Marriage Unfiltered

Enneagram The Greek word Ennea means 9 and Gram means points. The picture we often see drawn out is a 9 pointed star as a visual way for us to see each type and their tendencies.References and resources: Relate Better Enneacast Podcast, Enneagram and Marriage Podcast with Christa Hardin, MA, Becoming Us by Your Enneagram Coach Beth McCord.Gut Triad: 8 - 9 - 1Heart: 2 - 3 - 4Head: 5 - 6 - 7@millionpodcastsNumber 40 married Couple PodcastNumber 96 in Christian Marriage Podcasts  We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comOr on Instagram at Marriage_Infiltered_PodcastWe hope to hear from you! Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

John 15The Vine and the Branches“I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. Every branch in me that does not produce fruit he removes, and he prunes every branch that produces fruit so that it will produce more fruit.What does it mean to you do "Abide"? What obedience is God calling you to right now?We would love to hear from you. We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comOr on Instagram at Marriage_Infiltered_PodcastWe hope to hear from you! Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

The Israelites wandered in the desert because they never could FULLY obey. God tells us that He will be with us no matter what, but he also tells us to obey His Commands. What happens when we are not fully obedient to the things God commands of us? How does obedience to God apply to marriage? We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comOr on Instagram at Marriage_Infiltered_PodcastWe hope to hear from you! Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

We get in trouble when our expectations are:Unknown-We may not be aware of the expectations we have, but we all have them. Even if we feel we do not, we have expectations about others having expectations.Unreasonable-Sometimes we feel we would like things a certain way, but just because that is what we expect doesn't mean, it is reasonable.Unexpressed-How can our spouse possibly know our expectations if we do not voice them. This week, the Fields and the Carters are both arguing and it all revolves about our expectations, communication about expectations and the lies we believe about our spouse when we do not voice our expectations and our spouse falls short. We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comOr on Instagram at Marriage_Infiltered_PodcastWe hope to hear from you! Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

"Faith over Fear" can be one of those sayings that tends to get watered down by people with good intentions. What the Bible says about fear and how to defeat it is more than faith. We spend some time detangling Valentines and judging those of you who claim to hate it. But then we get down to a conversation about fear. We hope to challenge you to be vulnerable first with God about what your fears are, then with  your spouse. How we handle our mate's fears can greatly impact our intimacy with each other.  We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comOr on Instagram at Marriage_Infiltered_PodcastWe hope to hear from you! Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

Thank you Amber for giving us the idea for this episode. The four of us sit down to discuss ways that we have had to purge in our lives because we did not recognize the need to keep pruning. John 15:1 - “I am the true vine, and My Father is the vinedresser. Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit, He takes away; and every branch that bears fruit, He prunes it so that it may bear more fruit."Philippians 3:12 - 114 "Not that I have already obtained it or have already become perfect, but I press on so that I may lay hold of that for which also I was laid hold of by Christ Jesus. 13 Brethren, I do not regard myself as having laid hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus." We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comOr on Instagram at Marriage_Infiltered_PodcastWe hope to hear from you! Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

This week we talked about a lot of things, as usual. But here are the sources for some of the specific things we mentioned."The Bible Recap" with Tara-Leigh Cobble. Go to this link to learn more. The Bible Recap"The Power to Change" by Craig Groeschel. Go to this link to learn more. The Power to ChangeLearn more about the movie "The Forge" The Forge MovieThe Quote from CS Lewis.From a letter to an American woman, 31.7.62I have a notion that, apart from actual pain, men and women are quite diversely afflicted by illness.  To a woman one of the great evils about it is that she can't do things.  To a man (or anyway a man like me) the great consolation is the reflection "well, anyway, no-one can now demand that I should do anything." I have often had the fancy that one stage in purgatory might be a great big kitchen in which things are always going wrong - milk boiling over, crockery getting smashed, toast burning, animals stealing.  The women have to learn to sit still and mind their own business: the men have to learn to jump up and do something about it. When both sexes have mastered this exercise, they go on to the next.A clarification written 03.09.62[this] is simply my lifelong experience - that men are more likely to hand over to others what they ought to do themselves, and women more likely to do themselves what others wish they would leave alone.  Hence both sexes must be told "mind your own business" but in two different senses. Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

Where are you discontent? What is the remedy to discontentment? Join us as we talk about finding contentment in your marriage and in your life this Holiday season. We will also talk about where Christmas Romance movies are accurate and inaccurate when it comes to real life love stories.Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

Book: Swipe Right by Levi LuskoGiving 50/50 adapted from Brene Brown  Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

More about the miracle at Dunkirk:https://canonjjohn.com/2017/07/17/national-day-of-prayer-during-dunkirk-1940/More about Mental Load/Invisible Labor:https://susanhyatt.co/the-invisible-workload-of-women/https://therapybrands.com/blog/the-shift-that-never-ends-the-mental-load-of-invisible-work/https://www.spacestherapyla.com/blog/the-invisible-mental-load-the-unseen-weight-held-by-womenMore about communicating Expectations:Video from the ReEngage Curriculum by Watermark    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

When our priorities are out of order, we can see the results in all areas of our life. When we do not communicate priorities with our spouse, we can find ourselves at whits end in our marriage. This week, we talk about the ways our priorities get out of alignment and how that affects us. Scripture used this week:Matthew 6:33Ephesians 5:25Proverbs 22:6Make sure and like, subscribe and share!Email us and DM us to share what you like and would like more of. Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

Pride: Puts self first  Humility: Puts Spouse firstPhil. 2:3-4 "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. Ecclesiastes 2:4-11The Emptiness of Possessions4 I increased my achievements. I built houses and planted vineyards for myself. 5 I made gardensand parks for myself and planted every kind of fruit tree in them. 6 I constructed reservoirs for myself from which to irrigate a grove of flourishing trees. 7 I acquired male and female servants and had slaves who were born in my house. I also owned livestock—large herds and flocks—more than all who were before me in Jerusalem. 8 I also amassed silver and gold for myself, and the treasure of kings and provinces. I gathered male and female singers for myself, and many concubines, the delights of men. 9 So I became great and surpassed all who were before me in Jerusalem; my wisdom also remained with me. 10 All that my eyes desired, I did not deny them. I did not refuse myself any pleasure, for I took pleasure in all my struggles. This was my reward for all my struggles. 11 When I considered all that I had accomplished and what I had labored to achieve, I found everything to be futile and a pursuit of the wind. There was nothing to be gained under the sun.Romans 12:3 Contact us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comFind us on Instagram Marriage Unfiltered PodcastLike, subscribe, rate and share! Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

Are we tearing our spouse down? What does it look like to champion them? It is really hard to take a turn and choose to speak life into our spouse, but once you gain the courage, you will see God's blessing on your marriage.Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

We hit it hard with this one. At the cost of offending others, we are to love. What does that look like. How does it affect our marriage when we love those who others deem unlovable? We dive in deep from the very beginning of season 4. SEASON 4?!?!?! How can that be? Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

We have taken a little hayatis this summer, but we drop in to share something on our hearts and catch up a little. Can you even ever really change your spouse? What if we said you are focusing on the wrong person? We hope this episode will challenge you to focus on Jesus and trust him with your spouse. Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

This episode reveals a lot about the things we are all learning about and how God is growing us. There are lots of things that come along as a distraction or even wrench in the works. Kids, In-laws or midlife crisis. As we enter our mid to late 40's what are we turning to to make us feel like our lives mean something? I know we are all over the map on this one, but we have all grown so much over our years of pressing into our calling and it is cool to hear in this episode. Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

Shame is a nasty manipulator. Shame can destroy us, ruin our marriage and break apart our home. What a powerful episode this week! Share it with your friends! Share it on social media! Reach out to us if you would like to further the discussion about preventing and healing from shame. Jump out of that shame cycle through Christ's forgiveness and live a truly free life!EMDR= Eye Movement Desensitization and Reproccessing 1 Peter 1:5-8 Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

The Fields and the Carters are never short on real life examples of what resolving conflict looks like. This week, we will share some powerful tools  for communicating effectively and resolving conflict in a healthy way. Take lots of notes and share with your friends.Reach out and share your thoughts or requests for new topics.marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comInstagram @marriage_unfiltered _podcast  Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

Do you talk about expectations? What are the ways expectations lead to arguments?Expectations that go unmetExpectations that are not voicedExpectations That are unreasonableIt is amazing what a difference it makes just to have a conversation about expectations. Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

Let's wrap up our talk about sex! We talk this week talking about how we fight for intimacy in our marriage. What is okay in marital sex?Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

Have questions or comments? email us marrriageunfiltered@yahoo.comCheck us out on Instagram. Marriage Unfiltered PodcastTo see photos of Lisa in her "Thug mode" or photos of Bryans hostage Tape check out our latest post on Instagram. Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

We will dig into a couple questions from a romantic ice breaker card deck. Where did we learn about sex? What expectations for sex did we have going into marriage? As always, we get real and share what we have learned in this area.  Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

We will kick this episode off with some of what we do best…real! We planned on recording about sex and one of our couples came to the mics with a real-life conflict that needed a referee. Once we talked through that, we kicked off this month with some talk about sex and its design. We hope you'll join us for four straight weeks of intimacy in marriage. What the Church says, what society says, what the Bible says, what gets in the way and what makes it great. As always, we're not experts…just sharing what we've learned along the way. Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

We decided to spring board off of a comment Blake made on the last episode. What in your marriage are you viewing as something that is failing to make you happy, when really, it is designed to make you more holy?This discussion went way into the weeds as the Fields and the Carters work through some miscommunication, understanding each other's love languages and how we still get it wrong. BUT...we are learning and these things are causing us to grow. We hope you listen and see what really conversation and working through conflict and misunderstanding looks like. Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

Even when setting our expectations low, we can still get caught off guard by the unexpected. This conversation will cover the ups and downs and what Blake and Lexy have walked through and what they have learned. You will be blown away by the wisdom from this young couple! Colossians 1 Paul's conversation about the enemy attacking when the cause is great.Podcast about Miscarriage "The Joyful Mourning Podcast"Miscarriage Support Group Anthus Midlandemail us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comFollow us @MarriageUnfilteredPodcast on InstagramShare, Rate, and Review so more people can see our podcast. Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

Trying to make changes can be hard. The struggle to be your best you and have a better marriage can be real. The Carters and Fields sit down and just discuss our struggles with changing and improving. We also discuss how we react when things go awry. We love to hear your new ideas for topics! Please email us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com. Or DM us on Instagram @marriage_unfiltered_podcastIf you have an idea for what we should do if we hit 50,000 downloads by the end of 2024, email us or DM us.   Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

This episode may or may not have anything helpful in it. We just sit down as friends and share our struggles and hurts. We talk about some very vulnerable things including marital sex. Take this as your warning.We always appreciate feedback, so if you have something you would like us to discuss, please email us! marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comCheck us out on Instagram @marriage_unfiltered_podcastHave a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

Our story is messy, but it doesn't keep us from being used or receiving the blessing God has for us.Where do you turn when you feel unloved? What do you do when you feel you aren't getting what you deserve?We talk about Jacob and all the crazy ways he tried to manipulate his way into what he wanted. God Still Used Him!Gen 25-35Podcasts we reference:Elevation with Steven Furtick "The Blessing of Letting Go"Disrupted Faith Podcast "Jacob was Kinda Trash"

James 1:27According to the US Adoption Statistics:391,000 Children are in foster care. 114,000 foster care children are eligible for adoption.115,343 Children are adopted each year1 out of 25 families with children have adopted115,343 children are adopted each year58% of children spend 2-5 years in the foster care system11% spend over 5 years8 yrs is the average age of a child waiting in fosterREFERENCESAdministration for Children and Famlies, The Adoption Hatory Project, Department of Health S

Judges 6-7Do you trust God when He calls you to something that seems impossible? The Fields and the Carters chose to fight a battle for their marriages when it seemed impossible. What can we learn from the story of Gideon? When a battle is won, only God can receive the glory. He will make it known that it is only Him who can receive the credit.What do you need to lay down in obedience?What is God calling you to? Do you believe it is really God?  

WOW! Have we got a powerful interview for you! October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. We decided to sit down with D and Jen Johnson to hear their story about walking through the diagnosis of Breast Cancer. You don't want to miss this one! We learned so much more than just what their journey looked like. We learned about how to walk with someone you know who has been diagnosed. We learned about what to do and say and what not to do or say. Share this episode with everyone you know, married or not. We all need to know how to walk with someone who is hurting.

What exactly does it look like to hear from God? When we remove distractions and pay attention we can hear what God is telling us and what He is asking us to. When we respond in obedience, we cannot limit the ways God wants to use us and bless us.We will finish this discussion with powerful stories about encounters with God. We talk about the spiritual realm and what that looks like. As always, we recognize our lack of theological training. We just read God's word and do our best to apply it to our marriages. Most importantly, we are open to hearing from God and what He is calling us to.Share this podcast, like, follow, subscribe, rate or whatever your platform will allow you to do. email us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comFollow us on instagram @marriageunfilteredpodcastProv. 16:3, Prov. 16:9

This week, we talk about mercy, obedience and second chances. We get on such a role about obedience and hearing from God, we decided to make this a two-part episode. Remember, we do not claim to be theologians. These are candid conversations about what we believe we have heard from God through His Scriptures. We will hear Bryan and Alissa's story of redemption in their marriage and how Mercy and Obedience played a part.We will briefly breeze through the book of Jonah and reference a few other verses that talk about obedience and God's pursuit of His people.email us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comFind us on the 'gram! @marriageUnfilteredPodcast 

Where do we even start? Catch us on Instagram @ Marriage_Unfiltered_PodcastEmail us marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comJohn Marc Kohl "Desert Places" is the song we reference...it is amazing! 

Thank you to Jen Johnson, Samantha Saville and Kenedi Carter for joining us in a powerful discussion about masculinity and leadership. We will also follow up with Brody Field with a few more questions from the ladies. What does masculinity look like to you? What did you expect in a spiritual leader? Where did you get your views on these things? We will all share our view and how expectations have gotten in the way.We hope you will share this episode with anyone who wants to learn a little more about what Spiritual leadership is.If you missed the Men's perspective on this topic, go back and listen to S2. ep 26We would love to hear from you! marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comCheck us out on Insta @Marriage_Unfiltered_Podcast

Thank you to D Johnson, Bradley Saville and Brody Field for sharing on this week's episode.

Dr. John Gottman did a lot of research to determine some of the ways we can damage our relationships by making withdrawals. The four of us talk about how subtle it can be to make a withdrawal and what it takes to make up for a withdrawal. We also talk about examples in our own marriages of what affect these withdrawals can have. Check out Dr. Gottman's research and tools on his website. https://www.gottman.com  

Top 10 most common emotional needs:Admiration___Affection___Domestic Support___Family Commitment___Financial Support___Honesty and Openness___Intimate Conversation___Physical Attentiveness___Physical Intimacy___Recreational CompanionshipYou can go to this link to complete an assessment. EMOTIONAL NEEDS ASSESSMENT WARNING:  Do not use the assessment as a weapon. Use it to have honest communication about your needs.John Gottman Love Bank Video 

Parenting looks different in each home. We know that everyone has different challenges thrown their way when it comes to raising kids. On this episode, we just share what we have learned. Some things we learned the hard way, but that is the best way to learn. Resources mentioned:Growing Kids God's WayParenting With Love and LogicScripture:Deuteronomy 21:18-21 (this one really no longer applies, but it makes a great threat :) )Deuteronomy 6:6-7Ephesians 6:4Col 3:13Psalm 133:1Let us know if there is more you would like to hear about anything!marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comInstagram @marriage_unfiltered_Podcast

What impact do Anxiety and Depression have on a marriage? We hope you will enjoy our interview with the Saville's this week.Scripture: Lamentations 3:19-25Books:Try Softer  by Aundi KoblerHealing Anxiety and Depression by Daniel G. Amen, M.D.Podcasts:"Therapy and Theology"Please reach out if you would like to further this discussion or have questions. marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comFollow us on Instagram marriage_unfiltered_podcast

Books we reference"New Morning Mercies" Paul David Tripp"Take back your Life" Levi Lusko"The Circle Maker" Mark Batterson"Jesus Calling" Sarah Young"The One Year Chronological Bible reading plan" 

In this week's episode, we talk about our recent experience with fasting, cold plunges, and supporting those who are doing those dumb things. We need to care for ourselves completely. This means first our spirit, our walk with the Lord. Then mental and physical health must come alongside so we can honor God with our mind and our body as well.Verses:About training for Godliness: 1 Timothy 4:8About Fixing our Minds on what is Good: Philippians 4:8Email us: marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comInstagram: Marriage_Unfiltered _PodcastGo visit our friends to check out some really cool apparel and equipment that proclaim the truths from God's Word. https://gowildoak.com

In case the Carters and The Fields didn't get vulnerable enough last week, we dig deeper into the fears we are experiencing. This week we bring a lot of Truth and Scripture into the discussion about what God has done Historically through people in their fear and what He can do in you when you are afraid. Are you living life in a way that you can risk everything because you fully trust God?Scripture from this episode. 1 Samuel 17Psalms 37:23-24Proverbs 6:9Other resources we mention:The Pour Over a simple, true news source with some Biblical encouragement for how to handle the news. Click the title to seeFacing Giants by Malcom GladwellMade For This the Jenny Allen Podcast about Fear and Risk 

We faced some trials and struggles over the break, but we also got attacked by some fear and worry. The Fields and The Carters will open up about what has come flying at us in terms of fear, trials, loss, and victory. Through it all, we share what God is teaching us in these times.Scriptures share in this episode: Psalms 37:23-24, Proverbs 6:9We are going to do some research and will come back in our next episode to share more about fear and living boldly and courageously.

The fourth week of Advent focuses on "Love". The ultimate display of Love is celebrated this time of year. We discuss the importance of God showing His love for us by sending His Son. 1 John 4:9, John 3:16, Ephesians 1:4-6, Galatians 4:5-7, Zephaniah 3:14-17Lest we keep it too serious, we get a little nuts with some Christmas Music and Holiday Movie Scenes. You will soon want to forget Jeff and Lisa's attempt at reenacting their favorite Holiday scene from a movie.We love hearing from our listeners. You can email us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com Check out Kenedi's rendition of what we do when we record and follow us on Instagram @Marriage_Unfiltered_Podcast This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship.

Where do you look to find peace? What ultimately brings joy? He hope this episode helps point you to a peaceful Christmas full of the Joy of Christ.

This week, we will begin a discussion about Advent. Weeks 1&2 will be about Faith and Hope. How are these two different? How are they the same? The Fields and the Carters will discuss what Hope and Faith have meant in their marriages. We also throw in some fun discussion about Christmas traditions, games, and plans. Join us next week when we wrap up this discussion.Scripture From This episode:Hebrews 6Hebrews 11:1Romans 15:13

If you want to hear us talk about expectations from the first season, go back to season 1 ep. 4Have you shared expectations and been disappointed? Have you failed to share expectations and just hoped your spouse would know? Whew...then we're not alone. And neither are you.We are here to prove there is no "arriving". We are not experts, we are just sharing our own struggles and the tools we use to work through the struggles. We hope we can help you in some small way. We would love to hear from you.Please rate and review our podcast.Follow us and drop us a DM on instagram @Marriage_Unfiltered _Podcastemail us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comThe views and opinions of this podcast may not be shared by Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX 

When  you put your issues out there, you need to prepare for attacks from the enemy. Lisa shares a little about what has gone down since she shared her heart about healing and dealing with family. Bryan admits to some similar reactions when he goes to his family's house. We hope this episode shows you that you are not alone when it comes to pressure with your family. We may share some challenges when it comes to handling these pressures. We hope to hear from you about your family at the holidays and what you may have learned from this episode. Share with us some wins from this season.We also talk a little about Thanksgiving. We have some cooking discussions, but again, we are not claiming to be professionals.PS. Lisa was right...the brand is Instant Pot  

When we don't agree about something, we can quickly invalidate the other's feelings. Each of us discuss an event from the past week where we could have ended up in a very hurtful blowup. When we see our mate's feelings for what they are, we can choose to fight for their heart. We also dive into what family and holidays can do to add pressure to our relationship. We need to choose each other despite what our extended family pressures us to do. Give us grace as we try to figure out moving into new phases of life and how to deal with parents, family, in-laws and boundaries. The book we reference is called "Good Boundaries and Goodbyes" by Lysa Terkeurst We hope to dive into this topic deeper soon.Join us soon as we look into boundaries and talk about those in the future.This podcast does not necessarily represent the views and opinions of Stonegate Fellowship 

Where to even begin on this one...We hope you will go back and listen to any episodes you missed. Share any questions and feedback you have from any of the episodes. Ask Bryan for more tips about beard growth. Get Jeff to talk politics. All this and more at your fingertips...just ask. Hit us up at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com or Instagram @Marriage_Unfiltered_podcastthis podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship.Facebook page coming soon!