ABCs of Parenting Adult Children

Listeners could gain insights into creating supportive spaces for neurodivergent individuals and feel encouraged to foster inclusivity and understanding within their own communities!Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren

Dr. Michael Jaquith is a Ph. D. Chemist who left the corporate world and now helps men everywhere discover how to get more of what they want and live the promise of abundant life. By combining analytical science, psychology, and the time honored teachings of the Faith, Michael helps men who feel stuck, confused, and powerless to unlock those chains and find what they really want. Michael is married with six children and lives in rural northern Idaho.

Best Selling Author of You're on Fire, It's Fine: Effective Strategies for Parenting Teens with Self-Destructive BehaviorsWant to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren

But anyway so Tell the listening audience a little bit about yourself Sure, absolutely. So I also run a podcast called faith over addiction where we address Women who are supporting those who are struggling with addictionSo we are looking at the families who are helping their loved ones and hopefully not doing unhelpful help, but we also look at the identity of the person who's trying to help their identity in Christ and not losing that identity as they help the person that's struggling. I got you. Addiction is a recurring theme in many of thepodcast episode because we have both parents that are struggling with addiction and then we've got young people, young adults, teenagers that are struggling with addiction and all the complications that come along with that. my purpose, my vision, my dream for this podcast episode and for the private Facebook support group I have for parents is toto bring redemption and hope and support and help and all of those things to the parents that are listening. so I appreciate you being here and I appreciate you having a podcast that deals with these issues. so tell us a little bit more about your podcast and a little bit more about your experience. If you've had experience with addiction or if you had loved ones that were struggling with it.and how you work through all that. Absolutely. Well, I appreciate you, James, and that I get the opportunity to speak because it is it's really it's really a subject that as Americans, everybody I haven't run into anybody who doesn't either have a family member or is a friend of someone who is struggling with some level of addiction. And we're not just talking about drugs and alcohol. We're also talking about gaming, phones, pornography.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren

Hello and welcome to ABC's of Parenting Adult Children podcast. My name is James Moffitt and I'll be your host. Today we have a special guest speaker, Shane Jacob of Horsemanship Journey. Shane, thank you for being here with us and take a few moments to introduce yourself to listening audience. Yeah, James, thank you so much. I appreciate the opportunity to be on your show. I appreciate your show. I've had a chance to listen to it as of late andand I'm all about parenting. thought parenting was over when my kids turned 18, but I was sadly mistaken or pleasantly mistaken. came to find out it was kind of a shock in the beginning, yeah, made some decisions as a young adult in my teens and early 20s that led to a pretty destructive cycle that I was stuck in and addiction to alcohol fora long period of time and I caused a lot of pain and a lot of trauma and a lot of really permanent damage to people, a lot of people. And at some point later when I was finally, when I could finally break free from the cycle that I felt like I was stuck in for so long, eventually I looked back and I said, a lot of us have said, I said, I wish I would have known now, you know, known then what I know now.And, that's kind of what led me to, develop our stable living coaching, which is, we use principles that horses demonstrate to, really to help teams know what I didn't know and to set them up for a life of, hopefully less pain and, more accomplishment. Right. one of the reoccurring themes in our podcast episodes is.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren

As a recovering perfectionist and overachiever who grew up in the 90s, I became a psychotherapist and founded my therapy practice with a mission of helping young adults navigate the many life transitions and challenges that come up in our 20s and 30s. I love talking about the origins of perfectionism and overachieving, why they are so rampant in this generation, What makes these patterns so detrimental, and most importantly how to recover and live a happy, fulfilled life.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren

In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt, along with co-hosts Katie Moffitt and Christopher Scott Wyatt, delve into the complexities of parenting neurodiverse children. They discuss the challenges faced in special education, the evolution of autism diagnoses, and the importance of empathy and support in education. The conversation highlights the struggles of parents navigating the education system while advocating for their children, the hereditary nature of autism, and the pressing issues of teacher shortages in special education. This conversation delves into the challenges faced by autistic individuals in educational settings, the critical role parents play in supporting their children, and the need for realistic expectations and inclusive practices. The speakers emphasize the importance of engaging learning experiences and the necessity of moving beyond mere awareness of autism to foster true inclusion in classrooms and workplaces.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren

In this episode, Dr. Jack discusses the complexities of parenting adult children, particularly focusing on the challenges of 'failure to launch.' He emphasizes the shared responsibility between parents and young adults in the launching process, the cultural differences in perceptions of independence, and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. The conversation also touches on mental health issues, addiction, and the need for long-term planning for young adults. Dr. Jack provides insights into the myths surrounding parenting and the emotional challenges faced by parents, while also highlighting the joys of grandparenting.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren

In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children I talk about what it is like for a parent to be the victim of Parenting Alienation. I also talk about how it affects the children. Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren

In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with parenting coach Megan Ford about the importance of building solid relationships through positive parenting. They discuss the challenges parents face, the role of alloparenting, and the significance of breaking generational cycles. Megan emphasizes the four S's of healthy attachment—safety, being seen, being soothed, and being secure—and the need for parents to seek help from coaches to improve their parenting skills. The conversation also touches on the impact of technology on parenting and the stigma surrounding seeking help.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren

In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with financial expert Jasper Smith about the importance of financial literacy, communication in financial matters, and strategies to disrupt generational poverty. They discuss the significance of teaching financial responsibility to children, the psychological aspects of debt, and the necessity of having open conversations about finances in relationships. Jasper shares his journey into financial planning and emphasizes the need for accountability and progress in achieving financial goals.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren

In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with Angela Clement, a certified grief coach, about the journey of healing after loss. They share personal stories of grief, explore the concept of energy healing, and discuss the importance of self-care and community support in navigating the grieving process. Angela emphasizes that grief is a natural process that can lead to transformation and finding joy again, while also addressing the differences between mourning and grief. The conversation highlights the significance of honoring one's emotions and the legacy of loved ones lost.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren

Robert is an entrepreneur, author, pastor dedicated to encouraging others through the word of God. His passion is to help people grow to their full potential. Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17344706883911750274b04cb

Lynette talks about being a caregiver and how important it is to practice self care. We discuss marriage and family dynamics. We discuss the importance of extended grace to yourself as you transition into being a caregiver.Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17344706883911750274b04cb

I wrote a book called "Dancing in the Rain" which is a memoir about my brother and I and our challenging relationship most of our lives.  I learned about his trauma about 3 years before his passing.  Once I learned of this trauma from him, it helped me have more compassion for his journey through addiction and allowed us to reconnect prior to his passing. Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17344706883911750274b04cb

Blending social science, stories, and activities, her writing unpacks tricky stuff that surfaces during childhood and adolescence. She has a Master's Degree in Social Sciences and a knack for writing about complex topics in ways that connect with kids and teens Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17344706883911750274b04cb

Daniela helps stressed and burnt-out professionals ditch the guilt and overwhelm, and productively manage their time and daily tasks with ease, so they have the space and energy for self-care every day! Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children? Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17344706883911750274b04cb

Unmasking the Voice Within: Stephanie Michelle on Embracing Mental Health and Finding Purpose

Dr Kimberly Harms joins us for todays episode. Dr Harms says the following: My goal is to help people understand the importance of showing their love for their families by setting them up for success through comprehensive legacy planning and grief and conflict management. I have witnessed death up close many times throughout my life. I suffered the loss of my mother and my son to suicide and, eventually, my husband from a broken heart. These events shaped my views on finding meaning in grief, and I set out on a mission to end the stigma around end-of-life planning.  

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In this episode we will talk about tips for a harmonious celebration during the holidays with our adult children. I will be sharing a 90 second video from Richard Jones and 2ndstarts.com recovery program.

Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers is a sex and gender feminist psychotherapist, professor emerita, and author of two best selling books Shameless Parenting - Everything You Need to Raise Shame-Free, Confident Kids & Heal Your Shame Too! and "Sex, God and the Conservative Church – Erasing Shame from Sexual Intimacy."

Coach Josh Wood is our guest speaker from Tasmania Australia. Josh Wood's Ted Talk on Six Habits to Eat Like an Adult is full of encouraging and positive ideas on how to lose weight.

Jodianne Smith joins me today on our episode about Young Navigation. Jodianne Smith is 24 and she brings a unique perspective to the journey from being a teenager to becoming a young adult and how to navigate those challenges. You will not want to miss this episode.

Join us as we listen to Richard Jones of 2nd Start Recovery Program talk about his new book and the program he runs for young adults and their family. He has a unique program designed to help young adults and their families find healing and hope.

In episode 24 I talk with Valerie Sagheddu about the importance of setting boundaries for our adult children. Valerie Sagheddu (SAH-GAY-DEW) is an award-winning, international speaker, coach, and inner healing minister. She is the mother of three adult children and currently expecting her fifth grandchild. Valerie is the owner and founder of “The Divinely Designed Life” and creator of the “Peace After Parenthood”  workshop, where she helps others learn how to live in greater peace, power, and purpose so they can be a mighty force for good in their families, communities and the world.

In Episode 23 I review our FaceBook Support group and two addiction support recovery programs called 2ndStart and Throughtheglass. I review the parenting journey document for people who might be interested in sharing their parenting journey with others.

On this episode I share two articles that I read on Medium.com that I thought was appropriate for our Facebook Parenting Support group as well as my podcast listeners here. I also talk about the Parenting Story Questionaire and went over the questions. We all have a unique story to tell that will encourage other parents.

Join us in Episode 21 as Roy Harmon and I talk about our parenting stories. I have known Roy and his family since 2015 and count him as a dear friend.

In episode 20 we talk about adult children and destructive behavior towards parents. Self car, compassion and grace are necessary for parents to find peace in the eye of the storm.

In episode 19 we will discover what it means to be an empty nester and the stages that parents will go through as they transition from being parents to being mentors.

Episode 18 covers Parenting Adult Children information I found at The Hartford Website. This information covers an entire range of information and some of this I have already reviewed on previous podcast episodes. There are several clickable links that you can review for further reference material. I hope you find it helpful.

Todays episode will examine what it means to experience the return of your young adults back home. Life is hard and sometimes the young adult needs a second chance in a safe place where they can reboot and learn how to start over. Towards the end of the episode you will hear my daughters dog barking as she returned home. Please forgive me for that.

Our guest speaker is Stephen Knapp with Through the Glass Recovery. Stephen talks about his recovery journey from alcohol addiction and his marriage relationship and how it affected his children.

In episode 15 we will discover how children are affected during divorce. We will discuss what happens during the divorce and after the divorce. Children are affected by divorce the most. This episode will exam ways in which we can mimimize the affects of divorce on the children.

Today we explore what it means to be living in a crisis and how that brings us to a turning point. We can chose to do this or that or nothing at all. Angie Mizzell with Hello Friday provides the content for this episode that we will explore.

Episode 13 is with Richard Jones who is an RN and runs 2ndstarts addiction recovery program for young adults and parents. He talks about his experiences with young adults who were incarcerated and dealing with addiction issues. Richard shares how parents and young adults struggling with addictions can be part of this program.

Julie Miller is an addictions recovery coach and podcaster from Colorado. After a decade of being addicted to alcohol, she found her way into recovery and is now thriving. Her recovery is founded in overcoming shame, finding her authentic self, and creating a life so full there's no space left for alcohol. Through her coaching, podcasting, and the recovery community she is working to build, Julie has found her purpose in helping others find their way out of addictionand into a meaningful, purpose filled life of freedom. You can find Julie at Through the Glass Recovery: throughtheglassrecovery.com and on instagram at https://www.instagram.com/create.a.life.so.full/  The podcast episode I reference about family members supporting their loved ones can be found here: https://throughtheglassrecovery.com/podcast/supporting-loved-one-addiction/  -- Julie Miller & Steve Knapp Hosts,Through the Glass Recovery Podcast throughtheglassrecovery@gmail.com throughtheglassrecovery.com

In today's episode I talk to the audience about how parents can have unrealistic expectations when it comes to relationships. I talk about co dependency and how we can be guilty of being helicopter parents. All ways hovering near by and resucing them from danger.

In episode 10 I talk about my being adopted in Germany by a military family. I talk about my childhood and how it affected my parenting skills as a young parent. I talk about losing a child to cancer when they were 10 years old. I talk about our FB parenting support group. I invite parents to be a guest speaker and share their story to encourage others.

Teaching our young adults sound money management skills will go a long way to financial stability. Enabling bad money decisions should not happen.

In episode 8 we talk about the delicate balance between support and indepedence. Allowing adult children to develop their independence, both emotionally and financially.

In episode 7 we explore 10 new topics for upcoming episodes. As I talked about each topic I gave a brief explanation of the importance of each topic and how it is relevant to us as parents and our adult children. I spoke about healthy boundaries, healthy relationships between parents. How it is important to model a healthy marriage to our children. I spoke about the importance of money management.

Today's episode is about enforcing healthy boundaries with your young adults. Our children will always be regarded as our offspring however they are now young adults and we must treat them as such. Sometimes we have to show our young adults tough love.

In this episode I talk about parents of adult children and the importance of self help. The importance of healing. The importance of being centered. The importance of finding the resources you need for healing. The importance of therapy. I also discuss different topics that we want to explore in future episodes. I want the episodes to resonate with parents and be relevant to their situations. I want to communicate that there is hope for everyone in our group.

Erick Erickson, 8 stages of development part 2. In the last segment, I went through the first four stages of Erick Erickson's Psychosocial Developement. In this segment I will go voer the next four stages which are: Adolescence, Young Adulthood, Middle Adulthood and Maturity.

Today I am going to be diving into the world of Erik Erickson and his theory when it comes to psychosocial development. There are 8 stages in the Psychosocial Development that Erickson developed. Unlike other theories, Erickson focuses on social and emotional factors that influence an individual's psychological growth throughout the life span.

In this episode we talk about how important it is to have a healthy relationship with our partner before we bring children into the family. Husband and wife are the family foundation. If the marriage relationship is healthy then raising your children will be easier. It is not going to be without its challenges however. Join with us as we explore these topics in future podcasts.

This is an introduction to the Adult Children and tough love podcast.