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01:00 Russell Brand: The latest on sexual assault allegations against the comedian, https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/russell-brand-latest-sexual-assault-allegations-205058747.html 05:00 Atlantic: Russell Brand Wasn't an Anomaly, https://www.theatlantic.com/culture/archive/2023/09/russell-brand-allegations-aughts-media/675369/ 16:00 The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire 19:00 Russell Brand on Decoding the Gurus from Nov. 21, 2020, https://decoding-the-gurus.captivate.fm/episode/russell-brand-spiritual-transcendence-and-anarchic-revolution-is-praxis 53:00 Elliott Blatt joins 53:30 My top blog posts, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=143746 54:20 Sam Vaknin on narcissism, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sam_Vaknin 1:13:00 Richard Spencer's philosemitic turn 1:20:00 Underearners often become criminals https://www.nbcnews.com/news/world/russell-brand-youtube-suspends-monetization-rape-sexual-assault-rcna105750 https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-66843160 https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2023/09/us-culture-moral-education-formation/674765/ A Less Religious America Is a More Polarized America, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=150846 Your Hero System Is Your Morality And You Get It From Your Tribe, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=150319 Is blogging destroying journalism? https://statmodeling.stat.columbia.edu/2011/08/22/blogging_is_des/ How Livestreaming Made Me A Better Man, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149835 Why Do Some People End Their Sentences In 'Yeah'?, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149856 Cruel optimism, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149844 A Fan's Life: The Agony of Victory and the Thrill of Defeat by Paul Campos, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149853 The Republican Brain, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149724 People Often Base Their Worldview On Bogus Facts, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149510 HP: Richard Hanania, Rising Right-Wing Star, Wrote For White Supremacist Sites Under Pseudonym, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149672 The Obama Factor: A Q&A with historian David Garrow, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149632 https://www.unz.com/isteve/muslim-is-arrested-in-brooklyn-for-murdering-a-gay-black-how-3-news-outlets-covered-this-story/ https://www.nytimes.com/2023/08/06/us/politics/woke-republicans-poll.html https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/2023/08/06/europe-britain-carbon-cost/ https://www.wsj.com/articles/he-thought-he-saw-wrongdoing-on-wall-street-it-took-over-his-life-4d9ab491?mod=hp_lead_pos9 Decoding Decoding The Gurus, Part Two, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149545 Decoding Deep Left JOKL (7-24-23), https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149329 Decoding Try That In A Small Town (7-21-23), https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149290 Decoding Ben Shapiro (7-16-23), https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149220 Analyzing Steve Sailer's Latest Interview (7-13-23), https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149185 Decoding Jean-Francois Gariepy (7-12-23), https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149183 Decoding Bronze Age Pervert, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=149223 Highlights, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=143746 https://odysee.com/@LukeFordLive, https://lbry.tv/@LukeFord, https://rumble.com/lukeford https://dlive.tv/lukefordlivestreams Superchat: https://entropystream.live/app/lukefordlive Bitchute: https://www.bitchute.com/channel/lukeford/ Soundcloud MP3s: https://soundcloud.com/luke-ford-666431593 Code of Conduct: https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=125692 https://www.patreon.com/lukeford http://lukeford.net Email me: lukeisback@gmail.com or DM me on Twitter.com/lukeford Support the show | https://www.streamlabs.com/lukeford, https://patreon.com/lukeford, https://PayPal.Me/lukeisback Facebook: http://facebook.com/lukecford Feel free to clip my videos. It's nice when you link back to the original.
If you've ever felt overwhelmed by setbacks or questioned your ability to succeed, this episode will inspire you to tap into the power of resilience and discover a path toward personal growth and fulfillment. In this episode, we explore the transformative power of resilience and how it can help you overcome setbacks and self-doubt. Many individuals face challenges and doubts on their journey to success, but you are not alone in this struggle. A positive experience was also shared by Jamie, as he and his wife had worked with Dovid last year. Join us as we delve into the inspiring story of Dovid Feldman, a remarkable figure in marriage therapy and a true beacon of resilience.In this episode, you will be able to:Contact Dovid Feldman for couples counseling.Find a balance between pursuing your dreams and ensuring financial stability in a constantly fluctuating economy.Be motivated by the power of resilience as a catalyst for turning around failures into stepping stones towards success.Immerse yourself in the vibrant realm of entrepreneurship – a world where growth and innovative shifts are the norm.Discover the lesser-known drawbacks of swapping time for money and how entrepreneurship could offer a beneficial alternative.Realize the true importance of agility in seizing potential opportunities in the entrepreneurial landscape.Let's get to know Dovid Feldman, a remarkable figure in marriage therapy and a beacon of resilience. For Dovid, the journey toward success wasn't a traditional one. He initially pursued music, dabbled in multilevel marketing, and even substitute teaching, only to realize his true passion lay in relationships. Now, he's a reputable marriage therapist powered with his personal conviction that every marriage has the potential for greatness. With his unique experiences, Dovid brings an unparalleled perspective to the table, instilling hope and resilience in those he serves.Dovid also ventured into entrepreneurship where he made approximately $375k per year back in 2003. He's been dealing with Fortune 500 companies selling Blackberry phones way back then which was a great hit until he discovered that one of his suppliers was a fraud and caused Dovid a loss of $500k. He has masterfully navigated the stormy seas of life's trials. Donned with the hat of a devoted husband, selfless father, and a trusted marriage therapist, Dovid spends his days working in the trenches of marital conflicts. Dovid wrote his own book 52 Tweets to a Great Marriage which was based on 52 most popular tweets and wrote essays about each one, blog-style essays with in-depth explanations of the concept. His sheer belief in the possibility of a happy, healthy, and thriving marriage for everyone guides his work, and his continuous mission is to help individuals realize it. But Dovid doesn't just speak; he lives his theories. From his personal journey of fighting financial struggles in his youth to pivoting from ad hoc counseling and a career in tech to full-time marriage therapy, he personifies resilience.Books and Resources 52 Tweets To A Great Marriage: Your Guide to Long-Lasting Love and Intimacy No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition) Connect with Dovid Feldman: WEBSITE: https://dovidfeldman.com/EMAIL: dovidfeldman@gmail.comFACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/netzachfamilyTWITTER: https://twitter.com/dovidfeldmanPODCAST: The Impassioned Marriage Podcast Connect with us WEBSITE: https://www.adversity2abundance.comLeave us a rating or review: https://www.adversity2abundance.com/reviews/new/ or hereGot comments, feedback or suggestions? We'd love to hear it! https://www.adversity2abundance.com/contact/ Follow Labrador LendingWEBSITE: https://labradorlending.com/YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChYrpCUlqFYLy4HngRrmU9Q Connect with JamieLINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamie-bateman-5359a811/TWITTER: https://twitter.com/batemanjames
I have met dimensions of myself that would otherwise have remained arrested behind a shame wall, probably for the rest of my life. And the truth is everyone can feel your shame. You're only as empowered as your darkest secret. It's felt. What it is to be with someone with their physical appearance, how it manifests. It shifts as we begin to de-secret these aspects of ourselves. That is the all-seeing eye. Our own conscious awareness. - Kelly Brogan MD Better Brain Health Starts Today Save 20% on Mendi.io with the code "JOSH20" + Take control of your attention, learn to avoid distractions, and enhance mental resilience. Human health is at the heart of everything Mendi.io does. By providing cutting-edge brain health technology for home use, they help people like you measure, control, train, and improve brain function. 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Click HERE to download for free. *Review The WF Podcast & WIN $150 in wellness prizes! *Join The Facebook Group Wellness + Wisdom Episode 543 Kelly Brogan MD, a holistic psychiatrist and an author of a NY Times bestseller, joins Josh Trent on the Wellness + Wisdom episode 543 to go in-depth about regaining sovereignty, reclaiming your power of choice, authentic expression, and generational cycles. How do you love all parts of yourself? In this episode, you will learn what it takes to be self-sovereign, how to navigate feminine and masculine polarities, and what it takes to express yourself authentically without shame. 20% Off Sovereignty Series Save 20% with code "JOSH20" Do you want tools that allow you to choose how you pave your own life? Do you have a felt sense that the way things are could be better? Are you tired of fighting systems that anger you, disappoint you, and feel dehumanizing? Do you sometimes feel that the nature of reality as it's been presented just doesn't add up? Let Kelly Brogan support you in becoming a Sovereign Creator of your own Reality. Only then does the invitation into authentic power present itself through the prism of reckoning with how we were stuck in paradigms of struggle, dependency, and meaninglessness… But what happens when the deception— one that we have colluded with and that has been handed down to us intergenerationally— runs even deeper than we'd like? Well, we just keep asking questions and putting one foot in front of the other… 20% Off with code "JOSH20" Listen To Episode 543 As Kelly Brogan, MD Uncovers: [01:30] Reclaim Your Power Of Choice Kelly Brogan, MD Sovereignty Series - 20% off with code "JOSH20" Own Your Self: The Surprising Path beyond Depression, Anxiety, and Fatigue to Reclaiming Your Authenticity, Vitality, and Freedom by Kelly Brogan, MD Why the plandemic was an invitation for Kelly to look inside. The meaning of the erotic caress of the enemy. Karpman Drama Triangle How to reclaim your power of choice. 535 Aaron Abke: The Law of ONE + How To Live In Love's Alignment Finding an opportunity to meet a part of yourself through negative experiences. [16:10] Sovereign Parenting Kelly's experience with death threats on social media. How to gain access to understanding your stress responses. Why she never wore a mask during the plandemic. How dynamic meditation helped her release anger. Wild Wild Country Why not sharing a reality with someone can feel like an existential threat. Coming from a place of love instead of projecting it onto others. Unpacking why judgment + choice = discernment. What sovereign parenting looks like. [41:00] Feminine + Masculine Polarities How to be fierce and humble. Kelly's connection to the divine as a former atheist. Graham Hancock Why we need a nervous system capacity to be able to fully express. How the feminist PSYOP emasculates men. What the shadow mother archetype is. American Circumcision How mothers disconnect their sons from their masculine essence. Dark feminine initiation. [01:00:35] Assessment Of The Nervous System Why she never talks badly about men and why she asks men for help. Paying attention to the containment energy of the masculine. Tom Cowan How Kelly assesses other people's nervous systems. Why the current erotic dynamic between men and women needs to be disrupted. Om Rupani Why men don't need help to open their hearts. [01:19:00] Healing The Mother + Father Wound How the father and daughter relationship is sexualized. The Surrendered Wife: A Practical Guide To Finding Intimacy, Passion and Peace by Laura Doyle The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David Deida Inverted polarity: Why a woman shouldn't take the bait of her man asking her opinion. Healing the father and mother wound: Believing that your father did not protect you and your mother didn't love you. Dr. Stan Tatkin 463 JP Sears | This Is How Media HIJACKS Your Mind: Stop Censoring Yourself & Heal The Tyrant Within [01:33:30] How To Integrate Our Past Into The Present Daily Mail: Disney executive who is the mother of a transgender and a pansexual child wants at least half of ALL future characters to be LGBTQIA or racial minorities Why gender dysphoria is not relevant to Kelly and her family. The victim consciousness energy that hides in the rescuer. Mike Dillard How to integrate our past into our current experience of self. Why the dark feminine wants to shame and punish. Jordan Peterson The importance of letting a man fail. [01:49:35] Authentic Expression Without Shame Why we need to mind our own business to be sovereign. How we can use social media as a spiritual practice. Why you shouldn't be ashamed of what brings you joy. Aubrey Marcus How sovereignty can manifest in mundane ways. No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model by Dick Schwartz How to start interacting with the parts of yourself you don't want to know. [02:16:10] Feel It, Face It, Free It Kelly's coping method: Feel it, face it, free it. Parts Work: An Illustrated Guide to Your Inner Life by Tom Holmes Why we need to explore our mirror. Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power by Carolyn Elliott How to experience pleasure in everything in life. Why it's good to be seen as bad and wrong in the eyes of others. Power Quotes From The Show Meet A Part Of Yourself "Any single thing I don't like about my day, or an interaction, or a direction that my life is going in, for me is an opportunity to meet a part of myself." - Kelly Brogan MD Judgment + Choice = Discernment "Judgment + choice = discernment. When you recognize that you don't like something, you're judging it. And when you can see that you have choices, you're actually taking responsibility for what you control. Then you can exercise discernment which is basically: "Does this work for me or does it not work for me?" It helps us to smoke out where it is that we're power-overing and it's never more relevant than in the area of parenting."- Kelly Brogan MD Get Real With Yourself "I have had an opportunity to recognize where I am sourcing something that's not available and semi-insisting that it should be and that can lead to ruptures where both parties are seeing that something is not working here. That is the opportunity for me to get real with myself and to say with a sober mind, sober heart, and sober eyes: 'What are my choices here? Can I interact with this painful process without needing the individuals that I'm in dynamic with to be bad and wrong? What if they're not bad and wrong?' And yet I still get to choose to exit and express my needs. I get to choose to make requests. I have all sorts of choices and I would never be aware of those choices if my energy was focused on being right and on how wronged I've been." - Kelly Brogan MD Links From Today's Show Kelly Brogan, MD Sovereignty Series - 20% off with code "JOSH20" Own Your Self: The Surprising Path beyond Depression, Anxiety, and Fatigue to Reclaiming Your Authenticity, Vitality, and Freedom by Kelly Brogan, MD Karpman Drama Triangle 535 Aaron Abke: The Law of ONE + How To Live In Love's Alignment Wild Wild Country Graham Hancock Sovereignty Seres American Circumcision Tom Cowan Om Rupani The Surrendered Wife: A Practical Guide To Finding Intimacy, Passion and Peace by Laura Doyle The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David Deida Dr. Stan Tatkin 463 JP Sears | This Is How Media HIJACKS Your Mind: Stop Censoring Yourself & Heal The Tyrant Within Daily Mail: Disney executive who is the mother of a transgender and a pansexual child wants at least half of ALL future characters to be LGBTQIA or racial minorities Mike Dillard Jordan Peterson Aubrey Marcus No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model by Dick Schwartz Parts Work: An Illustrated Guide to Your Inner Life by Tom Holmes Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power by Carolyn Elliott Shop the Wellness Force Media Store breathwork.io MANNA Vitality - Save 20% with the code "JOSH20" Mendi.io - Save 20% with the code "JOSH20" HIGHER DOSE INFRARED MAT, RED LIGHT FACE MASK, SAUNA BLANKET - Get 15% off with the code “JOSH15“ (link + code must be used together for discount) Cured Nutrition CBD - Save 20% with the CODE "WELLNESSFORCE" PLUNGE – Save $150 with the code “WELLNESSFORCE" LiftMode - Save 10% with the code "JOSH10" Organifi – Special 20% off to our listeners with the code ‘WELLNESSFORCE' HVMN - Get 20% off your Ketone IQ order with the code "JOSH" MitoZen – Save 10% with the code “WELLNESSFORCE” NOOTOPIA - Save 10% with the code "JOSH10" ActivationProducts – Save 20% with the code “WELLNESSFORCE” NEUVANA - Save 15% with the code “WELLNESSFORCE” SENSATE - Save $25 on your order with the code "JOSH25" DRY FARM WINES - Get an extra bottle of Pure Natural Wine with your order for just 1¢ CHILISLEEP - Save 25% on Josh's favorite ChiliSleep products with the code "JOSH" ION - Save 15% off sitewide with the code ‘JOSH1KS' TOUPS - Save 15% with the code "JOSH" Feel Free from Botanic Tonics – Save $40 when you use the code ‘WELLNESS40′ Drink LMNT – Zero Sugar Hydration: Get your free LMNT Sample Pack, with any purchase BREATHE - Save 20% by using the code “PODCAST20” Essential Oil Wizardry: Save 10% with the code ‘WELLNESSFORCE' MY GREEN MATTRESS - Save up to $125 on your order with the code "JOSH" NEUROHACKER - Save 15% with the code "WELLNESSFORCE" ALIVE WATER - Save 33% on your first order with the code "JOSH33" M21 Wellness Guide Wellness + Wisdom Community Leave Wellness + Wisdom a review on Apple Podcasts Dr. Kelly Brogan Facebook Instagram Twitter YouTube About Kelly Brogan MD Dr. Kelly Brogan is a holistic psychiatrist, author of the NY Times Bestselling book, A Mind of Your Own, Own Your Self, the children's book, A Time For Rain, and co-editor of the landmark textbook, Integrative Therapies for Depression. She is the founder of the online healing program Vital Mind Reset, and the membership community, Vital Life Project. She completed her psychiatric training and fellowship at NYU Medical Center after graduating from Cornell University Medical College and has a B.S. from M.I.T. in Systems Neuroscience. She is board certified in psychiatry, psychosomatic medicine, and integrative holistic medicine, and is specialized in a root-cause resolution approach to psychiatric syndromes and symptoms. She is a certified KRI Kundalini Yoga teacher and a mother of two.
Each unconscious abdication of leadership in a relationship is a pin prick to her heart. Over the course of the years, thousands of these moments will scar or harden her. As time went by she and she felt your lack of presence, awareness, and attention to her body and feelings, she got angry. - John Wineland Feel Like You're On a Cloud! Save 40% on Cozy Earth with the code "JOSH" at checkout! Premium 100% viscose from bamboo fabric that feels like a cloud. Temperature-regulating and moisture-wicking fabric to keep you comfy. Enhanced weave that is guaranteed not to pill even after washing and drying. Are You Stressed Out Lately? Take a deep breath with the M21™ wellness guide: a simple yet powerful 21 minute morning system that melts stress and gives you more energy through 6 science-backed practices and breathwork. Click HERE to download for free. Is Your Energy Low? Looking for a cleaner brain fuel? Just one daily serving of Ketone-IQ™️ will help you feel sharper, more focused, and ready to take on the day. Click HERE to try HVMN's Ketone-IQ™ + Save 20% with the code "JOSH" *Review The WF Podcast & WIN $150 in wellness prizes! *Join The Facebook Group Wellness + Wisdom Episode 538 John Wineland, a teacher, speaker, and entrepreneur, joins Josh Trent on the Wellness + Wisdom podcast to discuss his own obstacles in life, why we need to expand our capacity for presence within our relationships, and what the new masculine paradigm looks like. Are you ready to explore the new masculine paradigm and learn how to lead from a place of love? In this episode, you will learn how to navigate romantic relationships, why we need to heal generational trauma, and what it means to receive the wisdom of the moment. Listen To Episode 538 As John Wineland Uncovers: [01:30] Navigating Grief And Loss John Wineland What motivates John to seek men's groups and create one himself. 382 Stefanos Sifandos | What Inner Work Actually Is: Exploring Ego Death, Health Freedom & The Scale of Awareness 361 Luke Storey: Relationships, Consciousness, & Coming Home To Yourself From the Core: A New Masculine Paradigm for Leading with Love, Living Your Truth, and Healing the World by John Wineland Why he's been feeling confused after losing his only child. 332 John Wineland: Your Guide To Masculine & Feminine Polarity [08:20] The New Masculine Paradigm Why John feels blessed and grateful for the varied life experiences he's been through. The importance of always having a teacher and being a student. What the new masculine paradigm looks like. How the field of awareness lets us experience reality. Why the toxic masculine puts productivity and achievements first. How toxic masculinity became a byproduct of feminism for women. Kendra Cunov [24:15] Heart Liberation + Conscious Relationships Johnny Blackburn Why we need our hearts liberated to grow our capacity to love and lead. The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David Deida How we can bring ancient wisdom into the modern world. Why breathwork is a necessary practice when it comes to awareness. How grounding positively impacts our nervous system. [32:27] How To Bring Presence Into Romantic Relationships How to expand our capacity for presence, awareness, and attention. The difference between showing up as a domestic and a romantic partner. How the masculine hurts the feminine heart. Why what love wants is not always the same as what we want. How we unconsciously project resentment onto our partner. John and Julie Gottman Harville Hendrix Stan Tatkin Why we need to drop into our heart to feel what we need. [48:10] Healing Generational Wounds The myth of a good husband. Why women are 100 thousand years ahead of men. Jordan Peterson John's journey to a purposeful life and clearing his family's karma. Alan Watts What it means that we're responsible for the sins of our fathers. It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle by Mark Wolynn 311 Mark Wolynn | It Didn't Start With You: Ending The Cycle of Inherited Trauma [01:03:10] Slow Down To Receive The Wisdom Of The Moment Why epigenetics is embodied karma according to John. Dr. Rhonda Patrick How to cultivate spaciousness for trauma. What motivated John to start a teacher training program. How to activate your mind, body, and heart. Why slowing down is a better strategy for success. The beauty of receiving the wisdom of the moment. Paul Chek How wisdom can be clouded by wounding. Power Quotes From The Show What Love Wants "There's what you want, what both of you and your partner want, and then what love wants. Tuning into what love wants may often be at the expense of what you want, sometimes at the expense of what your partner wants. Your capacity to tune into what love wants from a trustable place is a big part of masculine leadership." - John Wineland True Change "No true change in behavior or thinking can come without an awakened body and an activated heart and a spacious mind." - John Wineland The Wisdom Of The Moment "Stop doing, stop striving, stop practicing. Relax into receiving the wisdom of the moment through your body and wait for some intuitive thought, something to come through, some next move. Receive the wisdom of the moment. Whatever comes through you, it's coming from a deeper place than your habitual thoughts." - John Wineland Links From Today's Show John Wineland 382 Stefanos Sifandos | What Inner Work Actually Is: Exploring Ego Death, Health Freedom & The Scale of Awareness 361 Luke Storey: Relationships, Consciousness, & Coming Home To Yourself From the Core: A New Masculine Paradigm for Leading with Love, Living Your Truth, and Healing the World by John Wineland 332 John Wineland: Your Guide To Masculine & Feminine Polarity Kendra Cunov Johnny Blackburn The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David Deida John and Julie Gottman Harville Hendrix Stan Tatkin Jordan Peterson Alan Watts It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle by Mark Wolynn 311 Mark Wolynn | It Didn't Start With You: Ending The Cycle of Inherited Trauma Dr. Rhonda Patrick Paul Chek Shop the Wellness Force Media Store breathwork.io HIGHER DOSE INFRARED MAT, RED LIGHT FACE MASK, SAUNA BLANKET - Get 15% off with the code “JOSH15“ (link + code must be used together for discount) Cured Nutrition CBD - Save 20% with the CODE "WELLNESSFORCE" PLUNGE – Save $150 with the code “WELLNESSFORCE" LiftMode - Save 10% with the code "JOSH10" Organifi – Special 20% off to our listeners with the code ‘WELLNESSFORCE' HVMN - Get 20% off your Ketone IQ order with the code "JOSH" MitoZen – Save 10% with the code “WELLNESSFORCE” Paleovalley – Save 15% on your ACV Complex with the code ‘JOSH' NOOTOPIA - Save 10% with the code "JOSH10" ActivationProducts – Save 20% with the code “WELLNESSFORCE” NEUVANA - Save 15% with the code “WELLNESSFORCE” SENSATE - Save $25 on your order with the code "JOSH25" DRY FARM WINES - Get an extra bottle of Pure Natural Wine with your order for just 1¢ CHILISLEEP - Save 25% on Josh's favorite ChiliSleep products with the code "JOSH" ION - Save 15% off sitewide with the code ‘JOSH1KS' TOUPS - Save 15% with the code "JOSH" Feel Free from Botanic Tonics – Save $40 when you use the code ‘WELLNESS40′ Drink LMNT – Zero Sugar Hydration: Get your free LMNT Sample Pack, with any purchase BREATHE - Save 20% by using the code “PODCAST20” Essential Oil Wizardry: Save 10% with the code ‘WELLNESSFORCE' MY GREEN MATTRESS - Save up to $125 on your order with the code "JOSH" NEUROHACKER - Save 15% with the code "WELLNESSFORCE" ALIVE WATER - Save 33% on your first order with the code "JOSH33" M21 Wellness Guide Wellness + Wisdom Community Leave Wellness + Wisdom a review on Apple Podcasts John Wineland Facebook Instagram Twitter YouTube About John Wineland For over a decade, John Wineland, an LA-based teacher, speaker, and entrepreneur has been leading both men and women in the realms of relationships, sexual intimacy, and life purpose. Known for his groundbreaking work with men, John is the founder of The New Men's Work Project, which is charged with the lofty goal of creating 1000 men's groups worldwide and has attracted members from across the globe who are looking to lead more embodied purpose-driven lives. With a diverse background that includes a long history as an entry, as well as in the yogic, tantric, and relational arts, John brings a wide scope of meditation, movement, and intimacy practices to his experiential workshops and coaching sessions. John Wineland's Programs & Workshops Today John's work spans the sexual divide and he's known as much in the women's and couples' intimacy arenas for facilitating programs in the Art of Embodiment and Sexual Intimacy. John's recent workshop offerings include Beyond Your Edge: Love, Sex and Purpose on Higher Plane, Integrity as Masculine Practice, The Art of Loving Fiercely, and Breath and Sexual Energy. In 2014, John launched The Aquarian Relationship Series, a 21st-century exploration into Intimacy and Polarity practices with his teaching partner, renowned Master Kundalini Yoga Instructor, Guru Jagat.
Learn on your terms. Get the PDF, infographic, full ad-free audiobook and animated version of this summary and a lot more on the top-rated StoryShots app: https://www.getstoryshots.com Help us grow and create more amazing content for you! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Don't forget to subscribe, rate and review the StoryShots podcast now. What should our next book be? Suggest and vote it up on the StoryShots app. StoryShots Book Summary and Review of The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David Deida Life gets busy. Has The Way of the Superior Man been on your reading list? Learn the key insights now. We're scratching the surface here. If you don't already have David Deida's popular book on self-help, psychology and relationships, order it here or get the audiobook for free to learn the juicy details. Introduction Do you feel you are failing to reach your full personal and professional potential? “The Way of the Superior Man” aims to guide you on how to navigate modern love, intimacy, spirituality, and work. Despite what the title might suggest, this book is not only for men. Like the rest of Deida's works, The Way of the Superior Man aims to help people of all genders and sexual orientations live to their full potential. Deida defines a man as a “person with masculine energy” and a woman as a “person with feminine energy”. You don't need to be either a King Kong macho man or the modern-day, androgynous “Mr. Nice Guy” – as Deida puts it. Instead, you can become a better, more evolved man, or person with masculine energy. Accept your inner masculine and feminine energies, so you can take charge of your life and become a better person. Deida understands the evolution of gender as a three-stage process. Until fairly recently, modern roles for men and women were fixed and separated. Then came a stage in which men and women both sought to balance their inner masculine and feminine energies toward 50/50. This is the stage most of us are in or are working towards. In the third and final stage, Deida suggests we now aspire to embrace both masculine and feminine. But now we should not hold on to either of them. We should also accept the contrast and enjoy the compatibilities between masculine and feminine traits. “Now we are ready to move to the next stage, grounded in… mutual respect and equality, but celebrating the sexual and spiritual passions inherent in the masculine/feminine polarity.” – David Deida The book is divided into three parts, each focusing on a different aspect of the "way" of the superior man. The first part discusses the importance of living a life of purpose and meaning. You learn tools and techniques for finding your true purpose in life. The second part focuses on relationships. It covers topics such as communication, intimacy, and navigating the balance of masculine and feminine energies in relationships. The final part discusses the importance of spiritual growth and offers guidance for developing a spiritual practice. About David Deida David Deida is a renowned spiritual teacher and bestselling author. He claims to have transformed the spiritual and sexual growth of men and women worldwide. Deida has written 10 books throughout his life, all of which have been published in 25 languages. Many of his essays, articles, audio tapes, and books are required reading in universities, spiritual centers, and men's and women's groups worldwide. Deida's popular books include The Way of the Superior Man, Finding God Through Sex, Blue Truth, and the autobiographical novel about unconventional spiritual training, Wild Nights. The Watkins Review has listed Deida among the world's most spiritually influential people every year since 2011. StoryShot #1: Learn a Man's Way StoryShot #2: Learn to Deal with Women StoryShot #3: Work with Polarity and Energy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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In this episode of Docs Outside the Box Dr. Nii lays out his plan to read a new book a month in 2023, and discusses how he selected each of the twelve titles. Included in his selections are How to Win Friends and Influence People, Heavy: An American Memoir, Building a Second Brain and How to Be an Antiracist. Renée shares her own book choices, including Michelle Obama's, The Light We Carry, and the doctors respond to a Textiful question from two third-year KCU medical students. Things to expect in this episode:Dr. Renée scats to Nii's dismayThird-year medical students, Leah and Sam, inquire about couple matching for residencyThe doctors share their book list for 2023, and float the possibility of starting a DOTB book clubDr. Nii shares how he anticipates the book, So Good They Can't Ignore You, will relate to his own personal struggle balancing his passion for podcasting with his work as a surgeon.Dr. Chambers, The Period Doctor, freezes her eggs and Dr. Renée shares her own IVF experienceDrs. Nii and Renée's Book Reading List for 2023:So Good They Can't Ignore You: Why Skills Trump Passion in the Quest for Work You LoveThe Pathless Path: Imagining a New Story for Work and Life by Paul MillerdSomeday is Today: 22 Simple, Actionable Ways to Propel Your Creative Life by Matthew DicksThe Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work and Sexual Desire by David Deida$100M Offers: How To Make Offers So Good People Feel Stupid Saying No by Alex HormoziWhite Fragility: Why It's So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism by Robin J. DiAngeloHow to be an Antiracist by Ibram X KendiHeavy: An American Memoir by Kiese LaymonHow to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale CarnegieBuilding a Second Brain: A Proven Method to Organize Your Digital Life and Unlock Your Creative Potential by Tiago ForteHomegoing: A Novel by Yaa GyasiThe Miracle Morning: The Not-So-Obvious Secret Guaranteed to Transform Your Life (Before 8 AM) by Hal ElrodThe Light We Carry: Overcoming in Uncertain Times by Michelle ObamaI, Too, Cry Purple Tears by Dr. Brooke M. MobleyWE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU!!!! TELL US WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR ON FUTURE EPISODES!!!!FILL OUT THE DOCS OUTSIDE THE BOX PODCAST SURVEY (in partnership w INCROWD)INCROWDMAKE EXTRA MONEY AS A RESIDENT OR ATTENDING - COMPLETE MEDICAL SURVEYS WITH INCROWDWATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE!Join our communityText word PODCAST to 833-230-2860Twitter: @drniidarkoInstagram: @drniidarkoEmail: team@drniidarko.comPodcasting Course: www.docswhopodcast.comMerch: https:
Sex carries so much currency in our internal and external landscapes. For many, sexuality is cloaked in shame, fear, or heady expectations that leave us feeling short-changed and disempowered. Fortunately, the tides are shifting with the help of pioneers like Dr. Kate Balestrieri, a sex therapist helping people integrate the physical and emotional components of sex, sexuality, and relationships. True sexual embodiment is a journey, not a destination (the same can be said for orgasms). This conversation undresses all the topics you've probably been thinking about but were too scared to utter out loud. Krista, Lindsey, and Dr. Kate candidly untangle the narrative surrounding porn, patriarchy, and partnerships while boldly confronting the common intimacy challenges in modern relationships today. We also talk about: How the nervous system affects pleasure Navigating expectations around sex Exploring blocks in partnership Why couples therapy works The spectrum of sex positivity Patriarchy and internalized misogyny Desire, fetish, and ethical porn Tips for elevating your sexual practice Processing sexual trauma Resources: Website: https://www.modernintimacy.com/ (modernintimacy.com) Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/drkatebalestrieri/ (@drkatebalestrieri) TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@drkatebalestrieri? (@drkatebalestrieri) https://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-Man-Challenges-Anniversary/dp/1622038320 (“The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire” by David Deida) https://www.amazon.com/Wired-Love-Understanding-Attachment-Relationship/dp/1608820580 (“Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship” by Stan Tatkin ) Join our community: http://almost30.com/membership (almost30.com/membership) https://www.facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups (facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups) Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: https://almost30.com/disclaimer (almost30.com/disclaimer). Find more to love at http://almost30.com/ (almost30.com)! Almost 30 is edited by http://crate.media (Crate Media).
Get groovin' with goddesses Julietta and Allyson as they get down with guest Galiya Iskakova! Galiya is a dance therapy, movement and happiness coach for women. She has invested over 15 years in study and is devoted to share her knowledge, gifts and tools with as many women as possible!Galiya's most influential book(s): The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz, and The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David Deida Galiya's website: http://heartpuzzle.me/?fbclid=IwAR3ch49Egy0lI3i7sn_MhuGzXPIGtU39VCPsrOSnFZ32-9go2aFGZg4AALE Galiya on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/galiya.sun Galiya on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heartpuzzle.me/ Mentioned in the show: Galiya dancing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRiO6Kte0KU#lifecoaching #lifecoach #coaching #motivation #coach #mindset #inspiration #mindfulness #selflove #personaldevelopment #selfcare #love #mentalhealth #life #success #lifecoachingforwomen #meditation #personalgrowth #lifecoachforwomen #lifestyleSubscribe To and Watch The Voices of The Goddess with Julietta Wenzel and Allyson Mancini on Youtube HERE:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJkusUQRFjoRa0oDQpCLAbA/videos Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Voices-of-the-Goddess-356165865475415Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/voicesofthegoddess/ Voices of The Goddess with Julietta the Magical PT and Allyson the Holistic Nutritionist is a show that supports modern day goddesses in developing their super powers and acquiring the tools they need to achieve all their desires. Join us each week as we interview amazing women in the community who share their insights and how they use their tools to make their dreams a reality. Allyson, a Michigander, moved to South Florida in 1993 with her fiancé, Nick. Married for 27 years with two children, Nicholas 24 and Lexi 21. A SAHM for 24 years and now an empty nester, she has found her true passion as a Holistic Nutritionist. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/healthylifestyleinandoutInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/allysonkmancini/?hl=en Julietta grew up in Wisconsin and graduated with a Physical Therapy degree from University of Wisconsin-Madison. Working in many different settings before deciding the need to open her own clinic to provide the level of care her clients deserve. When not busy treating patients or teaching Voila Method in the US and internationally, she is making healing crystal art and jewelry, creating spiritual/healing paintings, or planning underground dining experiences. A contributing author in the best-selling book UNSTOPPABLE: Leverage Life Setbacks To Rebuild Resilience For Success. Her experience is that the language of love, kindness and compassion is understood everywhere.https://bodyandsoul-pt.com/ http://julietta.love/ https://soulcandycrystals.com/ https://www.facebook.com/TheMagicalPThttps://www.facebook.com/soulcandybyjuliettahttps://www.facebook.com/Juliettalove-108449684234840https://www.instagram.com/themagicalpt/https://www.instagram.com/soul_candy_/https://www.instagram.com/juliettadotlove/
Born in El Salvador during a time of discord and then coming to Canada but growing up without a positive father role model in his life, Rodolfo found himself living life a little rough and troubled through his teen years. Thankfully he was introduced to personal development and the change was significant. I don't want to give any more away so I invite you to listen in. This is one for the guys, for the guy who wants to have a bigger impact or the man who knows that there is more he can do and would do. Here might be the introduction to someone who can help that process or a brother from an other mother to stand with you. ** “What we hold in our hearts, what we hold in our minds, is what will then manifest outside of us.” - Rodolfo Menjivar Connect with Rodolfo Menjivar: https://integrityseminars.com/ https://rodolfomenjivar.com/ https://www.facebook.com/integrityseminars https://www.facebook.com/BrothersFOM https://www.instagram.com/integrity_seminars/ https://www.instagram.com/brothers.fom/ Links mentioned in the interview: Integrity Seminars (Basic Program - September 2021) https://um408-6ceeee.pages.infusionsoft.net/ Shamanic Coaching http://www.raeannwoodschatz.com/shamanic-coaching/ Nothing Box https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3XjUFYxSxDk&t=1s Create the Ripple Podcast - Daniel Sande Episode https://www.candicesmiley.com/episode-031 Create the Ripple Podcast - Randy King Episode https://www.candicesmiley.com/episode-011 **As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases** Rodolfo Menjivar: Life Balance: Love Your Life by Finding Mental, Physical, Emotional and Spiritual Abundance https://amzn.to/3fr7MAt Caroline Myss: Sacred Contracts: Awakening Your Divine Potential https://amzn.to/3r3zU1j Caroline Myss: Sacred Contracts: Awakening Your Divine Potential Kindle Edition https://amzn.to/3AV8hvH David Deida: The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire https://amzn.to/3foDsXs David Deida: The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire Kindle Edition https://amzn.to/3fqcbUq Dr. Robert Glover: No More Mr Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life https://amzn.to/37faJ2u Dr. Robert Glover: No More Mr Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life Kindle Edition https://amzn.to/3yn3yS3 ** My bio goes something like this... I am going to make everything around me beautiful - that will be my life. (Elsie De Wolfe) This quote is my subtle mission in life... I'm a mom to an amazing little girl, girlfriend to an amazing man, a social marketer with an amazing online values-driven company, podcaster, thought leader, and the Editor-in-Chief of an online publication. I find a ton of my life's joy in connecting people, to other people, places and things. I love speaking, writing, creating, travelling and connecting. A natural leader and disruptor, I have a passion for helping men and women to trust the niggle (trust themselves), tell the truth (boundaries are an amazing thing) and speak, even when their voice shakes. I'm a champion for the underdog, can't doesn't exist in my vocabulary and I believe that taking radical responsibility in your life changes everything. Curious to know more? https://linktr.ee/CandiceSmiley Modere.com or Modere.ca : 5579027 BIOCELL LIFE SAVE $10.00 CODE: https://www.modere.ca/ProductDetail/liquidbiocell-life-ca/?referralCode=5579027 DISCLOSURE: I USE MY WEBSITE, MAGAZINE AND SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS TO CREATE THE INCOME THAT SUPPORTS MY LIFESTYLE. WHEN YOU FOLLOW ME POSTS/ARTICLES/PAGES/ESSAYS MAY CONTAIN AFFILIATE LINKS, MEANING I GET A COMMISSION IF YOU DECIDE TO MAKE A PURCHASE THROUGH MY LINKS, AT NO COST TO YOU. PLEASE READ MY DISCLOSURE FOR MORE INFO Musique credit Tiffany Sparrow and Chinmaya Dunster www.tiffanysparrow.com www.sparrowharmonix.com/#music Special thank you to Angel Carrola Hennig for making this podcast happen @faithinsmallhands @angelcarrolahennig
For the next hour we put Rease on the grill for a perfect well done story. He takes us on the journey of his 28 circles around the sun. Things get juicy and intimate. We also see similarities from Rease and Paris's stories as young black men making decisions and how to be successful in this life. So buckle up for this unfiltered ride and get to know the 2/3 of the BDP trio. *Books mentioned Rich Dad Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not! https://www.amazon.com/dp/1612680178/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_8ZBJKPDK5E3FPWJ2Y5KE The Motivation Manifesto: 9 Declarations to Claim Your Personal Power https://www.amazon.com/dp/1401948073/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_NXJ8E5QRGR68XQ6GR8BB So Good They Can't Ignore You https://www.amazon.com/dp/0349415862/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_FWDQAGSMSQR46D44NFE9 The Alchemist, 25th Anniversary: A Fable About Following Your Dream https://www.amazon.com/dp/0062315005/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_JAC2CNCJMH1T16ZYRW2R The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition) https://www.amazon.com/dp/1622038320/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_W36G1ZWPHY9FN1E9S274 What Are You Going to Do with Your Life? https://www.amazon.com/dp/1087709296/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_0V93E2HH6Q4S86GQY5B2 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/builtdifferent/message
This episode talks about Vell's take on the pride of Black People. The Good Read for this episode is The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition) by David Deida. In The Way of the Superior Man, Deida explores the most important issues in men’s lives—from career and family to women and intimacy to love and spirituality—to offer a practical guidebook for living a masculine life of integrity, authenticity, and freedom. What's popping in Vell's World consist of Seeing Green by Nicki Minaj ft. Lil Wayne & Drake, Leadership Orlando, Kobe's Hall of Fame Celebration, and more. Follow on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @VellsWorldPodcast Email vellsworldpodcast@ldmonger.com with any comments, questions, or concerns you would like mentioned in our upcoming episodes. To sponsor an episode send us an email. Don’t forget to subscribe, tell a friend, and follow on all social media platforms. You can leave a voice message and become a monetary supporter for as little as .99 cent on the anchor.fm. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/vellsworldpodcast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/vellsworldpodcast/support
Inner Worlds –Welcome to Inner Worlds with thought leader, YouTuber, Podcaster, and one of my best friends, Aaron Doughty! In this episode, Aaron and I talk about the difference between, and the importance of feminine and masculine energy. We will dive into how these energies impact relationships (including our own!), create hierarchies in the workplace and families, and how they influence the healing of our inner child.Shifting from feminine to masculine or vice versa is natural, but could potentially create issues within the self and within relationships - as it did for me and Aaron. In this episode we talk about ways to embrace and acknowledge both energies. Although a perfect balance between feminine and masculine energy is unlikely, let’s talk about how we can surrender to these energies and use them to our benefit to live our truth. Links:Aaron Doughty Instagram- @aarondoughtyAaron Doughty YouTube- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC48MclMZIY_EaOQwatzCpvwAaron Doughty Podcast- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-aaron-doughty-podcast/id1455761627Aarons Book List:The Body Keeps the Score by Besser von der kolk https://amzn.to/3aAr5oqHe: Understanding Masculine Psychology by Robert. A Johnson https://amzn.to/3dIGJQPShe: Understanding Feminine Psychology by Robert. A Johnson https://amzn.to/3neh4mhThe Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David Deida https://amzn.to/3tM4z3zTimestamp Menu:[4:00] Saturn Return[7:50] My Own Masculine Energy [9:10] Energy Dynamic In Our Relationship[14:40] Shifting Energies[19:00] Warriors Initiation[25:00] The Power Of Forgiveness & Detachment[27:50] How To Have Your Own Warriors Initiation[31:30] Making Your Purpose Important[33:00] Difference Between Feminine & Masculine[35:00] Uninitiated Energy vs. Toxic Energy [39:00] Stop Caring What People Think Of You[42:00] Awareness Of Your Past, Wounds and Surroundings[46:00] Aaron Doughty Book Recommendations
Listen and explore:Guatemala new year's retreat & join our free book clubThree types of relationshipsRelationship as a base campWhere resentment can originate from in relationshipGrounding a relationship in each other's spiritual growthThe risks and rewards of finding our own way in relationshipThe shockingly small amount of time JR and Alasdair have spent apart in the past 4 yearsThe challenge of sharing a small living space togetherMentioned on this episode:The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David DeidaThe Road Less Traveled: A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values and Spiritual Growth by Scott PeckConnect with us:Website: www.thefarout.lifeEmail us at info@thefarout.lifeOn Instagram: @thefaroutcoupleJulie-Roxane on Instagram: @julieroxaneAlasdair @ www.alasdairplambeck.comSupport this podcast:Become a patron at: https://www.patreon.com/thefaroutcoupleMake one-time donation with PayPal (our account is aplambeck22@gmail.com)Leave a review on iTunes!Share this episode with a friend! :DCredits:Intro music: "Complicate ya" by Otis McDonaldOutro music: "Running with wise fools" written & performed by Krackatoa (www.krackatoa.com)Podcast image taken by Alasdair in the Nepalese Himalayas
The six women discuss feedback they’ve received from episode one through five based on their discussions of “Women Who Run with the Wolves” by Clarissa Pinkola Estés. They also call themselves out on times they were insensitive and speak about their privilege. Between laughing at their own mothers’ responses to the podcast, debating suggestions of the male version of “Women Who Run with the Wolves”, diving deep into the self help industry and trying to answer whether we need to fix ourselves, they are honest about their views and their lives. They ultimately discover how important storytelling is in all environments. Discussion Points: Kim reflecting on the group’s Coyote Dick conversation and possible insensitivity/the importance of coyote as the trickster in indigenous cultures in storytelling Storytelling as a valid form of education Acknowledging the group’s privilege in regards to discussion of the Ugly Duckling - not everyone can pick their group The book interrupted members’ mothers’ and mother-in-laws’ support and feedback Meredith’s Down The Rabbit Hole blog every Sunday and responses to it Lindsay’s feedback about episode three and not being a mom in a group of mothers Suggestions of male versions of Women Who Run with the Wolves and discussion on whether it fits: “The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire” by David Deida; “I Don't Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression” by Terrence Real; “The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom” by Miguel Ruiz How Kim should write Coles Notes of spiritual self-help books that annoy her Response to a fan feedback of “the topic is basically like fixing yourself which implies that you are broken” The self help industry - do you need to fix yourself or not? Is ignorance bliss? Is the podcast and club only for women? Is Women Who Run with the Wolves only for women? Other feedback Kara’s boss’ way she applies storytelling (and particularly “Women Who Run with the Wolves”) in a corporate environment Resources: Book Interrupted Website Book Interrupted YouTube Channel
Join Rob as he breaks down +50 books in +30 categories that he's read (or is reading) since the age of 40. This is a special show that is a combination of an audience feedback show and an episode that Rob has wanted to put together for quite some time...Many thanks to Andy for the show suggestion!I've got a list of 54 books here, 27 of which I've read in their entirety.1491: New Revelations of the Americas Before Columbus Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your LifeWake Up Happy: The Dream Big, Win Big Guide to Transforming Your LifeMore Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical PolyamoryMating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic IntelligenceFingerprints of the GodsSeven Skeletons: The Evolution of the World's Most Famous Human FossilsFood of the Gods: The Search for the Original Tree of Knowledge A Radical History of Plants, Drugs, and Human EvolutionGrain Brain: The Surprising Truth about Wheat, Carbs, and Sugar--Your Brain's Silent KillersThe Complete Book of Five Rings12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to ChaosSapiens: A Brief History of HumankindAnimal FarmBrain Maker: The Power of Gut Microbes to Heal and Protect Your Brain for LifeThe Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition)Everything you need to know about E Collar TrainingHow to Change Your Mind: What the New Science of Psychedelics Teaches Us About Consciousness, Dying, Addiction, Depression, and TranscendenceIshi in Two Worlds, 50th Anniversary Edition: A Biography of the Last Wild Indian in North AmericaJayber Crow::Novel21 Lessons for the 21st CenturyLesser Beasts: A Snout-to-Tail History of the Humble PigGaining Ground: A Story Of Farmers' Markets, Local Food, And Saving The Family FarmNonviolent Communication: Create Your Life, Your Relationships, and Your World in Harmony with Your ValuesThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal ChangeThe Indifferent Stars Above: The Harrowing Saga of the Donner PartyAmusing Ourselves to DeathBuilding a Better World in Your Backyard: Instead of Being Angry at Bad GuysThe Unsettling of America: Culture & AgricultureHere's a list of books that I am "in the process of" reading (as of 12/30/2020):IMPACT: Get Rich! Be More Awesome! Change the World! Kindle EditionThe Ecological Landscape Professional...Gaia's Garden: A Guide to Home-Scale Permaculture299 Days: The 43 Colonels (Volume 10) Quick Keto Meals in 30 Minutes or Less:...Pursue the Cause of Liberty: A Farewell to Congress Quick & Easy Ketogenic Cooking: Meal Plans and Time Saving Paleo Recipes...Mere Christianity The Paleo Solution: The Original Human Diet Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern RelationshipsPrimal Power Method Change Your Body. Change Your Life. The Modern Caveman LifestyleFor a New Liberty: The Libertarian Manifesto The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures A Seeker's Guide to Inner Peace: Notes to Self Treating Epilepsy Naturally : A Guide to Alternative and Adjunct TherapiesEpilepsy: A Patient and Family Guide Pasture Basics: How to Keep the Grass Green and Your Chickens Happy (Permaculture Chicken Book 2) Japanese Pickles CookbookSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/allaroundgrowth)
Modern men have lost the masculinity that makes women come run to them. There is a secret language shared by women, based on male confidence, dominance, and quality that inherently makes them choose some men over others – and I am going to be your translator!Toxic patterns are easy to fall into, and these must be broken in order for men to be able to identify the quality women out there. Today, I’m going to share with you my personal story that got me to this point in life and some of the lessons I’ve learned on how not to settle and learn to act like a man in your relationship.If you want to learn more about how to regain the confidence you need to attract the adequate women, then tune in to episode 1 of Get Your Swag Back, hosted by myself, Steve Clements.In this episode you’ll learn:Who am I and why I decided to start this podcast (01:29)Some insights into the backstory that brought me here (03:18)What I did to get my swag back after some bad relationships. (07:14)What women say they like versus what they actually like about men. (10:22)The importance of self-control in a man’s life. (14:06)How to get clear on what you want and what you don’t want from women. (16:47)The importance of always being truthful and sincere. (18:10)How I met my girlfriend & Our first-date experience. (22:18)What men are wired for. (27:25)Let’s connect:Email: swagbackdoc@gmail.com InstagramFacebookResources mentioned:Book: Corey Wayne – How to Be a 3% Man, Winning the Heart of the Woman of Your DreamsBook: David Deida – The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual DesireBook: Gary Chapman – The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that LastsBook: Andrew Ferebee – The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single to the Woman of Your Dreams See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
On this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak to Ben Kendall - the DIY Spirituality Seeker. Ben owns a successful building company, where he manages projects and tradies. Amongst all of his success, he realised that something was missing in his life. Everything seemed to be going well on paper, but on the inside something was asking for his attention. In this soul searching episode Ben, the Everlasting Spiritual Builder, tells us how he discovered his inner self and how it changed his life. The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David Deida Zeitheist: The Movie - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OrHeg77LF4Y
On this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak to Ben Kendall - the DIY Spirituality Seeker. Ben owns a successful building company, where he manages projects and tradies. Amongst all of his success, he realised that something was missing in his life. Everything seemed to be going well on paper, but on the inside something was asking for his attention. In this soul searching episode Ben, the Everlasting Spiritual Builder, tells us how he discovered his inner self and how it changed his life. The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David Deida Zeitheist: The Movie - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OrHeg77LF4Y
We read The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David Deida
Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide
GUEST: MARTIN UCIK Martin Ucik is a German born entrepreneur who trained with Eckhart Tolle as a Power Of Now group facilitator and founded www.singles2couples.org, an Association for Healthy Relationships. His studies of Ken Wilber’s Integral Model allowed him to integrate his personal experiences as a divorced father and the wisdom from over 200 relationship books into Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men which Ken Wilber calls “a terrific book!” and his new book Sex Purpose Love. (Please listen to the podcast episode or read the transcript to hear explanations, stories and examples.) LISTENERS’ QUESTIONS: First listener’s question: “I stumbled upon your podcast on Spotify and since then have found great value in it with my current relationship of 1.5 years. If possible I have some questions/topic that I would love to hear you cover. … One relationship question/topic that is a big stressor in my relationship is: My boyfriend is a police officer and in the National Guard. His jobs have really changed him like how he judges people really quickly and so on. Have you ever covered a topic similar to this?” Second listener’s question: “My worry is that I’ve grown and matured in my thinking over the past couple months and that my boyfriend and I won’t be on the same page. I tend to overthink and my boyfriend tries to simplify things, so oftentimes we balance each other out. However there are times when I think I’m maturing a lot faster than him and it sort of creates a mental gap between us. I’m not sure if that’s because we’re not compatible or if there’s a better way to communicate.” INTEGRAL THEORY Lines of development 5 stages of spiritual development 8 stages of consciousness 4 quadrants Personality matrix Developmental Lines for Relationship, based on Martin Ucik’s approach: Emotional availability Consciousness development Sexual development Spiritual development Anima/animus 8 STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT, BY MARTIN UCIK How we see the world and how we communicate. Survival Magical thinking Ego centric Mythic Rational Pluralistic Integral Transpersonal “Experience without theory is blind but theory without experience is mere intellectual play.” by Immanuel Kant How partners meet each other matters. In the past, partners would meet each other in places where they were likely to have similar perspectives, beliefs, and world views, like college, church, and interest based groups. It was more likely that partners would be at similar stages of consciousness. Whereas today, partners are meeting each other online and are more likely to be at different stages of consciousness, which poses great difficulty for couples. How do you determine what stage of development as person is in? Listen to what really matters to them. What do you recommend for a couple that is dealing with being at different stages of development? Talk about your experience. Look at the stages of consciousness together. Be gentle in your approach with one another. Invite an openness and a willingness to explore. Sometimes, people will not be ready or willing to grow and develop. MENTIONED: Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men (book) Sex Purpose Love: Couples in Integral Relationships Creating a Better World (book) Relationship Map (opt-in) Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help YouFind – and Keep – Love (book) Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life — Second 2nd Edition (book) Integral Theory: Ken Wilber (Wikipedia) Ken Wilber (website) Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus (book) Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples, 20th Anniversary Edition (book) Passionate Marriage (book) Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love (book) The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition) (book) Perfect Love, Imperfect Relationships: Healing the Wound of the Heart (book) Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After (book) Alex Gray (website) ERP 006: Making And Keeping Agreements To Strengthen Your Relationship (podcast) ERP 140: How Pain and Suffering Increase & What to Do about It (podcast) ERP 141: How To Decrease Relationship Pain and Suffering (podcast) ERP 015: Do You Have A “Unity” Or “Journey” Mindset In Relationship? (podcast) TRANSCRIPT: Click on this link to access the transcript for this episode: If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please reach out to me. Here is my contact information. Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship. Dealing with resentment in relationships help couples move forward positively with their lives and allow couples to have deeper connection. I would really appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.
By accident, Chris Holder blended QiGong and Chinese medicine and realized that it has a great amount of efficacy for very ill people. Chris started exploring the possibility of using the same protocol for athletes at Cal Poly Pomona University, San Luis Obispo who might just need a “tune up”, and they saw great results. They started to see athletes getting stronger and faster. Bring inflammation down. Clearing their mind. Sleeping better. Having a peace of mind, and being prepared to perform. Qigong is still fairly taboo, so other universities are not picking up on it yet, and seeking Chris to expand his program into other universities. What is Qigong? Traditional Chinese medicine revolves around 4 main pillars: Qigong Acupuncture Herbs Massage Qigong is the mother of acupuncture. Everything that goes on in acupuncture (meridians, vibrating energy, movement, chi movement, breath, etc.), happens in Qigong but without the needles. It helps you move through the energy through a series of physical exercises and breathing control. You learn to control your energy. It does a woo-woo feel to it, and most of the information you find on it online has cosmic type costumes and backgrounds. Chris’ goal is to normalize it as much as possible, it doesn’t have to have that “weird” look and make it look as comfortable as possible. When you take your first breath as a newborn, and you take in the energy of the room with that. So your line beings to move around. When it moves too far to the side, that’s when you see illnesses. Qigong helps realign that line down the middle of the body, and this is where people will feel their best. Who are you treating with Qigong? Chris does no advertising or marketing. He became a Taoist priest and sent it out to the divine that he is here to help those that need and want to be helped. He sees a lot of people who are getting their funeral arrangements together. People who are dying of cancer and other types of diseases. For a period of time, all he would see is women who had been abused. It’s the Universe responding. He sees people who usually cannot get a solution through Western processes. Chris shares amazing stories of how Qigong has changed and saved many lives. A very interesting episode! FSLModern is now sponsored by Marriage OS. They help business owners and executives just like you reignite or save their marriages and unlock with their partner the unbreakable bond of unconditional love and passionate connection so that together they discover the secret of their limitless potential, soar above challenges and find EPIC HAPPINESS. They’re offering a COMPLIMENTARY Breakthrough Sessions to all FSLers. Click HERE to book your Breakthrough Session today! 15 Day Fat Loss Kick Start Ebook Download your FREE copy here!! DOWNLOAD! We respect your privacy- We will not rent, spam or sell your email. About Chris Holder: Chris Holder is the Head Strength and Conditioning Coach for Cal Poly Athletics in beautiful San Luis Obispo, California. Along with being a coach, Chris is also a doctor of Medical Qigong. Throughout his career, Chris has blended the western strength training philosophies with eastern medical and spiritual practices to provide the most complete system possible to develop the student-athlete. With over 550 male and female competitive athletes under his supervision, Chris has conducted two ground breaking research studies involving the influence of regular exposures to Qigong and performance. Both are currently in the publication process. Along with being a full-time strength coach, Chris has a small practice in the town where he see’s a wide variety of patients. Many of his patients are in the final stages of an illness and are reaching to something out of the western mainstream for healing. Along with in-person sessions, Chris specializes in remote work, having a client list located in an array of places, all over the world. Links and Resources Chris’ recommended book: The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering Challenges of Women, Work and Sexual Desire by David Deida. This is great for men AND women. Digital Resource: Robb Wolf’s Keto Master Class, it’s online. Chris’ recommended digital resource: Rob Wolf’s Keto Master Class Online. If you missed it, listen in on last week’s podcast episode: Never Give Up…Not Just an Empty Line. It’s REAL. Hear One Woman’s Amazong Journey, #84 Join our private FSL Modern Community on FB.
Your Wim Hof Inspired, Ice Cold, Co-Host of Masculine:I'm an ex-corporate ladder climber within the advertising technology space turned catalyst for change in the way the world identifies with and experiences masculinity. Achieving and performing were all that mattered in my twenties until the point where after getting the promotions and making the money, I kept coming back to feeling completely empty. All my intentions and energy were focused on consuming more of things external to myself to build up my identity. A lack of having a father figure my entire life has taken me on this journey of untangling myself from the social pressures we feel as men to be a certain way, to prove our manhood. Taking down the masks socially and emotionally has been my path to freedom, natural expression, and purpose. I've built a community for men to do the same and it's called The Drop. As an embodiment coach and a current Wim Hof Instructor in training, my focus is creating a path for men that will allow them to cultivate the way of being and discipline to carry out a life of depth and purpose. On This Episode You Will Hear: [spp-timestamp time="00:30"] Introduction thanks to Tayo Rockson [spp-timestamp time="02:00"] Connecting on common Arizona ground. [spp-timestamp time="35:50"] The Way of the Superior Man. [spp-timestamp time="01:00:00"] Private communities and archetype education. [spp-timestamp time="01:05:00"] Connecting on Arechtypes with past co-host, Kylie Slavik. [spp-timestamp time="01:07:25"] Final Words [spp-tweet tweet="A Man's Pursuit of Purpose Through Masculine Practice! @TravisRoznos "] [youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TEBOQkN0G0w] Links and Resources: TravisRoznos.com (http://travisroznos.com/) Travis Roznos on Twitter (https://twitter.com/TravisRoznos) The Drop for Men on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/thedropformen/) WimHofMethod.com/ (https://www.wimhofmethod.com/) The Ice Man Wim-Hof (https://www.instagram.com/iceman_hof/) The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire. (http://amzn.to/2C0uef6) People Mentioned: Tayo Rockson (http://tayorockson.com/) Kylie Slavik (https://livethefuel.com/089-archetypes-storytelling-kylie-slavik/) David Deida (https://deida.info/) Final Words: If you're into growth and into leveling up... This pursuit of actually surrounding yourself with other people on the same journey as you, that's the place where change comes in. That's the place where discipline and awareness come in. This is where you can essentially self-author your life. Action Steps: Please Subscribe and Submit an iTunes Show Rating & Review (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/livethefuel/id1150969758?mt=2) . The more reviews, the more people can find us. We love 5 Stars too! Join our private Facebook Group community called THE FUEL TANK (http://livethefueltank.com/) . Visit our Resources (https://livethefuel.com/resources) page and a reminder to “Keep Living The Fired Up Epic Life!”
Daniel Edwards is the CEO of Total One-Eighty Image Consulting, a business initiative and service tailored for the motivated, modern male professionals, which Mr. Edwards created to productively combine his three (3) passions - personal development, psychology and fashion. A trained public speaker and presenter, Mr. Edwards recently launched his series of Total One-Eighty workshops, the first being through corporate client Sagicor Life Insurance Jamaica Limited to further his holistic approach to image consultancy and personal development. With over two decades of successful experience in the sales industry, Mr. Edwards is also currently a Senior Sales Executive at Caribbean Assurance Brokers Limited. Prior to this, he was a Financial Advisor at Sagicor Life Jamaica Limited where among other things his achievements included being seated at the international acclaimed, “Million Dollar Round Table." During his time at Sagicor, Mr. Edwards also created, ran and marketed his High Street Clothing brand. An experienced performer and lover of nature, Mr. Edwards is also a proponent and practitioner of meditation and diverse self-improvement practices. Question Tell us a little bit about yourself and your journey In terms of customer experience, how has that been for you since you started business and what is your view on customer experience as a business owner? What are some of the challenges you believe young men face why it is that you are compelled in this business? Do you think it’s because of our culture why you think the men are challenged in such a way, outside of the parenting aspect predominantly being exposed to female influence, does the Caribbean culture impact that as well? Can you tell us a little bit about why you think image is so important and how does that impact customer service? Getting somebody to attire themselves in a particular way and have a particular image, how long those that take and is it just the physical or is it like a mind set change as well in terms of how they feel about themselves? Who are some of the role models you would use to drive inspiration in the persons you’re trying to transform? How do you stay motivated every day? Do you think it’s important as a businessperson to really be passionate about what you’re doing in order to be successful? What is the one online resource, website, tool or app that you absolutely cannot live without in your business? What are some of the books that have had the biggest impact on you? If you where sitting across the table from another business owner and they said to you that they feel they have great products and services but they lack the constantly motivated human capital, what’s the one piece of advice would you give them to have a successful business, specifically as it relates to constantly motivated human capital? What is one thing in your life right now that you are really excited about – something that you are working on to develop yourself or people? Where can our listeners find your information online? What is one quote or saying that you live by or that inspires you in times of adversity? Highlights Daniel Edwards shared he is a Financial Advisor, he sells primarily insurance and investment products with Caribbean Assurance Brokers but he’s very passionate about his new venture which is Total One-Eighty Image Consulting and he feels that it is an initiative that is very necessary right now in Jamaica where men are really falling behind in a number of areas, he feels compelled to push this mission to reinvigorate the males. Daniel Edwards shared that he always believes in under promising and over delivering, he tries to extend that to his venture and that’s what it is about and focusing more about being of service and adding value than about money because if you do that first, then the money will follow. . Daniel Edwards stated that a significant percentage of males in Jamaica today are raised without fathers and as a result, there are a lot of men being raised by women so they don’t get those little extra tips and instructions that a man should give another man. The daughters are okay because their mothers can teach them how to dress and how to put themselves together as women but they fall short with the men. Such example include seeing men attending a graduation in sneakers or going to a job interview like they are going to a dance, they don’t have a male figure to show them how to really put themselves together. Daniel shared that he doesn’t think that our culture had an impact on the way our Jamaican men dress. He stated that our parents’ generational practices that but it’s a recent departure. Daniel Edwards stated that it’s not just about the image, it’s about the image plus communication skills but everything begins with the visual and our impressions are formed within seconds of seeing someone and often times these impressions are set in stones within seconds and barring you doing something exceptional, they don’t change. So the first impression is the only one that matters but beyond that we have to have the communication skills and the service to solidify that reputation and really give the client a great experience. So they have to be all rounders, they have to have the look and the package. Daniel shared that his ultimate goal is to have a holistic approach but you have to start somewhere, so he started off by creating a workshop on dressing for success. In this workshop, they look at the psychology of the first impression, the psychology of color, they look at how suits should fit, the power of a suit, the psychology behind wearing a suit, how you think different and feel different wearing one and people treat you differently. They go into accessories, they show you what colors to wear as in suits, what suits to wear and not to wear, accessories because male fashion is all about details. He stated that he wants to get into other areas such as public speaking and all of the components that are required to make you successful and make a bold impact when you step into a room. Daniel Edwards stated that for inspiration, Steve Harvey is a good example, also P. Diddy and Michael Lee Chin. He stated that he’s a fan of all of the self made black Millionaires. Yanique added that you want them to connect with someone who looks like them so that they can see that this possibility exists. Daniel Edwards shared that by staying motivated, he uses "Operant Conditioning", he stated that we all do things to gain pleasure or avoid pain, so operant conditioning is where you try to avoid pain and pain for him would be living a life of judgery, getting old, getting sick and then dying. Operant conditioning is a type of learning where behavior is controlled by consequences. Key concepts in operant conditioning are positive reinforcement, negative reinforcement, positive punishment and negative punishment. He wants to live a purpose driven life on his terms and have an amazing life, and he can only do that by running his enterprise and perusing his dreams and his passions. Daniel stated that he doesn’t know anybody who is hugely successful whose purpose isn’t aligned with their passion, those are prerequisites. There are millions of businesses ventures out there that can garner money but every entrepreneurial enterprise requires grit and determination and preservation in the early years to turn a profit, so if it’s just about making money, they are not going to put in those extra hours and deal with all those disappointments and the failures and near misses unless you are passionate about it. Daniel stated that he likes Pinterest a lot as well as Instagram but he doesn’t think that there’s anything he could live without, as he’ll find a way regardless. He stated that they are extremely helpful for example if he’s doing a wedding for someone, as he does weddings on what to wear, he can go on Pinterest and get an outfit together, he has an internet platter of ideas he can find. Daniel stated that he is an avid reader and believes you should try to read a new book every month, the last book that really made a big impact on him was “The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desires by David Deida” it talks about how men should deal with women, it’s about the masculine and feminine and how they should dance together and not wrestle. He also mention “The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book) by Don Miguel Ruiz”, Toltec were like the ancient Indians in Mexico. Daniel mentioned one more book called, “Triggers: Creating Behavior That Lasts – Becoming the Person You Want to Be by Marshall Goldsmith”, he is a high level Psychologist and he is a trainer for CEOs, he’ll go into Forbes and train the CEO, he’s showing that a lot of our behavior that is inexplicable or destructive is really based on triggers to prior events, so when similar situations occurs, it triggers it. Once you’re able to decipher what these triggers are then you can make permanent changes in your life without being confused or beating yourself up wondering why this happen. Daniel shared that the advice he would give another business owner is that you must incentivize your workers, they need to feel like they have a vested interest and they need to know if they put in a little more effort, they can dictate their paycheck. If the guy comes in and he’s getting a flat salary, he’s very aware that he’s building your empire for you, why is he going to stay there for 12 hours or why is he going to go above and beyond, as soon as 5:00 pm comes he wants to go home, that’s it, he’ out. They have to feel that they have a vested interest and that they are apart of the enterprise, they need to know that they put in a little extra, they will get some money. Yanique asked Daniel if he believes that most or all employees based on his experience are motivated financially, does motivation comes from something else as well? Daniel Edwards shared that it is a combination; feeling like you have a vested interest doesn’t necessarily only translate to more money. Apart of the business, you’re invaluable and that your input will leave an indelible mark in the company. And if you have a system where your staff is rewarded base on merit, then they will work a little harder too, so one person is a superstar and one person is just slumming it and everybody is getting the same paycheck, after awhile the guy who is the superstar is going to take it down a few notches because there is no incentive for working so hard. There’s a motivational speaker called Max Moyan who said, “If you’re doing just enough not to loose your job, your boss is going to pay you just enough to keep it.” Also, empower your employees, put them on a plan immediately, and create a situation where they are aware of this is where they are beginning but 5 years where they should be, you should be empowering them to be on a trajectory towards success and you get a next set, it’s not a static situation. Daniel shared that what’s exciting for him right now is the business blossoming, he did the Caribbean Speakers International recently and it was a mind blowing experience because he has never done something like that before. He has done talks before but he has never spoken without a script so he felt like he grew 5 years in one day. Daniel shared that listeners can find him at - totaloneeighty - Instagram Total One Eighty Image Consulting - Facebook Total one Eighty - Twitter Daniel shared that he had some slumpy years in his career so now that things have turned around for him, when he’s about to make major steps, he resorts to the bad memories and then he starts to have the limiting self talks where he says, “Three years ago this wasn’t working, what makes you think this is going to work now?” Les Brown who is one of has one of favorites quotes, “Operate using your imagination not your memory.” Once you go back to your failures, it’s crippling to you. Links The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desires by David Deida The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book by Don Miguel Ruiz Triggers: Creating Behaviors That Lasts – Becoming the Person You Want to Be by Marshall Goldsmith
Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Barry Selby is a passionate champion for the divine feminine. He helps strong successful committed women heal their hearts, own their self-love and magnificence, embracing their feminine majesty, so they become a powerful positive force in the world, and attract their true divine masculine partnership in relationship. With over 30 years of study of personal development, interpersonal relationships and embodied understanding of the polarity dance of masculine and feminine, he helps women break the cycle of failed relationships and heart-break, so they can attract their true divine partnership. His #1 best-selling book, 50 Ways To Love Your Lover, helps both singles and couples create rich and rewarding relationships. He brings deep compassion, masculine presence, and wise guidance to assist his clients in their journey to true love. After experiencing her work you will never look at love the same way again. Guiding Principle, Quote or Mantra Be living your purpose in the world before doing anything else. When You Tripped Up In Barry’s early dating live, teens and twenties, things would go well until there was a discord or an argument. Then he’d quit and he’d leave. Like everyone, he learned from his parents how to be in relationships. Barry never remembers his parents arguing. So his programming was: Love means no arguments. This unconscious programming limited the possibility of relationships for him. It is our unconscious programming that we need to unpack to change where we go in the future. Proudest moment in partnership Barry has been a spiritual practitioner since 2000. And part of that is being on pulpit once every 3 - 4 years to lead part of the service on Sundays. His first time on the pulpit was September 16th, 2001. The first Sunday following the 9/11 attacks. And twice as many people showed up for service as normally do. By his doing this and providing a sense of normalcy, it provided the attendees with a sense of calm. This opened his heart even more to being of service. And as a result of standing in front of over 2000 people his fear of public speaking basically evaporated. What is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received? We are all individually whole and complete. We always can serve somebody else. Best Partnership Book (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0989885208/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0989885208&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=39d378c0afc4483febc201a7562969c1) 50 Ways To Love Your Lover: Powerful Principles for Passionate & Richly Rewarding Relationships filled with Deeply Fulfilling and Juicy Romance! (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0989885208/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0989885208&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=a9beeb3034f6e6dec166936e7439a8ca) (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1591792576/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1591792576&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=832a171b7668c4727a85213f98f9e6ad) The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1591792576/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1591792576&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=794c8e0d28e35a6ae1ba5b23dd60058a) Interview Links - Barry's website (http://theloveconfidant.com/) Twitter (https://twitter.com/barryselby) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/barryselby.author) (https://speakingofpartnership.com/139-barry-selby/)
Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Liesel holds a Master’s in Education and a B.A. in psychology from the University of California Santa Barbara. After a seven year tenure as a college professor she realized that her true gift was in the healing arts. She holds certifications in multiple healing modalities including Reiki and Pranic Healing. And since 2001, she has been guiding women on their spiritual and healing journeys and helping them find their greatest joy. Guiding Principle, Quote or Mantra What is it you are feeling vulnerable about? When You Tripped Up For Liesel it was a series of trip-ups that she kept doing over and over again in every relationship. She would start to date someone and then morph into who she thought he wanted her to be. From becoming a sports fanatic, to a surfer girl, to a grunge rocker etc. All of this time she never really knew who she was. Even the music she was into and the clothes she wore were dictated by who she was dating. It wasn't until she had a really challenging, bottom out relationship that she got real about figuring out who she was and why she continued to be in dysfunctional relationships that things changed. The “DUH” moment that changed your partnerships forever Liesel had this story she was sure she had proven time and time again that when she put on some weight her husband was less attracted to her and when she lost weight he was more attracted to her. This caused her to be super careful about her diet and fitness and put tons of energy into this. When she said this to her husband, he was like, what are you talking about? He had no awareness of this 10 - 12 pound weight range she was obsessed about. He said, “I’m always more attracted to you when you feel radiant and confident and I’m less attracted to you when you’re insecure and needy.” She came to the realization that it was not her weight but her perception of herself and how she was carrying herself and how she felt about herself that impacted her attraction to her. This was a massive shift for her. Proudest moment in partnership The opening to the vulnerability of marrying her husband. She knew he was not going to let her hide or be less than her fullest self. It has led to a vast wonderland of adventure. And it’s hard. And it’s scary. And it hurts. And it’s beautiful and has led her to levels of herself that she couldn’t access by herself. What is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received? The best gift that you can give your children is a happy marriage. If your marriage loses the priority then the family is going to fall apart. And that’s the biggest suffering for the child. Best Partnership Book (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00ECFLKS0/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B00ECFLKS0&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=effe8cae50b6746bb7cc5520efcf4cf6) The Queen's Code (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00ECFLKS0/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B00ECFLKS0&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=f47ccfc908e357cee6325c3c497d5917) (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1622038320/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1622038320&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=1d0e4cc490c9c608b301b472306561de) The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition) (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1622038320/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1622038320&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=01845c2c4bc1c0d4b18afca859b1561b) The Payoff of Partnership As a little girl, Liesel used to listen to love songs and dream that they were written for her. Then on her third date with her husband Craig,
The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work and Sexual Desire - by David Deida Grab a copy here: http://www.bookdepository.com/Way-of-the-Superior-Man-David-Deid/9781591792574/?a_aid=adamasbooks This was certainly an interesting read. The contention of the book is that everyone is made up of both masculine and feminine qualities, but most of us lean towards one more than the other. This is a book for the 'masculine' person, be that male or female, gay or straight. It takes us through how to become a 'superior man' and how the masculine should act and guide their more feminine partner. We don't agree with everything, but there's a lot of truth in this book - sometimes some uncomfortable truths. Our favourite chapter was Chapter 46: "Ejaculate up the Spine". Let your imagination run wild with that one, then listen to find out what the author actually meant... Enjoying the show? It would make us really happy if you left a review :) http://apple.co/2v2xcLI Want our notes that we've taken for every book and used for our episodes? Grab them at http://www.whatyouwilllearn.com/notes
Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Jenna Ward is an Embodiment + Energy Medicine Mentor, guiding women to get out of their head and into their hearts. Jenna teaches women how to awaken their magnetic and sensual souls, embodying their deep potential to create authentic businesses and rich relationships that turn them on through her signature program, The Embodied Woman. This is a 12 week online journey into more passion, purpose and freedom by connecting and embodying your authentic self into every cell of your being. Guiding Principle, Quote or Mantra Your partnership is a barometer of how you are being within yourself. When there is discord or struggle or strife within a partnership, often that is reflecting something that is uncomfortable, unresolved, unhealed or unsettled that is going on within yourself. So when stuff is coming up in a partnership, that is a big indicator that is saying “Attention is needed within.” When You Tripped Up Jenna was looking for her partnership to be her salvation. The thing that kept her afloat when everything else was not really going as she desired. This brought about a big feeling of confusion and disconnect. Her partner was not stepping up to be all the things she wanted him to be. She realized she was projecting all of her desires onto her partner to be the thing that saved her and carried her forward. Jenna realized that the control she was exerting in the partnership was a surrogate for the big lack of control she was feeling in the rest of her life. Her epiphany was that no good partnership is based on control or obligation. The only type of meaningful partnership is based on mutual respect which is founded in love. Proudest moment in partnership Jenna is very proud of a partnership she has formed with a woman who is her biggest competition in business. She learned to never hesitate to reach out someone you admire.even if you think there is no logical reason they would partner with you. And there is really no place for competition in the business place anymore. There is abundance for everyone. What is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received? Everybody benefits from spending time being with their body. Touching their body and enjoying their body. This allows you to value you. Best Partnership Book (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1591792592/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1591792592&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=7abc08fda4f32cafbce3104c5282208f) Blue Truth: A Spiritual Guide to Life & Death and Love & Sex (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1591792592/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1591792592&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=87596955dba369792d94590476de43bd) (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1591792576/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1591792576&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=0225822d706bbc5da05f32a5dc9305f9) The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1591792576/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1591792576&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=e83e1eb9588d5daa9227bc385b6e2d21) Payoff of Partnership The big partnership Jenna is playing with right now is herself and her business. This being of her business has chosen her and she is exploring it by living and working all around the world. Interview Links - Jenna's Website (http://jennaward.co/) Jenna's Facebook Link (https://www.facebook.com/jennawardco/) Embodied Women Facebook Group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/embodied.women.group/) Jenna's Instagram Link (https://www.instagram.com/jennaward.co/)...
Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Preston Smiles is like nobody in the speaking or personal development world. Breaking all rules and carving his own path he's an emerging Next Generation Thought Leader, recently winning the Millennial Mentor Award by Elixir Magazine. Preston’s forthcoming book, LOVE LOUDER, is being published by Simon and Schuster and will hit the shelves on June 7th, 2016. Generating millions of views with his message of LOVE, AUTHENTICITY and CREATIVITY, Preston Smiles is making a huge impact with his loyal social media tribe, and unique gift to make the complex simple. Guiding Principle, Quote or Mantra One of the traps of working with your romantic partner, as Preston and his fiancee’ Alexi do, is you can get so caught up in the work that you forget the magic of the relationship. Their guiding principle is “Are they having fun?” When You Tripped Up During a relationship Preston was in about 10 years ago, he would try and fix it anytime his partner, Olivia, would cry or be upset etc. What he learned is that it is not his job to fix anyone or anything. And sometimes his partner just needs to share and get it out. The “DUH” moment that changed your partnerships forever Preston is a recovering people pleaser. The “DUH” moment for him was that he works better when he returns to nature. But he wasn’t making the association that when he’s playing and in nature it creates a calmness and a space for him when he returns. So when he takes time for himself and aligns with his true soul signature, which is nature and play, it affects his partnerships in a positive way. Proudest moment in partnership Preston and Alexi went to Burning Man last year and they did something they had never done before. They walked onto the playa and came across all these magical things that happened in the moment because they had no agenda at all. Current Partnership that Has You Excited The partnership Preston is experiencing with his publisher Simon & Schuster. Great story of how Preston got connected with Simon & Schuster. There is so much happening and it is amazing to know they have a team that is supporting them in their mission. What is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received? You’re going to screw up anyway, so you may as well have fun. No one is getting a 10 out of 10. Also, everyone has masculine and feminine energy and it’s always balancing itself out. Best Partnership Book or Resource (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/150112014X/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=150112014X&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=KKMAYBEQZ56ZH2G7) Love Louder: 33 Ways to Amplify Your Life (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/150112014X/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=150112014X&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=43WPKWMPQMTEQK6C) (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1501131788/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1501131788&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=OTCT7C4ALWBP3FRC) 50 Ways to Yay!: Transformative Tools for a Whole Lot of Happy (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1501131788/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1501131788&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=BWHOQAYVL4EILOH2) (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1591792576/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1591792576&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=QWQPSQEUYAZFX7RQ) The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1591792576/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1591792576&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=ILA6JTPFLUQCNGBD)...