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Thomas E. Brown, Ph.D., discusses a form of social anxiety common in teens and young adults with ADHD — a fear of being embarrassed in social situations, or anxiety about how others may perceive them. Learn how to recognize and support teens who harbor such fears. Social Anxiety: Additional Resources Free Download: Social Anxiety Facts and Falsehoods Self-Test: Social Anxiety Test for Teens Read: “Help! My Child Won't Go to School.” Read: You're Not Shy or Stuck Up. You Have Social Anxiety Disorder. Read: 6 Cognitive Distortions That Fuel Anxiety in ADHD Brains Access the video and slides for podcast episode #551 here: https://www.additudemag.com/webinar/social-anxiety-children-teens-treatments/ Thank you for listening to ADDitude's ADHD Experts podcast. Please consider subscribing to the magazine (additu.de/subscribe) to support our mission of providing ADHD education and support.
In This Episode You Will Learn About: Using daily affirmations to BOOST your confidence. Adapting and asking for help when life throws curveballs. How play and imagination get you to your FULL potential. Resources: Website: https://lesbrown.com/ Read: You've Got To Be HUNGRY: The GREATNESS Within to Win Instagram: @thelesbrown Twitter/X: @LesBrown77 Get 50% off your first box plus free shipping at factormeals.com/confidence50off with code confidence50off. Get 10% off your first Mitopure order at timeline.com/CONFIDENCE. Download the CFO's Guide to AI and Machine Learning at NetSuite.com/MONAHAN Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code CONFIDENCE to get UP TO $300 off today. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/monahan Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster at RocketMoney.com/CONFIDENCE. Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553! Visit heathermonahan.com Reach out to me on Instagram & LinkedIn Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/ Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com If you haven't yet, get my first book, Confidence Creator Show Notes: In this interview, a year in the making, world-renowned speaker, author, and teacher Les Brown joins Heather today to discuss living life on purpose. He shares his wisdom on overcoming daily challenges, living without regrets, and making an impact. He also lays out his methods for transforming your mindset, upgrading your skills, and presenting yourself to achieve your highest potential. Les is a man who practices what he preaches and will inspire you to forget mediocrity and act now.
The holiday season can put a lot of strain on relationships. In fact, did you know that January is considered "divorce month"? Relationships break down for so many reasons during this time. Today we have a special episode for the Outlouder (or a person in your life) who might be going through some relationship things right now, because you're not alone.. even the celebrities are going through it! In this episode, we unpack a celebrity divorce dilemma about the labor imbalance that can occur for women in their households. Whether or not a couple or both parents can both have "big" careers, the concept of the lead parent and how that role often falls on women. Plus, how does a relationship change when a baby enters the equation? It's a conversation that you will definitely want to hear. The End Bits: Listen: The Breakup Text We Got This Week Listen: Listener Dilemma: Escort On A Bucks Night Read: January is 'divorce month'. Here’s why relationships fall apart at this time of the year. Read: You're not imagining things, there's a reason why so many celebrity couples are breaking up. Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts Sign up to the Mamamia Out Loud Newsletter for all our recommendations and behind-the-scenes content in one place. GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We’re listening. Send us an email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud CREDITS: Hosts: Holly Wainwright, Mia Freedman & Jessie Stephens Producer: Emeline Gazilas Audio Producer: Leah Porges Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Did you know that this time of year is when couples therapists are booked out? Can't think why... But it's for this reason that we have today's little treat — an episode which Mia Freedman wanted to share with you all from No Filter. David Finch is a lot of things: he’s an Autism and Neurodiversity consultant, the author of The Journal of Best Practices; A Memoir of Marriage, Asperger Syndrome, and One Man’s Quest to Be a Better Husband, an essayist for the New York Times Modern Love column…and he’s also UNmarried. In this two-part special episode of No Filter, David Finch opens up to Mia about his life before and after his Asperger’s syndrome diagnosis, his quest to be the best husband and father he could be — and how he ended up UNmarried (and what that even means). You can hear the second half of Mia's conversation with David here. Support independent women's media You can find David’s books and essays here. Learn more about neurodivergent relationships here. Follow David on Instagram here. What To Read: Read: More People Are Being Diagnosed With Neurodiversity than Ever. Here’s why it’s a good thing. Read: I was diagnosed autistic at 45. Here are 6 things I want you to know. Read: Me and my husband were more like roommates than a couple. One conversation changed everything.' Read: "You keep your identities separate." 8 signs you're in the right relationship. THE END BITS: Listen to more No Filter interviews here and follow us on Instagram here.Discover more Mamamia podcasts here.Feedback: podcast@mamamia.com.auShare your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message, and one of our Podcast Producers will come back to you ASAP.Rate or review us on Apple by clicking on the three dots in the top right-hand corner, click Go To Show then scroll down to the bottom of the page, click on the stars at the bottom and write a review. CREDITS:Host: Mia Freedman You can find Mia on Instagram here and get her newsletter here. Executive Producer: Naima Brown Audio Producer: Leah PorgesMamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Subscribe to Mamamia Do you have a friend you love, but somehow, they never ever make the grid? Are you that friend? We unpack the new politics of social media friendship. Also, the most ridiculously wonderful (and VERY spicy) TV show of the year, an interview that made Jessie Stephens swoon and Em's 20-minute face routine. It's recommendations. And, our Bests & Worsts of the week which include writing mistakes and what they reveal about you, an accolade from the incomparable Anne Stephens (the woman to blame for Jessie and Clare Stephens!) and…. sitting down. What To Listen To Next: Listen to our latest episode: Polls, Vibes & Trump's Work Experience Day Listen: It's Time To Unpack ‘Nobody Wants This' Listen: Mia Re-thinks Her Relationship With Social Media Listen to Em Vernem on Things You Didn't Learn In School Listen to Em Vernem on You Beauty Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts RECOMMENDATIONS: Jessie wants you to listen to Andrew Garfield Modern Love Holly wants you to watch Rivals - Disney+ Em wants you to try Trinny London Cleansing Balm Sign up to the Mamamia Out Loud Newsletter for all our recommendations and behind-the-scenes content in one place. Want to try our new exercise app? Click here to start a seven-day free trial of MOVE by Mamamia What to Read: Read: HOLLY WAINWRIGHT: 'For me, sobbing in a tent was the first sign.' Read: 'The $40 outfit that got more compliments than my most expensive looks.' Read: 'I'm a dermal clinician and here's the $25 serum I buy on repeat for juicy skin.' Read: You're either going to love or hate this summer shoe trend. GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We're listening. Send us an email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud CREDITS: Hosts: Holly Wainwright, Jessie Stephens & Em Vernem Executive Producer: Ruth Devine Senior Producer: Emeline Gazilas Audio Production: Leah Porges Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
2nd SET ergänzt die regulären Folgen um spezielle Themen, die in größerer Detailtiefe beleuchtet werden. Dieses Mal geht es um kein Fachthema, sondern Moritz Bürger (VC), Michael Kuppe und Thorsten Raue (beide GdF) erzählen, wie der READ YOU 5 Podcast entstanden ist, sich entwickelt hat und wie die Folgen produziert werden. Wen Nostalgie und Hintergründe nicht interessieren, dem seien die letzten 5 Minuten empfohlen, in denen ein Ausblick auf geplante Folgen und ein kleiner Einblick in die Facharbeit der beiden Berufsverbände gegeben wird. Schreibt uns gerne, was ihr von dieser 2nd SET Folgen haltet oder eure Fragen an podcast@readyoufive.de.
You can hear the second half of Mia's conversation with David here. Subscribe to Mamamia David Finch is a lot of things: he's an Autism and Neurodiversity consultant, the author of The Journal of Best Practices; A Memoir of Marriage, Asperger Syndrome, and One Man's Quest to Be a Better Husband, an essayist for the New York Times Modern Love column…and he's also UNmarried. In this two-part special episode of No Filter, David Finch opens up to Mia Freedman about his life before and after his Asberger's syndrome diagnosis, his quest to be the best husband and father he could be…and how he ended up UNmarried (and what that even means). You can find David's books and essays here. Learn more about neurodivergent relationships here. Follow David on Instagram here. What To Read: Read: More People Are Being Diagnosed With Neurodiversity than Ever. Here's why it's a good thing. Read: I was diagnosed autistic at 45. Here are 6 things I want you to know. Read: Me and my husband were more like roommates than a couple. One conversation changed everything.' Read: "You keep your identities separate." 8 signs you're in the right relationship. THE END BITS: Listen to more No Filter interviews here and follow us on Instagram here.Discover more Mamamia podcasts here.Feedback: podcast@mamamia.com.auShare your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message, and one of our Podcast Producers will come back to you ASAP.Rate or review us on Apple by clicking on the three dots in the top right-hand corner, click Go To Show then scroll down to the bottom of the page, click on the stars at the bottom and write a review. CREDITS:Host: Mia Freedman You can find Mia on Instagram here and get her newsletter here. Executive Producer: Naima Brown Audio Producer: Leah PorgesMamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sheikha Bodour bint Sultan Al Qasimi, Founder and Honorary President of the Emirates Publishers Association (EPA), has launched the ‘Read You're in Sharjah' campaign. The campaign aims to set up reading areas in historical places around Sharjah and have events to encourage people to pick up a book. This is all part of Sharjah's efforts to strengthen its status as a cultural hub in the Arab world. Listen to #Pulse95Radio in the UAE by tuning in on your radio (95.00 FM) or online on our website: www.pulse95radio.com ************************ Follow us on Social. www.instagram/com/pulse95radio www.facebook.com/pulse95radio www.twitter.com/pulse95radio
Overview: Listening well is super hard in today's culture, so how do we do it better? Tune in to this week's episode to hear what the leading researcher on listening tells us and to discover a few ways to think differently about how you're showing up as a listener.What you'll learn in this episode: Dick Bass: A modern day parable that warns us about the perils of not listening well Why listening has become a hard thing to practice The one thing we do that sabotages our listening What you can do to develop the habit of listening and become a better storyteller Find out more: Dive deeper with my guide, "The Habits of Storytelling," available at storyhousefifteen.com, offering 20 helpful questions to help you find and tell great brand stories.Resources mentioned in this episode: Read "You're not Listening," by Kate Murphy Download The Habits of Story at Storyhouse Fifteen STORYHOUSE is a production of Storyhouse Fifteen, a strategic coaching and branding studio that helps small business owners and do-good organizations find the clarity, the story, and the strategy to reach more people and grow their impact. Find Lindsay at storyhousefifteen.com or connect with her on LinkedIn.
Subscribe to Mamamia It's the missing husband case that's gone viral... Ashley McGuire asked the internet for help to locate her husband after he disappeared without a trace a year ago, and we have some very strong thoughts. Plus, do you have someone to feed your cat? Your answer has a lot to say about your friendships. And, the court case over a Ladies Lounge exhibition in a Tasmanian art museum that is making some people very uncomfortable. The End Bits: Listen to last week's episode: Followed Home & The Voice In Her Ear: The Times We Trusted Our Gut Listen: The Spill Listen: No Filter - Annie Knight Read: When Ashley asked the internet to help find her 'missing' husband, something incredible happened. Read: You have every right to feel outraged about this. Sign up to the Mamamia Out Loud Newsletter for all our recommendations and behind-the-scenes content in one place. Want to try our new exercise app? Click here to start a seven-day free trial of MOVE by Mamamia GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We're listening. Leave us a voicememo or email us at outloud@mamamia.com.au Tell us what you really think so we can give you more of what you really want. Fill out this survey and you'll go in the running to win one of five $100 gift vouchers. Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud CREDITS: Hosts: Mia Freedman, Jessie Stephens & Emily Vernem Producer: Emeline Gazilas Assistant Production: Tahli Blackman Audio Producer: Leah Porges Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
As I watch my girls grow and navigate the school system, it strikes me that today's education is lacking in actually helping our kids grow into healthy adulthood. But this isn't a new topic. Today's clip of Ken Robinson, pulled from a talk nearly 20 years old, shows that he seems to feel the same way. He points out the unpredictability of the future, even though we educate our kids as though we know exactly what the world will hold for them. Instead, we need to create space for them to use their unique gifts and authentically be themselves. Show links: Watch the full clip. Learn more at sirkenrobinson.com. Read You, Your Child, and School: Navigate Your Way to the Best Education and Imagine If…: Creating a Future for Us All. As always, I'd love to hear from you! Subscribe, leave a review, or follow PG-ish on IG @pgishparenting, or you can always find me at www.pgishparenting.com.
Episode 108 features Eric Smith a literary agent and author, who has written books of all kinds and represented all kinds of authors. He's here to discuss the publishing industry, his writing process, reading habits, and much much more... Throughout the conversation, we discuss: Literary Agent Author Publishing Traditional Media Reading Young Adult Fiction Decision Making Juggling Priorities The Writing Process Musicals Books And much more Mentioned and Helpful Links from This Episode EricSmithRocks.com AgentPalmer.com Tweets @AgentPalmer @ericsmithrocks @ThePalmerFiles Other Links Odds' Crash the Time Machine Reminiscent of ‘Cheerleader,' Eels, and Cars Rocket Men Defines Apollo 11 Mission Better Than Anything Else I've Read You can also hear more Palmer occasionally on Our Liner Notes, a musical conversation podcast with host Chris Maier or as co-host of The Podcast Digest with Dan Lizette. Music created and provided by Henno Heitur of Monkey Tongue Productions. --End Show Notes Transmission--
Welcome to Episode 137 of the Being Human Podcast: Demonic Real Talk This week, Dr. Greg gets real about the dangers involved with demonic fascination! Breaking open the risks involved with receiving unfiltered information about the workings of the devil, he offers principles to ponder when considering what kind of content is spiritually healthy to consume. Highlights from the episode: The increase in content on social media on topics related to the demonic and our call to steward our attention well; The danger of opening our minds and hearts to unfiltered information about the demonic; Fascination with and curiosity about the supernatural as a common proclivity; How content related to the demonic can affect our minds and hearts and thwart our experience of peace; God's plan of love for us and tactics the devil uses to draw us away from living out that plan; The importance of holding together our unique subjective experience with objective truth; How the devil sows doubt in our hearts by tempting us to separate our subjective reality from objective truth; The importance of discerning whether the content we immerse ourselves in helps us grow in the peace of God. Resources mentioned or relevant: The Mindful Catholic: Finding God One Moment at a Time (book); Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat; Read “Brother Ass” or Masterpiece: How Do You View Your Body? (blog article); Read You're No Angel, But Neither Am I (blog article); Episode #30: Coffee Talk: What If I'm Afraid to Dream? (Being Human podcast episode); Need help? Schedule a free consultation call with someone on our team to discuss how we can support you; Learn about IDDM (Mentorship), our new model of accompaniment; Sign up for Being Human, our weekly newsletter, to stay up to date on the exciting developments at CatholicPsych; Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available; Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, the Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat, courses, prayer resources, and more; Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to every course Dr. Greg has created, plus the opportunity to participate in Integrated LIVE's - weekly, Mentor hosted Q&As covering topics like boundaries, communication, trauma, forgiveness, and more! Join the waitlist to be notified about our next Open House to learn more about the new CPMAP certification! Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at beinghuman@catholicpsych.com - we would love to hear from you! Rate, review, and subscribe Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends. Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings. For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose “write a review.” Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven't already, make sure to subscribe so you don't miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!
Welcome to Episode 136 of the Being Human Podcast: How To Know If Your Anxiety Is More Spiritual or Emotional This week, Dr. Greg dives into an exploration of the interplay between our spiritual and emotional lives while breaking open how St. Ignatius of Loyola's rules of discernment can help us to distinguish between spiritual and non-spiritual anxiety! Highlights from the episode: Anxiety as a complex experience that requires a holistic approach; Distinguishing between symptoms of an anxiety disorder, anxiety about everyday life, and the anxiety of losing Jesus; Using the discernment of spirits as proposed by St. Ignatius of Loyola as a guide to knowing how to address anxiety; Spiritual vs. non-spiritual desolation and consolation and the importance of distinguishing between the two; How non-spiritual factors can affect our spiritual life; Ruminations, incessant or intrusive thinking, and loss of sleep as symptoms of anxiety disorder; Distinguishing between the need for therapy versus a need to learn how to trust God more; Catholic mindfulness as a helpful way to reduce anxiety. Resources mentioned or relevant: The Mindful Catholic by Dr. Greg Bottaro; More on the Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat; Read You're No Angel, But Neither Am I (blog article); Listen to Episode #128: Can I Just Pray It Away? (A Mentorship Message); Listen to Episode #18: Should You Just “Pray More”?; Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to access all of Dr. Greg's courses, including his Catholic Mindfulness 2: Discernment of Spirits course! Need help? Schedule a free consultation call with someone on our team to discuss how we can support you; Learn about IDDM (Mentorship), our new model of accompaniment; Sign up for Being Human, our weekly newsletter, to stay up to date on the exciting developments at CatholicPsych; Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available; Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, courses, prayer resources, and more; Join the waitlist to be notified about our next Open House to learn more about the new CPMAP certification! Contact us! Have a topic or a question you would like Dr. Greg to address on the podcast? Want to give some feedback about this episode? Email us at beinghuman@catholicpsych.com - we would love to hear from you! Rate, review, and subscribe Please help us in our mission to integrate the Faith with Psychology by hitting subscribe and also sharing this podcast with your friends. Please consider rating or leaving a review of our show. It helps us reach other Catholics just like you who want to become more integrated, whole, and happy human beings. For Apple podcasts, click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate 5 stars, and choose “write a review.” Then type your sincere thoughts about the show! If you haven't already, make sure to subscribe so you don't miss out on any episodes. Subscribe to the podcast now!
It's a very well known fact that good daily actions create success. Why? Because the more you pay attention to certain things in your business, the better you can control and adjust them. I am going to talk about 5 things in particular today that, if you focus on them every single day, will make you become a better VA. 1 Money You need to look at your money every day. Sales, account balances, payments, expenses. Whether you do complicated reporting or not, if you don't know how much money you have coming in and going out, you aren't actually managing your business. Checking your sales helps you to see what's coming in of course, but it also help you to see opportunities to earn more. A daily revenue tracking sheet can help you see how much opportunity you might be leaving on the table. Even if all of your clients pay you on the 1st of the month, look at the rest of those days ... where could you squeeze some more projects in to increase what you bring in? Maybe you just have an opportunity to start a new client mid-month and renew their payment later in the month. It is nice to have money coming in more often during any given month, not everyone needs to be billed on the 1st or 31st. Checking your account balances is always important because it keeps your money top of mind. If you don't have enough, it reinforces that you need to do some connecting or finding clients work. Like, right now. 100% priority. Nothing else is more important for you to do than get a client. Looking at your payments helps so see what has gone out, and what still has to go out. Cash flow is critical in business. Monitoring your expenses is similar to watching your payments, but it goes a step farther because you are looking at things you have determined are necessary to pay for to in order to run your business. When you are looking at your expenses, you are always looking to see if they are still required, whether they are enough, or whether you should be taking on a new one. Your VA business costs money to run, and when you manage your expenses well, you can automate and get more done among many other things. I can help you create simple checklists and tracking sheets to do this daily. Daily money checks don't take more than five or ten minutes. Schedule it in! 2 Goals You know I tell you that what you focus on grows. well someone once said that and I know it to be true. You must focus on your goals if you are going to achieve them. What I mean by that is checking in on your goals every day. Look at what you say you want to be/do/have. Look at where you are in the process of reaching it. Look how far you have come from the start. When I teach VAs to set goals, I also teach them to break the action steps to reach that goal down into very small manageable pieces, and then put those action steps into the calendar every single day. I watch VAs who fail at goal setting (or rather reaching their goal) every single day, and I wholeheartedly believe that it doesn't mean anything about you as a business owner (like you're not a bad one). It has everything to do with your plan for your action steps. Here's what I mean: I see VAs set a goal. Then I see them put their goal absolutely dead last, behind client work, behind the family calendar or needs, and maybe even behind their day job. They book in 2 or 3 hours on Sunday night to 'work on' their goal. Sounds great but it actually sucks as a plan. Why? Because when you only look at your goal once a week it doesn't stay fresh in your mind. Because when you try to cram your working on into one large block you can get really overwhelmed, or paralyzed. Or go down a serious rabbit hole. Or, most common, you will get to Sunday night and decide that something else takes precedence and you just don't do it. Then you try to.book it in the next Sunday and the same thing happens. So daily actions are better for so many reasons. Short daily actions. I'm talking 15 minute tasks! Daily actions take less time. You will easily have time to get the smaller task done. And if you DO miss it, you are only behind 15 mins, not 3 hours. I can help you break down your goal into actionable daily steps, and a checklist to help you move closer to your goal every single day. 3 Read You need to constantly be growing as a VA. Business owners need to learn new strategies, new tactics, new 'stuff' to improve their abilities in business, and VAs are business owners. If you aren't currently reading business books, you should be. It can be difficult what to choose to read, but I can give you lots of suggestions! Whether you need to improve your mindset, marketing, money, team, strategy, or whatever, choose a book that you want to learn something from - and something that you plan to implement. It will make no difference in your business if you read something and don't make any changes to your business. Building a good reading habit is also a way to remind you that you are in fact a business owner. For several years, I belonged to a business book club called Thought Readers run by my business coach Lisa Larter and it was fabulous. She chose the books we read each month and then we would have discussions on the content throughout each month. She even brought many of the authors in to do Q and A calls with us which was amazing. I got to talk to Dan Sullivan who I think is awesome. Anyway, the point I want to make is that I was not a reader before I joined Thought Readers. I would start to read a book and I would fall asleep or get bored. Like no books. Hardly ever. I read all day long - but short stuff. I didn't get into books at all, even fiction. And I certainly didn't know how to pick a good book. So I learned to read business books, and I got business coaching from Lisa and from some pretty incredible authors too. And that's how I know that it made me a better business person. I chose at least one thing to implement from every book that we read, and that's what I tell VAs to do too. It's like any training that you take - it's just a waste of your time if you are just going to watch it and then not take action on it. If you develop a good reading habit - 30 minutes every morning or at lunch, you can improve your business vocabulary, knowledge, strategy and so much more. It also adds structure to your day - and routine, which is so important for your success. I look for inspiration in the things that I read too - so if I read a chapter every morning (which is what I try to do), then I think about maybe how to do something that day or week using that bit of knowledge - or look for some kind of wisdom or content to share. Reading is very good for your brain - and so easy to start! Just pick up a book! If you struggle to read or to choose books, that's something I can help you do too, by sharing what worked for me. 4 Brainstorm and Strategize Strategizing is a good thing to do regularly. Daily it is not necessary to create a full new strategy, that's not what I mean. But checking in on your strategy, your plan, your action steps, your productivity ... all of those things. Brainstorming to me is making lists. In fact I give this advice to VAs all the time - to make lists of things that are cluttering your thoughts and your mind. It helps you to address the things that you want to get done at another time. Not everything is urgent - in fact very little is urgent. You can schedule time for all the things, in due time. So brainstorming is a great way to unload some stress from your mind. A bullet journal can be really good for this. I talk a lot about my bullet journal. I love it and I used it daily in my business, I have for years. Its a series of lists and notes that I can refer to anytime I need to. And I make new lists every single day! When you are focusing on your strategy, you can track it, monitor it, analyze it, change or alter or tweak it. Say you are looking to find VA clients and you need to do daily outreach to do it. By keeping a daily eye on it you can see what is working for you. You can see what doesn't work and do less of that, and you can see what is working or what needs tweaking and then you can do more of that. Our time is really important, we only have so much of it, and so we need to be efficient and not waste it. That is definitely one area that we can waste time is doing networking, and that's why it's such an important thing to work with a strategy. And this actually leads me into my last point which is Conversations. 5 Conversations If you are not having daily conversations with business owners, you are going to struggle to get good clients. I know so many VAs who only do marketing or networking when they are looking for a new clients. Starting from a standing position is so much more difficult than doing a little all the time to keep your name top of mind in the communities that you choose to network in. So I recommend daily conversations with at least two people every day. You know this if you listen to any of my trainings. It's manageable no matter how busy you are to talk to two people. I'm not talking about discovery calls, I'm simply talking about interactions. On social media works. The numbers work in your favour all the time for this - if you talk to 2 people every day, that's 40 to 60 people in a month. If you can't get one client from 40 interactions, then you need to revise what you are saying in these interactions. It's simple math and it works. How many people to do you need to connect with to get a client? You need to know that number. It's called your conversion percentage. And the only way to know it is to have the conversations. It's easy you go from connecting to conversation to client. Not everyone you will connect with will want a conversation right away. So maybe you have to talk to 10 or 20 people to get 2 or 3 sales conversations. When you are networking with the right people this is not hard, and actually those numbers are quite bad. But you see what I mean. Then from the conversations, you should be able to get at least 5 or 6 out of 10 to sign on as your clients. Again, you have to talk to the right people for these numbers to work. So your plan and strategy definitely play a role here as well. But the numbers do not lie. I can help you with finding your people, deciding how many you need to talk to, with figuring out what to say to them, and how to manage a sales conversation so you get the client. I'm going to leave it off here for today, I feel like that's a lot! Which of these daily actions can you start taking tomorrow? To introduce a new habit, focus on one thing at a time. Then once you have that one under control, add another one. You could be doing all five of these within the next few weeks or month, very easily. They aren't hard to do. And if and when you do, you'll be telling me your VA business revenue has skyrocketed. It happens every time! One step at a time - you can do it! Remember what John Maxwell said: You'll never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret of your success is found in your daily routine. It's an incredible quote and you need to write it down and stick it up at your work station right now! I have it at mine. :) This is exactly what I help VAs do. As a VA coach and trainer, I help you set yourself up for success, helping you fix the specific things that are going wrong in your business. When we work together either privately or in a group we talk specifically about your business and you - there is no one stop solution for everyone when it comes to service businesses like VA businesses. I'll help you get clarity around your issues, and cheer you on as you walk through the steps to fix them. I've helped hundreds of VAs through their challenges and got them on their way to growing their business and the lifestyle that they dream of. I'd love to do the same for you. You can work with me privately, or you can join The Virtual Circle, my mastermind group for Virtual Assistants. Check it out at www.YourVAMentor.com/TVC (the virtual circle) - I bet it's exactly what you need to start running the VA business you dreamed of. Reach out to me if you are interested. That's all I've got for you this week, see you next time!
In which Lillian fangirls over one of her favorite shows while Piper smiles and nods politely. We tackle a lot in this episode: discussing sex-positivity in romance and the sexist misconceptions that surround the world's most successful fictional genre, the difference between romance and erotica, why both are meaningful and how anyone who disagrees can fight us in the abandoned K-Mart parking lot. Read You're Probably Wrong About the Difference Between Romance & Erotica for more.
The ODR Podcast On Deeper Reflection is a podcast on making our lives as happy and productive as possible! Today's episode deals with the bugbear of many in medicine--email. Part II is now Up as Well 1. Understand the Technology Email is an amazing Technology! Async-Mail Sync-Phone, Telegraph, Text, Chatapps, Email-Asynchronous with instant delivery--but this should not mean instant viewing Philosophy is wrong, not tactics Bad Solutions An article on just keeping emails in inbox misses the entire point. There are only two acceptable solutions and ignoring email is definitely one of them, but inbox zero is the better version of that. Inbox Zero Arrival Rate vs. Departure Rate Every inbox item costs you decision dollars We don't want to make decisions Too Much Email-No!!!!! Too Much Stuff I Just Check Once Per Day Vs. I set aside time to do Deep Work Analogous to I took Facebook off my phone... 2. Email Should Spark Joy Used to have combined work and home Never, ever do this!!!! Separate Work and Email Work Check Once, while at work or every day depending on your job Horrible human being would email on Friday afternoon with something horrible 3. Don't treat an async tech as sync Don't expect or encourage real-time use It is fine to reply right away, but dissuade the belief that you will consistently Pacing 4. Your Email Inbox cannot be your ToDo system 5. Just 1 Touch DoIt SystemIt DelegateIt SaveIt UnsubIt-goes back to brings joy, true joy--not dopamine hit FilterIt Trashit (actually archive) SpamIt Maybe-Bringit Back Services 6. Archive, Don't Delete 7. Search, Don't File 8. Inbox Elimination to Keep You Honest Too Many Inboxes Gmail Mailboxes 9. Cut out Back & Forth Steps 10. For Some Use cases, Are Slack/Basecamp/Teams the Solution? Books to Read You need to prune down to what is important!!! Life Changing! We'll do a book club on this one ASAP Now on to the Podcast...
In this week's episode, Lindsay and Halle change things up and chat about one of their favorite obsessions from growing up: The Renaissance Faire. From Cleveland to Charlotte, they have continued to head to the faire every year! They share stories of festivals past, fave faire foods, and costume thoughts. Needless to say, there's a lot to obsess over. Plus, stay tuned for this week's modern obsessions: Mario Party Superstars (Lindsay) and You (Halle). - Follow us on Instagram here. - Watch You on Netflix here. - Read You by Carolina Kepnes (one of Halle's favorite books ever!) here, or check it out on Goodreads here. - Check out Mario Party Superstars here.
Jon Levy is the creator of The Influencers Dinner, a gathering of thought leaders and tastemakers from different industries where they are not allowed to discuss their profession or share their last name. We all hide behind our identities, but by pulling all of that back you start to get to the core of who people really are. These dinners are legendary, and they have become one of the most fascinating social experiments out there. He talks about growing up in Manhattan and how his experience influenced the kind of work he does today. In This Conversation We Cover: [04:35] How Jon's parents informed how he views relationships [15:26] The power of connection [22:05] Launching an imperfect product [30:26] Finding connection beyond disagreement [35:57] Separating what you do from your identity Resources: jonlevytlb.com Instagram: @jonlevytlb Read: You're Invited Text "Dream Life" to 310- 388-9724 to get our FREE dream life course Mastermind: workhardplayhardpodcast.com/mastermind Connect with Rob on Instagram: @robmurgatroyd Connect with Kim on Instagram: @kimmurgatroyd To learn more, and for the complete show notes, visit: workhardplayhardpodcast.com Work Hard Play Hard is a production of Crate Media
Six years on from the launch of Windows 10, Microsoft has unveiled the next-generation of its flagship operating system. This time, it didn't skip a number though — and hence, we have Windows 11. Gadgets 360 senior reporter and Orbital producer Jagmeet Singh and video producer and Windows settings critic Shubham Raheja join host Akhil Arora to discuss what's on offer here. We talk about the headline feature: you can run Android apps on Windows 11, though you will need the Amazon Appstore via the Microsoft Store. It's complicated. But at least, Microsoft is playing nice with others. Read: Windows 11 announced We delve into the UI and UX changes, from the glassy Windows Vista-like look to the deep integration for Microsoft Teams, its Zoom and Slack competitor. And of course, that central Start button shift — literally. Along the way, we touch upon the (odd) hardware requirements for Windows 11, the powerful new (Xbox) gaming features, and how Windows at times gets too big and overwhelming for itself. Read: You can now download the Windows 11 Insider Preview Follow Gadgets 360 on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube. Write to us at podcast@gadgets360.com Chapters Intro (00:00) What's new with Windows 11? (00:53) Centre start button (03:45) Android apps! (06:31) New (Vista) look (10:01) All Windows in one (11:41) Xbox at the heart (14:06) Who gets the upgrade (16:14) What's this TPM? (18:49) How to get Windows 11 (21:36) Everything else (25:05) Outro (27:36)
In this week's episode, I invite you to take a look at your relationship with money by examining your money stories and beliefs you've carried from childhood. I share amazing tips and takeaways to shift your money consciousness so you can become the wealthy and abundant person you long to be. Recommend Books to Read: You are a Badass with Money by Jen Sincero Dollars Flow to me Easily by Richard Dotts An abundance book by John Randolf Price Use self hypnosis to reprogram your subconscious mind: https://www.hypnosisdownloads.com/all-downloads
In our third episode, we start a discussion about sexism. We first give the definition of sexism, and explain its different dimensions using everyday examples as well as research studies. In addition to mentioning the most known aspects of sexism, we dive deeper and dissect the more subtle forms of casual sexism. As usual, we end the episode by giving some suggestions on small steps we can all take to make a change towards combating sexism. Shout outs: READ: “You should have asked”, Emma LISTEN: "Why its time to make a fuss about sexism", by Laura Bates WATCH: Laura Bates TedTalk "Everyday Sexism"
BofC Live is the daily news and interview program of Business of Cannabis. Business of Cannabis highlights the companies, brands, people and trends driving the sector. On this episode of BofC Live, we are joined by Jameson Berkow, the co-founder and Editor-in-Chief of the Weekly Chronicle, a publication of Business of Cannabis. Berkow wrote this week about those that refer to themselves as ‘cannabis sommelier’. In the process, he found that the term itself is not universally accepted or understood. He joined us to talk about the piece and what he learned.Read You are Not a Cannabis Sommelier and You Never Will Be.Subscribe to the Weekly Chronicle for a limited time for $99/year.
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➣ READ You can read the full chapter of ‘Beware of Teachers!; Against The Stream: A Buddhist Manual for Spiritual Revolutionaries’ here > https://www.againstthestream.com/read➢ ABOUT Against The Stream is a 501(c)3 non profit American Buddhist lineage founded by Noah Levine, author of Dharma Punx, Against the Stream, Heart of the Revolution and Refuge Recovery.➢DONATE If you feel moved to donate, your donations are welcome.➣ PayPal $5 Donation > $10 Donation > Other > Monthly Recurring➣ Venmo @againstthestreammeditation
➣ READ You can read the full chapter of ‘Beware of Teachers!; Against The Stream: A Buddhist Manual for Spiritual Revolutionaries’ here > https://www.againstthestream.com/read➢ ABOUT Against The Stream is a 501(c)3 non profit American Buddhist lineage founded by Noah Levine, author of Dharma Punx, Against the Stream, Heart of the Revolution and Refuge Recovery.➢DONATE If you feel moved to donate, your donations are welcome.➣ PayPal $5 Donation > $10 Donation > Other > Monthly Recurring➣ Venmo @againstthestreammeditation
QUARANTINE LIFE This week, I’ve found it super-difficult to concentrate on anything for any length of time. Over the past few days, I’ve felt like crawling back into bed – and to be completely frank, a couple of days, I have. Why am I sharing this? Because I’m pretty sure I’m not alone in being quarantine-weary. And although here in Texas, things are loosening up a bit – retail stores are opening today for curbside service only, and restaurants can have up to 25% capacity – it’s hard to get a clear picture of what post-quarantine life is going to look like. SUBCONSCIOUS DESIRES What is becoming clear to me is that I’ve had a whole lot going on subconsciously – like really, really, really wanting my son and his classmates to get to have a real graduation. Like hoping that even though his new student orientation for college has been switched to being virtual, that he’ll get to do Fish Camp before classes start in the fall. That classes will actually start in the fall. Now that some of the pressure is easing on stay-at-home orders, I’m starting to grieve all the things that we’re missing. The loss of the rites of passage that weren’t only for my son, but also for my husband and me. The traditions that would have helped ease us into this momentous life-transition. CHANGING THE PLAN I had a different outline for this week’s episode that I finally set aside earlier today. It was a struggle to say exactly what I wanted to, and I finally realized that it was okay to let it go for now. I know I’ll get back to it next week, and I’m having grace with myself about it. And that’s why I’m sharing all this with you. YOU’RE NOT ALONE If you’re feeling sad, grieving the losses that the coronavirus quarantine has brought – big or small – know that you’re not alone. And I say that in all seriousness. While you may think that someone else’s grief or loss is bigger or more difficult than what you’re experiencing, they are not things that can be compared. Grief is grief and loss is loss, no matter the degree. It’s okay to acknowledge what you’re feeling, embrace your emotions, and let them pass through you. In fact, I would argue that the more you resist and fight against what you’re feeling, the longer you’ll be dealing with it. Giving yourself permission to sit with your emotions and truly feel them is a brave thing to do – because it can be painful. ENCOURAGEMENT AND COMPASSION I want to encourage you this week, if you’re struggling like I am, to have compassion with yourself. To treat yourself gently and validate all the things you’re feeling. Along those lines, I thought I’d share some of the strategies I’ve been using to cope this week. It’s been different each day, as I process all the things. QUARANTINE COPING STRATEGIES Here’s what I’ve tried and recommend: Nap Resting can give your brain time to process your emotions plus it has the added benefit of restoring your energy and helping reset your frame of mind. Reminisce I’ve found myself going through photo albums of my kids’ toddler years and even some of my high school scrapbooks and yearbooks, marveling at how quickly the years have flown by. Remembering events and milestones from the past has helped me prepare for the ones we’re about to walk through. Read You knew I’d be including that one! Indulging in a feel-good novel has helped me escape for a few hours. Not to mention giving me warm-fuzzies as I keep my reading material light and on the happily-ever-after side of things. Do a puzzle Who knew there’d ever be a puzzle shortage? I was oddly excited to get a new puzzle in the mail earlier this week. Don’t judge! Sorting by color and finding all the edge pieces is a zen place for me. Maybe it is for you too? Journal I try to spend a few moments every morning writing. I think I’ve shared before that I usually I start with 10 things I’m grateful for. Right now, I’m also writing about how I’m feeling, and describing some of the things I’m sad that we’re missing, and not just the big ones. Things like the reunion that is usually held at the kids’ elementary school for seniors, when teachers come back to see the adults their former students have grown into. Or coffee with friends, where we hug when we both get to the restaurant. In a weird way, I’m trying to put everything down so that later on, when my grandkids ask me what it was like the time the world shut down, I can pull out my journals and share. I know you have your own list too – why not put it down so you don’t forget? Go outdoors Whether it’s a walk or a bike ride or sitting outside with a drink to watch the sunset, being out in nature is a great way to give yourself a breather and reset. Do something for someone else I’ve found one of the best ways to get out of my own head is to focus on helping someone else. It doesn’t take much to write a note to a friend or pick up the phone and check on someone who is quarantining alone. And you can get creative with this – I have to share what someone in our neighborhood has done that’s brought a lot of joy to me, and I’m sure to others. They took stones, about the size of the palm of your hand, and painted them with all kinds of things – faces, encouraging sayings, cartoon characters, emojis – and placed them everywhere. Next to light poles and fire hydrants. Propped up against mailboxes. When we’ve been out walking, it’s been so fun to spot them. Something so simple, yet impactful. Let it go Be flexible with your expectations for yourself. If you’re finding it hard to stick to your “normal” schedule – like I am – have compassion with yourself. Give yourself permission to let things slide if you need some time to grieve, to process, to sit with your feelings. It’s okay to not be okay. What about you? So, there you have it. 7 ways to cope with the quarantine blues. (Plus 1 extra!) I’d love to know if these strategies resonated with you and if there are other things you’re trying as you walk through the challenge of this quarantine. You can be part of the conversation by joining me in my Facebook group, in the middle of it.
➣ READ You can read the full chapter of Finding Freedom | Breaking the Addiction; Against The Stream: A Buddhist Manual for Spiritual Revolutionaries’ https://www.againstthestream.com/read➢ ABOUT Against The Stream is a 501(c)3 non profit American Buddhist lineage founded by Noah Levine, author of Dharma Punx, Against the Stream, Heart of the Revolution and Refuge Recovery.➢DONATE If you feel moved to donate, your donations are welcome.➣ PayPal $5 Donation > $10 Donation > Other > Monthly Recurring➣ Venmo @againstthestreammeditation
➣ READ You can read the full chapter of ‘Defy the Lies; Against The Stream: A Buddhist Manual for Spiritual Revolutionaries’ https://www.againstthestream.com/read➢ ABOUT Against The Stream is a 501(c)3 non profit American Buddhist lineage founded by Noah Levine, author of Dharma Punx, Against the Stream, Heart of the Revolution and Refuge Recovery.➢DONATE If you feel moved to donate, your donations are welcome.➣ PayPal $5 Donation > $10 Donation > Other > Monthly Recurring➣ Venmo @againstthestreammeditation
A couple of weeks ago we talked about Christ’s peace,And what it means for us to have Christ’s peace with/in/for us.This week I want to look at fear.What is fear?Fear is defined as an unpleasant emotion caused by the threat of danger, pain or harm;A feeling of anxiety regarding the likelihood of something.Now - knowing the definition of fear, let’s look at Romans 8:15 ***READ***Do you hear that?!We did not receive a spirit that makes us fearful slaves to sin!Well, what spirit did we receive then?According to Romans 8:15, we received the Holy Spirit.It says that we did not receive a spirit (lower case s) of fear,But instead, we received the Spirit of adoption (Spirit with a capitol S)…the Holy Spirit.The Spirit of God.Oh Church, this is about to get good.We received the Holy Spirit of God.Well, that’s great and all, but how does that relieve our fear?Where does our fear stem from?I mean as someone who knows right from wrong;As someone who is a rational human being;As someone who has been through some ups and downs and come out ok…Where does our fear come from?Well, what kind of fears are we talking about here, right?I am talking about fear of the future; fear of tomorrow; fear of failing;Fear of walking through a door we WANT to walk through…Fear that we will not do the right thing;Fear that God will be disappointed with me if I choose “wrong”;Fear of the immediacy of life and decision we think need to made right now;I am talking about deep seated fears that ultimately come from being deceived in the Garden of Eden.I am NOT talking about fear of snakes, or creepy crawlies, or clowns…I am talking about fear that hinders us everyday…The same fear that grabbed a hold of Adam and Eve.Sin brings with it fear,And for some of us, it I can be crippling to our walk with Christ.Now, the laws of God…the precepts of God…are written on our hearts and mindsJeremiah 31:33 ***READ***Now, this is for the Jews, but we see in Romans 2:14-15, that under the New Covenant (Christ),This reaches the Gentiles as well:14 (Indeed, when Gentiles, who do not have the law, do by nature things required by the law, they are a law for themselves, even though they do not have the law. 15 They show that the requirements of the law are written on their hearts, their consciences also bearing witness, and their thoughts sometimes accusing them and at other times even defending them.) So you see, these precepts of God are there, and when we are not aligned with them,There is fear in our very soul because - when we are not aligned,With the will and heart of God - we are aligned with sin.And when we are slaves to sin; when we are controlled by our sinful nature,That causes this deep seated fear that seems irrational.Listen to Romans 8:5-6***READ***You hear that?When we are dominated by our sinful nature, we think about sinful things,And that leads to death…which carries with it profound fear.Conversely, those who have submitted to the Holy Spirit,Think about the things of the Spirit…Godly things, things that please the Holy Spirit,And this leads to life and peace, which carries none of that fear with it.Now, those
This is the first episode in our 5 part series with SalonScale. To get a free scale, and your first month free with SalonScale, click here. Click here to learn how to go hourly and PERFECTLY calculate your hourly wage! It's time we separate the Parts and Labor in our pricing! Alicia and Elizabeth discuss how you should be charging your clients for their hair procedures. Think about it.. Your product costs vary from client to client... So why doesn't the price reflect that? SalonScale is taking all the guesswork out of your pricing, and let's you focus on your passion, instead of how much to charge! Woot Woot! Your assignments: -Download Profit First on Audible and listen! -Read “You’re a Bad Ass at Making Money!” Show Notes: https://www.hairloveretreat.com/episodes/65
We are back today with our second book discussion. This time Jason and I are chatting about Charles Spurgeon's book All of Grace. If you haven't read the book yet, no problem! Jump into this episode anyway because we give a reading challenge update, chat about some of our favorite classic Christian books and more. Listen to the Podcast: We also recorded this blog post as an audio podcast. If you want to listen in instead of reading, click play below or do a combination of both And don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast in iTunes. Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your computer. Links & Resources: Check out Jason's podcast Hurry up and Read You can also find his podcast on iTunes (or wherever else you listen to podcasts) Our first book discussion on The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment Follow Jami on Goodreads Follow Jason on Goodreads Our 2019 Reading Challenge for Women Our 2019 Reading Challenge for Men Book recommendation: Spurgeon's Sorrows (on depression) Book recommendation: Susie: The Life and Legacy of Susannah Spurgeon Book recommendation: Steal Away Home Book recommendation: The Gospel Focus of Charles Spuregon Check out our sponsor today: Zola.com/home to sign up for a free wedding website and $50 off your registry!!
We are back today with our second book discussion. This time Jason and I are chatting about Charles Spurgeon's book All of Grace. If you haven't read the book yet, no problem! Jump into this episode anyway because we give a reading challenge update, chat about some of our favorite classic Christian books and more. Listen to the Podcast: We also recorded this blog post as an audio podcast. If you want to listen in instead of reading, click play below or do a combination of both And don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast in iTunes. Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your computer. Links & Resources: Check out Jason's podcast Hurry up and Read You can also find his podcast on iTunes (or wherever else you listen to podcasts) Our first book discussion on The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment Follow Jami on Goodreads Follow Jason on Goodreads Our 2019 Reading Challenge for Women Our 2019 Reading Challenge for Men Book recommendation: Spurgeon's Sorrows (on depression) Book recommendation: Susie: The Life and Legacy of Susannah Spurgeon Book recommendation: Steal Away Home Book recommendation: The Gospel Focus of Charles Spuregon Check out our sponsor today: Zola.com/home to sign up for a free wedding website and $50 off your registry!!