Scrolling 2 Death

In this explosive episode, I connected with Kelly Stonelake, a former Meta insider who spent 15 years at the company witnessing firsthand how the tech giant prioritizes growth at the expense of user safety. From early roles shaping the Facebook product to leading teams behind major launches, Kelly shares what finally pushed her to speak out. Most recently, she was involved in the development of Horizon Worlds, Meta's flagship VR game. Despite internal concerns over safety risks and product readiness, Kelly reveals how the company steamrolled ahead, driven by its relentless race to dominate the metaverse. This conversation is a sobering look at the human cost of tech ambition—and why insiders like Kelly are risking everything to tell the truth.Content Warning: Includes discussion of internal company misconduct and safety failures affecting vulnerable users.Substack: Overturned by Kelly Stonelake

The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech.Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week:President Trump Issues Executive Order to Advance AI Education for American YouthTAKE IT DOWN Act Signed Into LawSnapchat Test Account Shows Sexual Content Pushed to Teen Within 5 MinutesTikTok Expands Meditation FeatureDEA 2025 National Drug Threat Assessment

In this honest and heartfelt conversation, Nicki Reisberg sits down with Titania Jordan—chief parent officer at Bark—to talk about the emotional realities of navigating families changes and prioritizing mental health for both parents and children. Together, they unpack the pressures families face today, including rising rates of anxiety and depression among teens.From personal stories to professional insights, Nicki and Titania explore the power of therapy, the importance of normalizing mental health conversations, and practical coping strategies that can truly make a difference. They also spotlight Bark's new partnership with Talkspace, which is helping expand access to affordable, convenient mental health resources for families across the country.Whether you're a parent going through a tough season or someone who cares deeply about the mental well-being of kids, this episode offers both comfort and concrete tools for support.Learn about the Bark Phone.Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids. *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFFLearn about the Bark Watch.

Fifteen-year-old and co-founder of Lookupp, Atiksh Bhan, remembers when life was better. He and his friends would spend their afternoons biking, exploring the woods and playing games outside. But then, smartphones came along. =Instead of adventures, they'd spend their time sitting around, scrolling through TikTok. "We'd be huddled around one phone, looking over someone's shoulder. It just wasn't fun anymore," Atiksh says. And even though they were ‘connected' through technology, he felt lonelier than ever. Atiksh and his brother only had basic flip phones, but they started to notice a shift in their peers who had smartphones: increasing anxiety, depression and eating disorders. Adding phones to typical teen dilemmas, like breakups and friend drama, was like throwing gasoline on a fire. Determined to make a change, they created LookUpp – an app that rewards you for staying off your phone when you're with people you care about. The longer your screen is off, the more points you earn. And they're teaming up with parents, communities, and local businesses to translate points into real-life rewards. Tune in to hear directly from Atiksh, a teen navigating the digital age, as he and Nicki from Scrolling 2 Death talk about rebuilding connections, before it's too late.

Tim Estes of AngelQ shares eye-opening new research on the growing screen time crisis—and introduces AngelQ as a powerful solution for families.In this episode, we're diving into the everyday tech battles parents know all too well—screen time struggles, endless scrolling, and the constant worry about what kids are seeing online. We break down some surprising new research on how tech is reshaping family life and why so many parents are worried about screen addiction.But it's not all doom and gloom! We're excited to introduce AngelQ, a fresh, AI-powered solution that helps kids explore the internet safely, learn smarter, and have fun—all while giving parents real peace of mind. We'll chat about how personalized content filters, smarter screen time management, and ethical tech can make a huge difference. Plus, why staying involved and working with your kids is the real game-changer in today's digital world.Download AngelQ.Angel is offering the first 1,000 users one year free of Angel. Limited time offer. 

In this episode, Nicki Reisberg sits down with Vermont State Representative Angela Arsenault to talk about her groundbreaking Phone and Social Media Free Schools Bill. They explore how removing digital distractions from the classroom can support students' academic growth, social development, and mental health. Rep. Arsenault opens up about navigating tech use with her own kids and addresses the common concerns from parents and educators about safety and communication. They also dig into the legislative side of things—how schools can implement healthier tech policies, why student data privacy matters, and what role parents can play in driving change. It's an honest, insightful look at what it really takes to make schools safer and more focused in a digital age.If you would like to join a weekly Zoom meeting to learn more about bringing Phone-Free Schools to your state, register here.Review the specifics of the Phones and Social Media-Free Schools bill here.

This week, I break down why I've filed a lawsuit against Seesaw, one of the most widely used EdTech apps in K–6 classrooms—and what every parent needs to know about how their child's personal data is being harvested, stored, and shared without their consent.Seesaw claims to help track student learning progress. But what I discovered when I requested access to the data they'd collected about my children left me physically sick: thousands of files, photos, videos, audio clips, journal entries, even AI-generated assignments—much of it deeply personal, intimate, and shockingly invasive.Joining me is Attorney Andy Liddell from the Ed Tech Law Center, who walks us through the legal violations at play, how edtech companies are bypassing federal law, and how schools are unintentionally (or knowingly) exposing kids to serious data privacy and safety risks.If you think this couldn't happen to your child—you need to listen. Because if they use school-issued iPads, Chromebooks, or apps like Seesaw, it already is.If you're a parent, teacher, or school leader who wants to understand your rights—and your child's rights—don't miss this episode.Contact Andy and Julie Liddell of EdTech Law Center here.

Are phones ruining school?  One high school principal says yes, and he did something about it.At Bullard High in Fresno, California, students wandered the halls like zombies, glued to their screens. Lunchtime was silent. Classrooms were battlegrounds for attention. Test scores dropped. Anxiety soared.Principal Armen Torigian, a Bullard alumnus, took pride in his community and remembered a very different high school experience. He knew times had changed, but he couldn't shake the feeling that students deserved better—high school should be better than this.So he made a bold move: a bell-to-bell phone ban.It wasn't easy. Parents pushed back. Students threatened him and his family. But he held the line, convinced it was the right thing to do. Was it?Join Principal Torigan and Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death as they unpack the ban, the fallout, and the promising changes unfolding on campus. His experience makes us reconsider: what role should phones play in our classrooms and our daily lives?

15% of High Schoolers say they know someone in their school who has had deepfake pornography made of them in the last year.In this eye-opening episode, Nicki Reisberg sits down with Adam Billen of Encode to unpack some of the most urgent and unsettling developments in AI—from the rise of chatbots to the explosion of deep fakes. They dive into what Meta is up to with its new chatbot rollout on Instagram, and why that should raise red flags for anyone with kids online. The conversation then turns to deep fakes—how scarily easy they are to make, and the real damage they can cause, especially to children. Nicki and Adam break it all down and call for action—from parents, lawmakers, and schools—to step up and protect the next generation.Watch or listen to Nicki and Adam's first conversation about AI chatbots here.Take it Down Tool by NCMECChild Deepfake Incident Map

 The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech.Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week:Parents Who Lost Children to Online Harms Protest Outside Meta NYCMeta Tries to Help Parents Enroll More Teens into Teen AccountsMeta's Digital Companions Will Talk Sex with Users -- Even ChildrenSnapchat Announces Family Safety HubSnapchat Distracts with Support of National Fentanyl Awareness Day[RESEARCH] New Study Shows Teens Admit Social Media is Bad for ThemTrump Signs Executive Order Advancing AI in EducationTake it Down Act Passes House - On President's Desk for SignatureThis episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies.Learn about the Bark PhoneLearn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids  *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFFLearn about the Bark Watch 

Is screen time silently sabotaging your child's health? In this eye-opening episode, pediatric endocrinologist Dr. Nidhi Gupta breaks down the hidden toll excessive screen use takes on kids' physical and mental well-being—from disrupted sleep and metabolic issues to rising anxiety and attention problems. She shares age-specific screen time recommendations, the dangers of early exposure to smartphones and social media, and why parents must walk the talk when it comes to digital habits. Packed with science-backed insights and practical tips, this conversation is a must-listen for any caregiver ready to raise digitally healthy kids in a tech-obsessed world.Dr. Nidhi Gupta is a board-certified pediatric endocrinologist, award-winning researcher, TEDx speaker, and a leading expert in digital wellness in Nashville, TN.Her upcoming book Calm the Noise (Why Adults Must Escape Digital Addiction to Save the Next Generation) promises to transform the understanding of digital wellness and inspire meaningful change.In 2019, driven by her personal and professional experiences, Dr. Gupta founded the Phreedom Foundation (Ungrip Devices. Grip Life), a non-profit dedicated to inspiring individuals reclaim their time and attention, unlocking the joys of life beyond screens.Her research highlights the profound impact of excessive screen time on both mental and physical health, linking it to obesity, sleep disorders, diabetes, heightened cravings for unhealthy foods, poor communication skills, and learning deficits. These findings have positioned Dr. Gupta as a trusted voice on the health consequences of digital overuse.She is the creator of ReConnect, an evidence-based program providing families, educators, and professionals with actionable strategies to overcome digital distractions at home and workplace.Dr. Gupta is passionate about creating a healthier, more connected world through education, advocacy, and practical solutions.

What happens when parenting meets the digital age? In this episode, Nicki Reisberg sits down with family therapist Joanne Doucette to unpack the growing mental health challenges families face—especially when screens, gaming, and social media are part of everyday life.With over 25 years of experience supporting parents and kids, Joanne shares what she's seeing on the front lines: rising anxiety, disconnection, and confusion around how to set tech boundaries that actually stick. Together, Nicki and Joanne explore why open, honest conversations matter more than ever—especially when it comes to tough topics like online content, gaming habits, and screen time battles at home.They dive into real-life parenting struggles, like what to do when you're not on the same page with your partner, how to stay connected to your kids in a digital world, and why community support is key when navigating this new tech terrain.This is a powerful conversation for anyone who's ever wondered: Am I doing enough? Am I doing it right? (Spoiler: You're not alone.)Connect with Joanne here.Joanne Doucette is a therapist, speaker, and advocate for family mental health, with 25 years of experience helping children, teens, and their parents navigate life's toughest challenges. As a dedicated social worker, she has worked in inpatient mental health and palliative care at the Children's Hospital of Eastern Ontario. Now in private practice, she focuses on equipping parents in the community with the tools and confidence to support children coping with anxiety, depression, grief, and neurodivergence.Joanne believes that parents are their child's most powerful resource. Rooted in a no-blame, deeply compassionate approach, she helps families strengthen connection, resilience, and healing. She challenges the societal forces that undermine parent-child relationships—such as the unregulated influence of technology—advocating for changes that protect children's well-being. Through therapy, workshops, and community education, she empowers parents to navigate these pressures while staying grounded in what matters most: their connection with their child.As both a therapist and a mother of two, with 20 years of parenting experience, Joanne understands firsthand the challenges families face. She is dedicated to ensuring parents feel supported, not judged, and offers hope, practical strategies, and a path forward—helping families create a healthier, more connected future at home and in their communities.

What's really going on with Meta and what does it mean for kids? In this episode, Nicki Reisberg sits down with Titania Jordan—chief marketing officer at Bark Technologies—to unpack what the latest headlines actually mean for parents and kids. They dive into the ongoing struggle to keep children safe online, the loopholes predators still exploit, and why Meta's so-called “safety measures” might not be enough. Plus, they break down the growing legal heat Meta's facing and what it could mean for the future of digital child protection. It's a raw, real, and eye-opening conversation you don't want to miss.Interviews mentioned during this episode:Sarah Gardner with Heat InitiativeDavid Erb, Facebook WhistleblowerSarah with Mom UnchartedSam Chapman, dad of Sammy re. Sammy's LawThis episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies:Learn about the Bark PhoneLearn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids  *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFFLearn about the Bark Watch 

"My generation wishes we didn't get social media so young. Everyone regrets being allowed to access these platforms. Everyone wishes their parents put more restrictions on their phone. Everyone wishes that they got to enjoy a more carefree childhood."At 20, Maya Englehorn reflects on getting her first smartphone when she was a freshman in high school, but being allowed on Instagram – via tablet – at age nine.  Back then, Instagram was simpler - no ads, sponsored posts, or TikTok-like reels. Even so, she wishes her parents had also delayed her social media use.What started as a college project on the mental health impacts of tech helped Maya see the dangers of tech for children. Her conviction led her to join Wired Human Youth Coalition, a nonprofit organization dedicated to raising awareness on digital harms and amplifying youth voices in political advocacy. The more she learns, the more she understands how social media highjacks childhood innocence.  With Wired Human Youth Coalition, Maya helped lead a survey exploring the effects of social media on high-school and college students. Their findings point to the addictive nature of social media and a clear link between time spent online and increased anxiety, depression and guilt.  Tune in as Nicki from Scrolling 2 Death unpacks the data – and hear Maya's compelling take on Gen Z growing up in a digital world.Maya Englehorn is a Junior at Belmont University in Nashville Tennessee, studying Global Leadership and Business Administration. Maya is actively involved in the Wired Human Youth Coalition, a nonprofit organization dedicated to promoting discussions on online harms and mental health with a focus on empowering young voices to lead the conversation in political advocacy.Over the past year, she conducted a survey exploring the impact of social media on high school and college students. In February, she presented her findings at the U.S. Capital Roundtable on Kids Online Safety, calling for stronger digital protections.Maya is committed to being a voice of hope for her generation, aiming to pursue a path addressing today's most pressing challenges. After graduation, she hopes to build a career at the intersection of global development and social impact, working to empower communities and contribute to lasting, meaningful solutions worldwide.Connect with Maya on LinkedIn here.

What if the very tech your kids use every day was designed to hijack their minds?In this powerful and unfiltered conversation, child psychologist Dr. Richard Freed exposes how Big Tech is using persuasive design to keep kids hooked on social media and video games—no matter the cost to their mental health. He dives into the psychological tricks baked into these platforms, the skyrocketing rates of anxiety and depression in kids, and the chilling truth: tech insiders know the damage and still push these products on your family.Dr. Freed pulls no punches as he reveals how schools, nonprofits, and even “educational” programs are often quietly influenced by industry money. He calls out the disturbing double standard between how tech elites protect their own kids—and how the rest of us are left to deal with the fallout.If you're a parent, educator, or just someone who cares about kids, this conversation is your call to action. Dr. Freed shares real, practical steps to fight back, reclaim your child's well-being, and build stronger connections that matter more than likes, streaks, or screen time.Get Richard's book here: Better Than Real Life: How Silicon Valley's Secret Science of Persuasive Design is Stealing ChildhoodRichard Freed, PhD, is a psychologist, author, and his insights have been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, and other media outlets. He has dedicated his professional life to unmasking how Silicon Valley has joined forces with leading psychological experts to create the powerful science of persuasive design that is stealing a generation of youth away from the real world to live on social media, video games, and online video. He advocates that a science-based childhood focused around the real-world activities of family, school, and the outdoors must be made available to all children. Dr. Freed lives in Walnut Creek, California and is the proud father of two daughters.

Today, April 16, 2025, Jonathan's Haidt's team at the Anxious Generation released an in-depth report into the harms of Snapchat. They examined court cases, reviewed internal documents and even spoke with top executives, finding that Snapchat is harming children at a scale we never imagined.In this mini-episode of Scrolling 2 Death, I break down what parents need to know about Snapchat. You can access the full report on the After Babel Substack here. 

In this episode, Nicki Reisberg sits down with Jack Hughes, a passionate 18-year-old and online safety advocate, for a candid and eye-opening chat about what it really takes to keep kids safe in the digital world. Jack opens up about his own experiences growing up with devices and why so many of the parental control tools out there just don't cut it. They dive into why parents need more than just tech—they need real understanding.Together, they unpack everything from the misleading comfort of app store ratings to the peer pressure teens feel around having the "right" devices. Jack also shares some of the clever (and kind of shocking) ways kids find to get around parental controls. Most importantly, Jack stresses the importance of parents staying actively involved—not just setting limits, but truly knowing what their kids are doing online. This is a must-listen for any parent feeling overwhelmed by digital parenting. Jack brings solid advice and helpful resources to make the journey a little less daunting—and a lot more empowered.Jack Hughes helps parents protect their kids online. As an 18-year-old, he grew up in this digital age, and knows firsthand the dangers of the internet. Growing up in the digital world has made Jack an expert in everything parental controls and the dangers of the Internet. He also knows all the secrets and loopholes that kids know about Technology and parental controls. Connect with Jack here.

I gave up my iPhone for a healthier phone (for 30 days). My goals were to be more present with my kids, find better screen time balance and improve my need to be productive at all times. To slow down! I chose the Wisephone for this test because it is the most advanced, intentional phone for adults. It has all the things I need, but none of the apps that can addict me. No, I'm not sponsored! Just curious. I'd love to hear from any parents who have tried alternative phones like the Wisephone, The Light Phone or others...to swap stories!

 The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech.Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week:Meta Expands Teen AccountsFacebook Whistleblower Speaks to Congress (opening statement)Fairplay Files FTC Complaint Against MetaSnapchat Announces Support of Take it Down ActTrump States TikTok Deal is "Still on the table."Statement from ByteDance on TikTok Deal[STUDY] TikTok Ban Loses Support Among Americans[STUDY] Prevalence and Patterns of Social Media Use in Early Adolescents[STUDY] Social Media Use at Bedtime

Girl meets Instagram. And then her childhood – and her life -  are forever altered by the effects of social media. This is what the Surgeon General is telling us. This is what the research is showing us: rising depression, anxiety, eating disorders and suicides. But behind this data, real people are suffering the consequences.Kara Alaimo, communications professor and author of  Over the Influence: Why Social Media is Toxic for Women and Girls – And How We Can Take It Back, has researched social media since 2016. Through her interviews, she's heard countless stories of algorithms leading users from a subtle interest to a dangerous spiral.  Engaging with a workout post led to a feed full of ‘fitspo' content, featuring influencers with unrealistic body standards – which led to body dysmorphia,  disordered eating and lasting mental health struggles.“We grew up with Seventeen Magazine, which also promoted unrealistic beauty standards, but we didn't spend hours a day - every day - looking at it,” Kara explains. It's the combination of toxic content and the time spent that creates actual harm for young girls.Tune in to hear Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death and Kara discuss her research insights and strategies for managing kids' social media use.Kara Alaimo, PhD is a communication professor at Fairleigh Dickinson University, where she created the university's academic programs in social media. Her book Over the Influence: Why Social Media is Toxic for Women and Girls – And How We Can Take It Back explains how social media is affecting every aspect of the lives of women and girls and what we can do about it. She has been writing opinion and analysis pieces for CNN about the social impact of social media since 2016. She speaks frequently to parents and students in schools about how to handle kids' social media use. For more information, visit www.karaalaimo.com and follow her on Instagram, Facebook and Bluesky. 

In this episode, Nicki Reisberg sits down (virtually) with Chris Vineis, founder of Unite for Safe Social Media, to dive into the critical role grandparents can play in protecting kids online. Christine shares her journey from government relations to online safety advocacy, highlighting why we need a united front—parents, grandparents, and communities—to push for change.They tackle the real dangers kids face on social media, how to align between parent and grandparent approach to screen use, and the urgent need for legislative action. Plus, they explore how AI is reshaping the online world and why it's more important than ever to equip kids with the right tools to navigate it safely.It's a conversation about bridging generations, taking action, and making the digital world safer for the next generation. Tune in!

In this episode, Titania Jordan dives into her book Parental Control, sharing real-world advice for parents trying to navigate the wild world of raising kids in the digital age. We cover everything from the impact of technology on mental health to building resilience and setting up solid parental controls. Titania breaks down why protecting kids' sleep is a game-changer, how to create safe environments, and the very real dangers lurking online and even in schools. Plus, she shares must-have resources to help parents take charge of their kids' tech use.[Get the Book] Parental ControlThis episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies.Learn about the Bark PhoneLearn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids  *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFFLearn about the Bark Watch  

In 2015, Tessa Stuckey noticed a troubling trend as teenagers began flooding her therapy office. Their grievances were no different than those she faced as a teen -  failing tests, feeling left out, disappointing mom and dad – but their discomfort was leading straight to thoughts of self-harm and suicide. A correlation between rising harms and screen time became clear to her.As a mom of four, Tessa was all-in on iPads as a “babysitter” when they went to restaurants or a quick fix for tantrums.  However, after researching social media and screen addiction, she saw the undeniable impact on youth's mental health. She vowed to make a change for her family and help spread awareness to others. Tune in to hear Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death and Tessa share how they successfully scaled back screens in their homes and the changes they saw in their families. As a seasoned family therapist, parenting coach, and mental health expert, Tessa offers helpful advice for parents rooted in professional expertise and personal experience.About Tessa StuckeyTessa Stuckey is a seasoned family therapist, parenting coach, and mental health expert with over 10 years of experience in the field. She is the author of the acclaimed book, For the Sake of Our Youth: A Therapist's Perspective on Raising Your Family in Today's Culture, which provides invaluable insights into navigating the challenges of modern parenting. As a dedicated mother of four, Stuckey combines professional expertise with personal experience to offer practical, compassionate guidance to families.In addition to her clinical work, Stuckey is the co-founder of the nonprofit LookUp, an organization dedicated to helping families address the growing concerns of social media and screen addiction and their impact on youth's mental health. Her work has empowered countless parents to build strong, healthy relationships with their children while addressing the complex dynamics of today's society.Get connected with Tessa here.

When Chromebooks hit the market in 2010, they were a flop. Desperate to avoid significant losses, a savvy group of Google executives struck a deal with educators to provide Chromebooks to schools. “To help children build 21st century skills,” they said. Instead, we're uncovering a growing number of harms and real-life tragedies caused by school devices.  The problem? A Chromebook is essentially just a ‘browser in a box,' giving kids unlimited – and often unsupervised - internet access. Meanwhile, the data collection behind these devices is unclear, with schools in charge of ‘opting in' for our children. But does your school understand how this data is used? Do youAndy Liddell of EdTech Law Center joins Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death to discuss the risks of school-issued devices and share ways parents can protect their kids from exploitative tech.Resources mentioned in the episode: Tech-safe Learning Coalition (TLC) - Resources for parents related to school-issued tech[Book] The Age of Surveillance Capitalism[Book] Means of Control[Book] Weapons of Math DestructionAbout Andy Liddell:Andy Liddell is a career federal courts litigator and technology attorney. Before joining the EdTech Law Center in early 2025, he spent 15 years helping clients resolve complex, multimillion-dollar disputes involving patents, trademarks, and trade secrets.Andy is also a dedicated advocate for youth digital civil rights. As a longtime member of the Children's Screentime Action Network, Andy has testified before state and federal legislators in support of bills designed to better protect children online. He has also worked to persuade regulators to more vigorously enforce the laws currently on the books to protect kids and families. As part of his legal practice, Andy has provided pro bono legal services to Fairplay, a nonprofit, independent voice for children, as well as to Frances Haugen, who exposed Facebook's practices of putting profits over the lives of young people.He is proud to join Julie, his wife and law partner, in the fight for the rights and wellbeing of students, parents, teachers, and school districts against exploitative technology companies. Andy strives to create a world where technology helps people flourish, using litigation to align corporate incentives with the things people need to thrive.

This episode is dedicated to the life of Avery Ping, forever 16.Avery's dad, Aaron Ping, joins Nicki on Scrolling 2 Death to expose the dark reality of social media's role in the fentanyl crisis, focusing on the devastating loss of Aaron's son, Avery. Avery's death was not a tragic accident—it was the direct result of drug dealers operating with impunity on Snapchat. In this gripping conversation, Aaron shares his painful journey through the legal system following Avery's death. Nicki and Aaron dissect the failures of the Snapchat platform, the broken bail system that allows dealers to walk free, and the urgent need for laws like the Kids Online Safety Act to hold tech companies accountable. This discussion is a wake-up call for parents, lawmakers, and anyone who believes social media should not be a hunting ground for criminals. The episode ends with a powerful call to action: it's time to demand change before more lives are lost.

The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech.Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week:Facebook Whistleblower Releases Tell-All Memoir (and Meta silences her)Careless People by Sarah Wynn-Williams (a recap)Community Notes on Meta - What to expect[STUDY] Virtal TikTok Videos on ADHD Spread MisinformationState of Massachusetts Sues TikTokFormer NYC Teacher Solicits Sexual Images from Children on SnapchatNYC Man Sexually Assaults 13-year-old He Met on Snapchat[STUDY] Your Brain on AIThis episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies.Learn about the Bark Phone. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids. *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFFLearn about the Bark Watch.

In this eye-opening episode, Nicki Reisberg and Denise Champney dive deep into the growing influence of technology in education—unpacking both its false promises and its perils. With schools increasingly reliant on screens and AI-powered tools, what's being lost? From the risks of inappropriate content slipping through school devices to the hidden dangers of data collection and declining critical thinking skills, this conversation challenges the blind adoption of EdTech. Nicki and Denise advocate for a smarter, more balanced approach—one that prioritizes traditional learning methods, safeguards student privacy, and empowers parents to push back against excessive screen time. Could the key to better education be a return to paper, books, and real-world interaction? All signs point to yes.Tech-safe Learning Coalition (TLC) - Resources for parents related to school-issued techWorkgroups at Fairplay - Screens in SchoolDenise's SubstackAbout Denise ChampneyDenise Champney is a school based speech language pathologist with over 25 years experience working in the public school setting supporting students in grades K-12. She is also the owner of a small private practice supporting children and adults with social skill development. Denise created the Educational Technology Industrial Complex timeline for Environmental Progress and is a work group member of the screens in schools action network through Fairplay. She writes about the negative impacts of big tech on education for her substack, From Someone Else's Shoes.This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies: Learn about the Bark Phone.Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids. *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFFLearn about the Bark Watch.

In this episode, I sit down (virtually) with Lauren Paer, Programs Manager for Fairplay's Screen Time Action Network, to unpack the complicated relationship between education and technology. We dive into the growing presence of EdTech in classrooms—how it's shaping learning, where it's helping (and where it's hurting), and what parents really need to know.Lauren and I tackle big questions: Is all this screen time actually making kids better learners, or is it just a distraction? What are the hidden risks—like data privacy concerns and the way certain tools impact focus and creativity? We also explore how AI is changing the way kids write, read, and think, and why empathy and human connection still matter in a tech-driven world.Plus, if you're a parent wondering how to push back against harmful tech in schools, we've got you covered. Lauren shares practical advocacy tips, including legal resources you can tap into if your child's education is being compromised.Tech-safe Learning Coalition (TLC) - Resources for parents related to school-issued techWho's Raising the Kids by Dr. Susan LinnWorkgroups at FairplayScreens & Learning Action Kit by FairplayLauren is passionate about helping families raise healthy children in our screen-saturated society. As Programs Manager for Fairplay's Screen Time Action Network, she supports the heart of the Network, its work groups and their impactful initiatives. Before joining Fairplay, she worked on screen time legislation and hosted the show, Screen Time Reset. Lauren studied economics at the University of Pennsylvania and worked on Wall Street in a previous life. She now splits her time between the Blue Ridge Mountains in Virginia and her hometown of Honolulu, where she enjoys hiking, attending workshops/conferences on a wide array of topics, and spending time with her friends and family.

Meta has silenced Facebook whistleblower Sarah Wynn-Williams, winning an emergency ruling to stop her from telling her story. Sarah worked directly with Facebook executives for 7 years and describes the dark realities of working at Facebook in her new book, Careless People. I was booked to interview Sarah here on Scrolling 2 Death this morning, March 13th, but the interview was canceled following the ruling. Since we are unable to hear from Sarah directly, I'm giving you a few highlights here and encourage you to purchase her book and hear her story first-hand. 

 Kate Doerksen, co-founder of Sage Haven, appears on Scrolling 2 Death to share insights from her research on tech challenges families are facing. After witnessing her family member suffer from a mental health crisis caused by bullying and harmful social media interactions, Kate interviewed hundreds of parents, youth, and child psychologists to try to find a solution to the harms of the current digital landscape.Key themes indicate families struggle with screen addiction and screen-time disputes.  A surprising discovery shows that kids are messaging online as early as second grade. Despite not having a phone, they access YouTube and messages from family tablets and smartwatches. These activities may seem harmless, but parental supervision and guidance is key - especially at a young age.  Kate believes parents need help creating a slow, safe onramp to technology for their children. That's why Kate created Sage Chat, a new app that will give kids a safer way to message and empower parents to take a phased approach to supervising online activity. Tune in to hear more about Kate's research and resources to help parents.This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies.Learn about the Bark Phone.Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids.*Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFFLearn about the Bark Watch.

Nicki Reisberg and Titania Jordan dive into the real impact of technology on parenting and kids' mental health, sharing insight from a recent lecture by Jonathan Haidt they attended in Santa Barbara, CA. They also break down the biggest digital dangers kids face today though Bark's new Annual Report—like exposure to harmful content, cyberbullying, and online predators. With so many challenges, parents are left trying to figure out how to make the best tech choices for their kids. This conversation sheds light on safer solutions, including those from Bark Technologies, and encourages parents to take action in protecting their children while promoting healthier digital habits.Bark Annual Report: https://www.bark.us/annual-report-2024/[Book] The Anxious Generation: https://www.theanxiousgeneration.com[Book] Parental Control: https://www.titaniajordan.com/resources/parental-controlThis episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies.  Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids  *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch 

Many people ask if there's a safer social media option. Until now, we've said no. But there's hope on the horizon: ⁠scrollhappy.com⁠. Founded by Nick Rotola, who was appalled by the lack of ethics in big tech and concerned for his daughter's future, he decided to take matters into his own hands.Up (the parent co of ⁠scrollhappy.com⁠) hired top engineers from Meta - who were equally concerned for their children's future -  to build a science-backed algorithm that will uplift users, not addict them. Their KPIs won't be ‘maximize time spent' but instead ‘maximize happiness.' Clinical experts on his team are using brain scans to promote content that boosts mood and removes proven toxic content traps like porn, politics, anorexia, and unrealistic lifestyles.While we don't love the idea of our kids spending their time scrolling, we'd much rather them have an option to “scroll happy.” Tune in to hear Nick of Up and Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death talk more about this promising new social movement.Nick Rotola is a Father, Husband, and Serial Entrepreneur. As a protective father of two young kids, Nick designed a science-backed algorithm to flip the script on doomscrolling. Instead of serving up negativity or sensationalized content, UP's Scroll Happy™ algorithm focuses on videos that genuinely make you feel good.With a strict approval process for creators, UP is free from porn, political content, and unrealistic lifestyle pressures. Safety and happiness are embedded in its DNA, offering a complete redesign of social media that puts people before profit. Social media got you down? Get UP. Learn more at ⁠scrollhappy.com⁠.

Are you concerned about your child using AI chatbots? Research shows that face-to-face connection is vital for healthy brain development and mental well-being, yet companion bots continue to draw users deeper into a virtual reality. We recently covered the dangers of Character.ai, but there's another troubling app on our radar: Replika. Marketed as an “AI companion who cares” and “is always on your side,” Replika uses deceptive tactics to target vulnerable people, such as those going through a breakup. Their claim to cure loneliness is misleading at best, and potentially harmful at worst. Like many apps, Replika thrives on user engagement - employing addictive strategies that fuel emotional dependence on the chatbot. And a premium subscription offers access to more intimate conversations and near-explicit content. Adam Billen ofEncode, a tech ethics organization, joins Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death to share why he filed an FTC complaint against Replika and why parents need to be aware of the risks these platforms pose. Tune in to learn more. 

The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech.Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Denmark to Ban Mobile Phones in Schools (and recommends no smartphone or tablet until 13) New Bill in Georgia Would Bar Kids Under 14 from Social Media TikTok Users Are Dropping Heavy Things on their Feet (new trend) [REPORT] Buying to Belong by Fairplay [RESEARCH] Early Childhood Mental Health & Social Media Use by Children & Screens Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.

Worried about your child's smartphone use? It's not too late to make a change. Kathleen Barlow, founder of the “Swimming UpScreen” blog, returns to Scrolling 2 Death to tell us how she reclaimed the simplicity of childhood for her kids. With six children aged 18 to 31, Kathleen has seen the dramatic impact smartphones have on childhood development. In 2018, she gave her twin daughters (then age 12) smartphones - which was typical at the time. At 17 and nearing ‘adulthood,' she worried that their phone use was hindering necessary life skills. She swapped the smartphones for ‘simple' phones with just calls, texts, and Spotify. No social media, no internet browser.It wasn't easy. The girls were not happy. But she took an intentional, gradual approach to introduce the change. The result? She has witnessed a positive transformation in her daughters' lives now that phones are no longer the focus. Tune in to hear Kathleen and Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death share advice for parents looking to scale back their kids' screen time.This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies:Learn about the Bark PhoneLearn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids. *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFFLearn about the Bark Watch

We asked digital safety advocate Adam Dodge which social media app is safest for kids. Sadly, his answer was none. He goes further to say, “While I can't recommend one, I can recommend the one to stay away from: Snapchat.” Not surprised.  However, an alarming new social trend worries him even more - chatbots.Research shows kids spend more time on Character AI than TikTok. Why? Companion bots, like Character AI, are more addictive than social media because they simulate real human relationships without the potential for conflict. They offer 24/7 validation - a “friend” who is always there to support, entertain and agree with you. It's nice in theory but harmful in practice.Companion bots are poised to have the most disruptive technological impact on healthy relationships and violence prevention. And the Large Language Models (AI) powering them can be unpredictable and misunderstood – even by the data scientists who built them. Tune in as Adam Dodge, Founder of EndTAB, and Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death discuss their research on chatbots and why parents should take an intentional approach to educating themselves and preparing their children for a healthier relationship with social media.Adam is a digital safety advocate, attorney and speaker who believes you do not have to be a tech expert to protect yourself or others in the digital age.  As the founder of EndTAB, he has trained hundreds of organizations to address tech-facilitated abuse and improve the safety and wellbeing of people online. Adam advises the White House Task Force to Address Online Harassment and Abuse, sits on the World Economic Forum's Digital Justice Advisory Committee and is a special advisor to the Coalition Against Stalkerware. His work and expertise has been featured on NBC, CBS and NPR and in Time Magazine, Rolling Stone, the New York Times, Vogue, Wired, GQ and others. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies.Learn about the Bark Phone: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2deathbp  Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids. https://info.bark.us/scrolling2death_bark *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFFLearn about the Bark Watch: https://barkparentalcontrols.pxf.io/c/5214646/2204011/17000 

I sat down (virtually) with Chris Kaspar, founder of Techless and creator of the Wisephone, to tackle one of today's biggest struggles—smartphone addiction. But this time, it's about adults (not kids). We dive into how constant connectivity is affecting parents, why intentional tech use is more crucial than ever, and how the Wisephone is reshaping the way families interact with technology. Chris shares his journey in creating a device designed for digital wellness, offering a real alternative to traditional smartphones. We also discuss the impact of screen time on mental health, the future of tech in education, and the push for safer social media. If you've ever felt like your phone is running your life, this episode is for you!I have been testing out a Wisephone, personally! Here is my announcement and Day 1 recap.Chris is the CEO & founder of Techless, an innovative tech startup that created Wisephone, a pure & simple phone for intentional people. 

This conversation is with Liam Walsh, father of Maia. Liam is one of the four families who have sued TikTok for the deaths of their children; Jools (forever 14), Isaac (forever 13), Maia (forever 13) and Archie (forever 12).These parents bring this action for wrongful death and survivorship against TikTok LLC, TikTok Inc., and ByteDance Inc. for the 2022 deaths of their children resulting from the use of TikTok.TikTok created harmful dependencies in each child as a matter of design, then flooded them with a seemingly endless stream of harms. These were not harms the children searched for or wanted to see when their use of TikTok began. Instead, ByteDance targeted them via its unauthorized taking of personal data.Parents should limit their children's access to addictive, harmful platforms like TikTok and have open conversations with their children in order to educate and protect them.

The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech.Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week:4 UK Parents Sue TikTok for Deaths of ChildrenTikTok's Response to Latest LawsuitTikTok Announces Digital Safety and Privacy GuideSnapchat's 3rd Annual Digital Well-Being IndexMeta Launches Child Safety CurriculumMeta Cuts Thousands of Jobs to Invest in AIKiDS Campaign for Warning Label Designs (submit here!)Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.

This conversation is with Ellen Roome, mother of Jools. Ellen is one of the four families who have sued TikTok for the deaths of their children; Jools (forever 14), Isaac (forever 13), Maia (forever 13) and Archie (forever 12).These parents bring this action for wrongful death and survivorship against TikTok LLC, TikTok Inc., and ByteDance Inc. for the 2022 deaths of their children resulting from the use of TikTok.TikTok created harmful dependencies in each child as a matter of design, then flooded them with a seemingly endless stream of harms. These were not harms the children searched for or wanted to see when their use of TikTok began. Instead, ByteDance targeted them via its unauthorized taking of personal data.Parents should limit their children's access to addictive, harmful platforms like TikTok and have open conversations with their children in order to educate and protect them.

I'm giving up my iPhone (for a healthier phone). For the next 30 days, I will be forgoing my iPhone for a Wisephone. My goals are to be more present with my kids, find better screen time balance and improve my need to be productive at all times. To slow down! I will be documenting this process in real-time and sharing @Scrolling2Death on Instagram, for parents who are interested in alternative phones. I chose the Wisephone for this test because it is the most advanced, intentional phone for adults. It has all the things I need, but none of the apps that can addict me. No, I'm not sponsored! Just curious. I'd love to hear from any parents who have tried alternative phones like the Wisephone, The Light Phone or others...to swap stories! I'm sure there will be bumps in the road but I am really looking forward to this change.

This conversation is with Lisa Kenevan, mother of Isaac. Lisa is one of the four families who have sued TikTok for the deaths of their children; Jools (forever 14), Isaac (forever 13), Maia (forever 13) and Archie (forever 12).These parents bring this action for wrongful death and survivorship against TikTok LLC, TikTok Inc., and ByteDance Inc. for the 2022 deaths of their children resulting from the use of TikTok.TikTok created harmful dependencies in each child as a matter of design, then flooded them with a seemingly endless stream of harms. These were not harms the children searched for or wanted to see when their use of TikTok began. Instead, ByteDance targeted them via its unauthorized taking of personal data.Parents should limit their children's access to addictive, harmful platforms like TikTok and have open conversations with their children in order to educate and protect them.

This conversation is with Hollie Dance, mother of Archie. Hollie is one of the four families who have sued TikTok for the deaths of their children; Jools (forever 14), Isaac (forever 13), Maia (forever 13) and Archie (forever 12).These parents bring this action for wrongful death and survivorship against TikTok LLC, TikTok Inc., and ByteDance Inc. for the 2022 deaths of their children resulting from the use of TikTok.TikTok created harmful dependencies in each child as a matter of design, then flooded them with a seemingly endless stream of harms. These were not harms the children searched for or wanted to see when their use of TikTok began. Instead, ByteDance targeted them via its unauthorized taking of personal data.Parents should limit their children's access to addictive, harmful platforms like TikTok and have open conversations with their children in order to educate and protect them.

In this episode, Scrolling 2 Death host Nicki Reisberg sits down with Titania Jordan to tackle the questions they get most when speaking to youth at schools. Some of the questions may shock you! This casual catch-up covers several topics that parents are worried about including devices at school, Minecraft's educational platform and social media addiction. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids  *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch 

Are school-issued devices fueling children's screen addiction? The American Academy of Pediatrics sets screen-time standards, and we do our best to limit kids' time on devices, but what is happening in classrooms? Matt Todd, host of The Ranch Podcast, first realized the extent of the problem while volunteering in his son's first-grade classroom. After his son finished an assignment early, he was “rewarded” with free time on his school-issued Chromebook. With internet browsers and YouTube enabled for educational purposes, the options for entertainment are endless – along with the dangers that come with unsupervised browsing. Kids use their school Chromebooks and iPads during passing periods, at lunch, and even at home (after homework is done). Gamified education, once lauded as a solution to make learning more exciting, is actually fueling an addiction to devices and the behavioral problems that accompany it.    Matt has been working with school board officials in Idaho, and he believes they are actively seeking solutions to this growing problem. In this episode, he shares his insights with Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death and explains how raising awareness and educating parents is the best way to make a difference for kids now. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2deathbp Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2death_bark *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch: https://barkparentalcontrols.pxf.io/c/5214646/2204011/17000 *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF

The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Research: Youth Anger Linked to Age of Smartphone Access Apple's Parental Controls Fail in New Test Investors Make Offers for TikTok Nigerian Man Extradited in Sextortion Case After Teen Suicide Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies.  Learn about the Bark Phone. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids. *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch.

Someone recently commented on my Instagram, "Are you ever going to interview someone you don't agree with?" Well, this is that interview. Mackenzie Price, founder of 2 Hour Learning believes that "school is broken" and aims to fix it with an A.I. based educational model. The structure is 2 hours of screen time in the morning led by an AI tutor, followed by life skills workshops led by human guides. It's claimed that students are learning 2x as fast in academics using this model. I was eager to dive into this program with Mackenzie and compare thoughts. 

A teenage girl falling prey to a human trafficker. A suicide attempt over a leaked nude. Young children acting out scenes from a pornography video. These are just a few of the incidents that led Jason Frost and his wife to start Human Wired, an organization dedicated to protecting children from online harm and exploitation. As former teachers, they witnessed the loss of innocence with the rise of social media– and it devastated them.    What started as a tool for connection transformed into the most profitable data mining technology, and our children are the products that fuel the profits. The core of social media is predatory AI that seeks to keep kids hooked – at any cost. The algorithm predicts what content will resonate most and serves it up without regard for appropriateness. The content is often shocking and harmful, but ‘engagement' is the only metric that matters to Big Tech.    In this episode, Jason Frost, Co-founder and CEO of Wired Human, and Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death discuss the inner workings of Big Tech and the AI systems they built, along with guidance for parents who want to safeguard their children from online harms.

In this episode, Utah State Senator Mike McKell joins Nicki Reisberg to tackle the pressing issue of online safety for teens. Together, they delve into the mental health crisis fueled by social media and the urgent need for legislative action to protect children from harmful content. Senator McKell shares insights into Utah's groundbreaking efforts to implement age verification for online platforms and overcome fierce opposition from Big Tech lobbyists. The conversation highlights the pivotal role parents play in driving change, from advocating for stronger laws to fostering open dialogue with their children about digital habits. They discuss practical tools for parents to understand the data behind the crisis and actionable steps to engage with their representatives. This episode is a call to action for bold solutions and collective effort in safeguarding the next generation in the digital age. socialharms.utah.gov

Do you always need to be productive, even when you're not at work? As our families and careers grow, responsibilities pile on while time slips away. It's no wonder that we try to maximize efficiency throughout the day. The smartphone seemed like a great solution, offering convenient ways to tackle our mental to-do lists. Amazon order? Done. Email reply? Sent. We've taken multi-tasking to a new level—but at what cost? Your claimed efficiency is diminishing your presence – especially with the people who matter most. Smartphone devices have trained our brains to always be “on.” A constant barrage of notifications, emails, and texts, along with the urge to check off tasks during our “downtime,” have replaced moments of rest, creativity, and reflection. But how do you define “downtime” now? While your kids are playing on the playground? Shouldn't we prioritize our presence with them—watching our kids play or even joining them—rather than trying to be productive every minute of the day? Listen to a compelling conversation about the pros & cons of ditching the smartphone for a “healthier phone” to create a better balance in life. Clare Morell joins Nicki from Scrolling 2 Death to share her experience trying two popular, alternative phone brands. For a discount on the ⁠Wisephone⁠, use code: CLARE This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies.  Learn about the Bark Phone: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2deathbp  Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids. https://info.bark.us/scrolling2death_bark *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFFLearn about the Bark Watch: https://barkparentalcontrols.pxf.io/c/5214646/2204011/17000 

Today, January 17, 2025, marks a monumental day as the U.S. Supreme Court unanimously upheld the controversial "TikTok divest-or-ban" law. This decision is being hailed as a major victory by advocates for online safety and national security, but it also leaves families, policymakers, and Big Tech wondering—what happens next? In this episode, we dive deep into the implications of this historic ruling. Will President Trump follow through with enforcing the law? What could this mean for your family, your kids, and the broader social media landscape? Plus, we explore why TikTok's user base is migrating en masse to another Chinese-owned app, RedNote, and whether it poses similar concerns. To help us untangle the legal, political, and social ramifications, I'm joined by legislative expert Rick Lane, who has spent years on the frontlines of tech policy. Together, we tackle your burning questions, examine the potential ripple effects for Big Tech, and discuss how families can navigate this rapidly changing digital world. If you're a parent, policymaker, or simply concerned about the future of social media, you won't want to miss this episode. Rick Lane is a tech policy expert, child safety advocate, and the founder and CEO of IGGY Ventures LLC. IGGY advises and invests in companies, projects, and public policy initiatives that can positively impact society. ⁠Connect with Rick on LinkedIn⁠ [RESEARCH] The CCP's Digital Charm Offensive: How TikTok's Search Algorithm and Pro-China Influence Networks Indoctrinate GenZ Users in the United States This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch