The Road Home To You

Today, I have the privilege of sharing an episode from Vanessa Harris, host of the podcast, Motherhood Unmasked. It's a show all about the challenges of motherhood and having the courage to face them.  Please take a listen to more episodes over on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. You can also find valuable information at: https://vinelifefaith.com/ I'd like to thank Vanessa for allowing me to share her show. Keep listening to voices of color. They deserve to be heard.   This recording is the property of Vanessa Harris and Unmasked Motherhood. Copyright 2020. 

When Mischelle Saunders-Gottsch was just a young girl, her family was swept up in what seemed like nothing less than a friendly church group. But what looked so good on the outside, quickly turned to control and abuse. This week, we'll hear from Mischelle as she shares her story of overcoming hurt and betrayal and how she learned to trust again. Mischelle is the founder and CEO of Altered Stories Ministry, a place where women learn the power of telling their stories of God's redemption and healing. To learn more, go to https://alteredstories.org/ She also hosts a podcast , by the same name, where women share their stories. You can find it wherever podcasts can be found, as well as on her website. For more information about cults: How Cults Work Escaping A Cult - article Cult Watch   To hear more episodes of The Road Home to You: https://roadhometoyou.com/ https://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ Contact Brandy: roadhometoyou@gmail.com Social Media: Facebook // Instagram   Special thanks to the Jingle Punks for the use of their song, "Dusty Road" for our intro and outro. This episode was recorded, edited, and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2020. All rights reserved. 

We've all experienced it: Fight, Flight, or Freeze. Those are the ways we respond in times of trauma or crisis. But what if there's another response? Tune in this week to hear from Brandy as she takes a look at what it means to Fall. Listen to Previous Episodes: https://roadhometoyou.com/ https://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ You can also Subscribe wherever podcasts are played - Stitcher, Spotify, Google Play, Apple Podcast, etc.  Contact Brandy: roadhometoyou@gmail.com Social Media: Facebook // Instagram Special thanks to The Jingle Punks for the use of their song, "Dusty Road" as our intro and outro.

This Good Friday, I've collaborated with a handful of other podcasters to bring you messages of hope. Coming from all different walks of life, with shows that have a variety of themes, one thing is certain: hope is needed now, more than ever, and the One constant hope is Jesus Christ. Enjoy hearing these mini messages from: Jenna Erlandson - Bridge of the Faithful Podcast Tina Chambers Smith - Raising Kids on Your Knees Podcast Meg Glesener - Letters From Home Podcast Debbi Roberston - From Willingness to Wellness Podcast Mischelle Saunders-Gottsch - Altered Stories Podcast   Other CPA Podcasts to check out: Tim Winders - Seek Go Create Podcast Tara Ross - The Hope Prose Podcast Paula Chamberlain - A Quilter's Life Podcast Monika Hardy - Moments with Moni Podcast Teresa Blaes - Unresolved Life Podcast   Find other Road Home to You Episodes: https://roadhometoyou.com/ http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ Or anywhere you can download a podcast...everywhere!   Contact Brandy: roadhometoyou@gmail.com   Special thanks to The Jingle Punks for the use of their song, "Dusty Road" for the outro music. This episode was recorded in collaboration with Christian Podcasters Association. All works are individually owned by the creators. This episode was edited and produced by Brandy J. Goebel in Sandy, Oregon. 2020. All rights reserved. 

The rhythms of life that we've all grown so accustomed to have found themselves turned upside-down. What does it look like to find a new rhythm? Join me for a quick look at what it means for us, so far as well as what to expect in the near future.  Scripture Read: Matthew 11:28-30 (The Message) To Listen to Other Episodes: https://roadhometoyou.com/ http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ Contact Brandy: Facebook // Instagram roadhometoyou@gmail.com Special thanks to The Jingle Punks for the use of their song, "Dusty Road" as our intro and outro. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. Copyright 2020. All rights reserved.

In a time when everything feels a little less than certain, it's easy to become overwhelmed by anxiety. Today, I sit down and talk with Caris Snider, author of "Anxiety Elephants: A 31-Day Devotional to Help Stomp Out Your Anxiety." As a business owner, speaker, worship leader, wife, and mom, Caris looked like she had it all together. But like so many, she found herself at the end of the road, realizing she had two options: Give up or look up. Fortunately, Caris bravely faced the unknown with the help of her doctors, family, and friends and learned how to contend with her anxiety. It was an honor to have a conversation with Caris about her own journey through anxiety, especially as the entire world is facing with these topsy-turvy times in the midst of a global pandemic. Caris' story offers hope and encouragement as she learned what it means to carry one another's burdens and rest in God.  More About Caris: https://carissnider.com/ To Purchase "Anxiety Elephants" Amazon Books A Million   More Episodes: http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ https://roadhometoyou.com/   Contact Brandy: roadhometoyou@gmail.com Facebook // Instagram   Special thanks to The Jingle Punks for the use of their song, "Dusty Road" as our intro and outro. This episode was recorded remotely, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. Copyright 2020. All rights reserved.  

In these uncertain times, it's more important than ever to rest in God's word. This week, we find ourselves in Psalm 33 and 34 with verses such as these: "Our soul waits for the Lord; He is our help and our shield. For our heart rejoices in Him, because we trust in His holy name. Let Your lovingkindness, O Lord, be upon us, according as we have hoped in You." (Ps. 33:20-22) "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." (Ps. 34:18) Friends, our God is bigger than any virus. This did not take him by surprise. We can be assured that God is still God and He is still good, even as we face these weird days of uncertainty. One thing remains: God is faithful to accomplish all that He's established.   For More Episodes: https://roadhometoyou.com/ https://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/spotify http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/gpm http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/   Contact Brandy: roadhometoyou@gmail.com   Special thanks to the 126ers for the use of their song, "Rainy Sundays" as our intro and outro. The New American Standard Bible is used by permission from the Lockman Foundation. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2020. All rights reserved.

Anxiety, fear, grief, anger...these and so many more are the emotions that so many are feeling during these uncertain Corona Virus times.  Today, Matt and I have a long-distance conversation about some of the ways we can not only take comfort in the promises of God during this time, but also very specific activities (or, as our daughter has dubbed them "quarantivities") to fill our time wisely and with fun! It must be said that in the less than 24 hours since recording this, things have changed here in the US and also with me, Brandy. While much of our conversation is focused on dealing with anxiety, I rather ironically, have been feeling my fair share of it. That being said, I remembered this conversation and took a dose of my own advice ("listen to music" and "turn off the news for a minute") and am feeling markedly better.  This isn't just lip service. This advice is practical and beneficial. I hope you take it and share it with people you love. Self-Care and Activities During Quarantine: 1. Pray 2. Read the Bible: Psalms are great - try Psalm 23 3. Journal 4. Write letters and send them to loved ones 5. Listen to music you love 6. Spend time with your kids: Conversations, shooting hoops, video games, reading books, crafts, etc... 7. Go for a walk: fresh air + Vitamin D = good for ya! 8. Jigsaw puzzles 9. Complete your To-Do List: or at least knock it down - all those projects that you're saving for "someday" 10. Work on a dream project: write the book, learn the instrument, read the series... Things to Avoid: 1. Steady stream of news: Stay informed, but don't only feed on a media diet of the news 2. Hours of Social Media: See above... 3. Binging on Netflix for the entire time: Give yourself limits and keep your body and brain active Your mental health is just as important as your physical health during this time, so don't neglect it! If you're struggling with depression or thoughts of self-harm, please contact the Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255 For More Episodes: Google Play http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ https://roadhometoyou.com/ Contact Brandy: roadhometoyou@gmail.com Facebook // Instagram Special thanks to the Jingle Punks for the use of their song, "Dusty Road" as our intro and outro. This episode was recorded remotely and edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. Copyright 2020. All rights reserved.

How often does it feel like the whole world is not only against you but reveling in your defeat? The psalmist, David, understood those feelings but also knew and declared the truth of who God is and who God says we are meant to be.  Listen to this week's Psalms and find encouragement, all you who hope in the Lord. To listen to regular episodes or more Psalms: http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/gpm http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ https://roadhometoyou.com/ Contact Brandy: roadhometoyou@gmail.com Social Media: Facebook // Instagram Special thanks to the 126er's for the use of their song, "Rainy Sundays" as our intro and outro. The New American Standard Bible is used by permission from The Lockman Foundation. The episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2020. All rights reserved.

This year's Super Bowl halftime show was nothing if not controversial! People from all walks of life, backgrounds in faith, genders and sexual identities fell on both sides of the fence when it came to answering the question: was this performance empowering or degrading to women? Enter Brandi Voth, the woman behind The Power Project who is working to bring empowerment to women and men alike. She is a podcaster, author, and volunteer working with people in after-care who have been sexually exploited and trafficked. In this episode, Brandi and I sit down and talk about what the commercial sex trade industry looks like, who is targeted for sex trafficking, how the church can better come alongside those who've been exploited, and what women's empowerment looks like. Brandi dropped some hard truths about what drives the sex industry and opened my eyes to the prevalence it has not only in our nation but even in our small towns. Table of Contents: :05  The Road Home to You website 2:55 Welcome Brandi Voth; The Power Project - empowering people to live purposeful lives 5:00 Awareness to sex trafficking industry in Melbourne, Australia 9:10 A21 "Walk for Freedom" 10:40 What sex trafficking really looks like and where it is 13:54 The grooming process happens in social media apps and chat rooms 15:15 bark.us app and Tik Tok 17:10 Be where your kids and their friends are spending time online 18:20 Predators in public places 20:00 Red flags that someone is endangered 23:59 The Church's response to help the exploited 28:10 Testimony from after-care client 31:59 Seeing the hurting and being the hands and feet of Jesus 32:57 Super Bowl halftime show re-cap and conflict 36:07 Female empowerment and the messages sent to boys/men 37:40 Empowerment vs. Sexual Objectification 39:15 Strip club and pornography - exploitation and consumption 40:39 Super Bowl is the single largest event for sex trafficking 41:35 Take a stand against the demand 43:00 The message sent to girls/women 45:28 Early exposure to pornography and the cycle of addiction 48:00 Defining empowerment 48:43 Finding your voice and using it 52:05 Signs you're not in a safe relationship 53:19 Resources and Hotlines 53:52 Bottom line - You're worth it 54:37 Thank you, Brandy 55:15 Brandi's information: The Power Project and Power Hat Co. Brandi Voth: http://www.the-powerproject.com/ Instagram  Resources and Hotlines: National Trafficking Hotline http://www.refugeforwomen.org/  A21 https://www.bark.us/ The Road Home to You "Offering hope and faith in Jesus to those wounded by others, stuck in addiction or afflicted by the storms of life." Upcoming Episodes Join Brandy next week for a discussion with guest, Mischelle Saunders-Gottsch and the impact of growing up in a cult.  Future topics will also include infidelity, Biblical meditation, alcohol recovery, and so much more! Listen to More Episodes You can find The Road Home to You anywhere you can download podcasts, including Google Play, Stitcher, Apple Podcasts, etc.  You can also find previous shows here: https://roadhometoyou.com/ http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ Additional Resources and Articles https://roadhometoyou.com/ Connect with Brandy Facebook // Instagram // Email Special Thanks Thanks to the Jingle Punks for the use of their song, "Dusty Road" as our intro and outro. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2020. All rights reserved.  

God is good. All the time. How often do we forget His faithfulness, though? Join Brandy for a quick rest stop where we'll reflect on God's glory as we hear the heart of David cry out and give praise.  Don't forget to check out this week's all-new episode on recovery. We'll be dropping full episodes every Tuesday full of great content about mental health in the context of faith. We'll continue our rest stops every Friday, as we set the activities of the week aside and spend some time unwinding from the busyness of life. Full Catalog of Shows: https://roadhometoyou.com/ http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ Contact Brandy: roadhometoyou@gmail.com Social Media: Facebook // Instagram Special thanks to the 126er's for the use of their song, "Rainy Sundays" as our intro and outro. The New American Standard Bible is used by permission from The Lockman Foundation. This episode was recorded, edited, and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2020. All rights reserved.

Welcome to the New & Improved The Road Home to You! We're going to start off this re-launch with Matt and Brandy in the studio talking about changes you can expect to see as the show moves forward as well as what's been happening as they've been leading Genesis for Change Groups. Table of Contents :50 Intro to Relaunching The Road Home to You 3:05 Why you should listen to TRHTY 5:45 Talking about mental health is important 6:50 Mental health in the context of faith 10:25 Authentic conversations with real people need to happen 11:41 Name Your Monster 13:00 Structure of show - what to expect moving forward 13:52 Call to Action - Be A Guest! 14:20 Recovery - Genesis Groups 16:25 What is Genesis? 21:10 What is the Limbic System? 23:35 Recovery means being honest & taking risks 26:10 Vulnerability in men and leaders 35:29 Progress of Recovery 45:04 Call to Action - Join a Genesis group 47:41 Upcoming Guests 48:55 Call to Action - Subscribe and Share! 50:10 Thank You's  51:05 Blooper The Road Home to You "Offering hope and faith in Jesus to those wounded by others, stuck in addiction or afflicted by the storms of life." Genesis Groups The Genesis Process for Change Groups are meant to happen in the context of relationship. You may gain some insight simply by going through the work on your own, but true recovery comes as learn to trust again, which can only happen as we interact with other people. You may be able to find a Genesis group at a local church. If not, feel free to contact Brandy for further information. roadhometoyou@gmail.com Upcoming Episodes Join Brandy next week for a discussion with guest, Brandi Voth, as we talk about this year's Super Bowl halftime show, women's empowerment, and human sex trafficking.  Future topics will also include infidelity, Biblical meditation, alcohol recovery, and so much more! Listen to More Episodes You can find The Road Home to You anywhere you can download podcasts, including Google Play, Stitcher, Apple Podcasts, etc.  You can also find previous shows here: https://roadhometoyou.com/ http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ Additional Resources and Articles https://roadhometoyou.com/ Connect with Brandy Facebook // Instagram // Email Special Thanks Thanks to the Jingle Punks for the use of their song, "Dusty Road" as our intro and outro. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2020. All rights reserved.

Joy in the midst of suffering. That's what David, as the Psalmist, shows us time and time again. When all is going well, David sings his praises to the Lord. When he is feeling pressed by his enemies, He cries out to God reminding himself of God's promises and His faithfulness to deliver.  Whether you are on the mountain-top of life or feeling crushed by the weight of the world, you have a great defender, a God who will respond to your cries and be glorified in your praise.   Full Catalog of Episodes: https://roadhometoyou.com/ http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ You can also Subscribe to the show on Apple Podcast, Google Play, Stitcher, or any other podplaying app!    Contact Us: roadhometoyou@gmail.com   Special thanks to the 126er's for the use of their song, "Rainy Sundays" as our intro and outro. The New American Standard Bible is used by permission from The Lockman Foundation. This episode was recorded, edited, and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2020. All rights reserved.

Sit down. Rest your feet. Take a deep breath and quiet your heart. When was the last time you cried out to God with the awareness of your own shortcomings and sins? Have you ever just let it all out? God knows your heart, he knows your deeds, but have YOU actually owned up to your own transgressions? Follow David's example. Time and again, David acknowledges his own sins and time and again, he asks for forgiveness and courage to live with integrity. The only way we move closer to God is by renouncing our sin and setting our sights on the grace of Jesus at the cross, where all those sins were washed away in one final sacrificial gift. God doesn't want to hold your sin over your head to condemn you. He wants you to address it so that he can transform your heart into one that beats in rhythm with his.   Full Catalog of Episodes: https://roadhometoyou.com/ http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ Contact Us: roadhometoyou@gmail.com   Special thanks to the 126'ers for the use of their song, Rainy Sundays as our intro and outro. The New America Standard Bible is used by permission from The Lockman Foundation. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2020. All rights reserved.

King David knew a thing or two about fear and finding security and comfort God. Even as a young shepherd boy he had to protect his flock from predators.  Listen in this week as David shares one of his most beloved poems, speaking from a place of personal understanding. Be encouraged by the promise of God that He has you safely guarded and will love you tenderly through the trials.   Full Catalog of Shows: https://roadhometoyou.com/ http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ You can also listen on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, or wherever podcasts can be found! Contact Us: roadhometoyou@gmail.com   Special thanks to the 126er's for the use of their song, "Rainy Sundays" as our intro and outro. The New American Standard Bible was used by permission from The Lockman Foundation. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2020. All rights reserved.

Feeling discouraged, downtrodden, conspired against? Even kings feel that way. Listen in as King David, the man after God's own heart shares his heart with God. Listen to the prophetic song that David writes in Psalm 22 and take courage that God is for you. The battles may seem overwhelming, but the war has been won. Get Our Catalog of Full Episodes: https://roadhometoyou.com/ http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ Contact Us: roadhometyou@gmail.com Special thanks to the 126er's for the use of their song, Rainy Days as our intro and outro. The New American Standard Bible is used with permission by The Lockman Foundation. This episode was recorded, edited, and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2020. All rights reserved.

Two Psalms, a blessing from David, and a prayer from me...that's what this rest stop has to offer you as a balm this week. Search our entire catalog for full episodes and guest interviews: https://roadhometoyou.com/ http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ You can subscribe on Google Play, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you find podcasts. Contact us: roadhometoyou@gmail.com Special thanks to the 126ers for the use of their song, "Rainy Days" as our intro and outro. The New American Standard Bible is used by permission from The Lockman Foundation. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2020. All rights reserved.

It's time to take a few minutes to rest and reflect on God's provision. Even in the storms of life, when we are hard-pressed, feel alone and defeated, we have a Refuge in Jesus. He is an immovable force, unshakable and unbreakable. He is for His people and passionate about pursuing our hearts, even into the darkest corners.  Wherever you are right now, take a moment to hear His heart for you. Soak up the promises that belong to you as a child of God. You are deeply, fiercely loved. Listen to our entire catalog: https://roadhometoyou.com/ http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ Contact Us: roadhometoyou@gmail.com   Special thanks to the 126er's for the use of their song, Rainy Days. The New American Standard Bible was read by permission from The Lockman Foundation. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2020. All rights reserved.  

God is faithful to His people. All the time. His heart is for us and on Him alone, we can trust. Find comfort and rest this week as David declares his trust in the God of refuge.  Our Entire Catalog of Shows: https://roadhometoyou.com/ http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ Contact Us: roadhometoyou@gmail.com Special thanks to the 126er's for the use of their song, "Rainy Days" as our intro and outro. The New American Standard Bible is read with permission from The Lockman Foundation. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2020. All rights reserved.

The holidays are over. The new year looms ahead. With your goals and resolutions set, are you already finding yourself falling off the bandwagon? Are the post-holiday blues still keeping you in a fog of sadness and adrenaline let down? Let's take a minute to stop, take a deep breath and hear what the psalmist, David, has to say to God. Do you ear your own heart's cry? Call upon the Lord and he will hear you. Cry out to him, and he will be your guide. Remember, The Road Home to You is going through some construction work right now so we'll be staying in the Psalms for the next month or so. There is work happening behind the scenes and we are excited to bring you new content with new guests. Please keep downloading the weekly Psalms.    Complete Catalog of Shows: https://roadhometoyou.com/ http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/   Contact Us: roadhometoyou@gmail.com   Special thanks to the 126'ers for the use of their song, "Rainy Days" as our intro and outro. The New American Standard Bible used in permission with The Lockman Foundation. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy Oregon. 2020. All rights reserved.

We are mere moments away from ringing in not just a new year, but 2020!!! Can you believe that? It's the perfect time to reflect on the year we've had and plan for the one to come. Matt and Brandy share their favorite episodes of the year, some lessons they've learned, what they're looking forward to in 2020 and some changes that are coming to the show. To get links to the episodes we mentioned and additional resources, visit our website. Our Entire Catalog of Shows: http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ roadhometoyou.com Contact Us: roadhometoyou@gmail.com Special thanks to James Swanson and James Page for their contribution to our theme song, The Long Road Home, written by Brandy J. Goebel. Copyright 2018. Elevator music by Kevin Macleod from http://www.orangefreesounds.com/elevator-music/ This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2019. All rights reserved.

This Christmas Eve, let's tuck into a little classic and my own personal favorite, "A Visit from St. Nicholas" otherwise known as "T'was the Night Before Christmas." Grab a warm drink, a cozy blanket and someone you love and settle in for this little classic. For more episodes, show notes, blog posts, etc go to our website Find us on Social Media: Facebook  Instagram  Pinterest Or you can email us

Join us one more time by the fire as Matt reads the greatest Christmas story ever told!  This time, it comes straight from the Big Book, the Bible, Luke 2:1-19. Grab a warm drink, a cozy blankie and your loved ones and gather round to hear about the birth of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Our Website Social Media: Facebook Group  Instagram  Pinterest Email Us Special thanks to James Swanson for permission to use the KJV 401 Reader's Edition. You can download your own through Amazon. Special thanks also for the use of "Silent Night (Holy Night)" as our outro music: by Alexander Nakarada https://www.serpentsoundstudios.com Music promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.com  Attribution 4.0 International (cc BY 4.0) https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0    

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Take a moment in all the holiday hustle and bustle to sit down and listen to the Psalms and songs of those who came before us. Today, we're reading Psalms 11 and 12. Complete Catalog of Episodes: https://roadhometoyou.com/ http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ Or wherever you download podcasts! Contact Us: roadhometoyou@gmail.com Social Media: Facebook Instagram Pinterest   Special thanks to the 126ers for the use of their song, "Rainy Days" as our intro and outro. The New American Standard Bible is read with permission from The Lockman Foundation. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2019. All rights reserved.  

Enjoy this little mini morsel from Truce Podcast, hosted by Chris Staron.  Chris is a filmmaker and storyteller.  Be sure to check out his podcast, Truce, wherever podcasts are downloaded. You can also check him out at https://trucepodcast.com/  

Christmas may be the hap-happiest time of the year, but it can also be the saddest. Tune in for this brief look at 12 things you can do this holiday season to help you stay grounded, focus on what matters, and enjoy Christmas even in the midst of pain. On the 1st Day of Christmas - Let Go of Expectations We all have an idea in our mind about "how" Christmas ought to look. We've all seen the magazines and Hallmark movies. We know there ought to be decorations galore, fresh baked cookies piled high, and perfectly wrapped gifts spilling out from under the tree. But the simple truth is, that's just not realistic. And if that is someone's reality, they are definitely the exception to the rule.  Most of us just don't have the time, money, or energy to have that kind of idyllic vision of Christmas, but somehow we still manage to be disappointed when we don't deliver the kind of holiday glow we envision. This year, let it go. Especially if you're in a new season due to the death of a loved one, a recent divorce, a newly empty nest, or any of the other hundred things that might have you feeling anything but merry and bright. It just doesn't have to look the way you think it "should." Do what you can - and want - and know that it will be enough. On the 2nd Day of Christmas - Meditate on Scripture Read John 1:1-9 and reflect on what it means that Jesus came as a light into this world. What about the world was dark? Why did we need light? What kind of light did He provide? What is the quality of His light? And finally, how does His light influence your grief or pain? On the 3rd Day of Christmas - Set Boundaries "No" isn't a word any of us like to hear, and quite honestly it's a word most of us have a hard time saying. But it's time to work out your "no" muscles. Only you can determine what is actually reasonable for you to do this holiday season. Maybe hosting everyone you've ever known feels overwhelming this year. Maybe baking cookies with your favorite 5-year old exhausts you before you even get out the first mixing bowl.  Figure out what will drain and deplete you and then say no to it. I promise everyone will survive, as much of a shock to the system it may be to hear you say it. Who knows? It might even encourage someone else to step into a role that they're quite gifted and enthusiastic about. Or not...and that's okay, too. On the 4th Day of Christmas - Write Down Your To-Do List But don't stop there. Write down everything you want to accomplish this holiday season. Put up lights, trim the tree, bake all the cookies, make snow angels, feed the homeless, start a diet, wrap the presents... You know the list. It's a mile long and just seems to grow.  Once everything is written down, I want you to evaluate it and cross off 3 things. There. You're done. You don't have to do those 3 things. Give yourself permission to let them go. Ask someone else to fill in for you if it's something that MUST be accomplished, otherwise...your list is now a little bit lighter and Christmas will still be just fine. On the 5th Day of Christmas - Turn Off Social Media  Pinterest. Instagram. Facebook. Twitter. TURN THEM OFF. For one day this holiday season, just do it. Stop comparing your experience with everyone else. I promise they are also having anxiety, stress, sadness, and feelings of isolation and inadequacy. They might be hiding it behind a filter, but it's there. Today, don't get caught up in the madness. Turn it off and just enjoy where you are, who you're with, and what you're doing without turning it into a social event for the world to see.  Likewise, when you do look at social media this holiday, remember that the people you're viewing are only giving you what they want you to see. It's only a piece of the bigger picture. On the 6th Day of Christmas - Find Ways to Serve Others One of the best, and quickest, ways to get out of an emotional funk is by serving other people.  It seems counterintuitive, but it's a fact. When we take our eyes off our own troubles, as real and as big as they may be, and we serve people around us, we recognize that we truly aren't alone in our suffering. It turns out, everyone has pain. By working to encourage another person, whether it's through charitable work or by simply opening a door for someone, we see humanity all around us and realize that we're all in this together.  This won't solve all your problems. It might not even dull the ache for very long, but it will take you outside of yourself for just a moment and maybe in that moment you'll see there is room for hope. On the 7th Day of Christmas - Light A Candle Find yourself a quiet little corner of the world and light a candle. Then, reflect back on the passage in John 1:1-9. You've had a few days now...how have your answers changed? Are you beginning to feel The Light stir inside your heart? On the 8th Day of Christmas - Allow Yourself to Be and Feel Sometimes, when we're in the midst of grief, it seems impossible to let out emotions out. Laughing feels disrespectful to the enormity of our pain and crying feels so useless and unproductive. But the truth is, God has given us our emotions. They are a good thing. Today, just let yourself feel. If there's something that tickles your funny bone, go ahead and laugh! Laughter really is great medicine for the soul.  But maybe you just can't take another Christmas carol and the sight of others with their joy and glee is sapping you of any energy you have left. That's okay. Just be there with your emotions. You're not going to let them control you or take over your life. You're going to honor them today by feeling them and acknowledging them and letting them co-exist with you. On the 9th Day of Christmas - Journal Your Gratitude Even in our darkest days, there are still things to be thankful for. They may be hard to find, but I want you to dig deep and find 3 things you are thankful for. Write them down and write down why you're thankful.  It seems like it's good enough to just do this in your head, after all, it's not like anyone's going to be checking your work, but you will benefit more by actually taking the time to write them down. And hey, if you get done with that and want to keep writing whatever is on your heart, go for it! On the 10th Day of Christmas - Take a Walk in Nature Now, for you city folk, this might be a bit harder. But...find somewhere you can go today that is as far away from the noise and the hustle and bustle. Then close your eyes, breathe deeply, and just listen. What do you hear? What is God saying to you right now? Take some time to get quiet and see the trees and birds and leaves. Really look at nature. Examine the details. What do they tell you about God? On the 11th Day of Christmas - Create a New Tradition A new season in life often means we're leaving behind something that we valued and grew accustomed to. Things are different now. But that doesn't mean they have to be bad. This year, find something new to incorporate into your celebration. Maybe it's as simple as driving around and looking at Christmas lights, or maybe it's serving in a shelter for abused women. You could do something fun and silly like eat only desserts for an entire day or have a crafting day.  Whatever it is, find something that makes you happy and start doing it this year! On the 12th Day of Christmas - Take A Nap! Whatever emotional roller coaster you've been on the past few days, weeks, months, or years, emotions are exhausting! Even laughter leaves us all tuckered out. So today, find a cozy corner with your favorite blanket and let your eyes and soul rest. You've done a really big thing: you've made it through what's arguably the hardest holiday season. You've faced your emotions and felt them, you've worked on managing your expectations, you've tuned out toxic (albeit addictive) social media...You've done a lot. You deserve a rest. May God bless you this holiday. Merry Christmas, friends! - Brandy and Matt Goebel   Contact Us: roadhometoyou@gmail.com Our Complete Catalog of Shows: https://roadhometoyou.com/ http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/   Special thanks to Dee Yan-Key for the use of their Christmas music, "Pleasant Anticipation."  This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2019. All rights reserved.

Christmas is a magical time of year full of sparkle and anticipation. It's easy to get distracted with the gifts and the carols and food and fun. With that in mind, how do we get quiet enough to really celebrate the birth of our Savior? What does it mean to experience God? Join me this week for a conversation with the host of the podcast, Halfway There and author of "Jesus is Willing: An 8 Day Experience," Eric Nevins as we dive into how to more fully experience God this Christmas holiday. You'll learn a great way to spend meaningful time in scripture without feeling overwhelmed and pressured to 'do it right.'    Books Referenced: "Celebration of Discipline" - Richard Foster Adele Calhoun "How the Bible Actually Works" - Peter Enns   Eric's Info: https://ericnevins.com/ The 8 Day Experience ebook   Our Full Catalog of Episodes: http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ We can also be found wherever podcasts can be found: Google Play, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, etc https://roadhometoyou.com/   Contact Us: roadhometoyou@gmail.com   Social Media: Facebook Instagram Pinterest   Special Thanks to James Swanson and James Page for their contribution to our theme song, "The Long Road Home," lyrics by Brandy J. Goebel. Copyright 2018. This episode was recorded, edited and produced in Sandy, Or. 2019. All rights reserved.

Every journey requires a rest stop. Let's stop here and take in some Psalms. Hear what the psalmist says about Jesus. Rest confidently in the promise that the Lord is your stronghold, even in times of trouble. Give thanks to the Lord today, with all your heart. Full Catalog: http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ https://roadhometoyou.com/ Contact Us: roadhometoyou@gmail.com New American Standard Bible used with permission by The Lockman Foundation. Special thanks to the 126ers for the use of their song, "Rainy Sunday" as the intro and outro. 4G's Studios. Sandy, Or. 2019.

It's easy to be thankful when everyone you love is gathered around a Pinterest perfect table, the turkey is golden and a light snow is accumulating outside. But what about when life isn't so perfect? How do we have a grateful heart when we get the diagnosis, or the emergency phone call, or the news that we've been betrayed and the bank account is empty? Where does a thankful heart come from? Join us this week as we explore the difference between being grateful in our circumstances versus being grateful despite our circumstances.  There is hope in Jesus that goes far beyond what we see and experience here on Earth. We will all experience heartbreak and loss, there's simply no getting around it. How will you get through the storms that life brings your way? Show Notes and Catalog: https://roadhometoyou.com/ http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ Contact Us: roadhometoyou@gmail.com Follow Us on Social Media: Facebook Instagram Pinterest Special thanks to James Swanson and James Page for their contribution to our theme song, "The Long Road Home." Written by Brandy J. Goebel. Copyright 2018. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2019. All rights reserved.

It's time for another moment of respite in our journey towards Home. This week we find ourselves resting in Psalm 7 and 8 where David first laments as he is being slandered and pursued by his enemy and then in Psalm 8 he rejoices at God's majesty and concern for His people. In our highs or lows, God is still God. He is still on His throne. And He alone is God. Our prayer this week is that you would see God moving mightily in your life, whether you are being defamed and crying out for Him to fight for you or you are seeing His glory in all directions. Contact Us: roadhometoyou@gmail.com Catalog of Episodes: http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ https://roadhometoyou.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: Facebook Instagram Pinterest Reading from the New American Standard Bible is used by permission from The Lockman Foundation. Special thanks to the 126ers for the use of their song "Rainy Sundays" as the intro and outro. This episode was recorded, edited and produced in Sandy, Oregon. 2019. All rights reserved.

In the wake of a recent death in the family, Brandy and Matt talk about the 5 stages of grief according to the DSM-5.  1. Denial & Isolation 2. Anger 3. Bargaining 4. Depression 5. Acceptance Everyone will experience loss eventually, whether it's loss of a loved one or loss of a career or dream or pet. We all face grief. Knowing what grief can look like may help when you come face to face with it. While we are not medical experts and this is by no means medical advice, there is useful information for anyone who is grieving or walking through life with someone who is. Please share this episode with anyone you know who is hurting.  This episode is dedicated to Lila Lee Barr, who passed away at the age of 92 on November 6, 2019.    CONNECT WITH US: roadhometoyou@gmail.com   WEBSITE AND CATALOG OF SHOWS: https://roadhometoyou.com/ http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS: Facebook Group Instagram Pinterest   Special thanks to James Page for his contribution to our theme song, The Long Road Home, written by Brandy J. Goebel and James Swanson. Copyright 2018. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon, where the sun is still shining while the rest of the nation faces the biggest freeze in forever. Good luck, America. 2019. All rights reserved.   

Join Brandy for another rest stop in the Psalms because every journey needs time to stop and enjoy the scenery. Psalm 5 and 6 (NASB). Used by permission from The Lockman Foundation. Special thanks to the 126ers for the use of their song "Rainy Sundays" as our intro and outro.   For a list of our full catalog: http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/ https://roadhometoyou.com/   Contact us: roadhometoyou@gmail.com      

With election season well upon us, it seems like the right time to talk politics. Specifically, how has the Evangelical church used its platform as a means to change the political landscape and at what cost? Having grown up in the '70s and '80s, we've seen the church raise its banner high in an effort to bring salvation to our nation. Now, in the 20-teens we are watching our nation divide over the political and evangelical agendas of so many. So what does Jesus say? How should we view our politics in light of our faith? Should the two intermix and if so, to what extent? Join Matt and Brandy as they talk about what they experienced growing up in the era of the political church and how that's impacted them and those around them.    Scripture Referenced: Romans 13:1-10 1 Timothy 2:1-3 1 Peter 2:13 Other scripture to look up: Mark 12:17 The stories of both Joseph and Daniel   Find our entire catalog: https://roadhometoyou.com/ Connect with us: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/groups/166024570692834/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theroadhometoyou/ Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/roadhometoyou/   Questions? Email us! roadhometoyou@gmail.com    

Every long trip requires a few rest stops along the way. So, pull over, get out and stretch your legs. Take a few deep breaths and soak in some of the local scenery. Enjoy the view wherever you are and join Brandy for a little time in Psalms 3 and 4. There...a little bit of refreshment and we can once again head on down that long road home.   Find Our Entire Catalog:  https://roadhometoyou.com/ or you can subscribe and download straight from Spotify! http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/spotify    Connect with us: Facebook - https://facebook.com/groups/166024570692834/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theroadhometoyou/ Pinterest - https://pinterest.com/roadhometoyou/   Questions: Email us! roadhometoyou@gmail.com   ____________________________________________________ Scripture reading from Psalms 3 and 4 from the New American Standard Bible. 1995. Ryrie, Charles Caldwell, Th.D., Ph.D. Moody Press, Chicago. Used with permission from the Lockman Foundation.  Special thanks to the 126er's for the use of their song "Rainy Days" as our intro and outro. ____________________________________________________ This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Or. 2019. All rights reserved.      

"If you knew you had 6 months to live, what would you do differently? Would you change your priorities, where you invest your time? If so, how?" This was the question that was posed to us so join us today to hear our thoughts on the matter, as well as our challenge to you, our friends. It seems like a relatively easy question to address, and pragmatically, it is. But when you stop and let the question hit you - when you feel its weight - it requires that you take more time to truly evaluate what you're doing with your life and what, if anything, needs to change. This question comes directly from the Genesis Process Change Groups Book 1 written by Michael Dye, CADC, NCAC II.  For information on the Genesis Process as well as the book, "One Month to Live" by Kerry and Chris Shook, feel free to check out our website where we'll have links to those and also our social media. If you have any questions, comments, prayer requests or show ideas, please write to us at roadhometoyou@gmail.com. We love hearing from you! Special thanks to James Swanson and James Page for their contribution to our theme song, "The Long Road Home," written by Brandy J. Goebel. Copyright 2018. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon where the full splendor of fall is on display and the skies are sunny and bright. 2019. All rights reserved.

Join us for the first Rest Stop on this Road Home to You. Every other week we're going to be reading through the Psalms and Proverbs to find encouragement, wisdom, grace, and the promises of God. Find a quiet corner, close your eyes and let God's word fill your heart. You can find our full episodes and show notes on our website, www.roadhometoyou.com You can also find us on social media: Facebook  Instagram  Pinterest Special thanks to the 126ers for the use of their song "Rainy Sundays" as our intro and outro. The NASB was used by permission from the Lockman Foundation; La Habra, California. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4Gs Studios in Sandy, Oregon. 2019. All rights reserved.

Kicking off Season 3, Matt and Brandy are back in the studio to talk about disillusionment with the Christian church. We've all experienced it, haven't we? That moment when you realize reality and faith don't seem to be aligned. Where do you turn when that happens? What do you do? How in the world did you even get here? This is the start of a multi-part series where we talk about some of the topics surrounding the issue of disillusionment and what to do when you have a crisis of faith. It's a normal part of the Christian faith, but one that isn't often talked about. So let's break down some walls and start talking about hard things. Because it's been a while since Matt and Brandy have been in the studio together, the episode starts with some "housekeeping." Information on what to expect this season abounds. Hint: things are going to look a little different. We also spend a minute sharing a very special message from a listener as well as thanking the people who have been faithfully financially supporting the show.  If you want to skip all that good stuff and just want to get right into the topic, you'll have to jump to about the 17-minute mark. But all that other stuff is good, so you shouldn't skip.  Check out our website: https://roadhometoyou.com/ There you can find links to our social media and other good stuff. Email us your own stories of disillusionment. Be sure to let us know if you want to stay anonymous. You can also send us your comments, thoughts, prayer requests, show ideas, etc. ' We LOVE to hear from YOU! Special thanks to James Swanson and James C. Page for their contribution to our theme song, The Long Road Home, written by Brandy J. Goebel. Copyright 2018. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in the fine cosmopolitan of Sandy, Oregon. 2019. All rights reserved.

Well...just when you think everythings coming together, it all falls apart. And since that's the case with so many things in life, it's useful to join forces and pray...for and with each other. So, join Brandy for a quick announcement and prayer and hopefully next week will kick off Season 3!

Suicide and mental health are subjects still considered taboo in Christianity. With the number of people being diagnosed with some form of mental illness and the growing rates of suicide, it's time we have an honest talk about this very real issue so many struggle with. Join me as I sit down with Steve Austin as he shares his journey through trauma that culminated with him trying to end his life by suicide. Hear how God's grace met him in his darkest hour and continues to help him through recovery. Depression, anxiety, trauma, PTSD, and suicidal ideation are things any of us can experience whether we profess to know Christ or not. Steve, himself, went from the pulpit to the psych ward. No one is immune. Share this episode with anyone who has or may be battling depression. To access the many helpful and practical resources that Steve mentions, you can go to his website catchingyourbreath.com You can find additional resources at our website as well: roadhometoyou.com   If you are in crisis please call the National Suicide Hotline 1-800-273-8255   You can follow us on social media and join in the conversation: Facebook  Instagram  Pinterest You can also EMAIL US with any comments, questions, or prayer requests. Special thanks to James Swanson and James Page for their contribution to our theme song, The Long Road Home, written by Brandy J. Goebel. Copyright 2018. This episode was recorded remotely and edited and produced in Sandy, Oregon, the town that just keeps growing. 2019. All rights reserved.

Have you ever wondered why you keep doing the things you don't want to do but can't seem to manage to do the things you want? You'll hear a lot of great ideas for building habits everywhere you turn, but what if it's more than that? The fact is, we all have coping strategies and many of them can actually be harmful. Whether you're mired in depression, substance abuse, codependency, workaholism or anything else, this is a great episode for you!  Join Dr. Kathy Rodriguez, PsyD and Brandy as they sit down and talk about all things recovery in this special edition celebrating National Recovery Month. For show notes head over to our website You can also find us on the following social media platforms: Facebook Instagram  Pinterest Or you can Email Us your questions, comments, prayers or show ideas!

Gearing up for Season 3 of The Road Home to You. Here's a brief look at what we've been working on and what we hope to bring you this season. Links to our YouTube, Patreon, and website will follow in our regular episodes.  In the meantime, send in your questions for our first ever YouTube Q&A to roadhometoyou@gmail.com We look forward to hearing from you! - Brandy and Matt

Every day, Christians around the world die because of their belief in Jesus Christ. More suffer torment, abuse, rape, imprisonment, and persecution of all kinds. Men, women, and children. No one is immune. Jesus said, "Blessed are you who are persecuted for the sake of righteousness." Tune in to this final installment of our summer series and hear what you can do to come alongside those who are being persecuted and how to prepare for the persecution you may also suffer. Even in the darkest night, we have hope in Jesus Christ who saves. You can find show notes with links to the websites that are mentioned here on our website. You can follow our social media links below: Facebook  Instagram  Pinterest You can also EMAIL US your questions, comments, prayer requests or show ideas. Special thanks to James Swanson and James Page for their contribution to our theme song, The Long Road Home, written by Brandy J. Goebel. Copyright 2018. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon, where our evergreen trees are greener than yours. 2019. All rights reserved.

What if we have it all wrong? What if being a peacemaker means we actually ruffle some feathers. Turns out, that's exactly what it means. Peacemaking isn't for the fainthearted. It's messy work, but it's what we're called to. So, roll up your sleeves. It's time to get a little messy. You can find show notes on our website www.roadhometoyou.com/ You can link to our social media here: Facebook  Instagram  Pinterest Special thanks to James Swanson and James Page for their contribution to our theme song, The Long Road Home, written by Brandy J. Goebel. Copyright 2018. This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in the lovely Sandy, Oregon, where the trees are green every day. 2019. All rights reserved.

"Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God." The reason we don't see God accurately is directly related to the sin in our lives. When our hearts are repentant we can see him more clearly. When we're at the end of our own rope, we see him in ways we never expected. Join Brandy for our 6th week in the Beatitudes. You can find our show notes on our website You can follow us on social media at the following links: Facebook  Instagram  Pinterest  Email us comments, suggestions, prayer requests Special thanks to James Swanson and James Page for their contribution to our theme song, The Long Road Home, written by Brandy J. Goebel. Copyright 2018. This episode was recorded, edited and produced in Sandy, Oregon, gateway to Mt. Hood. 2019. All rights reserved.

Lord, have mercy! I'm at the mercy of my boss. Please, your Honor, take mercy on me. "Mercy" is a word that is easily tossed about, but what does it really mean, who can extend it, and why should we? Join Brandy for Beatitude #5 as we take a look at our marching orders to be merciful and find out how to apply that to our everyday lives. You can find show notes at our website  You can also find us on social media: Facebook  Instagram  Pinterest You can also email your questions, comments or prayer needs to us at roadhometoyou@gmail.com Special thanks to James Swanson and James Page for the contribution to our theme song, The Long Road Home, written by Brandy J. Goebel. Copyright 2018.  This episode was recorded, edited, and produced at the incredibly small 4G's Studios in the fairest little city of them all, Sandy, Oregon. 2019. All rights reserved.

We all know what it's like to be hungry and thirsty, longing for something to fill our bellies. But what about our souls? What if there was a way to fill up the mysterious void we all seem to have deep down inside us? Join Brandy this week for a quick lesson on Beatitude #4 to learn how you, too can be satisfied to your deepest core. For more show notes find us at our website You can also join us on social media: Facebook  Instagram  Pinterest You can also email us Special thanks to James Swanson and James Page for their contribution to our theme song, The Long Road Home, written by Brandy J. Goebel. Copyright 2018. This episode was recorded, edited and produced in Sandy, Oregon, the 2nd fastest growing city in Oregon. Please don't move here. ;)

Humility isn't something we see a lot of in our world today. We even have a quaint term trying to lessen the appearance of our pride, the "humble brag." But what is humility, really and what does Jesus mean when he says the humble shall inherit the earth? Join Brandy for the third beatitude in our summer series for a quick look at what humility is, what it isn't and what it means to inherit the earth. For show notes and more check out our website To follow us on our social media: Facebook  Instagram  Pinterest Email us all your burning questions! Special thanks to James Swanson and James Page for their contribution to our theme song, The Long Road Home written by Brandy J. Goebel. Copyright 2018.  This episode was recorded, edited and produced at 4G's Studios in the lovely downtown Sandy, Oregon, where the grass is always greener. 2019. All rights reserved.

Life, sadly is full of loss and suffering. We'll all experience the pain of losing someone or something that we hold dear.  Tune in this week to hear Brandy talk about the second beatitude and the comfort that comes to those who mourn. There is a greater comfort yet to come. To find our show notes and all that jazz be sure to check out our website To find us on social media click the links below: Facebook  Instagram  Pinterest You can also EMAIL US! Special thanks to James Swanson and James Page for their contribution to our theme song, The Long Road Home, written by Brandy J. Goebel. Copyright 2018. This episode was recorded, edited, and produced at 4G's Studios in Sandy, Oregon, home of Bigfoot.... We have a hotel to prove it. 2019. All rights reserved.