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Music and it's powerful associations for strippers
I recorded this episode a while back while I was in Vegas, and put it on my YouTube channel, but never uploaded it to the podcast. I hope someone finds it helpful
Is it time to branch out and get some perspective on the world? I made this episode for a girl that sent me a message on IG, and I think it can benefit anyone who's thinking about traveling to dance, but hasn't done it yet
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I took this audio with another dancer from our Strategic Stripping group years back... I just found it, and wanted to post it. Take a peek into our night to get some stripper insight ❤︎ Thanks again, Nicole!
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First, we're going to go into the the science of your biology, and how WHAT YOU THINK, truly effects your entire reality
Life is ALWAYS in motion. Yours and mine included. Even when we feel stuck… if you're listening to this right now, there's literally nothing about OUR personal lives that we can't change. We can change it all. It might be hard, and it might seem impossible… but no matter how bad you may perceive your life, someone else has had it way worse, and has overcome it. ☽ ⚛︎ ✧ ☀︎ ⟡ ☆ ♦︎ ★ ⟡ ☘︎ ☼ ☾ Welcome back to the Strategic Stripping Podcast,The last time I did a series, was the psychology of selling series. It was a three part series, and the psychology of selling is a book written by Brian Tracy who you may already know is the guy who really changed my life and finances.I felt like I was doing pretty well at work… But I certainly knew I could do a whole lot better, and it was after studying Brian's work that was the tipping point for me in my journey of self development, because he showed me how successful people think and act… and it was a realization of ~ You can make a whole lot more money….. So figure that out, and go do it.That's the only series I've done so far, and a lot of girls loved it.So it's time for another series, and the significance of this one I believe will be even better. And I don't say that lightly. Brian Tracy talks a lot about the power of your mind… and how the most successful people in the world aren't focusing on their problems. They're focused on finding solutions. One of my favorite quotes by him is "the person that you see, is the person you will be."He talks about the power of your super subconscious mind, and how your brain is like a homing pigeon. That you can put a homing pigeon in a box, drive it hundreds of miles away from its home… let it out… and it will be able to make it straight back to its home. He says your subconscious mind operates the same way when it has a goal. When you set a goal, something called your reticular activating system goes to work without you even being aware of it, and is on constant alert for how to attain your goal.Most people don't know (besides not knowing at all that they even have a reticular activating system) is that your RAS (reticular activating system)... just like the law of attraction… is ALWAYS working… Even when you don't consciously set a goal. So if you are focusing on not having enough money… You need to get money… where's the money? How come you haven't made more money? You're communicating to your reticular activating system, AND to the universe… your using the law of attraction… to be on high alert for WHERE is the MONEY. “Where is the money?” Is not HAVING the MONEY.Please listen to what I'm about to say. If you've never done psychedelics, this may be difficult to wrap your head around, but I have faith in you. Consciousness, is THE ONLY REALITY. Literally everything you focus your attention on, you are CREATING. You are creating more of that thing. Whether that's a future reality you want and don't have yet, or whether you're focusing on your life problems. We become what we think about, most of the time. This is not new knowledge. This is not woo woo knowledge. This is 100%, absolute truth. So Brian clearly explains the principles of changing your life… and how your thoughts control your actions which ultimately controls where you end up in life… But Bruce explains things from a much deeper… Like down to the single cell, deeper, level.Here's his very formal sounding bio: Bruce Lipton, PhD, cell biologist and lecturer, is an internationally recognized leader in bridging science and spirit. Bruce was on the faculty of the University of Wisconsin's School of Medicine and later performed groundbreaking stem cell research at Stanford Medical School.Now, this is just the intro to the How to Get Unstuck series, and I want to read one thing to show a bit of what we're going to get into.This is from Bruce Lipton:“You as an identity are in your conscious mind; you actually are in there. That's where your personal identity is. And we have a tendency to say, if I talk to myself, I'm gonna give myself a good talking to, and I'm gonna change that subconscious. I say to myself, don't do that again, do this. Don't do that again. But then you do the same thing again that you told yourself not to. Why? You can talk until you're blue in the face and nothing will change. Why? And the answer is, and this is the most important part, there is nobody in the subconscious. It's a machine. It's a record playback device, and you can talk to the machine as much as you want, but if you don't know how to push the record button, nothing's going to happen. So how do you change the program? Well, how did you get the program? ☽ ⚛︎ ✧ ☀︎ ⟡ ☆ ♦︎ ★ ⟡ ☘︎ ☼ ☾ We're going cover that in Episode 1. Talk to you soon
This episode is a little out of the ordinary for this channel... but none of us are ordinary anyway, so I wanted to share something new with y'all that I've been doing a lot of lately, and it's really helped give me some very surprising answers to the questions I've asked.There will be a fun exercise at the end if you'd like to give it a try
Just like a picture is *never* as good as the real thing... I really try to do yoga justice by talking about it, but what I (or anyone else) can tell you about it, is equivalent to a low-quality polaroid picture of the real thing (and even that's an overstatement.)Exercise is the cure for depression, will help eliminate self-doubt, worry, fear, anxiety, feeling wobbly or weak... it will help you feel graceful, strong, beautiful, peaceful, present, powerful, flexible...Want to stand tall instead of be hunched over as time goes by? Do yoga! Want to chronologically reverse your age? Do yoga! Want not only L
If you got value out of this interview, please leave a 5 star review, because it helps me to keep coming back with more useful information for our community. If you'd like to get on the Strategic Stripping mailing list, go to Strategic Stripping.com sign up for the monthly stripper e-zine. Thanks for listening, remember to focus on what you want, believe in it as already real, and know that riches of every kind, begin as a state of mind. Stay positive. Ciao.
Top 3 Surprising Reasons Why Ladies Become StrippersThe strip club industry is like a mystery to anyone on the outside. Maybe you've thought about getting in, but have been afraid for one reason or another. There are all kinds of stereotypes about strippers, made up by ignorant people that have no idea what they're talking about. The people that think it's not a real job, probably don't realize that we make more money than they do, and have more ability to do whatever we want, more so than most of the world. So as an insider, I'll let you know the real top 3, most surprising reasons why girls get into the industry. The number 1 most surprising, Is to learn how to step into their true feminine and really own their sexuality. Being a girl growing up with a conservative family, father or mother, religion, school, society, or something can play a huge role in intentionally or unintentionally, shaming girls for showing skin... wearing make-up... being flirty... being themselves really is what it boils down to in my opinion... and over time that can start to affect how you might openly express being a woman with a powerful presence. Your divine feminine isn't something to be ashamed of. Taking care of your appearance, exercising your body to keep or get it in great shape, wearing makeup, and learning how to speak well, can boost your self-esteem, and psychologically command attention. Women are the caretakers of the earth. We can bring new life onto this planet. Recognize your power. Your value. Your divine feminine. Reason 2. Desperation & Desire to create a better lifeThe school system has a great way of burying people in debt. We also aren't taught in school about credit or how it can it screw you if you don't understand it, and a lot of people become slaves to the System working every day to pay off the things they probably shouldn't have bought in the first place, and now that includes an amount of interest that might not appear to be large just by looking at 3%, 7%, or whatever it happens to be... but if you keep making just that minimum payment... you're really hurting yourself in the long run, and keeping the bankers fat and happy.Another reason is, their home life was abusive or toxic and they were desperate for a better a life. They could have also been married and needed a way to get away from their toxic partner who had all the resources. Also, they could have just hated their job or having a normal, boring life. And #3 The reason that I found the most surprising (and the most admirable) is being or becoming a single mom. Waiting 2 weeks for a puny paycheck and paying child support all week while working, might not be an option if you need money now. Others realize they don't want to be without their baby all week while being at work. They really realize when they get their paycheck from their normal job, that the little amount of money they're getting while having to leave their child with a stranger in some cases, just isn't worth it. They start to recognize their true value.In this case in particular, a lot of girls are terrified to get started. A big reason for this one, is fear of judgment. Other people's opinions about how you should live your life. The number 1 response I see given to girls that are worried about that... is... Are those people paying your bills? People are going to judge you, no matter what you do. So you might as well flourish, regardless of anyone else's judgy opinion, that really doesn't matter anyway. There's also the aspect of not feeling as confident after having a child. Tons of girls in the industry have stretch marks, scars, big milk-filled boobs, or tiny no more milk boobs... Big bodies, tall bodies, short bodies, small bodies, this color, that color, strong accent, no accent... You are perfectly beautiful in your own way. There will only ever be one of you. You can create your life the way that you want to. And when you grasp that concept and realize no one is in control of your destiny other than you... When you own up to it, you'll cash in on it. Please like this video if you like it, and subscribe if you haven't already for some more stripper insight, from someone that really wants you to gain confidence, be happy, and live the life you want to live.Caio for now
I gave a presentation a while back when I lived in California... if you're into the Law Of Attraction........... I think you'll love this talk
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The first like 10 minutes of this audio, I have my car AC on too high, and you'll hear a clicking sound... my headset was rubbing against my headphones.... but after about 10 minutes I fix it all. I think you're going to get value out of this walk through of my night. If you haven't joined our facebook group yet... what are you waiting for!? Come hang out with us
Some of the things I mention in the show: My headset I love to block out the world: https://amzn.to/2Ufz8QH Link to fb group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/stellarlifestrategies/ To receive emails from me, email StrategicStripping@gmail.com and say COUNT ME IN Welcome back to the strategic stripping podcast, My play name is Valeska. I apologize for being a bit MIA I’ve been visiting my family on the east coast... Which is part of the topic today. Location. Or environment. It matters. It matters a lot actually… I’m not a scientist, don’t play one on TV… but from the research I’ve done… Your environment shapes you. According to what I’ve read about epigenetics (which is like this new secret science that’s being uncovered), Your environment literally shapes who you are. It has profound effects on your cells. So for example… let’s say your family has a long line of diabetes, they hang out a lot, everyone’s around each other often… And then you move away, and get super healthy friends. They don’t eat junk, maybe even all organic, love their fruits and veggies…… They exercise and play often…. And though your brother and sister might have developed some type of disease or are teetering on getting diabetes… you never develop it………. But chances are you would have gotten that if you kept hanging around your family or friends that we’re all eating fast food, candy bars etc… It’s your environment, not your genes… that determines so much of your life. You will raise or lower your standards depending on the people you’re around. The environment you’re in. This goes from clubs, all the girls are lazy…. Or all the girls are hustlers… To friends… all your friends are negative people that like to gossip and bitch… Or all your friends like to talk about big ideas… possibilities for the future… what can we do to improve our lives… To class that you’re in……. And I don’t want to sound shitty here… but if you’re around a bunch of people that are broke all the time… you’re more likely to lower your standard, than to help your friends raise theirs…… Im going to give you a quick story…. I was in a weird place in life… surprise surprise… where I found myself hotel hopping, with the other most adventurous stripper I’ve ever met besides myself. This chick was like the epitome of a traveling barbie doll. Big ass boobs, white as paper teeth, long blonde locks…. And messy as fuck. I have always been a crazy germaphobe. I mean I wash my hands, I have my own organic essential oil hand sanitizer spray… I don’t touch door handles… I’ve always used essential oils are perfume because I don’t like chemicals in perfume, I’d rather throwing up out side or in someone’s bathtub than in a toilet because that’s disgusting... I’m just a germaphobe. And while staying with this girl…. One time, there was a knock on the door, 11’oclock, and we’re both s till in bed… it was the cleaning lady… and she got up, opened the door, just asked the towels, and as soon as she closed the door, turned around, and starting heading back to the bed… she just dropped all the towels on the floor….. I couldn’t believe it… The thing that really got me though… was her toothbrush. I found her toothbrush on the floor, near the toilet… and she just didn’t give a fuck. She laughed, put it in her bag, and was like “Well that’s nice”… This girl lowered my standards when it came to cleanliness…. In a ridiculous way… and it’s because we started together for so long. And that standard has never gone back up to where it was. I officially lowered my standards being around her, and I haven’t met anyone who’s counter balanced that in myself yet. Okay, so why am I talking about this… No matter where you are in life right now…. If you’re surroundings are chaotic… if you don’t have a quiet place to think, if you have dogs around you barking all the time, neighbors that stress you out, family or friends around that you just don’t like… get yourself out of that environment. If you want to be successful, get new friends. I mean it. Go to meetup groups. Go to play sports and get around active people. Study people that make money. Grant Cardone, Gary Vaynerchuck, Tony Robbins, Tim Ferriss, check out Impact Theory on YouTube or podcast, also the Mindvalley Podcast - goddamn it’s good… Study money makers. Study world changers. You might not feel like you can do anything right now…. But I swear to you, listening to motivational stuff is the only reason I’m still going. I have huge ambitions…. And if I wasn’t following these global world shakers… I wouldn’t be doing shit with my life. I would be sad, overwhelmed, stressed out…. Girls I am that stuff still…. But listening to motivational stuff…. Keeping the environment in my mind positive is so important for me. And they say motivation is like bathing. You don’t just do it once. You do it daily. I don’t want to make this super long, it’s just been a while since we talked… so I wanted to reach out and say hello, I miss you… I believe in you… and I want to encourage you to think bigger. And that might require getting in a new environment. Don’t make excuses….. ask HOW. How can I do xyz… how can I move… how can I change this about myself… or my life…. What I can I do……. There’s always an answer. Always. Tony Robbins says that the quality of your questions determines your LIFE and this mofo knows what he’s talking about. Change your environment. Study successful people… Study people that think BIG… come join our facebook group if you’re a female, dancer, want to be dancer, or OG used to be a dancer…. I talk a lot in that group… it’s a lot easier for me to text that publish these episodes, so I’m pretty active in there. There’s a link in the description... Speaking of text actualllly… if you want to get emails of encouragement and awesomeness from me…… send me an email at StrategicStripping@gmail.com and say COUNT ME IN…. And as soon as I start emailing regularly, I will add you. The info you’ll get in there will be different than what you get on the podcast. And honestly, I think you’ll like it.
Welcome back to the Strategic Stripping Podcast, I’m so happy to have you here. This is part 3 of the Psychology of Selling… learned completely by Mr Brian Tracy…. Who is a world renowned expert in teaching about sales, psychology, and success. He’s getting up there in age, so at this point he’s basically spent a lifetime learning and teaching about how to become successful. He’s absolutely the guy I would attribute most of my success in the stripper world to…. I bet he’d be surprised to hear that. Probably never thought his business presentations were being watched by a hungry stripper that wanted to make the most of her self. Anyway… This is Part 3. And to recap the 2 most important things from the first 2 videos…. #1, is you must learn to love and like yourself. And There are very simple things that you can do to make this happen. One is to look in the mirror. Smile.And keep smiling until you reallllly feel it. Until that smile becomes real. Even if it’s only really real because you feel silly looking at yourself smiling in the mirror. Keep smiling. And once you get that genuine smile…. Now’s the time to say “I like myself. I like myself. I like myself. I like myself. I like myself. I like myself.” I mean it girls, this works. I would not be saying something so silly, if it didn’t personally work for me. Another thing you can do is sit up straight. Keep your chin up, and shoulders back. Having great posture is a sign up high self esteem. And when you sit up straight and hold yourself in a posture that show’s that you care about yourself…. Other people will recognize it…. And so will your subconscious mind. So sit up straight. And the second most important thing so far, is to write down your goals. I know people probably tell you in these self development kinda videos alllll the time, different things for you to do…….. But this one is easy…. And, Brian says out of everything he teaches… that this is the NUMBER ONE THING that you can do, to set your subconscious mind in motion, to start to figure how to achieve your goals. You’ll be putting your subconscious mind on an underground mission to start achieving your goals…. When you take the time to physically write them out. This isn’t your stripper friend talking here telling you to do this…. This is incredibly valuable information given from someone who’s spent a lifetime studying successful people. This shit works. Do it. Do it for me. Do it for you. Do it for your family. Do it for you dog, I don’t care who you do it for…. But do it. Life isn’t meant to be lived in mediocrity……. Mediocrity is what scared me into stripping. What a scary thought…. Being normal…. man…. I just… ah…. Alright, so because the goal for us is to live an abundant life… We’re going to start talking about how to become great at what you do. Being great in this industry requires a lot of mental and physical strength. It requires some tough skin, and to not waste your energy on the wrong people. When it comes to selling, there are always going to be high probability customers, and low probability customers. What’s the best part of selling? It’s making the sale. It’s getting paid. It’s the endorphin rush you get when they say yes… What’s the downside of sales? It’s dealing with difficult people. It’s long drawn out conversations that aren’t going anywhere. It’s not making sales. We hate the feeling of not succeeding. Do we not? If they disrespect you……. Walk away. Dealing with people that are disrespectful or difficult… That’s what grinds us down the fastest. Walk away. In selling, if you start dealing with difficult people, and you quickly decide to walk away… this will keep yourself up. It’ll help keep you in a positive mood. Just be thankful he’s gone, and Don’t spend anymore time thinking about him. Dealing with shitty people can wear you out. Drag you down. Pull your self esteem down. Make you sad. Make you feel bad about yourself. Like you’re not good at selling……… So.. if you’re dealing with someone that sucks…. Brian says (because he’s talking about products or services that we offer… not exactly about ourselves… but… ) “You know, this probably isn’t the right product or service for you. Thank you for your time, and you have a wonderful life.” To be honest…. I think that’d be fun to say. I’d say it about myself anyway, not in a bitchy way maybe, it might even get a laugh out of them… but then I would walk away. I don’t like to leave bad blood. I mean, in this case it really doesn’t matter, I’ve walked away from tons of people mid conversation just because I didn’t want to talk to them anymore or they were irritating me…. If someone is disresrespecting your time or bothering you… walk away. Dealing with happy people will keep you in a good mood, EVEN if they don’t buy. So if you sit with someone for a few minutes or however long you decide to persuade them into coming with your charming self…. Even if they say no… at least you had a good vibe, hopefully left a good vibe… and maybe they’ll find you later. Brian says from now on, for the rest of your career… don’t deal with difficult people. They’re not going to buy anyway……. And if they do they might not pay…. And if they do buy and they do pay… they’ll probably complain. There are some customers that just aren’t worth it. The most important thing you have is the fact that your high energy, optimistic, happy….. don’t let them take that from you. Next is… realize that life comes in seasons. There are money positive seasons and money negative seasons. During the down time…. You’re going to have to go for more people to make more sales. But this isn’t the time to cry and complain. Just recognize it and accept it. The economy is like the weather. You can’t do anything about it, you just adjust to it… Instead of saying “Business is bad”… no… it’s just slower than it was the day before. It’s not bad. And we honestly have one of the most recession proof business to work in anyway!!! I told my future husband the other day I needed to start teaching about how to prepare for an economic crash…. Because it’s coming… and he said “Are you kidding me?…. that industry will always work” And he’s right… because sex does sell… And I also agree, because I was stripping through the 2008 crash and I honestly thought people were just complaining to complain while talking about the economy… because I was making GREAT money… But when I saw the global charts of industries tanking…. Wow was I surprised… But… the girls in my club…. Boy did they bitch about it… I mean wow… It was constant CNN up in there… constant negative news…. So… we are still going to learn about how to prepare for a crash… but we won’t be hurt by it like most. However, it is reallllly important that you decide you’re going to keep making money, and pretend like everyone you talk to still has money. Because if you act like they’re broke and might not want to spend… that’s probably exactly what’ll happen. And here’s the thing…. When you can succeed in a turned down economy, when it turns around, and it will……. You’ll be so far ahead. You’ll be smarter, quicker, more determined, focused, confident…. So just look at it as a challenge to make you stronger. And I have to say this…. Brian says when someone says “God this is so hard” and complains all the time…. He said to say “Yeah, why don’t you quit?” And I’m maybe not recommending to say that……. But god I wanted to say that to so many girls…….. Listen I understand things being hard sometimes… But if you can get one dance every hour and a half, you’re still doing better than most of the country… And every time you complain to your co-workers, without asking permission… just to try to get them to agree with you… the only thing you’re doing is making it harder for everybody. One of the things that Brian talks about when it comes to selling, is when you’re talking to your future customer, talk about the RESULT or BENEFIT of your product. Okay so we’re in a unique industry, so how could we spin that. The first one that comes to my mind is, “You seem like you could use some stress relief. Come play with me…. My boobs will lower your blood pressure and make you happier. This is science.” Find benefits. “Come with me. I’m known as the dream maker. And I want to take you to fantasy land.” Girls…. Go for a walk and just start thinking about lines to use. Come up with sexy stuff… or funny stuff… or mysterious, dangerous, clever, slick stuff… once you find a few lines that work to get guys intrigued enough to say yes… use those lines over and over. Another thing Brian talks about is The Come Back Later guy… now of course, in his industry he wouldn’t call it the come back later guy…. But we all know who I’m talking about. And what Brian suggests, is telling them “I don’t come back later” Something maybe we could try…. Is “I don’t come later. I value my time. And I find you quite attractive. So Do you want to do this, or what?" I would recommend saying that in the sexiest way possible. You’re dealing with a human being that has emotions and feelings… and you want to say it in a way that’s self confident in that, you don’t need him… but you know you two would have fun. Or at least he would have fun. But you know what I mean. You two would have fun. Next is…. perception…… the customers perception of you, is the customers reality of you. When you meet your customers, what you say to them, they will generally believe you. Most people believe that they’re told, and then they SEE, they watch to see if the person is for real. Everything that you say, counts. Everything that you do, counts. Every interaction counts. Personally…. When it comes to selling in the strip club…. I think the BEST WAY to position yourself is the sexiest girl in the club. And this is NOT a character you can fall out of. When there’s no one in there… you don’t go to the bar, slunch over, and start checking facebook on your phone in your own little world. You sit up straight. Chin up, legs crossed and stay turned towards the door slightly. When a new customer comes in… if he’s headed towards the bar first (like lots of them do) have a very open body language. Look at him and smile. And even in your mind…. Say something like “He’s sexy”. It’ll send off a vibe to him that you’re feeling him. Pretend like this is the guy that’s going to become your next long term client. If you’re going to go for being the sexy chick… I’d always stay in character. Always. Sexy and funny is a great mix. And remember even if you don’t feel sexy yet…. You’ve gotta practice. Practice makes perfect. I feel like I remember when I decided I was going to start to be sexy af at work. I felt self conscious. The other girls to a small degree knew me… so I feel like sometimes when people know you, they can almost hold you back. Kinda like… That’s not who she is…. Trying to make you stay the same… But you don’t have to stay the same. You don’t have to stay the same for anyone. And this is one of the reasons why I support club hopping. If you start off with bad luck at one club… maybe no money your first week of shifts… go try another one. Reinvent yourself. I’d go for being the sexy girl. I feel like that’s where most of the money is. They’re going to a strip club. They might be going more for a conversation…. But it’s your sexy hustle that will MOVE them to get a dance with you. In my opinion. In my experience. Anyway! That’s the end of the Psychology of Selling from Brian Tracy. He has a whole book called the Psychology of Selling…. Maybe we’ll go through the whole book someday… but for now, we’re going to stick with the information that I go from this 3 part lecture.
Excellent interview with a long time entertainer. She tells us how she's been able to maintain a love for what she does, even 20 years later.
We can thank a lady from YouTube for asking this today :) So here are some suggestions on how to squash anxiety Work day shift. You don't need to work when there's a lot of people there to make money. And even if you'd make more money on a Friday night than on a Thursday day shift........ is it worth it?.... Working consistently a few days a week, might ultimately be more practical, if it's very hard for you to push yourself to go in on nights you know it will be busy, and cause you anxiety. Work at a club that doesn't allow people to touch you. I just did an interview with a girl that's been dancing for 20 years, it should be out this week... and from what it sounds like.... working at a place that they aren't allowed in your space, but your allowed in theirs... could be a major key for people with anxiety... It's something I need to test for myself to find out, but maybe you can also find a club that doesn't allow customers to touch you. Is alcohol... I've been sober for a whole year in 11 days.... so I'm not saying that this is the best idea for anyone... but, depending on your level of anxiety... maybe a shot to start your night could help. I would NOT make this a habit.. I think the other options are better to start... but I'm throwing it out there... because it did help me a lot. Breathing! Take 6 deep slow breaths... I talk more about this in another video called Manage Your Emotions And another one... and this might be the money maker right here.... is when you're approaching them.... just go in with the intention of having fun. Not selling. Just tell yourself as you walk towards them "We're going to have fun. Those guys are going to love me. They're going to love me." And as you hang out with them and you're having a good time... start to think "he wants to come dance with me"... switch your focus from feeling fun, to feeling sexy.... and ask him. "Did you come here to hang out with your friends all night, or did you come here to have a good time? Say whatever you're feeling at the moment that you feel good saying. And remember, tone of voice.... the look in your eyes to his... your body language not being closed off, but being open and flirty.... all of these things matter. So there are some suggestions. I know in every situation I go into now, even in real life... that is my main goal. To have a great time. And when you're having a great time, it rubs off on other people. Kinda like being nervous rubs off on other people. Which is why you should keep the focus on fun. Don't be stuck in your head being afraid. Focus on them. Whisper in your mind with confidence "We're going to have a great time" I hope this was helpful... and if anyone else has any suggestions about nervousness and approaching customers... we would love to hear it. There's more than enough for all of us. And the happier the guys are that come in... the more often they'll go to strip clubs, be it ours or not... and the more money all of us will make. It's our job to make these guys super happy they came in... so that they'll keep coming back over and over again. That's it for now y'all. Have an awesome night.
Welcome back to part 2 of the Psychology of Selling. Picking up from where we left off…. The rest of this, is mental. It’s not sales tactics, internal belief and sales tactics. And I promise you, this is the most important. Because you could be hot as fire, but have a shitty mindset, and a lot of people won’t want to buy from you. Or you could be confident as fuck, but not so hot, and you’ll get your customers to say yes one after another. As a reminder… The more you like yourself, the higher your self-esteem will be, your confidence levels will rise, which means it’ll become easy for you to approach customers, you’ll be more optimistic, and have a positive mental attitude more often. Remember, The more you like yourself, the more you'll like other people… and the more you like other people, the more they'll like you…. And the more they’ll want to buy from you, and have their friends buy from you. The more you like yourself, the better a friend you are. The better a boss you are. The better a spouse, girlfriend, fantasy girl….. stripper, hustler, and money maker you’ll be. The more you like yourself, the better is every part of your life. This also will lower your stress levels & strengthen your immune system…… I was mistaken on the last video when I gave you the top 4 things Brian Tracy said that everyone wants. I thought it was Health, Love, Meaningful work, and Work that we do well… but meaningful work, and work that we do well was one topic…. The last one is Financial Independence. The entire reason why strategic stripping was born. Alright, it’s time for you and I, to start doing some projections. And To start thinking about the future. Your future is coming. If you don’t know where you’re going…. You’re already there. Lets really go through this. Brian Tracy the guy who’s stuff we’re talking about, the psychology of selling… He’s been studying millionaires since a very young age… he still does it… you can type him in on YouTube, and he looks like he’s almost 80 at this point… He’s spent an entire lifetime studying successful people… and the number one thing I hear him talk about… is writing down your goals. So you can I are going to do this…. And I already did mine, so now you’ve gotta catch up. You most people in life… just wonder, never really knowing where they’re going, thinking that life is just happening to them… You make life happen, through you. And if you don’t know where you’re going or what you want, you’re just going to keep getting the random bullshit that other people are thinking about too. When someone new comes into your life.. maybe a customer… if you don’t know what you want, your subject to what they want, if they know what they want. Now if that customer comes in there, not really knowing what he wants… you can convince him of what you want… which is money from him. Or a lot of money from him. I’m just trying to make a point… Life isn’t just happening to you. And life isn’t happening for you. Life is happening through you. If life was happening for you, you’d always get the best… but imo, it’s happening through you, which means, which means you’re getting what you’re thinking about. And most people aren’t thinking about what they want. Brian Tracy says writing down your goals is the number one thing you can do to achieve them. When you physically write down your goals, you lock your subconscious mind on that target… and like a homing pigeon can be stolen away from it’s home, locked in a cage, and driven 1100 miles away from home… they’ll open the cage, and that pigeon will find it’s way home…. Your subconscious does the same thing. It’s locked in on it’s target. But it has to know what it’s target is first. So I mean this!!!! Do this because it’ll change your life. Your assignment whether you choose to accept it or not… is to write down 10 goals. I want you to for real write down 10 goals. Ive known this for a long time…. But I think I have really unique goals… so I was always afraid to write them down, because I was afraid someone would find them. What the fuck is this chick on…. But you know what girls… life is too fucking short to be worried about what other people are thinking about when it comes to what you want. This is your life. It’s not any body elses. Think as big as big as you can here. Shoot for the stars. We’ve got one shot at this life… and I’ve heard it’s just as hard, to go for huge goals, as is to live through life playing small. You’d get to lay around in bed a lot more… I don’t know about you… but when I lay in bed being depressed… feeling anxious knowing I’m wasting my time and life…. It’s harder for me to do that, then to go to a meetup group that I know can have a profound impact on my life… or to go work out… or to go travel… and even to go to work. I’ve laid in bed countless times, not wanting to go, waiting until it was too late to go…… and then regretting it for the rest of the night. I can’t imagine how many outstanding customers I’ve missed because of that. And the more time goes on, the more you realize you can’t go back. Life is a now or never kinda game. Get in the game. Let’s play something big. So no matter what your goals are…. No matter how crazy you think they sound… remember what Steve Jobs said… it’s the people that are crazy enough to think that they can change the world… that do. So when you write the goals down, it programs it into your subconscious mind… even if your conscious mind doesn’t remember, that’s okay. Because your subconscious mind does, and is working 24 hours a day to bring that into your reality. We still have some time in this video… so if you appreciate anything I’ve Brought to the table for you through out any single video I’ve ever made…. Do it for both of us…. Get a piece of paper and a pen. You can hide this piece of paper, you can tape it inside of a air duct, tape it on top of your fan, under your dresser… or tape it on the wall in front of you…. But physically write down your goals. Go for 10. And if you have no idea what to write… the number 1 I would start with, is “I am a radically optimistic person.” This number 1 thing, will make your entire life better. You’ll always be looking for the best case scenario… and what we look for, we find. Another good one, is write “I am in the top 10% of income earners in the world” My goal while I was working in the strip club was to be in the top 10% of income earners in the club. I’ve said this many times… The thing I don’t think I mentioned, was that it wasn’t hard to get there…. And, this was small thinking. Knowing what I know now…. I know, as an entertainer, you can get into the top 10% of income earners in the country. You would need to make approximately $14,000 a month, to get In the top 10% of income earners in the world…. Now, that’s a lot. You and I know that’s a lot…. but… we’ve got our whole lives ahead of us to figure out how we’re going to accomplish this…. So… I want you to start thinking about being one of the top 10% of income earners in the world…. Claim it as yours. Claim it as your reality. You don’t need to tell anyone that this is your goal…. But you can silently start reminding yourself that this is your goal…. And keep saying it over and over with faith. You might not know how…. But that’s irrelevant. And when you have ideas that are ones that you feel you’re supposed to act on…… Make it happen. One step at a time. Lay out a plan. Look for a partner who’s strengths are your weaknesses. Make a web site. Premium Snap Chat. YouTube channel. Podcast. Make a call to someone you know that’s successful and ask them how. Go to an event. Talk to that person you know you should talk to. Start to network. Start to Save. So you can Invest. And make your money work for you. Make it grow for you. We don’t need to know how. We just need to know what. Claim it now. You belong in the top 10% of income earners. You have to get there mentally before you get there physically. And once you’re there, it’s your job to STAY there in your mind… and in reality. If you’re thinking to yourself right now that there’s no way you could make it into the top 10%…….. I want to give you some legit things to think about. We have a job that when it comes to how much we can make, we are on the same playing field as doctors, lawyers, and whatever else job our parents thought would be good for us to get…. But we have none of the over head fees, and don’t have to go into debt to get to the point that we can start making money. We already start out ahead… and our income is only capped by how much we work, and how creative we are at work. The next thing I want you to realize, is that everyone that’s in the top 10% was at one point in the bottom 10% Everyone that’s at the top in our field… was once not in the field at all. It starts somewhere. You’re starting somewhere. Time is going to keep passing no matter what we do. We might as well have a goal to get in the top 10%, because quite frankly, life will ultimately be harder if we don’t try. If we try to do the easy thing and just fuck around on our shifts until we make what we need to cover for that week or for the rest of the month so we don’t have to go in……. Ultimately life for us will be played small. We won’t get on top. And we’ll always have to keep coming back to make more. But you don’t have to play like that. You can play to win. The game is rigged…. It’s not set up for us to win. Which is why we need to play with intention, and we really need to go for it… And it might not be fair… but life definitely isn’t fair. So we need to work with the reality we have, find the loopholes, and make financial abundance happen for ourselves. Brian says "There’s nothing that’s going to stop you from getting into the top 10% if you just keep trying, and never quit." This is advice from a guy that has spent his entire life studying the super wealthy. He knows. There’s nothing to stop you except if you don’t decide you’re going to do it. You don’t have to know how. You just have to know what. What one skill in your field if you were excellent at, would help you the most? I think it’s giving the sexiest dance in the club. Because if you KNOW you give a fucking good dance……. A dance that they’re going to want another one of…… selling because easy. Because you don’t have to be shy about being a hella good dancer. And when they see your genuine confidence, they’re going to want to know. And this is a learnable skill ladies. Go watch other dancers on instagram, go study some of the sexiest people around. Copy them. And add your own spin. And when you’re giving lap dances, pay attention to what they like . Alright, there’s going to be one more part to this Psychology of Sales segment… but I’m going to leave that for next time. In the meantime…… grab that paper and pen if you haven’t already, and write down at least 10 goals that you want to achieve. If you’re looking for suggestions, Writing “I am a radically optimistic person” “I give the sexiest dance in my club” “I am a top 10% of the world income earner” “I am fit, sexy, and fun” Could be a good last one. The other 6 are up to you to decide
In this episode, myself and other long-time yogi tell our stories about why we love it so much.... and about how it can benefit you too
This was a random audio I took yesterday, but it happens to be perfect for Save Yourself Sunday which is all about finances. I get a little amped in this episode, so I’ll pre-apologize now. The topic is about simply recognizing and being thankful your life-enhancing opportunity to make money in this industry. They say in the secret that gratitude always brings in more to be grateful for. So please take the time to notice that you’ve come across an opportunity that not everyone has… Please, don’t take it for granted. Be smart with everything you do with your money, and don’t act like it’ll always just be there tomorrow. I’m not saying to live in a scarce mindset and never spend anything. But I’m saying to be smart, and think about your future. Instead of eating out all the time… learn to cook. Instead of going out for coffee, get a cute big coffee mug with a lid and make it at home to take with you… When you go shopping, don’t buy stuff that’s just “Okay” or inexpensive so you might as well get it… that shit adds up… and… that’s exactly what it is… is shit. Save your money. Your future self with thank you more than you can understand right now
Alright so today is Freedom Friday…. Where we talk about everything sales related. How to get men to happily say YES to you. So I wanted to pull out some heavy sales tactics… so I looked up a man named Brian Tracy who is talking about the Psychology of Selling. Brian Tracy single handedly is really the one that pushed me to believe I could get in the top 10% of income earners at any club I worked at… and gave me the right thinking to go about making that happen. I cherish this man for how he’s been able to shift my attitude and life. So, we’re going to go over some information from one of his lectures… this isn’t the whole thing, yet, but I plan to go over the rest of it to complete the lessons from this in particular talk. I believe it’s easier for people to digest chunks of information, instead of tons of information at a time…. So we’ll start with this and build on it. When I really look at sales…. When I really look at it… I know for a fact that we’re about to go over is true. To make a lot of money as a dancer…. (Or in life)… It’s not the lines that you give these men. There are no magic word like say “THIS” and you’ll get a yes… or to dance this way to get noticed…or to spin on the pole like this, or a certain color or perfume or outfit or whatever………. I 100% believe, for the MOST PART… It’s how you see yourself. Which is a tough pill to swallow for some… but you can change the way you see yourself… if you don’t see yourself in a positive light right now. This is the guy that absolutely helped me realize there was no ceiling on my income. This is the guy. This is the reason why I didn’t quit stripping and I really just decided to just go for it… to start experimenting with my attitude, my personality, my looks, tone of voice, stripper names… and to start looking at work…. And the customers at work... more differently…. In a more positive light. This man changed my perspective in massive ways. So here are some notes from his talk on the Psychology of Selling. Successful people are action oriented. When they hear something new, they do something about it right away. Try quickly so you can fail and get it over quickly. Try, see if it works, get it over with if it doesn’t, and try something new. There are only things that can happen when you try…. It'll either work, or it won't. Successful people are always in motion. Unsuccessful people are always waiting. === Successful people are average people that try more things. You could be a total moron… that was handed a bunch of darts, and told to keep throwing darts at the board to hit the target.… and eventually, whether you're intelligent or not… you’ll hit the target. Successful people fail faster than other people, and keep trying things until they get traction. Same applies with dancing. Every time a customer says no, you learn from that experience. Or at least you should learn from that experience. Pay attention to things that don’t work, and the things that do…. And ASK MORE PEOPLE. Success is not an accident. And failure is not an accident. If you want to be financially independent, it’s not luck, and it’s not an accident. What’s the ONE THING IN LIFE you have true control over? It’s Your mind. You might not actually have control of your mind yet… You might be letting the negative voice run the show… but this is something we can learn to really control. We become what we think about most of the time. What do you think successful people focus on most of the time? They focus on what they want. They focus on how. They focus on the target. And the target while going to work that you should be focusing on, if walking out of the club happy, thankful that you went in, and visualizing a hand full of hundreds and 20s. Successful people are successful because they think and talk about what they want. Unsuccessful people are unsuccessful because they think and talk about what they don’t want. They think and talk about their bad luck, and bad experiences, and bad jobs, and continue to whine at any opportunity someone gives them to spew their shit all over them. And this is true. When you bitch about your life to someone else, without asking them if they can help you see a solution… and you just want to impose your toxic bullshit on others… you’re recreating the reality you don’t want, and most likely pulling others down with you. Successful people are thinking about what they want, and how to get it, most of the time. They’re not bitching about their problems. When I realized a few weeks into my dancing career that there were girls that were always making money, and ones that always weren’t making money… I decided to observe both groups. I wanted to know what the hell was going on. How was this possible. Because some of the girls that were always making money, absolutely no offense to them… but they weren’t the prettiest… and I would have thought as a brand new dancer… it was the prettiest girls that made the money - and that is not true. You want to know what I found? The first thing I noticed?…. Was how they talked when I would ask them how they were doing. Even when I knew that the girls that always made money hadn’t made money yet…. They’d smile say “Pretty good” with a contagious glow. And the ones that never made money would say some shit about how much this sucks or that sucks… It was repelling. It was very unattractive… and I’m talking the tall skinny 18 year olds that you would think men would trip over… that wasn’t true. It. starts. in. your. mind. What you think about, multiplied x the emotion (how you think and feel about your situation)… equals = your results. And another thing to think about. When you criticize successful people… trying to pull them down to feel better about yourself.… it doesn’t hurt them at all. But what it does do is drive success away from your life. You develop a negative forcefield of energy around yourself that repels success. So don’t ever criticize successful people. But find successful people that you respect… that have done something you admire, and make them your role model. There was a study that was done on 350k sales people and they tracked them over a series of years. The experiment was - randomly, they people in the study would get a phone call, and the people doing the study… and they would ask them what they were thinking about right now. And whatever it was, the person would answer. They tracked that over years, and then compared income. Turns out, the highest paid sales people had a particular thinking pattern that was different from the lowest paid sales person…. And it was a consistent pattern. There was ONE quality that top sales people have, More than any other single quality - it’s the highest quality of all, and it actually predicts success In life more than other single thinking quality. Can you guess what it is? Can you!? If you’ve been listening to this show…. You might be able to guess it………. It’s Optimism. It’s positive thinking. Who’da thought?? Successful people have really high levels of optimize They found that optimists have 2 great qualities that make them great in selling. They tried more. They made more calls and tried more people, because they had an unrealistic exception that they would be successful in getting “yeses” from potential customers. They just believed and expected they would be successful. So they tried harder, and they tried more approaches. The second is they persisted more. Because they had an unreal expectation that if they persisted more, they would succeed. On average, the statistic on sales at the time of the recording that I’m getting this info from, it took 6.8 visits on average to make a sale… so in our example, we would have to go up to the SAME CUSTOMER almost 7times to ask him for a dance before he said yes. But once you’ve made the sale, you can sometimes keep the customer potentially for years, and ever sale after the first one, takes you 1/10th of the time of the first sale. Persist until you get the sale, and then if he’s worth it… keep in touch with that customer. And it’s up to you to decide how much “worth it” is to keep in touch with him. Maybe get yourself a work email that can’t be traced to who you are, and get his email and let him know you can email him when you’re going into work (that way he doesn’t have your number, and if he emails you back, you don’t actually have to reply. You were just letting him know you’d be at work) So optimists try more things, ask more people, are persistent in asking for the sale even if they KNOW they’re going to get 6 NO’s before they get a yes… and gradually they begin to build up their customer base, and then they end up significantly more successful than the people… than the other girls... that ask less people, and go home earlier. Optimists have a different way of thinking about life and the world. One of the ways this is true, is in how they see the future. Optimists idealize about the future most of the time. They think about the positive possibilities of the future. They imagine "what would my future look like if it were fantastic?” There are 4 areas that optimists idealize. And these are the 4 things that people globally want. We all want these things. We want excellent health. We want people around us that we truly like. We want to do meaningful work, and we want to do it well. Your level of self esteem, determines your level of optimism. If you really like yourself, if you feel happy about yourself…. You’ll do your work better. And the flip side is also true… when you do your work better, you’ll also like yourself more. And each time you learn something new that enables you to do your work better, you’ll like yourself more. And when you do your work better, you get better rewards, and better feedback… and you’ll like yourself more. The more you like yourself, the better you do. And the better you do, the more you like yourself. Say it with me... I LIKE MYSELF. SAY IT LIKE YOU MEAN IT. SAY I LIKE MYSELF. SAY I LIKE MYSELF.. This one line increased my self esteem to new heights just by saying it over and over when I first heard it …. And it can do it for you too SAY I LIKE MYSELF SAY IT! I LIKE MYSELF I LIKE MYSELF. I REALLY LIKE MYSELF. There was another 9 years study, where they looked at the top people from all types of industries… and they ask them what the greatest benefit of being in the top of their field was… and it was that it gave them very high self esteem. It made them like themselves more. The same is true of our industry. When you get in the top, you’ll have more resources available to you than ever before…. And ultimately this will bring about very high levels of self esteem, which will in turn…bring you more customers that will like you more, because you like yourself more. And you my dear…….. can get to the top 10%. You can do it. Visualize it. Say it. Believe it. Repeat it. I love you. We’ll talk soon. come join our facebook group
The impermanence of everything… and what to do about it. Well, this might come across as a bit of a depressing episode… but it’s not meant to be that way, and it’s something that we just need to embrace, because it’s true for every one of us… and trying to hold on to tight to things that are going to fall away, is not only pointless, but it’s counterproductive. The topic is The impermanence of everything… and what to do about it. Answer: Have options. When you have options, everything in life becomes easier. Sometimes when you have too many options, it becomes overwhelming… But this post is specifically for girls that have put themselves in situations that they don’t feel like they can get out of. Everything in life is impermanent. From all the stuff that we buy, to relationships with all people (because all people die), down to our own bodies…. Because we will eventually die too. There’s something unexplainably enlightening when you’re really about able to let go of the outcome you thought was going to happen… And shift your life gracefully in a new direction. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve done it. Even when I haven’t really wanted to… but knew it was the best option for my life, even if I knew it wouldn’t feel good at first. This comes to down the places I’ve lived, the jobs I’ve had, and all the friendships and relationships I’ve been in. The best ways I know of to not feel stuck. Have money. Have friends. Know how to take advantage of the resources available because of the internet. Let's start with number 1…. And I really would place this at number 1. Because people (friends) come and go… and you never know who’s going to be available when you need them the most. But money is something you can always count on to get you out of I think any type of situation… other than of course a dangerous one with a crazy person that doesn’t give a shit if you offer them money or not. Money is the answer to a way out of everything. If you have money you can get an uber, get on a plane, rent an apartment or room, and start a new life. Or, just keep traveling to new places and making new money. Money is the answer. If we want to live life to its fullest… the answer is money. With money, relationships are happier, resources are purer, and life is more exciting, adventurous, and comfortable. Life is whatever you want, when you have money. I’m a hippie that’s converting to a capitalist because I’ve realized that in order for me to take care of my family, live how I want to, do what I want to, be who I want to…. (Which is completely fucking free….) I HAVE to have money. If you’re hearing my voice right now… you’re in the same position as me. Unless we lived in a tribe or grew our own food and had our out clean water supply… we have to have money. I realize how many people have a problem with money. It’s time to let that go. It’s time to decide you’re going to become rich. Number 2 is friends. Family is important to have…. But I think having friends you can rely on is better. For a couple reasons…. One is with Family, it hurts more if they say no, it’s harder for them to say no even if it’s super imposing on them… and besides that… It just feels better to have a friend that you know WANTS to help, instead of a family member that feels obligated. That being said… I’ve put myself in quite a few pinches that my sister has helped dig me out of. But in most cases… I’ve desperately not wanted to ask her, and in a lot of them they’ve been very uncomfortable for both of us. So thank you little sister if you ever find out about my podcast and you’re listening. I’m going to go into a story now about how having options with friends that truly care about you, how it can help and make you feel so much better about life…. But everything I’m about to say about how nice it feels to have friends……. This doesn’t mean you should everrr become friends with people because you think you can get something out of them. I think friendship is about helping each other grow. If you think you can help the other person grow, you see the potential, and they want more out of life… be friends with them! But if they become toxic in your life…. Let them go. Yessss that can be super hard…. But if you want to reach your fullest potential…. You can’t have someone dragging you down all the time. It’s too hard. And the other thing is, don’t become friends with someone just because you think they can get you somewhere, but you have no intention of adding value to their life. Don’t be that person. It’s incredibly unattractive. Add value to people’s lives, and people will be attracted to you… and when you’re down and out… they’ll do what they can to help you. As I’m writing this to talk about it later… just writing this is making my eyes start to tear up. So the story… about a month ago, I thought for sure my fiancée and I were going to break up. I mean, we had a huge fight…. And of course… being the little nomad that I am… after about 5 minutes of feeling horrible… I had to start game planning my next move. I hadn’t been to work. I had barely any money. I needed to decide where I wanted to move. How I was going to be able to rent a room, get an airbnb or couch surf until I had enough to pay for an apartment. Or did I want to move back in with my parents? It would save me money, but I would be living in a little town that didn’t have a strip club…. I would be able to help my dad with projects he has around the house, and help take care of my mom who could absolutely use the care… but is that in my highest and best good? I want to help my family maybe more than anything… but I think the best way I can help them, is to make money. When I make money, I can move them to a different location that’s nicer, where it’s sunny and so they can walk on the beach, get grounded and get plenty of vitamin D from the sunshine… I can buy my mom a hyperbaric chamber so that she can get full oxygen through her body and brain… I can take her to a specialist that can tell us if she has heavy metals in her brain which might be preventing her from being able to think clearly… I can get them a chef to make them super healthy meals every day… There’s a lot I’ll be able to help them with, as soon as I have money. So I started thinking about the best places to work/live. What was I going to do? I started planning on going to work 3 more times before my flight to see my parents was actually coming up that week. I didn’t think that my fiancée would kick me out…. But I’ve definitely been kicked out of places for not sleeping with people before, my fiancée would never kick me out for that… but I’ve just delt with so much shit staying with other people… that him telling me to leave, or me just wanting to leave because of being super uncomfortable… was right there are the forefront of my mind. So, this all brought me to the feeling of, now I need to go to work, because I HAVE to… and we all know how that feels…. It can be hard to go to work when you HAVE to go. I know in situations that I’ve literally HAD to go… has been super depressing and hard for me. It’s much easier to go to work when you don’t need to, but you’re working on a goal, or you have a great reason to go…. Other than you’re desperate. Guys can feel the desperate. Which is another great reason to be SMART with your money. To save up to 6 months of rent, so just in case something happens… you’ve got a cushion. It really is a lifesaver sometimes. So I went to the beach so I could get out of the house and attempt to think clearly about how my next week was going to look before I left California and probably never came back. And I got a text from my favorite girl in the world. If you’re in the facebook group you probably know who I’m talking about. She’s one of those people that I think about and am so incredibly thankful for…… Historically… I’ve been a very to myself kind of person. I’ve always wanted more, I’ve always been very particular… since I was in my late teens, I’ve heard that you’re the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with… and after really thinking about it… and seeing who I associated myself with … that scared me into not wanting to hang out with anyone. Something I want to say real quick about friendships…. Is they’re not like relationships. When you get a boyfriend/girlfriend…… there’s a CLEAR CUT time when y’all break up. “We’re done” it’s over… no more… probably won’t even still be friends…. But when you’re friends with someone.. and you decided they’re really quite toxic to be around……. Most people find it super hard and socially unacceptable to tell you’re friend “We’re done”. And this is a HUGE reason to be very selective with who you become friends with. Choose your friends wisely!!! Because it’s hard to break up with them. All that being said……. I’m incredibly incredibly incredibly thankful for my beautiful friend in Florida… And that day that I went to the beach…trying to plan my next literal move before I even went back to the house… And she texted me. Said that her and her daughter really missed me, and that “my room” was waiting for me anytime I was ready. She gave me a room in her house… The amount of stress and pressure that instantly fell off of me was indescribable. I had a place to go, with a club near by that I could instantly start making money in… So…. Find people that you truly admire… people that you have great conversations with… people that you respect and have fun with… And become friends with them! Keep in touch… and try to add value to their lives. However you can. People are so important. Relationships with the RIGHT people are so important anyway. Okay and 3rd. Leveraging the internet. I was in Nevada. Staying with a girl I used to work with… and while she was going out to work to make money…. I was trying to decide what I wanted to do with my life. I was very unhappy. I went with her so that I could walk around casinos and wait for guys to ask me to play. I had been out there before to do that, and actually had a lot of fun, and made a lot of money over a 2 week time span. But this time… was different. The introvert in me wasn’t letting me leave the house we were staying in. So while I was there…. Desperate for a life change…. I started thinking about where I could go that had the most money, that I would enjoy the most. I went downstairs and the person we were staying with had on a show about some of the wealthiest homes in the United States. And I don’t remember how many of them were in Miami… but it was enough to make me realize… I wanted to go to Miami. But how? I needed a place to stay. I needed the money to get there. And I needed a new job. I couldn’t stand the idea of working in a club when I got there. I really wanted a life change. So… realizing that you really can figure out anything you put your mind to… I decided to get on craigslist and make a post. I posted something about needing a place to stay, wanting to work for an entrepreneur, and being able to cook, clean, do assistant work, and being an outstanding networker. I got a message back the same day. Some guy named Rey. We worked out a deal that was basically he would pay for my flight, take care of all my necessities for the first month, and then he would start paying me. It was going to be a trail basis until then, but a guaranteed 1 month. I was stoked. I flew to Miami with a new feeling of excitement, accomplishment in getting a new job with an entrepreneur (trying to surround myself with people I wanted to be like)… and going back to Florida, which I was really missing. I missed the sand between my toes, and the year-round bikini weather. So, I got to Florida, and I think Rey had someone pick me up if I remember correctly. Got to his place… beautiful apartment in a rich area of Miami… annnnnnnnnnnnd I came to find out, that it was a one bedroom. He didn’t even have a couch I could sleep on. It was 2 1 seater chairs in his living room. So this meant I could sleep in his bed with him, or I could sleep on the floor in the living room. I wasn’t stressed out about it…. But I had a feeling it wasn’t a good sign. So, what does any good entertainer do that is trying to keep the peace with people and just get through life? I went into his alcohol cabinet. Vodka quickly became my best friend at his house. I had a list of chores to do, I was running on literally a couple hours of sleep, and no where to actually sleep. To make a long story short… after sleeping on the floor for 3 days… giving him a massage where he asked if he could be naked and had a huge boner… after he realized I didn’t want to have anything to do with him like that…. Things went bad. Real fast. So I’m in Miami, he hasn’t paid me a dime, and he tells me I need to leave. Lol it’s funny to think about now… but at the time… I was like fuck. I knew it was better than staying with him… but damnit. That was short lived, and I didn’t have a plan. Super fortuanately my sister happened to live within walking distance. Crazy right? So…. I walked out of his apartment and went to the pool and called my sister. This was supposed to be a shout out to using craigslist to find what you’re looking for, but I just realized that it might not sound like a good one. But, I will say, everything ended up pretty good. I got on Craigslist again, and that’s another long story… but I ended up staying in Miami for about 8 months before I decided it was time for me to move on. You NEVER KNOW what you’re going to find on craigslist. It can be a very valuable resource. Figure out exactly what you want… and post it. And maybe in multiple cities. Some other great resources are Whatsyourprice.com, which we’ve talked about on this channel, and I can’t recommend enough that you actually try it out. You can have men pay you to go on legit dates with them. This saved me a while back when I was going through some shit and couldn’t force myself to go to work. I was able to walk away from stripping for a while, and just go on fun dates with guys that paid me and took me out to eat. Another is Housecarers.com. This is a site where you can go on vacations (or stay if you just need to live somewhere for free for a while). They have people from all around the globe that need to have their house watched… either because they have pets, plants, or just a really nice house that they need someone to watch while they’re out of town. You can find houses to sit for a couple days, or a couple years…. And they’re all over the world. Maybe you can find one near a strip club that you want to work at. There’s also Couchsurfing.com This has been a very valuable resource for me. Let’s say you want to move to a new city, but want to go without paying for hotels, to check out the city, maybe work for a night or 2 at a club, and see if you actually want to live where you think you want to live. You can find people on this site that will “host you” which means let you stay with them… for free. If you take advantage of this opportunity… PLEASE be respectful of whoever you’re staying with. I think it’s an unwritten rule that if you’re on couch surfing, you need to be a respectful and cool person. Don’t leave their house messy, and if you’re planning on going there and working while you’re in town… TELL THEM. Or work day shift so that you don’t come into their home super late at night. Make SURE TO TELL THEM if you’re going to go to work, and ask if that’s okay. This could make things complicated if it’s a guy…. But I still think you should tell them… because it’s not okay to go stay with someone, leave at 9pm and come back at 2am. It’s their home, and they don’t know you. Let them know what’s going on. Okay, these are some major resources you can use that could end up being super helpful. I’m going to end it there. Have back up options and always be ready to adapt. It’s important. Remember this quote…. “It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent; it is the one most adaptable to change.” Embrace impermanence. Because everything is impermanent. And everything will change. Learn how to adapt quickly… and embrace change. Even if it’s not ideal. Embrace it, and be thankful for it. You can always improve on how things have changed… and besides that, they’re going to change again anyway. So just always look for the positive and see how you can make it a BETTER change. Take care. Stay positive. The song at the end is Candlepower by Chris Zabriskie - licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution license (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Source: http://chriszabriskie.com/divider/ Artist: http://chriszabriskie.com/ The song at the end is Candlepower by Chris Zabriskie - licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution license (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Source: http://chriszabriskie.com/divider/ Artist: http://chriszabriskie.com/
Today is save yourself Sunday. Where we talk about how to get you out of debt, teach you how to save, invest, and GROW your money. Today I’m going to teach you the NUMBER ONE THING You can invest your precious time into, so that you get THE MOST in RETURN... for your time during your stripping, or sex work, career. And that is……. To find WHALES…. And when you find a big spenders…. Keep in touch with them. I mean it. This will change your life. Think about it……. You could keep hustling $20 dances all night… or find the one guy that will happily drop a grand on you. That ONE PERSON… could change the rest of your life…. IF YOU KEEP IN TOUCH WITH HIM. My Asian angel… First night…. $900… second night… $900… third day $600. 4th day $400 but I didn’t dance, just talked… next time I saw him, we went shopping. Probably spend almost 2grand. Next time… took me to Tiffanys and bought me a 5k necklace. He was a whale. I used to have such a hard time just picking up the phone when he would call…… even though he spent so much on me… I just didn’t want to get on the phone with him… But I did. I kept in touch with him. I kept that relationship going. And he’s truly done so much for me, I could never explain how thankful I am for him. For a while, I truly considered him my best friend. He’s always there for me. Even still. I know he’ll always be there for me. I don’t know how to describe how greatful I am for him. And I almost let him go. Just like that. Just because I didn’t feel like keeping in touch with him. A VERY FEW PERCENTAGE OF MEN THAT WALK INTO YOUR LIFE WILL NOT ONLY BE WILLING, BUT WILL WANT TO IMPROVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE. Don’t be lazy and let them go. You might not realize it at the time…. But they truly could make your life so much better, so much easier, so much more comfortable and carefree…. I’ve lost and broken cell phones… instantly replaced by this man. Need a new computer? It’s yours. Cell phone bill? Don’t ever worry about it again. When someone spends a lot of money on you….. I need you to realize something. These are the top % of people out there. How many minos do you think it would take to equal a whale? Hmmm… probably more than you or I could count. When you find a whale…. Recognize it. You could go back to the fish tank keep going ofter minos… Or you could find ONE WHALE that changes your life. Find the whales. AND BUILD A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM. I’m not saying have sex with them. In a lot of cases, sleeping with your customer is the fastest way to lose him… But build a relationship with them. If they ask to see you outside the club, this is another topic… but I would not do it, unless they’re taking your shopping… or compensating you for your time. Don’t go from them spending hundreds on you at the club, to a $80 dinner. That’s not okay. That’s not highly valuing your time. That’s taking a HUGE STEP in the wrong direction… unless you’re trying to actually date this person. If you’re truly considering dating them, then sure… I suppose… but… honestly I’d still tell them, you have a very busy life working towards your goals, you try to stay very productive… and you would honestly love to see them outside of work… and ask if they would compensate you for your time. Tell them that way you can get to know them, and you’ll be able to truly enjoy every moment with them, because you’ll know you’re still being productive and having a great time. Find the whales. THEY. WILL. CHANGE. YOUR. LIFE. To make $1000, doing $20 dances... You would have to approach 50 different guys, go through 50 different conversations, lead through 50 different sales pitches THAT THEY ALL ACTUALLY SAY YES TO… to get the SAME amount of money… that 1 man could give you. Find the whales. And. keep. in. touch. with. them. KEEP IN TOUCH WITH THEM. We’ll all meet whales at one point or another. Be the girl that goes the extra mile. Makes them feel special. Makes them feel you value their time. Pay special attention to him. He IS. NOT. LIKE. THE. OTHER. GUYS. He’s not. He is special. Someone that will give a girl $500 for her time… is someone that is special. Number 1 way I know of to recognize if someone could be a whale…. Is if they’re a business owner…. An investor…. Or, they’re in technology. Often times.. these people don’t have ceilings on their money like every one else. So if he owns his own business…. Is a real estate, or investor… or invests in start ups… or invests in anything…. Or, he’s a tech geek. I’ve met a lot of internet marketers with crazy, crazy money… I’ve met coders and spammers making millions of dollars…. I’d stick with these. If you meet someone with a business or occupation along these lines……. Start to ask more questions about their business. Take a genuine interest. I’m not saying don’t spend your time with people that don’t have these jobs…. Because a construction worker could come in and give you his whole paycheck…. But I’m talking long term here. The guys that can change your life. This year, make them a priority. Make them feel special. And expect your income to go up this year. I would love to hear from you. What do you think about this episode? Did it help? Do you have any customers that play a big role in your life? Looking forward to hearing from you. Ciao. The song is called Crystal Souls by Headphone Activist: He's on iTunes https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/headphone-activist/693049055 On Spotify: spotify:artist:6kN7AbeUV4yRewiVUToouk SoundCloud: Soundcloud.com/headphoneactivist Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HPABeats/ If you're not in the FB group yet, come join us!
All the information I got for this video, I got from a brilliant man named John Assarf. Here’s the link to his channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/JohnAssaraf He’s the guy from the secret by the way. The one with the vision boards, that realized one day he was living in the house he visualized and didn’t even know it… That guy Emotions and feelings aren’t positive or negative. They’re empowering or disempowering to different degrees if you don’t understand them. Once you’ve been in a situation enough, you learn that these are normal feelings. So when you get to the club…. If you feel anxious, nervous, scared…. The question to ask yourself, is, do you have the knowledge, the skills, and the preparation do deal with this in a safe way? If the answer is yes… take a deep breath, and go. You have the knowledge, the skills and the preperation. No one starts off at anything perfectly. No one. We were all scared or nervous at one point. But you have at least basic, or maybe advanced conversational skills, and if you’ve got your outfit, shoes, make up, you’re clean, maybe some organic breath mints, can look at someone and give them a flirty smile… you have the preparation. If you don’t…. You turn around. If you don’t know how to have even a basic conversation with someone…. How to ask questions, keep someone interested… and you don’t have the right attire… you’re not ready. But it’s okay because you can get ready. When you feel fear, what should you do? Number 1…. This again, is from John Assarf… this guy studies the brain… He says “Take 6, calm the circuits" What to do is take 6 deep breaths, and when you exhale, exhale like you’re breathing out through a large straw. What this does is deactivates your stress response center. Which means blood is going to go back to the left prefrontal cortex And The Einstein part of your brain can actually think through the problem. What happens when the stress response part of the brain is activated, is blood goes away from that, into the fear response, So all kinds of chemicals flood your body … epinephrine, cortisol, adrenaline… to get you out of the situation… To super charge you to get you out of the situation…. Then you start to think You might get hurt, you might get in trouble, you might be embarrassed, ridiculed, ashamed, judged, etc… So if you take 6 deep breaths first to calm down… Calm the circuits first…….. Then do what he calls “Innercize number 2” Called AIA The first A is for Awareness What’s my Intention right now? Well my intention is to move forward. I want to do this. Perfect. What’s ONE very SMALL action step you can take? The reason you want to take one small step, is because your brain can handle that. If it’s one small step towards it, the threat response goes away. But if you focus on the end game…. You’re going to get that rush and trigger the fear response again. So you need to learn to manage your mind and what you focus on. Whether or not your stripping… this will make every aspect of your life better. Learn how to manage your emotions because they drive your behavior more than anything anything else… Because we move away from what immediately in the moment makes us fearful…. Going into a club… approaching that customer… asking for the sale…. And move towards what is pleasurable… going to the dressing room… going home… going to get a drink… And pain wires in the brain faster, because our brain is designed to keep us safe. It does it for our own survival… So when you realize, this feeling is normal… You’ve never been in that place, or approached that customer, you’ve maybe never been on stage… So slow down… Take 6 deep breaths. Become aware of what you really want. Is it to make money? Is to build a better life for yourself or your family? Is to live an exciting or adventurous life? Or to just not live a normal boring life? That was a huge part of my goal… Take 6 deep breaths. Become aware of what you really want. And ask yourself if it’s worth it. To try the club. To approach the new customer - who could become your first lifetime client that’s totally in love with you - that if you don’t approach right now, you’ll never see again…….. Take control of your mind. Manage your emotions. 6 Deep breaths. Ask yourself what you really want. Ask yourself if it’s worth it. And if it is. Smile. And go make progress towards what you want
Freedom, in my opinion, is to be able to do whatever you want, whenever you want. And if you had to guess exactly what it really takes to be able to do whatever you want… whenever you want… what would you guess the answer is…? I would say money. In my opinion, money can cure just about any problem. Think about it. Your answer might have been a baby sitter… but you most likely need money for the baby sitter, you need money for the gas in your car, you need money for the place you live in… Money is freaking important. The people that say money can’t buy happiness, either don’t have enough money, or don’t remember what it was like to be broke. I can vouch 100% that money can and does legitimately buy happiness. I’m just driving home a point here… because according to The Science of Getting Rich…. Getting rich is the most essential thing you can spend your time learning. Because freedom Friday (or at least me talking about how to make money) is probably going to go on for a long time…. Im going to try to stick with one topic at a time. Today, the topic is about their subconscious mind, and how to make them say YES. There are 2 very distinct pieces of your brain. One is your conscious mind, that’s where you consciously decide to pick something up…. And the other is the subconscious mind… which knows like everything… and it’s main job, is to make sure you’re safe, and you’re comfortable. This is also included for men. Men have this too. A lot of people are scared. A lot of people are scared of a lot of stuff.. And in the case, I’d say in particular a lot of men that haven’t been to a club before, haven’t been in a long time, or have only been a couple times. They don’t know what they’re getting themselves into. I don’t remember exactly where I saw this, but there was a girl that was a stripper, that posted about being in a strip club, and she said she was terrified. She used the word terrified. And she didn’t even know why. And that’s her house right? Strip clubs are HER place…. And she was in one that wasn’t hers and she was a customer, and she said she was shaking. Now, imagine a guy. Men get more afraid to talk to a woman than to do most things. I would say most guys would stand up and fight another human being, easier than to go approach a woman. I’m not kidding. So, your for real job…. Is turn him on, make him feel safe, and make him feel comfortable. So how can you do that, especially if you’re nervous yourself? First things first… we need to get you comfortable with you. Here is my biggest and probably best piece of advice that you can do immediately. Ask them questions. Ask questions. Don’t be selfish and be thinking about yourself. The guy in front you, is probably fucking scared of you. You need to acknowledge that. Not out loud… but realize it, and do whatever you can to make him feel safe. Talk softly, smile, try to make him laugh, be clearly be flirty and show signs of interest… twirl your hair, tilt head, look at him from under your eyelashes… tell him he’s cute… try to make him feel comfortable with you. Even if he doesn’t seem like he’s scared, he might be. So just pretend, regardless of if you know it to be true or not… that’s he’s a guy that has a huge crush on you. One of the things your subconscious mind does, is it wants to make sure you make the right decision. So if he’s already scared, and you want him to come with you to get a dance, tell him you have a comfortable place you’d like to take him, and you have something special you’d like to show him. Say this in a very flirty tone. Remember a huge portion of this game is intrigue and seduction. Girls every single one of us is very different. This is an experimental game. You don’t want to rely completely on other peoples advice for what will work best for you. You want to come up with your own stuff. I’m letting you know, make them feel comfortable, and like they’re going to make the right choice. Think about that next time you go to make a sale…. And try something on them. You could tell them you have a comfortable place to take them where y’all can get more close and get to know each other better, you could tell them you want to take them under your wing and have a magical time with them…. You could tell them you want to take them to the back and give them the sexiest dance they’ve ever had…. They fantasy land. You can make up whatever you want. Anything. And see what happens. And keep track of this stuff. I’m sure I used to use different lines and tactics back that I’ve totally forgotten about. Don’t forget this stuff. Write it down. Trust me, one of my biggest regrets is not journaling more. So remember… their subconscious mind has 2 goals. To keep them safe and comfortable. Their conscious mind - whichever one that is - probably wants to fuck… so I would say as quickly as you can, get them excited, make them feel safe, like you want them, like you’re going to do right by them, and like they’re going to be very happy that they made the decision to come with you. Tell them to come with you. Tell them they might just love you. And they should come with you to find out, and see what you can do. And it’s all a confidence game. Try to genuinely be interested in the human being RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU. Don’t be focusing on anyone else in the room. Make them excited, comfortable, safe, and that they’re making the right decision. That was way more in one video than I wanted to talk about, but I feel good about the mix of info, and I think it’s all important for you to be aware of. I love you so much. This is your year to turn your financial future around. Talk soon Come join our facebook group if you're not already involved!
When it comes to the law of attraction, they say that gratitude always brings in more to be grateful for. So it makes sense to dedicate a day of the week to being grateful. So today, as corny as it might sound… I want to say, that I am thankful for you. I couldn’t think of a better way to start this series, than to let you know that starting a youtube channel Has surprisingly been one of the most rewarding things I’ve ever done. I do like to teach and share ideas yes…. But it’s really the feedback that makes me love it so much. Your comments have been so enlightening… some of them leave me speechless honestly… I don’t even know what to say to it, so I have to come back to it later… because it was so impactful to me, and I don’t want to just write something just to say it… So I want you to know, anytime you leave a comment it really helps me know that what I’m doing is helping. A lot of you randomly will come out of the wood work and talk for the first time even though you’ve been following for a while… And I love it. I love to read your comments. And just so you know your feedback when you like one of my video’s also helps me know when I’m on the right track. It might not seem like a big deal to you, but it’s a big deal to me. So I want to thank you, for being you. For giving me the opportunity to share experiences and ideas with you. It means a lot to me. I know I have a very different perspective on life, and I really love being able to share it with you…. And really… we’re just getting started. I know for sure a lot of us in the future will collaborate because of this, and that’s really exciting for me.
Well welcome to the first wild card Wednesday! I want to start off with saying I think I bit off more than I can chew! When it comes to publishing a new episode every day… Because I over think shit like nobodies business… And I want to put out great content… like super solid content… So there’s no problem with that, other than I want it to be perfect… And I’m going to have to realize, that at least to start, if I want to put out content constantly… I’m just going to have to publish some stuff that I’m not happy with. Including todays episode… which is about stepping into the unknown. I’ve wondered why even for myself, going in to a strip club can feel scary. I’ve done it for a long time. Never had anything bad happen… like bad bad… dealt with some shitty customers… But never had anything BAD happen. But it is different in a strip club. It’s not like a restaurant job. We do have potential things that are bad that can happen… Like way more so than a regular job. The club could get raided… You could have someone grab you very inappropriately, You will deal with drunk customers… and when people are drunk… they’re very unpredictable. I’ve had girls steal from me… At one point I was giving some guy a dance… in a not so private area… we were in a dance area, that was large, and other people could see… But it was it’s own private little space… and I swear to god… I felt like this guy wanted to strangle me. I don’t know where that idea came from… I don’t now if it was a fantasy of his, or what… but… it fuckin freaked me out… and I was on his lap… right so, you’re in super close proximity… Its a very different job. There’s probably nothing else like it… But… there’s also the other side of the coin. You’re stepping into the unknown… and anyone could come through that door, fall in love with you for real, and decide to improve your entire life. I know people that this has happened to… I still have a customer that takes care of me… Everyone goes to the strip club. Which can be good or bad… from desperate broke men, to rich powerful men… And I want to suggest the girls that have been doing this for a while… To start to look at it that way. Anyone could walk through that door, and change your life. Remember the law of expectation. People are more likely to do what you EXPECT them to do. So expect them to fall in love with you, and to want to be your long term, very well paying clients. Embrace the unknown. It’s where anything is possible. Take care. We’ll talk tomorrow.
Welcome to the first Times Up! Tuesday interview… our first lady’s name is Kitty. Kitty’s got an interesting background, and we talk about some very insightful things randomly throughout this conversation. Enjoy!
If you have something that's been on your heart for a long time and you feel like you need to do or try... do it RIGHT NOW. Start the process. Stop delaying. Take some kind of ACTION TOWARDS IT NOW.... No more fucking around! Life isn't waiting for anyone, and all we have is now. Make your move. Make waves. Go for it!!! RIGHT NOW! lol I believe in you!!!! You're a special human being... stop hiding and go for it!!!! Don't worry about what ANYONE ELSE HAS TO SAY TO YOU....... If they're negative people CUT THEM THE FUCK OUT OF YOUR LIFE.... GET MOVING!!!! 2019 is the year to make waves. TECHNOLOGY IS ON OUR SIDE. GO FOR IT !!!!
Today we have Natasha with us. She’s a Canadian lady that at the time of the recording had been a dancer for 4 SHIFTS
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Well it’s a few days before Christmas, so this episode will be relevant before then, and you could apply it to maybe any holiday here after…. You and I know that words and body language are magic. Well, so is giving more than you receive sometimes. There was a study done back in 2012 about how to increase tips for waitresses. I’m not going to dig too deep into this, but have you ever been to a restaurant where at the end of the meal they give you a mint? If you haven’t, it happens some places… the waitress or waiter when they bring your bill will leave you a mint or a few minutes or whatever on your tab. It turns out… the simple act of brining the customer a mint can increase their tip by 23%. 23%%%%. So…….. this holiday season, or ANY holiday really… I want to suggest you go get yourself a bunch of Hershey kisses and maybe carry them in a super cute little bag. (Don’t be just digging through your bag to find randomly laid Hershey kisses… that might seem kinda gross…) This is something I thought about experimenting with back in 2012, and just never got around to it. So if you try this, I’d love to know your results. This could be something fun to play with too. Test giving your potential new customer a Hershey kiss as soon as you sit down with him, or a different customer give it to him middle of the conversation after you’re like “You’re sweet enough for this” - or right towards the end…….. or right after a dance and tell him how much fun you had with him…… You can test this all kinds of different ways. But give it a try!!! It’ll be fun, unexpected, something they’ve probably never experienced, something they’ll probably always remember, it’ll set you a part…. and I’d bet this will work to make you more money. I’d bet big on this one. Psychology is fascinating girls. When you give, people will fee compelled to give back. But don’t give with an attitude of trying to get. Give with an attitude of love…. And then when they go to tip you, DON’T SAY NO IT’S OKAY lol… smile and greatly accept their gift to you. That’s it. I hope y’all have a very happy holiday. Go get those tips. https://www.helpscout.com/blog/the-psychology-of-personalization-how-waiters-increased-tips-by-23-percent-without-changing-service/
The topic today is NOW IS THE TIME to make the moves to get your pretty ass into a club to change your financial destiny. You only have ONE LIFE. Let's make this one THE BEST ONE POSSIBLE. I’ve done quite a few interviews that I haven’t posted yet…. Shame on me… but I promise they’re coming… But at the end of every interview, so far my last question has been “If you could give advice to any girl that’s thinking about stripping but is too afraid to try it… what would you’re advice be?” And the answer has been the same from everyone. “JUST GIVE IT A TRY” You have nothing to lose, and EVERYTHING to gain. From my experience, here’s what I know you CAN gain... Confidence, Freedom, MONEY Ability, Knowledge, Sales skills, People skills, Maybe some pole skills, You’ll learn to be sexier, Sassier, You’ll stop putting up with shit from people like you may have in the past You’ll be able to give the best Christmas presents, Buy cars in cash, Travel the world, Be your own boss, You’ll learn how to adapt to environments, people, and situations quickly, You’ll understand human nature more… You’ll have more respect for yourself, You could find a sugar daddy that will take care of you forever… Have someone pay your bills Pay you to call them, Pay you to date them, You’ll have time to study whatever it is that you want to learn The freedom to do things on your own time, If you have kids, you’ll actually be able to raise them… and you can work while they’re sleeping… You’ll never have to drive during rush hour Self care will become something that you no longer feel bad about taking time for…. You’ll realize how powerful your body is, and you’ll take care of it better - maybe like never before You can reinvent yourself literally every day…. And especially when you switch clubs You’ll be able to raise your standards like some of you I’m sure have never thought possible… You’ll be able to help your parents or family… or friends if you like… but I’d be carful with that. Don’t loan money to people…. You might as well give it as a gift for real… because loaned money can ruin even best friendships… You’ll be able to eat the best food… Go out whenever you want… Pay someone to clean for you Pay someone to cook for you… Pay off all your debt Save and be able to get most likely anything you really want…….. especially because you could meet a millionaire that falls in love with you and wants to take care of you… Meeting a man in a strip club is a DIFFERENT experience than meeting a man annnnnnyyywhhere else. They will treat you unbelievably different. They will want to make you happy. They will tell you how beautiful you are… how special and incredible you are… and they’ll show you with money and gifts…. Vacations, cars, jewelry…. The sky is the limit. You can’t meet these people sitting in your house, or working at a desk job. Yes, you might meet them at your desk job…. But the opportunity you’ll have with them through your desk job, is NOT THE SAME as you would have with them meeting them dressed up like a sexy fantasy in the strip club. You only have ONE chance to make a first impression. And if you make it while you’re in lingerie acting sexier than Marylin Monroe……. You’ve got em. In ways that you can’t imagine. The best time imo to start this job, is when you turn 18. The second best time, is now. Do it now. Don’t let years slip you by and regret not giving it a try. If you go in your first time and you know it’s not for you……. Then say fuck it and forget about it…... But if you go in, and you leave there with a rush… wish a high… with a holy shit I did it feeling…… MAKE THIS INDUSTRY BE THE ROCKET SHIP THAT PROPELS YOU FORWARD IN LIFE. You can do it, I have so much faith in you. Stay positive. I love. Ciao
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