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In this episode of Ambitious, we dive into a topic that hasn't been explored before on our show: sex and intimacy. We talk with Rena Martine, a women's intimacy coach, educator, and author dedicated to empowering women to embrace their sexuality and cultivate deeper relationships. Rena shares her journey from being a deputy district attorney specializing in sex crimes to founding Shameless Coaching, an eight-week program designed to help women achieve fulfilling, shame-free sexual experiences. We discuss why sex and intimacy remain taboo, the role of shame in our perception of sexuality, and how to reframe our understanding of pleasure. Learn about creating connections, communicating desires, and the transformative power of intimacy. This episode is packed with insights and actionable advice to help you strengthen your relationships and embrace your true self.01:15 Meet Rena Martine: Women's Intimacy Coach02:46 Diving into the Taboo: Sex and Intimacy11:13 The Difference Between Sex and Intimacy14:17 Practical Steps to Embrace Sexuality21:24 Reframing Sexual Scripts28:25 Grounding Exercises for Better Intimacy33:09 The Role of Self-Intimacy39:45 The Role of Communication in Intimacy46:35 Reigniting Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships51:30 Navigating Different Libidos in Relationships57:53 Responsive vs. Spontaneous Desire01:03:30 The Dynamics of Dominance and SubmissionBuy Rena's book: "The Sex You Want: A Shameless Journey to Deep Intimacy, Honest Pleasure, and a Life You Love," which is available in paperback, e-book, and audiobook everywhere books are sold.Connect with Rena: InstagramWebsiteResources Mentioned:The Sex You Want by Rena MartineCome As You Are by Emily NagoskiMating in Captivity by Esther PerelNot Always in the Mood by Sarah Hunter MurrayGottman Card Decks App Savage Lovecast with Dan SavageTo join the Ambitious Network for free, click HERE. To connect with Kate on Instagram, click ⁠HERE⁠. To apply for ITI, click ⁠HERE⁠.To submit a question to be answered on the podcast, click HERE.

TW: this episode contains a lot of sensitive subject matter like assault and abuse. It's a powerful episode but if it's not something you can handle right now, the episode will always be here. Rena Martine is a former sex crimes deputy district attorney turned intimacy coach, TEDx speaker, and author of The Sex You Want. She empowers women and couples to embrace their sexuality and build deeper connections through a blend of neuroscience and coaching. And today she is specifically going to use about trauma, how to process it and how to have a thieving love life in spite of it. To follow Rena on IG click HERE or to visit her website click HERE.PLEASE SIGN UP FOR MY SUBSTACK: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/To WATCH episodes click here: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on IG: @icouldbeblonder or TIKTOK: @roryuphold To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a topic? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This episode, I welcome back Justine Cross, a BDSM consultant and dominatrix, and Rena Martine, an intimacy coach and former deputy district attorney to the podcast. Justine and Rena share their expertise in creating safe, shame-free spaces for trauma survivors to explore their sexuality. We explore the concepts of trauma-informed sexual practices, importance of consent, and taking gradual steps in intimate encounters post-trauma. We also discuss frequently asked listener questions, such as how to navigate sexual experiences post-trauma, and emphasize gradual exposure, communication, and understanding one's own desires as pathways to healing and enjoyable intimate experiences. Watch the Full Video Podcast Here! TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 — Intro 01:14 — Meet Justine Cross & Rena Martine 02:24 — Understanding Trauma-Informed Sexuality 03:29 — Practical Steps for Trauma-Informed Practices 04:57 — Creating Safe Spaces for Exploration 06:44 — The Importance of Consent and Communication 07:54 — Finding Community and Support 10:14 — Taking the First Steps Towards Healing 16:03 — AD: Trauma Resourcing Skills Workshop & Trauma Informed Intimacy Skills Workshop 18:23 — Addressing Common Concerns and Questions 25:56 — The Value of Sexual Exploration and Play 38:45 — Keep up with Rena and Justine! ★ Connect with Justine Cross ★ · Connect with Justine Here · Learn More About Dungeon East · Follow Justine on IG @thejustinecross · Watch Justine's Work on YouTube · Listen to Initiated Survivor: Mistress Justine Cross on Consent, Kink Communities, and BDSM ★ Connect with Rena Martine ★ · Connect with Rena Here · The Sex You Want by Rena Martine · Follow Rena on IG @rena.martine · The Sex Drive Reset: Free Audio Guide Topics/Triggers: · Intimacy · Trauma-informed Intimacy · Sex Crimes · Intimacy Coaching · Trauma Survivors · Sex Work · Trauma Therapy · BDSM · Sexual Abuse · Rape · Spousal Rape ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ If you took anything away from today's podcast, please share it with someone who may need to hear it. And if you really want to support the podcast please give us a rate/review. If you or anyone you know is suffering through trauma contact the National Sexual Assault hotline at 1-800-656-4673 or online for 24/7 support. (This podcast is not a replacement for psychotherapy or mental health care. You can obtain a referral for mental health care provider from your primary care physician, or search on Psychology Today's Find a Therapist directory) Find more Initiated Survivor content here and on Instagram!

In this episode of Head South Radio, our host Cat Meyer is joined by Rena Martine, intimacy coach extraordinaire and the brilliant mind behind the book The Sex You Want. With a career that began in law (she was a Sex Crimes Deputy DA, no big deal!), Rena has since made a bold shift into sex and relationship coaching—helping women get real about intimacy, pleasure, and personal growth. If you've ever wondered what it takes to show up authentically in relationships, both in and out of the bedroom, this one's for you. Cat and Rena dive into all things intimacy: the beauty of vulnerability, the messy work of clearing emotional blockages, and the ways in which subconscious beliefs shape our love lives. Rena also gets real about navigating non-monogamy—debunking myths and offering tips on handling jealousy like a pro. They talk empowerment, emotional flow, and why intimacy isn't just about sex—it's about being fully seen. Get ready for a fun, insightful chat that'll have you rethinking everything you thought you knew about relationships. In this episode, we discuss the following: Porn as s*x education (pre-internet) Intimacy = authenticity and vulnerability Cognitive and subconscious exploration Actually doing the work with self-help books Nervousness vs Excitement Nonmonogamy myth-busting Navigating jealousy  Living without shame Release emotional blockages You can find Rena Martine here: @_rena.martine_ | renamartine.com Please support Rena's foundation of choice: Trans Empowerment Project's mission is to move our community out of crisis by creating equitable systems of support centered around Disabled 2Spirit, Trans, Intersex, and Gender Expansive community members who are also Black, Indigenous, and or People of Color, to ensure that we all get to thrive. Let's connect: @headsouth.world | @Kittycatmeyer Head South Affiliate Partners: The New Way to Wash Hair: Hairstory | 1st-time customers use the link for a discount Non-Hormonal Birth Control: Natural Cycles | Use the link for a discount We greatly appreciate reviews and ratings on Apple, Spotify, and Youtube.

When Rena Martine found herself feeling burnt out in her career as a sex crimes Deputy District Attorney and unable to stay faithful in her monogamous relationships, she knew something needed to change. Epiphanies about both life areas changed just about everything for the better.    In addition to Rena's story, you'll learn a powerful practice for turning yourself on – one that's especially helpful for women, parents, long-term partners and anyone with a busy lifestyle.    This episode also touches on:   What can happen when you have early exposure to sex, without context or education The impact of 9/11 on Rena and her relationship A threesome gone wonky Rena's first experience at a sexy Skirt Club party Desires styles (and why you aren't “broken” if you aren't turned on in a snap)   Follow Rena on Instagram and check out her book: @_rena.martine_   Explore the Awaken Your Senses collection at thepleasurechest.com! Free shipping on orders through September. Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin  

This is a show I was terrified to do. Which is precisely why I should do it. And, of course, because the topic is fascinating and vital to understand. How do we get comfortable talking about sex, love the skin we are in, challenge the traditional norms of relationships, and create the vulnerability and intimacy we crave? Well, ladies and gentlemen, I think I found the perfect person to show us how, so this is one show you can't miss! Rena Martine is a women's intimacy expert known for her infectious energy, refreshing candor, and straightforward approach. As a certified coach, educator, and TEDx speaker, she's impacted thousands of women globally. She is on a mission to reclaim the term “Shameless” as a badge of honor. Before obtaining her coaching certification, Rena spent 14 years as a Los Angeles County Deputy District Attorney, where she specialized in sex crimes, child abuse, and domestic violence cases. She is a regular expert on NBC, The Savage Lovecast, and Bustle. Rena's book, The Sex You Want: A Shameless Journey to Deep Intimacy, Honest Pleasure, and a Life You Love, is available wherever books are sold.Find Rena - https://www.renamartine.com/Visit my website: https://thehello.llc/THERESACARPENTERRead my writings on my blog: https://www.theresatapestries.com/Listen to other episodes on my podcast: https://storiesofservice.buzzsprout.comWatch episodes of my podcast:https://www.youtube.com/c/TheresaCarpenter76

Rena Martine is a women's intimacy coach, former Sex Crimes Deputy District Attorney for the Los Angeles County D.A.'s Office, and author of The Sex You Want: A Shameless Journey to Deep Intimacy, Honest Pleasure, and a Life You Love. Today we answer some listener Q and A's about non-monogamy. Then, we have a discussion about force and submission fantasies and how to reconcile these desires with survivorship and empowerment. Ad: OSEA use promo code SCHOLARS10 FOR 10% off at  https://oseamalibu.com/collections/body-care?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=influencer&utm_campaign=032024_EVERGREEN_SLUTS+SCHOLARS   Ask a Q: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1h4zUjetKy6m9OxJO2VQx9hPdFhPcN9UXwVxZ0IWGifM/edit   Rena: https://www.renamartine.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.   Loving disclaimer:  Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show. 

cw: Sexually explicit materialRena Martine is a former deputy DA turned intimacy coach who helps women discover and express their authentic desires, inside and outside of the bedroom. This week on The Selfish Gift podcast, Rena offers heartfelt guidance on how to safely and courageously explore the outer limits of your sexuality and relationships. From sex parties to ethical non-monogamy to same-sex attraction, Rena reveals all in this explicit conversation. Most importantly, she shares guidance on how to explore your fantasies safely, even when trauma is present. Aside from Rena's liberating message of sexual sovereignty and empowerment, one of the most inspiring aspects of this conversation is Rena's own journey toward a more authentic way of living, loving, and working. If you're considering making a big career change, you'll love Rena's story of how she made the difficult and rewarding decision to leave her straight-laced legal career and retrain as an intimacy coach and first-time entrepreneur. Listen in to prompt your own journey of self-discovery, authenticity, and fulfillment.Learn more at:https://selfishgiftpodcast.comhttps://renamartine.comhttps://maggielangrick.comhttps://wonderwell.pressFollow us on Instagram:@_rena.martine_@maggielangrick @wonderwellpress@selfishgiftpodcast00:00 - Introduction to Rena Martine and her journey02:16 - Defining Women's Intimacy Coaching04:25 - Difference between Sex Therapy and Coaching08:21 - The Connection between Authenticity and Intimacy09:47 - The Personal Importance of Rena's Work11:24 - The Target Audience of the Book13:23 - Embracing Diversity in Women's Intimacy14:44 - Being Open-Minded and Curious18:52 - Accessing Disowned Desires and Fantasies24:39 - The 27 Things List27:40 - Bisexuality and Same-Sex Attraction35:45 - Exploring Personal Preferences and Boundaries36:32 - Understanding What You Crave and What You Don't37:23 - Navigating Differences in Sexual Interests with a Partner38:22 - Uncovering the Underlying Needs Behind Desires39:39 - Making Difficult Relationship Decisions41:20 - Exploring the Impact of Personal Authenticity45:27 - Transitioning from a Legal Career to Intimacy Coaching48:41 - Embracing a Bold and Authentic Identity52:40 - Structuring the Book for Maximum Impact56:20 - Navigating the Publishing Process01:04:17 - The Transformative Power of Writing and Publishing

In this riveting episode, former sex crimes deputy district attorney and now intimacy coach Rena Martine takes us through her transformative journey from the courtroom to the bedroom. Her powerhouse presence and unwavering dedication to creating a world where pleasure and intimacy are accessible and shame-free are nothing short of inspiring. Rena Martine's revelations offer deep insights into the complexities of sexual shame, the healing power of reclaiming one's desires, and the ways in which we can liberate ourselves from societal confines to embrace a pleasure-filled life.    In this episode you'll:   ~ Discover how Rena Martine transcended her past of prosecuting sex crimes to becoming a champion for sexual empowerment. ~ Learn why the term "shame-free sex" is revolutionary in today's society. ~ Uncover the surprising link between legal advocacy and intimacy coaching. ~ Hear Rena's candid take on how intimate relationships can thrive without shame. ~ Discover Rena's innovative CAMP method to loving your body with the lights on. ~ Delve into the uncomfortable yet important topics of sexual assault and power dynamics. ~ Understand the impact of our upbringing and societal messages on our relationship with sex and pleasure. ~ Find out how even sex-positive individuals navigate their own boundaries and vulnerabilities. ~ and much more!     Connect with Rena Martine   Instagram | http://www.instagram.com/_rena.martine_   Website | http://www.renamartine.com/book       *****     MOJO *Be in the Know * VIP LIST   There's A LOT of new mojo coming your way this year. Don't miss out. Get yourself on the *be in the know * list ASAP. It's as simple as click, fill in, mojo! Cannot wait for you to be on the insider's list.  Get on it here:  https://mojo.deborah-kagan.com/email      *****   Connect with Deborah Website | http://therealundressed.com/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/therealundressed/   https://www.instagram.com/deborahkagan/ Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mojorecoveryspecialist/     Subscribe to The Real Undressed Podcast iTunes | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-real-undressed-with-deborah-kagan/id1494643770 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/1eOQaw6kryBsXo7Jb6qEnv   Please remember to: è Subscribe è Rate è Review the podcast. I read every single one and your feedback is valuable.  

Noelle (CEO of Lumia) and Lumia graduate Rena Martine talk sexual empowerment, the impact of shamlessness on living a full life and what Rena's work as a coach looks like in action. A 2021 graduate of Lumia's life coach training program, Rena Martine is a former sex crimes prosecutor turned women's intimacy expert known for her infectious energy, refreshing candor, and straightforward approach. She's impacted thousands of women globally as a certified coach, educator, and speaker with a mission to reclaim the term “Shameless” as a badge of honor.  A native Angeleno, Rena calls Echo Park home and happily lives around the corner from her partner. When she's not chasing her Siamese cat Chooch around, you can find her connecting with people she loves most, with a smile on her face and (sometimes!) a bourbon cocktail in her hand. She is the author of the book The Sex You Want: A Shameless Journey to Deep Intimacy, Honest Pleasure, and a Life You Love. Everything Life Coaching is brought to you by Lumia-- at Lumia, we train and certify impact-driven coaches, making sure they've got all they need to build a business they love and transform lives, on their terms. Become a life coach, and make a bigger impact on the world around you! Schedule a call with us today to discuss your future as a coach. Music in this episode is by Cody Martin, used under a creative commons license. The Everything Life Coaching Podcast is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

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We are joined today by author and women's intimacy coach, Rena Martine, talking about the ways shame holds us back from the sex, relationships, and lives we want to live and what to do about it. As a former sex crimes Deputy District Attorney, Rena comes at her work as an intimacy coach from a unique perspective. We discuss the ways that sexual shame and stigma can mutate into acts of violence and how seeing the darkest side of human sexuality burnt Rena out of her legal career. Her "aha" moment came during the pandemic when she changed careers and now coaches women on creating The Sex You Want (the title of her newly released book). Rena shares an exercise for getting to know your desires, one for tapping into your inner wisdom and we learn about Rena's first experience with a sex worker! Robin closes the episode with a "Healing Shit" segment - tapping into your inner crone with a crone goals exercise. Rena Martine is a women's intimacy coach, former Sex Crimes Deputy District Attorney for the Los Angeles County D.A.'s Office, and author of The Sex You Want: A Shameless Journey to Deep Intimacy, Honest Pleasure, and a Life You Love. Find Rena at renamartine.com or on IG.Find us at fuckyeahpod.com or on IG or TT.

A hearty Valentine's Day to all of you freaky, perverted, lovelorn wretches. We begin the show with a humdinger of a call from a man whose wedding night is shaping up to be very special indeed.  A married woman shares a phone with her husband. She notices that the ads served on his Instagram feed are very different from what she sees. He sees AI generated, photo-shopped sex vixens. She's treated to arts & crafts blogs. Is Insta pushing sexual images based on his basic demographic? (Straight dude.) Or does the Algorithm know more about her husband than she does? Dan calls up a social media expert for this one.  On the Magnum, we welcome back intimacy expert Rena Martine to help a caller in her mid 30s who has never had penetrative sex before. Why is she avoiding it? How can she tell future lovers about her mindset, grow into a full sexual life?  And, a bi man has started focusing on men over women. But his dick hasn't gotten the memo. How can he learn to keep his erection for the men he's so attracted to?  Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Helix is offering 20% off all mattress orders AND two free pillows ! Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now.  This episode is brought to you by Hims, providing affordable access to ED treatment, online. Start your free online visit today at Hims.com/Savage. Get a 4-week trial, free postage, and a digital scale at https://www.stamps.com/savage.

Come See us LIVE in LA on Feb. 21st, 2024: https://www.lodgeroomhlp.com/?p=22859&post_type=shows&preview=1&_ppp=44093c7d78 Rena Martine Information Order ‘The Sex You Want” (https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-sex-you-want-a-shameless-journey-to-deep-intimacy-honest-pleasure-and-a-life-you-love-rena-martine/19997406?ean=9781728275901) Website: https://www.renamartine.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_rena.martine_/ Need Advice? Call FOTW Hotline: 1-833-FOTW311 Watch the show on YouTube: https://youtu.be/TFyUM209Muo Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/wallinfam Order MERCH: https://www.amberwallin.com/category/all-products

We are so excited to be celebrating 50 episodes of the podcast with our return guest Rena Martine. Rena's new book The Sex You Want: A Shameless Journey to Deep Intimacy, Honest Pleasure, and a Life You Love is available NOW wherever books are sold! Get your copy now! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Almost everyone has sexual fantasies—and has them often. But most of us have questions about our fantasies, including what they really mean, how to share them with a partner, and how to go about turning them into reality. In this episode, we're going to do a deep dive into the world of fantasies. Among other things, we'll discuss what to do when you have shame or trauma connected to your fantasies, how you can use technology to facilitate open communication about fantasies, as well as what you need to know if you're thinking about acting on your fantasies. I am joined once again by Rena Martine, a women's intimacy coach, former Sex Crimes Deputy District Attorney for the Los Angeles County D.A.'s Office, and author of The Sex You Want: A Shameless Journey to Deep Intimacy, Honest Pleasure, and a Life You Love. Some of the questions we explore in this episode include: What is the difference between a sexual fantasy and a sexual desire? Do fantasies need to be elaborate or "fantastical" in order to count as fantasies? How can we get rid of the shame we may have surrounding our fantasies? What are some ways we can make sure our sexual needs and desires are prioritized? How can a newbie who is interested in threesomes or kink start exploring these fantasies? Make sure to check out Rena's website to learn more about her work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology *** Thank you to our sponsors!  Flure is a sex-positive dating app that prioritizes women's desires. It's a place where users can openly share their fantasies and find like-minded individuals to explore them with. There are no forbidden desires—only mandatory respect and consent. Visit flure.com to learn more. With the Flure dating app, pleasure awaits. The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University has been a trusted source for scientific knowledge and research on critical issues in sexuality, gender, and reproduction for over 75 years. Learn about more research and upcoming events at kinseyinstitute.org or look for them on social media @kinseyinstitute. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

Jean Franzblau is an Intimacy Coordinator, Writer, Performer and Creator of the Cuddle Sanctuary originally from Hollywood Florida where her mother didn't know she was kinky! In this episode we talk about: 01:11 Different Roles in the Sex Industry 03:03 The Physiology of Orgasm 04:00 The Impact of Shame on Pleasure 05:23 Creating Authentic Intimacy in Film 08:13 The Complexity of Faking Orgasms 10:32 The Fascinating Anatomy of the Clitoris 12:51 The Grit and Strength of Pole Dancing 15:22 The Diverse Backgrounds of Intimacy Coordinators 23:46 The Potential Benefits of Sex Dolls 25:29 The Importance of Touch and Cuddling 27:22 The Complexity and joy of Kink and BDSM 35:33 The Impact of Shame and Ignoring Red Flags 43:22 The Slow Process of Change in the film Industry 45:33 The Importance of Safety and Pleasure in Creation 48:30 Agents' Involvement in Addressing Behavioral Issues with cast (aka their clients) 53:33 Transition into Intimacy Coordinating 55:50 Experience on Set and Sense of Belonging 01:01:00 The Embarrassing Part of the Job 01:04:43 The importance of Consent and Boundaries You can find Jean on Instagram at @jeanfranzblau and her website https://hollywoodintimacycoordinator.com/ You can catch Jean's sex positive one woman show, "My Mother Doesn't Know I'm Kinky" on March 3, 2024 in Los Angeles. Find all of her performances here: https://mymotherdoesntknow.com/ Support the show and give us a 5 star review… and if you're really into it, https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariellezadok   Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!   Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok   Want to get more of what you want in bed? Download your free Yes / No / Maybe list at www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com to get clear, get inspired and get what you want!  LOS ANGELES: Join Arielle and Nadége as we celebrate the release of Rena Martine's new book “The Sex You Want” on Feb 7th at The Ripped Bodice. Tickets here: https://www.therippedbodicela.com/events-and-tickets

There's the sex life you have, and then there's the sex life you want. So how do you actually get the one that you want? This is something a lot of people struggle with, so that's what we're going to be talking about today. We're going to explore tips for changing the relationship we have with ourselves, tips for changing the relationships we have with other people, as well as ways of simply making sex more fun. My guest is Rena Martine, a women's intimacy coach, former Sex Crimes Deputy District Attorney for the Los Angeles County D.A.'s Office, and author of The Sex You Want: A Shameless Journey to Deep Intimacy, Honest Pleasure, and a Life You Love. Some of the topics we explore include: What is the "27 things" exercise, and how can it help you to get clarity on what you want from your intimate life? How can we better manage body image issues that are hindering desire for and enjoyment of sex? How can we avoid hopping on the "relationship escalator" with a partner who might not be meeting our needs? What are some ways to make planned sex good sex? How can we bring the fun back into sex? Make sure to check out Rena's website to learn more about her work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology *** Thank you to our sponsors!  I'm excited to announce a new edition of my textbook, The Psychology of Human Sexuality! This is the third edition of the book, and it's the biggest and best version yet. The Psychology of Human Sexuality is a comprehensive guide to the major theories and perspectives on sexuality and the vast diversity in sexual attitudes and behaviors that exist around the world. You can check it out here. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

Rena Martine is a Women's Intimacy Coach, Speaker and Author originally from LA where she learned more about sex from breaking into her dad's secret cabinet then she ever did in a classroom. In this episode we talk about: The adventure that exists within a container of boundaries vs. the overwhelm that exists with no boundaries The power of planning for sex Arousal for people with vulvas Learning about sex through her dad's porn collection What your preferred porn says about you Her transition from Sex Crimes DA to Intimacy Coach Working through sexual shame The value we place on sex in relationships (or lack thereof) Rena's new book, “The Sex You Want”! You can find Rena on Instagram at @_rena.martine_ and her website www.renamartine.com You can also pre-order her book “The Sex You Want” on Amazon    If you're pickin' up what we're putting down please like, Subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! Submit a Sex Ed Pop Quiz question with a 5 star review and I'll give you a shout out! Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok   Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube! Join Arielle's newsletter, Inside The Champagne Womb, for musings on sex, relationships and life. 

In this episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Rena Martine, a women's intimacy expert and ex-sex crimes Deputy District Attorney, about the intersection of trauma and sexuality. We discussed how coaches can work towards a more inclusive and less colonized approach to supporting survivors, as well as the healing potential of BDSM and Kink. Rena shared her insights and expertise on how survivors can reclaim their sexuality and overcome triggers through exposure therapy and restaging traumatic events while normalizing conversations around sexual fantasies and desires. If you're interested in learning more about Rena's work, check out her Shameless program on her website or send her a DM on Instagram! → Watch the Full Video Podcast Here! Topics/Triggers: • Being a Sex Crimes Deputy DA • Sexuality & Healing • Monogamy & Nonmonogamy • Sex Positivity • Savage Lovecast • Marriage and Divorce • Consensual Nonconsensual Fantasies • Examples of Guiding Clients Through Sexual Trauma • Exposure Therapy • Reclaiming Intimacy as Women • Purity Culture • DDLG & DS • SA Survivors and Kink • Repairing the Relationship between Ourselves and Our Bodies Connect with Rena: — Website: https://www.renamartine.com/ — Instagram @_rena.martine_ : https://www.instagram.com/_rena.martine_/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ If you took anything away from today's podcast, please share it with someone who may need to hear it. And if you really want to support the podcast please give us a rate/review. If you or anyone you know is suffering through trauma contact the National Sexual Assault hotline at 1-800-656-4673 or online for 24/7 support. (This podcast is not a replacement for psychotherapy or mental health care. You can obtain a referral for mental health care provider from your primary care physician, or search on Psychology Today's Find a Therapist directory) Find more Initiated Survivor content here and on Instagram!

Jody invites Rena Martine, an intimacy coach, educator, and TEDx speaker, to talk about sexual shame, sexual expression, and how to overcome shame to enhance sexual experiences. In this episode, they also explore different perspectives on monogamy, polyamory, and other non-conventional ways of viewing sexual relationships. Tune in to gain insights on how to improve your sexual confidence and embrace your sexual desires. Rena Martine was a Los Angeles County Deputy District Attorney for 14 years, where she specialized in crimes and child abuse and domestic violence cases. She continues to serve women today as an intimacy coach, educator, TEDx speaker and author, with a mission to help women love their bodies, experience deep intimacy and have great , shame free.  www.renamartine.com Rena's Ted Talk is on Youtube.        Shop Poppy's Secret Treasures and receive 20% off when you use the code “PrHOEvocative” and connect with Poppy's Secret Treasures on Facebook and Instagram: @Poppyssecrettreasures Get 10% off your HARU purchase with code: Jody10 Thrill: https://letsharu.cc/nyPBt Massage Oil: https://letsharu.cc/vaqBm Shop products/services. Please leave a review/comment/share this episode with a friend (or 3). If you enjoy this content, consider making a gift/contribution via Cash App $prHOEvocative IG: @prhoevocative / @jodyprhoe  Email: info@fcnpod.com/jody@prhoevocative.com  

What's kink and bdsm? How can we start a conversation with our partner(s) about exploring different sexual expressions? How can kink be a healing modality?In this episode, Effy and Jacqueline are joined by Rena Martine to talk about how to explore the taboo in a healthy way. They discuss how kink can be therapeutic and share some resources on how to get started.Mentioned in this episode:BDSMTest.orgLina Dune - Ask a Sub - PatreonSex and Psychology PodcastBooks:Tell Me What You WantReclaiming PleasureMore about RenaRena Martine was a Los Angeles County Deputy District Attorney for 14 years, where she specialized in sex crimes, child abuse and domestic violence cases. She continues to serve women today as an intimacy coach, educator, TEDx speaker and author, with a mission to help women love their bodies, experience deep intimacy and have great sex, shame-free. Instagram: _rena.martine_Website: renamartine.comSupport the showConnect with us on IG and more:Curious Fox @wearecuriousfoxesEffy Blue @coacheffyblueJacqueline Misla @jacquelinemisla Email us: listening@wearecuriousfoxes.comLeave us a voicemail: 646-450-9079 Join the conversation: fb.com/WeAreCuriousFoxes

Would you like to learn more about sexual fantasies? Perhaps you don't think you have any and wonder what all the fuss is about. Maybe you have a fantasy but don't know how to share it with your partner. Or maybe you're worried that your sexual fantasy isn't normal. If you're wondering about any of these, then stay tuned! I invited my friend, Rena Martine, a Women's Intimacy Expert who helps women love their bodies, experience deep intimacy and have great shame-free sex, to talk about this topic. This episode is sponsored by Liquid Gold Lube. Enjoy a discount with the code LISALOVES. https://liquidgoldlube.com/ Follow Rena on IG https://www.instagram.com/rena.martine/ Browse Rena's website here: https://www.renamartine.com/ Download my free eBook the A-Z of Fun Sex: https://inbedwithlisa.com/free-resources/

This week we are joined by Rena Martine, a former D.A. turned women's intimacy expert! She talks to us about her career, the myth of the seven year itch and why she loves Stats so much! But first Alyssa gives us an update on her personal mental health struggles and how much a new medication can make a difference. Learn More about Rina: https://linktr.ee/renamartine Follow Alyssa Everywhere: https://linktr.ee/alyssaljub Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Women's intimacy coach Rena Martine is joined by certified life coach and RIM practitioner Camille Saltzman in today's episode. Camille Saltzman is a certified life coach and RIM practitioner committed to helping people "get unstuck". While going through her own period of feeling stuck, she found her way through it after her first experience with RIM (Regenerating Images in Memory). She became passionate about subconscious work and the way it affects our lives and goals. With the use of RIM, she's helped hundreds of people in various coaching programs achieve major breakthroughs after just one session. Rena and Camille discussed: The difference between our conscious and subconscious mind Why people feel stuck even when they're “doing the work” How sex, intimacy, and relationship struggles are rooted in our subconscious The power of RIM to deliver life-changing results in a single session …and so much more Connect with Rena Website Instagram Connect with Camille Instagram Jump into his private community below, forums, chats, live groups, and courses. Join the community Single on Purpose is created by The Angry Therapist, John Kim, who will also be in the rotation of experts. We are starting the podcast with 20 experts across the wellness space. Check out John's website and sign up for his daily life insights in text. It's daily mental health programming in your pocket. For more content, you can follow John on Instagram YouTube, and TikTok, for more self-help-related content. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week you'll meet Rena Martine, an intimacy coach who teaches women to love their bodies and experience deep intimacy! Rena joins Rhianna and Adam to discuss her journey from Deputy District Attorney to Intimacy Extrodinare. They discuss Rena's experience shifting careers, her non monogamous journey, and how she coaches her clients to have great, shame-free sex.More About The Guest:Rena Martine was a Los Angeles County Deputy District Attorney for 14 years, where she specialized in sex crimes, child abuse and domestic violence cases. She continues to serve women today as an intimacy coach, educator, TEDx speaker and author, with a mission to help women love their bodies, experience deep intimacy and have great sex, shame-free.Find Rena:https://www.renamartine.com/Insta:@_rena.martine_Twitter: @TheRenaMartineJoin our Patreon!https://www.patreon.com/BottledupbitchesCheck out Rhianna's Blog "The Read Room" on our website!https://www.crookedbunnymedia.com/thereadroomTwitter: @Bottleduptalk@CrookedbunEmail us at: bottleduptalk@gmail.comInstagram:bottledupbitchescrookedbunnymedia

Women's intimacy coach Rena Martine is joined by certified holistic health coach Kat Kierans in today's episode. Kat specializes in somatic healing for stress and anxiety and is passionate about embodiment. With a following of over 30 thousand people on TikTok, Kat's mission since day one has been to help women feel safe in their bodies so they can live up to their fullest potential. She takes a trauma-informed approach and infuses knowledge from her basic somatic experiencing certificate, her background in assertive communication as well as her energetic gifts to help her followers and clients find peace.  Rena and Kat discussed: Exercises to use when your mind starts wandering during sex (and practices to prevent that from happening!) What to do when your libido is suffering because of stress and anxiety Managing trauma triggers when they come up in the bedroom …and so much more Connect with Rena www.renamartine.com www.instagram.com/_rena.martine_ Connect with Kat https://www.katherinekierans.com/ https://www.tiktok.com/@katkierans https://www.instagram.com/katkierans Single on Purpose is created by The Angry Therapist, John Kim, who will also be in the rotation of experts. We are starting the podcast with 20 experts across the wellness space. Check out John's website and sign up for his daily life insights in text. It's daily mental health programming in your pocket. For more content, you can follow John on Instagram YouTube, and TikTok, for more self-help-related content. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Women's Intimacy Coach Rena Martine is joined by her partner Dan Crowdus in today's episode. Dan Crowdus is an ADHD coach, with a background in engineering and producing music. After his own ADHD diagnosis at the age of 7, Dan has spent years building a system from some of the best minds in the field that has allowed him to embrace his neurodiversity as a superpower. He now helps ambitious adults with ADHD do the same and transform their big goals into big results.    Drawing on their own personal relationship and work with clients, they discussed: How to harness your ADHD as a superpower in your relationship Handling conflict when one partner has ADHD and the other doesn't Using creativity as a love language How to improve your sex life through novelty   …and so much more. Rena Martine www.renamartine.com www.instagram.com/_rena.martine_ Dan Crowdus www.instagram.com/adhdcoachdan Single on Purpose is created by The Angry Therapist, John Kim, who will also be in the rotation of experts. We are starting the podcast with 20 experts across the wellness space. Check out John's website and sign up for his daily life insights in text. It's daily mental health programming in your pocket. For more content, you can follow John on Instagram YouTube, and TikTok, for more self-help-related content. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Paul sits down with women's intimacy coach and former sex crimes prosecutor, Rena Martine to discuss ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and her mission to help women love their bodies, experience deep intimacy and have great sex, shame-free.Rena Martine is a fascinating and dynamic woman who, at first glance at her career track from then to now, could be seen as a massive divergence. But upon closer examination, her evolution is both logical and beautiful.Rena Martine was a Los Angeles County Deputy District Attorney for 14 years, where she specialized in sex crimes, child abuse and domestic violence cases. She continues to serve women today as an intimacy coach, educator, TEDx speaker and author.She holds a Juris Doctor from Loyola Law School, where she was also a law review editor and twice-published author. She graduated summa cum laude with a Bachelor of Arts in Sociology from California State University Los Angeles and also holds a certificate in Positive Psychology through the University of Pennsylvania. She is a Certified Life Coach through Lumia Coaching and recognized as a Master Coach by High Impact Coaching, an international community of the world's top coaches.Episode ChaptersFantasies - 4:10Who was and is Rena Martine - 10:00 The inequity of morality - 13:16 The true elements of pleasurable and authentic sex - 16:21 Monogamy falling away - 20:33 ENM & Polyamory 101 - 20:56 Polyamory defined - 26:11 The 5 W's of Polyamory - 32:55Dismantling trauma within a relationship - 35:31 27 sex bucket list questions - 40:17Coming back from infidelity/lack of trust - 43:23Connect with RenaInstagramTwitterRenaMartine.com SMART FUNNY TORTUREDWebsiteInstagramCopyright © 2022 • Cerebral Itch Labs, LLC / Smart Funny Tortured • All Rights Reserved

Women's Intimacy Coach Rena Martine is joined by Dr. Julie Shaw in today's episode.  Dr. Julie Shaw is an educator, grief wellness expert, and experienced griever committed to building an inclusive community of grievers who are curious, ready to explore, and moved to find ways they can integrate grief into their lives and continue to thrive. She is the founder of Hello I‘m Grieving, a community where grievers can find support and support one another. Her work motivates grievers to “say hello to grief” inviting them to acknowledge their own grief while being an active participant in the grieving process.   They discussed:   What grief and sex have in common The grieving process after a breakup How to find joy after loss Grieving infertility   …and so much more. Rena Martine www.renamartine.com www.instagram.com/_rena.martine_ Dr. Julie Shaw www.helloimgrieving.com https://www.instagram.com/helloimgrieving/ Single on Purpose is created by The Angry Therapist, John Kim, who will also be in the rotation of experts. We are starting the podcast with 20 experts across the wellness space. Check out John's website and sign up for his daily life insights in text. It's daily mental health programming in your pocket. For more content, you can follow John on Instagram YouTube, and TikTok, for more self-help-related content. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Women's Intimacy Coach Rena Martine is joined by Elle Chase in today's episode.  Elle Chase is a multi-certified sexuality educator and coach and the author of the highly regarded book, Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life.    They discussed:   Why trying to “love your body” may be doing more harm than good How to feel sexy, regardless of your body size or shape Porn: how it can hurt AND help your body image Practices you can start using right away to create a more accepting relationship with your body   …and so much more. Rena Martine www.renamartine.com www.instagram.com/_rena.martine_ Elle Chase www.ellechase.com @TheElleChase on all social media channels Single on Purpose is created by The Angry Therapist, John Kim, who will also be in the rotation of experts. We are starting the podcast with 20 experts across the wellness space. Check out John's website and sign up for his daily life insights in text. It's daily mental health programming in your pocket. For more content, you can follow John on Instagram YouTube, and TikTok, for more self-help-related content. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Women's Intimacy Coach Rena Martine is joined by Sober Coach Chris Shatek in today's episode. Drawing on their own personal experiences and work with clients, they discussed: Navigating a relationship when one partner is sober and the other isn't Re-establishing intimacy once you've taken alcohol out of the equation How alcohol can be used to numb and escape vulnerability/intimacy How to have a mindful relationship with alcohol if you don't want to give it up completely …and so much more. Rena Martine was a Los Angeles County Deputy District Attorney for 14 years, where she specialized in sex crimes, child abuse and domestic violence cases. She continues to serve women today as an intimacy coach, educator, TEDx speaker and author, with a mission to help women love their bodies, experience deep intimacy and have great sex, shame-free.  Connect with Rena Website Instagram Chris Shatek Website Instagram Single on Purpose is created by The Angry Therapist, John Kim, who will also be in the rotation of experts. We are starting the podcast with 20 experts across the wellness space. Check out John's website and sign up for his daily life insights in text. It's daily mental health programming in your pocket. For more content, you can follow John on Instagram YouTube, and TikTok, for more self-help-related content. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A straight man in his 40s can only come if his lady is so, so, very wet. Is this a kink? Also, as he and his partners are aging, the likelihood of his finding a woman who can accommodate him diminishes. What can he do to ensure middle aged orgasms for all? A man's husband has a lush, silky beard. Other men just need to touch it! The caller hates this, and wishes they would leave his husband's pretty chin alone. How can he learn to politely rebuff their advances? On the Magnum, a woman struggles with sex when her boyfriend initiates. Past trauma gets in the way of her enjoyment. Dan brings on Rena Martine, a women's intimacy coach, and former sex crimes prosecutor to talk about ways of breaking the bad associations between sex and fear. She also advocates for BDSM as a healing modality.  Finally, a gay man just joined a new gym, and finds he's got some exhibitionist tendencies. But he wants to make sure he's being a good gym citizen. What is the etiquette amongst the sweaty brotherhood?  Q@Savage.Love    206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Talkspace- online therapy that makes it easy to get extra mental health support. For $100 off your first month, go to Talkspace.com and use the offer code Savage. This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get up to $200 off ALL mattress orders at HelixSleep.com/SAVAGE.

She believes intimacy is our birthright.This week we have the honor of talking with Rena Martine @_rena.martine_ a former LA Deputy District Attorney turned intimacy coach and educator as she shares with us why we deserve to have amazing intimate relationships with ourselves and our partners.Rena takes us on her journey of self discovery as she shares her story of fighting sex crimes for 14 years as a Deputy D.A. and why she left the field to follow her passions for helping women on a more intimate level.Taking the time and giving herself space to process her own childhood traumas, Rena gave herself the opportunity to reclaim her identity, her body and the right to experience true intimacy. She is now sharing that experience with a science based approach to help women around the world process their traumas and rewrite their own narratives so we can all live a truly happy life.Don't miss this episode! Tune in to hear her powerful story of transformation and the message she has for you!To be a part of Rena's growing community and connect with her, you can follow her on Instagram @_rena.martine_ (https://www.instagram.com/_rena.martine_/?hl=en)Visit her website at renamartine.comIf you personally felt connected to the show and/or this episode and would like to purchase one of the few limited edition prints of the art that goes along with it as your own personal reminder to step into your power you can do so on our website at www.iampower.clubPrint sales help us continue this mission to bring you inspiring stories that the world needs to hear.We would love for you to follow us on Instagram. Share and tag us in your stories @iampowerclub ( https://www.instagram.com/iampowerclub/ )You can also find us on Facebook @ https://www.facebook.com/iampowerpodcast/And of course don't forget to like and subscribe to our channel so you don't miss next weeks episode!Thank you so much for joining this community and we can't wait to meet you!

118 Episode - How to Communicate Fantasies and Desires with Rena Martine What is your fantasy? What is your desire? Do you feel shame about it? Have you communicated your desires to your partner? What comes up when you think about it? In this episode we will dive into fantasies, desires, and how to communicate them effectively and some reasons why you might have them. People often relate bdsm to only people that have endured abuse or some trauma so we talk about that. Some modalities can be used to help heal from past trauma and hiding away from it just lets it build like this ugly dark monster creeping under the bed. Rena Martine is a women's intimacy coach who helps women love their bodies, experience deep intimacy and have great sex, shame-free. Before becoming a coach, she spent 14 years as a Deputy District Attorney prosecuting sex crimes, child abuse, and domestic violence cases. Topics Covered: 

Made Hot coach Rena Marine is BACK on Made Hot on Mic to chat with Maia & Malu all about releasing shame around the feelings and desires of intimacy — especially in women — and Rena's journey specifically with her own relationship to intimacy.   Rena gets vulnerable in this episode, opening up about her past relationships, her exploration into the world of polyamory and ethical non-monogamy, and her tumultuous journey through her bipolar disorder diagnosis.   More specifically, in this episode, we discuss: The stigmas of polyamory and ethical non-monogamy and how this can be misconstrued for hyper-sexuality & mental health diagnoses Her journey with medications & chronic illness both pre- and post-diagnosis How her history of sexual trauma & childhood has impacted her self-beliefs and relationship patterns, & the incredible therapist that helped her uncover these realizations & work through this trauma Understanding the concepts & experiences with polyamory & ethical non-monogamy And SO many more important self-discoveries   Sometimes, it only takes ONE question to bring you the lightbulb moment you need to fully embrace who you truly are & fall in love with yourself.   Want more from Rena? Join the Made Hot community for exclusive content & opportunities to connect with and work with all of our coaches and experts like Rena!  www.madehot.com @madehot_   

Made Hot on Mic is BACK this week with another introduction of one of our fabulous coaches, Rena Martine!   Rena is a Los Angeles-based women's sexuality expert who brings her breadth of knowledge to team Made Hot to support our members with re-connecting (or connecting for the first time!) to their innate sexuality, intimacy, and desires.   In this episode, we discuss: Rena's group coaching program Shameless, for women of all ages, relationship statues, & sexual orientations who want to explore their sexuality shamelessly for ultimate fulfillment & pleasure How perfectionism stands in the way of a woman's ability to experience true intimacy Rena's background as a Deputy District Attorney & her journey to becoming a sexuality & intimacy expert and coach    Want more from Rena? Join the Made Hot community for exclusive content & opportunities to connect with and work with all of our coaches and experts like Rena! www.madehot.com @madehot_        

If you've ever felt shame around sex then this convo is for you! . Listen in as we talk about... . Sexual shame, what it is and where it comes from... . The benefits of embracing your sexuality... . And how to start doing just that right now! . A huge THANK YOU to @_rena.martine_ for having this conversation with me! . About Rena... she was a Deputy District Attorney for 14 years where she specialized in sexual assault, domestic violence and child abuse cases. . She continues to serve women today as a certified women's intimacy coach and educator with the mission to help women love their bodies, experience deep intimacy and have great sex, shame-free. . Her signature SHAMELESS coaching program has transformed the lives of dozens of women by helping them liberate themselves from shame and discover deeper intimacy. . Follow her at @_rena.martine_ and visit RenaMartine.com to learn more and signup for her newsletter! . . As for me, I'm an Evidence Based Life Coach specializing in behavioral change to help you create the life you want using researched backed techniques. . If you're tired of trying all the self help things with little to no avail, then checkout my free series: . When Self Help Isn't Helping: WHY + WHAT To Do Instead where I breakdown why the self help hasn't been helping and what to do instead to make the changes you want happen once and for all! . Tap the link in my bio to go to WhenSelfHelpIsntHelping.com and get immediate access for . See you next Friday at @SoulSearchingAndSquats for our next episode! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shit-i-wish/support

Rena Martine was a Deputy District Attorney for 14 years and has spent most of her career prosecuting cases like sexual assault, domestic violence, and child abuse. She continues to serve women today as a certified women's intimacy coach and educator with the mission to help women love their bodies, experience deep intimacy and have great sex shame-free! Her signature shameless coaching program has transformed the lives of dozens of women by helping them liberate themselves from shame and discover deeper intimacy. You don't want to miss this episode! In this episode, you'll learn: The importance of having a sex bucket list Why 60% of men, 50% of women cheat and how to avoid it How to help a woman orgasm Plus, so much more!! Resource: https://www.renamartine.com/ (https://www.renamartine.com/)  Don't forget...  We only spread our message when you share this knowledge with others that need it, so if you enjoy this episode, please share it on your social and tag @zanderfryer, and don't forget to subscribe to the podcast on iTunes and give us a 5-star rating, so you don't miss any other great episodes. And for all our SYDLIC fans out there! If you've gotten any value from this podcast, don't forget to go to http://www.sydlicbook.com (www.sydlicbook.com) to grab your copy of Sh*t You Don't Learn in College Book! We're giving away bonus training and programs if you go to the website, or you can also go to Amazon to grab it there. For more info on Zander and Sh*t You Don't Learn In College, go to:  http://www.zanderfryer.com (www.zanderfryer.com)

Rena Martine spent 14 years as a Deputy District Attorney for the L.A. County D.A.'s Office, where she spent the majority of her career prosecuting cases of sexual assault, domestic violence, and child abuse. She continues to serve women today as both a certified women's intimacy coach and educator, with a mission to help women love their bodies, experience deep intimacy, and have great sex, shame-free. She educates hundreds of women per month on a variety of topics pertaining to sex, intimacy, and relationships. Her signature SHAMELESS coaching program has transformed the lives of dozens of women (and counting!) by helping them liberate themselves from shame and discover deeper intimacy.Get to learn more about this special episode with Rena as she talks about her journey in becoming an intimacy coach and her personal experience that ignited her to venture into this kind of career.IG: _rena.martine_ www.renamartine.comrena@renamartine.comTo check out our sponsors: VAs For Gyms https://www.vasforgyms.com 

Rena believes that the path to empowerment starts in the bedroom! She helps women love their bodies, experience deep intimacy and have great sex, shame-free. In today's interview Rena and I touch on the legal system, true intimacy and ways to have shame free sex by loving your body. Rena Martine spent 14 years as a Deputy District Attorney for the L.A. County D.A.'s Office, where she spent the majority of her career prosecuting cases of sexual assault, domestic violence, and child abuse. She continues to serve women today as both a certified women's intimacy coach and educator, with a mission to help women love their bodies, experience deep intimacy and have great sex, shame-free. She educates hundreds of women per month on a variety of topics pertaining to sex, intimacy, and relationships. Her signature SHAMELESS coaching program has transformed the lives of dozens of women (and counting!) by helping them liberate themselves from shame and discover deeper intimacy. Find her at: www.renamartine.com and IG: @_rena.martine_ To honor DV awareness month, I will be donating 50% of all book sales to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence. Find my books here: https://www.amazon.com/-/e/B091D9VD2C --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lauren-colletti/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lauren-colletti/support

Rena spent 14 years as Deputy District Attorney for Los Angeles County where she specialized in cases of sexual assault and domestic violence. She continues to serve women today as both a women's intimacy educator and certified coach. Rena helps women love their body, experience deep intimacy, and have great sex, shame free. Topics discussed in this episode:- infidelity (women are cheating now at rates equal to men - what's going on?- sexual fantasies, and why it's important to discuss them- why you MUST talk about sex outside the bedroom (and ideas to make it easier to do!)- how to get out of your head during sex- how to turn down sex when you're not in the mood- why scheduled/planned sex is perfectly normal (and can even be hotter than spontaneous sex!)- how to keep the spark aliveBe in touch with Rena:https://www.renamartine.com/https://www.instagram.com/_rena.martine_/Meet your hosts:Sue McCarroll is the founder of Opal Wellness Studio and Kierstin Gant is the founder of fearNOT Coaching. Kierstin and Sue have their unique styles of coaching women  to increase self-care, self-compassion,  navigate busy mom life and  nourish their bodies mentally, emotionally, and physically.You can learn more about Sue at https://www.instagram.com/opal_wellness_studio/and  Kierstin at https://www.instagram.com/kierstin.gant.fnc/Thank you for listening! Please take a moment to subscribe and review.This supports the Well2You Podcast in reaching more people who need to be connected to these impactful conversations.https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/well2you-podcast/id1547156150?i=1000504170074https://open.spotify.com/show/7AE1vZFmBoxPvYfn5Abr1T?si=RjrXrOWoToKvZ5bmCcJSgwhttps://www.well2you.org/well2you-podcast

If there's a place we definitely don't ask questions enough, it's in the bedroom. We bring back Rena, a sex and intimacy coach and facilitator to talk about the importance of our fantasies, sexual communication inside and outside the bedroom, and what it is about porn that could be beneficial instead of problematic. Join in on this intimate talk with Rena as we question and discuss all the things. Thank you so much for listening to the Rebel Minded Podcast! I love being the messenger for what all of us need, to take our next step. Let me know how I'm doing, if you have any of your own insight, or if there is something that you would love to hear on the podcast. Reach out! There are others out there you can help by speaking up! Thank you for being here! Stay rebel minded! For more about the podcast and being rebel minded, follow me at: "@therebelmindedpod" on Instagram and @damusclehamster to join me on powerlifting goals!        

Intimacy Expert Rena Martine & Mandy dive into talks on intimacy in relationships and ethical non-monogamy.  Rena has nearly 15 years of experience as an attorney and is a certified life coach through JRNI Coaching and also holds a certificate in Positive Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania. She continues to receive training on issues of relationship intimacy through her professional membership in Esther Perel's educational network, and from the invaluable insight she gains from women on a daily basis. This is a passion of hers she continues to flourish in. Intro Soundtrack - Something Different by Adekunle Gold

Hello Beautiful! I am Haley Helveston a Holistic Health Coach turned Relationship Coach. I am all about empowering you sexually, spirituality and in your health. Today I had the pleasure of interviewing Rena Martine. She is a Women's Intimacy Expert. She helps women women love their bodies, experience deep intimacy, and have great sex shame free. Key Takeaways - -We are bad a monogamy -Women cheat the same rates as men -Women are just as sexual as men Rena Martine's links - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/_rena.martine_/ Website - https://www.renamartine.com/ Bdsm test Rena mentioned -https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode Be sure to subscribe to my podcast and share with friends! My links - Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/haley.helveston.3 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/haley.helveston/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/HaleyHelveston Email - helvestonhaley@gmail.com Youtube -https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCU49NnKO6nEAO226_Z2kdIQ

Hello everybody, Jay Williams here, head of client success here at high impact coaching. And I have a very special guest with me, her name is Rena Martine. Rena is a women's intimacy coach. And she is one of the hardest-working people that I know. When Rena started with us, she was a full-time lawyer doing the business on the side. And within a matter of weeks, she quit that job to focus on coaching full time.    Today we're going to dig into her story, find out how she learned to charge what she's worth and bring a different kind of energy into her life. She’s showing us what it takes to take that leap of faith and identify when it’s time to find a new path.   Stay tuned and remember, you didn’t sign up for easy, you signed up for impact! --------   In this Episode You Will Learn:   How Rena found her way into coaching. A better way to serve people. The fundamentals of starting a business. The power of Appreciative Inquiry. Choosing High Impact Coaching. Why you shouldn't try to figure everything out on your own. Investing in ourselves. Understanding how to approach fear and leaning into discomfort. How information can only take you so far. Rena’s best piece of advice for coaches.  -------- Follow Jay on: Instagram: jaywilliamsfitness1 Website: https://www.jaywilliamsfitness.com/ Follow Rena on: Instagram: Rena Martine Website: Rena Martine Facebook: Rena Martine Links:  90-day launch program - www.zanderfryer.com/apply Join High Impact Coaching FB to catch the LIVE Podcast - www.zanderfryer.com/fbgroup   Free Guides: THE 7-STEP "BLUEPRINT TO LAUNCHING A HIGH-INCOME COACHING BUSINESS IN THE NEXT 90 DAYS    THE PERFECT CONSULTATION FRAMEWORK https://drive.google.com/file/d/1gMGS1e2goVajxcaG-6ybmAerZuGhuTVl/view?usp=sharing 51 You MUST Do to Generate Committed Clients from Social Media

I got to talk with the lovely Rena Martine. As we spoke on the delicate things of intimacy, she unexpectedly spoke to things that even let me, as a man, allow myself some grace on. To find out more Rena and her work, you can find her here: www.renamartine.com IG: _rena.martine_ I teach a weekly women's intimacy class in TAT Lab called Girl Talk. They can head to the link in my IG bio to learn more about TAT Lab, or to drop in on a class. 15 minute intimacy breakthrough call: calendly.com/renamartine/rebel Thank you so much for listening to the Rebel Minded Podcast! I love being the messenger for what all of us need, to take our next step. Let me know how I'm doing, if you have any of your own insight, or if there is something that you would love to hear on the podcast. Reach out! There are others out there you can help by speaking up! Thank you for being here! Stay rebel minded! For more about the Kreed and being rebel minded, follow me at: "@kreedsoldier" on Instagram and @damusclehamster to join me on powerlifting goals!    

Welcome to episode 373 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Rena Martine. In today's episode, Rena discusses her personal journey that led her from a conventional career as a Deputy District Attorney specializing in hard crimes to her current path as an intimacy coach and sexual wellness advocate. She discusses the importance of self-compassion, body adoration, media awareness, and perspective in cultivating a healthier self-image and deeper intimacy in sexual relationships.  Rena Martine, a native Los Angeleno, now resides in Echo Park, near her partner. Passionate about smelly cheese, dramatic cinema, and 60's music, she enjoys dancing and spending time with her Siamese cat, Lucha ("Chooch"). Rena often connects with loved ones, radiating happiness and occasionally enjoying a cocktail.   Holding a Juris Doctor from Loyola Law School and a Bachelor of Arts in Sociology from California State University Los Angeles, Rena excelled as a law review editor and author. She also earned a certificate in Positive Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania. As a Certified Life Coach with Lumia Coaching and a Master Coach recognized by High Impact Coaching, she is committed to her career, continually enhancing her knowledge and skills through ongoing research and client interactions.   In this episode you will hear:  Rena Martine's Journey into Sex Coaching The Gap in Sexual Self-Help Books Unveiling Rena's New Book The Impact of Self-Image on Sexuality How to Have Sensitive Conversations Transitioning from Prosecution to Pleasure Advocacy The CAMP Method for Body Love The Influence of Media on Body Image  Iroha Sponsor https://collabs.shopify.com/collab/2225176 101 Ways To Spice Up Your Relationship https://sexologypodcast.com/subscribe    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy