Podcasts about board certified sexologist

EPISODE 264: Interview with Dr. Tammy Nelson. Tammy Nelson, PhD is a sex and relationship expert, an international speaker, an author and a licensed psychotherapist with almost thirty years of experience working with individuals and couples. In private practice she focuses on helping people of all ages, orientations and genders find love, healing and passion. Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. is the Director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute and has been a licensed sex and relationship therapist in practice for over thirty years. She teaches at several Universities, is a TEDx speaker and is the host of the podcast The Trouble with Sex. She is a Board Certified Sexologist, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Licensed Professional Counselor, a Certified Imago Relationship therapist, and a Licensed Alcohol and Drug Abuse Counselor. She is the author of When You're The One Who Cheats, Ten Things You Need to Know, The New Monogamy; Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity and Getting the Sex You Want; Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together as well as What's Eating You: A Workbook for Teens with Anorexia, Bulimia, and other Eating Disorders and her most recent project Integrative Sex & Couples Therapy. If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

In this revealing episode, Dr. Tammy Nelson and Gabe Howard delve into the myths and realities of monogamy, infidelity, and open relationships. Discover surprising insights from Ashley Madison data and Dr. Nelson's extensive research, revealing that women, not men, are often the gatekeepers of monogamy. Explore the dynamics of emotional and physical connections outside traditional boundaries, and learn how couples can navigate discussions about open relationships without damaging trust. Whether you're curious about alternative lifestyles or seeking to understand the evolving landscape of modern relationships, this episode promises to challenge your perceptions and spark thoughtful conversations. Listen now! “I don't know if it's about not being under someone's thumb. I mean, women have always had affairs, even in cultures where you can be beheaded and stoned to death in the street, women still cheat as often as they ever have. So I mean, that's an interesting statistic. Like, why are we looking for alternative relationships even when it could kill us? You know, it's hard to get really good statistics on how often people cheat because cheating is based on dishonesty, right? And so people lie to the researchers. So we don't really know.” ~Tammy Nelson, PhD To learn more -- or read the transcript -- please visit the official episode page. Our guest, Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a Board Certified Sexologist, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Licensed Professional Counselor, a Certified Imago Relationship therapist, and a Licensed Alcohol and Drug Abuse Counselor with over 30 years of experience working with couples and individuals and flexible monogamy relationships. She is a TEDx speaker and hosts “The Trouble With Sex” podcast. She speaks worldwide and consults with institutes, think tanks, and corporations on communication, integrity, and relationships. At this time of great global stress, Dr. Nelson helps people cope with working from home, disruption across all industries, and social distancing. Our host, Gabe Howard, is an award-winning writer and speaker who lives with bipolar disorder. He is the author of the popular book, "Mental Illness is an Asshole and other Observations," available from Amazon; signed copies are also available directly from the author. Gabe makes his home in the suburbs of Columbus, Ohio. He lives with his supportive wife, Kendall, and a Miniature Schnauzer dog that he never wanted, but now can't imagine life without. To book Gabe for your next event or learn more about him, please visit gabehoward.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Amanda is a Somatic Energy Healer who helps introverts enjoy sensual confidence. As a Tantra Yogini, who is also a Board Certified Sexologist, she guides individuals and couples through a sensual-spiritual awakening in ways most meaningful to them. After 19 years of bodywork experience, Amanda believes sexual confidence begins with awareness of your own intuition and unconscious belief systems. She has developed proven programs that she delivers remotely to clients all over the world, allowing them to experience personal transformation in the privacy of their homes. www.amandametta.com www.instagram.com/kiahealing www.youtube.com/@sacralchakrawell www.facebook.com/kiahealing --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/nika-cherrelle/support

In this episode of Crime Over Cocktails, I talk with my Guest Hannah. At the age of 16 like most teens Hannah needed some spending money. She found that getting into the sex industry was a way to make a quick buck, but after 8 years of exploring all the different avenues she found her way back to the woman she always wanted to be. she found her self-worth. Hannah now is a board-certified sexologist and relationship / life coach. She specializes in Somatic attachment therapy and authentic tantra. If you ever wondered what a session with a sexologist looks like, then let's talk about sex baby!! https://www.instagram.com/hannahspankehttps://twitter.com/HannahSpankeSupport the showhttps://www.crimeovercocktails.comhttp://www.instagram.com/crimeovercocktailshttp://calendly.com/crimeovercocktails https://podmatch.com/signup/crimeovercocktailshttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu1f3cHWYhG4vWEwRcmkTmg

* Replay from S2 * Dr. Tammy Nelson is a sex and relationship expert, and author of many books on sex including Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together. She's a psychotherapist, Director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute, university teacher, TEDx speaker and is the host of the podcast The Trouble with Sex. Tammy is also a Board Certified Sexologist, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Licensed Professional Counselor, a Certified Imago Relationship therapist, and a Licensed Alcohol and Drug Abuse Counselor. Today on The Soul of Life I speak with Dr. Nelson about what it takes to have a vibrant sex life with a monogamous partner and how cheating during COVID has taken on new proportions. We talk about the mindset that's required to prevent or recover from infidelity and why it can be an opportunity. We discuss several myths about infidelity, sex, and eroticism: "Women actually do cheat for sex. Men tend to cheat for emotional reasons." - Do all affairs happen because of sexual problems? - Does communication and empathy have the power to fix sexual frustration? - Why does emotional closeness sometimes seem to kill erotic passion? - And perhaps the million dollar question: Why does Oprah call it her "vajayjay?" Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SoulOfLifeShow​ or Twitter: https://twitter.com/SoulofLifeShow​ Want to book Keith as a guest on your podcast? Contact him at keith@souloflifeshow.com.

Hot power couple Ahmir and Basirah of Both Sides of the Bed podcast join us to talk all about how they discovered their sexually adventurous sides and how you can, too. We discuss everything from how to tap into your kinky side, what it means to be a dom or sub, non-monogamy, man squirt, and so much more! About our guests: Ahmir and Basirah are lovers, creatives, and all-around "Freaky" people who love just about everything having to do with sex, love, connection & kink. Ahmir is a sex enthusiast who loves to talk about his sexual experiences and passion for sex and has the desire to shift how people view sex, pleasure and relationships as a whole.  Basirah is a Board Certified Sexologist and Relationship Coach with the desire to provide people with the tools and language needed to receive deep connection, strong intimacy and better sex. Their Podcast “Both Sides of the Bed” is all about getting both the masculine and feminine perspectives of all things sex, love and relationships and how to make them stronger. To learn more visit bothsidesofthebed.tv Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Dr. Stephen de Wit is a Board Certified Sexologist through the American College of Sexologists. He holds a Masters of Public Health in Human Sexuality and a Doctorate of Human Sexuality. Stephen travels internationally speaking about sexual empowerment and will show you how to inject more freedom and fun into your sex life so you can enjoy more pleasure, connection, and excitement.    Nikki, Lexi and Stephen are talking about the unfiltered truth of sexuality. We chat about embracing your sexual desires, ensuring your partner is on the same page, and how to start your journey to a better sex life. Buckle up ‘cause the ride is going to get fun!   What We're Chatting About: Tell us about your day to day as a Board Certified Sexologist. What made you get into this field? Why are you so passionate? How can women feel empowered sexually? Is it ever “too late” to transform your sex life? How do you start? How do we build a foundation for a great sex life? How do you think society views sex positive women? What sex advice do you have for all women listening? Show Notes:  Here is the sex menu we discuss! For more of Dr. Stephen de Wit, please visit instagram.com/drdewit on Instagram sexlifeunleashed.com on the Web   For more of We Go There Podcast, please visit instagram.com/wegotherepodcast on Instagram wegotherepodcast.com on the Web *Warning- this podcast is completely unfiltered. If you are around young children, we suggest headphones.*

In this week's episode, Erica and Lauren interview Dr. Stephen de Wit, Sexologist, Speaker, and Coach about how to live a sexually empowered life. Dr. Stephen de Wit is a Board Certified Sexologist through the American College of Sexologists. He holds a Master of Public Health in Human Sexuality and a Doctorate of Human Sexuality. Stephen gets vulnerable right from the start sharing his personal story of sexual empowerment and through story telling helps Erica and Lauren get vulnerable too. He is committed to helping people live a sexually empowered life free from guilt, shame and fear and have relationships that work. You might want to take notes from this one!Check out the resources Stephen shared in the episode:The Sexual Freedom System: Winning the Inner Game of Sex by Dr. Stephen de WitThe Sex Menu Free Masterclass Sexual Self-Awareness: The first step in creating an incredible sex lifeTake a screenshot on your phone while you're listening to this episode on your fav podcast platform then share it to your IG stories and tag us @theresahackforthat ! Share a takeaway or what you loved about the conversation or our guest.Connect with Stephen:Instagram: @drdewitPodcast: Sex Life UnleashedWebsite https://claritycollective-llc.com/ Connect with EricaInstagram @ericaalisonwellnessBook a Human Design Reading https://ericaalisonwellness.mykajabi.com/offers/MxY8ebkgFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/burnoutandbrainfogrecovery Connect with Lauren:Instagram: @laurengerminarioBusiness @integrativedivorceFollow the podcast Instagram @theresahackforthatWebsite: https://www.theresahackforthatpodcast.com/ 

Why is monogamy so hard for so many long-term partnerships? What are the “new models” for monogamy, and how can both monogamous and non-monogamous partner/s work together to recreate the relationship as a means for better sex and connection?  For Dr. Nelson's free 40 Questions to Start Your New Monogamy Agreement, check out our blog at shamelesssex.com or click here About our guest: Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a licensed psychotherapist, Board Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and Certified Imago Relationship Therapist. She is a TEDx speaker and the host of The Trouble with Sex podcast. Her books include Getting the Sex You Want,  The New Monogamy, and her latest Open Monogamy. She is executive director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute and has been a featured expert in NY Times, Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, Glamour Magazine, Cosmopolitan, RedBook, MSNBC, Men's Health, Woman's Day, and has been a source for Time Magazine.  Dr. Nelson draws on her 30 years of experience as a relationship and sex therapist to provide advice and tools for finding one's place on the “monogamy continuum,” having honest and respectful communication, making relationship agreements, and more. To learn more or buy her book go to drtammynelson.com   Want to join our free online Shameless Sex community on Discord (and maybe even connect with Amy and April on there from time to time? Go here: https://discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg We have a Never Have I Ever__! event coming up May 24th 530-630pm PST. Not only will Amy and April be there, but we are also giving away free passes to Amy's online Orgasm 101 class. Other links: Get affordable online therapy now from the privacy of your own home + 10% off your first month when you go to betterhelp.com/shamelesssex Avoid the takeout temptation with ease (and yummy food that is good for you) + $40 your first shipment when you go to dailyharvest.com/shamelesssex Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is open monogamy? What are some ways couples are adjusting their monogamy? What can a relationship do when one partner wants to be more open than the other? Find out in this week's episode of The Learn to Love Podcast, where your host Zach Beach interviews the psychotherapist, sexologist, and author Dr. Tammy Nelson on Open Monogamy. For more on this episode click here: https://www.the-heart-center.com/ep-85-open-monogamy-with-dr-tammy-nelson/ Learn more about your guest below: Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a licensed psychotherapist, Board Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and Certified Imago Relationship Therapist. She is a TEDx speaker and the host of The Trouble with Sex podcast. Her books include Getting the Sex You Want and The New Monogamy. She is the executive director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute and has been a featured expert in the New York Times Magazine and the Washington Post, on CNN, and more. Learn more at - https://drtammynelson.com/ - https://www.facebook.com/DrTammyNelson/ - https://twitter.com/drtammynelson - https://www.linkedin.com/in/drtammynelson/ Learn more about your host and the show at: www.zachbeach.com www.the-heart-center.com Support The Show: If you like the show there are many ways you can support it, such as, - Buy a book from our blossoming professional network: http://www.the-heart-center.com/books/ - Register for Relationship Mastery, a 6-week self-guided course to take your relationship to the next level. https://www.the-heart-center.com/relationship-mastery-landing-page/ - Check out one of our sponsors, Listenable and use the discount code “zachbeach” for the first seven days on the platform for free. There you can find Zach's How To Be a Better Partner Course: https://frstre.com/go/?a=76205-87a7d9&s=1256514-e13191&p_affiliate.referral_code=zachbeach - Purchase The Seven Lessons of Love: Heart Wisdom for Troubling Times on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/Lessons-Love-Heart-Wisdom-Troubling/dp/1983940704/ - Purchase a love shirt and show the world your love of love https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-heart-center/ - Review, Like, and Subscribe to the show on iTunes. - Like us on Facebook facebook.com/learntolovenow - Join the Facebook Community Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1428012130828678/

In this episode, Dr. Aleida Heinz discusses how divorce can be an opportunity to examine how emotional connection has an impact on the sexual experience in relationships.  Dr. Heinz shares her own experience with her divorce and describes how she took the time to grieve the loss and do the work on herself so she could show up in a healthier way in her 2nd marriage, which ultimately led to a more satisfying sex life. She helps you do the same in this episode as well as in her book "Make Love 365 Times a Year: 7 Sex Secrets for a Passionate Love Life". Dr. Heinz holds a Ph.D. in Human Sexuality, Master's degree in Sexology and Couple Clinical Counseling, and a BS in Family Science & Psychology. Board Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex Counselor by The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT), and member of the World Association for Sexual Health (WAS). She has over 20 years of experience with individuals and couples. Private Practice in Charlotte NC and online. Author of "Make Love 365 Times a Year: 7 Sex Secrets for a Passionate Love Life".She has been married twice. Happily divorced in 2000 after 12 years of marriage with 3 children, at age 34. This was followed by 10 years of happy single life. She married second time in 2010 in the USA to someone she had a crush on at age 12 Now happily married for 11 years at age 56, and still making love 365 times a year... Dr Heinz has a boy 29 years old living in Germany, a boy 27 years old living in the USA, and a girl 25 years old living in Spain. And, a 1 year old dog...her new baby! Find out more about Dr. Heinz here: Dr. Aleida Heiz

Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a licensed psychotherapist, Board Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist. She is a TEDx speaker and the host of The Trouble with Sex podcast. Her six books include Getting the Sex You Want, The New Monogamy, and her latest work, Open Monogamy.    In this podcast, Dr. Nelson joins host Tami Simon for an informative and inspiring conversation about the emerging new definition of monogamy as people look beyond traditional marriage to find long-term happiness and fulfillment. Tami and Dr. Nelson also discuss the monogamy continuum—and how to talk about it with your partner; Dr. Nelson's view that all consensual agreements between consenting adults should be normalized; "second adolescence" and opening relationships for the wrong reasons; engaging in "what if" conversations; why there's never a coincidence in the partners that you choose; the pandemic's impact on our sex lives and intimate relationships; monogamy and non-monogamy throughout the developmental phases of relationships; fear, trust, safety, and risk-taking; eroticism and self-awareness; the new terminology of open monogamy; and much more.

Tammy Nelson, the author of the book When You're The One Who Cheats, joins me to talk about cheating and infidelity from the point of the cheater. She offers her interesting insight on why people cheat, what it's like to be cheated on, and the recovery process. Is it Infidelity? Tammy defines infidelity as forming a relationship outside of your primary partnership; a relationship with a sexual context such as flirting online or paying a sex worker, in which you are dishonest about these relationships with your primary partner. The pandemic has caused an increase in online infidelity. People cheat for various reasons, but Tammy says that defining what infidelity means to you can help to start a conversation with your partner and can establish an agreement of implicit monogamy. Kinds of Infidelity While some people cheat to break up, for others, it's a wake-up call to turn something around in their relationship. In Tammy's words, “People rarely look for someone to cheat with, they look for someone to be.” Only 7% of affairs end up in marriage with the other person, while most affairs don't last longer than a year. People who choose to make it work after the affair should acknowledge their changed relationship and incorporate their needs and desires into the new relationship to avoid another affair or any resentment. Recovering from Infidelity Before sharing anything with family or friends, it's best to deal with the trauma in the conflict/crisis phase. The partners should process everything, from how it happened to how they've changed, in the insight phase. In the vision phase, the partners make decisions about moving forward. The goal of recovery is not to forgive, but to work on building a new sex life that is fulfilling. She points out red flags that people need to look out for before deciding to move forward. Should You Tell Your Partner? A partner who confesses to an affair after it's over to feel good about themselves, knowing it could devastate their partner, is selfish. Many feel that they would want to know if their partner ever cheats, Tammy suggests, considering the extent of information you would want to know. How to Avoid Cheating Tammy believes people also cheat because they have experienced developmental challenges of a second adolescence and seek to evolve their personalities. They rebel against their partners as they did with their parents. To avoid cheating, partners can work through this stage together to reinvent themselves and have fun. She also advises seeking therapy and outside support to grieve the end of the relationship instead of using your partner for it. Advice Tammy advises us to differentiate between intuition and fear because intuition allows us to trust and move forward. Biography Tammy Nelson Ph.D. is a Board Certified Sexologist, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Certified Imago relationship therapist, a Licensed Professional Counselor, and Executive Director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute as well as Director of the Ph.D. program in Counseling and Sex Therapy at Daybreak University in Southern California. She is the author of several books including Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy, When You're the One Who Cheats, The New Monogamy, Getting the Sex You Want, and What's Eating You? Her latest book Open Monogamy will be released in November 2021 with Sounds True Publishing. Her work has been featured in the Wall Street Journal, NY Times Magazine, CNN, Rolling Stone, and Time Magazine. She is a TEDx speaker and host of the podcast The Trouble with Sex. She is in private practice in Los Angeles CA. Resources and Links: Website: https://drtammynelson.com Podcast: https://www.thetroublewithsex.com/podcast Book – When You're The One Who Cheats: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999481003/ Email Tammy and get your free E-book! https://drtammynelson.com/contact/ More info Sex Health Quiz – https://www.sexhealthquiz.com The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com Access the Free webinar: How to want sex again without it feeling like a chore: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass Better Sex with Jessa Zimmerman https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/ Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/182-when-youre-the-one-who-cheated-tammy-nelsonMore info and resources: How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com Access the Free webinar: How to make sex easy and fun for both of you: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast

Tammy Nelson, the author of the book When You're The One Who Cheats, joins me to talk about cheating and infidelity from the point of the cheater. She offers her interesting insight on why people cheat, what it's like to be cheated on, and the recovery process. Is it Infidelity? Tammy defines infidelity as forming a relationship outside of your primary partnership; a relationship with a sexual context such as flirting online or paying a sex worker, in which you are dishonest about these relationships with your primary partner. The pandemic has caused an increase in online infidelity. People cheat for various reasons, but Tammy says that defining what infidelity means to you can help to start a conversation with your partner and can establish an agreement of implicit monogamy. Kinds of Infidelity While some people cheat to break up, for others, it's a wake-up call to turn something around in their relationship. In Tammy's words, “People rarely look for someone to cheat with, they look for someone to be.” Only 7% of affairs end up in marriage with the other person, while most affairs don't last longer than a year. People who choose to make it work after the affair should acknowledge their changed relationship and incorporate their needs and desires into the new relationship to avoid another affair or any resentment. Recovering from InfidelityBefore sharing anything with family or friends, it's best to deal with the trauma in the conflict/crisis phase. The partners should process everything, from how it happened to how they've changed, in the insight phase. In the vision phase, the partners make decisions about moving forward. The goal of recovery is not to forgive, but to work on building a new sex life that is fulfilling. She points out red flags that people need to look out for before deciding to move forward. Should You Tell Your Partner? A partner who confesses to an affair after it's over to feel good about themselves, knowing it could devastate their partner, is selfish. Many feel that they would want to know if their partner ever cheats, Tammy suggests, considering the extent of information you would want to know. How to Avoid Cheating Tammy believes people also cheat because they have experienced developmental challenges of a second adolescence and seek to evolve their personalities. They rebel against their partners as they did with their parents. To avoid cheating, partners can work through this stage together to reinvent themselves and have fun. She also advises seeking therapy and outside support to grieve the end of the relationship instead of using your partner for it. Advice Tammy advises us to differentiate between intuition and fear because intuition allows us to trust and move forward. Biography Tammy Nelson Ph.D. is a Board Certified Sexologist, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Certified Imago relationship therapist, a Licensed Professional Counselor, and Executive Director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute as well as Director of the Ph.D. program in Counseling and Sex Therapy at Daybreak University in Southern California. She is the author of several books including Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy, When You're the One Who Cheats, The New Monogamy, Getting the Sex You Want, and What's Eating You? Her latest book Open Monogamy will be released in November 2021 with Sounds True Publishing. Her work has been featured in the Wall Street Journal, NY Times Magazine, CNN, Rolling Stone, and Time Magazine. She is a TEDx speaker and host of the podcast The Trouble with Sex. She is in private practice in Los Angeles CA. Resources and Links: Website: https://drtammynelson.com Podcast: https://www.thetroublewithsex.com/podcast Book – When You're The One Who Cheats: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999481003/Email Tammy and get your free E-book! https://drtammynelson.com/contact/ More info Sex Health Quiz – https://www.sexhealthquiz.comThe Course – https://www.intimacywithease.comThe Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.comPodcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.comAccess the Free webinar: How to want sex again without it feeling like a chore: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclassBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/182-when-youre-the-one-who-cheated-tammy-nelson

Tammy Nelson, the author of the book When You're The One Who Cheats, joins me to talk about cheating and infidelity from the point of the cheater. She offers her interesting insight on why people cheat, what it's like to be cheated on, and the recovery process. Is it Infidelity? Tammy defines infidelity as forming a relationship outside of your primary partnership; a relationship with a sexual context such as flirting online or paying a sex worker, in which you are dishonest about these relationships with your primary partner. The pandemic has caused an increase in online infidelity. People cheat for various reasons, but Tammy says that defining what infidelity means to you can help to start a conversation with your partner and can establish an agreement of implicit monogamy. Kinds of Infidelity While some people cheat to break up, for others, it's a wake-up call to turn something around in their relationship. In Tammy's words, “People rarely look for someone to cheat with, they look for someone to be.” Only 7% of affairs end up in marriage with the other person, while most affairs don't last longer than a year. People who choose to make it work after the affair should acknowledge their changed relationship and incorporate their needs and desires into the new relationship to avoid another affair or any resentment. Recovering from InfidelityBefore sharing anything with family or friends, it's best to deal with the trauma in the conflict/crisis phase. The partners should process everything, from how it happened to how they've changed, in the insight phase. In the vision phase, the partners make decisions about moving forward. The goal of recovery is not to forgive, but to work on building a new sex life that is fulfilling. She points out red flags that people need to look out for before deciding to move forward. Should You Tell Your Partner? A partner who confesses to an affair after it's over to feel good about themselves, knowing it could devastate their partner, is selfish. Many feel that they would want to know if their partner ever cheats, Tammy suggests, considering the extent of information you would want to know. How to Avoid Cheating Tammy believes people also cheat because they have experienced developmental challenges of a second adolescence and seek to evolve their personalities. They rebel against their partners as they did with their parents. To avoid cheating, partners can work through this stage together to reinvent themselves and have fun. She also advises seeking therapy and outside support to grieve the end of the relationship instead of using your partner for it. Advice Tammy advises us to differentiate between intuition and fear because intuition allows us to trust and move forward. Biography Tammy Nelson Ph.D. is a Board Certified Sexologist, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Certified Imago relationship therapist, a Licensed Professional Counselor, and Executive Director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute as well as Director of the Ph.D. program in Counseling and Sex Therapy at Daybreak University in Southern California. She is the author of several books including Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy, When You're the One Who Cheats, The New Monogamy, Getting the Sex You Want, and What's Eating You? Her latest book Open Monogamy will be released in November 2021 with Sounds True Publishing. Her work has been featured in the Wall Street Journal, NY Times Magazine, CNN, Rolling Stone, and Time Magazine. She is a TEDx speaker and host of the podcast The Trouble with Sex. She is in private practice in Los Angeles CA. Resources and Links: Website: https://drtammynelson.com Podcast: https://www.thetroublewithsex.com/podcast Book – When You're The One Who Cheats: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999481003/Email Tammy and get your free E-book! https://drtammynelson.com/contact/ More info Sex Health Quiz – https://www.sexhealthquiz.comThe Course – https://www.intimacywithease.comThe Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.comPodcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.comAccess the Free webinar: How to want sex again without it feeling like a chore: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclassBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/182-when-youre-the-one-who-cheated-tammy-nelson

The series kicks off as Andy opens up to sex and relationship therapist Dr. Tammy Nelson about his dysfunctional relationships, sex addiction and search for love. Their conversation takes a turn when Andy reveals a dark and twisted secret about his relationship with one of his longtime lovers. Our Guest Tammy Nelson, PhD is a sex and relationship expert, an international speaker, an author and a licensed psychotherapist with thirty years of experience working with individuals and couples.  In private practice she focuses on helping people of all ages, orientations and genders find love, healing and passion. Dr. Tammy is a Board Certified Sexologist, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Licensed Professional Counselor, a Certified Imago Relationship therapist, and a Licensed Alcohol and Drug Abuse Counselor.  Her latest book, When You're the One Who Cheats, was published in February, 2019. Her new book, Open Monogamy, will be out in December 2021. She is the author of The New Monogamy; Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity and Getting the Sex You Want; Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together  as well as What's Eating You: A Workbook for Teens with Anorexia, Bulimia, and other Eating Disorders.  Tammy eBooks series include: Six Weeks to Erotic Recovery, as well as chapters and articles on topics ranging from sexuality, desire, affair recovery, monogamy issues, open marriage, online infidelity, intentional divorce, passionate relationships and everything related to couples. Help Hotline If you are in the United States or Canada and struggling with anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts, or a crisis of any kind – Text HOME to 741-741, and a Crisis Counselor will respond to you right away – 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Addiction & Meeting Resources Refuge Recovery Alcoholics Anonymous  Narcotics Anonymous Sex Addicts Anonymous Credits Guest on his own show: Andy Dick Episode Expert: Dr. Tammy Nelson Produced by Brandi Savitt, Jarred Weisfeld & Andy Dick Mixed & Mastered by Flavorlab NYC Music by Aaron Steinberg, Glenn Schloss & Eric Blicker Engineers Kevin Jarvis & Aaron Steinberg Recorded at Sonic Boom Room, Venice CA Artwork by Matt Rockman **Press and other inquires contact weisfeldasst@start-media.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Tammy Nelson is a sex and relationship expert, and author of many books on sex including Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together. She's a psychotherapist, Director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute, university teacher, TEDx speaker and is the host of the podcast The Trouble with Sex. Tammy is also a Board Certified Sexologist, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Licensed Professional Counselor, a Certified Imago Relationship therapist, and a Licensed Alcohol and Drug Abuse Counselor. Today on The Soul of Life I speak with Dr. Nelson about what it takes to have a vibrant sex life with a monogamous partner and how cheating during COVID has taken on new proportions. We talk about the mindset that's required to prevent or recover from infidelity and why it can be an opportunity. We discuss several myths about infidelity, sex, and eroticism: "Women actually do cheat for sex. Men tend to cheat for emotional reasons." - Do all affairs happen because of sexual problems? - Does communication and empathy have the power to fix sexual frustration? - Why does emotional closeness sometimes seem to kill erotic passion? - And perhaps the million dollar question: Why does Oprah call it her "vajayjay?" Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SoulOfLifeShow​ or Twitter: https://twitter.com/SoulofLifeShow​ Want to book Keith as a guest on your podcast? Contact him at keith@souloflifeshow.com. ***7-Week Stress Reduction & Relationship Growth Course*** If you and your significant other are looking for ways to improve communication and strengthen your partnership, there is still time to enroll in my upcoming live 7-Week Mindfulness and IFS course, called Mindful Marriage. Partners of any kind are welcome. It's a one-of-a-kind offering that can truly transform how you show up in intimacy. For more information visit: https://community.souloflifeshow.com/

Hello everybody, welcome to another episode of the Health Upgrade Podcast.I'm really excited about today's conversation. It's obviously a little bit more of a sensitive topic. It's something that not everybody feels super comfortable talking about.In today's episode, we have the pleasure of talking to dr. Stephen DeWIT. He is a Board Certified Sexologist through the American College of Sexologists. He holds a Master of Public Health in Human Sexuality and a Doctorate of Human Sexuality. Dr. Stephen DeWIT is the Creator of the Sex Life Unleashed Experience https://www.sexlifeunleashed.com/and he's also been called the "Tony Robbins of Sex"In this interview,  we are going to talk about how we can use our sexual health and our sexual lives, in order to upgrade not only our health, but how we're living and experiencing our day to day lives. As a sexuality educator, coach, and consultant, dr. Stephen DeWIT is dedicated to making people live a sexually empowered life, free from guilt, shame, and fear. He is also coaching people on how to build healthy relationships, so they can have a high-performance lifestyle.Listen to the episode to learn more about dr. DeWIT's story and how you can upgrade your sexual health and life. Rate and review before the next episode! If you want to know more about us and what we do, go to www.healthupgradepodcast.comContact info:Navaz HabibEmail: podcast@healthupgraded.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrNavazHabib/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drnavazhabib/LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/drnavazhabibStephen DeWITWebsite: http://drdewit.com/Book: http://drdewit.com/sexual-freedom-system/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StephendeWitSex/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdewit/Twitter: https://twitter.com/drdewitLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-stephen-de-wit-4a70657/?originalSubdomain=ca

Licensed Family and Marriage Therapist and Board Certified Sexologist, Dr. Diana Wiley discusses her new book, "Love in the Time of Corona: Advice from a Sex Therapist for Couples in Quarantine." We discuss techniques mentioned in her book that include: deep listening, hugging techniques, eye gazing, planning a special date night at home, her "sex menu", how to perform these techniques, and much more!

Today on the Sexology Podcast we are celebrating our 200th episode! We’ll be revisiting past episodes that our listeners selected as the ones that helped them the most and provided the best sex advice.     In this episode, you will hear clips from:     Dr. Lonnie Barbach, a clinical-social psychologist, has received numerous awards for her work on sexuality and has written a dozen books on relationships, sexuality and menopause in addition to a number of video tapes and audio tapes.      http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/04/02/how-to-please-your-lover-by-dr-lonnie-barbach      Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and educator, lecturer at Stanford University, author, and founder of TurnON.love.     http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/12/03/art-and-science-of-seduction-with-dr-alison-ash/      Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach who helps men become amazing lovers and incredible partners.     http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/08/20/how-to-last-longer-in-bed/     Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed couples therapist, sex therapist, yoga instructor, published researcher, and reiki practitioner dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies.     http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/07/ep158-7-ways-to-upgrade-your-sex-life-according-to-sexperts/      Emily Nagoski is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestseller, Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life and The Come As You Are Workbook, and co-author, with her sister Amelia, of Burnout: The Secret to Solving the Stress Cycle.    http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/03/12/female-orgasm-with-dr-emily-nagoski/      Stephen Snyder MD is a sex therapist, relationship therapist, and sexual medicine specialist who has dedicated his entire career to helping individuals and couples with sex and relationship concerns.     http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/07/28/ep187-the-key-to-great-sex-in-long-term-relationships-with-dr-stephen-snyder/      Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. is a Board Certified Sexologist and Certified Sex Therapist as well as a Relationship Therapist and author of several books for couples including Getting the Sex You Want, The New Monogamy, When You’re the One Who Cheated and Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy.     http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/11/05/ep149-the-monogamy-paradox-with-dr-tammy-nelson      Carol Queen is an American author, editor, sociologist and sexologist active in the sex-positive feminism movement. Queen has written on human sexuality in books such as Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex-Positive Culture.    http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/28/how-to-overcome-sexual-shyness-with-carol-queen-phd/      Ari Tuckman, PsyD, CST has given more than 350 presentations across America and in nine countries. His fourth book, ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship, examines how ADHD impacts a couple’s sexual and relationship satisfaction and how to improve both.     http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/09/03/sex-relationships-adhd-with-dr-ari-tuckman/      Barbara Carrellas is the founder of Urban Tantra® and the author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving.     http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/14/tantric-orgasm-with-barbara-carrellas     101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot  http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe/   https://oasis2care.com/subscribe/      Find Dr. Moali online:    http://www.sexologypodcast.com    Find me on social media:    https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care       If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali:  https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist      Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  

Board Certified Sexologist, former Professor of Human Sexuality, Dr. Lanae St. John, also known as "The Mama Sutra." discusses her role as Sexologist and her latest book entitled, "Read Me...A Parental Primer for "The Talk." She discusses parents anxieties around discussing sexuality with their children, why, the lack of sex education in schools and in homes, why, hangups regarding what to talk about with our children, how to begin noticing the hangup, the issues that we have as parents and how to begin breaking through the fears and anxieties in regards to talking about sex. She discusses the five building blocks to healthy sexuality which gives parents a framework that they can use to set a foundation with their kids. She discusses the different types of conversations that surround each building block in relation to the developmental level of a child and more!

Thank you for listening to Mormon Sex Info. This episode is an archived episode and is only now becoming publicly available. Mormon Sex Info relies on contributions. To contribute, please visit: mormonsex.info Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Dr. David Hersh regarding his long career and experience as a sex therapist working with couples. Through this expertise Dr. Hersh has developed a concise and helpful list of things that detract from the type of sexual experiences most couples desire and want to seek after. He talks about how these detractors are much more common in creating problems in the bedroom than any type of official disorder or dysfunction, and how with a combination of relational tools, self-awareness and a willingness to address these detractors head on… many couples can make a significant difference in the quality of their sex life together.   Dr. David Hersh is one of North America’s noted Sex Therapists. Originally from Brooklyn, New York, he completed his college and university studies at American International College, where he received a Bachelor’s degree in 1963. He then received a Master’s Degree in Counseling from Springfield College in 1964, and did doctoral studies at Boston University from 1964 – 1966.   From 1979 – 1984, he was trained, supervised and mentored in Sex Therapy by Dr. Wardell Pomeroy of the Kinsey Institute. During these years, he did an internship in Sex Therapy at the San Francisco Sexual Health Care Clinic, received a doctorate in 1986, and practiced in San Francisco from 1979 – 1990. Dr. Hersh has lived and practiced in Canada since 1990, where he became a Canadian citizen in 2006. He sees patients in Calgary, AB, Nelson, BC, and San Francisco, California. His emphasis is on counselling couples and individuals to achieve their greatest relationship potential, beyond the diagnosis and treatment of relationship and/or sexual concerns, to reach the most exciting levels of their relationship with their partners. Dr. Hersh is a Professional Member of AASECT (American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists). He is also a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC), a Board Certified Sexologist by the American College of Sexologists (ACS), a Certified Diplomate of the American Board of Sexologists (ABS), and a Founding Fellow of the American Academy of Clinical Sexologists (FAACS). He is one of the founders of the Sex Therapy Consortium in San Francisco, and was qualified as an expert in Human Sexuality by the Supreme Court of British Columbia, in 2003. He is also a member of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR) and is listed in The International Who’s Who in Sexology (1st ed.). He has been a member of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality (SSSS), the Sex Information and Education Councils of the United States (SIECUS) and Canada (SIECCAN), and has served as a branch Board member and Educator for the Planned Parenthood Association of BC. He is also on the Board of Advisers for The Center for Sex and Culture in San Francisco, California. Dr. Hersh provides consultation to colleagues. He also continues to teach, train and mentor. He has been in a successful, 35+ year relationship and marriage. Resources Mentioned During this Podcast: AASECT ISHWSH Dr. Wardel Pomeroy Psychology of Sex

Welcome to episode 149 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Dr. Tammy Nelson to the podcast. In this episode she speaks with me about sexual boredom, contributing factors as to why people cheat, and the concept of new monogamy.     Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. is a Board Certified Sexologist and Certified Sex Therapist as well as a  Relationship Therapist and author of several books for couples including Getting the Sex You Want, The New Monogamy, When You're the One Who Cheated,  and the upcoming Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy due out in March.     She is the Director and Founder of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute in Washington DC., a training Institute, and Think Tank focused on obtaining and creating sustainable relationships. She is also an expert consultant for Ashley Madison, an online dating site for married people. She has been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Business Insider, Time Magazine, and is the host of a popular podcast, The Trouble with Sex.    In This Episode You Will Hear:     The common mistakes people make to become sexually bored   How sexual boredom can be akin to eating the same food every day   Why being too comfortable in a relationship can cause sexual boredom   Contributing factors as to why people cheat   How desire can increase for a partner when they show interest in someone else  Increasing the quantity and quality of sex in a long-term relationship   Rebuilding sexual intimacy   How changes in personality and identity can lead to cheating   Looking at the concept of new monogamy   What’s the difference between new monogamy and old monogamy?   Managing your unrealistic expectations   The role that technology plays in these changes        Find Dr. Tammy here:   https://drtammynelson.com     Free gift:   Email Tammy through her website and she will send you "37 Questions for your New Monogamy Agreement" -  a handout to create a relationship discussion that can help you start your new vision for the future of your new monogamy.    Find me on social media:   https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care  https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care     Bonus:  101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot: Sign up and receive this checklist to spice things up in your relationship for free: http://sexologypodcast.com/subscribe     Work with me:  https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/    Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio   

Thank you for listening to Mormon Sex Info. This episode is an archived episode and is only now becoming publicly available. Mormon Sex Info relies on contributions. To contribute, please visit: mormonsex.info Please enjoy the episode. Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Dr. Tammy Nelson, author of The New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity, regarding the complicated issues and tasks associated with recovering from infidelity. So many applicable things are discussed, whether you have experienced infidelity in your relationship or not. How do we define infidelity in the first place? How does having dialogue about what monogamy means help prevent infidelity? What can one expect to experience when they have found out their partner has been unfaithful? What are some ways to categorize the different stages of crisis and healing a couple might go through as they deal with betrayal? How do we negotiate our sexual relationships in regards to what some would consider benign behaviors like being attracted to other people, masturbation, and flirtation all the way to deciding to open one’s marriage to the sexual or romantic involvement of other people? When does infidelity point towards the end of a relationship? How do we find meaning in betrayals – as far as what they tell us about our relationships and our roles in them? What’s the difference between forgiveness and empathy – and what roles do these play? A wonderful overview of the many complexities and possibilities couples are facing as they decide how to move forward after a significant betrayal. Tammy Nelson, PhD is a licensed psychotherapist in private practice, a relationship expert and international speaker, an author, a faculty member and teacher for over 25 years. She holds a Doctorate in Philosophy in Clinical Sexology, is a Board Certified Sexologist, a Diplomat of the American Board of Sexologists, a Licensed Professional Counselor, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Registered Art Therapist, a Licensed Alcohol and Drug Counselor, a Certified Imago Relationship therapist and an Advanced Imago Clinician. Dr. Nelson is the author of several books including, “The New Monogamy; Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity“ (January 2013), “Getting the Sex You Want; Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together” (2008), “What’s Eating You: A Workbook for Teens with Anorexia, Bulimia, and other Eating Disorders” (2004). Her latest book is currently under negotiation. She is the author of “Six Weeks to Desire” (2013), an eBook, currently published on Amazon, as well as several chapters of edited compilations and articles in professional journals. She has also been a featured expert in many media forums such as the New York Times, Women’s Health, Wall Street Journal and Redbook. Resources mentioned during podcast: The New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity For the Six Weeks to Desire Ebook contact Dr. Nelson directly: tammy@tammynelson.org      

What are the common reasons people stray from their partners? How common is it and how do folks rebuild relationships after infidelity? And what is the "New Monogamy" all about?  We also answer a sex question: How can I reconnect to myself and learn to relax with my partner after sexual trauma? Dr. Tammy Nelson PhD is an internationally acclaimed psychotherapist and TEDx speaker and the author of several books including, “Getting the Sex You Want,  “The New Monogamy; and her latest book "When You're the One Who Cheats."  She has been a featured expert in the NY Times, Washington Post, Wall Street Journal, CNN, Rolling Stone Magazine, TIME, and a source in Time Magazine. She writes for Huffington Post, ThriveGlobal, Medium and has a new podcast, The Trouble with Sex.  Dr. Tammy is a Board Certified Sexologist, a Certified Sex Therapist and a Certified Relationship Therapist.  She can be found at drtammynelson.com   Some other links we talk about:  Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Learn more about sexological bodywork with River Drosera at riverdrosera.life Access your free 30-day trial to Open Fit by texting sspodcast to 303030       

Dr. Stephen de Wit is a Board Certified Sexologist through the American College of Sexologists. He holds a Master of Public Health in Human Sexuality and a Doctorate of Human Sexuality. Toronto's Hassle Free Clinic is where Stephen started as a sexual health counselor and now travels both nationally and internationally speaking about sexual empowerment. As a sexuality educator, therapist and consultant he is committed that people live a sexually empowered life free from guilt, shame and fear and have relationships that work.  Stephen is regularly featured in national newspapers and television shows providing relevant, thought provoking sex education and information. He is a master at creating a fun, safe, comfortable environment for people to take an honest look at their sex lives and transform what is not working. Buckle up because things are about to get really interesting. Stephen's online program - http://bit.ly/2KEtH6P Connect with Stephen: Website: http://drdewit.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdewit/Are you looking to find your purpose, navigate transition or fix your relationships, all with a powerful group of men from around the world? Check out The Alliance and join me today.  Check out our Facebook Page or the Men's community. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts  | Spotify For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter    Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks Community Editing & Mixing by: Aaron The Tech

Aired Thursday, 30 November 2017, 4:00 PM ET The Spirit of Sex with Sexologist Dr. Stephen de Wit Dr. de Wit dives deep in sharing his personal and professional connection to the Spirit of Sex exploring the strong ties to identity and connection to ones partner(s). Listen and learn how you can develop a deeper understanding of self and sharing that authentically through your sexual connection and expression. About the Guest: Dr. Stephen de Wit Dr. Stephen de Wit is a Board Certified Sexologist through the American College of Sexologists. He holds a Master of Public Health in Human Sexuality and a Doctorate of Human Sexuality. Toronto’s Hassle Free Clinic is where Stephen started as a sexual health counselor and now travels both nationally and internationally speaking about sexual empowerment. As a sexuality educator, coach and consultant he is committed that people live a sexually empowered life free from guilt, shame and fear and have relationships that work. Stephen is regularly featured in national newspapers and television shows providing relevant, thought provoking sex education and information. Dr. de Wit has recently authored the book “The Sexual Freedom System: Winning the Inner Game of Sex”. He is a master at creating a fun, safe, comfortable environment for people to take an honest look at their sex lives and transform what is not working. Website: drdewit.com Twitter: @drdewit FB: Stephen de Wit – Sexologist

Dr. Stephen de Wit is a Board Certified Sexologist through the American College of Sexologists. He holds a Master of Public Health in Human Sexuality and a Doctorate of Human Sexuality. Toronto's Hassle Free Clinic is where Stephen started as a sexual health counselor and now travels both nationally and internationally speaking about sexual empowerment. As a sexuality educator, coach and consultant he is committed that people live a sexually empowered life free from guilt, shame and fear and have relationships that work. Stephen is regularly featured in national newspapers and television shows providing relevant, thought provoking sex education and information. He is a master at creating a fun, safe, comfortable environment for people to take an honest look at their sex lives and transform what is not working. Recently, Dr. de Wit was on our show. During our conversation, Dr. de Wit talked about: – Some of his background and some his challenges in his early years – A special moment that his father was proud of him – His educational journey including being $120, 000 in debt after he graduated – Common male myths including where men get their education about sex and the power of media and social in this area – How are millineals handing sexuality including “designer relationships” – Sexual challenges (penis problems) – “Sex happens between your ears before it happens between your legs.” – Issues with mismatched libido – Impact of porn – How to have more of the sex you want more frequently (S.W.A.T.B.) – His book The Sexual Freedom System: Winning The Inner Game of Sex Dr. de Wit will be one of the speakers at the upcoming Men and Masculinity Summit in Toronto, Ontario, Canada on November 19, 2017. For more information about the Men and Masculinity Summit please click here: Website You can connect with Dr. de Wit via: Website Facebook Linkedin Twitter Instagram Email Visit our website at https://www.thedrvibeshow.com/ Please feel free to email us at dr.vibe@thedrvibeshow.com Please feel free to “Like” the “The Dr. Vibe Show” Facebook fan page here God bless, peace, be well and keep the faith, Dr. Vibe