The Stay or Go Podcast for Women Considering Divorce

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No more wasting years stuck in indecision. Life Coach Britta Jo shares insights and wisdom from years of coaching women considering divorce. Discussing everything from your fears about how it'll impact your kids to how inevitable affairs become when you're starving for love, it's an authentic and no shame approach to considering divorce. Listen in and leave each episode knowing it's your life and you can live it unapologetic and confident no matter what you choose. 

Britta Jo


    • Jun 3, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    Rooms We've Inherited + Summer of Transformation

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2025 42:42


    Continuing the Conversation: What Mayim Bialik's Breakdown Brought Up With Guest Quinn Otrera

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2025 109:35


    Episode 59: Wow y'all… this one is a wild ride. After the energy of being on Mayim Bialik's Breakdown, Quinn and I just had to circle back. You know those moments when you're like, “Wait! I wasn't done!”—yeah, this episode is all that and more.

    Behind the Scenes: Nerves, Doubt, and a Secret I've Been Dying to Share

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2025 23:05


    Your Body Knows: Discerning and Speaking Your Truth with Carmina Becerra

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2025 94:39


    Feeling Lost While Considering Divorce? Use this Bi-Weekly Ritual to Ground Yourself

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2025 22:15


    Why Letting Go Feels Impossible (Even if You Know It's Right)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2025 42:55


    When the World Feels Unsafe

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2025 35:27


    The Sex Talk You Were Never Supposed to Hear With Quinn Otrera

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2025 101:32


    Put Your Oxygen Mask on First: Why Supporting Yourself Comes Before Others

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2025 71:51


    #51: Buckle up, babe—this episode is a straight-up download from the universe ✨ and I am OBSESSED with what came through. Today, we're diving deep into something so many of us as women struggle with: putting everyone else first…and losing ourselves in the process

    You Can't Logic Your Way Out of a Marriage (And What to Do Instead)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2025 52:33


    Reclaiming Pleasure: A Deep Dive Into Desire & Embodiment with Ranelle Chapman

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2025 67:39


    #49: Ladies, get ready for a deep, juicy, and transformational conversation! This week, I'm bringing on my gorgeous and radiant friend, Ranelle Chapman, a transformational coach and founder of Tantra Maha.

    Lost in the Divorce Decision? Try This Game-Changing Tool for Clarity

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2025 66:06


    Why My Power and Politics Are Inseparable—and Yours Might Be Too

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2025 54:43


    #47: I've been getting messages asking me to “just talk about divorce” and leave politics out of it. But here's the truth: personal power is political.

    The Dream You Inherited vs. The Dream You Create

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2025 53:22


    #46: Ever feel like you're living a life that doesn't actually feel like yours? Like maybe the decisions you've made—your marriage, your career, your whole damn life—were handed to you rather than chosen by you? If so, you're not alone, and this episode is exactly for you.

    “Something Had to Die for More to Be Born” With Guest Allison Alexander

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2025 73:07


    #45: Y'all, this episode is something truly special. I've been hinting at it for a while, and the moment is finally here—I'm joined by the incredible Allison Alexander!

    Divesting Your Energy from Toxic Systems and Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2025 75:36


    #44: Okay, y'all… this episode has been weighing heavy on my heart, and I need to talk about it today.

    Why ‘I Love My Husband' Isn't Enough: Changing Your Reality Without Empty Affirmations

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2025 64:10


    #43: Hey there, lovely listeners!

    Three Life-Changing Concepts for Your Considering Divorce Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2025 58:49


    #42: Oh, y'all, this episode is buzzing with energy because I'm back in my flow!

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    When the Pain Feels Too Big: Navigating Depression and Connection

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2025 86:41


    #41: Hey there, loves. This week's episode is raw, real, and deeply personal

    There Is a Better Way: Reclaiming Women's Desires and Soul Calls in 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2025 50:37


    Welcome to the first episode of 2025, y'all!

    Why Your Timeline Is Perfect: Reframing Divorce Decisions for the New Year

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2024 62:15


    ✨ Hey, beautiful souls! As we stand on the threshold of a brand-new year, this episode is your heartfelt invitation to pause, reflect, and exhale.

    When Staying Feels Wrong: Trusting Your Intuition Over His Efforts

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2024 87:50


    Have you ever wondered, If he's trying so hard now, why don't I feel like staying? You're not alone, my loves. In this fiery and truth-packed episode, I tackle one of the most confusing and emotionally draining dynamics I see in women considering divorce: when your partner suddenly does a complete 180—but your heart and body still say, “No.” ❤️‍

    The Stay or Go Community

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2024 88:12


    The Bold Vision: Expanding the Stay or Go Mission and Impact for 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2024 47:31


    From Closet to Confidence: Stephanie's Journey Considering Divorce and Beyond

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2024 68:04


    Hello, hello, y'all!

    Following the Call of Fear Into Your Brilliance

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2024 55:08


    Hey loves! This week, we're wrapping up a month-long theme in the community that has been absolutely transformational: Dancing with Fear.

    Election Results 2024: A Pause for Grieving and Holding Each Other in the Face of Oppression

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2024 39:50


    Hey everyone, this episode gets personal. After an intense week of emotions, I'm inviting you to join me in exploring the power of pausing. Last week's election stirred up so much anger, grief, and reflection on what it means to live in a patriarchal world. I'm sharing how sometimes, the most radical act is simply to rest, feel, and give ourselves permission to be still.If you've been feeling the weight of it all, know you're not alone. Let's talk about why rest is resistance, and how honoring our grief can be a strength.

    Dancing With Fear: 3 Tips to Help You Get Unstuck and Take the Next Right Step

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2024 70:46


    Kids and Divorce - Part 2: Post-divorce Outcomes (With Quinn Otrera From the Post-divorce Glow-up Show)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2024 124:02


    Hey y'all, in this episode, Quinn and I dive into life after divorce and all the changes that come with it.

    Kids & Divorce - Part 1: Disadvantages and Benefits (With Quinn Otrera from The Post-Divorce Glow-up Show)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2024 114:11


    In this episode, I'm joined by my bestie and coach, Quinn Otrera from the "Post-Divorce Glow-Up Show" podcast, to tackle a question so many of you ask: Will divorce ruin my kids' lives?

    How Your Journey Through Considering Divorce Teaches Resilience for Every Chapter Ahead

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2024 101:17


    Hey everyone! After a whirlwind week, I felt the need to drop this episode because the energy right now is wild. If you're feeling unexpected shifts in your life or relationship, especially if you're considering divorce, know you're not alone.

    Releasing the Fear of Making a Wrong Decision

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2024 69:29


    Trusting the Timing of Your Journey in Divorce Decisions

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2024 59:02


    Hey, loves! This week, we're diving into the power of trusting the timing of your life—whether you're navigating big decisions like staying or leaving your marriage or handling unexpected twists. I'll share personal stories, like how I knew I was getting divorced a year before filing and how that extra time was a blessing. We'll talk about letting go of guilt, the fear of missing out, and why slowing down can actually help you make clearer decisions. Plus, I'll tell you about a canceled brunch that led to a magical evening, reminding us that we can't miss what's meant for us. Take a deep breath. You're exactly where you need to be. Let's lean into trust together. ✨Work with MeInstagram Facebook

    My Life Post-Divorce: Better Than I Ever Imagined

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2024 103:13


    Hey there, beautiful souls!

    Embracing Anger as a Catalyst for Change (With Quinn Otrera from the Post-Divorce Glow-Up Show)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2024 81:44


    Feel First, Decide Later: Emotions as the Key to Divorce Clarity - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2024 19:00


    Hey loves, in this episode, we're diving deep into the sacred art of *being* with our bodies. If you've been feeling overwhelmed or disconnected, this guided journey will help you ground down, tune in, and just breathe through whatever is coming up for you.Together, we'll explore how to drop out of our busy minds and gently reconnect with our bodies. You might notice tingling, tightness, or even some big emotions rising up. Whatever shows up, it's all okay—your body knows exactly how to process it. We're just here to witness, breathe, and allow.By the end of this session, you'll feel a little lighter, a bit more open, and hopefully, a lot more connected to yourself. So, find a comfy spot, close your eyes, and let's sink into this beautiful practice together.

    Feel First, Decide Later: Emotions as the Key to Divorce Clarity - Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2024 35:52


    Hey loves, it's been a minute since I last recorded, and today's episode is all about getting real and raw. I'm diving deep into the messy, uncertain parts of my own journey—especially around what it means to live a good life, and how to handle all the emotions that come with it. If you're considering divorce, you're really going to connect with this one.I'll share some personal struggles, including a recent, challenging moment with my teenage son that left me questioning everything about parenting. I'll also talk about the surprising emotional work that comes up even in the healthiest relationships and how that's been shaking up my world.But here's the heart of today's episode: feeling your feelings. I've seen how powerful it can be to stop running from emotions and instead, sit with them in your body. I'll guide you through a meditation technique that I use with my clients to help process those intense emotions and reclaim your inner power.I'm also reflecting on the importance of community and how healing together can be so much more powerful than going it alone. We all need a village, and I'm excited to keep building that with you.So join me as we navigate this wild journey together, with all its messiness, beauty, and growth. And don't miss the separate meditation episode that I've created for you to use whenever you need it.

    A Love Letter to My Pre-Divorce Self

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2024 55:45


    Dating After Divorce (With Quinn Otrera from the Post-Divorce Glow-Up Show)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2024 97:19


    Hey beautiful souls!

    Affairs Part 2: Five Mistakes Husbands Make When They Find Out & What Women Really Want in Relationship (hint, you'll find it in the ACOTAR series)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2024 70:12


    Affairs Part 1: The Pros and Cons

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2024 79:54


    Leaving With Love and Becoming a Post-Divorce Glow-Up Coach With Quinn Otrera (Guest Interview)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2024 97:02


    #19: Hey beautiful souls!

    A Call to Retrieve Your Soulskin & Return to Yourself

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2024 75:31


    The Importance of Inner Work Before Divorce

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2024 25:53


    Hello, my lovelies!

    How to Know the Difference Between True Love and “Love” That Is a Mask for Control and Manipulation.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2024 50:09


    Considering Divorce is Messy, And That's OK

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2024 44:42


    In this episode, I explore the inherently messy nature of human life and how this concept applies to the difficult decision of divorce. I shares insights from my personal life and professional experience as a coach to destigmatize the complexities and messiness associated with considering divorce. I discuss the importance of accepting the multifaceted aspects of our personalities and desires, the value of self-awareness and embracing our shadows, and the transformative potential of acknowledging and exploring the parts of ourselves we might prefer to keep hidden. Through personal anecdotes and professional observations, I encourage you to allow yourselves to be messy and to see this not as a problem but as a vital part of the journey towards self-discovery and authentic living.Work with MeInstagram Facebook

    The Hidden Costs of Staying Married When You Want to Get Divorced

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2024 44:44


    #14: In this episode, I delve into the hidden costs of staying in a marriage that no longer serves you.  While fearing divorce is natural, staying put comes with its own negatives often overlooked.

    There Are Certain People You Can Heal With; Sometimes Your Spouse Isn't One of Them.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2024 71:21


    Attachment Theory & It's Hidden Impacts on Your Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2024 60:36


    Unmanaged Complex PTSD: How It Affects Your Life & Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2024 52:21


    #11: Hey beautiful souls,✨In this episode, we delve into Unmanaged Complex PTSD and exploring emotional flashbacks and toxic shame. Drawing insights from "Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving" by Pete Walker, we uncover their impact on our journey.It's not about blame but recognizing the past trauma's impact, offering a path to healing and self-love. I'll share raw truths about surrendering the salvation fantasy, redefining love, and fostering resilience within.Join us for an insightful dive into managing emotional landscapes. Take a deep breath and remember, you're not alone on this journey.Show Notes and LinksWork with MeInstagram Facebook

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