. The discussion dives deep into the dynamics of self-love, holding space for oneself and others, and how our early relationships and emotional contracts shape the way we show up in life and love. Together, Daniël and Gustavo explore the challenges men face in being authentic within relationships, the pitfalls of transactional love, and the important balance of masculine and feminine energies. Drawing parallels from Gustavo's extensive experience coaching in the competitive golf world, the conversation uncovers what we can learn about process over outcome—both on the course and in everyday life. Whether you're interested in personal growth, relationships, or performance under pressure, this episode offers insights and wisdom you won't want to miss. Thank you for listening. Share it with your network and if you like it give it ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️.  Don't forget to subscribe so you will never miss an episode. Let's connect online: 1. INSTAGRAM: https://snip.ly/2ognlc 2. LINKEDIN: https://snip.ly/u6w6dg 3. WEBSITE: https://snip.ly/ys5h59 Questions? Email us at: contact@danielkluken.com Sequence of Topics Covered 1. Introduction and Setting the Scene Daniël introduces Gustavo, sharing his background as a friend, client, student, and professional golf coach 00:02 Gustavo is invited to Daniël's home in the Netherlands, described as a special and familial context 00:27 Mention of their shared interest in technical setups and spontaneous decision to record the discussion 00:35 2. Recent Experiences and Initial Reflections Gustavo's recent participation in a Kundalini activation course is highlighted 00:41 Conversation immediately leads into the theme of relationships, self-love, and emotional sharing 00:55 3. Holding Space for Oneself and Others Gustavo reflects on the importance of “holding space” first for oneself, then for others 01:34 The role of coaches and methodologies as placeholders for personal capability 01:40 4. Self-Care, Boundaries, and Emotional Dynamics The challenge of holding space for oneself, difficulty setting boundaries 03:11 The tendency to either overextend or isolate in relationships 03:33 The concept of “emotional contracts” and acting from insecurity or lack 04:16 The risk of seeking external validation and the conditional nature of some relationships 04:16 5. The Relationship Between Masculinity, Self-Expression, and Environment Discussion of men compensating for lack of self-relationship by seeking external validation 02:51, 04:56 Role-playing, lack of self-connection in workspace and relationships 05:01 Difficulty being authentic in social or work environments 05:24 6. Societal and Cultural Pressures Living in a meritocracy: being valued for achievements and productivity 05:40 The conditionality of relationships and how others perceive us 05:56 Navigating feelings of abandonment and self-abandonment 06:44, 06:51 7. Transactions and Conditionality in Relationships The danger of transactional patterns, particularly in intimate relationships 07:06 Example of massages and the expectation of sex in exchange—a metaphor for transactional dynamics 07:22 How showing up authentically affects relationship dynamics and intimacy 07:51 8. Masculine and Feminine Energy Dynamics Lack of positive masculine role models and the resulting impact 08:09 Discussion of polarity: the necessity for both masculine and feminine energy 08:43 Survival states pushing people—especially women—into more masculine roles 08:47 9. Family Patterns and Immaturity in Adult Relationships Patterns from upbringing that spill over into adult relationships 09:12 The “mother-son” dynamic that can develop between partners 09:59 The impact on intimacy and emotional connection when these dynamics persist 10:06 10. Breaking Dysfunctional Relational Patterns The inevitable conflicts that arise and the “land of loss”—where both partners lose in arguments 11:36 Need for honesty and emotional vulnerability to create true connection 12:02 11. Observations from Coaching in the Golf World Daniël asks about gender dynamics in golf coaching 12:47 [] notes differences in self-criticism between male and female teenage athletes 13:24 Pressure cooker environment: hyper-focus on achievements and external rewards 14:08 12. Lessons from Golf and Their Broader Application Golf as a metaphor for life: focus on process, not just results 15:17 Handling luck, setbacks, and the uncontrollability of outcomes 15:22 The danger of losing personal joy and humanity in the pursuit of external validation 17:04 13. Maintaining Humanity and Perspective How to help athletes and clients reconnect with the love for what they do 17:33 The importance of appreciating the journey, not just the end prize 18:06 The concept of “process over prize” and living each round (or moment) as if it could be the last 19:00, 19:29 14. Closing and Final Takeaways Emphasis on gratitude and presence in whatever you're doing 19:30 Final thanks and wrapping up of the conversation 19:41

11 powerful lessons drawn from over a decade of teaching the Wim Hof Method around the world. The discussion explored firsthand insights on topics such as reconditioning the nervous system, building authentic confidence through experience, the vital role of awareness in habits, and the difference between knowing and embodying a practice. Several points were raised, including the importance of teaching with both skill and heart, treating each moment as a new experience, the transformative power of mindset and visualization, and learning to conquer through surrender. A key theme that emerged was the incredible strength found in community and the value of being dynamic in one's approach to both challenge and relaxation. This episode is a tribute to the lessons, growth, and human connections discovered through a transformational journey with the Wim Hof Method. Thank you for listening. Share it with your network and if you like it give it ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️.  Don't forget to subscribe so you will never miss an episode. Let's connect online: 1. INSTAGRAM: https://snip.ly/2ognlc 2. LINKEDIN: https://snip.ly/u6w6dg 3. WEBSITE: https://snip.ly/ys5h59 Questions? Email us at: contact@danielkluken.com Sequence of Topics Covered Introduction: Reflecting on 11 Years of Teaching the Wim Hof Method Retirement from being a certified Wim Hof Method instructor 00:06 Early days of the method with limited protocols and science 00:18 Personal lessons learned beyond official manuals 01:11 Role in training new instructors 00:53 Lesson 1: Reconditioning vs. Regulating the Nervous System Distinction between regulation and reprogramming 01:26 Nervous system responses as programmed predictions 01:43 Importance of rewriting internal programming for lasting change 02:26 Lesson 2: Building Confidence Through Experience Confidence as an outcome of repeated positive experiences 03:24 Initial discomfort and overcoming fear 03:52 Applicability beyond the Wim Hof Method to various life situations 04:09 Lesson 3: Awareness Prevents Habits from Becoming Empty Necessity of maintaining awareness in practices (breathwork, meditation, etc.) 04:36 Dangers of autopilot and loss of benefits 05:40 Example of a client regressing despite consistent practice due to lack of awareness 05:07 Lesson 4: Embodying Knowledge Rather Than Merely Understanding Difference between intellectual knowledge and lived experience 05:55 The process: knowledge → integration → embodiment 07:02 Personal anecdote with Wim's “just do it” advice 07:15 Lesson 5: Teaching with the Heart (Not Just from It) Critique of teaching solely from personal experience 08:08 Necessity of building professional teaching skills 09:16 Importance of structure in creating safety for learners 09:22 Warning against simplistic “teaching from the heart” approaches 09:48 Distinction between being an inspirator and a teacher 10:02 Lesson 6: Every Time is a New Experience Incompleteness of our mental archives and predictions 11:02 Treating each practice as unique; “always be a student” 12:21 Personal development and humility after years of teaching 12:27 Lesson 7: Visualization—See It in Your Mind, Make It Real Power of mental imagery in influencing physical state 12:46 Mind and body as a unified system 13:10 Example of using visualization to prevent shivering after cold exposure 14:05 Broader use of visualization in sports and high-performance contexts 15:19 Awareness as the first step for change 15:39 Lesson 8: Conquering Through Surrendering Personal story of first cold exposure and initial “conquer” mentality 15:50 Realization that surrendering to the elements is more effective 16:49 Contrast between trying to control vs. relaxing into discomfort 17:13 Application to daily life: “saying yes” to situations rather than always trying to control 17:19 Lesson 9: Stronger Together—The Power of Group Dynamics Examples of greater resilience and performance in group settings 18:01 Dramatic improvement in endurance during group cold exposure 18:53 Importance of mutual care and collective effort 19:07 Lesson 10: Embrace Dynamic Balance (Stress and Recovery) Early enthusiasm for only seeking out stress and discomfort 19:20 Argument for balance between stress (cold, workouts) and relaxation (warmth, downtime) 20:03 Suggestion to also explore “middle ground” activities (like relaxed yoga) 20:23 Lesson 11: Expanding What's Possible—A Tribute Story Story of challenging the assumption that large groups couldn't summit together 21:14 Training for teamwork and collective care to achieve the impossible 21:38 General lesson: questioning our limitations and opening to new possibilities 22:21 Conclusion: Gratitude and Invitation to Engage Gratitude to Wim, colleagues, students, and the community 22:55 Encouragement to interact and reflect 23:10

Daniel sits down with Annette from Boston to reflect on their remarkable eight-year coaching and mentorship journey. Annette shares her transformation from a controlling leader struggling to find fulfillment, and reaching the top only to leave it all behind.    Together, Daniel and Annette explore the evolution of leadership, the importance of emotional honesty in business, redefining success, and the value of slowing down to find meaning in both work and life. Whether you're climbing the corporate ladder or seeking more authenticity in your career, this candid and insightful conversation offers powerful lessons on growth, vulnerability, and leading from the inside out.   Thank you for listening. Share it with your network and if you like it give it ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️.  Don't forget to subscribe so you will never miss an episode. Let's connect online: 1. INSTAGRAM: https://snip.ly/2ognlc 2. LINKEDIN: https://snip.ly/u6w6dg 3. WEBSITE: https://snip.ly/ys5h59 Questions? Email us at: contact@danielkluken.com   1. Introduction & Context (00:01) •Daniel Kluken introduces Annette and describes their eight-year coaching/mentor relationship. •Mention of where Annette is from (Boston, USA) and their shared journey. •Purpose of the conversation: exploration of a long-term mentoring relationship and its evolution.   2. Beginnings of the Coaching Relationship (01:04) •Annette's initial state: feeling disconnected, controlling, and fighting for control. •How they met at Wim Hof in Poland. •Annette's search for a coach/mentor with the right presence and connection.   3. Professional Context at the Start (02:19) •Annette describes her role: R&D, leading a team of ~15 people. •The pressures of a growing company and evolving products. •How leadership and company dynamics were shifting.   4. Growth and Leadership Transformation (03:22) •Moving from providing answers to asking questions as a leader. •Progression into executive leadership (C-suite) and building a creative, expressive team culture. •Annette's influence on team creativity and empowerment.   5. Leading by Example (05:25) •Daniel Kluken highlights "lead yourself first" as a principle Annette modeled. •Emphasizing honesty, transparency, vulnerability, and self-development as a leader.   6. Emotions and Business (06:15) •The false belief that business should be non-emotional. •The power of emotions in leadership and team cohesion. •Annette's journey to embracing and expressing emotions as a strength, not a weakness.   7. The Challenge of Leadership Roles (09:54) •Navigating loneliness at the C-suite/executive level. •Handling criticism, emotional responses, and leadership resilience. •Redefining relationships in the context of leadership (e.g., friendship vs. professional boundaries).   8. Redefining Friendship at Work (13:13) •The impact of moving from peer to leader on work friendships. •The transition from one kind of friendship to multiple, context-specific definitions. •Dealing with the emotional cost (e.g., yearning for "the good old days") and building trust as a foundation.   9. Creating Trust and Safety in Teams (16:32) •Trust as a basis for team safety and openness. •The limits of a leader's responsibility in providing safety; focus on transparency and honesty. •The impact of personal transformation on team dynamics and perceived safety.   10. Shifts in Leadership Approach (19:11) •Transition from focusing on the individual to focusing on the company's well-being as a whole. •Integrating new team members and styles. •Moving from assumptions to curiosity and open questioning in team leadership.   11. Evolution of the Coaching Relationship (21:24) •Value of long-term coaching: perspective, reflection, and witnessing personal evolution. •Changes in what Annette needed from Daniel Kluken over time (from understanding value systems to deep emotional work). •Navigating stagnation and deciding to renew or adjust the coaching partnership.   12. Integrating Emotion and Cognition (23:49) •Transition from relying solely on intellect to incorporating emotions in decision-making. •Importance of feeling as well as thinking for sustainable leadership and personal fulfillment.   13. Sustainable Leadership Practices (28:05) •Becoming a multifaceted leader capable of integrating intellect, emotion, and presence. •Adapting the approach to workload and delegation as team size and leadership scope grew.   14. Delegation and Empowerment (29:40) •Shift from micromanaging to empowering team members to own outcomes. •Customizing leadership for different individuals' needs. •Realizing personal enjoyment in team/community as a source of fulfillment.   15. Authenticity, Masks, and Energy (33:03) •Authentic leadership: minimizing the energy drain of "wearing masks." •Original motivation for mentorship: desire for mastery/control, evolving to embracing surrender and emotional power.   16. The Mentor vs. Coach Paradigm (35:03) •Daniel Kluken's philosophy: mentoring involves going first, modeling vulnerability and growth. •Creating a partnership/joint journey rather than a hierarchical coach-client dynamic.   17. Transformation as the Goal (37:17) •The journey beyond "doing" and "getting"—focusing on transformation and unlocking untapped personal potential. •Approaching leadership and life as an ongoing process of becoming.   18. The Realization of Fulfillment (39:59) •Reaching the top ("the only way is down"): recognizing misalignment with prior definitions of success. •Deciding not to pursue further corporate ambition (e.g., CEO role). •Gratitude for reaching this realization relatively early.   19. Reconsidering Retirement and Present Living (41:39) •Questioning deferred gratification for retirement. •Embracing living in the present and trusting one's ability to adapt. •The impact of personal loss on perspective regarding life's brevity and priorities. 20. The Power of Boredom, Stillness, and Slowing Down (46:28) •Learning to savor "little things" and the richness of slow, passive moments. •Recognizing societal discomfort with inactivity and confronting one's own restlessness. 21. Letting Go of External Validation (50:53) •The seduction of status, recognition, and performance in the corporate world. •Disentangling self-worth from title, stage presence, or external applause.   22. Online vs. Physical Mentoring (52:21) •Effectiveness of online coaching/mentoring. •Advantages: comfort, safety, immediacy, integration with real-life settings. •Situational benefits and the impact of being in one's actual environment.   23. Vulnerability and Showing Up (57:21) •Value of showing up for mentoring even when not feeling well. •Deeper breakthroughs occur in moments of vulnerability and discomfort.   24. Honesty with Self and Others (01:00:59) •The importance of working with self-honesty and truth. •Perspectives are not ultimate truths—value in hearing, not always adopting, others' views. •The process of decision-making and owning one's choices.   25. Practical Advice for Leaders (01:03:56) •Every door is always open—perpetual possibility for new choices. •The leader's role in keeping options and perspectives open for themselves and their teams. •Trust as the core of decision-making and confidence-building.   26. The Ongoing Journey of Transformation (01:09:02) •The courage to surrender old versions of self and embrace transformation. •Recognition and admiration from others for breaking from convention. •Openness to uncertainty and the freedom of not having a fixed plan.   27. Conclusion (01:10:43) •Daniel Kluken expresses appreciation for Annette's journey and shared insights. •Affirmation of ongoing partnership and the value of sharing experiences for others.

In this special episode of *Exit The Rat Race*, the roles are reversed: host Daniel Kluken finds himself in the hot seat, interviewed by his mentee, Simon de Raadt. The episode kicks off with Simon "taking over" the show, aiming to dive deeper than previous interviews and explore questions Daniel has never been asked before. **Key Themes and Highlights:** - **Daniel's Journey:** Daniel opens up about his lifelong quest for success—how he chased financial and material achievements, only to realize those external wins never brought true fulfillment. His search led to a process of self-discovery, personal and spiritual development, peeling back layers of identity and confronting uncomfortable truths about himself. - **Exiting the Rat Race (and Re-entering):** Daniel reflects on his departure from the corporate world 12 years ago, initially seeing it as an escape from the “rat race.” He admits that even after leaving, he found himself building a new, self-imposed rat race within his entrepreneurial life, realizing how easy it is to recreate those old patterns, even with the best intentions. - **Balancing Light and Darkness:** A significant insight Daniel shares is the importance of acknowledging both the positive and negative aspects of oneself. He warns against toxic positivity—focusing only on the “light”—and emphasizes the freedom that comes from facing one's darker sides. - **Multidimensional Approach to Growth:** Daniel describes his versatile approach, integrating tools like NLP, breathwork, cold exposure, and energy work. Instead of sticking rigidly to one method, he believes in adapting to what each person needs at any given moment, combining physical, mental, and energetic modalities. - **Relationship and Connection:** Daniel and his fiancée Ingvild, who is deeply involved in energy and Kundalini work, prioritize deep connection—both with themselves and with each other. The episode highlights how their personal practices and morning rituals create a foundation for open communication, support, and inspiration. - **Parenting by Example:** Daniel, who acts as a father figure to his partner's son, discusses the importance of leading by example rather than prescribing strict rules. He shares a touching story about his stepson developing self-awareness at a young age, attributing it to creating a home environment based on authenticity and connection. - **Mentorship Journey:** The discussion moves to Daniel's “Legendary and Free Life in 365 Days” mentorship program. Both Daniel and Simon explain why lasting transformation takes time—building trust, addressing deep-seated patterns layer by layer, and focusing on sustainable growth rather than quick fixes. - **Dynamic Structures & Goal-Setting:** Daniel promotes the idea of dynamic habits over rigid routines, encouraging listeners to check in with themselves and adapt daily, rather than simply ticking off boxes for the sake of habit. - **Living a Legendary Life:** For Daniel, legendary living is now less about external achievements and more about experiencing depth, joy, and honesty within himself. He admits to ongoing limiting beliefs—especially around stepping fully into his own work, independent from the platforms of others. - **Final Reflections:** The episode ends with Daniel's wish for listeners—that they might treat themselves as kindly as they treat their children, letting go of harsh self-judgment and embracing a gentler, more compassionate relationship with themselves. **Call to Action:** Listeners are encouraged to connect with Daniel if they resonated with his story or are interested in his unique approach to personal development, and to subscribe or share the episode. --- This episode is a candid, vulnerable conversation that explores the real, ongoing journey of self-mastery—highlighting the power of honesty, multidimensional growth, and human connection in creating a truly legendary life. ------------------ Thank you for listening. Share it with your network and if you like it give it ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️.  Don't forget to subscribe so you will never miss an episode. Let's connect online: 1. INSTAGRAM: https://snip.ly/2ognlc 2. LINKEDIN: https://snip.ly/u6w6dg 3. WEBSITE: https://snip.ly/ys5h59 Questions? Email us at: contact@danielkluken.com

This episode was a podcast recorded for the Eigenwijsheid podcast hosted by Steff Runderkamp. The description below is from his podcast: 75% of all suicides are committed by men. And yet, we rarely talk about what's really going on inside. In this episode, I speak with Daniel Kluken, international trainer and mentor for high-performing men, about the emotional world many men are disconnected from. We dive into uncomfortable but necessary topics: men's mental health, porn use as a way to escape, emotional numbness and isolation, and the deep process of coming back home to your body, your truth, and your power. This is not just a conversation for men but for anyone who lives with, loves, or supports them. ------------------ Thank you for listening. Share it with your network and if you like it give it ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️.  Don't forget to subscribe so you will never miss an episode. Let's connect online: 1. INSTAGRAM: https://snip.ly/2ognlc 2. LINKEDIN: https://snip.ly/u6w6dg 3. WEBSITE: https://snip.ly/ys5h59 Questions? Email us at: contact@danielkluken.com

  What does it really take to scale a company to $170 million—and how do you pick up the pieces when it all vanishes? In this raw and revealing episode of Exit the Rat Race, host Daniel Kluken sits down with Simon de Raadt, a high-performing entrepreneur who defied the odds by moving from a small Dutch town to Shanghai, building a company from scratch, and riding it to meteoric success... only to watch it all fall apart. Simon shares his unfiltered journey—from delivering newspapers at 11 years old to shipping hundreds of thousands of parcels worldwide, and then facing the gut-wrenching loss of his business. Together, they dive deep into: The truth behind “overnight” business success (and what really goes on behind the scenes) The hidden loneliness and inner restlessness many top performers experience—even at the pinnacle Real talk on dealing with failure, loss of identity, and starting again Why external success doesn't always equal internal freedom—and how to rewrite your definition of achievement Navigating new beginnings, financial freedom, and the ongoing quest for meaning beyond money Plus, Simon opens up about the emotional toll of losing his business, adjusting to life back in the Netherlands, and the inner work it takes to find sanity, satisfaction, and self-worth that outlast material wins. If you think financial success is the ultimate goal, this episode challenges everything. It's about more than business—it's about resilience, self-discovery, and what it means to live life on your own terms. These insights and many more you will discover on this latest growth cast. ------------------ Thank you for listening. Share it with your network and if you like it give it ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️.  Don't forget to subscribe so you will never miss an episode. Let's connect online: 1. INSTAGRAM: https://snip.ly/2ognlc 2. LINKEDIN: https://snip.ly/u6w6dg 3. WEBSITE: https://snip.ly/ys5h59 Questions? Email us at: contact@danielkluken.com

Imagine this: you have created several success companies and than one day everything changes. You wake up feeling overwhelmed and imprisoned by anxiety.  Unable to do the things that you did before and got you where are today. How would handle this?  It happend to Mick and in this episode he shares his experiences but also his transformation that led him to run his companies and himself in completely new way.  These insights and many more you will discover on this latest growth cast. ------------------ Thank you for listening. Share it with your network and if you like it give it ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️.  Don't forget to subscribe so you will never miss an episode. Let's connect online: 1. INSTAGRAM: https://snip.ly/2ognlc 2. LINKEDIN: https://snip.ly/u6w6dg 3. WEBSITE: https://snip.ly/ys5h59 Questions? Email us at: contact@danielkluken.com

Since the beginning of my journey into personal development I came across so many buzzwords. One of them was Kundalini. To be honest, I always thought that it was some wooho mumbo jumbo. Never I could I could have imagined that it would change my life and that of my fiancee Ingvild in so many ways. Ingvild took the leap and she is a big part of my transformational journey. Thank you for who you are.    These insights and many more you will discover on this latest growth cast. #KAP #Kundalini #Spiritual ------------------ Thank you for listening. Share it with your network and if you like it give it ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️.  Don't forget to subscribe so you will never miss an episode. Let's connect online: 1. INSTAGRAM: https://snip.ly/wfpog9 2. LINKEDIN: https://snip.ly/u6w6dg 3. WEBSITE: https://snip.ly/ys5h59 Questions? Email us at: contact@danielkluken.com

Since I was a young man I got introduced to porn. It became part of my normal until I stopped completely 13 months ago. It changed everything for me and it can for you. I share this story because I know many of you are struggling. And Porn is the goto sedation tool for many to suppress what wants to be felt.     These insights and many more you will discover on this latest growth cast.  For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

When I started with personal development there was a idea about the end goal. Every book and course I attended shared the same end goal and it burned me to the ground. And when you read this, yes i'm back.   These insights and many more you will discover on this latest growth cast.  For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

Today a new concept that will give you new insights and perspective around your current performance habits. To gain clarity and stop overwhelm.  These insights and many more you will discover on this latest growth cast.  For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

Today a new concept that will give you new insights and perspective around your current performance habits. To gain clarity and stop overwhelm.  These insights and many more you will discover on this latest growth cast.  For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

For most of us we experience judging people and situations as something negative but what if we actually need it to thrive and survive life. The why how and what will be presented to you. Enjoy.   These insights and many more you will discover on this latest growth cast.  For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

Let's change everything around growth, leadership and personal development. Join me in creating a new starting point from where you reach levels beyond what you have thought is possible.    These insights and many more you will discover on this latest growth cast.  For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

Do you have a morning routine? I used and explored most of them. And in the past they certainly brought me a lot but now I use the Anti Morning Routine Routine. Are you ready to try to explore something new that can help you growth in a radical new way?   These insights and many more you will discover on this latest growth cast.  For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

What if you would become single today and as an experiment stop having sex for 2 years? Could you do it? Why did I do it and what did it bring me? A must listen to everyone that wants to improve the relationship with yourself but also your (potential) partner.    These insights and many more you will discover on this latest growth cast.  For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

If you could back to your 12-year-old self and share where you are right now in life. Would you be happy, or sad, and are you actually living your dream life? Also what do 20 twelf-year-olds say about where they want to be when they are 30.    These insights and many more you will discover on this latest growth cast.  For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

So many of us keep buying shit we actually do not need. Is it cultural, identity, and are there other ways?  These insights and many more you will discover on this latest growth cast.  For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

Personal development is fantastic if you use it in a way that truly allows you to grow but what if we without knowing it has become our new distraction, our new drug. Based on your reactions we dive deeper into the how with topics like: -Empty habits vs dynamic structures -Methods as starting points -Developing awareness -Transition into everyday life -And much more With international embodiment expert Ingvild Molenaar we dive deep into this topic.    These insights and many more you will discover on this latest growth cast.  For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

Personal development is fantastic if you use it in a way that truly allows you to grow but what if we without knowing it has become our new distraction, our new drug. That we need that icebath, or meditation session every day, and if we don't then we can't feel good about ourselves. With international embodiment expert Ingvild Molenaar we dive deep into this topic.    These insights and many more you will discover on this latest growth cast.  For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

No Ego We Go is something Wim Hof alias the Iceman always says. But what does this actually means? Why did Daniel almost die on top of the snowy mountains of Poland learning this and how does it translates to life and business.  These insights and many more you will discover on this latest growth cast.  For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

There is one thing all men are doing and it's killing their relationships. This one thing I asked countless women and men just don't get it. This episode is here for the men to instantly improve the connection and quality of their relationship. And it also helps you in all the other areas of your life. So women please share it with your partner and all of you enjoy it.  For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

Walking to the gym today made me realize that in the 20 years I'm going my goals have changed. When I started it was to create a strong outside so that I could mask my insecurities. Now a day I go because I love myself and thereby automatically my health. Also, I share the 3 strategies I use myself for doing things.   For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

This Growth Cast is about how to unstuck yourself. After working with so many people around the globe I discovered this 4 step blueprint to unstuck yourself. When you apply those 4 steps I guarantee you that there will be a change in your life. Maybe you are saying to yourself: "I can't do this by myself". That is brutal honesty towards yourself and that is step two. When you feel and know you need help you have the opportunity to practice the art of asking for help. Do it if you are ready to create that change. Enjoy. For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken    

What is the relation between investing in startups and going on expeditions around the world? In this episode, you will step into the shoes of Luc Hardy. Luc is an entrepreneur, veteran adventurer, environmental advocate and author. In 2014 Luc followed in the footsteps of Ernest Shackleton a polar explorer from the golden age. In 1914, after the sinking of his ship The Endurance, this hero saved his entire crew from certain death. 100 years later Luc's expedition sets out to explore the sub-Antarctic islands of Elephant, South Georgia, and the South Sandwich by boat, ski and pulka. How does the mindset of confidently going on new adventures translate into business and everyday life? You will get to discover it all on this new growth cast.   For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

In this growth cast you get to listen to a mentoring session I did last week. When we get stuck or overwhelmed we most of the time numb or distract ourselves from the problem but that won't solve the problem. What we are lacking in a situation like this is clarity. By writing things down you generate clarity and a new perception. Listen how easy it is to quickly generate change in your life. For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

This is a special episode. It's a session from Daniel's performance program 'Lead & Live Your Legend'. Together with Ingvild Molenaar (international trainer) we go over the 3 types of energy we all have and why being bored will actually increase your performance and output. This is the first time ever that Daniel shares this content outside of his program.   For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

After working with more than 40 nationalities in 10 countries one thing became clear to me. We all are looking for freedom. But what does that mean to you? How do you know you have it? Do you let that be dictated by others? I can tell you this most of us don't have a clue.    For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

People in your community know you for who you are and the businesses that you own. And then on November 8th, 2018, everything changed for Luke Sherba and so many others. The Camp Fire that rushed through the Sierra Nevada foothills killed 85 people, destroyed nearly 19,000 homes, businesses, and other buildings, and virtually razed the town of Paradise. We go over topics, how it is to lose everything like your businesses, your house, and your clothes. But also, how is it when you go to the store and you see your favorite sweater again? Is the relationship you have with items changed?   For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

I was that read a book a week person. But two years ago, on my Holliday, I realized that all that knowledge was not helping me to grow. And I see the same pattern in others. This episode is not to say what is right or wrong, but it will give you new insights on another strategy that I see back in the legends of this world. Enjoy.   For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

In this growth cast Daniel uncovers the success formulas and mindset of Mark Jenkins. Jenkins is the main superstars contact when they need to look their very best. Jenkins has been whipping some of the most well known names and multi-platinum artists into peak shape since his former days of serving in the U.S. Navy.   For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

It's November 2021 and as many I caught Covid and instead of just having the regular flu symptoms I end up in the hospital. There I called Wim Hof (also known as the iceman) to help me finetune everything I know about breathwork. I recovered faster than most just with the power of breath.  Science is catching up with the power of breathwork so why wait to have something so simple and at the same so profound in your life.   For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

Pjotr is an experienced parachute jumper. He did hundreds of jumps before only now he would take the jump that would change his life forever. Because now his parachute will not open. The doctors are saying that surviving this fall is a miracle but that walking is out of the question. For Pjotr it isn't a miracle it's just cracking the code. And in the meanwhile, he lives a full family life with love and humor. A growth cast episode that dives deep into the mind and heartset of this modern day inspiration.   For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

We all have anger within us, but the real question is what is behind our anger? Anger can be a strong emotion to generate change, but in most cases, it's a performance blocker. Because it consumes large amounts of energy which has a direct effect on our performance and health. When we are angry we also perceive the world in a certain way. Our focus shifts towards the negatives and that makes us act in a certain way. Listen to the story of Tommy, a wartime refugee, and learn how his anger stopped him from living a legendary life.   For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

Jason "Psycho" Suttie is a Samoan-born New Zealand former heavyweight kickboxer and 6-time Muay Thai World champion fighting out of Elite Thai Kickboxing Gym in Auckland, New Zealand. In this open conversation with Daniel, you get a unique insight into the mindset and habits of the world's best so that you can integrate this mindset and techniques into your everyday life.   For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

“I don't have the energy to enjoy my life. On the outside, I have it all with a good running company, a beautiful partner, a fantastic kid, and all the money I need. Every day I wake up tired and from around noon I drag myself through my days. I want more energy. Could you help me with that?" I stand up from the wooden table and I walk to the kitchen. I open up the drawers, take out a pack of AA batteries, walk back to the table and place them in front of them. This growth cast episode is for everyone that would like to have more energy in life.   For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

In this open conversation, you will get a unique insight into the life of Denise Bailey a San Francisco firefighter with more than 20 years of experience. She shares how she deals with things like trust. Trust in herself, her team, and trust in her equipment. Also, you will learn how she deals with fear and death. And to top it off you get to learn her secret of making the transition from being in a high-pressure situation to a relaxed home situation. In this open conversation with Daniel, you get a unique insight into the mindset and habits of the world's best so that you can integrate this mindset and techniques into your everyday life.   For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

Ryan Dodd is four-time world champion Waterski Jumper, who maintains the highest accomplishments within the sport of Waterskiing. Despite growing up on a farm in Canada, and overcoming a life-threatening head injury, among other setbacks, Ryan has always stayed focused on his Mission. Ryan is currently ranked #1 in the world, the current and 2 time World Champion, and World Record holder with a flight of 254 feet. Ryan was the youngest athlete to fly 230 feet and most notably was awarded Waterski Athlete of the year. In this open conversation with Daniel, you get a unique insight into the mindset and habits of the world's best so that you can integrate this mindset and techniques into your everyday life.    For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken

In this raw and honest episode, Daniel takes you back to the time he got stuck in his personal rat race. How one hour of sleep a night literally broke him and how the people around him thought that a brand new car would solve his problems.    For more information about Daniel visit https://danielkluken.com now. Want to have a legendary performance and a calm mind to win in every area of life? Take the free online personal performance audit here: https://ppa.danielkluken.com. Follow Daniel on Instagram: @danielkluken