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This week on Two Besties with a Mic, Devan and Kelsey welcome their #1 hype woman, queso queen, and real-life bestie, Barb Perez! It's a heartfelt, hilarious, and honest convo about what it really means to show up for each other—especially when things get messy.In this episode:Meet Barb Perez and hear how she became part of the Two Besties crewThe story behind the homemade queso (Barb's love language)What real friendship looks like as we grow (and grieve)The difference between being raw and being realWhy curated openness isn't the same as true vulnerabilityHow to recognize sneaky control and people-pleasing tendenciesSitting in the dark with your people, literally and emotionallyPlus: Devan's weekend daughter, Barb's legendary quotes, and the vacuum that stole the showThis episode is a must-listen if you've ever felt alone in your struggles, wondered if you're oversharing, or craved friendships that feel safe, sacred, and soul-nourishing.Featuring wisdom like:“Real friends aren't the ones who always show up when it's fun. They're the ones who sit with you in the dark.”“Being raw is for safe spaces. Being real is for the world.”“Perception is reality, but you don't owe anyone an explanation.”Tune in now for deep connection, unexpected laughs, and a reminder that you're not alone.—

Welcome back to Two Besties with a Mic! In Episode 39, we're back in interview mode after wrapping up our four-part series—and this one is a treat.This week, we're joined by Lorie Converse, a powerhouse in the mortgage world, an event-planning queen, a Watertown community leader, and someone we're lucky to call a friend. From school boards to bold manifestations, this episode is packed with laughter, personal growth, and a lot of real talk.In this episode, we talk about:How Lorie got into the mortgage industry (spoiler: it started with a trip to Jamaica

Welcome to the fiery finale of our four-part series! In this episode, Kelsey and Devan throw down the glittery black carpet and invite you to unapologetically walk into your villain era—the one where you stop apologizing for being too much and start loving yourself loudly. In this episode, we dive into:What it actually means to be in your villain era (hint: it's not about being evil)Rewriting self-worth stories and ditching the “earn your worth” mentalityWhy comparison is a tool of oppression (especially for women)The myth of imposter syndrome and why it's keeping you smallPrioritizing yourself without guilt (yes, even if it makes people uncomfortable)How the “blue guy” from Megamind is your new self-worth icon Plus, Devan shares her behind-the-scenes process of revamping her self-doubt course into a bold new immersive audio bundle: Stop Talking Sh*t About Yourself — and spills the tea on the funnel she's building around it (no gatekeeping here).Kelsey gets real about silencing herself in the past, learning to take up space, and that moment she realized loving yourself out loud isn't conceited—it's revolutionary. Favorite quotes from this episode:“I'm not going to shrink myself just because I take up more space.”“You're not the villain for prioritizing yourself. You're just finally not the sidekick.”“Comparison is a tool of oppression—and we're not playing that game anymore.”Don't forget: If you've listened to episodes 35–38, there's a special giveaway waiting for you! Go binge the series and listen for the details.Main Character Energy? Activated. Love us? Leave a review, share with a friend, or tag us on Instagram @TwoBestiesWithAMic.

We're back with part 3 of our 4-part mini-series—and this one is a deep dive. Kelsey and Devan reflect on where they were five years ago (yep, March 2020), and the powerful life, business, and self-worth lessons they've learned since.From quitting jobs, starting businesses during a pandemic, and unlearning perfectionism to building boundaries, battling body image, and breaking free from victim mindsets—this episode is full of real talk and raw growth.In this episode, we unpack:Where we were in March 2020 and how the pandemic impacted our lives and businessesThe mindset traps we didn't even know we were stuck inHow perfectionism, external validation, and fear of rejection held us backThe advice we'd give our younger selves (and maybe you need to hear it too)What it means to wake up and stop living for everyone elseThe things we thought were “the way” that we now know were so wrongThis is your permission slip to:Say no more oftenStop waiting for someone else's approvalLet go of the people who give you the ickTake up space even if you don't “look the part”Choose yourself—every damn time Mini-Series Listener Challenge Reminder! Share any episode from this 4-part series on your IG or FB stories, tag @twobestieswithamic, and fill out the Google Form (linked below) to win:A $50 gift card to Kelsey Deru AestheticsA signed copy of What's Your Worth by DevanA $25 coffee shop gift card (Starbucks, Dunkin', or your fave local spot!Deadline: April 25thEnter here: Two Besties with a Mic Raffle EntryFavorite quotes from this episode:“Maybe those butterflies are actually snakes.”“The people who make you feel uncomfortable for no reason? Trust it—and run.”“I don't need you to like me to know I'm worthy.”“Looking inward is the first step to waking up.”Let us know your ah-ha moments—screenshot this episode and tag us!

Welcome back to part two of our four-part mini-series all about unshrinking, unlearning, and unapologetically owning your voice.In this episode, Devan and Kelsey dive into the best and worst advice they've ever received—personally, professionally, and emotionally. From unsolicited feedback that stuck around way too long, to game-changing guidance that altered how they show up in business and life… this one is juicy.They dive into:The advice that kicked off Devan's journey to unapologetic confidenceWhy Kelsey is rethinking when to speak up (and when to wait)The worst things people have said to them—and how they've reclaimed the powerHow external validation, beauty standards, and "success myths" mess with our headsA vulnerable talk about self-image, pink hair, and the fat insults that don't land anymoreThe myth of “fake it til you make it” and what builds real confidenceThe one thing they'd tell their younger selves (and maybe you need to hear it too)Powerful reminder: You do not need to be liked to be worthy. You don't need to meet anyone else's expectations to be successful. And your voice is worth using—even if it makes people uncomfortable.Mini-Series Challenge Reminder! Share this episode on your Instagram or Facebook story, tag @twobestieswithamic, and fill out the Google Form (linked below) to enter to win:A $50 gift card to Kelsey Darou AestheticsA signed copy of Devan's book What's Your WorthA $25 gift card to your fave coffee spotDeadline to enter: April 25th Click here to fill out the Google Form after you share for your entry to count! You can enter up to FOUR times (one for each episode in the series). Let's grow this community together.What's the worst advice you've ever received—and what would you tell your younger self now? Tag us or DM us @twobestieswithamic!

In this raw and unfiltered episode, Devan and Kelsey kick off their brand new 4-part mini-series, all about reclaiming your voice, your space, and your damn power. It's just the two of them today—no guests, no script, just real talk between besties.They dive into:The biggest ways they've outgrown their 2024 selvesHow they're finally stepping into their villain eras

34 -  The Power of Storytelling with Mackenzie HeflinEpisode 34 | Two Besties with a MicHave you ever wondered how the power of storytelling can elevate your business and build deeper connections with your audience? In this episode of Two Besties with a Mic, hosts Devan and Kelsey talk with Mackenzie Heflin about the art of storytelling in business, especially in the fast-paced world of social media and content creation. Mackenzie shares her personal journey, the highs and lows of building her brand, and the strategies she's used to overcome self-doubt and stay authentic while connecting with her community. Ready to learn how vulnerability and authenticity can transform your business? Let's dive in!What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why vulnerability in storytelling should come from a place of healing.How to create content that focuses on your audience's desires and transformations.The common struggle of navigating self-doubt as a content creator and how to overcome it.The role of storytelling in building relatability and trust with audiences.How effective storytelling involves strategy, not just sharing personal experiences.Don't miss out on these insights that can take your storytelling and business to the next level!Favorite Quote from This Episode:"When you're telling your story, every story is needed. Every story has its place. And if it doesn't hit, that's okay. Because maybe the person it was meant for just didn't see it yet,” – Mackenzie HelfinConnect with Mackenzie Heflin:Tiktok: @mackenzieheflin_YouTube: Mackenzie HeflinResources & Mentions:Grab Mackenzie's free here! Follow Devan and Kelsey on Instagram!@DevelopingwithDevan@KelseyDarouMUA@twobestieswithamic

In this episode, Kelsey and Devan are joined by their honorary third bestie, Kayla Jamison — President & CEO of the Greater Watertown North Country Chamber of Commerce. And let us tell you… this convo is equal parts informative and heartwarming.We dive into the real role of a Chamber of Commerce (it's way more than just ribbon cuttings and networking events), how the local farmers market is actually run by the Chamber, and why connection is at the heart of everything they do.Kayla also shares how she stepped into leadership, what self-doubt looks like when you're running a 120-year-old organization, and how she and Devan turned a vision into a women's conference that's grown year after year: Bloom.

Episode 32 | Two Besties with a MicWhat does it really mean to take up space unapologetically? How do you handle criticism, self-doubt, and the pressure to shrink yourself? In this episode, we sit down with Rachel Pedersen—entrepreneur, social media strategist, author, and all-around badass—to talk about what it truly takes to show up boldly, embrace vulnerability, and build a business (and life) on your own terms.Rachel shares her journey from being a hairstylist to growing multiple 8-figure businesses, amassing over 3 million followers, and taking on industry norms without losing herself in the process. We get real about the struggles of online visibility, handling trolls, and why perfection is overrated.What You'll Learn in This Episode: The role of vulnerability in building trust online (and why timing is everything) How Rachel navigates negativity, trolls, and unsolicited opinions on social media The power of owning your voice (even when it makes people uncomfortable) Why taking up space isn't just about being loud—it's about showing up fully The behind-the-scenes reality of running a successful business while being a real, imperfect human And of course, some hilarious, unhinged social media moments that remind us to stop taking it all so seriouslyFavorite Quote from This Episode: "Don't apologize for being who you are. If it's weird, if it's crass, if it's polished, if it's perfect—don't apologize for who you are, how you show up, and the way that you show up in this world." – Rachel PedersenConnect with Rachel Pedersen:Website: www.rachelpedersen.comInstagram: @themrspedersenYouTube: Rachel PedersenResources & Mentions: Rachel's USA Today Best-Selling Book: Unfiltered: Proven Strategies to Start and Grow Your Business By Breaking the Rules Take Up Space Foundation – Learn moreEnjoyed the episode? Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review! It helps more bold, badass women find this show. And if something in this episode resonated with you, share it on Instagram and tag us—we'd love to hear your takeaways!Follow Two Besties with a Mic:Instagram: @twobestieswithamicWebsite: Two Besties with a MicWhat's your biggest takeaway from this episode? Drop us a DM or comment on our latest post!

Welcome back to Two Besties with a Mic! In this episode, we're diving into a topic that's rarely talked about but affects so many people—pelvic health. If you've ever wondered whether leaking when you laugh, sneeze, or work out is normal, this episode is for you. We're joined by Dr. Rebecca, a pelvic floor physical therapist and yoga teacher, who breaks down everything you need to know about pelvic health, incontinence, painful sex, postpartum recovery, and more. She shares expert insights on how the pelvic floor muscles function, common misconceptions about Kegels, and the connection between mental health and pelvic wellness. ✔️ What exactly is the pelvic floor, and why does it matter?✔️ The biggest myths about Kegels—are they really the answer?✔️ How trauma, stress, and emotions impact pelvic health✔️ What's actually normal when it comes to bladder control, periods, and sex✔️ The connection between pregnancy, postpartum recovery, and pelvic floor issues✔️ What you can do NOW to improve your pelvic health Whether you've had kids, plan to, or just want to understand your body better, this episode is packed with must-know information. No topic is off-limits, and no question is TMI!

Welcome to Episode 30 of Two Besties with a Mic! In this transformative episode, Kelsey and Devan take a deep dive into the 18 Laws of the Universe, exploring how they shape manifestation, personal growth, and our connection to the world around us. Whether you're new to the concept of manifestation or a seasoned pro, this episode will help you uncover actionable insights to align with your purpose, balance your energy, and unlock your potential. Highlights include: What is manifestation, really? (Hint: It's not about crystal balls or voodoo dolls.) The Law of Divine Oneness: How we're all interconnected. The Law of Vibration and the importance of high-frequency energy. Breaking down the Law of Attraction and why "like attracts like." The Law of Mirrors: What your reality says about your inner world. Real-life examples and lessons from personal experiences. Books and Influential Figures Mentioned: The Secret by Rhonda Byrne Kathrin Zenkina, creator of Manifestation Babe Academy Human Design for discovering your life's purpose Additional Resources Covered: The Butterfly Effect and its relevance to manifestation Quantum entanglement and the science behind interconnectedness Cord-cutting meditations for emotional healing Aligning with your biological and creative rhythms Favorite Quotes from the Episode: “Everything in reality is a reflection of what is going on inside of us.” “You teach others how to treat you through your boundaries.” “The universe doesn't listen to begging; it listens to alignment and belief.” Loved this episode? Subscribe and leave us a review! Share this with a friend who's ready to manifest their dream life. Tag us on social media with your biggest takeaway from the 18 Laws of the Universe, and don't forget to follow us for more empowering content.

In this episode of Two Besties with a Mic, Kelsey and Devan explore how to ditch rigid New Year's resolutions and focus on setting goals that truly align with your values. They kick off by tackling a listener's dilemma about balancing personal needs and family responsibilities, emphasizing the importance of boundaries and teamwork. Devan introduces her approach to goal alignment, which prioritizes flexibility and authenticity. Instead of traditional resolutions, she suggests aligning your ambitions with your core values, such as family, freedom, or creativity, and breaking them into actionable steps. Reflecting on past successes and challenges is key to this process, helping you set goals that are both meaningful and achievable. The besties also dive into strategies like the Wheel of Life tool and visualization exercises to make your goals feel tangible. Most importantly, they remind listeners to give themselves grace—life changes, and your goals can, too. Have questions or want to share your goals? Email us at ⁠twobestieswithamic@gmail.com⁠ or follow us on ⁠Instagram @twobestieswithamic⁠. Join the Conversation: What are your 2025 goals? Share your core values and alignment journey with us on social media using #TwoBestiesWithAMic.

Welcome to another inspiring episode of Two Besties with a Mic! In this special episode, Devan and Kelsey sit down with their first-ever guest, registered dietitian Emily Gozy (formerly known as Emily Tills). Emily shares her personal journey, from overcoming an eating disorder to building her impactful business, Nourished with Emily. Emily's mission is clear: to help clients break free from restrictive dieting, rebuild their relationships with food, and live healthier, balanced lives. Together, we explore: The origins of food-related trauma and how it shapes our eating habits. Busting myths about nutrition and diet trends. Practical tips for busy people to nourish themselves (without stress). How to enjoy holiday meals without guilt or extremes. This episode is packed with eye-opening insights and actionable advice for anyone ready to let go of food guilt and embrace a sustainable, nourishing approach to health. Connect with Emily:Discover more about Emily's approach to nutrition and her transformative programs: Free Guide: Download Emily's Nutrition for Stress and Inflammation Guide for actionable steps to reduce stress and feel better. Grab it here! Group Coaching: Join Emily's 8-week small group coaching program starting January 20th. Learn to build a strong nutrition foundation with personalized support. This program is FSA/HSA eligible! Details found here. Nourished Membership: Get access to recipes, resources, and monthly masterclasses for just $29/month. Details found here.⁠ Follow Emily on social media for daily tips, recipes, and inspiration: Instagram & TikTok: @nourishedwithemily LinkedIn: Emily Gozy Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Two Besties with a Mic! And let us know: What's one thing you'll try from today's conversation?

In this week's episode of Two Besties with a Mic, hosts Kelsey and Devan dive into the intricacies of attachment theory. Have you ever wondered why some people effortlessly form secure connections while others face challenges rooted in anxiety or avoidance? This conversation unpacks the four main attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful—to shed light on how these patterns develop in childhood and evolve into adulthood. Listeners will get a blend of psychology, personal growth insights, and the duo's signature humor. From Kelsey's thoughtful analysis to Devan's hilarious detour about why grabbing fast food before a massage is a no-go, this episode balances education with entertainment. Whether you're curious about your own attachment style or looking to deepen your understanding of relationships, this episode is a must-listen! What's Inside This Episode: 00:00 – Introduction and Recap: Kelsey and Devan reflect on last week's episode and set the stage for today's discussion. 00:31 – Diving into Attachment Theory: An overview of what attachment theory is and why it matters. 01:17 – Types of Attachment Styles: Breaking down the four primary attachment styles. 03:50 – Attachment Styles in Children: How attachment begins in early relationships with caregivers. 09:33 – Attachment Styles in Adults: The lasting effects of childhood attachment and how they play out in romantic, platonic, and professional relationships. 14:36 – Personal Reflections on Attachment: Kelsey and Devan share their own experiences with attachment styles and how they've evolved over time. 19:32 – Improving Attachment Styles: Practical tips and strategies to develop healthier attachments. 25:27 – Conclusion and Next Episode Teaser: Wrapping up with key takeaways and a sneak peek at what's coming next week. Tune in for an insightful mix of psychology, personal anecdotes, and a lot of laughs. Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with your friends! Follow Two Besties with a Mic on @twobestieswithamic on IG for more updates and behind-the-scenes content.

In this hard-hitting episode of Two Besties with a Mic, Devan and Kelsey get real about the recent presidential election and its aftermath. With Kamala Harris losing to the Republican candidate, emotions are running high, and the duo takes time to process their own feelings while unpacking the nation's collective reaction. What's Inside This Episode: Election Fallout: How the results are shaking up the political landscape and impacting diverse communities. The GOP's 20 Promises: A deep dive into the new administration's key policies, including tariffs, education reform, and border enforcement. Civil Rights at Risk: Exploring the wider societal and economic implications of these changes, from transgender rights to mass deportation efforts. Practical Advice: Tips on staying informed, resilient, and proactive as policies begin to roll out. Heartfelt Reflections: Personal takes on the importance of community, advocacy, and mental health during political shifts.

In Episode 25 of Two Besties with a Mic, Kelsey and Devan tackle the ever-buzzing topic of mindfulness, exploring what it truly means to be “present” in today's chaotic world. Drawing from personal stories, including recent life changes and losses, they discuss how to embrace the present moment without being weighed down by past anxieties or future worries. Whether it's managing the mental load, understanding the role of ego, or finding peace in everyday routines, this episode sheds light on practical tools and insights to help you cultivate mindfulness in a way that fits your life. Join the conversation for a real, relatable discussion about the challenges and rewards of living in the here and now. Keywords: mindfulness, being present, managing anxiety, letting go of stress, staying present, managing mental load, self-help podcast, podcast for women, mental health, embracing mindfulness, personal growth podcast Show Notes: [00:01:00] - Introduction & Catching Up: Kelsey and Devan are back! They introduce Episode 25 with some lighthearted banter and updates. [00:03:00] - What is Mindfulness?: Defining mindfulness, being present, and the challenges of truly living in the moment. [00:05:00] - Mindfulness for Kids: Devan and Kelsey share how they approach mindfulness with their children, who often worry about the future. [00:07:00] - The Mental Load and Mindfulness: Kelsey explains how the mental load and constant to-do lists pull us out of the present, causing stress and overwhelm. [00:09:00] - Refocusing After Loss: Kelsey shares a story about recent family loss and how it brought her back to being present with her loved ones. [00:13:00] - Rediscovering Joy in Old Passions: Devan opens up about rejoining her Muay Thai class, confronting anxiety, and rediscovering her “happy place.” [00:17:00] - Befriending the Ego: They discuss how the ego, while protective, can prevent us from being present, and how to gently “befriend” it. [00:19:00] - Breaking Down Tasks for Mindfulness: Devan shares how focusing on small, achievable tasks helps her stay grounded and reduces stress. [00:23:00] - Gratitude Over Apologies: Kelsey talks about reframing language to say “thank you” instead of “sorry,” helping her show gratitude and self-compassion. [00:24:00] - Intentional Words, Thoughts, and Actions: Wrapping up with the importance of being intentional in everyday actions, Devan and Kelsey leave listeners with a powerful quote on the significance of the present moment. Connect with Us: Follow us on Instagram @TwoBestiesWithAMic for more updates. Subscribe for weekly episodes that help you navigate life's ups and downs with humor and heart.

In Episode 24 of Two Besties with a Mic, Devan and Kelsey dive deep into the complex dynamics of friendship breakups, the pitfalls of people-pleasing, and the importance of setting boundaries. This heartfelt and raw conversation unpacks the impact of unresolved expectations in friendships and the personal toll it takes. Devan shares a vulnerable story about being blindsided by a friend's sudden exit, reminding us all of the power of clear communication and self-respect. Together, they explore how people-pleasing often leads to resentment, and why self-advocacy is essential for maintaining healthy relationships. Whether you're dealing with a challenging friendship, learning to say “no,” or trying to break free from the cycle of seeking validation, this episode offers practical advice and relatable stories to help you build a stronger, more authentic self. Keywords: friendship breakups, people-pleasing, setting boundaries, self-advocacy, mental health, podcast for women, self-improvement, overcoming self-doubt, communication in friendships, podcast for moms Show Notes: [00:01:00] - The Accidental Hiatus: Devan and Kelsey discuss the busy summer and why their recent hiatus was necessary. [00:05:00] - Deployment Struggles: Devan opens up about life challenges during her husband's deployment, from household repairs to managing the kids. [00:09:00] - Navigating a Painful Friendship Breakup: Devan shares the story of a close friend suddenly ending their relationship, the emotional toll it took, and the self-reflection that followed. [00:20:00] - Understanding People-Pleasing: Kelsey explains why people-pleasing can be a manipulative behavior, often stemming from a need for validation. They discuss how to recognize and break free from this pattern. [00:27:00] - The Power of Saying No: The hosts highlight the importance of honest communication and why saying “no” is vital to setting healthy boundaries. [00:33:00] - Advocating for Yourself: Devan emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy in personal and professional relationships, reminding listeners that nobody else will stand up for their needs. [00:39:00] - Self-Reflection and Growth: Kelsey and Devan reflect on how self-awareness helps avoid future toxic relationships and keeps them aligned with their values. Connect with Us: Follow us on Instagram @TwoBestiesWithAMic for more updates. Subscribe for weekly episodes that help you navigate life's ups and downs with humor and heart.

In this episode of Two Besties with a Mic, hosts Devan and Kelsey dive deep into the concept of the mental load, a silent burden often carried by women, moms, and entrepreneurs. They discuss personal experiences, provide practical strategies, and emphasize the power of self-compassion in managing the daily mental to-do list. Listeners will gain valuable insights into improving communication, aligning tasks with core values, setting achievable goals, and avoiding overcommitment. The episode also offers tips for delegating, breaking tasks into smaller steps, and using time-saving services like grocery delivery to lighten the load. Featuring a TikTok perspective from Zach, the recovering man-child, the episode wraps up with a fun chat about Love Island. Topics include: Understanding cognitive load Sharing mental load in relationships Coping strategies and self-care Aligning core values with responsibilities Real-world tips for managing tasks Perfect for moms, business owners, and anyone looking to reduce stress in modern life, this episode is a must-listen for practical solutions and relatable conversation!

In episode 21 of 'Two Besties with a Mic,' hosts Devan and Kelsey dive deep into their thoughts on recent political events, including Kamala Harris's presidential bid and the complexities of voting in the United States. They discuss their concerns around Donald Trump, their hopes for Harris, and break down the nuances of the electoral system, including the role of independent candidates. Amid sharing personal anecdotes and strong opinions, the hosts emphasize the importance of voting and staying informed about political realities. Tune in for a candid and passionate conversation on the current political landscape. Please note: we recorded this on August 2nd. A lot has happened since then in the political world. Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. Come to the Elevate Summit! Think conference vibes mixed with slumber party vibes. Grab your ticket at developingwithdevan.com/summit. Follow us on TikTok and IG @twobestieswithamic Sign up for our email list to stay up to date on what we have going on at ⁠twobestieswithamic.com/podcast

In episode 20 of Two Besties with a Mic, Devan and Kelsey catch up after a month-long hiatus, discussing their summer activities including family gatherings, personal trips, and some unique experiences like a Gettysburg ghost tour. The hosts delve into their personal growth, emphasizing the importance of taking intentional time off and enjoying life beyond work. They also discuss relationship dynamics, focusing on a post from a stay-at-home mom seeking advice about her unhelpful spouse. Devan and Kelsey provide practical advice on communication, mental load, and partnership equality, highlighting the importance of mutual support and clear expectations in relationships. Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. Come to the Elevate Summit! Think conference vibes mixed with slumber party vibes. Grab your ticket at developingwithdevan.com/summit. Follow us on TikTok and IG @twobestieswithamic  Sign up for our email list to stay up to date on what we have going on at ⁠twobestieswithamic.com/podcast

In episode 19 of Two Besties with a Mic, Devan and Kelsey discuss their experiences with cringe-worthy marketing tactics and the importance of authentic, relationship-based business practices. They share personal anecdotes, including dealing with pushy LinkedIn connections and the pitfalls of traditional sales strategies. The conversation highlights the need for marketing approaches that prioritize genuine human connections over transactional interactions. They also touch on the evolution of their own business branding and the significance of staying true to oneself. This episode is filled with insights on how to build a business rooted in authenticity and long-term customer relationships. Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. Come to the Elevate Summit! Think conference vibes mixed with slumber party vibes. Grab your ticket at developingwithdevan.com/summit. Follow us on TikTok and IG @twobestieswithamic Sign up for our email list to stay up to date on what we have going on at ⁠twobestieswithamic.com/podcast

Catch up with Kelsey and Devan on Episode 18 of 'Two Besties with a Mic' as they dive into juicy topics like masculine and feminine energy, societal stereotypes, and how relationships really work. They're dishing out personal stories, breaking down gender norms, and sharing insights on keeping energy balanced in life. Tune in for a chat that's not only candid and funny but also super insightful while shaking up the usual take on gender roles and cheering on self-awareness and balance. Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. Come to the Elevate Summit! Think conference vibes mixed with slumber party vibes. Grab your ticket at developingwithdevan.com/summit. Follow us on TikTok and IG @twobestieswithamic Sign up for our email list to stay up to date on what we have going on at twobestieswithamic.com/podcast

Join Kelsey and Devan on 'Two Besties with a Mic' as they navigate through relatable parenting challenges and day-to-day humor. In this episode, the duo discusses the nuances of setting boundaries, instilling responsibility in kids, and raising emotionally intelligent children. They also share personal anecdotes about their interactions with their own kids, highlighting the importance of effective communication and balancing freedom with structure. With a mix of humor and candidness, this episode is a heartwarming roller coaster of friendship and family life. So grab your coffee and settle in for some real talk with your besties! Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. Come to the Elevate Summit! Think conference vibes mixed with slumber party vibes. Grab your ticket at developingwithdevan.com/summit. Follow us on TikTok and IG @twobestieswithamic

In episode 16 of 'Two Besties with a Mic,' hosts Kelsey and Devan embark on a candid discussion about the contrasting societal expectations of mothers and fathers, particularly around Father's Day. Broadcasting from Devan's new office studio, they dive into personal anecdotes, engaging conversations, and reactions to a controversial meme about single mothers celebrating Father's Day. They also explore the deep-seated gender roles that shape our views on parenting, communication in relationships, and the importance of cultivating well-rounded children. Join the conversation for a spirited and insightful exchange! Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. Come to the Elevate Summit! Think conference vibes mixed with slumber party vibes. Grab your ticket at developingwithdevan.com/summit. Follow us on TikTok and IG @twobestieswithamic

In episode 15 of 'Two Besties with a Mic,' Kelsey and Devan continue to chat while doing their makeup and hair. Despite some technical difficulties, they dive into a captivating discussion about spirituality, specifically focusing on their experiences and insights into tarot reading. They share personal stories, thoughts on tarot card spreads, and the powerful lessons they've learned about life, love, and self-discovery through tarot. Kelsey talks about her recent foray into tarot, while Devan reflects on seeking answers during a period of personal crisis. This episode emphasizes the importance of intuition, balance, and the ongoing journey of self-awareness. Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. Come to the Elevate Summit! Think conference vibes mixed with slumber party vibes. Grab your ticket at developingwithdevan.com/summit. Follow us on TikTok and IG @twobestieswithamic  Everyday Tarot Mini Tarot Deck (what Devan called the pocket deck) https://amzn.to/45VJZ4V (fyi this is an affiliate link, so Devan makes a little bit of money when you buy from this link) Details about Caitlin Fisher (Devan's Book Coach): https://www.caitlinlizfisher.com/ Get some awesome photos done with Nicole Lockhart: https://nicolelockhartphotography.com/

Welcome back to Episode 14 of Two Besties with a Mic! Today, we're on the move as Kelsey does Devan's makeup for an exciting branding photo shoot, but not before diving into some raw and honest conversations about the stress of motherhood. We discuss a thought-provoking TikTok comparing the stress of motherhood to being a soldier or working in an ER, share personal experiences about overwhelming parenting moments, societal pressures, and the struggle of balancing work and family. Tune in for a hearty, unfiltered chat that every mom can relate to, plus a bit of sassy commentary and lots of love for all you badass moms out there. Let's normalize talking about the not-so-glamorous side of parenting. Grab a slice of pizza and join us! Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. Come to the Elevate Summit! Think conference vibes mixed with slumber party vibes. Grab your ticket at developingwithdevan.com/summit. Follow up on TikTok and IG @twobestieswithamic

Welcome to Episode 13 of Two Besties with a Mic! In this episode, Kelsey and Devan explore birthday celebrations, combating ageism, and the pressures of staying young. Discover the importance of self-care as the besties share skincare routines and cover the eight dimensions of self-care. Learn how to live a more fulfilling life with personal growth tips, societal expectations insights, and embracing vulnerability. Tune in for a compelling conversation packed with laughs, valuable insights, and practical advice on prioritizing well-being. Don't miss out on expert tips for self-improvement and healthy living! Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. Come to the Elevate Summit! Think conference vibes mixed with slumber party vibes. Grab your ticket at developingwithdevan.com/summit.

In episode 12 of 'Two Besties with a Mic,' Devan and Kelsey take a deep dive into the Enneagram personality system. They discuss their recent vacation to the Outer Banks and how the Enneagram has influenced their personal growth and understanding of each other. The hosts provide detailed descriptions of each of the nine Enneagram types, including their wings, stress paths, and growth paths, while sharing personal anecdotes and experiences. This episode is packed with insights into how understanding your Enneagram type can improve your relationships, self-awareness, and overall well-being. Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. And check out Devan's free life and business resources at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.developingwithdevan/com/resources⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

In episode 11 of 'Two Besties with a Mic', join Devan and Kelsey as they unpack the ins and outs of handling expectations in all kinds of relationships, whether they're with friends, lovers, or workmates. They dive deep into the world of emotional smarts, including how important it is to know yourself and communicate clearly. This episode also shines a light on trust, self-love, and the journey of personal growth. With a mix of personal stories and handy advice, the duo guides listeners on how to rethink and express what they expect from others. All through the chat, they highlight how looking inward can lead to healthier, happier connections. Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. And check out Devan's free life and business resources at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.developingwithdevan/com/resources⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

In the milestone 10th episode of 'Two Besties with a Mic,' Devan and Kelsey discuss the realities of social media marketing, debunking the myth that simply posting can lead to instant business success. They share personal insights and experiences on how genuine connections and consistency are key to growing a presence online. The conversation also tackles the limitations of traditional client avatars and buyer types, advocating for more authentic and human-centric marketing approaches. This episode is a blend of casual banter, valuable marketing tips, and a fresh perspective on how to embrace individuality in business. Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. And check out Devan's free life and business resources at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.developingwithdevan/com/resources⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

In episode 9 of 'Two Besties with a Mic,' Kelsey and Devan jump into a super honest chat about sex, intimacy, and how we talk about it in relationships. They highlight how crucial it is to be open about what we need and want with our partners, bust some common myths about sex in long-term relationships, and tackle the weird stigmas society throws our way. This episode is packed with personal stories, insights from all over the internet, and thoughts on juggling household chores. In the end, they're all about respecting each other, connecting on a deeper level, and really getting what both partners need for a super healthy sex life. Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. And check out Devan's free life and business resources at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.developingwithdevan/com/resources⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

In episode 8 of Two Besties with a Mic, Kelsey and Devan tear down the myths surrounding money, privilege, and making it big in entrepreneurship. They're calling out the BS on "overnight success" stories peddled by so-called business gurus and get real about the grind and privilege behind their own success stories. They're shredding those shady marketing tactics, like the obsession with social media fame and the fantasy of hitting six figures overnight, exposing them for the smoke and mirrors they really are. The convo gets deep into why real connections trump sleazy sales tricks any day, and they're bringing fresh, inclusive moves to the table, like sliding-scale pricing for events, making sure everyone gets a seat at the table. It's a no-holds-barred look at what success really means, pushing for a game plan that's as unique as you are. It's all about ditching the cookie-cutter success blueprint for something real, raw, and radically you. Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. And check out Devan's free life and business resources at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.developingwithdevan/com/resources⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

In Episode 7 of 'Two Besties with a Mic,' Kelsey and Devan dive into a variety of personal and engaging topics. They're all pumped up and kick things off by giving a shoutout to Stewart's for their cold brew coffee, which leads them into chatting about their upcoming vacation plans and some memorable vacation moments, like that wild cruise during a tropical storm. Then, the conversation takes a turn into the world of parenting - tackling tricky situations like handling kids' lies and dealing with unsolicited advice. They get real about different parenting styles, stressing how crucial it is to ask before dishing out advice, and the art of sharing your thoughts without coming off as judgmental. Things get even more personal as they share a touching story about being there for a friend's childbirth, shedding light on the deep and sometimes challenging aspects of parenting and friendship. They wrap things up by touching on the hurdles of business, especially the financial crunch in organizing events, and promise to unpack more on that in their next chat. Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. And check out Devan's free life and business resources at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.developingwithdevan/com/resources⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

In this episode of 'Two Besties with a Mic', Kelsey and Devan get real about life's messy bits—like dealing with sickness, kiddos spreading germs like wildfire, and the game-changing magic of ditching those tonsils. They dive deep into how survival mode messes with your choices and digs into your subconscious, pushing you to move in ways you didn't even know you could. But it's not all about the big drama. They break down how even the small stuff piles up, showing us that trauma isn't just about the headline-worthy moments. It's the everyday BS, too, and how everyone around us, not just our folks, shapes our vibe. They tackle the big T—trauma responses: fight, flight, freeze, and fawn—and get real about spotting them in ourselves, whether they're messing us up or moving us forward. Kelsey and Devan don't hold back on calling out gaslighting, including the ways we trick ourselves, stressing how crucial it is to trust our own guts. This chat is a powerhouse of truth bombs about kicking past traumas to the curb and embarking on a no-BS journey of self-discovery and hardcore self-love. Buckle up for a ride through the rough and the real, with insights that'll make you rethink, react, and most importantly, reclaim your power. Here's to growing, glowing, and getting your hands dirty in the quest for your truest self. Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. And check out Devan's free life and business resources at ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.developingwithdevan/com/resources⁠⁠⁠⁠.

This episode is all about the raw and real. After grinding non-stop for two weeks, we're spilling the tea on our game-changing experience at the Bloom women's conference. We're diving deep into the messy beauty of being vulnerable, the jitters of public speaking, and why saying yes to everything is a fast track to burnout city. We're not holding back on the real talk about personal growth, breaking up with toxic money beliefs, and mastering the art of a firm no – because, let's face it, people-pleasing is so last season. We're also getting real about the hustle mode, understanding our worth beyond the paycheck, and making business moves that align with who we are, not just what pays the bills. This unfiltered convo is your wake-up call to embrace the mess, own your story, and communicate like the boss you are. We're sharing all the gems from Bloom – talking authenticity, finding your tribe, and why your voice matters. So, if you're ready to level up and live unapologetically, this episode is for you. Let's get it! Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. And check out Devan's free life and business resources at ⁠⁠⁠www.developingwithdevan/com/resources⁠⁠⁠.

In episode four of Two Besties with a Mic, Devan and Kelsey dive headfirst into the thrilling ride of running their own gigs across diverse fields, preaching the gospel of rocking a CEO mindset for 2024. They're spilling the tea on why setting aside a CEO day to strategize on leveling up both your business and personal game is non-negotiable. It's all about nailing these five boss moves: crafting a vision, mission, and purpose that scream 'you'; elevating your brand to hit those emotional chords with clients; mapping out your offer funnel from freebies to premium packages; getting down and dirty with who your buyers are and how to catch their eye; and, let's not forget, pumping up your confidence in what you're selling. They're also laying down the truth about pinpointing your 'why' for diving into the biz world and clinging to it like your lifeline to dodge burnout and stay true to your dreams. Wrapping up, they dare you to step up, reflect, and own that CEO vibe in every inch of your life and business. Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. And check out Devan's free life and business resources at ⁠⁠www.developingwithdevan/com/resources⁠⁠.

Episode three of 'Two Besties with a mic' isn't pulling any punches. We're diving deep into the gritty, real-life rollercoasters of Kelsey and Devan. Feeling like life's tossing everything but the kitchen sink your way – work, family, the quest to be the best version of yourself? Oh, we've been there, done that. But here's the kicker: there's a way out of that hot mess, and our hosts are laying it all out on how to sprint towards that light at the end of the tunnel. Tackling life's chaos head-on? You got it. Crushing those self-improvement goals? You better believe it. And keeping it real about what's coming next? Absolutely. Kelsey and Devan aren't just spilling the tea; they're serving up whole life lessons on staying true in your relationships, fixing your own damn self, and seizing empowerment with both hands because recognizing your worth? That's your secret weapon. And we're not skirting around the tough shit either – like the real heavy stuff. Ever found yourself stuck in a relationship that's sucking the life out of you? We're diving into that, zeroing in on a listener's battle with emotional abuse. The advice is solid gold: communicate, know your value, and have the guts to walk away from anyone who can't see that. Because, let's be real, you deserve someone who respects and treasures you, no questions asked. So, ready to jump on this wild ride with Kelsey and Devan? Hell yes, you are. Let's break some rules, craft a future where we're all living our best, empowered, and unstoppable lives. Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. We want to hear from you! Book your next skincare service with Kelsey at kesleydaroubeauty@yahoo.com. And check out Devan's free life and business resources at ⁠www.developingwithdevan/com/resources⁠.

In this killer episode, Kelsey and Devan dive headfirst into the real stuff. They're not just chatting about the 'Avatar: The Last Airbender' live-action series – and yeah, Devan's all in – they're breaking down barriers on how we engage with media, rooting for the badass characters in 'Sailor Moon', and spotlighting the absolute must of nurturing fierce, confident young women. And guess what? They're not hitting the brakes. They're calling out the nonsense on societal expectations, giving a big ol' eye-roll to the critics and haters, and shouting about the power of our words and actions from the rooftops. Self-love and knowing your value? You bet it's front and center. This episode isn't just talk. It's a revolution, loaded with personal tales, a bold stance against societal norms, and a rally cry for anyone searching for their place amid the chaos. Let's get real about self-identity and acceptance, and for those in the back: You're worthy, and it's high time you owned it. Any podcast related questions or suggestions can be emailed to twobestieswithamic@gmail.com. And check out Devan's free life and business resources at www.developingwithdevan/com/resources.

Meet "Two Besties with a Mic" - your new rebellion against the ordinary. In our explosive first episode, Devan and Kelsey don't just introduce themselves; they throw down the gauntlet. Ready to dive headfirst into life's madness, motherhood's chaos, and the wild ride of entrepreneurship? Hell yes, you are. Tired of feeling like you're navigating this madness solo? So were we. That's why we're here, getting real about everything from the raw edges of life and parenting to the hustle of making your mark in the business world.  From a chance bar encounter to becoming the dynamic duo of defiance, we're not just friends; we're a force. Kelsey, with her badass blend of esthetician skills and tattoo artistry, and Devan, the entrepreneur who's all about lifting women higher, we're here to shake things up.  Our differences? They're our superpowers. We're here to build a community where laughter is the soundtrack, insights are the currency, and you never, ever feel alone. So, are you in? Because this is more than a podcast. It's a movement. Let's make some noise and build this badass community together. Welcome to "Two Besties and a Mic." Let's rock this.