SEND Parenting Podcast

What if your journey to help your child with ADHD actually begins with healing yourself? Randy Free, founder of Aspire Coaching, offers a refreshing perspective that might just transform your family dynamics.When traditional parenting approaches fail with neurodivergent children, parents often feel trapped in cycles of conflict, meltdowns, and mutual frustration. Randy's personal story of raising two children with ADHD resonates deeply—the hours spent on homework, the struggles within an inflexible education system, and the constant worry about how their story would end. Through this journey, he discovered a profound truth: healing the family system creates space for the child to thrive.The heart of our conversation explores Randy's PEACE framework (Perspective, Ease tension, Attune, Connect, and Empower), offering a structured path toward calmer, more connected parenting. We unpack how children's emotional outbursts aren't manipulative or defiant but distress signals from a brain where logic becomes inaccessible during emotional moments. Randy introduces practical tools like the STOP method for identifying emotional warning signs and creating personalised calming strategies before reaching full meltdown.Perhaps most importantly, we challenge the misconception that gentle parenting means permissiveness. Randy articulates the crucial balance between empathetic connection and maintaining clear boundaries, showing how fewer, more focused expectations actually create space for children to thrive. The conversation takes a beautiful turn as we recognize how neurodivergent children flourish when their education aligns with their passions—like Randy's son who struggled to get out of bed for school but achieved perfect attendance at motorcycle mechanics school.Whether you're in the trenches of daily ADHD challenges or simply seeking to better understand neurodivergent minds, this episode offers compassionate insight alongside practical strategies. Join us to discover how one breath, one conscious choice at a time, you can transform both your parenting approach and your relationship with your wonderfully unique child.Click here for Randy FreeClick here for access to private SEND Parenting WhatsAPP Communitywww.sendparenting.com

Financial planning for neurodivergent children is not just about money but about love, responsibility, and the legacy we leave when we're no longer here.• Cara explains how her journey with her autistic son during COVID lockdown led to creating SendProtect after noticing financial advisors weren't addressing SEND-specific needs• SendProtect offers free educational events, webinars and consultations to help SEND parents understand long-term financial planning• Life insurance policies should be written in trust to prevent inheritance tax and provide immediate access to funds• Children's ISAs can become problematic at age 18 if your child lacks financial capacity, requiring court applications• Vulnerable person's trusts provide a government-approved way to save money for SEND children without affecting benefits• Even £5 per week can provide meaningful financial protection through properly structured life insurance• Having a will with children's guardianship specified is essential to prevent SEND children entering temporary care• Workplace support for SEND parents is crucial—employers need to understand the additional caring responsibilitiesJoin the conversation in our private WhatsApp community where SEND parents connect for support, insights and understanding. Find the link in the show notes.Click here for SEND Protect www.sendparenting.com

What happens when the child you thought you knew begins to slip away? For Guy Shahar, watching his one-year-old son Daniel lose words, self-feeding abilities, and connection was heartbreaking. "It's like you're losing your child," Guy shares, describing the helplessness that washed over him and his wife as traditional medical pathways offered little beyond frustration and dismissal.Their story takes an unexpected turn when they follow their intuition to a small therapy center in Israel, emptying their savings on what Guy calls "stronger than a whim, but without any rational basis." What follows is nothing short of remarkable - a transformation that begins on the very first day when Daniel, who hadn't touched solid food in over a year, sits calmly at a table feeding himself. The magic, Guy explains, isn't in mysterious techniques but in learning profound attunement and containment - creating safety while truly seeing and responding to what his son actually needed rather than what conventional parenting expected.Guy's journey doesn't end with Daniel's progress. While establishing the charity Transforming Autism, he discovers his own neurodivergence, adding layers of insight to his understanding: "Autistic children are often particularly sensitive and empathic - turbocharged even. It's overwhelming, that's why they shut down." This revelation reshapes his advocacy work, focusing on helping parents understand their children's extraordinary potential from the earliest moments. Through intensive home-based therapies and accessible online parent groups, his charity now guides families toward the confidence to parent neurodivergent children on their own terms.For parents just beginning this journey, Guy offers compassionate wisdom: allow yourself to grieve the future you imagined, seek community with those who understand, and remember that while the path may not resemble what you expected, the connection waiting on the other side can be more profound than you ever thought possible. Connect with the Send Parenting WhatsApp community through the link in our show notes, where you'll find others walking similar paths with open hearts and shared understanding.Click here for Transforming AutsimClick here for Guy's book Transforming AutismClick here to join the private SEND Parenting WhatsApp Communitywww.sendparenting.com

Dr. Olivia Kessel speaks with Lisa Danahy, Founder & Director of Create Calm, yoga therapist and author of Create Calm in the Classroom, a book about understanding and supporting children's nervous systems through breath and movement techniques. She talks about why playful approaches work better than verbal instructions for neurodivergent children and:• Why we need to understand behaviours as nervous system communications rather than problems to fix• How to use the "volcano" movement exercise to release tension and anxiety• The importance of validating emotions rather than labelling them as good or bad• Practical ways to help children navigate emotional storms through body awarenessClick here for Lisa's book Creating Calm in the ClassroomJoin our private WhatsApp community for support, insights and real conversations with like-minded parents who truly understand. www.sendparenting.com

The SEND Parenting Podcast joins forces with the SEND Network Podcast to explore the transformative power that emerges when parents and educators collaborate effectively for neurodiverse children, featuring Lynn Howe who brings unique insight as both a SENCO and parent of a neurodivergent child. We delve into how:• Children frequently mask difficulties at school, causing disconnect between home and school experiences• The EHCP process remains challenging, even for those with insider knowledge• Regular check-ins and addressing concerns early prevent escalation to crisis points• The magic formula of letting go• Support networks provide validation and practical strategies for both parents and professionalsSEND NetworkPositive Young Minds Join us in the private SEND Parenting WhatsApp community by clicking the link in the show notes. It's been wonderful to communicate with everyone in the community and join together to help each other navigate challenges and celebrate successes.www.sendparenting.com

Should you consider medication for your child with ADHD? As both a doctor and the mother of a neurodivergent teenager, I've navigated this question from multiple perspectives—and discovered that much of what we believe about ADHD medication simply isn't supported by science.The hesitation many parents feel about medication stems from understandable concerns, but often these worries are based on myths rather than medical evidence. What surprised me most in my own journey was learning about the significant developmental gap children with ADHD experience. Their executive functioning skills—abilities like emotional regulation, working memory, and self-motivation—typically develop at approximately 30% behind their peers. This means a 12-year-old might functionally have the capabilities of a 9-year-old, with this gap widening as they grow older.This crucial insight helps explain why ADHD medication works so effectively. Rather than changing who your child is, medication bridges this developmental gap. For 55% of children, stimulant medication completely eliminates the executive function delay while active in their system, while another 35% see significant improvement. The research is compelling—with an effect size of 1.2 (compared to 0.5 for antidepressants), ADHD medication ranks among the most effective psychiatric treatments available.Throughout this episode with Jane Trowbridge from Sensational Tutors, we explore the difference between stimulant and non-stimulant medications, address common misconceptions, and examine the serious long-term consequences of leaving ADHD untreated. Particularly striking is research showing untreated ADHD can reduce lifespan by 11 years—a sobering statistic that underscores why effective treatment matters.Whether you're currently weighing medication options or simply want to understand the science behind ADHD treatment better, this episode provides clear, evidence-based information to help you make informed decisions that could profoundly impact your child's development, confidence, and future success.www.sendparenting.com

Richard Orr, CEO of SOS SEN charity, shares how they empower families navigating the special educational needs system through legal support, advice centres, and their national helpline. Their pre-action protocol letters achieve a remarkable 97-98% success rate in resolving cases without going to tribunal, saving families from lengthy legal battles while securing proper educational provisions.• SOS SEN started 20 years ago when concerned individuals helped parents fight a special needs school closure• The charity offers both emotional support and practical legal guidance to families struggling with local authorities• Their pre-action protocol letters remind local authorities of their legal obligations, often resolving cases immediately• Local authorities spent £100 million fighting tribunals with only 2% success rate – wasting money that could support children• The charity has expanded to offer advice centres across England and doubled their helpline hours• All services are designed to be accessible regardless of financial circumstances• Top tips include: keep everything in writing, find your supportive "tribe" of other SEND parents, and use first names with professionals to level the playing fieldClick here to get more information on SOS!SEN Click here to join our private WhatsApp SEND Parenting community for a safe space to connect with other parents navigating their neurodiverse journey. You'll find support, insights and real conversations with like-minded parents who truly understand. www.sendparenting.com

Two mothers, both podcast hosts, both raising neurodivergent children in the UK, come together for an honest conversation about the realities that many parents never see coming. Dr. Olivia Kessel (SEND Parenting Podcast) and Greer Jones (The Unfinished Idea) share their raw, unfiltered experiences navigating a system that often feels designed to exclude rather than support.From the moment Greer's son started school and was immediately restricted to two-hour days, to Olivia's shocking discovery of local authority deception through a subject access request during her daughter's EHCP process, these stories highlight the extraordinary lengths parents must go to secure appropriate education for their children. Both women speak candidly about the emotional toll – the isolation, the constant advocacy, and the financial strain that comes with fighting for services most families take for granted.But this conversation offers more than commiseration. Drawing from her medical background, Olivia explains how understanding neurodevelopmental differences transforms parenting approaches. Together, they share practical strategies that actually work: using sticky notes to externalize executive functioning, setting up visual timetables, and even programming Alexa to provide reminders that don't trigger the resistance that parental instructions might.Most powerfully, they discuss finding community amidst the struggle. "We are normal," Olivia emphasizes, noting that 20% of the world is neurodiverse. "Our differences are what make us special." They remind listeners that traditional parenting methods often fail neurodivergent children not because the children are broken, but because those methods weren't designed for their beautifully different brains.Whether you're raising a neurodivergent child or simply want to better understand and support the families around you, this episode offers valuable insights into turning challenges into opportunities for growth, connection, and yes – even joy. Ready to rewrite the parenting rulebook on terms that actually work for your family?www.sendparenting.com

Dr. Olivia Kessel explores the essential yet often overlooked topic of caregiver self-care with behavior analyst Eleanor Magri, revealing how nurturing ourselves is not selfish but necessary for effectively supporting our neurodivergent children.• Neurodiversity family specialist Eleanor Magri introduces the concept of holistic support that includes caring for the caregiver• Parents often feel guilty prioritizing their needs, viewing self-care as selfish rather than necessary• Simple sensory self-care strategies like spending time in a darkened room or using calming sounds can regulate the nervous system• Building sustainable self-care habits by "stacking" them with existing routines (like adding a breathing exercise before brushing teeth)• A case study demonstrating how parental self-regulation led to improved communication and fewer crises with a neurodivergent adult daughter• The importance of creating awareness about burnout symptoms and recognizing when intervention is needed• Understanding that between two hard paths, consistent self-care offers better long-term outcomes• A free "Caregiver Balance Sheet" resource to help visualize time invested in children versus oneselfJoin our private SEND Parenting WhatsApp community for support, insights and connections with like-minded parents who truly understand. The link is available in the show notes.Click here for Free Caregiver Balance Sheetwww.inclusi.org/caregiverbalancesheetwww.sendparenting.com

Ross Jones shares his profound journey of discovering his ADHD at age 36 and how this diagnosis transformed his understanding of himself, his relationships, and his approach to parenting his neurodivergent children.• Learning to recognize the difference between tasks you don't like versus tasks that are genuinely challenging for your neurodivergent brain• Navigating the complex emotions that come with receiving an adult ADHD diagnosis• Understanding how ADHD affects relationships and finding better ways to communicate needs• Creating systems to manage household conflicts around different needs for order and organization• Supporting neurodivergent children by validating their experiences while helping them develop self-compassion• How Ross's personal journey inspired him to create Schoolio, an AI-powered educational platform designed specifically for neurodivergent learners• Using technology to cultivate curiosity and eliminate judgment from the learning process• The importance of helping children recognize that challenges don't define their worth• Developing self-awareness as a parent to avoid triggering emotional dysregulation in your children• Finding your authentic self after years of masking and people-pleasingIf you're looking for a safe space to connect with other parents navigating their neurodiverse journey, our private WhatsApp community offers support, insights and real conversations with like-minded parents who truly understand. Join the conversation today. You can find the link in the show notes.The link to Skoolio.xyz -  the sign up for the beta test is right in the header of the site www.sendparenting.com

We dive deep into sensory processing difficulties in neurodivergent children with Julie Davis, an occupational therapy expert with over 35 years' experience and founder of Future Steps. This conversation explores how sensory processing shapes development, influences behavior, and impacts daily functioning in ways many parents might not recognize.• Understanding the difference between sensory processing issues and behavioral problems• How sensory processing affects everyday activities like getting dressed, eating, and learning• Red flags parents should watch for that might indicate sensory processing challenges• Environmental factors that can overwhelm children with sensory sensitivities• Why repetition and targeting the root causes create lasting improvement• Practical approaches for parents to support their child's sensory development• Different types of sensory challenges including tactile, proprioceptive, vestibular, and auditory processing• The importance of building neural pathways through appropriate sensory input• Why shame and punishment are counterproductive for sensory processing issues• Success stories of children overcoming significant sensory challengesJoin the conversation in our private WhatsApp community. You can find the link in the show notes.www.sendparenting.com

This episode provides a deep dive into the raw and insightful journey of Jessica Whalley  as a neurodivergent parent navigating the complexities of raising her nonverbal autistic son. Jessica's personal revelations about her own diagnoses of autism and ADHD offer a profound perspective into the world of neurodiversity while providing support for other parents facing similar challenges. - Jessica's journey began with her son Jude's autism diagnosis - The emotional and practical challenges of securing support within the education system - Importance of parenting self-care and maintaining personal well-being - Embracing individuality and redefining success for neurodivergent children - The role of community support in shared parenting experiences - Insights into the unique challenges faced by neurodivergent women Join our community today and share your journey with like-minded parents!Click here for The Autistic Mom by Jessica Whalleywww.sendparenting.com

We offer a deep dive into the innovative EOTAS framework, highlighting its vital role in reshaping education for neurodiverse children. The episode sheds light on practical insights gathering from real success stories shared by Joanna Gibbs of Sensational Tutors, equipping parents with actionable strategies.• Exploring the significance of the EHCP in tailoring educational needs • Insights into real-life success stories transforming educational experiences • Understanding the diverse needs of neurodiverse children • The role of personalized education in fostering engagement and confidence • Connecting with community support to navigate educational challengesJoin our community for additional support and insights. We share experiences and advice to help each other along this journey. www.sendparenting.com

In this episode, we explore the complexities of EOTAS (Education Otherwise Than At School) and its significance for neurodiverse families navigating alternative educational routes. We unpack critical questions about the legal framework, EHCP requirements, and strategies to empower parents in advocating for their children's needs. • Definition of EOTAS and its importance within SEND• Rising interest in EOTAS post-COVID and its implications• Understanding the legal challenges and securing funding• The role of EHCPs in obtaining IATAS support• Emotional well-being considerations for children• Best practices for advocacy and community engagementSEN Talks EOTIS Douglas Hammer's StoryClick to join our Send Parenting Private WhatsApp Community today for support and connection with other parents navigating these challenges.www.sendparenting.com

The episode features an engaging discussion on how parenting a neurodivergent child can lead to insights about one's neurodiversity. Amy White shares her experiences with her son Jack's autism diagnosis and how that journey prompted her own self-exploration. • Exploration of intergenerational neurodiversity in families • Amy's journey from her son's diagnosis to discovering her own neurodivergent traits • The profound impact of educational environments on neurodivergent children • Importance of community support in navigating parenting challenges • Reflections on the journey to diagnoses for both children and parents • Empowerment through knowledge and advocating for children's needs Join the private Send Parenting WhatsApp community for support and shared experiences in navigating the complexities of neurodivergent parenting.Click to join our Send Parenting Private WhatsApp Community today for support and connection with other parents navigating these challenges.www.sendparenting.com

This episode addresses the critical transition girls face when moving from primary to secondary school, especially concerning the challenges of puberty and neurodiversity. Experts share insights on the importance of community support and the role of mothers in empowering their daughters as they navigate these pivotal years.• Discussion of the transition to secondary school • Insights on neurodiversity and adolescent challenges • Importance of creating supportive communities for girls • Overview of the Girls Journeying Together programme • Role of facilitators in guiding and empowering girls • Strategies for mothers to connect with their daughters • Exploration of mental health statistics among young girls • Emphasis on self-acceptance and resilience in adolescence • Future vision for empowering girls through rites of passageClick to join our Send Parenting Private WhatsApp Community today for support and connection with other parents navigating these challenges.Click here for more information on Rites for Girls Click here for Kim's book, From Daughter to Woman: Parenting girls safely through their teens www.sendparenting.com

This episode focuses on the underdiagnosis of ADHD in women and girls, exploring the emotional impact this has on their mental health. Rosie Turner shares her journey from misdiagnosis to understanding her ADHD, highlighting the unique challenges faced by women's evolving symptoms and the importance of exercise and self-acceptance.• Examining how ADHD presents differently in girls compared to boys• The emotional toll of misdiagnoses and societal expectations on women• The role of hormonal changes in exacerbating ADHD symptoms• Validating the uniqueness of ADHD as potentially beneficial• The critical importance of movement and lifestyle changes in managing ADHD• Practical strategies to engage with the ADHD experience constructivelyClick to join our Send Parenting Private WhatsApp Community today for support and connection with other parents navigating these challenges.Reach out to Rosie @ ADHD Untangledwww.sendparenting.com

This episode focuses on the alarming rise in anxiety and other mental health issues among teenagers, especially neurodiverse youth and how parents can provide support. Alicia Drummond shares insights from her Wellbeing Hub initiative, discussing practical strategies for fostering emotional resilience and maintaining open communication.• Discussion on increasing mental health referrals among children and teens • Addressing anxiety in neurodivergent children • Importance of recognizing anxiety as communication • Fostering emotional resilience through competence and responsibility • Strategies for maintaining open lines of communication with teenagers • Tips for parents to model positivity and awarenessJoin our Send Parenting community to share experiences and support one another on this journey. Visit the show notes for details!Click here for the Wellbeing Hub from Teen TipsClick here to join the SEND Parenting WhatsApp Communitywww.sendparenting.com

Imagine preparing for a family gathering while navigating the intricate world of parenting a neurodiverse child. The noise, the chaos, and the unsolicited advice often threaten to overwhelm. Through this heartfelt episode, we promise to equip you with strategies to create a compassionate and supportive environment for your family. We are thrilled to welcome Lisa Chan, a dedicated pediatric occupational therapist from Canada, who shares her expertise in helping children with autism, ADHD, and sensory processing challenges. Lisa illuminates the importance of early intervention and emphasizes the need for an integrated approach, where parents are active participants in their child's journey.Parenting neurodiverse children isn't just about managing behaviors; it's about understanding the underlying causes and decoding them effectively. Our discussion touches on the delicate balance of responsibilities, the stress of perceived unfairness among siblings, and the dynamics of communication within partnerships. Discover how to set boundaries with well-meaning but misinformed relatives, maintain confidence in your parenting choices, and foster resilience and independence in your children. We delve into transforming family dynamics by building consistency, setting realistic expectations, and embracing community support.Join us as we unravel the challenges neurodiverse families face and explore practical tips and personal anecdotes to improve family harmony. Learn how to navigate the emotional journey from isolation and guilt to building confidence and understanding. Our conversation with Lisa provides invaluable insights into the "five whys" technique, empowering you to uncover the root causes of behaviors and transform daily routines into cooperative environments. Don't miss the opportunity to become part of our Send Parenting Tribe, a community where we celebrate both challenges and successes in a judgment-free space.Click here for Lisa Chan's websiteClick here to join the SEND Parenting Community on WhatsApp#neurodiversitypodcast #parentingpodcast #familypodcast #teacherpodcastwww.sendparenting.com

Unlock the secrets to helping teenagers overcome burnout with insights from Dr. Naomi Fisher and Eliza Fricker, authors of "The Teenager's Guide to Burnout." Our conversation dives deep into the pressures faced by today's teens, examining how academic demands and societal expectations contribute to chronic stress. We question the traditional education system's role in this growing issue, advocating for a shift towards more personalized and compassionate learning environments. Through engaging illustrations and straightforward advice, this episode promises to equip parents and teens with the tools to navigate these challenges effectively.Discover the powerful impact parents can have on their children's stress levels, intentionally or not, and learn strategies to foster a nurturing environment that prioritizes mental well-being over mere academic success. By drawing parallels between toxic work environments and school settings, we challenge you to reconsider the conventional paths to success often touted as the norm. This episode also highlights the importance of understanding teenagers by meeting them where they are and supporting them in finding balance amidst the chaos of modern life.As we explore pathways to recovery from burnout, you'll be introduced to a compassionate four-step process designed to guide teenagers toward a more balanced and fulfilling future. Real-life stories illustrate how alternative routes to success can be both rewarding and enriching, emphasizing personal fulfillment over traditional achievements. Whether you're a parent seeking to support your child or a teenager grappling with the pressures of adolescence, this episode offers invaluable perspectives on redefining success and nurturing happiness. Join us for this enlightening conversation that champions the well-being of young people and empowers them to forge their own paths. The Teenager's Guide to Burnout: Finding the Road to Recovery by Dr Naomi Fisher and Eliza Fricker Please click here if you would like to join the SEND Parenting Community on WhatsAppwww.sendparenting.com

Episode 105This episode highlights the transformative power of Chicken Shed Theatre, a leader in inclusive theatre arts for 50 years. Susan shares her heartfelt journey as a mother of a neurodiverse child, while Charlotte delves into Chicken Shed's core mission to foster acceptance, understanding, and growth through artistic expression. • The origins and history of Chicken Shed Theatre • Personal stories of transformation through art and community • The importance of peer learning in inclusive settings • Insights for parents on embracing their child's uniqueness • The call for kindness and understanding in diverse environmentsPrepare to be inspired by stories of empowerment, advocacy, and the transformative power of inclusion. From Emma's evolution into a confident performer and educator to the unwavering determination of her family, each tale underscores how perseverance and community support can break down barriers. As Charlotte and Susan reflect on the past and future of Chicken Shed, listeners are invited to join a movement that champions understanding and compassion through the universal language of the arts.www.sendparenting.com

Episode 105What if you could transform the education system for neurodiverse children? Kelly Jarvis and Chrissa Wadlow from Sunshine Support are revolutionizing how we support neurodivergent children in schools. Kelly's journey as an educator breathing new life into special educational needs and Chrissa's relentless advocacy for her daughter form a compelling narrative of collaboration against systemic challenges. Together, they reveal their pioneering approaches that empower both families and educators in a landscape often fraught with obstacles.Listeners will gain invaluable insights into navigating the complexities of Education, Health, and Care Plans (EHCPs) and the Individual Development Plan (IDP) system in Wales. These documents hold the key to ensuring the well-being of children with special educational needs, yet they come with their own set of challenges. Our new Welsh division is here to demystify these processes, providing parents with tools to assert their rights and advocate effectively for their children. We discuss the urgent need for transparency and accountability in local authorities, shining a light on the critical role of informed advocacy.This episode also addresses the pressing issue of underfunding in special education and its impact on neurodivergent children, particularly those with autism and ADHD. From the financial strain of seeking appropriate educational environments to the systemic inefficiencies that misplace resources, we underscore the importance of collaboration and modernization in educational approaches. Discover how building supportive communities, like our private Send Parenting WhatsApp group, can foster positive change and offer much-needed solidarity for families navigating these challenges. Join the conversation as we advocate for a reimagined education system that truly supports every child's learning journey.Join SEND Parenting Community Click here for Sunshine Support www.sendparenting.com

Episode 104Dr Maryhan, a clinical psychologist and esteemed fellow podcaster, joins us to celebrate the 100th episode of the SEND Parenting Podcast. Have you ever wondered how to raise neurodiverse children within the UK education system without losing your mind? This milestone episode offers a treasure trove of insights as Dr. Maryhan shares wisdom from her upcoming book, "How Not to Screw Up Your Kids." We tackle the intricate dance of parenting in a world where children are moulded by influences beyond our control, aiming to bolster resilience through the power of community support.Traditional discipline methods often fail to equip children for real-world challenges. We promise a fresh perspective on parenting, focusing on replacing punitive measures with natural consequences. Learn how this approach fosters independent decision-making while nurturing a cooperative family environment. Dr Maryhan and I delve into practical examples, like making a bed, to illustrate how meaningful, value-aligned consequences can help cultivate responsibility in our children, turning their natural curiosity into a powerful tool for growth.Parenting is undoubtedly a tough journey, but it's easier with self-care and a strong community. We explore personal strategies for managing stress, from the cathartic power of journaling to the refreshing benefits of outdoor activities. The "bucket" metaphor emerges as a shared language to gauge emotional capacity, emphasising the beauty in messy, imperfect parenting. This episode is a heartfelt nod to our collective journey with our supportive tribe, reminding us that every small victory is a stepping stone toward raising resilient, confident individuals. Tune in to discover how these insights can transform your parenting journey.Click here to contact Dr Maryhanwww.sendparenting.com

Episode 103Ever wondered how to transform your parenting approach to better support neurodivergent children? Sarah Fisher, an adoptive mom and author of "Connective Parenting," joins us for our milestone 100th episode to share her insightful experiences. Sarah opens up about her journey with her son, revealing the remarkable impact of Non-Violent Resistance (NVR) techniques in managing challenging behaviors. Together, we unpack the importance of shifting our focus as parents from correcting our children's behaviors to understanding our own reactions, paving the way for more harmonious family dynamics.Experience the power of parenting through connection and understanding as we explore how emotional regulation can lead to a calmer home environment. From personal stories of managing stress during menopause to handling holiday-induced challenges with neurodiverse children, this episode is packed with strategies for both parents and children to thrive. We emphasize the significance of reconnecting with our kids after conflicts, teaching them resilience and emotional management through lived experiences rather than mere words.Our conversation touches on the evolving landscape of modern parenting, where emotional awareness takes center stage. Insights from our recent Connective Parenting conference underscore the benefits of a child-paced approach, allowing us to meet our children where they are and support their unique needs. We also delve into the challenges of gaining support from family and friends unfamiliar with this approach, sharing success stories that prove change is possible. Celebrate with us as we reflect on this journey and look forward to future discussions that promise continued growth and shared understanding within our Send Parenting community.www.sendparenting.com

Episode 102 What if our education system could truly embrace individuality and foster genuine growth for every child? Join us for our 100th episode of the Send Parenting Podcast, featuring the astute Dr. Chris Bagley, who argues for revolutionary changes in how we perceive and implement education. Dr. Bagley, a educational psychologist and advocate for neurodiverse children, sheds light on the limitations of traditional schooling methods and the rise of home education as a viable alternative. Together, we unravel ways to tap into each child's unique potential, offering a fresh perspective on educational reform that champions inclusivity and the joy of learning.In this landmark episode, we tackle the pressing issues faced by young learners navigating an education system that often shifts focus from intrinsic motivation to extrinsic pressures. Dr. Bagley dives deep into the consequences of this shift, such as marginalization and exclusion, urging for a reevaluation of what belonging and competence should look like in schools. We explore the empowering potential of alternative learning communities and democratic approaches, which prioritize student agency and redefine success beyond conventional metrics. It's a conversation that promises to challenge your views on what education should achieve.With Dr. Bagley's insights, we explore the crucial role of consent and self-determination in education, advocating for systems that engage students on their terms. The pioneering work of States of Mind is highlighted as a beacon of hope, demonstrating the transformative impact of co-constructed learning experiences. This episode makes a compelling case for education systems that nurture a child's autonomy and prepare them for the world they will inherit, sparking a necessary conversation about reimagining what it means to educate and empower the next generation.Click here for Dr Chris Bagley Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp. Either click here or send a message to +447856915105  , and I will personally add you to the private group, where we can connect and support each other.www.sendparenting.com

Episode 101Unlock the secrets to nurturing neurodivergent minds with the wisdom of Lucinda Miller, founder and clinical lead of NatureDoc, as we celebrate our monumental 100th episode. Lucinda returns to discuss her groundbreaking book, "Brain Brilliance," a nutritional guide tailored for neurodivergent individuals. From her beloved Cherry Sleepy Smoothie to ingenious recipes like margarita pizza waffles, Lucinda shares how nutritious meals can transform emotional regulation, anxiety, and sleep for children with conditions like ADHD, autism, and more.Discover the profound link between gut health and brain function, and the role of the gut microbiome in shaping mood, memory, and behavior. Lucinda offers practical strategies for enhancing gut health without invasive tests, emphasizing the importance of dietary diversity, fermented foods, and probiotics. By fostering openness to new foods, these approaches aim to alleviate stress and anxiety in neurodivergent children, nurturing a curious palate and a resilient mind.Lastly, we tackle the critical oversight in medical education regarding nutrition, shining a light on how this gap affects patient care. Lucinda and I discuss the pivotal role nutritionists play in bridging this divide, offering insights and support to families navigating neurodiversity. Join our SEND Parenting Tribe's private WhatsApp community for support, shared experiences, and celebrating each other's journey through the complex world of neurodiversity.Click here for Lucinda Miller Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp. Either click here or send a message to +447856915105  , and I will personally add you to the private group, where we can connect and support each other.www.sendparenting.com

Episode 100 week long free eventRSVP now to be part of this transformative event.What if there were ways to make the complex journey of parenting neurodiverse children a bit smoother? Join us for a week-long celebration of our 100th episode milestone on the Send Parenting Podcast, where we're offering just that. Dr Olivia Kessel, inspired by her own journey as a parent to a neurodivergent daughter, welcomes a stellar lineup of experts ready to share insights and strategies tailored for the SEND community. Dr. Lucinda Miller kicks things off with her invaluable expertise on the intersection of nutrition and neurodiversity, gleaned from her latest book, "Brain Brilliance." Dr. Chris Bagley follows with his fresh perspectives on re-engaging with education, promising to reignite your passion for learning alongside your children.As the week progresses, Sarah Fisher will guide us through the art of handling home conflicts using nonviolent resistance techniques. At the same time, Dr. Marianne reveals top parenting tips from her popular podcast, "How Not to Screw Up Your Kids." Finally, Chrissa Wadlow and Kelly Jarvis from the Sunshine Support Group wrap up the celebration by equipping you with essential strategies for navigating SEND in education. Although pre-recorded, each session includes live chats, offering a unique opportunity to interact with me and our esteemed guests and connect with fellow parents. Don't miss this chance to celebrate, learn, and empower yourself with practical tools and communal support. RSVP now to be part of this transformative event.Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp. Either click here or send a message to +447856915105  , and I will personally add you to the private group, where we can connect and support each other.www.sendparenting.com

Episode 99Amanda Ashy's inspiring journey from television producer to a champion for neurodiverse children offers a unique perspective on parenting. Join us as Amanda, a clinical nutritionist, mindfulness expert, and yoga teacher, shares how she transformed her life and career to focus on family regulation, connection, and resilience. Get ready to uncover the profound impact of mindfulness and somatics in nurturing behaviour patterns and resilience, as Amanda highlights the importance of understanding the whole body, including emotions and nutrition, for achieving well-being.This episode navigates the emotional complexities faced by neurodivergent children and the phenomenon of masking in school settings. Amanda provides insights into how these challenges often manifest at home, offering practical tools to decode children's behaviour and map out their unique experiences. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, we explore the evolution of parenting styles and how connecting with oneself can foster a loving environment for children. Amanda introduces the Parent Reset Program, a transformative initiative guiding parents from fear-based to love-based discipline to nurture deep connections and harmonious relationships.As we journey through the multifaceted world of parenting, discover empowering strategies for self-care and boundary-setting. Learn how to maintain calm during challenging conversations and the art of co-regulation. Amanda emphasises the significance of fostering an environment where neurodiverse children can thrive, offering tips on sensory management, dietary adjustments, and soothing routines. We conclude with a heartfelt call to choose love over fear, celebrate the power of community and invite listeners to join our private Send Parenting WhatsApp community for support and shared wisdom.Amanda Ashy Instagram LinkJoin the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp. Either click here or send a message to +447856915105  , and I will personally add you to the private group, where we can connect and support each other.www.sendparenting.com

Click here for a link to sign up for the event.Hello, Neuro Nurturers,I am beyond excited to share this incredible milestone with you—the 100th episode of the SEND Parenting Podcast!

Episode 98Unlock the secrets of gestalt language processing as we sit down with Kathy Schilling, a leading speech and language therapist and the visionary behind the Speech Den. Cathy unravels the intricacies of this unique form of communication, especially prevalent among neurodiverse children, and how it contrasts with traditional language development. Dive into the world of echolalia, where children's repeated phrases hold profound meaning, serving as more than just mimicry. We explore the pioneering works of Anne Peters and Dr. Barry Prizant, along with Marge Blanc's influential study, which laid the groundwork for the natural language acquisition framework.Discover how to become an astute detective in recognising and supporting gestalt language processors (GLPs). Cathy and I shed light on identifying early signs like echolalia, where children's echoed phrases from media and interactions are meaningful communicative attempts. We emphasise the role of parents in interpreting these signals, which sometimes include non-verbal cues like replaying media clips. Learn strategies to nurture these unique communication styles, enhancing understanding neurodiverse children's distinct language paths.This episode is a guide to fostering a supportive learning environment tailored to the individual needs of GLPs. Cathy shares stories and practical insights on the significance of intrinsic motivation, challenging traditional literacy methods, and embracing child-led learning. Hear compelling narratives that illustrate how understanding gestalt thinking can transform educational approaches, especially in the face of cognitive disruptions. We wrap up with actionable advice for parents who suspect their child might be a GLP, stressing the importance of observation, patience, and professional consultation in supporting their unique communicative journey.Key Recommendations and ResourcesBooksNatural Language Acquisition on the Autism Spectrum: The Journey from Echolalia to Self-Generated Language by Marge Blanc (available soon at the Speech Den).Additional handouts and resources on GLP at Natural Communication Center.Webinars and CoursesFree one-hour webinar by Alexandria Zakos on GLP through Meaningful Speech.Parent and professional training programs offered by Cathy's team at the Speech Den.Social Media and BlogsFollow these experts for strategies, insights, and affirming practices:Alexandria Zakos (@MeaningfulSpeech)Rachel Dorsey, SLP (@RachelDorseySLP)Crescendo Communication (@CrescendoComm)Happy Chatters (Autism-specific after-school support in London)Additional InsightsCathy recommends checking out Learn Play Thrive's podcast episode featuring Alexandria Zakos on GLPs.Occupational Therapy by Kelsey Olds focuses on regulation and sensory-based play.Activities like music therapy and sensory engagement can help children regulate and communicate effectively.For Further ExplorationVisit The Speech Den for Cathy's courses and resources.Explore Instagram for practical daily tips from experts like @HappyChatters and @MeaningfulSpeech.Investigate your child's unique sensory preferences and play preferences to better support their communication.Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp. Either click here or send a message to +447856915105  , and I will personally add you to the private group, where we can cwww.sendparenting.com

Episode 97Unlock the secrets of effective communication in neurodiverse families with invaluable insights from Dr. Kahn, a clinical psychologist and ADHD advocate. Discover how emotional regulation plays a pivotal role in shaping interactions between parents and children, and even between partners themselves. Dr. Kahn shares her personal journey with ADHD, diagnosed at the age of 33, and provides practical strategies for navigating familial tensions, particularly when one parent is hesitant about seeking an ADHD evaluation for their child.Navigate the complex world of parenting within neurodiverse families and learn how to tackle the unique challenges that come with it. From understanding the dynamics when both or just one parent is neurodivergent, to the hurdles faced by single parents, particularly mothers, in advocating for their children, our conversation offers a deep dive into these intricacies. We also explore how neurodivergent individuals often find a more forgiving and supportive environment among each other, fostering stronger family bonds.Gain insights into managing emotional dysregulation with effective strategies, such as the use of visual aids and rewards in therapy, and uncover the misunderstood power of extrinsic motivation. Dr. Kahn discusses the unique challenges of emotional regulation for children and adolescents with ADHD and autism, advocating for a compassionate approach that understands the root causes of emotional outbursts. Finally, we explore the profound impact of hormonal changes on neurodiversity, particularly in women experiencing menopause or perimenopause, emphasising the importance of compassion and understanding within family dynamics.Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp. Either click here or send a message to +447856915105  , and I will personally add you to the private group, where we can connect and support each other.Click here for more Dr Gilly Kahnwww.sendparenting.com

Episode 96Award-winning neurodiverse director and producer Stephen Bailey joins us to share his compelling journey from history and law to the vibrant world of theater. Diagnosed with neurodivergence in his mid-20s, Stephen found his true calling in directing, creating powerful productions like "The Real Imagined History of the Elephant Man." As the artistic lead at Vital Exposure, a disabled-led theater company, he is committed to pushing the boundaries of accessibility and inclusivity in the arts, offering a fresh perspective on how neurodivergent individuals can thrive creatively.Navigating the complexities of professional environments, especially in the arts, Stephen candidly discusses the challenges of advocating for access accommodations and the emotional labor of self-advocacy. He shares insightful strategies for adapting communication in job applications and interviews, highlighting the importance of access riders and reasonable adjustments. By addressing the evolving nature of recruitment processes and emphasizing the transformative power of access support, Stephen sheds light on fostering empowering environments for neurodivergent individuals in the arts sector.Immerse yourself in a conversation that celebrates the richness of neurodiversity and explores innovative approaches like dual language captioning and the use of tech to enhance accessible theater. Stephen's insights offer hope and inspiration, drawing attention to the growing recognition of neurodiversity and disabilities and the vital role that art plays in societal change. From empowering young audiences with accessible performances to championing inclusive narratives, this episode promises to broaden your understanding of inclusivity in the arts and beyond.Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp either click here or send a message to +447856915105  and I will personally add you to the private group where we can connect and support each other.Click here for Vital XposureClick here for the upcoming production Blackbird Hour by Babirye Bukilwawww.sendparenting.com

Episode 95What if you could unlock the secrets of your DNA to enhance the well-being of your neurodiverse child? Join us for an enlightening conversation with Dr. Jill Crowfoot a seasoned GP and founder of Renude Health, as she shares her groundbreaking insights on personalized nutrition and genetic testing. She explains how understanding your genetic makeup can guide you in making tailored nutritional and lifestyle choices, particularly for neurodiverse children. We discuss the limitations of traditional medicine that often focus on symptoms rather than root causes, and how this innovative approach can shift the focus from treating illness to fostering proactive wellness.Explore with us the complex relationship between hormones, genetics, and personalized nutrition. Dr. Crowfoot unravels the intricate interplay between sex hormones and nervous system hormones, and the impact of hormonal imbalances on neurodiverse individuals. Through fascinating analogies and expert insights, she emphasizes the necessity of personalized nutrition and genetic analysis in meeting unique biochemical needs. Our discussion delves into the context-dependent nature of certain genes and the importance of professional guidance to navigate this complex landscape, revealing how genetics can inform more effective health interventions.Dr. Crowfoot's passion for women's health and personal experiences as a mother illuminate the benefits of integrating genetics with lifestyle changes for conditions like ADHD and perimenopause. By examining the influence of lifestyle on gene expression, we underscore the importance of a holistic approach that incorporates nutrition, lifestyle, and hormonal balance. This episode challenges the traditional medical model and advocates for a more comprehensive understanding of health, moving beyond prescriptions to embrace a more informed and personalized approach to wellness.Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp either click here or send a message to +447856915105  and I will personally add you to the private group where we can connect and support each other.Click here for RENUDE Health www.sendparenting.com

Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp either Click Here or  send a message to  07856 915 105  and I will personally add you to the private group where we can connect and support each other.What if traditional parenting methods are doing more harm than good? Join us as we welcome Dr. Naomi Fisher and Eliza Fricker, co-authors of the enlightening new book "When the Naughty Step Makes Things Worse," to challenge popular parenting wisdom. This episode promises a fresh perspective on raising neurodivergent children and the liberation that comes from understanding each child's unique needs. Naomi and Eliza share their personal journeys, illustrating how low demand parenting can transform pressure-filled homes into nurturing environments.We unravel the concept of low demand parenting, emphasizing the importance of respecting a child's stress limits and sensitivities. Naomi and Eliza argue that good parenting cannot be judged solely by a child's behavior, especially when dealing with neurodivergence. By embracing empathy over control, parents can foster deeper connections and encourage true growth. We also delve into the science behind the genetic and environmental factors that shape our children, urging parents to let go of societal expectations and focus on their child's individual path.Screen time often gets a bad rap, but this episode reimagines it as a tool for connection rather than isolation. Learn how to engage with your children's digital lives constructively, turning screen time into meaningful moments. We tackle the pervasive fears parents have about their children's futures, discussing the importance of being present and supportive through their unique journeys. Finally, Naomi and Eliza highlight the necessity of authenticity and self-care in parenting, ensuring that we're not only meeting our kids' needs but also nurturing our well-being.Click here to order When the Naughty Step Makes Things Worse before October 9th to get a free ticket for a live webinar based on their book scheduled for October 9th @7:30-9:30. You can also buy tickets for this webinar as usual. Click here for link to sign up for Live Webinarwww.sendparenting.com

Episode 93Discover how assistive technology is revolutionizing education for neurodiverse children with our special guest, Brian Friedlander. From his dual expertise as a school psychologist and assistive technology consultant, Brian shares his incredible journey and the transformative tools he's encountered along the way. Learn about the progression from rudimentary assistive devices to the cutting-edge technologies now available, and hear real-life stories of how these innovations are changing the educational landscape for students with dyslexia, dysgraphia, and other learning differences.Immerse yourself in the fascinating world of voice technology and its impact on education. We discuss the game-changing capabilities of tools like Google Docs, Google Classroom, and Microsoft's immersive reader, which are helping neurodiverse students express their creativity despite fine motor challenges. Gain practical tips on how to effectively incorporate voice technology in the classroom, and understand the pivotal role teachers play in guiding students through the cognitive demands of voice-assisted writing. The future of learning is here, and it's more accessible than ever.Lastly, we navigate the complex landscape of educational support systems in the US and UK, with a particular focus on the revolutionary potential of AI. Brian highlights essential testing accommodations and shares invaluable insights on digital tools that assist high school and college students in organizing their materials. Discover how AI-powered resources like Magic School AI and Diffit AI can tailor learning experiences to meet individual needs, making education more inclusive and effective. Don't miss this enlightening conversation that underscores the importance of parental advocacy in securing the best possible educational outcomes for their children.Click here for a list of all the AI and Technology that Brian talked about in this episode. Brians Blof Assistivetek www.sendparenting.com

Episode 92Can hormonal changes during puberty and menopause amplify neurodivergent traits? Join us as we explore this compelling question with Dinah Siman, founder of Menopause Pilates. With over 26 years of experience in teaching pilates and other movement methods, Dinah shares her profound insights on how movement and proprioception can be game-changers for neurodivergent individuals.We dive into the intricate connections between neurodiversity, hypermobility, inflammatory bowel disease, migraines, and asthma, providing a holistic understanding of health beyond traditional medicine's segmented approach. We discuss how pilates benefits core stability and back pain and highlight the evolving perspective of menopause specialists advocating for comprehensive health approaches.Sharing personal experiences, we shed light on the intersection of hormones and neurodiversity, discussing the rising diagnoses of ADHD during menopause and the need for innovative solutions like family package deals for neurodiversity testing. Our conversation challenges the stigmas surrounding menopause, encouraging women to seek help and consider hormone replacement therapy (HRT) based on modern research.Finding joyful movement from pilates to biking and even pigeon shooting, we talk about the importance of enjoyment in maintaining consistency in physical activities. Lastly, we emphasize the importance of maintaining bone health through load-bearing exercises and celebrate the vital role of movement and hormonal health for overall well-being. Tune in to gain valuable insights and practical advice for navigating the complexities of neurodiversity and hormonal health.Menopause Pilateswww.sendparenting.com

Episode 91Ever wondered how to successfully navigate the challenging world of SEND education? Join me, Dr. Olivia Kessel, alongside Alex Stafford from IPSEA, the leading charity for SEND law in England, as we unpack essential strategies and legal know-how to empower parents. Alex shares her personal journey as a SEND parent, shedding light on the common hurdles and misinformation even professionals face. Learn how understanding your rights and leveraging IPSEA's robust resources and helplines can make a significant difference in securing the education your child deserves.Together, we tackle systemic issues such as inadequate staffing and financial pressures that often leave parents and carers feeling overwhelmed. Discover how parents can hold educational bodies accountable and the importance of complaint mechanisms like the ombudsman. Alex emphasizes the transformative power of volunteering and spreading accurate, law-based information, with inspiring success stories from IPSEA's website illustrating the positive impact of informed advocacy.Moreover, this episode is packed with practical advice—from navigating school transport rights and securing appropriate school placements to understanding recent changes in school attendance guidance. We highlight the importance of addressing the root causes of non-attendance and advocating for comprehensive support that enhances student well-being. Plus, get actionable parenting tips for effective advocacy, including how tools like ChatGPT can help you craft constructive communication. Don't miss this insightful and empowering conversation that aims to equip you with the knowledge and confidence to advocate effectively for your child's educational needs.www.sendparenting.com

Join me as I celebrate the 90th episode of the SEND Parenting Podcast with a heartfelt and insightful conversation with my daughter, Alexandra. She opens up about her anxieties and excitements as she faces a new school year, sharing her personal experiences with transitioning from year seven to year eight and participating in activities like Lambda.Alexandra's candid reflections offer a unique perspective on the challenges of meeting new students and teachers, and the hope for smoother transitions in the future. Packed with practical advice, this episode is a treasure trove for parents looking to support their neurodiverse children through the back-to-school period. Learn about the benefits of creating a visual schedule, preparing the night before, and incorporating sensory tools to help your child self-regulate. We also touch on the importance of good sleep, nutrition, and having open lines of communication with both your child and their school.Whether you're dealing with school refusal or just looking to make the transition smoother, our strategies aim to create a positive and supportive school experience for your family. Don't miss out on these invaluable tips and insights that could make a world of difference for your child!www.sendparenting.com

Episode 89Unlock the tools to revolutionize neurodiverse education with our special guest, Davy Jones from OpenGenius. This episode unpacks how Ayoa, an AI-powered mind mapping, planning, and time management app, transforms the way neurodiverse individuals visualize projects, manage tasks, and collaborate. Listen as Davy reveals how Ayoa's features can break the barriers of linear thinking and boost dynamic problem-solving and decision-making.Discover the real-life impact of assistive technology in education, especially for neurodiverse learners. We discuss the importance of proper training for both students and educators to fully leverage these tools. From personal anecdotes to expert insights, we highlight how AI and mind mapping can offer vital support to students with learning difficulties like dyslexia. Learn why schools need to adopt these innovations to enable all students to unlock their full creative potential.Lastly, we explore the crucial transition to university life and how early access to assistive technology can make this shift smoother for students with disabilities. Davy shares essential tips for parents and educators, focusing on how Ayoa can enhance memory and productivity through creative mind mapping techniques. We also cover practical pathways for obtaining assistive technology support, whether through university assessments or workplace accommodations, ensuring a seamless academic journey for neurodiverse students. Don't miss out on understanding the powerful role of AI in unlocking educational success for all.Link to AYOYA www.sendparenting.com

Episode 88Meet the secret weapon that will transform your parenting journey, especially if you're raising neurodiverse children. Join Dr. Olivia Kessel as she shares invaluable insights on the absolute necessity of self-care, particularly  during the high-stress holiday season. Drawing from personal anecdotes, Dr. Kessel explains how neglecting your own well-being can diminish your ability to effectively meet your child's needs. You'll walk away with practical tips for seamlessly integrating self-care into your daily routine, from prioritizing sleep to finding those precious small moments to recharge.But that's not all—this episode also tackles the insidious impact of alcohol on stress and sleep, offering healthier alternatives like tapping, breathing exercises, and nature walks. As we gear up for a new school year, Dr. Kessel introduces innovative AI tools, like those from OpenGenius, which are designed to help neurodiverse children organize their thoughts and conquer academic challenges. Don't miss next week's deep dive into these AI solutions with a representative from OpenGenius. Tune in to ensure you and your family have a calm and successful start to the school year.www.sendparenting.com

Ever wondered why your neurodiverse child struggles with sleep, especially during the holidays? Join Dr. Olivia Kessel on this week's SEND Parenting Podcast as she unpacks the complexities behind sleep issues in children with ADHD and autism. Learn how regular exercise benefits focus into your child's daily routine and mental health by boosting neurotransmitter levels, and get tips on reducing screen time before bed. She shares personal stories about her daughter's challenges and also delves into the reasons behind active brains, sensory sensitivities and delayed sleep phase syndrome. You'll gain valuable insights into how physical activity—or the lack thereof during holiday breaks—can disrupt sleep patterns even further.Stay tuned for a sneak peek into our upcoming discussion on the importance of self-care for parents, because taking care of yourself is just as crucial as caring for your neurodiverse child.www.sendparenting.com

How can the holiday season turn a joyous time into a period of heightened stress for neurodiverse children? Join me, Dr. Olivia Kessel, as I share my personal journey with my daughter Alexandra, who has ADHD, and uncover some of the reasons behind increased emotional and violent outbursts during the summer holidays. We will dive deep into the science behind these behaviors, focusing on understanding these developmental challenges with practical strategies to identify triggers, maintain safety and emphasising the necessity of staying calm to prevent escalation.Discover effective self-regulation techniques tailored specifically for neurodiverse children. From creating a designated calm space with soothing elements to exploring alternative methods like acupuncture and tapping, I'll share what has worked for Alexandra and countless others. You'll learn the importance of recognizing early warning signs of agitation and strategies to maintain your own calmness as a parent. Plus, I offer three practical tips for navigating the summer holidays: maintaining a consistent routine, incorporating physical activity, and ensuring clear communication and preparation. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that patience, self-care, and understanding are key to supporting a neurodiverse child's growth and development.www.sendparenting.com

 Imagine planning a dream vacation only to face the unexpected challenge of your child melting down due to the overwhelming changes. Join me, Dr. Olivia Kessel, on the SEND Parenting Podcast as I share my personal experiences with my wonderfully neurodivergent daughter, Alexandra, and break down why seemingly simple changes can feel so monumental for kids with ADHD, autism, and dyslexia.In the first episode of our summer holidays series, I unpack the medical reasons behind these struggles, discussing everything from heightened sensitivity to sensory input to the strong preference for routine. Learn practical strategies to help your child navigate these transitions more smoothly, starting with the critical step of preparation. This episode is a quick lifesaver for making your holiday break as relaxing and enjoyable as possible for you and your children. www.sendparenting.com

Episode 84Tamsyn and Olivia are back this week with a bitesize recap of one of our most unexpected topics from episode 42 - sheep therapy?!This week we cover the surprisingly profound and transformative power of sheep therapy from our episode with Emma Redman and Pippa Ashton of Ewe Talks. This episode also explores how unexpected breakthroughs in therapy can occur outside traditional settings and the importance of creative thinking and open-mindedness in addressing the unique needs of neurodiverse children or those who have experienced trauma.We talk the power of nature, and how integrating sheep therapy into activities like gardening or nature walks increases dopamine, leaving children more emotionally regulated and comfortable without even realizing the therapeutic benefits. Plus, we highlight the practical and cost-effective advantages of incorporating these therapeutic tools within schools, fostering a more engaged and supported student community. Listen in to understand how something as simple as interacting with sheep can make a profound difference in mental and emotional well-being.www.sendparenting.com

Episode 83We are back this week with another (not so) bitesize episode, which means that we are joined once more by our fantastic bitesize co-host Tamsyn. This week we are throwing all the way back to episode 8 with Sally Greenhalgh, academic and digital lead of the Unicorn School, with whom we discussed how schools can better embrace technology to empower neurodiverse children in education. Tamsyn and Olivia cover all the incredible information from that episode, like the tech that is out there to support our neurodiverse children like Microsoft Word's dictation and Immersive Reader features, and how they can unlock creativity and story writing in dyslexic and dyspraxic children. We also discuss how these technologies can help children with ADHD and autism as well.We also discuss why schools are reticent to adopt such transformative technology when it empowers neurodiverse students to showcase their abilities and achieve independence in their learning, meaning for lower-cost SEND support long term. The necessity for schools to embrace technology in the same way society does is emphasized, including the potential of using pupil premium funds to make technology accessible. Tune in to discover how technology can revolutionize education and make a lasting impact on neurodiverse children's lives.www.sendparenting.com

Episode 82Have you ever wondered how dyspraxia affects day-to-day life from childhood into adulthood? Join us on this enlightening episode of the SEND Parenting Podcast, where we're excited to have Rosemary Richings, a talented writer and advocate, share her personal journey with dyspraxia, offering unique insights drawn from her book, "Stumbling Through Time." Together, we unpack the complexities of living with dyspraxia, its impact on daily activities, and how it intertwines with conditions like ADHD and autism.Rosemary candidly shares personal anecdotes and discusses the ongoing challenges , from time management to misconceptions about "growing out" of dyspraxia to workplace self-advocacy, stressing the importance of educating others about the condition. With practical strategies for breaking down tasks and improving executive functioning, this episode is a valuable resource for anyone seeking to better understand and support those with dyspraxia, particularly for parents recognizing dyspraxia in childrenThis episode ends on a hopeful note, highlighting that with the right support, children with dyspraxia can achieve great things. Tune in for an episode filled with knowledge, compassion, and a message of perseverance.Rosemary's LinktreeLink to Rosemary's book  "Stumbling Through Time." www.sendparenting.com

Episode 81So, you have an EHCP - now what? Join us this week as we continue our enlightening two-part conversation with Jenny Hooper, CEO of the Evolving Mind Clinic. Jenny uses her 39+ years of experience working in SEND education (both from a teaching and local authority perspective) to provide a comprehensive break down of anything and everything we may need to know about our EHCPs.Tune in as we breakdown what each section of the EHCP document is for and how best to use it, red flags in EHCP language, negotiating school choices with your local authority, and legal requirements you might not know you are afforded.This episode is truly a one-stop shop for empowering parents with the tools and knowledge they need to successfully navigate and use their EHCPs. We are so grateful to Jenny for lending her expertise and hope you find it as useful as we do!Independent provider of special education advice IPSEAThe Evolving Mind Clinicwww.sendparenting.com

Episode 80Are you feeling lost, confused or unsure about getting getting support or an EHCP for your child? Join us this week on the Send Parenting Podcast as we welcome Jenny Hooper, CEO of the Evolving Mind Clinic, to share her 39 years of expertise in teaching and special education needs. Together, we cover the initial steps of identifying when your child requires additional assistance, the ins and outs of SEN support pre-EHCP, and strategies for obtaining an Educational Healthcare Plan (EHCP).The system for obtaining EHCP's can be incredibly confusing and hard to navigate. In this episode, we deconstruct the whole system, explaining notional budgets for SEN needs and the complexities that schools are dealing with when it comes to student support funding. We demystify the role of local authorities, the significance of Individual Education Plans (IEPs), and the journey from SEND support to statutory assessments, with an emphasis on early intervention and parent-school collaboration.Finally, we guide you through the EHCP assessment process from start to finish. Learn how to request an assessment, what to expect within the 20-week timeline, and tactics for overcoming challenges if your initial request is denied. This episode is packed with practical advice, empowering you to advocate effectively for your neurodivergent child. Tune in and prepare to navigate the UK education system with confidence.Independent provider of special education advice IPSEAThe Evolving Mind Clinicwww.sendparenting.com

Episode 79 This week we are joined by the ADHD coach and advocate, Leanne Maskell to talk all about her journey to late diagnosis and thriving within ADHD. Through hearing about Leanne's struggles and journey to a late diagnosis at 25, we illuminate a lot of fascinating, lesser-discussed elements of ADHD like rejection-sensitive dysphoria, ADHD in girls, and the genuine mortal danger of late diagnosis.Through her work in researching, writing, and educating about ADHD, Leanne shares with us how she has learnt to love and appreciate the true strengths of ADHD, and how it can lead to an authentic and individual life. She also shares practical advice in how to support and coach our ADHD children, and dealing with ADHD when combined with screens and the internet.This episode promises a wealth of knowledge, empathy, and actionable steps for anyone affected by ADHD and is a must-listen for anyone with a child with ADHD.www.sendparenting.com

Episode 78Teaching our children to swim is a vital part of preparing our children for the wider world, but for neurodivergent children it can be an uphill struggle. How can we make the world of water can be friendly and safe for children who don't fit the typical mould? This week we are joined Nicole Martin from Core Aquatics who has dedicated her career to create and teach inclusive swimming programs that cater to neurodiverse children. We talk about how such initiatives can drastically reduce the worrying statistics of drowning in children with autism, what an autism-friendly swimming pool looks like, candid advice on easing kids into the water, overcoming fears, building confidence, and discovering joy.Nicole's story is one of adaptation and innovation, providing a beacon of hope for parents seeking the right swimming lessons for their unique little ones. We underscore the value of teaching about different water bodies, the creation of muscle memory for safety maneuvers, and how these skills go beyond the pool to oceans and lakes. Nicole Martin is fundraising for Alex's Wish (justgiving.com) – Charity Wing WalkCore Aquatics www.sendparenting.com

Episode 77This week I am joined by Olly Stewart, a wonderful speech and language therapist from the Evolving Mind Clinic. This week we are diving into everything about speech and language therapy, what it is, how it works, how you can access it, and parenting tips and tricks from a speech and language perspective. We dispel the notion that speech and language therapists (SALTs) are only concerned with stammers and lisps, and reveal the transformative role they can have in fostering communication skills vital for children's social development. Olly also shares some practical strategies to enhance children's verbal and non-verbal communication skills, setting the stage for their future success. Olly's expertise shines a light on the current shortage of SALT professionals and the growing need for their services across diverse contexts, underscoring the collective responsibility to support the communication needs of future generations.Click here for link to The Evolving Mind Clinicwww.sendparenting.com