Living Deeper Lives with Steven Webb

Links to Steven Webb's podcast and how you can support his work.Donate paypal.me/stevenwebb or Coffee stevenwebb.ukSteven's courses, podcasts and links: stevenwebb.ukEpisode 147: The Truth About Anxiety & Imposter SyndromeWelcome to Stillness in the Storms with your host, Steven Webb. In this deeply personal and insightful episode, Steven tackles two of the most common yet misunderstood challenges: anxiety and imposter syndrome.He argues that these feelings themselves are not the problem. The real issue? Our belief that we shouldn't be experiencing them. Steven shares his own vulnerable journey, from council meetings feeling unqualified, to navigating high-pressure Q&A panels, and the everyday internal dialogues that come with stepping up.Key Themes & Takeaways:Reframing the "Problem": Anxiety and imposter syndrome are natural human experiences, not flaws to be eradicated. The real struggle comes from resisting them.The Power of Listening (Not Obeying): Our minds are full of voices – some fearful, some critical, some brave. The skill is in acknowledging them all, like a chairperson listening to a committee, without letting any single voice dictate your actions.Authenticity in Vulnerability: Sharing your doubts and fears doesn't make you weak; it makes you relatable and authentic. Steven would rather be in a room with people who acknowledge their imposter syndrome than those who deny it.Showing Up Anyway: True courage isn't the absence of fear, but acting despite it. Your unique 1% of knowledge or perspective might be exactly what someone else needs to hear.Personal Anecdotes of Resilience:Feeling like an outsider in professional council meetings.The "climate change conference" Q&A panel where a simple, honest answer resonated most.Being a charity trustee (Community Energy Plus) and doubting his contribution.The internal battle when asked to apply for a vice-chair role.The physical manifestations of anxiety before important events.It Doesn't Go Away, It Becomes Part of the Dialogue: These feelings may not disappear, but our relationship with them can change. They can become familiar (if sometimes annoying) companions rather than paralyzing enemies.Food for Thought:What if your anxiety and imposter syndrome are simply signals, not stop signs?How can you "chair" the committee of voices in your own head more effectively?Remember: "Confidence isn't the absence of self-doubt; it's showing up anyway."Support Stillness in the Storms:This podcast is ad-free thanks to listeners like you! If you find value in these conversations, please consider supporting the show with a donation (like buying Steven a coffee!). https://stevenwebb.uk

Links to Steven Webb's podcast and how you can support his work.Donate paypal.me/stevenwebbSteven's courses, podcasts and links: stevenwebb.ukSelf-acceptance is key, and today we dive into how Zen teaches us to stop needing to fix our lives. We explore what Zen really means and how we can apply it to our daily routines without it just being some trendy catchphrase. Through this episode, we challenge the idea that our lives are broken and discuss the importance of embracing the present moment as it is. I share personal stories and insights on how Zen can help us find peace amidst chaos. So, let's sit back, relax, and learn how to just be in our moments without the urge to change everything around us.Self acceptance is a journey we all navigate, and in this episode, Steven Webb dives deep into the concept of Zen and how it relates to our everyday lives. He shares a powerful quote: "Zen doesn't fix your life; it stops you needing to." This sets the stage for a conversation about what Zen truly means. It's not just a trendy phrase or a meme we see online; it's about embracing the present moment and realizing that life is not broken, but rather, we often feel the urge to fix things that don't need fixing. Steven invites listeners to explore how to incorporate Zen into their lives, focusing on being present and accepting ourselves as we are. He emphasizes that life is full of challenges, but rather than trying to change everything, we can learn to sit with our experiences and recognize that suffering is part of being human. By adopting a Zen mindset, we can find peace in the chaos and appreciate the beauty of the moment without the constant need for improvement.Takeaways: Zen doesn't fix your life but helps you stop needing to fix it. Being present in the moment allows you to accept life as it is right now. The desire to always fix things can lead to never-ending dissatisfaction in life. Happiness is not an achievement but an experience that happens in the mundane.

We're diving into the idea of our circles of acceptance today. How big is your circle of love and understanding? I've been thinking about how our perspectives change as we grow up, from a tiny circle in childhood to something much larger as adults. It's fascinating to look at how our circles can expand or contract based on our experiences and feelings. I'll be sharing some insights on this journey and how it affects our relationships with ourselves and others. Plus, I've got a guided meditation coming up that'll help us explore these circles even more. Let's get into it!Links to Steven Webb's podcast and how you can support his work.Donate paypal.me/stevenwebbSteven's courses, podcasts and links: stevenwebb.uk

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Links to Steven Webb's podcast and how you can support his work.Donate paypal.me/stevenwebbSteven's courses, podcasts and links: stevenwebb.ukTaking little timeouts can be a powerful spiritual practice. I'm Steven Webb, and today we dive into how those forced pauses in our day can help us find inner peace, even when life feels chaotic. We often think that spirituality means lengthy meditation sessions, but it doesn't have to be that complicated. Instead, we can use everyday moments—like waiting at a traffic light or taking a breath before a meeting—to reconnect with ourselves. Let's explore how these simple breaks can help us manage stress and stay present, making our spiritual journey a lot more manageable and meaningful.Finding peace in a fast-paced world can be a daunting task, but it's all about perspective. This podcast episode dives into the teachings of Thich Nhat Hanh and the simple yet profound practice of taking timeouts to reconnect with ourselves. I share my own experiences, noting that while I can smile and breathe, the challenge often lies in slowing down. The message here is that spirituality can be found in the everyday moments, not just in long meditation sessions or complicated practices.Throughout our conversation, I encourage listeners to embrace the forced pauses in their daily lives, such as waiting at traffic lights or dealing with interruptions. These moments can be transformed into opportunities for mindfulness, helping us to breathe, reset, and refocus. By allowing ourselves to take these timeouts, we can cultivate a sense of calm that permeates our lives, helping us navigate the chaos with more grace and clarity.I remind everyone that the spiritual journey is not a straight line; it's filled with ups and downs, and that's perfectly okay. It's about becoming more compassionate toward ourselves and recognizing that we're all doing our best. By integrating these small moments of stillness into our day, we can create a more peaceful existence and ultimately allow ourselves to respond to life rather than react. This episode serves as a gentle nudge to appreciate the little pauses that life offers us and to use them as tools for growth and awareness.Takeaways: Thich Nhat Hanh teaches us to smile, breathe, and take things slow in life. Spiritual growth isn't just about long meditations; it's about finding peace in small moments. Using forced timeouts can help us reconnect with ourselves and find inner calm. Compassion and self-acceptance are signs that your spiritual journey is making progress. Life's ups and downs are normal; accepting this messiness is part of the journey. Each little moment of stillness helps us build a longer fuse to manage stress better.

Links to Steven Webb's podcast and how you can support his work.Donate paypal.me/stevenwebbSteven's courses, podcasts and links: stevenwebb.ukWhat if enlightenment isn't about hours of meditation or decades of study, but tiny moments of awareness you can practice anywhere, anytime? After paralysis, heartbreak, and a battle with intrusive thoughts, Steven Webb discovered that awakening thrives in life's margins—in stolen seconds between tasks, breaths during chaos, and pauses before reactions. In this episode, he shares:How to turn traffic jams, work stress, and even arguments into portals of peaceWhy 2-minute practices work better than marathon meditation sessions (and how to start)The science-backed power of "enlightened micro-moments" to rewire your brainWhy This Episode Will Help You⏱️ "Enlightenment for the time-poor" – Transform洗碗, commuting, or waiting in line into spiritual practice

Links to Steven Webb's podcast and how you can support his work.Donate paypal.me/stevenwebbSteven's courses, podcasts and links: stevenwebb.ukGratitude meditation LinkIn this episode of "Stillness in the Storms," Steven Webb reflects on the overwhelming challenges of the modern world, from global crises to personal struggles. He acknowledges the "storm" that many feel – the constant barrage of negative news, societal pressures, and personal difficulties. However, Stephen guides listeners towards finding moments of peace and gratitude amidst the chaos. He shares his own recent struggles with illness and how he's working to shift his focus from external turmoil to inner resilience.Key Quotes:"The storm feels like it's worse than ever... whether it's political, whether it's weather, or whether it's just the information bombardment.""How much of the outside storm are you bringing in?""How many open doors? How many times are you going to sit? Are you sitting outside in the storm?""It's all well and good that we can blame the world for the storms, but we've got to ask ourselves.""We also have still so much to lose, and so much to fight for. And so much to be grateful for.""If you just learn to hold them [life's challenges] in the right way, not too, not too tight, not too loose, music plays through you.""Life's got to play through us.""It's about balance.""Don't connect with the world so much that you're filling your mind with everything you can not cope with.""Close your door but don't close it so tight it's locked."How This Episode Helps Listeners:Validation: Acknowledges the widespread feeling of being overwhelmed by current events and personal struggles, offering a sense of shared experience.Perspective Shift: Encourages listeners to examine how much external negativity they are internalizing and to consciously limit their exposure to it.Gratitude Practice: Promotes a focus on gratitude for the simple things in life, highlighting what we still have to lose and appreciate, even amidst hardship.Mindfulness Reminder: Reinforces the importance of being present and finding stillness in the moment, rather than being consumed by future worries or past regrets.Practical Steps: Offers tangible actions like limiting news consumption, focusing on what's within one's control ("arm's length"), and engaging in activities that bring joy.Balance: Highlights the need for balance between engagement with the world and self-care, avoiding both excessive exposure and complete disconnection.Self-Awareness: Prompts self-reflection on personal coping mechanisms and encourages listeners to recognize when they might be overly stressed or anxious.Community: Mentions a WhatsApp support group for those who have supported the podcast, fostering a sense of connection and shared journey.Resouces: Mentions the Inner Piece Meditations, and stephenwebb.uk for further support.

Links to Steven Webb's podcast and how you can support his work.Donate paypal.me/stevenwebbSteven's courses, podcasts and links: stevenwebb.ukLife is all about those little moments, and I really want to dive into that today. I recently reflected on my journey, where I covered 500 miles in Cornwall using my electric wheelchair, and it hit me how my life is just a collection of moments. Yesterday, I had a powerful encounter with a paramedic from 33 years ago who helped me during a critical time, and it brought back a flood of emotions. I realized that our experiences aren't just a straight line; they're a bunch of moments that shape who we are. So, let's chat about the moments that matter, how we can cherish them, and reflect on what they teach us.Reflecting on life's fleeting moments can be profound. Steven Webb shares his journey of exploring the significance of moments in our lives, particularly through his experiences over the past year. He embarked on a remarkable 500-mile journey around Cornwall using his electric wheelchair, meticulously documenting his adventures. As he revisits his diary, he realizes that life is not just a series of events, but a collection of moments that shape our existence. Each encounter, each emotion, and each experience contributes to the mosaic of our lives. During a poignant moment, he reconnects with Melvin, the paramedic who flew him to Salisbury 33 years ago, triggering a flood of emotions and reflections on how interconnected our lives can be, even across decades. Steven encourages listeners to reflect on their own lives and the moments that have defined them. He emphasizes that memories are stored not in a linear fashion but as emotional experiences. Whether joyful or painful, these moments teach us resilience and shape who we are. He shares personal anecdotes, like the time he walked his dog and how that experience became a lasting memory. These moments, whether big or small, can hold great significance. As the episode unfolds, Steven invites us to cherish every moment, reminding us that they are fleeting yet impactful. He urges us to embrace the good and the bad experiences alike, as they all contribute to our growth. Life is about collecting these moments, learning from them, and creating new ones that define our journey. The essence of his message is clear: every moment is a gift, and it is up to us to recognize and appreciate them as we navigate through life.Takeaways: Life is made up of moments, and those moments are what shape our experiences. When I look back at my life, I remember the moments that made me feel deeply. Collect moments that are meaningful, both good and bad, as they shape who you are. Emotions play a huge role in how we remember and store our life experiences. The universe might have a plan, and every moment could teach us something valuable. Cherish the small moments with loved ones, as they will be significant in the future.

This episode delves into the profound and often unspoken struggles of accepting one's disability, as host Steven Webb reflects on his personal journey and the metaphorical "elephant" in the room. He candidly shares his experiences of grappling with acceptance, the societal labels surrounding disability, and the complexities of living a life that sometimes feels disconnected from his physical reality. Steven questions whether true acceptance is possible or if avoidance is at play, exploring the paradox of living fully in the moment while wrestling with the implications of his condition. Through his reflections, he highlights the importance of recognizing and sitting with our struggles, while also acknowledging that everyone has their own "elephant" to face. This conversation invites listeners to contemplate their own challenges and the nature of acceptance, emphasizing that finding peace amidst life's turbulence is a shared human experience.In a heartfelt narrative, Steven Webb shares his personal journey of navigating life with a disability in his latest podcast episode. After a prolonged illness, he reflects on his experiences and the emotional weight of accepting his paralysis. The episode begins with a candid discussion about his health struggles and the subsequent introspection it sparked, leading to the creation of a poignant written piece. Through this piece, Steven confronts the uncomfortable reality of his condition and the societal implications of disability. He shares how relinquishing his manual wheelchair felt like an admission of defeat, a poignant moment that encapsulates the profound struggle many face in coming to terms with their identities.As he reads his writing, Steven poses thought-provoking questions about acceptance and the nature of suffering. He explores the irony that while he has built a life that appears optimistic and full, he has not fully reconciled with his disability. This tension between outward appearance and internal acceptance becomes a focal point of the discussion. Stephen encourages listeners to reflect on their own 'elephants'—the unacknowledged truths in their lives—and to consider the value of sitting with discomfort rather than fleeing from it. He emphasizes that true acceptance may not come from fighting against our realities but from recognizing and embracing them.The episode evolves into a broader philosophical discourse on the essence of suffering and the human experience. Steven articulates the idea that the desire to alleviate suffering is a fundamental aspect of life, influencing our choices and interactions. He suggests that in our quest for relief, we often overlook the beauty of simply being present with our struggles. By fostering a sense of stillness amidst life's challenges, Steven advocates for a mindful approach to acceptance that allows for vulnerability and growth. The conversation ultimately serves as a reminder that while the path of acceptance is fraught with questions, it is also rich with opportunities for connection and understanding.Takeaways: Acceptance can be a complicated journey; sometimes it feels like avoidance instead. Living fully doesn't guarantee acceptance of one's reality; it may mask deeper struggles. The paradox of living in the moment is that it often hides past pain. Sometimes, acknowledging the elephant in the room can lead to profound insights. Suffering less is a universal goal, but understanding how to achieve it is personal. Finding stillness amidst life's storms is crucial for personal peace and growth. Links referenced in this episode:https://stevenwebb.uk

Links to Steven Webb's podcast and how you can support his work.Donate paypal.me/stevenwebbSteven's courses, podcasts and links: stevenwebb.ukThe exploration of the true self is a central theme in this episode, as Steven Webb delves into the elusive nature of our authentic identity beyond the ego. He discusses how the false self, shaped by our stories and experiences, often leads to suffering and disconnection from our true essence. By inviting listeners to embrace moments of stillness and awareness, Steven highlights the importance of recognizing the constant presence of our true self, which offers unconditional love and acceptance. Throughout the conversation, he shares personal anecdotes and insights on the journey of self-discovery, emphasizing that true peace and safety reside within us, waiting to be acknowledged. This episode encourages a deeper understanding of oneself and the liberation that comes from letting go of ego-driven narratives.Exploring the concept of the true self, Steven Webb guides listeners on a profound journey into understanding the essence that lies beneath the layers of ego and identity. The conversation begins with the recognition that traditional words often fail to capture the depth of this experience, as it transcends emotion and thought. Webb emphasizes the paradox of the true self being both always present yet elusive, often overshadowed by the narratives we create about ourselves. He contrasts the true self with the false self, defined by the stories and roles we adopt throughout our lives, such as being a podcast host, a city counselor, or simply Stephen. This dialogue encourages listeners to delve deeper into their consciousness, moving beyond the ego's limitations to experience a state of awareness that is tranquil, expansive, and free from desire.Webb's reflections also touch on the importance of experiencing this true self for those on a spiritual journey, particularly those who seek to alleviate suffering. He articulates that understanding the true self is crucial for realizing inner peace, as the ego often drives our pain and desires. By allowing oneself to simply be—free from the compulsion to act or react—listeners can uncover a profound sense of peace and acceptance. This state of awareness, described as non-focused yet all-encompassing, is likened to a moment of stillness where one becomes aware of everything without attachment to any particular thought or feeling. The episode culminates in a powerful poem that encapsulates these themes, inviting listeners to embrace the silence and stillness that exists beyond the chaos of the mind.The conversation is rich with insights and practical guidance for those looking to explore their inner landscape. Webb encourages a deep breath and a moment of presence, illustrating how this practice can lead to a transformative awareness. This episode not only serves as a philosophical exploration but also as a call to action for listeners to reconnect with their true selves, promoting a sense of peace that is always within reach. Ultimately, Steven Webb's contemplative approach provides a nurturing space for listeners to reflect on their identities, their desires, and the essence of who they truly are beneath the noise of everyday life.Takeaways: The true self is a place of awareness beyond our ego and narratives. Understanding the true self can lead to reduced suffering in our spiritual journey. The ego creates a story of who we think we are, but it's not our essence. True love is about feeling safe and accepted without judgment or...

I'd like to wish you a peaceful New Year, and hope it continues throughout.Support the podcast and keep it ad-free by visiting https://stevenwebb.uk and treating Steven to a coffee.This podcast episode centers around the theme of interdependence, highlighting the importance of recognizing our reliance on others throughout life. Steven Webb expresses gratitude for the support he has received over the past year, sharing personal experiences that illustrate how moments and connections shape our lives. He reflects on his journey, emphasizing that life is about the moments we create with others rather than a linear path. The conversation touches on vulnerability and the need for community, urging listeners to embrace their dependence on one another. Ultimately, Steven's heartfelt message encourages us to appreciate the relationships that enrich our lives and to approach each other with kindness and understanding.A heartfelt reflection on the past year unfolds as Steven Webb expresses gratitude and shares profound insights about life and interdependence. He begins by contemplating the significance of marking the New Year, suggesting that our human experience is far more magical than mere calendar dates. Through personal anecdotes, including his remarkable journey of completing 500 miles in an electric wheelchair for charity, Steven emphasizes the importance of moments over milestones, highlighting how life's beauty is often found in fleeting interactions and the kindness of strangers. Steven candidly discusses his reliance on others due to his physical challenges, revealing a deeper truth about human existence: we all need each other. Whether it's seeking help to get out of bed, showering, or simply sharing experiences, the need for connection is universal. He challenges the societal stigma that comes with dependency, advocating for a mindset shift towards embracing our interdependence as a source of strength rather than weakness. This episode is a celebration of vulnerability, kindness, and the little moments that shape our lives, urging listeners to open their hearts to the help and love that surrounds them.Takeaways: Life is about moments rather than a linear journey; cherish the moments you create. Interdependence is essential; everyone relies on others for support and connection. We need to embrace vulnerability and accept help from others in our lives. Recognizing our interdependence can lead to deeper connections and understanding among people. Kindness from strangers can leave lasting impressions and create beautiful memories. Being open to receiving help allows us to foster greater community and support networks.

Support the podcast and keep it ad-free by visiting https://stevenwebb.uk and treating Steven to a coffee.Stillness in the Storms course here: use voucher 50FOR10 - The holiday season can bring a mix of joy and complexity to our spiritual journeys, making it a time of both celebration and challenge. Steven Webb explores the difficulties of family gatherings during Christmas, highlighting how diverse emotions such as grief, joy, and stress can impact our well-being. He emphasizes the importance of cultivating compassion for ourselves and others, especially when expectations run high and disappointments loom. Drawing from his experiences and teachings from various spiritual leaders, Steven encourages listeners to embrace the moment as it is, fostering acceptance and understanding amidst the chaos. Through mindfulness and loving-kindness meditation, he offers tools to navigate this turbulent season with grace and openness.The holiday season is often painted as a time of joy and celebration, yet Steven Webb explores the underlying complexities that come with family gatherings during Christmas. In this thoughtful episode, he addresses the challenges many face, from the resurfacing of old wounds to the pressures of societal expectations for happiness. The reality is that while some may feel the thrill of holiday cheer, others may grapple with grief, loneliness, or disappointment. Webb emphasizes the importance of compassion—both for ourselves and for those around us—in navigating these mixed emotions. Drawing from various spiritual teachings, Webb encourages a mindful approach to the holiday season. He discusses the value of lowering our expectations, suggesting that by doing so, we create space for acceptance and understanding. Each family member comes with their own set of emotions and experiences, and recognizing this can lead to a more harmonious gathering. Webb's reflections highlight the necessity of acknowledging the reality of our feelings rather than forcing ourselves or others into a narrative of constant cheer. To complement his insights, Webb offers a guided meditation designed to cultivate loving-kindness, allowing listeners to find peace amidst the holiday chaos. This practice serves as a reminder that true spiritual growth lies in our ability to embrace the full spectrum of human experience—from joy to sorrow—and to extend compassion to ourselves and others during this meaningful time of year. By fostering a more inclusive and accepting atmosphere, Webb inspires listeners to approach Christmas with an open heart and a sense of connection.Takeaways: Navigating the complexities of family dynamics during the holiday season requires compassion and understanding. The holiday season can amplify our emotions, making it crucial to practice loving kindness toward ourselves and others. Our spiritual journeys are less about achieving perfection and more about reducing suffering for ourselves and those around us. Expectations for Christmas often lead to disappointment; lowering these expectations can help foster acceptance. Recognizing that everyone has different experiences and feelings during Christmas can enhance our compassion. Mindfulness at Christmas means accepting the present moment, including our emotions and the dynamics around us. Links referenced in this episode:stevenwebb.uk

Support the podcast and keep it ad-free by visiting https://stevenwebb.uk and treating Steven to a coffee.Vulnerability is often perceived as a weakness, but in this episode, Steven Webb reframes it as a powerful aspect of our humanity that can be embraced with courage and wisdom. He shares his personal experiences, illustrating how vulnerability is an inherent part of life, from our dependence on others from birth to the challenges we face as we age. By acknowledging our vulnerabilities, we can open ourselves to growth and connection rather than fear and isolation. Steven emphasizes the importance of recognizing the various voices within us—such as fear, courage, and wisdom—that accompany our feelings of vulnerability. Ultimately, he encourages listeners to lean into their vulnerabilities, understanding that they can coexist with strength and bravery, leading to deeper personal insights and relationships.Stephen Webb delves into the often misunderstood concept of vulnerability, arguing that it is not only a universal trait but also a vital aspect of human connection and personal growth. He begins by emphasizing that everyone experiences vulnerability, whether it be through reliance on others in infancy or facing health challenges later in life. Through his personal experiences with paralysis and the ongoing need for assistance, Stephen illustrates the depth of vulnerability and how it can foster a sense of empathy and community. He invites listeners to reflect on their own vulnerabilities, framing them as opportunities for connection rather than obstacles to overcome.A significant theme in Stephen's discussion is the dual nature of vulnerability—the state of being vulnerable and the feelings associated with it. He highlights that while we may find ourselves in vulnerable positions, we do not always have to feel vulnerable. By identifying and amplifying the voices of courage and wisdom within us, we can navigate our fears and embrace our vulnerabilities with grace. Stephen's insights prompt listeners to consider what emotional voices they allow to dominate during moments of vulnerability and how shifting this perspective can lead to empowerment and resilience.Ultimately, Stephen encourages his audience to lean into their vulnerabilities, viewing them as pathways to deeper relationships and personal transformation. He concludes with a call to action, urging listeners to embrace their vulnerabilities as a part of their journey rather than something to shy away from. This episode serves as a poignant reminder that vulnerability is not a weakness, but rather a strength that can lead to profound growth and connection with others.Takeaways: Vulnerability is an inherent part of being human, and we all experience it. Asking for help is one of the most courageous acts of vulnerability one can demonstrate. Vulnerability can be embraced as a positive trait, leading to personal growth and connection. Recognizing the different voices within us helps us navigate feelings of vulnerability effectively. When feeling vulnerable, we should also acknowledge voices of courage and wisdom that empower us. Embracing vulnerability allows for deeper relationships and a more authentic life experience.

Support the podcast and keep it ad-free by visiting https://stevenwebb.uk and treating Steven to a coffee.Going beyond mindfulness can deepen our spiritual insight and enhance our understanding of life's lessons. Steven Webb shares personal reflections while observing the beauty of autumn, emphasizing how nature teaches us valuable lessons about acceptance and awareness. He discusses the simplicity of mindfulness as non-judgmental awareness, but challenges listeners to explore what lies beneath that awareness. By asking insightful questions about our surroundings and experiences, we can gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us. Steven encourages everyone to reflect on what each moment can teach us, fostering a greater connection to both our internal and external environments.The essence of Steven Webb's podcast centers around transcending traditional mindfulness practices to delve into a more profound spiritual journey. Drawing from his observations during a serene autumn day, he invites listeners to appreciate the beauty of nature and the valuable lessons it imparts about life, particularly in moments of letting go. Steven's candid reflection on his personal struggles with overwhelm and the challenges of maintaining mindfulness resonates deeply, as he shares the duality of being aware yet feeling burdened by life's complexities. This juxtaposition sets the stage for a rich exploration of what it means to move beyond mere mindfulness, encouraging an active engagement with our surroundings and internal landscapes.Steven articulates the critical distinction between simply being present and seeking to understand the lessons each moment offers. He advocates for an inquisitive approach to mindfulness, encouraging listeners to ask themselves deeper questions about their experiences. Rather than treating mindfulness as a checklist of practices, he positions it as a dynamic process of exploration and learning. This perspective not only enhances the practice of mindfulness but also cultivates a sense of gratitude and appreciation for the interconnectedness of all things. As Steven discusses the wisdom that can be found in observing nature and our own reactions to it, he empowers listeners to see the potential for growth in every situation, no matter how mundane.The episode culminates in a powerful call to action: to reflect upon daily experiences and derive personal insights. Steven proposes keeping a reflective journal to document moments of clarity and understanding, fostering a habit of contemplation that enriches the mindfulness experience. By framing mindfulness as an ongoing journey rather than a destination, he inspires listeners to embrace life's lessons fully and cultivate a deeper sense of connection to themselves and the world around them. This thought-provoking dialogue not only enhances the listener's understanding of mindfulness but also encourages a transformative approach to spiritual growth, making it a must-listen for anyone seeking greater depth in their practice.Takeaways: Mindfulness is about non-judgmental awareness of the present moment and our surroundings. Going beyond mindfulness involves asking deeper questions about our experiences and surroundings. Nature teaches us valuable lessons about letting go and accepting the flow of life. Awareness of our internal states can help us manage stress and improve our health. Every moment holds potential lessons; it's important to contemplate what each moment teaches us. A deeper gratitude involves understanding the interconnectedness of our experiences beyond surface-level appreciation. Links referenced in this episode:stevenWebb.uk

Support the podcast and keep it ad-free by visiting https://stevenwebb.uk and treating Steven to a coffee.What would you be without your story? In this thought-provoking episode, Steven Webb explores the profound question of identity beyond the narratives we construct from our past experiences. He likens our lives to a canvas that others have painted for us, shaped by the influences of family, friends, and society. As Steven delves into the concept of ego, he encourages listeners to recognize that while our stories inform us, they do not define us. By embracing the idea of starting anew each day, we can paint our lives with fresh colors, cultivate compassion, and reduce suffering, ultimately discovering new possibilities for our identities. Join Steven as he invites you to challenge your perceptions and consider how you can reshape your own narrative.The podcast takes an introspective turn as Steven Webb examines the question of identity through the lens of personal narrative, asking, 'Who are you without your story?' This inquiry invites listeners to explore the profound impact their life experiences and societal labels have on their sense of self. Webb likens our identities to a blank canvas, suggesting that the colors we are given—our upbringing, relationships, and societal norms—greatly influence how we paint our lives. He challenges the audience to reconsider the labels they adopt, such as their professional roles or familial identities, and how these can limit their perception of what is possible. As the discussion unfolds, Webb delves into the nature of the ego, articulating how it is a construct that both protects and constrains us. He highlights the importance of recognizing that while our past experiences shape us, they do not have to define our futures. Through various analogies, he illustrates the potential for reinvention and the idea that individuals can choose how to express themselves in the present moment, effectively 'painting' their own life stories with intention and mindfulness. This perspective fosters a sense of possibility, encouraging listeners to embrace change and challenge the narratives that may hold them back. Ultimately, Webb's message resonates with the idea that identity is not a static concept but rather a dynamic one that can evolve over time. By encouraging a flexible approach to self-definition, he empowers listeners to drop the weight of their stories and embrace the freedom that comes with living authentically. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that each moment presents an opportunity to redefine who we are and how we engage with the world around us.Takeaways: The question 'Who are you without your story?' challenges us to rethink our identities. Stories and labels we adopt often come from others, shaping our perceptions of ourselves. We can choose how to paint our life canvas, using different colors as we wish. Dropping our story doesn't mean losing our past; it means taking it less seriously. Living in the moment allows us to explore new possibilities and reduce our suffering. By recognizing that we are not our stories, we can embrace change and growth. Links referenced in this episode:stevenwebb.uk

Support the podcast and keep it ad-free by visiting https://stevenwebb.uk and treating Steven to a coffee.Letting go is a challenging but essential process for finding inner peace, as discussed by Steven Webb in this episode of Stillness in the Storms. He explores the difficulty of releasing past hurts and expectations, sharing personal experiences to illustrate how deeply our minds cling to these burdens. Steven introduces a unique technique inspired by Taoism and the teachings of Alan Watts, emphasizing the importance of non-action and acceptance in the process of letting go. By comparing our attachment to feelings and thoughts to how trees naturally shed their leaves, he highlights the power of allowing things to simply fall away without resistance. Ultimately, this episode encourages listeners to embrace a mindset of doing nothing with their thoughts, fostering a sense of freedom and space to pursue what truly matters.Takeaways: Letting go is a process of non-action and acceptance, rather than forcing yourself to forget. When we hold onto pain, it becomes difficult to let go and move forward in life. Like trees in autumn, we can learn to release our burdens simply by allowing them to fall away. It's human nature to hold onto expectations and past grievances, complicating our emotional well-being. Understanding that we can choose how to respond to negative thoughts can empower our peace. Practicing Wu Wei, or non-action, helps us to maintain calmness amid life's storms.

Support the podcast and keep it ad-free by visiting https://stevenwebb.uk and treating Steven to a coffee.In this podcast, Steven Webb explores the concept that there are no inherently positive or negative thoughts, emphasizing that while we cannot choose which thoughts arise, we can choose how we respond to them. He highlights the importance of observing our thoughts rather than getting entangled in them, suggesting that by doing so, we can significantly reduce our suffering. Drawing on personal experiences, Stephen shares how his journey through meditation and self-awareness has helped him better manage his busy mind and negative thought patterns. He encourages listeners to practice mindfulness by simply acknowledging their thoughts without judgment, allowing for a greater sense of peace and control in their lives. Join Stephen as he provides insights and tools to cultivate a calmer, more centered state of being, enabling you to navigate life's challenges with less emotional turmoil.Takeaways: You cannot control which thoughts arise, but you can choose how to respond to them. Understanding that thoughts are not inherently positive or negative can reduce suffering. Observing thoughts as they come allows you to detach and prevent unnecessary emotional reactions. Training your subconscious mind involves choosing to engage with thoughts that serve you best. Thoughts should be viewed as trains at a station; you can choose which ones to board. By allowing thoughts to pass without engaging them, you cultivate a more peaceful mindset. Links referenced in this episode:stevenwebb.ukExploring the intricate relationship between our thoughts and our perception of reality, Steven Webb delves into the profound concept that thoughts, whether deemed positive or negative, are merely fleeting phenomena that do not define us. Drawing from personal experiences and a background in meditation, he articulates how the mind's primary function is to generate thoughts, much like the heart pumps blood. The true power lies not in the thoughts themselves, but in our capacity to choose whether or not to engage with them. Webb emphasizes that while we cannot control which thoughts arise, we can certainly influence how we respond to them. This pivotal distinction can lead to a significant reduction in suffering, allowing individuals to cultivate a more peaceful existence. As he shares insights gathered from his journey through paralysis and meditation, listeners are encouraged to observe their thoughts without judgment, creating space between stimulus and response, ultimately leading to a more harmonious state of mind.Steven also introduces the metaphor of a train station to illustrate how thoughts come and go, much like trains arriving and departing. Each thought presents an opportunity for engagement, yet we are not obligated to board every train that arrives. By making conscious choices about which thoughts to follow, we can train our subconscious to present us with more of what we desire, whether that be gratitude, joy, or peace. Webb's candid storytelling, including anecdotes about his challenges, invites listeners to reframe their understanding of thought patterns, shifting away from a binary perspective of positivity and negativity. This change in viewpoint can empower individuals to navigate their mental landscapes with greater ease and clarity, fostering a sense of agency in their emotional experiences.Through guided meditative practices, Webb encourages listeners to embrace moments of stillness as a means to observe their thoughts. By stepping back and...

Support the podcast and keep it ad-free by visiting https://stevenwebb.uk and treating Steven to a coffee.Join Steven Webb as he reflects on the profound moments that shape our lives, emphasizing the importance of cherishing even the smallest experiences. After a remarkable journey of 500 miles around Cornwall, Steven shares heartfelt stories and insights gained from his travels, highlighting how memories are created and stored in our minds. He encourages listeners to embrace the present, asking what gifts each moment holds, and to recognize the emotional weight of both joyful and painful experiences. Through his personal narrative, Steven illustrates how moments, whether grand or mundane, contribute to our life's richness.Exploring the beauty of life's moments, Steven Webb reflects on his recent journey around Cornwall, where he completed an impressive 500-mile trek despite the challenges posed by his paralysis. The podcast delves into the profound impact of memories and the significance of experiences that shape our lives. Webb shares anecdotes from his travels, highlighting heartwarming encounters with locals and the essence of community. Each moment, from the kindness of strangers to the unexpected challenges of the weather, serves as a reminder that life is a series of fleeting instances. Through his storytelling, Webb encourages listeners to embrace the present and find joy in the small, often overlooked experiences that make life extraordinary. As he navigates through personal reflections, he emphasizes the importance of perspective and the choice to focus on the positives, even amid adversity.Links referenced in this episode:stevenwebb.uk

A Special Update: 500 Miles and a Heavy Heart – Philosophical Musings from the RoadSupport the podcast and help keep it free for everyone by treating Steven to a coffee at stevenwebb.uk.Episode Description:In this heartfelt special episode, Steven Webb shares his deep reflections from the road as he reaches the halfway mark of his incredible 500-mile journey around Cornwall in his electric wheelchair. Undertaken to raise funds for the Cornwall Air Ambulance—the very service that saved his life 33 years ago—this journey is more than a physical challenge; it's a meditation on life, purpose, and the bonds we share.Amidst the physical exhaustion and the focus required to navigate roads not designed for wheelchairs, Steven receives news of a dear friend's passing. This friend, who shared a similar life journey, prompts Steven to contemplate mortality, the value of seizing the day, and the importance of helping others. He delves into the inner dialogues we all experience—the committee of voices that either propel us forward or hold us back—and emphasizes the choice we have in which voices we listen to.This episode is a raw and honest exploration of finding meaning in the moment, the nourishment that comes from helping others, and the simple yet profound purposes that guide us daily.Quotes from the Episode:"It's a celebration that we're still here. If you're listening to this, you're alive.""Try to find something in life you love. And just do that. And I don't mean in a 'find your purpose' because I think finding your one life purpose, I think that's bollocks. I think your purpose right now is if you're cold, put on a jumper."Thank you for joining Steven on this journey. Your support and understanding mean the world to him. Regular episodes and new meditations will resume soon. Until then, embrace the present, listen to the encouraging voices within, and consider how you might help someone else today.

Support the podcast and treat Steven to a coffee: https://stevenwebb.ukEpisode SummaryIn this thought-provoking episode, Steven Webb explores the delicate balance between holding on and letting go in life. Drawing from his personal experiences, including his upcoming 500-mile journey around Cornwall in his electric wheelchair, Steven shares insights on how to navigate life's challenges with grace and flexibility.Key PointsThe philosophy of holding things lightlyFinding balance between attachment and detachmentApplying this approach to love, dreams, goals, and frustrationsSteven's upcoming 500-mile Cornwall challengeQuotes"If you hold love too tightly, it's like if you love a butterfly, you want to let it go and fly. If you hold it way too tight, you kill it.""Just when you hold things loosely, we allow life to be what it is, and when we allow life to be what it is, we start seeing the beauty in it."Links MentionedSteven's Cornwall 500 Challenge: https://theCornwall500.comInner Peace Meditations podcast: https://innerpeacemeditations.comInsight Timer meditations: https://insig.ht/stevenwebbSupport the ShowDuring September, all donations and "treat me to a coffee" contributions will be given to the air ambulance. Your support is greatly appreciated!Connect with StevenWebsite: https://stevenwebb.ukFinal ThoughtsRemember, the key is to hold life gently - not so loose that you drop it, but not so tight that you miss the beauty of change. Thank you for listening, and have an amazing week!

Seeking Nourishment vs. HappinessIn this thought-provoking episode, host Steven Webb explores the crucial difference between seeking happiness and seeking nourishment in our lives.Support the podcast and access the new Stillness in the Storms course (currently 50% off with code 50FOR10) at https://stevenwebb.ukKey Points:The potential pitfalls of constantly pursuing happinessWhy nourishment might be a more fulfilling goalAnalogies to illustrate the difference:Different types of friendshipsFireworks vs. gardeningThe glass half-full/half-empty perspectiveThe long-term benefits of nourishing activities like meditationHow to assess your daily activities: "Will what I'm currently doing benefit me when it's over?"Quotes:"Nourishment isn't about feeling better than what we are, especially in the given moment. But the rewards are great.""Seek nourishment, not happiness. Enjoy the happiness, enjoy the experiences... But don't expect those things to be healthy and to nourish you in a way that improves your life because they will not improve your life. They only improve your life temporarily."Final Thoughts:Steven encourages listeners to balance temporary happiness with activities that provide long-term nourishment for a more fulfilling life.Support the Podcast:Thank you to this week's supporters: Kelly Blackwell, Pat, Mark Kananda, Caroline, and anonymous donors.Don't forget to subscribe, like, and share if you found this episode valuable!

Support the Podcast: Keep "Stillness in the Storms" free and ad-free by treating Steven to a coffee at https://stevenwebb.uk. Your support is greatly appreciated!Episode Description: In this enlightening episode, Steven Webb discusses the importance of simplifying our lives and returning to the core teachings of mindfulness. He shares personal insights on overcoming mental clutter, the power of being present, and how to find peace amidst life's complexities. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or simply seeking a moment of clarity, this episode offers practical wisdom to help you reconnect with your inner calm.Inner Peace Meditations: Don't forget to check out Steven's other podcast, "Inner Peace Meditations," for guided sessions to enhance your mindfulness practice. Find the link at https://stevenwebb.uk.Featured Meditation: Access the simplified guided meditation mentioned in this episode here: [Insert direct link to the meditation]

This episode is shorter than usual, offering brief mindful or wisdom moments for those times when you can't listen to the entire podcast.For links, contact information, or to support the podcast, visit: https://stevenwebb.ukIn this episode of Stillness in the Storms, I remind you that your body knows best.

Amae - The Art of Surrender and Finding True StrengthWelcome to another episode of Stillness in the Storms podcast. I'm Steven Webb, and today, we delve into the fascinating Japanese concept of Amae – the comforting feeling of being able to surrender completely and rely on someone else in perfect safety.For more insights and to receive my weekly calm newsletter, head over to stevenwebb.uk. Your support through reviews and donations makes a huge difference. Thank you!

Welcome to Episode 122 of Stillness in the Storms! In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of asking the right questions to cut through anxiety and find clarity. Inspired by a poignant moment from Will Young's experience with the Samaritans, we explore how deep, meaningful questions can help us navigate life's challenges and uncover profound insights.You can support the show and access links to my other podcast, Inner Peace Meditations, at stevenwebb.uk. Feel free to reach out and contact me through the website as well.Memorable Quotes"Are you tired of life or are you tired of your anxiety?" - Will Young's Samaritan"The power of the question is more important than the actual answer.""It's not about turning a question from negative to positive; it's about deepening the question."Thought-Provoking QuestionsCommon Questions and Their Deeper Alternatives:Common: How are you feeling?Deeper: What are you really feeling now and why?Common: What do you do for a living?Deeper: Who are you beyond the roles and titles you hold in life?Common: Why is this happening to me?Deeper: What can I learn from this situation? How can it help me grow?Common: What if I fail?Deeper: What would I do if I knew I couldn't fail? How can I take the next step towards that today?Common: How can I get through this?Deeper: What strengths and resources do I already possess to help me navigate this challenge?Common: When will things get better?Deeper: What can I do today to create a smaller moment of peace and joy?About Steven Webb and Stillness in the StormsI'm Steven Webb, a meditation and mindfulness teacher dedicated to helping you find inner peace in difficult times. After becoming a C5 complete tetraplegic following a diving accident at 18, I turned to Zen Buddhism and mindfulness to navigate life's challenges. My mission is to share these insights through my podcasts, including Stillness in the Storms and Inner Peace Meditations.In Stillness in the Storms, we explore practical ways to find calm and clarity amidst life's chaos. Each episode is designed to offer you tools, reflections, and the encouragement to live a more peaceful and mindful life.Thank you for listening and supporting the podcast. Remember, the right question can open the door to deeper understanding and transformation.For more information and to support the podcast, visit stevenwebb.uk.Take care and keep asking those powerful questions.

Show links: Stillness in the Storms course by Steven Webb (50% off voucher first 50 only - 50FOR50SITSC) - https://stevenwebb.com/stillness-courseSupport the show all my other links: https://stevenwebb.uk/Welcome to "Stillness in the Storms," the podcast where we delve into the quieter moments of life to uncover their vast potential for personal growth and inner peace. In today's episode, we explore a topic that touches all of us but is often misunderstood: the profound gifts of solitude and loneliness. Join your host, Steven Webb, as he shares his transformative journey from the pangs of loneliness to the peaceful embrace of solitude. If you've ever felt alone in a crowd or sought meaningful connection in a busy world, this episode will reveal how these experiences are not just common but crucial pathways to deeper self-understanding and lasting tranquility.Support the Show:Your support keeps "Stillness in the Storms" thriving and helps us bring more insightful content to you each week. If today's episode resonates with you, consider supporting our work. As a special thank you, we're offering a 50% discount on the "Stillness in the Storms" course. This course is designed to build your resilience and help you find inner peace, even during the most challenging times. [Insert Link and Code Here]Key Quotes from the Episode:"The journey from loneliness to solitude is about discovering the companionship of your own soul.""Solitude isn't the absence of noise; it's the presence of an inward harmony.""Embracing loneliness can be the first step towards building a deeper, more meaningful connection with yourself and others."Closing Thoughts:Today's exploration of solitude and loneliness is more than just a conversation; it's an invitation to reframe these experiences as opportunities for profound personal growth. Remember, it's not about escaping from the world but about deepening your engagement with it on your terms.About Your Host:Steven Webb is not just the voice behind the podcast but a dedicated meditation teacher and resilience expert who has helped millions find peace in their lives. With over 30 years of experience navigating life's storms as a quadriplegic, Steven brings unique insights and profound wisdom to his listeners worldwide.Thank you for joining us on "Stillness in the Storms." If today's episode inspired you, please share it with someone who might benefit from its message. Together, we can spread peace one heart at a time.

Are you constantly searching for your big life purpose, but feeling frustrated and empty? Discover the secret to finding purpose in the present moment and unlock a life of genuine meaning and joy.Support the Show: Love what you hear? Support Stillness in the Storms and help bring more episodes like this to you. Buy me a coffee: StevenWebb.ukAbout Steven Webb: Steven Webb is a seeker of inner peace and a guide to finding stillness within. After a life-altering accident, his journey of self-discovery led him to explore Buddhism and mindfulness. In this podcast, he shares his insights to help you find more peace and purpose within the chaos of daily life.Timestamps:[01:13] - Purpose: The Big Misunderstanding[09:47] - Find Purpose in the Everyday[16:59] - Living Every Moment with IntentionPowerful Quotes:"If you are unable to find the truth right where you are, where else do you expect to find it?" – Dozen Zenji"Maybe your purpose isn't so big as you think it is. Maybe you don't have one life purpose… and each day is made up of loads of miracle purposes." – Steven WebbShow Description:In the podcast Stillness in the Storms, Steven Webb delves into the complexities of living a purposeful life. He questions the traditional pursuit of a grand, elusive life purpose and instead encourages listeners to embrace the power of finding purpose within each present moment.This podcast is perfect if you:Struggle with feelings of aimlessness or unfulfillmentWant to find more inner peace and joy in your everyday lifeAre curious about mindfulness practices and Buddhist principlesJoin Steven on this journey of discovery and learn how to live a truly purposeful life, moment by moment.

Brief DescriptionIn this insightful episode of Stillness in the Storms, Steven Webb shares his own experiences with anxiety and panic attacks. He explores the reasons why these feelings can surface later in life and offers practical advice inspired by Buddhist and Eastern philosophies. Discover how to transform anxiety into a tool for growth and find inner peace.Ways to Support the ShowVisit https://stevenwebb.uk to learn more about Steven's work, find resources, and support the Stillness in the Storms podcast.Episode HighlightsAnxiety as a sign of growth and empathy: Steven discusses why anxiety can intensify as we grow older and develop deeper compassion.The body's ancient survival mechanisms: Learn how our modern lives can trigger the same fight-or-flight responses our ancestors evolved to survive.Befriending your anxiety: Steven offers Buddhist-inspired techniques to observe your anxiety without judgment and transform it into a source of insight and compassion.The importance of seeking professional help: While mindful practices can help manage anxiety, Steven emphasizes that professional help is essential for severe or persistent cases.

Support the Podcast: Support Steven and get in touch at https://stevenwebb.uk. Your support and feedback mean the world.00:00 Podcast host discusses meditation's impact on life.04:07 Importance of breath for relaxation and meditation.08:31 Breath is key to physical and mental well-being.10:23 Focusing on the present moment reduces anxiety.14:06 Connection to universal human experience through breathing.17:57 Embrace words' power, alleviate suffering, find self.In this episode of Stillness in the Storms, host Steven Webb explores the profound impact of returning to your breath. He discusses the simplicity of this form of meditation and its ability to instill calmness in the body and mind. Webb shares personal experiences, from moments of stress to a time in intensive care, highlighting the power of the breath as a gateway to mindfulness. He delves into the symbolic and deeply philosophical aspects of breath, emphasizing its universal nature and connection to life itself. Join us as we delve into the significance of this simple act and its potential for deep insight and personal growth.

Welcome to Stillness in the Storms! In today's episode, "Rediscovering Your Inner Light," Steven Webb explores the layers of the ego and how they shape our thoughts, beliefs, and emotions. Join us as we journey through the concept of pure awareness and learn how to rediscover our inner light.Links to Steven Webb's podcast and how you can support his work.Treat Steven to a coffee: buymeacoffee.comSteven's links and blog: https://stevenwebb.uk/

In this episode, host Steven Webb shares his personal journey of working on self-forgiveness and discusses the profound impact of forgiveness. He explores the steps involved in the process and encourages listeners to embark on their own journey of forgiveness. Join us as we delve into the transformative power of forgiveness on Stillness in the Storms.You can support this podcast or send a message at https://stevenwebb.uk/00:00 Others' actions have long-lasting consequences on us.04:07 Bullied at school, struggled with silence.06:42 Struggling with forgiving myself, but getting better.10:55 People often act without understanding consequences. Forgiveness.15:45 Imagining hospital date after impressive dive. Forgiving.17:02 Forgiveness is important. Find the gift.The Power of Forgiveness: "Not forgiving someone is like handing them poison but drinking it yourself."— Steven Webb [00:02:19 → 00:02:24]

This episode I'm posting on Stillness in the Storms and Inner Peace Meditations podcast because a few have reached out to me when they are struggling to close off their mind and meditate. So here is busting some myths and going over how to meditate and three of the most common types as well as giving you an experience.As always all my links are here https://stevenwebb.uk where you can support the podcast, contact me or find links to my website or social media.

Description:In this insightful episode of "Stillness in the Storms," Steven Webb explores the challenging terrain of negative and dark thoughts. Drawing from a listener's email, Steven addresses five key questions that delve into understanding and transforming these thoughts into a pathway toward peace. The episode is a blend of personal insights, practical advice, and a touch of humor, offering listeners strategies to confront and change their thought patterns.Support the Podcast:Listeners can support the "Stillness in the Storms" podcast by donating a coffee, leaving reviews, and sharing the podcast with others. Your support helps keep this valuable resource available and growing.Remember to subscribe for more episodes, and share this podcast with anyone who might find it helpful. For personalized guidance or to reach out with your thoughts, visit Steven Webb's website at StevenWebb.uk.Key Quotes:"The negative thoughts are just there to protect us... We're still living in a cave, we're still hunter-gatherers." - On the evolutionary roots of negative thinking."You are not your thoughts. You're the observer... Aware of your thoughts." - Highlighting the distinction between being and thoughts.Timestamps:[02:45] Why do we experience dark and negative thoughts?[07:10] Effective ways to confront negative thoughts as they arise.[11:35] Practical methods to break free from cycles of dark thoughts.[16:20] Finding motivation during tough times.[21:50] The role of self-awareness in managing thoughts and emotions.

Welcome to another insightful episode of "Stillness in the Storms" with me, your host, Steven Webb. In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of becoming whole, exploring the myriad of voices within us and how embracing these can lead to a more fulfilled and harmonious life. Don't forget to support the podcast and find all my links at https://stevenwebb.uk/Timestamps & Highlights:- **[00:00:00]** _Opening and Introduction_: Steven shares his reflections on the journey towards inner wholeness and the importance of embracing all aspects of ourselves.- **[00:03:45]** _Understanding Wholeness_: A deep dive into what it means to be 'whole' and how our early experiences shape our inner voices.- **[00:10:20]** _Attraction and Traits_: Insights into how our attractions can reveal our missing inner voices and the traits we aspire to develop.- **[00:15:30]** _Integrating New Voices_: Practical advice on identifying and nurturing the quieter voices within us to achieve a more balanced self.- **[00:22:10]** _Mindfulness and Wholeness_: How meditation and mindfulness can aid in embracing and integrating these diverse inner voices.- **[00:27:50]** _Conclusion and Gratitude_: Closing thoughts on the importance of self-awareness in our journey towards wholeness, along with a heartfelt thank you to the listeners and supporters.**Intriguing Quotes from the Episode:** - "Wholeness isn't about perfection, it's about embracing every part of ourselves, even the parts we often overlook." - "Our attractions often mirror the traits we wish to develop within ourselves – a guide to our unexplored potential." - "By nurturing our quieter voices, we open ourselves to a richer, more diverse experience of life."**Episode Description:** In "Inner Harmony: The Art of Becoming Whole," Steven Webb delves into the journey of self-discovery and integration. This episode guides us through understanding the various aspects of our personality and how embracing these leads to a more balanced and fulfilling life. Join Steven as he explores how our attractions can reveal our hidden desires and how mindfulness can help us integrate these traits, leading us towards wholeness and inner harmony._Remember, each episode of "Stillness in the Storms" is a step towards finding peace in life's toughest challenges. For more information and support, visit https://stevenwebb.uk/

Title: Unpacking Truths: Politics, Ice Cream & Spiritualism Unite!Support or Message Steven at https://stevenwebb.uk/Summary: Dive into our first 2024 episode, "Stillness in the Storms," where politics meets spirituality and opinions clash with facts. Discover how embracing multiple truths can offer peace amidst chaos, as we explore perspectives from mountaintops to ice cream flavors!Key PointsMultiple truths vs. hard factsOpinions shape our "concrete town"Engaging across the aisleConsequences of echo chambersA spiritual journey among various truthsBest Quotes by Steven Webb"The problem is when we play back information, we add information to it.""Both sides of the aisle care. They care deeply what they care about. And when we realized that, you know, some people just care about their parking spot, some people don't.""But the truth is, we've gotta engage in life."

Podcast Notes for "The Kensho That Transformed My Journey: A New Year's Message"Support the Podcast:Join Steven in supporting the continuation of these enlightening podcasts. Show your appreciation and keep this valuable content flowing by treating Steven to a coffee at https://stevenwebb.uk.

Podcast Notes for "Remaining Calm in the Festive Chaos: Plus Post-Hospital Update"Support the Podcast:Enjoying the podcast? Consider treating Steven to a coffee at https://stevenwebb.uk to show your support and keep this valuable content coming.Benefits of Listening:Gain insights on balancing festive stress and personal well-being.Learn strategies for dealing with family dynamics and holiday triggers.Hear a heartfelt update on Steven's health journey post-hospital.Opening Description:Join Steven Webb in this special episode as he shares his recent health experiences and guides us on how to navigate the festive season with calmness and wisdom. Dive into a conversation filled with personal anecdotes, practical advice, and genuine care.Selected Quotes:"Slowly but surely, things are getting better. It's all about taking one day at a time.""Remember, your home is your sanctuary during the festive season. Do what's right for you and your family.""Pick three words that represent who you are at your core, and let them guide you through the holiday chaos."

Podcast is a little different, I was rushed in the hospital a few days ago and had major surgery but all good. And I share the three things I wrote out last night that I think my main lessons in finding in a piece and building resilience.as always, you can support this Podcast or contact me at https://stevenwebb.uk

In this insightful episode, we delve into the myriad voices within us. These internal dialogues, often perceived as a source of confusion or distress, actually hold the key to understanding ourselves better. Join us as we explore how to embrace these voices and what they reveal about our inner world.Support Link:To continue supporting our journey of inner peace, visit https://thankyousteven.com or https://stevenwebb.ukEpisode Description:"Voices of the Soul: Understanding and Embracing Internal Dialogues" is an explorative journey into the complex world of our inner voices. This episode offers insights into how these dialogues shape our perception, affect our spiritual journey, and ultimately, how they can lead to a deeper understanding of ourselves.List of Benefits:Enhances self-awareness and understandingEncourages a deeper exploration of one's spiritual journeyAids in acknowledging and managing conflicting internal voicesProvides strategies for inner peace and mindfulnessOffers a fresh perspective on personal growth and self-compassionClosing Thought:As we embrace the cacophony of voices within, we open the doors to deeper self-discovery and inner harmony. Let's learn to listen to our soul's voices with empathy and curiosity.

You can support the show, plus all links and submit you questions here - stevenwebb.ukBrief Episode Summary:In this introspective episode of "Stillness in the Storms," host Steven Webb delves deep into the concept of self-love and acceptance. Steven shares his personal journey and challenges, offering insights into how loving oneself is deeply rooted in acceptance. He discusses the societal pressures and internal struggles that often hinder our ability to fully embrace ourselves, and provides thoughtful guidance on cultivating self-love and compassion.Episode Highlights:Defining self-love as acceptance and the importance of this realization.Steven's personal challenges and how they have shaped his views on self-love.The societal expectations and internal dialogues that complicate our relationship with self-love.The role of meditation and mindfulness in fostering self-acceptance.Real-life examples and stories that underline the importance of embracing our flaws and imperfections.Notable Quotes:"Love is just acceptance. If you love something, you just purely accept it as it is.""We're not broken. Humans are brilliantly diverse the way we are.""Loving ourselves doesn't take effort. It's not something we have to do; it's something we are.""What does it feel like to accept yourself wholly as you are, as the brilliant human you are?"Host Information:Host: Steven WebbPodcast: Stillness in the StormsWebsite: stevenwebb.ukLinks and Resources Mentioned:Steven Webb's Website: stevenwebb.ukInner Peace Meditations PodcastBook Recommendation: "David and Goliath" by Malcolm GladwellRecommended Tags:self-love, self-acceptance, mindfulness, personal growth, mental health, meditation, self-care, inner peaceRecommended Hashtags:#SelfLove #SelfAcceptance #Mindfulness #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealth #Meditation #InnerPeace #StillnessInTheStorms

A quick update of what's happening and when I will be back. Thank you for treating me to a coffee, you are awesome and really appreciate the ongoing support. It really does make a difference, and if you want to support or contact me ask me a question you can do so here: https://stevenwebb.uk/ I always love hearing from you.Much love, Steven

This is a little update because I haven't posted a podcast for a couple weeks and I wanted to let you know what happening. Don't forget you can listen to many of my meditations https://innerpeacemeditations.com and as always thank you to all my supporters https://stevenwebb.uk for donating and treating me to a coffee.

You can support the show and submit you questions here - stevenwebb.ukOn this episode of Stillness in the Storms, meditation teacher Steven Webb explains how our thoughts shape our reality through what he calls the "thought funnel." Discover how becoming aware of this funnel can help reshape your perspective.Introduction (0:00-1:00)Steven introduces the concept of the "thought funnel" and how it impacts our realityHe asks listeners to visualize this funnel to understand how thoughts build in complexityThe Thought Funnel Explained (1:00-6:00)At the bottom is the "point of origin" where thoughts and feelings ariseAs thoughts move up through the funnel, more layers like stories and emotions are addedThis adds complexity until we're stuck in "pea soup" at the top, disconnected from clarityExperiment to See the Funnel in Action (6:00-10:00)Steven leads a visualization exercise looking at objects and how stories build around themNotice how quickly thoughts create emotions, judgments and complexityThe more we dwell on a subject, the thicker the funnel getsKey Takeaways About the Funnel (10:00-14:00)Everything in the funnel is impermanent, but the point of origin remainsWe wrongly believe the cluttered top of the funnel is realityTrue reality is at the base - pure awareness before storiesHow to Return to the Funnel's Source (14:00-19:00)Meditation helps witness the funnel without getting lost in itThoughts often start with care before other emotions ariseWe can choose whether to engage in a thought storyline or notWith practice, we gain the ability to stop stories and return to the present momentWe all know what it's like to be lost in thought - falling down rabbit holes, getting tangled in stories, and feeling disconnected from the present moment. This week on Stillness in the Storms, meditation teacher Steven Webb offers a powerful mental model to understand this phenomenon - the thought funnel.According to Steven, our minds are like funnels that thoughts and feelings flow through. At the very bottom is the point of origin, where each thought arises before it builds in complexity. As thoughts move up through the funnel, we unconsciously add layers to them - judgments, emotions, past experiences, future fantasies. Before we know it, our clear thoughts have turned to muddy confusion.The problem is that most of us spend our mental lives near the cluttered top of the funnel, caught up in the swirling chaos. We mistakenly believe this overflow of thoughts represents reality. But the truth is, reality exists at the clear bottom of the funnel - in the space of pure awareness that exists before thought.So how do we return to clarity? Through meditation, says Steven. By watching the thought funnel in action, we can learn to catch ourselves getting sucked into unhelpful thought loops. Instead of going down every mental rabbit hole, we can gently return to the bottom of the funnel - to pure presence.Learning this skill is not easy, but it holds the key to serenity. When we stop identifying with every passing thought, we reconnect to our inner stillness. We realize thoughts are just thoughts - not necessarily truth or reality. We become less reactive, more responsive to life's curveballs.So if you're looking for more inner peace, listen to this week's episode on the thought funnel. Understanding how thoughts build into suffering can be the first step to dismantling it. Let Steven's wisdom guide you from the noisy top of the funnel to the blissful bottom - the open, lucid space that lies beneath...

Podcast title: Embracing Our Humanity: Discovering Peace Within Our ConditionEpisode Summary:In this episode, Steven explores what it really means to embrace our humanity, flaws and all. He discusses accepting our limitations, finding freedom in who we are, and discovering inner peace through self-acceptance.Timestamps:[0:00] - Introduction[2:19] - Fantasizing about being something other than human[5:24] - Trying to change our inherent humanness causes suffering[10:00] - Stepping outside the chatter of our minds[15:12] - Seeing life anew through a child's eyes[21:00] - Living without worries about tomorrow[25:00] - Wrap up and closing thoughtsKey Points:We cannot change our basic human condition, so acceptance is key.Observing our thoughts and emotions creates more mental clarity.Embracing our flawed humanity allows us to find inner freedom.Being present and engaged with the "here and now" is the secret.Quotes:"The meaning of life is just to be alive. It is so plain and obvious, and yet everybody rushes around in a panic as if it were necessary to achieve something beyond themselves." - Alan Watts"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” - Matthew 6:34Links and References:Inner Peace Meditations PodcastSteven Webb BlogCall to Action:Loved this episode? Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! And remember you can always support the show by visiting https://stevenwebb.uk.Embark on the journey of self-acceptance with us every Friday at 4 PM. At "Stillness in the Storms," serenity is not a destination, but a journey.

"100 Episodes, 32 Years On: The Most Important Message I Have"To support Steven head over to https://stevenwebb.ukIn this landmark 100th episode, Steven Webb reflects on a journey spanning 32 years and shares what he considers to be the most important message he has learned along the way. This episode is not just a milestone—it's a treasure trove of hard-won insights and life lessons. You won't want to miss it.Timestamps:[02:43] - The evolution of the podcast and why it matters[07:15] - A lesson learned from my years as a young man[13:50] - The most important message I have to share[19:22] - Why this message is crucial for personal growthNotable Quotes from Steven:"In the grand scheme of life, we often miss the beauty of the moment when we're constantly looking ahead.""We've built this community together, and it's become something much larger than just me or any single episode.""This message isn't just a philosophy—it's a way of life, a practice that requires daily diligence."Support the Show:If you found value in this episode and want to show some love, head over to https://stevenwebb.uk and treat me to a coffee. Your support helps keep this show running and brings a smile to my face!

Unlock the Secret Army Inside You: How to Boost Health and Find Inner PeaceIn this episode, host Steven Webb introduces the concept of our "little internal soldiers" - the cells in our immune system that work hard to protect our health. He explains how we can support these soldiers through adequate sleep, balanced nutrition, exercise, mindfulness, and avoiding harmful habits.Timestamps:[00:00] - Introduction[02:13] - Meet your internal soldiers[04:11] - How our soldiers get tired as we age[06:22] - Ways we can support our soldiers[12:33] - Steven's story about the chili eating contestKey Points:Our immune system cells are like little soldiers fighting daily battles to protect our health.As we age, these soldiers get more tired and have more repair work to do each day.We can support our soldiers by getting enough sleep, eating nutritious foods, exercising, meditating, and avoiding things like smoking.Making healthy choices helps empower our soldiers to do their healing work.Quotes:"You cannot complain about aches and pains and hangovers and tiredness if you're not giving your soldiers what they need to help you repair.""What would my soldiers say to me today? They'd say, you're doing alright Stevie, but... Damn, slightly less takeaways, slightly less processed food, do a bit of exercise, a little more meditation, a little more chilling."Links and References:Inner Peace Meditations PodcastSteven Webb BlogCall to Action:Enjoyed this episode? Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and consider supporting Steven's work at https://stevenwebb.uk.Podcast and Host Info:Welcome to "Stillness in the Storms," a podcast hosted by Steven Webb that helps you find inner peace amidst life's challenges.In each episode, Steven shares teachings to help you understand life and yourself more deeply. Drawing from his experience overcoming adversity after a paralyzing accident, Steven guides you on a journey towards resilience, self-discovery and tranquility.For more from Steven, subscribe to his weekly newsletter and check out his blog via the links above. New episodes released every Friday - join us on this transformative journey towards stillness.

Embracing the Full Stick of Life - Ep. 98 of Stillness in The StormsIn this episode, Steven shares the analogy of the "stick of life" and how we can embrace all of life's experiences - both the highs and lows.Key points in this episode:The problem with trying to "chop off" the negative end of the stick and only experience positivity [00:02:00]Practical tips for creating space between positive and negative experiences, like practicing gratitude [00:09:00]How accepting the "whole stick" allows you to truly enjoy the good times [00:11:00]"The more you accept them all, including the negative, including the bad times, accept it for what it is, and then you can embrace it, then you take control of it." [00:11:23]"You actually enjoy the better times way more when you keep including the rough times in your life as well, rather than denying it." [00:11:41]In this week's episode, Steven dives deep into the universality of life's dualities - light and dark, good and bad. He shares his insightful "stick of life" analogy for embracing all of life's experiences, and offers practical wisdom for finding inner peace during difficult times. Tune in for a thought-provoking perspective on leaning into the full spectrum of life.Links:Support the Show: https://www.thankyousteven.comSign up for Steven's weekly newsletter: https://www.stevenweb.ukCheck out Steven's meditations: https://innerpeacemeditations.com

Find inner peace even with a busy mind. Steven Webb shares how to embrace your thoughts and use meditation techniques that work for you.Support this podcast at https://thankyousteven.com.Highlights:"You cannot quiet the mind to a point where you can stop your thoughts. There is no off switch." [00:01:30]"Meditation is not about quieting the mind. Do you get that? I hear why you with me? So why meditate, if it's not about quieting the mind?" [00:08:00]"The more you meditate, the more you see." [00:11:30]"Even if you have a busy mind, you can meditate. And you don't have to sit down and try to silence your mind for 40 minutes." [00:17:00]Steven shares that the goal of meditation is not to silence your thoughts completely, but to embrace them and find inner stillness. Even just taking a few minutes to focus on your breath or listen to sounds can help calm your mind.Benefits of this episode:Learn why you can't fully "turn off" your thoughtsDiscover meditation techniques to embrace your busy mindFind inner peace in small moments throughout your dayStop judging yourself and simply observe your thoughtsIntegrate mindfulness into everyday life