Podcast appearances and mentions of tammy nelson

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2022 7:36

Pod Crashing Episode 155 With Dr. Tammy Nelson Love is eternal—but in an age when we live longer, communicate differently, and value gender equality, is it any wonder so many people are looking for new ways to support lasting, loving partnerships? Open Monogamy by Dr. Tammy Nelson is an inclusive guide for the expanding audience of people exploring nontraditional paths to committed, loving relationships. Dr. Nelson draws on her 30 years of experience as a relationship and sex therapist to provide advice and tools for finding one's place on the “monogamy continuum,” having honest and respectful communication, making relationship agreements, and more.

Pod Crashing Episode 155 With Dr Tammy Nelson Open Monogamy

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2022 7:36

Pod Crashing Episode 155 With Dr Tammy Nelson Open Monogamy

Pod-Crashing

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2022 7:36

Pod Crashing Episode 155 With Dr. Tammy NelsonLove is eternal—but in an age when we live longer, communicate differently, and value gender equality, is it any wonder so many people are looking for new ways to support lasting, loving partnerships?Open Monogamy by Dr. Tammy Nelson is an inclusive guide for the expanding audience of people exploring nontraditional paths to committed, loving relationships. Dr. Nelson draws on her 30 years of experience as a relationship and sex therapist to provide advice and tools for finding one's place on the “monogamy continuum,” having honest and respectful communication, making relationship agreements, and more.

Pod Crashing Episode 155 With Dr Tammy Nelson Open Monogamy

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2022 7:36

Pod Crashing Episode 155 With Dr Tammy Nelson Open Monogamy

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2022 7:36

Pod Crashing Episode 155 With Dr. Tammy NelsonLove is eternal—but in an age when we live longer, communicate differently, and value gender equality, is it any wonder so many people are looking for new ways to support lasting, loving partnerships?Open Monogamy by Dr. Tammy Nelson is an inclusive guide for the expanding audience of people exploring nontraditional paths to committed, loving relationships. Dr. Nelson draws on her 30 years of experience as a relationship and sex therapist to provide advice and tools for finding one's place on the “monogamy continuum,” having honest and respectful communication, making relationship agreements, and more.

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#276 Open Monogamy: Recreating Your Relationship For Hotter Sex and Connection - With Dr. Tammy Nelson

Shameless Sex

Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2022 54:28 Very Popular

Why is monogamy so hard for so many long-term partnerships? What are the “new models” for monogamy, and how can both monogamous and non-monogamous partner/s work together to recreate the relationship as a means for better sex and connection? For Dr. Nelson's free 40 Questions to Start Your New Monogamy Agreement, check out our blog at shamelesssex.com or click here About our guest: Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a licensed psychotherapist, Board Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and Certified Imago Relationship Therapist. She is a TEDx speaker and the host of The Trouble with Sex podcast. Her books include Getting the Sex You Want, The New Monogamy, and her latest Open Monogamy. She is executive director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute and has been a featured expert in NY Times, Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, Glamour Magazine, Cosmopolitan, RedBook, MSNBC, Men's Health, Woman's Day, and has been a source for Time Magazine. Dr. Nelson draws on her 30 years of experience as a relationship and sex therapist to provide advice and tools for finding one's place on the “monogamy continuum,” having honest and respectful communication, making relationship agreements, and more. To learn more or buy her book go to drtammynelson.com Want to join our free online Shameless Sex community on Discord (and maybe even connect with Amy and April on there from time to time? Go here: https://discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg We have a Never Have I Ever__! event coming up May 24th 530-630pm PST. Not only will Amy and April be there, but we are also giving away free passes to Amy's online Orgasm 101 class. Other links: Get affordable online therapy now from the privacy of your own home + 10% off your first month when you go to betterhelp.com/shamelesssex Avoid the takeout temptation with ease (and yummy food that is good for you) + $40 your first shipment when you go to dailyharvest.com/shamelesssex Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

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Monsters In The Morning

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2022 36:54

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Not Your Grandma’s Monogamy (Season 2 | Episode 57)

The Open Nesters

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2022 47:34

Not Your Grandma's Monogamy. I have known Dr. Tammy Nelson for many years. It is a true pleasure to welcome her voice onto our podcast!

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Can Your Relationship Survive Infidelity?

In Bed

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2022 24:14

Does infidelity make you a bad person? What’s even classed as being 'unfaithful' these days? And can a couple ever really recover from sex outside the relationship? Georgia consults the experts and hears stories of how infidelity has affected real couples to better understand this controversial act. LINKS Dr Tammy Nelson's Book - Open Monogamy Learn more about Dr Tammy Nelson on her website Read more from Tarrin Lenard https://linktr.ee/tarrin.lenard Follow @gspot._ on Instagram Follow @novapodcastsofficial on Instagram Email us at inbed@novapodcasts.com.au CREDITS Host: Georgia Grace Guests: Dr Tammy Nelson @doctor_tammynelson Tarrin Lenard @tarrinlenard Managing Producer: Andrew Brentnall Producers: Amy Kimball, Edwina Stott, Lem Zakharia Editor and Audio Imaging: Adrian Walton Listen to more great podcasts at novapodcasts.com.au See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Episode 76: Creating Ideal Relationship Agreements

Sex and Psychology Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2022 49:06

Relationships and marriages aren't just hard--they're harder than ever because the expectations around them have changed so much. What worked in the past isn't working anymore, so it's time for a new approach. We need to figure out what works for us as individuals and create custom relationship agreements that reflect our wants and needs. But what goes into creating an ideal relationship agreement? That's what we're going to be discussing today. My guest is Dr. Tammy Nelson, a certified sex and relationship therapist. She is host of The Trouble with Sex podcast and the author of several books, including Open Monogamy: A Guide to Co-Creating Your Ideal Relationship Agreement. Some of the topics we discuss include: Why maintaining long-term monogamy today is more challenging than ever. How to know if an open relationship is right for you. When it's a good idea to open up, and when it isn't. Why empathy is key to having healthy relationship communication. How to navigate difficult conversations with a partner, and what to do when you have different wants and needs. The key ingredients of relationship agreements. How often you should revisit your relationship agreement. Common problems that can arise in open relationships, and how to deal with them. To learn more about Dr. Nelson, visit drtammynelson.com and be sure to check out her book, Open Monogamy. Get confidence where it counts with BlueChew! Their online service delivers the same active ingredients as Viagra and Cialis in chewable tablets at a fraction of the cost. Listeners can try BlueChew FREE by using promo code PSYCH at checkout; just pay $5 shipping. Visit https://bluechew.com to learn more. This podcast was made on Zencastr. Join Zencastr today and receive 40% off of their professional plan for 3 months with my exclusive discount code: sexandpsych Thanks to Promescent (promescent.com) and the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes (modernsextherapyinstitutes.com) for being sponsors of this episode! *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: LEGIT Audio (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

Ep 85: Open Monogamy with Dr. Tammy Nelson

The Learn to Love Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2022 47:35

What is open monogamy? What are some ways couples are adjusting their monogamy? What can a relationship do when one partner wants to be more open than the other? Find out in this week's episode of The Learn to Love Podcast, where your host Zach Beach interviews the psychotherapist, sexologist, and author Dr. Tammy Nelson on Open Monogamy. For more on this episode click here: https://www.the-heart-center.com/ep-85-open-monogamy-with-dr-tammy-nelson/ Learn more about your guest below: Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a licensed psychotherapist, Board Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and Certified Imago Relationship Therapist. She is a TEDx speaker and the host of The Trouble with Sex podcast. Her books include Getting the Sex You Want and The New Monogamy. She is the executive director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute and has been a featured expert in the New York Times Magazine and the Washington Post, on CNN, and more. Learn more at - https://drtammynelson.com/ - https://www.facebook.com/DrTammyNelson/ - https://twitter.com/drtammynelson - https://www.linkedin.com/in/drtammynelson/ Learn more about your host and the show at: www.zachbeach.com www.the-heart-center.com Support The Show: If you like the show there are many ways you can support it, such as, - Buy a book from our blossoming professional network: http://www.the-heart-center.com/books/ - Register for Relationship Mastery, a 6-week self-guided course to take your relationship to the next level. https://www.the-heart-center.com/relationship-mastery-landing-page/ - Check out one of our sponsors, Listenable and use the discount code “zachbeach” for the first seven days on the platform for free. There you can find Zach's How To Be a Better Partner Course: https://frstre.com/go/?a=76205-87a7d9&s=1256514-e13191&p_affiliate.referral_code=zachbeach - Purchase The Seven Lessons of Love: Heart Wisdom for Troubling Times on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/Lessons-Love-Heart-Wisdom-Troubling/dp/1983940704/ - Purchase a love shirt and show the world your love of love https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-heart-center/ - Review, Like, and Subscribe to the show on iTunes. - Like us on Facebook facebook.com/learntolovenow - Join the Facebook Community Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1428012130828678/

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SexPositive101

The Sex Positive Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2022 23:37

A short introduction and review of ways to improve your sexual communication, attitudes & beliefs to be more sexually inclusive, respectful, supportive and negotiating healthy consensual relationships. (References for Episode 1 : 10 ways to be more sex positive by Beth Gillette, Beyond the Basics, by Action Canada for Sexual Health & Rights, Getting the Sex you Want by Tammy Nelson, Opening up - A guide to Polyamorous Relationships by Tristan Taramino) - If you enjoyed this podcast - Please consider donating to my Patreon account at http://patreon.com/TheSexPositivePodcast

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221 - Not Your Grandmother's Monogamy with Dr. Tammy Nelson

Turn Me On

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2022 86:19

This week the hosts chat with Dr. Tammy Nelson. Tammy Nelson is a sex and relationship expert, an international speaker, an author, and a licensed psychotherapist with almost thirty years of experience working with individuals and couples. She is the Director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute and is the host of the podcast "The Trouble with Sex". Her most recent book, "Open Monogamy", is a practical guide for people who wish to explore new directions in their relationships. The hosts chat with Tammy about "wake up or break up" events, the monogamy gap and playing the "what if" game to open up conversations in relationships.The hosts chat answer some of the questions the book poses, and debate whether Bryde's bathing habits are a problem.Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch the aftercare segment of this episode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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Dr. Tammy Nelson joins Dr. Wendy Walsh and talks her book Open Monogamy. What are some common challenges marriages face? How do you renegotiate your marital contract? Dr. Tammy Nelson tells all!

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Being Open to Open Monogamy

Sounds True: Insights at the Edge

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2021 61:53 Very Popular

Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a licensed psychotherapist, Board Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist. She is a TEDx speaker and the host of The Trouble with Sex podcast. Her six books include Getting the Sex You Want, The New Monogamy, and her latest work, Open Monogamy. In this podcast, Dr. Nelson joins host Tami Simon for an informative and inspiring conversation about the emerging new definition of monogamy as people look beyond traditional marriage to find long-term happiness and fulfillment. Tami and Dr. Nelson also discuss the monogamy continuum—and how to talk about it with your partner; Dr. Nelson's view that all consensual agreements between consenting adults should be normalized; "second adolescence" and opening relationships for the wrong reasons; engaging in "what if" conversations; why there's never a coincidence in the partners that you choose; the pandemic's impact on our sex lives and intimate relationships; monogamy and non-monogamy throughout the developmental phases of relationships; fear, trust, safety, and risk-taking; eroticism and self-awareness; the new terminology of open monogamy; and much more.

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182: When You're the One Who Cheated – Tammy Nelson

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2021 39:39

Tammy Nelson, the author of the book When You're The One Who Cheats, joins me to talk about cheating and infidelity from the point of the cheater. She offers her interesting insight on why people cheat, what it's like to be cheated on, and the recovery process. Is it Infidelity? Tammy defines infidelity as forming a relationship outside of your primary partnership; a relationship with a sexual context such as flirting online or paying a sex worker, in which you are dishonest about these relationships with your primary partner. The pandemic has caused an increase in online infidelity. People cheat for various reasons, but Tammy says that defining what infidelity means to you can help to start a conversation with your partner and can establish an agreement of implicit monogamy. Kinds of Infidelity While some people cheat to break up, for others, it's a wake-up call to turn something around in their relationship. In Tammy's words, “People rarely look for someone to cheat with, they look for someone to be.” Only 7% of affairs end up in marriage with the other person, while most affairs don't last longer than a year. People who choose to make it work after the affair should acknowledge their changed relationship and incorporate their needs and desires into the new relationship to avoid another affair or any resentment. Recovering from Infidelity Before sharing anything with family or friends, it's best to deal with the trauma in the conflict/crisis phase. The partners should process everything, from how it happened to how they've changed, in the insight phase. In the vision phase, the partners make decisions about moving forward. The goal of recovery is not to forgive, but to work on building a new sex life that is fulfilling. She points out red flags that people need to look out for before deciding to move forward. Should You Tell Your Partner? A partner who confesses to an affair after it's over to feel good about themselves, knowing it could devastate their partner, is selfish. Many feel that they would want to know if their partner ever cheats, Tammy suggests, considering the extent of information you would want to know. How to Avoid Cheating Tammy believes people also cheat because they have experienced developmental challenges of a second adolescence and seek to evolve their personalities. They rebel against their partners as they did with their parents. To avoid cheating, partners can work through this stage together to reinvent themselves and have fun. She also advises seeking therapy and outside support to grieve the end of the relationship instead of using your partner for it. Advice Tammy advises us to differentiate between intuition and fear because intuition allows us to trust and move forward. Biography Tammy Nelson Ph.D. is a Board Certified Sexologist, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Certified Imago relationship therapist, a Licensed Professional Counselor, and Executive Director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute as well as Director of the Ph.D. program in Counseling and Sex Therapy at Daybreak University in Southern California. She is the author of several books including Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy, When You're the One Who Cheats, The New Monogamy, Getting the Sex You Want, and What's Eating You? Her latest book Open Monogamy will be released in November 2021 with Sounds True Publishing. Her work has been featured in the Wall Street Journal, NY Times Magazine, CNN, Rolling Stone, and Time Magazine. She is a TEDx speaker and host of the podcast The Trouble with Sex. She is in private practice in Los Angeles CA. Resources and Links: Website: https://drtammynelson.com Podcast: https://www.thetroublewithsex.com/podcast Book – When You're The One Who Cheats: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999481003/ Email Tammy and get your free E-book! https://drtammynelson.com/contact/ More info Sex Health Quiz – https://www.sexhealthquiz.com The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com Access the Free webinar: How to want sex again without it feeling like a chore: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass Better Sex with Jessa Zimmerman https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/ Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/182-when-youre-the-one-who-cheated-tammy-nelsonMore info and resources: How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com Access the Free webinar: How to make sex easy and fun for both of you: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast

182: When You're the One Who Cheated – Tammy Nelson

Business Innovators Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2021 39:40

Tammy Nelson, the author of the book When You're The One Who Cheats, joins me to talk about cheating and infidelity from the point of the cheater. She offers her interesting insight on why people cheat, what it's like to be cheated on, and the recovery process. Is it Infidelity? Tammy defines infidelity as forming a relationship outside of your primary partnership; a relationship with a sexual context such as flirting online or paying a sex worker, in which you are dishonest about these relationships with your primary partner. The pandemic has caused an increase in online infidelity. People cheat for various reasons, but Tammy says that defining what infidelity means to you can help to start a conversation with your partner and can establish an agreement of implicit monogamy. Kinds of Infidelity While some people cheat to break up, for others, it's a wake-up call to turn something around in their relationship. In Tammy's words, “People rarely look for someone to cheat with, they look for someone to be.” Only 7% of affairs end up in marriage with the other person, while most affairs don't last longer than a year. People who choose to make it work after the affair should acknowledge their changed relationship and incorporate their needs and desires into the new relationship to avoid another affair or any resentment. Recovering from InfidelityBefore sharing anything with family or friends, it's best to deal with the trauma in the conflict/crisis phase. The partners should process everything, from how it happened to how they've changed, in the insight phase. In the vision phase, the partners make decisions about moving forward. The goal of recovery is not to forgive, but to work on building a new sex life that is fulfilling. She points out red flags that people need to look out for before deciding to move forward. Should You Tell Your Partner? A partner who confesses to an affair after it's over to feel good about themselves, knowing it could devastate their partner, is selfish. Many feel that they would want to know if their partner ever cheats, Tammy suggests, considering the extent of information you would want to know. How to Avoid Cheating Tammy believes people also cheat because they have experienced developmental challenges of a second adolescence and seek to evolve their personalities. They rebel against their partners as they did with their parents. To avoid cheating, partners can work through this stage together to reinvent themselves and have fun. She also advises seeking therapy and outside support to grieve the end of the relationship instead of using your partner for it. Advice Tammy advises us to differentiate between intuition and fear because intuition allows us to trust and move forward. Biography Tammy Nelson Ph.D. is a Board Certified Sexologist, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Certified Imago relationship therapist, a Licensed Professional Counselor, and Executive Director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute as well as Director of the Ph.D. program in Counseling and Sex Therapy at Daybreak University in Southern California. She is the author of several books including Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy, When You're the One Who Cheats, The New Monogamy, Getting the Sex You Want, and What's Eating You? Her latest book Open Monogamy will be released in November 2021 with Sounds True Publishing. Her work has been featured in the Wall Street Journal, NY Times Magazine, CNN, Rolling Stone, and Time Magazine. She is a TEDx speaker and host of the podcast The Trouble with Sex. She is in private practice in Los Angeles CA. Resources and Links: Website: https://drtammynelson.com Podcast: https://www.thetroublewithsex.com/podcast Book – When You're The One Who Cheats: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999481003/Email Tammy and get your free E-book! https://drtammynelson.com/contact/ More info Sex Health Quiz – https://www.sexhealthquiz.comThe Course – https://www.intimacywithease.comThe Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.comPodcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.comAccess the Free webinar: How to want sex again without it feeling like a chore: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclassBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/182-when-youre-the-one-who-cheated-tammy-nelson

182: When You're the One Who Cheated – Tammy Nelson

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2021 39:40

Tammy Nelson, the author of the book When You're The One Who Cheats, joins me to talk about cheating and infidelity from the point of the cheater. She offers her interesting insight on why people cheat, what it's like to be cheated on, and the recovery process. Is it Infidelity? Tammy defines infidelity as forming a relationship outside of your primary partnership; a relationship with a sexual context such as flirting online or paying a sex worker, in which you are dishonest about these relationships with your primary partner. The pandemic has caused an increase in online infidelity. People cheat for various reasons, but Tammy says that defining what infidelity means to you can help to start a conversation with your partner and can establish an agreement of implicit monogamy. Kinds of Infidelity While some people cheat to break up, for others, it's a wake-up call to turn something around in their relationship. In Tammy's words, “People rarely look for someone to cheat with, they look for someone to be.” Only 7% of affairs end up in marriage with the other person, while most affairs don't last longer than a year. People who choose to make it work after the affair should acknowledge their changed relationship and incorporate their needs and desires into the new relationship to avoid another affair or any resentment. Recovering from InfidelityBefore sharing anything with family or friends, it's best to deal with the trauma in the conflict/crisis phase. The partners should process everything, from how it happened to how they've changed, in the insight phase. In the vision phase, the partners make decisions about moving forward. The goal of recovery is not to forgive, but to work on building a new sex life that is fulfilling. She points out red flags that people need to look out for before deciding to move forward. Should You Tell Your Partner? A partner who confesses to an affair after it's over to feel good about themselves, knowing it could devastate their partner, is selfish. Many feel that they would want to know if their partner ever cheats, Tammy suggests, considering the extent of information you would want to know. How to Avoid Cheating Tammy believes people also cheat because they have experienced developmental challenges of a second adolescence and seek to evolve their personalities. They rebel against their partners as they did with their parents. To avoid cheating, partners can work through this stage together to reinvent themselves and have fun. She also advises seeking therapy and outside support to grieve the end of the relationship instead of using your partner for it. Advice Tammy advises us to differentiate between intuition and fear because intuition allows us to trust and move forward. Biography Tammy Nelson Ph.D. is a Board Certified Sexologist, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Certified Imago relationship therapist, a Licensed Professional Counselor, and Executive Director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute as well as Director of the Ph.D. program in Counseling and Sex Therapy at Daybreak University in Southern California. She is the author of several books including Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy, When You're the One Who Cheats, The New Monogamy, Getting the Sex You Want, and What's Eating You? Her latest book Open Monogamy will be released in November 2021 with Sounds True Publishing. Her work has been featured in the Wall Street Journal, NY Times Magazine, CNN, Rolling Stone, and Time Magazine. She is a TEDx speaker and host of the podcast The Trouble with Sex. She is in private practice in Los Angeles CA. Resources and Links: Website: https://drtammynelson.com Podcast: https://www.thetroublewithsex.com/podcast Book – When You're The One Who Cheats: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999481003/Email Tammy and get your free E-book! https://drtammynelson.com/contact/ More info Sex Health Quiz – https://www.sexhealthquiz.comThe Course – https://www.intimacywithease.comThe Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.comPodcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.comAccess the Free webinar: How to want sex again without it feeling like a chore: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclassBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/Source: https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/182-when-youre-the-one-who-cheated-tammy-nelson

037-Dr. Tammy Nelson

Lift-Off With Energizing Results

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2021 9:54

Who's your ideal client and what's the biggest challenge they face?What are the common mistakes people make when trying to solve that problem?What is one valuable free action that our audience can implement that will help with that issue?What is one valuable free resource that you can direct people to that will help with that issue?What's the one question I should have asked you that would be of great value to our audience?When was the last time you experienced Goosebumps with your family and why?Find Dr. Nelson on her Website and on social media: Facebook, Facebook Getting The Sex You Want, Instagram, Pinterest, Twitter, LinkedInHer Amazon Author PageAnd get your AASECT sex therapist certification HEREEmail Tammy if you want her free E-book and learn how to talk to each other again and have a healthy and passionate relationship no matter how long you have been together or how long you have been on lockdown. Learn more about how Uwe helps in-demand professionals and their VIPs to get back their family mojo, double their financial security, and live in abundance in all areas of their life (without feeling guilty or constantly questioning themselves): Visit www.uwedockhorn.com. Or when you feel you'd be interested in working together you can Book A Chat With Uwe

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037-Dr. Tammy Nelson

Lift-Off With Energizing Results

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2021 9:54

Who’s your ideal client and what’s the biggest challenge they face?What are the common mistakes people make when trying to solve that problem?What is one valuable free action that our audience can implement that will help with that issue?What is one valuable free resource that you can direct people to that will help with that issue?What’s the one question I should have asked you that would be of great value to our audience?When was the last time you experienced Goosebumps with your family and why?Find Dr. Nelson on her Website and on social media: Facebook, Facebook Getting The Sex You Want, Instagram, Pinterest, Twitter, LinkedInHer Amazon Author PageAnd get your AASECT sex therapist certification HEREEmail Tammy if you want her free E-book and learn how to talk to each other again and have a healthy and passionate relationship no matter how long you have been together or how long you have been on lockdown. Learn more about how Uwe helps in-demand professionals and their VIPs to get back their family mojo, double their financial security, and live in abundance in all areas of their life (without feeling guilty or constantly questioning themselves): Visit www.uwedockhorn.com. Or when you feel you'd be interested in working together you can Book A Chat With Uwe

ADICKTED to Love with Dr. Tammy Nelson and Andy Dick

ADICKTED with Andy Dick

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2021 49:32

The series kicks off as Andy opens up to sex and relationship therapist Dr. Tammy Nelson about his dysfunctional relationships, sex addiction and search for love. Their conversation takes a turn when Andy reveals a dark and twisted secret about his relationship with one of his longtime lovers. Our Guest Tammy Nelson, PhD is a sex and relationship expert, an international speaker, an author and a licensed psychotherapist with thirty years of experience working with individuals and couples. In private practice she focuses on helping people of all ages, orientations and genders find love, healing and passion. Dr. Tammy is a Board Certified Sexologist, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Licensed Professional Counselor, a Certified Imago Relationship therapist, and a Licensed Alcohol and Drug Abuse Counselor. Her latest book, When You're the One Who Cheats, was published in February, 2019. Her new book, Open Monogamy, will be out in December 2021. She is the author of The New Monogamy; Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity and Getting the Sex You Want; Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together as well as What's Eating You: A Workbook for Teens with Anorexia, Bulimia, and other Eating Disorders. Tammy eBooks series include: Six Weeks to Erotic Recovery, as well as chapters and articles on topics ranging from sexuality, desire, affair recovery, monogamy issues, open marriage, online infidelity, intentional divorce, passionate relationships and everything related to couples. Help Hotline If you are in the United States or Canada and struggling with anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts, or a crisis of any kind – Text HOME to 741-741, and a Crisis Counselor will respond to you right away – 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Addiction & Meeting Resources Refuge Recovery Alcoholics Anonymous Narcotics Anonymous Sex Addicts Anonymous Credits Guest on his own show: Andy Dick Episode Expert: Dr. Tammy Nelson Produced by Brandi Savitt, Jarred Weisfeld & Andy Dick Mixed & Mastered by Flavorlab NYC Music by Aaron Steinberg, Glenn Schloss & Eric Blicker Engineers Kevin Jarvis & Aaron Steinberg Recorded at Sonic Boom Room, Venice CA Artwork by Matt Rockman **Press and other inquires contact weisfeldasst@start-media.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Benefits of ADHD Fidgeting With Founder of CONQUERing Tammy Nelson

The Neurodivergent Nurse

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2021 34:23

Research shows that physical activity — even a little foot-tapping or gum chewing — increases levels of the neurotransmitters in the brain that control focus and attention. Learn how a subtle fidget may help block out distractions, fight boredom, and increase productivity. In this episode we briefly discuss fidgeting and how it helps those with ADHD. Tammy Nelson the Cofounder of one of Jami's favorite ADHD products, CONQUERing joins the show to discuss the inspiration behind the product that has helped the neurodivergent community greatly. Shout out to the two newest patrons of The Neurodivergent Nurse Podcast, Robert DeSautel and Christena Foster. If you would like to join the patreon click here. Be sure to follow The Neurodivergent Nurse on Instagram, TikTok, and Twitter. Links to today's Guest: CONQUERing Website CONQUERing TikTok CONQUERing Instagram CONQUERing Facebook More information on fidgeting and ADHD here. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/theneurodivergentnurse/message

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When You're the One Who Cheats with Dr. Tammy Nelson

Your Secret Is Safe With Me

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2021 42:32

Dr. Tammy Nelson is a sex and relationship expert, an international speaker, an author, and a licensed psychotherapist with almost 30 years of experience working with individuals and couples. In private practice, she focuses on helping people of all ages, orientations, and genders find love, healing, and passion. In addition to this, Dr. Nelson teaches at several universities and is also the host of the podcast, The Trouble with Sex, and the author of many books, including When You're The One Who Cheats. In this episode… Affairs can be intoxicating, but they can also leave you feeling confused and ashamed once the excitement wears off. So, why do people cheat, and what makes an affair difficult to end? And, once you’ve been caught in your lie, how can you salvage your relationship? A lot of the answers for why we do what we do can be traced back to the chemicals flooding our brains. Much like being under the influence of a drug, our chemical response to a new or elicit relationship can make it difficult to see things clearly—and it can take time for the reality of a situation to fully set in. However, according to Dr. Tammy Nelson, even if you’ve cheated, you still have plenty of choices for how to move forward. As she suggests, there are ways to rebuild your relationship in the aftermath of an affair, but you may need to start with a whole new foundation. Join Dr. Marie Murphy in this episode of Your Secret is Safe With Me as she sits down with Sex and Relationship Expert, Dr. Tammy Nelson. Together, they discuss why affairs are often so exciting, the brain chemicals that influence how we interpret new relationships, and the importance of revisiting your monogamy contract after someone cheats. Plus, Dr. Nelson offers scientific insight into why people lie and provides advice on what to do if you’re the one cheating. Stay tuned.

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The New Monogamy: Tammy Nelson, Author of Getting the Sex You Want

The Soul of Life

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2021 52:24

Dr. Tammy Nelson is a sex and relationship expert, and author of many books on sex including Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together. She's a psychotherapist, Director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute, university teacher, TEDx speaker and is the host of the podcast The Trouble with Sex. Tammy is also a Board Certified Sexologist, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Licensed Professional Counselor, a Certified Imago Relationship therapist, and a Licensed Alcohol and Drug Abuse Counselor. Today on The Soul of Life I speak with Dr. Nelson about what it takes to have a vibrant sex life with a monogamous partner and how cheating during COVID has taken on new proportions. We talk about the mindset that's required to prevent or recover from infidelity and why it can be an opportunity. We discuss several myths about infidelity, sex, and eroticism: "Women actually do cheat for sex. Men tend to cheat for emotional reasons." - Do all affairs happen because of sexual problems? - Does communication and empathy have the power to fix sexual frustration? - Why does emotional closeness sometimes seem to kill erotic passion? - And perhaps the million dollar question: Why does Oprah call it her "vajayjay?" Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SoulOfLifeShow or Twitter: https://twitter.com/SoulofLifeShow Want to book Keith as a guest on your podcast? Contact him at keith@souloflifeshow.com. ***7-Week Stress Reduction & Relationship Growth Course*** If you and your significant other are looking for ways to improve communication and strengthen your partnership, there is still time to enroll in my upcoming live 7-Week Mindfulness and IFS course, called Mindful Marriage. Partners of any kind are welcome. It's a one-of-a-kind offering that can truly transform how you show up in intimacy. For more information visit: https://community.souloflifeshow.com/

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Tuesday, February 9: More Vaccines Rolling Out; Top 5 Things Ruining Your Sex Life; Comedian Will Noonan

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2021 60:38

Chaz and AJ talked about the state opening up vaccine appointments for people aged 65 or older. While discussing their plans to get vaccinated, they imagined what it would be like if one of the side-effects caused people to behave opposite to their normal tendencies. (0:00) Vince the bookie was back on to talk about the Super Bowl, which was not a good time for him. Tom Brady, once again, has made Vince's life very difficult. At least Chaz and AJ won their prop bet! (6:51) Dr. Tammy Nelson was on talking about the Top 5 things ruining your sex life, and while recapping everything turned against Chaz. (19:15) Nick the science guy was on to quell everyone's concerns about a giant asteroid approaching Earth. Apparently, NASA has known about it for 20 years. Just for educational purposes, Nick explained what would happen if an asteroid that size were to hit the Earth's surface. (26:24) Dumb Ass News - Chaz and AJ revisited a comment AJ made during Nick's call, and a selfie-taker in Hoboken fell into icy waters and needed rescuing. (40:00) Boston comedian Will Noonan's phone was on fire during the Super Bowl, since he appeared in a commercial that aired in the Boston area! Plus, the big money he won on a long-shot bet. (46:03) Image Credit: nevodka / iStock / Getty Images Plus

S2 PREVIEW - The New Monogamy: Dr. Tammy Nelson, author of Getting the Sex You Want

The Soul of Life

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2021 6:01

Coming soon in Season Two of The Soul of Life on February 26th, 2021. Dr. Tammy Nelson is an erotic recovery expert. She's a leading expert on infidelity and the healing of sexual relationships. Today on The Soul of Life I speak with Dr. Nelson about what it takes to have a vibrant sex life with a monogamous partner and how cheating during COVID has taken on new proportions. "If I am a mom stuck home, homeschooling my kids, and I've bene in my yoga pants in seven months, and haven't worn make up, and my life is about cheerios and how to figure out algebra. And then I meet someone online who thinks I'm sexy and alive and charming and beautiful and just wants to make out with me—I'm a totally different person for ten minutes a day and that makes you feel alive for those ten minutes." Dr. Nelson is the author of Getting the Sex You Want, and The New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity. We talk about the mindset that's required to prevent or recover from infidelity and why it can be an opportunity.

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Episode 93: Dr. Tammy Nelson – Sex Maven

Mavens Do It Better

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2020 49:29

In this episode Heather interviews Dr. Tammy Nelson, Certified Sex and Relationship Therapist and Licensed Counselor, speaker, podcast host, and author. Tune-in to hear their conversation on: "We're sort of living in this moment of uncertainty." - The effects of the pandemic on couples and individuals and how they are coping with lockdown and a contact-free society. "How come there's no graduate program for sex?" - Dr. Tammy's career journey from art therapist to relationship and sex therapist. "Set up a sex date." - The importance of creating time and space for sex and erotic anticipation in your relationship. "We change and grow as people and we develop in a relationship." - Why Dr. Tammy recommends couples create and continuously update a Monogamy Agreement so their implied assumptions don't get the better of their relationships. Visit the show page for full show notes and more!

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EP200 - Top 10 Sex Tips According to Our Listeners

Sexology

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2020 30:06

Today on the Sexology Podcast we are celebrating our 200th episode! We’ll be revisiting past episodes that our listeners selected as the ones that helped them the most and provided the best sex advice. In this episode, you will hear clips from: Dr. Lonnie Barbach, a clinical-social psychologist, has received numerous awards for her work on sexuality and has written a dozen books on relationships, sexuality and menopause in addition to a number of video tapes and audio tapes. http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/04/02/how-to-please-your-lover-by-dr-lonnie-barbach Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and educator, lecturer at Stanford University, author, and founder of TurnON.love. http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/12/03/art-and-science-of-seduction-with-dr-alison-ash/ Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach who helps men become amazing lovers and incredible partners. http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/08/20/how-to-last-longer-in-bed/ Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed couples therapist, sex therapist, yoga instructor, published researcher, and reiki practitioner dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies. http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/07/ep158-7-ways-to-upgrade-your-sex-life-according-to-sexperts/ Emily Nagoski is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestseller, Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life and The Come As You Are Workbook, and co-author, with her sister Amelia, of Burnout: The Secret to Solving the Stress Cycle. http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/03/12/female-orgasm-with-dr-emily-nagoski/ Stephen Snyder MD is a sex therapist, relationship therapist, and sexual medicine specialist who has dedicated his entire career to helping individuals and couples with sex and relationship concerns. http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/07/28/ep187-the-key-to-great-sex-in-long-term-relationships-with-dr-stephen-snyder/ Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. is a Board Certified Sexologist and Certified Sex Therapist as well as a Relationship Therapist and author of several books for couples including Getting the Sex You Want, The New Monogamy, When You’re the One Who Cheated and Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy. http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/11/05/ep149-the-monogamy-paradox-with-dr-tammy-nelson Carol Queen is an American author, editor, sociologist and sexologist active in the sex-positive feminism movement. Queen has written on human sexuality in books such as Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex-Positive Culture. http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/28/how-to-overcome-sexual-shyness-with-carol-queen-phd/ Ari Tuckman, PsyD, CST has given more than 350 presentations across America and in nine countries. His fourth book, ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship, examines how ADHD impacts a couple’s sexual and relationship satisfaction and how to improve both. http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/09/03/sex-relationships-adhd-with-dr-ari-tuckman/ Barbara Carrellas is the founder of Urban Tantra® and the author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving. http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/14/tantric-orgasm-with-barbara-carrellas 101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe/ https://oasis2care.com/subscribe/ Find Dr. Moali online: http://www.sexologypodcast.com Find me on social media: https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

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You Do You, Episode 92: "Covert Affairs" with Dr.Tammy Nelson

You Do You: A Dating Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2020 46:31

This week we have a juicy throwback episode for our dear listeners. Kaley and Sarah talk with Dr. Tammy Nelson about the scandalous world of affairs and why they are so common. Chat with us! Twitter: @sarahsahagian @kaleyames Instagram: kaleyames_ @youdoyoupod And our lovely guest! Website: https://drtammynelson.com/ Twitter: @drtammynelson

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Beyond Infidelity with Sex Expert & Author Dr. Tammy Nelson | S1:E4

Dear Sex

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2020 41:52

S1:E4 | June 25, 2020 | 42 min.Wendy discusses infidelity and what happens when you are the one who cheats, with renowned author and relationship expert Dr. Tammy Nelson. Listen as they discuss how infidelity is only one symptom of a relationship falling apart, not the reason for it. Hear how many couples have discovered ways to move forward from it. Plus, Dr. Tammy gives an effective tip to get more of the intimacy and sex you want in your relationship today.

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Tammy Nelson (Bounce It Out) S1 Ep7

Little Apple Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2020 31:23

In this episode Tammy talks about her full bounce house service for anyone from all ages and how she got into the business!!!

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Thursday 5/7 ft. Ally Brooke & Dr. Tammy Nelson

Loveline with Amber Rose

Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2020 42:22

Ally Brooke is on to talk about the role music plays on mental health and how she's been coping during that pandemic. Dr. Tammy shares how couple can be better about discussing their mental health with one another and how to better cope while isolating with a partner,

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Thursday 5/7 ft. Ally Brooke & Dr. Tammy Nelson

Loveline with Dr. Chris

Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2020 42:22

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Thursday 4/16 - How to Cope with Being Isolated with a Partner ft. Dr. Tammy Nelson

Loveline with Dr. Chris

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2020 27:02

Has spending so much time isolating with your partner caused a strain on your relationship? Dr. Tammy Nelson has some insight on what you can do to ease the tension and get through this together.

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Sex Therapist, Does Rover appreciate his staff, & more

Rover's Morning Glory

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2020 194:58

Rover got into an argument with his wife over his treatment of Dumb. People won't stop emailing Rover pictures of Lizzo in a bikini. Utah law would decriminalize polygamy among consenting adults. Listener explains how his child was kidnapped. Sex Therapist, Dr. Tammy Nelson, calls in. Oscar-winning Ford v Ferrari sound editor criticized for using acceptance speech to thank wife.

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Wednesday, January 22: Brooke Louellen's First Air Check, Sex Stories with Dr. Tammy, and the Return of Charlie Faze

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2020 50:28

Bob Stefanowski calls in to grade Ned Lamont's progress as CT's governor and Jennifer shares a story about a giraffe's tongue (0:00) Brooke Louellen Smith did her first radio shift this weekend, and talked about walking in on her cousin in the bathroom. Chaz and AJ also played some classic demos and breaks from early in their careers. So, who exactly is Charlie Faze? (9:43) Dr. Tammy Nelson in studio as everyone shares sex stories. Brooke Louellen walked in on her parents once, when she was very young. (44:23)

Wednesday, January 15: The Connecticut Actor That Was In Both "Joker" AND "The Irishman"

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2020 38:19

Michael-Scott Druckenmiller talks in depth about his time on set for TWO Oscar nominated movies - "Joker" and "The Irishman" (0:00) Dr. Tammy Nelson, after hearing Michael's segment, thinks she could also help the movie business with her real world knowledge on sexual relationships (24:46) Michael calls back in from the road with a sex story from his time as a paramedic, a couple who suffered a broken penis mid-sex; and more stories (28:25)

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Jewlry By Design's Mark and Tammy Nelson Discuss 25th Annual One Day Sale

WANI Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2019 16:26

Jewelry By Design's Mark and Tammy Nelson joined AOTM to discuss the Annual One Day Sale happening tomorrow at the store.

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#21 Cheating and The New Monogamy with Dr. Tammy Nelson

True Sex & Wild Love

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2019 56:13

Dr. Tammy Nelson is a sex therapist, podcaster, and paradigm shifter. Her concept of "The Monogamy Continuum" has helped countless individuals and couples rethink their wants and relationships. Tammy believes that everything from "you can't look at porn because that's a betrayal" to "you can have sex with other people, but you and I are primary" are versions of monogamy. And that monogamy is a daily, difficult practice that we must commit to, like yoga, if we want it to work. In "When You're the One Who Cheats," Tammy takes a compassionate view of one of our culture's favorite villains--the "cheater" in an infidelity scenario. She tells us that unless we have compassion for everyone, we'll never learn why relationships fail--and how to make them work. She also gives us advice on handling criticism, pushback, and haters when you're a woman living life on your own terms. Tammy is funny, out there, smart, and feminist AF. We love her and know you will, too! This episode is brought to you by Sweet VibrationsVisit https://sweetvibes.toys/ and use the code "Wild Love" to get %15 off at checkout Connect with Dr. Tammy Nelson|Website - https://drtammynelson.com/Twitter - https://bit.ly/2Kp913AFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/DrTammyNelson/ Connect with Wednesday Martin:Website | http://wednesdaymartin.com/Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wednesdaymartinphd/Twitter | https://twitter.com/WednesdayMartinFacebook | https://www.facebook.com/wednesdaymartinphd/YouTube | https://bit.ly/2zfvv1H Check out Wednesday Martin’s new book Untrue |http://wednesdaymartin.com/books/untrue/ Connect with Whitney Miller:Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/whitnlove/?hl=enFacebook | https://www.facebook.com/Miss2Jits/Twitter | https://twitter.com/whitnlove Subscribe on Itunes https://apple.co/2XKfS0bSpotify | https://spoti.fi/2JPxuhnStitcher | https://bit.ly/2xYNQz0 Google Play Music | bit.ly/30nJwWAIHeartRadio | https://ihr.fm/2NooEuw

You Do You, Episode 52: “Why Women Cheat” with Dr. Tammy Nelson

You Do You: A Dating Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2019 50:18

This week, Sarah and Kaley are joined by one of your favourite guests, Dr. Tammy Nelson. Tammy takes us through the latest research about why women in heterosexual relationships cheat on their partners. Get ready to learn A LOT! Chat with us! Twitter: @ydypod @sarahsahagian @kaleyames Instagram: @ydypod @kaleyames_ And our wonderful guest: Twitter: @drtammynelson https://drtammynelson.com/ Theme music is "Tag You're It," by The Whole Other

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EP149 - The Monogamy Paradox with Dr. Tammy Nelson

Sexology

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2019 40:11

Welcome to episode 149 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Dr. Tammy Nelson to the podcast. In this episode she speaks with me about sexual boredom, contributing factors as to why people cheat, and the concept of new monogamy. Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. is a Board Certified Sexologist and Certified Sex Therapist as well as a Relationship Therapist and author of several books for couples including Getting the Sex You Want, The New Monogamy, When You're the One Who Cheated, and the upcoming Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy due out in March. She is the Director and Founder of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute in Washington DC., a training Institute, and Think Tank focused on obtaining and creating sustainable relationships. She is also an expert consultant for Ashley Madison, an online dating site for married people. She has been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Business Insider, Time Magazine, and is the host of a popular podcast, The Trouble with Sex. In This Episode You Will Hear: The common mistakes people make to become sexually bored How sexual boredom can be akin to eating the same food every day Why being too comfortable in a relationship can cause sexual boredom Contributing factors as to why people cheat How desire can increase for a partner when they show interest in someone else Increasing the quantity and quality of sex in a long-term relationship Rebuilding sexual intimacy How changes in personality and identity can lead to cheating Looking at the concept of new monogamy What’s the difference between new monogamy and old monogamy? Managing your unrealistic expectations The role that technology plays in these changes Find Dr. Tammy here: https://drtammynelson.com Free gift: Email Tammy through her website and she will send you "37 Questions for your New Monogamy Agreement" - a handout to create a relationship discussion that can help you start your new vision for the future of your new monogamy. Find me on social media: https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care Bonus: 101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot: Sign up and receive this checklist to spice things up in your relationship for free: http://sexologypodcast.com/subscribe Work with me: https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/ Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

Wednesday, October 30: Tony Spera on Annabelle, Dr. Tammy Talks to the Tribe About Public Sex

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Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2019 38:42

Tony Spera in studio for Freak Week - talking all about the infamous Annabelle doll in the Warren's home (0:00) Dr. Tammy Nelson in studio as the Tribe called in the times they had sex in public places, like a beach in full view of a passing boat. (14:17) Dumb Ass News - A crook with a stolen TV attempts his getaway on a motorcycle. (28:26) Jim Wiltsie on the phone to talk about how you can still get involved with the Vicki Soto 5K this weekend. (33:19)

Conversations Live With Vicki St Clair 10 - 14 - 19 Austin Kleon, Andrew Fazekas, Tammy Nelson

Conversations Live with Vicki St. Clair

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2019 54:25

So when the going gets tough, what do the tough do? They Keep Going! Creativity expert Austin Kleon returns with his latest book to share ways to stay creative in good times and bad. Find out why this “writer who draws” describes himself as a mongrel, and how that benefits his work. Why he says life is for art, and not other way around. How burnout can strike even if you love what you do. And, the big question, can you separate the art from the man, and the man from the art? Austin Kleon’s New York Times bestselling books include Steal Like an Artist and Show Your Work. Are you a stargazer? Andrew Fazekas is. So much so, that his passion for stargazing developed into a star-studded career, earning him the alias “The Night Sky Guy”. Today, he shares fun science facts, such as what causes the elusive “green flash” at sunset. And sheds light on his partnership with National Geographic to take the world’s first open-air, augmented-reality planetarium, to a global audience. Exciting times in Backyard Guide to the Night Sky. A science writer, speaker, and broadcaster Andrew Fazekas writes the StarStruck for National Geographic, and is the author of Star Trek: The Official Guide to Our Universe. Ending today’s show, if you’ve ever been cheated on, you might find it confusing when the cheater claims they are also confused. You may not even believe them–but according to sex therapist Dr. Tammy Nelson, they’re probably telling the truth. Dr. Nelson returns to Conversations Live to help unravel confusion on both sides of the cheating situation. She’ll offer tips on how to stop cheating if you’re the guilty party, and ways to move forward in When You’re the One Who Cheats: 10 Things You Need to Know. Tammy Nelson, PhD is a sex and relationship expert, international speaker, author, and licensed psychotherapist. She has 30 years of experience working with individuals and couples.

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E27 - Beyond Betrayal Trauma with Kristin Hodson, LCSW

Mormon Marriages

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2019 48:44

#6 Everything you need to know about Sex Tech with Bryony Cole

True Sex & Wild Love

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2019 69:10

Sex Tech is coming! How can it improve your life? Would you do it with a sex robot? What about a dirty talk tutorial from an app? Bryony Cole, a world leading expert on the intersection of sex, feminism, and technology talks us through it all This episode is brought to you by Sweet VibrationsVisit https://sweetvibes.toys/ and use the code "Wild Love" to get %15 off at checkout Connect with Bryony Cole:Website | http://www.bryonycole.co/Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/bryonyco/Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/bryonycole/Twitter | https://twitter.com/bryonycole Future of Sex | https://www.futureofsex.org/ Listen to the Future Of Sex Podcast | https://apple.co/2ytAQ4A Connect with Whitney Miller:Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/whitnlove/?hl=enFacebook | https://www.facebook.com/Miss2Jits/Twitter | https://twitter.com/whitnlove Connect with Wednesday Martin:Website | http://wednesdaymartin.com/Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wednesdaymartinphd/Twitter | https://twitter.com/WednesdayMartinFacebook | https://www.facebook.com/wednesdaymartinphd/YouTube | https://bit.ly/2zfvv1H Check out Wednesday Martin’s new book Untrue | http://wednesdaymartin.com/books/untrue/ Subscribe on Itunes https://apple.co/2XKfS0bSpotify | https://spoti.fi/2JPxuhnStitcher | https://bit.ly/2xYNQz0 Show NotesOMGyes | https://www.omgyes.com/OHNUT | https://bit.ly/2yoG5T8Real Doll | https://www.realdoll.com/Squish | https://unboundbabes.com/products/unbound-squishParma Ring | https://unboundbabes.com/products/palmaWomen of Sex Tech | https://www.womenofsextech.com/Realbotix Harmony AI | https://realbotix.com/HarmonyDr. Tammy Nelson | https://drtammynelson.com/Sue Jaye Johnson | http://suejaye.com/Dr Holly Richmond | http://drhollyrichmond.com/Kenneth Play | https://kennethplay.com/Mend | https://www.letsmend.com/Callisto | https://www.projectcallisto.org/The Rape Axe | https://rape-axe.com/Unbound | https://unboundbabes.com/The Womanizer | https://bit.ly/2LSvcScWe-Vibe | https://we-vibe.com/

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Wednesday, July 31: Police Chases In Branford, Falling In A Port-O-Potty, And AJ Gets Ready To Drag Race

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Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2019 59:49

Ashley is still trying to write her Maid of Honor speech for her sister's wedding, plus Dr. Tammy Nelson helps Ashley (0:00), Tony Terzi talks about the insane police chase last night in the Branford area that ended in a crash (17:29), Dumb Ass News - toddler's birthday cake says "Loser" and AJ thinks 2-year-old children can read (32:18), AJ is attempting his first drag race tonight, so Wayne at the Lebanon Valley Dragway was on to help (37:15), the lady who fell over in the port-o-potty at a state fair (45:47), and Dumb Ass News - a Tribe member shares the craziest things he's found on the job in the port-o-potty industry (53:57).

016: Recovering from Infidelity: The New Monogamy

Mormon Sex Info

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2019 65:36

Thank you for listening to Mormon Sex Info. This episode is an archived episode and is only now becoming publicly available. Mormon Sex Info relies on contributions. To contribute, please visit: mormonsex.info Please enjoy the episode. Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Dr. Tammy Nelson, author of The New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity, regarding the complicated issues and tasks associated with recovering from infidelity. So many applicable things are discussed, whether you have experienced infidelity in your relationship or not. How do we define infidelity in the first place? How does having dialogue about what monogamy means help prevent infidelity? What can one expect to experience when they have found out their partner has been unfaithful? What are some ways to categorize the different stages of crisis and healing a couple might go through as they deal with betrayal? How do we negotiate our sexual relationships in regards to what some would consider benign behaviors like being attracted to other people, masturbation, and flirtation all the way to deciding to open one’s marriage to the sexual or romantic involvement of other people? When does infidelity point towards the end of a relationship? How do we find meaning in betrayals – as far as what they tell us about our relationships and our roles in them? What’s the difference between forgiveness and empathy – and what roles do these play? A wonderful overview of the many complexities and possibilities couples are facing as they decide how to move forward after a significant betrayal. Tammy Nelson, PhD is a licensed psychotherapist in private practice, a relationship expert and international speaker, an author, a faculty member and teacher for over 25 years. She holds a Doctorate in Philosophy in Clinical Sexology, is a Board Certified Sexologist, a Diplomat of the American Board of Sexologists, a Licensed Professional Counselor, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Registered Art Therapist, a Licensed Alcohol and Drug Counselor, a Certified Imago Relationship therapist and an Advanced Imago Clinician. Dr. Nelson is the author of several books including, “The New Monogamy; Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity“ (January 2013), “Getting the Sex You Want; Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together” (2008), “What’s Eating You: A Workbook for Teens with Anorexia, Bulimia, and other Eating Disorders” (2004). Her latest book is currently under negotiation. She is the author of “Six Weeks to Desire” (2013), an eBook, currently published on Amazon, as well as several chapters of edited compilations and articles in professional journals. She has also been a featured expert in many media forums such as the New York Times, Women’s Health, Wall Street Journal and Redbook. Resources mentioned during podcast: The New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity For the Six Weeks to Desire Ebook contact Dr. Nelson directly: tammy@tammynelson.org

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Wednesday, June 12: Dr. Tammy Finds Sexual Clues In Our Song Pictures, Kristen Cusato Stops By, Missing New Canaan Mom Updates, And More!

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Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2019 66:31

Art Wiknik, veteran of the Vietnam War and Hamburger Hill, talks about the Chaz and AJ Veteran's Gala (0:00), Kristen Cusato plays her cajon to "Wipeout" and talks about the warning signs for Alzheimer's (6:31), attorney Matt Maddox talks about the missing New Canaan mother case and all that happened in Stamford court yesterday (16:56), Chaz, AJ and Ashley drew pictures based on how they feel while listening to a certain song, Dr. Tammy Nelson analyzed the pictures and found a lot of sexual clues (32:44), Dumb Ass News - Giraffes struck by lightning when dumb humans didn't get them out of a storm (54:41), and Alan Bakula talks about the Chaz and AJ Veteran's Gala...and being attacked by a cat (59:15).

#109 Cheating, Affairs and the New Monogamy With Dr. Tammy Nelson

Shameless Sex

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2019 71:52

What are the common reasons people stray from their partners? How common is it and how do folks rebuild relationships after infidelity? And what is the "New Monogamy" all about? We also answer a sex question: How can I reconnect to myself and learn to relax with my partner after sexual trauma? Dr. Tammy Nelson PhD is an internationally acclaimed psychotherapist and TEDx speaker and the author of several books including, “Getting the Sex You Want, “The New Monogamy; and her latest book "When You're the One Who Cheats." She has been a featured expert in the NY Times, Washington Post, Wall Street Journal, CNN, Rolling Stone Magazine, TIME, and a source in Time Magazine. She writes for Huffington Post, ThriveGlobal, Medium and has a new podcast, The Trouble with Sex. Dr. Tammy is a Board Certified Sexologist, a Certified Sex Therapist and a Certified Relationship Therapist. She can be found at drtammynelson.com Some other links we talk about: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Learn more about sexological bodywork with River Drosera at riverdrosera.life Access your free 30-day trial to Open Fit by texting sspodcast to 303030

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3:35 - Talking About Sexual Health With Your Family with Kristin Hodson

Our Modern Heritage: The Home & Family Culture Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2019 49:16

Kristin Hodson is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. She is Founder and Executive Director of The Healing Group mental health clinic in Salt Lake City and Co-Author of the book Real Intimacy: A Couples Guide for Genuine, Healthy Sexuality (Cedar Fort 2011). Additionally, she works as an adjunct professor teaching human sexuality to master level students working to become Social Workers and founded the Rocky Mountain Sex Summit in an effort to increase sexual health competency in mental health professionals. She has a unique ability to break down the topics of sexuality into easily digestible pieces empowering people to further develop their sexual identity, hone their sexual values, improve their communication around sexuality all with the intention to improve people’s relationships with themselves and others. Kristin is approachable, relatable and has a light sense of humor around something that often feels intimidating or heavy. She has been a guest presenter for nationally renowned sex therapist Dr. Gina Ogden and Dr. Tammy Nelson and has contributed to national media outlets including Huffington Post Live, NPR, Women’s Day Magazine and MTV and local outlets including RadioWest, Studio5,The Deseret News, RadioWest, The Salt Lake Tribune, Salt Lake City magazine, various podcasts and local news outlets. Kristin is a Mom of 3 wild things and a partner to her husband Jake living in Salt Lake City, Ut and Playa Grande, Costa Rica. You won't want to miss this conversation! I studied health promotion for my undergrad, and I remember thinking it was a little strange when one of my classes was completely focused on reproductive health even though it was supposed to be about general health throughout the lifespan. The reality is sexual health is not just something that comes up every once in a while. It isn't a "talk" you can have once or twice and check it off of your parental responsibility checklist. Talking about sexual health is infused into everything we do. If you don't believe me, listen to this episode. We all need to get really comfortable with this conversation. Our kids are going to look for this information one way or another. It needs to come from their parents. More than this, our culture is already steeping in sexual culture. If we don't talk about it and help our children recognize it, they will hear about it even without trying. Kristin shares an example of teaching her son how to recognize sexualized lyrics in the music he was listening to. I talk about subtle language that creeps into the way we talk to one another that prepares our children to consider boundaries and consent. It isn't always an explicit discussion about sex. It is talking about appropriate touch, red flags, safety, relationships, and interactions with one another. Find more from Kristin at http://kristinbhodson.com Join the Family Success Toolkit Free Membership http://homeandfamilyculture.com

73: Jim Fleckenstein – Consensual Non-Monogamy

Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2019 41:29

My guest is Jim Fleckenstein. He is a coach and educator on sexuality. He is also a researcher who focuses predominantly on non-exclusive relationships and how they affect the individuals involved. He is an expert in consensual non-monogamy and a wellspring of knowledge and insight, which he graciously shares in this episode. Jim shares stats and information on consensual non-monogamy, how those who practice it are reporting an overwhelming amount of satisfaction and happiness, how emotional needs have a lot to do with those who are drawn towards it, and how these relationship structures are actually much more common than you may have realized. This is just the tip of the iceberg of this discussion though. Listen along and learn a lot about this interesting topic! The Three Main Divisions of Consensual Non-Monogamy To start the interview, Jim breaks down consensual non-monogamy into polyamory, swinging, and open relationships. Polyamory is separate from the others because there is a chance for a deep emotional connection to be reinforced. While the others are more reserved for sexual acts, polyamory is can delve into the emotional as well as the sexual components of a relationship. Jim says that swinging is probably the oldest of the trio. And for those who don't know, it's a couple-centric act where couples work hard to establish an emotional wall to prevent emotional developments. They also don't have sex independently of one another. And in open relationships, partners are free to seek sexual liaisons outside of the primary relationship. Emotional connection is not established, and unlike swingers, they don't participate in sexual acts together but do their own thing instead. Jim says much more within the episode. Listen along! The Reasons Why Certain People Prefer Consensual Non-Monogamy For the reasons why people go the non-monogamous route, Jim says it has a lot to do with the emotional needs of the person. He says the question of “what is it that I am trying to attain here?” is a great question to ask to evaluate your emotional needs. Your needs will determine which version of consensual non-monogamy that you gravitate towards and want to eventually practice–if you do end up deciding that your emotional needs warrant the lifestyle, of course. Jim also talks about the boundaries that are established and how respecting those boundaries is important for the healthy functioning of any consensual non-monogamous relationship. Tune in! How Many People are Practicing? Jim says that it's difficult to have an accurate number or statistic for those who practice non-monogamous relationships. This is due to the fact that individuals can lose their jobs and their kids because of it, and in addition, it is still highly stigmatized in our country. This leads to a lot of people practicing in clandestine ways. So, because of these factors, it's hard to trust the surveys and numbers out there. But according to the stats, Jim says that somewhere between 2-7% of all relationships are practiced through one of the three divisions of consensual non-monogamy. The Importance of Education Jim shares a lot of important information on how people learn about polyamory or swinging by attending educational events where people discuss consensual non-monogamy in a non-sexual environment. Often the trepidations that occur can be alleviated through more understanding. And as is brought up during the episode, some of the concerns of being pressured by a partner into swinging or an open relationship can be addressed once more information is processed. He also makes it clear this needs to be a mutual decision. Who knows, maybe all it takes is a couple of events and you will comfortable enough with shifting your relationship dynamic! Maybe it will confirm your anxiety. Becoming educated is key! It destigmatizes and demystifies. Go-To Resources for Jim He says that his favorite go-to book is Opening Up by Tristan Taormino, for those who are curious about learning about or trying this relationship dynamic. It is a very comprehensive resource. The Ethical Slut is a good book as well, in addition to Designer Relationships. And for those who may have experienced infidelity, Tammy Nelson has a good book called The New Monogamy for handling the subject. Key (Affiliate) Links for Jim: Books he recommends: Opening Up : https://amzn.to/2WWhgZO Designer Relationships : https://amzn.to/2Jk3k7p The Ethical Slut :https://amzn.to/2th3tzf The New Monogamy : https://amzn.to/2Dy0Yxl Jim's website: https://www.affirmativeintimacy.com/ More info: Book and New Course – https://sexwithoutstress.com Web – https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/ Sex Health Quiz – http://sexhealthquiz.com/ If you're enjoying the podcast and want to be a part of making sure it continues in the future, consider being a patron. With a small monthly pledge, you can support the costs of putting this show together. For as little as $2 per month, you can get advance access to each episode. For just a bit more, you will receive an advance copy of a chapter of my new book. And for $10 per month, you get all that plus an invitation to an online Q&A chat with me once a quarter. Learn more at https://www.patreon.com/bettersexpodcast Better Sex with Jessa Zimmerman https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/More info and resources: How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com Access the Free webinar: How to make sex easy and fun for both of you: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast

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73: Jim Fleckenstein – Consensual Non-Monogamy

Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2019 41:29

My guest is Jim Fleckenstein. He is a coach and educator on sexuality. He is also a researcher who focuses predominantly on non-exclusive relationships and how they affect the individuals involved. He is an expert in consensual non-monogamy and a wellspring of knowledge and insight, which he graciously shares in this episode.Jim shares stats and information on consensual non-monogamy, how those who practice it are reporting an overwhelming amount of satisfaction and happiness, how emotional needs have a lot to do with those who are drawn towards it, and how these relationship structures are actually much more common than you may have realized.This is just the tip of the iceberg of this discussion though. Listen along and learn a lot about this interesting topic!The Three Main Divisions of Consensual Non-MonogamyTo start the interview, Jim breaks down consensual non-monogamy into polyamory, swinging, and open relationships.Polyamory is separate from the others because there is a chance for a deep emotional connection to be reinforced. While the others are more reserved for sexual acts, polyamory is can delve into the emotional as well as the sexual components of a relationship.Jim says that swinging is probably the oldest of the trio. And for those who don’t know, it’s a couple-centric act where couples work hard to establish an emotional wall to prevent emotional developments. They also don’t have sex independently of one another.And in open relationships, partners are free to seek sexual liaisons outside of the primary relationship. Emotional connection is not established, and unlike swingers, they don’t participate in sexual acts together but do their own thing instead.Jim says much more within the episode. Listen along!The Reasons Why Certain People Prefer Consensual Non-MonogamyFor the reasons why people go the non-monogamous route, Jim says it has a lot to do with the emotional needs of the person. He says the question of “what is it that I am trying to attain here?” is a great question to ask to evaluate your emotional needs.Your needs will determine which version of consensual non-monogamy that you gravitate towards and want to eventually practice–if you do end up deciding that your emotional needs warrant the lifestyle, of course.Jim also talks about the boundaries that are established and how respecting those boundaries is important for the healthy functioning of any consensual non-monogamous relationship. Tune in!How Many People are Practicing?Jim says that it’s difficult to have an accurate number or statistic for those who practice non-monogamous relationships. This is due to the fact that individuals can lose their jobs and their kids because of it, and in addition, it is still highly stigmatized in our country. This leads to a lot of people practicing in clandestine ways.So, because of these factors, it’s hard to trust the surveys and numbers out there. But according to the stats, Jim says that somewhere between 2-7% of all relationships are practiced through one of the three divisions of consensual non-monogamy.The Importance of EducationJim shares a lot of important information on how people learn about polyamory or swinging by attending educational events where people discuss consensual non-monogamy in a non-sexual environment.Often the trepidations that occur can be alleviated through more understanding. And as is brought up during the episode, some of the concerns of being pressured by a partner into swinging or an open relationship can be addressed once more information is processed. He also makes it clear this needs to be a mutual decision.Who knows, maybe all it takes is a couple of events and you will comfortable enough with shifting your relationship dynamic! Maybe it will confirm your anxiety. Becoming educated is key! It destigmatizes and demystifies.Go-To Resources for JimHe says that his favorite go-to book is Opening Up by Tristan Taormino, for those who are curious about learning about or trying this relationship dynamic. It is a very comprehensive resource. The Ethical Slut is a good book as well, in addition to Designer Relationships.And for those who may have experienced infidelity, Tammy Nelson has a good book called The New Monogamy for handling the subject.Key (Affiliate) Links for Jim: Books he recommends:Opening Up : https://amzn.to/2WWhgZODesigner Relationships : https://amzn.to/2Jk3k7pThe Ethical Slut :https://amzn.to/2th3tzfThe New Monogamy : https://amzn.to/2Dy0YxlJim’s website: https://www.affirmativeintimacy.com/More info:Book and New Course – https://sexwithoutstress.comWeb – https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/Sex Health Quiz – http://sexhealthquiz.com/If you’re enjoying the podcast and want to be a part of making sure it continues in the future, consider being a patron. With a small monthly pledge, you can support the costs of putting this show together. For as little as $2 per month, you can get advance access to each episode. For just a bit more, you will receive an advance copy of a chapter of my new book. And for $10 per month, you get all that plus an invitation to an online Q&A chat with me once a quarter. Learn more at https://www.patreon.com/bettersexpodcastBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/

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73: Jim Fleckenstein – Consensual Non-Monogamy