Podcast appearances and mentions of Donna Jones

Renovations for the new police station are on track to be finished by the summer. Having a new permanent base in Petersfield town centre will increase police visibility and help build the vital relationship between police and communities. Julie Butler and Michelle Monaghan spoke to Donna Jones, Police and Crime Commissioner who was here to attend the topping out ceremony.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you ever walked away from a disagreement thinking, “Why did I handle it that way?” You’re not alone. We’ve all experienced the regret, frustration, and heartache that conflict can bring. That’s why I’m so excited to share my latest episode of The Love Offering podcast with you. I was privileged to interview Donna Jones, author of Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide for Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret. With warmth, wisdom, and biblical insight, Donna helps us: ✅ Discover the key quality needed to handle conflict well✅ Communicate thoughts and feelings with grace and truth✅ Replace harmful conflict styles with healing ones✅ Prevent unnecessary disagreements✅ Stay calm—even when others aren’t Whether you’re dealing with daily frustrations or bigger blowups, this conversation will equip you to navigate conflict in a way that honors God and strengthens your relationships. Connect with Donna: https://donnajones.org/ Read the Show Notes: https://rachaelkadams.com/writing/ Support the Show: https://rachaelkadams.com/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Episode Summary:  We've all had moments where we look back on a conflict, shake our heads, and think, why did I handle it that way? With three decades of ministry experience, Donna Jones has had a front-row seat to--and been in the middle of--all kinds of conflict and she understands the regret, guilt, heartache, and hurt conflict can produce. But she also knows it's possible for God to use those chaotic, painful moments and turn them into opportunities for better connection with those around us.  Whether you are dealing with daily disagreements or occasional blowups, our discussion on how to handle conflict will offer you a new paradigm, one where you learn how to honor God when you've been hurt, communicate when you'd rather retaliate, and move toward others when it seems easier to run away. Have you ever looked back on a conflict and wished you'd handled it better? Donna Jones shares wisdom on how to handle conflict with humility, communicating effectively, and honoring God in tough moments. Learn how to turn conflict into an opportunity for growth and connection.   Quotables from the episode: Conflict actually serves as a platform for personal development. During that difficult season, I had to come to terms with something. I would have nodded and given an intellectual ascent to this truth that I'm about to say, but I didn't yet have to really live it. And that is that you cannot change another person. You can only change yourself.” You cannot change another person. You can only change yourself. I need to stop focusing and obsessing over the other people and start really assessing myself and how I'm dealing with this, that's when breakthroughs started to happen. I grew in my relationship with the Lord because I really got to the point where I had to invite God into this and just say, God, this hurts. I invite you into this pain. I had to search the scriptures and go, I can't do anything about them, but I am responsible for handling my side of the to your word. Even in the worst-case scenario, when there's not reconciliation in a conflict, there can be personal growth. Because you surrender and you start to go, okay, Lord, I, this is where I really am putting my faith into practice in the really hard stuff of life. What is the single most important quality necessary for handling conflict in a healthy way? And why is that important? There actually is one single thing that if this piece is missing, you cannot handle conflict in a healthy way. It's that important. And interestingly, Michelle, you brought up Romans 8:28. God causes all things together for the good, for those who love him, for those who are called according to his purpose, but Romans 8:29 is, for whom those he foreknew, he predestined to become conformed to the image of Christ. So how he works things out is he causes us to be more Christ -like. And that one quality that you cannot handle conflict well without is humility. And that's the mark of Jesus. Humility does not make us a doormat for exploitation. It makes us a doorway for conversation. You can still be angry and be humble. You can still speak your mind and voice your thoughts, feelings, and opinions, and be humble, right? You can still have boundaries and be humble, because biblically, humility is strength restrained. So, it comes from a place of strength. It doesn't come from a place of weakness. And see, when I allow myself just to be humiliated, that comes from a place where I don't have a voice. I don't have, you know, it's a place of weakness, not strength. But if I am choosing to be humble, that is me making a choice to restrain myself. "At its root, all conflict is really a power struggle." So, think about that, whether it's your toddler or your teenager or your teammate at work, when there's conflict at its root, it's really a power struggle, right? So, who's gonna get their way? Whose voice gets heard? Whose opinion is validated? Who, you know, it's a power struggle. So, what ends up happening is that when conflict escalates, we're vying for power. You know “you listen to me. No, you listen to me. No, you listen to me. No, no, no, you listen to me, right?” It escalates. This is why that humility is like the key because humility doesn't play the power game. Humility takes the escalation and it deescalates it and that's why it is the superpower for handling conflict. There's a sweet spot in the middle where we're not avoiders or not attackers. We are addressers. And these are the people who actually go, okay, this is conflict. Avoiding it is not going to make it go away. It's still going to be there and it's still going to be eating me up inside. Here's one that most people don't think of, but it's particularly lethal, and that's being dismissive. So when another person approaches us with a concern, when we say things like, “again? like, oh my gosh, why are you making this such a big deal? Like, just get over it. Like, you're such a drama queen.” Or we roll our eyes, even though we're listening and we're nonverbally, that is basically saying, “I don't care about you, I care about me.” If that is not the precursor to destruction of a relationship, I don't know what it is because when we are dismissive of another person's concern, we're basically disregarding them and it's disrespecting them and you cannot have a relationship with disrespect. Don't be dismissive. I would say that's a no -no. And then number two, I would think, is the way we apologize. And sometimes we think, “why do I have to be the first one to apologize?” Worrying about who goes first or, and this is just as destructive: is to apologize, but add the word “but.”  “I'm sorry that I hurt your feelings but you know you…” and then because what that was really saying is the whole fault is yours, I would never have done what I did if you didn't do first what you did and while sometimes that's true that doesn't go far in healing or reconciliation and it certainly doesn't show humility. Also, don't say, “I'm sorry you feel that way.” That is not an apology, because I'm not owning anything I did. Somebody has to go first. Why not me, right? It seems like through this conversation, the word that keeps coming to mind is “honor.” Conflict doesn't usually honor another person. It stirs up pain and accusation which produces resentment and guilt and remorse and all the things. Honor doesn't mean that you agree with them. It doesn't mean that you don't have your own side and your own justification. Isn't that what we all want? Isn't that what drives so much of conflict is we feel like we're dismissed, we're not seen, or not heard and that's what stirs us up to more conflict. We want to be understood so the faster we can say oh we don't have to agree with it but like, "Oh, I understand why you would feel that way." then it makes the other person feel acknowledged and seen, and it takes this escalation that's happening with the power struggle, 'cause the person's saying, "Please understand me, "please understand me, please understand me." And all of a sudden, it just tones it down, right? This does not mean that we don't have a voice and that we don't also say our perspective, or our opinions, but it's the way we do it is with honor, honoring the other person. And that's the difference. Whenever I have to have a hard conversation, I pray this, “Lord, let this be a conversation of three, not two.” That's a game changer. So, I would say that's number one. Just “Lord, let this be a conversation of three, you and me and the other person, not just two. “   Scripture References: Proverbs 15:18 A hot-tempered person stirs up conflict, but the one who is patient calms a quarrel. Romans 8:28-30 “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who i have been called according to his purpose. For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified. Hebrews 12:14 Make every effort to live in peace with everyone and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord.   Recommended Resources:  Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide for Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regrets By Donna Jones Sacred Scars: Resting in God's Promise That Your Past Is Not Wasted by Dr. Michelle Bengtson  The Hem of His Garment: Reaching Out to God When Pain Overwhelms by Dr. Michelle Bengtson YouVersion 5-Day Devotional Reaching Out To God When Pain Overwhelms   Today is Going to be a Good Day: 90 Promises to Start Your Day Off Right by Dr. Michelle Bengtson, winner of the AWSA 2023 Inspirational Gift Book of the Year Award, the Christian Literary Awards Reader's Choice Award in four categories, and the Christian Literary Awards Henri Award for Devotionals YouVersion 7-Day Devotional, Today is Going to be a Good Day YouVersion 7-Day Devotional, Today is Going to be Another Good Day Breaking Anxiety's Grip: How to Reclaim the Peace God Promises by Dr. Michelle Bengtson Breaking Anxiety's Grip Free Study Guide Free 7-Day YouVersion Bible Reading Plan for Breaking Anxiety's Grip Hope Prevails: Insights from a Doctor's Personal Journey Through Depression by Dr. Michelle Bengtson, winner of the Christian Literary Award Reader's Choice Award Hope Prevails Bible Study by Dr. Michelle Bengtson, winner of the Christian Literary Award Reader's Choice Award Trusting God Through Cancer 1 Trusting God Through Cancer 2 Revive & Thrive Women's Conference Subdue Stress and Anxiety: Fifteen Experts Offer Comprehensive Tools in Ten Minutes a Day. Use my link plus discount code BENG99 to save $90 on course (course will be $99.) Free Download: How To Fight Fearful/Anxious Thoughts and Win   Social Media Links for Host and Guest: Connect with Donna Jones: Website / Instagram / Podcast   For more hope, stay connected with Dr. Bengtson at: Order Book Breaking Anxiety's Grip / Order Book Hope Prevails  /  Website  /  Blog  /  Facebook / Twitter (@DrMBengtson)  /  LinkedIn  /  Instagram / Pinterest / YouTube Guest: Donna Jones is a national speaker, church planter, pastor's wife, and self-described “Bible-explainer” who has spoken in 26 states and four continents. A graduate of UCLA with a degree in interpersonal communications, she hosts the weekly “That's Just What I Needed” podcast, and is the author of “Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide for Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regrets.” Donna is passionate about equipping others to know, love, and follow God in their real, everyday lives. She wants to know, love, and follow God this way herself. She and her husband, JP Jones, make their home in Southern California.   Hosted By: Dr. Michelle Bengtson Audio Technical Support: Bryce Bengtson

Hey Friends - Happy New Year! As we enter 2025, I know that you, like me, want to start the year out on the right track. It's been my experience that truly great, lasting, and impactful things begin with prayer. So on today's episode, I share prayers that have been meaningful for me–they come straight out of scripture–and why they are important.  But on today's episode, we don't just talk about prayer, we take a step deeper into the personal side of life. These are prayers I pray over YOU.  This episode sets the tone for a year of deep spiritual renewal and connection with God. So together, let's explore how prayer can be a foundation for our lives amidst daily challenges, changes, and callings. Stay connected with me on social media (@donnaajones) for more inspiration. Let's embark on this spiritual journey together, seeking God's blessings today, tomorrow, and throughout the year! Xo, Donna   Listen in to learn more! (05:37) Circle of Revival and Spiritual Fire  (10:31) The Power of God's Immeasurable Love  (18:27) Prayerful Desires and Requests (48 Seconds) Donna's Resources:   Order a copy of my new book -  Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide to Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret.    It is available anywhere books are sold– here is the link on Amazon.    If you need a helpful resource for someone exploring faith and Christianity or simply want to strengthen your own knowledge, you'll want a copy of my book, Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God.   It's a must for seekers, new believers, and those who want to be more confident in their faith!   Connect with Donna    Instagram: @donnaajones       Website: www.donnajones.org       Donna's speaking schedule: https://donnajones.org/events/ 

Hey Friend–Merry Christmas!   This short episode is perfect to listen to alone or with your family.   Join me on a heartwarming journey through the "Jesus Storybook Bible" in this uplifting podcast episode! Discover the transformative power of God's love and redemption as we explore the true meaning of Christmas.    Whether you're a parent, grandparent, or simply curious about deepening your faith, this episode offers a fresh perspective on the timeless story of Jesus. Celebrate the birth of Jesus, the brave prince who left everything behind to rescue us.    Tune in for an intimate reading and let the spirit of Christmas fill your heart with warmth and hope. Merry Christmas, friends! Xo, Donna Donna's Resources:   Order a copy of my new book -  Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide to Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret.    It is available anywhere books are sold– here is the link on Amazon.    If you need a helpful resource for someone exploring faith and Christianity or simply want to strengthen your own knowledge, you'll want a copy of my book, Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God.   It's a must for seekers, new believers, and those who want to be more confident in their faith!   Connect with Donna  Instagram: @donnaajones       Website:  www.donnajones.org       Donna's speaking schedule: https://donnajones.org/events/      

In this session of Charis's Healing is Here Conference, GTN Studio Production Manager Donna Jones shares her miraculous healing journey. Formally diagnosed with a traumatic brain injury and other debilitating infirmities, Donna experienced numerous miraculous healings by the power of Jesus. You don't want to miss her story! For more resources and to view our upcoming conferences and events: www.charisbiblecollege.org.

As of 24th September, zombie style knives and machetes are now banned under the new legislation. This strengthens the existing knife crime laws to take dangerous weapons off of the streets. This is one of the multiple measures from the Government. It is expected there will be tougher bans and restrictions of online sales and prevention methods to stop young people being drawn into a life of crime. Shine Radio caught up with Donna Jones, the Police and Crime Commissioner last month just before the announcement was made. She tells us what is happening in Hampshire.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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This week's Difficult Woman is Donna Jones, the conservative police and crime commissioner for Hampshire, and the first female leader of Portsmouth City Council. This is a woman who knows how to get things done and makes no apologies whilst doing it.

INTERVIEW: OUSA Secretary Donna Jones for Radio One's 40th Birthday by Zac Hoffman on Radio One 91FM Dunedin

In this episode of Radical Radiance, host Rebecca George sits down with Donna Jones to talk about her recently released book ⁠Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life⁠. They tackle the critical role of humility in approaching conflict. Donna shares a compelling personal story about overcoming potential resentment in a friendship through confronting the conversation with a question, highlighting the importance of listening and understanding before drawing conclusions about others' motives. Donna Jones is a national speaker, church planter and pastor's wife. A graduate of UCLA with a degree in interpersonal communications, she hosts the weekly That's Just What I Needed podcast, is the author of Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God, Taming Your Family Zoo, the Get Healthy Bible study series, and is a contributing author to the devotionals A Moment to Breathe and Arise, Daily. A contributor to Crosswalk.com, she has had several articles make the “Top Ten of the Year” list and has been on numerous television and radio shows and podcasts, including Focus on the Family Broadcast and Good Day, Dallas. Donna is passionate about equipping others to know, love, and follow God in their real, everyday lives. She wants to know, love, and follow God this way herself. She and her husband, JP Jones, make their home in Southern California. Rebecca and Donna chat about: The importance of addressing conflict to create unity Humility as the key quality in handling conflict Initiating difficult conversations by asking questions and actively listening People are often only 20% accurate in assigning motives to others' actions The focus of Donna's book on healthy conflict resolution and its relevance to relationships The role of humility in resolving conflicts Initiating difficult conversations and honoring God ⁠Order Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life on Amazon⁠ PSSSSSST! Did you know that Rebecca's debut book, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Do the Thing: Gospel-Centered Goals, Gumption, and Grace for the Go-Getter Girl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ is available wherever books are sold? If you're ready to… See your gifts and talents from a gospel-centered perspective. Prioritize goals related to your calling as you move forward with gumption and grace. Maximize your passions in the work you do every day. Actively partner with God to serve Him and love others. Overcome negative thought patterns so you can brainstorm, develop, and create with the confidence of a go-getter girl! …then order today ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠at the link here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Each chapter includes prayer prompts, Scripture for further study, questions for reflection, action steps to move your goal forward, and accompanying videos (for individuals or small groups). So grab a friend (or 8) and let's use God's Word as our compass to “do the thing”. After all, if not now…when?

Send us a textDonna Jones Alward is prolific author, writing over sixty novels. Here she explains why her first historical fiction novel, When the World Fell Silent, challenged her to grapple with a dark chapter in Canada's history...When the World Fell SilentA Globe and Mail and Toronto Star bestseller1917. Halifax, Nova ScotiaNora Crowell wants more than her sister's life as a wife and mother. As WWI rages across the Atlantic, she becomes a lieutenant in the Canadian Army Nursing Corp. But trouble is looming and it won't be long before the truth comes to light.Having lost her beloved husband in the trenches and with no-one else to turn to, Charlotte Campbell now lives with his haughty relations who treat her like the help. It is baby Aileen, the joy and light of her life, who spurs her to dream of a better life.When tragedy strikes in Halifax Harbour, nothing for these two women will ever be the same again. Their paths will cross in the most unexpected way, trailing both heartbreak and joy its wake…Thank you to our media partner: Family History Zone – a website covering archives, history and genealogy. Please check then out at www.familyhistory.zone and consider signing up for their free weekly newsletter.

An impressive 10,300 responses was received to help with the next four years policing priorities. This plan sets the local strategic policing priorities for the Chief Constable for the next four years. One of the things to feature heavily is around road safety, which will be included in the plan to work with partners. Julie Butler speaks to Donna Jones, Hampshire Police and Crime Commissioner.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Guest-host for Online for Authors, Carole O'Neill chats today with Donna Jones Alward, author of the book When the World Fell Silent. Since 2006, New York Times bestseller Donna Jones Alward has enchanted readers with stories of happy endings and homecomings that have won several awards and been translated into over a dozen languages. She's worked as an administrative assistant, teaching assistant, in retail and as a stay-at-home-mom, but always knew her degree in English Literature would pay off, as she is now happy to be a full-time writer. Her new historical fiction tales blend her love of history with characters who step beyond their biggest fears to claim the lives they desire. Donna currently lives in Nova Scotia, Canada, with her husband and two cats. You can often find her near the water, either kayaking on the lake or walking the sandy beaches to refill her creative well. In Carole's book review, she stated When the World Fell Silent is a WW1 tragedy that shakes the core of Canadian Army Nurse, Nora Crowell as she tries to do her part to save the many wounded from the Halifax Harbor explosion. She spends day and night stitching up French soldiers, hardly finding time to nourish herself.  On the other side of town, new mother, Charlotte Campbell tries to accept a life with her difficult in-laws after her husband is reported dead in the trenches across the Atlantic. Both women find themselves searching for the same miracle until an amazing twist reveals the need for each to move on to a life neither thought possible. As one woman's strength gives acknowledgement to her weakness, the other's weakness shows her a way to accept a life she could only dream about. Donna Jones Alward's well-written historical fiction, When the World Fell Silent, was released on July 20, 2024. The pages won't turn fast enough as you wait to see if Nora's sister and her family will survive the destruction; or will Charlotte's secret change everyone's life. Put this one at the top of that book pile on your reading table. Subscribe to Online for Authors to learn about more great books! https://www.youtube.com/@onlineforauthors?sub_confirmation=1 Join the Novels N Latte Book Club community to discuss this and other books with like-minded readers: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3576519880426290 You can follow Author Donna Jones Alward Website: https://donnajonesalward.com/ Social media: FB: @DonnaAlwardAuthor IG: @donnaalward X: @DonnaAlward   Purchase When the World Fell Silent on Amazon: Paperback: https://amzn.to/3SOefcj Ebook: https://amzn.to/4cBwkl4   Teri M Brown, Author and Podcast Host: https://www.terimbrown.com FB: @TeriMBrownAuthor IG: @terimbrown_author X: @terimbrown1   #donnajonesalward #whentheworldfellsilent #historicalfiction #terimbrownauthor #authorpodcast #onlineforauthors #characterdriven #researchjunkie #awardwinningauthor #podcasthost #podcast #readerpodcast #bookpodcast #writerpodcast #author #books #goodreads #bookclub #fiction #writer #bookreview *As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

Donna Jones Alward is Jane Healey's guest to talk about her new novel, When the World Feel Silent. A story of loss, hope and redemption against impossible odds… 1917. When tragedy strikes in Halifax Harbour, nothing for nurse Nora Crowell or war widow Charlotte Campbell will ever be the same again. Their paths will cross in the most unexpected way, trailing both heartbreak and joy its wake…

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Conflict can hurt. So how do we handle it in a holy, God-honoring way?We're excited to share a practical, biblically based teaching from our friend and author Donna Jones, where you'll discover three tools you can apply to your next difficult conversation. Pro tip: Write down Donna's tools in the Notes app on your phone so they're available for quick reference when you need them!Related Resources: Grab a copy of Donna's book, Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide for Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret.Download a free resource from Proverbs 31 Ministries titled "3 Questions To Ask Before You Respond." Created by writers for writers, COMPEL Pro is a biblically based training community designed to help you move from writer's block to penning your very best words as a content creator. Sign up to become a member today!Click here to download a transcript of this episode.Proverbs 31 Ministries is a nonprofit organization, and this podcast is funded thanks to the generous support of our one-time and monthly donors. To learn more about how to partner with us, click here!We want to hear how this podcast has impacted you! Share your story with us here.

Are you tired of the constant battles over stuff in your home? Well, buckle up, because in this episode, we're diving deep into the world of decluttering conflicts. In this episode of Clutter-Free Academy, host Kathi Lipp welcomes guest Donna Jones, author of "Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life" and podcast host of "That's Just What I Needed." The discussion centers around the intersection of decluttering and conflict resolution within relationships. You'll be encouraged to approach decluttering conflicts with empathy, clear communication, and a focus on mutual solutions. Listeners will discover: How possessions often become a source of conflict, especially between generations How to start difficult conversations about possessions and space in a healthy way The importance of finding win-win solutions in conflicts over clutter Throughout the episode, Kathi and Donna emphasize that while conflict can't be avoided, it can be handled in healthy ways that lead to more peaceful lives and homes. Click here to be notified when the next episode of Clutter Free Academy is released. Also, stay up to date and sign up here to receive our newsletter. Meet our Guest: Donna Jones Links Mentioned: Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life by Donna Jones www.facebook.com/donnajonesspeak www.instagram.com/donnaajones Find Donna Jones's "That's Just What I Needed Podcast" on Apple, Spotify, or here. Clutter Free Resources: Learn more about Clutter Free for Life Join our Clutter Free Academy Facebook Group Let's stay connected To share your thoughts: Leave a note in the comment section below. Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews really help and I read each one. Subscribe on iTunes or subscribe to our newsletter now.

In this episode, we have a powerful conversation with Donna Jones, who shares her journey of personal growth and healing through the challenges of church conflict. Donna's realization that peace and spiritual growth start with personal change, not waiting for others to change, is a revelation that resonates deeply. We're talking about the importance of humility, forgiveness, and handling conflict in a healthy and holy way. This conversation is not to be missed by anyone seeking guidance on navigating conflicts with grace and understanding. You can find Donna on her website at DonnaJones.org On Instagram @Donna A Jones On Facebook @Donna Jones Speaker & Author Her book Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life is available on Amazon (affiliate link) Connect with Pam through her website TendingFields.net #churchhurt #Churchconflict #messyrelationships #honoringgod #humility #christianparenting

Join host Kris Kington-Barker and guest Donna Jones, Executive Director of San Luis Obispo Legal Assistance Foundation in a discussion about SLOLAF services, who is eligible to receive them, how to access free legal assistance, and an update on the state budget and anticipated impact locally from reduced Victims of Crime Act (VODA) funding.Live with your calls at 805-781-3875 Thursday from 1-2pm on KCBX

You've likely seen a child throwing a temper tantrum at the grocery store. But, what if he's yours? Donna Jones offers hope and practical advice as you tackle that parenting mountain of teaching manners to your child. With these building blocks of discipline, you'll set him up for great success.

Conflict is no one's favorite, but it is an inevitable part of life. And today Donna Jones teaches us why it's nothing to be afraid of by busting some of the most common misunderstandings that lead to conflict avoidance, and providing a biblical roadmap to handle conflict in a healthy way.  Tune in to learn more about approaching conflict in a healthy, biblical way.  We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:   The biggest mistakes most couples make in conflict  The trick to de-escalate in the heat of the moment.  The inner characteristics that build better conflict habits  Help to break conflict patterns in your marriage  The healthy way to apologize well   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    QUOTES  “When we handle conflict in a healthy way, the outcome is peace. Peace between us and who we have conflict with; peace in our own souls.” - Donna Jones  “When we are in conflict, it literally affects everything about us. We function, but on the inside, we're torn to pieces.” - Donna Jones  “The reason so many of us think conflict is bad, is that we never learned to see how conflict can turn out good.”  - Donna Jones  “When we have conflict, we tend to think it means 1 of 3 things: There's something wrong with you; there's something wrong with me, or there's something wrong with us. But conflict doesn't mean that.” - Donna Jones  “No relationship can survive an atmosphere of disrespect over the long haul.”  - Donna Jones  “The most important thing is not an act, it's an attitude: Humility.”  - Donna Jones  “If you want to know how strong a person really is, look for humility.” - Donna Jones  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Order Donna's book Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life today!  Find Donna on her website, on Instagram @DonnaAJones or Facebook @donnajonesspeak/ For more help to break the conflict cycle, sign up for Dr. Kim's “8 Guidelines for Fighting Fair Webinar” If your marriage is feeling a bit blah, the Marriage Refresher is the jumpstart you need to bring fresh life into your marriage!

Teaching your child to say please and thank you can impact his future achievement. Donna Jones shares how good manners tie into success down the road. She offers wisdom and hope as you conquer the monumental task of instilling these behaviors in your children. Learn how to build an environment of love and respect in your home.

We have all felt the frustration and disappointment of doing our best to do the right thing and life still does not go the way we thought.    For 28 years, Stephen was a faithful husband to his wife. There were no drugs or alcohol or pornography. They raised two kids in a Christian home. From the outside, everything looked like it should be going right. But within their marriage, they were falling apart. Stephen felt emotionally and physically abandoned by his wife and didn't know what to do.   After desperately searching “Sexual Intimacy” on Google in hopes of finding some answers, Stephen stumbled upon Delight Your Marriage. After the first podcast episode, he knew this was what the Lord had for him. He was shocked that after signing up, exactly what he had been praying for came to pass... his wife greeted him with open arms, a smile, and a “How was your day?” followed by a passionate night!   Stephen had to do his work on himself. It wasn't easy and he had to have faith that God could change it all. And He did.   This is the story we want for each person listening: to be desired by their spouse, to be connected, and to be loved in a delight-filled marriage.   We are so thankful to Stephen for sharing his story with us and we hope that his story becomes your story too.   Blessings,   Belah & Team   P.S. - If you want to know more about our Clarity Calls or how to become involved in the same work Stephen did, please reach out to us at delightyourmarriage.com/cc. We would love to talk to you!   P.S.S. - Here is a quote from a recent graduate: Before the men's program: “I often felt disrespected and controlled. To a degree I felt unloved because of the lack of physical intimacy. I often felt I couldn't be myself or express my opinion because of the disapproval I would feel when I did. There was anger and indifference growing in me. We were growing further and further apart…”   After the men's program: “Tension between us is pretty much gone! Our relationship, our discussions have become much more peaceful, easygoing and playful than before. My wife has become more affectionate and has initiated intimacy more! We can now discuss physical intimacy and not argue. She has told me many times how she likes the changes she sees in me, and is expressing more and more desire to grow in intimacy herself!... Other people around us, even strangers, have noticed something different about us. One change that I think is the most telling of how the DYM program has impacted our lives: Prior to the program we had been sleeping in separate rooms for years. I am thankful to say that I am back in our marriage bed, physically, emotionally – for good now!”   P.S.S.S… :)  A few weeks ago, I had the wonderful privilege of being a guest on the 'That's Just What I Needed' podcast with speaker & author Donna Jones, who is a friend of DYM and has actually been on our podcast as well! If you'd like to listen to the episode, we talk about what you can do make your marriage better, regardless of where you're starting. You can find it here: That's Just What I Needed   It was so great getting to chat with her and we hope the episode blesses you immensely! We want to support Donna and the great work she is doing so if you are on social media, please give her a follow on @donnaajones and make sure to check out her new book, Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life. Thank you again for having me, Donna!

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Hey Friend!   I know you've heard people say, “Praise the Lord!” You may have even said it yourself. But what is praise, exactly? How would you explain it to your child or a new believer?    Since praising God is mentioned hundreds of times in scripture, we need to understand what it is, why it's important, and how it can change our lives.     Today's episode promises to leave you inspired to elevate your own acts of worship as you recognize the profound potential that lies in every word, and every note of praise we offer to God.   Xo, Donna   Donna's Resources:   Order a copy of my new book -  Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide to Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret.    It is available anywhere books are sold– here is the link on Amazon.    If you need a helpful resource for someone exploring faith or Christianity or simply want to strengthen your knowledge, you'll want a copy of my book, Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God.   It's a must for seekers, new believers, and those who want to be more confident in their faith.      Connect with Donna   Instagram:  @donnaajones   Website: www.donnajones.org     Twitter:@donnajonesspeak     Donna's speaking schedule: https://donnajones.org/events/      For a copy of “15 Things, Jesus Would Say to You if You Met Him for Coffee,” go to www.donnajones.org/blog  

In this episode, Donna Jones joins Dr. Saundra to share how to fight fair by communicating our opinions with grace, truth, and zero regret. Connect with Donna on Facebook and Instagram. Get your copy of Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide for Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret.   I Choose My Best Life Podcast is one of the  Top 20 Christian Women Podcasts I Choose My Best Life Books: Colorful Connections, Sacred Rest, Come Empty, Set Free to Live Free Connect with Saundra: Twitter: @DrDaltonSmith Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/drdaltonsmith Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrSaundraDaltonSmith

We all struggle with conflict because it is a part of our daily lives - whether we like it or not. On this week's episode of Embracing Your Season, host Paige Clingenpeel welcomes  Donna Jones, author of the book: Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life and host of the podcast, That's Just What I Needed. Through personal stories and experiences, Donna helps remove the fear we often associate with conflict, showing us it's a tool that can bring us closer instead of further apart. This podcast is filled with practical wisdom that we can all benefit from and use daily. Paige ClingenpeelQuestions About the Podcast? Email: paigeclingenpeel@gmail.comFacebook: @Paige ClingenpeelInstagram: @paigeclingenpeelYouTube: Embracing Your Season Sponsored by HomeWordHomeWordGuest Info:Donna Jones Free ResourcesPodcast: That's Just What I NeededBook: Healthy Conflict, Peaceful LifeHealthy Conflict, Peaceful Life on AudibleInstagram: @donnaajonesKeywords/hashtags#embracingyourseason #therapy #mentalhealth #podcast #podcastcommunity  #paigeclingenpeel #homeword #pfcaudiovideo #conflictresolution #healthyconflictpeacefullife #donnaajones #grace #forgiveness #humility #communication #seasonsoflife #marriage #families #parenting

Conflict...it's something we all come up against and many of us shy away from it as soon as there is any hint of it. We forget that disagreement itself is not bad; as people we are not always going to agree on everything. Then we throw in some misplaced expectations and some big emotions and conflict can suddenly move from a natural part of a relationship to something destructive. We can quickly move into unhealthy patterns and hurtful words, actions, or tones...and this is why we shy away. But our guest Donna Jones, reassures us that conflict doesn't have to be awful. In fact healthy conflict is actually possible! Through listening with intent to understand, deciding what is ours to carry and taking responsibility for that, and recognizing how our personality responds to potential conflict, we can approach conflict with confidence rather than fear. We can talk about the problem at hand rather than each other. We can work toward common ground while believing the best in each other. Conflict is unavoidable. Let's not make it terrible. Let's decide to face disagreement, knowing we can be respectful and kind with intention. FIND OUT ABOUT DONNA JONES Website: Donna Jones Instagram: donnaajones Donna Jones Book: Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life   A FEW THINGS MENTIONED James 1:19 QUESTIONS TO HELP YOU RISE -Do you tend to push into conflict? Or pull away from it? How has your personality impacted how you view conflict? -Who can you listen to this week with the intent of better understanding this person? -Are there things you are carrying that you shouldn't be? -How can you take responsibility for what is yours to own in a conflict? And allow others to carry what is theirs?

Healthy conflict is possible! In this episode, Donna Jones joins host Shayna Rattler to discuss the art of managing conflict while upholding Christian values. Donna, a national speaker, church planter, and author, shares insights from her latest book, "Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life." She emphasizes the importance of humility in conflict resolution and the need to approach hard conversations with a spirit of listening and understanding. Donna's practical advice and biblical perspective provide valuable guidance for anyone seeking to navigate conflict in their personal and professional relationships. Links and resources: Learn more about Donna and grab her resources HERE. Follow her on Instagram HERE Women Leaders: Take our Kingdom Trailblazer Quiz HERE and discover your unique role in God's plan Follow us on Instagram:@agodshift Follow us on Facebook: @agodshiftmovement

Could overcoming jealousy and comparison truly transform your life? This is the second in a two-part series because, let's just be honest, most of us deal with comparison and the resulting backlash of jealousy, insecurity, defeat, and discouragement that comparison brings. Since comparison steals so much of our joy, I decided it's time to figure out what God instructs us to do about it.  Spoiler alert: the last half of the podcast, where I unpack an insight from John 21, could very well change your life! As we navigate the complexities of our culture (and also simply being human!) I share some personal reflections and biblical insights that have been vital in my own life and those of many touched by my book "Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life."  Together, let's stride towards the freedom and peace of living a life centered on our personal missions, handcrafted by God. Oh…and if we haven't connected yet on social media, let's do it! I'm at @donnaajones. Xo, Donna Donna's Resources: Order a copy of my new book - Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide to Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret.  It is available anywhere books are sold, but here is the link on Amazon.  If you need a helpful resource for someone exploring faith or Christianity, or you simply want to strengthen your knowledge, you'll want a copy of my book, Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God. It's a must for seekers, new believers, and those who want to be more confident in their faith.  Connect with Donna Instagram: @donnaajones Website: www.donnajones.org   Twitter:@donnajonesspeak  Donna's speaking schedule: https://donnajones.org/events/  For a copy of “15 Things, Jesus Would Say to You if You Met Him for Coffee,” go to www.donnajones.org/blog    Pick up a copy of Donna's book Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God   

Are jealousy and comparison stealing your joy and sabotaging your relationships? This week, we unpack the emotion that gnaws at our contentment and learn how to navigate its tricky waters. "Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life" has already touched countless lives with its wisdom on conflict resolution, and now we're diving into insights on jealousy because jealousy can incite conflict with others and within our souls. Discover the ten signs that signal when envy has a grip on you, and learn the strategies to manage these feelings in a faith-aligned, relationship-strengthening way. This conversation is not just about identifying the problem but equipping you with the tools to foster healthier interactions and personal growth. We'll reflect on King Saul's destructive jealousy of David and how such emotions can cloud our judgment. It's a heartfelt call to self-reflection and nurturing a peaceful heart, aiming to release you from the toxic pull of envy. I also provide practical steps to handle insecurity and avoid comparison traps, ensuring that our social media interactions are supportive, not triggering. Get ready for a journey towards a more contented life, free from the shackles of jealousy. Xo, Donna Donna's Resources: Order a copy of my new book - Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide to Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret.    It is available anywhere books are sold, but here is the link on Amazon.    If you need a helpful resource for someone exploring faith or Christianity, or you simply want to strengthen your own knowledge, you'll want a copy of my book, Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God. It's a must for seekers, new believers, and those who want to be more confident in their faith.  Connect with Donna Instagram: @donnaajones Website: www.donnajones.org  Twitter:@donnajonesspeak Donna's speaking schedule: https://donnajones.org/events/  For a copy of “15 Things, Jesus Would Say to You if You Met Him for Coffee,” go to www.donnajones.org/blog    Pick up a copy of Donna's book Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God     

In this episode of Radical Radiance, host Rebecca George sits down with Donna Jones to talk about her recently released book Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life. They tackle the critical role of humility in approaching conflict. Donna shares a compelling personal story about overcoming potential resentment in a friendship through confronting the conversation with a question, highlighting the importance of listening and understanding before drawing conclusions about others' motives. Donna Jones is a national speaker, church planter and pastor's wife. A graduate of UCLA with a degree in interpersonal communications, she hosts the weekly That's Just What I Needed podcast, is the author of Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God, Taming Your Family Zoo, the Get Healthy Bible study series, and is a contributing author to the devotionals A Moment to Breathe and Arise, Daily. A contributor to Crosswalk.com, she has had several articles make the “Top Ten of the Year” list and has been on numerous television and radio shows and podcasts, including Focus on the Family Broadcast and Good Day, Dallas. Donna is passionate about equipping others to know, love, and follow God in their real, everyday lives. She wants to know, love, and follow God this way herself. She and her husband, JP Jones, make their home in Southern California. Rebecca and Donna chat about: The importance of addressing conflict to create unity Humility as the key quality in handling conflict Initiating difficult conversations by asking questions and actively listening People are often only 20% accurate in assigning motives to others' actions The focus of Donna's book on healthy conflict resolution and its relevance to relationships The role of humility in resolving conflicts Initiating difficult conversations and honoring God Order Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life on Amazon Sponsors: Radical Radiance is brought to you this month by Christian Standard Bible. This month we're highlighting the CSB Lifeway Women's Bible! This Bible is designed to assist women of any age to go deeper in their study including an in-depth collection of articles, devotionals, study tools and more brought to you by some of your favorite women (and mine!): Lauren Chandler, Priscilla Shirer, Kelly Minter, Angie Smith, Lisa Harper, and other Lifeway Women Authors. There are 7 cover options! Get one for yourself and for a loved one and save 70% on select covers ⁠⁠⁠HERE ⁠⁠⁠with promo code LWW70. ⁠⁠⁠Shop Crunchi Makeup & Skincare HERE!⁠⁠⁠ ____________________ PSSSSSST! Did you know that Rebecca's debut book, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Do the Thing: Gospel-Centered Goals, Gumption, and Grace for the Go-Getter Girl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ is available wherever books are sold? If you're ready to… See your gifts and talents from a gospel-centered perspective. Prioritize goals related to your calling as you move forward with gumption and grace. Maximize your passions in the work you do every day. Actively partner with God to serve Him and love others. Overcome negative thought patterns so you can brainstorm, develop, and create with the confidence of a go-getter girl! …then order today ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠at the link here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Each chapter includes prayer prompts, Scripture for further study, questions for reflection, action steps to move your goal forward, and accompanying videos (for individuals or small groups). So grab a friend (or 8) and let's use God's Word as our compass to “do the thing”. After all, if not now…when?

Conflict and peace... they seem like polar opposites, right? You certainly can't have one with the other… Or can you? Join me as I interview Donna Jones, author of Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life, as we open up the Bible, hear what God has to say on the matter, and discuss the practical steps clearly laid out for us in places like James and Ephesians. Not only will we realize how peace can still reign, but Donna shares conflict prevention tips, anger management tools when you're caught up in the heat of it all, and lastly, the best step to take if you want to move a tumultuous relationship towards peace and health today. In the end, let's trade this lie for the truth: Conflict can be peaceful and healthy if I follow Jesus and the path laid out in His Word.   Let's connect!

Have you ever been in a place where a conflict has absolutely consumed you? Whether you're grocery shopping or with friends, that conflict is just circling over and over in your mind. Maybe you find yourself wondering how you even got there in the first place? And even more so, how to get out of that place? Well, author and speaker Donna Jones is here today to talk about just that.  In her new book “Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: a Biblical guide to Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret”, Donna walks us through how to handle conflict with love and grace, how to be an Addresser of Conflict, rather than an Avoider or Attacker, how to lead with listening, and so much more.  We were sad to have this episode end because it was such a treasure! We hope this episode blesses you and brings you and your spouse closer together- shoulder to shoulder, against the problem, rather than against each other. We believe God can heal any relationship and He can use you through His wisdom to do just that. Love, Belah  

Easter is just around the corner, and I have a special episode for you. (You'll love it if you listen after Easter, too!)!   I share my family's cherished egg-hunting festivities and how these playful traditions anchor us to the essence of this joyful season. But there's more to Easter than just the hunt; we'll explore how the gospel's promise of hope and encouragement can blossom in our lives, nourishing our faith year-round.   This episode is also a heartfelt call to gather with your community on Easter Sunday. Imagine the uplifting experience of worship, the shared smiles, and the message echoing hope and unity.    Whether you seek guidance, inspiration, or a friend to share in the spiritual journey, let's make this Easter one of meaningful traditions, enlightening conversations, and renewed faith.    Wherever you are on your path, you're not walking alone!   Xo, Donna   Resources: Order a copy of my new book - Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide to Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret.    It is available anywhere books are sold, but here is the link on Amazon.    If you need a helpful resource for someone exploring faith or Christianity, or you simply want to strengthen your own knowledge, you'll want a copy of my book, Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God. It's a must for seekers, new believers, and those who want to be more confident in their faith.    Connect with Donna Instagram: @donnaajones Website: www.donnajones.org   Twitter:@donnajonesspeak   Donna's speaking schedule: https://donnajones.org/events/   

Have you ever found yourself caught in a heated debate with a loved one and wondered why it went wrong?  Or have you ever wondered why one person drives you nuts while another person doesn't?   Most of us never pause to consider how our conflict style might be at the heart of the issue.   On today's episode we explore the complexities of conflict styles to help us understand how they shape our relationships and why some relationships seem easier, while others seem harder. This is content you won't find in my book, Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life–it's a bonus just for you!    We take a deeper dive into the art of conflict resolution and how understanding our unique tendencies–and those of others–can lead us toward more harmonious interactions.    You'll have an “ah-ha” moment for sure!   If you're unsure of your conflict style, check out the free two-minute quiz on my website at www.donnajones.org. And don't forget to get your copy of Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life. I promise it will help you enjoy more peace and better relationships for years to come!   Xo, Donna Resources: Order a copy of my new book - Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide to Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret.    It is available anywhere books are sold, but here is the link on Amazon.    If you need a helpful resource for someone exploring faith or Christianity, or you simply want to strengthen your own knowledge, you'll want a copy of my book, Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God. It's a must for seekers, new believers, and those who want to be more confident in their faith.    Connect with Donna Instagram: @donnaajones Website: www.donnajones.org   Twitter:@donnajonesspeak   Donna's speaking schedule: https://donnajones.org/events/  For a copy of “15 Things, Jesus Would Say to You if You Met Him for Coffee,” go to www.donnajones.org/blog    Pick up a copy of Donna's book Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God

Fund conversations that matter: donate.accessmore.comWe all face conflict - whether it's with your spouse, child, parent, neighbor, or co-worker. We don't always agree! How can you navigate conflict better? Is there a way to prevent fights in the first place? Donna Jones has written a new book to help us, "Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life." On today's podcast, you'll learn: 2:09 The surprising truth about conflict 6:03 You may be causing conflict without even realizing it 8:50 What makes marriages last 11:40 This secret ingredient makes all the difference in conflict 16:10 Recognizing the patterns of our conflicts and fixing them 24:17 Handling situations where emotions are running really high Donna Jones is a national speaker, church planter, pastor's wife, and mom of three adult children. She's appeared on Focus on the Family and other media outlets. Her new book is "Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life." Find out more about Donna and her book "Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life" on her website. donnajones.org You're invited to the Parents Rising Conference on March 2, 2024, in San Diego, CA. Speakers include Dr. Gary Chapman, Arlene Pellicane, Bill and Pam Farrel, and Sally Burke. happyhomeuniversity.com/conference More Resources for Your Family: Subscribe to Arlene's free email list where she shares what she is learning in her home for yours. happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe Watch a VIDEO clip from the podcast on Arlene's Happy Home YouTube Channel @arlenehappyhome

My guest this week is the amazing Donna Jones. Donna is a national speaker, church planter, pastor's wife, and self-described bible explainer with a remarkable speaking portfolio spanning 26 states and 4 continents. Donna is also the host of the weekly That's Just What I Needed podcast and the talented author behind Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God, Taming Your Family Zoo, the Get Healthy Bible Study Series, and more.  In honor of her newest book, Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life, she joins us today to share powerful strategies for handling conflicts with grace and truth. We talk about everything from navigating disagreements to the biblical foundations of forgiveness. I know there is something valuable in this conversation for everyone- get ready for a good one! 2:29 – Donna 101 Pastor's wife and church planter National speaker, writer, and mom Passionate about conflict resolution Gym, coffee, and shoe lover 7:04 – Healthily Handling Conflict Communicating thoughts, feelings, and opinions with grace and truth Donna's unique perspective on conflict through ministry Don't make the small things big and the big things small 18:31 – The Art of Listening & Disagreeing Gracefully The conflict continuum Listening to understand Learning to disagree without being disagreeable 34:20 – Forgiveness Forgiveness is a command, choice, and promise Starting with the “want to” Inviting Jesus into the pain It's never too late 49:28 – Takeaways Ordering Donna's book Connecting with Donna Free online resources FEATURED QUOTES “I would like to hope that this book serves the purpose to help people avoid things that will make them regret how they handled some conflict in their life.” “If you have conflict with someone, it does not mean you are a bad person, they are a bad person, or your relationship is somehow defective or bad.” “When we invite Jesus into those spaces, He doesn't shame us. He sympathizes because He leans towards us and He whispers, ‘I know. I felt it too. I get it. I understand. And I can help.'” Learn more about Donna: https://donnajones.org/ Get your copy of Healthy Conflict/Peaceful Life: https://www.amazon.com/Healthy-Conflict-Peaceful-Life-Communicating-ebook/dp/B0CDKY8YNJ Donna on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/donnaajones/ Donna on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/donnajonesspeak/ Connect with me:  http://www.stillbeingmolly.com http://instagram.com/stillbeingmolly http://instagram.com/canilaughpod http://twitter.com/stillbeingmolly http://facebook.com/stillbeingmolly http://facebook.com/canilaughpod http://tiktok.com/@stillbeingmolly Preorder my book: PREORDER YOUR COPY TODAY: Barnes & Noble: https://bit.ly/IIDLICbn Amazon: https://amzn.to/48VYFkG ChristianBook: https://bit.ly/IIDLICcb Target: https://bit.ly/3Shh3Q2 Walmart: https://bit.ly/3MmGVpJ Indie Bound: https://bit.ly/IIDLICib    

Conflict…it's one of our favorite topics in the world. Just kidding! Most of us try to steer clear of conflict, and those of us who embrace it honestly don't always handle it in the healthiest ways. We've certainly all had moments where we looked back at how we handled a conflict and wondered: Why did I handle it that way?In this conversation, we are taking a look at the many aspects of conflict, from how we can honor God when we've been hurt, how to communicate when we'd rather retaliate, and how we can move toward others when it seems so much easier to run away.Joining me for today's episode is my friend, Donna Jones. Donna is deeply passionate about helping us apply God's Word so it changes our lives, our relationships, and our world. She is a pastor's wife and an international speaker. Donna is also the author of four books, including her latest, Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life.In this conversation, you'll hear:The single factor that determines success in resolving conflictCommon mistakes that make conflict worseTips for having hard conversationsAnd so much more!It's a treat to have Donna back on the podcast. Listen in!Show Notes: https://jillsavage.org/donna-jones-186Check out our other resources: Mark and Jill's Marriage Story Marriage Coaching Marriage 2.0 Intensives Speaking Schedule Book Mark and Jill to Speak Online Courses Books Marriage Resources: Infidelity Recovery For Happy Marriages For Hurting Marriages For Marriages Where You're the Only One Wanting to Get Help Mom Resources: New/Preschool Moms Moms with Gradeschoolers Moms with Teens and Tweens Moms with Kids Who Are Launching Empty Nest...

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In this podcast episode, we interview author and speaker Donna Jones as she discusses her latest book on conflict management. The conversation delves into various aspects of the book, offering listeners a comprehensive overview of its key themes and insights. Throughout the interview, Jones shares her expertise on navigating conflicts in a Christ-honoring manner, emphasizing the importance of constructive communication. She highlights the significance of expressing thoughts, feelings, and opinions with grace and truth, while also providing practical strategies for effective conflict resolution. Listeners gain valuable insights into the book's central themes, including understanding the root causes of conflict, managing emotions such as anger, fostering healthy communication, preventing conflicts, and the importance of forgiveness in the resolution process. Jones also explores the art of disagreeing without causing harm and encourages personal responsibility in conflict resolution. By the end of the podcast episode, listeners walk away with a deeper understanding of conflict management principles rooted in biblical teachings, as well as practical strategies for applying these principles in their own lives. They are left intrigued and inspired to explore Jones's book further, eager to incorporate its wisdom into their relationships and interactions. For more information about Donna visit donnajones.org or find her on Instagram @donnaajones Follow her podcast: "That's Just What I Needed" Podcast episode Kristin references: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-power-of-a-genuine-apology-how-to/id1607351937?i=1000608592987

Donna Jones is the author of Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide for Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret. Donna is a national speaker, church planter, pastor's wife, and self-described "Bible-explainer" who has spoken in twenty-six states and on four continents. A graduate of UCLA with a degree in interpersonal communications, she hosts the weekly That's Just What I Needed podcast. In this episode, Donna shares how to handle conflict in a Christ-honoring way. She focuses on the critical theme of constructive communication - expressing thoughts, feelings, and opinions with grace, truth, and no regrets. Rooted in biblical teachings, Donna offers practical advice to enhance various relationships, including those with spouses, family, friends, and coworkers. She shares how to handle challenging conversations effectively with peace to create harmony that glorifies God. Donna illustrates her points through scripture and personal stories, providing support and encouragement. She equips us with the tools and mindset needed to navigate conflicts constructively, ensuring stronger and more fulfilling relationships. https://donnajones.org/ Get Donna's book on Amazon Get the Serenity Journal Here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use Code VIP15 for 15% off plus free shipping! CONNECT WITH JAYME ON SOCIALS: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ l⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ l ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Pinterest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ l ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠

Valentine's Day often comes with a suitcase full of expectations, but have we ever stopped to unpack what love truly means beyond the roses and chocolates?    On today's episode, we embark on a journey through the week of love, taking a sharp turn from the usual commercialized romance to explore the depths of authentic love as described in 1 Corinthians 13. Inspired by an insightful email, this episode is an invitation to reflect on how we express love in the chaos of daily life, turning our eyes towards personal growth and the practice of genuine biblical love.    Let's redefine this holiday to be about more than just couples; it's about nurturing love in all facets of our lives. Remember, love isn't just in the air; it's in every interaction we choose to make meaningful.   Xo, Donna Resources:   Pre-order a copy of my new book - Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide to Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret.    The book will be released on February 20th, but it's available for pre-order now in paperback, Kindle, and Audible!   If you need a helpful resource for someone exploring faith or Christianity, or you simply want to strengthen your own knowledge, you'll want a copy of my book, Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God. It's a must for seekers, new believers, and those who want to be more confident in their faith.    Connect with Donna Instagram: @donnaajones Website: www.donnajones.org   Twitter:@donnajonesspeak   Donna's speaking schedule: https://donnajones.org/events/  For a copy of “15 Things, Jesus Would Say to You if You Met Him for Coffee,” go to www.donnajones.org/blog    Pick up a copy of Donna's book Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God   

Welcome To the show today! I am so glad you are here. We're still in the “Your Work Matters Series” and we're tackling a topic that is relevant to both work and our personal relationships. Today we are with my friend, Donna Jones, and we are sharing the truth about conflict and what common behaviors destroy both your personal and work relationships, Donna Jones is a national speaker, church planter, pastor's wife, author, writer, podcast host, and self-described "Bible-explainer." She hosts the weekly That's Just What I Needed podcast,  In this episode, Donna shares insights from her new book, Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide for Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret, and teaches us how to handle conflict in a God-honoring way and how to communicate our thoughts, feelings, and opinions with grace, truth, and zero regret. Join Donna and I as we talk about: Identifying our expectations and communicating them Common mistakes and behavior that destroy our relationships The truth about conflict How to have hard conversations in a healthy way Why listening is crucial to diffusing conflict The key to successful relationships   Favorite quotes:  “A lot of our conflicts can be preemptive if we communicate upfront.” (11:25) “When we are dealing with somebody's difficult emotions, if we don't just listen people escalate or they end always. When we are dealing with difficult things the best thing to do is just listen.” (25:09)  “So many of us think that conflict is bad because we have never learned to work through conflict in a way that makes it turn out good.” (32:04)   Coaching this week:  3 Ways to Make Your Home & Life More Organized (36:34) This week, I share three easy ways to reduce stress and increase organization in your home.  From finances to keeping clutter at a minimum to finding a home for everything, these strategies will help you feel more organized and that much happier.     Links to great things we discussed:  Donna Jones Website Donna Jones  Instagram Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide for Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret Prayer: Communing with God in Everything Bobbi Brown Long-Wear Cream Eyeshadow Stick Alli on YouTube The Coach School Order your copy of Remaining You While Raising Them here. Hope you loved this episode!  Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and slap some stars on a review! :) xo, Alli

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How can we handle conflict resolution in our homes? Welcome to Flourish-Meant, where we explore the art of thriving in all aspects of life. In today's episode, our host, Tina Yeager, and guest, Donna Jones, engage in a heartfelt conversation about navigating conflict in relationships. They delve into the deep-rooted connection between conflicts and self-protection, fear, and insecurity. As they bring their insights to the forefront, they also share valuable strategies for managing personal triggers, practicing self-control, and implementing proactive communication to foster growth in relationships. Join us as we uncover the layers of conflict resolution, the power of assuming good intent, and the importance of both listening and setting boundaries. We'll also gain wisdom from their dialogue about prioritizing relationships over being right and bringing God into the center of difficult conversations. So, get ready to embrace a fresh perspective on conflict resolution and equip yourself with the tools to engage in healthy and meaningful interactions. Donna Jones is a sought-after national and international speaker,  the author of three books, including Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God and Taming Your Family Zoo, and is a contributing author to the 365-day devotional, A Moment to Breathe.  Tina Yeager and Donna Jones explore healthy conflict resolution and the pitfalls to avoid. This episode equipped listeners to navigate disagreements with grace and wisdom. Key takeaways: 1. Self-Protection in Conflict: Understanding the link between fear, self-protection, and insecurity can lead to healthier decision-making and listening during conflicts. The importance of understanding and managing personal triggers in conflict, emphasizing self-control and the power of pausing and praying through difficult conversations. 2. Love in Conflict: Choosing love over frustration and listening as an act of understanding in relationships. The significance of asking the right questions to understand and de-escalate conflicts, emphasizing the "mind reader myth" and the vital role of communication in conflict resolution. 3. God's Role in Conflict: Bringing God as a third party into difficult conversations can shift perspectives and improve conflict resolution. Exploring the original design for relationships, involving a dynamic of 3, and how embracing an other-centered approach can lead to resolution without the need for self-protection. Connect with Donna Jones at https://donnajones.org To book Tina as a speaker, connect with her life coaching services, and more, visit her website: https://tinayeager.com/ Get inspired now and get Tina Yeager's newest release, Upcycled: Crafted for a Purpose! The book is available on Amazon, Bold Vision Books, or wherever books are sold. Visit Tina's website for craft videos and more at https://www.tinayeager.com/upcycled/ Follow Tina on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Tina-Yeager-M.A./e/B06Y4T4TMG/ref=ntt_dp_epwbk_0 Upcycled: Crafted for a Purpose (Bold Vision site) Beautiful Warrior: Finding Victory Over the Lies Formed Against You (publisher site): https://www.newhopepublishers.com/shop/beautiful-warrior/ If you're a writer, subscribe to Inkspirations Online (devotional publication by writers for writers): https://www.inkspirationsonline.com/ Manage stress and anxiety in 10 minutes a day with the course presented by 15 experts, Subdue Stress and Anxiety https://divineencouragement.onlinecoursehost.com/courses Connect with Tina at: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tyeagerwriting/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tinayeager/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tina.yeager.9/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/TinaYeager Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/tyeagerwrites/ Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/3865622.Tina_Yeager

December 25th: Donna Jones Born (1975) Abuse affects far more than just the body. On December 25th 1975 a woman was born who would, eventually, meet the man who would be her demise. A woman who was not only beaten physically, but was so battered emotionally and mentally that she didn't even know how much danger she was actually in. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Donna_Jones, https://murderpedia.org/male.H/h/hutt-mark.htm, https://ottawasun.com/2013/06/07/monster-mark-slowly-killed-donna-jones, https://nationalpost.com/news/canada/monster-ottawa-husband-found-guilty-of-first-degree-murder-in-death-of-wife-tortured-beyond-comprehension, https://ottawacitizen.com/news/local-news/a-living-horror-the-tale-of-two-abused-women-and-how-one-survived, https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/ottawa/hutt-found-guilty-of-first-degree-murder-1.1334192 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm off for Christmas but have no fear because Kim with A Million Other Choices Podcast is here with the case of Donna Jones in Ottawa, Canada.  "Why doesn't she just leave?" The mythical question regarding domestic violence we've all probably asked ourselves at some point. Donna's brutal murder highlights trauma bonding. A Million Other Choices on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-million-other-choices/id1579267886?i=1000604917742 On Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3RdPyinzu3Dt3SVGX8XT1Q?si=UJwIf_FJRDSFR9oqgWN3Hg Support A Million Other Choices: A one time donation can be made to A Million Other Choices directly at  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/amillionotw  or support Taylor's foundation and victims of abuse at https://www.taylortollerfund.org/ Pre-roll voice over: Garyn Hnatiuk – email ghnatiuk01@outlook.com for more information on voice and acting work available. Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/aylex/reset License code: PIFESSDWCWAJMITG Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever wondered why you sometimes make decisions that you later regret? In today's episode, I'll help you decode the process of making smart choices by exploring ten not-so-obvious questions we should ask before making a decision. We're not just talking about trivial decisions like choosing between tan or blue shoes, but rather critical decisions that can shape our lives.   As a special celebration for our upcoming 100th episode, don't miss the chance to win a $100 Amazon gift card by leaving a review of this podcast.    Remember, we're all navigating our lives one decision at a time, so let's learn to make them count.   Xo, Donna   Resources:   Pre-order a copy of my new book - Healthy Conflict, Peaceful LIfe: A Biblical Guide to Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret.    The book releases on February 20th but it's available for pre-order now, in paperback, Kindle, and on Audible!   If you need a helpful resource for someone exploring faith or Christianity, or you simply want to strengthen your own knowledge, you'll want a copy of my book, Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God. It's a must for seekers, new believers, and those who want to be more confident in their faith.  Connect with Donna Instagram: @donnaajones Website: www.donnajones.org   Twitter:@donnajonesspeak     Donna's speaking schedule: https://donnajones.org/events/    For a copy of “15 Things, Jesus Would Say to You if You Met Him for Coffee,” go to www.donnajones.org/blog    Pick up a copy of Donna's book Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God