Secret MENS Business -the podcast

In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak to retiree Paul Williams. Paul shares his transition from self employment to retirement. He shares the steps involved, the pro's and con's, and what retirement is really like. An interesting look at the world after work end.

In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak with American psychologist Keith Bernardo. Keith talks to us about the relationship men have with themselves and other men. How emotions and vulnerability can limit how men see each other, and discusses the ways to undo this belief. I find everything Keith shares to be so relevant with today’s struggles that men are facing.

In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak to David Shaw. David takes the time to discuss how his love for flying, drove him to take up flying lessons. Hours of flying lessons. Learn how a corporate bloke, had a dream to become a pilot - and discover what that journey was like. How he now dreams of life after COVID, where he will be up, up and away in the clouds.

On this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we interview Australian comedian / Rock Legend/ Justin Flemming. Justin takes us through his very colourful career from lead singer of rock band Pegasus, doing porn in LA, acting on Aussie sitcoms, to finally finding his feet in the ever popular comedy circuit. His experiences with mental health allowed him to seek the laughter in his life that would help him to heal.

In this episode of the secret MENS Business podcast we speak to Ben and Marc, two Aussie’s travelling around the world over a two year period. After planning and saving, they left Melbourne and took off to Mexico, and spent almost a year exploring that part of the globe. We catch up with them before they start their European leg of the second year - literally days before COVID-19 hit the planet. They share their stories as budget travellers, some exciting, and some down right dangerous. How they have kept sane with each other, and the many amazing opportunities they have encountered with the locals.

In this our 50th episode of the Secret MENS Business podast - Joe-y reflects on how we got here. Originally a project to honor three friends who committed suicide in the same week, it evolved into a passion to really assist men with their mental health globally. The past 50 interviews have been created to empower listeners to be the best version of themselves. To find Self Acceptance and step into a new awakened landscape. All of us at SMB want to say thank you to all the volunteers, listeners, and supporters. One thing we have learned is - if you believe in it then it happens. To the next 50 episoides and the new SMB TV. Joe-y & the SMB team.

In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak to work-life balance expert Dr Natalie Flatt. Men are finding themselves experiencing more stressed than ever before, so this episode is so relevant. During COVID19 & beyond, the way we go to work has changed. Natalie talks to us about how we can adapt to change, and do everything we need to do without burning out. Dr Natalie Flatt is the co-owner of the successful organisations - Connect My Mind & Connect Psych. www.connectpsychservices.com.au

In this 7min mini Bits & Pieces podcast episoide we look at taking time off work during COVID lockdown. Is it ok or selfish? I struggled to try and accept that time off is important at the moment.

In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we chat to Mike Power, Program Director & LGBTQI affirming Counsellor at the Cabin group in Thailand. Mike talks to us about Chem Sex and its continued increase in popularity. He shares his own personal experiences, his rehab methods, and his advice in assisting clients transform their lives. By working with clients individual shame, they begin to process it to start to connect with their own self acceptance. We also discuss what what app hygiene is and how it’s a big part of Chem Sex recovery in 2020.

In todays Bits & Pieces I explore this strange feeling I persume is anxiety. I have been in lockdown for over four months now and I have nailed it. Today though I am experiencing a different feeling. A sort of unease. Not sure why it has decided to visit today. I am not going to ignore it and will go inside it and try to understand what is going on. Why don’t you join me?

In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast, we speak to Aston King. Aston is an everyday Aussie straight male who found himself without work due to COVID19. Listen in to find out how he made a bad situation that he couldn't control into a new awakening, seeing him enter the online world of Adult entertainment. Confronting his insecurities and lack of confidence, he discovered his inner acceptance through self reflection and learning to no longer continue pleasing people just to be liked. He will tell us how far he is willing to go to make it on online sex platforms. Is he in control of how he uses his body or is it the Porn industry in disguise. https://onlyfans.com/aston_king_

In this mini podcast episode, Joe-y Busuttil talks about Cancer and how it is now a part of his families life. His mother has cancer, and it is interesting how emotional connection can be a hard thing to obtain. East to digest snippets.

We discuss the A.I. app Replica, and how simple curiosity became a 2 hour chat with an algorithm.

On this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak to Victoria’s past Executive Officer of MENS Shed Association Rick Blackburn. Rick tells us about how MENS Sheds came about, their structured, the purpose of the association, and the impact it has on men and the community. Did you know they did so much? Find out here. www.mensshed.org

In this mini episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast, Bits & Pieces, we speak to 8 guys from around the world, and ask them what have been their biggest challenges so far in 2020. Is it COVOD? Or a relationship? Maybe the difficulty to adapt? I wonder if you relate to any of them.

In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we discuss being a polyamorous man in 2020. We talk to Matt, who is in a polyamorous relationship with a man and woman. We explore how these relationships work for him.

In this episode of the Secret MENS business podcast we speak to Peter Ulbrick about his time working with indigenous men in the top end of Australia. Learn about his experience, and how he worked hard to become accepted within these communities, how he lived their lives, tried to adapt, and face their challenges. The important part of his work was in mental health, were he accepted the traditions, rather than try to change anything. By working together he found strong connection. This interviews is so relevant to today’s current events. Subscribe to the podcast : iTunes Spotify Google Manager Podomatic

In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast, we speak to Christian Paesano about bending and stretching the body. Christian, a successful osteopath in Sydney, shares his tips on how men should be moving their bodies. He addresses the simple mistakes men make when it comes to posture, weight, and exercise. He currently treats clients of all ages with a huge array of different physical conditions. Each person that comes to the clinic comes with their own story, and he shared with us some of the important things all of us should incorporate into our day to day lives, so we can all be on the path to maintaining healthy and confident bodies. Health is a key element to mental health.

On this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast, we speak to Melbourne brothel owner Darren Sugden. Darren openly shares his story about how a family business was the stepping stone to his successful career. We delve deep into the myths around sex work, and the real life challenges he has had to face. I didn’t know what to expect speaking to Darren, but walked away knowing a lot more about the industry. www.clubpleasure.com.au

On this podcast episode get ready to be inspired by the amazing Adam Baird. Adam shares his story of recovery after having multiple strokes in one day, eight years ago. Told he would only live a few months, Adams deep faith, allowed him to find internal strength to not only stay alive, but walk again. He shares how even in. darkest of dark, Adam always found light to show him the way. This is one of those interviews I will never forget. This mans resilience inspires me to be a better man. His determination and inner strength is infectious. His perspective on life is real and full of gratitude.

On this new episode of the podcast, we had the delight of interviewing the fabulous Philmah Bocks. Well known for her AAMI tv commercial, her involvement in the Broken Heel festival, and the major impact she has on modern day drag in. Victoria, Australia. In this candid interview, Philmah shares her journey as an artist, and how drag gave her access to success. From running a well known drag store in Geelong , to performing to big crowds, she is on the way up. Don’t miss out on this over the rainbow interview.

In this special episode I discuss my vision in regards to the creation of the Secret MENS Business - group on Facebook. The online mens support group has attracted a lot of new members due to COVID19 lockdown. Offering a safe place for men to connect, share experiences, and not feel judged. 'SMB' is a social media style magazine, offering its male membersn a variety of topics as content. Even though the foundation for the groups creation is mental health, it is covered in such a diverse way. The group offers members many different things:

In this episode of the Secret MENS Business Podcast we interview Antony Walker about life after a heart attack. He walks us through every part of the experience, from his first symptom, to going to rehab preparing him to return back to work. I know we are all focused on COVID19 atm, but other Medical conditions are also prolific right now. Anthony givers us important tips to be prepared.

In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we interview Johnny Baird. He discusses his transition from being a corporate worker, to becoming a primary school teacher. The silent hero’s who work so hard to teach our future generations. TEACHER. Johnny explains what being a male teacher is really like. What made him follow this vocation, and what the journey getting there was like. Join us for this mature age mans transition.

On this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak to Ben Kendall - the DIY Spirituality Seeker. Ben owns a successful building company, where he manages projects and tradies. Amongst all of his success, he realised that something was missing in his life. Everything seemed to be going well on paper, but on the inside something was asking for his attention. In this soul searching episode Ben, the Everlasting Spiritual Builder, tells us how he discovered his inner self and how it changed his life. The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David Deida Zeitheist: The Movie - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OrHeg77LF4Y

In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak to Aliki, and discuss her gift of being a Mystic, and how these abilities are used to assist others as an Alternative Therapy. We explore how she discovered this part of herself, what it meant for her growing up, and how she is now assisting in humanities evolution as a whole, by transitioning individuals into the intricate 12 chakra energy system and elevating into new planes of consciousness. This was such an interesting interview. www.thepathclearer.com.au

Bits & Pieces, the mini podcast, was a project I created the last few weeks leading up to COVID19 lockdown. It’s a 6min vox-pop style collection of answers to one question per episode. The first question is: How do you define masculinity? Listen to the answers over this first 6min mini podcast episode - Bits & Pieces the Podcast.

On this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast I was very privileged to interview Steve van Aperen. Steve is an international public speaker, very well known in his field of detecting deception, behavioural interviewing and body language. You may have seen him recently on Married at First Sight on channel 9 performing a lie detector test on one of the shows characters. But his really known for his work helping assess criminal intention. This is one interesting interview. For more information about Steve's services and workshops: www.stevevanaperen.com

This is the Second special podcast - MEN Talking COVID19 #2 - the Secret MENS Business podcast. 5 MEN 5 Countries: USA UK IRELAND SWITZERLAND ITALY These are their perspectives regarding COVID19, and how it’s impacted their lives.

In this episode we talk to Lorna Hollinger about Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT). Lorna is the owner of the Australian Tapping Institute in Sydney. As many people are experiencing so much anxiety and stress due to COVID19, EFT is such an easy therapeutic approach you can action yourself to find relief. A quick and simple non-drug treatment is highly effective for so many issues. EFT is often called “tapping” because practitioners tap on 7-12 acupuncture points while focusing on a fear or emotional trigger. www.australiantappinginstitute.com.au

On this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we interview Cesar Aldea, who shares his experience of moving to Australia from Chile. He didn’t know a single person, had never been to Australia before, and couldn’t speak very good English - Cesar just packed his suit case and took a risk. His story inspires you to do something different and not to live in fear. Very appropriate during the current COVID19 pandemic.

In this first one hour special episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast, we take a look at the impact of the COVID19 pandemic from the perspective of six men living in six cities around the world. Come with us as we get information about: Amsterdam Madrid London New York Berlin Sydney Follow the experience of these 6 men as we check in with them every few weeks.

On this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast I speak to the very talented Holden Sheppard. Holden talks about his journey through adolescence living in rural WA, to his remarkable coming out extravaganza. He took pen to paper and brings us INVISIBLE BOYS - his multi award winning book. Holden was a pleasure to speak to, and his transition from a shy boy from Geraldton, to a much in demand author around the world is more than inspirational. Invisible Boys is available at Amazon.com.au or at any good book store. Follow Holden on Facebook: www.facebook.com/HoldenSheppardAuthor/

In this episode on the Secret MENS Business podcast I interview psychotherapist Nick Sutherland. He talks about his tike in the army and why he learned from this experience. Now a psychotherapist he discussed how men can establish positivity in their lives and stay focused regarding adjusting to new opportunities. Change is a way of life and is possible with focus. In the current global environment due to COVID-19 this is such an important episode to listen to. For more details www.myndfit.com.au

In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we interview Daniel Witthaus. He talks about how he has been working with the local LGBTQI community in rural Australia to eradicate homophobia and ignorance. He has single handed traveled around Australia, visiting remote towns and areas - having cups of tea with who ever he needs to create an open and constructive communication. Daniels story is inspiring and motivating. www.niche.org.au Information about Daniel's rural tour - www.hatssogay.com.au Daniels books: - Beyond ‘That’s So Gay!’ - Beyond Priscilla

This week on the Secret MENS Business podcast we interview Aussie film maker Tony Ayres. Tony discusses his production company, making movies , Hollywood and his new critically acclaimed TV show “Stateless” which he co-created with Cate Blanchett. Available to watch on ABC and Netflix. Tony Ayres is a Portuguese Macau-born Australian showrunner, screenwriter, director in television and feature film. He is most notable for his films "Walking on Water" (which I have a very small role) and 'The Home Song Stories', as well his work in television, including working as the show-runner on 'The Slap' and teen adventure series 'Nowhere Boys' www.matchboxpictures.com

In this episode we interview Lisa Torney who is a qualified Sex Therapist. Lisa discusses everything about male sexuality, and all things that keep men stuck and connected to shame. Lisa is fun, candid and very experienced in this area. Such a pleasure to get all things sex from her. www.lisatorney.com.au

In this weeks episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we take with Dr.Beng.Eu about the risks of anabolic steroid use and the treatments available to men. Beng has recently travelled around Australia educating others on this topic. He discusses what he talked about and the reaction he received.

In this weeks episode of the Secrets MENS Business podcast we continue with the theme of skin care. We speak to Martin Desmarais from Skinsitute, who informs us about all the latest cosmetic anti-ageing procedures and how they are help men look young. https://www.skinstitute.com.au

In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we interview the fabulous Jim Petroutsos from SKIN TRADE. Jim discusses his successful start up SKIN TRADE and the importance of skin care for men. He believes it is important for men to care for their skin daily. www.skintrade.com.au

In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we interview Jad Patrick. He shares his insights into mindfulness and self-compassion, and how men can regroup to reconnect to themselves, their tribe and the larger community. Jad talks about how to ground oneself and expand your inner vibration. Jad is located in Melbourne, Australia. www.facebook.com/jadpatricknaturaltherapies/ www.instagram.com/jadpatricknaturopathy/ https://mergehealth.com.au/team/jad-patrick/

This week we got to interview Kane Ford - owner of Get Outside Melbourne - a personalised hiking experience business. Listen in to find out how corporate burnout caused Kane to discover the outdoors and how he turned a stressful situation into a business very much focused on mental health awareness. His story of self-improvement will not only inspire but will also want you to get outside. www.get-outside.com.au

In this episode we had the pleasure of interviewing Stu Fenton, Psychotherapist & Program Director @ The Cabin Group Chiang Mai, Thailand. Working with GLBTIQA clients at Resort 12 in Mae Rim. He discusses his personal experience with addiction, AOD culture today, and how he facilitated the AOD rehab program that is designed to help individuals recover from addictions, trauma and other mental health issues.

In this weeks episode I interview myself, Joe Busuttil, and we discuss how to set realistic goals for 2020. Joe facilities the Create your Vision workshop each January, and gives us the steps to connect with your goals and creating a Vision board.

In this special episode we talk to Suzanne Wright, a Melbourne school teacher who turned a holiday to Cambodia into an idea to form a charity. Her journey from wanting to help the Cambodian children in need, to building the charity SHINE is nothing but inspirational. Listen to how she did this and understand her dedication to make this charity a success. I hope she inspires you as much as she has inspired me. https://shinecambodia.org

In our special New Years episode- we interview Michael Dalton / Dolly Diamond about his very successful career, life in drag and being an ambassador for Guide Dogs Australia and Movember.

In this episode we speak to the totally generous and amazing Father Bob Maguire from Melbourne, Australia. He opens up about kindness, compassion, issues that men face today, and of course the meaning of Christmas. Check out his foundation : www.fatherbobs.com

In this episode we talk to Mike Toner about his events and music business in Melbourne - Thick as Thieves. He tell us how a sliding door moment changed his life. https://thickasthieves.com.au

In this episode we interview David Kerrigan and discuss his book MAN DOG BIKE. Man, Dog, Bike is a travel memoir about a disenchanted musician challenging the notion of familiarity. The author rides a motorbike across India with a dog, and presumed dead after a near miss with The Boxing Day Tsunami, his brother travels to India to find him. Purchase: https://www.amazon.com.au/Man-Dog-Bike-Between-Heart-ebook/dp/B071DQFH69

In this episode we interview Kerry Jeffery who shares her story about how her life changed once she got diagnosed with an auto immune condition. Kerry is a well respected therapist who now helps others find acceptance with their medical conditions.

In this episode we talk to Rob Lawry as he shares his insights into being in a long term relationship. He discusses the changes he has faced with his partner.