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Healing and Wholeness: The 18-Inch Journey from Head to Heart “The glory of God is man fully alive.” —St. Irenaeus “God does not love some ideal version of you. He loves you—with your particular history, wounds, and desires.” This episode takes you on what may be the most important journey of your life: the 18 inches from the head to the heart. Through the story of Blaise Pascal's mystical night of fire, the gentle wisdom of Harvey's Elwood P. Dowd, and the wisdom of the Church, we explore what it means to become an integrated person—one who lives not in fragmentation, but in communion. We are not just minds or spirits—we are embodied, emotional, historical persons. And while trauma, generational wounds, and spiritual lies may have fractured our inner life, God is drawing us back into wholeness. This is not a journey of perfection, but of integration—of learning to live fully alive. You'll hear about: The role of the family in shaping our early spiritual imagination The wounds that distort identity and the lies we carry into adulthood How emotional maturity, spiritual direction, and community lead us to healing How God re-parents us through His Word, His Church, and His sacraments This episode is an invitation to courageously face the inner story you've believed—and to let God write a new one with you. Reflection & Journaling Questions for Prayer Where in my life do I live more from my head than from my heart? Where do I hide behind intelligence, control, or performance rather than love, vulnerability, and trust? Have I made the 18-inch journey from being right to being real? What would it mean to let go of needing to prove myself and instead seek communion? What were the spoken or unspoken rules in my family growing up? (“Don't feel,” “Be perfect,” “Never be weak,” etc.) What emotions were welcomed in my childhood? What emotions were avoided or punished? What role did I play in my family system? (Hero, invisible one, peacekeeper, rebel…) How does that still shape me today? What is one lie I have believed about myself? (“I am only loved if…”; “I must always… to be safe.”) Ask: Where did I learn this? What is the truth that God wants to speak there? What pattern have I inherited from my family or past that I want to bring into the light of Christ? Pray: “Lord, show me where You were when I felt unseen.” Which of life's tasks—work, friendship, or love—do I tend to avoid? Ask: Where do I need more courage to live generously and not self-protect? Do I see emotional strength as a way to protect myself or to give myself away? What would it mean to see my strength as a gift for others? What private logic or internal script still shapes how I see myself, God, and others? Bring one of those to prayer. Ask: “Jesus, walk with me through the rooms of my childhood. What do You want to show me?”
There are few things more disorienting than feeling like God is silent. The heavens feel closed, your prayers seem unanswered, and your spirit longs for even the faintest whisper. Many of us know what it's like to cry out in pain, only to be met with what feels like divine stillness. But even in silence, God is not absent.Our springboard for today's discussion is:“How long, O Lord? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me?” — Psalm 13:1 (ESV)David, the man after God's own heart, wasn't afraid to express deep frustration and anguish in his relationship with the Lord. He didn't hide his heart—he brought it fully before God. That kind of honesty is part of what faith looks like in times of silence.When God seems quiet, it's tempting to believe the worst—that He has left, that He's uninterested, or that your prayers don't matter. But silence is not the same as absence. Often, God is doing His deepest work in your life in the quiet spaces—strengthening your roots, building trust, refining your heart.The silence stretches us. It tests whether we will lean into His Word even when His voice seems still. When fresh direction doesn't come, go back to the last thing He told you. Stay rooted in Scripture. Remember His faithfulness in past seasons.Trust grows in the quiet. Obedience deepens. Spiritual maturity takes shape not just in what we hear—but in how we respond when we don't.Question of the Day:What does faith look like for you right now when you feel like God is silent?Mini Call to Action:Write down Psalm 13:1. Reflect on David's honesty and courage. Let it give you permission to bring your full heart to God today.Let's Pray:Lord, when I can't hear You, help me trust You. Strengthen my faith in the quiet. Teach me to lean on what is true, not just what I feel. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!God's silence is not His absence—keep walking with Him anyway.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
There are few things more disorienting than feeling like God is silent. The heavens feel closed, your prayers seem unanswered, and your spirit longs for even the faintest whisper. Many of us know what it's like to cry out in pain, only to be met with what feels like divine stillness. But even in silence, God is not absent.Our springboard for today's discussion is:“How long, O Lord? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me?” — Psalm 13:1 (ESV)David, the man after God's own heart, wasn't afraid to express deep frustration and anguish in his relationship with the Lord. He didn't hide his heart—he brought it fully before God. That kind of honesty is part of what faith looks like in times of silence.When God seems quiet, it's tempting to believe the worst—that He has left, that He's uninterested, or that your prayers don't matter. But silence is not the same as absence. Often, God is doing His deepest work in your life in the quiet spaces—strengthening your roots, building trust, refining your heart.The silence stretches us. It tests whether we will lean into His Word even when His voice seems still. When fresh direction doesn't come, go back to the last thing He told you. Stay rooted in Scripture. Remember His faithfulness in past seasons.Trust grows in the quiet. Obedience deepens. Spiritual maturity takes shape not just in what we hear—but in how we respond when we don't.Question of the Day:What does faith look like for you right now when you feel like God is silent?Mini Call to Action:Write down Psalm 13:1. Reflect on David's honesty and courage. Let it give you permission to bring your full heart to God today.Let's Pray:Lord, when I can't hear You, help me trust You. Strengthen my faith in the quiet. Teach me to lean on what is true, not just what I feel. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!God's silence is not His absence—keep walking with Him anyway.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Nobody asks for trials. But if you've been walking with Jesus for any amount of time, you know they come—unexpected, uninvited, and often unrelenting. And yet God tells us to “count it all joy”? Not because the pain feels good—but because something greater is being produced within us.Our springboard for today's discussion is:“Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness.” — James 1:2–3 (ESV)Trials are God's classroom. Not His punishment. And certainly not His absence. In the fire, your faith is refined—not destroyed. You learn how to stand, how to endure, how to trust when everything around you shakes.But the trial doesn't just reveal what's around you—it reveals what's in you. And more importantly, it reveals the One who is in it with you.You may not understand what's happening. The pieces don't always make sense. But God is not silent in the storm. He is speaking, even now.“My child, I know this hurts. I haven't overlooked it or delayed out of neglect. I'm allowing what will strengthen you, not destroy you. Trust Me. I am forming something in you that comfort never could. Hold on. I'm right here.”God is not asking you to pretend the trial isn't painful. He's asking you to anchor yourself in the truth that He is still good, still faithful, and still present.Faith is not proved in the light—it's proven in the dark. And every step you take in trust is shaping you into someone who reflects Jesus more than ever before.Question of the Day:Where in your life right now do you need to stop asking “why” and start trusting “Who”?Mini Call to Action:Write down one area of trial you're facing. Next to it, write one promise of God. Post it where you'll see it every day this week.Let's Pray:Lord, I don't always understand the pain—but I trust Your purpose. Strengthen my heart. Refine my faith. And teach me to walk through the fire with my eyes fixed on You. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Pain isn't the end of your story. It's the beginning of something stronger.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Nobody asks for trials. But if you've been walking with Jesus for any amount of time, you know they come—unexpected, uninvited, and often unrelenting. And yet God tells us to “count it all joy”? Not because the pain feels good—but because something greater is being produced within us.Our springboard for today's discussion is:“Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness.” — James 1:2–3 (ESV)Trials are God's classroom. Not His punishment. And certainly not His absence. In the fire, your faith is refined—not destroyed. You learn how to stand, how to endure, how to trust when everything around you shakes.But the trial doesn't just reveal what's around you—it reveals what's in you. And more importantly, it reveals the One who is in it with you.You may not understand what's happening. The pieces don't always make sense. But God is not silent in the storm. He is speaking, even now.“My child, I know this hurts. I haven't overlooked it or delayed out of neglect. I'm allowing what will strengthen you, not destroy you. Trust Me. I am forming something in you that comfort never could. Hold on. I'm right here.”God is not asking you to pretend the trial isn't painful. He's asking you to anchor yourself in the truth that He is still good, still faithful, and still present.Faith is not proved in the light—it's proven in the dark. And every step you take in trust is shaping you into someone who reflects Jesus more than ever before.Question of the Day:Where in your life right now do you need to stop asking “why” and start trusting “Who”?Mini Call to Action:Write down one area of trial you're facing. Next to it, write one promise of God. Post it where you'll see it every day this week.Let's Pray:Lord, I don't always understand the pain—but I trust Your purpose. Strengthen my heart. Refine my faith. And teach me to walk through the fire with my eyes fixed on You. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Pain isn't the end of your story. It's the beginning of something stronger.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
There is no greater weapon, no stronger shield, and no more powerful ministry than a parent who prays. When you cover your family in prayer, you're not just speaking words—you're building walls of protection, opening doors of favor, and aligning your home with the will of God. God hears every whisper, every tear, every cry that comes from a parent who stands in the gap.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"All your children shall be taught by the Lord, and great shall be the peace of your children." — Isaiah 54:13You don't have to control everything in your child's life. You won't always be there to guard every decision, every friendship, or every circumstance. But you can stand before God every single day on their behalf.Praying for your family means you're calling down heaven into their lives:* Pray protection over their minds, their hearts, and their purity.* Pray purpose over their callings, gifts, and futures.* Pray peace over your home, especially in moments of tension.* Pray wisdom over your parenting decisions, even when clarity feels far away.Start calling out their names before God each morning. Declare His Word over them—because prayer mixed with Scripture is warfare. Lay hands on their doors. Speak life into your spouse. Cover your home in the authority Christ has given you.Prayer isn't a backup plan. It's your first line of defense.And even when you feel weak, tired, or unsure—God sees your prayers as incense before His throne. He is moved by the intercession of a mother, a father, a grandparent who refuses to give up.Question of the Day:What specific area of your family needs prayer covering today?Mini Call to Action:Write a 3-line prayer today—one sentence for your spouse, one for your children, one for yourself. Speak it aloud and repeat it every day this week.Let's Pray:Lord, teach me to cover my family with prayer. Help me to be faithful in intercession, bold in declaring Your promises, and strong in trusting You with those I love most. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Your prayers may be silent to the world—but they roar in heaven.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
There is no greater weapon, no stronger shield, and no more powerful ministry than a parent who prays. When you cover your family in prayer, you're not just speaking words—you're building walls of protection, opening doors of favor, and aligning your home with the will of God. God hears every whisper, every tear, every cry that comes from a parent who stands in the gap.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"All your children shall be taught by the Lord, and great shall be the peace of your children." — Isaiah 54:13You don't have to control everything in your child's life. You won't always be there to guard every decision, every friendship, or every circumstance. But you can stand before God every single day on their behalf.Praying for your family means you're calling down heaven into their lives:* Pray protection over their minds, their hearts, and their purity.* Pray purpose over their callings, gifts, and futures.* Pray peace over your home, especially in moments of tension.* Pray wisdom over your parenting decisions, even when clarity feels far away.Start calling out their names before God each morning. Declare His Word over them—because prayer mixed with Scripture is warfare. Lay hands on their doors. Speak life into your spouse. Cover your home in the authority Christ has given you.Prayer isn't a backup plan. It's your first line of defense.And even when you feel weak, tired, or unsure—God sees your prayers as incense before His throne. He is moved by the intercession of a mother, a father, a grandparent who refuses to give up.Question of the Day:What specific area of your family needs prayer covering today?Mini Call to Action:Write a 3-line prayer today—one sentence for your spouse, one for your children, one for yourself. Speak it aloud and repeat it every day this week.Let's Pray:Lord, teach me to cover my family with prayer. Help me to be faithful in intercession, bold in declaring Your promises, and strong in trusting You with those I love most. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Your prayers may be silent to the world—but they roar in heaven.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Sibling relationships have the power to shape a child's character and future in profound ways. These relationships are often the first training ground for learning forgiveness, humility, patience, and selfless love. And God is not silent about how we're to treat one another—even in the smallest corners of the home.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you…" — John 13:34Teaching siblings to love one another doesn't begin with behavior correction—it begins with heart formation. It's not about getting kids to simply “get along.” It's about helping them see each other as image-bearers of God, placed in the same family for a reason.Here are a few ways to disciple your children in sibling love:* Model it – Show grace and respect in your own relationships. Children replicate what they see.* Pray for one another out loud – Let siblings hear each other's needs lifted to God. It softens hearts.* Teach peacemaking, not just peacekeeping – Train them to work through conflict biblically, not just avoid it.* Celebrate one another – Encourage them to cheer each other on rather than compete for attention.* Speak blessing – Teach them to use their words to build, not tear down.Sibling rivalry isn't new—it's been around since Cain and Abel. But in Christ, our homes can be different. God wants to use sibling relationships to build unity, sharpen character, and reflect His love.If your children struggle with tension, don't lose hope. Ask the Holy Spirit to move in their hearts. Begin praying for a spirit of unity and kindness between them—and don't stop. God cares deeply about what's happening between your children.Question of the Day:What's one way you can help your children grow in love and unity toward each other this week?Mini Call to Action:Lead your children in a short time of praying for one another today. Even one sentence each. Watch what begins to shift.Let's Pray:Lord, teach our children to love each other as You have loved them. Help us lead by example. Let our home be filled with grace, patience, and a Spirit of unity. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!The love your children learn to give each other at home will shape how they love the world.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Sibling relationships have the power to shape a child's character and future in profound ways. These relationships are often the first training ground for learning forgiveness, humility, patience, and selfless love. And God is not silent about how we're to treat one another—even in the smallest corners of the home.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you…" — John 13:34Teaching siblings to love one another doesn't begin with behavior correction—it begins with heart formation. It's not about getting kids to simply “get along.” It's about helping them see each other as image-bearers of God, placed in the same family for a reason.Here are a few ways to disciple your children in sibling love:* Model it – Show grace and respect in your own relationships. Children replicate what they see.* Pray for one another out loud – Let siblings hear each other's needs lifted to God. It softens hearts.* Teach peacemaking, not just peacekeeping – Train them to work through conflict biblically, not just avoid it.* Celebrate one another – Encourage them to cheer each other on rather than compete for attention.* Speak blessing – Teach them to use their words to build, not tear down.Sibling rivalry isn't new—it's been around since Cain and Abel. But in Christ, our homes can be different. God wants to use sibling relationships to build unity, sharpen character, and reflect His love.If your children struggle with tension, don't lose hope. Ask the Holy Spirit to move in their hearts. Begin praying for a spirit of unity and kindness between them—and don't stop. God cares deeply about what's happening between your children.Question of the Day:What's one way you can help your children grow in love and unity toward each other this week?Mini Call to Action:Lead your children in a short time of praying for one another today. Even one sentence each. Watch what begins to shift.Let's Pray:Lord, teach our children to love each other as You have loved them. Help us lead by example. Let our home be filled with grace, patience, and a Spirit of unity. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!The love your children learn to give each other at home will shape how they love the world.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Every family passes something down—values, traditions, even patterns of brokenness. But as believers, we are called to leave more than possessions behind. We are called to pass on a legacy of faith. A spiritual inheritance that will outlast our name, our income, and even our lifetime.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"I am reminded of your sincere faith, a faith that dwelt first in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice..." — 2 Timothy 1:5When Paul spoke to Timothy, he didn't mention titles, wealth, or success. He pointed to a lineage of faith. Faith that was lived out. Faith that was taught. Faith that endured across generations.You may not come from a family of faith—but you can be the starting point. You can be the one that breaks curses and begins blessings. You can plant seeds your great-grandchildren will benefit from.Passing down faith isn't about being a perfect parent. It's about being faithful in the small things:* Praying over your children and letting them hear it.* Reading the Word and inviting them into it.* Telling them how God showed up in your life—testimony is one of the most powerful gifts you can leave behind.* Creating a home where grace is tangible, worship is welcome, and repentance is modeled.Legacy isn't formed in one big moment. It's built in ordinary days of consistency, surrender, and obedience. And even if your kids stray, the seeds of faith remain. God knows how to water them at the right time.So live your faith in front of your family. Let them see what it looks like to follow Jesus—not just in church, but in how you treat them, how you persevere, and how you love.Question of the Day:What spiritual inheritance are you actively building for your children and grandchildren?Mini Call to Action:Write down one testimony of God's faithfulness in your life and share it with your child this week—even if they've heard it before.Let's Pray:Lord, help us to live in a way that leaves a lasting legacy of faith. Let our lives be a testimony of Your goodness, Your power, and Your grace. May the generations after us know You because of the seeds we sow today. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!A faith-filled legacy doesn't start someday—it starts now.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Every family passes something down—values, traditions, even patterns of brokenness. But as believers, we are called to leave more than possessions behind. We are called to pass on a legacy of faith. A spiritual inheritance that will outlast our name, our income, and even our lifetime.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"I am reminded of your sincere faith, a faith that dwelt first in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice..." — 2 Timothy 1:5When Paul spoke to Timothy, he didn't mention titles, wealth, or success. He pointed to a lineage of faith. Faith that was lived out. Faith that was taught. Faith that endured across generations.You may not come from a family of faith—but you can be the starting point. You can be the one that breaks curses and begins blessings. You can plant seeds your great-grandchildren will benefit from.Passing down faith isn't about being a perfect parent. It's about being faithful in the small things:* Praying over your children and letting them hear it.* Reading the Word and inviting them into it.* Telling them how God showed up in your life—testimony is one of the most powerful gifts you can leave behind.* Creating a home where grace is tangible, worship is welcome, and repentance is modeled.Legacy isn't formed in one big moment. It's built in ordinary days of consistency, surrender, and obedience. And even if your kids stray, the seeds of faith remain. God knows how to water them at the right time.So live your faith in front of your family. Let them see what it looks like to follow Jesus—not just in church, but in how you treat them, how you persevere, and how you love.Question of the Day:What spiritual inheritance are you actively building for your children and grandchildren?Mini Call to Action:Write down one testimony of God's faithfulness in your life and share it with your child this week—even if they've heard it before.Let's Pray:Lord, help us to live in a way that leaves a lasting legacy of faith. Let our lives be a testimony of Your goodness, Your power, and Your grace. May the generations after us know You because of the seeds we sow today. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!A faith-filled legacy doesn't start someday—it starts now.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Technology isn't evil—but it is powerful. And in today's culture, media shapes minds faster than almost anything else. As parents, we are not just raising children—we're guarding hearts. If we're not actively leading our families through the noise, the noise will lead them away from truth.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Whatever is true, honorable, just, pure… think about these things." — Philippians 4:8Our kids are growing up with access to everything—entertainment, opinions, ideologies, and temptations—all at the touch of a screen. The question isn't if they'll be influenced, but who will be the loudest voice in that influence.God is calling us to lead with discernment, not fear. To guide our children into tech wisdom—not tech dependence. To train them not just to avoid darkness, but to pursue light.This means setting clear, Spirit-led boundaries:* Limit screen time so hearts have time to rest.* Filter content—not just with apps, but with prayer and conversation.* Model purity and wisdom in your own tech use.* Talk with your kids regularly about what they're watching, reading, and hearing—not in interrogation, but with invitation.We're not called to isolate our kids—we're called to equip them. Teach them to ask:“Does this show reflect God's truth?”“Is this app building me up or tearing me down?”“Do I feel closer to God—or numb—after this?”These are the kinds of questions that shape strong, discerning disciples.God wants to be Lord over the devices in your home, too. And when we place even our screens under His authority, we create space for His voice to rise above the noise.Question of the Day:What digital boundary do you need to set—or reset—in your home this week?Mini Call to Action:Have a conversation with your family tonight. Invite everyone to help choose one new tech boundary you'll all honor together for the next 7 days.Let's Pray:Lord, give us wisdom to lead our homes in truth. Help us guard what enters our hearts and minds. Let our homes be filled with what is pure, what is holy, and what reflects Your voice. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Your home doesn't have to be controlled by culture—let it be led by Christ.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Technology isn't evil—but it is powerful. And in today's culture, media shapes minds faster than almost anything else. As parents, we are not just raising children—we're guarding hearts. If we're not actively leading our families through the noise, the noise will lead them away from truth.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Whatever is true, honorable, just, pure… think about these things." — Philippians 4:8Our kids are growing up with access to everything—entertainment, opinions, ideologies, and temptations—all at the touch of a screen. The question isn't if they'll be influenced, but who will be the loudest voice in that influence.God is calling us to lead with discernment, not fear. To guide our children into tech wisdom—not tech dependence. To train them not just to avoid darkness, but to pursue light.This means setting clear, Spirit-led boundaries:* Limit screen time so hearts have time to rest.* Filter content—not just with apps, but with prayer and conversation.* Model purity and wisdom in your own tech use.* Talk with your kids regularly about what they're watching, reading, and hearing—not in interrogation, but with invitation.We're not called to isolate our kids—we're called to equip them. Teach them to ask:“Does this show reflect God's truth?”“Is this app building me up or tearing me down?”“Do I feel closer to God—or numb—after this?”These are the kinds of questions that shape strong, discerning disciples.God wants to be Lord over the devices in your home, too. And when we place even our screens under His authority, we create space for His voice to rise above the noise.Question of the Day:What digital boundary do you need to set—or reset—in your home this week?Mini Call to Action:Have a conversation with your family tonight. Invite everyone to help choose one new tech boundary you'll all honor together for the next 7 days.Let's Pray:Lord, give us wisdom to lead our homes in truth. Help us guard what enters our hearts and minds. Let our homes be filled with what is pure, what is holy, and what reflects Your voice. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Your home doesn't have to be controlled by culture—let it be led by Christ.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Prayer is not just something we do when we need help—it's how we stay aligned with the One who leads our home. A praying family isn't just a spiritual family—it's a strong one. When we pray together, we make space for God to take His rightful place in the center of our family life.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them." — Matthew 18:20Family prayer time doesn't need to be complicated. It doesn't have to sound perfect. But it does need to be prioritized.In a world where schedules compete for our time and devices distract our focus, setting aside time for prayer re-centers everything. It reminds your family that God is not just a Sunday experience—He is the foundation of your daily life.Prayer creates unity. When you pray as a family, walls begin to come down. Hearts soften. Fear loses ground. Children learn what it means to bring real concerns before a real God. Parents model humility. Spouses grow closer. And peace begins to fill the atmosphere.Even just a few minutes can shift the tone of an entire home.Here are a few simple ways to build it into your rhythm:* Start or end each day with a short family prayer.* Pray at the dinner table, not just for the food—but for each other.* Ask each family member to share one thing they're thankful for or one person they want to pray for.* Keep it consistent. Keep it real.When you gather in His name, He shows up. And when He shows up, everything changes.Question of the Day:What's one change you can make this week to prioritize prayer in your home?Mini Call to Action:Choose a daily time—morning, meal, or evening—to pray as a family. Start today. Just a few minutes. Let the Spirit lead it.Let's Pray:Lord, teach us to pray together. Let our home be a house of prayer—a place where Your presence dwells, where unity grows, and where Your voice is welcome. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Prayer is where your family's battles are won before they even begin.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Prayer is not just something we do when we need help—it's how we stay aligned with the One who leads our home. A praying family isn't just a spiritual family—it's a strong one. When we pray together, we make space for God to take His rightful place in the center of our family life.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them." — Matthew 18:20Family prayer time doesn't need to be complicated. It doesn't have to sound perfect. But it does need to be prioritized.In a world where schedules compete for our time and devices distract our focus, setting aside time for prayer re-centers everything. It reminds your family that God is not just a Sunday experience—He is the foundation of your daily life.Prayer creates unity. When you pray as a family, walls begin to come down. Hearts soften. Fear loses ground. Children learn what it means to bring real concerns before a real God. Parents model humility. Spouses grow closer. And peace begins to fill the atmosphere.Even just a few minutes can shift the tone of an entire home.Here are a few simple ways to build it into your rhythm:* Start or end each day with a short family prayer.* Pray at the dinner table, not just for the food—but for each other.* Ask each family member to share one thing they're thankful for or one person they want to pray for.* Keep it consistent. Keep it real.When you gather in His name, He shows up. And when He shows up, everything changes.Question of the Day:What's one change you can make this week to prioritize prayer in your home?Mini Call to Action:Choose a daily time—morning, meal, or evening—to pray as a family. Start today. Just a few minutes. Let the Spirit lead it.Let's Pray:Lord, teach us to pray together. Let our home be a house of prayer—a place where Your presence dwells, where unity grows, and where Your voice is welcome. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Prayer is where your family's battles are won before they even begin.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
There is a holy weight to marriage—a covenant made before God, not just a contract signed before people. And yet, in a world that values comfort over commitment, it's easy to forget that covenant isn't based on how we feel… but on what we promised. And more importantly—on what God promised to build through it.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Did he not make them one… in flesh and spirit? And why one? Because he was seeking godly offspring. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith with the wife of your youth." — Malachi 2:15The truth is, comfort fades. Passion rises and falls. Life gets real—bills pile up, routines take over, health shifts, and the butterflies that once fluttered so freely now sleep in.But covenant doesn't depend on butterflies. It depends on a vow—sealed in the presence of God. And He takes that seriously.When God brought you together, He wasn't creating a fairy tale—He was establishing a sacred union for His glory and your growth. He was forming a partnership that reflects His unwavering faithfulness, not our fluctuating feelings.Covenant love says:“I choose you—when it's easy and when it's exhausting.I remain—when I feel close to you and when I feel far from myself.I stay—because God is in this, and I will not break faith with the one He gave me.”This isn't about staying in harmful situations—God does not call anyone to remain in abuse or danger. But in the weariness, the distance, the ordinary—it's about remembering who wrote your vows. And honoring them not out of duty, but out of love for the One who sustains them.Question of the Day:Are you leaning more on your feelings—or your covenant?Mini Call to Action:Revisit your wedding vows today. Read them aloud. Ask God to help you live them out with fresh grace and deeper resolve.Let's Pray:Lord, restore in us the awe of covenant. Help us to see our marriage as holy ground, and empower us to honor it—not just when it's comfortable, but especially when it's not. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Marriage isn't built on the absence of struggle—it's built on the presence of a promise.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
There is a holy weight to marriage—a covenant made before God, not just a contract signed before people. And yet, in a world that values comfort over commitment, it's easy to forget that covenant isn't based on how we feel… but on what we promised. And more importantly—on what God promised to build through it.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Did he not make them one… in flesh and spirit? And why one? Because he was seeking godly offspring. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith with the wife of your youth." — Malachi 2:15The truth is, comfort fades. Passion rises and falls. Life gets real—bills pile up, routines take over, health shifts, and the butterflies that once fluttered so freely now sleep in.But covenant doesn't depend on butterflies. It depends on a vow—sealed in the presence of God. And He takes that seriously.When God brought you together, He wasn't creating a fairy tale—He was establishing a sacred union for His glory and your growth. He was forming a partnership that reflects His unwavering faithfulness, not our fluctuating feelings.Covenant love says:“I choose you—when it's easy and when it's exhausting.I remain—when I feel close to you and when I feel far from myself.I stay—because God is in this, and I will not break faith with the one He gave me.”This isn't about staying in harmful situations—God does not call anyone to remain in abuse or danger. But in the weariness, the distance, the ordinary—it's about remembering who wrote your vows. And honoring them not out of duty, but out of love for the One who sustains them.Question of the Day:Are you leaning more on your feelings—or your covenant?Mini Call to Action:Revisit your wedding vows today. Read them aloud. Ask God to help you live them out with fresh grace and deeper resolve.Let's Pray:Lord, restore in us the awe of covenant. Help us to see our marriage as holy ground, and empower us to honor it—not just when it's comfortable, but especially when it's not. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Marriage isn't built on the absence of struggle—it's built on the presence of a promise.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Some days, love feels effortless. Other days, it feels like a choice made one hard breath at a time. There are seasons in marriage when holding on doesn't feel romantic—it feels like obedience. But those moments? That's where real love lives. Not in the easy days, but in the faithful ones.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up." — Galatians 6:9Every marriage faces storms—financial struggles, parenting tension, emotional distance, health crises, spiritual dryness. And when you're in the middle of one, the enemy whispers, “This is too much. Maybe it's time to quit.”But God's voice says, “Hold on. I'm not finished.”Love isn't sustained by feelings. It's sustained by covenant. The vow you made wasn't just for the joyful days—it was for the days you feel like roommates instead of lovers… when conversation turns into silence, and when connection feels out of reach.But friend, don't give up. The soil may be dry today, but the roots are still alive. And if you keep sowing—keep choosing kindness, prayer, presence, and forgiveness—you will reap. That's His promise.Perseverance in marriage doesn't mean pretending everything's fine. It means refusing to let go just because everything isn't.It's in the hardest seasons that God often does His deepest work—refining, restoring, re-rooting your relationship in grace.And one day, you'll look back and say, “That season didn't break us—it built us.”Question of the Day:Is there a place in your marriage where God is simply asking you… to keep holding on?Mini Call to Action:Speak these words out loud today: “I'm not giving up.” Then show it with one simple act of grace toward your spouse.Let's Pray:Lord, give us strength to endure, courage to remain, and faith to believe You are working even when we can't see it. Help us love faithfully, just as You love us. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Because sometimes the most powerful thing you can do… is stay.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Some days, love feels effortless. Other days, it feels like a choice made one hard breath at a time. There are seasons in marriage when holding on doesn't feel romantic—it feels like obedience. But those moments? That's where real love lives. Not in the easy days, but in the faithful ones.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up." — Galatians 6:9Every marriage faces storms—financial struggles, parenting tension, emotional distance, health crises, spiritual dryness. And when you're in the middle of one, the enemy whispers, “This is too much. Maybe it's time to quit.”But God's voice says, “Hold on. I'm not finished.”Love isn't sustained by feelings. It's sustained by covenant. The vow you made wasn't just for the joyful days—it was for the days you feel like roommates instead of lovers… when conversation turns into silence, and when connection feels out of reach.But friend, don't give up. The soil may be dry today, but the roots are still alive. And if you keep sowing—keep choosing kindness, prayer, presence, and forgiveness—you will reap. That's His promise.Perseverance in marriage doesn't mean pretending everything's fine. It means refusing to let go just because everything isn't.It's in the hardest seasons that God often does His deepest work—refining, restoring, re-rooting your relationship in grace.And one day, you'll look back and say, “That season didn't break us—it built us.”Question of the Day:Is there a place in your marriage where God is simply asking you… to keep holding on?Mini Call to Action:Speak these words out loud today: “I'm not giving up.” Then show it with one simple act of grace toward your spouse.Let's Pray:Lord, give us strength to endure, courage to remain, and faith to believe You are working even when we can't see it. Help us love faithfully, just as You love us. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Because sometimes the most powerful thing you can do… is stay.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Marriage has the power to bless deeply—and wound deeply. The closer the relationship, the sharper the sting when things go wrong. Words spoken in anger, seasons of silence, broken trust, or unmet expectations can leave scars that don't fade quickly. But here's the good news: God doesn't ignore those wounds—He heals them.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." — Psalm 147:3If you're hurting in your marriage—emotionally, spiritually, or relationally—know this: God sees. He sees the tearful prayers you haven't told anyone about. He sees the aching silence. And He's not asking you to cover it up. He's asking you to bring it to Him.Healing isn't pretending it didn't hurt. It's choosing to bring your heart into the presence of the One who knows how to bind it gently.And yes—healing takes time. Just like a physical wound, emotional wounds need cleansing, care, and patience. Some might require conversation and counseling. Others might start with confession and forgiveness. But every healing journey begins with surrender.You don't heal by demanding your spouse fix you. You heal by letting God restore what's been torn. That might mean laying down bitterness. That might mean inviting accountability. That might mean trusting God again… even before your spouse changes.And if you're the one who caused the wound—don't harden your heart. Own it. Apologize with humility. Then let God shape you into someone who no longer wounds, but builds.God doesn't waste pain. And He never leaves wounds untreated. When you place your brokenness in His hands, He doesn't just patch it—He makes it stronger than before.Question of the Day:What wound have you been carrying in your marriage that God wants to begin healing today?Mini Call to Action:Take a quiet moment and write down what's been hurting. Invite God into it. If it's time, share it gently with your spouse.Let's Pray:Lord, You are the healer of broken hearts. We bring You every wound, every scar, and every pain. Bind us up with Your love. Teach us how to walk in forgiveness, restoration, and grace. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!God doesn't just heal what's broken—He redeems it for His glory.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Marriage has the power to bless deeply—and wound deeply. The closer the relationship, the sharper the sting when things go wrong. Words spoken in anger, seasons of silence, broken trust, or unmet expectations can leave scars that don't fade quickly. But here's the good news: God doesn't ignore those wounds—He heals them.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." — Psalm 147:3If you're hurting in your marriage—emotionally, spiritually, or relationally—know this: God sees. He sees the tearful prayers you haven't told anyone about. He sees the aching silence. And He's not asking you to cover it up. He's asking you to bring it to Him.Healing isn't pretending it didn't hurt. It's choosing to bring your heart into the presence of the One who knows how to bind it gently.And yes—healing takes time. Just like a physical wound, emotional wounds need cleansing, care, and patience. Some might require conversation and counseling. Others might start with confession and forgiveness. But every healing journey begins with surrender.You don't heal by demanding your spouse fix you. You heal by letting God restore what's been torn. That might mean laying down bitterness. That might mean inviting accountability. That might mean trusting God again… even before your spouse changes.And if you're the one who caused the wound—don't harden your heart. Own it. Apologize with humility. Then let God shape you into someone who no longer wounds, but builds.God doesn't waste pain. And He never leaves wounds untreated. When you place your brokenness in His hands, He doesn't just patch it—He makes it stronger than before.Question of the Day:What wound have you been carrying in your marriage that God wants to begin healing today?Mini Call to Action:Take a quiet moment and write down what's been hurting. Invite God into it. If it's time, share it gently with your spouse.Let's Pray:Lord, You are the healer of broken hearts. We bring You every wound, every scar, and every pain. Bind us up with Your love. Teach us how to walk in forgiveness, restoration, and grace. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!God doesn't just heal what's broken—He redeems it for His glory.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Marriage isn't just about sharing a life—it's about sharing a pursuit of God. And one of the most important roles you play in your spouse's life is being their spiritual encourager. Not their critic. Not their personal Holy Spirit. But a voice of grace that fans the flame of faith within them.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works." — Hebrews 10:24The truth is, your spouse will go through seasons—some filled with spiritual passion, and some marked by silence, doubt, or exhaustion. And when that happens, they don't need pressure. They need encouragement.They need someone who sees what God is doing in them—even when they can't. Someone who will speak life when their faith feels dry. Someone who says, “I believe in who God is shaping you to be.”Here's what that could look like:* Praying out loud for your spouse's calling, even if they're unsure of it themselves.* Speaking Scripture over their fears or insecurities.* Celebrating their spiritual wins, no matter how small.* Reminding them that God still uses broken vessels.Spiritual encouragement doesn't mean having all the answers. It means showing up with faith when they've run out of it.And sometimes, encouragement means silence. Just sitting beside them in the waiting, listening to God on their behalf, and loving them through the process.You are not your spouse's Savior. But you are called to be their ally in the Spirit.So lift their arms when they're tired. Speak truth when they forget it. And never stop praying them into the fullness of what God created them for.Question of the Day:How can you spiritually encourage your spouse this week—without pushing or pressuring?Mini Call to Action:Ask your spouse, “How can I be praying for you right now?” Then write it down—and pray for it every day this week.Let's Pray:Lord, make me a source of life and encouragement in my spouse's journey. Help me to point them to You, speak Your truth in love, and never stop believing in what You're doing through them. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!You were never meant to run this race alone—and neither was your spouse.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Marriage isn't just about sharing a life—it's about sharing a pursuit of God. And one of the most important roles you play in your spouse's life is being their spiritual encourager. Not their critic. Not their personal Holy Spirit. But a voice of grace that fans the flame of faith within them.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works." — Hebrews 10:24The truth is, your spouse will go through seasons—some filled with spiritual passion, and some marked by silence, doubt, or exhaustion. And when that happens, they don't need pressure. They need encouragement.They need someone who sees what God is doing in them—even when they can't. Someone who will speak life when their faith feels dry. Someone who says, “I believe in who God is shaping you to be.”Here's what that could look like:* Praying out loud for your spouse's calling, even if they're unsure of it themselves.* Speaking Scripture over their fears or insecurities.* Celebrating their spiritual wins, no matter how small.* Reminding them that God still uses broken vessels.Spiritual encouragement doesn't mean having all the answers. It means showing up with faith when they've run out of it.And sometimes, encouragement means silence. Just sitting beside them in the waiting, listening to God on their behalf, and loving them through the process.You are not your spouse's Savior. But you are called to be their ally in the Spirit.So lift their arms when they're tired. Speak truth when they forget it. And never stop praying them into the fullness of what God created them for.Question of the Day:How can you spiritually encourage your spouse this week—without pushing or pressuring?Mini Call to Action:Ask your spouse, “How can I be praying for you right now?” Then write it down—and pray for it every day this week.Let's Pray:Lord, make me a source of life and encouragement in my spouse's journey. Help me to point them to You, speak Your truth in love, and never stop believing in what You're doing through them. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!You were never meant to run this race alone—and neither was your spouse.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
There's a lot of confusion today about what roles in marriage are supposed to look like. The world either mocks God's design or distorts it. But Scripture is clear—God established order in marriage not for control, but for harmony. When we understand our roles through the lens of Christ, we see that every assignment in marriage is sacred.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ." — Ephesians 5:21Let's set the record straight: biblical headship is not about dominance. And biblical submission is not about weakness. These roles are rooted in love, humility, and sacrificial service—modeled after Christ Himself.Husbands are called to lead, yes—but to lead like Jesus: with strength, tenderness, wisdom, and sacrifice. Ephesians 5:25 says, “Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” That's not passive. That's not controlling. That's Christlike.Wives are called to submit—not in fear, but in trust. And not to a tyrant, but to a man who is submitted to God. This kind of submission reflects Christ's own humility and strength. It says, “I support your leadership because I trust the God you're following.”And don't miss the foundation—mutual submission. Before Paul speaks to husbands and wives, he says: “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” That means both husband and wife yield to the Spirit, serve each other, and put one another above themselves.This isn't about competition. It's about completion. Two roles. One mission. One kingdom.Question of the Day:Are you walking in your God-given role with humility, strength, and surrender?Mini Call to Action:Sit down with your spouse and ask: “How can I love and serve you better in the role God's given me?” Then listen—truly listen—and act.Let's Pray:Lord, help us walk in the design You created. Teach us to lead with love, to support with strength, and to serve one another out of reverence for You. May our marriage reflect Your heart. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!When marriage follows heaven's order, earth sees heaven's beauty.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
There's something sacred—powerful—about a husband and wife coming before God together. Prayer isn't just a personal discipline; it's a marital weapon. It guards the heart, anchors the relationship, and invites God into the center of everything.Yet for many couples, praying together is one of the hardest habits to start. It feels awkward, vulnerable, or simply unfamiliar. But just like holding hands or learning to walk in step, it takes time, trust, and intentionality.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"If two of you agree on earth about anything they ask, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven." — Matthew 18:19When you pray as one, you align your hearts under God's authority. You learn to intercede, to listen, and to believe together. You bring both your burdens and your blessings to the altar—not as individuals, but as one flesh with one voice.Couples who pray together invite God to be more than a foundation—they welcome Him as a daily partner.Start simple. Hold hands and thank Him for today. Ask Him for wisdom in a decision. Lift up your children, your finances, your intimacy. Let your spouse hear your heart cry out to God. You'll learn things about each other that casual conversations may never reveal.Praying together builds spiritual trust. It heals unseen wounds. It creates unity that can't be shaken by mere disagreement or circumstance.No matter how distant you may feel—God's presence will begin drawing you closer. And over time, you'll find that prayer is no longer awkward. It becomes essential.Question of the Day:What's holding you back from praying with your spouse?Mini Call to Action:Set aside five minutes today—just five—and pray out loud together. One starts, the other finishes. Let God fill the middle.Let's Pray:Lord, teach us how to pray as one. Remove the fear, the pride, the distractions. Let our marriage be rooted in Your presence. Unite us in prayer so we may walk in Your purpose. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!A praying couple isn't just strong—they're unstoppable.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Forgiveness is not just something we offer when it feels convenient—it is a command rooted in the character of Christ. In marriage, where two flawed people walk intimately and closely together, forgiveness is not optional—it's vital. It is the lifeblood of lasting covenant love.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." — Ephesians 4:32Marriage reveals both the beauty and brokenness in each of us. And because of that, there will be moments—sometimes many—when you will hurt one another. Sometimes it will be unintentional. Sometimes it won't.But forgiveness is not about justifying the hurt. It's about releasing it.When Christ forgave you, He didn't wait until you deserved it. He didn't require you to fix yourself first. He extended grace freely, fully, and without condition. That same grace is what you've been called to offer within your marriage.Forgiveness doesn't erase the wound—but it removes the weight. It's not a denial of pain—it's a decision to surrender the right to hold it against your spouse.This doesn't mean we avoid hard conversations or overlook repeated patterns that need healing. But it does mean we refuse to become prisoners of resentment. Because unforgiveness doesn't only distance us from our spouse—it distances us from God.The world says hold on to offenses. God says release them. And when we choose His way, we make room for healing, reconciliation, and restored trust.Question of the Day:What offense have you been holding on to that God is asking you to release?Mini Call to Action:Take a moment today in prayer. Name the offense. Then release it to God, even if you need to do it in tears. If appropriate, speak words of forgiveness to your spouse—or start by writing them down.Let's Pray:Lord, teach us how to forgive as You forgave us. Break the grip of bitterness, and heal what has been broken. Fill our hearts with grace, and help us walk in the freedom of forgiveness. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Forgiveness isn't weakness—it's the strength to choose love over offense.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Before any structure can rise, a foundation must be laid. And when it comes to marriage, the blueprint matters. Too many couples enter marriage with passion but without preparation. Emotion alone cannot sustain a covenant. The question every husband and wife must ask is this: What are we building this marriage on?Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Everyone who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock." — Matthew 7:24Jesus doesn't promise a life without storms. He promises that what is built on Him will stand through them. A Christ-centered marriage is not one that simply includes God in difficult times—it's one that starts with Him and is sustained by Him every single day.When you build your marriage on Christ:* His Word becomes the standard—not emotions or culture.* Prayer becomes your defense—not pride or avoidance.* Forgiveness becomes your practice—not just a theory.This kind of foundation requires intentional agreement between husband and wife to put Christ first in all things—decisions, finances, communication, intimacy, and leadership. It means choosing surrender over control, unity over division, and obedience over convenience.If your marriage feels shaky, don't be discouraged. Foundations can be repaired. Today is the day to begin again, to recommit to building on the only solid ground: Jesus Christ.Question of the Day:What is your marriage truly built on—and is Christ at the center?Mini Call to Action:Together or individually, pray today: “Lord, be the foundation of our home. Align us to Your Word and Your ways.”Let's Pray:Lord, we choose to build on You. Let every part of our marriage—seen and unseen—be anchored in Your truth. Teach us to follow Your blueprint and trust Your hands as the Master Builder. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Because the strength of your marriage is not found in feelings—it's found in your foundation.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
In a world addicted to noise, stillness is a radical act of faith. We fill our ears with music, our hands with phones, our minds with endless to-do lists—yet we say, “I can't hear God.” The truth is, He's not silent. We're just too loud.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Be still, and know that I am God." — Psalm 46:10God speaks in the stillness—not because He's hiding, but because He's holy. Stillness trains your spirit to lean in, to wait, to listen without distraction. When you slow down, you stop reacting from emotion and begin responding from discernment.Jesus Himself modeled this. He withdrew to quiet places, early in the morning or late at night, just to be alone with the Father. Why? Because stillness repositions your heart. It resets your soul. It clears the spiritual static so the signal of heaven can come through.If you're always sprinting, always multitasking, always plugged in—you'll hear your thoughts louder than God's. But when you build space for solitude, you'll notice His whisper rise above the mental chatter.Stillness doesn't mean inactivity—it means intentional quiet. You may sit with your Bible open, journal ready, or simply wait in silence. And yes, it may feel awkward at first. But clarity doesn't come from striving—it comes from resting.So, Warrior, carve out time. Turn off the phone. Shut the laptop. Let the world spin without you for a few moments. And know… He is God. And He is speaking.Question of the Day:How can you build more stillness into your daily rhythm?Let's Pray:Lord, help me to be still. Quiet the storms in my heart. Teach me to hear You not in the rush, but in the rest. You are near, and I want to know Your voice. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Clarity doesn't come through noise—it comes through nearness.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Just because a thought feels spiritual or sounds right doesn't mean it's from God. Discernment isn't automatic—it's intentional. The Word tells us to test every spirit, every thought, and every voice. Why? Because not everything you hear in your heart is holy.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God..." — 1 John 4:1God invites us to be spiritually sharp, not gullible. Even the devil quoted Scripture when tempting Jesus in the wilderness. That means you can't trust a voice just because it uses religious language or gives you goosebumps.So how do you test a thought?✅ Does it align with Scripture? God never contradicts His Word.✅ Does it reflect the character of Christ? If it lacks love, truth, and humility, it's not Him.✅ Does it lead to freedom or fear? God's voice brings liberty and transformation, not chains.✅ Does it bear fruit over time? If a word from God is true, it will produce godly results.And here's a bonus tip: God's voice can handle your questions. Ask Him for confirmation. Search His Word. Seek wise counsel. If the message is from Him, He'll affirm it.Question of the Day:Are you actively testing what you hear—or just assuming it's God?Let's Pray:Lord, teach me to test the thoughts that come. Sharpen my discernment and anchor my heart in Your Word. I only want to follow Your voice. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Faith doesn't mean blind trust—it means grounded obedience.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Sometimes what we feel seems so real, so convincing—it must be from God, right? Not always. Our emotions are powerful, but they're not always trustworthy. And if we rely solely on how something makes us feel, we risk mistaking emotional surges for divine direction.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it?" — Jeremiah 17:9Here's the truth: God created emotions. They're not evil. Joy, sadness, passion, fear—all have their place. But emotions make terrible leaders. They were meant to follow truth, not determine it.God's voice isn't dictated by your emotional highs or lows. Just because something feels urgent, exciting, or overwhelming doesn't mean it's God speaking. On the flip side, just because something feels uncomfortable or painful doesn't mean it isn't Him.The enemy loves to stir your emotions to drown out the whisper of God. But God speaks with steadiness. His Spirit brings clarity even in the midst of chaos. His voice may convict, but it will never crush. It may challenge, but it will never confuse.So before you act on a strong emotion—pause. Ask God to reveal the truth beneath the feeling. Anchor your decisions in His Word, not your mood.Question of the Day:How can you ground your emotions in truth?Let's Pray:Lord, thank You for giving me emotions—but help me not to be ruled by them. Teach me to recognize Your voice even when my feelings scream otherwise. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!God's truth won't always feel right—but it will always be right.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
God's voice isn't just meant to be heard—it's meant to produce something. One of the clearest signs that you've truly heard from God is this: transformation follows. His voice doesn't leave things the same. It cultivates fruit that lasts.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit..." — John 15:5When God speaks, things grow. His Word creates. It shapes. It brings life. And when you really hear Him—when you follow that whisper—it leaves a trail of fruit behind: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, faithfulness, and more.If what you're hearing leads to bitterness, pride, division, or destruction… that's not God. But when His voice is truly at work, it deepens your walk, heals relationships, births creativity, stirs generosity, and fuels obedience.Sometimes we chase emotions or signs, thinking that's the evidence of God's voice. But Jesus says the real evidence is fruit—lasting, visible transformation that aligns with His character.Think of it this way: God doesn't just inform; He transforms. He speaks, and your spirit awakens. He whispers, and your character is refined. He guides, and your steps begin to reflect His path.If what you heard from God bears no fruit, it may not be from Him. But if it leads to growth—no matter how slow, no matter how small—you're hearing right.Question of the Day:What kind of fruit is growing from what you've heard?Let's Pray:Lord, I don't just want to hear You—I want to grow through Your Word. Let Your voice produce fruit in me that lasts. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!God's voice won't just touch your ears—it will change your life.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Sometimes we think that if we really have faith, we should hear from God on our own and never need help. But God never intended us to walk this journey alone. He often confirms His voice through others—especially wise, godly counsel.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety." — Proverbs 11:14Hearing God isn't meant to be an isolated experience. One of the ways God protects you from deception and confirms His direction is by speaking through other people—mentors, pastors, and mature believers who know the Word and walk closely with Him.If what you think you're hearing can't stand up to godly counsel, that's a red flag.This isn't about getting permission from others—it's about seeking confirmation from those grounded in truth. Pride says, “I don't need advice.” Humility says, “God, speak to me through your people.”David had Nathan. Paul had Barnabas. Even Moses had Jethro. You and I? We need each other too.So if you feel like God is leading you in a certain direction, bring it into the light. Share it with someone who prays, someone who listens, someone who knows the Word. If it's from God, they'll likely say, “That sounds like Him.”Question of the Day:Have you shared what you're hearing with a trusted believer?Let's Pray:Lord, thank You for the wise people You've placed in my life. Give me humility to seek counsel and courage to receive it. Help me recognize Your voice through others. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Isolation invites confusion—community invites clarity.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Have you ever had a thought, a feeling, or a sense deep inside and wondered, Is that really God… or just me? One of the safest and surest ways to know if it's God speaking is to test it against something unchanging—His Word.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"All Scripture is breathed out by God…" — 2 Timothy 3:16The voice of God will never contradict the written Word of God. That's a spiritual safeguard we should never ignore. If the message you're sensing doesn't align with Scripture—it's not from Him.God's Word is alive. It's not just ancient ink on old scrolls—it's His breath, still speaking today. Every time God speaks through the Spirit, He'll echo what He already breathed onto the pages of the Bible.God won't tell you to leave your spouse because you're “not happy.”He won't whisper to lie, cheat, or manipulate to get ahead.He won't nudge you to walk outside of grace, humility, or truth.What He says in Scripture still stands. His Spirit will never say anything that contradicts what He's already spoken.So, here's the challenge—know your Bible. Read it, meditate on it, memorize it. Because the more you fill your heart with Scripture, the more quickly you'll recognize when it's His voice confirming it.Question of the Day:Does what you're hearing line up with Scripture?Let's Pray:Lord, make me a student of Your Word. Help me to know Your voice because I know what You've already said. Teach me to test every whisper against Your truth. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!God's voice will never cancel His Word—He'll always confirm it.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
There's a lot of noise in life—decisions, deadlines, opinions, distractions. And in the middle of that chaos, we often wonder: Is this really God speaking? One of the clearest ways to discern His voice is simple but powerful: Peace.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts..." — Colossians 3:15God's voice doesn't come wrapped in anxiety or pressure. It doesn't demand in panic or shout with fear. It rules in peace. That word "rule" in the Greek means “to act as an umpire”—to call the shots, to decide what stays and what goes. So if what you're sensing brings peace, even when the path ahead is uncertain, chances are it's God.The enemy works in chaos. He rushes. He manipulates. He pressures. He pushes you to act now out of fear. But God leads with peace—even in hard decisions. His peace doesn't always make things easy, but it makes them clear.You might not have every answer, but when God speaks, it settles your heart. His peace will stand guard over your mind like a soldier on duty, keeping you from going off course.So today, if you're wondering whether that thought, that nudge, or that idea is from Him—ask yourself this: Does it carry peace, or does it stir anxiety?Question of the Day:Does the message bring peace or anxiety?Let's Pray:Lord, help me to recognize Your peace as a confirmation of Your voice. Let it be my compass and my filter. I choose to follow where Your peace leads. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Peace is not the absence of trouble—it's the presence of God in the midst of it.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Life doesn't suddenly turn easy when you step into God's promises. Even Canaan had its giants. But Joshua needed to hear one thing more than any battle plan: “I will be with you.” That's the heartbeat of today's message. Storms will come—they always do. But God doesn't vanish when the skies darken. He steps in and holds firm.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Just as I was with Moses, so I will be with you. I will not leave you or forsake you.” —Joshua 1:5 (ESV)When your world shakes, this verse is your anchor. God's presence is not a seasonal benefit or a conditional perk. It's a covenant. The same God who walked Moses through the Red Sea and Joshua across the Jordan walks with you through cancer, job loss, betrayal, and grief.This isn't about God removing every storm—it's about Him remaining in every storm. That promise held Joshua together when he faced fortified cities and weary people. And it holds you together too.We need to hold fast and remember: Canaan life isn't defined by ease but by confidence. When you've got the Anchor, you can endure the waves. God doesn't always still the storm—but He always stills His child.So hold tight. His Word doesn't waver. His grip doesn't slip.Question of the Day:Where in your life do you need to be reminded that God is still with you—anchoring you, even when the storm won't stop?Let's Pray:Lord, thank You for never letting go, even when the winds rise and fear creeps in. Be my Anchor today. Remind me I am not alone. In Jesus' name, Amen.Let's Get To Work!Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
After years of wilderness wandering and hard-fought battles, Israel finally arrived at the place God had long promised. And what did they do? They took possession. They settled. They unpacked. Our springboard for today's discussion is: "Thus the Lord gave to Israel all the land that he swore to give to their fathers. And they took possession of it, and they settled there." —Joshua 21:43 (ESV)This verse isn't just historical—it's deeply personal. It's a call to stop living like temporary visitors in the promises of God. Many of us have crossed our spiritual Jordan, accepted salvation, but we still live with a wilderness mindset—half-expecting things to go wrong, still lugging baggage of guilt, fear, or insecurity.But God's invitation is clear: Unpack your bags. Build a life in His promises. Joy, peace, grace, purpose—these aren't weekend getaways. They're home. Victory is not a short-term lease. It's your permanent address.We need to remember that too many believers live like spiritual renters—grateful but unsettled, saved but still striving, blessed but not resting. But God's done the heavy lifting. The walls have fallen. The giants have been driven out. And now? It's your turn to live like you belong—because you do.Settle into grace. Breathe in peace. Feast on joy. Live with purpose. The Promised Land isn't a place you visit; it's the reality you inhabit because of Christ.Question of the Day:Are you still living out of your spiritual suitcase, or have you fully unpacked into the life God has given you?Let's Pray:Lord, help me to stop wandering in doubt and to settle fully into the promises You've given me. Let me live like a true child of the Kingdom—anchored, joyful, and at home in Your grace. In Jesus' name, Amen.Let's Get To Work!Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Some battles require more than strategy—they demand a miracle. Joshua found himself in the thick of war, outnumbered and racing the setting sun. Instead of retreating or relying solely on human might, he looked up and prayed one of the boldest prayers ever recorded: “Sun, stand still.” Not whispered. Not doubted. But declared aloud in faith before all of Israel.Our springboard for today's discussion is:“At that time Joshua spoke to the Lord… and he said in the sight of Israel, ‘Sun, stand still at Gibeon, and moon, in the Valley of Aijalon.'” — Joshua 10:12 (ESV)Audacious prayer isn't about demanding from God—it's about believing in Him. Joshua wasn't reckless. He was confident in the God who promised victory. His boldness wasn't arrogance—it was anchored in obedience. And God honored it.We've gotten comfortable with small prayers. “Lord, if it's your will.” “Just help me get through the day.” There's nothing wrong with those prayers—but what if God is waiting for you to pray for something only He can do?Never forget…don't shrink your prayers to match your faith—stretch your faith to match God's power. That cancer diagnosis? That broken marriage? That prodigal child? Pray like you believe the One who commands the sun and moon still hears your voice.The miracle isn't in the words—it's in the heart behind them. Faith that believes. Faith that moves mountains. Faith that stops the sun.Question of the Day:What bold, God-sized prayer do you need to stop whispering and start declaring today?Let's Pray:Lord, ignite my faith. Teach me to pray prayers that shake the heavens—not out of pride, but because I believe You can do the impossible. In Jesus' name, Amen.Let's Get To Work!Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Life is full of noise—voices demanding our attention, steering our decisions, and shaping our direction. At the end of his life, Joshua gathered the people and laid down a bold declaration: "Choose this day whom you will serve." He wasn't just making a personal decision—he was leading his household with clarity and courage. In a world pulling us in a thousand directions, that same choice confronts us daily: Which voice will we follow?Our springboard for today's discussion is:“And if it is evil in your eyes to serve the Lord, choose this day whom you will serve… But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” —Joshua 24:15 (ESV)Every day is filled with choices—and the voices we listen to often determine the roads we take. The voice of fear tells us to stay safe. The voice of compromise whispers, “It's not that big a deal.” The voice of culture yells, “Follow your heart!” But God's voice calls us higher, deeper, and truer—to a life rooted in purpose and promise.Joshua didn't ask the people to make a future commitment. He didn't say, “Choose when it's easier.” He said, “Choose today.” Because the real danger isn't loud rebellion—it's silent drift. When we stop choosing God daily, we slowly drift away without even noticing.Joshua didn't just choose for himself—he chose for his home. That's leadership. That's devotion. And that's a model for us to follow.Question of the Day:Whose voice are you listening to today—and what choice is it leading you to make?Let's Pray:Lord, help me to silence every voice that pulls me away from You. Give me ears to hear Your truth, and a heart bold enough to choose You daily. In Jesus' name, Amen.Let's Get To Work!Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
There are moments when we all stand before something that feels too big, too fortified, too impossible to overcome. That's your Jericho. It might be a relationship that seems beyond repair. A fear that won't let go. A habit that owns too much of you. But what if I told you that God has already declared victory, just like He did with Joshua? Even before the walls fell, God said, “I have given Jericho into your hand.” That's a promise to hold onto.Our springboard for today's discussion is:Joshua 6:2 (ESV) – “And the Lord said to Joshua, ‘See, I have given Jericho into your hand, with its king and mighty men of valor.'”Jericho wasn't just a city; it was a symbol of impossibility. And God's strategy? March in silence. Trust when it doesn't make sense. Obey without full explanation. The Israelites didn't tear down Jericho's walls—they walked in faith, and God did what only He could do. That's the same pattern for us.Maybe you've been circling your own Jericho for what feels like years. You're tired. You're frustrated. But hear this: the wall didn't fall on day one. Or day five. It crumbled on the seventh day, after obedience and perseverance.The shout of victory doesn't come before the march—it comes after. Your obedience invites God's breakthrough. So don't stop now. Keep walking. Keep trusting. Keep believing.Question of the Day:What wall in your life do you need to start circling with obedience and faith today?Let's Pray:Lord, help me to trust You with my Jericho. Teach me to walk in faith, even when the walls look immovable. I know You've already declared victory—I will keep marching. In Jesus' name, Amen.Let's Get To Work!Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
So much of our world tells us to conform, to fit a mold, to try and be like someone else. But God doesn't do copies. He crafts originals. That's why the story of Caleb is so powerful—not because he was famous like Moses or commanding like Joshua—but because he never stopped being Caleb.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"So now give me this hill country of which the Lord spoke on that day…" — Joshua 14:12 (ESV)At 85 years old, Caleb stood tall and unshaken. He wasn't asking for comfort. He was asking for the hill country—the hard ground, the challenge, the promise. Why? Because he believed God had saved that exact portion for him. And Caleb wasn't interested in walking someone else's path.God had made a promise, and Caleb had clung to it for over four decades. He had a different spirit—one that didn't follow the crowd but followed God. Caleb wasn't waiting to be someone else. He was ready to be exactly who God created him to be.That same call comes to us today. You don't need to be Moses. You don't have to lead like Joshua. You need to be you—the person God crafted with intention and purpose. He's assigned you hills others might avoid. But He's equipped you to climb them.Don't compare. Don't copy. Don't cave. Your calling is real. Your identity is sacred. And your Canaan awaits.Question of the Day:What part of your life are you trying to fit into someone else's mold instead of walking confidently in who God made you to be?Let's Pray:Lord, thank You for creating me with purpose and intention. Help me to stop comparing and start embracing the identity You gave me. I want to be bold like Caleb and walk fully in my calling. In Jesus' name, Amen.Let's Get To Work!Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Have you ever faced a battle so big, so overwhelming, that you knew you couldn't win it on your own? Maybe it wasn't a battlefield with swords and shields—maybe it was your marriage, your health, your addiction, or a war raging in your mind. In moments like those, it's easy to feel like you're outnumbered and outmatched. But here's a bit of wisdom to remember—you are not fighting for victory… you are fighting from it. Joshua wasn't alone in the heat of battle. Time and again, God stepped in—sending hailstones, stopping the sun, throwing the enemy into confusion. When Joshua prayed, heaven responded. And when you pray in faith, heaven still responds.Our springboard for today's discussion is:Joshua 10:14 (ESV) – “There has been no day like it before or since, when the Lord heeded the voice of a man, for the Lord fought for Israel.”This verse is more than history—it's a promise. God heard the voice of a man and fought on his behalf. And He still does. Joshua was a warrior, yes—but he never fought alone. God's intervention wasn't random. It was the result of bold, believing prayer. When Joshua spoke, God moved.We are not called to sit passively in life's warzones. Faith isn't idle. It steps up, steps in, and calls upon the power of heaven. Your Jericho? It's not too big. Your enemy? Not too strong. The same God who stopped the sun for Joshua can stop anything that stands against you.So pray like Joshua. Fight in faith. Show up—and watch God show out.Question of the Day:What battle are you facing today that you need to stop fighting alone—and start trusting God to fight for you?Let's Pray:Lord, remind us today that we are not alone in the fight. Give us boldness to pray big prayers and trust You for mighty victories. You are our Defender. In Jesus' name, Amen.Let's Get To Work!Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
When Joshua stood at the edge of Canaan, ready to lead Israel into the land of promise, God didn't give him a battle plan or a strategy session. He gave him one command: Stay in the Word. The secret to claiming victory wasn't about military might—it was about spiritual depth.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night... For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success." —Joshua 1:8 (ESV)God's instructions were clear. Joshua wasn't to rely on strength, numbers, or clever plans. He was to saturate his mind, heart, and speech with Scripture. Why? Because God's Word is the battle plan. It's truth that drives out fear, promises that anchor our faith, and direction that keeps us walking in obedience.Lucado puts it this way—your success in Canaan depends on your relationship with the Word. Not because the Bible is magic, but because it's living and active. It feeds the soul, fuels courage, and sharpens discernment.Too many of us want victory without the voice of God. We want blessings without the Bible. But if you're not living in the Word, you're not walking in the land of promise.Your Canaan—your purpose, your breakthrough, your spiritual inheritance—won't be accessed through good vibes or religious routines. It will be unlocked by a mind renewed by truth and a heart anchored in God's voice.Question of the Day:What role does God's Word play in your daily battle plan—and is it time to return to it as your first weapon, not your last resort?Let's Pray:Lord, draw us back to Your Word. Make it our guide, our strength, and our weapon in every battle. Let Your truth shape us into warriors who walk in victory. In Jesus' name, Amen.Let's Get To Work!Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
This isn't just another day. This isn't just another moment. This is your moment. God's been preparing you for this—right here, right now. The question is, will you rise and step into it?Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go." — Joshua 1:9 (ESV)God didn't ask Joshua to become the next Moses. He commanded him to be strong and courageous as Joshua. And friend, He's not asking you to be someone else either. He's calling you—just as you are—to step forward in bold obedience. Moses may have brought the people out, but Joshua was called to lead them in. Different roles. Different seasons. Same God.There comes a time when the training wheels come off, and we stop waiting to feel "ready." That's what Joshua faced. Moses was gone. The promised land was ahead. And the Lord said, “Now go. I'm with you.”Courage doesn't mean you won't feel afraid. It means fear doesn't get to call the shots. Courage means stepping into the unknown with a God who already knows how the story ends. Joshua had to trust that God wasn't just with Moses—He was with him. And that same truth applies to you. You weren't an afterthought. You were made for this moment.Question of the Day:What step of obedience have you been hesitating to take because you felt unqualified or afraid?Let's Pray:Lord, help me to believe that I was made for this very moment. Replace my fear with faith, and my hesitation with courage. In Jesus' name, Amen.Let's Get To Work!Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
There are moments when God brings us right up to the edge—where faith meets fear and action collides with uncertainty. The Jordan River wasn't calm that day. It was overflowing, dangerous, and impassable. And yet, God told Israel to walk into it. Not after it settled. Not after it made sense. He said, Step in now.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"…as soon as those bearing the ark had come as far as the Jordan... the waters coming down from above stood and rose up in a heap very far away." — Joshua 3:15-16 (ESV)There's a lesson here that cuts right to the heart of what it means to trust God. The waters didn't part until the priests' feet touched the edge. Obedience preceded the miracle. It wasn't the miracle that invited faith—it was faith that invited the miracle.You see, every one of us has a Jordan—something God is calling us to cross, even while it rages in front of us. Maybe it's leaving behind an addiction, starting that ministry, forgiving someone, or walking away from comfort into calling. And often, God doesn't give us the entire blueprint. He gives us a step. And He says, Go.This kind of faith isn't theoretical. It's wet, raw, and risky. It requires movement while fear whispers “Wait.” But God doesn't part the waters from a distance. He responds when we move.The Promised Land is not behind you. And it's not going to fall into your lap while you camp at the river's edge. Your Canaan begins with one thing: a step. Your Jordan is waiting.Question of the Day:What's your Jordan right now, and are you willing to step in even while the waters are wild?Let's Pray:Lord, I stand at the edge of what looks impossible. Give me the courage to step forward, trusting that You will make a way, even before I see it. In Jesus' name, Amen.Let's Get To Work!Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Too many believers are wandering in spiritual circles, living like they're still in the wilderness—even though God's already given them the Promised Land. It's like we're camped out on the edge of breakthrough, yet paralyzed by fear, regret, or the lie that we're not enough. But today, we're flipping that script. You weren't made for the desert. You were made for Canaan.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Not one word of all the good promises that the Lord had made to the house of Israel had failed; all came to pass." — Joshua 21:45 (ESV)God's promises are not up for debate. They're not dependent on your past, your feelings, or your failures. When Joshua led the people into the Promised Land, every single promise of God came true—not some, not most—all. That same faithfulness still holds today.Here's the truth: many of us are living like our best days are behind us. But in Christ, your Glory Days aren't over—they've just begun. Egypt was your bondage. The wilderness was your refining. But Canaan is your calling. It's where peace replaces panic, courage overwhelms fear, and power breaks through weakness.Ephesians 1:3 tells us we've already been blessed with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places. That means we're not fighting for victory—we're fighting from victory.So why do we keep circling old battles, nursing old wounds, and settling for spiritual survival when God has called us to spiritual thriving? Step in. Claim it. Your Glory Days start now—because the Promised Land isn't a myth. It's your inheritance.Question of the Day:What “wilderness” mindset do you need to let go of in order to step into your Canaan?Let's Pray:Lord, I don't want to wander anymore. I want to walk in the fullness of Your promises. Teach me to live from victory, not for it. In Jesus' name, Amen.Let's Get To Work!Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Love isn't always candlelit dinners and whispered promises. Sometimes, it's holding hands in silence when words fail. Sometimes, it's choosing forgiveness even when your heart is still hurting. Real love isn't fragile—it's forged in the fire of trials. Today, we're talking about a tenacious kind of love—the kind that doesn't run at the first sign of trouble but digs in, fights for connection, and chooses to stay.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." — 1 Corinthians 13:7 (ESV)This verse isn't poetic fluff—it's a challenge. It describes a love that endures. That means it's built to last through disagreements, through misunderstandings, through seasons where love feels more like a decision than a feeling. Love that endures is not passive—it's active. It chooses to stay, to fight for the relationship, to work things out even when it's uncomfortable.The tenacity of love shows up in the hard moments. When you've had the same argument for the hundredth time, when life gets heavy, when finances strain, when illness shows up…tenacious love keeps showing up. It's not about never feeling like giving up—it's about never actually doing it.God's love for us is the ultimate example. He doesn't walk away when we fall short. He pursues. He stays. And He calls us to love one another with that same kind of relentless, unshakable love. Not just when it's easy, but especially when it's hard.Question of the Day:Where in your life is God calling you to show tenacious love today, even if it's tough?Let's Pray:Lord, help me love with endurance. Strengthen me to persevere through the difficult moments. Let my love reflect Yours—steadfast, patient, and true. In Jesus' name, Amen.Let's Get To Work!Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
When was the last time you had a truly honest conversation with your spouse—one that didn't just scratch the surface but went deep into the heart? Honesty is more than not lying. It's about being open, real, and transparent, even when it's uncomfortable. In today's episode, we're talking about how truth and transparency are essential ingredients for love that lasts.Our springboard for today's discussion is:“Love does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.” —1 Corinthians 13:6 (ESV)This scripture reveals that genuine love doesn't turn a blind eye or hide behind polite silence. It celebrates what is right. It leans into the hard truth, not to hurt, but to heal. In marriage, honesty isn't a weapon—it's a bridge. It invites intimacy, builds trust, and makes room for real connection.When we choose to be honest, we give our spouse the gift of knowing us—flaws and all. It means admitting mistakes, expressing real feelings, and listening with grace when our partner does the same. God's love for us is never fake, never hidden. It's open and raw and redemptive. Shouldn't our love reflect that, too?Question of the Day:Is there an area in your marriage where more honesty could lead to deeper connection?Let's Pray:Lord, help us to love with truth. Teach us to speak with honesty, listen with humility, and build trust with transparency. May our marriages be places where truth thrives and love grows stronger. In Jesus' name, Amen.Let's Get To Work!Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Marriage is more than a partnership; it's a covenant. And love—real love—is more than a feeling. It's a series of intentional choices rooted in God's Word. Today, we're diving into two powerful aspects of love found in 1 Corinthians 13—generosity and virtue—and how they can transform your marriage from surviving to thriving.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way..." —1 Corinthians 13:4-5 (ESV)Genuine love is generous. It gives without tallying, without strings, and without waiting for something in return. In marriage, this means showing up with your time, your energy, your affection—even when it's inconvenient. It means choosing to pour yourself out for your spouse the way Christ poured Himself out for the Church. Generosity in marriage isn't just financial—it's the quiet cup of coffee made before sunrise, the gentle touch when stress is high, the patient ear when words are messy. Generosity says, “I'm all in, even when it costs me something.”And love is virtuous. It carries a moral backbone that holds everything together. Virtue in marriage means being honest, being faithful, and choosing integrity in the little things. It means honoring your vows when it's hard and being the same person behind closed doors as you are in public. A virtuous love builds trust, fosters safety, and nurtures deep connection.When generosity and virtue take root in your marriage, love becomes more than a word. It becomes a lifestyle—a testimony of God's faithfulness.Question of the Day:What's one way you can show generous or virtuous love to your spouse today?Let's Pray:Lord, teach us to love with open hands and upright hearts. Help us to reflect Your generosity and Your virtue in our marriages. In Jesus' name, Amen.Let's Get To Work!Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Marriage isn't about who's right—it's about who's ready to love first. Real love, the kind that transforms hearts and strengthens homes, is more than feelings or fleeting passion. It's a decision. A posture. A practice. Today, we're diving into two vital attributes of that kind of love—humility and emotional steadiness. These aren't just biblical ideals; they're everyday choices that help you love your spouse like you truly mean it.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Love is not arrogant or rude. It is not irritable or resentful." —1 Corinthians 13:5 (ESV)In marriage, humility isn't weakness—it's strength under control. When love is humble, it says, “Your needs matter to me.” It listens more than it speaks. It admits when it's wrong. It doesn't keep score or compete for the upper hand. A humble heart lifts up rather than tears down, and it creates space for grace to flourish in your home.And love that's unflappable? That's the kind that doesn't snap under pressure. It holds its tongue when emotions flare. It's slow to anger, steady in the storm, and it doesn't lash out when things don't go its way. In today's world of short fuses and quick exits, this kind of love is rare—but it's exactly what God calls us to.Humility and calm aren't about stuffing down emotion—they're about channeling it through the lens of love. When both spouses take this approach, arguments turn into conversations, and conflict becomes an opportunity for deeper connection. Love like this doesn't just survive—it thrives.Question of the Day:In what ways can you practice humility and emotional steadiness in your marriage today?Let's Pray:Lord, teach us to love with humility and strength. Help us to put our spouse's needs ahead of our pride, and respond with calm when tensions rise. Shape our hearts to reflect Your love. In Jesus' name, Amen.Let's Get To Work!Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Marriage isn't built on the rush of emotion—it's forged in the quiet, daily choices to love like Christ. Today, we're diving into the foundation of lasting love, drawn straight from 1 Corinthians 13. If you've ever wondered what real love looks like in the grind of real life, this message is for you.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Love is patient and kind." —1 Corinthians 13:4 (ESV)Love that lasts is love that leans in. Patience in marriage is not passive—it's the strength to endure, to listen longer, to wait without anger. When your spouse is having a rough day, when misunderstandings happen, or when expectations go unmet, patience steps in. It doesn't demand change instantly—it believes that growth takes time. That kind of love reflects God's patience with us.And kindness? It's not just about being “nice.” It's active. It's holding your spouse's hand when they're hurting. It's choosing your words carefully, speaking life instead of criticism. It's making coffee in the morning just because. In a world that often celebrates sarcasm or self-protection, kindness is countercultural—and powerful.Patience and kindness aren't just emotional reactions. They're spiritual decisions. They don't depend on how your spouse is acting. They depend on how you're walking with Jesus.Marriage isn't a 50/50 contract. It's 100/100 surrender. And when you love like you mean it—with real patience and real kindness—you build a marriage that mirrors the heart of God.Question of the Day:What is one way you can intentionally show patience or kindness to your spouse today—before they even ask for it?Let's Pray:Lord, teach us to love with patience and kindness. Help us reflect Your heart in our marriages, especially in the small, unseen moments. In Jesus' name, Amen.Let's Get To Work!Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe