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Send us a textOne Way or a Mother is a new narrative podcast from Dr. Elliot Berlin, DC, host of The Informed Pregnancy Podcast. Each season is an intimate story of one woman, one pregnancy, and all of the preparations, emotions, and personal history leading up to the birth. Episodes feature the expectant mother along with her family, doctors, and birth work team.In season one of OWAM, we meet Arianna who is pregnant with her second baby after a traumatic first birth experience. Follow along over 10 episodes as we hear her tell her story. She's a mother of one who is seeking new resources and using learned life lessons to create a different, more positive birth experience for baby number two. Episodes feature Arianna and her inner circle including her mother, husband, doula, doctor, and other birth professionals who supported her process.One Way or a Mother is an Informed Pregnancy Media original series. Season one is presented by Mahmee.Expert care, every stage.Meet your team of doulas, nurses, lactation consultants, and more. One team caring for the whole you. Covered by most insurance plans. Check your eligibility today at mahmee.com.******One Way or a Mother is an Informed Pregnancy Media original series. Season one is presented by @joinmahmee.Curves ahead: Episodes 1-3 are now live wherever you listen!

In this episode, Dr. Berlin shares his personal journey from childhood aspirations in healthcare to becoming a chiropractor, massage therapist, and birth advocate. He discusses combining chiropractic care, bodywork, and birth advocacy to support women in having informed pregnancies. Dr. Berlin explains the importance of collaborative care, the benefits of chiropractic adjustments during pregnancy, and the significance of the Webster Technique. The conversation also delves into the complexities of fetal positioning, specifically addressing breach and asynclitic babies, and the broader implications for childbirth. The episode underscores the necessity of interdisciplinary collaboration among healthcare providers for optimal maternal and fetal outcomes. 03:33 Introducing Dr. Elliot Berlin 08:13 Dr. Berlin's Inspiring Journey 17:38 The Power of Chiropractic Care 31:09 Understanding the Webster Technique 36:09 Chiropractic Care for Breech and Asynclitic Babies 37:20 Understanding Breech Baby Statistics 38:39 Structural and Functional Reasons for Breech Babies 40:54 Chiropractic Techniques for Breech Babies 42:46 Mother's Day Special: Cozy Bamboo PJs 44:34 Discussion on Breech Birth Choices 47:50 The Term Breech Trial and Its Impact 54:54 The ARRIVE Trial and Its Implications 56:26 Chiropractic Care for Posterior Babies 01:00:59 The Role of Doulas in Birth 01:02:35 Fetal Positioning in Traditional Medical Models 01:06:36 Informed Pregnancy Media and Resources 01:08:25 Conclusion and Final Thoughts   Guest Bio: Dr. Elliot Berlin is an award-winning prenatal chiropractor, childbirth educator, labor support bodyworker, filmmaker, co-founder of Berlin Wellness Group in Los Angeles, California and the host of the Informed Pregnancy Podcast. Dr. Berlin graduated Summa Cum Laude from Life University of Chiropractic in Atlanta, Georgia, and the Atlanta School of Massage.     Dr. Berlin's Informed Pregnancy® Project aims to utilize multiple forms of media (podcasts, YouTube series, documentaries, and online workshops) to compile and deliver unbiased information about pregnancy and childbirth to empower new and expectant parents to make informed choices regarding their pregnancy and parenting journey.     Dr. Berlin lives in Los Angeles with his wife, perinatal psychologist Dr. Alyssa Berlin, and their four fantastic kids. INSTAGRAM: Connect with HeHe on IG  Connect with HeHe on YouTube Connect with Dr. Elliot Berlin on IG    BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience!   Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!   LINKS MENTIONED: Informed Pregnancy Podcast   One way or a Mother Podcast    Heads Up, the Disappearing Art of Vaginal breech Delivery Documentary   Trial of Labor Documentary   

Dr. ELLIOT BERLIN is an award-winning prenatal chiropractor, childbirth educator, labor support bodyworker, filmmaker, co-founder of Berlin Wellness Group in Los Angeles, California and the host of the Informed Pregnancy Podcast. Dr. Berlin graduated Summa Cum Laude from Life University of Chiropractic in Atlanta, Georgia, and the Atlanta School of Massage. Dr. Berlin's Informed Pregnancy® Project aims to utilize multiple forms of media (podcasts, YouTube series, documentaries, and online workshops) to compile and deliver unbiased information about pregnancy and childbirth to empower new and expectant parents to make informed choices regarding their pregnancy and parenting journey. Dr. Berlin lives in Los Angeles with his wife, perinatal psychologist Dr. Alyssa Berlin, and their four fantastic kids. Check out his website informedpregnancy.tv and sign up for a free 30 day trial with code: WAM30 Dr. Berlin's info: Website: https://www.informedpregnancy.tv/ Instagram: http://instagram.com/doctorberlin/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DoctorBerlin Please click the button to subscribe so you don't miss any episodes and leave a review if your favorite podcast app has that ability. Thank you! Visit http://drlaurabrayton.com/podcasts/ for show notes and available downloads. © 2014 - 2025 Dr. Laura Brayton

One Way or a Mother is a brand new long-form narrative podcast from Dr. Elliot Berlin, DC, host of The popular Informed Pregnancy Podcast. Each ten episode season follows one pregnancy and all the decisions, emotions, preparations, and history that goes along with it. Interviews feature the expectant mother along with husbands, parents, doctors, doulas, and surrogates. In season one, listeners meet Arianna, pregnant with baby number two after a less than empowered first birth experience. Follow along over a ten episode arc as we hear the background that brought Arianna to where she is today before embarking on her current journey - that of a proactive pregnant mom using her lived lessons and current resources to create a different, more positive birth experience this time around. Included in each episode are interviews with Arianna's important pillars including her mom, husband, doula, doctor, and other practitioners important to her process.

Is it true that carrying girls is harder than carrying boys?! Garrett's first trimester with Decklen was nothing compared to the challenges she's faced in this pregnancy. Whether she can blame the sex of the baby, or the IVF drugs, in this pregnancy she has dealt with throwing up, headaches, more fear and fatigue. Tune in to hear her summary, and more about where you can tune in to WATCH her share the most nitty gritty details of her second pregnancy journey. Informed Pregnancy TV + Discount code: GK30 Informed Pregnancy+ is the streaming platform dedicated to all things pregnancy, postpartum, and parenting from award-winning, pregnancy-focused chiropractor and host of The Informed Pregnancy Podcast, Dr. Elliot Berlin, DC. Use code GK30 for 30% off of your subscription. Spoiler Alert: The channel will be following Founder and CEO, Garrett Kusmierz, throughout her pregnancy. ________________________________________________ Tiktok: @kozekozemama IG: @kozekozemama @garrettnwood Shop all kozēkozē products with THANKYOU20 for 20% off Nipple Diaper on sale NOW with THANKYOU20 for 20% off ⁠⁠⁠Nip Gloss on Amazon ⁠⁠⁠ Want commission + discounts to kozēkozē products? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apply here ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠to be an affiliate and kozēkozē insider :) Sign-up for the kozēkozē newsletter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ *********** Podcast Instagram for details on past guests: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@kozekozepodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you like Garrett's voice, check out her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠meditations here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email Garrett: garrettkusmierz@kozekoze.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Elliot Berlin joins us again, this time to chat about vaginal breech birth, as well as a little about VBACs, the 4th Trimester, and more! Our focus, vaginal breech birth, is not usually an option for moms in the hospital, but it should be! We discuss why in this episode, as well as why you need to consider future pregnancies, include VBAC, if you choose to have a cesarean for a breech baby (or for any other reason).Resources Mentioned:Informed Pregnancy+: https://www.informedpregnancy.com/ipInformed Pregnancy: https://informedpregnancy.com/Informed Pregnancy podcasts: https://informedpregnancy.com/podcast/Check out Informed Pregnancy+https://www.informedpregnancy.tv/ Full Well Code: TNBT10https://fullwellfertility.com/Tighten Your Tinkler Testimonial & Signature Program Code: TNBT50https://youtu.be/FjV7KYGv2ag https://www.tightenyourtinkler.com/signatureprogram NOW IT'S YOUR TURN! The NaturalBirth Site- TheNaturalBirthSite.com SIGN UP for the NaturalBirth Education course to best prepare your body & mind for natural birth (only $65) Read natural birth stories- and submit your own SHARE OUR PODCAST with anyone you know who is interested in natural birth! Check out our HELPFUL PRODUCTS GUIDE

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One Way or a Mother is a new narrative podcast from Dr. Elliot Berlin, DC, host of The Informed Pregnancy Podcast. Each season is an intimate story of one woman, one pregnancy, and all of the preparations, emotions, and personal history leading up to the birth. Episodes feature the expectant mother along with her family, doctors, and birth work team. In season one of OWAM, we meet Arianna who is pregnant with her second baby after a traumatic first birth experience. Follow along over 10 episodes as we hear her tell her story. She's a mother of one who is seeking new resources and using learned life lessons to create a different, more positive birth experience for baby number two. Episodes feature Arianna and her inner circle including her mother, husband, doula, doctor, and other birth professionals who supported her process. Episode 1: Meet Arianna and her husband Zach as they prepare for the birth of their second child. Arianna recounts her tumultuous younger years filled with rebellion, experimentation, and the struggles of growing up with a single mother in southern California. Now a filmmaker, she delves deep into her past and shares about how her experiences are shaping her current journey. With humor and vulnerability, Arianna discusses generational trauma, how close companionship turned into marriage, and how she's planning for a better birth experience this time around. One Way or a Mother is an Informed Pregnancy Media original series. Season one is presented by Mahmee. Expert care, every stage. Meet your team of doulas, nurses, lactation consultants, and more. One team caring for the whole you. Covered by most insurance plans. Check your eligibility today at mahmee.com. Credits: Elliot Berlin - Executive Producer, Creator, Host, Writer Rose Hart-Landsberg - Producer, Writer Natalie Pulvino - Producer, Writer Nikola Tarabaovic - Audio Editor Glenn Nishida - Sound Engineer Guilherme Silva - Music Composition Paul Greenberg - Consulting Producer Mallory Edson - Story, Audio Editing, Sound Mixing Olivia Trueblood - Copywriter, Art Jawad Salimee - Main Series Art Featuring:  Arianna Lasry, Zach Lasry, Aleks Lyons Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Part II of our holiday countdown, Dr. Berlin discusses numbers 5 through 1 of the top 10 most popular episodes of the Informed Pregnancy Podcast in 2024. Links to the Informed Pregnancy Podcast and other media mentioned in today's episode: #5 Ep. 418: Exploring Freebirth with Catalina Clark #4 Ep. 390: Dr. Nathan Riley and Low Intervention Birth #3 Ep. 413: Aly Michalka: Before Birth and Ep. 414: Aly Michalka: After Birth #2 Ep. 400: Ina May Gaskin on Midwifery #1 Ep. 416: Hilary Duff: A Birth Story Part 1 and Ep. 417: A Birth Story Part 2 Ep. 97 Catalina Clark: Before Birth Ep. 98 Catalina Clark: After Birth Ep. 20 Labor Day Surprises Part 1 Ep. 21 Labor Day Surprises Part 2 Ep. 22 Labor Day Surprises Part 3 Ep. 147 Dr. Jennifer Lang on Prenatal Nutrition Ep. 317 Holiday Rebroadcast: Hilary Duff Before Baby #2 Ep. 318 Holiday Rebroadcast: Hilary Duff After Baby #2 Ep. 92 Yael Cohen Braun: A Birth Story These Are My Hours a birth documentary Orgasmic Birth a documentary about oxytocin and birth  Heads Up: The Disappearing Art of Vaginal Breech Delivery an IP+ original documentary The Business of Being Born THE original and iconic birth documentary BellydanceBirth® with Maha al Musa Learn easy and gentle belly dance movements for pregnancy and birth. No previous dance experience (belly dance or otherwise) necessary! Baby Book Nook a video book review series dedicated to exploring informative books about pregnancy, childbirth, postpartum, and early parenting IP+ original Empowered Mama an IP+ original, Empowered Mama with host Arista Ilona was created to empower and inspire mothers by highlighting stories about pregnancy, birth, and motherhood through a lens of celebration and honor.  My Birth an IP+ original, MyBirth invites you into the intimate world of real mothers sharing unique birth stories through their own voices, with photos and videos capturing raw, emotional moments along the way. One Way or A Mother a new serialized visual podcast coming soon to IP+ *graphic animal birth video* elephant gives birth, saves newborn with “chiropractic adjustment” Want more pregnancy + parenting?  Informed Pregnancy Plus is a new streaming platform by pregnancy focused chiropractor Dr. Elliot Berlin. Dedicated to pregnancy, parenting, and everything in between, IP+ offers everything from prenatal workouts and yoga flows to original series and iconic birth films like The Business of Being Born. (Pssst, subscriptions are a great gift for parents-to-be!) Start your FREE TRIAL of Informed Pregnancy+ and get access to all our curated pregnancy and parenting content HERE!  Keep up with Dr. Berlin and the Informed Pregnancy Project online! informedpregnancy.com Informed Pregnancy on Youtube Informed Pregnancy Media on LinkedIn @doctorberlin Facebook X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kick off our holiday countdown with Part I. Dr. Berlin discusses numbers 10 through 6 of the top 10 most popular episodes of the Informed Pregnancy Podcast in 2024. Links to the Informed Pregnancy Podcast and other media mentioned in today's episode: #10 Episode 391: Surrogacy with Joyce Wheeler #9 Episode 396: First Baby After 40 with Rachel Gerrol & Episode 397: Rachel Gerrol: After Birth #8 Episode 399: All About VBACS with Meagan Heaton #7 Episode 393: Directing Your Own Birth with Riley Ebsen #6 Episode 388: Kara Sutton: Before Birth & Episode 389: Kara Sutton: After Birth Episode 85: Pregnancy Over 35 with Dr. Emiliano Chavira Episode 172: Surrogacy with Kelila Green Episode 199: Pregnancy Over 40 with Michelle Johnson Trial of Labor, an original documentary film now streaming on Informed Pregnancy+ Trial of Labor follows a small group of pregnant women and their journeys back to trusting themselves and their bodies after previous births ended in unplanned surgery. Each woman has chosen to plan a vaginal birth after Cesarean, and the uncertainty of their imminent births evokes in each a personal reckoning: finding a path through unresolved feelings and difficult decisions to the ultimate, unpredictable event of childbirth. Want more pregnancy + parenting?  Informed Pregnancy Plus is a new streaming platform by pregnancy focused chiropractor Dr. Elliot Berlin. Dedicated to pregnancy, parenting, and everything in between, IP+ offers everything from prenatal workouts and yoga flows to original series and iconic birth films like The Business of Being Born. (Pssst, subscriptions are a great gift for parents-to-be!) Start your FREE TRIAL of Informed Pregnancy+ and get access to all our curated pregnancy and parenting content HERE!  Keep up with Dr. Berlin and the Informed Pregnancy Project online! informedpregnancy.com Informed Pregnancy on Youtube Informed Pregnancy Media on LinkedIn @doctorberlin Facebook X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Past guest Catalina Clark, a licensed midwife, returns to the podcast as a mother of two to discuss freebirth, a term describing childbirth without medical or midwifery assistance.  Connect with Catalina: @catalina.clark and catalinaclarkbirth.com Check out Informed Pregnancy Podcast episodes 97 and 98 for Catalina's before and after birth stories after her first child. Want more pregnancy + parenting? Informed Pregnancy Plus is a new streaming platform by pregnancy focused chiropractor Dr. Elliot Berlin. Dedicated to pregnancy, parenting, and everything in between, IP+ offers everything from prenatal workouts and yoga flows to original series and iconic birth films like The Business of Being Born. (Pssst, subscriptions are a great gift for parents-to-be!) Start your FREE TRIAL of Informed Pregnancy+ and get access to all our curated pregnancy and parenting content: https://www.informedpregnancy.tv/  Keep up with Dr. Berlin and the Informed Pregnancy Project online! www.informedpregnancy.com www.instagram.com/doctorberlin/ www.facebook.com/InformedPregnancy www.twitter.com/doctorberlin Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join us for a heartfelt and candid conversation on motherhood as Renee Bargh and Olivia Davies share their personal stories and challenges, from night weaning to managing children's sleep routines. Listen in as they reflect on setting boundaries and finding humour amidst the chaos. Special guest Claire Holt, known for her roles in H2O Just Add Water and The Vampire Diaries, opens up about her journey as a mother of three, maintaining authenticity with her massive following, and the emotional rollercoaster of parenting. In this episode, we explore the complex dynamics of postpartum body image and the pressures of societal beauty standards. Hear a personal account of facing backlash after sharing a postpartum body image post on social media, and the importance of being honest about struggles and imperfections. The discussion extends to the humbling aspects of motherhood, including the shifting dynamics in parent-child relationships and the inevitable comparisons we make. Through laughter and tears, we emphasise the resilience of children and the evolving confidence of parents, underscoring the importance of community support and letting go of perfection. Lastly, Claire Holt shares her journey of seeking support during postpartum, which allowed her to enjoy a beautiful postpartum period and navigate challenges like gestational hypertension. We also touch on the emotional intensity of childbirth and postpartum recovery, highlighting the significance of pelvic floor health and the need for better resources for new mothers. From navigating heartbreak and finding love again to parenting dilemmas and dinner struggles, this episode is filled with relatable moments, valuable insights, and the profound joy that comes with embracing the "mum era”. Sponsors:   Beetl Skincare  ⁠https://beetl.co.nz⁠ Le Puree https://lepuree.com.au Discount code for 10% off Le Puree MUMERA10 Connect with Mum Era Podcast Email: ⁠hello@mumerapodcast.com⁠ Website: ⁠mumerapodcast.com ⁠Instagram: ⁠mumerapodcast⁠ Connect with Renee:  Instagram:  ⁠@reneebargh⁠ Connect with Olivia:  Instagram:  ⁠@oliviajdavies⁠ Connect with Claire: Instagram:  @claireholt Book Claire mentions by Emily Oster https://www.amazon.com.au/Expecting-Better-Conventional-Pregnancy-Wisdom-ebook/dp/B00D434A38 Podcast Claire mentions - Informed Pregnancy Podcast with Dr Elliot Berlin https://open.spotify.com/show/5gqC5yJIZcbjsh4skcFZ2n?si=ad2b9c8d30df4dc5

Jenny's story is one of pure gratitude and joy. She is so grateful to be a mother, for the miracle of her pregnancies, for a breech baby who flipped late in her second pregnancy, for the chance to experience labor, and for a beautiful, successful VBAC. Jenny talks about all of the ways she prepped and how she even had to travel over a mountain pass during a snowstorm while in labor to get to her VBAC-supportive provider. Meagan shares some statistics about breech birth and why we so badly need more providers trained in vaginal breech delivery.A long-time listener of The VBAC Link Podcast, Jenny shares her story with so much joy hoping to inspire other Women of Strength just as she was inspired by so many others. PubMed Article: Risk of Vaginal Breech Birth vs. Planned CesareanHeads Up DocumentaryInformed Pregnancy - code: vbaclink424Needed WebsiteHow to VBAC: The Ultimate Prep Course for ParentsFull Transcript under Episode Details 02:58 Jenny's first pregnancy with gestational diabetes06:10 Low amniotic fluid, breech presentation, and a C-section10:22 Healing in different ways14:16 Getting pregnant again and doing all of the VBAC prep22:52 Gestational diabetes test27:59 Breech at 34 weeks32:33 A head-down baby35:11 Traveling the mountain pass in a snowstorm39:43 Checking into the hospital45:42 Fetal ejection reflex49:20 Pushing out baby and postpartum blood loss57:10 Jenny's advice for breech mamas1:00:22 Statistics on vaginal birth versus planned Cesarean for breechMeagan: Hey, hey. You are listening to The VBAC Link Podcast and we have another amazing episode for you today. We have our friend, Jenny. Hello, Jenny. Jenny: Hi. Meagan: How are you today?Jenny: I'm good. I'm so excited. This is just– I am reeling actually that this is actually happening today. Meagan: I am so excited that it is. You know, it's so fun to get submissions in and then when we send them out, people are like, “Wait, what? Really?” Jenny: That is exactly how I felt. I was like, “This is never going to happen, but I'm just going to go for it. I'm just going to submit it.” I mean, The VBAC Link was such a huge part of my whole story and just to be on here and hopefully share something inspirational with somebody else, hopefully it helps somebody. That's my goal today. Meagan: It will. It's absolutely going to. The whole podcast, sorry if you guys hear any noise in the background by the way. I'm getting a new furnace today and he's installing it downstairs literally below me. So sorry if there's any extra background noise. But this podcast is literally something that I wish so badly that I had when I was going through my VBAC. Obviously, that's one of the reasons why we were inspired to create it, but every single story, even though they all might have similarities or even be in similar places, they are so different and unique and I love that. I love that almost 300 episodes in, we can prove that every birth is different. It's true. Every birth is different and you went through a lot with your births. I mean, I've got her list right here of things. You guys, this is going to be a jam-packed episode. She's got gestational diabetes, breech, advanced maternal age, and trusting the process. We're going to talk about traveling literally over a mountain pass. She drove over a mountain pass to find what she needed so I'm so excited to dive into your episode in just one minute after the intro. 02:58 Jenny's first pregnancy with gestational diabetesMeagan: Okay, Jenny. Here we go. You are– are you ready? Are you ready? She is dancing in the background. You can't see her but she is literally dancing. You can see she is so excited to share this amazing story with you. Jenny: I am so ready. Okay, so let me go back four years to my C-section baby. I can't believe it's been that long. Being a mom was never in the cards for me. I'm just going to start out by saying that. My husband and I, we had been married for 15 years. We went on this fabulous cruise and we were just having the time of our lives. We had a conversation that if I was past 30, it just wasn't going to happen for us and that was okay. So we never planned to have babies and then we had the most wonderful surprise of our whole lives. One day– I don't even know it had been since I had my period so I was like, “Oh, I'll just take a test.” He saw it and was like, “What is this?” I said, “I'm 98% positive that it's going to be negative. I just do this sometimes. It's fine.” I get out of the bathroom with this blazingly positive test and he's like, “No way. I don't believe that.” So I had to go the doctor and prove to him that I was. Anyway, I loved being pregnant. It was so incredible. The miracle of just growing a baby is beyond words. Just that first flutter to knowing that you are creating a human inside of you to the first ultrasound– anyway. I started listening to “The Birth Hour” and I went down the rabbit hole. I love it so much because like you were saying before, it shows you so much about the differences. I didn't know what I didn't know, so it was just an education in itself. I went down the rabbit hole and I am such a birth nerd now. I had no idea. When I found out I was pregnant, the first thing that came to my mind was, “I have to give birth. I'm so scared,” because of all the fear. We get so much media fear. You see all the people screaming and pushing. It just looked traumatizing then I remembered I had seen The Business of Being Born and I was like, “No.” I have always been this closet hippie. I was like, “No. I'm going to do this and I'm going to do it right.” I found myself at 28 weeks. We did a gestational diabetes test and I walked into the doctor's office and she was like, “You have gestational diabetes.” I was like, “No I don't. No, I don't.” She was like, “Yeah, you do.” She was like, “You are going to give birth at 39 weeks here. You are going to be induced. You will give birth on your back. You will do this. You will do this.” The language she used with me was so– I felt so defeated and I was only 28 weeks. I was so disappointed and it was a midwife. It was a midwife practicing under a hospital OB practice. But I live in a really small town, so it was the only midwife I could find really. Home birth wasn't an option for me. We do have a home birth midwife, but it wasn't affordable at the time. 06:10 Low amniotic fluid, breech presentation, and a C-sectionJenny: It turns out that I had low amniotic fluid and you know, they send you in for all of these screenings and tests once you know you have gestational diabetes. They were really concerned about it one time when I went in and they were like, “I don't see any amniotic fluid, like any.” They actually kept me overnight and pumped me full of saline.Meagan: A bolus?Jenny: I was drinking water. Yeah, it was crazy. They checked the next morning and they said, “Yeah, you still don't have any amniotic fluid so we're going to send you to an MFM over the mountains,” which is about an hour and a half away in the city. When I got over, the MFM walked into the room. She didn't even say hi to me. I was 34 weeks at the time and she was like, “We're keeping you here. You're going to have this baby. You're not going to leave this hospital until you do.” She hadn't even talked to me. She never said, “Hello.” I mean, she just looked at my chart. She didn't do any tests on me. I was just blown away by how she talked to me. I was just like, “Are you kidding? Hi. I'm a person.” The did the test right there and then. It turns out the city doctor and their tests are so much better. Based on the total amount of amniotic fluid, they released me that day. As I was walking out the door, she was like, “By the way, I'll see you back here for your delivery because your baby is breech and you're not going to have her naturally.” I was just like, “Okay. I'll show you. I'm going to flip this baby.”Anyway, I went down the rabbit hole. I did everything. I even signed up for the ECV. I don't want to traumatize anybody, but there were three people pushing on my belly trying to get that baby to turn and she didn't budge. She was there. I did have some lower amniotic fluid.Meagan: That can be a sign too if baby really, really, really isn't budging that's usually a sign that an ECV– and if it's extremely painful, sometimes the ECV just isn't going to be successful and sometimes we have to trust those little babes, right? There is a reason why. Jenny: Mhmm. Mhmm. I totally agree with you too. I even was mourning the loss this whole time because I so badly wanted to give birth just to experience it. I don't know. It's an innate woman thing. Men can't do it. It's something that I never experienced in my life. What else can we go through in our lives that you have to wait until you're an adult to feel? It was just this phenomenon. I was so curious about it and I wasn't even getting the opportunity. I was telling a nurse about it one day when I was getting a test done, “I just want the chance.” She was like, “Oh, honey. You don't want to ruin your cervix by pushing out a breech baby.” I was like, “Oh, so I would break myself?” I didn't say anything because at the time, I was this pushover. I was just like, “I'll do whatever,” but inside, I was dying. I just wanted the chance at everything. So I got to the point where I just walked into the OR with the MFM because she does five of them a day and I trusted her more than I trusted our small-town hospital. Jenny: The C-section was uneventful. It was really easy. We did the labor baby dance before we went in there and then I saw her come out of my belly and I was thinking, “I don't know this baby.” I felt disconnected but at the same time, I was overjoyed. I cried because they took her right over to the warmer. The anesthesiologist was right by my head and she was like, “Why are you crying? Are you okay? Are you in pain?” I was like, “No, that's my baby and I can't hold her and I'm right here.” The didn't tie me down. Nothing was traumatic. I was very prepared. Meagan: They just didn't bring her over. Jenny: No, I was separated. They were weighing her and laughing about how she was and I was trying to see her. Anyway, it's just not natural. I mean, it's just not how you want to have your baby. They did put her on my chest and everything was great. 10:22 Healing in different waysJenny: Fast forward six months, I was done with it. I was like, “Maybe we'll only have one. Maybe this will be it.” We weren't planning on having a baby anyway and we were just loving being in that baby nest. COVID started and talk about a crazy time. I definitely suffered a lot from postpartum anxiety. I had a lot of expectations maybe about motherhood and stuff. I really learned a lot. The transformation to motherhood is like a phoenix rising from the ashes as a total personality makeover. You're just coming out of this, “This is who I was and this is who I'm becoming and this is what I'm learning.” Kids really teach you that, don't they? They teach you how to fight for yourself and fight for them if you can't fight for yourself, and I just found that postpartum is harder than it should be. We don't have the support we have and it really, yeah. It made me go into a deep dive of what was going on with me. I started listening to The VBAC Link actually. I found it one day when I was listening to a “Birth Hour” podcast. It was six months and I was like, “You know, I'm just going to listen.” I was like, “I love this. I enjoy it,” but I couldn't relate to it anymore. I searched VBAC on Spotify and you were the first person that came up– you and Meagan at the time or, you and Julie. I was like, “This is me.” I could connect to all of the stories because women were sharing the same feelings that I felt and the same things so thank you so much. It was inspirational to feel like, “I can do this. I can do this again.” I remember even talking to the OB when she was stitching me up in the OR. I was like, “I can have a VBAC, right?”At the time, I wasn't really planning it or whatever and she was like, “I'm doing the double stitch, don't worry. You are a good candidate.” I was like, “Okay, that's cool.” It was so far out but just listening to the stories and knowing that I could do it, it was like, “I could do this again.” But I needed to listen for a long time to feel like I was ready and stuff. A lot of your episodes talked about working through past trauma so I started doing that. I started EMDR. I did pelvic floor physical therapy and I just want to talk about that for a minute because I cannot believe how ashamed I was to do it I guess maybe. I just want to say that really quick because I have a vaginismus and that's when your muscles involuntary close into your vagina and it's because of past trauma. So doing EMDR coupled with the pelvic floor physical therapy was really something that was so useful and I was so ashamed to do it because I've had it for years and I remember my GP suggesting it one time and I was like, “Absolutely not. I'm not having anybody touch me.” I just wasn't ready. Meagan: You're vulnerable. Jenny: It is. I was so ashamed and I don't know why. I was talking to my pelvic floor PT about it. It was the first session I had with her. I was like, “I was so ashamed and I'm ready now.” She was like, “I can tell you are ready.” It was so healing to go there and to work through some of that. While it never got better for me, I know how to work with my body now and that kind of comes into play with my vaginal birth because in a way, I was a little bit relieved. Sometimes when I thought about it, I was looking at the silver linings of the C-section. You just walk right in. I was also thinking that I wouldn't have to deal with this problem that I was really afraid of having. 14:16 Getting pregnant again and doing all of the VBAC prepJenny: So anyway, big plug for pelvic floor physical therapy. Since I had gestational diabetes, I read Lily Nichols' book. I just listened to the episode on her. She is amazing. I can't believe I didn't know about her before. I had heard her on another podcast and I just thought, “I need to read this book.” She is amazing. Meagan: Yeah. Jenny: There are so many amazing birth workers out there– her and Rebecca Dekker from the “Evidence-Based Birth Podcast” and the “Down to Birth Podcast”. All of those people taught me something very unique and special about birth. It's just this education, right? All of this knowledge and trust that we really have to get. We have to work through some of our things– traumas or whatever it is. Things that culturally have been accepted in our mind about birth and we get to this point where all of a sudden, I was excited. I was like, “Maybe I could do this again.” I did all of the things. I started eating eggs, Vitamin D, and magnesium and taking the protein supplement, the collagen powder. I even went non-toxic for my cosmetics and my house care. I started this. I heard this girl's birth story. Her name is Bae. She is from Australia. She does this whole program– Core and Floor Restore. I loved her birth episode. I listened to her. I went to her website. She has this whole program on how to help your pelvic floor and how to exercise post-birth. The way she talks to women in there, she is like, “Do you. You do you. Don't push it. Don't force something that you can't do. If you can't do this exercise right now, modify it so that you can.” It was just this education of how to trust your body, how to trust birth, how to–Meagan: Trust our minds, our hearts, and our gut. Jenny: Yes, that's part of it. Yeah, yeah. Anyway, all of this transformation got me to the point where I was like, “I have to be a doula.” It wasn't in the cards for me to be a birth doula even though I am a huge nerd. I have to have a scheduled life. Meagan: Maybe postpartum? Jenny: Yes. Yes. I was like, “I want to be a doula, but I will be a postpartum doula.” I actually really love helping women work through some of these things that were so transformational to me. Just overcoming some things that you didn't know about yourself but you are forced to face in motherhood, so I became a postpartum doula and it is incredible. I love it so much. Then I decided I was ready. I was ready to have this second baby. I was ready to have my VBAC and I did a deep dive into providers because that was what you told me to do. I needed to know if I could do this and so I went to my hometown hospital and I was like, “Hey. Can I have a VBAC here?” They were like, “Absolutely not. We will schedule you for a C-section at 39 weeks so that you don't go into spontaneous labor.” I was like, “Okay.” So I went to the midwife and I was like, “Hey, can I have a VBAC here?” She said, “Well, I could support you but I shouldn't. I don't have the resources. I would want to support you, but ultimately, I shouldn't.” So I was like, “Okay. Okay.” I was like, “I've already established myself at this big hospital over the mountains. I'm going to ask them.” I went to them and they were like, “Yeah, we'll support you.” They had this outlying hospital in the mountains. It is absolutely beautiful, these giant windows looking out over the Pacific Northwest and I'm telling you, I live in the best part of the country but it's really bad so don't move here. That's for anybody that's thinking about moving here because we like it being a small town. I had my heart set on this beautiful outlier hospital. I called them. I'm getting ahead of myself. I had a conversation with my husband after I found them. I was like, “Hey, we should have a second.” He was like, “I don't know. It's really hard. We're older now.” I was 35 at the time. He was actually 44. We have a pretty big age gap. We weren't going to do it in the first place so we had some big conversations. I was like, “Okay. Let's just try for 6 months and if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. It wasn't meant to be.” We have a really strong faith so we were just like, “Maybe we weren't meant to have it.” It was really fun actually trying instead of trying to prevent pregnancy. I had never been in that boat oddly enough having a baby and stuff. But it was really hard and I was trying to visualize conception. I was like, “It seems impossible how it all happens.” Meagan: Timing and everything. It's amazing. It's amazing. Jenny: It's incredible just visualizing it all. It's incredible how it can actually happen. At the time, I was thinking, “Man, it's not going to happen.” Five months went by and I was doing all of the testing. I was making sure and it was really fun to nerd out on this side of it beyond the total planning side of it. I love that part. Yeah. Finally, one day seven, six days after I ovulated, I felt all of this cramping and I was like, “Maybe this is the implantation.” I think five days after that, I tested and I had the tiniest, faintest line. I was like, “Holy crap.” I did not think it was going to happen. It was just so amazing. I kept it to myself all day. It was my little secret except I went in and told my little one. She was three at the time. I went over and I was like, “Hey, you're going to be a big sister.” She looked at me and I was like, “But keep it quiet for a day.” Meagan: Don't tell anybody. Jenny: I wanted to take the test the next day that said you are pregnant because I didn't want the same reaction from my husband the second time. I was like, “I'm going to give him the test that says, ‘You are pregnant'.” So I did. I did. I gave him the test and he was like, “Oh my goodness!” Actually, I had her give it to him the next day. It was so cool. It was just this sweet little moment. My age really concerned me. I thought I would be so chill because the first pregnancy was like, “Whatever, I didn't plan this. Whatever happens.” With the second one, I had the fear in me that my age was against me. His age is against me now.I spent more time than I wanted and I regret feeling not anxious but just disconnected. I was really afraid to connect to this pregnancy because I know a lot can happen in early pregnancy and I really want to say that to other people who might have the same feelings that you are not alone in feeling that way because it is really scary. I got to my 20-week ultrasound and I was holding my breath the whole time she was doing the test.  She was looking and looking. She was being really fast and really efficient. They actually asked us to leave the room and go wait out in the lobby for the doctor to come get you. I was like, “This doesn't sound good. I don't think this is right.” I was so anxious and the doctor just walked up to us casually in the lobby and was like, “Everything looks good. See you guys later.” Nothing was wrong. I started bawling and I could not stop sobbing for so long. I'm not really a crier either. It was the confirmation that everything is going to be okay and we did it. I can't believe it. It's so hard to get pregnant and then everything is going good and stuff. I was really excited about that. I was also really hyper-aware of her positioning because obviously, I had this past breech. So from 20 weeks on, I was legit obsessed with sitting upright, leaning forward. All the time, I was turning my chairs around. I was never reclining on my couch. Even in my car, I was sitting straight up. I was like, “I'm uncomfortable 100% of the time.” I was trying really hard not to have a breech baby because even at my 20-week ultrasound, they looked and were like, “Yeah, she's breech but anything can happen.” I was like, “I know, whatever.” 22:52 Gestational diabetes testJenny: I was doing all of the things, right? Spinning Babies, I was going to acupuncture. I was going to pelvic floor physical therapy, the chiropractor, all of it. I was chugging along. At 26 weeks, I get my gestational diabetes test. I talk to my midwife about it and she was like, “Yeah, we can just do the two-hour test because we know you had it last time. You might have it again this time.” I was like, “Okay. I think that's a good idea.” I didn't mention this before, but with my first test, my midwife wouldn't even let me retest. She just said, “You have diabetes.” It was just the one-hour screening. It's not a diagnostic, but I got the diagnosis from it anyway. I was like, “Why wouldn't you let me retest?” She said, “Your number, I just felt like you have diabetes.” I don't know. I was pretty upset about that. They wouldn't even let me try. I know other people who retest all the time and they are negative with the three-hour test. It didn't make sense to me. So anyway, I went into this one pretty informed. I was like, “Hey, I want the three-hour test. I want to know if I have it,” because if you have it, it's not a good thing and you really want to control it. My first one was diet-controlled. She ended up being 6 pounds, 9 ounces. Meagan: Little. Jenny: She was tiny and she was 39 and 6 when she was born. I wouldn't let them take her earlier than that even though they wanted to. I was like, “No.” They were like, “We won't let you go to 40.” I was like, “Okay. You can have her at 39 and 6 then.” I was so mad at them. Anyway, I digress. Jenny: Okay, so I did the two-hour test. I felt so sick. I was like, “For sure, I have it again.” I had been eating a gestational diabetes diet the whole time. I was like, “I'm just going to take care of my body.” I felt amazing taking care of my body like that so it's really kind of a blessing in disguise having it. I would not say that having been diagnosed with it the first time. I thought that I was a failure and whatever, but you're not. Meagan: No. It just happens. Jenny: Yeah, it happens. My mom has diabetes. I shouldn't be surprised, but I was healthy and I was thinking that it would never happen to me and it did. So anyway, I took the test and it turned out negative. I couldn't believe it so whatever Lily Nichols did in her book, I did all of the things that she told me to and it worked so I'm just going to give a shoutout to her. Thank you because you helped me have my VBAC and I couldn't be more grateful for just not having it because then I kind of ate whatever I wanted. It was great. I gained a little weight and it was really fun. It was the opposite of my first pregnancy. I was carefree and I had a lot more flexibility to do things I really wanted. Anyway, that was really cool. But also at my 26-week appointment, my midwife felt my belly and she was like, “You know, your baby is frank breech.” She was like, “I'm just saying that. There is obviously plenty of time for it to turn, but we want to see a head-down baby by 30-32 weeks.” I need to back up just for a second. I wasn't able to use the midwives that I wanted at that outlier hospital from the city because I chose to do a bloodless program and they don't support that even in the outlier hospital. It is only the ones in the city. It was an hour and a half drive through city traffic and a mountain pass. I was due in February and our mountain pass is no joke. It closes for multiple days during the winter a lot of times, so going that far was part of our conversation in having a second. I was like, “I'm not having a VBAC here in town. Can you drive me?” He was like, “I'm not scared. Let's do it.” That comes into play later, but it was a lot. I had to use the bloodless program in the city which meant traffic, snow, ice, all of it. They chose to support me which was great. I found them and I'm grateful that they were but they weren't the dream team as far as being really supportive. I would say they were tolerant of me being there. Meagan: Tolerant of you going for it but not super on board. Jenny: Yeah, exactly. They were like, “Yeah, this is great.” They weren't saying, “This is what we need to see.” They weren't saying, “You need to be in spontaneous labor by 39 weeks.” I was drilling them. I was doing all of the things. I was like, “What do you require of me? Can I go to 42 weeks? I want to know.” I had never felt a contraction before so it was honestly like, I knew I went to 40 with my first so I'm definitely going to go to that with my second at least I thought. I did all of the things to try and flip her obviously when they said that, but at 35 and 6, she was still breech. Actually, it was 34 weeks. I had even gone to acupuncture and felt her physically flip. She did the flip in my belly. I'm not joking. I felt her move the entire way down head down. I woke up in the morning and she was breech again. I was like, “Okay. She can do it. I know this baby can do it.” 27:59 Breech at 34 weeksJenny: I kept doing all of the things until 34 weeks which is when most babies are head down. I was like, “You know what? I've listened to enough podcasts and stuff to know that I needed to let some things go.” I regretted a lot about my first birth. I hoped until the last minute that I was walking into the OR that she was going to flip and she didn't. I was like, “You know what? I want to enjoy this pregnancy. I don't want to feel like I'm doing all of the inversions of my life.” I was doing headstands in my hot tub. I was doing everything and I was like, “I'm going to let this go.” I chose to let this go at 34 weeks and I was like, “I'm going to enjoy this whether I have a C-section or not even though I really want a VBAC.” My faith is a really big part of that because I was just praying, “I believe so much that our bodies are incredible and they were made for this.” And to not have the chance to even try is heartbreaking. It's sad that we don't have breech providers because these OBs are professionals. They are professional. They get trained for years in how to do this and that we don't even have a chance with them boggles my mind a little bit. Meagan: I know. Jenny: Anyway, I've heard a lot about just having the chance to experience what women are made to do and just feel. Even if it's hard and even if it's painful and whatever, I just wanted the chance. I found this renegade OB in a different city. He was willing to do this ECV on me because I heard he had a good success rate. I was like, “I'm going to do it again. I don't care. I'm just going to try.” At 35 and 6, I binged on the Evidence-Based Birth Podcast because she has a couple about VBAC and she has a couple of episodes about birth. I wanted all of the stats in my head. I was like, “They are not going to deny me this ECV because I have this scar on my uterus.” I was dead-set. I knew ACOG by this point. I walked in and I was like, “I'm going to do this. Let's do this.” He was like, “Okay. This girl knows her stuff,” because he was like, “I probably shouldn't do it because of the C-section.” I was like, “No, ACOG recommends that I am not a risk.” I knew and he was like, “Girl, you know your stuff. All right. You know the risks. Let's try it.” Meagan: That is so interesting that he was trying to scare you out of it but because you knew the stats, he was willing to do it, but if you didn't know the stats, what would have happened?Jenny: Right? I wonder and I don't think it's fair that women have to become experts in the field that's not our job. Our job is to grow this beautiful baby in bliss and instead, we've got to fight for everything, something that we should be able to do. 32:33 A head-down babyJenny: I get in there and he puts the ultrasound machine on my belly. As I was driving myself there, I was thinking, “Man, these kicks are weird.” They were fluttering up here and I was like, “That's so weird.” It was under my rib instead of down below. I thought, “That's really weird.” He put the ultrasound machine and he was looking right down where my cervix was because that's where he should see feet and he laughed and he was like, “That's a head. Your baby is head-down.” I was like, “No, it's not. I felt her head last night right under my ribs.” He was like, “No, her head has moved.” I poked, poked, poked and I was like, “Are you kidding me?!” I hit him and was like, “You're kidding me, right?” He was like, “No, girl. You've got a head down baby.” I was like, “I've never felt this before! I've never had a head down baby!”I was in my second pregnancy, 36 weeks along pretty much and I had never had a head-down baby so I just want to say to all of the breech mamas out there, it can happen and maybe it can't. I don't know. I was convinced that I grew breech babies at that point because I was pretty far along there. Anyway, so that was the biggest surprise of my whole pregnancy. At that point, I was like, “I've got to find a doula. I've got to take a birth class. I've got to do all of these things.” I had been holding out for this opportunity to have a chance and now I had it. It was the most incredible, freeing feeling. When I was driving home, I was just like, “I can't believe it!” I was yelling in the car. I called my sister right away, “I have a head down baby!” She was like, “Okay.” It's just not a big deal to people. It was just so thrilling to feel like I could get the chance. So anyway, I took this birth class that B does from Core and Floor Restore and she talks a lot about physiological birth in it and how the movements that we make and the sensations that we feel all help in this balancing act of getting our babies out. I was just like, “I've got to try. I've got to try. I need the chance. I'm getting the chance now and now I've got to try.” So I did all of the dates and I did all of the classes. At 39 weeks, I stopped work and I just lived it up. I was just laying around and I was just having a good old time with my baby girl. That was one day that I had and the next day, I put her down for a nap. 35:11 Traveling the mountain pass in a snowstormJenny: I was at 39 and 4. I told my baby as I put my toddler down for a nap, I was like, “You know, I'm ready. I'm ready to see you. I've got all my meals in the freezer. I've done the work. I feel good.” Meagan: You were prepared. Jenny: I'm a postpartum doula. I had my ducks in a row and then my girl was just starting to sleep and I felt my first contraction. I was like, “No. This cannot be happening. Are you kidding me?” I just laid there super still and I was like, “That was another one. It's happening.”I went to the bathroom and I had a little bit of my mucus plug and bloody show. I texted my doula right away like, “Oh my goodness.” She was like, “Oh, you know. Things are happening. Yeah.” I was like, “I know. I know. I need to go to sleep. I'm just going to go to sleep.” I looked at the pass because that was the biggest factor in what was happening. I looked. It was 2:00 in the afternoon. I looked at the pass and it said it was going to have 7-10 inches that night of snow. I was like, “Okay. Nothing is happening now, but maybe we should.” Our plan was to get over on the other side of the mountains in case it closed on us, we would be on that side. I was going to have this chance for VBAC no matter what. I texted my husband right away and I'm like, “Hey, I had a contraction. I've had several. I've got some stuff going on. Can you head home from work? He never responded.” 6:00 rolls around. My daughter got up. My contractions slowed just like they do when your toddler is awake. I was like, “Did you get my text?” He was like, “No, what?” I was like, “It's going to happen today. I've been having contractions. I feel it.” He was like, “Okay. I was like, “But the pass is starting to snow already up there and I think we've got to go. He was like, “Well, let's just see.” I was like, “Okay. All right. Let's do this. When she goes down for sleep, I bet it's going to pick up.”Sure enough, it did. 7:30 rolls around. I put her down and it started again just small contractions, but I felt it. He went to sleep and by midnight, I was having timeable 5-minute contractions trying to lay there. I was like, “I can't do this anymore. I've got to get up.” So I got up and I got in the shower. He came in and he was like, “Are you okay?” I was like, “I am having some pretty intense contractions. I cannot lay here.” He was like, “Okay.” We were just reading each other's minds at that point. We've been married so long and we were both thinking about the pass. What are we going to do? Who was going to come over at this point and see our kid? I was spiraling and I was like, “I'm going to get in the hot tub. I'm just going to get in the hot tub and slow these down. I know this is probably just prodromal so I'm going to get in the hot tub.”I get in the hot tub and I'm sitting there and it was the most beautiful night. The stars are out. The moon is out. The sun was not out. It was the middle of the night. It was 2:00 in the morning and I was sitting there. It was this surreal, beautiful moment. Having these contractions and the warm water, it was incredible. At that moment, I was so grateful to have the opportunity at this point. I had never gotten this far. It was so cool just to sit there. That was definitely one of the most beautiful moments of my labor. Jenny: Unfortunately, my contractions sped up in the hot tub instead of slowing down. Meagan: So they were real. Jenny: Which is good, they were real. I was thinking, “Oh gosh, what do we do?” They were 2-3 minutes apart by this point lasting over a minute. We called our midwife on the other side of the mountains and we were like, “Hey, this is happening I think.” She was like, “Do you think you can make it?” I was like, “I don't know, but we've got to try.” She was like, “But you pull over right away.” We knew where the hospitals were along the way. She was like, “If you feel like you are going to start pushing, you pull over right away and you call an ambulance.” I was like, “Okay.” We called somebody and woke them up in the middle of the night to come over and stay with our toddler and we started the trek over the mountains and it was insane. It was so insane, the snow. We were all over the place. There were semis in one lane and my husband was passing them on the other side. Just like I thought it would, my labor slowed down. It was a good thing because I was obviously in fear at that moment. I sat in the back. I sat backward. I put my TENS machine on and I was going to be in the zone. 39:43 Checking into the hospitalJenny: When we got there, they checked me and unfortunately, I was only 1 centimeter but I was 70% effaced. She was like, “It's real.” Meagan: Hey, that's good. Jenny: But it's prodromal. I was like, “Awesome. We just spent the whole night getting over here.” It was so crazy, but it felt really good to be on that side of the mountains at that point. That hurdle was overcome for us. We went to our relative's house that was close by. That was part of our plan and we just went to sleep. We just went there and tanked for the morning. I got a couple of hours of sleep. My contractions started to pick up again. She fed me some eggs and I threw them up right away. It was real. It was really happening. It was 2:00 in the afternoon. It started getting really intense. I got in the shower and the whole time, I was trying to stay on all fours. I was trying to lean forward. Part of B's birth class is getting all of that pressure forward and moving your body. It was so incredible. I lost so much more of my mucus plug that I didn't know was possible. I started having more and loose bowels and all of that. By the time my contractions were 4 minutes apart, we looked at traffic and it was insane rush-hour traffic, back-to-back. We called the midwife and she was like, “You'd better start making your way in here.” I was like, “Okay.” We got in the car and it took over a half-hour to get to what should have taken 15 minutes in bumper to bumper. It was so insane just sitting in the car. One of my friends who traveled to do her birth too, I asked her what she did in the car because I knew I was going to be in the car. She was like, “I concentrated on something. I found something to concentrate on and it helped me to cope.”I was like, “I'm going to time these and I'm going to use my TENS machine at the same time. I'm going to keep my mind distracted.” I also kept my birth affirmation cards in front of me and they were so helpful. I'm not one of those people who needs affirmations, but for some reason, telling my mind in that moment, “You're okay. You're safe. It's okay to do these things.” I had one that was a vortex. I don't know if that was on this podcast. I think it was where a girl was looking at this vortex and pictured herself opening. Anyway. It was so helpful. I felt like I was dilating. I really felt true movement at those moments. Of course, I was doing really slow, diaphragmatic breaths and trying to breathe through each one and stuff. Jenny: By the time we got to the hospital, my contractions were 2 minutes apart. They checked me and I was 5 centimeters and 100% effaced. Meagan: Yay!Jenny: I know. It was so wild. But my midwife wasn't on shift yet. They only had OBs. Anyway, they stuck me in triage and just left me on the monitor. It was so cool though. They worked with me. I was like, “I'm not sitting. I can't lay down. I have to keep moving and I have to keep swaying.” She was like, “Good. Let's put this on you and let's keep you in that position then.” She was like, “I think I can get a reading.” While they did have to do continuous fetal monitoring, it was okay. It really worked out. I was really worried about that. A lot of people talk about that and think it was one of the biggest hurdles, but it was really doable if you've got somebody who's going to work with you through it. My doula came and it started to become a blur. My husband started to read me my birth affirmations which was really kind of sweet because he is definitely not that way at all. One of them that came from the VBAC podcast was, “My vag is a waterslide.” I loved that one. We had such a good laugh because he was reading it to me. It was a really funny moment. Things were moving, man but we were stuck in that room for over 2 hours. It felt like 10 minutes to me because I was just in the zone. My doula tried to do a hip squeeze on me and I hated it but I couldn't even tell her because I was so in the zone. I could not verbalize at that moment. My nurse was moving super slowly. I think they were just stalling to get the midwives on staff.At 8:00, they finally moved me to my labor and delivery room. As I was walking by, the nurses were like, “Go, Jenny! You can do it!” It was so cool to hear them cheering me on and stuff. It felt like the victory line running towards the goal. It was really cool. I got in my room and it took her over 10 minutes to find her heartbeat. She was just sitting there trying to find it. I was almost like, “Maybe I should be worried,” but I was too in the zone. I was on all fours the whole time trying to move and just work with my body through it all. When she finally did it, she got the wireless monitors on me. I had been saying for 2 hours straight, “I just want the tub. Please give me the tub.” As soon as we got into that room, my doula went in. She drew the bath. She put the candles in there and all of the things. I was sitting on the bed just moving and I was like, “I've got to poop. I've got to poop. It's going to happen. I've got to go to the bathroom.” They were like, “Okay.” I walked away and I ran into the bathroom real quick. I was sitting on the toilet and I was thinking, “Man, this is insane. I feel like my body is just going to break apart. This is insane, the pressure.” It wasn't super painful, but it was but it wasn't. It's like pain with a purpose. Anyway, I was sitting on the toilet and I was like, “Man, nothing is coming out. This is crazy.” All of a sudden, another huge contraction hit and I jumped onto the floor and sat on all fours looking at the tub. It's right there. All the water was finally filled. I could get in after this contraction was over and my body started bearing down. 45:42 Fetal ejection reflexJenny: It's like I was throwing up from the back of my body. It was like down and out. It was like a feeling that I'd never felt before. It was so incredible. It was happening, the fetal ejection reflex and there was this new nurse next to me that was like, “You're pushing, huh.” I was like, “I'm not trying to but I think it's happening. I'm getting in the tub now.” She was like, “You're going to come back and get on the bed actually.” I was like, “No!” For 2 hours I had been begging for the tub and now I have to push. I was like, “I'm scared. I can't do it. I can't do this. It's all too much at this moment. I'm not ready.” Meagan: Yes. Jenny: I got on the bed. This new midwife just walks in. I had never seen her before. She locked eyes with me and she was like, “Let's do this.” I was like, “Okay, I guess we have to.” She checked me one last time. She was like, “You're 9.5 with a cervical lip, but I think it's time for you to start pushing.” I was like, “Okay. I can't help it. I'm pushing anyway.”I had this big contraction. I was still on all fours. They were trying to get the saline hep lock on me because they hadn't even done any of the things. I was GBS positive and they couldn't even get that in me fast enough. I had a contraction. I looked down and she was in my other arm because that vein had blown in that period of time. I was just like, “What is happening? It is so fast and crazy.” Labor land is such a blur, but at the same time, each time I came out of the contraction, people were like, “What do you want for this? What do you want for that? What's your preference?” I was like, “I want a physiological birth. That's all I know. I just want to do this. Let me do this.” Anyway, they had commented later that they don't normally see that in labor where the mom can verbalize what she wants but I had never met this midwife before and she was like, “I honestly don't know what your preferences are so I'm asking you now.” It was really nice that she was trying, but she was like, “With this next contraction, push.” I was like, “Okay.” I got on my hands and knees and I faced her which felt wrong and weird. She was like, “Okay, push.” I didn't because I was like, “I don't like this. This doesn't feel right to me.” But I couldn't say that. So then she was like, “Okay, with this next contraction, I want you to flip over on your back and I want you to push.” In my head, I'm like, “There is no way I'm going to do that. No,” but I couldn't say that.In the moment, I'm such a compliant person. I was like, “Okay, whatever. I'm just going to give her what she wants.” I flipped over on my back. She was like, “I want your knees up to your ears and I want you to bear down super hard.” I was like, “No, I know that's not right. None of that feels right.” I did and I didn't push at all. I was letting my body do its thing. I was just lying there for a second. She put her hand inside of me and she was like, “I want you to push here.” I was like, “I don't like that either.” As soon as I came out of that contraction, each one I was visualizing the wave coming up and cresting and coming back down. It was a really good visualization for me because I love the ocean. I came out of that and I was like, “I didn't like that. I want to do something different. Can you help me with that?” That's all I said to her. Meagan: I love that you said that. Jenny: It felt so good because I'm not normally somebody who stands up for myself, but I was like, “I want to do something different.” She was like, “Okay. Flip over on your side and hold your leg up and pop your knee out.” Do this crazy maneuver. Immediately, it felt right. It felt like the key in the hole locked into place. With that contraction, I pushed and she started crowning. 49:20 Pushing out baby and postpartum blood lossJenny: All I said with that contraction was, “There's so much pressure!” I was yelling it and yelling it. The contraction was over and instead of letting go, I held her there and clenched down so she would stay there and not go back up or anything because I could tell she moved right down and was right there. They were like, “Feel your baby's head!” I was like, “Okay, yeah. Whatever.” I tried to feel it. Meagan: Yeah, okay. Whatever. Jenny: Yeah, yeah. This is happening right now. I touched it and I was like, “Cool, okay. Yeah. There is a lot of pressure. I can't do this right now. I'm so scared.” At that moment, I was like, “The only way out is through. I have to push. I've got to do this.” With the next contraction, I just barely pushed and she just twisted and flew right out. It was insane, that feeling of a baby coming out of you. I just can't even describe it and I'm so grateful that I can describe it because it's incredible how we are made. I'm in awe. There are so many things that have to go right to get to that point. I am so grateful it did and I got to experience it. She came out right away and immediately, I was in business mode. I was like, “Is she breathing? Is she okay?” I was rubbing her down. People were kind of just hands off letting me do my thing. She started to crawl right up to my nipple. She did the breast crawl. It was all of the things that I wanted and never got with my first and it was so incredible to see this miracle happening right in front of me. I felt like I didn't do any of it. It was like it just happened almost. It was so incredible and unfortunately, I had a tear. She was looking at it and she had to go up and scrape some. I was trying to enjoy my baby at that point, but I was like, “Hey, can you just give me a Tylenol or something?” I hadn't had anything. She started to numb me and I felt all of that. I felt her stitching. I was like, “Can you give me some more of that because this really hurts?” I had an inside tear. After that, my nurse was kind of concerned that I was bleeding a lot, but my midwife wasn't. It was kind of weird. It almost seemed like nobody new my nurse or liked her. I think she was new. She was really slow so they were just like, “Yeah, it's fine. No big deal.” They were tracking my blood loss, but I got up to use the bathroom and at one point, she went out to fill my peri bottle and the water just wasn't getting warm. I was sitting for a long time on the toilet. I felt like a waterfall was just coming out of me. I was thinking, “I'm pretty sure this is normal. I don't know.” Anyway, she came back a minute later and she helped me go to the bathroom. I got back to bed and I was like, “Oh man, I don't know if I feel good.” They were like, “Okay, we're going to move you to your postpartum room.” I got in my wheelchair and I held my baby and I was like, “Hey guys, I think I'm gonna–” and then I passed out. When I woke up, I was having this cool dream and when I woke up, the whole room was filled with people who were all freaking out. My husband was looking at me. He told me later he was like, “I thought you were dying.” It was super traumatizing for him. I was holding the baby and they were trying to help me so they were all diving. He was diving for me with the nurse. Anyway, he was pretty upset having seen that and stuff. It turns out I had lost about half of my blood and they just hadn't been able to track it properly because they couldn't tell why I had passed out at first. They were like, “We don't understand. You didn't lose that much blood.” But they took the test. It came back. Meagan: Okay, this is interesting. This happened to me. Jenny: I know. I remember your birth story about it. Meagan: We still couldn't find it. Jenny: Yeah, isn't that crazy? Meagan: I still to this day don't know where it went. Jenny: I'm convinced mine was the waterfall in the toilet. I know that sounds so graphic. I'm sorry. Meagan: No, but that is a lot. Jenny: Yeah, it just felt like so much was coming out of me and nobody was there to document it. I was by myself. Meagan: Yeah, they were going to find the bottle. Jenny: Yeah, yeah. Meagan: Mhmm, interesting.Jenny: I know. It was crazy. Luckily, I was at a place that would help me with my preferences on blood loss and stuff so they worked with me really well. I'm so happy that there is alternative medicine out there so all of the rest of the people who can't take blood for whatever reason, it's available to them too. I'm grateful for that position and stuff. They work hard to help us in ways that maybe we don't think about. Meagan: I know. In some ways, I had regret that I didn't take the blood, but then I couldn't deny that my gut was telling me not to. It was just the weirdest. It was a disconnect. I still today don't know why. I've let it go and it's fine other than I'd be interested to know why, but we are just so grateful for those abilities to have those options. Jenny: Yeah. I'm really grateful I was where I was too because they were there within seconds to help me. It all turned out okay. I was fine. I was pretty weak and kind of gray for a little while, but I got a couple of iron infusions and that really helped. I was feeling like myself not as soon as I wanted. I was really hoping I felt a little bit better because you have the toddler at home and you want to do all of the things. I felt maybe disappointed in that regard of being so weak. The recovery was harder than I thought just with my tear and stuff too. I was surprised how hard it really was, so I'm really impressed by all those people who say that vaginal birth isn't that big of a deal. I've done both. My husband was like, “I really preferred the C-section honestly. The pass was open​​. We got to walk right in.” I was like, “Yeah, but it's just not the same.” Those moments.Meagan: There is something about it. There is definitely something about it. It's not to say that C-section can't be beautiful or amazing or healing even. My second C-section was completely healing, but yeah. There's something about it. There are no words but then there are so many words to describe it. Jenny: Mhmm, mhmm totally. I could talk about it all day. It's so exciting. Meagan: Well, oh my gosh. I'm so happy for you. I'm so glad you made it over the pass. I'm so glad that you were able to be there and even just find comfort even though you weren't super far progressed at first and that you were able to have this beautiful experience. I am sorry that you had these little hangups. It just goes to show that not every VBAC is perfect in every way just like every C-section isn't perfect in every way, but C-sections can be beautiful and so can VBAC. You just have to ultimately decide what is best for you. For you, you had that feeling and you were called to know what else your body could do. You knew it went through a really tough, tough birth with your first. Then you went through another tough birth, but an amazing one. One where, yeah. You were able to have that experience that you wanted. I'm so happy for you. Jenny: Thank you. Thank you for having us. Meagan: Oh my gosh. Absolutely. I'm so happy that you are here. 57:10 Jenny's advice for breech mamasMeagan: I did want to talk a little bit about breech. You said, “My baby turned. Maybe that's normal. Maybe it's not.” Yes, it can be normal and what breaks my heart is that so many people are left without an option. They are left without feeling like they could even try because we don't have those breech providers. They are few and far between. We love Dr. Berlin and the Informed Pregnancy Podcast and Informed Pregnancy Plus and Heads Up documentary and all of the things that they are providing because I feel like they are advocating. And Dr. Stu, they are advocating for breech birth that it is truly just a variation of normal. Anyway, if you have a breech birth, what would you give as advice for someone who's trying to figure out what to do? Do you have any that you would give?Jenny: Yeah, if they've tried all of the options because even the providers, I've talked to a couple of providers who do support breech birth and even they encourage you to try and get your baby to turn so if you haven't done all of the things, it's a good thing to try and do those things first. I mean, acupuncture, I couldn't believe how amazing that was. She wasn't moving a ton and then she flipped completely. So yeah, there's kind of something to that. Even though she didn't flip again until way later, yeah. I could still feel her moving a lot more during acupuncture than I did with any of the other treatments that I was going to. I was trying to see a Webster chiropractor and all of that too. There's a lot of things you can do to try and get your baby to turn, but I think trusting too is a huge one. Yeah, because I mean, I learned that a lot with my second birth too just to trust your body and if she's not turning or they are not turning, maybe there is a reason and to just go with that. Accept it. I am glad I tried to accept it sooner because maybe I relaxed more and she turned. Meagan: Hey, yes. Jenny: I wonder if that was part of it. I let it go. I really did. I just was like, “You know what? I'm going to listen to her. She's saying she wants to be breech. I'm just going to go with it and I'm not going to care anymore.” Then she turned. I don't know. Meagan: That's how my son was. It's kind of fun that we actually have some similarities here in our birth stories. But yeah, my son too. He kept flipping breech for whatever reason and we would flip him. My midwife would manually flip him and do an ECV, then I would feel those hiccups again up in my ribs. I'm like, “Dang it, he is breech again.” Jenny: That rascal. Meagan: Yes. I found myself very angry and I'm like, “If I have to have a third C-section because this baby is breech,” which I've never had a breech baby before, “I'm going to be ticked.” Then finally, my midwife said, “We have to. We have to trust him.” He flipped head down and stayed head down and it was all good. 1:00:22 Statistics on vaginal birth versus planned Cesarean for breechMeagan: I found a PubMed research paper on maternal and fetal risk of planned vaginal breech delivery versus planned C-section for term breech births. It shows that it was published in 2022 so just a couple of years ago. It goes through. It says, “The meta-analysis included 94,285 births with breech presentation.” Now, that's actually pretty decent. 94,000 births. It's also crazy to me to think that there were 95,285 people who had breech babies and it also just says that isn't that just a variation of normal? These babies are head up. I mean, 94,000 babies. But anyway, it shows the relative risk of perinatal mortality was 5.48 which had a 95% confidence interval. Sorry, 5.48 times higher in the vaginal delivery group compared to 4.12% for birth trauma and then the APGAR results show that the relative risk of 0.30% percent higher than a planned Cesarean group, so in the end which is kind of confusing I'm sure. I'm going to provide this in the show notes. It says, “In the end, the increment of risk of perinatal mortality, birth trauma, and APGAR lower than 7 was identified in a planned vaginal delivery.” We know that breech birth can become complicated. That's one of the reasons why a lot of these providers out there are just not willing to try. However, it says, “The risk of severe maternal morbidity because of complications of a planned C-section was slightly higher.”It's something to consider here where we are like, “Okay, well there is some birth trauma.” We know that sometimes we can have tissue tearing. We can have pelvic floor issues and trauma. We know that babies can come out a little stunned because of what happens when their body is delivered and their head is inside. And APGARS lower than 7 which is less ideal. However, even with a Cesarean, those rates were even slightly higher. In the end, we need to figure it out but what we need is more providers. We need more providers being trained and offered. They need to go to Dr. Stu's course. They need to listen to Heads Up. They need to get informed and offer people these options because just like Jenny and I, and even more Jenny than I, there is a lot of stress that goes into having a breech baby, and think about all of the things that you just said. If you had run out of options, meaning that you had done everything in your own power to try and help this baby flip and are now just relying on faith, which let me tell you, faith is amazing and we need to rely on faith all the time, but even then, if we are still at that roadblock, that is so hard. It's so stressful. I truly believe that we could lower Cesarean rates by a lot. I mean, even looking at these 94,000 people, we can lower that Cesarean by a lot if we just took one little step forward and offered breech birth again and trained providers. Jenny: I totally agree with you. I know. Just listening to all of the things I had to go through to get my VBAC, it could have all been prevented if I just had her, my first, vaginally. All of that stress and all of that, I wouldn't have had to do any of that. It could have just been normal. Instead, it's just this huge, stressful event and I can't say that enough because our lives are already stressful. Why should we stress more? Meagan: Yeah. I mean, it's 2024 which means that 24 years ago, breech birth started fading. We are really behind and it's something that breaks my heart to see if it's going to disappear. We can't let it disappear. We can't. Jenny: I agree. Meagan: Also, side note, if you listen to this episode and you know a provider who is willing to do breech, please message us at info@thevbaclink.com so we can get them on our list so we can help Women of Strength all over the world find a provider that may be willing to help with them. ClosingWould you like to be a guest on the podcast? Tell us about your experience at thevbaclink.com/share. 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Kara joins us today from the Los Angeles area sharing her VBA2C story! Kara's first birth was a scary and chaotic emergency Cesarean. Though her second planned Cesarean went smoothly, Kara did not love how her birth felt like such a medical procedure. After experiencing a miscarriage during her third pregnancy, Kara experienced heartache and grief, but also shares how she gained a deep reverence for her body throughout the process. She just knew that her body was capable of having a vaginal birth. Kara pulled out all of the stops with her VBA2C prep. She built a birth team she felt great about. She prepared physically. She processed past fears and trauma. Though her birth had some intense twists, Kara was able to achieve the VBA2C she fought so hard for. She took the leap of faith, trusted her body, and saw what it could do.Kara's WebsiteNeeded WebsiteHow to VBAC: The Ultimate Prep Course for ParentsFull Transcript under Episode Details 02:45 Review of the Week 05:09 Kara's first pregnancy 08:17 Kara's second pregnancy and planned Cesarean10:57 Miscarriage16:45 Fourth pregnancy and VBA2C prep22:30 Beginning of labor25:08 Thoughts about the hospital system28:49 Breaking waters32:28 Pushing, hemorrhaging, and the NICUMegan: Hello, hello Women of Strength. It is Meagan and we have got a VBAC after two C-sections story. Of course, I love VBA2C stories because I'm a VBAC after two C-sections mama. Her name is Kara and she is amazing. I'm just going to read your bio because you are just amazing. It says, “She is an award-winning creative marketer and mother of three. She is in LA.” If you have been listening for a little bit, she actually was on the show quite a few months ago at this point of being aired with her OB. Kara: Oh yes, with Dr. Brock. Oh my gosh, when I was pregnant. I don't know why I forgot about that, but we interviewed my practitioner, Dr. Barry Brock, together who is a very VBAC-supportive provider. That was a really fun conversation. I think I was 4 or 5 months pregnant at that point. Meagan: Yeah. We really wanted to ask him some questions about VBAC. He was with you along your journey and he was so gracious to come on and talk with us. So yeah. She has worked on so many amazing things, some of your favorite things I'm sure like Netflix, Stranger Things, which is definitely one of my favorites, Patrone Tequila, and some of your favorite women's apparel brands at Target which is also my favorite store. She started her own brand consulting agency, Always Friday, in 2019, and after the birth of her first daughter, Hadley, she experienced an emergency C-section with her and then a planned C-section, and then a miscarriage, and then went on to have a VBAC after two C-section story. We are going to hear all of the stories today. Thank you, Kara, for being here. Kara: Yes. I'm so excited to be here. I love this community and I don't think that I could have gotten to a place where I was having a VBAC without your podcast, without finding The VBAC Link Facebook group and just hearing other women really give me the encouragement to not do a third C-section. I am really happy. I'm just about three months postpartum now, so forgive me if I make no sense. Yeah. I'm just grateful for your guidance, your expertise, and all of the things that you pour your heart into as an expert on all things VBAC. Meagan: Aw. Kara: Thank you for that. Meagan: Well, thank you so much. I'm so excited to hear this story because I haven't even heard the full story. I just have this little blurb right here on my form, so I'm really excited to dive into it. 02:45 Review of the Week Meagan: We do have a review of the week and I put Kara on the spot you guys because she actually took Needed during her pregnancy and first, I'm obsessed with Needed and love and trust Needed. You took it throughout pregnancy and I would just love to hear your review on Needed today. Kara: Yes. I have obviously looked at all of these different types of prenatals and I ended up going with Needed and loved it. I did their prenatal multi and at first, I was like, “This is a little wild.” It's eight capsules which felt aggressive, but it actually was so much of the nutrients that I needed. I broke it up to four in the morning and four towards the evening. I felt the most energized during this pregnancy. I felt the strongest. I obviously did all of the things, drank all of the tea, had the protein, the dates, and all of that, and my baby was much– I mean, I don't know if this is correlated or not, but my baby was almost a pound and a half bigger than my previous biggest baby and I felt the strongest, the healthiest that I've ever felt during any of my pregnancies. I wish I would have taken it with the other two, but you live and you learn, so yeah. I highly recommend that to all of my friends and I always send people the link for the Needed vitamins whenever I can. Meagan: Yes. I believe it so much too. It's interesting that you said you have felt the most energy during this pregnancy because I feel like once you have one, two, and three– once we have more kids, during those pregnancies, they are more exhausting because we are not just able to rest and relax. Kara: They are. Meagan: We are being mom, right? So I love hearing that. 05:09 Kara's first pregnancy Meagan: Okay, let's get into your stories. Kara: Let's do it. Cool. I'm excited. Meagan: Perfect. Let's talk about Hadley's birth. Kara: Yes. I got pregnant pretty easily and had a healthy pregnancy. I think maybe had this false sense of confidence that my delivery would match my pregnancy. I did not do a lot of prep work. I went into maybe how everyone does to some degree, what you don't know you don't know kind of thing. I went into labor naturally. I was a little bit overdue and ended up sort of with the classic cascade of interventions. That was challenging. They broke my water and just set off a bunch of other things that then her heart rate went up, sort of the classic stories you hear, and they rushed me into an emergency C-section which was really scary. It felt like a true emergency like Grey's anatomy style just being rushed down the halls, with no time for really conversation. I finally asked for my operating notes and it was a class 2 which I guess if it's a class 1, you guys talk about it. If it's a class 3, you or the baby didn't make it. It was really scary and honestly, I was terrified after. I think it took three weeks for my shoulders to come down from that C-section. I've said this before, but the only way I could describe it was it felt like a car crash and I wasn't sure if my passenger made it. It was quiet in the room. I didn't hear a baby crying. Nobody was really talking. I just remember tears streaming down my face while I was on the operating table completely unsure if my baby had made it. Luckily, she's healthy and fine, but I don't think that took away from the birth trauma that I experienced with that first baby. Meagan: Yeah. That just gave me the chills when you described it like that. How scary. Kara: It was so scary. I've never seen my husband look so afraid before. I've never seen him pray out loud before. So yeah. It was just one of those things where I wasn't mentally prepared for that. I was not up to date on how many women have C-sections and what you can do to prevent it. I guess in this Instagram world that we live in, you see your friends pregnant and they are cradling their bump and then the next square you see in their feed is a baby announcing its name and weight. You never get to hear unless you ask people how you got from point A to point B, right? That was very just this naivety that you go into the hospital and you come out with a baby and you're fine. I don't know why I didn't maybe do a better job researching all of the options. That was baby number one. 08:17 Kara's second pregnancy and planned CesareanKara: Baby number two– I got pregnant about a year later. Again, quickly and easily thank God and all of that. It was the middle of COVID. It was 2020. I found out I was pregnant in March 2020 so it was sort of the peak of absolute fear and scare tactics to a degree. I kept trying to wrap my head around going into labor again naturally and I just couldn't get there. I would have borderline panic attacks every time I would think about it. The word birth trauma wasn't a word or a phrase in my vocabulary so I just thought you kind of toughen up and figure it out. I just really couldn't get there. COVID every day, a new study came out basically saying that pregnant women are going to die. Meagan: Yeah. Lots of scary stuff was coming out. Kara: I opted for a planned C-section. That just seemed like the logical thing to do at that point. My husband couldn't come to any of the appointments. I couldn't have anyone else in the room. I was delivering with a mask on. It was all of these things that just took away from what is a natural birth experience so to speak and all of the things that you need. It eliminated a lot of that and made it this very sterile process that resulted in a great, planned C-section. I can't describe it any other way than it just felt like surgery. I hate to say that because you get a beautiful baby at the end of it and you created this beautiful baby. I'm not trying to take away anyone's experience with a planned C-section. But for me, it felt like I scrubbed in for surgery and went into this sterile environment. I was put on a lot of different drugs, laid on the table, cut open, and a baby was handed to me. I have a beautiful three-year-old named Hazel from that experience, but it ultimately left me feeling– I don't know how to describe it, but not fulfilled in the way I wanted to feel. Meagan: Yeah. I can understand that. I can understand that. Like you said, not everyone is going to experience this, but there is often this disconnect. You went in. You scrubbed in and had a baby. Everyone is sterile and quiet. It's bright. There is beeping here and there. It just doesn't feel sometimes like birth. Kara: Right. Yeah. It felt like a surgery. 10:57 MiscarriageKara: So then we were going back and forth with if we wanted to have a third and ultimately decided we love being parents. I love being a mom so much. I love my work. I love the branding things I do but nothing compares to the purpose, fulfillment, and joy that I feel raising children and being a mom. I got pregnant again and it felt exciting but it also felt like it was coming at a time during my career that was potentially the busiest. Long story longer, I had a miscarriage with that baby and that pregnancy at almost 12 weeks. That was so surprising to me because once again, so similar to C-sections and all of that, it just was not on my radar. I maybe took a lot of things for granted with my very healthy and easy pregnancies. No issues, truly with the first two. That miscarriage was scary in that I was alone at home with the girls. I put down my children for sleep and then I got in the bathtub and basically delivered the placenta. I saw. It was my first experience and the closest thing I had to delivery so far because I normally have C-sections. I'm seeing a lot of blood. I'm seeing the placenta and I'm seeing what was my unborn child. Sorry to be so graphic. Meagan: It's hard. Kara: Yeah. Yeah. I felt like– and you have contractions and all of that for anybody who hasn't ever experienced a miscarriage. It's not anywhere near the same amount of pain as labor, but it is way above a period cramp or however else anyone might want to describe it at least for me. Weirdly though, I have to say that you would think that experience would make me really sad and it did. The number one thing I took out of it is that I felt incredibly empowered. I felt like my body knew what it was doing. I felt a deep sense of trust in that, “Wow. This was not the right thing to happen and my body was smart enough to get rid of what wasn't a viable fetus and pregnancy. It knew something was wrong and it got rid of it for me.” It's like, wow. All of that while I made chicken nuggets. That's so exciting. I really walked away from it feeling like, “Gosh. The female body is so incredible. It is so strong. It knows what it is doing. It is so powerful. Why wouldn't I go for having the birth that I want to have which was a vaginal delivery?” So yeah. It was sad but also strengthening in a way. Meagan: Yeah. A really sad situation and unfortunate circumstances, but in the end, it was that healing, empowering thing that happened to get you to this next step. Kara: Yes. There is something about listening to yourself and your own gut and your own body in a way that you really just start to know that you know what's best. My husband wasn't there and something took over in me that was like, “Get in the bathtub.” I have no experience. I visualized this pain leaving my body. When I did that and breathed through it, I was able to deliver the unborn baby. It was 12 weeks. Yeah. So for me, it was really incredible. It gave me just the strength to know that I can do it and that our bodies are so, like I said, powerful and women are just so strong. Meagan: Absolutely. Thank you for sharing that. Kara: Yeah. Yeah. 16:45 Fourth pregnancy and VBA2C prepKara: So then I got pregnant again and was confident I wanted a VBAC. I took your course and it gave me a sense of confidence and was so intelligently designed to make me think about visualizing fear, letting go of fear, and things that I really wish I would have done almost before I had a baby to be honest with you of just all of the things you don't realize you are holding inside of you of the unknown, of what could go wrong, what you don't know, what you want to ask, what you hope for, what you are going to let go of, and just filled with great information. That course was really helpful for me and my husband so for anyone who is looking to achieve a VBAC or do a VBAC, I highly recommend educating yourself with a course like The VBAC Link's course or just one that can get you to a place where you guys are both really–Meagan: Feeling confident too in the decisions you are making. Kara: Yeah. So I did that and honestly, with this pregnancy, I was like, “I'm going to do all of the things.” I think women, if you can, if you have the means to do that, I think you should take care of yourself in a way that is– I wish I could take care of myself when I wasn't pregnant at the level I took care of myself during this last and final pregnancy. I took the Needed prenatal vitamins pretty religiously. I hired an incredible doula, Lia Berquist at Your Natural Birth who teaches The Bradley Method and is also just such an advocate for VBACs. She actually is a VBAC-certified doula with The VBAC Link. Meagan: Yay. Kara: Yeah. Then I took her course. I read Ina May's books even though my heart was not dead-set on having a natural delivery which, I think if I had a fourth, I would love to go for that but for me, just getting past the C-sections and being able to have a VBAC was really what I wanted. Like I said, I took your course. I listened to a couple of my friends. My friend, Olga, had a VBAC and she recommended her doctor who I already mentioned, Dr. Barry Brock, who is VBAC supportive, and also her chiropractor, Dr. Berlin who also has a great podcast, The Informed Pregnancy Podcast. It's great and he is also a great resource and a great person.I had all of these people around me. I assembled an all-star team. Meagan: 100%. Holy cow. Kara: I went deep. I read a lot. I took it seriously. I got my head in the game. I did not let fear creep in and I really tried to focus on what I could achieve. I think that you will notice if you are someone who has had two C-sections and you tell people confidently when you are pregnant that you want to have a VBAC, you will get a really, really mixed response even today in 2024. You will get people asking you, “Can you even do that? Is that possible? I thought you couldn't do that.” It's not your job to educate them and enlighten them on what you can or cannot do unless you feel like it. Sometimes I was in the mood to tell them, “Yes!” and tell them all of the things I learned, and other times, I was like, “Yes, you can and I will,” and just left it at that and moved the conversation along. But yes. It is important to just not let other people's fears creep in. Meagan: Absolutely. Kara: I think if you are pregnant in general, people tend to want to tell you their horror stories. Meagan: Yes. Why? I don't understand. I don't understand why when you are pregnant, it's like, “Well, let me tell you how horrible my birth was.” I'm like, “Ahh. Don't share those things.” Kara: I would actually stop people and be like, “I'm sorry you had that experience. I personally don't want to hear it.” Meagan: Good for you. Kara: I know that is rude but I had to protect my own space and my own mental sanity. I needed to really do that. Meagan: Protect that. Yeah. Kara: Yeah. I mean, even when I would see people, there are things going on in the world. There are shootings and there are wars. People wanted to tell me that and I really tried to block all of that out, especially in the final months of getting ready to deliver. Meagan: Yeah. Good for you. Kara: Yeah. I was overdue and I went into labor naturally. Basically, contractions picked up. We wanted to wait as long as possible before going to the hospital– another mistake that I definitely made in my first pregnancy of getting to the hospital, getting checked in, and becoming a patient really just too early in the labor process. Meagan: In the labor process, yeah. Kara: What I didn't know and what I learned through your course, through the Bradley Method course, and through all of the different things that I did to prepare is that your body is not a business and labor is a natural thing that could take as long as it needs to take. Sometimes your contractions stop when the sun comes up. It's an incredible thing. Sometimes your contractions stop when you get afraid and you go into a space of needing to not– so I learned all of that because my contractions did slow down when the sun came up and my contractions did slow down when I finally did get to the hospital. 22:30 Beginning of laborKara: My husband and I went to a hotel actually that was near the hospital because if you have ever been to Los Angeles, the traffic is so scary. Yeah. It gave me peace of mind to be able to labor, be close to the hospital, be in a bathtub, and know that I was going to be okay and that I could also be as loud and visceral as I wanted without my other two children being frightened by my primal-ness so to speak. Meagan: Mhmm. Mhmm. Kara: Yeah. That was a really nice experience. Incredibly painful, but I basically got to the hospital and was able to labor unmedicated until about 7.5 centimeters. Meagan: Nice. Kara: At that point, I started throwing up. I think that's common. I mean, you would know. Meagan: It is. It's miserable. Kara: It's miserable. The other thing I didn't anticipate is when you throw up as much as I did, you lose that– we're talking bags and bags to the point where my doula, Lia, was like, “Wow. I didn't even know you could have that much in you.” We were like, “Whoa.” I felt so weak and so dehydrated and just not ready to run a marathon of pushing and all the things I knew were in front of me.At that point, I opted for the epidural. I'm glad I did because I needed to take a rest. I needed the contractions to stop a little bit, to slow down, to be lessened so I could just rest and get a little bit of my strength back before it was time to push. We did that. The contractions slowed down a little bit which was unfortunate because they were so strong for a while, but we did some Pitocin as well which I didn't want to do because I was trying to have a somewhat unmedicated delivery or birth experience. My wanting of that really was because I felt so helpless during my first delivery where I got an epidural early and then I just couldn't get up. I couldn't move and when her heart rate dropped during my first delivery, it just felt like I was at the mercy of the hospital staff and the doctors, and it just, yeah. I didn't want that. 25:08 Thoughts about the hospital systemKara: This was a great experience though. It did feel a little bit like I was on someone else's schedule. Another thing I learned is the hospital is a business. Meagan: It is. Yeah. It's not a bad place to give birth, right? But there is still a system. There are still policies. There are still things where you come in and you're not always just looked as an individual coming to give birth and that's it. Kara: No. Meagan: This is an individual coming in to have a baby and we need to have a baby. Kara: In order to bill. Meagan: Yeah, and move on so we can fill the room with the next person. Yeah. That is the thing. A lot of the time when an epidural comes into play, Pitocin is just in there right in the front saying, “That is the next step ‘naturally'” to them because it can slow labor down. It often does. Kara: Yeah. I really do like my doctor. Dr. Brock is amazing and he is so supportive of VBAC. It's not his fault. It's actually just how the system works. He had surgeries planned and he had a schedule to keep so in a way, it felt like my labor was taking too long and it was time to get things rolling. Yeah, that and he recommended pretty strongly breaking the bag so it was just another thing where I mentally, Meagan, was getting to a place where I was like, “Oh my god. I'm going to end up in another C-section.” Meagan: Same situation. Well, and a lot of triggers I'm sure. Even processed births, when things happen, even if you have processed them, they can trigger you very easily. Kara: That is such a good point because even though I feel I processed all of the birth trauma from my first situation, the second my husband and I walked back into that hospital, the last time we were there in labor was with our first one and we both almost started crying. It was so triggering. I did not expect it at all. Meagan: Yeah. You know, I as a doula– I had two C-sections at this one hospital, the same hospital. I as a doula, became a doula and I walked in. I wasn't even giving birth. I wasn't even giving birth and I was like, “Whoa.” I just felt that. When you are walking in, you are in a lot of discomfort. You are laboring hard, then you walk in and you feel that overwhelming space like you were saying earlier and sometimes they stop when our bodies are responding. Kara: Right. Meagan: That can happen. Kara: And that is what happened. I went to a place where my body didn't feel safe and my contractions, even though they were so strong back at the hotel, so strong to the point where I had the classic couldn't walk in, keeled over, grabbing– really just powerful. The second I got there, it was like I froze up and everything slowed down which is so incredible when you think about your body. If you don't feel safe–Meagan: It responds. It protects you. Kara: It protects you, right? It's like, “Oh, we are not ready to bring a life into this world if you are in a space of total fear.” Meagan: Yeah. Kara: Exactly. That was so crazy reflecting back on that. 28:49 Breaking watersMeagan: So you kind of went into that triggering moment of, “Hey, let's break your water.” We've already got epidural, Pitocin and now it's like, “Hey, we need to break your water.” Kara: I told him, “No.” Meagan: I was going to say, what did you say?Kara: I said, “No.” He said, “Well, it's what I would recommend.” It was a little bit jarring. It was a do you want to have a baby or not kind of a thing. I was like, “Okay. You leave. I'll think on it. I'll get back to you.” You know what I mean? I talked with my husband. We were both pretty afraid and ultimately, I decided to have the water broken. I think that if you are making the decision yourself and you are really taking time to come to that decision, it's not the wrong decision. It's an informed, empowered decision and you made the decision. Things could go right. Things could go wrong. The point is that you were not backed into a corner and then being forced to choose it. So I chose it because I knew I was getting to a place mentally where I was so tired and I don't want to say I was giving up on my VBAC, but kind of. Meagan: Yeah, starting to doubt it a little maybe. Kara: Starting to doubt it. 30 hours of labor with exhaustion, vomiting, and contractions were really starting to mess with my mental strength and getting me to a place where I was like, “Maybe I can't do this. Maybe this isn't going to happen for me.” Meagan: Yeah. Kara: That sucked. That's a scary place to be especially after I told you about all of my A student level prep. Meagan: I was going to say, a lot of work and mental prep and physical prep to go into that. It's hard to have that defeating feeling of, “I don't know if this is going to happen. I want it to but I don't know.” It's hard because we doubt ourselves. I don't know exactly why we doubt ourselves in labor. It's so common. I've attended hundreds and hundreds of births and the amount of doubt that happens is almost 100%. Kara: Right. Why do you think that is? Meagan: I don't know. I know it's getting intense and it's at the end. Okay, so you have an epidural because that's a very common stage at 7-8 centimeters to do it when they are unmedicated but here you are even with an epidural internally dealing with that. I don't know why we always doubt our bodies and our abilities, but for some reason, I'm not kidding you. It's almost 100% of births that I attend. At some point, there is doubt that crept in. Me too. I doubted it. I was 6 centimeters and I was like, “This isn't going to happen. This isn't going to happen.” Kara: I wonder if you are in so much pain at that point that you feel weak. Meagan: And exhausted. Kara: And exhausted. I didn't realize that your mental strength is almost if not more important than your physical strength during labor. Meagan: Oh yes. Kara: That part of it is just really the trick. Meagan: Well, the mental part can get us through the physical part. If we tell ourselves we are not doing well or we can't keep going, we physically stop feeling like we can. Kara: Right. Your body listens to everything your mind says and I carry that with me through everything now. It's the way you talk to yourself and the pep talks you are giving yourself. They are very important. 32:28 Pushing, hemorrhaging, and the NICUKara: Anyway, I then ended up going to the pushing stage and the epidural was starting to wear off so I could feel it a little bit. I pushed and pushed and pushed and yeah. A bunch of other things happened in that sort of period but I will spare you and ultimately, I asked for a mirror. I could see her head starting to come and that to me was so encouraging. I was just like, “You can do this.” I really gave it my all and was able to have my daughter. It was really magical and amazing and they put her on my chest. I was so excited that I did it. I was crying and all of that. I did end up hemorrhaging pretty badly and during that hemorrhaging, she had swallowed some of my blood on the way out. Meagan: Oh. Wait, so you were hemorrhaging internally as you were pushing? Kara: Correct. Meagan: Wow. Did they notice like, “Oh, we're having blood here?” Or bleeding? Kara: I feel like they should have but no one said that. Then all of a sudden, after I delivered the placenta, I had a minor tear internally. He was stitching that up and then all of a sudden, I just felt this huge gush of blood and of warmth around my legs. I was like, “What is that?” Then it became an emergency situation again where all of these people came running in to stop the bleeding. We had one person starting a second IV. The other person was jabbing a needle into your thigh. Someone was holding down your uterus to try and stop the bleeding. The baby at this point was taken and is being looked at because she is not breathing super well because she has my blood stuck in her lungs and stomach. As quickly as that beautiful moment happened, it went away. Meagan: Ugh. Which is so hard. Kara: Oh my gosh. It was so hard. It was so hard. Then the room was quiet essentially. The bleeding they were able to stop. My baby went to the NICU and my husband went with her and I was just there with my doula. I remember looking at her and being like, “Why did I ever want to do this? This was awful. This was terrible.” I just started crying and crying. Meagan: Yeah. Kara: By the way, I don't feel this way, but in that moment, I was like, “I just wish I would have done another C-section.” I felt this super high and then I felt this huge low. Any mom who has ever given birth, however you do it, when your baby gets put on your chest and you have your baby, you forget all of the pain and you are just like, “Yay!” Then when the baby is taken away from you, you are left with the most depressing feeling. Meagan: Yeah. I can't imagine. Yeah. Yeah. Like you said, the super high to super low. I mean, I think that's very normal for you to doubt your decision in that moment. Kara: Right, yeah. Anyway, so she went to the NICU and she was totally healthy and fine. They had to pump some blood out of her lungs and belly. I call her my vampire baby because she was sucking my blood. Meagan: Literally. Oh my gosh. Kara: I ended up doing two blood transfusions to build back my blood supply. My face was white. My lips were drained of all color. It was sort of like looking at a corpse, just absolutely iron-deficient. There was talk of sending me home and keeping my baby there which I just lobbied against. Meagan: To not happen. Kara: To not happen. Then finally I was able to leave and I achieved my VBAC so I took my celebratory VBAC photo in the parking lot of the hospital while I was leaving because I didn't have her in the hospital bed with me while I was there. Meagan: Yeah. Yeah. Well, I am so sorry that that happened. That's a lot. That is a lot. I don't know if you've heard our radical acceptance episode, but you should go listen to it not just to radically accept your situation. I think that in turn, it will be very powerful as you are healing through this. I can see right now you are still healing. You still are feeling this. I can see it in your face. Kara: Yeah. Right. Meagan: I can see it and I can hear it in your voice. It's okay to take time in healing that and also, be really, really happy while being really pissed off. That's okay. You can have those two feelings together. You can be so happy that you had your VBAC but you can be so ticked that it happened and appreciate the experience while also being angry about the experience. But yeah, through processing, I send you love and I wish you luck through your processing journey. I am so happy for you that you were able to get your VBAC. Kara: I am so, so happy. I really am. I know I just highlighted a lot of crazy things that happened, but ultimately, the way I feel about it when I think about it and when I talk about it is that I really just am so proud and so happy that I was able to have that experience, to trust my body again, and just to deliver my baby the way I wanted to do it. Meagan: Right. Kara: I really hate when people say, “All that matters is a healthy mom and a healthy baby.”Meagan: I know, met too. It drives me nuts. Kara: It really bothers me because it's like, “Well, duh I want a healthy baby and I don't want to be injured. That is so baseline. I don't even know why we are saying it.” Meagan: I know. Kara: But it's also taking away the fact of how you're getting there and the journey. Meagan: Yeah. Yes. Kara: You know. I think it's just something we say to make ourselves feel better kind of a thing. Meagan: Yeah. I do too. I feel like it's the same thing with CPD. Providers are quick to just be like, “Oh, we've got a too-small pelvis. That's why there was a C-section,” just because it makes them feel better. I swear it makes a lot of providers better just to say “CPD” because it justifies the– I'm trying to think of the right word– reason why it happened. Kara: Yeah. It makes it so that it's clearly a cause and effect. It's a simple black-and-white thing on paper. It simplifies it for everyone. Meagan: It makes it okay. Kara: It makes it okay. But to me, that's like saying to someone, “You got in a really, really bad car accident and you guys both survived the car accident. Yay!” But all that matters is that you survived. But you're like, “Yeah, but what about the fact that every time I get in the car now, I can't drive or I'm terrified?” Or the effects that it had on you? I don't know why we are so quick with every other trauma, if you are in a shooting or something horrific that you would be given the space to talk about it, process it, and be given that grace but when it comes to birth trauma, it just feels sort of like–Meagan: Dismissive. Kara: Very dismissive. Oh, but look at the healthy baby you have now. Meagan: Aren't you happy? Kara: It's like, they can exist in the same space. You can be happy to have a baby and be healthy and alive while also still being traumatized, disappointed, and saddened of how it all went down. Meagan: Yes. Absolutely. Kara: Anywho, I'll get off my soapbox now. Meagan: Amen. Mic drop. I believe that wholeheartedly. Julie and I in the past have talked about that. I've talked about that. They can co-exist together and you don't have to dismiss your feelings. Please, Women of Strength, do not dismiss your feelings because the world says you should. These feelings exist. They are in you and–Kara: They're valid. Meagan: They're very valid. They're very valid. Even if to someone else, Jane down the street, it seems irrational or ridiculous because you have that healthy baby, no. She can think that way or someone else can think that way, but you are not wrong for feeling the feelings that you failed. Kara: Right. Yeah. Meagan: Well thank you so much for sharing with us today. Kara: Yeah. I loved chatting with you and am so thankful to this community and you and your podcast and the space that you have created for everyone to talk about it and benefit from it. So yeah. Meagan: Well, good. This space is for everyone here. Kara: Thank you for having me. Meagan: Thank you, thank you and we'll talk to you later. Kara: Okay, bye. ClosingWould you like to be a guest on the podcast? Tell us about your experience at thevbaclink.com/share. For more information on all things VBAC including online and in-person VBAC classes, The VBAC Link blog, and Meagan's bio, head over to thevbaclink.com. Congratulations on starting your journey of learning and discovery with The VBAC Link.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-vbac-link/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Have you been wondering why more couples are inviting male birth doulas into their intimate journey of childbirth?If you're ready to discover the evolving role of birth doulas in creating a supportive environment for both parents during labor, then get out a pen and paper; this episode is for you!Today, I'm joined by Dr. Elliot Berlin from the Informed Pregnancy® Project, who is sharing his insight and experience as an award-winning prenatal chiropractor,In this episode, we dive into the following:How a birthworker's perspective can change the way we view men's role in childbirth...Why every birthworker needs to consider the involvement of men in the childbirth process...How a birth doula's approach can redefine the traditional boundaries of the birth space, especially with men's participation...… and a whole lot more!If you're tired of outdated perceptions about men's role in childbirth, then you wanna listen up!Follow Dr. Elliot Berlin on Instagram: @doctorberlinVisit Dr. Elliot Berlin's website: www.doctorberlin.comResources mentioned:>> Join our Doula Training Program: www.birthworker.com/academy Are you feeling the call to Birthwork? I've got you covered! DM me “Impact” on Instagram and I'll share the details on how to get started.Ready to turn your in-person doula business into a crazy successful online business, too? I've got you. Click here and join me inside the Birthworker Membership.Don't forget to check out the blog post at www.birthworker.com/blog or follow along over on Instagram at @birthworkerpodcast for more. If these topics light you up, please rate and review the show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you're listening from. After you review the show - snap a pic and upload it here - and I'll send you a little surprise as a thank you.Your feedback helps this podcast grow and I wouldn't be here if it weren't for you!

We are delighted to have Dr. Elliot Berlin back on the podcast for the first time since he was with us last in 2018. He joins us today to share the latest from his Informed Pregnancy Plus world and discuss his incredible work in perinatal chiropractic care for pregnancy and labor. Our bodies go through so much to support pregnancy and make birth happen, and Dr. Berlin truly knows how to help!   Dr. Berlin is passionate about helping people achieve optimal health- especially women navigating pregnancy and postpartum experiences. With his wealth of experience, he has dedicated his life to supporting new and expectant mothers in finding comfort and well-being during pregnancy and birth. He is committed to giving his patients top-quality care, using unique techniques and specialized equipment. Despite being based in Los Angeles, his platform, the Informed Pregnancy Project, reaches people everywhere.  The Informed Pregnancy Project includes the well-loved Informed Pregnancy Podcast, the Informed Pregnancy Blog, and the recently added streaming service, Informed Pregnancy Plus. Dr. Berlin joins us today to offer valuable insights and highlight the importance of informed decision-making throughout the pregnancy and birth journey. So, let's dive in and meet Dr. Berlin! Show highlights: Dr. Berlin explains how the pandemic affected the birth world and shares his Covid-19 experience How chiropractors help to restore normal motion and function to the musculoskeletal system How Dr. Berlin combines chiropractic and massage to create a more functional system How pregnancy-related issues like headaches and jaw problems can be released through manual therapy How addressing musculoskeletal issues during pregnancy prevents discomfort and ensures a smooth delivery How chiropractic treatments help to position the baby and prepare women for breech births The benefits of chiropractic treatments for an optimally-functioning body during vaginal births The importance of chiropractic care for babies and children, especially for excessive crying and digestive issues  Dr. Berlin explains how gently newborn infant chiropractic gets done How Dr. Berlin's presence and skills as a doula help women feel more calm and relaxed during the birthing process How his platform empowers women and helps them make informed decisions for their pregnancy and birth experiences  Resources: Visit the Informed Pregnancy Plus platform Find out what Dr. Berlin is doing on his website, Instagram, and Twitter  Visit www.postpartum.net for resources and support!  Visit www.postpartum.net/professionals/certificate-trainings/ for information on the grief course.   Visit my website, www.wellmindperinatal.com, for more information, resources, and courses you can take today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Kimberly and Dr. Elliot Berlin discuss his informed pregnancy focused chiropractic work. He explains noticing a rise in out of hospital births post-pandemic as well as an increase in hospital restrictions and inductions in hospital births. He discusses various causes of breech positions, his chiropractic approaches to breech babies before birth, as well as the long history of cesareans and how VBACs became stigmatized in recent decades. The common thread through this whole conversation is providing education and information for pregnant people to make the best informed decisions for themselves and their birth.   Bio Dr. Elliot Berlin is an award-winning pregnancy-focused chiropractor, childbirth educator, and labor doula. His innovative techniques for prenatal wellness care address tight and painful muscles and tendons utilizing specific massage techniques based on soft tissue releases. He combines this with traditional chiropractic adjustments to restore motion to restricted joints. Dr. Berlin notably works with several hundred breech babies each year, most of whom turn into the ideal pre-birth position once normal function is restored to the mother's low back and pelvis. He is also the host of Informed Pregnancy Podcast, an award winning pregnancy focused chiropractor.   What He Shares: –Differences in births post-pandemic –Chiropractic approaches to breech babies –History of cesareans –Informed VBACs –Mind-Body health for fertility   What You'll Hear: –Pregnancies post-pandemic –Rise in out of hospital births –Increase in restrictions and interventions in hospitals –Guiding clients in making best choices for birth –Training for breech births –Using Webster technique to reposition breech babies –Structural reasons for breech positionings –Functional issues of mother posture –Minimizing ultrasounds –Looking at baby position at 32 weeks –Chiropractic care outside of pregnancy –Approaches to releases and maintenance –History of cesareans –Myths around VBACs –How VBAC information is portrayed  –Uterine ruptures –Insurance policies and cesareans –Induction drugs causing uterine ruptures in 1980s –VBAC Facts website –Using modern technology to improve childbirth –Downsides to how interventions are applied –What led Dr. Berlin to his work –Mind-body practices leading to natural fertility after years of treatments –Informed Pregnancy podcast –Informedpregnancy.tv streaming app   Resources Website: informedpregnancy.com/informedpregnancy.tv IG: @doctorberlin  

“We are pieces of an important puzzle and there are a lot of pieces. Working together, we can effect a lot of change.”Joining Meagan on the podcast today is Dr. Elliot Berlin, a renowned prenatal chiropractor based out of Los Angeles who is making a huge impact on the birth community. Dr. Berlin is extremely knowledgeable and experienced in holistic birth preparation and advocacy. He is a birth doula, hosts the Informed Pregnancy Podcast, and his most recent project is the Informed Pregnancy Plus streaming service where birth documentaries and other educational videos can be found on one online platform. Dr. Berlin and Meagan discuss TONS of topics that come from your questions! Topics include: What happens during an adjustmentWhen to start prenatal chiropractic careBodyworkAdjustments during laborCPDBreech PresentationPubic SymphysisSupport at homeBreastfeedingAdditional LinksDr. Berlin's WebsiteInformed Pregnancy PlusPediatric Chiropractic Search WebsiteNeeded WebsiteHow to VBAC: The Ultimate Prep Course for ParentsFull Transcript under Episode Details Meagan: Hello, hello everybody. You guys, we have a very special episode for you today. We have Dr. Elliot Berlin with us today and he's actually live with me so that's pretty cool that I actually get to see his face live via Zoom. Dr. Berlin: It feels like we are in the same room. I'll be honest. Meagan: Right? As live as you can get through a computer. I feel like this is our new norm these days. This is how live works. Dr. Berlin: Yeah. And you know, we got used to it. Meagan: Yeah, we did. We got used to it pretty dang fast actually. We're so excited to have you on today and we have so many amazing questions that our listeners and followers have asked. But I first want to just talk a little bit about you and who you are so if anyone doesn't know who Dr. Elliot Berlin is, you need to know and you need to go follow his page right now. Push pause unless you are driving. You can do that later and go follow @doctorberlin on Instagram because he's amazing and has so many incredible things and has done—I mean, for years—so many incredible things in the birthing community. Dr. Berlin is an award-winning pregnancy-focused chiropractor. If you don't know yet, on this podcast, we love chiropractic care. He's a certified birth doula and host of the Informed Pregnancy Podcast. So again, if you haven't followed his page or his podcast, press pause. Go follow along and go—what's the word? Subscribe to his podcast— Informed Pregnancy Podcast. He combines his passion for entertainment with his desire to educate and spread awareness about important issues in the birth industry. We know that in the birth industry, we have a lot of issues that need to be talked about. His latest project is the brand new streaming channel on Informed Pregnancy Plus dedicated to all things fertility, pregnancy, labor, and parenting. Informed Pregnancy Plus So, Dr. Berlin, I would love to actually start right there before we get into these questions. Will you tell us more about this new project that you've got going on? Dr. Berlin: Thank you for having me and for the incredible work that you do. I was just telling you recently that I feel like we are pieces of an important puzzle and there are a lot of pieces. Working together, we can effect a lot of change. The Informed Pregnancy Plus is a streaming platform. Everything grew organically from me really being a very medical-minded person wanting to go to medical school. Sometimes little arrows pop up. I see my son play video games and he's not sure where to go, then a big arrow pops up and says, “Go this way.” I get those arrows sometimes and it led me on a more holistic path. I fell in love with chiropractic and massage. I smooshed them together to make chirossage. I ended up with my wife and I having a fertility struggle. We ended up overcoming that with natural means when medical options ran out— and she is a psychologist. We started this mind/body program together, wellness care, with an eye on helping people boost fertility. Over time, that turned into babies and pregnancy. Again, coming from a much more medical background—I used to work in ambulances and emergency rooms—everything was brand new to me on the more natural front. Meagan: Mhmm, yeah. Dr. Berlin: I had never heard of doula. So I would get questions a lot that I didn't know answers to. It still happens regularly. I would go on to research. I'd talk to experts, read, and try to prepare an answer that was not, “This is what you should do or not do,” but “These are the facts as we know them. What do you want to do?” As I'd get the same questions over and over again, I started to write that as a blog. It became a magazine for a minute when people still printed stuff and then before I knew anything about podcasts, I was doing a podcast. Then I made a couple of documentaries, one of them about VBAC, Trial of Labor. It's a beautiful film and when we finished it, I realized that the only thing I know less about making a documentary is what to do with it once you have one. How do people get to see it? Right when it came out, there was this big flash of excitement about it. There were screenings and all sorts of people were buying it in lots of different ways and showing it in lots of different ways, but then that excitement fizzled out. It was out there in the blogosphere and the webosphere but people weren't finding it. I was getting these crushing emails saying, “Hey. I saw your movie, Trial of Labor, and I really loved it. I just wished I would have seen it before I had my baby.” I was like, “No, I made it so you could see it before you had your baby.” Meagan: Right. Dr. Berlin: So after talking to some of the other filmmakers in the space, I realized that I'm not the only one having this problem. There's not an easy place where people can go and get iconic films like The Business of Being Born, Orgasmic Birth, The Mama Sherpas, Breastmilk, so on and so forth. So I just decided, “Why not make it easy for anybody to access from anywhere without having to pay $25 for each film?” and just boom. You can have it on your phone or your TV. That's how Informed Pregnancy Plus was born. Every day, we are working on acquiring licensing for more great content. It's expanded from film to also web series, also mind and body like yoga and meditations and workshops. My wife has a workshop on there on relationships how to still like your partner after you have a baby together. We have one on birth plans. We have one on sleep. It's just growing all the time. Anybody can try it absolutely free at informedpregnancy.tv. It also has apps for Apple, Android, and Roku. After that, it's very affordable. It's $7 a month. Meagan: That's what I was going to say. It's $6.99 a month or $59 a year. That's pretty dang affordable. Dr. Berlin: That was our goal. If you have an internet connection, a device, and $60 for the year, you have access to all of this great content. That's what we were hoping to achieve. I don't know how I'm going to survive. It's like each element of this is a full-time job. Meagan: A full-time plus. Dr. Berlin: Full-time plus like Informed Pregnancy Plus but thankfully we have a small crew here but very dedicated to the project and very hardworking, very savvy. It's growing both in terms of content and in terms of viewership. The films are finally having an avenue where they can make a greater impact. Meagan: Absolutely. I love that so much. I wish I had something like this back when I was in my childbearing years or having babies, I should say because even the time. In my opinion, how much time I spent researching VBAC and all of the things during pregnancy, even those courses like yoga classes and all of these things, I spent way more time than I would have money. It would have been so much more worth it to just buy a subscription like this and have it all in one great platform. Dr. Berlin: I mean, that's the goal. Especially for people who live in areas where there aren't prenatal yoga classes. We don't have a ton yet, but we are always adding more. We have Baby by Simone on there for people who can't go to a prenatal workout class. She's got great workouts. The whole idea is that no matter where you are, these tools should be accessible to everybody. Thankfully, they are trickling their way through the internet and people are finding them. I'm getting fewer messages about, “I wish I had seen your film before I had my baby,” so that's very rewarding in the way that finances can't reward. Review of the Week Meagan: Okay, so we do have a Review of the Week so we are going to get into that before we jump into all of the amazing information that Dr. Berlin has. This is from 471046246me and it says, “My Labor and Delivery Nurse Told Me About The VBAC Link.” Oh my gosh, that makes me so excited. If you're a labor and delivery nurse, thank you, thank you, thank you for the love and we would love for you to continue sharing with your patients. It says, “I had an emergency C-section six months ago with my first baby. I planned and prepared my entire pregnancy for a non-medicated, vaginal birth with midwives in a hospital. I had an amazing team. Labor was going great. Hard, but I felt strong. But my son had other plans that involved wrapping himself in his umbilical cord so the sunroof exit he went. Ha ha,” she says. “In my recovery room, my nurse told me that she had an HBAC and told me to listen to The VBAC Link. I am so thankful that she recommended y'all to me because I already am stoked for my VBAC and I'm not even pregnant yet. Thank you for the work you do. I can't wait for y'all to come back from your break.” This was back in 2022. It says, “These stories fill my day with so much joy when I take my son for my daily walks.” Oh, thank you so much for your review. You guys, we do love these reviews. We appreciate them so much. We always welcome them in wherever you leave them. You can Google “The VBAC Link” and leave us a review. You can do it on Apple Podcasts. You can message us. You know it. Wherever, we love your reviews so bring them over and maybe they will be read on the next podcast. Q&A Meagan: If you guys are wondering, we will make sure to have all of his links for his platforms in the show notes so make sure to check out the show notes. Dr. Berlin: Thank you.What Happens During an Adjustment?Meagan: Without further ado, I mean there are so many questions. I don't know if we'll get to all of them today, but I was shocked, but then I thought, “Oh well, from someone that had never gone to an adjustment before during pregnancy, I didn't know either.” One of the questions is, “What happens during an adjustment? What does that look like?” Dr. Berlin: These, I'm sure, are going to be amazing questions because they come from real people who are very curious. This is a great question. The answer is it's different from chiropractor to chiropractor. Generally, the one thing we all have in common is that we're all looking for restriction in the bones—so where two bones come together, they form a joint. There should be good movement between those two bones, a certain amount of good movement. If they become restricted or totally locked up, they can create problems for you. It may be a problem like you feel like a loss of range of motion or swelling around that restricted joint that starts to become an issue that presses on nearby things like nerves or other tissue. Or it may be a problem that you don't feel. It might just be restriction where you should have fluid movement. If you're talking about your low back, hips, and pelvis, those kind of restrictions, that's the baby's studio apartment. So where the baby should be able to move freely, your body may not be able to accommodate that. So what we all have in common, really, is that we look for those restrictions and we try to release them. We try to restore motion between those restricted bones around the joint. There are a lot of different ways to find them diagnostically, a lot of different ways to restore movement therapeutically so if you go to a bunch of different chiropractors, you might have very different experiences. Then sometimes, chiropractors also add on top of that other modalities that they do whether it's a physiological therapeutic thing like electric stim or heat or ultrasound or other types of body work like massage. We tend to combine those two together in our practice. What the adjustment is a restoration of movement where it was previously restricted where two bones come together. Any two bones in the body can pretty much be adjusted but many chiropractors primarily focus on the spine and pelvis and maybe the major extremities. Meagan: Yeah. Like you said, it's the baby's apartment. I remember my chiropractor telling me how my pelvis shifted. My right side would shift forward, so it would kind of be off. She was like, “You need to have it aligned for the baby to come out of the apartment.” Dr. Berlin: Yeah. Meagan: I actually wasn't having a ton of pain. I couldn't have told you that my pelvis was wonky like that, but she was like, “It's so easy. You can do it getting in and out of a car or walking up stairs or putting a laundry basket on your hip.” There is so much that happens during pregnancy. Dr. Berlin: That's before the baby gets there sitting on your hip. Meagan: Right. Your body can get out of alignment through pregnancy. Dr. Berlin: That's one of the interesting things though. If you come in even if you do have pain but there's nothing restricted, then on the pure chiropractic front, there's really nothing for us to do. Sometimes it's the opposite. You can have hypermobility where things are moving too much. There are ways we can treat that as well, but the adjustment wouldn't be one of them in that direct area. But on the other hand, you could have restrictions that you don't feel. We would still want to address them if that's what you want to do.Bodywork Meagan: Yeah. You touched a little bit on bodywork. That was kind of a question that was answered a little bit farther down on our list, but what all does bodywork look like with that? You talked about massage and things like that. Is there more to it or is it just more like prenatal massage and then a chiropractor? Dr. Berlin: Bodywork is a vague term, even more vague than chiropractic. There are a lot of different kinds. In our office, what we do is massage therapy. It's more of a clinical massage therapy so it's focused. It's usually 25 minutes long. It's targeted in a specific area. When it comes to musculoskeletal health in general, I see myself as WD-40. I look for things that are stiff, tight, and restricted, and try to get more motion in there. The other side of that coin is duct tape where things are too weak or unstable, somebody's got to help bring that back together again. That's more like a personal trainer or a physical therapist. When we are working together, we can get really good balance and function and strength around the muscles and bones of the body. You can really feel wonderful even through all of the different stages of pregnancy, sometimes even with multiples all the way until the end. When things are out of whack, sometimes not even a month into pregnancy, you start to feel weird things happening to your body. Bodywork can be a lot of different things. For us, it's that more clinical medium to deep tissue, finding muscles, tendons, and fascia that are too stiff, tight, and rigid and trying to use massage strokes to elongate them, lengthen them, and restore normal tone. Other things that we infuse are trigger-point therapy. Sometimes you have a tendon coming to a bone or the center of a muscle where there's an accumulation of all of the tension in one area so we use trigger-points to release that. Back when I was doing birth work, we would also do a lot of reflexology, cranial massage, craniosacral therapy, jaw releases, and anything that's going to release the mind and the body through the process. Not so much in the office, we do craniosacral therapy a lot. We have two pediatric chiropractors that work from newborn through adolescence and they do a lot of craniosacral. Meagan: Yeah, my daughter had torticollis from my C-section actually. Dr. Berlin: Oh, interesting. Meagan: It was literally after birth when she was little. Then it just kept getting worse and all of a sudden, her ear was touching her shoulder but her shoulder wasn't going up. Her ear was going down. Dr. Berlin: Right. Taco neck, they call it. Meagan: Yeah. It was pretty dang bad. We went to PT and that was great, but ended up finding a craniosacral one. Anyway, it was amazing. They did this adjustment and suddenly she was back up. She wasn't fussy and having acid reflux and all of these amazing things. It is really cool. Dr. Berlin: It is so gentle yet powerful at the same time. Meagan: Right! PT was actually hard on us. It was a lot of forcing her to get in these positions and things then just a few chiropractor adjustments of craniosacral work was a game changer for us. Dr. Berlin: That's amazing. Meagan: And a lot more sleep for this mama, right? Dr. Berlin: Yeah. It's not just great for the baby. It's great for the parents. When to Start Chiropractic Care During Pregnancy Meagan: Yeah. Well, awesome. So when should someone start chiropractic care during pregnancy? Is it something like, “Hey, I'm thinking about conceiving. I should start now.” Should we always be seeing? What does it look like? Dr. Berlin: A lot of that depends on your goals. If you want to optimize your body for pregnancy, it would be great to know ahead of time when you're definitely not pregnant because there's a lot of stuff that we can work on that we can't get to once you're pregnant like all of the core muscles, psoas, hip flexors, and the ones that go behind the baby. Loosening that stuff up if it's tight before you get pregnant is ideal. That happens in my case more frequently either if people are on a fertility journey or they had a pregnancy that was either difficult or birth that was difficult and now they're thinking about getting pregnant again. They'll come in for some pre-pregnancy bodywork. Once you're pregnant, it really depends on the goals. If you're coming for maintenance, in my view, there's not really a time that is too early. We do make modifications in the first trimester then we make modifications again at different times as you get bigger and your body changes, but there are always ways that we can, almost always, get you comfortable, situated on a massage table and/or a chiropractic table and find those restrictions and release them.I would say our typical patient comes in the second trimester so maybe somewhere around 20 weeks unless they are coming for something specific like sciatic pain or positioning issues or just getting ready for birth and they come later. They tend to come maybe twice a month during that middle part of the pregnancy then at the end in the last month or two, they'll come once a week to get ready for birth. We don't prescribe a hard and fast number of visits or frequency of visits. It really depends on your goals, how you're feeling, and what your life looks like—what kind of resources you have or want to put into it. Meagan: Yeah. That's what I did at the end of my pregnancy. I did every other week so twice a month then in the very last few weeks, like my 39th to almost 41st, I ended up going a couple of times because I started getting some discomfort and feeling some sciatica pain and things like that. My baby proved his point. He was hanging out in my back. Dr. Berlin: Ouch. Meagan: Yeah. In labor, he did that for 42 hours. Dr. Berlin: Oh my goodness. Ouch. Ouch. I'm sorry. Meagan: It was fine. I was adjusted twice during my labor. Dr. Berlin: Wow. Meagan: I full-on believe—I mean, I believe that my team and everything and that space I had created was an impact, but I swear that my chiropractor really did impact my VBAC. Dr. Berlin: Some people swear by us and some people swear at us. Meagan: I know. Dr. Berlin: I'm really grateful that you were able to have the VBAC. Structure and function are important when you're trying to get a baby through.Can We Get Adjusted During Labor? Meagan: Yeah. I mean, I saw switches in my labors with both adjustments. It's so awesome. That was one of the questions. Can we get adjusted during labor? As a doula, I've been to a few births where we're seeing this lag in this labor and the same thing. We're working through all of the positions, but something is not quite working. We say, “Hey, let's go get an adjustment.” We'll go to the chiropractor with them and things big-time shift and we've got a baby. But yeah, are there signs that someone could use an adjustment? Maybe we've got people in a rural area where they can't have access to a chiropractor or maybe they're already in the hospital and sometimes chiropractors can't come in. Dr. Berlin: Yeah, nowadays they don't let too many people in. Always, ideally, that's why we switch to once a week as you're getting closer to the end so that ideally, you go into as a labor freely moving ball with enough WD-40 to carry you through. But yeah, there's no problem generally doing adjustments during labor. Some people just schedule it and say, “Hey, will you come check on me when I'm in labor?” Other times, we get called when there are some signs that labor slows if there is no progression like things don't progress in a “reasonable time frame”, if the baby's not in a great position, and if there's back labor like what you were talking about. Those are all signs that it's worth checking. Are there restrictions here in the pelvic bones? Your pelvis is not a solid bone. It is a bunch of bones connected by soft tissue. It has the ability to expand and contract and accommodate or even facilitate the baby's movements but if everything is just in a vice grip, then it may not be able to do that the same way. It can be more resistant to the movements. So we don't do anything to the baby. We're musculoskeletal specialists. We do things to your muscles and bones and make them more functional. That could make you a lot more comfortable. It could provide an environment in which the baby is better able to line up with the runway and things like that. Yeah. So you know, it's never a guarantee. Sometimes I'll get to a birth and there's really nothing to adjust. In my case, I also do body work so at the very least, I can do some body work. There are a lot of reflexology points that are just calming. There are those famous hip squeezes or counterpressure on the sacrum and lots of different massage stuff we can do to open up muscles. A lot of what I do in the office I've learned from birth. When someone is in labor and they're having these weird muscle spasms during contractions, you realize, “Oh, that is so tight.” I never would have guessed ahead of time that it was going to be so then as part of labor prep, I'll explain to somebody, “Do you want to release these muscles because they can play a role?” Sometimes you can't see what looks like the direct effect. It's all anecdotal. No one studies on this but all of a sudden, things start to loosen up where those spasms are occurring during labor and they loosen up, then all of a sudden, you start to see a healthy progression. The other thing you see a lot with bodywork is somebody, especially in unmedicated birth—I don't think there is anything like unmedicated birth. Either you get medications or you make your own. The ones that you make look pretty cool. But if there's someone who's not medicated medically, there's this major transition that you can see when a surge comes through and she doesn't feel totally safe or relaxed and she'll start to tighten up and sort of not consciously but fight the surge and fight herself, really. That can look pretty violent sometimes. With bodywork, you can sort of help the nervous system relax to a point where it doesn't feel like it's in danger. It doesn't feel like it has to fight even when intensity comes. That's the most rewarding thing to me from being at a birth. When I see that shift is when it's like, “Wait a second. This is more tolerable, much more tolerable if I don't fight it.” They get the confidence to relax into it and they realize, “Okay. I've got this.” So it's not always, in my case at least, the adjustments and bodywork. Things that people can do on their own, there are all of the doula tricks if the baby is not wanting to come down with the peanut ball but sometimes you can actually roll different parts of the low back, glutes, and piriformis if they're acting up. There is some stretching you can do. Some of the Spinning Babies exercises come in really handy. There is other stuff that you can do even if you can't get a chiropractor over there. Meagan: One of the clients that I went to, her chiropractor went during labor. He showed me this-- I don't even know what it was—tight ligament or something right down next to the bone. Dr. Berlin: Yeah, above it? Meagan: Kind of on the side. It was honestly by the butt crack. That's where it was, this tight thing. He was like, “Do you feel that?” I would feel it and it was so tense. Dr. Berlin: A spasm, mhmm. Meagan: He said, “During a contraction, press on that.” I would press and eventually, it just released and all of a sudden, we had transition coming. It was really interesting. I don't even know what that is. He said, “Press right here.” I could feel it. It was tight. It was really interesting. Dr. Berlin: Yeah. You'll find little things like that in labor. With permission, a little trial and error, you can sometimes really find a gem that is helpful for birth or that you can do ahead of time or that you can train a partner or doula to do. It can make a huge difference.CPD Meagan: Yeah. Absolutely. So we were just talking about our pelvis and how it moves and shifts and all of these things. CPD, cephalopelvic disproportion is a common, as you probably know, diagnosis in C-sections and people wanting to have a VBAC. It's given a lot. In my opinion, too often. I was given it myself. I was told I would never get a baby out of my pelvis. Dr. Berlin: Oh wow. Meagan: So that's a big question. How can someone tell the shape of their pelvis? Does it matter? How can we make our pelvis “bigger” during birth and what can we do to help these babies navigate through this pelvis without getting this diagnosis of, “Your pelvis is too small”? Dr. Berlin: Well, I think the first and most important thing always with a VBAC is to line yourself up with a provider who is really VBAC supportive, not just tolerant. If you feel really trusting that your provider is like that, then they are only going to tell you things. They know your goal and they are supportive of your goal. They are only going to tell you things that are well thought out or that aren't just fear-based. There are a few things coming together here. Number one, there is the pelvic paradox. You see someone with really tiny hips give birth to a 9 or 10-pound baby with no hiccups really smoothly. Then you see somebody who has big hips. Maybe they've been told their whole life, “Wow. You're going to have great hips for birthing,” and a 6-pound baby gets stuck and doesn't come out. How do you explain the pelvic paradox? One of the explanations is that there is a big difference between structure and function. Structure is your pelvis, the bones themselves, the soft tissues themselves, and how big they are. It is measurable to a degree and your baby and how big they are is measurable to a degree. But if you're just looking at structure without function, you're going to see what looks like cephalopelvic disproportion a lot partially because we don't have great measurements on these things. We have approximate measurements and partially because you're not taking into account function. The baby's head is not a solid bone. It's a bunch of bones meant to smoosh through a smaller passageway than it is at its full size and the pelvis is not a solid bone. It's a bunch of bones meant to expand and transmit something bigger than itself through while you're in labor. If those functions are working, then for sure, a larger baby can get through a smaller space even though on paper structurally, you have what looks like a baby that is too big to come through a pelvis that's too small. Sometimes they are too big and that's the issue. That's why it's really important, I think, to be with a provider who really gets you and supports you and is on board with you because if that provider is saying, “Wait a second. You have a head that is like this or the entryway to your pelvis is a concern,” then you're really going to not be second-guessing them in the moment which is really important, I think, for safety. That's the number-one thing is if you want to have a VBAC or even a vaginal birth the first time, is to have a provider that is really supportive. Number two—this is again really anecdotal. I see a lot of pregnant people every single day. What I did was a little poll on social media like, “How many people told you that your baby was going to be 9 pounds and it was substantially smaller?” A huge number of people came up. I don't think it's nefarious at all. I think that doctors in general and obstetricians in particular are trained to look or what might become a problem at some point which is sort of good. We want them to predict those things. But then it could get carried a little too far away because it's like, how likely is that to become a problem and what are the interventions that we take to prevent that and what are the side effects of those interventions? That's a much more complex equation where there's not always a clear answer. It is sometimes presented as a clear answer rather than, “These are the pros and cons, the risks and benefits as we know them. What would you like to do?” I think that's something all practitioners can learn over time. I'm certainly still a student every day 25 years later learning how I can do things better and more comfortably and more effectively. I think towards the beginning of practice for me too is that you know what you know and you want to be so helpful, but sometimes, the person on the receiving end of that doesn't want that and that's okay. That's your choice. It's 100% your choice. Even if it's not the choice that I would make, at the end of the day, I'm supposed to support whatever choice you want to make. That's a lesson that at least for me, took time as both a chiropractor and a massage therapist and as a doula especially. Meagan: Yeah. That's what I was going to say. It's taken a lot of time for me as a doula. Dr. Berlin: Yeah. Meagan: It can be really hard. Dr. Berlin: Yeah. It's really hard. And very well-intentioned practitioners who want the best for you, who would do the same exact thing for their wife or their daughter are trying to help you, but at the end of the day, it's an informed consent situation. What happens with the measurement is that there's no scale for the baby before it's born. It's a computer doing calculations. The calculations have a margin of error. Let's say that margin of error is a pound or a pound and a half. If I tell you that your baby is going to be 7.5 pounds at birth, based on those calculations, that means it could be anywhere between 6 and 9 pounds if the margin of error is a pound and a half. A) I could have probably told you that without the ultrasound. B) The problem with that is if it's ticking upwards if the baby is measuring 8 pounds in there, now all of a sudden I'm thinking, “What if it's 9.5? That could be too big. It might get stuck. We might have problems. We don't want an injured baby.” Nobody wants an injured baby, so maybe we should just induce you or do a C-section or whatever to prevent that. How many of those babies are actually going to come out at 9.5 pounds? That's the end of the margin of error on that side. On the other side, you have the same issue. If a baby is measuring 6.5 pounds, you start to think, “What if it's 5?” because of the margin of error. Maybe the baby's not getting enough nutrition. These are all logical things to think about and important things to talk about, but we can't forget that there is this margin of error and that there is a person who really should be the one at least involved if not making the decision. So that, I think is what happens and anecdotally what I see in the office happens with cephalopelvic disproportion. Either we're doing measurements and we're guestimating that the baby is a certain size but they may not really be that size and we're not really looking at function. There's a great episode of our podcast called “Labor Day Surprises” where there are two women who have both had surprises at the very end of their pregnancies and they are sisters-in-law. One of them had a breech baby and had quite a very interesting story there and the other one had a surprise 11-pound baby. Meagan: Whoa. Dr. Berlin: Now she is 5'8” or so. She is tall but very petite with tiny, small hips. She gave birth to the baby vaginally, unmedicated and are you sitting down? She didn't even tear. Meagan: Oh my gosh. See? That's amazing. Dr. Berlin: It was the most incredible thing to watch and it's one of the few where you saw a very ecstatic birth almost orgasmic birth at the hospital. She really talks about how she got into that mind frame. Her doctor knew the baby was going to be on the larger side and said, “What do you want to do with this?” She said, “I want to try.” He goes, “Well, if you don't try, we won't know.” Meagan: Oh, that just gave me the chills. If you don't try, we won't know. Dr. Berlin: We won't know. Meagan: Like you were saying, it's informed consent. It should be up to that mama to decide if she feels that it's a good thing to try, but we also have to respect that if we have a provider who is not comfortable with it, we have to respect them too. Maybe that's finding a new provider or working with their partner or something but yeah. It's interesting. Dr. Berlin: I mean, I know that I'm not a good match for everybody out there who is looking for a pregnancy chiropractor. I'm not a good doula for people who are looking for a doula. What's really important is that you find providers that you feel are on the same page and that they are a good match. This happens with dating all of the time. It's like, “You're not for me but I have a friend and they would love you.” I don't think– I'm never insulted if I meet somebody and they're like, “I don't want this type of care.” Great. Let me find someone you would love to see. It's the same with obstetricians. There are some obstetricians who are very paternalistic. They make all of the decisions for you and there are people who love that who don't want to make the decisions and who don't want that responsibility. You guys are a great match together, but you're not going to be a great match for my Prius-driving, vegan, hippie mom, who wants to have her baby hanging from a chandelier over a tub. You know? She's not going to be a match for them. Meagan: Not so good of a match. Dr. Berlin: It's not an insult. Neither one of you wants to be with someone who's not a great match. I always encourage people that if you're not with a provider that you feel comfortable with, if they're not on the same page or your interests are conflicting, then try to find a provider who is on the same page. It makes a huge difference and you don't get to do this very often. Meagan: I know and it's worth finding that provider. Just like it's worth dating and dating and dating until you find the one, it's worth going out and continuing to find that provider because like you said, my best friend went to a provider that may not be the best for me. I'm happy that she found him, but I might need to find someone else and that's okay to take that time and find that provider. Dr. Berlin: Totally and if you're going a more natural route, even psychologically if you end up having a Cesarean, which I don't think is the worst thing on the planet. I think it's a great thing. I've been known to say that I think one thing worse than a Cesarean being forced on someone who doesn't want one and doesn't need one is not having one available to somebody who does need one. A Cesarean is a great medical marvel of our time. The doctors who learn how to do them perfect them and do them with very little risk and a lot of skill. They're heroes to me. But you know, if you want a more natural birth and you end up with a Cesarean and you're not with somebody who you felt like you are on the same page with, you're very likely to leave that birth feeling like, “Did I really need that?” It leads to a lot of not-good mental thoughts at a time that you are already going through a tough– for most people, a big transition. Meagan: Yeah. Dr. Berlin: I can't say it enough. Having a provider that is good for you and that is a match for you is so important on all fronts. Breech BirthMeagan: Beautiful. I love that. I couldn't agree more. Finding that provider is so important. We were just talking about these two cute sister-in-laws. They had a surprise breech and that is a question. If the baby is breech, what things could someone do on their own to help their baby turn? How soon should they start to worry? How could chiropractic care truly help that baby turn? We know that there's not a lot. Breech is kind of dwindling away. It's unfortunate and it's really unfortunate that we're not having as much support in the breech world, but we're not.  A lot of people get put in a corner that if they have a breech baby, they feel like they have to have a Cesarean whether they want one or not, but they want options. How can we work with these breech babies? Dr. Berlin: It's truly interesting. I think if there were more options for safe, vaginal breech delivery– not everybody's a good candidate for that– but if there was more of an option, primary Cesareans would be down. Meagan: I wonder too. Dr. Berlin: Substantially and as a result, secondary Cesareans would be down because all of those people who had C-sections are told, “Once a Cesarean, always a Cesarean.” They don't even get a chance. I think it would bring down the Cesarean rate greatly as a whole. The question is, what is a safe breech birth? There is a lot of debate around that but one thing is for sure. There are some people who are much better off seemingly having a Cesarean birth but they're breech and other people who are much better off with the option to try and deliver vaginally but they're breech. Meagan: You have an episode on your podcast talking about that specific topic with Dr. Brock and some other providers talking about what that looks like. Dr. Berlin: Yeah, we have a 3-part series called Breech 101. It's two midwives and two obstetricians just talking everything breech from all angles. With Dr. Brock, we have another episode called “Vaginal Breech After Cesarean Breech” with a mutual patient, Dr. Donna Lou who had a breech with her first and ended up in a Cesarean because her doctor didn't. She went into labor and didn't have the chance to meet Dr. Brock. At the hospital, her doctor just doesn't have the confidence or the comfort to deliver breech babies. He was very apologetic but she had a C-section. One of the few people I have seen over 20 years who was breech again with no known reason, with her second, Dr. Brock also equally baffled said that she is a great candidate for VBAC and a great candidate for breech birth. The two, the risks that come along with those, don't compound each other. It's just two different sets of risks. What would you like to do? She opted for the vaginal breech birth after a Cesarean breech birth. I have them both on and they talk about the decision-making that went into it and what the process was actually like. When it comes to breech, I have a premise which is that– let's talk about a singleton baby in a first pregnancy. That's where we have the most data. I have a premise that at the end of pregnancy, babies generally want to be head-down. The reason I have that premise is because according to Williams Obstetrics, these numbers are a little bit old, but still seemingly relevant. At 28 weeks into a singleton first pregnancy, about 50% of babies are not head-down yet. Meagan: 50%. Dr. Berlin: 50% at 28 weeks. Now, at 32 weeks, about 10% are not head-down yet. You go from 50 out of 100 babies that are not head-down to only 10 out of 100 babies in a 4-week period of time. Meagan: That's a lot of babies that turn in a very short period of time. Dr. Berlin: It's a big migration and it's seemingly because they run out of space. When they have space to move around, they can move all over the womb. It doesn't really matter. Nobody really cares. They are exploring so no big deal. As they start to run out of space, they have to pick a position that is most accommodating in the space that they have and generally in a typically-shaped uterus for a typically-shaped baby, that is head down. That is where they try to go. At birth, at 37 weeks and beyond in that first pregnancy, the breech rate is 3-4%. So it goes all the way down to 3-4 out of 100 from 50. That's where the premise comes from at the end of pregnancy, babies generally want to be head-down. If they don't go there, there must be a reason for it. There's usually a reason. It could be something structural. It could be something functional. Sometimes when we have no idea why, like in the case of Dr. Donna Lew. Why would babies structurally? Well, there's a lot to consider. Maybe the cord is wrapped around them funny. Maybe the placenta is in the way especially when it's on the front wall, it seems to pose more of a getting-in-the-way factor. None of these, by the way, are absolute factors. I have a lot of people that come in with a placenta in the front and the baby does turn. But it seems like of the ones that don't turn, more of them have the anterior placenta. Amniotic fluid seems to play a role. So if the amniotic fluid index normal is somewhere between 8 and 24, with all of those being normal is a big range. 8, 9, and 10 are healthy but not so much fluid volume for baby to move around. 18, 19, and 20 are also healthy but so much fluid volume that even after 32, 33, and 34 weeks, your baby may have a lot more room to move around than other babies and not have a trigger to pick a position and get head-down. If you add other things to that like it's your third pregnancy so there's more room in the uterus anyway and if you're tall and if the baby's measuring small, you can take all of those things into account. Not all breeches are exactly the same. The shape of the uterus is a big deal too. Sometimes if the shape is different, it seems not conducive for the baby to get head-down or for the baby to be able to. Functionally, it's your body. Your lower back, hips, and pelvis are supposed to be pretty loose, relaxed, and open at the end of pregnancy. Your body is doing that hormonally in several different ways but if everything is stiff, tight, and rigid for various different reasons– injuries or excessive workouts or other things like that without enough stretching, then especially if you're strong, you can have a pelvis that is strong, tight, and rigid. As the baby's running out of space, maybe down there is not where they are being invited to go. Maybe the end of the rib cage is a lot more inviting or if they're trying to move as we said before, the body may not be able to accommodate the movements the same way. When I work on breech, I'm not doing anything for the baby itself. I'm not doing anything to the baby. I'm not trying to turn a baby or move a baby. I'm working on the musculoskeletal structures of the baby's surroundings which is the mom and if they're stiff, tight, and rigid, we're creating more functional space using massage to loosen up the soft tissues and chiropractic adjustments to open up those restricted joints and maybe gravity. We have tables that invert so maybe a little bit of gravity if something is really stuck trying to give the baby an opportunity to move naturally with gravity. We also in our office have acupuncture so we also do moxibustion which seems to stimulate more natural movement so it's synergistic. I can create more functional space and they can create more movement in that space. It gives those babies a chance to turn more naturally. When do we start? Usually around 32 weeks but I always tell people, “Look. At this point in that first pregnancy, 10 out of 100 babies roughly statistically are breech, and in birth, it's only going to be about 3.” If I was a betting person, I would still bet that your baby's going to turn. The stuff that I'm doing is really insurance. It's going to be helpful for birth anyway but I tell them not to panic at that point. And then of course, you have to look at all of those factors that we mentioned to see who is more or less likely to turn and you can tell based on the fluid, the uterine shape, the placenta location, and so on. Meagan: My VBAC baby kept going breech. At 32 weeks, he was going breech. She would motion him and he would flip then the next visit, I was like, “His hiccups are up here again.” He would be breech. He did that until 36 weeks. I think it was 34.5 or 35 and she was like, “We have to trust this baby. We have to trust that this baby needs to be head-up for whatever reason” and I was kind of grouchy because I was like, “I don't want to have another C-section just because I had another breech baby.” I really wanted this VBAC, but yeah. At 36 weeks, I went in and he was head-down and he stayed head-down. Dr. Berlin: Do you remember if your fluid was toward the more generous side, middle side, or lower side?Meagan: It wasn't super high, but it was on the higher of the normal. He did have a shorter cord when he came out, so I don't know if maybe something was bugging him there, but yeah. He flipped head-down. It was great, but it was hard. It was hard not to get panicky. Dr. Berlin: Sure, yeah. That's the thing. A lot more people have to think about breech than actually have breech at the end. Meagan: Yeah. Yeah. Dr. Berlin: So if there are 4 million births in the United States every year and 10% of them are breech at 32 weeks, that's 400,000 people every year thinking about breech but only about 3-4% are breech at the end like 160,000. Meagan: Yeah, I even had a client. I'm going to jump off of the breech topic, but I had a client who was breech and was scheduled for a version the next morning but went into spontaneous labor that night. We went in at 1:00 AM and baby was head-down. She was 9 centimeters when we got there. Her body just needed contractions to finish rotating the baby. I have no idea but sometimes it can happen. Okay, so let's see. Post C-section. This is in regards to cupping fasical release and stuff like that that you guys do in your office as well. Is that something that you would suggest? This is another type of bodywork essentially. Dr. Berlin: New mama TLC. I think whether you have a Cesarean or a vaginal birth, it's a lot on the mind and body, and nervous system, so I try to do a longer session soon after usually by two weeks regardless of the mode of delivery unless there is some kind of injury then you are good. We can do most things. The goals are to– sometimes there are smaller injuries from birth like injury to a tailbone or pubic bone or something like that. We can address those right away. I've had people pop a rib out pushing so hard so we obviously can pop that back in after a vaginal birth right after birth. Meagan: Wow. Dr. Berlin: The goal is if there are any injuries, we deal with them right away. After that, it's sort of like the sports massage when you've run a marathon. Just wear and tear on the body and trying to move that excess fluid around and have it be reabsorbed so we do some lymphatic work and finding those overworked muscles and to relax those muscles and at the same time, if we can work it in, a little sensual nervous system relaxation work to help reboot the system. Meagan: Yeah. Dr. Berlin: And to come back online with calm and quiet. So either a little meditation and/or some cranial work. While our normal visits are 25 minutes at that point, we do an hour-long session to try and get all of that in during the first one or two postpartum visits. There's also a great opportunity at that point, especially for people with more chronic things that they deal with pain-wise. You still have the pregnancy relaxation hormone for a bit. You don't have the baby inside there pushing on you 24/7. You're kind of more moldable clay. I've had several instances of somebody who had a lifelong chronic thing from an injury and during that period, we have a better shot at making a lifelong correction there. Meagan: I've never even thought of that. I've got this long-term back issue. I've got this relaxin and great stuff in my body. Let's work with that. Dr. Berlin: Yes. Let's use that advantage. I had a patient who was really eager to do that and then she got COVID and she couldn't come back. It created a whole bunch of problems for her and she's like, “Damn. I'm going to have to have another baby.” Meagan: I was going to say. That's what I would say. Now I have to have another baby. That is really awesome. Like you said, it doesn't matter. C-section or vaginal, our bodies go through quite an event and take a lot of shifts and changes so chiropractic care can be beneficial after as well. We've talked about it with babies as well. They go through a lot and that can be impactful. My little boy didn't poop forever. It was 9 or 10 days. We got him adjusted and he had the biggest poop in the world. Dr. Berlin: We see that all the time. Meagan: He passed out and slept all night. I woke up all engorged and I was like, “Oh my gosh.”Dr. Berlin: I know. It's the number-one feedback. “My baby slept so well after the adjustment.” Meagan: I know. We need it. Babies need it. It's so impactful. Back in the day, way, way, a long time ago, I didn't love the idea. Chiropractic care scared me. It can be scary because you can hear some people talk about it. Like you say, someone is yelling at you. It can be scary sometimes how people talk about it but it doesn't have to be scary and if you find that really good, skilled chiropractor, they're going to take care of you. They're going to help you through this process. Pubic SymphysisThey're going to help you with pubic symphysis which is another question. I know we're running out of time but if you have anything you'd like to share on pubic symphysis, that is a really big one. The more babies we have, sometimes it starts earlier. Dr. Berlin: Yeah. And then it's weird also. Sometimes it doesn't happen at all. It'll plague somebody in the first pregnancy and then not be there. Just a comment on the scared about chiropractic bit, certainly chiropractic isn't for everyone, but it comes back to finding a good match. As I said at the beginning, there are a lot of different ways to find and release those restrictions. Some of them are very, very gentle. It doesn't have to be that cracking noise that a lot of people are off-put by or violent-looking maneuvers. If you want the benefits of chiropractic but that's what's holding you back, find someone who does a low-impact technique or network or activator. Meagan: Drop table. Dr. Berlin: Drop table. Meagan: Yes, I was going to say the activator. Dr. Berlin: Sacro-occipital technique. There are so many that are gentle. The neuro-emotional technique. Okay, so in terms of the pubic bone, there is a right and a left side to the pubic bone. They are separated by pubic cartilage. I've learned over time that there are different types of pubic pain and they present differently. It's still definitely a work in progress. I'm learning new things all of the time. The most common one that presents during pregnancy is pain on sort of the lower pubic bone, the underside of the pubic bone where the fine meets the bone. It's usually only on one side or substantially worse on one side and it's like when you separate your knees. When you bring that pubic bone apart, that right and left side apart, so if you get out of bed one leg at a time or if you get out of the car one leg at a time or when you engage it to roll over in bed if you haven't been moving for a while. A very common one is to lean over to put on pants and lift one leg then ouch, it's very painful. What seems to be happening there in most cases is that you have an imbalance in the right and left side of your pubic bone. Let's say that you have the muscle coming up your thigh attaching to the underside of that pubic bone and pulling harder on one side than the other side. When you're totally stable, your body can accommodate that. But as the relaxation hormones kick in and they kick in pretty early, the pubic cartilage that is holding it together maybe can't compensate for that imbalance so the right and left sides end up not lined up with each other anymore but they torque so every time you engage it and pull them apart, it's very painful. If you could get them to line up again, then it would be either not painful at all or less painful. The combination that I use in that case that tends to work pretty well but not always is either massaging out the upper adductor like a deep massage to lengthen that adductor so it's not pulling so hard and then a trigger point right where that adductor inserts to the underside of the pubic bone. It's sort of an act of release trigger point as I'm pressing into it. They engage the muscle and then release the muscle. Engage and release a couple of times and then there's a little test that I do for it also which is if you're laying on your back or in a semi-reclined position and your knees are bent, feet on the massage table, or a yoga mat, or anything like that, I'll try to gently pull the knees apart against resistance from the mom. If that is weak, first of all, it doesn't really have a lot of strength. It elicits that sharpness in the place where the pain has been bothering them. That's a pretty good sign that this is the mechanism and that doing that combination of massage and trigger point and then adjusting the pubic bone with a drop table will give significant relief. Meagan: Wow. Okay, so that could be a test to say, “Okay. This could be impactful if you do this technique.” Dr. Berlin: Right. Then if it's not, I wouldn't do it necessarily because it's not the most comfortable thing. It's always up to them. I could still offer it and see if they want to do it even if it's a long shot or not do it even if it's a sure bet. But other types of pubic pain that I have identified are definitely the pubic symphysis cartilage itself sometimes gets inflamed. It's not one side or the other. It's right in the middle and it's higher up on the pubic bone. Oh, that's you. Meagan: That was me. It was ow. Dr. Berlin: I find acupuncture and I'll tell you something else in a second. Acupuncture, icing, and a support belt that lifts the belly up off of the pubic bone are some of the things that are more relieving there. The third type is the round ligament. They attach to the soft tissue right near the pubic bone on sort of the top ledge of it towards the outside, the upper corners of it. If you have a round ligament that is tight and pulling all of the time, then that becomes very sensitive. In those cases, we try to massage out or gently stretch the round ligament until it relaxes. That usually takes the pressure off there. One thing I would also say if you're feeling it there in the pubic symphysis cartilage and especially if you're also feeling it in the back by the sacrum or tailbone is to look for hyperactive pelvic floor muscles, a hypertonic pelvic floor. The pelvic floor runs from the back of the pelvic floor to the front of the tailbone. When it gets really tight, it will pull on both of those areas. Especially athletic women but not only– sometimes you have a hypertonic pelvic floor from all of the activities to strengthen and tighten. You might also be doing that to your pelvic floor. Up until not that long ago, all we knew about pelvic floor was that it can get weak so everybody is instructed to do these kegels and strengthen them but if it's already hypertonic and you strengthen it, you might be making it worse. So thankfully, we have these pelvic healthy physical therapists as a specialty now. People are just training on that and how to strengthen the weaker ones and loosen the tight ones, making pregnancy and birth more comfortable, more functional, and postpartum wellness. Postpartum sometimes can be treated. Meagan: Yeah. So as you are saying this, I have a weird question. I had all of that during labor and then since, I am really active. I am a road cyclist and I like to lift and all of these things. I get adductor pain now where it's not as tight and burning right in that pubic symphysis but right in that adductor. Do you think something could still be connected through that pelvic floor?Dr. Berlin: It's always worth checking if you haven't had it checked. The adductor by itself could just be the adductor. Sometimes just from the workouts that you're doing– lifting especially could make it really tight and it just needs to be rolled out or dug out and you might benefit from those trigger points too on the ends or the inserts on the top and the bottom. Pelvic floor could be a factor. There sometimes are other factors too. Even a little drop incontinence when you get the urge, it's like, “I've got to go right now.” Meagan: Yeah. Dr. Berlin: Or pain during intercourse or things like that or if you jump on a trampoline or you sneeze and you pee, those are signs that something is up with the pelvic floor. It's not functioning quite right and worth investigating with a specialist. Meagan: Yeah. I think a lot of people don't even remember that even C-sections can impact that pelvic floor and our whole body and create that tension and restrict us from having good mobility. Dr. Berlin: That is an amazing point because it is absolutely true. The end of pregnancy puts a lot of strain on the pelvic floor no matter how you deliver. Body Support at HomeMeagan: Yeah, so again, definitely check out the chiropractors in your area. So for those who maybe can't have chiropractors or can't have access, are there any tips or maybe places on the Informed Pregnancy Plus channel where people can learn not to adjust themselves but do stretches and do those things that can help create that mobility and help them have these vaginal births that they're wanting? Dr. Berlin: Yeah, there are tons. Spinning Babies has a whole bunch of great exercises that you can do. It's a good idea. We have a course that we do called Labor Kneads. We only do it live right now, but it's where we're teaching partners and doulas and other support people to do bodywork before, during, and after birth. That's a great idea for us to shoot that and put it up on the streaming service. I can't promise it for one, but I will certainly try to do that. The other thing is that there is a great listing of chiropractors with separate post-graduate training. You should know that anybody who is a licensed chiropractor can work on pregnant people. It doesn't have to be a specialty. Meagan: Or Webster-trained. Dr. Berlin: Yeah, it doesn't have to be Webster-trained or it doesn't have to be somebody who is a prenatal chiropractor. There are some chiropractors who don't feel comfortable working on pregnancies. Some don't have all that much experience, but there are a lot who are not prenatal. They are just family chiropractors and as a result, they see a lot of pregnancies. You don't have to have a specialty to do it. So unless there's no chiropractic in your neighborhood, then there might be people who can work on you even if it's not a specialty clinic like in our case, we call it pregnancy-focused chiropractic. The other thing is that there's a great website by the International Chiropractic Pediatric Association that does a lot of postgraduate training in pediatric and prenatal chiropractic care. They have a listing by zipcode and their website is icpa4kids.com. You can search by zip code in the United States and Canada and maybe some other international options. Meagan: We'll make sure to also put that in the show notes for everyone listening. Last but not least, the big question is does anybody not qualify to receive chiropractic care? Dr. Berlin: Yeah, I mean, I would almost say that there are some conditions during pregnancy that come up that are delicate. During those very delicate conditions, I love to work together with the obstetric provider. At that point, it's usually going to be an OB/GYN or a maternal-fetal medical specialist and just access their comfort level with the things that we do. Almost always, it's going to be modifications. It's not that we can't adjust them at all or do any bodywork with them, it's going to be modifications. Sometimes we'll just wait a couple of weeks and then do the treatments but for the most part, you can do something for everyone who has things that are stiff, tight, and rigid and are either uncomfortable or want to improve their function. Meagan: Awesome. Well, thank you so much for taking this time out of your day with all of your projects. You've got so many hands in buckets. You wear so many hats these days so it's really been such an honor to have you on the show and answer all of these amazing questions. I full-on believe in chiropractic care. Like I said, a long time ago, I was like, “Ah!” and then I started getting into chiropractic and I'm like, “No, this is really impactful on so many levels.” Dr. Berlin: It is. Meagan: I mean, I'm not even pregnant or planning on conceiving but I still go to the chiropractor because it really does impact my life in a better way. Dr. Berlin: We have moms come in here and they make an appointment. They say, “I want to make a postnatal appointment with Dr. Berlin.” The reception team will say, “Oh, how old is your baby?” They'll say, “13 years old.” I'm like, “Yeah.” You don't have to only be pregnant or postnatal to come here. Meagan: A postnatal visit. How old? 13. Okay. That's just called a chiropractic visit. That's all that you have to say. Dr. Berlin: It is, but once you have the baby, you have all of the bending, lifting, holding, feeding, emotional stress, and things like that. The maintenance during that active phase of life is important. BreastfeedingMeagan: Yeah. Oh my gosh. I just said I'm going to end. I feel like I could talk to you all day. Dr. Berlin: Same. Meagan: But something I feel that impacted me and I know a lot of our doula clients is breastfeeding. When we're breastfeeding, we're hunched and curled. Our neck is down and we're in wonky positions then we're out and we're stretching then we're like, “Oh, this is painful” or all of a sudden, my milk supply is not that great, and weirdly enough, chiropractic adjustments can help your body and you nurse better and help your production because your baby is going to nurse easier. You're going to nurse easier. Everyone's going to be better. Dr. Berlin: When you're in a lot of pain, the stress hormones put you more in emergency mode, and making milk is not an emergency function. There's that and there's literally just the– here's one tip I would say that seems to help a lot of people. If you have a nursing station, especially in those early couple of months, you can put a full-length mirror in front of you so you can see what's happening without looking straight down. That seems to be helpful for a lot of people. Meagan: Absolutely. Yeah. To just be able to see and not be curled over. I mean, you are looking at your baby, but you can look down at your baby versus– Dr. Berlin: Across. Meagan: Yeah. Dr. Berlin: Yeah. One thing that gets a lot of people is that you're trying to get some sleep and the baby is in a comfortable position and it's not comfortable for you but you don't want to move because you don't want to wake them up. That's gold for the chiropractors. Meagan: It is. It is. Oh, well thank you so much again. It's such an honor. We're going to make sure to have all of the links to your channel, to your page, and to your website. This chiropractic search forum and everything. Everything will be in the show notes so everybody will be able to find you. Dr. Berlin: Thank you. Meagan: Like I said, if you're listening and you haven't been able to yet, hopefully now you're not driving if you were driving. Stop and go follow Dr. Berlin. Dr. Berlin: Than

Have you ever wondered why some babies naturally go head down around 34 weeks and others don't? Or why some births progress quicker than others? A lot of it has to do with what's happening inside your body! For a variety of reasons there might be constrictions or imbalances limiting baby's movement. Today on Yoga | Birth | Babies we're taking a dive into understanding how chiropractic care works, how it benefits baby, pregnancy, and your body. As well as the Webster technique, what it is and how it can encourage baby to go head down. We're also going to talk about how chiropractic work can help those planning a VBAC, and we'll be talking about the importance of informed choices and decision making.  For this lively and interesting conversation my guest today is Dr. Elliot Berlin prenatal chiropractor, childbirth educator, labor support bodyworker, and cofounder of Berlin Wellness Group. You may also have heard his podcast The Informed Pregnancy Podcast (which I had the honor of being a guest on). He is delightful to talk to, down to earth, and full of so much knowledge. You're going to get so much great information from this podcast Get the most out of each episode by checking out the show notes with links, resources and other related podcasts at: prenatalyogacenter.com Don't forget to grab your FREE guide, 5 Simple Solutions to the Most Common Pregnancy Pains HERE  If you love what you've been listening to, please leave a rating and review! Yoga| Birth|Babies (Apple) or on Spotify! To connect with Deb and the PYC Community:  Instagram & Facebook: @prenatalyogacenter Youtube: Prenatal Yoga Center Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

After a difficult pregnancy with hyperemesis, business owner and new mother Madison Young is back to discuss all the twists and turns of her empowering birth story. Connect with Madison Young online: https://www.instagram.com/openeyecrystals/?hl=en Check out Open Eye Crystals online: https://openeyecrystals.com/ Learn more about the 'Ten Minute Mommy Recharge' on the Informed Pregnancy Blog: https://www.informedpregnancy.com/single-post/ten-minute-mommy-recharge-dr-elizabeth-krasnoff-phd Interested in more Pregnancy focused content? Start your FREE Informed Pregnancy+ subscription and watch You are not alone here: https://www.informedpregnancy.tv/you-are-not-alone Listen to another episode about Hyperemesis with guest Amy Schumer on the Informed Pregnancy Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/amy-schumer-hyperemesis-gravidarum/id909813658?i=1000460801339 Keep up with Dr. Berlin and the Informed Pregnancy Project online! www.informedpregnancy.com www.instagram.com/doctorberlin/ www.facebook.com/InformedPregnancy www.twitter.com/doctorberlin Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Renowned crystal shop owner Madison Young is 37 weeks pregnant with her first baby. In this episode, she shares about life as a small business owner, her experience with a medical scare, and her plans for upcoming birth. Connect with Madison here: https://www.instagram.com/openeyecrystals/?hl=en Check out Open Eye Crystals: https://openeyecrystals.com/ Learn more about the power of meditation on the Informed Pregnancy Blog: https://www.informedpregnancy.com/single-post/the-power-of-meditation-in-pregnancy-and-birth-nina-phelan Listen to another episode about hyperemesis with guest Amy Schumer on the Informed Pregnancy Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/amy-schumer-hyperemesis-gravidarum/id909813658?i=1000460801339 Keep up with Dr. Berlin and the Informed Pregnancy Project online! www.informedpregnancy.com www.instagram.com/doctorberlin/ www.facebook.com/InformedPregnancy www.twitter.com/doctorberlin Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's episode we speak with Dr. Elliot Berlin, an award-winning prenatal chiropractor, childbirth educator, labor support bodyworker, and co-founder of Berlin Wellness Group in Los Angeles, California. Things we talk about in this episode: Informed choice Empowered pregnancy and birth Breech births VBAC Links From The Episode: Dr. Berlin's website: https://www.doctorberlin.com/ Informed PregnancyⓇ Podcast: https://www.informedpregnancy.com/listen Informed Pregnancy Plus: https://www.informedpregnancy.tv/ Chrissy Teigen clip chatting about Dr. Berlin: https://www.instagram.com/p/Cqa8e_npO8q/ Offers From Our Awesome Partners: Needed: https://bit.ly/2DuMBxP - use code DIAH to get 20% off your order Splash Blanket: https://bit.ly/3JPe1g0 - use code DIAH for 10% off your order Esembly: https://bit.ly/3eanCSz - use code DIH20 to get 20% off your order More From Doing It At Home: Send us your birth story: https://bit.ly/3jOjCKl Doing It At Home book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3vJcPmU DIAH Website: https://www.diahpodcast.com/ DIAH Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitathome/ DIAH YouTube: https://bit.ly/3pzuzQC DIAH Merch: www.diahpodcast.com/merch Give Back to DIAH: https://bit.ly/3qgm4r9 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

VBAC, or vaginal birth after c-section, has been proven safe for the large majority of moms. However, it is often not offered as an option, especially in suburban or rural areas of the country. Dr. Elliot Berlin, an award winning, pregnancy-focused chiropractor & host of the Informed Pregnancy Podcast, talks with us about this and more!History of cesareans & VBACSHow to know if it is the right choice for youHow repeat c-sections became so popularThe importance of finding the right providerAnd more!Resources Mentioned:Dr. Berlin's websiteEpisode: Labor Day Surprises (part 1)Streaming service: Informed Pregnancy Plus NOW IT'S YOUR TURN! Support the show! The NaturalBirth Site SIGN UP for the NaturalBirth Education course to best prepare your body & mind for natural birth Read natural birth stories- and submit your own Share with anyone interested in natural birth Share our podcast with anyone you know who is interested in natural birth! "Like" our Facebook and Instagram pages Subscribe to our YouTube Channel Check out our HELPFUL PRODUCTS GUIDE

He's an award-winning chiropractor and co-founder of the Berlin Wellness Group in Los Angeles. Dr. Elliot explains how he helps perinatal women with sciatica, piriformis syndrome, round ligament pain, pubic symphysis and much more. Find him @doctorberlin and The Informed Pregnancy Podcast.   Teacher Training June 24-25 HERE Roll It Out Class HERE Order your copy, ebook or audio book of UNDERSTANDING AERIAL SILKS on Amazon Get the FREE 3-Part Video Series Aerial REHAB  Register for the FREE Mini Course HERE Reach me on Instagram @kerrywee1 kerry@wrapyourheadaroundsilks.com Greener Grass Podcast HERE Part of the Digitent Podcast Network  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, I am chatting with award-winning chiropractor and doula Dr Elliot Berlin about his role in supporting women through a healthy conception, pregnancy, birth and postpartum. Dr. Berlin shares his wisdom and offers tips and information to support you in achieving the same.  We chat about his journey to becoming a chiropractor and how he came to specialise in pregnancy. His own personal journey of conception led to an understanding of how important it is to ensure that both your body and mind are healthy in order to conceive a child, otherwise the body will be trying to prioritise other elements. Dr Berlin soon realised that information shared with pregnant women was limited and set up the Informed Pregnancy Podcast. He also made two incredible movies to help women who were planning to give birth after a previous c-section, and anyone who might want to give birth vaginally when their baby was in the breech position. More recently Dr Berlin and his team at Berlin Wellness have set up the Informed Pregnancy Plus channel, so you can access films and documentaries about your options for birth easily.  Website - Informedpregnancy.comInstagram - @doctorberlinIf you would like to buy a copy of either of the books that accompany this podcast please go to your online bookseller or visit Amazon:-Labour of Love - The Ultimate Guide to Being a Birth Partner - click here:-https://bit.ly/LabourofloveThe Art of Giving Birth - Five Key Physiological Principles - https://amzn.to/3EGh9dfPregnancy Journal for 'The Art of Giving Birth' - Black and White version https://amzn.to/3CvJXmOPregnancy Journal for 'The Art of Giving Birth'- Colour version https://amzn.to/3GknbPFYou can also purchase a copy via my website - www.birthability.co.uk Follow me on Instagram @theultimatebirthpartner @birthabilityBook a 1-2-1 session with Sallyann - https://linktr.ee/SallyannBeresford Please remember that the information shared with you in this episode is solely based on my own personal experiences as a doula and the private opinions of my guests, based on their own experiences. Any recommendations made may not be suitable for all listeners, so you should always do your own research before making decisions.

Dr. Elliot Berlin joins us on the HealthyGirl podcast for a second time! He is the chiropractor to the stars, specializing in pregnancy and postnatal care. Some of his patients include celebs like Hilary Duff! We talk about the importance of seeing a prenatal chiropractor in pregnancy, the best sleeping positions for pregnant women, choosing the right providers, the secrets to having an unmedicated birth, tips for heartburn in pregnancy, the different kinds of support you need during each trimester, what trimester to start going to the chiropractor and more!    In addition to his chiropractic practice, Dr. Berlin is the founder of the Informed Pregnancy Project, which includes the popular Informed Pregnancy Podcast, Informed Pregnancy Blog and the new streaming service Informed Pregnancy Plus.  For more visit informedpregnancy.com or @doctorberlin Instagram and Twitter.   Listen to Dr. Berlin's Podcast: https://www.informedpregnancy.com/listen   PREORDER THE HEALTHYGIRL COOKBOOK: geni.us/healthygirlsplash Follow Danielle on IG: https://www.instagram.com/healthygirlkitchen/ Follow Danielle on TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@healthygirlkitchen?lang=en  Free recipes and lifestyle:  HealthyGirlKitchen.com

Dr. Elliot Berlin joins me to talk all things pregnancy, postpartum, and well, we even discuss stand up comedy...something I did not know he practiced on the side! I have been so lucky to have him help me towards the end of my pregnancy into my current state of postpartum. He truly is a miracle worker! Please check out his podcast, Informed Pregnancy Podcast, to hear my pre birth/post birth story! Dr. Berlin is an award winning pregnancy-focused chiropractor, childbirth educator, and labor support doula as well as the host of the Informed Pregnancy Podcast where each week, parents, birth professionals, and parenting experts weigh in on a full range of topics surrounding the perinatal period. Dr. Berlin runs a successful perinatal wellness group in Los Angeles, CA with his wife Dr. Alyssa Berlin, PsyD with whom he shares four kids, two guinea pigs and one dangerously smart Aussiedoodle. @emotionalsupportpod @doctorberlin Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today’s episode, we speak with Dr. Elliot Berlin, an award winning prenatal chiropractor, childbirth educator, and labor doula. He talks about his experience in the ICU with Coronavirus and his miraculous recovery, as well as the emotional and spiritual renewal he experienced from the outreach of others during that time. We discuss the unique and powerful perspective that comes from near death or life-threatening situations. Dr. Berlin then shares what’s rewarding about his profession, the how and why he developed the “Informed Pregnancy Podcast” (https://www.informedpregnancy.com/), and the most important advice he would give to the listener. Dr. B’s Experience With COVID-19 1:48Reflections On Near Death Experiences 13:36Seeing Lives Change: The Rewards Of Dr. B’s Practice 18:40The Why Of “Informed Pregnancy”; Dr. B’s Dream Interview and Parting Wisdom 24:36“I’m close to fully recovered, but not quite there. No symptoms for a long time now, but just the energy takes a while to come back. But I can see the trajectory, and I can see that I’m gonna overshoot where I was before. I was just hoping to get back to myself, but I can see that if I keep up the sleeping, and the exercise, and the eating well, I’m gonna overshoot where I was before, and that’s a good feeling.” 32:41See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today is all about my pregnancy! I share my symptoms throughout this pregnancy by week, what it's been like, and my favorite things that are helping me navigate this time with more ease.    Enjoy!    LINKS TO WHAT I DISCUSSED   CLOTHING Lululemon Align leggings Belly band Super soft bras Maternity jean shorts from Pink Blush Maternity Ribbed maternity biker shorts from Pink Blush Maternity   SKINCARE & SUPPLEMENTS Metamucil (with Stevia) Natural Calm Magnesium Allergy Relief Nasal Spray CeraVe Tinted Physical Sunscreen SPF 30 C-Firma Fresh Day Serum from Drunk Elephant   BOOKS/RESOURCES Bringing up Bebé by Pamela Druckerman Bridget Teyler YouTube Channel & Built to Birth podcast Informed Pregnancy Podcast with Dr. Berlin Sarah Therèse YouTube Channel Bradley Class: here for unbiased background on it and here for classes near you   MISC Garmin Venu GPS Smartwatch U- Shaped Pregnancy Pillow   RATE & REVIEW If you enjoyed this episode, please go leave a rating or review on iTunes right now as it really helps grow the show. Rate & Review on iTunes!    CONNECT WITH EMILY On Instagram, Twitter & LinkedIn - @heyemilykennedy Sign up for the email newsletter: www.emilykennedy.org    Music by: Taste the Vibe - “Arctic Monkeys - R U Mine? (Mungø Remix)” unedited, via Creative Commons

Dr. Elliot Berlin is a chiropractor and doula who has a knack for getting babies to assume the best position for birth. He's become an integral part of the Los Angeles county natural birth community and is the host of the Informed Pregnancy Podcast. He believes every woman should have the birth they desire and provides the tools and knowledge he feels make all the difference. In this episode with Elliot, we discuss women's choices when it comes to birth, and the variance in care among providers. Can a breech baby be born vaginally? (Yes!) Does he think all providers should be supportive of VBAC (yes!) Can emotional support and physical skeletal and fascial release make all the difference in a woman's birth outcome? You get the idea...tune in to hear Elliot's take on pregnancy and birth, and his thoughts around providing women with the support, space and respect they deserve.* * * * * * * * * *If you enjoyed this episode of the Down To Birth Show, please subscribe and share with your pregnant and postpartum friends.Between episodes, connect with us on Instagram @DownToBirthShow to see behind-the-scenes production clips and join the conversation by responding to our questions and polls related to pregnancy, childbirth and early motherhood. You can reach us at Contact@DownToBirthShow.com or call (802) 438-3696 (802-GET-DOWN). We are always happy to hear from our listeners and appreciate questions for our monthly Q&A episodes. To join our monthly newsletter, text "downtobirth" to 22828.You can sign up for Cynthia's HypnoBirthing classes as well as online breastfeeding classes and weekly postpartum support groups run by Cynthia & Trisha at HypnoBirthing of Connecticut. Please remember we don’t provide medical advice, and to speak with your licensed medical provider related to all your healthcare matters. Thanks so much for joining in the conversation, and see you next week!Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/cynthiaovergard)

Elise, an Informed Pregnancy Podcast listener, shares her very personal experience with late term pregnancy loss in hopes of helping others who might find themselves or a loved one in a similar situation. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

All podcast notes can be found at www.themilitaryworkingmom.com/episode003Birth is such an amazing experience.  From pregnancy thru labor, every story is unique.  Listen in to this episode as I let you in on my birth experience with my son Tripp and how I went from knowing absolutely nothing about pregnancy to exploring all options.3 Keys to a successful pregnancy1. Educate yourselfYou may have a birth plan, but think of it as a birth "wish list." Birth is not something you can control...no matter how much you may want to. It will happen natural, so it is best to take it as it comes. That being said, prepare for all outcomes, that way no matter what life throws at you, you are ready and knowledgeable. Study up on non medicated, medicated and cesarean birth, as any of them can happen without it being in your "plan." Just know that if your birth does not go how you want, you are not a failure, you still gave birth to a tiny human, which is a miracle in itself.2. Don't compare your pregnancy or your body to any one elseEvery pregnancy is different, so inevitably our bodies will all react differently to pregnancy. Some of us may gain 5 pounds, others will gain 100. You may have stretch marks, your friend may not...and the list go on and on. Don't get caught up in comparisons, just enjoy your pregnancy as it will be over soon.3. Share your birth storyThe best way I learned about how to prepare for my birth was through the stories of many many many other women. I asked friends, parents, basically anyone that would tell me their story. Plus I started listening to the Informed Pregnancy Podcast (see below) which has tons of birth stories to prepare me for any type of birth and recovery that I would face. By sharing our stories, we not only remember them, but help others understand they were not alone in their struggles. If you have a story or experience you would like to share with the podcast, email me at Andrea@themilitaryworkingmom.com Recommended Pregnancy Books-Clinical style: The Mayo Clinic's Guide to a Healthy Pregnancy-All the details about pregnancy:  Belly Laughs by Jennifer McCarthyRecommended PodcastsInformed Pregnancy PodcastAll About Pregnancy & Birth

In this episode I am joined by Dr. Elliot Berlin, an award-winning prenatal chiropractor, childbirth educator, and labor support body worker. He is the co-founder of Berlin Wellness Group in Los Angeles, California, hosts The Informed Pregnancy podcast, and served as executive producer of two documentaries about birth - Head’s Up: The Disappearing Art of Breech Delivery, and Trial of Labor. Dr. Berlin is a labor support doula who attends births and provides laboring parents with body work such as massage, reflexology, accupressure, counter pressure, and chiropractic adjustments to help keep the birthing person relaxed, comfortable and focused for a smooth birth. He attends labor at hospitals, homes, and birth centers, and he works with several hundred breech babies each year. Listen to our fascinating discussion on vaginal breech birth, cesarean, and things to find out about your baby’s positioning as you enter the late stages of pregnancy. For more information and news about Evidence Based Birth®, visit www.ebbirth.com. Find us on Facebook, Instagram, and Pinterest. Ready to get involved? Check out our Professional membership (including scholarship options) and our Instructor program. Find an EBB Instructor here, and click here to learn more about the Evidence Based Birth® Childbirth Class. RESOURCES: Connect with Dr. Berlin via his website, InformedPregnancy.com (), and Instagram (). Get the Informed Pregnancy Podcast here ()! Evidence Based Birth® Signature Article, The Evidence on: Breech Version. EBB’s article on the Evidence for using Moxibustion to Turn Breech Babies.

In today's episode, Anita and Jessie go in-depth on how they prepared for birth: from strength training, to what they purchased, resources they hired, podcasts they listened to, and beyond! --- If you liked this episode of To Birth and Beyond, tell your friends! Find us on iTunes and Stitcher to rate/review/subscribe to the show. Want more? Visit www.ToBirthAndBeyond.com, join our Facebook group (To Birth and Beyond Podcast), and follow us on Instagram @tobirthandbeyondpodcast! Thanks for listening and joining the conversation! Resources and References Physical: TBAB Top 5 Exercise Tips for Pregnancy Episode: http://tobirthandbeyond.com/top-five-pregnancy-exercise-tips/ TBAB Prepare your pelvic floor for birth Episode: http://tobirthandbeyond.com/pelvic-floor-for-birth-2/ Spinning Babies Techniques: https://spinningbabies.com/learn-more/techniques/ Spinning babiesparent class video: https://spinningbabies.com/product/parent-class-digital-download/ Spinning babies daily essentials: https://spinningbabies.com/product/daily-essentials-digital-download/ TBAB Prenatal Yoga Episode with Deb Fleshenberg: http://tobirthandbeyond.com/prenatal-yoga-deb-flashenberg/ Perineal Massage video: https://www.holistichealthphysio.com/single-post/2017/07/22/Perineal-Massage---preparing-your-pelvic-floor-for-birth TBAB What is Pelvic Floor Physiotherapy? Episode http://tobirthandbeyond.com/pelvic-health-physio/ What is Prenatal Health Physiotherapy? Veodp: https://www.holistichealthphysio.com/single-post/2017/08/27/Prenatal-Pelvic-Health-Physiotherapy Mental/Emotional Hypnobirthing: https://us.hypnobirthing.com/ TBAB Doula Care Episode with Bebo Mia: http://tobirthandbeyond.com/role-of-doula-bebo-mia/ TBAB Homebirth Episode: http://tobirthandbeyond.com/home-birth-101-kaitlin-murray/ TBAB Fear Free Childbirth Episode with Alexia Leachman: http://tobirthandbeyond.com/fear-free-birth-alexia-leachman/ Fear Free Childbirth Podcast and Book: https://www.fearfreechildbirth.com/ Birth Hour Podcast: https://thebirthhour.com/ Informed Pregnancy Podcast: https://www.informedpregnancy.com/ Evidence Based Birth Podcast: https://evidencebasedbirth.com/evidence-based-birth-podcast/ Yoga I Birth I Babies Podcast: https://prenatalyogacenter.com/podcast-list/ Birthful Podcast: https://www.birthful.com/category/podcast/ Doing It At Home Podcast: https://www.diahpodcast.com/ RockStarBirth Radio Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/au/podcast/rockstar-birth-radio/id1124640454 TBAB Evidence Based Birth Episode with Rebecca Dekker: http://tobirthandbeyond.com/evidence-based-birth-rebecca-dekker/ Evidence Based Birth: https://evidencebasedbirth.com/ Association of Ontario Midwives: https://www.ontariomidwives.ca/ SOGC – Society of Gynecologists & Obstetricians of Canada: https://www.sogc.org/ ACOG – American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists: https://www.acog.org/ Birth Preferences TBAB Birth Preferences Episode: http://tobirthandbeyond.com/birth-plans-preferences-final/   Time Stamps 1:02 - Today we are sharing resources, and specific ways that Anita and Jessie prepared for their births. 2:12 - If you are not planning on having a home birth, don't turn this podcast off! Here's why… 4:14 - Starting with the physical side of birth prep...strength training! 8:44 - Release work - it's not just stretching! 16:48 - Specifically to the pelvic floor...perineal massage! 24:42 - Internal pelvic floor treatments during pregnancy. 25:29 - The mental and emotional side of preparing for birth… 49:33 - Getting practiced at talking about the hard and uncomfortable things. 51:09 - Some last thoughts on preparing for home AND hospital births. 54:47 - Our thoughts on having a doula. 58:59 - Was Anita's husband on board with a home birth from the beginning? 59:42 - Birth Preferences: do they matter? 1:10:34 - On the next episode of To Birth and Beyond…

In today’s episode, Anita and Jessie go in-depth on how they prepared for birth: from strength training, to what they purchased, resources they hired, podcasts they listened to, and beyond! --- If you liked this episode of To Birth and Beyond, tell your friends! Find us on iTunes and Stitcher to rate/review/subscribe to the show. Want more? Visit www.ToBirthAndBeyond.com, join our Facebook group (To Birth and Beyond Podcast), and follow us on Instagram @tobirthandbeyondpodcast! Thanks for listening and joining the conversation! Resources and References Physical: TBAB Top 5 Exercise Tips for Pregnancy Episode: http://tobirthandbeyond.com/top-five-pregnancy-exercise-tips/ TBAB Prepare your pelvic floor for birth Episode: http://tobirthandbeyond.com/pelvic-floor-for-birth-2/ Spinning Babies Techniques: https://spinningbabies.com/learn-more/techniques/ Spinning babiesparent class video: https://spinningbabies.com/product/parent-class-digital-download/ Spinning babies daily essentials: https://spinningbabies.com/product/daily-essentials-digital-download/ TBAB Prenatal Yoga Episode with Deb Fleshenberg: http://tobirthandbeyond.com/prenatal-yoga-deb-flashenberg/ Perineal Massage video: https://www.holistichealthphysio.com/single-post/2017/07/22/Perineal-Massage---preparing-your-pelvic-floor-for-birth TBAB What is Pelvic Floor Physiotherapy? Episode http://tobirthandbeyond.com/pelvic-health-physio/ What is Prenatal Health Physiotherapy? Veodp: https://www.holistichealthphysio.com/single-post/2017/08/27/Prenatal-Pelvic-Health-Physiotherapy Mental/Emotional Hypnobirthing: https://us.hypnobirthing.com/ TBAB Doula Care Episode with Bebo Mia: http://tobirthandbeyond.com/role-of-doula-bebo-mia/ TBAB Homebirth Episode: http://tobirthandbeyond.com/home-birth-101-kaitlin-murray/ TBAB Fear Free Childbirth Episode with Alexia Leachman: http://tobirthandbeyond.com/fear-free-birth-alexia-leachman/ Fear Free Childbirth Podcast and Book: https://www.fearfreechildbirth.com/ Birth Hour Podcast: https://thebirthhour.com/ Informed Pregnancy Podcast: https://www.informedpregnancy.com/ Evidence Based Birth Podcast: https://evidencebasedbirth.com/evidence-based-birth-podcast/ Yoga I Birth I Babies Podcast: https://prenatalyogacenter.com/podcast-list/ Birthful Podcast: https://www.birthful.com/category/podcast/ Doing It At Home Podcast: https://www.diahpodcast.com/ RockStarBirth Radio Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/au/podcast/rockstar-birth-radio/id1124640454 TBAB Evidence Based Birth Episode with Rebecca Dekker: http://tobirthandbeyond.com/evidence-based-birth-rebecca-dekker/ Evidence Based Birth: https://evidencebasedbirth.com/ Association of Ontario Midwives: https://www.ontariomidwives.ca/ SOGC – Society of Gynecologists & Obstetricians of Canada: https://www.sogc.org/ ACOG – American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists: https://www.acog.org/ Birth Preferences TBAB Birth Preferences Episode: http://tobirthandbeyond.com/birth-plans-preferences-final/   Time Stamps 1:02 - Today we are sharing resources, and specific ways that Anita and Jessie prepared for their births. 2:12 - If you are not planning on having a home birth, don’t turn this podcast off! Here’s why… 4:14 - Starting with the physical side of birth prep...strength training! 8:44 - Release work - it’s not just stretching! 16:48 - Specifically to the pelvic floor...perineal massage! 24:42 - Internal pelvic floor treatments during pregnancy. 25:29 - The mental and emotional side of preparing for birth… 49:33 - Getting practiced at talking about the hard and uncomfortable things. 51:09 - Some last thoughts on preparing for home AND hospital births. 54:47 - Our thoughts on having a doula. 58:59 - Was Anita’s husband on board with a home birth from the beginning? 59:42 - Birth Preferences: do they matter? 1:10:34 - On the next episode of To Birth and Beyond…

Blyss and Dr. Stu team up with Elliot Berlin and the star of the new documentary for an intimate conversation on The Informed Pregnancy Podcast

Blyss and Dr. Stu team up with Elliot Berlin and the star of the new documentary for an intimate conversation on The Informed Pregnancy Podcast

This is a review episode where we goes through podcasts we listened to in the last week! We explain highlights from each episode. Podcasts span topics like Therapy, Pregnancy, Church Sermons, Business, and Music.  We briefly compare and contrast listening to podcasts on Spotify vs on the iTunes Podcast App. _____________ links below serve as a playlist on iTunes. CHURCH SERMONS NewCity Orlando  —  a sermon by our friend Ben Kandt River City Church (Smyrna, Ga) — a sermon by our friend Bill Pinto PREGNANCY 40 Weeks Pregnancy Podcast — a short podcast telling you about the week ahead for you in pregnancy.  Informed Pregnancy Podcast — an episode on baby wearing. THERAPY CXMH — where church and mental health intersect.  BUSINESS This Week in StartUps — stories from around the world in entrepreneurship  How to Start a Startup — an episode on legal and accounting basics  Building a StoryBrand with Donald Miller -- an interview with Branden Harvey on social media. MUSIC Switched on Pop - a podcast breaking down how popular music works. ____________ A note on Chris's Podcast goal: I listened to 8 NEW podcasts this week, so I gained on my goal by 1. Currently at 136 podcasts listened to this year, avg. length of 43 minutes. ____________ Reach us on Twitter: @SuperMetaMedia Email us at: supermetapodcast@gmail.com   Intro Music: Phantogram Artwork: Mark Casper

In this episode, Stephanie interviews Emily Pardy, a marriage and family counselor and the founder of Ready Nest Counseling to discuss challenges many new parents experience. Emily identifies various life adjustments, emotional challenges, and relationship struggles that may occur once baby is born. You’ll leave this interview with simple, actionable steps to gracefully navigate some of these changes. You’ll also learn where to go for more information and support, should you choose to be proactive or if you’re currently experiencing these issues. Topics Discussed: Emily’s background, training, and personal journey Challenges a new baby presents to a marriage/relationship Adjustments and emotional implications Five steps for effective communication Important things to discuss before baby comes Managing resentment Realistic ways to reconnect with your partner Resources for couples navigating new parenthood Her top three pieces of advices for new parents Enjoy the listen! Click here to listen or find the podcast on iTunes or Stitcher! Shownotes: Ready Nest Counseling Sit. Stay. Good Marriage ebook For All Maternity ebook Dudes to Dads podcast Good Dad Project podcast The Informed Pregnancy Podcast with Dr. Berlin Nourish Medical Center Steph’s Healthy Mama, Happy Baby Virtual Pregnancy Handbook       Disclaimer Please remember that the views on this podcast and website are not meant to be substituted for medical advice, shouldn’t be used to diagnose, treat or cure any conditions, and are intended for general information purposes only.

Dr. Roger and Dr. Karen cover the common and potentially dangerous condition of heat stress (also known as heat exhaustion) and heat stroke in dogs.  Dr. Karen discuss risk factors and signs of heat stress versus the more dangerous progression of heat stroke, when to manage them, and when your dog’s life may depend on getting him to the vet ASAP.  Our veterinarian co-hosts also focus strongly on prevention and explain what is anatomically unique about dogs (beyond having a built in fur coat) that makes them far more prone to heat stress and heat stroke than people. Our doctors select listener e-mail questions and comments to be addressed on the air.  If you would like your comments to be considered for one of our episodes, e-mail them to comments@web-dvm.net.  For more content from Dr. Roger and Dr. Karen at their respective blogs at Web-DVM.net and VetChick.com. Veterinary Advice, Animal News and Views welcomes our sponsor for this episode, Dr. Elliot’s Informed Pregnancy Podcast.  Dr. Elliot Berlin is an award winning prenatal chiropractor, childbirth educator and labor doula. His Informed Pregnancy® Project aims to utilize multiple forms of media to compile and deliver unbiased information about pregnancy and childbirth to empower new and expectant parents to make informed choices regarding their pregnancy and parenting journey.  You can listen to the podcast and all of the other valuable pregnancy resources at: http://www.informedpregnancy.com.