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Most leaders are blind to the biggest threat to their team's success. In this episode, Anne Chow, former CEO of AT&T Business, reveals the hidden leadership myth that quietly undermines team performance and destroys trust. Drawing on decades of experience leading thousands, she exposes why even well-meaning leaders can fall into this trap — and how you can avoid it. Discover the critical shift you must make to lead with impact, build real connections, and unlock your team's full potential. Connect with Anne ⁠Follow Anne on LinkedIn ⁠https://www.theannechow.com/⁠ ⁠Pre-Order Now The Book: Lead Bigger⁠ Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠negotiateanything.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Trust is your most valuable currency in negotiation — and most professionals waste it. In this episode, Keld Jensen, a globally recognized negotiation expert and author of 26 books, reveals why trust is more powerful than any contract. He explains why negotiating without first aligning on how you will negotiate is a costly mistake, how to leverage behavioral economics to understand irrational human decisions, and how the world's best companies are using Centers of Excellence to transform their negotiation results. If you want to elevate your negotiation game from tactical to transformative, this episode is essential. Connect with Keld on LinkedIn⁠ ⁠Learn more about Keld Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠negotiateanything.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Contracts don't secure deals — trust does. In this episode, Courtney Kelly reveals the hidden truth behind successful negotiations in high-stakes construction: building strong relationships before a single document is signed. As a pioneering project manager in a male-dominated industry, Courtney shares how proactive trust-building, emotional intelligence, and strategic communication transform conflict into collaboration. Whether you're managing multi-million dollar projects or everyday deals, this conversation will change how you negotiate — and how people respond to you. Connect with Courtney Kelly ⁠Follow Courtney Lynn Kelly on LinkedIn⁠ ⁠Courtney Kelly Books website⁠ ⁠McCarthy Building Companies Inc. LinkedIn page⁠ ⁠Mc Carthy website Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠negotiateanything.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Most people play it safe — and that's exactly why they stay stuck. In this episode, Emmy Award-winning media advisor Vinnie Potestivo reveals how bold creative decisions can turn ideas into empires. From discovering stars at MTV to helping creators monetize their talent, Vinnie shares his blueprint for transforming creativity into success. You'll learn the mindset shifts, strategic moves, and untold stories that can turn rejection into opportunity and take your career to the next level. Don't just create — conquer. Connect with Vinnie Twitter ⁠vinniepotestivo⁠  ⁠ihaveapodcast⁠  Websites ⁠vpe.tv ⁠ ⁠ihaveapodcast.com ⁠ ⁠feed.podbean.com/theihaveapod⁠ Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠negotiateanything.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

This isn't theory—this is negotiation at the highest level. In this gripping episode, FBI negotiator Melissa Fortunato reveals the real tactics used in hostage crises—and how you can apply them to your toughest conversations at work and at home. From infiltrating criminal organizations undercover to de-escalating a 15-hour standoff, Melissa shares raw, behind-the-scenes stories that show why connection always beats force. You'll learn why diversity makes teams more persuasive, how to show authority without killing trust, and the one skill most people neglect that could change every negotiation you're in. Whether you're facing a deal on the edge or just want to be heard, this episode gives you tools that actually work. ⁠Follow Melissa F. on LinkedIn Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠negotiateanything.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Saying yes too much is killing your career. In this episode, tech strategy expert and executive coach Tiffany Rosik reveals how the simple act of saying “no” can transform your reputation, your workload, and your entire career trajectory. Drawing from her upcoming book That's Not the Help I Need, Tiffany breaks down how to escape the people-pleaser trap — without guilt, without drama, and without burning bridges. You'll learn how to pause high-pressure conversations, reframe your identity at work, and negotiate smarter in real time. If you're burned out, undervalued, or always the one picking up the slack — this is the mindset shift you've been waiting for. Connect with Tiffany Rosik tiffanyrosik.com Follow Tiffany Rosik PMP, RMP on LinkedIn Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠negotiateanything.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Most people lose negotiations before they even open their mouth — here's how to change that. In this raw and eye-opening conversation, Kwame Christian reveals the mindset shift that transformed him from a people pleaser into a confident negotiator. You'll learn why most people fail — not because they lack skill, but because they're stuck in outdated mental habits. He breaks down the difference between skill and talent, shows you how to disarm conflict with curiosity, and shares the one mental shift that can save any deal when things go wrong. Whether you're leading a team, asking for a raise, or navigating tension at home, this episode will teach you how to stop reacting and start leading the conversation. Connect with Michael ⁠I See What You're Saying Podcast⁠ ⁠Buy The Disciplined Listening Method: How A Certified Forensic Interviewer Unlocks Hidden Value in Every Conversation⁠  h ⁠www.inquasive.com⁠  ⁠michaelreddington.com⁠ ⁠Connect with Michael Reddington on LinkedIn⁠  Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠negotiateanything.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!⁠

When the pressure's on and everything's falling apart, this one principle can still save the deal. The deal is about to fall apart. The founder just died. Clients are backing out. Competitors are circling. What do you do? In this gripping episode, real estate leader Andy Newton shares how he led his team through a sudden tragedy — and what he learned about negotiation, leadership, and holding deals together when everything goes wrong. You'll hear how one principle — simple, powerful, and often forgotten — became the key to saving relationships, rebuilding trust, and closing high-stakes deals under pressure. Whether you're in sales, leadership, or navigating tough conversations, this episode is a masterclass in what really holds a deal together. Follow Andy Newton on LinkedIn Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠negotiateanything.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Everyone talks about strategy, but what if that's not the real problem? In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Shaahin Cheyene, serial entrepreneur and creator of a billion-dollar company, to reveal the hidden power that decides most negotiations before they even begin: status. You'll learn how status works, why it silently determines your influence, and how to build it from zero — even if no one knows your name yet. Whether you're selling, pitching, or just trying to be taken seriously, this episode shows you the real reason some people always seem to win Connect with Shaahin www.shaahincheyenne.com Listen to The Business Story of the Week Podcast Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠negotiateanything.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

The real battle in negotiation happens in your head. In this episode, negotiation expert and author Moshe Cohen joins Kwame to reveal the uncomfortable truth: most failed negotiations aren't about tactics — they're about emotions. You'll learn why your inner stories, unconscious triggers, and emotional reactions hijack your performance when it matters most — and how to take back control. Whether you're facing a high-stakes meeting or just struggling to speak up, this episode is your playbook for mastering the conversation inside your head before you ever open your mouth. In this episode: The hidden emotional triggers that derail smart people How to rewrite the story you're telling yourself Real strategies to stay calm, think clearly, and speak powerfully under pressure Connect with Moshe Buy the book ⁠Collywobbles: How to Negotiate When Negotiating Makes You Nervous ⁠Follow Moshe on LinkedIn https://negotiatingtable.com/ Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠negotiateanything.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Becoming CEO is a dream for many—but few understand just how emotionally turbulent and strategically complex that transition really is. In this powerful episode, Dr. Ty Wiggins, global head of the CEO and Executive Transition Practice at Russell Reynolds, reveals what most leaders get wrong in their first year, why being “smart” isn't enough, and how to avoid the crash that hits so many executives around the 6-month mark. With clients ranging from first-time CEOs to seasoned global leaders, Ty brings a rare behind-the-scenes perspective on pressure, presence, and emotional control. Whether you're a senior leader, a founder, or simply want to level up your leadership, this episode is filled with actionable insights you'll want to write down. What you'll learn in this episode: Why emotional control—not IQ—is the most undervalued CEO skill The one mindset shift that separates good leaders from great ones How to communicate decisions without sparking fear and confusion Connect with Dr Ty Wiggins Follow Ty on LinkedIn ⁠Buy now the book: The New CEO: Lessons from CEOS on How to Start Well and Perform Quickly (Minus the Common Mistakes) http://tywiggins.com/ Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠negotiateanything.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!⁠

You can't fake real connection — but you can learn how to create it. Robin Dreeke spent his career recruiting spies for the FBI, building trust with people trained to trust no one. In this unforgettable conversation, he reveals the mindset that transforms strangers into allies — and the key habits that turn everyday conversations into powerful relationships. Whether you're trying to lead a team, build influence, or just stop overthinking your social interactions, this episode will reset how you think about human connection. In this episode, you'll learn: – The 4 keys to instantly building trust – Why emotional safety is more powerful than persuasion – How to stop making it about you — and become the person people open up to Connect with Robin Buy Now the Book: It's Not All About Me⁠ ⁠Buy now the book: The Code of Trust: An American Counterintelligence Expert's Five Rules to Lead and Succeed ⁠ ⁠Buy Now the Book: Sizing People Up ⁠ ⁠https://www.peopleformula.com/⁠ Follow Robin on LinkedIn Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠negotiateanything.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!⁠

When a negotiation catches you off guard, the real battle isn't with the other person — it's with your own mind. ⁠Buy the Book Sharp 14 Simple Ways to Improve Your Life with Brain Science⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ In this eye-opening conversation, cognitive scientist Dr. Therese Huston joins Kwame Christian to reveal how to recover quickly, stay calm, and turn unexpected pressure into strategic advantage. Drawing on neuroscience and real-world stories, they break down why your brain freezes under stress — and how simple techniques can help you think sharper, react smarter, and protect the deal when it matters most. If you want to master emotional resilience and negotiate like a true pro, this episode is for you. Connect with Dr. Therese Huston theresehuston.com Buy the Book - Sharp - 14 Simple Ways to Improve Your Life with Brain Science Follow Therese on LinkedIn Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠negotiateanything.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Most people think collaboration requires trust. Adam Kahane's life work proves otherwise. In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Adam Kahane, Director at Reos Partners, a pioneer in facilitating collaboration between fierce adversaries—from politicians and generals to guerrillas and activists. Adam shares the powerful story of how he helped leaders on both sides of apartheid South Africa work together toward democracy, and explains why understanding, not agreement, is the key to breakthroughs. Learn how to work with people you don't like, remove obstacles to real progress, and find common ground even in the most divided environments. Connect with Adam adamkahane.com kahane@reospartners.com Follow Adam on LinkedIn Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠ negotiateanything.com ⁠⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of How to Have Difficult Conversations About Race!⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

If you walk into a negotiation without leverage, you're already losing — and NFL agent Henry Organ is here to make sure you never do. In this powerhouse episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian sits down with Henry Organ, founder of Disruptive Sports Agency and author of The Informational Interview Playbook. Henry pulls back the curtain on how real power is built — from branding yourself strategically to controlling the leverage in every deal. Whether you're closing million-dollar contracts or fighting for your next opportunity, this episode will change how you think, act, and negotiate forever. What will be covered: Henry Organ's journey and the founding of Disruptive Sports Agency. The significance of personal branding in building leverage. Strategies for managing expectations and knowing when to walk away from a deal. Buy now the book: THE INFORMATIONAL INTERVIEW PLAYBOOK by Henry Organ ⁠  Contact ANI ⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠⁠ ⁠⁠The Ultimate Negotiation Guide⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

If you're selling for the money, your buyers can feel it — and you're leaving the best deals on the table. In this game-changing episode, bestselling author Lisa McLeod reveals why the sales strategies you were taught are keeping you broke, stressed, and replaceable. Forget "closing the deal" — Lisa shows you how the world's top salespeople drive higher revenue, bigger margins, and deeper loyalty by selling with noble purpose. You'll learn how to de-commoditize your business, take control of the negotiation, and rewire your mindset to win deals that feel good — and actually stick. Whether you're in sales, leadership, or negotiation, this conversation will flip your strategy and your confidence on its head. Connect with Lisa ⁠Buy The Book: Selling With Noble Purpose: How to Drive Revenue and Do Work That Makes You Proud⁠. ⁠McLeod & More⁠ ⁠Follow Lisa on LinkedIn⁠ Contact ANI ⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠ ⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠ ⁠The Ultimate Negotiation Guide⁠ ⁠Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!⁠ ⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Order NOW The Book: EVOLVE or Be Slaughtered: Negotiation For The 21st Century (Beyond Negotiating) by Derrick (The Van Gogh of Negotiation) Chevalier What if the rule we've all been taught — “never negotiate without a BATNA” — is the very thing limiting your success? In this mind-expanding conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with Derrick Chevalier, negotiation strategist and author of Evolve or Be Slaughtered, to expose the hidden danger of over-relying on your BATNA. Together, they explore why the best deals are rarely the ones you plan for, how to embrace creative discovery at the table, and what great negotiators actually do when things don't go according to script. Whether you're a seasoned dealmaker or just learning the ropes, this episode will challenge everything you thought you knew about leverage, planning, and negotiation itself. Connect with Derrick https://h-c.com/ Follow Derrick on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

One mistake. One moment of faking expertise. And it cost him a deal with Stevie Wonder. Order NOW The Book: EVOLVE or Be Slaughtered: Negotiation For The 21st Century (Beyond Negotiating) by Derrick (The Van Gogh of Negotiation) Chevalier In this unforgettable episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Derrick Chevalier — bestselling author of Evolve or Be Slaughtered and executive VP at Harrison Chevalier — to unpack the painful but powerful story that changed his life. From a failed negotiation with Stevie Wonder to creating a framework that helps leaders master their craft, Derrick shares how true confidence is built through competence — not performance. What you'll learn: Why pretending to know something can ruin your credibility — permanently. The ICSEAR framework: a step-by-step model for mastering any skill, including negotiation. How to move beyond balance and embrace harmony in high-pressure conversations. Why great negotiators must learn to flow like jazz — and how to get there Connect with Derrick https://h-c.com/ Follow Derrick on LinkedIn If you've ever walked out of a meeting thinking, “I should've done better,” this episode will show you how to make sure that never happens again. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

A Real Story of Confidence, Clarity, and Breakthroughs In this episode, Kwame talks with Kevin Tuinte, a mechanical engineering student from the Netherlands who discovered the power of negotiation… and never looked back. Through his work with the Negotiation Project Twente, Kevin went from anxious in tough conversations to leading high-level negotiations — even winning global tournaments against top law and business schools. You'll learn how Kevin trains soft skills in a technical world, why breaks are an underrated tool in high-stakes moments, and how practicing negotiation weekly changed his mindset — and his future. What you'll learn: – The moment Kevin realized he could stay calm under pressure – Why breaks are a secret weapon in negotiation – How to train confidence, not just tactics – Why negotiation is a bundle of soft skills (and not just for business people) Whether you're a student, professional, or lifelong learner — this is the reminder that negotiation is a skill you can master. And the best time to start is now. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

What if your body is sabotaging your negotiation — and you don't even know it? In this episode, legendary FBI agent and behavioral expert Joe Navarro reveals the subtle cues that expose confidence, weakness, and intent — long before words are spoken. With 25 years in the FBI, Joe shares stories from counterintelligence missions, elite spy-catching operations, and high-stakes negotiations where every movement mattered. You'll learn: – The nonverbal mistake that ruins deals before they start – How to command authority without saying a word – Why “benign curiosity” is the ultimate secret weapon in difficult conversations – The psychological patterns all powerful communicators share Whether you're negotiating with a client, a boss, or a narcissist — this episode will change how you see people… and how they see you. Connect with Joe Be Exceptional Book Follow Joe on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Most conflict conversations fail before they even begin. Steve Beck shares his Good Conflict framework — a practical, human-centered approach that helps you prepare, structure, and recover from difficult conversations. Learn how to deal with competing desires, uncover hidden narratives, and build trust that lasts. Whether at home or at work, this episode will change how you approach conflict forever. Steve Beck is a seasoned expert in organizational leadership and conflict resolution. With over two decades of experience, Steve has honed his skills in resolving conflicts and building strong relationships across diverse settings. His unique approach, named "good conflict," emphasizes curiosity, humility, and prioritizing interests for successful negotiations. Explore more about Steve Beck's work and insights by visiting his website: https://cstevebeck.com/. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

You're not weak — your nervous system is just overwhelmed. In this deeply practical episode, Kwame Christian sits down with coach and educator Jay Fields to unpack why so many of us lose ourselves in high-stakes conversations. Whether it's people-pleasing, freezing, or shrinking to avoid conflict, Jay explains how your body's responses hijack your ability to stay present — and what you can do about it. You'll learn: The difference between conceptual and embodied self-awareness How to stay connected to your truth in other people's "force fields" Practical tools to regulate your emotions and recover your voice in real time Jay-Fields.com LinkedIn Learning Courses Follow Jay on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Most people don't lack talent—they lack the confidence to use it. In this enriching episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes Amandeep Thind, a seasoned public speaker and negotiation expert, to share his compelling journey from overcoming personal struggles to achieving professional success. Amandeep delves into the importance of confidence development, the necessity of applied knowledge, and the strategic negotiation techniques that have defined his career. The conversation covers his early years of financial hardship, the transformational power of internal negotiation, and the value of networking and mentorship in public speaking. Listeners will gain insight into Amandeep's proven strategies for maximizing career opportunities and negotiating effectively in both personal and professional arenas. What will be covered: The essential steps to build confidence and public speaking skills gradually. The importance of experiential knowledge over theoretical knowledge. Insights into strategic negotiation techniques and career advancement strategies. Connect with Amandeep Thind Instagram: Amandeep Thind Instagram - a Wife and two kids ( 1 baby) https://www.instagram.com/amandeep__thind/ YouTube: Amandeep Thind YouTube Website: Amandeep Thind Website LinkedIn: Amandeep Thind LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Most deals don't fail on price — they fail on people. In this episode, Kwame sits down with Michiel Koopman, former Dutch soldier and current Head of Trading at Google, to break down why deals collapse even when everything looks good on paper. You'll learn how ego, weak relationships, and a lack of empathy quietly sabotage negotiations — and what to do instead. Packed with real stories and powerful insights, this conversation will make you rethink how you approach every deal. Follow Michiel Koopman on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Your hormones might be sabotaging your negotiations. In this episode, global speaking icon David JP Phillips reveals how to hack your internal chemistry—on demand—to show up with confidence, presence, and power when it matters most. Drawing from his best-selling book High on Life, David breaks down the six key neurochemicals that control your behavior (dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, endorphin, testosterone, and cortisol), and shows you how to intentionally trigger the right “emotional cocktail” before a high-stakes conversation. You'll learn how to: • Boost testosterone without acting aggressive • Use oxytocin to build trust—without going soft • Prime your brain for creativity, calm, and clarity • Change your state and even influence theirs If you've ever felt anxious, frozen, or off your game in tough conversations, this episode is your playbook for taking back control—physiologically and psychologically. Stick around for the end—we even talk about how to prep the other person's mindset without them noticing. Connect with David www.davidjpphillips.com/ Buy the book: Hgh On Life Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

In this raw and revealing episode, Scott shares how his early abandonment shaped the way he saw himself — and others — and how it nearly destroyed everything he built. From his time in the military to leading a multimillion-dollar company, Scott opens up about the real cost of ego-driven success.

You might be doing everything right — and still not getting the respect you deserve. In this episode, Kwame sits down with psychologist, professor, and author Alison Fragale to expose one of the most overlooked forces in negotiation and career advancement: status. Not money. Not power. Not charisma. But how others perceive your value — and how you can influence that perception. You'll learn: What “status” really is (and why it's more powerful than any tactic) Why competence isn't enough if people don't respect you How to increase your status before the negotiation even starts The two traits people use to judge you instantly — and how to show both How to build a network that promotes you when you're not in the room Connect with Alison Follow Alison Fragale on LinkedIn https://alisonfragale.com/ ORDER ALISON'S NEW BOOK - Likeable Badass: How Women Get the Success They Deserve Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Do you feel selfish, anxious, or even guilty just for saying “no”? You're not alone — and it's not your fault. In this eye-opening conversation, Kwame sits down with psychologist, author, and TED speaker Guy Winch to unpack the deep psychological roots behind our fear of rejection, the guilt of boundary-setting, and the hidden emotional costs of people-pleasing. You'll learn: Why rejection hurts like physical pain (yes, literally) How to reframe fear and rewrite the labels you give yourself The secret to setting boundaries without ruining relationships Why most people fail at boundaries — and how to do it right The one question that will completely change how you approach tough conversations This episode is a must-listen for anyone who struggles with speaking up, saying no, or putting themselves first without shame. Plus, Guy gives a sneak peek into his upcoming book Mind Over Grind — and why burnout at work is hitting harder than ever.

If you've ever felt invisible, underestimated despite your results, or pressured to be someone you're not — this conversation will change the way you see yourself In this episode, executive coach Patience Ogunbona explains why the modern workplace favors extroverts — and how introverts can stop playing a rigged game. We break down the six pillars of courageous leadership, the hidden strengths of quiet thinkers, and why you don't have to be the loudest in the room to lead it. If you've ever felt invisible in meetings, underestimated despite your results, or pressured to be someone you're not — this conversation will change the way you see yourself. And more importantly, the way you show up. Follow Patience on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

If you've ever felt uncomfortable “selling yourself” — this episode might just change everything. In this episode, Jason Harris, co-founder of the award-winning ad agency Mechanism and author of The Soulful Art of Persuasion, shares how he built a powerhouse business without using manipulation or salesy tactics. Instead, he leaned into empathy, generosity, and storytelling — values most people don't associate with persuasion. We talk about how to lead with integrity, what it really means to influence without forcing, and why your reputation is the most powerful negotiation tool you have. Connect with Jason Buy the book: The Soulful Art of Persuasion Follow Jason on LinkedIn Jason Harris Mekanism Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Ever walk away from a conversation feeling more disconnected than before? You're not alone — and bestselling author Charles Duhigg is here to explain why. In this powerful episode, Charles (author of The Power of Habit and Supercommunicators) reveals the hidden science behind every conversation that fails — and exactly how to turn it around. Learn how to recognize the 3 types of conversations, why most breakdowns happen even with good intentions, and what super communicators do differently to build trust, defuse tension, and connect deeply — fast. Kwame and Charles break down: Why practical advice often backfires in emotional conversations The “matching principle” and how to use it How to avoid one-upping and start listening for real Why asking better questions is your #1 communication superpower This isn't just about talking — it's about leading, connecting, and transforming every difficult conversation you face. Whether you're leading a team, navigating conflict at home, or just want to be heard — this episode is your playbook. Connect with Charles Duhigg Follow Charles Duhigg on LinkedIn https://www.charlesduhigg.com/ Buy the book: Supercommunicators Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Hise Gibson pulls no punches about what's really standing in the way of successful AI integration: leadership failure. Drawing on decades of experience in combat, crisis, and the boardroom, Professor Gibson explains: Why most leaders are underprepared for the human side of AI adoption—and how to fix it How trust, not technology, determines whether teams resist or accelerate change The overlooked interpersonal deficit caused by the pandemic—and why your team's soft skills may be your hardest problem Whether you're leading a team, scaling a business, or just trying to navigate the future of work, this conversation will change the way you think about leadership forever. Follow Hise Gibson on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Hard work isn't enough — you need strategy. In this episode, Michael W. Phillips — veteran consultant and author of The Naked Negotiator — reveals why negotiation isn't just for boardrooms. Drawing from 30 years of high-stakes deals, he shows how the same principles apply when asking for a raise, and why relying on “fairness” can quietly sabotage your career. You'll learn: What managing your boss really means — and why it's not sucking up How to replace “fair” with “reasonable” to shift power in any negotiation Why most people never even start the conversation — and how to build the confidence to ask Whether you're in procurement or pitching your own salary, this episode is a mindset reset you didn't know you needed Connect with Michael W. Phillips Follow Mike Phillips On LinkedIn https://www.phillipsconsulting.co.uk/ https://michaelwphillips.ampbk.com/ Buy now the book: The Naked Negotiator by Michael W Phillips Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Managing up is not about flattery. It's about influence, and taking control of your career before someone else does. Order Now the Book: Managing Up: How to Get What You Need from the People in Charge In this episode, Melody Wilding—executive coach, professor, and author of Managing Up—joins Kwame to unpack one of the most overlooked (and misunderstood) career skills: learning how to manage your boss. If you've ever felt invisible, undervalued, or like you're doing everything right but still not moving forward, this conversation will shift your entire perspective on leadership at work. You'll learn: • Why “being a team player” might be damaging your reputation and future • How to set boundaries without making enemies or risking your job • What managing up really means—and why it's not the same as sucking up Connect with Melody melodywilding.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Saying yes all the time is the fastest road to burnout. In this episode, career coach Eliana Goldstein breaks down why setting boundaries is essential—not just for your well-being, but for your success. Whether you're leading a team or pivoting your career, this is your wake-up call to stop people-pleasing and start protecting your energy. What You'll Learn: Why saying “yes” too often can destroy performance and relationships How to set boundaries without feeling guilty or selfish The biggest mistakes people make when trying to advocate for themselves Enroll in THE CAREER UPGRADE COURSE  Discount link: https://www.elianagoldsteincoaching.com/offers/hgjebgSL?coupon_code=NEGOTIATEANYTHING BOOK A CAREER ASSESSMENT CALL! Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

What if your biggest obstacle in sales isn't your product — but how you're pitching it? In this episode, Kwame sits down with persuasion expert and medtech strategist Omar M. Khateeb to explore the psychology behind why people actually say yes. From understanding emotional triggers to mastering persuasion at scale, this is a no-fluff conversation packed with insights you can use immediately. What you'll learn in this episode The biggest persuasion mistake people make (and how it silently kills deals) How to use Omar's “Present Pain, Future Fear” framework to drive action The difference between ethical persuasion and manipulation — and how to stay on the right side Whether you're a sales pro, entrepreneur, or just trying to get better at influencing others, this episode is a masterclass in how to persuade without pushing. Connect with Omar M. Khateeb Omar's Social Media Omar's blog Follow Omar on LinkedIn L[in] Profile Upgrade Course Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this insightful episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian is joined by strategic communications executive Maha Abouelenein. With extensive experience at top-tier companies like Google and Netflix, Maha shares invaluable advice on building personal brands, effective storytelling, and the power of self-reliance. Together, they delve into the nuances of value creation in professional relationships and overcoming fears in communication. With actionable tips and real-life examples, this conversation is a goldmine for anyone looking to elevate their negotiation skills and personal branding. What will be covered: Maha Abouelenein's professional background and her new book, "The Seven Rules of Self-Reliance." Key strategies for effective communication and the importance of authenticity. How to create value in relationships and why it's crucial for successful negotiations Connect with Maha Order the Book 7 Rules of Self-Reliance: How to Stay Low, Keep Moving, Invest in Yourself, and Own Your Future Maha Website Follow Maha on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

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In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian delves into the often-overlooked yet crucial role of saying "no" in negotiation. While many focus on getting to "yes," Kwame explains why mastering the art of saying "no" can actually enhance your negotiation results and relationships. Through insightful strategies like the "no sandwich" technique, listeners will learn to deliver their "no" in a way that is both respectful and effective. With practical examples and actionable advice, this episode equips you with the tools to handle difficult conversations with poise and clarity. What will be covered: The psychological barriers that make saying "no" challenging. Common ineffective strategies when people try to avoid saying "no." Techniques for saying "no" without damaging relationships, such as the "no sandwich." Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

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