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 "Your life is a garden and whatever you cultivate is what springs up, and if you don't pull out certain weeds, it ends up choking out the good stuff." My good friend, Dr. Word Smith is back for the third time. He flew into Philly, we sat down with zero agenda, and what came out was one of the most honest, layered conversations I've had on this show about relationships, childhood wounds, codependency, Buddhism, karma, and what it actually takes to change.We get into why intimate relationships are the sharpest mirror we have for our unprocessed childhood material, and why most of us don't even have language for what we didn't receive growing up, only a feeling that something was missing. Word shares his own journey through toxic shame, perfectionism, and self-criticism, and what it looked like to actually move through it over 25 years of real inner work. We also dive into Buddhism, the concept of seed planting, why just changing your thoughts doesn't work, and why the feelings and the body have to be part of the equation.Then we go deep into codependency, the slow, invisible way it builds, how it rewards you just enough to keep you stuck, and what it means to finally hit the wall where continuing the old way is no longer an option. We talk about the container: what it means to have a safe space where your body knows it can finally feel, and why that safety isn't a luxury, it's the actual mechanism of change. We close with a tease: we may be co-facilitating a retreat this fall. Stay tuned.TODAY'S HIGHLIGHTSWhy intimate relationships trigger us more than anything elseThe moment Word finally understood what toxic shame wasHow to trace shame back to childhood: what questions to ask yourselfWhy affirmations alone don't work, and what you're missing when you skip the feelings and bodyBuddhism, karma, and seed plantingCodependency: a survival mechanism that stops serving youThe perimenopause layer: why women in their 40s suddenly can't tolerate the old patterns anymoreSelf-abandonment disguised as being a good mom, wife, partner, and how to start seeing itThe container: why your body knows when it's safe to feel, and why that space is the key to processingFall retreat announcement. More details coming soonCONTACT DR. WORD SMITHDr. Word Smith is an energy worker, coach, Buddhist scholar, and Chinese medicine doctor with 25 years of experience helping people with manifestation, healing, and result-based transformation. Visit drwordsmithwisdom.comFollow on IG dr.wordsmithwisdom**WAYS TO ENTER MY WORLD**When you leave a review of the podcast on Apple Podcasts and send us a screenshot of it, we'll send you a $250 credit that you can apply to anything else in my world.Join me in The Metamorphosis which is my 3-month, groundbreaking, flagship program to rapidly and efficiently clear the familial and ancestral trauma that is blocking you from experiencing the wealth and freedom that you desire.Check out my newest video on my YouTube channel What's the Inner Critic + 7-Min Breathwork to Release ItQuestions? Let's jump on a call CONTACT ALYSEYouTube @alysebreathesalysebreathes.comIG @alyse_breathesinfo@alysebreathes.com

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Most people think becoming a high value man is about money, status, discipline, or confidence at work.Cass and Kathryn Morrow say it starts at home—with self-worth.In Ep441 of The ‘NEW' Marriage, they break down the real root behind most marriage symptoms (sex, communication, respect, resentment), why validation from your partner isn't self-worth, and the two skills Kathryn learned that changed everything.What we coverThe real root of most marriage problems: self-worth (not the symptoms)Why being valuable at home first makes you valuable everywhere elseThe validation trap: when your worth depends on your partner's approvalWhy tearing your partner down is always an identity crisisKathryn's 2 skills that changed everything:Engage while regulated (without co-regulating their dysregulation)Undo enabling consistently (“same team, same jersey” — not 1 and done)Silence vs shutting down vs stonewalling (they're not the same)How to stay grounded when your partner is angry, cold, or disrespectfulThe proof you're learning: your questions stop being about symptomsIf a Short/Reel brought you here: watch the full episode—this is the foundation behind respect, intimacy, and leadership at home.

Hello, World!Most education brands know email should be their strongest channel and yet it rarely delivers on its potential. Between inconsistent sends, generic copy, and the pressure to sound “professional,” messages that could build real connection often end up sounding like noise.Email strategist Liz Wilcox joins Elana to share how education organizations can shift from transactional messaging to meaningful communication. She breaks down why simplicity outperforms polish, how to build trust through steady, human touchpoints, and what the best senders are doing differently.She outlines her “follower, friend, customer” framework, a 20-minute approach to writing newsletters that actually get read, and the mindset shift from selling to serving. Liz also explains how a strong onboarding sequence sets the tone for every future interaction—and why owning your mistakes in email can make people trust you more, not less.If you've ever hesitated to hit send or wondered what to say next, this episode will reset how you think about email.What You'll LearnWhy email should be the backbone of your marketing strategy—not an afterthoughtHow to turn your list into a community through consistency and simplicityThe “follower, friend, customer” model for long-term trust and engagementThe 20-minute newsletter framework that makes authentic communication sustainableHow to balance professionalism with personality (and why both matter)Why transparency, even in mistakes, builds loyalty faster than polishQuick Wins from the Lightning RoundShort, conversational subject lines outperform everything elseThe best send time is whenever you'll actually send—consistency matters mostAlways use a P.S., it's prime real estateKeep stories short and usefulStop overcomplicating; simple emails build trust fasterWhy It MattersThe difference between noise and connection isn't design or frequency; it's trust. Liz reminds us that effective email marketing comes from showing up consistently, sounding like a real person, and making every message worth opening. When we stop chasing perfection and start focusing on relationships, email becomes less of a tactic and more of a long-term advantage.

What does it take to lead sustainably — for yourself, for your people, and for the planet?In this episode I sit down with Delphine Donné, VP and General Manager of Logitech's largest business group, Personal Work Solutions — a business worth over two billion dollars. With more than 25 years in consumer electronics and leadership experience across China, North America, and Europe, Delphine is one of just 29% of women in tech who reach executive level.But what struck me most in our conversation wasn't the scale of what she leads. It was how she leads it.What we cover:The three career moments that genuinely tested her — including getting close to burnout — and what she learned about herself each timeHow a single consumer insight transformed her portfolio, grew her team from 28% to over 50% women, and delivered stellar business resultsWhy managing yourself first is not optional — it's the foundation of everything elseThe three leadership lessons she'd pass on to anyone building a long career: passion, perseverance, and compassionListen and connect:

You've worked on your messaging. You've used AI to help clean it up. You've rewritten your bio three times. And still, the right people aren't responding.Here's the problem Adam and Jess zero in on in this episode: most coaches are writing from where they are, not from where their people are. That gap is costing you conversations, clients, and trust.This is Part 3 of the Maslow Mountain series, and it's probably the one you've been waiting for. Parts 1 and 2 built the foundation of understanding your avatar and nailing your payoff. This episode is where it all lands, because if your messaging doesn't meet your person on the level of the mountain they're actually standing on, none of the rest of it matters.The conversation gets specific fast. Jess flags the "I help blank do blank" formula as the single most common messaging mistake coaches make, not because the structure is wrong but because the language is always too generic, too aspirational, and too far from where the person actually is right now. Adam pulls in the psychographic lens: what does your avatar think, feel, and need at this exact moment? Those are the three questions that need to drive every piece of messaging you put into the world.They also get honest about AI. It's a great thought partner. It's a lousy content creator unless you've done the foundational human work first. And in a world where people can now feel the difference between a real person's message and a generated one, leaning on AI without that foundation isn't just ineffective. It actively erodes trust.What you'll take away from this episode:Why "I help [avatar] achieve [outcome]" is killing your conversions and what to replace it withThe specific question you need to answer before writing a single word of messaging: where is your avatar on the mountain right now?Why aspirational language repels the very people you're trying to attractHow to remove ego from your messaging without removing yourself from itThe difference between specificity and complexity (and why your audience wants one, not both)What Taki Moore gets right that most coaches get completely wrong about authentic messagingWhy storytelling outperforms information dumping every single time, on social, on stage, and everywhere elseThe big idea:Your messaging has nothing to do with you. It has everything to do with them. The coaches who land clients consistently aren't the most credentialed or the most polished. They're the ones whose words make their ideal client think, "How did they know that's exactly where I am right now?" That feeling is trust. And trust is what closes.Notable quote:"Stop the peacocking and just really start being you. Even if you're a manatee." — Jess WebberResources Mentioned:Building a StoryBrand by Donald Miller (referenced: guide vs. hero positioning)Taki Moore — go watch his recent reels for a masterclass in authentic, avatar-first messagingILC Community: ilovecoachingco.comInstagram: @ilovecoachingco / @adamrroach / @thejesswebberYouTube: youtube.com/@ilovecoachingcoTimestamps:[00:00] Opening: Episode 3 of Maslow Mountain and the messaging problem[00:29] Why AI is a copilot, not a content creator[02:37] What happens when you rely solely on AI for messaging[04:10] The "I help blank do blank" trap[05:30] Think and feel: the two messaging filters that build trust[06:36] Why specificity is the trust builder (and it doesn't mean fancy language)[08:26] Push pause: your one action item from this episode[09:01] Active cringe face and why aspirational language misses the mark[11:00] Social media is not about you, full stop[12:53] The hero vs. guide shift (Donald Miller reference)[14:00] Jess's keynote story: what happened when she removed the info dump[15:50] Taki Moore as a case study in authentic positional messaging[18:28] Authenticity vs. ego: the distinction that changes everything[20:57] The peacocking problem and the permission to stop[22:43] Preview: Part 4 is coming, and it's about letting your message work without youJoin the Community:Ready to build a coaching business where the right people actually find you? The ILC community is where coaches stop guessing at their messaging and start building something that works. Head over to ilovecoachingco.com.

What if the only thing standing between where you are… and where you want to be… is one bold decision you haven't made yet?In this episode of Success Leaves Clues, Robin Bailey and Al McDonald sit down with Dan Turner, CEO at Xperigo, to unpack a career built not on perfect timing or traditional paths, but on courage, persistence, and the willingness to step through doors before they fully open.Dan's journey starts far from the boardroom, as an 18-year-old tow truck driver with no clear direction. But one moment, one story, one decision to believe something bigger was possible, set him on a path that would eventually lead him to the CEO seat.This conversation dives deep into what it really takes to grow into leadership, how calculated risks can redefine your career, and why the leaders who win today are the ones who lead with trust, vulnerability, and genuine care.From spotting opportunity before it's obvious, to building a culture that fuels performance, to redefining what great leadership actually looks like, this episode is a powerful reminder that success is not a straight line, it's a series of brave choices made consistently over time.If you've ever questioned whether you're capable of more, or felt the pull toward something bigger but hesitated to act, this conversation will challenge you to rethink what's possible.You'll hear about:Why one moment of belief can completely change the trajectory of your lifeHow Dan Turner turned a bold hunch into a multi-million dollar opportunityThe real reason most people stay stuck in their comfort zoneWhy risk is required if you want to reach your full potentialHow confidence is built through action, not certaintyThe mindset shift that turns “failure” into growthWhy opportunity rarely announces itself, and how to spot it earlyHow proactive thinking separates top performers from everyone elseThe role persistence plays in long-term successWhy stepping outside your comfort zone is non-negotiable for growthWe talk about:00:00 Introduction to Dan Turner and Xperigo02:30 From tow truck driver to CEO, the origin story05:00 The moment that sparked a bold, long-term vision08:00 Why big goals feel overwhelming, and how to start anyway11:00 Comfort zones vs. growth, why staying safe keeps you stuck14:00 The Apple iPhone story, spotting opportunity before the world sees it17:30 Turning a bold idea into a multi-million dollar deal20:00 Risk, doubt, and why the upside is always worth it23:00 The mindset that separates leaders from followers25:30 Culture vs performance, why they fuel each other28:00 Building trust, transparency, and high-performing teams31:00 Leadership today, why vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness34:00 The future of leadership and building a legacy that lastsConnect with DanLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/turnerdan/ Website: https://www.xperigo.com/ Connect with UsLinkedIn: Robin Bailey and Al McDonald Website: Aria Benefits and Life & Legacy Advisory Group

You've heard "grow your email list" a hundred times. But nobody tells you how to actually do it without posting every day and praying the algorithm cooperates.In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on exactly how I grew my email list by over 200% in 75 days — and not a single bit of it came from social media. It came from something older and more powerful than any platform: relationships.I walk you through the four collaboration types I used, which one drove the most growth (and why), and the unexpected referral chain that led me from my own hosted event straight to a paid sponsorship opportunity I never saw coming. Plus the one thing I now believe is more important to your long-term business growth than any funnel, any content calendar, or any algorithm hack.In this episode:Why podcast guesting alone wasn't moving the needle — and what I did differentlyWhat the Workflow Exchange was, how I built it, and why it outperformed everything elseThe real reason a summit sponsorship converts better than a social ad (hint: it's about trust)How to evaluate a bundle before you say yes — because not every one is worth your timeWhy building relationships might be the single most important business investment you can makeEPISODE HIGHLIGHTS[00:00] The result first: 200% email list growth in 75 days, no social media involved[02:00] The honest starting point — where my list actually was at the end of February[05:00] Why podcast guesting builds credibility but has limits as a list-growth strategy[08:00] The Workflow Exchange: what it was, how I built it, and why ten women's audiences became mine[12:00] The referral that changed everything — and how one relationship led to another[15:00] Summit sponsorship vs. social ads: why borrowed trust converts at a different rate[18:00] Bundles: the most accessible collaboration type and how to know if one is right for you[21:00] The big idea: relationships aren't just a nice-to-have — they're the strategy[24:00] What this means for your list right now, and your one action step this weekKEY TAKEAWAY"List-building isn't a solo project. It's a community project. The relationships bring people to your door — your website has to open it."RESOURCES MENTIONEDThe Workflow Exchange — Jan's hosted collaboration event featuring 10 business women sharing their real workflowsProverbs 27:17 — "Iron sharpens iron"jantouchberry.com — web design and branding for Christian women entrepreneurs who market without socialREADY TO TAKE THE NEXT STEP?If this episode resonated with you, here's what to do next:Share it with a Christian woman entrepreneur in your life who's tired of feeling like she has to be on social media to grow her business. This show exists for her.Subscribe so you never miss an episode — new episodes drop weekly with practical strategies for growing your business through owned media: your website, your email list, and your podcast.Work with Jan — if you're at the point where you're ready to build the online presence that makes all of this actually convert, Jan designs websites and brands for Christian women entrepreneurs who are done letting social media call the shots. Start the conversation at jantouchberry.com.CONNECT WITH JAN:Here are all the best places and FREE stuff

In this episode of Breaking Down Barriers, host David Ponraj sits down with Erik Reader of Reader Area Development to celebrate National Small Business Week, Economic Development Week, and the 100th anniversary of the International Economic Development Council (IEDC).Erik brings 15+ years of on-the-ground experience in community and economic development— from running a chamber/tourism hybrid organization and leading the Illinois Main Street statewide network, to working with CDFIs and SBA CDCs. He joins David to talk candidly about the state of small towns across America, what it really takes to bring a Main Street back to life, and why the human side of entrepreneurship matters more than any metric.In this episode, you'll hear:Why remote work and post-COVID migration are reshaping small towns and creating new opportunities for communities under 50,000Whether brick-and-mortar businesses on Main Street can still thrive (spoiler: never say never)Erik's AREA framework—Assistance, Retention, Expansion, and Attraction—and why attraction should always come lastDavid's addition to the model: Succession and why protecting existing businesses is more valuable than funding new onesWhat Entrepreneurship Through Acquisition (ETA) is and why it may be the safest path into business ownershipReal-world examples from Havana, Illinois and Geneva, Illinois on what deep community engagement can unlockWhy the best downtowns lean into their quirks instead of copying what worked somewhere elseThe art of community storytelling—from placards and visitor guides to AR/VR preservation (like Dunedin's Kellogg Mansion)Connect with Erik Reader:LinkedIn: Erik ReaderWeb: readerareadevelopment.com

I'm back with a quick personal update and a reflection on something I've been thinking about a lot lately: the mental load of holding onto things that may no longer fit.Over the past few months, I've been deep in the creation of my coaching certification program, which has been a huge and beautiful undertaking. And as much as I love this podcast, I had to make the decision to put regular episodes on hold while I gave my full energy and attention to the certification.Because when we say yes to one thing, we inevitably have to say no to something else.In this episode, I'm sharing what's been happening behind the scenes, why letting go can feel so uncomfortable, and how our brains often justify keeping things because “it doesn't take that much time” — even when it's taking up space mentally, emotionally, and energetically.This is a short check-in episode, but there's a powerful question inside it:What are you holding onto that may be costing you more than you realize?In this episode, I talk about:Why the podcast has been on pauseThe mental load of creating my coaching certification programWhy saying yes to one thing often means saying no to something elseThe difference between how much time something takes and how much mental space it requiresWhy letting go can feel scary, even when it's the right moveHow the brain resists change because it craves certainty and familiarityWhat might open up when you finally release something you've been carryingUpcoming Ayurveda workshops and retreatsEarly enrollment for the next round of my coaching certification programUpcoming OpportunitiesI'm currently enrolling interest for the next round of my coaching certification program, beginning in 2027. Early enrollment opens in June and includes special bonuses, including six months inside The Pleasure Project Program and a significant discount.This certification brings together the five layers of change: mindset, emotional, somatic, behavioural, and subconscious. It's the program I wish existed when I was training as a coach — and it's the result of 30 years of study, practice, teaching, and coaching. Email me at danaskoglund@gmail.com to get on the interest listI'm also teaching upcoming Ayurveda and neuroplasticity workshops, including one at Pranify Yoga on May 21st and another at the Sun Peaks Summer Solstice Weekend Retreat.Click here to join The Pleasure Project Program

5 Things I Learned From Doing the First 30 Days Alcohol-FreeIn today's episode of the I Quit Wine Podcast, I'm sharing five of the biggest lessons I learned from doing the first 30 days without alcohol — and trust me, I've done those first 30 days more times than I can count.If you've ever found yourself stopping, starting again, promising yourself “this time will be different”, or wondering why moderation still feels exhausting… this episode is for you.Inside the IQW Collective, we've just started a 30-day reset around changing our relationship with alcohol — because the real shift isn't about “resetting your drinking”. It's about changing the relationship itself.In this episode, I talk about:Why your “why” matters more than anything elseThe powerful question to ask yourself about your relationship with alcoholWhy you don't necessarily need to change the ritual — just the ingredientWhat cravings are really trying to tell youThe exhaustion and emotional flatness that can happen in early sobrietyWhy “just one” is usually the first one, not the only oneThe truth about stepping back onto the “downward escalator” of drinkingWhat happened after I drank again, following a full year of being alcohol-freeWhy overthinking drinking keeps so many women stuckHow to start building emotional freedom instead of relying on willpowerThis episode is honest, compassionate, and deeply practical if you're navigating grey area drinking, taking a break from alcohol, or ready to stop the stop/start cycle for good.If you're ready to stop overthinking drinking and start changing your relationship with alcohol in a supportive, compassionate space, I'd love to welcome you inside the IQW Collective.You'll get:My 30-day relationship resetAlcohol Freedom coursesCoaching and support with 2 live calls each monthA private community of women who truly get it (this is a small group & it's fine to be anonymous) Lifetime access to everything. You join once and stay for as long as you would like to.Join the IQW Collective here.And if this episode resonated with you, I'd love for you to share it or send it to someone who might need to hear it today.

If you are a highly sensitive woman or an empath with autoimmune or chronic illness, this episode is going to change how you understand your symptoms.Most women who feel everything deeply have no idea that their body is processing far more than their own emotional experience every single day and that it is costing them physically.In this episode, you'll discover:Why highly sensitive and empathetic women carry a physiological burden most doctors have never consideredHow absorbing other people's emotions without realizing it keeps your body in a state it cannot heal fromOne practical shift that begins to separate what is yours from what you have been carrying for everyone elseThe emotions you have been carrying that were never yours to begin with have been shaping your body's experience for a long time. If you want to know which emotional patterns are connected to your specific symptoms, use my free ChatGPT prompt to find out in under 30 seconds. CLICK HERE.For women navigating Chronic Illness, Autoimmune Disease, IBS, Digestive Disorders, Migraines, Chronic Fatigue, Fibromyalgia, Pain, PCOS, and Endometriosis.

In this episode, Nikki gets personal about her journey with anxiety and OCD — from high school through motherhood, to her 40's. She opens up about the stigma of being a health and mindset coach and a yoga and fitness instructor while also having anxiety and OCD, and why she believes in bio-individuality: there is no one-size-fits-all approach to your health and well-being. Nikki also tackles the resurgence of thinness culture, now rebranded as "wellness," and breaks down the real tools that help her manage stress — movement, breath work, co-regulation, and community. If you've ever felt like you had to earn your rest or push through everything, this episode is for you.Topics covered:Nikki's personal history with anxiety and OCDMedication, talk therapy, and holistic tools — using all of them togetherOver-exercising as a form of OCD and the shift to intuitive movementWhy your nervous system needs a foundation before anything elseThe return of thinness culture and how to protect yourself and your kidsCo-regulation and the power of communityThe difference between discipline and dysregulationAs mentioned in this episode:21 Day Mindset Reset https://stan.store/nikklanigan/p/31day-nervous-system-reset-program

Send us Fan MailDr. Shilpi is an ophthalmologist, solo practice owner of 11 years, real estate investor, author, mom of four, and Wealth Village member. She has hit her financial independence number, endowed a scholarship at her medical school alma mater, built passive income streams that fund her children's Roth IRAs, and designed a practice schedule that works for her family, not the other way around.She came on the MoneyFitMD show and left nothing on the table.In this episode:How she built a solo practice from scratch in 2015 with no fear and one beliefGoing from 8am to 5pm to 9am to 4pm without losing income and the specific system that made it possibleHow she committed $50,000 to an endowed scholarship while still carrying six figures of student debt and funded it over seven years while building everything elseThe strategy she used for real estate, buy one property, learn from it, fix the mistakes, buy the next oneWhy she joined Wealth Village, what kept her there, and what she thinks about physicians having coachesThe most important financial decision she believes anyone makes and it is not about money"I was doing it to heal myself. That was the only reason. I didn't realize the impact it would have."You're making six or even seven figures and still asking, “Where did all my money go?”  The Money Left Over program gives women physicians the tools to uncover 4–5 figures in extra monthly cash and finally let your money start working for you.

What if the reason your investment decisions feel so hard isn't the market -- it's how you're wired to think about outcomes? Annie Duke spent years as a professional poker player winning over $4 million in tournaments, then devoted the next chapter of her career to understanding why smart people consistently make bad decisions. The answer has nothing to do with intelligence and everything to do with how we confuse results with quality. She brings the full framework down to the basement today.What You'll Walk Away WithWhy certainty is the enemy of good decision making -- and the mindset shift that makes uncertainty feel like an advantage instead of a threatThe Pete Carroll problem: how tying the outcome of a decision to the quality of the decision is quietly wrecking how you evaluate your investmentsWhy being smarter actually makes this bias worse -- and how intelligent people spin data to confirm what they already believe more effectively than anyone elseThe difference between wanting to be right and wanting to be accurate -- and why that single distinction changes everything about how you process new informationHow to hold your beliefs as "works in progress" rather than positions to defend -- and why that opens you up to information that actually improves your decisionsWhy the stock market's short-term volatility is almost never the signal investors treat it as -- and what a 40-year Berkshire Hathaway chart actually tells youThe poker table parallel to long-term investing -- and why you can make all the right moves and still lose, which means a bad outcome never proves a bad decisionWhat the Philly Special play reveals about how we reward boldness only when it works -- and what that tells you about how you judge your own financial choicesA listener question on market-cap weighted index funds -- why the s and p is built the way it is and what you'd actually need to do to weight it differentlyThe best personal finance and business books the crew is reading right now -- including picks from OG that go well beyond the usual recommendationsWhy This Matters NowFor Stackers in their 40s watching a volatile market and second-guessing decisions that were perfectly sound six months ago, this episode is a direct intervention. The temptation to call a good decision bad because the market moved against you -- or to abandon a long-term strategy because of a short-term result -- is exactly the bias Annie Duke has spent her career studying. The framework she brings today doesn't just apply to poker. It applies to every financial decision you'll make for the rest of your life.From the BasementAnnie Duke joins Joe and OG to walk through the decision-making framework behind her book Thinking in Bets -- including the Super Bowl story that reframes how most people evaluate every financial move they've ever made. The headline segment tackles parents spending six figures on kids' extracurriculars and what the trade-off actually looks like for retirement savings. Doug arrives with poker-themed trivia about the all-time tournament earnings leader, gets it mostly right, and declares victory anyway. Whether the basement poker tournament ended in anyone's favor is a matter of some dispute.Resources MentionedThinking in Bets by Annie Duke -- available wherever books are soldAnnie Duke's website and weekly newsletter -- annieduke.comAnnie Duke on Twitter -- @AnniedDukeThe Truth About Money by Ric Edelman -- recommended by JoeSet for Life by Scott Trench -- recommended by JoeBroke Millennial by Erin Lowry -- recommended by JoeHow to Be a Financial Grownup by Bobbi Rebell -- recommended by JoeThe Behavior Gap and The One-Page Financial Plan by Carl Richards -- recommended by OGFooling Some of the People All of the Time by David Einhorn -- recommended by OGBuilt to Sell by John Warrillow -- recommended by OGThe E-Myth by Michael Gerber -- recommended by JoeThe Goal by Eliyahu Goldratt -- recommended by JoeStacking Benjamins Community -- stackingbenjamins.com/basementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you ever noticed how polished and proactive your process feels when you're winning a new client… and then how it subtly shifts once the paperwork is signed? In this episode, we're digging into what really happens in that first 100 days after a client says yes, and why it might be the most overlooked and highest-impact part of your entire business. If you've ever felt like your onboarding is “fine” but could be better, this conversation will challenge you to rethink what's possible and show you what happens when you design that experience with intention instead of letting it happen by default.Why the first 100 days is the most friction-filled phase of your client experience and how small inefficiencies here quietly impact everything elseThe four major business effects of a well-designed onboarding process, including increased client longevity, higher lifetime value, more referrals, and a dramatically better client experienceHow a standout early experience creates a unique “novelty window” that drives faster referrals, often before you've even fully delivered your long-term valueThe practical byproducts of improving your onboarding, like faster processing times, getting paid sooner, fewer dropped balls, and a more organized, less reactive businessIf you've been putting off refining your onboarding because nothing feels broken, this is your reminder that “not broken” isn't the same as optimized. When you elevate your first 100 days, everything downstream gets easier, from operations to referrals to client relationships. It's one of the highest-leverage improvements you can make in your practice.Now, can you craft an intro and outro that I can do for this podcast? Keep the tone fun, uplifting, and professional. Highlight what the advisors listening will get out of this episode, but I want to catch their attention in the first two sentences.Check out The First 100 Days Course: The Advisor's Blueprint for a Remarkable Client Experience HERE!Learn more about Asset-Map financial planning software HERE! Learn more about our sponsor Beemo Automation HERE!   Check out the Efficient Advisor YouTube Channel HERE!Connect with Libby on LinkedIn HERE!Successful businesses don't get built alone. You need community! You need collaboration! Join us in The Efficient Advisor Community on Facebook.

In this episode of The Mohua Show podcast, host Mohua Chinappa speaks with Sandip Roy—author of Chapal Rani, the Last Queen of Bengal—about one of the most extraordinary and complex lives in Indian theatre.In this episode, we discuss:The life of Chapal Bhaduri, the last great female impersonator of Bengali jatraIdentity, performance, and what it means to become someone elseThe invisible struggles of artists and the loneliness behind fameDesire, queerness, and why we sanitize uncomfortable truthsThe decline of jatra and the erasure of a powerful artistic traditionWhy storytelling is an act of preservation—and responsibilityWhat this episode is really about:This is not just a conversation about theatre or a book—it's about identity beyond labels, the fragility of artistic relevance, and the quiet fear of being forgotten. A deeply human story about belonging, performance, and the courage to live authentically.If you're interested in Indian storytelling podcast, podcasts for personal growth, diversity and inclusion discussions, creative writing and publishing podcasts, and inspirational audio stories, this episode will stay with you long after it ends..

Send me a message Most agents who say "I don't know what to post" don't actually have a content problem. They have an audience problem.If you can't picture the exact person you're posting for, you'll keep throwing content at the wall hoping something sticks. Nothing will. The algorithm won't help you. Your followers won't engage. And no clients will ever come from it.This episode is a tactical, step-by-step walkthrough on how to identify your ideal audience and then post the right stuff to actually get business from social media in 2026.In this episode:The questions to ask yourself to nail down exactly who you should be posting forWhy most agents pick an audience that's way too broad (and why that kills their content before it ever has a chance)The one-sentence formula that turns a vague idea of your audience into a real person you can create forThe 6 content categories that give you endless ideas once you know who you're talking toHow to figure out which platforms your ideal client actually uses so you stop wasting time posting in the wrong placesWhy mistake-avoidance content outperforms almost everything elseThe mistake I made in my own business that cost me years of growth, and how to skip past itIf your social media isn't getting you clients, this episode is the fix. Take notes, do the work, and watch what happens.Get the Clients From Social Mini Course: (50% off): http://www.massiveagentsociety.com/course Use Promo code: PODCAST50***********************RESOURCES :Free "Clients From Social" Masterclass - Learn the new formula top agents are using on social media to attract 5+ new closings, month after month. REGISTER HERE: https://members.massiveagentsociety.com/free-masterclass-registration?utm_source=podcast_notesMassive Agent Society on Skool - My coaching community giving Realtors the exact blueprint (and handholding) to attract 5+ new clients, every single month. CLICK HERE: https://www.skool.com/massiveagentsocietyManychat PRO - Automate your Instagram DM's and Get 30 days of Manychat Pro for FREE - CLICK HERE REAL Broker - Learn how we can be business partners and build a business together @ ΓEA⅃  Broker- CLICK HEREPLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW on APPLE PODCASTS or SPOTIFY

Most powersports dealers have some form of reinsurance in place. Most of them have no idea what is actually in it.Gene Silas has been in the industry for over 30 years. Jeff Barron has been at it for 26. Together they run Brightline Dealer Advisors, one of the largest broker firms in the United States and they spend their days helping dealers understand what they actually own in their F&I back end and how much of it is quietly walking out the door in fees they have never seen.They recently did a webinar with the NPDA that generated a ton of questions. So I brought them on here to go even deeper for our audience.What we cover:Why most dealers look at only one number on their reinsurance statement and miss everything elseThe walkaway, retro, CFC, and DOWC structures explained in plain English — and how to know which one fits youProducts that can go into reinsurance: service contracts, tire and wheel, paint and fabric, GAP, and ancillariesWhy GAP should usually be kept separate from your service contract reinsurance positionThe hidden fee problem: ceding fees, loss adjustment expense, and premium tax that come off the dealer's bottom line before they ever see the moneyThe side-by-side comparison that could be costing dealers $50,000 to $60,000 a year depending on volumeWhy all fees should be visible in the admin fee and what "below the line fees" actually meansThe A account vs the B account in plain English — and why moving money to the B account as fast as possible mattersHow dealers can borrow against their own B account money and pay the interest back to themselves instead of a bankCapital gains vs ordinary income: the tax difference that can mean 18 to 20 points on millions of dollarsThe risk triangle: why reinsurance is not a set it and forget it situationEarly claims and multiple cause of loss: what it looks like when a service contract is being used as a recon toolThe disappearing deductible strategy that keeps customers coming back to your service bay and protects your bookWhy you need claim override controls and exactly who should have themThe nine questions every dealer should be asking their current reinsurance providerGene's AI tip: how to use ChatGPT or Claude to find every fee buried in your dealer agreement in minutesWhat a real advisory partner looks like vs someone just managing their own book through youGene's FTC prediction: powersports dealers have 12 months or less before enforcement starts — and what to do about it nowThe $54,000 per violation reality and why 97 automotive dealers have already faced itWatch on YouTube: ⁠https://youtube.com/@dealershipfixit?si=xGw636a89UUDAK20⁠Connect with Gene Silas (Brightline): ⁠gsilas@brightlinedealer.com⁠Connect with Jeff Barron (Brightline): ⁠jbarron@brightlinedealer.com⁠Connect with Jacob: ⁠https://linkedin.com/in/jacob-b-berry⁠Follow the Fixit Online: ⁠https://linktr.ee/dealershipfixit⁠MotoHunt for Dealers: ⁠https://dealers.motohunt.com⁠

Who feels hardest for you to love right now?In this powerful re-aired episode (March 2025), Willow sits down with Jessica Bond, artist, speaker, and creator of the viral foot washing series, to explore what it really looks like to love like Jesus in a divided world.Jessica shares how a single image -Jesus washing the feet of a bride - unexpectedly sparked a global movement of artwork depicting Jesus serving people from every background, belief system, and lifestyle. What started as one moment of obedience quickly became a powerful invitation for all of us: Who do we believe belongs at Jesus' feet?Together, this conversation dives into the tension we all feel to love people who think differently, live differently, or have even hurt us and how Jesus calls us into something deeper.If you've ever struggled with judgment, felt unworthy of God's love, or wrestled with how to show grace in a polarized world, this episode will meet you right there.In This Episode, You'll Discover:Why our identity as “beloved” changes how we see everyone elseThe deeper meaning behind Jesus washing feet—and why it still matters todayHow division, offense, and pain reveal what's really happening in our heartsWhy the answer—for everyone—is still an encounter with JesusWhat to do when you feel unworthy, stuck in shame, or far from GodHow to begin loving people you don't understand (or don't want to)Collide Conference for WomenFollow Willow: Website | Instagram | Facebook

You would never stand up a client. You would never miss a court date. You would never tell the people in your life you were going to show up and then just… not.But you do it to yourself all the time. And you've probably stopped noticing.In this episode, we're going deep on one of the most overlooked skills of personal leadership: keeping promises to yourself. Because self-trust isn't a personality trait — it's a practice. And every time you break your own word, your nervous system is keeping score.We'll cover:What a broken promise to yourself actually looks like in a high-achieving woman's dayWhy we break promises to ourselves more easily than to anyone elseThe real cost of self-abandonment — and why it compoundsFive practices for rebuilding self-trust, starting this weekIf last week's episode on becoming the version of you your next level requires resonated, this is the next step. Because you cannot become that person without first learning to keep your word.Tag me on Instagram and tell me the one promise you're keeping this week. I want to hear it.Check out all of the health and wellness products and workouts that help me stay on track here:https://linktr.ee/lauracatina

If you've been feeling more like roommates than lovers lately — this one's for you. Not the you that has it all together, but the you that misses the spark and isn't quite sure where it went.The truth is: you didn't lose the spark. You lost the conditions that create it. And in this episode, we're talking about exactly how to rebuild those conditions — with real, specific shifts you can start making this week.In this episode you'll hear:What the "routine rut" actually looks like (and why it's so easy to slip into)Why passion disappears when you're both running on emptyThe role of polarity in long-term desire — and how to bring it backSix pattern interruptions to start reigniting the spark this weekWhy criticism kills eroticism faster than almost anything elseThe 30-day makeout challenge (yes, really — and why it works)How coming back into your feminine energy changes everythingThe difference between emotional connection and physical desire — and why one leads to the otherHow to work with me deeper:Click here to join my signature program LOVERFor Couples Coaching DM me "Couples Coaching" on Instagram to apply here Suggested podcast episodes:030: The Couple Bubble 096: Reigniting Desire & Passion in Long-Term RelationshipsConnect with me:Instagram - @IAmMelissaPetersPinterest - @IAmMelissaPetersWebsite - IAmMelissaPeters.comAmazon Storefront - Melissa PetersIf any part of this episode hit home — you don't have to figure this out alone.My program LOVER is for the woman who's ready to come back home to her feminine energy, reclaim her desire, and become his lover again — not his roommate, not his manager. Click here to join LOVER now.And if you and your partner are both ready to do the deeper work together, my couples coaching is where we recalibrate everything. DM me "Couples Coaching" on Instagram to apply here.Send this episode to someone who needs to hear it. And if it moved you, leaving a review means the world — it helps more women find this show.

Send us Fan MailThere's this part of reinvention that no one really tells you about OR prepares you for.It's not the breakdown itself that led to the reinvention…. Or even the rebuild that follows.It's what happens after…When your life still looks the same on the outside. But inside, something has shifted so deeply, you can't unfeel it.You know the vibe right? You're sitting in a conversation you used to enjoy… Same people. Same jokes. Same topics.But now?It feels flat AF and SO forced. Almost like you're watching yourself from the outside thinking, “Why does this feel so… small now?”In this episode, I'm talking about the part of reinvention that makes high-performing, self-aware women question themselves:“Is it me? Am I becoming too much?”Because when you start evolving your identity, your standards shift.And suddenly:The chaos you used to tolerate feels exhaustingThe conversations you used to laugh at feel drainingThe roles you used to play feel… tightAnd it feels so weird. But it's purely because you've changed.In the episode, I break down:Why reinvention doesn't just change you; it changes how you fit everywhere elseThe real reason people struggle with your growth (and it's not what you think)The identity “thermostat” effect (or what I call the Queen-o-stat) and how it silently governs your standardsWhy your nervous system starts rejecting things you used to tolerateAnd how to recognise when you're not “too much”… you're just in the wrong environmentThis is the episode for the woman who looks like she's got her life together… But feels like she doesn't quite belong in it anymore.The one who's done the work… But now feels disconnected, unsettled, and quietly wondering what the next era actually looks like.Because this isn't you failing at reinvention.This is you outgrowing the version of life that was built for who you used to be.And that?That's where everything changes Queen

Have you ever had a video get views… but nothing actually came from it?No leads.No engagement.No real traction.And you're left wondering—is this even working?Because here's the truth:Views can be one of the most misleading metrics on YouTube.In this episode of Rocky Mountain Marketing, I'm breaking down how to actually read your YouTube analytics—so you can stop guessing and start making strategic decisions that grow your business.Because YouTube gives you a lot of data. Views. Impressions. Click-through rate. Retention. And most business owners either:→ Ignore it completely→ Or obsess over the wrong numbersSo let's simplify it.You don't need to track everything.You just need to understand what matters and what it's telling you.In this episode, I walk through:Why views don't reflect true performanceHow audience retention reveals what's actually workingWhy your first 30 seconds matter more than anything elseThe role of titles and thumbnails in driving clicksHow to use impressions to diagnose your growthBecause if your content isn't holding attention…it's not building trust.And if it's not building trust…it's not driving business.Key TakeawaysViews alone don't measure content effectivenessAudience retention is the strongest performance signalThe first 30 seconds determine viewer behaviorClick-through rate reflects packaging—not depthImpressions indicate distribution potentialTimestamps:[00:00:00] – Why Views Alone Don't Grow Your Business[00:01:00] – The Biggest YouTube Analytics Mistake[00:02:00] – Why Views Are a Misleading Metric[00:02:45] – What Actually Matters: Watch Time & Retention[00:03:30] – How to Use Audience Retention to Improve Content[00:04:00] – Fix This First: Your First 30 Seconds Matter Most[00:04:30] – Click-Through Rate: Are People Even Clicking?[00:05:00] – Thumbnail & Title Strategy That Drives Growth[00:05:30] – Impressions: Why You Might Not Be Getting Seen[00:06:00] – How to Diagnose Your YouTube Performance Fast[00:06:15] – Stop Chasing Views—Start Building Trust[00:06:30] – The Only 3 Metrics You Need to Track[00:07:00] – Turn Analytics Into Real Business GrowthIf you've been focused on views… this is your moment to shift.Go into your analyticsFind where people drop offAnd fix your first 30 secondsBecause that's where your growth actually starts.And if you want your content to do more than just get watched—if you want it to build trust, generate leads, and grow your business—You don't need more content.You need better insight.Learn more about Katie and Next Step Social & Podcasting:Speaking: https://katiebrinkley.com/Website: https://www.nextstepsocial.com/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katiebrinkleyYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/@rockymountainmarketingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamkatiebrinkley/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you're constantly overthinking your content, trying to come up with something “valuable” or “original,” this episode is going to shift the way you approach it completely.Kendra shares why the most effective content doesn't come from big breakthroughs or perfectly packaged ideas. It comes from small, everyday moments that feel human and relatable. The kind of stories most people dismiss as too boring to share.She breaks down how to capture those moments, turn them into meaningful content, and use them to build real connection with your audience. Because the goal isn't to impress people. It's to make them feel something.In This Episode:Why “value-packed” content isn't working anymore (and what replaced it)The content shift that instantly makes you stand out onlineHow to create content people actually feel connected toUsing AI without sounding like everyone elseThe simple “story bank” that makes content creation effortlessWhy these emails get the most replies, clicks, and engagementTurning random life moments into content that actually teachesWATCH ON YOUTUBEResources mentioned:The Story Imprint Formula Guide: https://go.kendraperry.net/story-imprint-formulaApply for HCA: https://kendraperry.net/apply  Leave the podcast a 5-star review: https://ratethispodcast.com/wealthy

What does it really take to break into comics, animation, and film—and stay there?In this episode of Tell The Damn Story, Alex and sit down with screenwriter Brandon Easton to talk about the grind behind his career—and the truth most people don't hear.From hustling at conventions in the '90s…to navigating industry politics…to becoming the head writer on Iyanu…Brandon shares the real path: the setbacks, the breakthroughs, and the decisions that change everything.This isn't theory. This is lived experience.You'll hear:What the “grind” actually looks like (then vs now)The role of networking, reputation, and showing upThe hidden politics of comics, TV, and filmWhy finishing your work matters more than anything elseThe mindset shift that separates dreamers from working writersAnd one of the most important truths you'll hear all year:

Thinking about starting your own construction company? In this episode of the Build America Podcast, Scott Jennings breaks down exactly what it takes to build a professional, sustainable construction business—from the ground up.Drawing on real-world experience, Scott walks through the critical first steps: choosing the right niche, securing paying clients, setting up your legal and financial structure, and building the credibility needed to win work. He also dives into the realities of entrepreneurship in construction—cash flow, risk, competition, and the mindset required to succeed.Whether you're transitioning from employee to owner or looking to grow your existing operation, this episode delivers practical, no-BS insights you can apply immediately.In this episode, you'll learn:How to choose the right construction nicheWhy securing clients is more important than anything elseThe role of attorneys, CPAs, and proper business setupHow to manage cash flow, insurance, and bondingWhat it really takes to operate and grow a construction companyStarting a construction business isn't easy—but with the right foundation, strategy, and persistence, it's absolutely achievable.

What happens when seeing your ex derails all your progress? And why do your friends think he's such a great guy when you know the truth?

In a season where everything feels important, how do you decide what actually matters?In this episode of Homeschool Better Together, host Laney Homan sits down with Kayse Pratt, creator of Anchored Women, to talk about the power of monthly planning.If you've ever felt like you're constantly reacting to life instead of living it with intention, this conversation will help you slow down, refocus, and create a rhythm that actually serves your family—and your faith.Together, Laney and Kayse explore how stepping back once a month can reduce overwhelm, clarify priorities, and help you embrace your God-given limits instead of fighting them.What You'll LearnWhy monthly planning is more effective than just daily or weekly planningHow to reduce your mental load by seeing the bigger pictureSimple reflection questions to help you evaluate your current seasonWhy you can't do it all—and why that's actually a good thingHow to choose a focused priority without neglecting everything elseThe connection between planning, stewardship, and faithA healthier mindset that prevents planning from becoming another source of guiltResources MentionedAnchored Women (planning resources + community)The Steadfast Over Scattered PlannerFree resource: Name Your Season Guide Your Next StepsFeeling inspired? Here are a few simple ways to take action:Set aside 15–60 minutes this week for a monthly planning sessionAsk yourself:What was last month like?What do I (and my family) need right now?Choose:1 habit goal1 project goalPray over your month and ask for clarity in your focusGive yourself permission to let go of what doesn't fit this season

Is $100k enough to retire? What about $250k, $500k… or even $1 million?In this episode, Ed and Andrew run the numbers on what different retirement balances actually buy you – assuming a mortgage-free couple both receiving NZ Super.You'll learn:What lifestyle $100k, $250k, $500k and $1M can realistically fund in retirementThe three spending stages of retirementThe single factor that changes the maths more than anything elseThe biggest variable isn't your KiwiSaver balance, it's whether you own your home outright. That one factor can make or break your retirement maths.Don't forget to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠create your free Opes+ account and Wealth Plan here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.For more from Opes Partners:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Sign up for the weekly Private Property newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠

Send us Fan MailMost people think relapse starts with drugs.It doesn't. It starts with a lie.In this episode, I break down 4 of the most common lies the addicted mind tells in recovery—the same lies that quietly pull people away from the very things that are helping them heal.These aren't obvious.They sound reasonable.They feel true.But if you don't learn how to recognize them, they will slowly take you out.I talk about:The deep-rooted belief that you're not enough—and how it started long before addictionWhy your mind tries to convince you that you're different from everyone elseThe trap of thinking it's time to “do something different” and leaving what actually worksHow staying “busy” can slowly disconnect you from your recovery without you even noticing.This episode is about awareness. Because once you can see the lie, it starts to lose its power.And in the next episode, we'll get into how to act against these lies so your mind stops running the show.If you've ever felt like your own thinking is working against you… this one is for you.Support the show

Life is hard.Building a business is hard.Sales is hard.Fighting cancer is hard.But the people who stay committed — win.In this episode of the Loveall Sales Podcast, I open up about what it really takes to build something meaningful. From fighting cancer for the second time… to staying in the office until 11PM trying to fix camera settings and marketing systems… to dealing with setbacks, negative feedback, and moments where quitting feels easier — this episode is raw and real.Most people don't fail because they lack talent.They fail because they lack commitment.I break down:Why 90% of people never reach 20, 30, 40+ cars per monthThe real reason businesses never scaleHow commitment beats motivation every timeThe daily habits that separate the elite 1% from everyone elseThe exact “Loveall Daily Standard” I believe guarantees successWhy investing in yourself is non-negotiableAnd the power of staying uncomfortable long enough to growI also share stories from:Running a dealership from 60 cars to 100+ in 30 daysA former student who went from $15/hour to top 3 in his storeWhy discipline fades — but commitment builds championsIf you're a salesperson stuck at average…If you're a manager who wants more for your team…If you're building something and it feels harder than you expected…This episode is for you.Because here's the truth:Motivation fades.Discipline fluctuates.But commitment creates habits — and habits create winners.Life will test you.Sales will test you.Business will test you.The only question is… are you committed?If you are — I'll go all in with you.Believe in yourself. Because I do.

Dating today feels exhausting. Confusing. And for people from divorced or dysfunctional families, it can feel even heavier — because one wrong choice doesn't just mean heartbreak… it can feel like repeating your parents' story.In this episode, Joey sits down with Emily Wilson, Catholic author and co-founder of Sacred Spark, to talk about the most important factor in building a healthy marriage: choosing the right person — and why modern dating culture makes that decision harder than ever.Emily shares what she's learned from helping nearly 20 couples get married through her viral matchmaking posts, why you can't “analyze” your way into certainty, and how real discernment only happens when you actually meet people in real life.In this episode, we cover:Why choosing who you marry matters more than anything elseThe fear of repeating your parents' mistakes (and how to move past it)How real discernment happens through in-person datingA NEW way to meet high quality, virtuous peopleIf you're single, want marriage, but feel anxious, stuck, or afraid of choosing wrong — this episode is for you.Download Sacred SparkFREE Video Series: Dating 101Visit SacredSpark.appGet the Book or FREE chapters: It's Not Your FaultGet Dakota's FREE Guide, The Biggest Fitness Mistakes to AvoidWatch the Documentary: KennyWatch the Trailer: Kenny (3:31 min)Shownotes

This week, Molly breaks down Peter Attia's public response after his name appears more than 1,700 times in recently released Epstein-related documents. The documents include emails and calendar references tying Attia to Jeffrey Epstein over multiple years. While the files do not allege Attia participated in Epstein's criminal sexual conduct, the relationship and tone of the correspondence raise serious questions about judgment, proximity to power, and credibility.Attia, a high-profile longevity figure with a paid membership and major online influence, posted a statement on X that he says was originally written to his staff and shared with patients. Molly walks through the statement nearly line by line to show why a response that leans on legal framing and denial language can fail to meet the public's real concern, which is moral discernment and ethical boundaries.In this episodeWho Peter Attia is and why his credibility is core to his brandWhat it means to be referenced 1,700 times in the Epstein filesThe reputational problem of sustained contact after Epstein's 2008 convictionWhy using one internal letter for public consumption can backfireThe danger of treating a values crisis like a facts-only crisisHow denials and courtroom-style phrasing can read as calculatedWhy intent and explanation rarely repair trust on their ownThe spillover effect occurs when the public starts scrutinizing everything elseThe bottom line lesson for anyone building a reputation onlineWant More Behind the Breakdown? Follow The PR Breakdown with Molly McPherson on Substack for early access to podcast episodes, private member chats, weekly live sessions, and monthly workshops that go deeper than the mic. It is the inside hub for communicators who want real strategy, clear judgment, and a little side-eye where it counts.Follow Molly on Substack Subscribe to Molly's Weekly Newsletter Subscribe to Molly's Live Events Calendar. Need a Keynote Speaker? Drawing from real-world PR battles, Molly delivers the same engaging stories and hard-won crisis insights from the podcast to your live audience. Click here to book Molly for your next meeting. Follow & Connect with Molly: https://www.youtube.com/mollymcpherson https://mollymcpherson.substack.com/ https://www.tiktok.com/@mollybmcpherson https://www.instagram.com/molly.mcpherson/ ...

Send us a textWhat does it mean to keep making, caring and staying human when everything feels like it's falling apart?In this final episode of the Girls Twiddling Knobs podcast, Isobel Anderson speaks directly and unfiltered to you, the listeners, with honesty, clarity and care.This is not a neat goodbye or a highlight reel. It is a reckoning. A permission slip. And a series of parting truths offered to women in music, male allies, music organisations and colleagues in higher education.Isobel reflects on the wider context we are living in: dark times, eroding systems, the devaluing of art and the quiet shame so many creatives carry around money, security and survival. She argues for doing less but doing it with integrity. For making more than we consume. For listening more than we shout. And for staying close to creativity not because it will save the world, but because it keeps us human.You'll hear candid advice about:The real trade-offs between making art and making a livingWhy streaming is a dead end for most musiciansWhen to treat music like a business and when not toInvesting in skills, backing yourself and stopping the wait for permissionLetting other people own their shitWhy organisations must take digital communication seriously if they want real impactThe role men must play as active, imperfect alliesThe heartbreak and hope of higher education, and when it might be time to build something elseThe episode closes with gratitude, acknowledgements and a reflection on legacy. Girls Twiddling Knobs may be ending, but listening, making, creating and caring do not.Stay bold. Stay unapologetic. Don't wait for permission. Stay human.---------------------------------------------------Girls Twiddling Knobs has ended, but you can stay connected to Isobel's artistic work here. Girls Twiddling Knobs was hosted by Isobel Anderson and produced by Isobel Anderson and Jade Bailey from Nov 2020-Jan 2026 and will remain live on all major podcast platforms throughout 2026. We are grateful to the British Library who have archived the podcast in their Sound and Vision Collection. Learn more about the Girls Twiddling Knobs legacy here.Watch this episode on YouTubeExplore more episodes here.Listen on Spotify.

What does it really mean to be an integrated man? And why does this question matter for founders and high performing men today?In this episode, Bjoern and I explore a subject many men are quietly wrestling with, often without fully realizing it:We look at how most men received very little guidance in their transition into manhood. Very few of us had meaningful experiences that clarified what being a man means to us personally, the values we choose, the virtues we stand for, and the standards we hold ourselves to.At the same time, most men have absorbed direct and indirect messages about what is acceptable for a man to feel, show, or express.Some men grew up with overpowering masculine influences or dominant father figures and, in response, learned to reject parts of themselves. They disconnected from instinctual qualities like assertiveness, direction, boldness, and desire.Others adapted in the opposite direction. They learned early in life that vulnerability, gentleness, or softness were unsafe, so they built a persona rooted in control, performance, and emotional armoring. This left them disconnected from inner qualities like openness, receptivity, and emotional connection.And so, without a clear framework, many men default to performing masculinity rather than actually embodying what is true and real for them.In this episode, discover:Why so many men feel confused and struggle to truly know themselves as menHow the loss of guidance, ritual, and initiation has shaped modern masculinityHow fast paced cultural shifts contribute to men performing masculinity rather than embodying itThe two extremes many men fall into, the Nice Guy and the Disconnected LeaderHow these patterns affect leadership, relationships, and sense of worthWhat the path of integration actually looks like in real life, using our own personal journeys as referenceHow to reclaim the parts of yourself you abandoned rather than becoming someone elseThe importance of building strong, supportive male relationshipsThis conversation is for any man who wants to walk the path of integration, to lead with strength while keeping his heart open. It is for the man who is done performing or hiding and is ready to step into who he truly is. And for the man who senses there is a more truthful way to live and lead, one that honors his unique nature in his work, in his relationships, and in the way he moves through the world.—Connect with Alex Lehmann:

Send us a textWhat does it actually take to succeed in consulting — beyond frameworks and technical skills?In this episode of Consulting Unpacked, Jenny Rae Le Roux breaks down the five core skills consultants rely on every day — the same ones firms test for in case interviews and reward once you're on the job.You'll learn:Why structured thinking isn't just about frameworksHow prioritization and communication separate top performers from everyone elseThe mindset that helps great consultants growIf you're preparing for interviews, already in consulting, or deciding whether this career path makes sense for you, this episode gives you a clear lens on what really matters.Additional Resources:Create a free profile + access the Job Board (1K+ jobs)Take the Consulting Fit Quiz (free self-assessment)Get full prep support with Black BeltPartner Links:Learn more about NordStellar's Threat Exposure Management Program; unlock 10% off with code SIMPLIFIED-10Connect With Management Consulted Schedule free 15min consultation with the MC Team. Watch the video version of the podcast on YouTube! Follow us on LinkedIn, Instagram, and TikTok for the latest updates and industry insights! Join an upcoming live event - case interviews demos, expert panels, and more. Email us (team@managementconsulted.com) with questions or feedback.

Send me a message The Naughty & Nice List of Real Estate in 2025... aka The massive Agent Christmas Special

RATED Y SPECIALThis is a sample of the monthly LIVE get together for SUBSCRIBERS ONLY which is a new element of the RATED Y project from Ochelli and The GreekUnique is one word that might apply to this but a full description has yet to reveal itself.Most of this information and observation collection exist nowhere elseThe clip is just a small glimpse at this unique ongoing project that has rare information shared via a completely interactive community on Patreon@https://www.patreon.com/c/OGRatedYElements are being created by and for Subscribers and there are over 250 Sonic Events in audio form taking listeners through an organically generated Collection of resourses that begin with the Ochelli and The Greek Podcasts which started over a decade ago and now culminate in The Rated Y Project which is beyond content of any sort that preceeded it and defy dewscription as it evolves in Real Time for the select few who engague in the indescribable entity that is and will be created by those who particpatehttps://www.patreon.com/c/OGRatedYOchelli is just a small part of this, and this is apart from Ochelli Dot Com Radio2026 may see new projects or the end of Chuck's experiment as a public voiceDownload and preserve whatever you find worthyhttps://www.patreon.com/c/OGRatedYBE THE EFFECTListen/Chat on the Sitehttps://ochelli.com/listen-live/TuneInhttp://tun.in/sfxkxAPPLEhttps://music.apple.com/us/station/ochelli-com/ra.1461174708Ochelli Link Treehttps://linktr.ee/chuckochelliAnything is a blessing if you have the meansWithout YOUR support we go silent

In this episode of Girl Stop Playin, I'm sharing a real-time lesson motherhood handed me — straight through my oldest son.What started as frustration with my child's lack of gratitude turned into a deep moment of self-reflection and spiritual conviction. As parents, our kids have a way of holding up a mirror we didn't ask for but desperately need.We talk about:Why motherhood will humble you quicker than anything elseThe connection between our children's behavior and our own patternsHow quickly we move from one goal to the next without appreciating the lastWhy gratitude is a prerequisite for abundanceLearning to sit in success instead of rushing to the next manifestationDoing better today than we did yesterday — as parents and as peopleThis episode is a reminder to slow down, check your gratitude, and really honor the things you once prayed for. Because growth doesn't just come from asking for more, it comes from appreciating what you already have.If you've been feeling restless, unsatisfied, or like nothing is ever enough, this conversation is for you.

Playing Bigger isn't about blowing up your life.It's not about hustling harder.And it's definitely not about 10X-ing everything overnight.In this very first episode of The Play Bigger Podcast, I'm having an honest conversation about something most high achievers don't want to admit: the quiet, hidden cost of playing small.On the outside, it can look like success. You have clients. You're busy. The calendar is full. Money is coming in. But on the inside… you know you're operating beneath your true capacity.In this episode, I break down the real price you pay when you delay tough decisions, stay the bottleneck, avoid visibility, or keep telling yourself, “I'll build it later.” I also share exactly how this showed up in my own journey—even at high levels of success.This isn't about motivation.This is about standards. And the question is simple: Are you willing to raise yours?If you've been feeling a quiet tension between where you are and where you know you're capable of going—this episode will hit different.Things I Cover in This EpisodeWhat playing small actually looks like for high performersThe 5 real costs of playing small:Financial costTime costEmotional costIdentity costLegacy costWhy exhaustion and playing small can exist at the same timeThe difference between operator thinking vs. CEO thinkingHow high achievers get stuck longer than anyone elseThe danger of “successful dysfunction”My personal seasons of playing small (even while producing big)The fear behind staying private, avoiding visibility, and delaying leverageA powerful self-audit to reveal where you're cappedWhat playing bigger truly means (without chaos or burnout)The one decision that can shift your entire next chapterIf this episode challenged you in the best way, here's your move:Pick one area where you've been playing small.Make one bold decision this week that moves you into alignment.If you're ready to scale with structure, clarity, and strategy, explore what we're building at letsplaybigger.comAnd if this episode hit home, share it with someone who needs the push.---Thank you for joining me on this episode of Play Bigger with Raquel Quinet, and remember, keep pushing your limits to achieve your goals.For updates and collaborations or opportunities, go to www.LetsPlayBigger.comFind more resources on our websitehttps://raquelq.com/podcast/Follow Raquel on Raquel Quinet's socials:Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInCheck Out Our2025 Play Bigger EventsApply to be in our Play Bigger MastermindGrow Your Real Estate Business with Real BrokerageJoin our Facebook Play Bigger Community

Send us a textThis episode dives into the messy, magical work of being a therapist. We unpack what happens when clients come in with chaos—blame throwers in hand—and how playfulness, props, and presence can shift the energy in the room. From adolescent therapy and couples work to private pay dilemmas and therapist boundaries, we explore the art of staying human while holding space.Topics include:The “blame thrower” metaphor and how to manage chaotic energyUsing props and playfulness to disarm resistance and build trustWorking with teens: safety, attunement, and how to not take the baitCouples therapy, contempt, and staying grounded in the stormTherapist self-awareness: when over-identifying does more harm than goodNavigating private pay vs. insurance expectationsWhat happens when clients want therapy to “fix” someone elseThe loneliness of solo practice and the beauty of professional communityEnergetic integrity: how we show up when the room feels off Support the showHave any questions or insights about this episode? Reach out to us at contactus@tellmeaboutyourmother.run

In This Deep Dive Episode:We're tackling the hardest and most expensive problem in chiropractic growth: getting from “great idea” to “real implementation.”Drawing from a powerful masterclass by Dr. Noel Lloyd and insights from clinics just like yours, we cover:

In this episode, I sat down with @Sharon Toerek from Innovative Agency to talk about the real shifts happening in agency business development — and the constant evolution that comes with them. We unpacked why 2025 is the year agencies need to get honest about their positioning, how trust — not information — has become the key currency, and why specialization isn't just smart, it's essential for survival.⏱️ Timestamps0:00 – Welcome and introduction: why the agency landscape feels confusing in 2025 2:10 – The “trust recession” and why agencies are more anxious than ever 5:00 – Why information is cheap but credibility is expensive 6:30 – Specialization as a core sales lever (not just a niche tactic) 9:45 – The fear that keeps most agencies from focusing 12:00 – What ruins deals when you're not specialized 13:30 – Why the “show, don't tell” principle beats overblown ROI claims 15:00 – Thought leadership as a frictionless entry point 17:30 – How to build thought leadership around your ICP (not your ego) 19:00 – Should the founder always be the face of the content? 21:30 – Balancing new client acquisition with organic growth 23:00 – Dan's “Trust Matrix” for prioritizing outbound calls 24:30 – Systematizing referrals (without being weird about it) 26:00 – The three “food groups” of agency sales 28:00 – Why most agencies over-engineer outbound and underdeliver 29:30 – What's surprised Dan about agency sales in recent years 31:00 – What smart agency owners are doing differently 32:00 – Where AI helps — and where it's just shiny object syndrome 34:00 – Why more agencies will start to look like consultancies soon 35:00 – Where to go to learn more about Dan's model

She gives you feedback. Your wife makes a simple request. Maybe she expresses disappointment. And before she even finishes her sentence, you're already building your defense case like a trial lawyer. Sound familiar?In this raw and revealing episode, Chuck, Ari, and Faisal dive deep into one of the most relationship-damaging patterns Nice Guys fall into: chronic defensiveness. We explore:Why your nervous system goes into overdrive the moment you hear criticismThe difference between legitimate complaints and character attacks — and why we hear them wrongHow defensiveness kills connection, intimacy, and attraction faster than almost anything elseThe childhood wounds that turn grown men into automatic defendersWhy your need to be "right" is sabotaging your relationshipsPractical embodiment techniques to regulate your nervous system in the momentThe skill of curiosity over defensiveness — and how it changes everythingWhen defensiveness becomes maladaptive and starts destroying your love lifeChuck shares a real-time example of catching his own defensiveness in action. Faisal reveals how he transformed a potentially relationship-damaging text exchange using these principles. And Ari breaks down the mature masculine response that creates connection instead of conflict.Whether you're constantly explaining yourself, find yourself in endless arguments, or feel like nothing you do is ever good enough — this episode will help you break the cycle. It's time to stop defending and start connecting.Subscribe to the Nice Guy Show newsletter to get tips and insights on how to lead a high-value lifehttps://niceguyshow.com/Connect with Faisal Khokhar:https://masculine.co/https://instagram.com/coachfaisalkhttps://youtube.com/@coachfaisalkConnect with Chuck Chapman: https://chuckchapman.com/https://instagram.com/chuckchapman.ma/htttps://youtube.com/@chuckchapmanConnect with Dr. Ari Graff:https://drarigraff.com/https://draribgraff.com/register [divorce recovery program]https://youtube.com/@AriGraff

Episode OverviewIn this deeply intimate episode recorded live from Colorado, Lori takes you into her most vulnerable revelation yet. Fresh from the Living Brave Live event, she shares the breakthrough that's been years in the making and why she's finally ready to stop protecting you from the depth of her comeback story.Why Lori shut down the pleasure portal in her life and how it's been sabotaging everything elseThe sneaky way we abandon intimacy and why it requires the same intention as building wealthHow isolation became her default and why the New Earth way demands something radically differentThe hospital room moment that changed everythingThe day she decided to save herself on a porch swing with a cigaretteWhy she convinced herself this story needed a trigger warning (and how that kept her small)How Living Brave Live cracked her open in ways she never expectedThe addiction to oxytocin that began as an abandoned babyWhy she's been glossing over the very story that contains her soul medicineMoving beyond the 3D reality into 5D multi-dimensional livingWhy we're no longer available for unconscious, regurgitated patternsHow 2025 is demanding we show up completely different"We've shifted our default. We're no longer available for the unconscious, regurgitated bullshit, not in our relationships, not in our jobs, and not in ourselves.""Everything in our life comes from intention, cultivation and care. Everything. Not just our personal relationships, but the relationship with money, with pleasure, with abundance, with wealth, with time, with energy.""My experience shouldn't need a trigger warning. That completely negates the medicine that helps us heal from it, which is joining together in our stories.""I now believe I'm here to show you how to come back to a life of power and pleasure, to a life that celebrates the depth of every story."Episode Highlights[2:30] The Living Brave Live revelation that changed everything[8:45] Why she shut down the pleasure portal and how it affected her entire business[15:20] The oxytocin addiction that started as an abandoned baby[23:30] The hospital room moment she's never fully shared[27:00] The porch swing decision that saved her life[31:00] Why this Eclipse season is breaking open every wall we've built

Can you really build a thriving online coaching business and be the mom you want to be?Absolutely — but not by chasing perfection or burning yourself out trying to do it all. In this episode, I share my five-step framework to help trainers like you create a scalable online business while staying present for your family.Inside this episode:Why “balance” isn't about perfection, but structure, boundaries, and prioritiesHow one coach in my Strong Formula program went from burnout to freedom by setting better client systemsThe exact five-step playbook I use to grow my business and keep my family first:Treat your business like workouts — scheduled, non-negotiable, and aligned with your well-beingBuild around your family's rhythm, not against itGet comfortable with imperfect progress and “correct + continue”Outsource and delegate — at home and in businessFill your own cup first so you can show up strong everywhere elseThe daily practices I use to keep my energy high as a coach, mom, and leaderHow to set yourself up for long-term success during the “building season” of businessWhether you're juggling nap times, school drop-offs, or client check-ins, this episode will give you the clarity, structure, and permission you need to grow a business that truly serves your life.Because the truth is this: you don't have to drop the mom ball to win the business game.Learn more about the Strong Formula Certification and how we help trainers transition online with simple systems, authentic community, and coaching that transforms clients - APPLY HERE https://coachjvb.com/programs/strong-formula-questionnaire/ Whenever you're ready, here are two ways to help you get a stronger body, faster results, and a responsive metabolism:Join our private BODY TRANSFORMATION group and connect with women levelling up their goals: It's our Facebook community where ambitious women learn to get leaner, get faster results, and achieve more energy – CLICK HERE https://www.facebook.com/groups/teamstronggirlsWork directly with me and my team privately: If you'd like to work with me and my team to lose fat and build more lean muscle…fill out my questionnaire and tell me about your goals…I'll get right back to you CLICK HERE https://y6bawlb79dm.typeform.com/to/EIHKhwmTUse discount code STRONGGIRLS3 and subscribe to Strong Fitness Magazine today! https://simplecirc.com/subscribe/strong-fitness-magazineResources:Apply for the STRONG FORMULA Program: https://coachjvb.com/programs/strong-formula-questionnaire/Coach JVB Website https://coachjvb.com/Team Strong Girls Website https://www.teamstronggirls.com/Follow Jenny on social media:Instagram @coach_jvbFacebook @jennifer.vanbarneveldYouTube @JenniferVanBarneveldPe https://  DISCLAIMER: The opinions, beliefs, and viewpoints expressed by the hosts and guests on this podcast do not necessarily represent or reflect the official policy, opinions, beliefs, and viewpoints of Disenyo.co LLC and its employees.

Grab a copy of my new book Habits of High Performers here - www.thehabitbook.comIn this solo episode, I'm celebrating a milestone that's been years in the making.My new book, Habits of High Performers, is finally on shelves across New Zealand and Australia. It's bold, bright orange, and packed with timeless truths that can change how you approach work, health, relationships, and life.In this episode, you'll discover:Why habits, not luck or hustle, are what separate high performers from everyone elseThe 7 habits inside the book that you can start applying right awayA $2,000 resource that comes free when you grab your copyEndorsements from global leaders like Sir John Key, Robin Sharma, Dr Alia Bojilova, and Sir Wayne SmithA few of my favourite principles, from disciplining your inner domain to focusing on your strengthsIf you've already got your copy, thank you. If not, this is the week to grab it at your local bookstore or online at thehabitbook.com.And once you've started reading, let me know how it's shaping your life. Share it, tag me, and spread the word, because these habits are meant to be lived, not just read.Come join me at The High Performance Leadership Event here - https://www.jjlaughlin.com/high-performance-event-2025 Get the Growth Weekly Newsletter sent straight to your inbox and join 1000's of other high-performers on the road to self-mastery  - https://www.jjlaughlin.com/newsletterSend me a personal text messageSupport the show

You think you're being careful and thoughtful. She thinks you're weak and can't lead.In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, Ari, Chuck, and Faisal expose how indecisiveness is secretly destroying your relationships and keeping you trapped in mediocrity. From Ari's embarrassing wedding speech where he called himself "the Obama of the relationship" (the deliberator), to Chuck's printer research marathons, to Faisal walking his hangry date around for an hour looking for the "perfect" restaurant.Here's what you'll discover:Why nice guys mistake overthinking for wisdom (and how it backfires)The brutal truth about being "Captain Indecisive" in your marriageHow fear of making the wrong choice guarantees you'll make no choice at allWhy asking "what do you think?" kills attraction faster than anything elseThe restaurant power move that separates leaders from followersHow successful people make decisions with incomplete information (and why you need 100%)Why your "committee of mediocrity" is keeping you stuckThe bedroom decisiveness test most nice guys fail miserablyThe wake-up call you need: While you're researching and deliberating, other men are taking action and getting results. Your indecisiveness isn't protecting you from failure - it IS the failure.Ari shares how he burned the boats on his therapy practice to go all-in on coaching. Chuck reveals how his wife became the family decision-maker (and why that's a problem). Faisal breaks down why differentiated men decide quickly while enmeshed nice guys stay paralyzed.Stop asking everyone else what you should do. Start trusting yourself enough to choose.Connect with Faisal Khokhar:https://masculine.co/https://5fractures.com/https://www.instagram.com/masculinecharisma/Connect with Chuck Chapman: https://www.chuckchapman.com/https://www.instagram.com/chuckchapman.ma/Connect with Dr. Ari Graff:https://drarigraff.com/www.youtube.com/@AriGraffJoin Dr. Robert Glover's Integration Nation, a worldwide community of men doing better:https://integrationnation.net/

In this episode of Just Lead, we're talking about how comparison creeps into our leadership, parenting, and everyday life… and how to kill it before it kills your peace.You'll hear:How to stop measuring yourself against everyone elseThe cost of leading from insecurityWhat contentment actually looks like in real lifeHow to embrace your own lane with confidenceWe release NEW episodes on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday of every month. Turn on your notifications and you'll be the first to know when new content drops.CONNECT WITH US:• Mark Q | Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markquattrochi/• JUST LEAD | Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justleadme/ LISTEN & SUBSCRIBEIf you haven't yet, make sure to tap subscribe on your favorite podcast platform — Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and more.

Go to flyingfreeworkshop.com to register for our $1 workshop: Is It Abuse? (or am I just being too sensitive?)On today's episode, I'm talking with Dr. Andrew Bauman—licensed mental health counselor, author, and founder of the Christian Counseling Center for Sexual Health and Trauma. We're digging into his powerful new book, Safe Church: How to Guard Against Sexism and Abuse in Christian Communities, and whew…this one's going to name things you've felt for years but maybe never had words for.This episode is a raw, no-fluff look at what's really happening behind the stained-glass windows:82% of women say sexism shaped their church experience—and 35% report sexual harassment. Let that sink in.How twisted theology has been used to minimize abuse, silence women, and turn forgiveness into a weaponReal, doable steps churches can take to stop being breeding grounds for harm and start becoming actually safeWhy men in leadership must do their own deep healing before they can lead anyone elseThe holy importance of listening to your gut, your body, and your sacred knowing when something just feels offIf you've ever been told to “just forgive and move on,” felt erased in your own spiritual community, or wondered why abusers get protected while survivors get blamed—this conversation will wrap you in validation and truth.Dr. Bauman speaks as someone who's been on both sides of this story. And his message? You're not crazy. You're not alone. And the God you love is nothing like the systems that harmed you.Read the show notes and/or ask Natalie a question hereRelated Resources: Read Dr. Bauman's newest book, Safe Church: How to Guard Against Sexism and Abuse in Christian Communities.Connect with Dr. Bauman on Facebook.Check out Dr. Bauman's blog. Like what you heard today? Listen to Episode 41 and Episode 164 of the Flying Free Podcast with Dr. Andrew Bauman, and then head over to Episode 45 and Episode 279 to hear my interviews with his wife, Christy Bauman. Guest Bio: Founder and director of the Christian Counseling Center: For Sexual Health & Trauma. Dr. Bauman is a therapist & author of 7 books including his newest book, Safe Church: How to Guard Against Sexism & Abuse in Christian Communities.