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In our final episode of this season's "Session Voices" series, we talk (again) with Mary Collins, of UM's Center for Children, Families and Workforce Development. Mary talks about the many steps left to codify and implement new policies, now that the session has ended, and the ways in which communities can work together to implement these changes. We discuss the power of local coalitions, particularly Early Childhood Coalitions (ECC's) -- what they are, why they exist, and how you can get involved in one in your own community (or help create one).  Guest Bio: Mary Collins has worked in a variety of social service settings where she provided counseling, advocacy, and supportive services to children, adolescents, and adults. She worked for the Montana Department of Public Health and Human Services (DPHHS) in a variety of leadership positions focused on improving Montana's behavioral health system. In her role at the Center for Children, Families and Workforce Development, Mary works to support Montana's early childhood system. Her efforts are targeted at bolstering the capacity of Montana's Early Childhood Coalitions to support community-driven systems change.mary.collins@mso.umt.eduOrganizations/resources mentioned in this episode: The Montana Early Childhood Coalition: https://hmhb-mt.org/mtecc/UM's Center for Children, Families and Workforce Development: https://www.umt.edu/ccfwd/Zero to Five Montana: https://zerotofive.org/To contact your federal representatives: https://mt.gov/govt/congressional_delegation"Session Voices" was hosted and produced by Emily Freeman, with music by Caroline Keys. Connect with Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies Website Facebook Instagram For statewide resources to support Montana families in the 0-3 years of parenting, please visit LIFTS ( Linking Infants and Families to Supports) athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this episode we chat with Jackie Mohler, Executive Director of Family Outreach. Jackie discusses her legislative work on behalf of Montanans living with disabilities, and the ways in which engagement can -- and should -- continue after the session ends. Guest Bio: Jackie Mohler is Executive Director for Family Outreach Inc., a Montana-based 501(c)(3) nonprofit that supports people with developmental disabilities and their families. She has earned a Master of Education degree from MSU Billings, specializing in Special Education with Advanced Studies in Applied Behavior Analysis. Jackie is a mother of two children diagnosed with learning disabilities who have greatly benefitted from developmental support services and these issues are very close to her heart. She brings over 25 years of experience working in the human services field in both direct support and management roles. As president of the Montana Association for Behavior Analysis in 2017, Jackie worked with colleagues and lawmakers to develop legislation creating a framework for behavior analyst licensure in the state of Montana. Jackie is a Licensed Behavior Analyst and serves as Vice Chair for the Montana Board of Psychologists. In 2020, the Association of University Centers on Disabilities selected her as an Emerging Leader, recognizing her commitment to civil rights and social justice. She continues to provide professional guidance to lawmakers concerning developmental disability services, interventions, and treatments.Organizations/resources mentioned in this episode: Family Outreach: https://familyoutreach.org/Behavioral Health System for Future Generations: https://dphhs.mt.gov/FutureGenerations/IndexBehavior Analyst Licensure Information (MT Department of Labor and Industry): https://boards.bsd.dli.mt.gov/psychologists/license-information/behavior-analystMontana Association of Community Disability Services: https://mtacds.com/Connect with Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies Website Facebook Instagram For statewide resources to support Montana families in the 0-3 years of parenting, please visit LIFTS ( Linking Infants and Families to Supports) athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this episode of Session Voices, we speak with Dillon Sarb, a community organizer with Catalyst Montana. Dillon will help us to better understand the role played by community organizers in the political ecosystem, and share a little bit about a creative and impactful storytelling project centered around Medicaid expansion.Catalyst Montana: https://www.catalystmt.org/Montana Medicaid Storybook: https://www.catalystmt.org/community/montana-medicaid-storybookGuest Bio: Dillon Sarb, originally from Billings, Montana, now resides in Missoula. He earned a Master's in Political Science from the University of Montana, where he also studied German. Dillon's passion for politics, particularly in how it intersects with helping people, led him to start working in the field in 2022 as a field coordinator for state legislative races. This experience gave him insight into the diverse ways people, both urban and rural, engage with politics.In 2023, Dillon transitioned to tracking state legislation, further deepening his understanding of how politics shapes policy. He has since worked on various political campaigns, including a local mayoral race and as a field director for labor unions in Montana. Each role has expanded his understanding of how communities across the state approach politics.Currently, Dillon works at Catalyst Montana, where he organizes around healthcare and economic justice issues. His diverse experiences in connecting with people from all walks of life enable him to effectively communicate and mobilize individuals for common causes, such as Medicaid Expansion.Connect with Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies Website Facebook Instagram For statewide resources to support Montana families in the 0-3 years of parenting, please visit LIFTS ( Linking Infants and Families to Supports) athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

This week's guest is Karen Filipovich, Executive Director of Montana Head Start. We'll learn how Head Start has engaged with the legislature this session, and discuss the transformative power of storytelling to strengthen families and build community.  Montana Head Start Association: https://www.mtheadstart.org/Head Start: https://headstart.gov/Best Beginnings: https://dphhs.mt.gov/ecfsd/childcare/BestBeginningsScholarshipsZero to Five Montana: https://zerotofive.org/Mother Love is hosted by Emily Freeman, with music by Caroline Keys. Got a great idea for a person or project to be featured on the podcast? Email us at stories@hmhb-mt.org. Connect with Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies Website Facebook Instagram For statewide resources to support Montana families in the 0-3 years of parenting, please visit LIFTS ( Linking Infants and Families to Supports) athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Today, we're joined by former Montana State Legislator Jenny Eck. Jenny served three terms in the House of Representatives, including two terms in leadership roles. We'll discuss her path to the legislature, and the importance of finding common ground with one another, in order to effectively move the political process forward. Guest Bio: Jenny is the Communication and Development Director at the Indian Law Resource Center where she promotes the organization's mission of supporting the rights of Indigenous peoples across the Americas. She is passionate about authentically helping those impacted by secondary trauma to find resilience and healing through awareness and connection, and works providing leadership trainings in this area.  She became interested in this work after serving three years as Executive Director of the Friendship Center of Helena, a nonprofit organization providing shelter and crisis services to those impacted by domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking. From 2013-2018, Jenny served three terms as an elected legislator in the Montana House of Representatives, including a two-year term as House Minority Leader. During her tenure, eleven of her bills were passed into law, reflecting her focus areas of safer communities, mental health, consumer protection, justice system reforms, and gender equity.  She was one of the lead negotiators in the 2017 Legislative Special Session and chaired the subcommittee which overhauled the Legislature's anti-harassment policies and procedures. Jenny got her start in politics working on Barack Obama's presidential campaign in 2008 and went on to run Hillary Clinton's Montana campaign in 2016.  In 2015, Jenny was chosen as a Rodel Fellow with the Aspen Institute and in 2020 she was one of fifty people worldwide to receive the Rotary Peace Fellowship.  Jenny recently graduated with honors from the University of Queensland in Brisbane, Australia, having earned a masters degree in International Peace and Conflict Studies. During this program she had the opportunity to travel to one of the most remote areas of Nepal where she interviewed women about climate adaptive agriculture, social discrimination, and personal protection.Jenny lives in Helena, MT.  She loves spending time with her two adult children, Sage and Owen, and hiking the hills near her home.___________Mother Love is hosted by Emily Freeman, with music by Caroline Keys. Got a great idea for a person or project to be featured on the podcast? Email us stories@hmhb-mt.org. Connect with Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies Website Facebook Instagram For statewide resources to support Montana families in the 0-3 years of parenting, please visit LIFTS ( Linking Infants and Families to Supports) athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Guest: Megan Bristol, MSN, CNM (Intermountain Health St. James Hospital)In tandem with Jenna Clark (Ep. 04), Megan provides birthing families a midwife option in a hospital setting. We'll talk about her work in Butte, and the Maternal Health Connection program, which offers telehealth and hybrid care to women in Granite and Powell counties. https://doctors.intermountainhealth.org/provider/megan-m-bristol/2197974https://news.intermountainhealth.org/because-every-woman-deserves-specialized-care/Connect with Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies Website Facebook Instagram For statewide resources to support Montana families in the 0-3 years of parenting, please visit LIFTS ( Linking Infants and Families to Supports) athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In conversation with Amy Stiffarm, PhD, MPH, we learn about the creation of Senate Bill 319, supporting and promoting doula care in Montana. Learn more about the value of doula care, and SB 319, here:https://hmhb-mt.org/for-partners/doulas-and-birth-workers/https://hmhb-mt.org/2025-doula-legislative-information/Interested in supporting SB 319? Details and resources for providing testimony or written comment:  Hearing date/time: Monday, February 24, 2025, 3:00 PMSenate Public Health, Welfare, and Safety Committee, Room 317CMontana State Capitol, Helena MTNeed help with your testimony or written comment? Contact any of the following for more information or support:Dani Vazquez - daniellevazquez11@gmail.comAmy Stiffarm amy@hmhb-mt.orgStephanie Morton - stephanie@hmhb-mt.orgTestifying virtually? Sign up at least two hours before the hearing: http://participate.legmt.govSubmit written comments: https://participate.legmt.govLeave a message for a legislator or committee: Call 406-444-4800Watch the hearing live: https://sg001-harmony.sliq.net/00309/Harmony/enOrganizations/resources mentioned in this episode: Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies - Montana: hmhb-mt.orgCultural Safety Toolkit and Indigenous Birth Preference Guides: https://hmhb-mt.org/native-american-initiatives/Montana Obstetric and Maternal Support (MOMS): https://mtmoms.org/Yarrow: https://www.yarrowcommunity.org/Montana Doula Collaborative: https://www.montanadoulacollaborative.org/Connect with Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies Website Facebook Instagram For statewide resources to support Montana families in the 0-3 years of parenting, please visit LIFTS ( Linking Infants and Families to Supports) athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Guest: Jenna Clark, MSN, CNM, WHMP (Intermountain Health St. James Hospital)Working in partnership with Megan Bristol (Ep. 05), Jenna offers midwifery care at St. James Hospital. Learn what makes midwifery different from an OB approach, and how Jenna made her professional transition. https://doctors.intermountainhealth.org/provider/jenevieve-l-clark/2197973Connect with Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies Website Facebook Instagram For statewide resources to support Montana families in the 0-3 years of parenting, please visit LIFTS ( Linking Infants and Families to Supports) athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this episode of "Session Voices" we chat with Grace Decker, coordinator of Montana Advocates for Children (MAC). We'll talk about how to engage with the legislative process, the unusual but necessary guidelines around clothing and decorum, and the value of building relationships with lawmakers year-round.Links and Show Notes: Montana Advocates for ChildrenMT Legislature LivestreamPublic Participation Link (requires account set-up)Guide to making public comment (from Zero to Five Montana).gdecker@montanabudget.orgHost: Emily Freeman, HMHB Storytelling CoordinatorMusic by Caroline KeysConnect with Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies Website Facebook Instagram For statewide resources to support Montana families in the 0-3 years of parenting, please visit LIFTS ( Linking Infants and Families to Supports) athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Guest: Amy Lowney, MSN-RN, LMT, CST (Prima Natural Wellness)Amy pivoted from her work as a hospital labor and delivery nurse, and now offers complementary wellness services to moms and babies in Butte. We'll talk about her own professional journey, as well as the emerging landscape of holistic providers in the mining city.  Connect with Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies Website Facebook Instagram For statewide resources to support Montana families in the 0-3 years of parenting, please visit LIFTS ( Linking Infants and Families to Supports) athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this first episode of Session Voices, our special miniseries exploring the 2025 Montana legislative session, Emily talks with Mary Collins, Project Director of the Montana Mother Project at the University of Montana's Center for Children, Families, and Workforce Development. MT Legislative Session Livestream.Host: Emily Freeman, HMHB Storytelling CoordinatorMusic by Caroline KeysFor statewide resources to support Montana families in the 0-3 years of parenting, please visit LIFTS ( Linking Infants and Families to Supports) athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Guest: Jessica Walsh, IBCLC, BSN, RNC (Intermountain Health St. James Hospital)In her role as Lactation Specialist, Jessica provides an invaluable resource for families, guiding them through their infant-feeding journey and supporting them as they navigate the choices and challenges of providing nutrition in a way that meets the needs of both mom and baby. https://news.intermountainhealth.org/st-james-healthcare-offers-guidance-to-mothers-struggling-to-breastfeed-their-babies/https://infantrisk.com/For statewide resources to support Montana families in the 0-3 years of parenting, please visit LIFTS ( Linking Infants and Families to Supports) athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Guest: Dorothy Troutman, BSN, RNC, C-EFM, CLC, SBD, SpBCPE, CCE, CEIM, Certified Body Ready Pro, and Body Ready Birth Educator - Doula (Sacred Birth Doula Services); Labor and Delivery Nurse (Intermountain Health St. James Hospital)Join Emily and Cass in conversation with Dorothy, who works with families at all stages of pregnancy and birth, and has been instrumental in increasing options for birthing families in the Butte area. https://intermountainhealthcare.org/locations/intermountain-health-st-james-hospitalhttps://www.sacredbirthdoula.net/https://www.spinningbabies.com/https://bodyreadymethod.com/https://evidencebasedbirth.com/For statewide resources to support Montana families in the 0-3 years of parenting, please visit LIFTS ( Linking Infants and Families to Supports) athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

This last spring we said a fond farewell to our incredible host Clair Larson and have been working since then to continue sharing the stories of moms, birthing people and their families to help people know they are not alone in their struggles and to inspire asking for help when they need it. Coming this winter, HMHB will be releasing a multi-episode series to relaunch our Mother Love Podcast. The series tells the story of Cass Weber, a mom of two in Butte, America and examines the differences between her experience of two pregnancies. As a cohost, alongside Emily Freeman, Cass interviews providers who cared for her and her family, focusing on how their professional practice changes made a difference to her and her family. We hope you find and follow the MotherLove podcast in your feeds to listen to the teaser and to get those episodes as soon as they come out. For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Join us as we share a bittersweet episode as we wrap up this season of Mother Love and say farewell to our dear friend and host, Claire. Claire shares with us her experience of crafting and hosting the Mother Love podcast over the past three seasons. As we bid adieu to Claire, let's fill the digital airwaves with gratitude for her dedication, warmth, and the moments of inspiration she has shared with us. Join in as we celebrate her journey and send her off with love and well wishes for the adventures ahead.Claire.sage.lavender@gmail.comFor statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this episode, Stephanie Hackman, LCPC, joins us to share her experiences and how they've made her the mom she is today. She is both present and attuned, not only to the needs of her family and those she works with, but also to her own needs. Stephanie's stories describe what it was like for her to suffer in silence during the time she and her family belonged to an oppressive religious organization/cult. She recounts the loss of her son, Johnathan, her journey back to her true self, and the unfolding of a beautifully uncommon love story. Stephanie shares her words in hopes that other voiceless and nameless mothers might have a chance to heal from the telling of their own stories.  Show Notes:  Robert J. Lifton - Cult expert and researcher mentioned by Stephanie Modern Love Clip- Ann Hathaway (portrayal of life with bi-polar disorder) Mary Oliver: poet, author Jamie Anesi, LCPC, transpersonal and somatic therapist Joan Didion: author- books mentioned: The Year of Magical Thinking, Blue Nights Matt Haig: author and mental health advocate - books mentioned: Reasons to Stay Alive, The Comfort Book Stephanie's writing (still waiting on link for this one)For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports at https://hmhb-lifts.org/For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Prairie Wolfe is passionate about healing, and, in this episode, it shows. Anytime an experienced therapist can speak about their own personal challenges in mothering and caregiving and offer tips, tools, and wisdom to help other parents overcome their struggles, we're all in. During our conversation, Prairie helps listeners understand their nervous systems, the under-resourced circumstances of modern-day parenting, and common caregiving woes that leave us feeling defeated and ashamed. How do we address and repair these wounds in order to show up more presently as parents and humans in general? Find out as Prairie weaves it all together to help us gather our scattered pieces and live with a sense of wholeness.Books:The Myth of Normal by Gabor MateWebsite:https://www.somaticconnections.org/Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/SomaticConnectionsInstagram:@prairie.somaticconnectionsLIFTS Online Resource Guide:https://hmhb-lifts.orgFor statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Even though Flora McCormick spent years studying child developmental and psychology and ultimately became a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, her early years of parenting were very challenging. She remembers feeling frustrated and disoriented, and this business of mothering felt, well, unsustainable. So, she set out to find new tools, ones that fostered connection and encouraged healthy boundaries. Soon, balance and joy began to emerge. Today, she is the Lead Mentor and Owner of Sustainable Parenting and she's joined us to share her personal story and offer simple and effective tools that actually work! Tune in to learn about how firmness supports kindness and begin to shift from resentful exhaustion to predictable peace.  Website: sustainableparenting.comFacebook:  https://www.facebook.com/SustainableParentingInstagram: @sustainable_parent_coachFree sustainable parenting workshop: https://sustainableparenting.com/calm-confident-rsvp-2/LIFTS Online Resource Guide:  https://hmhb-lifts.orgFor statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports at https://hmhb-lifts.org/For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

When preparation only takes you part of the way, support and a good care team can make all the difference. Cass Weber, a mom of 2, and an active member of the Butte community, describes how support and a good care team can make all the difference when things do not go as expected. Her resilient and positive attitude is refreshing and she has very useful advice for parents. After she had a caesarean section birth with her first child, Cass made sure to prepare for it all the second time around. Even though her second birth ended with a c-section as well, she says she did it on her terms, including having a favorite song playing in the OR when her daughter was born. Cass talks pregnancy and birth during covid as well as making the decision to be a stay at home mom after serving in various roles in early childhood development and care in Butte.For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this episode Lisa shares her survival story and teaches us about the subtle and overt forms of domestic abuse and interpersonal violence. There are multiple ways this can manifest (lovebombing, gaslighting, sexual violence, physical violence, emotional abuse, reproductive control, financial control, stalking) and many victims have difficulty recognizing that may be experiencing abuse due to the secret and pervasive nature of the issue. Lisa's story helps us to better understand some of the cycles and patterns that may exist behind closed doors even in, sometimes especially in the lives of those we may consider to be "perfect couples". What she shares is so important to understand. And, she leaves us with so much hope. The strength and courage that survivors like Lisa embody is awe-inspiring, to say the least. Lisa describes what it's taken to find some semblance of peace, soothe her mind, body and spirit, and repair her relationships with her children. Hearing her speak with tenderness and tenacity is an honor and helps us to understand that sometimes, the issues we don't think we can bear to look at are the ones that need our attention the most. This is that.Show Notes:Lisa's Coaching Business, Helvick CoachingFollow on Instagram For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

This episode on domestic and interpersonal violence is so rich and helpful. We are joined by Jaime Gabrielli and Gina Boesdorfer, two incredible women who are passionate about bringing hope to those experiencing domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking. They take turns eloquently explaining the many different forms of abuse, debunking myths that often surround the this taboo topic. As the host of this episode, I (Claire) will just come right out and say that I learned so much and walked away feeling humbled by my long-held assumptions and how little I knew about this issue. I will be more able to discern red flags in my relationships as well as those of the people I love.  The amount of respect that Jaime and Gina feel towards those they have the chance to work with is remarkable. Few people want to look at this issue, especially when pregnancy and small children are involved but staying silent is not the answer. The Friendship Center exists to help us understand the complexity of these relationships and they give us the language and tools needed to transform crisis and trauma to hope and resilience beyond belief. This is part 1 of a 2 part series; next week we get to hear from Lisa Croke, who credits The Friendship Center with saving her life and now helps others move from surviving to thriving. Show Notes:The Friendship Center's 24/7 confidential help line: 406-442-6800 (you do not need to identify yourself or be in crisis to call)The Friendship Center WebsiteBlog post by Jaime: Stalking: Homicide in Slow MotionEmail Jaime directly: jaime.g@thefriendshipcenter.orgEmail Gina directly: gina.b@thefriendshipcenter.orgLundy Bancroft (author and advocate recommended by Jaime)The Stalking Prevention, Awareness, and Resource Center (SPARC)14 ways to support a domestic violence survivorFor statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this episode, we hear from Sarah Crowley, IBCLC and owner of Wee Bumble, a home visiting lactation consulting business in Helena, MT. Not only is Sarah an absolute expert in breastfeeding, she is also one of the most kind and compassionate humans we've ever met. We talk about her crash course introduction to breastfeeding after the birth of her first son, Amos and how the pain and suffering she experienced during that time motivated her to pursue a career in breastfeeding support. Since that time, Sarah has become a certified International Board Certified Lactation Consultant and has, for the past 16 years, been helping women and families with babies, navigate their own journeys. We cover a lot in this conversation: healing from birth trauma, "hamburger nipples", pumping recommendations, medication concerns during pregnancy and breastfeeding, baby friendly hospital initiatives, the beauty of holding space for new moms, questions around "pumping and dumping", and caring for moms who are struggling with addiction, including tobacco and nicotine use. Sarah shares so many resources she takes the cake for longest list of show notes to date! Plus, her voice is like honey and her presence feels like a warm hug from a trusted friend.Wee Bumble Lactation Consulting Website Wee Bumble Lactation Consulting InstagramThe Lactation Network (help with breastfeeding support insurance coverage)Prepared Parenting Classes (free) St. Peter's HealthFind birth and parenting classes in your local MT communitySt. Peter's Healthcare Baby Friendly Hospital Initiative Melissa Zimmerman, Family Nurse Practictioner - St. Peter's HealthMT La Leche League List of GroupsPartners in Pediatrics (Helena)Find pediatric clinics/care in your local MT communityDr. Hale's Book: Medications and Mothers MilkLactmed (list of medications for safety concerns while breastfeeding)For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this episode, Rachael Watters, postpartum psychosis survivor and mother of four joins us to talk about her frightening and healing journey through severe mental illness as a new mom. Many factors contributed to Rachael's experience and as her children have grown and she has continued to heal and recover, she has become a passionate advocate and educator for Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders which are often largely misunderstood. As you'll hear in this conversation, Rachael has found a great senses of purpose in everything she and her family have gone through together. It's a part of their story and now that story is changing hearts and minds and has probably even saved lives. Her message is clear- no matter how terrible things may get, you're never alone and with help you can get better.Show Notes:Rachael Watters Ted TalkPlaying Monopoly with God (Melissa Bangs, Storyteller and Advocate)St. Peter's Health Adult Behavioral UnitPostpartum Support International (PSI)For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this episode we get to hear from Dr. Sam Greenberg, a Family Physician practicing in Kalispell, Montana. Dr. Greenberg (or Sam for short) specializes in Obstetrics, Maternal Child Health, Reproductive Health, and Adolescent Medicine. As you'll hear in this episode, Sam is passionate about providing patient-centered care and strongly believes in developing trust and mutual respect over time with her patients. When it comes to caring for those in the perinatal period, having a strong and open relationship between patient and provider is essential, especially when it comes to asking for help during such a vulnerable and personal time. Having experienced intense peripartum and postpartum anxiety herself, Sam brings her lived experience into the room every time, whether she's delivering "babes", screening a mom for a Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorder, or just holding space for parents to express their concerns and struggles. She loves the mountains, fresh air, and sunshine and brings an authentic and kind professionalism to the conversation. This is what great care looks like.For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this episode, Ashley Watson shares her family's journey to wholeness. When Ashley's son, Jase, was unexpectedly born with a rare craniofacial condition called called Apert Syndrome, she was stunned and so were the doctors. From that moment on, they spent 6 weeks in the NICU, were life-flighted from Missoula to Seattle where Jase would undergo his first of almost 20 surgeries while there.  Since then, Jase and his older sister, Scarlett have both been diagnosed with autism and ADHD. Jase just celebrated his 6th birthday and although this family has had to endure some serious pain, they've also learned what it means to lean on each other and appreciate one another. Ashley, along with her husband Nate have seven children between the two of them and have learned to embrace all that comes with loving what she calls their "giant, chaotic, loving family."  Resources recommended by Ashley:MT DPHHS Children's Special Health ServicesMT DPHHS Early Intervention Family OutreachEmbracing Us Facebook page Mended Little HeartsAngel FlightFor statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Public Health Department RN Case Manager Marisa Johnson joins us to talk about what she's learned in working with families as a home visiting nurse. We get to hear about her own journey as a single mom and some of the obstacles she had to learn to overcome when it came to accepting help in order to heal, grow and build a beautiful life for her and her two daughters. Marisa is a joy to listen to- she cares deeply about the families she works with and believes in them wholeheartedly. When a home visiting nurse is honored and excited to show up at your door with lived experience, empathy, evidence-based resources, and a sense of humor, just go ahead and let her in. She's on your team.Show Notes:Nurse Family Partnership (MT) (website)Learn more about NFP by watching this short video.Montana's Special Supplemental Nutrition Program for Women, Infants, and Children WICMontana Asthma Home Visiting ProgramMontana Fetal Infant Child & Maternal Mortality Review (FICMMR)For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Amy Stiffarm joins Claire for another conversation with Camie Goldhammer, who also happens to be one of our most celebrated #sheros at HMHB. This time, we focus on the topic of feeding choices and how important it is for families to be able to make informed decisions when it comes to feeding their babies. Which means they need adequate information and it shouldn't be all on them to find it. Camie shares what it was like for her to learn to navigate the world of breastfeeding as an Indigenous woman with almost no knowledge on how things were supposed to go. When even a Google search left her with no where to turn,  she did what she does best; created an organization that would grow to care for moms and families just like her. We also have the chance to talk about legislative action in Washington state around paid family leave and other maternal health advocacy efforts. Camie is an amazing teacher and her strength-based perspective is so refreshing.For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this lively discussion Camie happily teaches about so many things she's come to know in caring for families over the past 20 years. Her most powerful tricks of the trade are not complicated- building trust and connection, being fully present in every interaction, empowering families and birthgivers to trust themselves and honor their needs and desires, and offering traditional practices to heal, grow and nourish everyone. We also cover the unique needs of the Indigenous community that Hummingbird serves, the positive outcomes of having doulas present during pregnancy, birth and postpartum and how Camie's journey to motherhood shaped her and changed the trajectory of her life's work. Camie's knowledge is vast and her laugh wins the day, truly.Show notes:Learn more about Hummingbird Family Services For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this episode, we get to meet Erika Menning, part-time, hair stylist, full-time mom and natural comedian. This conversation covers so many things, from unexpected body image comments during pregnancy and postpartum depression and anxiety to preeclampsia and the significance of post-birth giving rewards, like Italian subs. We talk about mom guilt, how to regroup and repair after you've unraveled for the thousandth time, and just how important it is to be genuine with those around you. Erika is just a naturally hilarious and delightful person which makes this one a real treat.Show Notes:Hydrogel packs recommended by Erika for sore nipples:)For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

After struggling with severe Postpartum Depression following the birth of her daughter, Diana sought medical treatment but because this was in the early 90's, no one really knew what to do. Three long years later, she was given an accurate diagnosis, began the road to recovery, and has dedicated her career to helping women navigate similar terrain. She's been in the field of Women's Reproductive Mental Health for almost 30 years. Diana has had many roles- she is the former President of Postpartum Support International, has a private practice assessing, diagnosing and treating women around the childbearing years and, for 20 years has served as an internationally esteemed forensic expert witness in the criminal justice system. She's a triple threat when it comes to perinatal mental health:  an expert in the field, an empathetic PMAD survivor who believes in the power of story, and a fierce advocate for justice and stigma reduction when it comes to perinatal mental illness . Oh, and she's a new grandma to twins! Hearing her talk about the healing, redemption and joy that's come along with grandma-hood is a treat.*Note: we do discuss some of Diana's cases in detail and some of the stories are difficult to hear. When untreated, PMAD's can have devastating consequences but talking about these things can help reduce stigma and raise awareness which is so important.Show Notes:Postpartum Support International (PSI)Research Articles regarding Postpartum Psychosis Addition to DSM.For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this episode, we meet Ashley Fish, a first grade teacher, wife, and mother of two. Ashley's road to motherhood took some unexpected turns as her first, Barrett, came early and, after just a few days at home, the family was transported to Missoula to the pediatric ICU to monitor and address respitory challenges. He recovered well but Ashley was left with intense anxiety. During her second pregnancy, Ashley's learned, at her 20 week ultrasound of concerns regarding abnormal brain development in her daughter, Ainsley. Eventually, Ainsley was diagnosed with an extremely rare genetic disorder called Pyruvate Dehydrogenase Complex Deficiency (PDCD). Ashley shares what it's been like for her to surrender control, accept help from those around her in order to keep her and her family well - self-care matters here- and embrace and cherish every moment they have together. Show Notes:These are the resources that have been helpful to the Fish family and Ashley highly recommends reaching out to them if you have a little one who needs special care.The Jadyn Fred FoundationMontana Hope ProjectAngel FlightChildren's Flight of HopeRonald McDonald HouseFor statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

John Morrison, an attorney, former Montana State Auditor/Commissioner of Securities and Insurance, and long-time friend of Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies, joined us to speak about a donation he facilitated and helped award to HMHB this past summer. The generous contribution resulted from a settlement in a legal case John filed and won on behalf of more than 2,600 Montana businesses. Morrison proposed, and District Court Judge Leslie Halligan approved, a $50,000 donation to HMHB because our mission to improve the health and well-being of mothers, children and families aligned with the core of what this case was all about. We also get a chance to talk about John's life as a dad, what he and his wife, Cathy, learned along the way, and how incredibly proud he is of his two daughters. Stories hold their own power and John has plenty of examples of how listening and learning about the life of one person can better the lives of many.Show notes:To watch the incredible video of John Butler, two time cancer survivor, pull a firetruck across the fairgrounds in Sydney Montana as John describes in this episode, click here.To learn more about how the Commissioner of Securities and Insurance regulates the insurance industry in Montana and advocates for Montana consumers in disputes with their insurance company click here.Check out the Ralli App! https://letsralli.com/For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

This episode captures a conversation between Dana Hillyer, PMHCNS and Claire, who, this time, plays podcast host and patient/case study. Dana approaches her work with exceptional warmth and kindness and is committed to continued growth and self-reflection. When it comes to helping with perinatal mood and anxiety disorders (PMADs), she is a pro. Dana is a shining example of a mental health professional who is willing to meet her patients where they and walk alongside them and, as Claire shares, this quality of care changes lives. If you could use a little boost of faith when it comes to the state of (maternal) mental healthcare, listen and enjoy.For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this final episode of our Native American Initiative Series, we welcome to the show, Chelsea Bellon, a mom of three and the Health Equity Community Engagement Specialist at the Western Montana Area Education Center. Chelsea offers her wisdom and insight to help identify and raise awareness of the racism that exists in education and academia as well as health inequities in rural populations. Chelsea speaks about a few simple cultural considerations that made a huge difference for her and contributed to her healing while she was under medical supervision during a time of crisis.Chelsea and Claire talk about what it's like to receive and accept their Bipolar II diagnoses and how, as moms, they've learned to cope in times of intense dysregulation. Mental health conditions, especially when exasperated in the perinatal period, can indeed be life threatening and sometimes look, feel, and sound differently than we might think. If you or someone you know suffers from a mental illness and no one knows what to say or do, this episode offers very helpful guidance and some practical steps to get them the help they need. Hope and healing are possible and these stories prove that. #maternalmentalhealth #indigenouswomen #WeAreListening #motherlovepodcastIF YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW ARE HAVING THOUGHTS OF SUICIDE CALL OR TEXT 988 IMMEDIATELY. *The 988 Lifeline is a national network of local crisis centers that provides free and confidential emotional support to people in suicidal crisis or emotional distress 24 hours a day, 7 days a week in the United States. We're committed to improving crisis services and advancing suicide prevention by empowering individuals, advancing professional best practices, and building awareness.* Please click here for a list of show notes and resources provided by Chelsea and Claire.For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Joining us for our 4th episode in our Native American Initiatives Series is the talented Rachel Twoteeth-Pichardo. Since mom life is an all day everyday attempt to balance all. the. things., we cover a lot of ground in this convo: sleep struggles, tantrum trials (and how much grace and self-compassion they require), and how art and creative works have shaped Rachel. She talks about her artwork (which is amazing) and how her ledger art helps her honor her artistic heritage. Rachel is warm-hearted and, while she is so humble, her spirit sings.To learn more about Rachel and to view her art:Follow Rachel on IG: @ray2teethFollow Rachel on FB: @Rachel Twoteeth-PichardoCheck out Omerta ArtsFor statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Before jumping into our time with our amazing guests, we wanted to share a conversation between Amy and Claire about Thanksgiving: what we learned in school, what we have needed to unlearn since then, and how we share hard truths with our families on a day that boasts feasting, abundance and gratitude. It's complicated but important and Amy is so good at embracing both with humor and grace.Then, we have the privilege of hearing from Margaret Anne Adams and Mary Ellen Lafromboise. These two women will tell us about Life's Blessing Day, a day of cultural immersion and community-based learning for visiting nurses who help serve Indigenous moms, babies and their families during the perinatal period. The Life's Blessings event was held in Browning, MT on the Blackfeet Reservation and its aim was to build relationships, share strengths and really allow participating nurses to learn from Indigenous people to experience the richness of cultural practices firsthand. Some things just can't be understood from a distance and the Life's Blessing day showed that when people gather face to face and heart to heart, they don't just learn, they are transformed.SHOW NOTES/RESOURCESFrom Thanksgiving Intro:Books:Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall KimmererLiving Resistance by Kaitlin CurticeOnline resources:Thanksgiving AddressPotawatomi Website (the true dark history of Thanksgiving) Dakota 38 DocumentaryFollow Kaitlin Curtice on IG:@kaitlincurticeFrom Life's Blessings Interview:Montana Maternal Health by the NumbersSun Tours transportationBlackfeet Nation HistoryYarrow CollaborativeFor statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this episode, Claire shares the mic with Dr. Amy Stiffarm, HMHB's Native American Initiative's Program Manager, as they interview Dr. Janelle Palacios. The wealth of knowledge and experience that Dr. Palacios brings to her work is indescribable. She is a Nurse Midwife, a highly regarded researcher, an advocate for Indigenous  maternal child health and a mom herself. Honestly, the list goes on and you'll see what we mean when you listen to her speak. Storytelling is at the heart of every move she makes and she is a master at empowering those with lived experience to share their stories to challenge assumptions, break down stereotypes and inspire change.*SHOW NOTES*Federal Indian Boarding School Initiative Investigative Reporthttps://www.bia.gov/sites/default/files/dup/inline-files/bsi_investigative_report_may_2022_508.pdfMaking Amends: Recommended Strategies and Actions to Improve the Health and Safety of American Indian and Alaska Native Mothers and Infantshttps://www.hrsa.gov/sites/default/files/hrsa/advisory-committees/infant-mortality/birth-outcomes-AI-AN-mothers-infants.pdf https://www.encoded4story.com/https://www.squarerootstories.com/meet-our-teamhttps://hmhb-mt.org/native-american-initiatives/For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this episode, Amy and Claire have the chance to sit down and talk about the upcoming series featuring some of the most powerful leaders in indigenous maternal health. Each episode speaks for itself but we wanted to take a moment to acknowledge the importance of uplifting and highlighting some of the incredible work that is being done to improve health outcomes for native people both on the national level as well as in our own state and communities. We're thrilled and honored to be able to share these conversations with you. Amy will be our guest host over the next few weeks and this is a great opportunity to get to know her better. For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

I don't know how many times Ashley and I have walked into the office and opened with the typical "How are you?" only to dive into deep, honest mom to mom conversation that usually leads to laughter, tears and ultimately a deep sigh of relief. This episode is that and I have a lot of faith that the things we talk about and touch on might deliver the same strong dose of validation and encouragement to our listeners. Finding people who understand what we're going through is so important; we hope to become some of those people for you here at Mother Love. Thank you for all you do behind the scenes- we see you.For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this episode, Annie Tague and I talk about what it is like to discover and adapt when your kiddo is diagnosed with a food allergy. Her daughter, Sally, has lived with Celiac Disease all of her life and over the past 10 years, Annie has learned a lot about the adjustments and advocacy that is required to keep her family happy and healthy. What does eating out look like? Birthday parties and other social celebrations? Travel? It's not easy but the Tague family handles it with grace, humor, and love. Plus, Annie is as funny as she is real and brings her experience as the owner of Mountainside Montessori to the conversation; a perspective that always seeks to bring light and truth to any topic. For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Miranda was placed in the Montana's foster care system at the age of 8 and she is a survivor, through and through. In this episode she shares her story which is, as you might guess, pretty emotional. Now that she has an 8-year-old daughter of her own, life looks very different, and she explains that she's had to face most of her parenting challenges by just thinking of what happened to her as a kid and then doing the opposite. We talk about what it's taken for her to build a life of peace and security for her and her family, about the importance of learning to accept help, and about the pieces of parenting that are often left out of the conversation due to stigma and shame but MUST be discussed. Today, Miranda is a fierce advocate for youth in Montana's care system and works hard every day to ensure that they get to participate in decisions regarding their care. Miranda is giving kids the chance to speak because she knows the pain of being kept silent. This one is POWERFUL.For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Welcome to the first episode of Mother Love Season 3! This time, we meet Christina Hostetler, whose journey to motherhood was not an easy one, to say the least. She shares how struggling with infertility was emotionally difficult and, at times, super lonely and how she made it through. Then, when she was just about out of hope, TWINS! We get to talk about her incredible birth story and what those first few months of raising two babies was like for her.  3 years in, she's grateful and has super helpful insight on what's made all the difference during this intense time.For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this final episode of season 2, Claire has the chance to connect with Kyriaki Birkeland whose work on behalf of moms is almost too long to list. Kyriaki is a podcaster, blogger, mom, actress and, author. She her passion for helping other moms stems from the many trials she faced and overcame as a new mom. Her book, "Motherhood is Big Enough" is designed and illustrated for babies and young children but the words help moms to recognize that they are doing the hardest and most important job in the world and that is more than enough. show notes:visit Kyriaki's website: https://www.thedenmother.net/order the book here: https://www.thedenmother.net/productsListen to Kyriaki's podcast, The Denmother Podcast, on any mainstream listening platform.For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Single motherhood. Leaving an abusive relationship. Starting over. C-section recovery. Facing fears. Finding hope. And, postpartum mood disorders. All of these led Brooke Campbell to what she now calls her "passion project". As Vice President of the Postpartum Resource Group (PPRG) in Kalispell, Brooke describes the incredible work being done to support new moms in the Flathead Valley and how community members are showing up to make sure moms don't feel like they have to do all of this alone. Show Notes:For information about services mentioned in this episode visit:https://www.postpartumresourcegroup.org/Certified Nurse Midwife Jana Sund's Clinic: Kalispell Midwives & Women's Clinichttps://www.kalispellmidwives.clinic/Power: Surviving and Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse (book)For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Anna Baker is a powerhouse of a person. It's just her nature. So, when the birth of her first went from a home birth plan to a hospital setting to the OR and resulted in a c-section she felt distraught, disconnected, and utterly disempowered.  Anna was, of course, relieved to have a healthy baby but having to spend the first precious hour of motherhood completely isolated in a recovery room was traumatic, to say the least. This is the story of how she emerged from that experience, surrounded herself with supportive women and went on to have two successful Vaginal Births After Cesarean (VBACs) at home. Each of Anna's birth stories have impacted her in important ways and have motivated her teach, connect with and empower women in all sorts of ways. If you're a mom (or know a mom) who's had to toss her birth plan out the window and navigate the intense and complicated emotions that go along with that, this one's for you.Show Notes:Red Ants Pants Foundation (organization through which Anna teaches workshops for women)Redtail Woodworks (Anna's Website)For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In part two this story, Kyla and I talk about life in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) (her experience) and Pediatric Intensive Care Unit PICU (my experience). Kyla says that that time felt like "forever and the same day, over and over"  and I can't think of a better way to say it. Her baby boy, Conner, is now 6 months old and greets each new day with the a gummy smile and shining eyes. Life isn't all rainbows and butterflies, but Kyla and her family know what true gratitude feels like, deep down in their bones.   LIFTS online resource guide: https://hmhb-lifts.org  Specific services relevant to this episode (found on LIFTS.org)Statewide Support Groups Search " early intervention services" on LIFTS online resource guide: https://hmhb-lifts.org Search "counselors" on LIFTS online resource guide: https://hmhb-lifts.org Hand to Hold - NICU Babies, Parent Support (website) Hand to Hold (podcast)For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this episode, Kyla opens up about her experiences with pre-term birth, secondary infertility, and the anticipatory grief that happens when starting a family goes drastically different than expected. If you or someone you love walked a similar path and they seem overwhelmed and alone, this episode will feel like medicine. Or, if you're not sure what to say or how to empathize families that may face different challenges than your own, Kyla's journey will help guide you. She and her family are all survivors and their strength and grace helps to shed light and offer hope.LIFTS online resource guide: https://hmhb-lifts.orgSpecific services relevant to this episode (found on LIFTS.org)Statewide Support GroupsInfertility and Pregnancy Loss Support Group (Billings)Taking Charge of Your Fertility (book) by Toni WeschlerHand to Hold - NICU Babies, Parent Support (website)Hand to Hold (podcast)For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

Priscilla Ellis joins us to talk about a few of the things she's learned during her mothering journey. We talk about mental health challenges and how therapy and medication have helped and the ways in which social media can sometimes hurt and sometimes help, especially when it comes to sharing our parenting triumphs and struggles. We also nerd out about ways we've attempted to address our own wounds and past traumas and how our toughest parenting moments can trigger and reveal what most needs to be healed. Priscilla has learned over the years to prioritize self-care, embrace her needs as an introvert, and continue to deepen her understanding of what matters to her most: connection and growth. Plus, she's hilarious and extremely easy to relate to which is always a bonus.Show notes:For statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

In this special episode, Dawn Gunderson opens up about her life-long struggle with anxiety. Her symptoms intensified after the birth of her first daughter and, as her 6 wonderful children grew, her mental health challenges did too. Just recently, Dawn sought out the help she knew she needed and deserved by flying across the country to spend time immersed in a faith-based therapeutic retreat. Her family and community were incredibly supportive and her courage has inspired others to speak up about their mental health battles and the shame or sense of failure that often accompanies them. Dawn encourages those who are struggling to tap into their faith and accept help from their families, their church communities and their trusted providers. It's never too late to get help, repair is real, and grace exists.Show notes:WIC Website: https://dphhs.mt.gov/ecfsd/wic/Sanctuary Clinics Website: https://sanctuaryclinics.comFor statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

There's a reason we chose Brooke to be our Mother Love producer. We knew she would get it. We knew she would listen back to each episode carefully and considerately. We knew she was skilled and enthusiastic about the work. But what I didn't know until I sat down with her to plan and record an episode with her, is that she has been through some really rough times as a mom, especially in the first years of her kiddos' lives. In this episode, Brooke and I begin with current (and hilarious) banter about what parenting looks like for us today- think toothpaste crusted sinks and back to back tummy bugs that wreak havoc on our lives, before moving into more serious territory. In the second half of the episode Brooke reflects on her difficult pregnancy, birthing experience, work discrimination, health and relationship challenges, breastfeeding battles and mood disregulation. Mostly, we talk about how asking for help saved our lives and what that looked like (and continues to look like) for each of us.Show notes:Postpartum Support International Helpline:Call 1-800-944-4773 (4PPD)#1 En Español or #2 EnglishText in English: 800-944-4773Text en Español: 971-203-7773National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call 988 or text MT to 741-741Montana Warm Line: Call 877-688-3377 LIFTS Online Resource Guide:Search "Mental Health Providers" in your areaHelp for those helping moms:PRISM for Moms Psychiatric Consultation LineCall: 1-833-837-7476 or submit an e-consult formFor statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/

On this week's episode of Mother Love, meet Paige Reddan, a Registered Dietitian, Certified Eating Disorder Registered Dietitian Specialist, Licensed Nutritionist, Certified Diabetes Educator and co-founder of the Eating Disorder Center of MT. Paige shares with us what it was like for her to heal and recover from her own severe and long-lasting eating disorder during a time when quality treatment did not yet exist. Decades later, she works hard to help patients discover ways to live free from preoccupation with food, and work with the guilt, shame, confusion and fear that can accompany the basic need to eat and we have the chance to talk about some powerful tools that can help, new moms and others with young children reconnect and honor their needs in order to heal and nourish their minds, bodies, spirits and relationships.Show notes:Eating Disorder Center of Montana:https://edcmt.com/Follow on social:Instagram: @eatingdisordercentermtFacebook: @eatingdisordercenterofmontanaFor statewide resources please visit the Linking Infants and Families to Supports athttps://hmhb-lifts.org/