Podcasts about uncivilized men's movement

It'd be easy to say this one's for the guys, but in all honesty, it's for all as we're all connected and are impacted by the masculine and feminine flow of it all.  And, this one is also for the guys.  In today's interview, Traver Boehm, author, two-time TEDx speaker, men's coach, and the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, is here to shine light on men's work, men's mental health, relationships, and helping to crack open the issues that are wrapped into today's traumas, abuse, and inequality.He shares on and from his dedication to doing his part to help end the suffering in men, and the suffering caused by men, by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity.Along with this raw, real, heart-felt conversation, Traver shares on his month in a dark room/ashram in Guatemala, his definition and "killing of" his "nice guy", and opens up about honoring his journey through his own struggles, perseverance, and of course, mindfulness practices.Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguard and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master's Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, he's helped men all over the world to become UNcivilized as they wake up to the power of their hearts, the brilliance of their bodies, and the wisdom of their souls so they can blaze their own path.  He does this through one-on-one coaching with men or women, couples coaching, and group mentorship.TO LEARN EVEN MORE ON TRAVER :Please visit his website: manuncivilized.comAnd find him on Instagram: @traverboehmAnd all podcast platforms: The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver BoehmHis books “Today I Rise” and “Man UNcivilized” His latest men's leadership course "Kill the Nice Guy"_______________________________________________

To celebrate the 200th episode of this podcast, I asked my good friend, Traver Boehm, to get weird and do something a bit different. I sent him a text asking him to think about a couple of random things he loves or is inspired by so we could talk about them. Neither of us knew what the other was bringing to the table. A surprising feast ensued. I've long loved the podcast conversations Tim Ferriss has with his pal, Kevin Rose, so I decided to emulate that here. This chat is informal and unpredictable. It's also filled with random stories, lots of laughter, and it's quite different than any other I've done before. Please let me know what you think. If you like it, perhaps I can invite more friends to have similar chats. And a huge and grateful THANK YOU to everyone who listens and shares the podcast. I appreciate you. _______________________________________ Traver Boehm is the author of the books Today I Rise and Man UNcivilized. He's a two-time TEDx speaker, men's coach, and the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement. He's helped men all over the world to become UNcivilized as they wake up to meditate, train their bodies, and blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them. He is dedicated to doing his part to help end the suffering in men and the suffering caused by men by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity. For more information about Traver, please ⁠visit his website⁠: ⁠www.manuncivilized.com⁠. ⁠Find him on Instagram⁠: @traverboehm - ⁠https://www.instagram.com/traverboehm⁠ Buy his book here: https://amzn.to/3tQ5p4c And listen to his podcast, The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm, on all major platforms. _______________________________________ Follow me on Instagram @LongDistanceLoveBombs: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/longdistancelovebombs⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Sign up for my weekly newsletter!  Each week, I share a personal story and my favorite books, tunes, articles, and ideas.  Click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://longdistancelovebombs.mykajabi.com/email⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. It's easy and takes five seconds. Check out a list of 120 of my favorite books here, including MY BOOK, and many my guests have written and recommend reading: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/longdistancelovebombs⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Here is all of my favorite stuff on the planet: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.longdistancelovebombs.com/favorites _______________________________________ CHAPTERS: 0:01:07 Recording Secrets and Embracing Imperfection0:05:38 Mysterious Half-Buddhist Statue Unveiled0:05:42 Contemplating a Unique Tattoo Design0:07:15 A Random Start with Tattoo Stories0:10:14 Candid Conversations: Sharing Medical History and Unexpected Connections0:19:35 Intrigued by non-alcoholic Guinness and the search for it0:22:56 Wrestling with the idea of drinking non-alcoholic beer0:26:03 The rule of three for checking cravings and habits0:28:05 Evaluating the Progress of the Conversation0:28:16 The Story of the Special Bread Knife0:32:26 Upgrading Everyday Items for a 10x Experience0:38:37 Childhood Fork: A Sentimental Keepsake0:47:04 Discussions about knives and documentaries0:53:06 Considering becoming a Zen master or starting a bread company0:58:33 A Shift in Perspective on Death and Myth1:02:02 Recommendation: Interview with a Funeral Home Director1:05:18 The Benefits and Deliciousness of Sprouting1:09:10 The Potential of Selling Sprouts and Merchandise --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/longdistancelovebombs/message

Episode Highlights: masculinity, emotions, healing, conquer, being the “nice”guy Summary:  What's up Winners?! Thanks for joining us today on this edition of the Awake & Winning podcast. Kaylor had the opportunity to jam with Traver Boehm, a two-time TEDx speaker, men's coach, and the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement and they dove into all things “masculinity” in this episode which include: The different/flawed views and where we are at currently with masculinity Traver's goal of presenting an evolved form of masculinity which includes the emotional intelligence, healing and skills around relationships How society is giving men a free pass and allowing and affirming them to choose a life of comfort and ease The importance of men finding their missing piece and working on the parts of them that are underdeveloped Exploring the term “nice guy” This was an absolutely powerful discussion on masculinity and must listen for our audience, you don't want to miss it! Thanks Traver for this incredible jam session! If you enjoyed the episode, please be sure to take a screenshot and share it out on Instagram and tag @thekaylorbetts. Also, please make sure to give us a review and a five star rating if you're loving what we are doing! _____________________________ RESOURCES & LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/traverboehm/ Websites | manuncivilized.com Book | Man UNcivilized  by Traver Boehm Podcast | The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm on Spotify | The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm on Apple Podcasts _____________________________ IMPORTANT UPDATES: SAVE YOUR SPOT! How to Win Being Single & Awake Webinar: Tuesday September 26 | https://winningsingle.com/ Check out the Awake & Winning Website | https://awakeandwinning.com/ Join the Awake & Winning Life AW-cademy | http://www.theawlife.com/ Join the Awake & Winning Business AW-cademy | http://www.theawbiz.com Follow Kaylor on Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/thekaylorbetts/ _____________________________

Talking points: AI, gender wars, masculinity, culture, relationships, dating, archetypes, myth All I can tell you is: this is a big one! Traver and I did an episode exchange for this one, and we always (I mean always) have great, wide-ranging conversations. It's one of the bes gifts that comes from having old friends.  This is the episode to listen to if you want to hear directly from two men's coaches who have hands on experience with what men are undergoing these days, and some of the ways we can regulate and manage what seems to be ever-increasing chaos. [00:03:52] - How social media conversations have gotten a lot more intense—and why[00:11:03] - How this is affecting men in general[00:16:57] - So much bad s**t is happening. What does your average man do?[00:26:56] - What used to be “luxuries” like a morning meditation practice are now tools for survival[00:33:02] - The effect even a basic participation in online toxicity can have[00:43:39] - “How do we get men back engaged in relationship itself?”[00:58:43] - The greatest gift you can give your partner[01:05:16] - Men need myth[01:11:50] - Why AI needs to be trained on myth Traver Boehm is the author of the books “Today I Rise” and “Man UNcivilized”. He's a two-time TEDx speaker, men's coach, and the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement. He's helped men worldwide to become UNcivilized as they wake up to the power of their hearts, the brilliance of their bodies, and the wisdom of their souls so they can blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them. He is dedicated to doing his part to help end the suffering in men, and the suffering caused by men, by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity. Connect with Traver -Website: https://www.manuncivilized.com/ -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traverboehm/ -Podcast: https://www.manuncivilized.com/blog/ Pick up my brand-new book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Check out some free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance and join me today.  Enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they're looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts  | Spotify For more episodes, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | TwitterSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Traver Boehm is the author of the books “Today I Rise” and “Man UNcivilized”. He's a two-time TEDx speaker, men's coach, and the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement. He's helped men all over the world to become UNcivilized as they wake up to the power of their hearts, the brilliance of their bodies, and the wisdom of their souls so they can blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them.   He is dedicated to doing his part to help end the suffering in men, and the suffering caused by men, by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity.   Key topics include:  ⭐️ Мen's pain, the different elements of men's pain and struggles ⭐️ How we're not alone as men in our struggles ⭐️ Healthy Masculinity and what it looks like  ⭐️ How we can embody healthy masculinity and become safer men to be around ⭐️ Trevor's idea on how men should be dangerous but not a danger ⭐️ The importance of men supporting and helping each other   Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe    Connect With Traver Boehm: Instagram: @traverboehm Website: https://www.manuncivilized.com/ And all podcast platforms at The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm  

This conversation is hands-down one of my favourites to date on this podcast. We're speaking with Traver Boehm, an author of two books, 2 time TEDx Speaker, men's coach and founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, which is radically redefining the way men around the globe experience their masculinity by uniquely blending both primal elements of manhood with massive doses of consciousness. In 2016 after losing a pregnancy, his marriage, and his business partnership all within weeks of each other, he created a radical social experiment and spent the next 12 months as if it were his last year to live, aptly naming it “The Year to Live Project.”  Now men all over the world have deemed themselves UNcivilized as they wake up to meditate, feel into their hearts, and train their bodies. Men who can fight, fuck, feed, and feel. And do all four well.  In this episode, we're talking about: How men show up in relationships and the biggest reason why women end relationships (outside of abuse) and how men can cultivate a superpower to make the feminine feel safe in unexpected ways The powerful message Traver has for men everywhere and how he's looking to change the entire culture and spread his message, along with addressing where men need to take responsibility for their own emotional health Men's mental health, and the mountain of male trauma that often goes unaddressed as males have so much less social support than women and a suicide rate that is 3X higher Traver's take on one of the biggest reasons why he believes mass shootings end up happening and what to do about it. What we can learn from our pain   Let me know your thoughts on this episode - you can email me or DM me over on Instagram @emilygoughcoach. I would love to connect with you and thank you for listening!    CONNECT WITH EMILY Book A Private Coaching Call With Emily To Work Together. Get Your Free Guide “The Four Tools Missing From Your Relationship” here Men's Group Coaching – 8-Week Program (Join the waitlist here) Women's Group Program “Becoming You” (Join the waitlist here) Instagram: @emilygoughcoach Email: Info@emilygoughcoaching.com                                          Website: Emily Gough Coaching Podcast: Room To Grow Podcast CONNECT WITH TRAVER BOEHM Website Instagram: @traverboehm UNcivilized Nation Book: Man UNcivilized Podcast: The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm TEDx Talk: How to Make Pain Your Guru TEDx Talk: Why We Need More UNcivilized Men Traver's IGTV about #NotAllMen   REFERENCES Episode 280 | Choosing Relentless Courage, Facing Death & Challenging Societal Norms with Traver Boehm of Man UNcivilized, Part 2 Episode #117 | The 9 Year Affair: Lessons in Infidelity Episode #136 | Communication, Betrayal, Infidelity & Self-Esteem with Renelle Nelson Episode #239 | Communication: the Lubrication for Relationships with Renelle Nelson

Traver Boehm is the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, author of Today I Rise, Man UNcivilized, and a two-time TEDx speaker, men's coach and podcaster.  Traver draws upon an eclectic background ranging from work as a professional bodyguard, Mixed Martial Artist, and utilizing his Master's Degree in Traditional Chinese MEdicine and Meditation. Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men's health and relationship difficulties.  We sat down to talk with Traver about: 1. Why we need to work to see that the current paradigm that insists that men are broken is itself broken 2. The importance of a man's ability to dance with his darkness to understand it - so that his darkness doesn't lead him blindly 3. Expanding the archetypes that men are able to embody beyond those of either the “Marlboro Man” or “The Sensitive New Age Guy 4. How women are best able to support the men in their lives in standing in their power and embracing their capacity to heal Traver provides such a vital perspective on what is required for all of us to heal our collective wounding around how we define masculinity, and we know you're going to find his ability to model integrated leadership as inspiring as we did! If you love the conversations we're bringing you as much as we do, please subscribe, rate and write a review so we can get the podcast out to even more people! Connect with Traver *** Website *** Instagram *** LinkedIn Join Vanessa and Dené in Nosara, Costa Rica June 3-10th for their upcoming Intensive Retreat RECLAIMING AUDACITY.  Dené and Vanessa are joining forces with two of their colleagues - Milly Murillo & Ashley Torrent to create a week full of transformational healing.  They each draw from their work in the healing modalities of psychotherapy, coaching, mediumship, astrology, somatic movement, and group processing - to support others in reclaiming every aspect of the most fulfilling lives they can possibly live.  This podcast is, for sure, Cheaper Than Therapy.   Follow Cheaper Than Therapy on Instagram   Follow Vanessa Instagram TikTok YouTube   Follow Dené Instagram TikTok ------------------------------ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Traver Boehm is the author of the books “Today I Rise” and “Man UNcivilized”. He's a two-time TEDx speaker, men's coach, and the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement. He's helped men all over the world to become UNcivilized as they wake up to the power of their hearts, the brilliance of their bodies, and the wisdom of their souls so they can blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them. He is dedicated to doing his part to help end the suffering in men, and the suffering caused by men, by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity. Visit his website: manuncivilized.com And find him on Instagram: @traverboehm And all podcast platforms: The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

The definition of masculinity has been undergoing a significant change in recent years, with a growing realization that the traditional model of masculinity has been harmful and limiting for men. In this episode, we delve into the uncharted territories of masculinity and the challenges men face in today's society. Our guest, Trevor, shares his journey and the lessons he has learned along the way, including his latest project, "Behind the Masks of Men," a three-month program aimed at helping men delve deeper into the topics of anger, relationships, sex, and desire. Join us as we explore the false initiation of sexuality through porn and the importance of tackling these taboo topics for the betterment of not just men, but society as a whole.  Traver Boehm is the author of the books Today I Rise and Man UNcivilized. He's a two time TEDx speaker, men's coach, and the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement. He's helped men all over the world to become UNcivilized as they wake up to meditate, train their bodies, and blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them. He is dedicated to doing his part to help end the suffering in men, and the suffering caused by men, by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 2:46 Traver Boehm's personal journey of self-discovery and growth after a series of events in his life that led to a destabilization of his sense of identity and purpose. 12:12 A new paradigm of masculinity proposed amidst epidemic of pain in the male population. 18:23 Breaking down gender stereotypes: The negative impact of narrow masculine emotional expression. 20:17 Understanding masculinity in today's society. 26:08 Exploring the importance of balancing masculine and emotional intelligence in relationships. 32:37 Integrating masculine and feminine: Moving beyond limiting identities. 38:26 The importance of integrity in relationships and life. 41:31 Understanding the pain of "nice guys" and practical solutions. 47:53 The power of embracing the primal and divine within. 53:46 Behind the masks of men: A three-month program to explore emotional and sexual issues. Mentioned Behind the Masks of Men Man UNcivilized (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Today I Rise: How To Overcome The Gut-Wrenching Pain Of Your Breakup Or Divorce & Reclaim Your Life (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Relationship Map To Happy, Lasting Love Connect with Traver Boehm Websites: manuncivilized.com Podcast: The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm Instagram: instagram.com/traverboehm/?hl=en Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship  Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins  Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins  Twitter: @DrJessHiggins  Website: drjessicahiggins.com   Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.  Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.  Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.  Thank you!   *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.  

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Traver Boehm. Traver is the author of the books “Today I Rise” and “Man UNcivilized”. He's a two-time TEDx speaker, men's coach, and the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement. He's helped men all over the world to become UNcivilized as they wake up to the power of their hearts, the brilliance of their bodies, and the wisdom of their souls so they can blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them. He is dedicated to doing his part to help end the suffering in men, and the suffering caused by men, by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity. The two of us talk about Traver's approach to men's work and his ideas about masculinity, which he breaks down into two categories; primal and divine. We speak about the mainstream narratives surrounding what it means to be a man and how we can explore these narratives to see if they serve us. Key Points: Traver introduces himself Identifying toxic masculinity Leadership in the locker room Narratives about what it means to be a man The importance of men's work Redefining masculinity Anger vs aggression Practical advice for men Relevant links: Traver's website: www.manuncivilized.com Traver's Instagram: @traverboehm

Traver Boehm is the author of the books Today I Rise and Man UNcivilized. He's a two-time TEDx speaker, men's coach, and the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement. He's helped men all over the world to become UNcivilized as they wake up to meditate, train their bodies, and blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them. He is dedicated to doing his part to help end the suffering in men and the suffering caused by men by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity. For more information on the 7-day NYE retreat in a magical treehouse village in the Caribbean with Jeremy, Traver, and Leila, click here for more information and to sign up to join us: https://www.manuncivilized.com/the-awakening For more information about Traver, please visit his website: www.manuncivilized.com. Find him on Instagram: @traverboehm - https://www.instagram.com/traverboehm And listen to his podcast, The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm, on all major platforms. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/longdistancelovebombs/message

Traver Boehm is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized. He's a two-time TEDx speaker, men's coach and the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement. This movement is radically redefining the way men around the globe experience their masculinity by uniquely blending both primal elements of manhood with massive doses of consciousness. His goal is to end the suffering in men and to end the suffering caused by men.We had a great chat and dug into all sorts of epic challenges Traver has taken on in life, including volunteering with the dying as a hospice worker and meditating for 28 days straight in complete isolation and pitch-black darkness in a Guatemalan hut, which were both parts of a 12-month project he took on to live as if it were his last year on earth!We also hear in the episode why and how he got started working with men, and why he loves it so much! https://www.manuncivilized.com/Check out one of his Ted Talks here:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s-oQSoTtpX8 If you're enjoying this and want to connect and talk more about working with Dave or joining a men's group, you can find out more and book a call here:www.instagram.com/alpharising.mensworkwww.alpha-rising.comYou can find links to all of the workbooks and other resources here:https://linktr.ee/alpharising 

In this episode I speak with Traver Boehm, the author of "Today I Rise," and "Man UNcivilized." He's a men's coach and the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement. Traver wants to redefine the way men experience their masculinity, by blending the primal elements of manhood with massive doses of consciousness. We talk about how men thing and relate in relationships and how men are doing "the work" in invisible ways. "We want men to feel until we need them to kill or die." - Traver Boehm =============================

Traver Boehm is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized. He's a two time TEDx speaker, men's coach and the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, one that is radically redefining the way men around the globe experience their masculinity by uniquely blending both primal elements of manhood with massive doses of consciousness. ON THIS EPISODE: Traver Boehm | @traverboehm Adam Jackson | @adam___jackson  SACRED SONS TRAININGS & EVENTS: CONVERGENCE 7 - GENERATIONS | OCTOBER 13 - 16 | CANTON, NC |  Convergence 7 is the inter-generational bridge between the youth and the elders of our world. We implore you to reach out your hand and invite the generations in your life to connect, confront, and celebrate life alongside you this fall. All stages of manhood will be represented at Convergence 7 from youth to elder. EMX COLORADO | SEP 15 - 18 | WARD, CO |  The Embodied Masculine Experience is a 40 man initiatory event. Join us in Skull Valley, AZ for 4 days of Connection, Confrontation, and Celebration with Sacred Sons regional Leadership.  MASCULINE ALCHEMY LEADERSHIP TRAINING | FALL 2022 Sacred Sons Leadership Training Level 1 is an intensive online and in-person hybrid training dedicated to providing men the skillset, container, and mentorship to embody the way of honest and grounded masculine leadership. CONNECT: Shop | Sacred Sons Apparel & Merch Website | sacredsons.com   YouTube | Sacred Sons   Instagram | @sacredsons   Events Calendar | All upcoming Sacred Sons Trainings and Experiences! 

Traver Boehm is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized. He's a two time TEDx speaker, Men's coach and the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement. This Movement is radically redefining the way men around the globe experience their masculinity by uniquely blending both primal elements of manhood with massive doses of consciousness. We discuss some huge topics like what real freedom looks like, masculine paradigms, Initiations, Integration, The Nice Guy, Relationships and at the end he guided me through a powerful meditation. CONNECT with Traver === INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/traverboehm YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/c/TraverBoehm WEBSITE: www.manuncivilised.com PODCAST: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-uncivilized-podcast-with-traver-boehm/id1448906480 SIGN UP === The Podcast Community - https://bit.ly/3JZTPXe Telegram Page: https://bit.ly/3qCaskf LISTEN / SUBSCRIBE TO THE PODCAST === Apple: https://apple.co/346SMF5 Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3Gx4kPm Google: https://bit.ly/3GsBkIF New to me..? === EMAIL: connect@bodymindpractice.co.uk WEBSITE: https://www.bodymindpractice.co.uk INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/34CTdHJ FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/35VpSJ9 LINKS: https://linktr.ee/bodymindpractice How to Support the Channel? === PATREON: https://bit.ly/3GDfgLK

Traver Boehm knows men. How they think, what's behind their behavior, and most importantly — their unique challenges in the modern landscape.Traver is the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, the fastest growing men's movement in the world. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two time TEDx speaker, men's coach and podcaster. Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguard and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master's Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men's mental health and relationship difficulties. Although he's not quite sure how to feel about the title, he has been dubbed, “The Man Whisperer” as he has the unique ability to speak to men in a way they can hear and understand.Follow Traver on Instagram @traverboehmIf you're enjoying this podcast and haven't already, please leave a 5* rating and review. Every review helps us in reaching more men and changing more lives, so that 60 seconds it takes to leave us a positive review could really help someone in need. I appreciate your support of this podcast greatly!Follow me @billygartonjr across all platforms and let me know what you thought of today's episode.Share your favorite part on Instagram and tag me (I'll be sure to share)!

Traver Boehm knows men. How they think, what's behind their behavior, and most importantly — their unique challenges in the modern landscape. Traver is the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, the fastest growing men's movement in the world. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two time TEDx speaker, men's coach and podcaster. Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguarding and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master's Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men's mental health and relationship difficulties. Although he's not quite sure how to feel about the title, he has been dubbed, “The Man Whisperer” as he has the unique ability to speak to men in a way they can hear and understand. In 2016 after losing a pregnancy, his marriage, and his business partnership all within weeks of each other, he created a radical year long social experiment to answer the questions, “Who am I and who am I as a man?” Highlights of the year include: Volunteering with the dying as a hospice worker Meditating for 28 days straight in complete isolation and pitch-black darkness in a Guatemalan hut Living in the frigid Utah wilderness for a month with only a knife, a water bottle, and a blanket With a passion for people and a unique lens through which to view the human experience, Traver is a highly sought after teacher in the fields of consciousness, intimacy, and personal development. When not teaching workshops or radically shifting the way men experience their masculinity, Traver can be found obsessing over a single word in front of his laptop, chasing surf around the globe, and being awful at yoga. During our conversation we touch upon topics like: How us as men love to go through hardship together How the world's gotten easier and easier and we now have to re-create the difficulty as men How it's primal for men to want to test themselves against the world Learning through pain and why it's vital that we don't avoid it when it comes into our lives. ▫️ Connect with Traver on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/traverboehm/ ▫️ For more information please visit his website - www.manuncivilized.com ▫️ Get Today I Rise from Amazon - https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B073T597VQ/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tkin_p1_i1 ▫️ Get Man UNcivilized from Amazon - https://www.amazon.co.uk/Man-UNcivilized-hate-youll-book-ebook/dp/B088KTC56G ▫️ Watch Traver's first TedX here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s-oQSoTtpX8 ▫️ Watch Traver's second TedX here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0_dH1g-I0Fs ▪️ Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegratefulshow/

“Emotion knows no time.”Episode #4 of May's Mental Health MonthMen are emotional creatures too! They can cry, they can feel pain, they can be weak, and they can become vulnerable. BUT society is telling them not to do any of this. Society is telling them to hide their emotions to stay masculine. They are being deprived of the chance to properly process their emotions.Today's guest is Traver Boehm, the man behind the UNcivilized Men's Movement and the author behind Today I Rise and Man UNcivilized. Traver shares his reasons for creating the UNcivilized Men's Movement, why men are used to suppressing their emotions and the damage it causes, and how you can encourage the men in your life to get help when they need it. What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction00:52 What does it mean to be an uncivilized man?06:27 Having intimacy is an emotional nourishment07:53 What is the UNcivilized Men's Movement?10:05 Is that a real fear for men?14:21 The Marlboro Man Paradigm19:21 Men have higher suicide statistics27:45 Men struggle to navigate around their emotions33:32 One of the lies men were told35:14 The category for a ‘nice' guy 39:08 How can you be there for your male friend?43:34 Allow other people to have their own space45:20 Can you ask your partner to go to therapy?Connect with Traver on:InstagramWebsiteBookThe UNcivilized PodcastGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeTHIS WEEK'S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:AwayStart your 100-day trial and shop the entire Away lineup of travel essentials, including their best-selling suitcases at awaytravel.com/adulting.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Saora love has a beautiful discussion with Traver Bohem 03:01 Traver introduction 07:04 Tough time for relationships 08:53 Working with women vs working with men 10:32 Saora's life experiences (“street cred”) 13:28 Main challenges Traver had to move through 21:32 The nice guy syndrome 29:04 What men can do / how to address the nice guy syndrome 37:09 What women can do 45:10 The feminine needing trust and safety. What does this mean. “Ask me anything”: 01:00:58 Small blindspots in men with a big impact 01:04:25 If you could give men one superpower, what would it be? 01:05:25 If there's a book you would have every man read, what would it be? 01:05:43 Most impactful book 01:06:40 What do you wish, men knew, what it's like being in a woman's body? 01:08:35 Where to find Traver online Saora Love IG: https://www.instagram.com/saoralove/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/saoralove82/ About Traver Boehm Traver is the the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, the fastest growing men's movement in the world. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two-time TEDx speaker, men's coach and podcaster. Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguard and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master's Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men's mental health and relationship difficulties. With a passion for people and a unique lens through which to view the human experience, Traver is a highly sought after teacher in the fields of consciousness, relationship, and personal development. https://www.manuncivilized.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/traverboehm/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/traverboehmwrites https://linktr.ee/traverboehm

There is no space for men's pain. Society expects them to put on brave faces even when they are hurting inside. Men are taught to reject their feelings, and with it, the feminine. In the past, they were once warriors and providers who had to compartmentalize their emotions in order to succeed. But in modern times, men are no longer needed as defenders and breadwinners. Without a clear purpose, men feel lost and act out in harmful ways in order to fill the void.  Instead of chiding men for bad behavior, Traver Boehm believes clear instructions are needed to help them move forward. He proposes a new paradigm of masculinity which combines the primal and the divine, the masculine and the feminine. Society needs to acknowledge the male collective wound. We need to ask men to turn inwards and deal with their thoughts and feelings. In Traver's UNcivilized program, men are initiated into a brotherhood by talking about the deep, scary part of themselves. It's a safe space for them to open up, all the while invoking a sense of challenge that men crave. They learn to become whole by harnessing strength and cultivating kindness.   Traver is the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement. Through coaching and workshops, he gives men a new empowered paradigm with which to express their masculinity. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two time TEDx speaker and podcaster. What we discuss: 03:15 - Traver's story of loss  06:38 - The UNcivilized Man paradigm 11:55 - The masculine wound 21:03 - Initiation and brotherhood 29:33 - Men's primal need to be challenged 34:57 - The fear of feelings 37:25 - Unrealistic expectations about intimacy  51:23 - Integration of head and heart 58:46 - Turn sexual drive into creative force 1:06:39 - How can women support men's healing? 1:09:19 - What's the message of the Divine Mother to us?   Learn more from Traver:  Website: www.manuncivilized.com Instagram: @traverboehm  

Today's guest is Traver Boehm.We go deep talking about:Primal masculinity and how culture and technology have caused many men to lose touch with itEmotional intelligence as menWhy every man should join a mens' groupDiscovering a divine connection to nature as a man in order to connect with your inner self.Being able to step into our power as men by connecting to our head, heart, and ballsHow we can heal and grow and still be open to the possibility of being hurt againKnowing exactly what you want from a relationshipHealthy communication and setting boundaries with your partner to ensure a harmonious relationshipWhy it's important to teach our partners how to handle us in conflict and,Grief and healing from a miscarriageTraver Boehm knows men. How they think, what's behind their behavior, and most importantly — their unique challenges in the modern landscape.Traver is the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, the fastest growing men's movement in the world. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two time TEDx speaker, men's coach and podcaster.Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguarding and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master's Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men's mental health and relationship difficulties.Although he's not quite sure how to feel about the title, he has been dubbed, “The Man Whisperer” as he has the unique ability to speak to men in a way they can hear and understand.In 2016 after losing a pregnancy, his marriage, and his business partnership all within weeks of each other, he created a radical year long social experiment to answer the questions, “Who am I and who am I as a man?”With a passion for people and a unique lens through which to view the human experience, Traver is a highly sought after teacher in the fields of consciousness, intimacy, and personal development. When not teaching workshops or radically shifting the way men experience their masculinity, Traver can be found obsessing over a single word in front of his laptop, chasing surf around the globe, and being awful at yoga.Mentioned on this episode:Man UNcivilizedFind Traver online at:WEB: www.manuncivilized.comInstagram: @traverboehmThe UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm---Welcome to the Dad.Work Podcast!It's my goal every episode to help dads suffer less, love more, and parent confidently.We'll be diving into mindfulness practices, healing trauma, conscious parenting, natural living, compassionate communication, the spiritual aspect of fatherhood, and more.There are a lot of amazing teachers and guides who help men become more aware and conscious, but there's not a lot of resources for men who are both fathers and interested in a mindful exploration of consciousness and improvement.This podcast aims to help bridge that gap.Resources, Links, Show Notes:https://dad.work/pod/Get our Free 14-Day Better Man, Better Dad Email Series:https://dad.work/email/Join one of our Men's Groups for Dads and be seen, heard, supported, and challenged by a group of other fathers who have your back unconditionally:https://dad.work/group/

This week isn't so much an interview. Instead, a long-ranging conversation with an old friend focused around some of the more, uh, volatile aspects of modern masculine culture. The functionality of incel ideology, redpill rhetoric, the rise of victimhood narratives on all sides. In short, we're talking about some heavy stuff. Expect an open dialogue and frank opinions. Traver Boehm knows men. How they think, what's behind their behavior, and most importantly — their unique challenges in the modern landscape. Traver is the the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, the fastest growing men's movement in the world. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two time TEDx speaker, men's coach and podcaster. Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguard and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master's Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men's mental health and relationship difficulties. Although he's not quite sure how to feel about the title, he has been dubbed, “The Man Whisperer” as he has the unique ability to speak to men in a way they can hear and understand. Connect with Traver -Website: https://www.manuncivilized.com/ -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traverboehm/ -YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAoPi5PeZKBcBb07yqdeOwQ -UNcivilized Nation: https://www.manuncivilized.com/thenation - See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“Pain is the greatest leader that men are afraid to follow.”  Traver Boehm knows men. How they think, what's behind their behavior, and most importantly, their unique challenges in the modern landscape. Traver is the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, the fastest growing men's movement in the world. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two-time TEDx speaker, men's coach and podcaster. Key takeaways: Traver's unconventional path to self-discovery. [5:06] What exactly is the Year to Live Project? [14:28] How to find the freedom of an unapologetic life through insignificance. [17:35] The birth of Man UNcivilized. [20:41] Have you allowed society to guilt you out of your manhood? [27:51] Diffusing the ticking time bomb. [31:45] The biggest challenge we face today is not a virus. [40:23] The unnatural art of developing deep and meaningful relationships. [45:42] Why we need to be connecting beyond our egos. [48:12] Be dangerous, but not a danger. [56:54] The revolution will not be civilized. [1:02:45] Sponsors: BiOptimizers - P3OM supplies your gut with powerful protein-digesting bacteria.   BUBS - The purest form of collagen, sustainably sourced from grass fed and pasture raised cows. LMNT - A tasty electrolyte drink mix that gives your body everything you need and nothing you don't.  

Traver is the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, the fastest-growing men's movement in the world. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two-time TEDx speaker, men's coach, and podcaster. Traver Boehm knows men. How they think, what's behind their behavior, and most importantly — their unique challenges in the modern landscape. Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguarding and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master's Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men's mental health and relationship difficulties. Although he's not quite sure how to feel about the title, he has been dubbed, “The Man Whisperer” as he has the unique ability to speak to men in a way they can hear and understand. In 2016 after losing a pregnancy, his marriage, and his business partnership all within weeks of each other, he created a radical year-long social experiment to answer the questions, “Who am I and who am I as a man?” Traver is a highly sought-after teacher in the fields of consciousness, intimacy, and personal development. I was recently a guest on the Man Uncivilized Podcast, and I can't tell you how much I enjoyed talking to him. He is truly a master at what he does. We get into ALL the things in this episode, and I really feel that you are going to enjoy it. Please enjoy this episode and check out his podcast and book linked below.   15:34 - Traver's yearlong experiment and how it lead to a cultural movement 29:50 - What is an uncivilized man? 34:30 - Taking the shame out of masculinity 41:14 - What happens when a man starts his healing journey 48:06 - How men's work nurtures their relationships   For more information please visit his website www.manuncivilized.com And find him on Instagram: @traverboehm Man UNcivilized the book And all podcast platforms at The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

The standards of masculinity are not exactly clear. On one end of the spectrum, you have the guy driving a Prius who's in touch with his feelings, does yoga, drinks kombucha, has tons of female friends and rejects all forms of violence. On the other end, you have the guy driving a giant pick up truck who's addicted to violence, porn, hating women, dominating men, and who rejects anything perceived as “feminine” such as admitting any kind of weakness or asking for help. There has to be a middle ground. Perhaps a dude in a BMW addicted to violent yoga? I don't know. But it's clear that with the rise of the #MeToo movement, rampant sexual violence and addiction, the normalization of misogynistic hate groups and the fact that an entire generation of young men are now being vastly outnumbered by women in college admissions, men are at a crisis point. Can men be fixed? This week's guest, Traver Boehm believes they can. And he's just the guy to do it. Traver Boehm knows men. How they think, what's behind their behavior, and most importantly — their unique challenges in today's evolving landscape. Traver is the the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, the author of Man UNcivilized as well as a two time TEDx speaker, and podcaster. Traver believes that many men are suffering from unprocessed trauma, more often than not, inflicted by other men. Of course, as one of millions of women who've had to endure unchecked male privilege, nauseating mansplaining, being paid less than male colleagues for the same work, sexual impropriety, walking through parking lots with keys laced through my fingers, being completely diminished, ignored, and charged more for just about everything, I have a somewhat difficult time feeling sorry for the apex predator. On the other hand, I honestly like men and I think it would benefit everyone if the broken ones seriously got their shit together. This is will not be an easy conversation for some of you to hear. If I somehow offend you with my feminist point of view, please know that I don't fucking care. (See list of justifiable complaints above). To find out more about Traver Boehm's work, the courses he offers, and his live workshops and retreats, go to manuncivilized.com You can find Traver online @traverboehm and see his TEDx talk here. If you occasionally get naked with men, and you want to take your pleasure and happiness to the next level, be sure to order a copy of my new book, 3 Secrets To The Happy and Healthy Relationship You've Always F*cking Wanted, an Amazon #1 New Release in Sexual Health. For every copy that's sold, I promise to buy myself an unsweetened iced tea. See? Everybody wins! Sex Ed The Musical is available on iTunes, Stitcher, Podtail, IHeartRadio, Podbay, Spotify and more. Please share and follow Sex Ed The Musical wherever you enjoy podcasts. Also, if you'd do us a solid and leave us a 5-Star Review on iTunes, we'd ever so gratefully appreciate it. Be sure to check out my writing on Medium.com here! If there's anything you'd like to hear on this show, or if you have any questions, feel free to email me at info@sexedthemusical.com Thanks, as always, for listening. See you next time!    

Traver Boehm knows men. How they think, what's behind their behavior, and most importantly — their unique challenges in the modern landscape.   Traver is the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, the fastest-growing men's movement in the world. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two-time TEDx speaker, men's coach, and podcaster.   Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguarding and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master's Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men's mental health and relationship difficulties.   Although he's not quite sure how to feel about the title, he has been dubbed, “The Man Whisperer” as he has the unique ability to speak to men in a way they can hear and understand.   In 2016 after losing a pregnancy, his marriage, and his business partnership all within weeks of each other, he created a radical year-long social experiment to answer the questions, “Who am I and who am I as a man?”    Highlights of the year include: Volunteering with the dying as a hospice worker Meditating for 28 days straight in complete isolation and pitch-black darkness in a Guatemalan hut Living in the frigid Utah wilderness for a month with only a knife, a water bottle, and a blanket   With a passion for people and a unique lens through which to view the human experience, Traver is a highly sought after teacher in the fields of consciousness, intimacy, and personal development.    When not teaching workshops or radically shifting the way men experience their masculinity, Traver can be found obsessing over a single word in front of his laptop, chasing surf around the globe, and being awful at yoga.   For more information please visit his website www.manuncivilized.com And find him on Instagram: @traverboehm And all podcast platforms at The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm     Don't forget to sign up for the Free Finding Peace Five-Day Challenge at www.troyllove.com    

Traver Boehm knows men. How they think, what's behind their behavior, and most importantly — their unique challenges in the modern landscape. Traver is the the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, the fastest growing men's movement in the world. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two time TEDx speaker, men's coach and podcaster. Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguard and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master's Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men's mental health and relationship difficulties. Although he's not quite sure how to feel about the title, he has been dubbed, “The Man Whisperer” as he has the unique ability to speak to men in a way they can hear and understand. Find Traver here; his website: https://www.manuncivilized.com/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/traverboehm

Ep 20: Traver Boehm is the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, the fastest growing men's movement in the world. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two time TEDx speaker, men's coach and podcaster. Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguard and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master's Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation - Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men's mental health and relationship challenges. In this episode, Traver talks about being thrust from a world of comfort and assumed security into the unknown, his personal social experiment, and departing from the “civilized” world in an effort to become a man living his purpose. He explains how men are handed a confusing, ever changing set of requirements to fit into modern culture and how to live an UNcivilized life where men can celebrate their strength, their leadership, and their power. Iron Sights podcast is hosted by Scott Howell. *Please make sure to leave a review if you enjoyed the podcast!

Episode 338: Traver Boehm – https://www.manuncivilized.com – knows men. How they think, what's behind their behavior, and most importantly — their unique challenges in the modern landscape. Traver is the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, the fastest growing men's movement in the world. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two time TEDx speaker, men's coach and podcaster.Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional body-guarding and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master's Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men's mental health and relationship difficulties.In the last episode, I had the opportunity to be interviewed by Traver Boehm, and for this one, we have changed spots. In this episode, Traver is here to talk to us about The UNcivilized Man Reclaim. You will hear and learn about primitivity, relationships, safety, and much more!Don't miss this episode and start to become the UNcivilized man this world needs.CREATIVITY IN LOVE: Discover more at https://maddy-moon.lpages.co/creativity-in-love/ SISU SOCIETY: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/feminine-spirit Show notes:Opinions like "I will rather be a sacred slut than an empire-building girl boss" can make women angry, thinking that we are against each other when it is not.As women, we are used to fighting for acceptance, which is exhausting. But -- we have nothing to prove to them.The inspiration behind The Uncivilized Man Movement is the primitive man dealing with unexpressed emotions and pain.One of Traver's passions is to help men connect their emotions and feelings to something bigger than themselves so that they can be a better person.Traver wants to thank every woman who's bought his book and spread his message.With power comes great responsibility, and being in a man's body does bring great power. In other words, don't apologize for being born as a man. Do something good with it.The Uncivilized Man Movement's mantra is to let others feel safe as you walk among them.Biology exists, and it needs to be recognized. For that reason, no matter how many books we read and how much money we make, our biology has to be tended to.What can we do for men? Encourage, celebrate and support them.All men have a green light and a red light inside of them.A couple fighting to be in the alpha role will cause harm to the relationship. As a result, it is going to be a power struggle and a pissing contest.For Traver, the depth of the word "safety" is something he had to learn by himself. Now, he helps men to comprise and create it.Traver Boehm is perplexed by the state of our culture. Right now, he feels people are digging their heels against the pendulum — a kind of middle ground unto itself."The women are the message spreaders of the world."Traver feels that as the dominant in the room, men are responsible for the women. That is to say, men must take care of them. Connect with Traver: Website: manuncivilized.comBuy Traver's book: https://www.manuncivilized.com/thebookInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/traverboehm/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAoPi5PeZKBcBb07yqdeOwQAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today's guest is so special and rapidly becoming one of my favourite humans. We're talking to Traver Boehm again today, originally featured for an epic conversation back on episode 266 - a personal favourite and one of the most powerful episodes on the entire Room To Grow™ Podcast. Never have I received an outpouring of so much incredible feedback about a guest episode, and ever since we mentioned back on episode 266 that we would record a second one, I've had DMs and text messages demanding to know when the new one was being released. As you can tell by the title, this is another casual chat about some super light topics, ha! This conversation will leave you better than before you started listening, if you allow it. It will challenge you to think differently, to see the world through a different lens, and to question the way you show up. It may or may not also be the first time a guest and I have BOTH cried on an episode, so you know it must be a good one.    Traver Boehm is an author of two books, 2 time TEDx Speaker, men's coach and founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, which is radically redefining the way men around the globe experience their masculinity by uniquely blending both primal elements of manhood with massive doses of consciousness. Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguarding and Mixed Martial Arts to Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver also teaches people to skillfully use the inevitable pain of their lives as fuel for growth and positive change. In 2016 after losing a pregnancy, his marriage, and his business partnership all within weeks of each other, he created a radical social experiment and spent the next 12 months as if it were his last year to live, aptly naming it “The Year to Live Project.” A few topics we cover today: How to have conversations with people that can be highly triggering as you step onto your own path, and embark on your own journey that may likely go against the grain for many others around you  The unique challenges that can come with those conversations, including the likelihood of losing a lot of relationships too Why you have to keep showing up with courage every single day if you're going to get to where you're going, whatever that might look like for you AND to hang on to the little moments that will continue to propel you forward even when everything else might feel dark. And so much more….   If you're a human, this is not an episode to be missed. Traver has a powerful mission around what it means to be a man, and this is a topic that affects all of us, no matter how you identify. I urge you to check out Traver's work. His fantastic podcast, both of his books, men's group and the various exciting projects he's always juggling at any given time are transformative, and more people need to know about him. Buckle up, tune in, and then go connect with Traver.   REFERENCES Episode 266: Not All Men, But Almost Always with Traver Boehm of Man UNcivilized Episode 117 | The 9 Year Affair: Lessons in Infidelity Episode 54 | My Story with Alcohol   CONNECT WITH TRAVER Website Instagram: @traverboehm UNcivilized Nation Book: Man UNcivilized Podcast: The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm TEDx Talk: How to Make Pain Your Guru TEDx Talk: Why We Need More UNcivilized Men   FIND EMILY ONLINE: IG: @emilygoughcoach info@emilygoughcoaching.com Emily Gough Coaching Room to Grow Podcast     Questions?  Comments? Want to connect and chat about this episode? You can email me at info@emilygoughcoaching.com, or DM me over on Instagram @emilygoughcoach or Facebook at Emily Gough Coaching.  I would absolutely love to connect with you and thank you for listening in real life and here any takeaways you had from this or other episodes!.  It makes me day to see you listening to the podcast and fills me up with pure joy. Seriously.  See you on the ‘gram! If Instagram and Facebook aren't your jam, send me a good old fashioned email!  info@emilygoughcoaching.com BRAND NEW EPISODES EVERY TUESDAY & THURSDAY

Episode 337: Traver Boehm - https://www.manuncivilized.com - knows men. How they think, what's behind their behavior, and most importantly — their unique challenges in the modern landscape. Traver is the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, the fastest growing men's movement in the world. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two time TEDx speaker, men's coach and podcaster. Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguarding and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master's Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men's mental health and relationship difficulties.In this episode, originally recorded as a live-class episode of Traver's podcast. Raw and unfiltered, Madelyn and Traver discuss artistry and generosity, purity culture, sensuality, how to make art in triggered moments, polarity, devotion, and healing the wounds that are keeping us at a distance from those we want to love and love well.COACHING: Discover more at https://maddymoon.com/coachingSISU SOCIETY: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/sisu-societyFEMININE SPIRIT SCHOOL: Join here: https://maddymoon.com/feminine-spiritShow Notes:Traver will also appear on Mind Body Musings soon.Speaking to an audience who may be unfamiliar with her, Madelyn discusses her study in yogic intimacy and her upbringing in purity culture.Purity culture is essentially slut-shaming at its core, wholesale denial of feminine sexuality.An extension of this is also the way that women speak of each other and their gender. "I'm not like most girls," or, "Don't worry; I'm not crazy."During her time in bodybuilding, Madelyn found that having been raised to believe and assume that men are "better" than women was contributing to her building physical armor around her emotional truth.Being unable to cope with the "curvature of life" manifested as OCD; living through an eating disorder manifested because of being unable to cope with the curvature of body.A woman revealing to her partner the part of her that is "lost," she is letting go of everything her body has been taught/forced/compelled to do.Being able to be sharp and then go into softness is part of the privilege of being a man.Richard Rudd - The Gene Keys - the highest form of love is to arrive just as you are, beyond the things you're into, beyond what you're practicing. "I don't need you to do anything." More Richard Rudd here: maddymoon.com/richard-rudd/Madelyn explores the concept of approaching dating as a practice - holding your body to transmit, "I'm open. I'm present."One of the primary masculine challenges - there's tremendous anger toward the feminine in the masculine."Entitlement is a big piece of what men need to work through."Three Stages of CommunicationBased on The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida – https://amzn.to/3i2REUUFirst Stage: Reactive, the way most people are interacting.When one feels triggered, repressive reaction, silent treatment, withholding love, punishing, spiritual bypassing.Second Stage: Everyone needs more of this - talk therapy, clear, "When you did X, I felt Y, and I desire ..."This is formatted and structured - very much in the masculine domain.Third Stage: revealing truth as a gift to our partner.Instead of an accusatory, "You always do this to me," transformed into a statement in the name of love, with love.Madelyn has worked on connecting to the part of her that's heartbroken. The heartbroken part is the same part that wants to be an offering."There's no part of heartbroken-ness that wants distance.The first step of elevating relationship into artistry: Recognize your complaint in the relationship.Madelyn is incubating the idea of some sort of show related to her work - polarity dating show? Let us know if you have any producer contacts!Connect with Madelyn: Facebook: https://facebook.com/moonfitness/Instagram: https://instagram.com/madelynmoon/Subscribe to the podcast on iTunes: http://maddymoon.com/itunesDownload my Four Favourite Feminine Embodiment Practices: https://maddymoon.com/freegiftAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Traver Boehm knows men. How they think, what's behind their behavior, and most importantly — their unique challenges in the modern landscape. Traver is the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, the fastest growing men's movement in the world. He is the author of ‘Today I Rise', and ‘Man UNcivilized' as well as a two time TEDx speaker, men's coach and podcaster. Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguarding and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master's Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men's mental health and relationship difficulties. Although he's not quite sure how to feel about the title, he has been dubbed, “The Man Whisperer” as he has the unique ability to speak to men in a way they can hear and understand. In 2016 after losing a pregnancy, his marriage, and his business partnership all within weeks of each other, he created a radical year long social experiment to answer the questions, “Who am I and who am I as a man?” Highlights of the year include: *Volunteering with the dying as a hospice worker *Meditating for 28 days straight in complete isolation and pitch-black darkness in a Guatemalan hut *Living in the frigid Utah wilderness for a month with only a knife, a water bottle, and a blanket With a passion for people and a unique lens through which to view the human experience, Traver is a highly sought after teacher in the fields of consciousness, intimacy, and personal development.  When not teaching workshops or radically shifting the way men experience their masculinity, Traver can be found obsessing over a single word in front of his laptop, chasing surf around the globe, and being awful at yoga. For more information please visit his website www.manuncivilized.com And find him on Instagram: @traverboehm And all podcast platforms at The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm Stay Connected!!! https://www.manuncivilized.com/ https://www.instagram.com/traverboehm/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAoPi5PeZKBcBb07yqdeOwQ The Airey Bros. IG @aireybros / https://www.instagram.com/aireybros/ https://www.blacksheependurance.com/podcast Premium Content : AB/DC Programming / B-Role & Mix Tapes / Accountability Coaching https://www.patreon.com/AireyBros Value for Value https://venmo.com/Richard-Airey https://venmo.com/Jimi-Airey https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=BHCAKFGH6TNF2

Traver Boehm is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized. He's a two time TEDx speaker, men's coach and the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement. This movement is radically redefining the way men around the globe experience their masculinity by uniquely blending both primal elements of manhood with massive doses of consciousness.Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguarding and Mixed Martial Arts to Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver also teaches people to skillfully use the inevitable pain of their lives as fuel for growth and positive change. In 2016 after losing a pregnancy, his marriage, and his business partnership all within weeks of each other, he created a radical social experiment and spent the next 12 months as if it were his last year to live, aptly naming it “The Year to Live Project.” A few of the experiences included volunteering as a hospice worker, spending 28 days in complete isolation and pitch black darkness in Guatemala, and Living in the frigid Utah wilderness for a month with only a knife, a water bottle, and a blanket. After publishing Today I Rise and receiving an influx of calls specifically from men, Traver began guiding men through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity by asking them these two questions: “Are you leading or being led?” And, “What are you wounds and what are you doing to heal them?”. When so many said this way of thinking and living was counterintuitive to how they were taught “civilized” men should act, the movement was born.Now men all over the world have deemed themselves UNcivilized as they wake up to meditate, feel into their hearts, and train their bodies. Men who can fight, fuck, feed, and feel. And do all four well. With a passion for people and a unique lens through which to view the human experience, Traver is a highly sought-after transformational coach in the fields of consciousness, relationship, and personal development. Some topics we cover in this conversation include: Why we fear hitting rock bottom Why we're wired to seek comfort vs. seek change How challenging situations allow us to become a new version of ourselves Why we are inclined to hit rock bottom before we make change The roles that denial & ego play in avoiding painful situations The power of choice How we get in our own way of going after the things we want in our lives How we create narratives for ourselves that unknowingly limit us Why we prefer to play the victim vs our own hero

In this episode, my guest Traver Boehm and I discuss how he uses stories to grow his movement. We explore: How he uses story to his advantage on Instagram when so many believe they can't tell a story on social media? What makes a great story? Who's one of his favorite storytellers of all time and why? What advice can he offer to help you become a better storyteller? What you will learn in this episode: Perseverance through pain Living in the now Redefine yourself Who is Traver? What would you do if you lost your marriage, unborn child, and business partner within weeks of each other? Traver, an author and two-time TEDx speaker confronted these issues and now teaches people to use the inevitable pain of their lives as fuel for positive change and growth. He's a men's coach and founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement. His eclectic background ranges from working as a professional bodyguard and mixed martial artist to practicing traditional Chinese medicine and meditation. Traver sees his mission is to change the culture of masculinity worldwide. He redefines the way men experience masculinity by uniquely blending primal elements of manhood with massive doses of consciousness. In 2016, after suffering several personal losses in a short period, he created a radical social experiment and spent a year living as if it were his last. During his time, he volunteered as a hospice worker for the dying, spent 28 days in Guatemala in complete isolation and darkness, and spent a month living in the Utah wilderness with nothing but a knife, blanket, and water bottle to keep him company. After publishing his book Today I Rise, the influx of feedback he received from other men compelled Traver to birth the seeds of his movement. Many told him his way of thinking and living was counterintuitive to how they've been conditioned to act as men. Now men globally have deemed themselves UNcivilized as they wake up to meditate, feel into their hearts, and train their bodies to fight, fuck, feed, and feel well. Find out all this and more on the premiere episode of the Storytelling School podcast! Links and Resources: Man UNcivilized The UNcivilized Podcast  @traverboehm on Instagram Storytelling School @storytellingschool on Instagram

Traver Boehm is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized. He's a two time TEDx speaker, men's coach and the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement. This movement is radically redefining the way men around the globe experience their masculinity by uniquely blending both primal elements of manhood with massive doses of consciousness. Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguarding and Mixed Martial Arts to Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver also teaches people to skillfully use the inevitable pain of their lives as fuel for growth and positive change. In 2016 after losing a pregnancy, his marriage, and his business partnership all within weeks of each other, he created a radical social experiment and spent the next 12 months as if it were his last year to live, aptly naming it “The Year to Live Project.” A few of the highlights of the year include: * Volunteering with the dying as a hospice worker * Spending 28 days in complete isolation and pitch black darkness in Guatemala  * Living in the frigid Utah wilderness for a month with only a knife, a water bottle, and a blanket

 After publishing Today I Rise and receiving an influx of calls specifically from men, Traver began guiding men through their own journey into an actualized version masculinity by asking them these two questions: “Are you leading or being led?” And, “What are you wounds and what are you doing to heal them?” When so many said this was of thinking and living was counterintuitive to how they were taught “civilized” men should act, the movement was born. Now men all over the world have deemed themselves UNcivilized as they wake up to meditate, feel into their hearts, and train their bodies. Men who can fight, fuck, feed, and feel. And do all four well.  When not teaching workshops or radically shifting the way men experience their masculinity, Traver can be found chewing on his thumbnail in front of his laptop, chasing surf around the globe, or being reminded that yoga is a lot harder than it looks. For more information please visit his website www.manuncivilized.com And find him on Instagram: @traverboehm And all podcast platforms at The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm Episode Themes: - Combining the primal and the divine in men - Anger vs. aggression - Being present to intuitive nudges - Emotional fluency in men - The uncivilized man - Deconstructing addiction - Integrity is all or nothing - Getting better with decision making

In the first of the 4 archetype series of interviews, Sophie speaks to Traver Boehm of the UNcivilized men's movement to understand what it means to be a warrior, especially in the modern world. They speak of the role of responsibility within community, sourcing the strength from within, and the shadow every man must face to become a true warrior. If you are a man looking to step into a more active role of strength in your life, this podcast is for you. Timestamps 02:48 Who is Traver Boehm? 05:16 Why the world needs more warriors 11:02 What makes a warrior, and its subtleties 14:21 Why the warrior must face his shadow 17:08 Why do we need the warrior during COVID-19 21:10 The role of responsibility within a community 24:01 Sourcing your strength within you 29:18 The journey of your own danger 33:05 How does the warrior show up to the feminine 41:58 His authenticity makes her feel safe 44:25How do you embody the warrior archetype? 51:06 Conclusion 52:44 Where to find Travar's work Traver Boehm is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized. He's a two time TEDx speaker, men's coach and the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement. This movement is radically redefining the way men around the globe experience their masculinity by uniquely blending both primal elements of manhood with massive doses of consciousness. Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguarding and Mixed Martial Arts to Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver also teaches people to skillfully use the inevitable pain of their lives as fuel for growth and positive change. For more information please visit his website www.manuncivilized.com And find him on Instagram: @traverboehm And all podcast platforms at The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm For more on Sophie Josephina, check out her work on instagram @sophie.josephina or www.sophiejosephina.com

“If the pressure is building so much and you're just trying to 'keep it all together', at some point it's going to crack.”- Traver BoehmTraver Boehm is the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, the fastest growing men's movement in the world. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two-time TEDx speaker, men's coach, and podcaster. Traver's approach challenges the stereotyped “Marlboro Man” we have been conditioned to believe is “masculine” and instead has men unpack the suppressed emotions that are dictating their unhealthy behaviors and destructive actions (that negatively affect all of us).I get it: If you're thinking that a men's movement is the LAST thing the world needs right now, I would have agreed with you 100%. I too was skeptical about two white guys talking about “men's work,” but I'm always willing to entertain different viewpoints if there is a clear benefit to society at large (standing desks and shorter work hours come to mind). And it doesn't take long for Traver to convince me that the men's work he is doing is vital to moving towards a more equitable and empathetic society for all genders, races, and other. During the course of this conversation, I even realized my Sunday ninja training group is actually my unofficial men's group (for which my wife will attest to the benefits!).Whether you self-identify as a man, or if you simply have men in your life, this episode will help you better understand what it means to be a “man” in today's society (and spoiler alert: It includes having real emotions and being able to express them honestly).Want to Hear More Episodes Like This One?» Click here to subscribe and never miss another episode Here's What You'll Learn:What is men's work?Where personal development falls short and what the missing piece is.The elephant in the room: why should we listen to two white guys talk about men's problems?Why it's important to look at trauma instead of suppressing it.How Traver got involved in men's work.Traver's story of hitting rock bottom.Two important questions he asked himself to change his situation.Why does it have to be a men's only group?Why my wife insists I train with my Ninja group every Sunday.The history of why men are culturally encouraged to suppress their emotions.Why men need a healthy release for the pressure they are under.The gender difference between acceptable emotions to express.Knowing when to be vulnerable and when to be strong.Is it true that a ‘happy wife equals a happy life'?Why all healthy relationships need conflict.The value in doing hard things.Useful Resources Mentioned:Man UNcivilizedThe Man UNcivilized BookThe UNcivilized Podcast with Traver BoehmContinue to Listen & LearnEp28: The Science Behind Depression and Anxiety | with Dr. D and Dr. Michael MarkEp175: Defining Your Own Version of Success & Overcoming the Loneliness of Being a Freelancer | with Michael BaumanHow I burned out as a burnout coach (and then bounced back)Dear Hollywood...We Create Entertainment For a Living. We're Not Curing Cancer.Dear Hollywood: We Don't Want to “Go Back to Normal." Normal Wasn't Working.Ep128: How to Have a Successful Career Without Sacrificing Family | with Farrel LevyEp149: How Modern Society Is Damaging Your Brain (and the Simple Steps to Reverse It) | with Dr. Dave JenkinsEp82: Real Talk About Mental Health and Depression | with Michael KammesEp01: Understanding the Link Between Creativity and Depression with Dr. Edison de MelloEp165: How to Overcome Doubting Yourself When You Know You're Meant For More | with Sandy Zimmerman, ANWEp161: Managing Limiting Beliefs, Imposter Syndrome, and all the “Chatter” In Our Heads | with Ethan KrossGuest Bio: Traver Boehm Traver Boehm is the founder of the UNcivilized Men's Movement, the fastest growing men's movement in the world. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two time TEDx speaker, men's coach and podcaster.Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguarding and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master's Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men's mental health and relationship difficulties.Although he's not quite sure how to feel about the title, he has been dubbed, “The Man Whisperer” as he has the unique ability to speak to men in a way they can hear and understand.With a passion for people and a unique lens through which to view the human experience, Traver is a highly sought after teacher in the fields of consciousness, intimacy, and personal development.When not teaching workshops or radically shifting the way men experience their masculinity, Traver can be found obsessing over a single word in front of his laptop, chasing surf around the globe, and being awful at yoga.Show Credits:This episode was edited by Curtis Fritsch, and the show notes were prepared by Debby Germino and published by Glen McNiel.The original music in the opening and closing of the show is courtesy of Joe Trapanese (who is quite possibly one of the most talented composers on the face of the planet).