Podcast appearances and mentions of clarence shuler

What do you do when you, the CEO, are the one who is depressed? What are the dangers of admitting you are depressed? How do you get help? Dr. Clarence Shuler, President and CEO of Building Lasting Relationships is also an award winning speaker and the author of 10 books. Today he shares his personal … The post Who Me? Depressed: A Conversation with Dr. Clarence Shuler About His Depression (Episode # 421F) first appeared on TRANSLEADERSHIP, INC®.

Why do some teens thrive as adults while others struggle? What makes the difference?  Could it be as simple as finding a wise friend and following their lead? Chris Brooks will introduce you to a man who not only turned his life around but is passing the secrets of his success along to others.  Is a young man you know struggling in life?  Don’t miss the wisdom of Dr. Clarence Shuler on this edition of Equipped. Today's resource:  Choose Greatness: 11 Wise Decisions Wise Young Men Make Equipped with Chris Brooks is made possible through your support.  To donate now, click here. This month's featured resource:  His Needs Her Needs: Making Romantic Love Last

Dr. Clarence Shuler is the President of Building Lasting Relationships. He and his wife Brenda are the winners of the 2019 Family Life Speaker of the Year Award. Dr. Shuler, a marriage expert for Oprah's 2020 Love Goals Reality show; speaker with New York Times Best Selling author, Dr. Gary Chapman for The Five Love … The post Dr. Clarence Shuler: Threats to Successful Executive Marriage (Episode # 265F) first appeared on TRANSLEADERSHIP, INC®.

Algunos hábitos son difíciles de romper. Clarence Shuler comparte acerca de sus luchas pasadas con la pornografía. Cuando era joven, Shuler se expuso a imágenes ilícitas y ahora cuenta cómo trató de deshacerse del hábito, especialmente durante sus estudios en el seminario y el ministerio posterior. Él explica que no fue hasta que sacó su pecado a la luz y confesó su adicción a otros, que encontró la liberación de este hábito esclavizante. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/692/29

Algunos hábitos son difíciles de romper. Clarence Shuler comparte acerca de sus luchas pasadas con la pornografía. Cuando era joven, Shuler se expuso a imágenes ilícitas y ahora cuenta cómo trató de deshacerse del hábito, especialmente durante sus estudios en el seminario y el ministerio posterior. Él explica que no fue hasta que sacó su pecado a la luz y confesó su adicción a otros, que encontró la liberación de este hábito esclavizante. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/692/29

El amor es como un baile. A veces es un vals y otras veces es el baile del conejo. Clarence Shuler recomienda a los solteros buscar sabiduría y apoyo en el proceso de encontrar a la persona indicada. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/692/29

El amor es como un baile. A veces es un vals y otras veces es el baile del conejo. Clarence Shuler recomienda a los solteros buscar sabiduría y apoyo en el proceso de encontrar a la persona indicada. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/692/29

Hay muchos solteros que no están contentos con serlo y piensan que tal vez el matrimonio sería la solución a todos sus problemas. El escritor y consejero, Clarence Shuler, les motiva a que abandonen esa idea To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/692/29

Hay muchos solteros que no están contentos con serlo y piensan que tal vez el matrimonio sería la solución a todos sus problemas. El escritor y consejero, Clarence Shuler, les motiva a que abandonen esa idea To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/692/29

Do you want to help heal the racial divide? Does that seem like too big of a task? On this special Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, hear a chapel message given by Dr. Chapman and his life-long friend, Dr. Clarence Shuler. They believe you heal the division in our world one relationship at a time. Hear about a life-changing friendship on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Featured resource: Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships: How You Can Help Heal Racial Divides, One Relationship at a TimeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

220 Cultivating Healthy Family Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman   1 Peter 4:8 (NIV) "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins."   Questions and Topics We Discuss: How can a thriving, intimate marriage become our reality? What are practical ways we can discover and speak each of our children's love languages? What have you observed to be the best seeds to sow in  children's youth, in hopes of cultivating their character and pointing them toward the Lord? Gary Chapman, Ph.D.—author, speaker, pastor, and counselor—has a passion for people, and for helping them form lasting relationships. Chapman is a well-known marriage counselor and director of marriage seminars. The 5 Love Languages® is one of Chapman's most popular titles, topping various bestseller charts for years, selling over thirteen million copies, and has been on the New York Times best-sellers list continuously since 2007. Chapman has been directly involved in real-life family counseling for more than 30 years, and his nationally syndicated radio programs air nationally on Moody Radio Network and over 400 affiliate stations. For more information visit www.5lovelanguages.com   Attend a 5 Love Languages Event   Other Episodes on The Savvy Sauce featuring Dr. Gary Chapman: 5 Love Languages with Dr. Gary Chapman   Things I Wish I'd Known Before My Child Became a Teenager with Dr. Gary Chapman   Friendships Heal Racial Divides with Dr. Clarence Shuler and Dr. Gary Chapman   Francie Hinrichsen's Episode on The Savvy Sauce: Episode 132 Pursuing Your God-Given Dream with Francie Hinrichsen   At The Savvy Sauce, we will only recommend resources we believe in! We also want you to be aware: We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.  5 Traits of a Healthy Family Things I Wish I'd Known Before My Child Became a Teenager Five Love Languages The 5 Love Languages of Teenagers A Teen's Guide to the 5 Love Languages   Thank You to Our Sponsor: Dream, Build, Grow: A Female's Step-by-Step Guide for How to Start a Business by Francie Hinrichsen   Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website   Please help us out by sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a 5-star rating and review, and subscribing to this podcast!   Gospel Scripture: (all NIV)   Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”   Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”   Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.”    Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.”    Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”    Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.”    John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”   Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”    Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”   Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”   Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.”   Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”   Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“   Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“   Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

Why do some teens thrive as adults while others struggle? Could it be as simple as finding a wise friend and following their lead? Chris Brooks will introduce you to a man who not only turned his life around but is passing the secrets of his success along to others.  Doyou know a young man who is struggling in life?  Don’t miss the wisdom of Clarence Shuler on this edition of Equipped.

Alright, on today's episode we're talking with pastor and author Clarence Shuler. Clarence is the author of the book FINDING HOPE IN A DARK PLACE: Facing Loneliness, Depression and Anxiety with the power of Grace. In the book Clarence shares his own story of depression and how by God's grace he's learning to effectively manage it.  Hopefully today, you might recognize your own story in Clarence's and it can serve as a reminder to you that hope is possible and worth pursuing. Even in the darkness, God is with you in that sacred space. SHOW NOTES --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/makingsundayhappen/support

Author, speaker and counselor Clarence Shuler joins Blake to focus on facing loneliness, depression, and anxiety with the power of grace and shares his own personal journey of struggling with depression. In this episode, they explore the challenges of self-worth, self-worship, and the importance of embracing one's mental and emotional well-being. Join them as they emphasize the significance of sharing one's struggles and experiences to help others on their own journeys of healing.   In this episode, you'll be able to: Gain insight into overcoming depression and anxiety by hearing Clarence's personal story and how he found hope in dark times. Understand the significance of distinguishing between self-worth and self-worship for improved mental and emotional well-being. Explore the transformative power of transparency in sharing one's struggles and experiences to connect with and support others in their healing journeys. Clarence is the author of Finding Hope in a Dark Place – available everywhere now! To connect with Clarence: Instagram: @dr_clarenceshuler Website: clarenceshuler.com

Dr. Clarence Shuler is the President and CEO of his nonprofit BLR- which stands for Building Lasting Relationships. Their mission is to equip others for discipleship in various venues. He and his wife both speak and write about marriage, but also dealing with infidelity, and divorce, but they especially love to minister to singles in the church. Whatever it looks like, the Shulers are committed to “loving people with God's love with no agenda and see what happens.” During our conversation today, Dr. Shuler shared his story of coming to Christ through a relationship that would impact his life in many ways, through a young guy by the name of Gary Chapman. Yup, the Love Languages guy. I share that because their relationship gave birth to 50+ years of friendship and an opportunity to share how crossing those racial lines in the 1960s taught them both and continues to guide them in helping others learn how to embrace cross-cultural friendships today. Dr. Shuler himself does quite a bit of diversity training for companies, and for churches, and brings such gracious honesty to the table about what it has been like for him as a Black man in predominately white spaces. His most recent book is a really powerful and raw look into his journey with depression and a sense of hopelessness. The book is called Finding Hope in Dark Places: Facing Loneliness, Depression, and Anxiety with the Power of Grace. He coauthored it with his therapist, Dr. Monique Smith Gadson, otherwise known as Dr. Mo. Their book is unique in that it gives an honest narrative of Clarence's personal experiences as he walked out the darkest place of his life, but also shows his relationship with his counselor and how she was able to help him in that season. It is full of spiritual and mental health wisdom, it does not end tied in a bow, but it is overflowing with hope. Dr. Shuler hopes that sharing his journey will empower anyone, but especially Black men, to embrace vulnerability and find God's power and healing in weakness. I also want to echo this powerful reminder Dr. Shuler gives in this episode: Being in a dark place is not a sin. It is a place for the Lord to reveal Himself in a whole new way. We see throughout scripture about the Lord shepherding us in dark places, and in this world, we will know and have trouble, but we will never be alone and He will help us to find our hearts again there. He is not finished with you, friend. You matter and your story matters.   Connecting with Dr. Clarence Shuler: Books Facebook Website   Episode Sponsor: Tony Crabtree of Crabtree Homes with Exit Realty Facebook Instagram  Tik Tok  Website YouTube   Please consider joining our Patreon community. If you have enjoyed what you have heard on the podcast today or from other episodes, we would so appreciate your support to keep the Simply Stories Podcast going. You can sign up for as little as $3 a month and each tier offers gifts that I hope will bless you in return. If you feel you cannot financially commit at this time, would you please consider leaving us a star rating and/or review on Apple Podcasts? My family and I are so grateful for each of you and how you are part of our story.  Scripture References: Matthew 28:19-20- Making disciples  Genesis 1:26-28 Colossians 2:10- You are complete in Christ  Genesis 3- Men's curse/purpose from the Garden  John 14:27- The world gives peace that doesn't satisfy  Isaiah 45:3- “I will give you hidden treasures, riches stored in secret places, so that you may know that I am the LORD, the God of Israel, who summons you by name.” Isaiah 43-46 2 Corinthians 1-4 Psalm 63, Psalm 57, Psalm 142-David was in a dark place hiding in caves 1 Samuel 24- When David didn't kill Saul  Revelations 3:7-8-I can shut a door no one can open and open doors no one can shut Acts 2- the tongues of fire and each in their own language understanding one another Genesis 11:1-9-Tower of Babel John 13:35- They will know Me by your love 1 Chronicles 12:32- Men and women of Issacar and know what time it is  2 Corinthians 1:9- Indeed we felt within ourselves we would die… but we believe in the God who raises the dead James 1:2-4- Suffering isn't punishment  John 16:33- In this world you will have trouble  1 Peter1:6-7 , Zechariah 13:9-  you are going to have many trials, the fire will refine you Romans 5:3-5- Suffering produces character, which produces… Philippians 1:6- The Lord isn't finished with you Revelation 21- This isn't how the story ends  2 Corinthians 1:10- On Him we have set our hope Colossians 3:23-24- We do not find our significance in men but in the Lord  Hebrews 13:5- We're never alone  Lamentations 3:19-25 Psalm 23 Psalm 27:13-14-What would have become of me had I not believed I would see the goodnes of the Lord in the land of the living   References: Brandi Wilson's episode where she shares about her divorce Brown v. Board Desegregation in the South was still SLOW.  Gary Chapman Black Panther Party KKK Parades Finding Hope in Dark Places  Dr. Mo- aka Dr. Monique Smith Gadson No More Faking Fine: Ending the Pretending by Esther Fleece Gary and Clarence sharing about their relationship The book they wrote: Life Changing Cross Cultural Relationships: How You Can Help Heal Racial Divides, One Relationship At A Time Stephen Kendrick Charles Stanley Hymns about victory from white protestant churches Songs from the Black church about suffering, survival and lament.  The #1 group battling depression in America is Black men Research shows that when people are able to talk about suicidal ideation, they are less likely to follow through with it.  Statistics show that in the coming years, the vast majority of America will be brown (Michelle Ami Reyes speaks on this as well on our podcast and in her work) Apartheid ended, what happened?   Connecting with Emily and Simply Stories Podcast: Instagram (Em life // Podcast Life) Facebook Twitter Blog 

Do you want to help heal the racial divide? Does that seem like too big of a task? On this summer, best-of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, you’ll hear the story of Clarence and Gary. They met a long time ago and struck up a friendship that has stood the test of time. They believe you heal the divide one relationship at a time. Hear about a life-changing friendship today on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Featured resource: Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships: How You Can Help Heal Racial Divides, One Relationship at a TimeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Everyone wants to do something to improve race relations, but many of us don't know where to start. On Tuesday's Mornings with Eric and Brigitte, author and speaker, Clarence Shuler talks about the important lessons that he and his lifelong friend, Gary Chapman learned. Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships: How You Can Help Heal Racial Divides, One Relationship at a Time will help you know how to begin and grow authentic friendships across racial and ethnic barriers and how to make these friendships last a lifetime.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do you currently find yourself in a dark place? We all need reminder that hope is possible and worth pursuing. Even in the darkness, God is with you in that sacred space. Author and conference speaker Dr. Clarence Shuler needed help to escape a very dark time in his life. He stopped by this morning to remind us that we can face loneliness, depression and anxiety with the power of God's grace. https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Hope-Dark-Place-Loneliness/dp/1683596358 https://www.clarenceshuleronline.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr. Clarence Shuler wants to help you wrestle with the dark places in your life.  Spirit and Truth Substack https://spiritandtruth.substack.com/   Tony on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/twmilt/   Full Show Notes https://www.twmilt.com/episodes   Be sure to leave us a review on Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reclamation-podcast-reclaiming-good-practices-for-following/id1429933082   Dr. Shuler's links:  https://www.clarenceshuleronline.com/ https://www.facebook.com/ClarenceShulerOnline  

Bible and Business' Bill English talks about how we define being treated with fairness and getting to the place of forgiveness when our flesh wants to avoid it at all costs. Clarence Shuler, author of "Finding Hope in a Dark Place: Facing Loneliness, Depression, and Anxiety with the Power of Grace," shares about learning from our past, without being a prisoner of it. Faith Radio podcasts are made possible by your support. Give now: Click here

What do you do when you, the CEO, are the one who is depressed? What are the dangers of admitting you are depressed? How do you get help? Dr. Clarence Shuler, President and CEO of Building Lasting Relationships is also an award winning speaker and the author of 10 books. Today he shares his personal … The post Who Me? Depressed: A Conversation with Dr. Clarence Shuler About His Depression (Episode # 421) first appeared on TRANSLEADERSHIP, INC®.

On Wednesday's Mornings with Eric and Brigitte, author, life coach, and speaker, Clarence Shuler knows firsthand the darkness brought upon by depression and anxiety. In this refreshingly candid book, he shares his own story and how, by God’s grace, he's learning to effectively manage it. Shuler’s story will help you receive grace in your own struggles. In the “Your Journey” section at the end of each chapter, you will be guided to reflect on your own walk in darkness and find ways back to joy.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If you’re in a dark place in your life, don’t miss this Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Dr. Clarence Shuler had an amazing job opportunity fall through at the last minute. That event sent him spiraling into depression and anxiety. Dr. Monique Gadson reached out to help. Hear the hope in their journey together on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Featured Resource: Finding Hope in a Dark PlaceSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

- "A National Museum APOLOGIZED to a Group of Pro-Life Students from a Catholic School for DENYING THEM ENTRY Because They Had Sanctity of Life Logos on Their Clothing - and the Staff Found Them 'OFFENSIVE'" - DR CLARENCE SHULER: "Overcoming Loneliness, Depression and Anxiety" - "2nd Circuit Court of Appeals WILL ALLOW A HEARING for 4 Former High School Girls Suing to Keep Biological Males OUT of Girls' Sports in Connecticut" - "South Dakota Governor Kristi Noem Signs a BAN on Gender Reassignment Surgeries for MINORS"

If you’re in a dark place in your life, don’t miss Chris Fabry Live. Dr. Clarence Shuler had an amazing job opportunity that fell through at the last minute. That event sent him spiraling into depression and anxiety. His story might be exactly what you need to hear to find a little hope. He says that dark place can be sacred because God is with you. Don’t miss Chris Fabry Live. Wycliffe

Stu interviews both authors of "Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships" Dr. Gary Chapman and Clarence Shuler.

Thank you for listening to My Yes Is On The Table, a podcast hosted by Jennifer Hand and Coming Alive Ministries.  Today Jenn welcomes Clarence Shuler back to the show to talk about his new book, Finding Hope in a Dark Place.  Also joining the show is co-writer for the book, Dr. Monique Gadson.  Clarence shares his own story of struggling with depression and finding grace to overcome. Clarence's new book, Finding Hope in a Dark Place: Fixing Loneliness, Depression and Anxiety with the Power of Grace Clarence's previous visit to Coming Alive Conversations Connect with Clarence Shuler: Website, Facebook Connect with Jenn: Instagram, Facebook, Website DONATE to Coming Alive Ministries

Every father wants the best for his children. But before they can help their kids become the best version of themselves, many fathers need to discover their own true identity. Author Clarence Shuler longs to help men escape the darkness of depression, anxiety, and insecurity so they can walk in the light of their true relationship with their heavenly Father. In this episode, we'll talk about Clarence's new book, Finding Hope in a Dark Place, and discuss some practical ways fathers can become all that God created them to be.   Check out Clarence's new book, Finding Hope in a Dark Place: https://amzn.to/3v4uaXT   Not sure where you're headed as a dad? Take the Godly Dad Quiz: https://manhoodjourney.org/assessment   What is Manhood Journey? We help dads become more intentional and biblical fathers. Get equipped to lead without regrets: https://manhoodjourney.org/free-tools

Key Takeaways   Our children look for, who we are on the home front, in their spouses. Having a strong male figure in the home is vital to our gender identity. How I choose to give, is a reflection of what I think about the Giver. Are we a pleasure to be married to?   dadAWESOME   We're on a mission to add LIFE to the dad life. We're passionate about helping dads live fully alive as they lead their kids to God's awesomeness.  | YouTube |  Instagram | Facebook   Clarence Shuler   Dr. Shuler is the President/CEO of BLR: Building Lasting Relationships. He's been married to Brenda for over 37 years. They have three adult daughters. They conduct marriage, men's, women's, and singles seminars internationally. In 2020, FamilyLife presented Clarence and Brenda with FamilyLife Marriage Conference Speakers of the Year Award. Dr. Gary Chapman and he speak together at The Five Love Languages Marriage Conference, Date Night and Life- Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships events and have co-authored two books. Clarence speaks to youth, college students and singles about friendships, dating, biblical sex, pornography and sexting. His Maximizing Difference (diversity) training in high demand. He's authored 10 books.   Key Quotes (Full Transcript of the Conversation Here)   07:07 - "What you and your wife do in your marriage is going to impact your kids to a third and fourth generation. So you're not just parenting your kids, you're actually parenting your unborn grandkids." 14:51 - "I'm practicing this whole idea that if I'm going to be a pleasure to be married to, is not doing things for her that I want to do, when I want to do them, it's doing things for her that she wants or needs. That's what it's all about. And since we're talking about marriage, the other thing, that's revolutionized my marriage is that knowing how I treat Brenda is a reflection of how I'm loving God."   Conversation Links   Website Book- Choose Greatness: 11 Wise Decisions That Brave Young Men Make Dr. Shuler's Book Store   Links from dadAWESOME   https://dadawesome.org/life/ Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team Receive weekly encouragement by texting "dad" to 651-370-8618

Were you subtly conditioned to please others at the expense of yourself? I loved talking with my friend and fellow therapist, Dr. Monique Gadson, on today's episode of the podcast. We met through an IG Live prayer session! She's since become the best sort of real-life friend—someone whose wisdom, empathy, and realness breathes life into weary souls. If you've struggled with depression or felt overlooked—even as you constantly show up for others—please lean in close. Dr. Monique is candid about her own journey through depression and how she lost herself in all the voices around her. In a powerful turn of events, Monique began to bring mental health directly to the center of the church, where she's practiced as a counselor for decades. We cover so much in today's episode, including: 1. A key moment from childhood when she learned to please others 2. Monique's experience as a PK 3. The burden of always attuning to others when you're disconnected from your own self 4. Monique's early experience with depression and how she got help 5. Practical tips if you struggle with feeling “joy” at the holidays 6. Finding your own way as a parent amidst all of the voices 7. Monique's call to bring mental health *into* the church 8. Jesus and people pleasing 9. The power of friendship to bring hope in dark places Check out Dr. Monique's brand new book with Clarence Shuler, Finding Hope in A Dark Place: Facing Loneliness, Depression, and Anxiety with the Power of Grace. Connect with Dr. Monique at drmoniquesmithgadson.com or on Instagram @drmoniquesmithgadson If you are struggling with depression, please find resources for support on my website. Thanks to our sponsors: Organifi —Go to www.organifi.com/bestofyou and use code BESTOFYOU for 20% off your order today! This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp —Go to www.betterhelp.com/bestofyou and use code BESTOFYOU for 10% off your first month! Download Abide Sleep and Pray Meditation and text my promo code BESTOFYOU to 22433 today to get 25% off! Get your print, ebook, or audio copy of The Best of You anywhere books are sold. Find a list of resources and the full transcript for this episode here Music by Andy Luiten Sound editing by Kelly Kramarik While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.

"When you are in a dark place, it can be a holy place if you are trying to follow God in that dark place."  In today's podcast, guest Dr. Clarence Shuler shares his battle with depression, reminding his audience to seek counsel, community, identity rooted in God, and support from their spouses.

Are you ready to heal cross culturally with other brothers and sisters in Christ? Dr. Clarence Shuler talks about his new book with Gary Chapman, that address Life Changing Cross Cultural Friendships in very practical experiences and examples. Get free alerts at http://PrayInJesusName.org (c) 2022, Chaplain Gordon James Klingenschmitt, PhD. Airs on NRB TV, Direct TV Ch.378, Roku, AppleTV, Amazon FireTV, AndroidTV, GoogleTV, Smart TV, iTunes and www.PrayInJesusName.org

Friendships Heal Racial Divides with Dr. Clarence Shuler and Dr. Gary Chapman   Proverbs 18:24 (NKJV) "A man who has friends must himself be friendly"   Questions we discuss: During a time when your community was navigating desegregation, how did you meet and grow your friendship over time? Why do you think God celebrates diversity? What are the key ingredients needed for a cross-cultural friendship?   Dr. Gary Chapman--author, speaker, counselor--has a passion for people and for helping them form lasting relationships. He is the #1 bestselling author of The 5 Love Languages series and director of Marriage and Family Life Consultants, Inc. Gary travels the world presenting seminars, and his radio programs air on more than four hundred stations. For more information visit his website at https://5lovelanguages.com/.   Dr. Clarence Shuler is the president/CEO of BLR: Building Lasting Relationships. Clarence is a counselor, diversity consultant, speaker, and author of ten books, including Winning the Race to Unity: Is Racial Reconciliation Really Working?, Keeping Your Wife Your Best Friend, and Single and Free to Be Me. He and his wife, Brenda, reside in Colorado Springs, Colorado, and have three adult daughters. For more information, visit https://www.clarenceshuleronline.com/.   Gary's Website Gary's Social Media Twitter and Facebook Links   Clarence's Website Clarence's Social Media Links   Other Episodes with Dr. Clarence Shuler and Dr. Gary Chapman on The Savvy Sauce:   5 Love Languages with Dr. Gary Chapman   Building Lasting Relationships with Clarence and Brenda Shuler   Things I Wish I'd Known Before My Child Became a Teenager with Dr. Gary Chapman     Thank You to Our Sponsor: WinShape Marriage   Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website   Please help us out by sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a 5-star rating and review, and subscribing to this podcast!   Also, check out our Patreon Page to find out how to gain access to additional podcasts and goodies!   Gospel Scripture: (all NIV)   Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”   Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”   Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.”    Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.”    Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”    Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.”    John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”   Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”    Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”   Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”   Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.”   Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”   Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“   Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“   Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

Author, Speaker, Relationship and Life Coach, Dr. Clarence Shuler, joins the podcast today.  Dr. Shuler discusses his latest book, "Finding Hope in A Dark Place” .  He recounts his experiences with depression and numerous disappointments in life.  Dr. Shuler also talks about how he decided to write this book and invite Dr. Gadson to co-author with him. Be encouraged as Dr Shuler invites others to consider the Dark as a sacred place because God is there with us. Information for Dr. Clarence Shuler https://www.clarenceshuleronline.com/https://instagram.com/dr_clarenceshuler?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.facebook.com/clarence.shuler.1https://twitter.com/clarenceshuler?s=21Order "Finding Hope In A Dark Place”:https://lexhampress.com/product/224284/finding-hope-in-a-dark-place-facing-loneliness-depression-and-anxiety-with-the-power-of-graceInformation for Dr. Gadson https://www.drmoniquesmithgadson.com/Follow us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/And-The-Church-Said-Podcast-106848090932637https://instagram.com/drmoniquesmithgadson?igshid=1bmt2hei1j6i8https://twitter.com/DrMoSmithGadsonSupport And The Church Said:Cash App:  https://cash.app/$andthechurchsaidPayPal:  https://paypal.me/andthechurchsaid?locale.x=en_US

Today we are joined by #1 bestselling author of The 5 Love Languages, Gary Chapman, and his good friend, author, counselor, and diversity consultant, Clarence Shuler. Many of us want to do something to improve race relations but don't know where to start or even if we can make a difference. Cross-cultural friends for over fifty years, Gary and Clarence believe building friendships across racial and cultural lines will change lives and our country for the better forever. This belief inspired their new book, Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships, to help others develop loving friendships that challenge their perspective and enrich their lives. This episode covers some of their friendship, what inspired them to write this book, and practical steps for cross-cultural friendships. Gary's Website | Clarence's Website Gary's Facebook | Gary's Twitter | Clarence's Facebook

This week we feature Dr. Clarence Shuler who is a previous guest and has several new books released and soon to be released. Dr.  Shuler is an author, speaker, diversity consultant, relationship counselor and life coach, and minister.  He is the President of Building Lasting Relationships.  He has authored several books with his most recent book, “Life-Changing Cross Cultural Friendships” that he co-authored with Gary Chapman. On this episode, Dr. Shuler candidly discusses his experience as an African-American man and minister with depression. Information for Dr. Clarence Shuler:https://www.clarenceshuleronline.com/https://instagram.com/dr_clarenceshuler?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://twitter.com/clarenceshuler?s=21https://www.facebook.com/ClarenceShulerOnlineInformation for Dr. Gadson https://www.drmoniquesmithgadson.com/Follow us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/And-The-Church-Said-Podcast-106848090932637https://instagram.com/drmoniquesmithgadson?igshid=1bmt2hei1j6i8https://twitter.com/DrMoSmithGadsonSupport And The Church Said:Cash App:  https://cash.app/$andthechurchsaidPayPal:  https://paypal.me/andthechurchsaid?locale.x=en_US

Do you want to help heal the racial divide? Does that seem like too big of a task? On this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, you'll hear the story of Clarence and Gary. They met a long time ago and struck up a friendship that has stood the test of time. They believe you heal the divide one relationship at a time. Hear about a life-changing friendship today on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Featured resource: Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships: How You Can Help Heal Racial Divides, One Relationship at a Time by Dr. Gary Chapman and Clarence ShulerSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What is the one question every spouse should be asking himself or herself? Why? What is the "Ghost of Marriage Past" and how can those who have been married before make their present marriage their last one? What does pornography do to a marriage? On Tuesday's Mornings with Eric and Brigitte, Dr. Clarence Shuler, President/CEO of Building Lasting Relationships talks about these important questions and also discusses why he thinks pastors should preach about marriage a minimum of 4-6 times a year. Weekend to Remember Conference - Delray Beach - Sept. 9-11See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How can we improve our communication in marriage, and why is encouragement so important to share with your spouse? Is the Weekend to Remember Conference just for marriages in crisis? On Wednesday's Mornings with Eric and Brigitte, Dr. Clarence Shuler, President/CEO of Building Lasting Relationships joins us to talk about communication in marriage and other ways you can encourage your spouse. Also, since Dr. Shuler and his wife, Brenda have been members of the Weekend To Remember Marriage Getaway Speaker Team for several years, he will also share how important this conference is for all who are married to attend. Weekend to Remember Conference - Delray Beach - Sept. 9-11See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If you're single, that doesn't mean you're incomplete. You can be whole in Christ. Clarence Shuler coaches singles to speak up and let your needs be known for the benefit of your local church.

If you're single, that doesn't mean you're incomplete. You can be whole in Christ. Clarence Shuler coaches singles to speak up and let your needs be known for the benefit of your local church.

On Headlines and Punchlines we take a humorous look at news and life with friend and colleague Patrick Albanese. Then Pastor David Myles  joins Bill on the Monday Afternoon Mix with special guests Dr. Clarence Shuler,  and Dr. Gary Chapman for a rich conversation on how the beauty of cross-cultural friendships can bring racial healing, through their book Life Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships: How You Can Help Heal Racial Divides, One Relationship At A Time.  

Some corners of our culture will try to convince you that "diversity" is a dirty word. In reality, diversity is God's idea. He celebrates our differences—and He expects us to celebrate them as well. In this episode, Gary Chapman and Clarence Shuler reflect on how their unlikely friendship has taken root and thrived for more than five decades. They'll also share how Dads like you can nurture cross-cultural friendships in a way that shapes your children's lives moving forward. Discover Gary and Clarence's new book, Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships: https://amzn.to/3bAart0

Dr. Clarence Shuler was filmed as a marriage expert for one session of Oprah's “Love Goals” reality show in 2020. He & his wife Brenda are members of FamilyLife's Weekend to Remember Marriage Getaway Speaker Team. He serves on the Fatherhood CoMission Board. Clarence partners with Gary Chapman and speaks at The Five Love Languages and Date Night events. He has authored 10 books including our book for today, Making your Wife your Best Friend.  "Conflict is not about winning. It's about understanding." "If couples prays together, they have a 1 in 10000 chance of divorcing." "How I treat the gift (my wife) is a reflection of my worship for God." Boots on the Ground Ask yourself this question, and your wife. Are you a pleasure to be married to? Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Youtube Version

Longtime friends Building Lasting Relationships' Dr. Clarence Shuler and Dr. Gary Chapman (The 5 Love Languages®) encouraged us from their new resource: Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships: How You Can Help Heal Racial Divides, One Relationship at a Time See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Clarence Shuler is a discipler of disciplers, “a Swiss army knife of ministry,” and it all began when he was 14. A local youth pastor named Gary Chapman took a chance on him in a place and time where cross-cultural relationships were rare and challenging.   “Segregation was outlawed but still being practiced.”   Yet he experienced love and respect from Gary, and over five decades later, the two are still like family. The seeds of discipleship Gary planted in Clarence's 14-year-old heart have taken root, produced fruit, and multiplied in the lives of other men. They recently co-authored the book Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships.  In The Noble Man Podcast Episodes 85 and 86, Clarence:  highlights the keys to beginning and fostering cross-cultural friendships,   describes the difference between discipleship and mentoring and how long mentoring relationships should last,   discusses self-worth vs. self-worship, and   talks through ways churches can value people beyond what goes skin deep, and more.  Resources:  Clarence Shuler  Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships  Gary Chapman  “I Saw White People As the Enemy, Then One Man Changed My Life” by Clarence Shuler    View Show Notes: NobleWarriors.org/episode85 Leave a Review: If you like what you've been hearing, we invite you to leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode!  More Resources and Encouragement: NobleWarriors.org  © Copyright 2022 All rights reserved

Dr. Clarence Shuler and Dr. Gary Chapman. Long ago, when they were just Gary and Clarence, these two young men met on a basketball court. That day, they probably never thought they would have enjoyed a life long friendship, let alone one that has become a blueprint for the type of cross-cultural relationship that can heal the racial divide in our country. CLICK HERE for information or to order their latest book, "Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships."See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Clarence Shuler is a discipler of disciplers, “a Swiss army knife of ministry,” and it all began when he was 14. A local youth pastor named Gary Chapman took a chance on him in a place and time where cross-cultural relationships were rare and challenging.   “Segregation was outlawed but still being practiced.”   Yet he experienced love and respect from Gary, and over five decades later, the two are still like family. The seeds of discipleship Gary planted in Clarence's 14-year-old heart have taken root, produced fruit, and multiplied in the lives of other men. They recently co-authored the book Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships.  In The Noble Man Podcast Episodes 85 and 86, Clarence:  highlights the keys to beginning and fostering cross-cultural friendships,   describes the difference between discipleship and mentoring and how long mentoring relationships should last,   discusses self-worth vs. self-worship, and   talks through ways churches can value people beyond what goes skin deep, and more.  Resources:  Clarence Shuler  Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships  Gary Chapman  “I Saw White People As the Enemy, Then One Man Changed My Life” by Clarence Shuler    View Show Notes: NobleWarriors.org/episode85 Leave a Review: If you like what you've been hearing, we invite you to leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode!  More Resources and Encouragement: NobleWarriors.org  © Copyright 2022 All rights reserved

Do you want to help heal the racial divide? Does that seem like too big of a task? You need to hear the story of Clarence and Gary. They met a long time ago and struck up a friendship that has stood the test of time. They believe you heal the divide one relationship at a time. Hear Dr. Clarence Shuler and Dr. Gary Chapman with guest host Collin Lambert on Chris Fabry Live.

This week on the show, we welcome two veteran ministry leaders. Author of The 5 Love Languages and many other books Dr. Gary Chapman returns to the podcast, along with another incredible author, speaker and pastor - Clarence Shuler. Gary and Clarence have been friends for decades and they wrote a book together on race relationships. We're going to talk about Healing Racial Divides in your Congregation. We'll also talk about how that relates to the Sunday Worship Experience - what things should you be doing on stage and in your Services that will help you reach more people in your community. We also want to encourage you to go grab their new book. It's called Life Changing Cross Cultural Friendships - How You Can Help Heal Racial Divides, One Relationship at a time. Many of us want to do something to improve race relations, but we don't know where to start or even if we can make a difference. Each chapter of the book will guide you into a deeper level of understanding about what friendship is and about the benefits of cross-cultural friendships on an individual and national level. We pray this episode is insightful for you. SHOW NOTES --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/makingsundayhappen/support

Jenn is welcoming Gary Chapman and Clarence Shuler to the show today.  They are committed to breaking down walls of division and building strong friendships.  Gary is an author, speaker, and counselor, and author of the best-selling book, The Five Love Languages.  Clarence is an author of 10 books and president/CEO of BLR: Building Lasting Relationships.  Today they discuss:   How we can improve race relations. What is true friendship. Following the example of Jesus.   Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships: How You Can Help Heal Racial Divides, One Relationship at a Time book 1 Corinthians 12 John 4 (Jesus Talks With a Samaritan Woman)   Connect with Gary Chapman: 5LoveLanguages.com Facebook Twitter Instagram   Connect with Clarence Shuler: Website Facebook   Connect with Jenn: Instagram Facebook Website DONATE to Coming Alive Ministries

featuring Dr. Gary Chapman & Dr. Clarence Shuler. Gary and Clarence share their fascinating story of an unlikely yet special friendship built on faith in Jesus Christ.  They discuss their new book and answer questions on cultivating healthy, long-lasting relationships across ethnic and racial barriers. Purchase Life Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships: How You Can Help Heal Racial Divides, One Relationship at a Time on Amazon or anywhere books are sold. Available June 7, 2022. Referenced in this interview: “Birds of a Feather Do Flock Together: Behavior-Based Personality-Assessment Method Reveals Personality Similarity Among Couples and Friends” “A Friend Like Me: When Given More Choices, People Pick Friends Similar to Themselves”  

This week, Adam sits down with best-selling author Gary Chapman and Clarence Shuler to hear the story of their decades-long friendship & what they've learned about reaching across racial divides. They're also sharing their wisdom for people who look like each of them (and people who don't), how Jesus connected with people from different backgrounds, and specific steps you can take to begin to heal the divides in your own neighborhood.Get a copy of Gary's book The 5 Love Languages, here: amzn.to/3lfoWDTPre-Order your copy of Life Changing, Cross-Cultural Friendships, here: amzn.to/3FRU7ym

Dr. Clarence Shuler, President and CEO of Building Lasting Relationships, marriage counselor, speaker, life and relationship coach, diversity consultant, and author of more than 10 books joins Dr. Karen to talk about his new book, “Life-Changing Cross Cultural Friendships: How You Can Help Heal Racial Divides, One Relationship at a Time.” Dr. Shuler shares some … The post Conversation with Dr. Clarence Shuler on How Life-Changing Cross Cultural Friendships Can Heal Racial Divides first appeared on TRANSLEADERSHIP, INC®.

In 1968, Clarence met Gary on a basketball court. Neither young man realized it at the time, but that moment began a relationship that would shape both men for the next 54 years. Dr. Clarence Shuler talks about the cross-cultural friendship that has been forged over the decades with Dr. Gary Chapman. Hear more at the "Make Us One!" event, Friday, March 4, 2022 sponsored by Covenant Keypers. CLICK HERE to register. The 5 Love Languages Conference with Dr. Shuler and Dr. Chapman is on Saturday, March 5th. For that information, go here: 5LL - Chattanooga, TN (03.05.22) (regfox.com). See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

​Some help and hope for married men is coming up on Chris Fabry Live. Dr. Clarence Shuler wants to help you turn conflict with your wife into a win for both of you. If you’ve struggled with pornography, that can be a barrier to intimacy with your spouse. How do you keep your wife your best friend? Don’t miss the conversation coming up on Chris Fabry Live.

Dr. Clarence Shuler (a.k.a The Love Doctor) is the President/CEO of BLR: Building Lasting Relationships. For nearly 35 years, Clarence and his wife Brenda have conducted marriage, discipleship, men's, women's, and single seminars internationally. They are members of the FamilyLife Weekend To Remember marriage conference speaker team; and Clarence speaks with Dr. Gary Chapman at his Date Night events and The Five Love Languages marriage conferences. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We take a humorous look at news and life with friend and colleague Patrick Albanese. Then Pastor David Myles  and special guest Clarence Shuler join Bill for the Monday Afternoon Mix to discuss the map God gives us through Matthew 5-7.

Clarence Shuler and Gary Chapman, co-authors of the book, "Choose Greatness: 11 Wise Decisions That Young Men Make," counseled hundreds of individuals through the years.  They are convinced that the decisions that are made between the ages of eleven and sixteen will largely determine the quality of life a man experiences after he becomes an adult. Help the teens in your life choose greatness today. Dr. Clarence Shuler is the President/CEO of BLR: Building Lasting Relationships. Clarence is the author of several books, including Winning the Race to Unity: Is Racial Reconciliation Really Working? and Keeping Your Wife Your Best Friend. CLICK HERE to learn more.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr. Clarence Shuler is the President and CEO of Building Lasting Relationships. As a Diversity Consultant he has worked with numerous organizations to include the War College of the US Air Force, the US Army's European-Based Equal Opportunity Advisors, the Moody Bible Institute, and the Fellowship of Christian Athletes. An author of ten books, his … The post “Winning the Race to Unity” in Corporations first appeared on TRANSLEADERSHIP, INC®.

Dr. Clarence Shuler is the President of Building Lasting Relationships.  He and his wife Brenda are the winners of the 2019 Family Life Speaker of the Year Award. Dr. Shuler, a marriage expert for Oprah's 2020 Love Goals Reality show; speaker with New York Times Best Selling author, Dr. Gary Chapman for The Five Love … The post Dr. Clarence Shuler: Threats to Successful Executive Marriage first appeared on TRANSLEADERSHIP, INC®.

Why do some teens thrive as adults while others struggle? What makes the difference?  Could it be as simple as finding a wise friend and following their lead? Chris Brooks will introduce you to a man who not only turned his life around but is passing the secrets of his success along to others.  Is a young man you know struggling in life?  Don’t miss the wisdom of Clarence Shuler on this edition of Equipped.

We continue into the 5 o'clock hour with Pastor David Myles , Dr. Clarence Shuler, and Gary Chapman through their book "Choose Greatness"--as they discuss the importance of guiding young men through life. Jesus broke many traditions of His day, arguably one of the most significant was allowing women to participate in His ministry. Through Luke 8:  1 -3, Bible teacher Beverly Coniaris unpacks the intentional significance of this cultural challenge.

On Headlines and Punchlines we take a humorous look at news and life with friend and colleague Patrick Albanese. Then Pastor David Myles  joins Bill on the Monday Afternoon Mix  with special guest Dr. Clarence Shuler,  and Gary Chapman through their book "Choose Greatness" they continue to discuss the importance of guiding young men through life.  

On Headlines and Punchlines we take a humorous look at news and life with friend and colleague Patrick Albanese. Then Pastor David Myles  joins Bill on the Monday Afternoon Mix  with special guest Dr. Clarence Shuler,  Through Clarence's book "Choose Greatness" they discuss the importance of guiding young men through life.  

Do you want to live a great life? Most young men would say, yes! But living a great life doesn't just happen by chance. It's the result of making wise decisions every day, and good decision-making starts when you're young. Author and counselor, Clarence Shuler joins Mornings with Eric and Brigitte on Tuesday to share how he met Dr. Gary Chapman when he was just a teenager, and Dr. Chapman was his youth leader. The two saw the value not only of a mentoring relationship but the importance of making good decisions during this critical time in life. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A jury of five men and seven women found a former Minneapolis officer guilty of murder and manslaughter Tuesday in the death of George Floyd. The jury, including six white people and six people of color, spent about 10 hours to reach the verdict from the three-week trial. They found Derek Chauvin, the former police officer, guilty of all three charges of second-degree murder, third-degree murder and second-degree manslaughter. Floyd, a Black man, died last May after Chauvin, a white police officer, pressed a knee on his neck for about 9 minutes 29 seconds. Floyd’s death led to nationwide protests against racism and policing in the United States. Some of the protests turned violent and led to property damage and injuries. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today on Karl and Crew Mornings, we continued our weekly theme: "Waymaker".  We discussed how God makes a way when there seems to be no way.  The scripture reference was Isaiah 43:19-21.  We heard stories of how God made a way in what seemed to be an impossible situation.   Our special guest today was Dr. Clarence Shuler (author, speaker, counselor, and President of Building Lasting Relationships).  He shared from his book, "Winning the Race to Unity: Is Racial Reconciliation Really Working?".  This week is also Founder's Week at the Moody Bible Institute.  The theme is "Waymaker," and we talked with one of today's speakers, Dr. Benjamin Wilson (MBI professor and author).  For February, we started a read-thru of Acts for the month: a book a day.  Check our Facebook page to stay updated.  Finally, take a listen to the Karl and Crew Showcast to hear some of the best moments from today.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Atheists make some really dreadful arguments when opposing the existence of God, so how do we counter them? Apologist Andy Bannister will join me to talk about it and his book, "The Athiest Who Didn't Exist." Plus: Author Clarence Shuler discusses the wise decisions that every young man should make. His book is called, "Choose Greatness." That and more on Thursday's JANET MEFFERD TODAY.

- WSB's Shelley Wynter helps high schooler raise $165,000 for black businesses following looting - CLARENCE SHULER: Choose Greatness - 11 Wise Decisions that Brave Young Men Make - JUNETEENTH - A "Movement of God" at George Floyd's Memorial in Minneapolis is Bringing Christians and Unbelivers Togther in Unity - JUSTIN CAMP: Help for Men Who want to Engage the "Odyssey" God has in Store for Them - Juneteenth is the Day the LAST SLAVES Learned that they had been SET FREE - and Now Momentum is Building to Declare it a FEDERAL HOLIDAY! - Mississippi Legislators Pass a Bill BANNING the Abortion of BLACK Babies Simply Because of Their RACE!

The church is not immune to the racial divide and challenges that have been brought to the center of the national conversation because of the murder of George Floyd. As we seek to listen and understand the injustices and challenges of the African American experience, what’s the next step? Tuesday we visit with the President and CEO of Building Lasting Relationships Clarence Shuler. Clarence will challenge us to confront the racial divide in our churches and to tackle the issues head on as we work toward unity in this divided culture.

Racial tensions are at a boiling point. The death of George Floyd while in police custody in Minneapolis has triggered protests all over the country. Many of the peaceful protests have been hijacked by rioters and looters. Heartbreaking. The call for change is deafening. Clarence Shuler joins us as we're talking about the racial divide and finding hope in the midst of chaos.  Plus, it's Relationship Wednesday—with Dr. David Clarke—taking your calls during the 7 am hour. 

Dr. Clarence Shuler discusses his experience as an African-American man and minister with depression.

dadAWESOME We're on a mission to add LIFE to the dad life. We're passionate about helping dads live fully alive as they lead their kids to God's awesomeness. Thanks for helping us reach more dads by passing along these resources: Subscribe to the dadAWESOME YouTube channel Text a few other dads and encourage them to check out www.dadawesome.org and subscribe to the podcast Leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts Share a post about @dadawesome on Facebook or Instagram #dadawesome Dr. Clarence Shuler  Dr. Clarence and Brenda are parents to three young adult daughters (he's the minority in their sorority), author, marriage counselor, speaker, and life & relationship coach. He is the President/CEO of BLR: Building Lasting Relationships. For nearly 35 years, Clarence and Brenda have conducted marriage, discipleship, men's, women's, and single seminars internationally. They are members of FamilyLife Weekend To Remember Marriage Conference Speaker Team. Recently, Clarence was a marriage expert on Oprah Winfrey's Love Goals reality show.  Episode Notes 1:00 -  PRAYER from 2 Corinthians 12:9 "But he answered me, “My grace is always more than enough for you, and my power finds its full expression through your weakness.” So I will celebrate my weaknesses, for when I'm weak I sense more deeply the mighty power of Christ living in me" 2:12 - thanks for sharing dadAWESOME on social media 2:30 - check out the YouTube channel: https://bit.ly/YouTubeDAsubscribe 3:00 - DA Daily - text the word "dad" to the number 33222 3:30 - Jeff's introduction of Dr. Clarence Shuler  4:55 - Dr. Clarence introduces himself (see bio above) 6:06 - Being a dad to three girls 7:20 - "The most important thing any dad can do is spend more time with their kids" 7:30 - "Quality time comes from quantity of time" 8:15 - Be accessible. Keep the door open. 8:45 - Love your kids mother. When kids see a dad love their mother it gives the kids important security 9:22 - Marriage tips 9:30 - "How I treat my wife is a reflection of how I love God" 9:50 - Pray with your wife 9:55 - "That closeness with your wife lets her bloom. She can't be the woman God designed her to be until she feels security from us" 10:25 - Be a servant leader 12:03 - My girls belong to God. I'm just a steward. 12:20 - What we do with our kids impacts our children's children. You're impacting generations 13:52 - Importance of focussing on your kids from birth through 10 years old 14:30 - The value of mentorship 15:00 - Spotting a mentor that he pursued  16:00 - You can get a lot of wisdom from your wife if you're brave enough to ask for it 16:25 - Learning to apologize to your kids  17:12 - The Fatherhood Commission 18:15 - Learning to heal the father wound 18:50 - Writing a letter to your dad... Bringing closure and healing. 20:00 - The video about honoring your father and writing intentional letters: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l-wG04x288c 20:30 - The Book "Choose Greatness" 21:00 - I wrote this book because I wanted to spend more time with my mentor and spiritual father 23:00 - This book was written for a 10 year old boy through men in their 20's 24:00 - Steps towards growing a mentor relationship into a spiritual father relationship 24:45 - Older guys really love it when young men come asking for wisdom 25:12 - Go ask that guy... Don't hesitate to acknowledge something you see and ask that mentor for a meeting 26:30 - Time machine advice = spend more time and pray more with your kids 27:25 - You're launching your kids... You can't spend too much time with your kids 28:45 - The importance of dads knowing what their kids are doing on the internet 29:18 - Get someone to mentor you who is a leader 29:39 - Dr. Clarences prayer over all of us Episode Links Choose Greatness: 11 Wise Decisions that Brave Young Men Make Paperback by Gary Chapman & Dr. Clarence Shuler  Other books from Dr. Clarence Shuler Building Lasting Relationships 

Guest Speaker: Dr. Clarence Shuler teaching on relationships.   The post “Relationships: Keys to the Songs of Life” appeared first on HOPE FELLOWSHIP CHURCH.

​When Clarence was a teenager, Pastor Gary walked onto a basketball court and began a relationship with him. Now, decades later, Dr. Clarence Shuler and Dr. Gary Chapman are helping a new generation of young men. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, hear a best-of conversation between these lifelong friends about Choosing Greatness. Don’t miss this special Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If you're single, that doesn't mean you're incomplete. You can be whole in Christ. Clarence Shuler coaches singles to speak up and let your needs be known for the benefit of your local church. Show Notes and Resources ClarenceShulerOnline.com Learn more about becoming a Legacy Partner, a monthly supporter of FamilyLife. https://www.familylife.com/legacy

Why do some teens thrive as adults while others struggle? What makes the difference? Clarence Shuler is the president of Building Lasting Relationships and interacts internationally with young men about friendships, dating and sexuality. As a teenager he met Gary Chapman, the New York Times #1 bestselling author of The 5 Love Languages. Gary mentored Clarence and helped him make wise decisions during his tumultuous teen years. Decades later, the two are still close friends and both lead powerful ministries that help people all around the world live better, more godly lives. We sat down with Clarence to get some practical advice to help young men choose greatness.

Author Clarence Shaler talks about the wise decisions young men can make from his book "Choose Greatness." Many boys are adrift, not succeeding in school or life, but just in video games. Learn how to parent your boy with purpose so he will grow up to be a great man.

A Canadian human rights tribunal has ordered Christian activist Bill Whatcott to pay $55,000 to a man with gender dysphoria. His crime? Calling the man a biological male! Whatcott will join Janet to explain the scary, totalitarian reach of LGBT ideology in his nation. Plus: What are some of the choices young men should be making in order to live in a great way? Janet discusses it with Clarence Shuler, president and CEO of BLR: Building Lasting Relationships and author of "Choose Greatness: 11 Wise Decisions That Brave Young Men Make." That's next time on Monday's JANET MEFFERD TODAY.

Today we'll talk with Clarence Shuler, PhD, co-author of “Choose Greatness: 11 Wise Decisions That Brave Young Men Make” (Moody Publishers), senior policy analyst Jonathan Butcher, on President Trump's call for free speeh on college campuses, and Jim Campbell, senior counsel with Alliance Defending Freedom, on the Colorado Civil Rights Commission’s decision to drop the Masterpiece Cake Shop challenge.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The program kicks off with Bryner Chevrolet president Dave Peterson checking in. He “grew up on the lot” as part of a four-generation family (the dealership being 90 years old and Dave himself involved the past 40+ years). Peterson gives a crash course re: the pros & cons of leasing v buying and sheds a lot of good insight along the way. Author Clarence Shuler then gives a call from his hometown of Colorado Springs to discuss his new book Choose Greatness—11 Wise Decisions That Brave Young Men Make. Co-written with fellow author (“The 5 Love Languages”) and lifelong mentor Gary Chapman, Shuler tackles a wide range of topics with the common thread of choosing—wisdom from parents or trusted adults…to seek knowledge through education…to make technology work for you…to build diverse friendships…and many more. Shuler demonstrates a very down-to-earth style laced with humor and most importantly a clear desire to honor God and empower young men (and mentors) with this book as a tool to help them do just that. Giveaways (as has become a common occurrence on the TDS) dot the landscape as well throughout the show. More info on the book (and others Shuler has written) available at www.clarenceshuler.com. Dave Peterson can be reached at www.brynerchevy.com / 215-886-3140.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Trump Administration's homosexual ambassador to Germany is now heading up an effort to decriminalize homosexuality around the globe. How should Christians respond to this? I'll talk it over with Peter LaBarbera, president of Americans for Truth about Homosexuality. Plus: Author Clarence Shuler discusses the wise decisions that every young man should make. His book is called, "Choose Greatness." That and more on Thursday's JANET MEFFERD TODAY.

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Clarence Shuler '82 | CEO & President | BLR: Building Lasting Relationships