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Recorded: February 4, 2024 / Published: March 19, 2024- Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  - In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com) Safe, sane, consensual, and informed KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “The New Predator Part 3: Histrionic Personality Disorder-S05E22”https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9743-histrionic-personality-disorder https://www.psychdb.com/personality/histrionic#:~:text=DSM%2D5%20Diagnostic%20Criteria&text=Interaction%20with%20others%20is%20often,to%20draw%20attention%20to%20self Histrionic personality disorder (HPD) is a mental health condition marked by intense, unstable emotions and a distorted self-image. The word “histrionic” means “dramatic or theatrical.”“5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen” by Claire Jack Ph.D.Cleveland ClinicHistrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)For people with histrionic personality disorder, their self-esteem depends on the approval of others and doesn't come from a true feeling of self-worth. They have an overwhelming desire to be noticed and often behave dramatically or inappropriately to get attention.People with histrionic personality disorder often don't realize their behavior and way of thinking may be problematic.A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by 5 or more of the following (Diagnosis Criteria):Is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention Interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior Displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotionsConsistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to selfHas a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detailShows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion Is suggestible (i.e. - easily influenced by others or circumstances) Considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually areWhat are the signs and symptoms of histrionic personality disorder?Personality disorders, including histrionic personality disorder, are among the least understood mental health conditions.Studies that have been done about histrionic and other personality disorders have identified several factors that may lead to the development of histrionic or other personality disorders:Genetics: Histrionic personality disorder tends to run in families, so scientists think there may be a genetic (inherited) link.Childhood trauma: Children may cope with trauma, such as child abuse or the death of a family member, that later as an adult may be disruptive or problematic in their life and become part of a personality disorder.Parenting styles: Children who experience parenting styles that lack boundaries, are over-indulgent or inconsistent may be more likely to develop histrionic personality disorder. In addition, parents who display dramatic, erratic, volatile or inappropriate sexual behavior put their children at risk for developing this condition. Some researchers think that problems in parent-child relationships lead to the characteristic low self-esteem in people with HPD.How is histrionic personality disorder diagnosed?Past history.RelationshipsPrevious work history.Reality testing.Impulse control.Personality continues to evolve throughout child and adolescent development. Because of this, healthcare providers don't typically diagnose someone with histrionic personality disorder until after the age of 18.Personality disorders, including histrionic personality disorder, can be difficult to diagnose since most people with a personality disorder don't think there's a problem with their behavior or way of thinking.When they do seek help, it's often due to conditions such as anxiety or depression due to the problems created by their personality disorder, such as divorce or lost relationships, and not the disorder itself.When a mental health professional, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist, suspects someone might have histrionic personality disorder, they often ask broad, general questions that won't create a defensive response or hostile environment. They ask questions that will shed light on:Because a person suspected of having histrionic personality disorder may lack awareness of their behaviors, mental health professionals might ask to collect information from the person's family and friends.Mental health providers base a diagnosis of histrionic personality disorder on the criteria for the condition in the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders.To learn about “Management and Treatment, “Prevention”, “Outlook / Prognosis / Complications” visit Cleveland Clinics website:: https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9743-histrionic-personality-disorder Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/522National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN      37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, Maria, and Miss Troi- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and TeaVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com

Recorded: January 21, 2024 / Published: March 10, 2024 - Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  - In this episode, we are talking to Oklahoma's own 6'3" Ebony Amazon and Professional Domme, Mistress Mia Darque.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Professional BDSM Domination: Mistress Mia Darque-S05E21”https://www.justsayred.com/ Quote: "... if for any reason you were unsatisfied with your D/s experience please feel free to complain to the domme that you chose to scene with, but if this domme was wearing a pretty flogger on her hip and kept asking if she's hurting you, WELL... ya just got your monies worth..." -M.M.D.How long?Pro only or pro and lifestyle?Do you switch?Most unusual request?Your style of domination?What are your thoughts on BDSM education and do you teach?Within the lifestyle, what is your passion to talk to others about?What advice to give to people asking you how to get into the pro set?Do you mentor others? If so, is there a fee?What do you have coming up? Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/521National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN      37701 - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and Maria- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and TeaVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: November 5, 2023 / Published: , 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, we are talking to long-time Krypt Producer BuffaloMax about his introduction into BDSM and it saved his marriage and life.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “BDSM Saved my Marriage and Life-S05E17”Introduction: Buffalo_Max92 https://fetlife.com/users/12215665Ten Licks:How long have been into Kink?Top, bottom, or switch?Relationship Status?Favorite Position?Favorite Implement?Favorite Roleplay?Favorite kink or fetish?Favorite place for kink?Strangest Place you've had sex?Something you want to try?Marriage?Life?Advice to others?Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/517National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: September 17, 2023 / Published: , 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, we are talking about where trauma and BDSM connect.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “How to Navigate BDSM and Trauma-S05E14”“Navigating The Delicate Yet Dynamic Universe Of BDSM And Kink With Trauma” by Tanisha RK / Sept. 25, 2023https://elle.in/navigating-bsdm-and-kink-with-trauma/1: Understanding Trauma2: Navigating BDSM3: Where Kink and Trauma Connect4: Realizing The Role Kink Plays In Trauma RecoveryImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/514National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: Aug 20, 2023 / Published: Nov 16, 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, we are diving into the why, what, when, where, and how of people being ashamed of their own kinks.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “I'm Ashamed of My Kink-S05E12”Why do people feel shame?SocietyFamilyFriendsReligionSelf-esteemSelf judgementOutedWhat exactly do people feel?ShameDisgracePersecution When do people feel ashamed?When they fantasize.When they perform.When it's been done.When others talk about it.Where do people feel shame?HomeWorkChurchLifeHow do people feel shame?MentallyPhysicallyFinanciallyRelationships / SociallyHow does a person conquer their shame?It depends on the person and their reason for feeling ashamed.A better understanding of themselves.A better understanding of their kinks.A better understanding of their religion.TherapyImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/512National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: June 18, 2023 / Published: Sept. 2, 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, Mayfair and I discuss most of the things to know about BDSM brats.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Most Things to Know About BDSM Brats-S05E07”“A beginner's guide to being a 'brat' in BDSM”By: Gigi Engle on April 20,, 2023https://mashable.com/article/bdsm-brats-explained -What is a brat?“Make me.” According to the Fetlife Kinktionairy, a brat is defined as “A person who likes to exhibit one or more of the following behaviors: teasing, playful, sneaky, mischievous, stubborn, rebellious, disrespectful, or disobedient. This behavior may be a component of their power exchange relationship and should be consented to beforehand”Emerson Karsh, a kink educator, said “A "brat" is a delightfully disobedient sub within the Dom/sub dynamic in BDSM. "Brats enjoy questioning dominance, as well as like for dominance to be proven to them."- Why would you want to be a brat during play or sex? Why wouldn't you? Being cheeky, disobedient, snarky, and naughty can be fun. It creates a sense of playfulness that is often missing in sex. Being a brat is a very fun way to engage with your submissive side, without being a stereotypical sub. Brats are mouthy, badly behaved, and keen on punishment."Brats get great enjoyment from playing [a game of] cat and mouse, defying authority, and in turn receiving a ‘punishment' from their Brat Tamer," explains Julieta Chiaramonte, another kink instructor and sex expert.If you're turned on by disobedience, this might be something you want to explore.-What it means to be a 'brat.'The brat can be a very fun submissive persona. A brat intentionally misbehaves in order to get a rise out of their Dom, often eliciting "punishments." The brat enjoys driving the Dom a bit mad with their naughtiness. It's all centered around defying authority, which can be very hot.A brat will taunt, push boundaries, and test their Dom's limits and patience in hopes of causing a reaction. The Brat Tamer/brat dynamic is typically very playful and easily adjusted for nearly any consenting dynamic. -How is this submission?Brats offer their submission in a way that is amusing, consensual, and done for a reaction. You're not being obedient in the traditional D/s way, but a brat will submit when their Dom decides to punish them.-The Dom is the 'brat tamer.'They may choose to go by a different name like Sir, Daddy, Mommy,or whatever but the brat tamer is their style of Domination.Their 'role' is to put their brat in their place, remind them of the rules, and enforce punishments and order that was negotiated. While it may not appear like it to some Brat Tamer is an authoritative and patient role that one must be comfortable and confident with accepting.Brat Tamer is not a soft roll. You can not be afraid to put your foot down. It takes a lot of skill and development. You have to hone your skills in giving your brat space to be a brat and maintain a healthy power exchange. It could be through punishments, orders, ignoring the brat or the behavior, or something else.-How brats act out and how they get punished.Ask a thousand people and get a thousand answers. However, here are a few common examples for each:Verbally:Make me.That's all?You can do better than that.You can't make me.Oh, yeah? What's the worst that can happen?Prove it.BehaviorallyThrowing thingsSitting down when told to “come here”Punishments Spankings.Orgasm denial.Forced silence.Getting walked like a puppy.Forced orgasm.Bondage.Tickling.Being put in a cage.-How to engage in brat play in a safe way.Do your research.Communication and consent.Pick a safe word.Start Low Go SlowDon't be afraid to get creative. Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/507National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and clk124- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: July 16, 2023 / Published: July 21, 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, we are talking to Bueller, the mind behind “Red and Black” which is a new heist movie featuring a femme fatal Dominatrix, BDSM, and a rollercoaster of fun.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “"Red and Black" Movie Interview w/ Bueller-S05E09”Bueller is a member of the Utah kink community and the Utah indie film industry. He's made over 50 short films (several of which have won awards) and is currently making his first feature film. In his spare time, he likes to read comic books.Bueller's social media: https://AllMyLinks.com/RedAndBlackMovieIndieGoGo: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/red-and-black-heist-movie/x/33237469 Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/509National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, clk124, gentleman_sadist- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: April 16, 2023 / Published: July 3, 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, Mayfair and I are joined by Arc_Ulfgrim and AcrDag to talk about everything primal.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Primal Play with AcroDag-S05E03”AcroDag: Bio :Acrodag (He/Him) is a demi-queer sadistic werewolf and national presenter who seeks to share the knowledge they've gained as well as highlight diverse experiences and voices in our community. They host a weekly kink education podcast, ‘Topside Talk' and they are the Education Director for Denver Sanctuary. With 10+ years in the kink community, they have a passion for all levels of kink education, but specialize in topics they've researched extensively, surrounding negotiation, pain/impact, primal play, and interrogation scenes.Top Side Talk Podcast: https://spotify.link/797L0oCc8xb What is Primal Play?What is a primal power exchange/dynamic like?How to negotiate a primal scene.Safety concerns?Techniques?Primal gamesImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/503National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and clk124- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: March 19, 2023 / Published: June 21, 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Mayfair. Kuldrin is still out recovering from surgery. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and Kuldrin's 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. -In this episode, while Master Kuldrin is still recovering from his surgery Mayfair and Junicornsangel will be taking over. We asked our Discord Group group what questions they have for a submissives-only show. So chat room, get your question ready for Juni and me! Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young-“Things Only submissives Know-S05E01”Mayfair Intro,Juni Intro Update on Kuldrin's Recovery As we ask questions of each other, we invite the chat room to participate with their answers, and any questions they want to ask, as well!Favorite scene with KuldrinMayfair's- 1st scene together, possibly the closest I was to frenzy, I was so caught up in the moment I didn't want it to end. Juni's- 1st scene - discovery of my Primal side or Humiliation scene that led to my understanding of why I like that kind of play.Funniest or most awkward moment in mid scene Mayfair's- While it wasn't a scene, the day I got my nipples pierced, the piercing lady told me “Good Girl” after she completed the 2nd one. I immediately looked at Kuldrin, I know my face asked was she allowed to say that?! He laughed and said well she did just top you so to speak its ok and you were a Good Girl. Juni's- snot bubbles! Tears, drool, sweat, all okay, but trying to keep the nose from dripping! ( And arousal.. Awkward for me!)We asked our fellow Kryptors for suggestions about what they'd like us to talk about, & here were some of the suggestions: How would you like to be approached on FL? Neither one of us receives that many messages, but what would the right approach be for you? Frenzy; crazy things we've seen while people are in frenzy (side note: this was presented as “sub”frenzy, and I have some thoughts on that!) Favorite things (songs on your kink playlist, favorite kink furniture, favorite kink implement, something unexpected about kinksters that you've learned, Favorite Kuldrin's Krypt episode - chat room participation would be great for all of these!) Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/501National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and DarkDiamond- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyJay, Daddy's Princess- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black as Blood, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: 10/16/2022 / Published: 4/21/2023- Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this week's episode we are diving into another question I frequently get: “I'm new and one of my biggest fears is that I'll do something to embarrass myself. What can I do to prevent this?”Correction from the last episode. I started the show in 2016, not 2017, so this will be my 6-year anniversary on November 6, 2022. Also, the 200th episode was a couple back, S04E43, an interview we did with Brittany from the Dungeon Store and Split Peaches.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “How to not embarrass yourself when trying BDSM-S04E45”“How to Not Embarrass Yourself When Trying Kink Play” By Gigi Fong / Sep 9, 2022https://hypebae.com/2022/9/fifty-shades-of-grey-what-is-kink-sex-tips“Kink and BDSM make sexual pleasure all the more fun — if you understand the rules. It takes a certain level of maturity to practice, while also holding a safe space for yourself and your partner(s) during sex.So, if you'd like to avoid embarrassing yourself, keep reading.Following toxic pop culture. As much as it made for great discussions, Fifty Shades is not an accurate representation of a consensual kink relationship. Opt for more boundary setting, communication and comprehension, and most importantly, respect.Unclear Boundaries. Not being sure on what you're okay with versus not, can leave you feeling violated and sexually unsatisfied. Neutral environments, like a coffee shop or beach date, are best for having that initial boundary-setting conversation. Make sure you do this before trying something sexually new.Relying on safe words too much. Safe words are important, but if you find yourself blurting them out more often than not, you're probably not mentally or sexually ready for this new adventure. It may be best to do more research and communicate, then revisit — or not.Be prepared to laugh. Just as with life, nothing ever rarely goes as planned — but you have your tools. For example, the gym for stress relief when something goes left. Kink play is the same. You might get caught off guard at some points and let out a nervous laugh. That's okay. As long as you feel safe and respected.”Mayfair's List:Manage expectations: you aren't likely to be ready for a thirty-minute whip scene right awayYou aren't the only ones playing, prepare to hear others and to not be too disruptive. (ball gags can help)Arousal can happen, if it wasn't pre-discussed leave it alone for now.Kuldrin's List:Properly preparing for play: education, practice, “clean out”, …Become comfortable with the grunts, groans, moans, squeals, and “bodily noises”...they're all going to happenFrenzy can be embarrassing. Especially when everyone else sees you in the midst of it and you don't recognize it.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/445National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month):- Pro Producer ($100/month):- Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, Thorn, and Iamar Kinhawk- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, and Unassuming_dude- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist- Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeachesContact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk to Kuldrin about blood play!  Plus they talk about the right way to approach a boot black and they talk about how to keep up with your friends when you are all apart. -=-=-=-=-=- Find all things Dan & dawn at https://www.eroticawakening.com/ Links to mentioned on show: Kuldrins Krypt 

Recorded: 1/16/2022 / Published: 7/30/2022- Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “NCSF, Krypt Update, and Q&A-S04E19”National Coalition for Sexual Freedomhttps://ncsfreedom.org/Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/419National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92- Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, and Frozen Moron- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall, RodderBaily, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, and SirBNice- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and AshleyVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: 1/9/2022 / Published: 6/26/2022- Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week's episode of The Krypt we are talking to returning guest Curtain Call from “The Playspace: BDSM for the Short Attention Span”. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7OHBB1qy3a6dRu2jP2ojpQ - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Effective Leadership in the BDSM Community-S04E18”What is a leader within the BDSM community?Why did you want to talk about this?See a need. Fill the need.The dark side of leaders.How do we become effective leaders?Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/418National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92- Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, and Frozen Moron- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall, RodderBaily, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, and SirBNice- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and AshleyVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with @Kuldrin about Households - what they are, why do it, if it is about support...or orgies.  PLUS lots of lactation and more!  -=-=-=-=-=- Find all things Dan & dawn at https://www.eroticawakening.com/ Links to mentioned on show: Kuldrin's Krypt Academy of Fetish Arts  Mmm hashtags: #kuldrinskrypt #bdsm #fetish

- Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this week's episode of The Krypt we are celebrating the 5 year anniversary of the podcast! This is not a typical episode.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Five Year Anniversary-S04E13” - Seasons 1-4 review.- Kuldrin gets interviewed by Mayfair and take's 10 licks.- Mayfair gets 10 licks.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/413National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92- Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, and Frozen Moron- Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, and SirBNice- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and AshleyVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypthttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about peer mentoring in power exchange relationships.  Plus what to do (and how to avoid) getting stood up by a dom.  Plus golden showers and dating in and out of an age range!  -=-=-=-=-=- Find all things Dan & dawn at https://www.eroticawakening.com/ Links to mentioned on show: MTH Relationship Coaching  Hearts And Collars Dan and dawn on Kuldrin's Krypt  Mmm hashtags: #powerexchange #mentoring #bdsm

Recorded: 6/13/2021 / Published: 2/11/2022- Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week's episode of The Krypt we are celebrating gay pride month by putting together an episode aimed at parents who want to send their children to conversion therapy. We are going to define it, get into what psychology thinks about it, go over some of the techniques used, tell you if it is still legal and where, and finally, report the unsurprising statics on its effectiveness, the number of self-harm cases caused by it, and whether it increases or decreases suicidal ideation in the gay population. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Gay Pride Month: Conversion Therapy-S03E48” Sexual orientation: .What is Conversion therapy: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conversion_therapyConversion therapy is the pseudoscientific practice of trying to change an individual's sexual orientation from homosexual or bisexual to heterosexual using psychological, physical, or spiritual interventions. What does modern psychology have to say about it?There is no reliable evidence that sexual orientation can be changed, and medical institutions warn that conversion therapy practices are ineffective and potentially harmful. Medical, scientific, and government organizations in the United States and the United Kingdom have expressed concern over the validity, efficacy, and ethics of conversion therapy. Various jurisdictions around the world have passed laws against conversion therapy.The American Psychiatric Association (APA) opposes psychiatric treatment "based upon the assumption that homosexuality per se is a mental disorder or based upon the a priori assumption that a patient should change his/her sexual homosexual orientation" and describes attempts to change a person's sexual orientation by practitioners as unethical. The APA also states that the advancement of conversion therapy may cause social harm by disseminating unscientific views about sexual orientation. In 2001, United States Surgeon General David Satcher issued a report stating that "there is no valid scientific evidence that sexual orientation can be changed".What are some of the techniques that have been used?Techniques used in conversion therapy in the United States and Western Europe have included ice-pick lobotomies; chemical castration with hormonal treatment; aversive treatments, such as "the application of electric shock to the hands and/or genitals"; "nausea-inducing drugs ... administered simultaneously with the presentation of homoerotic stimuli"; and masturbatory reconditioning. More recent clinical techniques used in the United States have been limited to counseling, visualization, social skills training, psychoanalytic therapy, and spiritual interventions such as "prayer and group support and pressure", though there are some reports of aversive treatments through unlicensed practice as late as the early 2000s. The term reparative therapy has been used as a synonym for conversion therapy in general,[9] but it has been argued that, strictly speaking, it refers to a specific kind of therapy associated with the psychologists Elizabeth Moberly and Joseph Nicolosi.Is Conversion Therapy legal? For a complete list of states, counties, and cities: https://www.lgbtmap.org/equality-maps/conversion_therapy?fbclid=IwAR3GRyxenu0s0S6AtZl3gLKVuXtrIlrBHJFKgp9UKP24KmuoOgxQ0NFQTUcConversion "therapy" laws prohibit licensed mental health practitioners from subjecting LGBTQ minors to harmful conversion "therapy" practices that attempt to change their sexual orientation or gender identity. These laws do not restrict the practice among religious providers.Total state ban: 20 states (CA, CO, CT, DE, HI, IL, MA, MD, ME, NH, NJ, NM, NY, NV, OR, RI, UT, VA, VT, WA) and Washington D.C.Partial Ban: 2 states (NC, WI), 1 territory: Puerto RicoStates in federal judicial circuit with a preliminary injunction currently preventing enforcement of conversion therapy ban: 3 (AL, GA, FL) No state law or policy: 25 states, 4 territoriesIs it effective and what are the statistics?Ariel Shidlo and Michael Schroeder found in "Changing Sexual Orientation: A Consumer's Report", a peer-reviewed study of 202 respondents published in 2002, that 88% of participants failed to achieve a sustained change in their sexual behavior and 3% reported changing their orientation to heterosexual. The remainder reported either losing all sexual drive or attempting to remain celibate, with no change in attraction. Some of the participants who failed felt a sense of shame and had gone through conversion therapy programs for many years. Others who failed believed that therapy was worthwhile and valuable. Many respondents felt harmed by the attempt to change, and reported depression, suicidal ideation, and attempts, hypervigilance of gender-deviant mannerisms, social isolation, fear of being a child abuser and poor self-esteem. Of the 8 respondents (out of a sample of 202) who reported a change in sexual orientation, 7 worked as ex-gay counselors or group leaders.Statistics:8 times more likely to attempt suicide6 times more likely to experience high levels of depression3 times more likely to use illegal drugs3 times more likely to be at high risk for HIV, STD's, and STI'sImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/348National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92- Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, and dboat, - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Odie & Ceci, Toredon, Cap'n J, BxB, Saviy, Lilred rose, AK-47, Knot_the_Daddy, and Charlie & little bit- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, Gator, Gizmo, Ataleena, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, -miggs-, TripleDelicious, Ben, and TinkerBrat- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and AshleyBecome a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PatreonVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypthttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource

Recorded: April 25, 2021 / Published: Jan 16, 2022- Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week's episode of The Krypt, thanks to the newest subcategory of TikTok, we are talking about watersports also known as golden showers.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Ultimate Guide to Watersports-S03E41”.Why golden showers/watersports?:The feel.The taste.The taboo.Dominance/submission..Humiliation/degradation.Basic types of watersports:WettingPussing (Men watching women pee in toilets)Human urinalOmorashi or omo: Japanese word meaning "to wet oneself". (Making someone hold it, do the pee-pee dance, and finally wet themselves.Myths:Urine is sterile. False! There are naturally occurring bacterias in urine. Some bacterias can start growing when it comes in contact with urine.Drinking urine is healthy. False! It is a waste product and can spread diseases including bacterial, fungal, and viral infections. Drinking urine can dehydrate you. False! There is high sodium (salt) level in urine which will cause fluid retention. Safety:HIV and Hep B can be transmitted but it is so incredibly rare it is almost impossible. However, it is highly recommended to play safe with STD/STI testing.Bacteria can be passed through urine so do not play if you've been sick.Do not participate if the person providing the shower has a yeast infection.Do NOT get urine on open wounds including unhealed piercings and tattoos.Allergy Risk: Medications are passed through urine.Generally, watersports is a low-risk activity and is typically consider edge play due to the taboo nature of bodily functions. Getting started with a partner:Communicate: discuss desires, limits, medical issues, safe words, and aftercare.Take it to shower: there is no better place to try out watersports than in the shower.Do NOT go straight to the face! Even if face pissing is acceptable take your time and start at the legs and feet or even the torso or hands.Have a post-scene check-in and talk about it a few days to a week later.Level up with waterproof sheets and have some fun!Prepping:Drink a lot of water before a play session to help flush out the system.Do NOT drink coffee, tea, energy drinks, strong-flavored drinks (beer), or protein drinks.Do NOT eat strong-smelling foods such as asparagus, broccoli, and garlic.Do NOT eat high protein foods including plant-based proteins.Less potent teas are great to help with flow. Dandelion tea is a top choice.Some people prefer to receive a more “potent” golden shower. In this case, do the opposite of the previous prepping steps.Solo (auto-erotic urophilia):DD/lg/lb: Diapers and changingPrimal and Pet Play:Marking your territoryMaking someone go outside or use a litterbox to relieve themselves.Using piddle pads.Power Exchange:To some, urine consumption is the ultimate sign of dominance and submission. To this end, it is often reserved for special occasions, performed ritualistically, or used as a punishment.Degradation/Humiliation:Forced drinking, showering, and wetting.Tickle torture.Piss orgies.Medical Play:Collect a urine sampleUsing a bedpan, bedside toilet, or urine jug.Inserting a catheter. Get proper training from a medical professional before placing a catheter!Voyeur:In-personPornImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/341National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92- Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash- Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, Cap'n J, BxB, Saviy, Lilred rose, AK-47, Knot_the_Daddy, and Charlie & little bit- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, Gator, Gizmo, Ataleena, JJ, and Jon Shaw- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and AshleyBecome a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PatreonVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypthttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource

Recorded: 2/28/2021 / Published: 10/11/2021- In this episode of The Krypt we are going to have a live Q&A session about anything and everything BDS, sex, and relationships. Plus, today is the day that two people that filled out the podcast survey will each be winning a $25 Amazon gift card! - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Dominant, submissives, and Live BDSM Q&A-S03E34”- Questions: - babylove&Sir: What do you wish new people would ask you?What's the most common question people ask?- Alley Hoops: Mayfair, what is a journal topic that you found very useful for understanding the dynamic you were entering?- Art Kitten: in one of my groups on fetlife, a Domme posted about her frustrations with submissives who give her a grocery list of what they want like she's supposed to grant their wishes.what do you think contributes to this? lack of education? just plain selfish?- LOWBTP1128: what are good questions to ask a new play partner?- Haliyi Waya: has anyone asked how to avoid burnout or fatigue- Lily Chaos: I have a question. For newer people just going to events that haven't really had a chance to meet many people, what's a good way to find people when their looking to scene at an event their attending- The Play Space: BDSM for Short Attention Spans: I arrived a few minutes late. Have you explained contracts?- Atsila: sorry to revisit... still wondering how Kuldrin feels about Doms* removing collars, or withholding as punishment. (did I miss his reply to that part earlier?)The Play Space: BDSM for Short Attention Spans: Are there things that you think EVERYONE should have in their toy box and aftercare kit?Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/334National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92- Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash- Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, Cap'n J, BxB, and Saviy- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, BoundHydrangea, Gator, Gizmo, and Ataleena- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and LexaBecome a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PatreonVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbTsAuBKTy4 )Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypthttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource

Recorded: 1/31/2021 / Published: 9/19/2021- In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to figure out what BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication is all about.- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication Part 1-S03E30”- This is a topic that comes directly from a listener and is one that, in my experience, isn't really talked about outside of mentorships, really good Dominant training classes, or after the fact when there has been an issue.- The listener, who consent to us using the messages as an example and wishes to remain anonymous, wrote: “Question about Dom to Dom etiquette. I have a collared submissive that I allowed to play with a previous play partner (They were formerly D/s primary play partners, but she was not collared and did not need permission to play with others) This is the first time they have played since I collared my sub, it's been almost a year since they played. We have never met in person only chatted on Kik, our communication has been respectful and the morning of the playdate I posted the rules to our group chat (the three of us) and then said Both of you have a wonderful time today. That's the last communication we have had. It's been 24 hours since they ended play.Now to my questions @Kuldrin and others1. What is the normal etiquette between Doms in this scenario? 2. Am I wrong for expecting some sort of Thank you for allowing him to play with my Submissive or something similar? I would definitely thank the Dom that allowed me to play with his sub. 3. If you were the other Dom would you have text anything after the playdate?4. I was already going to send a Thank you for taking care of my bg and following the rules, should I send that now anyway.I am open to any and all levels of advice input and/or criticism”The dictionary defines Manners as:1: Ways of behaving with reference to polite standards.2: A way of acting, bearing, or behavior3: The socially correct way of acting.So what is a Protocol, and what is Etiquette?- Protocol is defined as:1: A code of correct conduct2: The system of rules and acceptable behavior used at official ceremonies and occasions:- Etiquette is defined as:1: Conventional requirements as to social behavior.2: The set of rules or customs which control accepted behavior in particular social groups or social situations1: It sounds like you followed proper protocol. As far as etiquette, and keeping in mind I don't know the time frame from start to finish, I would give a little longer notice on rules. 2: No, you are not wrong. However, some people are void of social/common courtesies. 3: Yes, I would have thanked you, assuring you all rules were followed or admitted to anyway I fucked up, and stated intentions of whether or not further play would be requested. 4: If you did not add a post-scene conversation between you and him in the rules, you can't hold him to that standard. However, I would send a message saying something to the effect of "I didn't have this in the rules because I didn't realize it needed to be but I am disappointed you haven't reached back out to me to say 'Thank you', give me an update of how things went on your side, or state intentions of future play." Also, I would wait until it has been 48 hours and make it clear to my sub that she is not to say anything to him about it. That he either needs to come to the understanding naturally or receive that message from me at the 48-hour mark.But that's just my two cents.”- So, next week we are going to talk more in detail about general protocol and etiquette like “I'm new and this is my first time at a party or dungeon, do I introduce myself using a title? Do I call others by their title? What is the protocol for talking to a collared sub or slave that isn't yours? How do I ask another Dom, Master, Owner, Handler, Tamer, to play with their charge?”Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/330National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92- Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash- Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, Alexandria, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, xxxLilyChaosxxx, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, and Cap'n J- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, KJ, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove, LilRedRose, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, BoundHydrangea, Gator, and Gizmo- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and MilkyMilfBecome a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PatreonVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbTsAuBKTy4 )Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypthttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource

Recorded: 12/06/2020 / Published: 6/25/2021Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to talk about a letter of experience and caution sent in by a listener telling his personal recent experience with red flags and respecting boundaries.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- Red Flags and Respecting Boundaries-S03E23- A listener message titled “Want to Say Thank You” sent to me by CourtsDom69 on December 6, 2020.- Kuldrin,I wanted to take a minute and say thank you. I grew up ultra vanilla and found myself at age 44 in a relationship with a more experienced partner, OopsCourtDidIt exploring areas of sexuality I never knew existed.Courtney had been expressing a desire for BDSM play and told me about her past experiences in the lifestyle. Being eager to please her, I began to do research and learn what I could. I was blown away by the amount of BDSM stuff available on the web (I have never watched 50 shades!)Thankfully, I came across your Podcast which has been my predominant source of information.Court and I discussed options for play and learning and were both interested in being dominated by a male and a female, I wanted to experience being a bottom/submissive to fully appreciate that aspect from a multisensory perspective.We both had reached out to perspective dominant types to engage them in discussion to see if there was an interest, we found one person that was local. The relationship started by Courtney expressing our desires and my willingness to learn and this couple had a dominant husband who liked the idea.We decided to meet for dinner one evening a couple of weeks ago to talk and exchange thoughts. The dominant's wife would not be joining the dinner and had started a new relationship with another dominant outside of their marriage, she wasn't able to connect to her husband as a complete submissive and wanted to explore this dynamic.I expressed to Courtney that I still wanted to remain focused on what we initially discussed regarding both being dominated. Will, the dominant suggested another female play partner attend the dinner to see what developed.In the first meeting with Will, he brought Courtney a dozen roses, an app-controlled vibrator, a handmade wooden paddle, and a professionally bound BDSM contract. The dinner went okay and I had good conversations with both Will and Sasha whom Will had invited.Will appeared very confident in his domination experience and I could see Courtney was excited at this prospect, so I remained open-minded. Will also had an app that he used with Courtney called Obedience, complete with goals, rewards, and punishments, I found it very interesting and it helped me understand some of the beneficial psychology of a Dom/Sub dynamic and it helped me understand how to start, progress and end a scene.I was not overly comfortable with the dynamic Will wanted with Courtney, I did remain open-minded and in good communication with Courtney. The first time I sat down to review the "contract" I physically got sick to my stomach. I hated just about everything that was in there and as much as I tried, I couldn't shake the feeling. I wrestled with exactly what I was feeling and knew what some of my reservations were and could only describe my feelings as "being put onto a rollercoaster that had previously crashed on me twice, killing two relationships".I was married twice before (a major no-no in my uber-religious upbringing) and both marriages ended based largely on the advice my ex-wives received from counselor's. In fact, my first wife remarried our marriage counselor, so my distrust was justifiable.I respected the psychology of the Dom/Sub dynamic and viewed it from a more of a therapeutic aspect and have an appreciation of the superior/inferior dynamic and this dynamic is what made me nervous.Courtney made Will aware of my hesitations and concerns and we agreed to meet again for dinner. ...Read the entire letter at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/323 Much love and respect,CourtsDom69 (Ps you have our permission to read this on your cast, just not my last name please)Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/323 National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92- Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash- Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, and Thorn- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, KJ, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Jace, LilRedRose, Felix, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, and Rabbit- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, and The Gabbing Girl Time PodcastBecome a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PatreonVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist -Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners* TinkdToys13Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimit and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 11/08/2020 /  Published: 05/06/2021- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode of The Krypt it's a Live Q&A with Kuldrin and Mayfair.- Next week Mayfair and I have a very special guest on the show to talk about Trauma and the community. She is a Sr. Producer and the administrator of the Patreon producer’s only Discord Community, xEmeraldxWolfx!Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Narcissist Doms and sub and a Live Q&A-S03E19”Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/319 National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:-Benefactor ($2,000/month): -Pro Producer ($100/month): -Master Producer ($50/month): -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan-Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, Cali, and PerfectlyThick-Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, KJ, Hadea, XxLilyXxX, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Jace, LilRedRose, Felix, and MsRedSin & AJRJ-Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, and BrodieBecome a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PatreonVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist -Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners*Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 9/20/2020 / Published: 2/24/2021Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking the often forgotten about Dom’s right to deny consent. Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“Sex With My Girlfriend Has Taken an Alarming Turn in Quarantine: Not all of us are cut out to be murderous KGB agents. by STOYA AUG 11, 2020https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/08/girlfriend-submissive-top-consent-advice.htmlDear How to Do It,Since the pandemic, my girlfriend has been living with me, so we are spending much more time together and having much more sex. While sharing everyday activities is bringing us closer together in some respects, changes in our sexual relationship are driving us apart. We had what I thought was a fun and varied sex life. We role-play, act out fantasies, play with toys, and suggest new things to each other. Lately, she has been wanting more and more bondage, something that I always enjoyed—and initiated—as fantasy, but am becoming uncomfortable within reality. Previously, the most I would ever do was ... What can I do? Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312—PutinDear Putin,You are absolutely correct that consent needs to come from all involved ... Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312Have the two of you ever done a yes/no/maybe ... Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312Remember, you get to have noes too, and ...Important Links:Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312 National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): Master Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and BrendanSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, and JohnathonHoodProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria,knot_the_daddy, KJ, LilyChaos, CivlDisobience Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila Rose, PWB, MBRpoodle, and BaddogbadJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, and Morgana13If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessorieshttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 7/19/2020-Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.-In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I are going to be joined by show Executive Producer JUnicornsAngel to have an in-depth conversation about safewords, using them to improve your scene quality, and the underutilized use of yellow.-Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young-Safewords: How to use them to improve your scene life.Safewords (what constitutes a good safe word)Nonverbal safe”words”: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationJUni’s personal history with safewordsBeginning – not knowing how to yellow, and not wanting to red.Learning to yellow but still not wanting to red.Being forced to red, good bad indifferent.Using red in exactly the right place, the world not ending.Kuldrin’s use of safewords?Mayfair’s use of safewordsEmphasis on Yellow:Different meanings of yellowExtending scene & pleasureSafetyGood measure of “testing” for both Top and Bottom?-Important Links:https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/303 -Show Producers (updated 7/5/2020):-Benefactor ($2,000/month): -Pro Producer ($100/month):Master Producer ($50/month): LilyChaos-Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, and Haru Webb-Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx,JayKay, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, babylove & Sir, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black Rose-Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, Trouble113, KJ, Duckie Monroe, Alicia Ray, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, and Raider69Time-Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and macNmiller-Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon-Vendors I know, like, trust, and use. (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.):http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories.https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - The finest nerdy insertable sex toys.https://fetlife.com/users/9885653 - Tinks-Toys on Fetlife-Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 7/5/2020 / Published: 10/23/2020Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me to talk about emotional sadomasochism.-Rules to Love By:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungSome information is sourced from “15 Signs of Emotional Masochism” By Mike Bundrant https://blogs.psychcentral.com/nlp/2015/03/signs-emotional-masochism/?fbclid=IwAR0po8lky89XvbEe35L9uUKF3Ui64DOvaMsVt0PU3rdnsbJ4YB-gSZ9eXSU -Emotional masochismDefinition: The tendency to find blatant or subtle pleasure d/t familiarity, self-justification, and/or self-victimization. Chronic yet avoidable emotional pain d/t a psychological attachment or trauma.Finding subconscious pleasure in emotional negativity.- Emotional sadismDefinition: The act of inflicting consensual or nonconsensual emotional pain on another person.-15 Signs of Emotional Masochism1: Start arguments for no apparent reason.2: Engorge ourselves with food until it hurts.3: Quit goals right when things start to go well.4: Run from happy relationships.5: Quit jobs that have potential.6: End friendships over trivial matters.7: Knowingly spend more money than we have.8: Abuse of alcohol and drugs.9: Tolerate people who hurt us.10: Tolerate people who control us.11: Tolerate people who reject and demean us.12: Tolerate people who humiliate us.13: Refuse to stand up for ourselves.14: Hold onto painful feelings.15: Criticize ourselves incessantly.-Definition: An emotional sadist, masochist, or sadomasochist that knowingly, intentionally, and nonconsensually inflicts emotional harm to others or creates situations for others to inflict emotional harm to themselves. Someone who is pathologically motivated by unresolved tendencies from a problematical childhood or adult trauma and is pathologically insensitive to the feelings of others obsessively seek through unbounded action to achieve a destructive goal with disregard for other people’s wellbeing.-Emotional sadomasochism in BDSM/KinkIt’s consensual!More intense types beyond general 101 degradation and humiliation are most commonly referred to as edge play because there can be long term psychological effects.Common forms of emotional sadomasochistic play:Degradation: make a person feel less about themselves.Humiliation: embarrass someone.Fear Play: create a situation where someone believes they are at risk for imminent danger. (Primal, blade, consensual non-consent, kidnapping/capture, interrogation, waterboarding, slave sharing/auction, …)Total Power Exchange: Giving away all of ones power is in itself an act of emotional masochism. Emotional Sobriety (Dr. Tian Dayton, PhD): sheds light on how and why an individual engages in unhealthy coping mechanisms and how to stop them; it is based on research of the physiology of emotions, that is, the mind/body connection (the thinking mind and our limbic system-the part of the brain that processes emotions); studies show that repeated painful experiences or “relationship trauma” deregulate the limbic system, thus inhibiting our ability to naturally process our emotions and control or reactions to stress. When we are in this state of imbalance, it is often that we reach for alternate, sometimes self-destructive “mood mangers”.DBT Diary (Dr. Matthew McKay, PhD and Jeffrey C. Wood, Psy D): Therapists developed DBT as way to help people with overwhelming emotions calm themselves when their feelings become too painful or out of control. This book provides an overview of each of the four DBT skills(distress tolerance, mindfulness, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness) and includes a journal you can use each day to monitor your successes, chart your progress, and stay on track making productive changes on our life.Practicing Happiness Workbook (Dr. Ruth Baer, PhD): Helps you break free from the psychological traps that can lead to stress, anxiety, and depression. The author outlines four common traps that people get stuck in: rumination, avoidance, emotion-driven behavior, and self-criticism. This book helps you apply mindfulness skills to everyday situations to aid in overcoming these traps.Important Links:https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/301Show Producers (updated 7/5/2020):Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month):Master Producer ($50/month): LilyChaosExecutive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, and Haru WebbSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx,JayKay, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, babylove & Sir, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black RoseProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, Trouble113, KJ, Duckie Monroe, Alicia Ray, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, and RavenJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and macNmillerIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use. (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.):http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories.https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - The finest nerdy insertable sex toys.https://fetlife.com/users/9885653 - Tinks-Toys on FetlifeContact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 7/5/2020 / Published: 10/23/2020Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me to talk about emotional sadomasochism.-Rules to Love By:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungSome information is sourced from “15 Signs of Emotional Masochism” By Mike Bundrant https://blogs.psychcentral.com/nlp/2015/03/signs-emotional-masochism/?fbclid=IwAR0po8lky89XvbEe35L9uUKF3Ui64DOvaMsVt0PU3rdnsbJ4YB-gSZ9eXSU -Emotional masochismDefinition: The tendency to find blatant or subtle pleasure d/t familiarity, self-justification, and/or self-victimization. Chronic yet avoidable emotional pain d/t a psychological attachment or trauma.Finding subconscious pleasure in emotional negativity.- Emotional sadismDefinition: The act of inflicting consensual or nonconsensual emotional pain on another person.-15 Signs of Emotional Masochism1: Start arguments for no apparent reason.2: Engorge ourselves with food until it hurts.3: Quit goals right when things start to go well.4: Run from happy relationships.5: Quit jobs that have potential.6: End friendships over trivial matters.7: Knowingly spend more money than we have.8: Abuse of alcohol and drugs.9: Tolerate people who hurt us.10: Tolerate people who control us.11: Tolerate people who reject and demean us.12: Tolerate people who humiliate us.13: Refuse to stand up for ourselves.14: Hold onto painful feelings.15: Criticize ourselves incessantly.-Definition: An emotional sadist, masochist, or sadomasochist that knowingly, intentionally, and nonconsensually inflicts emotional harm to others or creates situations for others to inflict emotional harm to themselves. Someone who is pathologically motivated by unresolved tendencies from a problematical childhood or adult trauma and is pathologically insensitive to the feelings of others obsessively seek through unbounded action to achieve a destructive goal with disregard for other people’s wellbeing.-Emotional sadomasochism in BDSM/KinkIt’s consensual!More intense types beyond general 101 degradation and humiliation are most commonly referred to as edge play because there can be long term psychological effects.Common forms of emotional sadomasochistic play:Degradation: make a person feel less about themselves.Humiliation: embarrass someone.Fear Play: create a situation where someone believes they are at risk for imminent danger. (Primal, blade, consensual non-consent, kidnapping/capture, interrogation, waterboarding, slave sharing/auction, …)Total Power Exchange: Giving away all of ones power is in itself an act of emotional masochism. Emotional Sobriety (Dr. Tian Dayton, PhD): sheds light on how and why an individual engages in unhealthy coping mechanisms and how to stop them; it is based on research of the physiology of emotions, that is, the mind/body connection (the thinking mind and our limbic system-the part of the brain that processes emotions); studies show that repeated painful experiences or “relationship trauma” deregulate the limbic system, thus inhibiting our ability to naturally process our emotions and control or reactions to stress. When we are in this state of imbalance, it is often that we reach for alternate, sometimes self-destructive “mood mangers”.DBT Diary (Dr. Matthew McKay, PhD and Jeffrey C. Wood, Psy D): Therapists developed DBT as way to help people with overwhelming emotions calm themselves when their feelings become too painful or out of control. This book provides an overview of each of the four DBT skills(distress tolerance, mindfulness, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness) and includes a journal you can use each day to monitor your successes, chart your progress, and stay on track making productive changes on our life.Practicing Happiness Workbook (Dr. Ruth Baer, PhD): Helps you break free from the psychological traps that can lead to stress, anxiety, and depression. The author outlines four common traps that people get stuck in: rumination, avoidance, emotion-driven behavior, and self-criticism. This book helps you apply mindfulness skills to everyday situations to aid in overcoming these traps.Important Links:https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/301Show Producers (updated 7/5/2020):Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month):Master Producer ($50/month): LilyChaosExecutive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, and Haru WebbSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx,JayKay, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, babylove & Sir, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black RoseProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, Trouble113, KJ, Duckie Monroe, Alicia Ray, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, and RavenJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and macNmillerIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use. (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.):http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories.https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - The finest nerdy insertable sex toys.https://fetlife.com/users/9885653 - Tinks-Toys on FetlifeContact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

I really didn't have a whole lot to say because I felt like my head was going to explode. This has been an ongoing topic in a lot of communities I am in, and honestly, it's getting a little ridiculous at this point. If you have something to say about it, ask me for my link to mine Discord. Don't worry. It's free, yall. Join my subreddit: TheRedRoomOfKink - Follow my Twitter: LunaTheKitten92. Link is on my profile. :) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/subheart/message

Recorded: 6/28/2020 / Published: //2020Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me to take a dive into BDSM Primal Play and then we’ll be answering your questions live.- Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- Collaring Yourself aka Self Collaring. https://sexandsilks.com/2019/03/31/self-collaring/?fbclid=IwAR1RuQ8F-ioF5CY4D91w5zxXtHrOeXu1M6mw8Fk47sUzvP-xXfeHfKnqGTg https://www.eternitycollars.com/blog/collaring-yourself?fbclid=IwAR2A7KfnBVWmw3c2VDLo1RiWhO-9ryE5GWj_-QY-6D-FW807wk0BDmRncSY - Collars can have a multitude of meanings in a D/s relationship. They can show ownership, devotion, or subservience, and can be as meaningful as a wedding ring. They can be essential for some kinds of BDSM lifestyles, or just add spice to an already fun, kinky session.But what about wearing a collar outside of a relationship? Because of these relationship- and partner-status contexts, many people feel discouraged from wearing a collar just for themselves.Some in the lifestyle may ask, “What if I don’t have a Master/Mistress right now? Can I still wear a collar?” The answer is that someone who’s rockin’ their singlehood can definitely wear one, though many people are dispirited by the connotations of their relationship status to sport their own. Some potential wearers might feel like it needs to be gifted to them or else it wouldn’t be a “real” collar.Here are some reasons why you should stop caring about what a collar is “supposed to” mean and adorn yourself with one of your own if you feel like it:- The feeling of being comforted and in control:Kate Sloan, bloggess of GirlyJuice, writes for Kinkly: “Even when I’m single, collars bring me comfort. They’re like an encouragement from a hypothetical future partner, or from the bravest part of my inner self.”- The symbolism: Collars send a message to others about what kind of kink or lifestyle you’re into. Different collars have different meanings to different groups, and can explain better than words what kind of roles or play you’re willing to take part in.The glory of feeling edgy and powerful while in a vanilla setting. Wear them with whatever makes you feel sensuous and formidable.Match subtle day-wear collars to your outfit so no one but you know what it’s for, like a sexy little secret.Or go the opposite direction and draw the gazes or curious vanilla-folk. Wear something loud and terrifying to passerby: maybe a huge spiked leather collar with kitten bells and neon-colored lace, with a tag that says “ME” (as the answer to “who owns you?” of course).- Just feeling pretty:Maybe that rose gold collar makes your skin tone glow, your freckles shine like stars, and is perfectly on point with the rest of your outfit. Who says that a statement piece has to make a statement? Wear it because you and the collar are cute as heck together.- Learning to love yourself first:This is important no matter your relationship status. Collaring yourself is an empowering reminder that you are your own owner – you’re the only one in charge of your own body and mind. Wearing that collar gives you permission to love and protect yourself, and reminds you that you’re worth every ounce of energy it takes to maintain and remember that love.Say you got yourself that perfect collar after all – you know the one, that jaw-dropping gorgeous collar that made you blush as soon as you saw it. Now what?- You can have a collaring ceremony of course.Collaring ceremonies are not the sole property of those in relationships. They’re symbolic and meaningful, but it’s a ceremony you can have with yourself too. Here’s how:Light a few candles to set a mood.In front of a mirror, place the collar on yourself.Admire how good you look in it.Then make a promise to yourself that you will be devoted to yourself and care for yourself with love and meaning, as any good and rightful owner would.Then wink at your reflection, because you’re sexy in that collar- Important Linkshttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/252- Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month):Master Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny FerrellSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black RoseProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe,, Hadea, Rie, and Derpy HoovesJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, macNmiller, and Lily ChaosBecome a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/patreon Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessorieshttps://fetlife.com/users/9885653 - Tinks-Toys on FetlifeContact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 6/28/2020 / Published: //2020Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me to take a dive into BDSM Primal Play and then we’ll be answering your questions live.- Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- Collaring Yourself aka Self Collaring. https://sexandsilks.com/2019/03/31/self-collaring/?fbclid=IwAR1RuQ8F-ioF5CY4D91w5zxXtHrOeXu1M6mw8Fk47sUzvP-xXfeHfKnqGTg https://www.eternitycollars.com/blog/collaring-yourself?fbclid=IwAR2A7KfnBVWmw3c2VDLo1RiWhO-9ryE5GWj_-QY-6D-FW807wk0BDmRncSY - Collars can have a multitude of meanings in a D/s relationship. They can show ownership, devotion, or subservience, and can be as meaningful as a wedding ring. They can be essential for some kinds of BDSM lifestyles, or just add spice to an already fun, kinky session.But what about wearing a collar outside of a relationship? Because of these relationship- and partner-status contexts, many people feel discouraged from wearing a collar just for themselves.Some in the lifestyle may ask, “What if I don’t have a Master/Mistress right now? Can I still wear a collar?” The answer is that someone who’s rockin’ their singlehood can definitely wear one, though many people are dispirited by the connotations of their relationship status to sport their own. Some potential wearers might feel like it needs to be gifted to them or else it wouldn’t be a “real” collar.Here are some reasons why you should stop caring about what a collar is “supposed to” mean and adorn yourself with one of your own if you feel like it:- The feeling of being comforted and in control:Kate Sloan, bloggess of GirlyJuice, writes for Kinkly: “Even when I’m single, collars bring me comfort. They’re like an encouragement from a hypothetical future partner, or from the bravest part of my inner self.”- The symbolism: Collars send a message to others about what kind of kink or lifestyle you’re into. Different collars have different meanings to different groups, and can explain better than words what kind of roles or play you’re willing to take part in.The glory of feeling edgy and powerful while in a vanilla setting. Wear them with whatever makes you feel sensuous and formidable.Match subtle day-wear collars to your outfit so no one but you know what it’s for, like a sexy little secret.Or go the opposite direction and draw the gazes or curious vanilla-folk. Wear something loud and terrifying to passerby: maybe a huge spiked leather collar with kitten bells and neon-colored lace, with a tag that says “ME” (as the answer to “who owns you?” of course).- Just feeling pretty:Maybe that rose gold collar makes your skin tone glow, your freckles shine like stars, and is perfectly on point with the rest of your outfit. Who says that a statement piece has to make a statement? Wear it because you and the collar are cute as heck together.- Learning to love yourself first:This is important no matter your relationship status. Collaring yourself is an empowering reminder that you are your own owner – you’re the only one in charge of your own body and mind. Wearing that collar gives you permission to love and protect yourself, and reminds you that you’re worth every ounce of energy it takes to maintain and remember that love.Say you got yourself that perfect collar after all – you know the one, that jaw-dropping gorgeous collar that made you blush as soon as you saw it. Now what?- You can have a collaring ceremony of course.Collaring ceremonies are not the sole property of those in relationships. They’re symbolic and meaningful, but it’s a ceremony you can have with yourself too. Here’s how:Light a few candles to set a mood.In front of a mirror, place the collar on yourself.Admire how good you look in it.Then make a promise to yourself that you will be devoted to yourself and care for yourself with love and meaning, as any good and rightful owner would.Then wink at your reflection, because you’re sexy in that collar- Important Linkshttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/252- Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month):Master Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny FerrellSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black RoseProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe,, Hadea, Rie, and Derpy HoovesJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, macNmiller, and Lily ChaosBecome a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/patreon Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessorieshttps://fetlife.com/users/9885653 - Tinks-Toys on FetlifeContact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

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Recorded: 4/19/2020 / Published: 9/10/2020Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is back with me to talk about a writing that was sent to me on fetlife.com by LylacWine titled “Can you afford them?”.-Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young-“Can you afford her/him?Can you?Not in a financial/material sense (although that does play a part), can you afford her in a life sense, a psychological and emotional sense, is there room and reserve enough in you to give her what she needs?I have read of this concept before so it is not mine, however, it was just a meme that set off a thought process in my head, a wonderful cerebral exercise in actuality.What we ask from each other in dynamic reaches far beyond any relationship you will ever have. What we gift each other is the highest levels of honesty, integrity, growth, and respect. Can you afford that or do you just want her?A Dom/Wolf/Master/Daddy (whatever you are) takes on a huge responsibility when accepting the gift of submission. You are her everything, her compass, her lighthouse, her taskmaster, her motivation, her GPS, and her temple of pleasure and purpose. Do you have enough overflow in your life for her? Have you, when faced with an exquisite sub, asked yourself that question? Is there room in your world for her and all that she will need? Time, energy, focus, adoration, learning, direction, attention, growth, change, support, sexual liberation. Every single one of these things takes a piece of your overflow or if you have no overflow it will take a piece of your core being and strength in order to provide that which you have promised in return for her gift.We all want. We all see something exquisite and shiny and new and we gravitate towards it, we are human after all. We race towards it instead of stopping to think about whether we can afford it. I implore you as Alphas to do your due diligence, I implore you as subs to recognize that your gift is worthy of asking that question also. We all have a responsibility to ourselves and each other in this regard. It is indeed a lesson learned for me.Can you afford her?”https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/249-Thank you: -Show Producers:-Benefactor ($2,000/month): -Pro Producer ($100/month):-Master Producer ($50/month): -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny Ferrell-Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black Rose-Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe, Journey, Hadea, Rei, and Derpy Hooves-Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, macNmiller, and Lily Chaoshttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon-Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessorieshttps://fetlife.com/users/9885653 - Tinks-Toys on Fetlife-Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 4/19/2020 / Published: 9/10/2020Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is back with me to talk about a writing that was sent to me on fetlife.com by LylacWine titled “Can you afford them?”.-Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young-“Can you afford her/him?Can you?Not in a financial/material sense (although that does play a part), can you afford her in a life sense, a psychological and emotional sense, is there room and reserve enough in you to give her what she needs?I have read of this concept before so it is not mine, however, it was just a meme that set off a thought process in my head, a wonderful cerebral exercise in actuality.What we ask from each other in dynamic reaches far beyond any relationship you will ever have. What we gift each other is the highest levels of honesty, integrity, growth, and respect. Can you afford that or do you just want her?A Dom/Wolf/Master/Daddy (whatever you are) takes on a huge responsibility when accepting the gift of submission. You are her everything, her compass, her lighthouse, her taskmaster, her motivation, her GPS, and her temple of pleasure and purpose. Do you have enough overflow in your life for her? Have you, when faced with an exquisite sub, asked yourself that question? Is there room in your world for her and all that she will need? Time, energy, focus, adoration, learning, direction, attention, growth, change, support, sexual liberation. Every single one of these things takes a piece of your overflow or if you have no overflow it will take a piece of your core being and strength in order to provide that which you have promised in return for her gift.We all want. We all see something exquisite and shiny and new and we gravitate towards it, we are human after all. We race towards it instead of stopping to think about whether we can afford it. I implore you as Alphas to do your due diligence, I implore you as subs to recognize that your gift is worthy of asking that question also. We all have a responsibility to ourselves and each other in this regard. It is indeed a lesson learned for me.Can you afford her?”https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/249-Thank you: -Show Producers:-Benefactor ($2,000/month): -Pro Producer ($100/month):-Master Producer ($50/month): -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny Ferrell-Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black Rose-Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe, Journey, Hadea, Rei, and Derpy Hooves-Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, macNmiller, and Lily Chaoshttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon-Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessorieshttps://fetlife.com/users/9885653 - Tinks-Toys on Fetlife-Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 8/17/2020 / Published: 8/19/2020Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt, I’m celebrating episode 100 by talking about what I’ve learned over the past four years and 100 episodes. I’ll also be playing clips from listeners like you that wanted to congratulate me.[01:08] Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- 100 Episodes and Counting: What Have I Learned About BDSM?[01:34] 1: Communication makes me thirsty![03:50] Lady Katheryne[04:21] 2: It is what you make it![08:26] Emerald Wolf[09:12] 3: Teaching is the best way to learn.[12:47] Hadea[13:27] Mytor Owner of ThatPlace in Oklahoma City[14:00] 4: I'm not a doctor, I just play one on TV![20:28] JUnicorn's Angel[20:47] 5: Live Shows: My favorite way to podcast!!![23:03] ShadowyFox[23:14] 6: “An intelligent person learns from their own mistakes, but a genius learns from the mistakes of others.” -Anonymous[25:44] https://NCSFreedom.org[42:07] Roxibear[42:28] Lily Chaos and Baby Love[42:50] 7: A Self Sufficient Community was a Goal all along![48:49] Darth Art Kitten [49:20] Art Kitten[49:56] 8: Pain is subjective.[56:31] Master Ade[56:53] 9: To watch is arousing. To participate is blissful[01:01:19] Trouble113[01:01:53] 10: My life is now spent responding to messages![01:08:52] Lylac Wine[01:10:06] Recap of List[01:12:16] https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PatreonImportant Links:https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/248Thank you: Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): Master Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, and Rei WebbSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, Master Gabriel, babylove&Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4life, Raefe, and AuthorMistressBlackroseProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, LilyChaos, KJ, knot_the_daddy, Duckie Monroe, ArtKitten, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69, Carly, and Atsila RoseJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, and JeremiahIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.- http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 8/17/2020 / Published: 8/19/2020Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt, I’m celebrating episode 100 by talking about what I’ve learned over the past four years and 100 episodes. I’ll also be playing clips from listeners like you that wanted to congratulate me.[01:08] Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- 100 Episodes and Counting: What Have I Learned About BDSM?[01:34] 1: Communication makes me thirsty![03:50] Lady Katheryne[04:21] 2: It is what you make it![08:26] Emerald Wolf[09:12] 3: Teaching is the best way to learn.[12:47] Hadea[13:27] Mytor Owner of ThatPlace in Oklahoma City[14:00] 4: I'm not a doctor, I just play one on TV![20:28] JUnicorn's Angel[20:47] 5: Live Shows: My favorite way to podcast!!![23:03] ShadowyFox[23:14] 6: “An intelligent person learns from their own mistakes, but a genius learns from the mistakes of others.” -Anonymous[25:44] https://NCSFreedom.org[42:07] Roxibear[42:28] Lily Chaos and Baby Love[42:50] 7: A Self Sufficient Community was a Goal all along![48:49] Darth Art Kitten [49:20] Art Kitten[49:56] 8: Pain is subjective.[56:31] Master Ade[56:53] 9: To watch is arousing. To participate is blissful[01:01:19] Trouble113[01:01:53] 10: My life is now spent responding to messages![01:08:52] Lylac Wine[01:10:06] Recap of List[01:12:16] https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PatreonImportant Links:https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/248Thank you: Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): Master Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, and Rei WebbSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, Master Gabriel, babylove&Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4life, Raefe, and AuthorMistressBlackroseProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, LilyChaos, KJ, knot_the_daddy, Duckie Monroe, ArtKitten, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69, Carly, and Atsila RoseJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, and JeremiahIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.- http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 5/10/2020 / Published: 7/3/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair joins us again for a conversation about Total Power Exchange (TPE).. [00:50] Rules to love by.1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[01:29] HaPpY mOtHeR's DaY!!![02:06] https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/YouTube[02:17] Total Power Exchange (TPE) Defined(https://www.kinkly.com/definition/92/total-power-exchange-tpe)-Total power exchange (TPE) is a relationship dynamic that occurs in a BDSM relationship where the dominant partner has total power over the submissive in everything. TPE always applies in sexual situations, but generally also refers to the dominant having power over all other elements of the submissive's life.-TPE is a turn-on for a lot of people because of the level of trust involved. The submissive essentially give their life away to the dominant. This is also a huge responsibility for the dominant and should not be taken lightly.-TPE can be used in day-to-day activities, or it can be used for just a few hours during play to spice things up.-This type of play is not about micromanaging a person's life; it’s about a submissive giving complete trust to the dominant partner and believing that they will keep the submissive's best interests and pleasure in mind.-What can be so hard to understand is that the submissive is actually control. That's because in safe, respectful D/s relationship the submissive can stop the play at any time. It's all about the submissive being able to give up control and the dominant being able to exert control in a safe, consensual way.[02:32] https://www.kinkly.com/definition/92/total-power-exchange-tpe[03:12] Did Kuldrin and mayfair go TPE?[03:26] TPE Defined.[05:28] A deep dive into micromanaging. Part 1[06:03] A contradiction in the definition?[08:12] A deep dive into micromanaging. Part 2[17:52] Does Kuldrin manage or micromanage Mayfair?[20:29] Babylove asks about calling red in a TPE dynamic.[28:32] Kuldrin's basic list of everything you need to know about total power exchange.[32:52] SSC vs RACK[34:38] https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/233[35:14] Temporary total power exchange[39:30] Trail total power exchange[45:57] https://BDSMContracts.org Coupon: Kuldrin20[57:23] Mayfair's final thoughts on TPE?[58:32] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/youtube[59:03] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/patreon[01:00:29] Trusted Vendors![01:00:52] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactImportant Links:https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/245Thank you: Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): Lily ChaosMaster Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, Sweet Charlotte, and JunicornsAngelSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4lifeProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie and Monroe.Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmillerVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessoriesContact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 5/10/2020 / Published: 7/3/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair joins us again for a conversation about Total Power Exchange (TPE).. [00:50] Rules to love by.1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[01:29] HaPpY mOtHeR's DaY!!![02:06] https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/YouTube[02:17] Total Power Exchange (TPE) Defined(https://www.kinkly.com/definition/92/total-power-exchange-tpe)-Total power exchange (TPE) is a relationship dynamic that occurs in a BDSM relationship where the dominant partner has total power over the submissive in everything. TPE always applies in sexual situations, but generally also refers to the dominant having power over all other elements of the submissive's life.-TPE is a turn-on for a lot of people because of the level of trust involved. The submissive essentially give their life away to the dominant. This is also a huge responsibility for the dominant and should not be taken lightly.-TPE can be used in day-to-day activities, or it can be used for just a few hours during play to spice things up.-This type of play is not about micromanaging a person's life; it’s about a submissive giving complete trust to the dominant partner and believing that they will keep the submissive's best interests and pleasure in mind.-What can be so hard to understand is that the submissive is actually control. That's because in safe, respectful D/s relationship the submissive can stop the play at any time. It's all about the submissive being able to give up control and the dominant being able to exert control in a safe, consensual way.[02:32] https://www.kinkly.com/definition/92/total-power-exchange-tpe[03:12] Did Kuldrin and mayfair go TPE?[03:26] TPE Defined.[05:28] A deep dive into micromanaging. Part 1[06:03] A contradiction in the definition?[08:12] A deep dive into micromanaging. Part 2[17:52] Does Kuldrin manage or micromanage Mayfair?[20:29] Babylove asks about calling red in a TPE dynamic.[28:32] Kuldrin's basic list of everything you need to know about total power exchange.[32:52] SSC vs RACK[34:38] https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/233[35:14] Temporary total power exchange[39:30] Trail total power exchange[45:57] https://BDSMContracts.org Coupon: Kuldrin20[57:23] Mayfair's final thoughts on TPE?[58:32] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/youtube[59:03] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/patreon[01:00:29] Trusted Vendors![01:00:52] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactImportant Links:https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/245Thank you: Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): Lily ChaosMaster Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, Sweet Charlotte, and JunicornsAngelSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4lifeProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie and Monroe.Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmillerVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessoriesContact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 5/3/2020 / Published to Podcast RSS: 6/26/2020We will be discussing the article on Cosmopolitan's website titled "The New Sex Practice Shibari Is Like Bondage’s Cousin, but Better" by Taylor Andrews.https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32240707/shibari-definition/Is Shibari new?What is Shabari Bondage and how is it different from other bondage?How can someone learn Shibari?Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me and we will be discussing the article on Cosmopolitan's website titled "The New Sex Practice Shibari Is Like Bondage’s Cousin, but Better" by Taylor Andrews. and then we’ll be answering your questions live.Rules to Love By:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[03:13] "The New Sex Practice Shibari Is Like Bondage’s Cousin, but Better" by Taylor Andrews https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32240707/shibari-definition/ [03:06] https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32240707/shibari-definition/[08:57] Yay! Pop Culture![10:19] Midori and Twisted Monk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b8R3RcMClJI[11:44] How is it different from regular bondage?[14:51] Where to start trying shibari.[16:47] Let's talk about using the "Yellow" safe word.[17:09] Kuldrin and Mayfair negotiate a scene.[30:50] Knots or frictions; what's the difference?[32:09] Shibari tips, tricks, or benefits of trying according to Cosmo.[37:01] Mayfair's final thoughts on the article.[38:34] Using store bought climbing harnesses?[45:58] Patreon Producer List https://kuldrinskrypt.com/patreon[57:28] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/patreon[57:51] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/youtubeImportant Show Links:https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/244Thank you: Show Producers:-Benefactor ($2,000/month): -Pro Producer ($100/month):-Master Producer ($50/month): -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny Ferrell-Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black Rose-Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe, Journey, Hadea, Rie, and Derpy Hooves-Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, macNmiller, and Lily ChaosIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessorieshttps://fetlife.com/users/9885653 - Tinks-Toys on FetlifeContact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 5/3/2020 / Published to Podcast RSS: 6/26/2020We will be discussing the article on Cosmopolitan's website titled "The New Sex Practice Shibari Is Like Bondage’s Cousin, but Better" by Taylor Andrews.https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32240707/shibari-definition/Is Shibari new?What is Shabari Bondage and how is it different from other bondage?How can someone learn Shibari?Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me and we will be discussing the article on Cosmopolitan's website titled "The New Sex Practice Shibari Is Like Bondage’s Cousin, but Better" by Taylor Andrews. and then we’ll be answering your questions live.Rules to Love By:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[03:13] "The New Sex Practice Shibari Is Like Bondage’s Cousin, but Better" by Taylor Andrews https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32240707/shibari-definition/ [03:06] https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32240707/shibari-definition/[08:57] Yay! Pop Culture![10:19] Midori and Twisted Monk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b8R3RcMClJI[11:44] How is it different from regular bondage?[14:51] Where to start trying shibari.[16:47] Let's talk about using the "Yellow" safe word.[17:09] Kuldrin and Mayfair negotiate a scene.[30:50] Knots or frictions; what's the difference?[32:09] Shibari tips, tricks, or benefits of trying according to Cosmo.[37:01] Mayfair's final thoughts on the article.[38:34] Using store bought climbing harnesses?[45:58] Patreon Producer List https://kuldrinskrypt.com/patreon[57:28] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/patreon[57:51] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/youtubeImportant Show Links:https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/244Thank you: Show Producers:-Benefactor ($2,000/month): -Pro Producer ($100/month):-Master Producer ($50/month): -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, and Johnny Ferrell-Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, and Author Mistress Black Rose-Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe, Journey, Hadea, Rie, and Derpy Hooves-Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, macNmiller, and Lily ChaosIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessorieshttps://fetlife.com/users/9885653 - Tinks-Toys on FetlifeContact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded and Published: 3/7/2020Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt I have an announcement concerning where I have been, what happened to my Fetlife.com account, and when the show will return. Also, some very special thank you’s to some amazing individuals. So let’s hit those Rule to Love By and jump into the interviews. Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungThe Show is NOT ending!!!https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/238Thank you: Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): Freedom HillsExecutive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFoxSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, and Sir PentProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, KJ, LilyChaos, Daddy Steve, Duckie MonroeJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmillerIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessoriesNext Time on the Krypt: ???Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey 

Recorded and Published: 3/7/2020Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt I have an announcement concerning where I have been, what happened to my Fetlife.com account, and when the show will return. Also, some very special thank you’s to some amazing individuals. So let’s hit those Rule to Love By and jump into the interviews. Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungThe Show is NOT ending!!!https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/238Thank you: Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): Freedom HillsExecutive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFoxSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, and Sir PentProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, KJ, LilyChaos, Daddy Steve, Duckie MonroeJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmillerIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessoriesNext Time on the Krypt: ???Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey 

Recorded: 11/3/2019 / Published: 11/28/2019Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt is from a YouTube Live session I did for those that came together to purchase myself a whip from @_Maker_ (on Fetlife.com)Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:34] A special thank you to those who donated to purchase my whip.[2:37] The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience [3:50] Getting into details about the whip.[6:36] Whip questions:How can you use a whip in a more soft sensual way? How to use it in a more intense way? How can you use it for mind fucks?What's the learning curve for you, on mastering this whip?What is your favorite way to use it? [14:10] Cracking the whip.https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/TeePublic[17:15] Favorite feature on this specific whip, or why is it special from this maker?I would like to hear the sounds of the whip... Other questions:“I’m not putting this question on fet because it’s weird. I've been curious since DomCon if playing does the same release for the top as bottom sometimes and how that works. Because it’s two completely different things. Like, I know for me it felt like walls I’ve put up were literally knocked over. Their back now, but for a few days my walls were knocked down and I got to relax. It’s hard to explain but I think you know what I’m asking.”What is the strangest thing you've had happen at a munch?[27:10] BDSM Wax Play, Fire Play, and Fire Cupping 101[32:11] Fear Play[38:35] Fire Cupping versus Suction Cuppinghttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/234Thank you: Show Producers:Master Producer($50/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaureliaSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, and Theod123Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, Pandora, and Daddy SteveJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Jeremiah, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and Jeremiah If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com - A place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessoriesNext Time on the Krypt:??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 11/3/2019 / Published: 11/28/2019Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt is from a YouTube Live session I did for those that came together to purchase myself a whip from @_Maker_ (on Fetlife.com)Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:34] A special thank you to those who donated to purchase my whip.[2:37] The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience [3:50] Getting into details about the whip.[6:36] Whip questions:How can you use a whip in a more soft sensual way? How to use it in a more intense way? How can you use it for mind fucks?What's the learning curve for you, on mastering this whip?What is your favorite way to use it? [14:10] Cracking the whip.https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/TeePublic[17:15] Favorite feature on this specific whip, or why is it special from this maker?I would like to hear the sounds of the whip... Other questions:“I’m not putting this question on fet because it’s weird. I've been curious since DomCon if playing does the same release for the top as bottom sometimes and how that works. Because it’s two completely different things. Like, I know for me it felt like walls I’ve put up were literally knocked over. Their back now, but for a few days my walls were knocked down and I got to relax. It’s hard to explain but I think you know what I’m asking.”What is the strangest thing you've had happen at a munch?[27:10] BDSM Wax Play, Fire Play, and Fire Cupping 101[32:11] Fear Play[38:35] Fire Cupping versus Suction Cuppinghttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/234Thank you: Show Producers:Master Producer($50/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaureliaSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, and Theod123Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, Pandora, and Daddy SteveJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Jeremiah, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and Jeremiah If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com - A place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessoriesNext Time on the Krypt:??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 10/20/2019 / Published: 10/27/2019Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to hit the rules to love by and then it’s a conversation that I’ve been waiting three years to have with Attorney Lady Steele on BDSM and the Law.Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:11] Attorney Lady Steele https://kuldrinskrypt.com/AttorneyLadySteele[1:27] America’s only out and proud kink practicing attorney[3:22] What all BDSM classes do you teach?[7:28] The current state of BDSM and the law and Lady Steele’s Disclaimer.[18:12] How will the changes in the medical community affect the legal aspect of kink?[30:00] Why are BDSM contract bad? Because legally they are considered evidence of abuse.[32:00] False accusations of abuse?[37:14] SESTA/FOSTA and how it applies to the everyday kinkster?[47:38] Kuldrin’s soapbox on the “Save the Children” argument using vaping as an example.[48:40] The “Sold in America” Podcast. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/soldinamericapodcast[49:31] General legal do’s and don’t for our kinks? What to do if the police show up at your home, a house party,  hotel, or a dungeon party you are attending?[1:16:33] Florida man arrested for performing a castration in his home. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/floridacastration[1:22:54] Attorney Lady Steele’s final tidbits on the topic?https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/233  Thank you: The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience Show Producers:Master Producer($50/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, and Electric_FlowSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove2269, and Theod123Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, and HaleyJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Jeremiah, Morgan, and knot_the_daddy.If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com - A place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessoriesNext Time on the Krypt:??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey 

Recorded: 10/20/2019 / Published: 10/27/2019Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to hit the rules to love by and then it’s a conversation that I’ve been waiting three years to have with Attorney Lady Steele on BDSM and the Law.Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:11] Attorney Lady Steele https://kuldrinskrypt.com/AttorneyLadySteele[1:27] America’s only out and proud kink practicing attorney[3:22] What all BDSM classes do you teach?[7:28] The current state of BDSM and the law and Lady Steele’s Disclaimer.[18:12] How will the changes in the medical community affect the legal aspect of kink?[30:00] Why are BDSM contract bad? Because legally they are considered evidence of abuse.[32:00] False accusations of abuse?[37:14] SESTA/FOSTA and how it applies to the everyday kinkster?[47:38] Kuldrin’s soapbox on the “Save the Children” argument using vaping as an example.[48:40] The “Sold in America” Podcast. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/soldinamericapodcast[49:31] General legal do’s and don’t for our kinks? What to do if the police show up at your home, a house party,  hotel, or a dungeon party you are attending?[1:16:33] Florida man arrested for performing a castration in his home. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/floridacastration[1:22:54] Attorney Lady Steele’s final tidbits on the topic?https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/233  Thank you: The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience Show Producers:Master Producer($50/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, and Electric_FlowSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove2269, and Theod123Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, and HaleyJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Jeremiah, Morgan, and knot_the_daddy.If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com - A place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessoriesNext Time on the Krypt:??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey 

Recorded: 5/12/2019 / Published: 8/22/2019NEPAK Donations Link: https://www.gofundme.com/f/nepak-community-fundraiserWelcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for a really cool conversation with Sir Pent where we talk about consensual breast torture and several extremely well-stated pieces of advice. Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[2:10] Sir PentHow long have you been in the kink scene?What are your favorite things?How did you get into breast torture?After you discovered this love, how did you get educated?[5:35] Safety and things to know about breast torture.[7:45} Breast implants and torture?[12:32] What does the lifestyle mean to you? FAMILY![17:14] Is there any one big piece of advice you give? What is the biggest warning you give?Contact Sir Pent: @SirPent89 on Fetlife, Insta, and TwitterShow notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/229 Thank you: The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and FaisilSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and AlexandriaJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, Morgan, knot_the_daddy, and RaefeIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 5/12/2019 / Published: 8/22/2019NEPAK Donations Link: https://www.gofundme.com/f/nepak-community-fundraiserWelcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for a really cool conversation with Sir Pent where we talk about consensual breast torture and several extremely well-stated pieces of advice. Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[2:10] Sir PentHow long have you been in the kink scene?What are your favorite things?How did you get into breast torture?After you discovered this love, how did you get educated?[5:35] Safety and things to know about breast torture.[7:45} Breast implants and torture?[12:32] What does the lifestyle mean to you? FAMILY![17:14] Is there any one big piece of advice you give? What is the biggest warning you give?Contact Sir Pent: @SirPent89 on Fetlife, Insta, and TwitterShow notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/229 Thank you: The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and FaisilSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and AlexandriaJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, Morgan, knot_the_daddy, and RaefeIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Ever wonder why you're supposed to throw salt over your shoulder if you spill some? Or why garlic is said to be protection against vampires? Or just how many superstitions are linked to the egg? For the month of March, I'll be looking at the stories behind common superstitions and symbols of luck. I'm your host, Emily Prokop, and this is The Story Behind Lucky Food. Love this series? GET THE CD! The entire Luck & Superstitions series is available on CD -- the perfect gift for people who love trivia but aren't into podcasts (yet). http://kunaki.com/sales.asp?PID=PX00ZI65G5 The role of Aristotle was played by Ryan from Kuldrin's Krypt. Follow The Story Behind: Twitter | Facebook | Instagram | Website Got a favorite podcast? Use the hashtag #TryPod to let others know about it through the month of March. Check out #PodernFamily on Twitter to find other great indie podcasts like this one. If you enjoy podcasts about history, literature, archeology, and the arts, check out the hashtag #HumanitiesPodcasts on Twitter to find more podcasts like this one. Click here to support this podcast on Patreon. Media: Music for Makers Sources: https://www.thoughtco.com/salt-folklore-and-magic-2562502 http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/worth-ones-salt.html http://www.cracked.com/article_21686_5-awesome-technologies-created-by-ancient-civilizations.html https://www.jw.org/en/publications/books/bible-stories/2/lots-wife/ http://people.howstuffworks.com/why-do-people-throw-salt-over-shoulders.htm http://listverse.com/2009/03/25/10-odd-superstitions-about-food/ http://www.rd.com/health/beauty/13-surprising-benefits-of-garlic/ https://books.google.com/books?id=YHCCX5B77MYC&pg=PA20&lpg=PA20&dq=Mohammedan+garden+of+eden+garlic+onion&source=bl&ots=R0P6IOC-Sd&sig=QdA5O8K43GwoeOH7XDOxak5Oeds&hl=en&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjV5cLNjcrSAhVBVmMKHYGED9UQ6AEIOjAC#v=onepage&q=Mohammedan%20garden%20of%20eden%20garlic%20onion&f=false https://books.google.com/books?id=sTtIDQAAQBAJ&pg=PA32&lpg=PA32&dq=%22gave+me+the+herb,+drawing+it+from+the+ground%22&source=bl&ots=oe-epC_yB4&sig=8Y_ReSjX34c5epE2MDdUk0KlBZY&hl=en&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjSs6eEkMrSAhVT0WMKHRjtA2IQ6AEIMjAD#v=onepage&q=%22gave%20me%20the%20herb%2C%20drawing%20it%20from%20the%20ground%22&f=false http://discovermagazine.com/2015/nov/17-rooted-in-truth http://www.herballegacy.com/Porritt_History.html http://americanfolklore.net/folklore/2010/10/garlic_superstitions_folklore.html http://people.howstuffworks.com/why-are-people-superstitious-about-double-yolked-eggs.htm http://www.snopes.com/science/equinox.asp http://goodlucksymbols.com/easter-eggs/ https://www.catholiccompany.com/getfed/mary-magdalene-first-easter-egg/ http://greece.greekreporter.com/2012/04/13/why-we-dye-eggs-red-at-easter/ https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/anthropology-in-practice/beyond-ishtar-the-tradition-of-eggs-at-easter/