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Friendly reminder...the joy of the Lord is our strength. We are blessed and God is Great all the time so let's be mindful of our blessings and show some gratitude and contentment. Yes, we are still striving for and praying for more, but what about the things we already have. Start a gratitude journal. Love & Blessings!
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I pulled out a fan-favorite episode to share today! If you haven't heard it, you don't want to miss this story. It'll encourage you. -- Mick is a dynamic, charismatic, but also a tell-it-straight kinda guy. When his marriage was shallow in terms of connection, emotionally and intimately, he jumped at an opportunity that he discerned understood him as a man and also had a proven track record for change. After taking responsibility, the MAIN change was his heart. He shares some particulars on why that was so vital in the outward changes of his marriage. But, he began to realize who God actually is calling him to be as a husband. Mick's transformation is truly awesome. But he really took responsibility. He wasn't interested in waiting to see what happens in his marriage without intentionality. He was ready to do the work and take 100% ownership for his marriage transformation and had full accountability for himself. His heart…his change…his commitment to Christ, and then…living it out in his marriage. I encourage you to listen to Mick's story and witness God's transformation in him. From the outside they looked great, but it wasn't until God changed his heart that their connection went to a whole new level. Maybe you need this. Maybe a friend does…and you get to be the one to share it with them (like a friend shared it with his wife, and thus God did this in his marriage and for his kids). Love & Blessings, Belah PS -- We'd love to see if we can serve you in a Clarity Call where you dig into your specific journey and we help you clarify the challenges, where you're going, and WHY. Go to delightyourmarriage.com/cc Quote from another recent graduate (2024): Before: "We were two roommates who both felt a lot of hurt and rejection. We lived together, but never talked about the elephant in the room." After DYM men's program: "I am so thankful to be in a loving and happy marriage that I could not have imagined only 12 weeks earlier. I am excited every day to go home to my wife, something that I felt anxious about three months ago." Maybe you're next? Go to delightyourmarriage.com/cc
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(This is a re-release from previously.) I used to be so weirded out by sex because I was pursuing Jesus with everything. How could my life be sold out for Christ and have to engage in such carnal behavior? Then God opened my eyes to quite a lot. I hope you'll listen to today's podcast with an open heart and willingness to let Him reveal His true design and desire for you in your marriage. Love & Blessings, Belah PS – We'd love to help with your marriage/intimacy please set up a call with a Clarity Advisor to see how we can help: delightyourmarriage.com/cc
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In approaching the new year, I invite you to rewind your calendar and consider...your marital performance in 2023. What if I asked your spouse what it was like being married to YOU this past year? Yikes! If my spouse chose to be fully open and honest I think I'd have plenty of... ehemmm... "growth-opportunities". :) Seriously though... feel free to go back through your calendar and check out what your priorities were throughout the year. Day by day. Week by week. Month by month. What was it like being married to YOU? If marriage is your first human assignment, was that reflected in... How you spent your time? How you spoke/listened to them? How you spent your energy? How you loved them the way he or she receives love? Assume you're looking at your year through your spouse's eyes. What were your challenges of the year? What were the things you should celebrate? Now that you have thought through that... We all know marriages are under attack, so what are you doing about it in your own home? You want it strong to withstand the challenges. & If you're a pastor or ministry leader, what are you doing about this for your flock or in your organization? (Aside: We have some exciting resources for ministry leaders that we'll be sharing with you in upcoming communications -- make sure you're on our email list to get notifications.) In this episode, I have some practical next steps and things to ponder as you're setting out into this fresh year. Love & Blessings, Belah PS - We'd love to help heal your marriage in 2024 (as has happened many times before), feel free to take us up on our gift to you: Clarity Call. delightyourmarriage.com/cc
Tammi's life is an incredible story - marked by both profound trials and tragedy, and incredible faith, inspiration, and miracles.She has faced and overcome many things in her life, from her father dying in a plane crash, to being abused by a neighbor as a child, to having a son born with a hidden brain tumor that ultimately caused him to take his life. But through it all, Tammi has learned to rely on God, and his love and grace to give her peace and understanding.At the very end of this episode she shares an incredible story about two ducks they adopted, and how God helped her young daughter to know that He was watching out for her brother who passed away shortly after. You don't want to miss it!** Please SHARE Tammi's story and help us spread hope and light to others. **To WATCH this episode on YouTube, visit: https://youtu.be/l7TBOjbV0Fs-----To WATCH Tammi's YouTube Channel, visit: https://www.youtube.com/@tammigarlick1234-----Also, if you have a faith-promoting or inspiring story, or know someone who does, please let us know by going to https://www.latterdaylights.com and reaching out to us.
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I'd like to share Kevin's story, mostly in his own words. As always, there is a huge message of hope and transformation available in this story, so I hope you'll listen in! After 28 years of marriage, feeling like roommates, Kevin said "I felt helpless" and "very isolated, very alone" in the struggles he experienced. As a very successful (and busy!) IT exec overseeing teams in India, UK, France, and elsewhere, and really being able to figure out most things on his own... It was confusing to not be able to figure out marriage in the same way. And it was painful to hear his wife caring more about something like Diet Coke than him. Logically, he knew it wasn't true but it sure felt like it at times. He listened to the DYM transformation stories (like this one!). And they sounded too good to be true. But he kept hearing parts of his story over and over again through other people's DYM interviews. He thoroughly checked into the DYM work and dived into the podcasts. Of the work, he said, "the more and more I listened, the more I found and heard the biblical basis of everything and heard the logic." Then, he took courage and had the Clarity Call which he said "the Clarity Call was exactly what it says: it was very clarifying." Once in, of the program: "It was very incremental, very linear, and based in a way where it clicks, where it makes sense." "The feedback loop, the accountability, the camaraderie of all the other gentlemen going through the program, that environment is an extra dimension of learning that I think is important, if not key to success." "It pours all the ingredients together to make things work." "I talked about things I have never talked about with anybody in my whole life during that part of the program." Through the Delight Your Marriage program, Kevin experienced an improvement in his marriage and a greater sense of fulfillment and walk with God. We would love to take the next step with you too. Sign up for a free Clarity Call at delightyourmarriage.com/cc and we can witness your transformation as well! (And who knows, maybe just like Kevin, you'll be our next transformation story who initially thought it was "too good to be true"!) Love & Blessings, Belah PS -- If you're wondering how healthy your marriage is right now so you can get clear on the aspects to improve, fill out the Marital Health Assessment for a free evaluation of your marriage health so you can take steps to make it even better! delightyourmarriage.com/health PPS -- Take action now and sign up for the Clarity Call. Sign up for a free Clarity Call at delightyourmarriage.com/cc and we can witness your transformation as well!
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I am grateful so many men share their unfiltered hearts with me. It is an honor and a privilege. I find that many men feel extremely misunderstood. And they have numbed their pain just to "get through". The problem with numbing is we don't see the people right in front of us and the pain they are experiencing. What I see so frequently is men who are desperately trying to be the men God designed them to be, but are frustrated with the lack of respect in their marriages. I want to help you understand... 1 - that your feelings here are valid and even God-designed 2 - there is a productive way to handle this gap (Spoiler alert: it starts on the inside of you.) Love & Blessings, Belah PS -- Are you curious about the overall health of your marriage? Respect is a big piece and when it's missing, it impacts the emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacy of a marriage. Discover the strengths and weaknesses of your marriage with our free online Marital Health Assessment delightyourmarriage.com/health When you do, we'll send you some free resources and recommendations based on your specific situation and needs. Fill out the free Marital Health Assessment now. delightyourmarriage.com/health Graduate Quote: "It's changed it completely, our home environment is filled with tenderness, compassion, love and respect."
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This title was hard to come up with. Essentially, I want you to have the tools and mindset to figure out how to set boundaries with yourself and with others when needed. Jesus was the servant of all. He came to serve not to be served. He was the most humble and meek. And yet, Jesus set boundaries. A lot. Here are a couple, but once you read this, you'll probably not be able to read a parable or look at the life of Jesus without noticing His leaning into boundaries over and over again. Jesus disappointed people because his priority was God over people In Mark 1:35-39, Jesus wakes up early to pray, but his disciples come looking for him, saying that "everyone is looking for you." In Matthew 16:21-23, Jesus tells his disciples that he must go to Jerusalem and suffer at the hands of the elders, chief priests, and scribes. Peter rebukes him, saying that this should never happen to him. Jesus responds by telling Peter that he is setting his mind on human things rather than God's things and calls him a hindrance. In Luke 14:25-33, Jesus sets the boundary of the cost of discipleship. He says anyone who wants to follow him, essentially compared to their love for Jesus, must hate their family and even their own life. They must carry their own cross, and give up all their possessions. If they're not willing to pay this price, they can't follow him. In John 2:13-17, Jesus clears the temple of the money changers and merchants, telling them to stop making his Father's house a marketplace. He shows anger and uses physical force to set this boundary. Jesus was the servant of all but did not allow anyone to trod on boundaries. So, what if you are trodding on God's boundaries? What if your spouse wants to trod on the boundaries set by God? Sexual boundaries? Disrespect boundaries? Other boundaries? Should you set boundaries with yourself? Should you set boundareis with your spouse? If so, how? Is there a way to have a generous heart and a kind spirit and yet set a firm boundary? This conversation goes into these things that are HARD to tease through. I don't think I have it all right. This is a topic that I feel a bit reticent to release. And I think it will require prayer as you discern how it applies to you. And what your next steps are. Love & Blessings, Belah PS - Let us know if this topic spoke to you and if we can help, email us at belah at delightyourmarriage.com PPS - Quote from a program graduate: “I have become a delighted, playful wife that enjoys and desires sex. My relationship to the Lord, my husband and our daughter has become more intimate.”
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There are so many people I wish I could help when I meet them at the playground, park, at a party... so here it is. Marriage can be tough. VERY tough. And there is a dearth of helpful insight nowadays. My content is focused towards people who follow the teachings of Jesus. But I really want to give you help because, from one perspective, we may not even be able to ask the hard philosophical questions about "is there a God?" or "what is Truth?" if we're bogged down with so much emotional pain in our marriage. So, I tried my best in this episode to give you a roadmap at a very high level of how to rescue your relationship. Whether you follow the teachings of Jesus or not. (Yes, all my training is based on that, but I want to HELP you... so I invite you to listen in because I am very practical.) Maybe you want to stay married because of the kids (good for you!) or you really can't afford a divorce, or you want to keep the commitment you made however many years ago, or you have the slightest bit of hope that you could get back to what you had at first or... fill in the blank. So, how do you do that when your partner has hurt you in so many ways? Well, in this episode, I talk about what husbands need to feel filled up in marriage, and what wives need to feel filled up in marriage. And when you or your spouse is missing this, it is painful and "hurt people, hurt people". So your spouse reacts by hurting you too. I also talk about the very first step you must take, otherwise, your marriage won't be able to grow. I also uproot a cliche and very harmful marital habit. EXTREMELY harmful, if you want to stay married. And most of all I want you to have hope that it can change and that it's worth you putting in the work (yet again) to see to it that your kids have a solid and safe family to grow up in. Love & Blessings, Belah PS - To help you determine the current health of your marriage, take this free assessment at delightyourmarriage.com/health PPS - If you want help in your marriage, click here to schedule a free Clarity Call at delightyourmarriage.com/cc A recent graduate of a Delight Your Marriage program said: BEFORE: "No hope of anything beyond glorified roommates. We were lacking in communication, vulnerability, trust, emotional connectedness and of course physical intimacy." [We had a sexless marriage]. AFTER: That she has initiated love-making multiple occasions. We made love 3 days in a row on our anniversary trip and twice in a row on a recent work trip. I feel like I have a system or structure—a way forward—to a better marriage. Whereas before I felt lost, hopeless and stuck. I have loved the program! ... I cannot believe its been 13 weeks!!! WHAT?!" Sign up for a Clarity Call to see if this is right for you! delightyourmarriage.com/cc
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My goal today is to inspire a curious heart. Could God have really designed men and women differently? Could your differences truly be HIS design? Could it be that "in His own image, in the image of God He created them; male and female he created them.” Gen 1:27 Could your husband's member be God-designed? Could it be that sex is God-designed? Could there be a reason God's boundaries around this gift are all over the Bible? Could loving your husband well (loving your husband the way he receives love) bring God glory? Love & Blessings, Belah PS -- This is a free Marital Health Assessment to find out how healthy your marriage is in emotional, physical and spiritual intimacy: delightyourmarriage.com/health PPS -- A recent grad wrote: BEFORE: "Not feeling loved by each other. Disconnected hearts (emotionally, spiritually, and physically). Going to bed feeling hurt almost every night. Fighting a lot, even in front of the kids." AFTER: "Forgiven her. Relearned to appreciate all that she is (and make sure she knows). Learned how to protect her heart (make her feel safe). Re-committed to getting to know and cherishing her. In general, feeling close with her on all levels again, which is the outcome I seeking and expected. Though the changes in the bedroom, which were not really my purpose in this, have been beyond my imagination." If you'd like to work in a program (for husbands or wives), your next step is a free Clarity Call.
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Roy was married 25 years with 5 kids. And they had a good marriage. They love the Lord and seek to serve Him with all. Intimacy was tough though. And every time he brought it up, she would get defensive, or feel like she wasn't good enough, or like he'll never be satisfied. Anyone else feel that way? He had heard about Masculinity Reclaimed for a couple of years and finally decided it was time. He kept hitting a wall. And if you're in that place, I want you to know... It's legitimate that issues around intimacy hurt. They hurt deeply. But Roy got to a place where trying to change her wasn't working. And so, he decided it was time to look at himself. He knew going into the program if he let his wife know, in the beginning, she would put many, many more walls up... So, he decided to go forward without her knowing. Because, as he said, this was a coaching program FOR HIM. He had to talk to someone. It was either therapy or a coaching program. (And he said she doesn't really like therapy either). Anyway... that's where things started. But, in 12 weeks, God did something amazing. If you're a man looking/grasping for hope and/or you want the tools for changing your marriage, I invite you to listen. If you're a woman who will listen with a curious heart to find out how men really feel about intimacy, I invite you to listen. Love & Blessings, Belah PS - Would you like to work on your side of your marriage? I invite you to sign up for a free Clarity Call here at delightyourmarriage.com/cc. PPS - How healthy is your marriage, really? Take the free Marital Health Assessment here! delightyourmarriage.com/health Quote from a Masculinity Reclaimed Graduate: "I've learned so much, your course helped me figure out so many things I've been struggling with in my life and I've really been able to make sense of pain and emotions that I haven't figured out until now. There are many more great things that have come from doing your course!"
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Is there dignity in humility? Is there dignity in humiliation? Initially, you might think not. But then we have to take a moment to consider the cross. An excruciating death, reserved not for Roman citizens, but for rebels and slaves... because it was SO SO humiliating. And yet, the God of glory, the One who DESERVES all glory and honor... HUMILIATED Himself not only to come as a baby, giving up His power, constraining himself to human form, and giving up his rights in an infinite number of ways... to then suffer the humiliation, the pain... for the joy set before Him. Not because we deserved it, ...but because it is a testament to HIS surrender to the Father's will that he endured the cross. This is why you are humble and a servant to your spouse, ...because humility is the VERY dignity of Jesus. Humility is what Jesus Himself modeled. Why do you close your mouth when you want to criticize your spouse? Why do you pause instead of, "let them have it," when they deserve to be dressed down for their bad behavior? Why do you go out of your way to make them feel special, even though they haven't done it for you? Why do you forgive them for the pain they have caused you? Why are you joyful even though they don't add to it in the ways they know you'd love? Because you are walking in the humility that Jesus Himself invites you to. Every single day, in your marriage, you are invited to walk in His humility. What does humility look like? Jesus. Was he a pushover? No. Was he passive? No. But was he an extravagant servant? Most definitely. So, are there boundaries to humility? Yes. I invite you to have a curious heart if God has something for you here. I reference the book "Humility," by Andrew Murray, a lot in this episode. I also reference the Bible a lot. (I highly recommend it :) Love & Blessings, Belah PS - Have you already downloaded our intimacy framework so that you can love your spouse the way they receive love? If not, go to delightyourmarriage.com/framework PPS - Are you ready to be the spouse God has called you to be, but need some guidance about what that looks like? Click here to schedule a free Clarity Call to see if our programs could be what you need. Graduates Testimonial: "I would recommend this program to a fellow Christian who is looking to make their marriage better in all aspects. The intimacy aspect is important but there were so many other ideas and realizations around other ways to better my marriage. I appreciate so much Belah's enthusiasm and honesty. There is a lot of great info and expertise in here. She did an amazing job propping guys up and being positive which was infectious!"
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"It's my spouse who needs to change." If you've said this or thought this...you are right. So now, no need to listen to anything because there's nothing for you to do but wait around in a grumpy mood 'til your spouse decides to do something. :) Maybe there's another opportunity here. Maybe we can be (as our team member Kyle says) "playfully curious" about this response. Why do we assume it's all on our spouse? What questions are we... a-refusing to ask b-unaware that we need to be asking c-too distracted to think about it :) (Oh, was that your email/TikTok/IG/Facebook/text message notification that just went off? :P ) Today's episode is to help you honestly look at where your marriage is, and discern if and how your partner is the issue. And, if and how, with playful curiosity, you might have an opportunity in your situation, as well! Love & Blessings, Belah PS If you want to see if we can help you in your marriage and honestly evaluate where you can work in your marriage, we invite you to schedule a free Clarity Call by clicking here. Quote from Masculinity Reclaimed Graduate: “I have spent much more money trying to rekindle my marriage with no results. I have 2 failed “Romantic Vacations” and a bathroom remodel to prove it. I spent less on this and had fantastic results. This might possibly be the best investment of my life."
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(Alliteration is such a... joy--isn't it? :) Hoping that gave you a needed chuckle... But seriously... Mick's story is GREAT! He is a dynamic, charismatic, and tell-it-straight kinda guy. When his marriage was shallow in terms of connection, emotionally and intimately, he jumped at an opportunity that seemed on target. Well, the MAIN change was his heart. He shares some particulars on why that was so vital in the outward changes of his marriage. But, he began to realize who God actually is calling him to be as a husband. So... with lots of smiling he shared that they enjoyed (like never before...ever) "full-blown, wholehearted sexual intimacy...truly unbelievable." Mick's transformation is truly awesome. But he really took responsibility. He wasn't interested in waiting to see what happens in his marriage. He was ready to do the work and take 100% responsibility AND accountability for himself. His heart…his change…his commitment to Christ, and then…living it out in his marriage. Is there hope for you? Yes! We serve "the God of hope." (Rom 15:13) In fact, He wants you to "overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." (Same verse ^) I encourage you to listen to Mick's story and witness God's transformation in him. Maybe you need this. Maybe a friend does…and you get to be the one to share it with them (like a friend shared it with his wife, and thus God did THIS in his marriage AND HIS KIDS!!!!) Love & Blessings, Belah PS -- We'd love to see if we can serve you in a Clarity Call where you dig into your specific journey and we help you clarify the challenges, where you're going, and WHY. And if we genuinely feel you'd be the right fit, we might invite you in (our Clarity Advisor is reimbursed regardless of the end result -- because this is truly our gift to you.) Go to delightyourmarriage.com/cc Quote from a graduate: So... with lots of smiling he shared that they enjoyed (like never before...ever)... "full-blown, wholehearted sexual intimacy...truly unbelievable."
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When I look back on my life — when I see what is currently unseen — when I see Jesus face to face — when all has been revealed… I am convinced I will be BLOWN AWAY by the love I never realized He truly had for me. In the Bible, it says that God feeds the birds. (Mt 6:26) He FEEDS the birds. I was observing birds yesterday in the park. There are tons of them, flitting around, this way and that. And yet the God of the universe cares about His creation, so much so, that He Himself feeds the birds! He is intimately aware of your life and what you're going through. And He is feeding you. He is clothing you. He is giving you far more than just that. He wants you to realize that in every good AND in every suffering, He remains good. There is SO much you (and I) cannot see. He allows suffering for His reasons only He can see. But when you trust this truth that He is the one that gives everything that is right in your life — it allows you to see the suffering better. You can endure the suffering with a peace, a joy, and a contentment that is important. In fact, when you have that peace/joy/contentment during the suffering, you will accomplish at least some of the important purposes He has for that suffering. Make no mistake, God cares about your suffering. God cares about the rejection you feel from your spouse. He cares about your loneliness in the one supposedly “safe relationship” – your marriage. He cares about the lack of intimacy. He cares about the lack of warmth. He cares when your spouse ignores the cravings of your soul that you were designed to have. He cares. And IN THIS He is good. If we only knew how much He truly loved you… He would risk you possibly turning away from him due to that suffering because He has bigger purposes. Remember… Higher than the heavens are above the earth are His ways higher than our ways, are His thoughts higher than our thoughts. We do NOT have to understand. We DO have to trust His goodness. That starts with realizing, if the God of the Universe feeds each of these birds, that means he makes each of my breaths happen, each of my blood vessels moves when they are meant to. It means He causes my son to smile at me. It means He causes my eyes to even see the sunset. It means that He not only knit me together in my mother's womb for 9 to 10 months… But He didn't stop. He is still in me. He is still designing, directing, causing all these things to go well in me. EVERY good gift is from Him. Even the ones I don't take time to notice. When my arm breaks it should remind me that He was the one that caused it to thrive every other day. If we only soaked in the truth of His love, we could more easily trust it during the suffering… He is still good. If we only knew His love. If we only knew His love. If we only knew His love. May you know the love of Christ. May I know it, too. Love & Blessings, Belah PS If you would like help with your marriage, we invite you to schedule a free Clarity Call with our advisor. This call allows us to help you evaluate where you are in your marriage, and whether or not we are a good fit for you. Click here to schedule a free call. PPS When a graduate of Masculinity Reclaimed (MR) was asked: Do you recommend MR? "I do far more than recommend it, I advocate for it and fortunately one couple has joined both MR [Masculinity Reclaimed] and DW [Delighted Wife] as a result. Why - because MR is filled with lots of explanations of what and why things need to occur, but it's also very heavy on HOW to do things, which is missing from all other marriage content out there. Plus, Belah's insight is extraordinary. When she was describing in podcasts about why men enjoy oral sex I stopped and remarked to myself, that's 1000% correct. I never thought about it, but she's 1000% correct. So the degree to which Belah has insight and understanding into the male and female psyches is extraordinary. Massively improved our marriage. Brought me closer to God. Helped me see my wife in an entirely different way. Set us on a path to healing. Facilitate mind-blowing, real-deal sexual intimacy (aka wholehearted sexual intimacy) and helped me get better at being vulnerable, sharing my vulnerability, and be more sensitized to when my wife is being vulnerable. With more time I can easily think of more things. I never once questioned if what I spent on MR was worth it, because without question it was."
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Do you feel broken? Dirty? Ashamed? These are all normal feelings for a victim of sexual trauma. You know what feelings Lisa now has? Freedom. Confidence. Trust. 1 in 4 or even 1 in 3 women have been victims of sexual abuse. 1 in 6 men have. So, many of us need the HOPE for healing Lisa gives us. Was it instant? Was it easy to confront? Was it comfortable to start this process? No. She had to have courage to get out and join a healing process to get to the other side where God ultimately wanted her to be. You will love her story and the encouragements she gives. Especially the 1 and most important thing that she wants you to know if you've been abused. Love & Blessings, Belah PS - If you'd like to get "vision", the opportunity for "intention" and the "means" to transformation... (as Dallas Willard says) I invite you to sign up for a Clarity Call. You'll work with a Clarity Advisor to discern that vision. delightyourmarriage.com/cc Looking forward to seeing how God heals you!
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"Betrayal to a marriage is what dynamite is to a door" says Gary Thomas. Obliterating all trust, safety, dreams... Could there be hope? Could there be restoration? And... How could this have been prevented? This is what we discuss on today's episode. If these are your questions, Gary gives a lot of insight I think you'll want to listen in to. What can you do as a couple to right the ship? What can you as a couple do to come together and see how to build your marriage with strength and solidness -- keeping any explosives far, far away. Check out Gary's work and his new book at garythomas.com Love & Blessings, Belah PS -- We'd love to help you heal your marriage no matter what the issue is, and if you're looking for a program to come alongside other men and/or women, I invite you to go to delightyourmarriage.com/cc to speak to a Clarity Advisor to see how we can support you.
Belle Humble on the Virtual Sessions presented by The DJ Sessions 9/26/22 About Belle Humble - BELLE HUMBLE is a platinum-selling, UK-based singer/songwriter who has worked with the likes of Paloma Faith, Alexandra Burke, Lazy Rich and DJ Muggs. Well known for the dubstep anthem “Cracks” with Freestylers x Flux Pavillion and numerous UKF-released bangers, Belle recently scored a number of cross-genre dancefloors staples with Tom Swoon & Dank “Phoenix” [Official X-Box Forza Horizon 3 Trailer Theme]; Lexer “Feels Like This” and Qulinez's “Body Dancing” [feat. on TV's hit ‘So You Think You Can Dance.'] as well as the new Never Say Die stormer “High From It” with fave newcomer, LAXX. Belle's newest tech anthem is the new Sander van Doorn collaboration called “No Words." We are all instruments of sound. Each and every one of us, everything that exists, from here to infinity, has been spoken into existence. We are Sound. We are Light. We are Here, so let's make the most of it. “The highest goal of music is to connect one's soul to their Divine Nature, not entertainment” Pythagoras (569- 475 BC) I create music and weave my voice through the sounds, I love to share these offerings and I love that you dance and sing along with all your heart and with every part of you. I love to connect with you through the magic of music. We are connected in this way. For an energy boost, play some music, sing, move your body, dance and see how your spirit is lifted. Love & Blessings, Belle Humble About The DJ Sessions - “The DJ Sessions” is a Twitch/Mixcloud "Featured Partner” live streaming/podcast series featuring electronic music DJ's/Producers via live mixes/interviews and streamed/distributed to a global audience. TheDJSessions.com The series constantly places in the “Top Ten” on Twitch Music and the “Top Five” in the “Electronic Music", “DJ", "Dance Music" categories. TDJS is rated in the Top 0.11% of live streaming shows on Twitch out of millions of live streamers. It has also been recognized by Apple twice as a "New and Noteworthy” podcast and featured three times in the Apple Music Store video podcast section. UStream and Livestream have also listed the series as a "Featured" stream on their platforms since its inception. The series is also streamed live to multiple other platforms and hosted on several podcast sites. It has a combined live streaming/podcast audience is over 125,000 viewers per week. With over 2,300 episodes produced over the last 12 years "The DJ Sessions" has featured international artists such as: BT, Youngr, Sevenn, Boris, MJ Cole, Lady Waks, Arty/Alpha 9, Miri Ben-Ari, DJ Ruby, DJ Colette, Nima Gorji, Kaspar Tasane, Andy Caldwell, Party Shirt, Plastik Funk, Michael Anthony, Kidd Mike, Inkfish, DJ Tiger, They Kiss, Downupright, Harry "the Bigdog" Jamison, ENDO, John Tejada, Hoss, Bee Bee, Cozmic Cat, Superstar DJ Keoki, Crystal Waters, Swedish Egil, Martin Eyerer, Dezarate, Inkfish, Kidd Mike, Michael Anthony, They Kiss, Downupright, Harry “the Bigdog” Jamison, DJ Tiger, DJ Aleksandra, 22Bullets, Carlo Astuti, Mr Jammer, Kevin Krissen, Amir Sharara, Coke Beats, Danny Darko, DJ Platurn, Tyler Stone, Chris Coco, Purple Fly, Dan Marciano, Johan Blende, Amber Long, Robot Koch, Saeed Younan, Robert Babicz, KHAG3, Elohim, Hausman, Jaxx & Vega, Yves V, Ayokay, Leandro Da Silva, The Space Brothers, Jarod Glawe, Jens Lissat, Lotus, Beard-o-Bees, Luke the Knife, Alex Bau, Arroyo Low, Camo & Crooked, ANG, Amon Tobin, Voicians, Florian Kruse, Dave Summit, Bingo Players, Coke Beats, MiMOSA, Drasen, Yves LaRock, Ray Okpara, Lindsey Stirling, Mako, Distinct, Still Life, Saint Kidyaki, Brothers, Heiko Laux, Retroid, Piem, Tocadisco, Nakadia, Protoculture, Sebastian Bronk, Toronto is Broken, Teddy Cream, Mizeyesis, Simon Patterson, Morgan Page, Jes, Cut Chemist, The Him, Judge Jules, DubFX, Thievery Corporation, SNBRN, Bjorn Akesson, Alchimyst, Sander Van Dorn, Rudosa, Hollaphonic, DJs From Mars, GAWP, Somna, David Morales, Roxanne, JB & Scooba, Spektral, Kissy Sell Out, Massimo Vivona, Moullinex, Futuristic Polar Bears, ManyFew, Joe Stone, Reboot, Truncate, Scotty Boy, Doctor Nieman, Jody Wisternoff, Thousand Fingers, Benny Bennasi, Dance Loud, Christopher Lawrence, Oliver Twizt, Ricardo Torres, Patricia Baloge, Alex Harrington, 4 Strings, Sunshine Jones, Elite Force, Revolvr, Kenneth Thomas, Paul Oakenfold, George Acosta, Reid Speed, TyDi, Donald Glaude, Jimbo, Ricardo Torres, Hotel Garuda, Bryn Liedl, Rodg, Kems, Mr. Sam, Steve Aoki, Funtcase, Dirtyloud, Marco Bailey, Dirtmonkey, The Crystal Method, Beltek, Darin Epsilon, Kyau & Albert, Kutski, Vaski, Moguai, Blackliquid, Sunny Lax, Matt Darey, and many more. In addition to featuring international artists TDJS focuses on local talent based on the US West Coast. Hundreds of local DJ's have been featured on the show along with top industry professionals. We have recently launched v3.1 our website that now features our current live streams/past episodes in a much more user-friendly mobile/social environment. In addition to the new site, there is a mobile app (Apple/Android) and VR Nightclubs (Oculus). About The DJ Sessions Event Services - TDJSES is a WA State Non-profit charitable organization that's main purpose is to provide music, art, fashion, dance, and entertainment to local and regional communities via events and video production programming distributed via live and archival viewing. For all press inquiries regarding “The DJ Sessions”, or to schedule an interview with Darran Bruce, please contact us at info@thedjsessions.
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Is Jesus the Lord of your life in EVERY area? Are you trusting God in everything except your marriage? Are you saying, "Yes, I will follow," but then when Jesus says to sacrifice for your spouse, that's where you draw the line to do it your own way? Is your emotional intimacy with your spouse in God's hands? Is your spiritual intimacy with your spouse in God's hands? Is your physical intimacy with your spouse in God's hands? Or, have you decided (like I too often do, sadly) "God, in this area, I can do it my way"? God is really interested in your marriage. Your spouse is the closest relationship to you. Whom you can influence the most -- and they influence you the most. So... if you decide to do marriage your own way, that's a big deal. I was recently reminded that when I don't TRUST God, I suffer... often, unnecessarily. When I don't trust God, and I try to do it my own way...the work that God was in the middle of doing -- behind the scenes -- I can ROYALLY mess up! The lesson I invite you to learn from my fumble is: TRUST God in your situation. TRUST God in the way He set up marriage and your role (husband and wife) and witness God move in your emotional spiritual and physical intimacy. He has a way. If you're suffering doing it His way, there is a reward on this side (or the other side) of eternity. But, as I was reminded of, we may suffer because we are doing it OUR way. And I encourage you to make sure you're doing it His way. IMPORTANT: Make sure you ARE doing your marriage and intimacy God's way, so you and your wife don't unnecessarily suffer. (That's the biggest sadness I see with men I work with, they didn't have to suffer, they just didn't know...) This is where I (shamelessly) plug our FREE Masculinity Reclaimed: Foundations course! (Because I know it can help you!) We are in the middle of it, but there's just enough time for you to catch up - if you sign up now. It won't be available much longer -- delightyourmarriage.com/menstraining (Also, if you already know you're going to join the 3-month Masculinity Reclaimed Program, we officially open enrollment Saturday, September 17 -- if you join the first day you get an extra Kick Start training -- where I'd love to spend time walking you through how to "win" MR and get yourself set up for amazing success -- by God's grace. You can join right away here: Masculinity Reclaimed Coaching Program) If you don't need help in your marriage -- will you pray for this free training -- that the men who need hope would sign on and witness God's transformation for many? And most importantly, that each man would draw closer to Jesus. Thank you for your prayers. May God help you to TRUST Him in your specific situation. He continues to teach me, and I hope that encourages you! Love & Blessings, Belah PS -- The free men's training is going away soon. Sign up, and catch up here: delightyourmarriage.com/menstraining
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You'll need to be registered for this training -- Masculinity Reclaimed: Foundations It's on-demand training which means you can go through it at your leisure, but it's not available for very long, so I encourage you to sign up asap! It all starts this Monday, Sept 12, 2022! If you know someone who needs this, I invite you to take courage and share it with them -- who knows how it could impact their marriage, family and legacy! Love & Blessings, The whole Delight Your Marriage team! PS -- It's not available very long, so I encourage you to register now!
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From a past of pain and hurt Reed realized he needed healing. His first wife left him after twenty years. He then found out that she had had several extramarital affairs. Completely devastating. And left him with 5 kids to raise on his own. Now, God be praised. He is remarried -- his wife is utterly wonderful. They had a really good marriage. But he realized, the areas of his marriage that were not fully there around intimacy had to do with his woundedness from the past. He is in full-time ministry and heard God encourage him to take the program for himself. Not for others -- but he needed healing. And as he did the work of the program, his heart healed and his marriage did to -- in the ways he didn't even realize it was lacking. I want to share his story because -- you might be like Reed. Maybe you've done the right things for a LONG time... and you are hurt. And you are wounded. And you have rightfully, steadfastly done the good work. And yet... And yet... I want you to have hope through Reed's story. He not only shares his story -- but he also shares his process for healing. He gives lots of practicals! He started by taking the free course: Masculinity Reclaimed: Foundations (starting again Sept 12, 2022) -- and then decided to go forward with the full 3 month program. I am excited for you to get inspired by Reed's heart for the Lord and for his marriage and intimacy shifts because of the healing God brought in his heart. Love & Blessings, Belah PS -- We would love to have you on the Masculinity Reclaimed: Foundations free training right around the corner -- sign up before you forget: delightyourmarriage.com/menstraining Reed began his healing through the free course. PSS -- Seriously go register! :) But seriously... delightyourmarriage.com/menstraining
Health is wealth! Let's practice better habits and live better. Cut off anything that is damaging your body okay! Love & Blessings !
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Alternate Title: 7 Steps to a Productive Disagreement -- Arguing. Ugh. It's so... so... unhelpful. When have you left an argument where the dust has settled and you felt 100% good with everything you said -- your eyes, your words, your tones...? Everything. In fact, how would you feel if your church congregation watched what you said and did? Would you be proud of yourself? Would you feel small and immature? Usually, after an argument, I only feel the latter. To clarify, what I mean by arguing is having elevated emotions when we start using a stronger voice and intense words. Essentially, the judging/reasoning/impulse-control part of our brains (pre-frontal cortex) goes offline during that stressful conversation and we're left with the "lizard brain" which only knows how to flight, fight, or freeze. All the wisdom that we have cultivated throughout all of our lives and have prayed for and read about, goes out of the window during an argument. We say things we don't mean and throw verbal knives at each other. Sure, we might apologize for it the next day when we're calm, but those words leave scars. So, can we ever disagree? Yes. We need to disagree. That's healthy and correct. We need to be courageous and disagree about things that matter. But we need to do it the Jesus way. I have some very practical tips on how to disagree well, and how to honor God in it. It's easy to use "popular thinking" and just say what you think. But the Bible is clear that's not best. "We all stumble in many ways. Anyone who is never at fault in what they say is perfect, able to keep their whole body in check... The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one's life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell." James 3:1 & 6 (Also, see the full book of James for more of this type of goodness. :) How do we make sure we're not setting forest fires with our mouth? Well, I have given you 7 or 8 keys in this episode that if we could consistently apply, I'd be a closer reflection of Jesus, and I think you would be, too. Love & Blessings, Belah PS - We'd love to help you with your marriage and intimacy - to be connected, and for you to rate your marriage a 9 or even a 10 out of 10 marriage! If you're interested in finding out if we can help you, sign up for a free Clarity Call at delightyourmarriage.com/cc
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Encouraging believers is a very biblical concept in the New Testament. I want to encourage you in this episode. I am praying for several people through this episode: 7:00 - invitation prayer 8:30 - prayer for men who feel like they're not leaders in their home 12:28 - men who are receiving frequency in intimacy, but it feels like a duty from their wife 14:30 - men who don't have frequency in intimacy and lack joy in their marriage 17:00 - women who have a critical and judgmental husband 19:45 - women who want to find pleasure and desire 23:30 - churches and ministries and pastors who would have courage to address the hard issues around sex, sin, desire, & God-designed passion May God give you grace and strength and encouragement - wherever you are in this mix. Or, if you want to agree and pray with me on these topics. Love & Blessings, Belah PS We're here to bring hope and help in all these areas of your marriage...we invite you to schedule a Clarity Call to see if we can help you. *"I speak the name of Jesus over you In your hurting, in your sorrow I will ask my God to move..." *Lyrics to "In Jesus Name" by Katy Nichole
Join me in this episode I talk with you about some behaviors we have that we don't even recognize are self sabotaging. Not only in a physical sense but we sabotage ourselves emotionally as well. I pray this episode gives you clarity and insight as you navigate your Life Of Growth &Peace! Peace, Love &Blessings to you. Contact me at LifeOfPeace2020@gmail.com Or IG: @GrowthandPeace --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lifeofgrowthandpeace/message
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When I look back on my life -- when I see what is currently unseen -- when I see Jesus face to face -- when all has been revealed... I am convinced I will be BLOWN AWAY by the love I never realized He truly had for me. In the Bible, it says that God feeds the birds. (Mt 6:26) He FEEDS the birds. I was observing birds yesterday in the park. There are tons of them, flitting around, this way and that. And yet the God of the universe cares about His creation, so much so, that He Himself feeds the birds! He is intimately aware of your life and what you're going through. And He is feeding you. He is clothing you. He is giving you far more than just that. He wants you to realize that in every good AND in every suffering, He remains good. There is SO much you (and I) cannot see. He allows suffering for His reasons only He can see. But when you trust this truth that He is the one that gives everything that is right in your life -- it allows you to see the suffering better. You can endure the suffering with a peace, a joy, and a contentment that is important. In fact, when you have that peace/joy/contentment during the suffering, you will accomplish at least some of the important purposes He has for that suffering. Make no mistake, God cares about your suffering. God cares about the rejection you feel from your spouse. He cares about your loneliness in the one supposedly "safe relationship" - your marriage. He cares about the lack of intimacy. He cares about the lack of warmth. He cares when your spouse ignores the cravings of your soul that you were designed to have. He cares. And IN THIS He is good. If we only knew how much He truly loved you... He would risk you possibly turning away from him due to that suffering because He has bigger purposes. Remember... Higher than the heavens are above the earth are His ways higher than our ways, are His thoughts higher than our thoughts. We do NOT have to understand. We DO have to trust His goodness. That starts with realizing, if the God of the Universe feeds each of these birds, that means he makes each of my breaths happen, each of my blood vessels moves when they are meant to. It means He causes my son to smile at me. It means He causes my eyes to even see the sunset. It means that He not only knit me together in my mother's womb for 9 to 10 months... But He didn't stop. He is still in me. He is still designing, directing, causing all these things to go well in me. EVERY good gift is from Him. Even the ones I don't take time to notice. When my arm breaks it should remind me that He was the one that caused it to thrive every other day. If we only soaked in the truth of His love, we could more easily trust it during the suffering... He is still good. If we only knew His love. If we only knew His love. If we only knew His love. May you know the love of Christ. May I know it, too. Love & Blessings, Belah
The Most High wants us to see all 4 corners of the earth. This world is too big to not see it. We have to get out of our comfort zone and expand. We have to stretch and live a life full of risks. Love & Blessings. Peace.
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SO much packed in here, but I tried to narrow it down so you have a helpful summary. We go deep in this episode, I really think it'll help you. Three points are made in this episode: 1 - Your feelings are God given and He wants to do something because of them. 2 - It is healthy and even Jesus-like to express your frustration emotions (without hurting anyone) and grieve through your sad emotions (tears are important). 3 - Regardless of your lot in life, it is your responsibility (not your family of origin, perhaps you didn't have a good role model, maybe you were exposed to porn, or your wife doesn't have wholehearted sex with you every other day...) to correctly follow God with your emotions. A lot of men learned to deal with frustration through masturbation and/or pornography. It was a very tactical way to get frustration out of their body. However, that stunted the opportunity to get frustration out in a healthy way, so that their brains could develop in the way God wanted it to -- with empathy, gentleness, and kindness. So, they came into marriage assuming they'd be able to replace their "frustration valve" of pornography with their wife's body. And surprise... they're still frustrated. Because that's not Jesus' way. They may struggle now with anger, aggression, bitterness, resentment, being judgmental... Sex addiction, still... Alcoholism, video game addiction, binge-watching nonsense... Longing for your past sexual escapades... Daydreaming about divorce so you could get a new partner... Other similar things are unhealthy ways of expelling the frustration. (Things that, if it was printed on the front page of a newspaper, you would be ashamed of.) I want you to know -- I am proud of you for even reading this email -- and if you're in any of these loops -- I think God is proud of you for facing it! Bravo! Listen, this is not just for men, but I hope this will help you process what's going on with you a bit more. Feelings are good. They're God given. They tell us something. It may be that WE need to process, mature, slow-down, feel grief, etc. so we can feel empathy... I want you to listen to this episode because I really think it could help you and help all of us pursue Jesus better. Love & Blessings, Belah PS - If you want to dedicate a short season of your life to DO this practically. To live this out for the betterment of your marriage & intimacy but also in service to your kids and ministry -- I'd love to invite you to join a free Clarity Call. On that call, a Clarity Advisor who is specifically trained in helping you draw out your emotions that may be pent up and looking like anger and self-righteousness instead of frustration and sadness. People who chose not to move forward with our recommendation because of their current season of life or any other things have emailed afterwards to share how helpful it was for that empathetic and listening ear. We'd love to help, schedule a call: delightyourmarriage.com/cc
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Click here to sign up for the all-new Masculinity Reclaimed: Foundations course! THIS Monday, March 28, 2022! delightyourmarriage.com/menscourse -- How many broken, sad, dramatic stories have you heard this week, this month, this year? Where hearts are broken and families torn apart? Maybe you're even in a similar situation. This is why I want to share as many of these transformations as possible. Here's where Steve began... "I felt like I was looking down a long dark tunnel and there was no light at the end. Divorce wasn't an option. But I was feeling hopeless it could ever be different." Sadly, this is not the first time I've heard a husband describe his marriage that way. He is committed to Jesus. He loves his family. He wants his kids to grow up in a Godly home, with joy and laughter. And he wants them to see what a wonderful marriage can look like. But instead, his wife is cold. Stand off-ish. Sex is just a scheduled thing that happens because it's on the (very bottom of) her checklist. A lot of frustration and tension was in their home. One thing you'll find out about Steve is he's not one to sit idly by letting the marriage disintegrate. This is why when he was searching for podcasts on intimacy, he stumbled on DYM and became an avid listener. Well, I am happy to say that after 3 months of, only him doing the work, in fact, she didn't know! He said she had no interest in changing, working on the relationship or certainly not discussing sex... but God has done some awesome things! I want you to listen today because it's when we hear stories that God puts hope in us to a greater degree (I think) than just direct teaching. It's really through stories that we hear someone's heart and we hear what God has done in them and in their marriages. If you're struggling... I want you to resist the temptation towards jealousy. And instead rejoice that God is still changing hearts, lives, and marriages! (Even if only 1 does the work!) Steve can give you great evidence that it's worth it even on this side of heaven. Love & Blessings, Belah PS - We'd love to have you join the FREE men's course Masculinity Reclaimed: Foundations!! Available for a very short time and will be released starting Monday, March 28th! Click here to register for the FREE all-new Masculinity Reclaimed: Foundations course! A recent grad of the full MR Program wrote: "DYM has changed me and my marriage, I hope it will be a forever change, but that will depend on me continuing to be the man God has asked me to be. My wife is responding to me in ways that she has never responded, her love and affection are at all time highs and our intimacy is at a place I have always hoped it would be. I have more energy, focus, and life to give the people around me." Click here to sign up for the all-new Masculinity Reclaimed: Foundations course! THIS Monday, March 28, 2022!
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I promise I didn't put them up to this... But I was nervous about what they'd say, so I asked if they'd let me hear it before it went live. Golly... made me blush and eyes water. It meant a lot to me. But more than that, I hope you feel like you've been invited into our DYM family virtual living room and know that we love you and we care about you. This DYM Team is truly amazing. I am honored and blessed to be a part of others doing this amazing work. I just came back from sabbatical this week, and things are better than when I left :) So, God is working through these wonderful individuals and I'm so glad you finally get to meet: Dana, Darcy, Kevin, Vikas, Kyle, and Ali! I believe that you'll be encouraged to hear more of their stories and their work. May it comfort you! (If it can happen for them, it can happen for you! Don't lose heart!) Love & Blessings, Belah PS -- if you'd like to witness your marriage transform as these team members have (all of them saw dramatic changes in their marriages due to the DYM programs) then get on a call with one of our Clarity Advisors to see how we can help you: delightyourmarriage.com/cc
Valentine Day's Siddha wisdom of Love in Blessings: One of life's most precious gifts is to have each other as love, as partner, family, as friend, and as fellow human. To awaken ourselves to being the Spirit and to journey within to Being, we become whole. We are Love. The dynamics within each relationship is enhanced with long term caring love for each other when partners are spiritual. Awake, we understand physical embodiment is temporary. We look beyond to the Light in each. We are sensitive, kind, good and empathetic to each other simply by Being whom we are. When whole in being Love, we lift each other. We are forgiving of the human limits of each. We value the greater consciousness of each other for the wisdom, reality of love and the positivity of the magical Now of each that multiplies each other. To the greatness of Valentines Day is in becoming love, liberated to love each other unconditionally and evolving together with all flaws & shortcomings. Happy Valentines Day! May Humanity awaken in being the Love that is blessings of Oneness!Nandhiji https://linktr.ee/Nandhiji
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A message of gratitude from Ujamaa Place CEO Otis Zanders, Welcome to our Virtual Celebration & Awards 2021. Wow! Can you believe we're just days away from the start of a new year. I don't know about you, but it has me excited about new opportunities for learning, understanding, growing, and most importantly loving. Challenges were abundant in 2021, but the strides we made were greater. Bear with me while I reflect on how far we've come… I, for one, experienced some personal health challenges in 2021. While I was out on medical leave, the staff at Ujamaa Place was forced to step up and fulfill my responsibilities in addition to their own work, which was already made more difficult by the pandemic. They rose to the occasion beyond what would have been expected of anyone in these circumstances, and I am forever grateful to them for it. This experience made us stronger as an organization, and we are eager to take the lessons and understanding gained in 2021 into 2022 and broaden our unconditional love and support of the most marginalized population in society, African American men, aged 18-30. This year was not without sadness. We lost a Ujamaa brother and member of our Ujamaa Music Group, Justin Langeslay aka “Ju$$ Lyfe,” who is remembered as kind, loving, respectful and full of life. I just want to express my gratitude for you! THANK YOU for supporting Ujamaa Place over the years. We know none of this would be possible without the bold support of our community. Knowing that the community is supporting and cheering them on goes a long way for the Ujamaa Men on their transformation journey. I'm unaware of another organization in the country with culturally-centric transformative programming like Ujamaa Place. Know that you are the reason Ujamaa Place is what it is today. Because of your support of Ujamaa Place, you are forever part of the legacy of social justice and criminal justice reform, including but not limited to the re-imagination of what re-entry for formerly incarcerated individuals looks like, the implementation of alternative sentencing programs, and so much more amazing change that's on the horizon. I hope you don't take that lightly. You have helped change hearts and minds, and the world is a better place because of you. Love + Blessings, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! Otis Zanders Song Credits: Looking 2 My Brother Produced By KAJ Productions Written By UMG KAJ Bayo Young Light Detrell Melodies Ju$$Lyfe Vocals Kip Blackshire The Color Of My Skin Produced By KAJ Productions Written by UMG KAJ Bayo Young Light Detrell Melodies JU$$Lyfe Vocals Kip Blackshire Film Production Credits: Produced by: OMG Media Solutions Film location: Studio B at Paisley Park Ujamaa Music Group is a music program supported by Ujamaa Place. All rights reserved. 2021 The final episode of "A Black Man's Sketch Season 2 is dedicated to the loving memory of Justin "Ju$$ Lyfe" Langeslay. We remember Ju$$ Lyfe as kind, loving, respectful and super-talented. Thank you to the Ujamaa Men, coaches, staff and special guests for dedicating your time and talent to our podcast. We are looking forward to releasing ABMS Season 3 in 2022! Happy New Year, Monique Linder, Producer OMG Studios
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I used to be so weirded out by sex, because I was pursuing Jesus with everything. How could my life be sold out for Christ and have to engage in such carnal behavior? Then God opened my eyes to quite a lot. I hope you'll listen to today's podcast with an open heart and willingness to let Him reveal His true design and desire for you in your marriage. Love & Blessings, Belah PS - if you need immediate help with your marriage/intimacy please set up a call with a Clarity Advisor to see how we can help: delightyourmarriage.com/cc
I want to extend my sincere gratitude to each and everyone of you listening to my podcast episodes (over 1500 downloads as of today). I hope they have been a blessing and inspiration to you in some way. I only ask that you pay them forward and share them with friends and family with hopes that they too will be blessed, inspired, helped, strengthened, etc. I am hitting the "PAUSE" button right now and taking a short intermission to focus on some growth, opportunities, and tasks that I believe God is leading me into and through. I can't wait to share with all of you. I am not sure how long this intermission will be, but feel free to listen to any of the episodes already posted. I LOVE AND APPRECIATE ALL OF YOU! Love & Blessings to You All!
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Namaste and welcome. Today I am sharing the profound words of my spiritual teacher, Vedic Master Acharya Shunya. May they touch and transform your heart as they do mine. Love & Blessings to you all
Peace, Love & Blessings family! It's ya boy Jayratedr and we, on #Pharaohradio, are here to bring you the real in every way possible! Feel me on this podcast as I go into the wines of love, heartbreak,relationship, friendship and courtship of life. Life is too short family to NOT get it. Keep it real and ALWAYS be yourself and try an be a better you in the process! Love you all, as ALWAYS, peace & Namaste! #WhoDoYeSayIAm #Matthew15:15-16 #Forgiveness #Pain #Decisions #Life --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/larry-holloway-jr/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/larry-holloway-jr/support
Intentional Encouragement Inspired With You In Mind And Myself! Decreed and Declare “This Is My God Did It Season!” Also be sure to check out and preorder my new “90 Day Divine Transformation Gratitude Lyfestyle Journal” And if you did not get your copy of “30 Day Devotional Journal On Divine Transformation” You can order your copy today! Thank you for your ongoing support! Love & Blessings https://www.gumroad.com/phyllispelzer
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So, this is such a fun story to share. I believe it will inspire hope, excitement and most importantly faith that God can do this for you too! I remember speaking with Timothy on our first call together and the sincere pain and loneliness he felt with his wife which was so visceral and real. He reached out firstly just to thank me for an encouraging podcast that he stumbled upon after a really tough moment between he and his wife and it encouraged him. My heart went out to him. A big part of him thought the state of his marriage was "just the way it was". How could a class fix that? Timothy shares what happened to him when he got the tools and training of Masculinity Reclaimed. What happened to his marriage when he implemented it. What changes he made. Week in and week out he "showed up" and did what I asked -- and what I think you can tell by listening to his story is that he changed. She didn't know he was doing the program, but she started responding to his change. He was a "Delight Your Marriage binge-listener" before. (I'm super honored for those of you out there! :) But it wasn't until he was actually in the Masculinity Reclaimed program where the principles I teach are ordered in the way that his marriage needed with tweaks particular to his situation to heal and then be on a completely different trajectory. Before he worked so much because he didn't have a reason to be home, before she didn't want to spend time, always on her phone, And guess who cuddles up to him now? And guess who initiates much more often? And asks for new things in intimacy? And has magically dropped life-long the body image concerns and now gives loads of flirty visuals? Timothy has witnessed his wife become a very different woman because of the way he has changed! Now people comment to them about how much fun they have together. Timothy just graduated from the MR program this Spring, and if you want to be in the Fall Semester of Masculinity Reclaimed, I have a "sample" free Men's Masterclass which you can sign up for here. delightyourmarriage.com/masterclass The free Men's Masterclass is starting Monday, July 19 - 21. Enrollment in the Fall Semester of Masculinity Reclaimed opens July 22. I'm so excited for God's miracles to continue to surprise and encourage us toward faith and glorifying Jesus' work... in more mens' lives, more marriages, and continue the good things only God can do! (Also, keep in mind, Timothy said: "most of the guys" in the course got his kind of results... just wild.) Listen to hear more. Love & Blessings, Belah
Intentional Encouragement Inspired to no longer be stagnated or sabotage the greatness God has invested in you! As Jesus told Lazarus to “come forth”, today's mandate is for you and I to “Move Forward!” ~ Love & Blessings
In this episode I go into the energetics of the heart to p*ssy connection and how they co-create with each other as major portals in the feminine body. Find me on instagram @simaya.priya to grab the de-armouring pleasure wand and play in the realms of your feminine opening. Love + Blessings x
Purpose by Design features an incredibly special guest: Jim Hockaday. He runs Jim Hockaday Ministries and has traveled all over the United States ministering. He is currently building a healing center for those who are sick, along with a laboratory to tell everyone "YOU ARE HEALED!". His story, viewpoint on what having a relationship with Jesus really means is astounding and so inspirational. There are so many knowledge-bombs dropped by Jim, this is one you do not want to miss. As always - please feel free to share on social media if you feel inclined. HOW TO REACH OUT TO JIM HOCKADAY MINISTIRES: https://www.jimhockaday.com/ Thank you for joining me today :) Love & BLESSINGS
This week on Purpose By Design we welcome Vicki Meyerding. Vicki and her husband, Case are traveling ministers. They work deeply in the Native Nations (First Nations) throughout the United States. Vicki and her family presently reside in Roseville, Minnesota. Vicki and Casey bring truckloads of donations into areas that are hit hard by floods or other disasters. This gives them the ability to develop relationships with people while being an example of faith and love. Vicki is passionate about helping people become the best version of themselves. Vicki's summer go to drink is the iced coffee and also Kabucha. Vicki says her "Go To" devotional is Morning and Evening, by Charles Spurgeon . Vicki opens up her interview sharing her challenges growing up and encourages us that no matter what the challenge is they and can be overcome(7:41) Vicki shares about being molested and raped. Which began for her at the age of 9 months(10:20). Vicki grew up with a very low self worth/image. Which made her vulnerable and gullible to whoever or whatever would come along. Vicki ended up on the strip circuit in desperation to make money. Vicki explains how she understands being controlled, living in fear and feeling enslaved with no way out (14:10). Vicki shares how she finally was able to escape from that lifestyle. (16:00) It all began when Vicki went to an audition. Which ended up being a church production. Where for the first time Vicki said she experienced "Real Love". Her life began to change and Vicki began discovering her Purpose ! Vicki say's her constant giddiness and joy is because, she is no longer a victim. 23:00 Because she can identify with being a victim and being victimized.Vicki is able to help so many people come out of that mentality (24:10) Vicki gets gut to gut real when talking about rebuilding our Nation(29:15) and gives amazing advice on how to help EVEN if you feel so hurt and angry that you don't know if you can help. Vicki talks straight forward about the power of real listening and forgiveness. Vicki closes her podcast with a heartfelt petition for all of us to hit our knees in prayer. As Vicki shares her story, you experience how Purpose By Design was guiding her. Her story will give you hope! If you would like to contact Vicki you can do so at https://www.oanativemissions.com Or Email. Vlmeyerding@gmail.com Cemeyerding@gmail.com Thank you for joining me today :) Love & BLESSINGS
LAST FERRY CROSSING Purpose by Design is overly excited to introduce to you: Liliane Vernaud, who resides in the Congo, Africa. She has such an amazing story from even birth when the Lord healed her from Leukemia and Hodgkin's disease. She grew up from the get-go in a family where the Holy Spirit lead. They went through trials trying to find their way in life, but always living in the supernatural. She stood at the feet under the likes of David Wilkerson, and Jean Halverson and God really spoke to her that she will be ministering to people, as it was her calling which has not been without it's hardships, but oh so worth it. She digs into her very spirit filled parents that rose her right and the trials they faced and tells us about her amazing story. Liliane has recently started a church that is growing and ministering locally in the Congo. Listen to this incredible story, now! *We apologize for the choppiness at times with the audio. As our guest lives in the amazing Congo - that created a little discrepancy with the sound. TIMELINE: 1:25 - GUEST INTRO AND HISTORY 10:36 - LILIANE'S EARLY SICKNESS WITH HODGKINS AND LEUKIMIA 17:00 - FINDING A HOME AND HER PARENTS' STEADFAST FAITH 20:30 - OBEYING THE CALL I "It is about eternity" 23:04 - LAST FERRY CROSSING I Looking Back at How God has Worked 25:50 - STORY ABOUT A GANG GOING TO KILL DAD I Angel Shows Up 28:25 - BE SENSITIVE TO THE HOLY SPIRIT AND OBEY I "What Have You Done with What I Have Told You? - There will be no excuse" 30:34 - PRAYER TO LILIANE AND DISSATISFACTION AS A TEENAGER I "Dad was worried for me." 32:50 - DAD SENDS LILIANE TO AMERICA FOR BIBLE-NURSING SCHOOL 33:25 - SHE ASKED GOD TO SHOW HER HOW TO PRAY I "Lord Teach Me to Pray" 38:13 - PRAYER IS NOT ONLY TAUGHT BUT IT IS CAUGHT I Learn About Prayer in the Bible, Get Some Good Books on Prayer 43:00 - PRAY IN TONGUES - The Holy Spirit Prays Though You I "Have Faith in Your Tongues" 46:17 - WHEN GOD PRAYS THROUGH YOU IT DOES NOT MATTER WHO I AM 47:43 - WHERE IS THE CONGO I Smack in the Middle, Under the Equator, in Central Africa, off a Little Bit of the Atlantic Coast 49:25 - LILIANE STARTED A CHURCH I Liliane does a Two Times a Week Radio Program on 'How to Raise a Child According to the Word of God' 53:05 - HOW TO GET PLUGGED IN 55:00 - WRAPPING UP & CONCLUSION Thank you for joining me today :) Love & BLESSINGS
Purpose by Design's podcast this week features none other than Pamela's dear friend: Alice Foriwaa. Alice has such an incredible story to tell, from her family dynamics as a child to learning God's grace early on. Alice is an avid Christ-follower who shines on the topic of forgiveness and how to always choose the Lord in all we do. Moreover - Alice explains how she deals with racism in today's divided culture, as well as gives advice on how our Nation can unify under the Lord. Do not miss this one! 2:00 - Alice F Intro & Fun Facts . 6:28 - Alice's Childhood: Mom and 8 Siblings "The Last Time I saw my Dad I was 6 or 7 Years old" 8:30 - Forgiveness "When I realized I Needed to Forgive Him It was Too Late" 11:00 - I Have No Fear I Choose to Not Live that Life 13:00 - As a Black Woman In America Today 16:30 - God's Love Through A Special Woman in Rome I 22:55 - How Forgiveness Can Affect Us All 23:35 - Oblivious Society & Racism I 28:20 - How to Heal From the Inside Out As a Nation 34:00 - Through Forgiveness "We Truly Have the Ability to Operate as One" Thank you for joining me today :) Love & BLESSINGS
Purpose by Design is so exhilarated to introduce to you Abigail Eernisse on this week's podcast. Abigail is a 24-year old located in Dallas, Texas who is part of an amazing ministry called 'Beautiful and Loved', a platform for Jesus all throughout the United States that targets broken women in the sex-trafficking industry. Abigail breaks down how to be a part of the ministry she is affiliated with, as well as gives a refreshing insight on how we as Christians should not be so quick to judge others. She shares her incredible story and gives advice on how Christians need to love others as Christ loves us - nonjudging. Do not miss this special podcast! 1:00 - INTRO TO GUEST I Abigail Eernisse 4:35 - ABIGAIL'S GO-TO DRINK I Abigail used to work at Starbucks, MMM! 6:00 - MEDITATION I Her favorite app to be still 8:11 - EARLY CHILDHOOD I Birth, Thanksgiving, and Family 13:50 - BEAUTIFUL AND LOVED I Ministry Background, Coming to MN 17:05 - COLLEGE I Majored in: Intercultural Studies and Biblical Theology with a Minor in Social Justice 18:00 - KJERSTI BOHRER I Mentor, Partner and Dear Friend to Abigail - The Importance of Building Relationships 22:40- BEAUTIFUL AND LOVED I What They Are and What They Do 24:40 - My Flawless One I Kjersti's Book I **Amazon Link Below 26:08 - WHAT BEAUTIFUL AND LOVED DOES I They go to strip-clubs and establishments alike and help women see who they are in Christ and speak life over them 27:13 - PACK AND PRAY I People donate small gifts who B&L members put in small bags, pray over them, and give out 31:45 - STRONGHOLD ON THESE WOMEN I A lot of the time it comes down to financials, but they have a heart for Jesus 36:51 - CONTACT BEAUTIFUL AND LOVED IF YOU NEED IT I Link Below to Homepage 39:10 - UNDERSTANDING TO WHAT CHOICE IS I "A choice is only a choice if you have choices" 45:29 -HOW DO WE HEAL AS A PEOPLE I "God has always spoken to me that I would be a bridge." I We have to be that bridge together 50:10 - REMEMBER WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO FEEL REJECTED I Love on people like Jesus does to us 52:56 - CONCLUSION Thank you for joining me today :) Love & BLESSINGS
This week on Purpose By Design we welcome Billy Joe Watts, Senior Pastor of The Rock Church in Tulsa Oklahoma. Billy Joe is also part of the John Maxwell Leadership Team which has given him a large coaching and training audience in the business community. Pastor Billy Joe is originally from St. Paul Minnesota, has been married 37 years and his favorite summer drink is a tall iced lemonade. Billy Joe shared two of his current favorite books (4:40) "The Leaders Greatest Return" by John C. Maxwell and "Today We Are Rich", by Tim Sanders. Billy Joe's passion is coaching, training, and mentoring people as they discover their God Given Purpose. Billy Joe gets real in this interview as he shares some of his personal experiences growing up in St. Paul, Minnesota and how his mother raised him to see "life's reality" differently . (10:10) This podcast is like having a high powered training session in person with Billy Joe. You will walk away challenged and changed! I encourage you to take notes! Billy shares the importance of having the right narrative when we speak, in order to see change. He says, " No one can pass a Bill to make people love each other." Love has to be authentic and from the heart. (13:00) You will learn about one of the greatest leadership quotes ever and what it means. (16:48). Billy Joe also shares many practical ways to get involved in your community and how to let your voice be heard (21:00) As well as the importance of generating new genuine relationships ( 27:00) . My favorite part of the interview is when Billy expounds deeply on narratives. Billy Joe says, " The narrative will be created by the person who is telling the story". He shares so much wisdom on this important topic. (28:20). Billy Joe challenges us to be mindful of our future in America, especially the next four months.. Then he wraps up the interview with an incredible "Call To Action" - To stay out of wrong narratives. Stay in the middle of the road, and choose to be peacemakers . Billy Joe Watts is an amazing speaker and trainer. In this interview he imparts such wisdom and adds incredible value for the listener. You will feel better and empowered just because you took the time to listen to Billy Joe on this Purpose By Design Podcast. If you would like to connect with Billy Joe Watts you can contact him at http://www.billyjoewattsministries.com/ http://www.therockchurchtulsa.org/ Or hanging out on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/billyjoewatts Thank you for joining me today :) Love & BLESSINGS
This week on Purpose By Design we welcome Raymell Bentley. He is a Life Transformation Coach from Los Angeles, California. Raymell's passion is to see people renewed in spirit, soul and body so they can give birth to who they want to become. Raymell's summer go to drink is the Starbucks (Keto friendly) Blonde Roast with heavy cream and sugar free vanilla. OH YUMMY. Raymell says his "All Purpose Book" for inspiration in life is the Bible. Raymell grew up struggling with a poor self image, thinking he was not good enough. As a youth, Raymell had to learn a lot about life on his own. (8:15) Raymell had parents who walked a different life then what he chose for himself. Raymell gets real and personal as he shares some hard experiences he went through. Including being robbed and experiencing police brutality. (9:29) Raymell made a decision to stop being a victim and become a product of Life Transformation instead. As Raymell shares, you will feel like you are with him on his journey. My favorite part is his epiphany moment that changed his life forever at the age of 21. (11:25) Raymell was a young man beginning to fill with aggression and anger. Instead of acting on the aggression and anger he turned inward and upward. Which he says changed the Landscape of his Life forever. Instead of just experiencing hard times, he would see the other side. Letting the lessons become blessings instead. Raymell says he chose to stand on his life instead of his life standing on him. In that way, his story could help others. When I asked Raymell his insight about the condition of our Nation right now. His words were profound. " 2020 vision is accurate. We have it now. What we have been to busy to see we now have no choice but to see. Now as a nation we are in a place of transformation ". Raymell closes out his interview explaining what our Nation will be like when the transformation is complete. (29:07) You will walk away from this podcast interview Inspired to be a world changer.. Raymell's story is one of selflessness and servanthood. Challenging each one of us choose the higher road and By Design make a difference in our world one soul at a time. If you would like to connect with Raymell you can contact him at raymellb@gmail.com, https://www.bentleytransformation.com/ Or hanging out on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/raymell.bentley or Instagram Raymellb/fitbybentley Thank you for joining me today :) Love & BLESSINGS
This week on Purpose By Design we welcome Nadine F Thomas from Augusta, Georgia. Nadine is the founder of Exousia Life ( 3:12) - a coaching and leadership development organization. Helping people personally and professionally to become their authentic self. Nadine loves Starbucks White Chocolate Caramel Macchiato - Venti size. When I asked her what her favorite book is right now, she immediately held up (8:40) A Life Of Prayer a collection of writings from great christian authors. By Whitaker House. She said it has changed her life. Nadine is passionate, a strong leader, and so easy to listen to. In this interview Nadine shares her heart surrounding the many challenges she faced growing up as a Black American Female. Her story is gripping and will cause you to rethink Many things. Nadine talks about how she for years lived a life that was not her own. Her story is about self discovery. ( 14:30)Nadine was born in Jamaica and moved to the USA as a young girl. Nadine mentions in her interview that she never knew what racism was until she came to America. One of my favorite parts of this interview is when Nadine shares how she has stayed positive and centered throughout her life ( 35:40) Nadine shares from her heart how she stepped outside of living a life that was what others wanted for her and into her own authentic life. (54:54) Nadine's story is one that shows the power of Divine Purpose mixed with forgiveness. Nadine closes out her interview by sharing some gold nuggets on the importance of showing up on purpose. To Listen, Learn and Share in our communities. To help bring healing to our Nation. You will walk away from this podcast challenged but inspired. Nadine's story will open will help each of us By Design make a difference in our world from the inside out. If you would like to connect with Nadine you can contact her at https://myexousialife.com/ Thank you for joining me today :) Love & BLESSINGS
The New Pandemic is Love We are so excited to introduce Laila Cuoco Miller this week on our podcast here at Purpose by Design. She is a true evangelist in the highest fashion that has such an incredible 'come-back' story. Laila grew up in ministry so she knew the Lord early on. As many of us, she had some setbacks and Laila's faith was tested. This lead her down a worldly path quite different than what she would have thought possible. Though she fell astray, hear this powerful testimony of how Christ's love reeled Laila back as she could resist no more - only to become an incredibly influential instrument of God's. You do not want to miss this! 6:40 - The Power of Our Own Words - Are You in the Positive or the Negative? 9:05 - Laila's Story Intro 13:25 - Divorce & Anger 16:40 - Doing it Laila's Way 18:26 - A Man Came Over with His Guitar - The Lord Told Me I Need to Come Speak To You 21:30 - Pauly and Laila Moved Back to MN from NJ. - I met Her Husband Jeff 23:50 - God Restored and Multiplied - He is the Above and Beyond Kind of God 28:10 - Wisconsin Restaurant Story 32:09 - We Need to Be Open To Hearing God I - Let People See God's Love 35:00 - You Pulled a 180 39:15 - "God Has Planted Someone In Your Life to Be a Blessing to You and Love You Back Into the Kingdom of God" I -Laila Cuoco Miller 41:50 - The Best is Yet to Come for All of Us . - Heaven Sees the Whole Picture 44:09 - Christians Need to Love Others - Not Attack Them 48:20 -Give Her Your Sunglasses - Laila Shared God's Love 50:40 - Our Lives Are a Love Story - I The New Pandemic is LOVE 54:18 - If You Have Anger Towards Someone - What Should I Do? 58:14 - Show them God's Love - I People are Watching Our Lives 59:02 - 21-Year-Old Pregnant Little Girl - God is Not Looking for a Certain Pedigree of a Person 1:05:30 - Destiny is Calling You ! Thank you for joining me today :) Love & BLESSINGS
WHAT'S RIGHT WITH YOU Purpose by Design features an incredibly special guest: Jim Hockaday. He runs Jim Hockaday Ministries and has traveled all over the United States ministering. He is currently building a healing center for those who are sick, along with a laboratory to tell everyone "YOU ARE HEALED!". His story, viewpoint on what having a relationship with Jesus really means is astounding and so inspirational. There are so many knowledge-bombs dropped by Jim, this is one you do not want to miss. As always - please feel free to share on social media if you feel inclined. 1:00 - INTRODUCTION TO OUR LOVELY GUEST 1:35 - JIM'S HISTORY 4:00 - PRAYER AND HEALING CENTER 5:50 - MAJORITY OF PEOPLE RECEIVE HEALING & PROBLEMS AS TO WHY 6:40 - CHANGE HAPPENED AND MIRACLES GALORE HAPPENED "When God changed me - that's when everything changed" 9:45 - ANYONE MOTIVATED TO HAVE A CONNECTION WITH JESUS TAKES CONSISTENCY 11:45 - CURRENTLY IN COLORADO STARTING A HEALING CENTER AND LABORATORY TO DIAGNOSE AND VALIDATE THAT SICKNESS IS GONE! 16:24 - HEALING IS NOT A GIFT, BUT A REVELATION - YOU HAVE WITHIN YOU HAVING AN ANOINTING CONSCIENCE OF GOD 21:15 - IT'S TO YOUR ADVANTAGE THAT I (JESUS) GO AWAY EXPLANATION 22:22 - TESTIFYING TO TIME AND TANGIBILITY - "EVERYDAY I AM WITH MY WIFE AND I HAVE A TESTIMONY" 24:45 - SECRET TO SUCCESS - "YOU HAVE TO BE WILLING TO BE WRONG" 28:50 - YOU ARE BORN OF GOD, EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU IS GOD-LIKE 30:00 - IT'S ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD - MIRACLES HAPPENED BEFORE HE COULD EVEN GET TO THE PEOPLE 35:15 - ASK YOURSELF TO GIVE A TESTIMONY OF TIME, TANGIBILITY AND EXPERIENCE WITH GOD TODAY - YOU'LL BE IN A PLACE OF NOT CARING WHAT THE DOCTOR SAYS - YOU'LL BE LOOKING AT GOD'S ANSWER 38:25 - STOP WORRYING - LET GO OF ALL THE THINGS YOU ARE TRYING TO HOLD ON TO 'LET GOD'.. 41:00 - GOD IS ASKING US TO ALLOW HIM TO DISMANTLE 'STINKING THINKING' 42:03 - GOD DIDN'T SEE SINNERS BECAUSE HE COULD REACH DOWN TO THE BLOOD AND GRAB PEOPLE THROUGH IT 44:25 - DAD IN THE HOME I ROLES OF PARENTS FOR THEIR CHILDREN 48:40 - GOD WANTS YOU RIGHT NOW, RIGHT WHERE YOU ARE 49:30 - THE MOMENT YOU AND GOD'S RELATIONSHIP BECOMES THE TOP PRIOITY TO YOU - EVERYTHING CHANGES 50:35 - HE'S WAITING ON YOU I PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE 52:01 - EVERY TIME YOU ACKNOWLEDGE GOD I "YOUR FAITH WILL NO LONGER BE IN THE CONCEPT OF GOD, BUT IT WILL BE IN GOD" 53:46 - CONCLUDING PRAYER 56:00 - CONCLUSION *BONUS: 1:00:24 - HOW TO REACH OUT TO JIM'S MINISTRY HOW TO REACH OUT TO JIM HOCKADAY MINISTIRES: JIMHOCKADAY.COM Thank you for joining me today :) Love & BLESSINGS
RELATIONSHIPS ARE KEY This week's podcast features extremely likeable and comical Pastor Selo Lozano - who is the lead pastor at a local church in Waco, Texas. Pastor Selo has been a youth, associate, executive and lead pastor throughout his lifespan. He and his wife are proud grandparents of 13 grandchildren, as well as parents to 7 wonderful children. He is part of a church that has been powerful in bringing people to Christ which you must hear! He also gives tidbits on how important relationships are in bringing people to Christ. Enjoy this amazing interview! :55 - INTRO TO PASTOR SELO LOZANO 4:13 - FAVORITE YEAR-ROUND DRINK 6:16 - SPECIAL INSPIRATION 9:11 - COME TO JESUS MOMENT - I USED TO WORK IN POLICE FORCE 13:00 - PASTOR LOZANO'S BACK STORY & MINISTRY START 19:05 - WHY PASTOR SELO TAKES A DIFFERENT APPROACH TO REACH OTHERS - "IT'S BASED OFF RELATIONSIPS" 28:55 - TARGETING A GROUP: SHEPHARD GOING AFTER THE LOST SHEEP 39:18 - HOW PASTOR SELO HAS BEEN NAVIGATING THROUGH COVID-19 - "NOBODY PANIC WHILE I PANIC" 48:00 - SOMETHING IN GENERAL HAS TO CHANGE - THE WORLD HAS CHANGED AND GONE MORE DIGITAL AND IS MEETING THOSE NEEDS 52:00 -THE PEOPLE WHO ARE STARVING FOR THE PHYSICAL INTERACTION I HOW WE NEED TO BE PREPARED AS A CHURCH 57:44 - GOLDEN NUGGETS ON RACISM TODAY 1:00 - CONCLUSION Thank you for joining me today :) Love & BLESSINGS
Salutations Sōl Tribe! On today's episode we are talking about addiction. What does addiction mean, who is affected by it, and my personal journey and transformation with my addiction. If you are someone who is experiencing addiction whether it be to food, sex, drugs, alcohol, etc. Listen to this episode all the way through and I'll give you some love and pointers on how I've been managing my personal addiction. And if you know someone who is struggling in this realm, this episode is also for you. I talk about how to be an effective ally, not enabler (there's a grave difference), and offer some love for you as well. As you know I have pledged to be very vulnerable on this podcast and this one probably takes the cake. I am so grateful to have this space to commune with you, thank you for receiving me as graciously and genuinely as I receive you. I do this all for the love. Please rate, review, subscribe to the podcast! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sōl-concepts-in-5d/id1507603372 Visit my Website if you want to work with me/explore all the goodies I have! www.karunasol.com If you are looking to monetarily contribute! (super appreciated!) Venmo: @karunasol_ CashApp: $karunasol PayPal: http://www.paypal.me/karunasol Let's Connect: IG: @karunasol_ @solconcepts_podcast Love & Blessings to You ∞
Today we have a very special guest gracing the podcast. Ken Stephens Jr. is an educator, advocate, philanthropist, entrepreneur...is there anything he can't do!? On this episode we are talking about the importance of operating from your truth, having a clean mindset, the most effective ways to instill change in your community, we learn about The Blk Agenda, and we even get some great tips for up and coming entrepreneurs. There is something for EVERYONE in this episode, my wish is that you leave feeling inspired to get up off of that thang and spring into action! You can connect with Ken here: @kenstephensjr @blk_agenda @ksj_scholars www.kenstephensjr.com Many thanks to @lizzyjeff for this connection! Ready to work with me? Visit my website www.karunasol.com , there you can: -Book your Intuitive Reading -Sign-up for my one-on-one mentorship & accountability program. -Visit the "It's A Vibe" Shoppe, where I share some ethereal vibes that have blessed my life, and are guaranteed to bless yours. -You can also add yourself to the Newsletter- where lots of goodies are shared. -Get a Free Rising Meditation I created to prime your brain to have the most optimal day imaginable! If you're loving this work and feel called to donate: Venmo: @karunasol_ Cash App: $karunasol PayPal: http://www.paypal.me/karunasol Let's Connect: IG: @karunasol_ @solconcepts_podcast Love & Blessings to You ∞
If there's anything in this world that is inevitable, it is your ultimate success! Many times we allow the world, aka ourselves, to get in the way of our success. We block our own blessings by not believing we deserve them, being jealous of the success of others, operating from the played out model "have, do, be", instead of "be, do, have." And so, this episode is completely dedicated to getting you into the mindset of receiving your success! Throughout the show I give you concrete exercises you can do at any time to ensure you are on the path to your overall prosperity. Because, dear Sōl Tribe, when you succeed, I succeed. And that feels really good to me ❣ **GIVEAWAY** For those of you who go to iTunes and leave a review for the podcast, please screenshot & and post it to your story, tag me (@karunasol_) and you will be automatically entered into the raffle to receive a copy of one of the books that changed my life "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" plus a cute bonus gift as well! Winner announced in a couple of days! Want to work with me? Visit my website www.karunasol.com and book your Intuitive Reading AND book your FREE Discovery Session to work with me one-on-one in my mentorship & accountability program. My shoppe "It's A Vibe" is now live on my site! Go browse and treat yourself to some ethereal vibrations! If you're loving this work and feel called to donate: Venmo: @karunasol_ Cash App: $karunasol PayPal: http://www.paypal.me/karunasol Let's Connect: IG: @karunasol_ @solconcepts_podcast Love & Blessings to You ∞
Sōl Tribe, it's so wonderful to commune with you once again! Today we are diving into Money Mindset. What does "Money Mindset" even mean? We look deep into our subconscious beliefs in order to overstand why we currently have the relationship with money that we do, and I give you some bite sized tools that you can use to start re-writing your money story. **GIVEAWAY** For those of you who go to iTunes and leave a review for the podcast, please screenshot & and post it to your story, tag me (@karunasol_) and you will be automatically entered into the raffle to receive a copy of one of the books that changed my life "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" plus a cute bonus gift as well! Want to work with me? Visit my website www.karunasol.com and book your Intuitive Reading AND book your FREE Discovery Session to work with me one-on-one in my mentorship & accountability program. My shoppe "It's A Vibe" is now live on my site! Go browse and treat yourself to some ethereal vibrations! If you're loving this work and feel called to donate: Venmo: @karunasol_ Cash App: $karunasol PayPal: http://www.paypal.me/karunasol Let's Connect: IG: @karunasol_ @solconcepts_podcast Love & Blessings to You ∞
Hi everyone, the ENERGY is off the charts this week! Here's the website for that earth frequency stuff (I had Jocelyn look it up and she's the one who types things onto the computer for the internet machine cuz I don't know what that is, or something) https://www.disclosurenews.it/en/schumann-resonance-today-update/ YOu can check that daily and it will show you what the earth's electromagnetic frequency is doing. It's been spiking up and down for the last few weeks/months, and scientists are baffled about all this. Personally, I KNOW it's a sign from the universe that is all about awakening us, and the planet, to higher energies. Because it's like, DUH, the energies ARE spiking higher and higher, so, you know, like HELLO! Anyways, this is totally like an AMAZING reading tonight because I get into the planets and the energies and the TAROT reading is... just listen and find out. O.M.G.!!!!! Off the charts WOW... I also let you know what's going to happen Wednesday thru Friday, so don't miss that part because that's really important. Ok, thanks for listening everyone! Don't get Speaksles, it's NOT a disease you want (it's the celebrity version of measles). Ok goodnight! Love & Blessings, Katherine Damiana MIlieu --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/bigjujumedia/support