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Stand Up for Yourself – to defend or support a particular idea or a person who is being criticized or attacked In this episode, I discuss five reasons to stand up for yourself to defend your ideas, rights, & to gain the respect of others, in this podcast episode. Although in the past, I would usually clap-back hard, my methods were not always as constructive as I would like. These were my young and immature days, where I felt everything was mostly “dog-eat-dog”, ready and willingly taking people out verbally (and sometimes physically) just to make a point. As I matured I learned to stand up for myself in more effective ways, in order to make a difference and to insight change positively. In these 5 great reasons to stand up for yourself, I touch on issues that are far beyond “killing people with kindness”, and learning how not feel regret or guilt after educating people on how you deserve to be dealt with. 5 Great Reasons to Stand Up For Yourself: 1. Build confidence - 2. Shed light on injustice & disrespect – 3. Set an example/ inspire others – 4. Set a precedent/a bar – 5. Teach a lesson to the accused – Show up for yourself! Speak your mind and use your voice. Don't hide behind the avatars and profiles pictures, but come from behind the screen and keyboard to speak up for a group that is being disadvantaged, not just yourself. It's bigger than just ourselves when so many of us are experiencing so many defeats and obstacles that in the past we were afraid to change.

Check out my interview with Dr. Shantell Malachi of Richmond Virginia, Founder & Executive Director, Dress for Success Central Virginia, Chief Executive Officer at SheEmpowers™ International, Author of “Career Couture: The Modern Guide to Redefining Your Career” available on Amazon, 2012 Style Weekly's Top 40 under 40. We chop it up about empowering women to pursue greater entrepreneur ventures and get involved in philanthropy while discussing how to run an organization that caters to helping people and solving common obstacles that women face in professional and personal settings. Dress for Success is a social service DFS provides services to women who are in a disadvantaged situations or facing some unusual obstacles, such as fleeing domestic violence, reentering the workforce, trying to get back on their feet. SheEmpowers, Shantell describes, is taking the work of DFS a step further. Most of the women who are apart of SheEmpowers are professional women who are already started on the path of entrepreneurship, but for some reason are now stuck. The organization caters to women who need an extra push to step their business up to the next level. We touch about the importance of fulfilling a need in your business in order to be successful. Shantell touches on the different aspects of building an organization that caters to the needs of women of diverse backgrounds, and how helping them helps the overall community. The goal is to transform more women into being leaders in their individual businesses and careers, therefore empowering others to follow their example. Dress for Success Central Virginia https://centralvirginia.dressforsuccess.org/ SheEmpowers™ www.sheempowers.org/  

Interview with Creative Start-Up Strategist for Retail/Service based Entrepreneurs, Sonja Merritt- Thompkins of www.Sincerely,Sonja.com. I chat with Sonja Thompkins, who has spent the last 20 years working, owning & operating 4 businesses, including a Day Spa Salon and 3 Brick and Mortar Boutiques, as a licensed Cosmetologist and working as a Self Employed Hairstylist.  In our in-depth discussion, Sonja touches on tips and advice for starting, developing, and growing your retail/service based business on a budget, with little to no capital. She dishes on her experiences starting her businesses, including starting a retail boutique for only $3,000. She also delivers great advice on balancing motherhood and business, overcoming challenges in start-up success, & overcoming the fear of beginning where you are. Follow and connect with Sonja Merritt- Thompkins at www.Sincerely,Sonja.com Follow on Social: Twitter.com/@sincerelysonja Pintrest.com/sincerelysonja Instagram.com/sincerelysonja Full show notes and interview featured on GaptoothDiva.com To be featured, for questions and/or comments, or to chat contact me via social media @GaptoothDiva

7 Things to Stop Feeling Guilty For When it comes to being motivated on the daily, there are a few things that you have to stop feeling guilty about, in order to reach true success. In this podcast, I break down 7 things that you should stop feeling guilty for, to steer you towards a more impactful and purposeful attitude. The definition of Guilty - culpable of or responsible for a specified wrongdoing; justly chargeable with a particular fault or error 1. Being Imperfect Having physical flaws Living life and learning along the way 2. Your desire to be great or your level of ambition Building your career Wanting better out of your personal life and your physical well-being Lifestyle (parenting, marriage, etc.) 3. Being Honest and straight-forward Keeping it 100 at all times 4. Your Past Childhood trauma Past accidents and pain that has impacted you physically or emotionally 5. The behavior and attitude of other people Can't keep apologizing for the faults and actions of others 6. Success Don't limit yourself or self-sabotage because you're afraid to leave others behind Personal growth and improvements 7. Your lack of _________. Money, popularity, material possessions, etc. Quote: “Guilt is cancer. Guilt will confine you, torture you, and destroy you as an artist. It's a black wall. It's a thief.” - Dave Grohl (Singer-songwriter, Producer and former drummer for the grunge band Nirvana)   Questions/Comments? EmailTeamGaptoothDiva@gmail.com GaptoothDiva Official website - http://www.gaptoothdiva.com/  

Jill Vanderwood authored a book, “Shaking behind the Microphone: Overcoming the Fear of Public Speaking” shares her ten point plan on facing the fear of public speaking and learning to get in front of the microphone. She will deliver the information you need to face your fears and get into public speaking. Before becoming an expert, Jill was a proud grandmother and mother. Learning to overcome her fears in her fifties, she decided to go to toastmasters to learn how to prepare to conduct her own workshops and train on overcoming her personal fears of speaking in front of people. She credits toastmasters in getting her prepared, as she says the toastmasters programs forced you to “always be on”. Jill says it's important to practice public speaking, because you may be faced with personal terror and fear causing you to freeze and forget what you want to say in front of your audience. Jill credits Toastmasters training for changing her life and keeping her from depending on her notes, which often fell on the floor causing her to lose her page and her place. She has spoken to rehabs, writers, boys and girls clubs, and many other organizations. She says her desire to transform her abilities. Jill's book “Shaking Behind the Microphone: Overcoming the Fear of Public Speaking”, a book compiled by Jill who interviewed experts, people struggling with fear of public speaking, and those who sought unconventional methods on dealing with this issue. This book is available on Amazon.com, Barnes & Nobles, and via her personal website, http://www.JillVanderwood.com Contact @GaptoothDiva with questions, comments and/or more information on getting featured for future episodes.

Listen as I discuss how I plan to return back to work after a much needed hiatus. Returning back to your passions doesn't have to be difficult, if you can put away the fear of returning. This time when you return, you can have a clear idea as to how you want life to be and how you plan to achieve your goals. Be fearless in knowing that whatever is for you, is for you. No weapon formed against you will prosper. There is no need to live in fear or trepidation, when you are confident in your plan and goals. Thanks for tuning in, check out Gaptoothdiva's Monday Jumpoff every Monday here at http://www.blogtalkradio.com/gaptoothdivaradio  Tweet us @GaptoothDiva after the show. Contact us to submit music or inquire about a featured interview at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com.  

Dr. Capperauld believes that everyone can learn to have the health and healing that they desire. We all want to improve our bodies, our health, and our perspective on healthy eating and maintaining. It's a challenge to get the right advice, tips, and feedback that will lead to a healthier lifestyle and not a thinner wallet. Tonight we will discuss healthy weight loss and how to achieve it. We will dive into healthy habits and the concept of whole foods and the benefits. People need to know that being healthy is something that is available to all.  Good health, including healthy weight loss, is not an elusive “thing” that is only available to a few but a byproduct of learned “healthy habits”. Get more information from Dr. Capperauld at http://www.conceptsforhealth.com/ Call in LIVE with questions and comments at (646) 378 -0442 or on Twitter. Email teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com to be featured in a future episode. Chat with me during the show @GaptoothDiva on Twitter.

Tonight we are talking about that dreadful comfort zone that keeps you stuck in a rut. Doing the things you've always done, and not seeing any new results or improvements? This is the episode for you. We're diving into the causes for sticking to that faithful comfort zone, and how you can finally break free. We dish on some examples of how you may be stuck in a rut and perhaps you don't realize it. Call in with your questions and comments LIVE (646) 378-0042 to chat with GaptoothDiva Tonight's featured artist is Christina Marie Magenta‏, an American industrial rock band based in Northern VA. Christina has been writing music and modeling since she was a young girl.  She went to college in Virginia for business and business law, and at home has studied music and herpetology for many years. Originally she spent years recording an album at a studio in Portland, Oregon; but near the end all files were lost in a flood. She gave up on music for several years until one day she saw her son making music, and decided to start over in a new studio. With powerful motivation, and a new team of musicians, her 1st album Burn was completed in a few short months and was released 2011, followed by Poison in late 2012, Drown in 2015 and 3 remix albums.  Find out more about Christina Marie Magenta at http://www.christinamariemagenta.com/ Email teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com to be featured in a future episode. Chat with me during the show @GaptoothDiva on Twitter.

In this episode of GaptoothDiva Radio, we discuss hot, satisfying, and earth shattering sex with Expert and Author Nikki Ransom- Alfred of “30 Sex Positions & Tips for Getting Wild, Rough, and Kinky”. TUNE IN  as we dive deep into a conversation that is sure to enlighten you (if not motivate you). Nikki says that sex can make everything better and that we have no reason to be ashamed about it. We agree and can't wait for her to dish on the best sexual positions, how wives are “booty suppliers”, and how kinky sex can help in providing better mental health. We are all for being better people. So if sex is the answer, let's discuss it here! Tune in for this penetrating dialogue. Visit Nikki at www.NikkiRansom.com To book Nikki for classes, seminars, or interviews, please contact Booking@NikkiRansom.com Follow the Sex Expert online: Twitter: www.Twitter.com/TheKinkyWife Instagram: www.Instagram.com/TheKinkyWife Also featuring new music by today's hottest independent artists. Tweet us @GaptoothDiva during the show. Contact us to submit music or inquire about artist at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com

In this episode of GaptoothDiva Radio, we're talking with the passionate Octavia Conner, CEO and founder of Smart Accounting Services, LLC about educating and empowering business owners on how to achieve financial abundance in their business. As a Certified Public Bookkeeper, Octavia coaches and consults business owners on how to implement smart money management techniques that consist of financial literacy, proven profit increase strategies and effective business operation systems that enables the owner to enjoy more money, more time and have peace of mind.   It is Octavia's belief that if her clients succeed she will succeed. As a wife, mother of four, sister and business owner she understands the work life balance and she works hard to ensure her clients can enjoy the best of both worlds. We're looking forward to awesome tips and advice for our parents who are entrepreneurs as well. Listen in as we come back with more of the off the cuff entertainment but with real and honest conversation surrounding topics related to you. Using Fashion, Music, Culture, Entertainment, and Lifestyle, I'esha GaptoothDiva holds no punches in an effort to inspire you to be as phenomenal as you were born to be. Featuring new music. Tweet us @GaptoothDiva during the show. Contact us to submit music or inquire about artist at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com

In this episode of GaptoothDiva Radio, we discuss the journey of turning your mess into a message. S many of us have endured struggles and challenges in life, but very few of us use those obstacles as an opportunity to uplift and inspire others. We are on the air with our special guest, LaCretia Lewis, also known as "Forepleasure". A 36-year old Richmond, VA native and a proud mother to three daughters. Having become a single parent at the age of 16, LaCretia holds a special place in her heart for young women that have endured a similar journey. LaCretia's passion is to empower young people, who much like her, have been and are facing daunting challenges. Today's youth grapple with abuse, depression, peer pressure, pregnancy, and sexual issues ranging from harassment to identity, at a much earlier age. Through her organization, BRANDED, LaCretia aspires to provide the "village" and offer young people a safe space, and wise counsel, in addition to tangible tools for success, as they navigate life's rocky terrain. Listen in as we come back with more of the off the cuff entertainment but with real and honest conversation surrounding topics related to you. Using Fashion, Music, Culture, Entertainment, and Lifestyle. Featuring new music and interview with singer Vega Shaw - https://twitter.com/VegaShaw Tweet us @GaptoothDiva during the show. Contact us to submit music or inquire about artist at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com

In this episode of GaptoothDiva Radio, we discuss the serious issue of domestic violence with the home. However, tonight's conversation isn't about between man, woman, lover, spouse, or partner, like many of the conversations we hear about often. Tonight's DV conversation centers on Mother and Daughter. With so many stories surfacing about daughters killing their mothers, mother being arrested for assault, we wanted to allow space for honest dialogue about this issue on our platform. We know firsthand that the mother daughter dynamic can often be challenging and tumultuous at times, unlike the fairy tale friendships that we used to see on television. Tonight we chat about this issue and how we can potentially make a change. Listen in as we come back with more of the off the cuff entertainment but with real and honest conversation surrounding topics related to you. Using Fashion, Music, Culture, Entertainment, and Lifestyle, I'esha GaptoothDiva holds no punches in an effort to inspire you to be as phenomenal as you were born to be. Featuring new music and interview with singer Vega Shaw - https://twitter.com/VegaShaw Tweet us @GaptoothDiva during the show. Contact us to submit music or inquire about artist at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com

In this episode of GaptoothDiva Radio, we talk to former inmate/prisoner, now inspirational gospel hip hop artist, songwriter, and singer Kent Osbourne. Check out more info about him at http://kentosbourne.com No matter what you have done in your life or what you've been through, God can use you. God can use anybody!”  Kent Osbourne's dad passed away when he was just 5 and his mom died when he was 9, leaving young Kent with his Aunt. At age fourteen, he found his Aunt's rules too strict so he ran away. The streets proved to be a greater challenge still and Kent spent the rest of his childhood and young adult life in and out of county lockup until he finally landed a two year prison sentence. For more of his story, Tune in to hear how one man turned his mess into a message. Tweet us @GaptoothDiva during the show. Contact us to submit music or inquire about artist at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com

From the talent showcase titled Motivate, my previous Flawesome Academy workshop, husband, father, and motivational speaker Joseph Fountain has been an incredibly inspiring man about town in Richmond, Virginia. I had the wonderful pleasure of chatting it up with him before the New Year as he talks about being a motivator for those in the community. It wasn't until today, I was able to get my hands on the audio file to post this, but I believe it is just as powerful now as it was a few months back. From his own testimony, he used to work as an engineer. He was laid off before his son was born, and after being rejected by many jobs while trying to get back into the workforce, he felt led by God to use his gifts to work for himself. Joseph discusses not growing up in the most pristine of environments, describing his upbringing as rough. He was torn as a young man to make money and provide for his family. He talks about learning new avenues in life to provide for himself, his wife and children. He believes that God has better for us all, and that God saved him to go down an enriched path to motivate and help others find better ways to live. Fin the rest at my website .... http://www.GaptoothDiva.com for more details about this interview and many more Check out Joseph Fountain on his website: http://www.JosephFountainonline.com He's on also on Facebook.com/josephLfountain and Instagram at @Takeovervisions

In this episode of GaptoothDiva Radio, I'esha GaptoothDiva and the team are returning with some more of the baddest creative motivation. Tune in, as we discuss what you can do to leave a lasting legacy & take your craft to the next level using you gifts. We're talking to nephew of world renowned hip hop icon Rakim, JReadi an artist out of Long Island, New York. In this episode, we will touch on topics such as: Carving out your own lane in an industry that is based on who you know Being consistent and dedicated to your craft Doing what you know best and getting the word out Using your gift to empower and motivate others And we're also featuring new music by JReadi the Young Microphone Fiend “If you ask Rakim what he sees in his nephew he'll respond to you the passion to be the best with the humility in him to put Allah first” Listen in as we come back with more of the off the cuff entertainment but with real and honest conversation surrounding topics related to you. Using Fashion, Music, Culture, Entertainment, and Lifestyle, I'esha GaptoothDiva holds no punches in an effort to inspire you to be as phenomenal as you were born to be. Tweet us @GaptoothDiva during the show to interact with questions and/or comments. Featuring new music by today's independent artist. Contact us to submit music or inquire about artist at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com

In this episode of GaptoothDiva Radio, I'esha GaptoothDiva and the team are returning with some more of the baddest creative motivation. Tune in, as we discuss the passion for art and creativity with Selma actor Clay Chappell and emerging soul artist Deja Chappell. We will touch on how our work, our words, and the way we impact others speaks volumes about our future. In this episode, we will touch on topics such as: Separating your personal life from your art/work Being unapologetically passionate Using your gift to empower and motivate others Featuring new music by Deja Bryson, Soul & rock artist from Richmond, California Listen in as we come back with more of the off the cuff entertainment but with real and honest conversation surrounding topics related to you. Using Fashion, Music, Culture, Entertainment, and Lifestyle, I'esha GaptoothDiva holds no punches in an effort to inspire you to be as phenomenal as you were born to be. Tweet us @GaptoothDiva during the show to interact with questions and/or comments. Featuring new music by today's independent artist. Contact us to submit music or inquire about artist at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com

In this episode of GaptoothDiva Radio, I'esha GaptoothDiva and her team discuss the meaning of staying true to yourself. Being authentic and real is often talked about, but tonight we drop the top reasons why many people are not keeping it real, even with themselves and we'll also deliver some healthy advice/tips on shining light on your authentic qualities. We will also chat with Gabby Ca$hmere, and feature new music from this female emcee/lyricist from Texas. Gabby Cashmere has opened up for major recording artist, Twista, Juicy J, Lil John, Currency, 2 Short & E-40, after winning several local talent shows.This artist is also working on her clothing Line “Ca$hmere Lifestyle”. Check out more info about her: www.gabbycashmere.com Tonight's conversation will touch on… The top reasons you may not be authenticWhy being genuine and authentic is so much easier than pretending to be something/someone you're notWays to tap into your true selfThings to avoid if you don't want to come across fake or pretentious. Listen in as we come back with more of the off the cuff entertainment but with real and honest conversation surrounding topics related to you. Using Fashion, Music, Culture, Entertainment, and Lifestyle, I'esha GaptoothDiva holds no punches in an effort to inspire you to be as phenomenal as you were born to be. Tweet us @GaptoothDiva during the show. Contact us to submit music or inquire about artist at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com

In this episode of #MondayJumpoff, I'esha GaptoothDiva talks about the problem with worrying about what other people think of your failures. How has the failures on life taught you, motivated you, or empowered you? Are you more impacted by the reaction of other people or your ability to overcome obstacles? Do you believe in yourself? Or do you blame everyone around for your lack of success? Listen to this week's episode of GaptoothDiva's Monday Jumpoff to get inspired for the week, giving up on yourself is not an option! Listen in as we come back with more of the off the cuff entertainment but with real and honest conversation surrounding topics related to you. Using Fashion, Music, Culture, Entertainment, and Lifestyle, I'esha GaptoothDiva holds no punches in an effort to inspire you to be as phenomenal as you were born to be. Tweet us @GaptoothDiva during the show to interact with questions and/or comments. Featuring new music by today's independent artist. Contact us to submit music or inquire about artist at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com

In this episode of GaptoothDiva Radio, I'esha GaptoothDiva and the team discuss having faith, developing a relationship with God and believing in yourself again with Anita Faye is an authentic inspirational artist and vocal prodigy. In this episode, we will touch on topics such as: Finding your purpose and living with faith Living a life that includes dedication to personal and professional excellence Using your God given gifts to serve others Anita Faye says, “Even if someone has the smallest amount of faith on earth, I want to inspire and dare people to start believing or to believe again!” Featuring new music by Inspirational Gospel Artist Anita Faye. Listen in as we come back with more of the off the cuff entertainment but with real and honest conversation surrounding topics related to you. Using Fashion, Music, Culture, Entertainment, and Lifestyle, I'esha GaptoothDiva holds no punches in an effort to inspire you to be as phenomenal as you were born to be. Tweet us @GaptoothDiva during the show to interact with questions and/or comments. Featuring new music by today's independent artist. Contact us to submit music or inquire about artist at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com

In this episode of GaptoothDiva Radio, I'esha GaptoothDiva and the team discuss the blessing of being multi-talented with New York singer/songwriter Jay Elle. In this episode, we will touch on topics such as: Coming from a supportive family of entertainers Being Passionate about music and entertainment since childhood Using your gifts to prosper and succeed The message Jay Elle wants her audience to receive and much more Featuring new music by Jay Elle, singer and songwriter. For more information on Jay Elle Music: Twitter and Instagram @JayElleMusic Soundcloud.com/jay-elle-music JayElleMusic.com Listen in as we come back with more of the off the cuff entertainment but with real and honest conversation surrounding topics related to you. Using Fashion, Music, Culture, Entertainment, and Lifestyle, I'esha GaptoothDiva holds no pinches in an effort to inspire you to be as phenomenal as you were born to be. Tweet us @GaptoothDiva during the show to interact with questions and/or comments. Featuring new music by today's independent artist. Contact us to submit music or inquire about artist at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com

In this episode of GaptoothDiva Radio, I'esha GaptoothDiva and the team discuss impacting the public, your community, and those around you with your gifts and talents whether it's positively or in a negative way. Many are chasing fame and popularity, but the seeds we sow with our gifts ultimately reap rewards and/or consequences for ourselves and the people that support us. In this episode, we will touch on topics such as: What is your why? Defining our mission and purpose before going into action Who are you talking to? Tailoring your message for a particular audience Evaluating results and learning from your impact. Understanding that what you do will change your environment Advice and tips on being yourself while helping your community This episode will feature original music by Philadelphia Artist Marz Listen in as we come back with more of the off the cuff entertainment but with real and honest conversation surrounding topics related to you. Using Fashion, Music, Culture, Entertainment, and Lifestyle, I'esha GaptoothDiva holds no pinches in an effort to inspire you to be as phenomenal as you were born to be. Tweet us @GaptoothDiva during the show to interact with questions and/or comments. Featuring new music by today's independent artist. Contact us to submit music or inquire about artist at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com

In this episode of GaptoothDiva Radio, I'esha GaptoothDiva and the team living out your dreams and doing what you're passionate about with independent recording artist & soul singer Garnett Boldin. In this episode, we will touch on topics such as: Developing the confidence to put yourself out there Taking a leap of faith on opportunities Balancing your work and life And the inspiration behind many of Garnet Boldin's music This episode will feature original music by Garnett Boldin, Richmond Virginia soul artist. Listen in as we come back with more of the off the cuff entertainment but with real and honest conversation surrounding topics related to you. Using Fashion, Music, Culture, Entertainment, and Lifestyle, I'esha GaptoothDiva holds no pinches in an effort to inspire you to be as phenomenal as you were born to be. Tweet us @GaptoothDiva during the show to interact with questions and/or comments. Featuring new music by today's independent artist. Contact us to submit music or inquire about artist at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com

In this episode of GaptoothDiva Radio, I'esha GaptoothDiva and the team discuss racism, diversity, and how it affects our community. In the news, there is so much negativity related to race and the oppression of African Americans. What can we do to put a halt to the systematic mistreatment? What roles can we play to counteract the abuse and foul treatment? In this episode, we will touch on topics such as: Internal and External Racism Police Brutality Stereotypes Updates on current events related to racism and the unjust treatment of African Americans And the negative portrayal of African Americans on television and in music This episode will feature Cleo Manago, Socio-political analyst, behavioral health specialist & multi-mediator, specializing in Black behavioral/self-conceptual solutions. Listen in as we come back with more of the off the cuff entertainment but with real and honest conversation surrounding topics related to you. Using Fashion, Music, Culture, Entertainment, and Lifestyle, I'esha GaptoothDiva holds no pinches in an effort to inspire you to be as phenomenal as you were born to be. Tweet us @GaptoothDiva during the show to interact with questions and/or comments. Featuring new music by today's independent artist. Contact us to submit music or inquire about artist at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com

For the first Monday of the 2015 year, I'm talking about doing more and talking about what you intend to do less. Whether itt's your goals, a lifestyle change, or a business plan... let's start working on the steps to make things happens and stop fishing for people to agree with our life decisions. Listen in as we come back with more of the off the cuff entertainment but with real and honest conversation surrounding topics related to you. Using Fashion, Music, Culture, Entertainment, and Lifestyle, I'esha GaptoothDiva holds no punches in an effort to inspire you to be as phenomenal as you were born to be. Tweet us @GaptoothDiva during the show to interact with questions and/or comments. Featuring new music by today's independent artist. Contact us to submit music or inquire about artist at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com

In this episode of GaptoothDiva Radio, I'esha GaptoothDiva discusses her frustration with this season's addiction to stuff. In her frustration she touches on issues like consumerism, keeping up with the Kardashians (Joneses), and what she hopes to get this Christmas (wink). Join our fun conversation about holiday shopping this year that is productive and pain free. In this episode, we will touch on topics such as: Stop pushing Santa Clause KidsBuying gifts to give or giving out of obligation?Gifting within your meansDetermining if someone is deserving or just thereBad Kids and ChristmasThe Reason for the SeasonKeeping the Peace While Keeping Your Coins this Christmas Listen in as we come back with more of the off the cuff entertainment but with real and honest conversation surrounding topics related to you. Using Fashion, Music, Culture, Entertainment, and Lifestyle, I'esha GaptoothDiva holds no punches in an effort to inspire you to be as phenomenal as you were born to be. Tweet us @GaptoothDiva during the show to interact with questions and/or comments. Featuring new music by today's independent artist. Contact us to submit music or inquire about artist at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com

In the Season premiere episode of GaptoothDiva Radio, I'esha GaptoothDiva dishes out some new tips and tricks on trying to make it, pursuing your dream. Using her own experiences from the past year, she will deliver the highs and lows of living in your purpose passionately, while still being human. In this episode, we will touch on topics such as: What up with Your Team? – Check your roster. Do you know the people you have representing your brand/business?Lose ‘Em – It's time to cut ties with weak links and rusty chains. Don't let anyone hold you backShade 101 – How to network despite the shade and maintain graceTaking it with a Grain of Salt – Everything you hear should be consumed. Let people gossip while you get yours.Not for Everyone – Stop “People Pleasing” and do what's in your heart.Learn from Failure – Don't allow setbacks to stop you from setting up a great comebackOnly You – Knowing what you bring to the table is all that mattersBe Passionate or Die! – You either going to do it with all you have inside of you or don't even think about doing it at all. Listen in as we come back with off the cuff entertainment but with real and honest conversation surrounding topics related to you. Using Fashion, Music, Culture, Entertainment, and Lifestyle, I'esha GaptoothDiva holds no punches in an effort to inspire you to be as phenomenal as you were born to be. Featuring new music by today's independent artist. Contact us to submit music or inquire about artist at Teamgaptoothdiva@gmail.com

Your ego could be the reason that your relationships fall apart, why that opportunity hasn't come around for you, or why you aren't succeeding to the best of your ability. Our egos keep us from walking into our purpose because our ego is more worried about what we look like, than who we truly are. In this episode, we discuss how to kill that ego and walk into our purpose. I'esha GaptoothDiva, Author, Media Personality, and Motivational Speaker delivers a candid discussion on ways to improve your life and your mind, regardless of where you are. Using what she calls “Flawesome Life Improving Principles”, she talks about being flawed and imperfect but still deserving the best that life has to offer. Connect with me today... For question and/or comments, submit an email to GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com Follow I'esha GaptoothDiva on Twitter/Instagram @GaptoothDiva Connect with our Facebook family by joining our community at http://www.facebook.com/GaptoothDivaonline Tune in every week for the baddest creative motivation with GaptoothDiva's Monday Jumpoff

Fear is the biggest reason why many people don't pursue their dreams or purpose. In this episode I discuss how to use fear to help you push through the obstacles that you built for yourself. Don't allow fear to get in your way, but use the feelings fear gives you to motivate you to try harder. I'esha GaptoothDiva, Author, Media Personality, and Motivational Speaker delivers a candid discussion on ways to improve your life and your mind, regardless of where you are. Using what she calls “Flawesome Life Improving Principles”, she talks about being flawed and imperfect but still deserving the best that life has to offer. Connect with me today... For question and/or comments, submit an email to GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com Follow I'esha GaptoothDiva on Twitter/Instagram @GaptoothDiva Connect with our Facebook family by joining our community at http://www.facebook.com/GaptoothDivaonline Tune in every week for the baddest creative motivation with GaptoothDiva's Monday Jumpoff

Do you ever wonder why you always encounter a person or group of people that just want to beef with you for the simple fact that you exist? Do you find yourself getting negative energy, criticism, or disrespect from others for just simply doing you? Well, today we will discuss walking in your purpose among those that don't want to see you succeed. It doesn't have to be hard to do what you love and just live a happy life, even if you're constantly facing some form of adversity. But you'll learn today that no matter how much you shine, you can't stop the shade… but you can still be happy and have confidence! Listen in as I, I'esha GaptoothDiva, dish on the real advice and tips on improving your life and walking in your purpose. Through testimonials, our Q & A submissions, and the Baddest Creative Motivation, I share how to go from flawed and average to blessed and FLAWESOME! Check out the official website at http://www.GaptoothDiva.com Follow and tweet me at @GaptoothDiva during and after the show for more inspiration and to connect. To have your independent track featured, email me at GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com *(titled and tagged mp3s only! Please include your name and website/profile, so that I may credit you LIVE)

Have you ever wanted to start a business, get married, try something new or change your life, but didn't have every single thing you needed to get started? Well, today on the Monday Jumpoff, I discuss how to get jump started on your journey from where you are currently. Don't allow finances, fear, and failure keep you from living an awesome life. Know how to truly get started from the bottom and make an impact in your life without worry or fear. Listen in as I, I'esha GaptoothDiva, dish on the real advice and tips on improving your life and walking in your purpose. Through testimonials, our Q & A submissions, and the Baddest Creative Motivation, I share how to go from flawed and average to blessed and FLAWESOME! Check out the official website at http://www.GaptoothDiva.com Follow and tweet me at @GaptoothDiva during and after the show for more inspiration and to connect. To have your independent track featured, email me at GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com *(titled and tagged mp3s only! Please include your name and website/profile, so that I may credit you LIVE)

I get so tired of hearing about amazing people with so much potential, succumbing to peer pressure and the opinions of others. We live in a society so afraid of being teased, clowned, and humiliated in public, that people will stifle their own creativity vs. be judged. In this episode of GaptoothDiva's Monday Jumpoff, we discuss ways to start believing in yourself and stopping the hesitation that comes with worrying about what other people think about you and your decisions. Listen in as I, I'esha GaptoothDiva, dish on the real advice and tips on improving your life and walking in your purpose. Through testimonials, answered questions, and the Baddest Creative Motivation, i share how to go from flawed and average to blessed and FLAWESOME! Check out the official website at http://www.GaptoothDiva.com Follow and tweet me at @GaptoothDiva during and after the show for more inspiration and to connect. To have your independent track featured, email me at GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com *(titled and tagged mp3s only! Please include your name and website/profile, so that I may credit you LIVE)

We have all gone through obstacles and challenges that may have hurt us to the core. Some of us have experienced broken hearts and lost loves. Some of us have past regrets and thoughts pulling us back to how things used to be. However, our desire to hold on to the past and undo what has already been written, is in fact hindering us from the future. Don't allow yourself to be consumed with what you are, where you're at, and other's opinions on where you should be. In this episode of GaptoothDiva's Monday Jumpoff, we discuss getting out of your own way and opening up room for newer and better opportunities. Listen in as I, I'esha GaptoothDiva, dish on the real advice and tips on improving your life and walking in your purpose. Through testimonials, answered questions, and the Baddest Creative Motivation, i share how to go from flawed and average to blessed and FLAWESOME! Check out the official website at http://www.GaptoothDiva.com Follow and tweet me at @GaptoothDiva during and after the show for more inspiration and to connect. To have your independent track featured, email me at GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com *( titled and tagged mp3s only! Please include your name and website/profile, so that I may credit you LIVE)

You assume that people who do “xyz”, should only talk about and do “xyz”. You later discover that there are normal people just like you who sin, make mistakes, and do bad ish. Do you get disappointed? Then you a guilty of putting people on a pedestal. Just because some folks are nice and sweet, it doesn't mean that they don't have an agenda. Just because someone goes to church, doesn't mean that they haven't ever sinned or aren't currently doing something wrong. People are human, just like you. Learn how to stop placing people on a pedestal and start taking things for what they are. You are not inferior to anyone, and just because someone possesses something you admire, doesn't make them better than you. When someone shows you who they really are, believe them. Listen in LIVE for only thirty minutes for my #MondayJumpoff episode as we discuss the truth behind your friendships and relationships and how perhaps social media and the people addicted to it may make it possible for people appear more perfect than reality actually portrays them. Also, check out music from today's talented and inspiring independent artist. To be featured on future episodes (music) or to submit questions for advice, email GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com

You've come so far from where you were. If we all look back to our state of mind, our train of thought, and our beliefs and experiences, we all have grown one way or another. Now of course, some of us have grown much more than others, lol. Never the less, we must celebrate that growth and use our new knowledge and understanding to help propel another person. Whether you lived a hard life, one submersed in struggle and living “without” or you had a tragic experience occur, whatever lessons you've learned from that, it's a lesson coming from that. I discuss how to look at your growth in a positive way and inspire other with what you've been through. Listen in LIVE for only thirty minutes for my #MondayJumpoff episode as we discuss how to take life's tragedy and turn them into triumphs for someone else. Also, check out music from today's talented and inspiring independent artist. To be featured on future episodes (music) or to submit questions for advice, email GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com

It hard when you have so many obstacles in your way and things just seem to be on a pattern of being bad or getting worse. The hardest part about it all, is that many people will expect you to smile through it all as if nothing is wrong. I will touch on how you can still smile through any storm that life throws your way, and how each life lesson through all your trials and tribulations are meant for you to share with someone else and pass that knowledge on. Listen in LIVE for only thirty minutes for my #MondayJumpoff episode as we discuss how to smile through the storm and use the hurt, confusion, and sadness to influence others on how blessed we all actually are. Also, check out music from today's talented and inspiring independent artist. To be featured on future episodes (music) or to submit questions for advice, email GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com

Nowadays, people are always complaining about not having real friends. Not wanting "new" friends, and having to decipher the fake and frauds from everyone else. Cultivating real friendships isn't as hard as it seems. Everything isn't for everyone, and maintaining genuine connections doesn't have to be a daunting task. Listen in LIVE for only thirty minutes for my #MondayJumpoff episode on speaking on making genuine friendships and starting positive relationships with people, turning your life around. Also, check out music from today's talented and inspiring independent artist, Stori of @Storimusic. To be featured on future episodes (music) or to submit questions for advice, email GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com

Have you ever stopped yourself from saying what was on your heart. Have you ever feared calling out the truth because you didn't want to be the only one? Speaking your truth is imperative to living a life you love and can be proud of. If you shut down and fear backlash, criticism, or people getting upset by the mere idea of your opinion, than you are doing things for all the wrong reasons. Listen in LIVE for only thirty minutes for my #MondayJumpoff episode on speaking your mind and letting the truth out despite what many people think. This empowering conversation is meant to motivate you and inspire some great change. Also, check out music from today's talented and inspiring independent artist. To be featured on future episodes (music) or to submit questions for advice, email GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com

How many of us have been embarrassed or disappointed after we received the results on work that we put our all into, relationships we were so excited about, or making a huge mistake in the public eye. We don't always realize the lessons behind such circumstances and get wrapped up in the feeling of social rejection. Well, we are going to discuss overcoming this particular fear and putting everything on the line anyway. Failure isn't something to own, it's a stepping stone to growth and progress. Learn how your failures may just be set ups to something greater. Music from Samantha Reed (Hypnotize Freak) recorded at Charged Up Studios - www.chargedupent.com   To get you music featured, send MP3 to GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com   Take just thirty minutes of your time, listen to this empowering episode of The Baddest Creative Motivation, on You Failed! So What? Getting Up After A Fall. Please forward all questions and/or comments to GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com.

This week I discuss how constantly feeling like you have to out do, out dress, and out shine other people is a severe insecurity. You should've have to compete with anyone else, but what is yours... is already yours. I dive deep into this issue and give you tips on how to avoid revealing your insecurities by constantly competing with those around you. It's time to compete with the one in the mirror. Listen to independent artist B Willin 2 Sacrifice,during the episode. Check him out and suppport at www.BWillN2Sacrifice.org www.facebook.com.BWillN804 Take just thirty minutes of your time, listen to this empowering episode of The Baddest Creative Motivation, on Your Only Competition Is Your Insecurities Please forward all questions and/or comments to GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com.

On this episode of GaptoothDiva's Monday Jumpoff, I'm discussing living with a limited attitude and not being who you are destined to be. Many people are walking around limiting their creativity and their purpose, for fear of judgement and being called out. Judegement and ridicule from others is inevitable, Listen as I discuss how to overcome such a small obstacle in life and grow to be greater than you can imagine. Take just thirty minutes of your time, listen to this empowering episode of The Baddest Creative Motivation, on Drop That Limiting Attitude & Be Yourself! Please forward all questions and/or comments to GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com.

On this episode of GaptoothDiva's Monday Jumpoff, I'm talking about paying more attention to the chaos, drama, and negativity than what you actually aim to do with your life. If you find yourself always distracted by people, what people say and do, and how you feel about certain events and situations rather than your God-given gifts, then this is the episode for you. Take just thirty minutes of your time, listen to this empowering episode of The Baddest Creative Motivation, on You Can't Work When You're Distracted. Please forward all questions and/or comments to GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com. Music by Estee "One Man's Complaint" (www.omega7productions.com) which delivers a message that "One Man's Complaint, is another man's blessing. God did not have to bless you as well as he did!" Amen to that, sister! be sure to follow her and connect with her as well.   If you would like your music featured, submit all MP3 tracks (labeled and edited) to GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com Be sure to follow me on Twitter @GaptoothDiva Be sure to check out GaptoothDiva.com for more!

Today we will talk about winning and being blessed, and how that can sometimes attract more hate than you can expect. However, people who are truly blessed and winning, don't have time to get mad (hate on) or hinder someone else's success. So, sit down and find out if you're a blessing or a burden to the success of others around you. Let's get motivated!   Follow me on Twitter @GaptoothDiva   Official website: http://www.GaptoothDiva.com

In this episode, I discuss finding value in yourself and what you bring to the table. I also talk about my personal struggles and how I'm overcoming them when it comes to self-worth. Check it out it's inspiring!   Today's music track is by Michael Gadiva, "Drummer Man" will be available for free download at www.MichaelGadiva.com   Follow me on Twitter @GaptoothDiva http://www.GaptoothDiva.com

Discussing New Year's resolutions vs. Lifestyle changes. Providing the facts on resolutions and ways to improve your 2013. Music by Stori, Newark New Jersey Artist Contact for more info on artist played today (GaptoothDiva@hotmail.com)

Ladies stand up and show out!! We have a fire line up this week dedicated to empowering and motivating our female demographic. In support of Female MC's, we have two of Richmond's hottest on the air to tell us about their experiences and their music.   May 3rd the mic goes to Ms. Proper, a vicious monster female lyricist who creates music and does business. Founder of her own So Proper Entertainment, she inspires artist and non-artist alike.      LISTEN IN LIVE 9pm EST   CALL with Comments or Questions (646) 378-0442   Feel free to chat or send comments to facebook or twitter - @GaptoothDiva   WE ARE THE BADDEST CREATIVE MOTIVATION!!  

Ladies stand up and show out!! We have a fire line up this week dedicated to empowering and motivating our female demographic. In support of Female MC's, we have two of Richmond's hottest on the air to tell us about their experiences and their music. May 1st the mic goes to Destiny Da Chef, a Richmond native who started out expressing herself through poetry. After skillfully perfecting her craft, she a proven to be not only talented but fierce with lyrics. LISTEN IN LIVE 9pm EST CALL with Comments or Questions (646) 378-0442 Feel free to chat or send comments to facebook or twitter - @GaptoothDiva WE ARE THE BADDEST CREATIVE MOTIVATION!!

Today's artist flaked.... what can we say sh*t happens! One monkey don't stop NO show... We rocking with the Mid-Season Mix LIVE on the air LISTEN IN LIVE CALL OR COMMENT (646) 378-0442 FOLLOW ON FACEBOOK & TWITTER @GaptoothDiva

When we create often times we aren't looking past today. True Artist of all mediums, hope that their work will be appreciated for years to come, studying in classrooms, and loved by many. However very few people take the time to present something to the world that reflects anything positive, motivating, or inspiring to our future generations. We live in a time where the "get money attitude" and the fame/fortune mentality rules over purpose and peace. Whatever genre of music you make, or medium of art you create, we want to talk about purpose, passion, and presentation with Music Producer and professional Amzi Jackson (@UMusicPro) of Untitled Music and Media. Learn what drives and inspired him to create and why working with positive people, serves as a better lane vs. anything else.