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Latest podcast episodes about xanet pailet

Meredith for Real: the curious introvert
Ep. 230 | Can a Sexless Marriage Survive?

Meredith for Real: the curious introvert

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2024 66:06


What exactly is considered "sexless"? What are we counting as sex? What would cause someone to not want to have sex all of a sudden?These are all questions I unpacked with Xanet Pailet. She was a successful healthcare lawyer married to an attorney with two children. She lived in a beautiful home in NYC as well as a sexless marriage. At age 45 and no sex for over 15 years, she considered sex as something she was just done with. Now she is a full time intimacy educator with a fulfilling sex life. You'll hear about resentment caused pain, the stuck place of indifference, what men are afraid of, medical procedures that can cause painful sex & listener Q & A from my Facebook group.Request to join my private Facebook group to give your opinion & participate in giveaways https://www.facebook.com/groups/mfrcuriousinsiders/If you liked this episode, you'll also like episode 214: WHAT ARE THE RULES OF MONOGAMY? THE PSYCHOLOGIST SWINGERRequest to join my private Facebook group to give your opinion & participate in giveaways https://www.facebook.com/groups/mfrcuriousinsiders/ Guest: https://www.passionateintimacyretreats.com/ |https://www.powerofpleasure.com/ | https://www.instagram.com/xanetpop/ | https://twitter.com/powerofpleasure | https://www.facebook.com/xanetpop Host:  https://www.meredithforreal.com/  | https://www.instagram.com/meredithforreal/  | meredith@meredithforreal.com | https://www.youtube.com/meredithforreal  | https://www.facebook.com/meredithforrealthecuriousintrovertSponsors: https://uwf.edu/university-advancement/departments/historic-trust/ | https://www.ensec.net/

Throuple Talk Podcast
#10 - Exploring Sexual Variety in Polyamorous Triads

Throuple Talk Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2023 42:35


You've likely heard the saying, "Variety is the spice of life!", but when it comes to sexuality, variety is often frowned upon. In this episode, we get into the spiciness that comes from embracing sexual variety, particularly within our polyamorous throuple. . In this episode, we share how challenging outdated societal norms has increased our sexual chemistry, strengthened our relationships, and resulted in higher satisfaction both in ourselves and each other. . Remember to subscribe to our channel to stay updated with our latest content. Thank you for joining us on this journey towards understanding and acceptance. .

The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast by Venus O'Hara
International Vegan Month, My Weight Loss Journey & Living an Orgasmic Life.

The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast by Venus O'Hara

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2022 43:11


In this Beaver Moon episode, we'll be discussing international vegan month and weight loss. Venus shares an erotic story called ‘My Vegan Fetish'. Venus also reviews the book ‘Living an Orgasmic Life' by Xanet Pailet. The episode ends with a guided meditation with affirmations for weight loss.

Minda Wilson | Urgent Care - The Podcast
Urgent Care - Featured Guest - Xanet Pailet - Living An Orgasmic Life

Minda Wilson | Urgent Care - The Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2021 38:25


Xanet Pailet is a former New York City health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy coach, writer, blogger, and teacher. She works with individuals and couples to empower them around their sexuality and strengthen relationship and intimacy skills. Author Xanet Pailet “I wrote this book because I am passionate about helping individuals who feel broken reclaim their sexuality and their pleasure, and transform their lives. I want women and men who are struggling with sex to understand that help is available and that they can have healthy, passionate sex lives." Living An Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself And Awaken Your Pleasure by Xanet Pailet is a love letter for anyone who's faced challenges with their sex life. Those who have been alienated from their erotic side due to sexual abuse or trauma will find a healing balm in these pages. Women and men who have difficulty surrendering to pleasure, who can't sustain intimacy, or want to reclaim and feel empowered in their sexuality will significantly benefit from this book. In Living An Orgasmic Life, Pailet explores the many reasons that cause women to disconnect from their sexuality including shame, body image issues, sexual abuse and trauma, physical wounding, and fears of intimacy. She teaches practical advice and tools to help women healthily awaken to their sexuality and reclaim their libido. https://powerofpleasure.com Facebook | Twitter | Instagram

Spiderum Official
10 sự thật thú vị về chuyện ấy có thể bạn chưa biết | SPIDERUM | .Ngưn. | Giáo dục giới tính

Spiderum Official

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2021 7:54


Đàn ông có thể đạt cực khoái mà không cần xuất tinh Điều này có làm bạn ngạc nhiên không? Cực khoái và xuất tinh là hai phản ứng sinh lý khác nhau ở nam giới. Xanet Pailet, nhà giáo dục tình dục và là tác giả cuốn “Living An Orgasm Life” cho biết: “Mặc dù xuất tinh thường bị đánh đồng với cực khoái nhưng thực tế, cả hai xảy ra liên tiếp một cách nhanh chóng, với cực khoái đến trước khi xuất tinh và giảm dần trong khi xuất tinh.” Như vậy, đàn ông có thể học cách tách biệt cực khoái và xuất tinh để có thể đạt một hoặc nhiều cực khoái cho mỗi một lần xuất tinh. Theo dõi Kênh Podcast "Người Trong Muôn Nghề" tại đây: https://b.link/youtube-podcast-NTMN Ghé Nhà sách Spiderum trên SHOPEE ngay thôi các bạn ơi: https://shp.ee/ynm7jgy Kênh Spiderum Giải Trí đã có Podcast, nghe tại đây: https://anchor.fm/spiderum-giai-tri ______________ Bài viết: 10 sự thật thú vị về tình dục có thể bạn chưa biết Được viết bởi: .Ngưn. Link bài viết: https://spiderum.com/bai-dang/10-su-that-thu-vi-ve-tinh-duc-co-the-ban-chua-biet-119v Nguồn thông tin: https://www.coatscounseling.com/inthemedia/50-interesting-sex-facts-you-probably-didnt-know --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/spiderum/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spiderum/support

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Sex, Love & Superpowers on the Superpower Network
SLSP – Reclaiming Desire and Healing Our Relationship to Sex

Sex, Love & Superpowers on the Superpower Network

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2021 45:34


Have you forgotten how to experience pleasure? Are you in a process of reclaiming desire? Or maybe you are someone who has always had a negative or painful relationship to sex? In this episode of Sex, Love, and SuperPowers host Tatiana Berindei and sex and intimacy coach Xanet Pailet talk about how to go [...]

SuperPower Up! | Super Power Kids | Sex, Love and SuperPowers | SuperPowers of the Soul
SLSP – Reclaiming Desire and Healing Our Relationship to Sex

SuperPower Up! | Super Power Kids | Sex, Love and SuperPowers | SuperPowers of the Soul

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2021 45:34


Have you forgotten how to experience pleasure? Are you in a process of reclaiming desire? Or maybe you are someone who has always had a negative or painful relationship to sex? In this episode of Sex, Love, and SuperPowers host Tatiana Berindei and sex and intimacy coach Xanet Pailet talk about how to go [...]

Heartrepreneur® Radio
Heartrepreneur® Radio | Episode 230 | An Orgasmic Life With Xanet Pailet

Heartrepreneur® Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2020 23:44


Do you ever think about how the most private and intimate parts of your life affect everything on the outside? It’s often neglected by many people but sexual fulfillment plays such a huge component in the way we’re fulfilled in other aspects of our lives, but it’s time to be more conscious of it. Joining […]

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Heartrepreneur® Radio
Heartrepreneur® Radio | Episode 230 | An Orgasmic Life With Xanet Pailet

Heartrepreneur® Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2020 25:15


Do you ever think about how the most private and intimate parts of your life affect everything on the outside? It’s often neglected by many people but sexual fulfillment plays such a huge component in the way we’re fulfilled in other aspects of our lives, but it’s time to be more conscious of it. Joining Terri Levine is Xanet Pailet, the bestselling author of Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure. Xanet and Terri discuss the role that sexual fulfillment plays outside the bedroom: in the boardroom and beyond. Let Xanet and Terri’s conversation help you shift the way you think about sex! Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join Heartrepreneur® Radio community today: heartrepreneur.com Heartrepreneur® Radio Facebook Terri Levine Twitter Terri Levine Instagram Heartrepreneur® Radio Pinterest Terri Levine YouTube Terri Levin LinkedIn

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Answers for the Family - Radio Show
"Living an Orgasmic Life"

Answers for the Family - Radio Show

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2019 55:00


Ending the Sexless Marriage Epidemic: Living an Orgasmic Life - Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure Show Guest: Xanet Pailet Author Xanet Pailet notes - “I wrote Living An Orgasmic Life because I am passionate about helping individuals who feel broken reclaim their sexuality and pleasure, and transform their lives. I want women who are struggling with sex to understand that help is available and that they can have healthy, passionate sex lives.” Living An Orgasmic Life can help you rediscover the joy and pleasure of sex.

Shameless Sex
#106 Sexless Relationships With Xanet Pailet

Shameless Sex

Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2019 49:42


In this episode we chat with author, sex coach and Sexological Bodyworker Xanet Pailet all about sexless marriages and relationships. How common is it (hint - it's more common than you may think)? What are the signs that someone may be heading towards a sexless relationship? Why is this happening? What can partners do to keep the fire burning? Xanet Pailet, best selling author of the new book, Living an Orgasmic Life, is a recovered NYC health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy educator and coach. She believes that pleasure is our birthright and is passionate about helping folks find their way back into their bodies, their desires, and their pleasure. She works with couples who are in sexless marriages and women and men who have experienced abuse and trauma. She helps them heal their wounds, release their shame, and reconnect with their desire and sexuality. She offers 1:1 coaching and online group programs to empower women around their sexuality and strengthen couples’ relationship and intimacy skills. Learn more at powerofpleasure.com Some other links we chat about: Come to our June 29th, 2019 workshop at Diamond Adult World, Grover Beach Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Drink a glass of delicious natural wine while listening to us by visiting marginswine.com Learn more about sexological bodywork with River Drosera at riverdrosera.life    

Conscious Couples
Xanet Pailet - Recovering from Sexless Marriages

Conscious Couples

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2019 44:24


In this episode, Xanet Pailet talks with Bill about recovering from sexless marriages and challenges with sex in long-term relationships. Pailet is the best-selling author of Living an Orgasmic Life. She is a recovered NYC health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy educator and coach. Pailet believes that pleasure is our birthright and she is passionate about helping women and men find their way back into their bodies, their desires, and their pleasure. Xanet Pailet works with couples who are in sexless marriages and women who have experienced abuse and trauma.

The Dr. Brenda Wade Show
Xanet Pailet: Living an Orgasmic Life

The Dr. Brenda Wade Show

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2019 27:00


Xanet Pailet is a former New York City health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy coach, writer, blogger, and teacher. She works with individuals and couples to empower them around their sexuality and strengthen relationship and intimacy skills.   Xanet is a certified Somatica® Sex and Intimacy Coach, Sexological Body Worker, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, Tantra Educator and Somatica Experiencing Trauma Practitioner. She is on the faculty of the Ecstatic Living Institute and the Somatica Institute. She lives in Marin County, CA. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Brides, Sex with Emily, SheKnows, and Elephant Journal.    Her website is www.powerofpleasure.com.  

Make More Love Not War
Reclaim Your Orgasms | Xanet Pailet

Make More Love Not War

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2019 82:26


Are you a woman that finds it difficult to enjoy sex because it is painful physically or emotionally? You may find it challenging to ignite the sexual desire within yourself because of past sexual abuse, trauma, shame, body image issues, physical wounds or fear of intimacy. This can lead many women to living a life that is void of orgasms and frankly zero pleasure in the bedroom. They many even justify this terrible situation as a fact of life for them because they simply have a broken vagina. Some may even go as far as turning this unfortunate lack of pleasure into a positive saying things like “at least I don’t have to sleep in the wet spot very much or since I don’t think about sex my mind is free to think about other things”. I appreciate anyone finding the silver lining in a bad situation but you can live a life full of orgasms. There are tools and advice to help women awaken their sexuality in a healthy way and reclaim their libido. If you are living in a sexless relationship and think sex is just a waste of time because it’s too painful, keep listening because we have the guest for you. Our guest today, Xanet Pailet, is a recovered New York City health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full time sex and intimacy coach, writer, blogger, and teacher. She works with individuals and couples to empower them around their sexuality and strengthen relationship and intimacy skills. Through her work, and the many tools that she offers, she helps them reclaim their pleasure and transform their relationships and their lives. Xanet is a certified Somatica Sex and Intimacy Coach, Sexological Body Worker, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, and Tantra Educator. She channeled all of this knowledge into the amazing book “Living an Orgasmic Life, Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure” to help as many people as possible. If you are living a non-orgasmic life and you feel that your broken vagina is beyond all repair, do yourself the biggest favor you could ever do and read this book. Don’t give up on your vagina just yet. This book will change your world! Before you run to Amazon and buy “Living an Orgasmic Life” we have the author herself on our podcast right now for you. So sit back and enjoy learning more about Xanet Pailet and why she is an expert on helping women discover and rediscover the pleasure of sex. www.powerofpleasure.com

Make More Love Not War
Reclaim Your Orgasms | Xanet Pailet

Make More Love Not War

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2019 82:26


Are you a woman that finds it difficult to enjoy sex because it is painful physically or emotionally? You may find it challenging to ignite the sexual desire within yourself because of past sexual abuse, trauma, shame, body image issues, physical wounds or fear of intimacy. This can lead many women to living a life that is void of orgasms and frankly zero pleasure in the bedroom. They many even justify this terrible situation as a fact of life for them because they simply have a broken vagina. Some may even go as far as turning this unfortunate lack of pleasure into a positive saying things like “at least I don’t have to sleep in the wet spot very much or since I don’t think about sex my mind is free to think about other things”. I appreciate anyone finding the silver lining in a bad situation but you can live a life full of orgasms. There are tools and advice to help women awaken their sexuality in a healthy way and reclaim their libido. If you are living in a sexless relationship and think sex is just a waste of time because it’s too painful, keep listening because we have the guest for you. Our guest today, Xanet Pailet, is a recovered New York City health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full time sex and intimacy coach, writer, blogger, and teacher. She works with individuals and couples to empower them around their sexuality and strengthen relationship and intimacy skills. Through her work, and the many tools that she offers, she helps them reclaim their pleasure and transform their relationships and their lives. Xanet is a certified Somatica Sex and Intimacy Coach, Sexological Body Worker, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, and Tantra Educator. She channeled all of this knowledge into the amazing book “Living an Orgasmic Life, Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure” to help as many people as possible. If you are living a non-orgasmic life and you feel that your broken vagina is beyond all repair, do yourself the biggest favor you could ever do and read this book. Don’t give up on your vagina just yet. This book will change your world! Before you run to Amazon and buy “Living an Orgasmic Life” we have the author herself on our podcast right now for you. So sit back and enjoy learning more about Xanet Pailet and why she is an expert on helping women discover and rediscover the pleasure of sex. www.powerofpleasure.com

AskSharifah
Xanet Pailet and Sharifah hardie interview

AskSharifah

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2019 51:31


Xanet Pailet and Sharifah Hardie interview Xanet Pailet is the best selling author of Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure. Xanet is a recovered NYC health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy educator and coach. Xanet believes that pleasure is our birthright and she is passionate about helping women and men find their way back into their bodies, their desires, and their pleasure. Xanet works with couples who are in sexless marriages and women who have experienced abuse and trauma. She helps them heal their wounds, release their shame, and reconnect with their sexuality. Xanet is a certified Somatica Sex and Intimacy Coach, Sexological Body Worker, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, Tantra Educator and Somatic Experiencing Trauma practitioner. She is on the faculty of 1440 Multiversity, Ecstatic Living Institute, and the Somatica Institute Visit Xanet at: https://powerofpleasure.com/ To watch more interviews, to be a guest or for sponsorship opportunities visit: AskSharifah.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sharifah-hardie/support

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CAN A PLAYA PLAY?
“Living an Orgasmic Life”

CAN A PLAYA PLAY?

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2019 63:00


Xanet Pailet is the best selling author of Living an Orgasmic Life (Mango Media, 2018). Xanet is a recovered NYC health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades.  After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy educator and coach.    Xanet believes that pleasure is our birthright and she is passionate about helping women and men find their way back into their bodies, their desires, and their pleasure.  Xanet works with couples who are in sexless marriages and women who have experienced abuse and trauma. She helps them heal their wounds, release their shame, and reconnect with their sexuality.   Xanet is a certified Somatica Sex and Intimacy Coach, Sexological Body Worker, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, Tantra Educator and Somatic Experiencing Trauma practitioner. She is on the faculty of 1440 Multiversity, Ecstatic Living Institute and the Somatica Institute.   Social Media Links   [https://powerofpleasure.com] [https://www.facebook.com/xanetpop/] [https://www.instagram.com/xanetpop/] [https://twitter.com/PowerofPleasure] [

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The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
LIVING AN ORGASMIC LIFE

The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2019 69:36


Do you find it difficult to surrender to pleasure and just let go? Does your erotic-self seem alien to you? Then, it might be time for some sexual healing. Join us with Sex & Intimacy Educator, Xanet Pailet, as we discuss our relationship with sex at different times in our lives - from the hot 'n horny 20's, to the stale 'n boring 40's, and how it's never too late to re-awakening your sexuality so that you can have a better relationship, juicier sex and more passion in your love life.

The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
LIVING AN ORGASMIC LIFE

The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2019 69:36


Do you find it difficult to surrender to pleasure and just let go? Does your erotic-self seem alien to you? Then, it might be time for some sexual healing. Join us with Sex & Intimacy Educator, Xanet Pailet, as we discuss our relationship with sex at different times in our lives - from the hot 'n horny 20’s, to the stale 'n boring 40’s, and how it’s never too late to re-awakening your sexuality so that you can have a better relationship, juicier sex and more passion in your love life.

Erotic Awakening Podcast
EA479 - bringing sexy back with Xanet Pailet

Erotic Awakening Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2019 52:08


The Erotic Awakening Podcast is about BDSM, Sex & Sexuality, Polyamory, Kink, Sacred Sexuality, and more!  This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast we talk with author Xanet Pailet on bringing sexy back to sexless relationships! Plus they share some seriously geeky fantasies!     Don't miss an episode! Click below to subscribe    

Leading Edge Love
Leading Edge Love - Xanet Pailet, Sex & Intimacy Educator, Coach and Author.

Leading Edge Love

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2019 58:00


Tuesdays, 9 pm Eastern, 6 pm Pacific: "Leading Edge Love," host Sumati Sparks: This week, her guest is Xanet Pailet, Sex & Intimacy Educator, Coach & Author (https://powerofpleasure.com/). Sumati Sparks, The Open Relationship Coach, (www.SumatiSparks.com) offers coaching sessions via video conferencing, telephone or in person in the San Francisco Bay Area. SUMATI WORKS WITH: • Professional Married Men & Women who have little or no intimacy in their long-term relationship. • Single or Divorced People who do not wish to have another traditional relationship. • Couples who want to successfully open their relationship. • Singles & Couples who don’t know where to find other polyamorous people to meet & date. • Heterosexual as well as Queer, Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Transgender, Intersex & Questioning Persons. COMMON CHALLENGES HER CLIENT'S FACE: • Frustrated and fed up with the loss of vitality that comes from being in a relationship with no intimacy. • Feeling like their partner would never go for it. • Confused, nervous and a little scared about how to open their relationship. • No idea where to meet other polyamorous people to potentially date. • Eager and hopeful but want to do it right. WHAT SHE DOES FOR HER CLIENTS: • Get CLEAR about what they want. • PREPARE to ask their partner for it, then SPEAK THEIR TRUTH. • CREATE the relationship of their wildest dreams. • Have FUN in the process. HOW SUMATI SERVES HER CLIENTS: With her signature program called:   ADDING MORE LOVE, PASSION & JOY!

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This Is Why You're Single
Living an Orgasmic Life ft. sex coach Xanet Pailet

This Is Why You're Single

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2019 49:53


We welcome Xanet Pailet, a sex and intimacy educator, coach and the author of the new book "Living an Orgasmic Life." We talk all about what to do when you're stuck in a sexless relationship, orgasms, tantra and more. In dating news we discuss how lucid dreaming can help fulfill your sexual fantasies & what constitutes “normal” sex. Then we answer your listener questions including a listener who doesn’t know where she stands with a guy she’s seeing and a listener whose guy never “finishes.”This week's episode is brought to you by Adam and Eve, Care Of, and MVMT!

Relationship Advice
178: What's Your Fantasy?

Relationship Advice

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2018 48:32


Sexual fantasy can play a large role in a relationship and individual sexuality. However, there's often a fair amount of shame around sexuality and sexual fantasies. Listen to today's show to learn how to explore your own fantasies and share them with your partner. You just might learn a few fun new things about each other and perhaps your fantasy will turn to reality! Today's show topics include: How to work on feeling less shameful about your sexual fantasies Communication tools to share your fantasies with your partner The deeper meaning of your sexual fantasies (Threesomes might be a need to feel desired, ect..) Learn if it's ever a bad thing to fantasize too much Examining your fantasies and peak sexual experiences And much more! Xanet Pailet is an intimacy educator, coach and author of Living An Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself And Awaken Your Pleasure. She works with individuals and couples to empower them around their sexuality and strengthen relationship and intimacy skills. Xanet is a certified Somatica® Sex and Intimacy Coach, Sexological Body Worker, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, Tantra Educator and Somatica Experiencing Trauma Practitioner. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Brides, Sex with Emily, SheKnows, and Elephant Journal. Full show notes and episode links at: http://idopodcast.com/178 Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge Join our 5 Day Couples Appreciation Challenge here: idopodcast.com/appreciation Do you want to hear more on this topic? Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love Tribe Sponsors Spark My Relationship Course: Get access to our special offer for I Do Podcast listeners only by visiting: SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock Storyworth: StoryWorth makes it easy and fun for your loved ones to share their stories, with weekly emailed story prompts - questions you’ve never thought to ask. At the end of the year, they’ll get their stories bound in a beautiful hardcover book. Strengthen your family bonds, and get to know your loved one in a whole new way.   For $20 off, visit Storyworth.com/ido    If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! - Chase & Sarah

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice
#26 Discover Your Sexual Blueprint and Learn How To Enjoy Sex More With Xanet Pailet

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2018 33:47


On the show today we welcome Xanet Pailet, tantra educator, sex coach, and author of Living an Orgasmic Life. Xanet is here tell us all about her work and how accessing your sexual blueprint and core erotic themes can guide you to a more fulfilling sex life and transform your whole world. We discuss Xanet’s own journey and the events in her life that led up to her current vocation before launching into some examples of the difficulties that people can have accessing and communicating their sexual needs. We talk about lowered libido, sexless marriages, shame and how these relate to our early development and socialization. Xanet gives great insight into simple ways to approach these sensitive subjects and shows just what a difference these measures can make. We finish off the chat thinking about some pragmatic solutions to these issues and ways in which individuals and partners can make progress in this regard. Highlights Some of Xanet’s personal and professional background. The experiences that contributed to her pursuing a career in sexual therapy. An anecdote showing the damage an unspoken desire can do to a relationship. Some of the reasons for sexless marriages and lowered libido. The issue of shame and socialization related to pleasure. An example of the crippling effects of shame on our bodies. Core Erotic Themes and our underlying sexual emotions. How to go about communicating sensitive needs or fantasies.  Using games or apps to start the process of communication. Redefining sexuality and finding ways around tricky needs. Explaining Attachment Theory and it’s different formulations. And much more! Tweetables “I think most women have never really had continuous great sex. I know that’s a big statement to make but I think it’s really true.” [0:08:35.9] “And I think that is what people really need to understand and to realize is that they really need to look at sex in a much, much wider spectrum than what we currently talk about it as.” [0:27:21.6] Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode Xanet Pailet — https://www.ecstaticliving.com/teachers/xanet-pailet Power of Pleasure — https://powerofpleasure.com/ Living an Orgasmic Life — https://www.amazon.com/Living-Orgasmic-Life-Yourself-Pleasure-ebook/dp/B07BWKTWVT/ OkCupid — https://www.okcupid.com/ Jack Morin — https://www.linkedin.com/in/jack-morin-ph-d-0824851a The Erotic Mind — https://www.amazon.com/Erotic-Mind-Unlocking-Sources-Fulfillment-ebook/dp/B009YJYEKK MojoUpgrade — http://mojoupgrade.com/ John Bowlby — https://www.verywellmind.com/john-bowlby-biography-1907-1990-2795514

The Lucas Rockwood Show
333: The Power of Pleasure with Xanet Pailet

The Lucas Rockwood Show

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2018 47:20


Xanet Pailet was in a marriage with zero physical intimacy for more than 15 years. Most people don't go that long, but many do wait years before they openly address these issues; however, by then, permanent damage to the relationship may have already been done. Sexuality is a definitive part of the human experience, and when it's not working, it's one of the top reasons couples split. So what's going wrong? Past trauma, self-esteem issues, guilt, shame, and a general lack of communication all contribute to the complexity of physical intimacy, so it's not surprising most people avoid the issue, if possible. Who wants to open up that Pandora's box? On this week's show, Xanet will share her insights and expertise based on both her personal experience and decades of coaching others. Listen & Learn: How a sexless relationship can harm your spirit and your life Why abstinence is a ridiculous idea, even in spiritual traditions Why the definition of 'sex' should be broadened to include many different ways of connecting on an intimate level How to navigate the challenges of modern pornography Links & Resources: Xanet's Website Living an Orgasm (book) ABOUT THE GUEST Xanet Pailet is a certified tantra educator, sexological body worker, and somatica-trained sex coach, who has worked in the therapeutic field for more than 25 years. She's the author of the book Living an Orgasmic Life, available on Amazon, as well as on her website. Nutritional Tip of the Week: Fish Oil Got Questions? Send me a voicemail here: Ask Lucas a Question Or write to us: podcast@yogabody.com Like the Show? Leave us a Review on iTunes Thanks to our sponsor: Molekule has completely reinvented the air purifier. From the inside out, Molekule has reimagined what clean air ought to look and feel like—unobtrusive, portable, and 100% effective. Visit: MOLEKULE and use coupon code “Lucas” for $75 off your first order. Learn More

Tell Me Your Story
190120 Xanet Pailet - Living An Orgasmic Life

Tell Me Your Story

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2018 66:52


190120 Xanet Pailet - Living An Orgasmic Life by Richard Dugan

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Up2Me Radio
Woman Are Worthy Show with Host Jacqlyn Charles & Special Guest Xanet Pailet

Up2Me Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2018 44:00


Welcome to the Women Are Worthy Podcast with Host Jacqlyn Charles and Special Guest Xanet Pailet, Author Topic:  A Survivor's Story and Journey  Women who survive sexual trauma are starting to share their stories and journeys with other women to inspire healing. In this episode Xanet shares her story and journey, in Xanet's words " I was living the perfect life….my own successful career as a corporate healthcare executive and Broadway producer, married to a successful attorney, two fabulous children, a beautiful home in New York City, and all the trappings that go along with it. But underneath the surface was a woman sexually shut down from carrying years of sexual trauma which resulted in a sexless marriage." The opinions expressed during this broadcast are for inspiration, information and motivational purposes. Enjoying the conversation?  Subscribe to the Show!  Visit the Women Are Worthy Show Page at www.up2meradio.com to learn more about our network, the Show, Host Jacqlyn Charles and Guests. This show is a production of Up2Me Radio. You can like us on Facebook at Up2Me Radio and follow us on Twitter @Up2Meradio  

BITEradio.me
Living An Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure

BITEradio.me

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2018 48:00


Living An Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure with Xanet Paillet  Living An Orgasmic Life is written for anyone who finds sex challenging or feels uncomfortable with their sex life. Women who are alienated from their erotic side due to sexual abuse or trauma will find healing balm in these pages. Women who can’t surrender into pleasure, can’t sustain intimacy, or want to reclaim and feel empowered in their sexuality will greatly benefit from this book. Challenges with sexuality are all too common in our society and not frequently discussed in an open and thoughtful manner. In Living An Orgasmic Life, Xanet Pailet explores the many reasons that cause women to disconnect from their sexuality including: shame, body image issues, sexual abuse and trauma, physical wounding, and fears of intimacy. She teaches practical advice and tools to help women awaken to their sexuality in a healthy way and reclaim their libido. .Xanet is a certified Somatica Sex and Intimacy Coach, Sexological Body Worker, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, and Tantra Educator. She is on the faculty of the Ecstatic Living Institute and the Somatica Institute and teaches regularly at Good Vibrations in San Francisco. For more information visit: http://myawakebody.com/ and  https://powerofpleasure.com/ ************************************************* For more information about BITEradio products and services visit: http://www.biteradio.me/index.html

The Kathryn Zox Show
Ep. 1: US Diversity and Ep. 2: Sexual Liberation

The Kathryn Zox Show

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2018 55:47


Kathryn interviews consumer finance expert Jill Gonzalez on 2018's Most and Least Diverse States in America. To determine where the most idea and identity exchanges have occurred at the highest level in the U.S. — and where the population is relatively more homogeneous — WalletHub compared the 50 states across six key categories: socio-economic, cultural, economic, household, religious and political diversity. Gonzalez, Media Director at WalletHub, is featured on NBC Nightly News, NPR's Marketplace and C-SPAN. Kathryn also interviews former attorney turned sex and intimacy coach Xanet Pailet, author of “Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure”. Pailet lived in a sexless marriage for decades. She is now passionate about helping individuals who are struggling with their sexuality reclaim their pleasure, transform their lives and understand that help is available. Pailet is featured in SheKnows, Brides and Cosmopolitan.

The Kathryn Zox Show
Ep. 1: US Diversity and Ep. 2: Sexual Liberation

The Kathryn Zox Show

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2018 55:47


Kathryn interviews consumer finance expert Jill Gonzalez on 2018's Most and Least Diverse States in America. To determine where the most idea and identity exchanges have occurred at the highest level in the U.S. — and where the population is relatively more homogeneous — WalletHub compared the 50 states across six key categories: socio-economic, cultural, economic, household, religious and political diversity. Gonzalez, Media Director at WalletHub, is featured on NBC Nightly News, NPR's Marketplace and C-SPAN. Kathryn also interviews former attorney turned sex and intimacy coach Xanet Pailet, author of “Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure”. Pailet lived in a sexless marriage for decades. She is now passionate about helping individuals who are struggling with their sexuality reclaim their pleasure, transform their lives and understand that help is available. Pailet is featured in SheKnows, Brides and Cosmopolitan.

Last First Date Radio
#321: How to Awaken Your Sexuality and Create More Intimacy at Any Stage of Life

Last First Date Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2018 40:33


Xanet Pailet is a former New York City health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full- time sex and intimacy educator and coach. She works with individuals and couples to empower them around their sexuality and strengthen relationship and intimacy skills. Xanet is a certified Somatica® Sex and Intimacy Coach, Sexological Body Worker, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, Tantra Educator and Somatica Experiencing Trauma Practitioner. She is on the faculty of the Ecstatic Living Institute and the Somatica Institute. Join us to learn how to create more intimacy in your relationships!

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Sex With Emily
Your Orgasmic Potential with Xanet Pailet

Sex With Emily

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2017 63:30


On today’s show, Emily is joined by Xanet Pailet, a sex and intimacy coach and author of the forthcoming book, Living An Orgasmic Life, to discuss how to reach your full orgasmic potential, overcome the shame/pleasure paradox, and understanding the difference between arousal and desire. Emily and Xanet also walk through a couple exercises to tap into your sexual energy–– something you can do along with them! There are a lot of useful tools and information packed into this episode, all geared towards helping you get in tune with your sensual side. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: UVee, SKYN, Womanizer, Magic Wand RC

How To Talk To Girls Podcast
What Makes A Woman Say Yes To Sex?

How To Talk To Girls Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2016 35:12


Xanet Pailet is a sex and intimacy coach. Today she shares how to get a woman to let go of her insecurities and be more open to having sex.  FREE RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED:  Get more intimacy advice from Xanet ► https://powerofpleasure.com. Hooked Program: http://www.getherhooked.com. Tripp Advice Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/trippadvice Leave a Message for Tripp: 323-432-0025 Contact Us: http://trippadvice.com/contact/. Send questions to tripp@trippadvice.com.

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