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Scaling UP! H2O
184 The One Where I Interview My Mastermind Mentor

Scaling UP! H2O

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2021 56:50


Nation! I am so excited to introduce you to the man who leads my weekly Mastermind group, Aaron Walker.  Aaron Walker has founded more than a dozen companies over the past 42 years. He attributes much of his success to having surrounded himself with his Mastermind counterparts. Aaron spent a decade meeting weekly with Dave Ramsey, Dan Miller, Ken Abraham, and other outstanding entrepreneurs. Aaron is the founder of Iron Sharpens Iron Mastermind that now hosts 20 groups with National and International members. Aaron lives in Nashville, Tennessee, and he has so many wonderful stories and advice to share today!  As you know, I lead several Mastermind groups myself. A large reason I can pour into other leaders in the water treatment industry is because of the individuals I meet with weekly in the Mastermind group. Aaron says to think about a Mastermind as "Your own personal board of directors" who help you personally and professionally. Life is way too difficult to do it alone. We are built as human beings to work with other people. I've found that joining a Mastermind can help you grow through vulnerability, coaching, honesty, and camaraderie.   If you are a water treater interested in joining a Mastermind, please visit my Scalinguph2o.com/mastermind to learn how together we can raise up the water treatment industry.    Timestamps:   Upcoming Events [1:30]  James' Challenge: "Review all your accounts to ensure you've lived up to all your obligations. If not, develop a plan." [6:20]   Introducing Aaron Walker AKA "Big A" [11:40]  A kid working at a pawn shop in Nashville [13:12]  Life after "retiring" at 27 years old [18:16]  The journey from Aaron's first Mastermind group with Dave Ramsey to leading his own group [22:00]  So what is a Mastermind? [32:34]  How do you define success? [39:02]  Lightning Round Questions [43:35]  Trace's Leadership Challenge [47:00]    Quotes:   "If you don't have a mentor, you are missing out on a golden opportunity." -Trace Blackmore  "Life is way too difficult to do it alone. We are built as human beings to work with other people." -Trace Blackmore  "We've all got superpowers and we've all got blind spots." - Aaron Walker  "Dang! You don't know what you don't know." - Aaron Walker  I've read thousands of books as a result of being in a Mastermind." - Aaron Walker  "A Mastermind is your own personal board of directors." - Aaron Walker  "It's about legacy and helping others transform."- Aaron Walker  "Today I would measure 'success' in terms of others success, instead of my own." - Aaron Walker  "If we're not having fun, we need to change direction." - Aaron Walker  "A leader is somebody who makes other leaders." - Captain David Marquet of The United States Navy  Aaron's Southern Sayings: "That's as useless as tits on a boar hog" and "That's a big gentleman."    Links Mentioned:  Rising Tide Mastermind  Scalinguph2o.com/mastermind  Aaron's Mastermind Website Captain David Marquet, Episode 29  Get your FREE Audible book at scalinguph2o.com/audible    Events:  Water Environment Federation  3.23 Collection Systems Conference 2021  4.20 Odors and Air Pollutants Conference 2021  5.11-5.14 Residuals and Biosolids Conference 2021    AWT (Association of Water Technologies)  May 5-8 AWT Technical Traning Course  Fundamentals and Applications Class  Water Treatment Training    Books Mentioned:  "Band of Brothers: The War Memoirs of Major Dick Winters" Jack Canfield's "The Success Principles"  Steven Covey's "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People"  Chris Voss' "Never Split The Difference"  Captain David Marquet's "Turn The Ship Around!"         

The Tony Rossi Show
How Having a Pet Can Help Your Acting Career

The Tony Rossi Show

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2021 22:12


Some of you know that I recently became a foster Daddy to a cat! ....and boyyyyy has it been an experience. In this episode, I'll share what the experience has been like, what I did for alllll the things I didn't know about (aka - 90% of what you need to know about cats), and how it can relate to you and your acting career. Links!  Swanwick Sleep Blue Light Glasses: https://www.swanwicksleep.com/?oid=1&affid=4372186  Free Audible: www.audibletrial.com/tonyrossishow Actor Resources  Wanna do a free 1 on 1 call with me??  Click here to grab a spot!  Join us!  "Actor Problems" Facebook Group www.facebook.com/groups/actorproblems  Join the actor self-care newsletter! www.tonyrossicoaching.com Plus gain access to my free video series - “Why You Think You Suck (Even Though You Really Don’t)”   For Sponsorship Inquiries Shoot an email to tony.rossi@gmail.com and put “Actor Problems Sponsor” in the subject line. Wanna just support the podcast? You’re the best. Head to patreon.com/tonyrossi for donation options, starting at $1/month.  Are we connected? (We totally should be….) Instagram: @tony.rossi Twitter: @_tonyrossi TikTok: @tony.rossi Facebook: www.facebook.com/tonyrossicoaching    Remember - we can be messy and still get the things that we want #notperfect #stillenough

Johnny And The Greg Podcast
Tina Santiago | JATG#31

Johnny And The Greg Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2021 69:32


Episode 100 of #JohnnyandTheGreg!!We welcome back Tina Santiago for her third appearance on the show. Today we cover her amazing health journey with weight loss and mental health. Tina was unhappy with her situation and she decided to do something about it. 2021 may not be starting off like we all hoped, but enjoy a positive story of personal growth and development.  One month of FREE Audible at www.AudibleTrial.com/JATGFind us at: https://linktr.ee/JATGP#JATG #JohnnyandTheGreg #Episode100 #Weightloss #2021 #Resolution #MentalHealth #SelfImprovment 

The Kiss Me Quick's Erotica
Erotic Moves by Dr J.- D30v3 Announcement!

The Kiss Me Quick's Erotica

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2020 23:23


New! The Sexy Librarian's Dirty 30 Vol. 3 Audiobook is Here! Hazzah, Lurid Listeners! We are very excited to announce that our The Sexy Librarian's Dirty 30 Vol. 3 audiobook is finally here. To celebrate the release of our third volume in this library of Erotica series, we are giving away The Sexy Librarian's Dirty 30 Vol. 3 audiobook, FREE! All you have to do is head over to Twitter and send us a tweet or a direct message to @TheKMQ or email us- thekissmequicks@gmail.com! Tell us that you'd like a FREE Audible download code for our #D30v3 audiobook and it's all yours! Tweet @TheKMQ or email ASAP! Supply is limited, so don't hesitate! *offer limited to US and UK listeners Here's a free story to get the party started!

ReKaps
ReKapping Massachusetts & Housewives Content Plus 'Sofia With an F', Bethenny/Paul Bernon Split, KUWTK & More (feat. @jameskirk01)

ReKaps

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2020 91:03


Free Audible trial: http://www.audibletrial.com/rekapspodcastHosted and edited by @sydneyrekapsJoin FB Group 'ReKapping Everything'Merch: https://www.instagram.com/rekapsmerchsustainable/ Follow James on TikTok @jameskirk01Artwork by @calidereuxPhotography by @JP_Yim / @caravannyc

Sworn Testimonies
A Tale of Two Police: A Black Cop Shares His Perspective

Sworn Testimonies

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2020 40:38


Jaquay Williams, the police officer who was terminated from his position after sharing a popular TikTok video about George Floyd's murder, joined me for a sensitive conversation about police brutality, his experience as an officer, and his opinion about “defunding the police.”For your 30 day FREE Audible trial and FREE book, click here! (http://www.audibletrack.com/click.track?CID=102175&AFID=477431)

Invisible Black Girl
Ep 20: Ooh He Make Me Feel Safe!

Invisible Black Girl

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2020 32:18


Wow! 20 Episodes! It has been a whirlwind. I give an update about my super busy life. And I tell a story that I wouldn't believe if it didn't happen to me. Hope you enjoy listening to my craziness and don't forget to follow your dreams. Free Audible download

ReKaps
ReKapping The Social Dilemma, All in By Teddi, Stassi/Tamron Hall, 'This is Paris' & More (feat. a Provo Canyon Survivor)

ReKaps

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2020 77:02


www.audibletrial.com/rekapspodcast for FREE Audible trial! Hosted and edited by @sydneyrekapsJoin FB Group "ReKapping Everything"Artwork by @carlidereuxPhotography by @JP_YIM/@caravannyc

Sworn Testimonies
Conversations with a Black Therapist

Sworn Testimonies

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2020 58:39


Aiyana Ma'at is a Licensed Psycho-therapist & Clinical Social Worker in the state of Maryland and the District of Columbia. She is also a certified Marriage & Relationship Educator specializing in couples & family work. She firmly believes that relationships are the vehicles we can all use to grow and evolve. She is clear that a part of the call on her life is to help bring insight and awareness to others so that they can “get out of their own way” and create the lives and relationships they want and deserve to have. On this episode, we discuss why therapy is important, why it is often seen as taboo in the black community, and what to expect when making an appointment for the first time. For your 30 day FREE Audible trial and FREE book, click here! (http://www.audibletrack.com/click.track?CID=102175&AFID=477431)

Brunch with Besties Podcast
Brunch With Besties Episode 153 Sharing Good News Feat Keth Good News

Brunch with Besties Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2020 67:37


Chanel and Sherry Renee are joined with the founder and CEO of The Good News Network, Keith McElhannon, also known as Keith Good News. Keith is also the host of the captivating podcast show called Monday Mornings with Keith Good News. Tune in as we discuss what drives Keith to his purpose, the humble beginnings of The Good News and more. You do not want to miss this. Keith Good News IG Handle @keithgoodnews @thegoodnewsradio Tip: If you would like to send your Besties a donations you can via: -Paypal: brunchwithbestiespodcast@gmail.com -Venmo: brunchwithbestiespodcast@gmail.com -Cash App: $BrunchwithBesties -Support The Good News Radio Station: https://www.gofundme.com/f/keep-the-good-news-growing Try our FREE Audible 30 day trial. Click the link below www.audibletrial.com/BWB Email us: brunchwithbestiespodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Social Media: Instagram- @brunchwithbestiespodcast Facebook- Brunch with Besties Podcast Twitter- BrunchwBesties

Level Up Your Life
LUYL 070 - Turning Failure into Growth with Sarah McVanel [Encore]

Level Up Your Life

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2020 45:16


Greatness Magnified’s Sarah McVanel joins Mark on today’s episode of Level Up Your Life to discuss the Flip Side of Failing. Why is it so important to experience hard times? Why are we almost required to go through tough experiences before things get better? Mark and Sarah go in depth about failure, and why the most successful people on earth (well, in Canada) have attributed their biggest successes to it. They also talk about their own personal experiences and share stories about their own moments of crisis and how they lead to amazing transformations in their lives.   A crisis moment that lead to a massive life transformation. A wacky idea that ended up being a great one. What’s conditional, what’s optional, and what’s not What does leveling up look like to you? What is the Flipside of Failure?   “Once you truly start to look around at your life, and all of the things that you have been putting up with, you actually realize that you’ve been settling” “We didn’t want to create new problems while we were trying to solve other problems” “We have to be able to let go of what is in order to reach for what could be” “We have the definition of failure all wrong” “Failure is a part of that process”   Get Flip Side of Failing! https://greatnessmagnified.com   Share the show! www.markblack.ca/podcast   More Mark: Your Best Year Yet transformation Program Mark's website Mark's LinkedIn profile Mark's Twitter profile Mark's Facebook profile   Click HERE for one month FREE Audible  

Find Your Voice
The best way to motivate yourself #94

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2020 9:53


Motivation comes in dribs & drabs! In fact, it seems to elude us when we need it most & appear when we can't use it as effectively. Ever get that moment of motivation after a few beers but know deep down you won't execute there and then and even less likely too, in the morning with hangover? Then on the flip side you know you need to work out but it's becoming increasingly difficult to get your body and mind to adhere to your wishes and instead you excuse yourself, let yourself off the hook and tell yourself, you will do better tomorrow?Well this is why I hope this short bite sized episode will help you at least find another resource to add to your tool kit and get yourself doing things, to execute your goals, overcome your adversity and be happier!So as I wrote these shownotes, I recognised my Morbid motivation videos are only on my Instagram profile. However I will be uploaded a YouTube version in the upcoming weeks if you want more clarrity on this. I spoke about this at Toastmasters too and it helped me win an award for the best speech.If you enjoyed it or found it useful, let me know! Also drop by the YouTube channel as we have content everyday going out now to help you.Audio versions of the Find Your Voice episodes, video recordings of some episodes, animations telling stories, giving tips and much much more!Also do not forget to check out our new sponsor coming soon: https://www.healthxcel.co.ukCovid19, Covid-19, Coronavirus is just a phase of adversity we are all capable of overcoming and prospering from.Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Memb...Best book on Mindset by Carol Dweck: Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoice & check out our new sponsor: https://www.healthxcel.co.ukLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribeYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6y See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Find Your Voice
10 Things to help your mental health during Corona virus Social Distancing, self-isolation & quarantine

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2020 14:14


I sympathise with anyone at this time. Noone is unaffected but and as I always state about our problems not being exclusive to ourselves, there is no truer realisation for us all that, that is the case.However, conscious that loneliness and self-isolation can increase the pressures on our mental health during this period of corona virus (Covid-19) I want to try to help you with 10 things you can do that will massively help you during these testing times.Prior to listening to this, you may want to check the last episode out which has a further 10 hacks, that will help you during this pandemic too. My goal is to ensure you do not lose momentum or suffer alone in these times. So I sincerely hope these help you.Check out Thursdays episode: https://shows.acast.com/findyourvoice/episodes/control-the-controllables-how-to-survive-during-corona-isola10 things everyone can do during isolation - social distancing for your mental health1. Get help from your local governments. Money along with health is the most feared concept for all people. For its not a concern, but for many it is. So in these times, reach out to your local governments as they will have many ways they can help you. Direct debits etc can also be reduced or stalled from car finance companies etc to really help you during this moment of uncertainty.2. Start with gratitude, isolation is not the end. Isolation is protecting ourselves, but just as importantly protecting those who are vulnerable. I believe with all of my heart if you listen to my podcast, you are like me. You care just as much for others as you do for yourself. If you didn’t, I wouldn’t imagine you’d be sticking around for long. So gratitude for us is a must. We should be grateful we are in a position to help others (even through technically doing nothing). We should be grateful for having a roof over our heads, access to water and toilets/showers. The ability to connect via FaceTime, Skype, WhatsApp or mobiles to all our loved ones too.3. Read some books. Or if you’re like me listen to them. This is a time to enhance your mind without the pressures of being somewhere else or having to do anything else. Books allow us to time collapse our journeys, change our perspectives and just develop. If you want recommendations please let me know, although most of my books are non-fiction personal developments. But even if its a fiction book, knock off those slippers kick back and read to your hearts content.4. Watch this is us. Now I am obviously looking for an endorsement but this show has been incredible. It looks at all the different obstacles and adversities we face in life, from parenting, to racism, to self-image, confidence etc Yet the messages are beautifully scripted and acted out. I literally leave each show with my heart full and head bursting with ideas for blogs and podcast shows to hopefully help you all.5. Recharge your batteries. So often in life we are on autopilot and rarely take a step back to look at our well-being. This is time to sit back, re assess your life and see if the story you are writing is one you want to continue to writing. Would you be happy doing this for the next 10-15 years? If no, then you have such a huge possibility to change your future by starting today. 5 years ago today I would have believed I had to work till I was 65, yet here I am able to connect with you all and do the things that fill my heart more than anything in the world. It took blood sweat and tears but it started with the decision to do so. You have that power to make the decision now, even if you think you don’t.6. Clean! If you’re a guy, do some handy work around the house and clean. You will get yourself some brownie points, but you also have a cleaner house & decluttering helps with your mind space.7. Skype/Zoom people. This is crucial, because although it won’t replace physical social interaction we need to communicate with people, and we do not want to suffer with loneliness. So reach out to your loved ones. Hey reach out to me! I am always active on Instagram and ill try to reach back out to you too.8. Journal. If you are suffering with anxiety in this time, journaling is my #1 tool for combatting overwhelm and anxious feelings. Just throw anything and everything in your head onto paper and watch your brain feel lighter, mood get brighter and smile get wider over time. Its powerful beyond belief!9. Start your day with Find Your Voice Podcast!10. Learn something new. Okay so to date we probably learnt a few celebrities have got coronavirus and that its taking over the world, with people snatching toilet rolls and doing all sorts of crazy habits. Well the time you spend, reading the same information that will only add to your anxiety, perhaps you could randomly research something you’re interested about? How about brain health? How about the benefits of adversity? Or how to cook pad thai? How to exercise at home? It can truly be anything, but time I something we will never got back. Skill sets and new learnings are also things we will always have. SoAlso do not forget to check out our new sponsor coming soon: https://www.healthxcel.co.ukCovid19, Covid-19, Coronavirus is just a phase of adversity we are all capable of overcoming and prospering from.Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Memb...Best book on Mindset by Carol Dweck: Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoice & check out our new sponsor: https://www.healthxcel.co.ukLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribeYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6y See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Find Your Voice
How to Build Confidence - 5 Tips you can do today (Part 2/2)

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2020 12:24


"We all lack confidence in certain areas of our life" - Aren Deu #875 Ways to Build Confidence Part 2If you haven't already, you may want to check out https://shows.acast.com/findyourvoice/episodes/how-to-build-confidenceWhere i discussed the first 5 things to help build confidence. To quickly recap these included:1 getting things done, 2 exercising, 3, staying true to your word, 4 ensuring you don’t get overwhelmed and 5 recognising the lack of confidence is not exclusive to you and we all, in certain areas of our lives experience it.But please do obviously check it out for an in-depth 10-minute explanation.But for this episode, these are the 5 ways (well 6, with the bonus tip) to help you build your confidence.6. Preparation. One of the ways I managed to handle my public speaking fear, was to be incredibly prepared. Now there is a well known fact that even the most confidence amongst us, such as French Prince of Bel-Air who we all loved and adored if you were an 80/90s baby, can be seen whispering the lines of every single person in the episode before his own lines. Why? It was his first major gig at acting, he wanted to make sure he didn't make mistakes or mess up his opportunity, so he prepared!! For many of us, a lack of confidence can be due to a lack of competencies or knowledge so the best way to get over this, is too just over prepare! I've done it, I still do it and I promise you it will hugely enhance your confidence7. Improve your posture. There is a psychological and physiologically benefits to improving one's posture. If you are trying to negotiate something, or get a point across but you have your shoulders slouched, back hunched over like the dude from Notre dam you are likely 1 not going to portray a confident person, but 2 not even feel it. Put those shoulders back, work on your eye contact and pump that chest out. It may feel stupidly awkward by the way, initially but it's empowering once you recognise people start to take more notice of you.8. Music! Yes, music is one of the best things for our minds and bodies if we choose the right tracks, to empower us. I don’t know about you, but there are some songs that I feel I can genuinely take on the world after it. Either for their lyrics the beat or just the feeling of when I first ever heard that song. I call these power songs. Find your power songs and get them ready before you need to be more confident. Now being fully transparent here, I do this on the way to football matches, or when I spar in boxing because sometimes my anxiety and own self doubts can cripple my performances, but if I can get those tunes playing at the right time, I am usually unstoppable! Okay, that’s an exaggeration, but I usually feel proud of myself as I gave my all without self sabotaging my performance before I even step into the ring or on the field.9. Visualise. There is something magical about visualisation and maybe ill do a podcast on this separately in more depth. But your imagination has the power to boost your confidence massively. Experts believe that mental visualisation practices such as delivering the perfect speech, hitting that home run, successful getting a new client etc, can prepare your brain for the outcome and give you that sense of achievement. Combined with positive affirmations of how you can achieve this, are worthy of achieving this, you can literally accomplish it in your head, mind and body before you actually go out there and do it. Which you will!10. Do something difficult. There is something special about learning to become comfortable whilst actually being uncomfortable. We will never improve ourselves or you will never truly find your voice if you remain in your comfort zone. We need to stretch it, push it, step outside it and learn to wonder in a bit of uncertainty, a bit of uncomfortable to really grow as humans. Overtime, if you consistently do this to yourself, you will quickly start to fell unstoppable and recognise that the things you used to think were impossible, or were going to kill you, harm you, or scare you senseless actually didn’t turn out so bad after all!And just because I think a 3 part episode would be an overkill, I’ve taken 1 more confidence boosting tip to truly help move forward and find your voice:11. Smile at random people. I tried this exercise a few weeks back, but I started in comfortable places like the local gym, where everyone is so polite anyway. So rather than avoiding eye contact like I so often do, I started to look at people in the eyes and just push those cheek up and flash a smile. And guess what? I didn’t die. I didn’t get called a weirdo. I didn't break out in a sweat. I actually got welcoming greetings and smiles back. The benefit of all of that? I had a great work out and more importantly was in such a great mood for the remainder of the day… Smiling is contagious and as much as those people made my day, id like to think my awkward smile did the same!Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Memb...Best book on Mindset by Carol Dweck: Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoice & check out our new sponsor: https://www.healthxcel.co.ukLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribeYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6y See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Find Your Voice
Suicide Prevention, Mental illness Awareness, Body Dysmorphia & so much more ft Bobby Temps #88

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2020 53:04


"Over 75% have developed mental illness by the age of 18" by Bobby Temps #88A face to face conversation with one of today's, local mental health advocates who is making huge positive changes in the space. Delighted to welcome Bobby Temps, the host of the Podcast entitled: Mental - The Podcast to Destigmatise Mental Health on to Find Your Voice where I got to know the man himself. Always intrigued as to why people do what they do, I wanted to understand why Bobby does the work he does, for mental health and also to understand where these motivators came from.This was an insightful and thought-provoking interview where we delved into many areas. We discussed the pressures society can place upon us. The pressures our parents can have on our own mental illness. Anxiety, Depression, Loneliness, Burnout and even body dysmorphia. All these can sometimes be very taboo like and we often navigate around them, rather than discussing them But keen to not just be another Mental Health hashtag episode we promised ourselves and each other we would be 100% open and transparent.Realising that we can all internalise things with a different perspective it is always a goal of mine personally to bring on as many people as possible even within the same bracket of adversity that they often highlight shaped their lives. This will in my hope, help you as listeners gain a different method, or perspective of coping and managing your own life.The beautiful thing with this interview, and something I learned midway through it was that a petition has now been signed with over 196,000 signatures, as I write this to help Some Key Time stamps:[04:45] Destigmatise Mental Health / Mental illness[08:40] Family pressures - Bobby[15:50] Family pressures - Aren[23:40] The statistics around Mental illness[30:30] Positive affirmations around Body Dysmorphia [39:15] Mental illness & Trauma you have experienced[45:00] Fun part of the showI urge you all to follow his journey:Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21 Carol Dweck Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZAmazon 5 Minute journal: https://amzn.to/31IJlGDSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.comYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to Bobby:Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/bobbytemps/Website: https://www.mentalpodcast.co.uk/Twitter: https://twitter.com/mental_podcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentalpodcast/?hl=enPodcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/mental-the-podcast-to-destigmatise-mental-health/id1358920477Some Mental recommendations:SamaritansSomeone to talk to who really listens with someone always there to pick up the phone. They do not offer advise but a space to speak anonymously about what is on your mind and can signpost other organisations. There number is free and won’t show up on your phone bill. ​If you are a student Nightline offers a similar services tailored for you and run by student volunteers - https://nightline.ac.uk​Bias warning- Bobby used to volunteer here!​Counselling ServicesThere is no definitive route to finding the right service for you, so try googling for your local area. Remember you can always go in for a session and you don’t have to go back if you feel uncomfortable. The NHS also offers counselling but this is in part dependant on your personal situation and there is usually a waiting list.​The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy has a directory for support services on their website bacp.co.ukOrganisations with a wide range of services:rethink.org - 'We help millions of people affected by mental illness by challenging attitudes and lives with information and practical advice.'​mind.org.uk - ‘We're Mind, the mental health charity. We're here to make sure no one has to face a mental health problem alone.’​time-to-change.org.uk - ‘We are a growing movement of people changing how we all think and act about mental health problems.’Services relating to topics we coverFor a far broader list of services visit: time-to-change.org.uk/what-are-mental-health-problems/mental-health-help-you/other-useful-organisationsPetition :https://www.change.org/p/make-mental-health-education-mandatory-in-all-schoolsSince starting this petition, we have received support from politicians across the political spectrum and it has reached over 195,000 signatures. Plus the Department of Education, Ofsted and the Welsh Assembly are already working to make these changes a reality. When working to reduce stigma, I am continually concerned how a lack of education around mental health is contributing factor. This is something regularly raised as a mutual concern by guests on my mental health podcast plus several of them are actively working to fill this need by doing talks and workshops in schools. With one in four of us experiencing mental illness every year according to the charity Mind, this seems to be a real and very significant gap in our education system. KEY STATISTICS:​- One in ten children aged between 5 and 16 years has been diagnosed with/shows signs of a mental health problem, and many continue to have these problems into adulthood. (1)- Over half of all mental ill health starts before the age of 14 years, and 75% of this has developed by the age of 18. (2)- NHS England estimates that poor mental health costs the NHS and society £105 billion a year in England alone. (3)The statistics are shocking, yet whilst there is a whole subject in the curriculum around our physical health in the form of PE, our young people are left without any knowledge of even the most common mental illnesses.​Not only does this leave them unprepared and vulnerable when it comes to looking out for their own mental health, but also sets the standard that Mental Health is not discussed. This plants a seed of stigma that many carry for their whole lives.​Upon further research, there generally seems very little in the way of guidelines currently. For example, if Romeo and Juliet is studied as part of the curriculum when the two title characters kill themselves, this is considered the end of the story or worse romanticised as an ideal form of love. The very serious topic of suicide is frequently not even mentioned as part of schooling, and yet according to the BBC, suicide is the biggest killer of men under the age of 49.​It’s time to make a change. Even if a law was passed so every child receives one class about mental health during their time at school, this would be more than the vast majority currently get. We are keen to hear back from those in power on a more extensive plan to better the lives of our nation’s young people.​CAMPAIGNING FOR:​- Mental Health education becoming mandatory teaching for all schools in the UK without the addition of any exams or homework on this subject.​- Every child having the ability to access a qualified counsellor through their school. This is something that many workplaces already offer.​- Every school offering Mental Health training for its staff.​ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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How to Build Confidence - 5 Tips you can do today (Part 1/2)

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2020 10:18


"We all lack confidence in certain areas of our life" - Aren Deu #87Here are 5 Ways to Build Confidence (Part 2 out next week).So firstly what is confidence?Confidence is the feeling or believe that one can have faith or rely on someone or something. A simple enough definition right?But if you are anything like me, throughout my life some things I’ve really wanted to do, or needed to do i’e just not been confident at, and that sucks!So I’ve dissected this episode into 2 parts, as this topic has 1000s of ways to help you, to build you confidence.So let’s get started:1. Get things done. Funnily enough, confidence is not something many of us can just wish into existence. It requires a bit of growth, uncomfortable moments or actually executing on something. Sounds like a tough deal right? Well not really. You see if you truly want to achieve something you don’t have already, or become someone you aren’t already you have to be willing to put the work in, in order to grow. This is where doing things that you can tick of as accomplishments will build your confidence. Even if it just small things, this matters too. Consistently improving or doing things you wouldn’t usually feel confident about, or shy away from over time will build confidence. A great example? Me doing this recording now, 90 episodes in. It feels easier, I worry that bit less, and I am confident in the message and hopefully that shines through. Hopefully.2. Exercise. Now this list wouldn’t be a list without confidence. You see there is something about exercising that can be transferred across all walks of life. The small incremental increases in strength, speed, power, endurance etc is one thing. But how about, starting something (no-one is naturally a professional at) and spending days, hours on end working on the activity to slowly recognise how much better you become at it, how easier those first sessions would be if you were to mimic those? Plus you also benefit from releasing feel good endorphins, enhance your physical appearance and that in itself enhances one's confidence. Look good, feel good!3. Stay true to your word. This is something that over the years has massively built my own personal confidence. Not only will people respect people that say what they do and do what they say, but the most important person in your life will also respect that too. Yes YOU! If you can commit to your words via actions, slowly but surely, you will build confidence in yourself. You will see yourself as someone, irrespective of emotions and feelings, will go out there and do exactly what they say they will do. Do this long enough, you will be as confident as they come.4. Don’t overwhelm yourself. It is easy to want to be confident today, especially if you really suck at it. But it’s a process. Just like finding your voice hey! It takes time, hours, days months or even years. But if you can be patient and remain consistent enough confidence will in itself start to show. I never liked public speaking, and although I have many things I'd prefer to do, I manage it okay now. I never liked taking on the phone, could you believe that? And now, phone calls aren’t too scary. But it takes time, sadly this episode alone won’t just suddenly make you confident5. Know that you aren’t alone. Everyone is confident at certain things and everyone is not so confident at others. We often look at people within the thing we want to pursue or become confident and think that person is incredible. Almost put them on a pedestal assuming they are confident at life as a whole. This is far from the truth. For example. I am confident in physical activities, way more than I am in speaking activities. Yet I am more confident in boxing than I would be in cricket. I am more confident interviewing guests than being a guest myself. We all have particular things that we shine in and others we don't. So the key is to ensure we don’t beat ourselves up and know that everyone has their own journey and everyone has to build confidence in the things that matter or are required for them.Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Memb...Best book on Mindset by Carol Dweck: Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoice & check out our new sponsor: https://www.healthxcel.co.ukLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribeYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6y See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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How to Control Your Thoughts, Emotions & Practice Self Care to Improve Your Mental Health #86

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2020 43:16


"You are NOT your Anger" by Alexander Walker #86Alexander Walker, is a clinical hypnotherapist who works with clients who have or are experiencing depression, bipolar, anxiety and stress. But he fell into this line of work due suffering depression himself, struggling with his own anger and realising he never quite fitted in. Eager to now help others, having dug himself out of his own hole, Alexander helps people on a daily basis. He kindly joined us on the show today, where he shared methods for reducing anxiety and overwhelm; managing anger management and more important recognising that our thoughts are not us. Our emotions are not us. We are not moments of our life, we are much more than that. This insightful perspective of looking at how we often criticise or judge ourselves, can increase our happiness almost instantly.It is for that reason, I encourage you all to listen to this episode, maybe even watch it on YouTube where it is not edited and has a few extra bits thrown in. It will teach you to manage your emotions and thoughts much better, which in turn will enhance your life, improve your happiness and help you find your voice.Let me know your thoughts, and be sure to share this on social media and share it with anyone you feel could benefit from the wisdom Alexander shared.Some Key Time stamps:[04:30] Understanding my own Depression - Alexander[09:00] Controlling your thoughts & bringing in a new experience[14:00] Dealing & Understanding your Anger problems[17:55] Why some people act in a "bad" way[25:30] You are responsible for your world - The HO-OPON-OPONO Technique[31:10] Acknowledge the small wins in your life + Your Journey MattersI urge you all to follow his journey:Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21 Carol Dweck Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZAmazon 5 Minute journal: https://amzn.to/31IJlGDSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.comYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to Alexander:Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/Alexander-Walker-Clinical-Hypnotherapist-347417235732572/Website : https://www.alexanderwalkerch.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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Why do we do what we do? #85

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2020 6:04


"Why do we do what we do?" by Aren Deu #85A bit of a brain dump of an episode here, where I ask you the question "Do you help people because you want to be a hero, or do you want to truly just help people?" The reason behind this however, is that I am intrigued as to why we do what we do.So ask yourself:Do you help people because you want to be a hero? ORBecause you just truly want to actually help?You often see in life, myself included - I am not perfect - we tend to help people for mixed reasons.But more so with social media & with narcissism traits becoming more apparent by the hour, I see people offering help or assistance with a hidden agenda/intent. Not saying this is wrong by the way, after all I am just 1 man's opinion, voicing my thoughts from time to time.But I am truly, truly fascinated in understanding why do we do what we do?Why do we need to suddenly try to take advantage of mental health deaths & post of the back of it pretending it has always been our cause? Why do we jump on trending topics in attempt to show our own 'worthiness'?Why does tragedy force us to open up our social media accounts & show the world we are so great rather than show those around us, in person, around the corner, a drive away their importance first and foremost?Why do we need to shout from the rooftops of our “Charitable work”? To encourage others, or to prove to ourselves and others that we are good people? I am fascinated by this & I don’t know the answers yet. But I would in my limited knowledge put it down to, ego, a lack of something, a need for external validation, narcissism or not feeling enough irrespective of what you may actually already have..I expect no-one to state they help people because they want something back. I am sure we all like to see ourselves as the latter of the initial questions. But deep down, we are all capable of figuring out and understanding why we do what we do, if we do not already know! Nonetheless, I ask you the question, rhetorically of course. Do you help people because you want them to see you as a hero? ORDo you help people because, you can, expecting nothing back and because it is always a good thing to do & you just want to genuinely help?This is a huge self awareness exercise that will teach us all an amazing lesson. Take time to figure this out, and really understand who you are.Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Memb...Best book on Mindset by Carol Dweck: Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribeYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6y See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Level Up Your Life
LUYL 052 A New Take on Building Your Legacy with Codi Shewan

Level Up Your Life

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2020 60:56


How do you want to be remembered? That is the critical question asked by Codi Shewan in his fantastic book "Everyday Legacy".   In his book, Shewan takes a fresh new perspective on what legacy means and how to go about building one. In this episode, we cover a LOT of ground including: Legacy isn't something you leave it's something you live Why learning to harness your ego is an essential part of building a legacy that matters How you can start building your legacy NOW   Get Your Copy of "Everyday Legacy" www.everydaylegacy.com   Share the show! www.markblack.ca/podcast   More Mark: Your Best Year Yet transformation Program  Mark's website  Mark's LinkedIn profile  Mark's Twitter profile Mark's Facebook profile   Click HERE for one month FREE Audible  

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How to Love Yourself Unconditionally ft Andrea Montoya #84

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2020 39:44


"Our biggest enemies, are our biggest teachers" by Andrea #84From Emotional Eating & Bulimia to Removing Breast Implants & Self Love Mastery Andrea opens up about how we all need to love ourselves.What an incredible story this was. Andrea's journey of overcoming emotional eating, bulimia and the beliefs and thoughts of others is inspiring to say the least. She has seen her own mind transform, but also her body too. A chapter of her story we discussed which I believe is very significant to this episode, was about her breast implants. Having initially done this, to fit in, to feel love in herself she had these removed 10 years later. Recognising that she needed to love herself first and foremost she is now in a place where she is able to live with happiness and comfort in her own body and mind, but also help many other people too.A beautiful conversation with some amazing takeaways for you all to learn and grow from. I urge you to check the YouTube version which has more content and fewer edits to get everything from this episode.Some Key Time stamps:[03:30] Why do we do what we do?[08:30] Triggers that affect you or others[13:40] Don't suppress or avoid feeling your emotions[19:40] Removing breast implants - Self Love[29:00] Listening to other peoples opinions and beliefsI urge you all to follow his journey:Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21 Carol Dweck Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZAmazon 5 Minute journal: https://amzn.to/31IJlGDSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.comYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to Andrea:Website: https://ditchthescale.com/applypageInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thingsandreasays See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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How to Take Control of Your Life Now! #83

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2020 7:15


"You must become self-aware enough to recognise you have the capability to always be in control" by Aren Deu #83This is me letting my guard down a bit. We need to promote more vulnerability and transparency, especially if we have an audience or people that listen to us. Whether it is your peers, spouse, children, parents, pupils or friends. We have to be honest about where we are in life, and we have to share not only the things that will benefit us, but also the things we are going through on a daily basis.Since sharing my anxiety, things have changed more than you can ever imagine. I realised I am not alone. But on this episode, I speak about another area of my life I really want to take control of, just like the introduction states in the beginning. We need to at least acknowledge at the very least, we have the capability to take control of our lives. It is then we can work diligently towards that and embrace the opportunities that will enable us to do it, to truly grow. In this growth, we will become capable of controlling our vices and master ourselves. It is then we will finally be able to truly find our voice.I hope you enjoyed this one!Thanks for listening.Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Memb...Best book on Mindset by Carol Dweck: Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribeYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6y See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Level Up Your Life
LUYL 051 It's Not About You

Level Up Your Life

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2020 24:21


Are you living your life to the fullest? Are you truly "leveling up" your life? If you are, you will realize that your life will always be stunted as long as you live it only for yourself. In this episode, Mark shares strategies for finding ways to make a bigger impact by dedicating your life to a bigger purpose. When we serve others we widen our impact and simultaneously make ourselves happier in the process. Level Up! www.levelupimpact.com Use code PODCAST   Share the show! www.markblack.ca/podcast   More Mark: Your Best Year Yet transformation Program  Mark's website  Mark's LinkedIn profile  Mark's Twitter profile Mark's Facebook profile   Click HERE for one month FREE Audible  

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From Prison to Prosperity & Why You Aren't Achieving Your Goals #82

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2020 45:39


"Success Loves Speed" by Erik Salzenstein #82Erik Talks about you have the power of change through your actions & your decisions. By building better more meaningful relationships and embracing the fact we are not alone we can achieve whatever success we want, and achieve our goals. Sometimes having an intention is not enough and to turn our life around we need to take the right action and this requires some tips that Erik speaks about in this episode.But Erik's life was not always as simple as it sounds from this summary. Erik spent the first half of his current life making the odd wrong decision and recognised swiftly how these had such a negative impact on his life. Needing to change his circumstances and not just wanting to change them he made a positive change. He transformed himself from Prison to Prosperity. A truly humble and genuine soul who has become a friend not only of the show but myself. He is one who practices what he preaches and serves people with his authenticity and skill set.Some Key Time stamps:[02:30] Making the wrong decisions[09:30] Prison life[17:20] The 2 Books that Changed Eriks Life[30:00] Stretching Your Comfort ZoneI urge you all to follow his journey:Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21 Carol Dweck Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZAmazon 5 Minute journal: https://amzn.to/31IJlGDSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.comYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to Erik:Website: https://eriksalzenstein.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/salzenstein/?hl=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/Erik-Salzenstein-139557716769533/ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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5 Ways to Change Your Perspective To Increase Happiness, Fulfilment & Find Your Voice #81

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2020 10:31


"Perspective is everything" by Aren Deu #81Now one great thing about human being is we have the capability to take on a different perspective at any given time.For example, let me try to use my Mind reading tactics and see into your lives right now.For those of you who are driving to work, thinking my god, another day, I can’t wait for the weekend or to get this dreaded meeting out the way.How about we choose the perspective off, I have a beautiful car, that I can afford to fuel up, stay warm in and drive to work and attend meetings that people trust me in and earn a wage to enjoy my weekend antics?Simple right?But what about those of you listening to this on a weekend or at home just feeling sluggish or not with it? Thats okay BTW, but let's shift gears and your perspective here too.How much more fortunate are you than the millions of people who don’t have access to mobiles, warm centra healing, a roof over the head or the ability to consume information to help move them forward?How fortunate are you that at the press of a few buttons you can instantly change your state and mindset and become happier. For some that isn’t as easy, and they have a tougher task. Especially if they aren’t in a safe environment like yourself.So I think you get where I am going with this right?Sometimes what we see, experience, and believe is not completely valid or true.Now you can also do this with people too.I am sure many of us, myself included, have judged someone through our own thoughts, experiences and views. But have we taken a second to reflect back and think how is that person coping, or why are they acting this way?Now of course that particular example could just be that person being an absolute douche, but haven’t you done things you aren’t always proud off? Most likely when we see people act or say things that we often find strange, odd, offensive or “wrong” it comes from a place or experience way earlier than when they actually said it.I've had arguments or shall I call them disagreements that have only started because I’ve been frustrated about something entirely different I never settled.Crazy hey?Now this is an episode I want to expand on, maybe in the future because it really does drive everything we do. Our thoughts, actions and emotions are linked so heavily with our very own perspective but for now here are 5 quick ways to change your perspective:1. Look for something positive in every single situation. Sometimes this is more difficult than we can imagine. Having the majority of my adversities through losing people close to me, one thing I will forever be grateful for is having them in my life at one stage, having their relationships and those memories in my thoughts forever. Or how about losing your job? Something I have had many listeners reach out to me about. Great this shows you a few things. 1 THE ONLY security is your own development and skill set and this should never be sidelined whilst working for someone else. 2 maybe you have a chance to find a better venture or try something you always wanted. Or 3 well losing a job is better than losing something more important, like your health or someone near or dear to you.2. Always look at the end goal or bigger picture. I always have a mantra I live by and ask myself, when stuff goes wrong, what is this teaching me right now? How much better will I be in 6, 12 18 months time as a result of this experience? This helps trust me.3. Smile. So I suck at disagreements. I am either non cooperating or I’m like the worst person to ever get into a fight with. But one thing that has always helped is smiling! Honestly, next time your angry or upset or thinking in ways that dont serve you, force yourself to smile or laugh, or find something that makes you do it. Watch your state change and mood boost!4. Help people. When you help those in need, or those who can't do anything back for you I promise you the perspective changes and your levels of gratitude and appreciation for your own circumstances increase. Help someone cross the road, or maybe buy them a coffee or spend an hour with them if they don't have family or friends around. These little kindness gestures will show you that on a grand scheme of things, there’s more important things to life and alter your perspective for the better5. Listen back to some older episodes. Now if you have listened to them all, then you know deep down what I am about to say is true. The perspective shift you can get from seeing someone, with the same situation, or maybe even worse than you get up, dust themselves off and preserve towards finding their voice should immensely alter your perspective. The times I feel low, I think of episode 4 Joshua, or the times I curse cancer for its sickness across my family I think of Louise & Bep on episodes 14 & 17 respectively. There is always someone out there with worse cards playing the game better than you. That should inspire and motivate you to want to grow, to want to change and to want to alter your perspective.So before I continue bashing on at you all in hopes you really at least try a few of these to shift your perspective to better serve not only yourselves but those around you, I am going close the show here.I am hopeful that these episodes really do provide tangible takeaways and insights for you to truly find your way in life, truly find your voice and to overcome whatever thoughts you currently have in your head that aren’t quite serving you.So until next time I hope you have an awesome day and once again I thank you all for listeningThanks for listening.Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Memb...Best book on Mindset by Carol Dweck: Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribeYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6y See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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Putting People on a Pedestal is Destroying Your Gifts #79

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2020 12:23


"Don't compare yourself to 1 area of someone elses life" by Aren Deu #79Putting people on a pedestal is a dangerous game that will not serve you. It simply has no benefit to your happiness or mental health. Furthermore, it will cause you to behave and act in a manner that actually adds very little to your own progress. Now I am not sitting here preaching about this, like I haven't done it. I have. I have put people on a pedestal many times in the past. But since I stopped doing that, my world started to change. Since I started to recognise my own powers, traits and strengths I became much happier in my own skin. I want this for you too.So there’s a few reasons we need to stop this1. Yes the first is comparison is the thief of joy, but if you are comparing yourself with an influencer or a rich person because you don’t have many followers or much money, the chances are you will begin to feel low and almost indirectly subconsciously conform to that persons narrative. You will Be more likely to believe or listen to them on their own matters and personal opinions irrespective of what the truth actually is. Why is this a problem?2. Well the second point is it forces you to not think. It forces you to hold someone in such high esteem based off 1 or 2 traits you then loosely accept their views and don't give yourself the chance to conjure and manifest your own thoughts that's a dangerous place! You will just simply become a sheep and for what? Is it because you have a few less pounds in your account You are so worth more than that.3. What about their other values and characteristics? Listen I am all for people creating wealth and earning shit loads of money. It'll eradicate many of your daily stresses and struggles, it’ll teach you money isn’t the be and end all and it’ll also hopefully, if you're a good person which I know you are if you made it this far or listen to these types of podcasts do more good in the world. But what about their integrity? Their values? Their charitable nature? Are they treating their spouse right? Do they treat the janitor at the local store the same way they treat investors or show themselves on social media? How do they speak to their parents, or their children? I could go on. But so often we look at what we are lacking, and try to find that in others.4. Now this moves me onto point 4. We need to look at what we find inspiring in others and leave it there. We need to not compare, or down value ourselves and recognise that we all have our own journeys. You may have excelled far greater in compassion and kindness than financial gain. So now all you need to do is work out how to level up your finances, or social status or physique depending on what you need or desire. We need to move the conversation back to ourselves and work on masking our potential out so that we can in turn, be proud of ourselves. Progression is key in this and although I encourage looking t people for the blueprint or who have it as a reason why its possible for you, I never want it to be a reason why you disregard your own voice, your own skills and ability to do and become much more.So I just wanted to leave it there as this is something I've done too. I've been doing work of service most my life. I've always tried to be as kind as possible, I've always remained loyal to my spouse, my friends and family. Yet I have too been in situations where I've held people in high regard because they’ve had more influential stance than me or more money. But now I don't. You see I recognised very quickly, my relationships and thoughts are the key to my own happiness. I have amazing relationships and as I progress I'm slowly having more empowering and greater thoughts. These thoughts in turn lead to better decisions and actions and my life is pretty kick ass right now!Had I stayed in comparison mode, who knows how id feel about myself? Who knows how far id push myself or think for myself.I do not want you to just be a drifter through your life, a term I took from an incredible book ill be filling you all in very soon!Thanks for listening.Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Memb...Best book on Mindset by Carol Dweck: Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribeYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6y See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Level Up Your Life
LUYL 049: Be - Do - Have

Level Up Your Life

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2020 32:45


Everyone wants to achieve success. The question is: what does "success" really mean and, more importantly, how do you get it? Most of us have taught about success in the wrong way. We have been taught to set goals, create actions to pursue those goals, and then enjoy the rewards. The problem with this model is that it makes your happiness contingent on your results. To HAVE what you want, you have to DO what it takes, and then you can BE happy. Have-Do-Be is a broken model. In this episode, Mark suggests flipping that model on its head: Be-Do-Have. Focus first on your identity and who you want to become; then discern the actions that kind of person would take; so that you can have the things that kind of person would have. In this episode we talk about: Why the Have, Do, Be model of success is broken Where real happiness comes from and how to achieve it (did you know lottery winners are no happier than you are? Why you have to get "right with yourself" first before you can ever hope to have what you want How to think about your goals in a different way that are based in IDENTITY rather than in RESULTS Level Up! www.levelupimpact.com Use code PODCAST   Share the show! www.markblack.ca/podcast   More Mark: Your Best Year Yet transformation Program  Mark's website  Mark's LinkedIn profile  Mark's Twitter profile Mark's Facebook profile   Click HERE for one month FREE Audible

Find Your Voice
Stop Being a Perfectionist #77

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2020 9:18


"Perfect doesn't exist" - Aren Deu #77Perfectionism is nothing to be proud of. Trust me, I used to wear it as a badge of honour daily. However, I have since realised it was just an excuse to not take action, to procrastinate and just delay my goals. So having had some recent feedback from listeners, who believed I had it all figured out, I felt it necessary to share the truth. (YouTube video, will be out tomorrow)Also it is my goal, to ensure the listeners of find your voice aren't just talkers. Instead, I want you to be doers, to be action takers and be about it!! Finding your voice is about taking control of your life, overcoming your struggles and adversity and yes Finding Your Voice.So off the back of a few listeners, one in particular, thinking I had my anxiety shyness conquered, oh you are so wrong!Remember I am about as normal as you can get and just like you all. I get stressed, worried, nervous and anxious. I get frustrated, angryoverwhelmed too. To make matters worse, I know how to conquer many of these emotions, or at least control them. I have so much wisdom from my guests that I sometimes know the right thing to do, but even then I don't always do it.So listen, it's okay to feel crappy, act crappy and be crappy on the odd occasion. Just remember not to make it a habit. The point is we just need to move forward from that, and we just need to try better next time. I guess that comes down to the right habits and discipline, executing and course correcting.So whatever you have in your heart, feel it.Whatever you have in your mind, speak it.Whatever you want to do, just go out and do it please.If one thing I learned this week is that life its just too bloody fragile.I want to send my thoughts and condolences to the friends and family of those who lost someone in the tragic helicopter crash.RIP (apologies if I pronounce this wrong):Ara ZobayanSarah ChesterPayton ChesterChristina MauserKeri AltobelliJohn AltobelliAlyssa AltobelliGigI Bryant‘& Kobe BryantI want to also leave you on a quote that I saw from twitter that I just hope will stop you procrastinating and take note of the important things in your life, cherish them and make the most of every single second you have in this beautiful world.“Leaving your home and getting back safely is such an underrated blessing”#blackmambaThanks for listening.Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Memb...Best book on Mindset by Carol Dweck: Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribeYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6y See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Find Your Voice
Panic attacks, Narcissism, Gaslighting & NLP explained by Nick Davies #76

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2020 65:24


"Blast Your Past" by Nick Davies #76Nick Davies joins us on Find Your Voice to discuss; Panic attacks, Narcissism, Gaslighting, NLP & much more in this amazing episode.An episode that I wanted to bring all you amazing listeners to really you take control of your lives. Nick Davies shares his 2 incredible protocols to help manage stress, overwhelm and anxiety within 5-10 minutes. These two protocols are called: The Lima Protocol and also the Tapping Protocol.The Lima and Tapping Protocol are put onto a separate video for you all to gain access too:https://youtu.be/q1YHHgPnuy8Alongside this, we also discuss narcissist people and their cognitive blind spots, dissonance and the way they can harm people in society. Furthermore, the use of NLP to manipulate people is also discussed with Nick explaining certain things you should all be aware off.But this is, just some of the amazing takeaways in this episode, as Nick also shares his work ethic, passion and tells a wonderful story of persistence and graft. An authentic individual, who overcame panic attacks, a stab wound to the heart and being dead for almost 25 minutes!Miracles do happen, and with some of these techniques you wouldn't be far off thinking they are miracles too. As an anxious person myself, the use of these techniques have massively helped me personally, so I felt it my duty to share it with yourselves.https://ndhypnotherapy.wordpress.com/Some Key Time stamps:Key timestamps:[04:40] Nicks introduction to NLP in 1996[07:00] The difference between Anxiety & Panic attacks[07:55] Being stabbed in the heart[11:40] The LIMA Protocol - To help you with your anxiety (available on separate YouTube Video} https://youtu.be/q1YHHgPnuy8[17:40] The Tapping Protocol - To help you with stress, frustration or lower mood (available on separate YouTube Video} https://youtu.be/q1YHHgPnuy8[23:45] NLP being used the wrong way[36:00] Nick analysing my own body language[43:30] Narcissist Traits explored - They think their right[49:30] A Powerful Lesson of Perseverance & Hard workKey Quotes by Nick:On anxiety:"Anxiety, is a fear of the future. A future based emotion""If you got anxiety, this is a precursor to panic"On why Affirmations won't work:Affirmations do not work, unless your in the alpha state""Your brain won't accept suggestions unless your in that alpha state"On narcissists"A narcissistic type of person, has to have an outrageous type of personality. When you analyse them, these people are very insecure""Whether there a murderer, burglar or narcissist, they don't know their that person. What they think their doing, they think their right.""Cognitive blind spots are things where your unaware that your doing bad things"On everyone moving forward:"Trust yourself"Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21 Carol Dweck Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.comYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to Nick:Website for free resources: https://ndhypnotherapy.wordpress.com/Nicks website: http://www.ndhypnotherapy.com/YouTube video for LIMA/Tapping Protocol: https://youtu.be/q1YHHgPnuy8Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nick.p.davies.3Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ndhypnotherapy/ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Level Up Your Life
LUYL 048 Stop Chasing Accomplishments

Level Up Your Life

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2020 28:19


Are you chasing the right things? Have you pursued goals only to find out that they weren't what you really wanted? Have you reached a peak and found out that it wasn't all it was cracked up to be? In this week's episode, Mark talks about the dangers of blindly pursuing goals purely for the sake of racking up achievements and building a good resume.  Instead, Mark proposes getting clear about your priorities and values and pursuing the things that matter most first. Level Up! www.levelupimpact.com Use code PODCAST   Share the show! www.markblack.ca/podcast   More Mark: Your Best Year Yet transformation Program  Mark's website  Mark's LinkedIn profile  Mark's Twitter profile Mark's Facebook profile   Click HERE for one month FREE Audible

Find Your Voice
Why Failure is Necesary? #75

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2020 9:00


"I was once the king of failing" - Aren Deu #75We will all fail at things in our life. Or how I now like to say, we will all have many opportunities in our life to learn and grow from things that didn't quite go according to plan. These opportunities are moments that we must acknowledge as important timestamps in our life that will help us level up. They will help us become wiser, gain invaluable experience and teach us so much about ourselves. It is for this reason alone, I want to encourage you all to stretch your comfort zone and begin to embrace 'failure'. Give yourselves the opportunities to become better by learning in the midst of obstacles and challenges that life will throw your way. The 3 points I discuss in this episode are shown below and I sincerely hope they add value.Get a reward from your failures as Eric Thomas saysIt gets easier next timeIt builds characterThanks for listening.Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Memb...Best book on Mindset by Carol Dweck: Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-...Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribeYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6y See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Level Up Your Life
LUYL 047 - How to Make 2020 a Happier Year

Level Up Your Life

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2020 28:52


Welcome to Level Up Your Life with Mark Black.  In this week's episode, we're talking about happiness; what it is and how to have more of it.  Want to learn how to be happier? Would you like to know the simple strategies to make yourself happier?  Tune in to this episode and adopt a new outlook! Level Up! www.levelupimpact.com Use code PODCAST   Share the show! www.markblack.ca/podcast   More Mark: Your Best Year Yet transformation Program  Mark's website  Mark's LinkedIn profile  Mark's Twitter profile Mark's Facebook profile   Click HERE for one month FREE Audible

Find Your Voice
From Quitting Your Job Without a Backup Plan to Making an Difference in the World #74

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2020 35:23


"Making a difference matters at any scale" by Chris Bello #74An incredible story from a wonderful guy. Chris Bello echoes a life so similar to my own. Giving up work without a backup plan, jumping into real estate and also having a podcast to help impact and empower people. Also alongside this, Chris has gone on a similar personal development journey where he now sees himself as someone able to advise and help people overcome their mindset issues and improve their productivity hacks.A conversation I thoroughly enjoyed and one I guess that made me feel better about some decisions in my life I often roll my eyes up at. Yet the one thing we both have in common more than just our job titles, is our true desire to serve and impact more people. Making a difference matters at any scale, regardless of whether its 1 person or 1 million and this is a mantra we both live by. A great individual who I highly recommend you follow post this show and if you are interested in freebies, check his links out below & subscribe to his podcast:Some Key Time stamps:Key timestamps:[03:35] Chris' Story with no back up plan[07:10] Importance of consistency in Podcasting[13:15] Some daily habits Chris uses[20:00] The benefits of failures / mistakes[27:00] Chris legacyKey Quotes by Chris:"Making a difference matters at any scale, regardless of whether its 1 person or 1 million"."Consistency over time and continuing to plant seeds, that will result in improving the world overall"Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21 Carol Dweck Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.comYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to Chris:Free download: https://chrisbello.com/productivity/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chrisbello09/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/chrisbello1990Website: https://chrisbello.com/ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Find Your Voice
Should You Drop Out of College? #72

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2020 36:26


"Live peacefully doing what you love" by Evan Bradley Johnson #72Evan Bradley Johnson dropped out of college, when he recognised quickly the corporate life was not for him. He wanted to be an entrepreneur, and that he did. He took over from his mothers business and has not looked back since. A different perspective, for the listeners of find your voice, that I hope you find useful. Finding Your Voice, or your way in life, can come through any avenue. Now I never want to prescribe something so matter of fact to you, without at least giving a balanced argument.But the one thing I would strongly suggest you all do, moving forward in 2020, is to look at your life and see if its making you truly happy and fulfilled. If it is not, then you may need to reassess and look at where you need to go. Once you have this, I urge you to reverse engineer the process and find a way of becoming that person worthy and capable of living out those dreams.Some great honest insights from an entrepreneur that aren't often discussed too within this episode that I am sure, those experienced or even newbies embarking on the journey will benefit from. Other topics discussed were finding things that make you happy and the importance of mindset.Some Key Time stamps:Key timestamps:[05:00] Evan's entrepreneurial start[07:28] The Best & Worst thing about being an entrepreneur[16:50] Never forget how far you have come[17:10] Evan's health problems[25:40] Taking time for the things that you enjoyKey Quotes by Evan:"it's okay to have goals and try to achieve, but try to remember to take a step back and remember that there is a life happening to you in this moment, and its okay to take a breathe and enjoy that"."Nothing is a perfectly great answer""Drop out of college"Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21 Carol Dweck Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.comYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to Evan:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100012678490353Website: http://www.ipodcastedit.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Find Your Voice
Tips on Becoming a Better You with Damien Rider #70

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2020 25:48


"Heart of the Sea" by Damien Rider #70This was the most difficult podcast episode I had to title as it could have been titled so so many things, due to the insights and knowledge Damien dropped. His tag line reads: 'Triumph over adversity', overcoming PTSD, trauma and adversity is something Damien does as good as most. An incredible individual focused on surpassing his own mental and physical capabilities each and every day. A TedX speaker, an author, an ultra athlete world record holder but more important, at least in my eyes, a true humanitarian.An individual who has experienced trauma via child abuse in his own days, has now turned his life into inspiring and helping others cope. He is not someone who hashtags key phrases, but rather someone who spends time actually taking time out of his day to make an impact. To support survivors and those he can. A truly delightful experience for myself, to have connected with someone who inspires me and shows me that anything is possible.The YouTube Video is also live, although the sound waves of the oceans and horses in the background may distract you!Key timestamps:[05:15] Damien Story of overcoming Child Abuse[08:45] Humanitarian acts of making a difference, for Child abuse awareness[11:20] Tips on how to achieve your goals or overcome your adversity[16:20] Everybody has their ups & downs[21:15] Fun Part of the Show[24:30] Damiens Final MessageKey Quotes by Damien:"Test yourself daily""People forget the challenges that they have gone through life..""I have taken away the words, try, fail & impossible and replaced them with do, learn & possible"Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21 Carol Dweck Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.comYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to Damien Rider:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/damienriderWebsite: https://www.damienrider.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Level Up Your Life
LUYL045 Create Routines for Success

Level Up Your Life

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2020 28:19


Welcome back to another episode of Level Up Your Life! On this week’s episode, Mark Black is talking all about routines and why we need them! From waking up in the morning, to doing our job, to going to bed at night, the day is full of opportunities to put things on autopilot so that we just don’t have to think about them anymore! Mark shares a ton of real, day to day examples of where a routine would help, and even goes a step further and teaches us how to create a routine for ourselves that we can stick to! Ready to create a routine that supports your success? Click play and get ready to Level Up!   Why bother setting up a routine? The real story behind decision fatigue: how it works and how a routine helps to diminish the impact of it. Routines lead to habits, and habits lead to successfully achieving your goals! Beware of the trap that can come with routines: being too comfortable to experience new things. No two routines are created equal, the best routine is the one you can stick to! A framework to build the best routine for you.   “Having a routine and implementing it and sticking to it consistently helps me to be more effective in a number of ways” “Routines can help us not have to think about certain things” “There is not one right way to do this” “Any time you have something in your life that you need to execute well, it can be helpful to have a routine around it”   Level Up! www.levelupimpact.com Use code PODCAST   Share the show! www.markblack.ca/podcast   More Mark: Your Best Year Yet transformation Program  Mark's website  Mark's LinkedIn profile  Mark's Twitter profile Mark's Facebook profile   Click HERE for one month FREE Audible

Find Your Voice
Change Your Habits to Change Your Life #68

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2019 45:09


"Just Do It" by Morgan Gillis #68Morgan has had her fair share of career ventures until she really started to find her way via her habit coaching. Recognising, through self reflection, that her life was not heading the way it should have been, she swiftly realised it was her habits that were determining her levels of success and progress. As a result of this, she started to work on herself and changing her habits, to ensure her goals and life moving forward was the life she wanted.She now coaches people with their daily habits, entrepreneurs mainly, and openly shares her flaws and vulnerabilities as she does wants to remain fully transparent at not having it all figured out, and recognises she is just like all of us here, still finding her own voice and finding her way in the world. A bundle of energy and one who is destined to achieve so so much more in 2020 and following years. I urge you all to follow her journey and get your positive habits started today!Key timestamps:[04:45] Leaving the standard path of life[12:30] Morgans lowest points in her life[20:30] Morgans habits[28:25] Embracing Fear[36:55] Fun part of the show[40:15] Trust your heart & IntuitionKey Quotes by Morgan:"Just do it""I knew my story had power and had difficulty sharing it with anyone""I want to go here, but I am still a waitress"Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21 Carol Dweck Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.comYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to Morgan:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehabitscoach/21 day challenge: http://21daysofchallenge.com/goalsetting/ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Find Your Voice
Overcoming Your Childhood Trauma #67

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2019 36:27


"I'm Still Here" by Mike McBride #67Mike is an infectious human being who shares his vulnerabilities and story to the world, to not only escape his own thoughts and release but to help other people. Mike has recognised through him sharing his story and finding his voice, post surviving child abuse. A sincere man, with a purpose to let people know they aren't alone and that there are ways of overcoming trauma as a child, or any abuse we may suffer.He also discusses some incredible points around, intentional living and how this would enhance the happiness and fulfilment for all of us. Amongst this, we discuss the need to do the work on ourselves with specialists when trauma is the problem. The healing, the overcoming of shame and coming out the other side is necessary but it requires work. Real, hard work that sometimes we may want to avoid or shy away from. But only until we feel the wound can we heal the wound, as the great Robin Sharma quotes.An absolute pleasure to have Mike on the show and I thank him for his transparency and words.Key timestamps:[05:00] Mike sharing his child abuse story through blogging[08:25] Child abuse is NOT your fault.[09:40] Why me?[16:28] Living Intentionally[22:22] Dissociating yourself from abuse[28:45] Fun part of the show[33:55] The Story of Dunkirk - "All we did was survive"Key Quotes by Mike:"We do the things we want to do, and don't do the things we don't want to do" [Intentional Living]"It's not your fault' [On being abused]'These people were going to hurt someone. They were broken, they were damaged and they were looking for someone to hurt...And I just happened to be in the space when it happened" [On being abused]I urge you all to please follow Mike and support his amazing journey.Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21 Carol Dweck Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceBook mentioned:Healing the Shame that binds you: https://amzn.to/2sU8mkILinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.comYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to Mike:All links to Mikes work: https://linktr.ee/childabusesurvivornet See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Level Up Your Life
LUYL044 Your Framework for an Amazing Year

Level Up Your Life

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2019 30:02


Are you looking to have a breakout year next year? The kind of year that sets you apart from the person you’ve routinely been, and catapults your life into a place that you can truly feel proud and accomplished? The kind of year where you cast of the shackles of fear and go after something huge or make a significant change that lasts? If that’s the case and this sounds like you, then you’re going to need a framework in place to help you get there. In this week’s episode of Level Up Your Life, Mark Black talks us through the processes and framework he uses year after year to ensure that his impact is as big as it possibly can be. He also shares some tips and insights on how to plan, set goals, and what to do when you find yourself losing steam! This is a great one, so click play, tune in and share the message!   Is your purpose clearly defined? What does success look like for you as a person? What do you want the next year to look like? What do you want to create? How many steps are between Point A and Point B? The secret may just be a little less conversation and a little more action.   “No great thing happens haphazardly” “We need to know the why before we get into the what’s and the how’s” “How do you want to feel?” “The more intentional you are about what you really want, the better the odds of achieving those things” “Do you need to set aside time for yourself?”   Level Up! www.levelupimpact.com Use code PODCAST   Share the show! www.markblack.ca/podcast   More Mark: Your Best Year Yet transformation Program  Mark's website  Mark's LinkedIn profile  Mark's Twitter profile Mark's Facebook profile   Click HERE for one month FREE Audible

Find Your Voice
Stabbed & Clinically Depressed at 15 to Finding Power in Empathy #65

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2019 52:08


"Change 1 world every single day" by Ally Salama #63Ally Salama is a Social Entrepreneur, Speaker, Podcaster, Ex Pro Athlete who is a mental health ambassador. His work has stemmed from suffering with clinical depression himself. Something he openly admits to never understanding before being diagnosed with it himself. However, depression forced him to take a look at himself and in turn, address his own motives and understand himself on a deeper level. Now creating a huge movement and raising awareness in the Middle East for mental health Ally's message is sincere, authentic and powerful. He is changing the conversation around mental health.Ally has also had his fair share of adversity, from being stabbed at 15 to recognise the true gift and gratitude of life we all have today. He is now determined to never let that blessing of being alive become forgotten, for he is actively now aiming to change 1 world every single day through empathy. He is a people person, someone who after 2 hours of conversation will remain a friend for life. He, similar to myself, preach empathy and compassion and by putting people first, over anything else will result in bigger rewards, higher fulfilment and more happiness.Someone I am proud to now call a friend, although I see him like a wiser younger brother, I urge you all to follow his journey and help him on his empowering movements.Key timestamps:[04:45] Ex Pro Athlete with a Broken Mindset[10:10] The Strongest People in the World, Have the Biggest Hearts[21:40] Anxiety & Our Mobile Phones[24:00] Happiness & Relationships + Stabbing Story[30:00] Running 100 miles after a 3rd attempt[41:30] Women EmpowermentKey Quotes by Ally"he Strongest People in the World, Have the Biggest Hearts""Empathy Always wins"I urge you all to please follow Ally and support his amazing journey.Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21 Carol Dweck Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.comYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to Ally:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allysalamaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ZOXxqug0twnzRizJTgCzgMagazine: https://empower-mag.com/author/allysalama/Website: https://www.allysalama.com/ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Find Your Voice
How to Create The Life You Actually Want by Nate Bailey #63

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2019 42:13


"Integrity Bank" by Nate Bailey #63Nate is a man of many talents. A successful entrepreneur, real estate investor, speaker, coach and author. Along with many other talents and avenues he has pursued such as podcasting, serving his country in the war and running 100 miles (ca. 161 km) at once! But one thing from this interview that really stuck out for me, was his authenticity and integrity. Nate is a man of his word, who has used his life experiences to not only level his own life up and reach a life he is proud and happy with, but he also now helps other people too.Recognising there has to be more to life, Nate went on a personal journey of transforming his own life. He did this by banking all the things he said he would do, into what he calls the Integrity Bank. Then through consistent actions and staying true to his word, he has achieved some incredible feats that have not only built his resilience but also his experience that he now shares with the world.Super intentional behaviours and being clarity on all aspects of his life, Nate has really managed to mould his life into a place he is now happy with. One that now gives him a meaning, but is not just about him. Using his own words, of: "It's not all about you" Nates honest story showcases the journey of life many of us go through. We rarely have it figured out, however we can figure it out if we put the work in!Key timestamps:[05:25] Figuring out the purpose of life[14:45] What do you want from life?[24:00] Imposter Syndrome[30:00] Running 100 miles after a 3rd attemptKey Quotes by Nate Bailey"When emotions are high, clarity is low""Be super intentional""Its not all about you"I urge you all to please follow Nate and support his amazing journey.Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21 Carol Dweck Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZLoving What Is - Byron Katie: https://amzn.to/35a0uKwSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.comYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to Nate:Website: http://www.natebaileyspeaks.com/Free Audible: http://www.100milemindset.com/optin30624563Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachnatebailey/ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Level Up Your Life
LUYL043 Look Back to Move Ahead

Level Up Your Life

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2019 32:06


Why look back at all? What’s the point? In Today’s episode of Level Up Your Life, our for-the-most-part fearless host Mark Back talks about why looking back is often necessary in order to move forward. If all you ever do is plow ahead, accomplishing the things you set out to accomplish without reflection, you may find yourself burned out, tired, or even getting nowhere. It’s possible that simply looking back at the things you’ve done well, or things that haven’t worked could provide answers that you may have missed! Hindsight is pretty amazing when you allow it to work for you! Wondering how to make reflection just as productive as moving forward? Click play and tune in!   What is the biggest mistake that people make at the end of every year? Why does looking back matter? Appreciate how far you have actually come. An exercise for stopping, starting and continuing habits. You’re either learning or succeeding, which are you doing?   “A meaningful, purposeful life does not happen by accident” “In order to move forward and get the most out of the experience, you first have to know where you’ve been” “If you’ve been making an effort, you’ve made progress”   Join The Group! www.levelupyourlifepodcast.com   Contact PodcastBay! Scott@scottdoucet.ca Say Mark sent you!   Share the show! www.markblack.ca/podcast   More Mark: Your Best Year Yet transformation Program  Mark's website  Mark's LinkedIn profile  Mark's Twitter profile Mark's Facebook profile   Click HERE for one month FREE Audible

Find Your Voice
Addressing Suicide Prevention & Mental Health with YouTake10 founder Chelsea #61

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2019 46:02


"Kindness matters, matched with uncomfortability" by Chelsea Von #61The journey of finding one's individual purpose is crucial for us all to really understand what we are meant to do in this very short space of time on this Earth. For Chelsea, this came through seeing her parents battle with mental health, bipolar disorder and seeing her own mom tragically take her life. Chelsea has had to grow up quicker than most and deal with her own mental health having seen the ill effects that it can have, not just on day-to-day life but also for those of us who struggle to continue. Now starting her initiative of the YouTake10 Project,Chelsea is trying to change the conversation and to create and spread awareness of kindness, compassion but more so, ensuring she addresses the mental health and suicide stigmas that exist.This was our first ever live YouTube recording, where you will see mistakes, nervousness, but raw genuine conversations about what we both believe can help people move forward. Chelsea shares her deepest vulnerabilities and stories to hopefully spread light and help others recognise that they are not alone. That together we are strong, with kindness and compassion and together we can learn to manage our own well-being better, so that we can then serve others much better.I urge you all to please follow and support this amazing project, The YouTake10 Project. It is one that I feel strongly about and believe will change the future for so many people.Free Audible book sign up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21 Carol Dweck Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribeYouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to Chelsea:Instagram (YouTake10): https://instagram.com/youtake10projectInstagram (Personal): https://instagram.com/curlswithsoulYouTube: https://youtu.be/3clD7bbCx68The 1st Ever Find Your Voice YouTube Video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-qcDTu0ejQA See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Find Your Voice
How to Turn Your Pain Into Purpose with Dr Linda F. Williams #59

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2019 52:53


"She did it anyway" by Dr Linda F. Williams #59Don't believe the lie that fear is the end of your story."It's not what other people think about us, its what we think about ourselves that keeps us back" - Dr Linda F. WilliamsSo, Dr. Linda F. Williams, DSW is a Certified Executive Coach is a lady who I now hold dear to my heart. Our conversation went via many directions but her messages, were all so sincere and authentic. A lady who has had to overcome horrific moments of adversity such as: Domestic violence and Rape now teaches us the importance of Sharing Your Story & Finding Your Voice.The trauma she has been on, has seen her develop a resilience mindset but more importantly than that a heart willing to forgive. Now a trained psychotherapist, nationally recognized behaviourist, and Emotional Intelligence Consultant Linda wants to ensure others are able to overcome their adversities.Some time stamps of some key topics:[04:40] The Problem with Ignoring Your Trauma[09:40] Why You Need to Share Your Story[15:25] Linda's Voice[33:00] The Power of Forgiveness[42:40] Why Positive Affirmations Don't Always WorkI urge you all to follow her amazing journey, share this episode with anyone you think it will help and go out there and Find Your Voice.Free Audible book sign up:https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21Carol Dweck Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com YouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to Dr Linda Williams:Website: https://www.whoseapple.org/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whoseappledynamicFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/LindaFWilliamsMSWTwitter: https://twitter.com/whoseappleLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindafwilliamsYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8GJ5I5BQvQ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Level Up Your Life
LUYL041 Slow and Steady Progress

Level Up Your Life

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2019 32:25


Welcome to Level Up Your Life! The critical importance of slow, steady progress is what Mark Black will be talking about in today’s episode. While not the sexiest of topics, it’s super important when it comes to discussing the accomplishments of high achievers! Mark is no stranger to progress, as he spends the vast majority of his time teaching others how to achieve it, and yet even he fails to recognize the benefits of taking things slowly sometimes! Want to learn how to use the pace of progress to your advantage? Tune in to this episode and adopt a new outlook on things that can sometimes feel like they’re taking forever!   Major significant change rarely happens quickly. Pick any problem and someone is out there offering a “quick solution”. Understanding how progress truly works will help you to appreciate the slow and steady pace it takes. Are you heading in the right direction? Celebrate the small wins alongside the big ones. Use long term vision and forgive yourself more freely for slipping up. The amazing thing about slow and steady progress.   “We have lost, in my estimation, the value of patience, of endurance and of perseverance” “We sabotage our own success” “Most of the time, overnight successes are not that at all” “Pursuing anything is more about who you become in the process” “We don’t want to do things that are difficult or punishing so we stop doing it” “When you celebrate the small wins, you elevate them” “Ultimately it is the progress that is the reward” “If we quit, we’re never going to make progress” Level Up! www.levelupimpact.com Use code PODCAST   Share the show! www.markblack.ca/podcast   More Mark: Your Best Year Yet transformation Program  Mark's website  Mark's LinkedIn profile  Mark's Twitter profile Mark's Facebook profile   Click HERE for one month FREE Audible

Find Your Voice
Resuscitated 12 Times, 10% Chance of Surviving, 3 Life Threatening Viral Infections, The Miracle Man shares his story #57

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2019 89:41


"I Am Ant Bennett" by Anthony Bennett #57The Inspirational Speaker Anthony Bennett shares his incredible journey on Find Your Voice this week. A recommendation from our previous guest Winston Clements Anthony shares one of the most amazing insights into his mind, story and current journey.It is rarely an episode goes over 40 minutes but here we have so so many nuggets of takeaways that you can implement today to help you change your voice. As a result of that I felt I couldn't cut any of his interview out. His self reflection, his story, his resilience, his behaviour with himself and thought processes are something we can all take gratitude and lessons from.Some time stamps of some key topics:[03:00] A little about the Miracle man[12:20] Recognising how ill he was[18:30] Shout out to the Medical Professions[25:00] Self awareness & Understanding Your Body[33:40] Anthony's biggest fear & Routine[43:50] Anthony's approach to meeting Role Models & Learn[44:20] Knowing your self worth[59:00] Importance of sharing your story[61:00] Skeptas 3 parts of life[72:00] Fun Part of the show[78:00] The most important conversation you can haveI urge you all to follow his amazing journey, share this episode with anyone you think it will help and go out there and Find Your Voice.Free Audible book sign up:https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21Carol Dweck Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com YouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to Anthony:Website: https://anthonyinspires.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamantbennettTwitter: https://twitter.com/IAmAntBennettYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGAHvjXniCdKyU5yTpWmoSQ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Level Up Your Life
LUYL040 ReCharge Your Batteries

Level Up Your Life

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2019 29:15


Welcome to the podcast where we take your life, your work and your relationships to the next level! In this episode of Level Up Your Life, our host Mark Black discusses the value of recharging your batteries. It’s not always the easiest thing to do in today’s world of rushing and racing to get everything done, but prioritizing your rest, and relaxation can make a huge difference to how effective, safe and happy you can truly be! Mark shares some counterintuitive strategies that will make a significant difference in the way you feel, and shares very specific ways to help you rest, relax, recharge and get back to conquering your list of things to accomplish!   You cannot function at the highest level if you don’t take the time to maintain yourself. Can Barack Obama recharge someone’s batteries?. Until you do THIS ONE THING, you will never perform at your best. More isn’t always better. Sometimes doing less is exactly what you need! Mark’s marathon training program seemed a little counter-intuitive, but made a lot of sense later on, and the results were a reflection of that. You just HAVE to sleep. There’s no escaping it. Embrace it. Here are some ways to get more sleep and better quality sleep! Exercising and socializing are more important than you actually think! Consider adding meditation to your day.    “In order to have that energy you have to prioritise yourself” “You cannot give what you do not have” “What we do in the world takes a massive amount of energy” “One of the secrets of high performers is that they prioritize rest and rejuvenation” “At some point you’re actually doing more damage than good” “We live in a culture that has glorified going without sleep” “Sleep is a requirement and you just gotta figure out a way to make it happen” “A 20 minute nap can give you a significant boost in mental energy and focus” “   Level Up! www.levelupimpact.com Use code PODCAST   Share the show! www.markblack.ca/podcast   More Mark: Your Best Year Yet transformation Program  Mark's website  Mark's LinkedIn profile  Mark's Twitter profile Mark's Facebook profile   Click HERE for one month FREE Audible

Find Your Voice
Why You Need to Share Your Story: From Poverty to Millions, Andy Audate shares his story #55

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2019 38:40


"Overcome" #55 by Andy AudateTagline: "You can do some crazy things in life...There is no reason to accept fear, if you have already accepted your death"Raised in a city of impoverishment and a college dropout with little formal education; Andy took a path of entrepreneurship, forcing a course of endless self-education that has amounted to his successes. A story of breaking the stereotype and overcoming all the odds Andy is a proving that if we act, irrespective of fear we can achieve our wildest dreams.Andy turned his hunger, into entrepreneurship starting his first businesses of eBay and never looked back since. He is now a professional speaker, author (No More Average) and serial entrepreneur changing the game for all those he works with. Having benefited from the mentorship of Les Brown, Andy is now on a path to achieve his dreams of being a billionaire and helping a billion people.I urge you all to follow his amazing journey, share this episode with anyone you think it will help and go out there and Find Your Voice.Free Audible book sign up:https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21Carol Dweck Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com YouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to Andy:Website: https://online.andyaudate.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/andyaudateTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/andyaudateYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/andyaudate/ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Level Up Your Life
LUYL039 Commitment is the Secret to Success

Level Up Your Life

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2019 26:47


What does saving money, losing weight, having a successful career and a long and loving relationship have in common? They all require a level of dedication and commitment to pull off! Not sure what commitment is or how to create it within your life? On this week's episode of Level Up Your Life, our host, Mark Black will be guiding us through the 3 biggest things you can do to create momentum and lasting impact by becoming a more commitment oriented person! If you commit to one thing this week, let it be to listen to this episode and learn the ins and outs of hot committing to something and following through can be the biggest differentiation between failing or experiencing success!   What does commitment mean? The secret to losing weight, saving money and having success in business and relationships. Commitment is the price you’ll pay to have the life you’re looking for. Why are contracts always so detailed? What am I asking myself to do? It’s critically important to define your purpose. Why are you doing what you’re doing?   “If you are going to achieve any level of success in any area of your life it requires dedication and commitment” “You don’t get results over night”  “We’re going to do what it takes for as long as it takes” “What am I asking myself to do?” “It’s easy to be committed in the beginning”   Level Up! www.levelupimpact.com Use code PODCAST   Share the show! www.markblack.ca/podcast   More Mark: Your Best Year Yet transformation Program  Mark's website  Mark's LinkedIn profile  Mark's Twitter profile Mark's Facebook profile   Click HERE for one month FREE Audible

Find Your Voice
From Living with a Disability to Competing in the Paralympics, James Roberts share his story #53

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2019 47:00


"Adapt #53 by James RobertsTagline: "At times I wanted to be anything but disabled"James Roberts is the host of the Mindset Athlete Podcast, a speaker, a coach and also a Paralympian who has represented his country in 2008/2012.In this particular episode I wanted to extract the mindset of someone who has operated at the top level. I wanted to see how easy it was, or difficult to transfer the lessons of being a top athlete into other aspects and arenas in your life. I wanted to also delve into James mindset and extract his doubts, fears and see how we could dehumanise him, in the most respectful way to show us, as non-elite athletes that we too could achieve anything we truly want.This was a fascinating discussion as James shared some of his major vulnerabilities about 75% through the show but also spoke about how he grew up as a teenager, wanting to be anything but disabled. This made my heart sink, hearing those words. Yet disciplined, consistent and persistence in his pursuit of being more and doing more James continued to achieve his dreams.I enjoyed everything he stood for. From playing the long game, to his approach towards fat loss. His ethical, sustainable approach to helping people lose weight mirrors that of which I have taught for 8+ years. He is someone who has fought battles not just in the arena, but also within his own mind, conquering them to great success.Some key topics discussed:[07:00] Viewing competition as a positive[10:00] Fad diets & Fat loss[18:15] Questioning one's identity[28:50] Failure is not bad[35:08] James vulnerability of not working enough[44:05] The importance of playing the long gameI urge you all to follow his amazing journey, share this episode with anyone you think it will help and go out there and Find Your Voice.Free Audible book sign up:https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21Carol Dweck Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com YouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to James:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamesoroberts11Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jamesoroberts11Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-mindset-athlete-podcast/id1227806049 See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Level Up Your Life
LUYL038 Putting the Meaning into Meaningful Work with Eric Termuende

Level Up Your Life

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2019 41:40


Are you engaged in meaningful work? Do you know what to look for? How about the word meaningful, do you feel you have a deep understanding of what it means and know how to tell if you’re on the right track? If you’re not sure about any of that, how about this: Do you like the people you work with? The job itself? The tasks you do? If so, then fantastic! You’re one of the rare people who have figured out how to be truly happy at work! But if it’s a no, or you’re just not sure, then this episode is definitely for you. I this episode of Level Up Your Life, Mark is joined by fellow speaker, author and podcast host Eric Termuende to discuss work, and more importantly, the meaning behind it. What starts off as a simple concept grows into a very high quality conversation about creating a life with less friction, and more happiness, and truly levelling up to your true potential. Mark and Eric also share their mutual opinion on the single most wasteful activity a person can spend time doing, and why taking responsibility for your own happiness is kind of a big deal.   What is considered to be meaningful work? What is success? Resistance and challenge within the job could very well be a big part of what makes it fulfilling. How do you go about finding something you’ll enjoy? 5 questions to ask yourself when you want to know if you’re on the right track or not. You are responsible for your own joy and fulfillment. Can you be a little bit happier than yesterday? Not all advice is good advice for you.   “I recognized at a very young age, because I was forced to, that our time is finite” - Mark “What is the life you want to live?” - Eric “We’re still trying to paint success with one broad stroke of a brush” - Eric “Who is working where at the places you frequence most?” - Eric “A ‘Why’ attracts talent, but a ‘How’ keeps it” - Eric “Outside of everyone we have contact with is a world of bystanders” - Eric “Maybe where we are right now is exactly where we need to be” - Eric “Where can there be more happiness?” - Eric   More Eric! www.erictermuende.com   Level Up! www.levelupimpact.com Use code PODCAST   Share the show! www.markblack.ca/podcast   More Mark: Your Best Year Yet transformation Program  Mark's website  Mark's LinkedIn profile  Mark's Twitter profile Mark's Facebook profile   Click HERE for one month FREE Audible

Find Your Voice
From Domestic Violence & Homelessness to Mrs Germany World Sandahl Taylor Finds Her Voice #51

Find Your Voice

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2019 36:52


"Simply Sandahl" #51 by Sandahl TaylorTagline: "Be a pineapple, stand tall wear a crown and be sweet on the inside"An inspiring story of a woman who has been a victim of domestic violence, homelessness and seen those close to her suffer major health conditions Her vision now, is to inspire and empower people to find their voice. Through finding her own voice and being able to transfer her message via pageantry, for married women, Sandahl hopes that her message will encourage people to realise their own beauty inside and out.A huge advocate for living with kindness and having the gift of her voice and platform she is now pursuing her vision to become Miss World. Already racking up accolades like: Mrs World Germany 2020, Mrs Pennsylvania 2018 and now doing public speaking, I am confident you will see the beauty within Sandahl's story, herself and that of which she shines towards others around her.Some key timestamps:[03:55] Advocating for those who have no voice[10:10] Tips to control your own life[16:10] Camel back adventures[28:35] Embrace your struggle[34:35] Sandahls message to the listenersI urge you all to follow her amazing journey, share this episode with anyone you think it will help and go out there and Find Your Voice.Free Audible book sign up:https://www.amazon.co.uk/Audible-Membership/dp/B00OPA2XFG?actionCode=AMN30DFT1Bk06604291990WX&tag=are86-21Best book on Mindset by Carol Dweck: Mindset https://amzn.to/2QajMvZSupport the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoiceLinks to me:Website: https://www.arendeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-65443a4b/Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com YouTube: http://tiny.cc/51lx6yLinks to Sandahl:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sandahltaylor/?hl=enTwitter: https://twitter.com/sindelpgh?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/MrsSandahlTaylor/ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.