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In this episode of Thriving Parenting, we explore what's really happening when your child's big emotions set off something big in you. From meltdowns at bedtime to public tantrums and sibling fights, these moments can feel overwhelming and deeply personal. But what if your child's behaviour isn't something to fix, it's communication? Drawing on insights from Circle of Security, we unpack why behaviour is a signal, what “shark music” is, and how your nervous system plays a powerful role in shaping your child's emotional development. This is an honest, compassionate conversation about triggers, co-regulation, rupture and repair, and how to stay bigger, stronger, wiser and kind — even when it feels hard.In this episode, you'll learn:Why behaviour is communication, not manipulationWhat your child is really asking for during meltdownsHow “shark music” gets activated inside parentsWhy when emotion goes up, thinking goes down — for both of youThe snow globe metaphor for understanding overwhelmWhy regulating yourself first is not selfish, it's essentialPractical ways to pause and reset in triggering momentsThe difference between fixing behaviour and containing emotionWhen and how to teach after the storm has passedWhy security is built in the middle, not through perfection, but through repairThis episode is a reminder that your child's big feelings are not proof you're failing. They're proof your child feels safe enough to fall apart with you. And your power as a parent lives in the pause.If you've ever wondered why motherhood feels harder than the things you once excelled at, this episode will remind you that you're not failing. You're evolving.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 103 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

What happens when a woman who thrives on structure, achievement and control steps into a season where none of those strategies work the same way? In this deeply honest episode, we explore the identity shift that can shake high-achieving women to their core when they become mothers. From birth plans that unravel to feeding struggles, sleep disruptions and the quiet grief of losing your old self, this conversation gently unpacks the uncomfortable in-between of who you were and who you're becoming.Sarah Hart is a former Google marketer turned online business strategist and founder of Hart Studios, where she helps women transform their expertise into courses, digital products and scalable online offers. A self-confessed type A achiever, Sarah shares how first-time motherhood became a profound awakening into surrender, nervous system regulation and redefining success. Today, she blends business strategy with emotional awareness to support modern mothers and multi-passionate women building aligned, burnout-free businesses.In this episode, you'll learn:Why high-achieving, type A women can find the transition into motherhood especially confrontingHow identity loss shows up when your worth has been tied to productivity and performanceThe emotional toll of feeding struggles, triple feeding and feeling like you're “failing” at something that's meant to be naturalHow outsourcing your intuition can increase anxiety and self-doubtThe connection between nervous system regulation and sustainable parentingWhy trying to parent in hustle mode often leads to burnoutHow returning to work can sometimes support mental health and identity integrationThe impact of people-pleasing and perfectionism in early motherhoodPractical ways to develop healthier coping mechanisms before or during motherhoodA new definition of success rooted in gratitude, presence and self-compassionIf you've ever wondered why motherhood feels harder than the things you once excelled at, this episode will remind you that you're not failing. You're evolving.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 102 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this Baby Bitesize episode, Jen speaks into a space so many parents find themselves stuck in. That confusing, exhausting grey area where everyone says catnapping is normal, but in your home it feels anything but okay. Through a real conversation with one of her Sleep Godmother clients, Jen gently explores the difference between what's biologically common and what is actually working for your baby and your family, reminding parents that normal does not always mean sustainable.In this episode, you'll learn:Why catnapping can be biologically normal, but not always supportive or sustainableHow to tell the difference between a happy catnapper and a dysregulated oneWhy short naps paired with crying, fussiness, and poor awake-time tolerance are important signalsHow chronic dysregulation affects both baby and parent nervous systemsWhy babies who are struggling often need more support, not lessHow parental burnout can build when you're borrowing from an empty cupWhat gentle, flexible adjustments can look like without rigid schedules or forcing sleepWhy trusting your gut matters when something doesn't feel right at homeThe reminder that every baby and every family is different, and support is always allowedThis episode is a compassionate reminder that just because something is described as normal doesn't mean you have to white-knuckle your way through it. You and your baby are allowed to take up space in the messy middle, and you don't have to figure it out alone.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 101 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this special 100th episode of Thriving Parenting, Jen looks back on the motherhood moments that shaped not only her parenting journey, but the passion and purpose behind this podcast and the community it has become.From becoming a mum at 26, navigating an emergency caesarean, postpartum anxiety, and feeling deeply unequipped in those early days, to raising three very different children and learning the power of connection, energy, and nervous system safety, Jen shares her story with honesty and compassion.This episode isn't about having all the answers.It's about showing up.About seasons of loneliness, growth, and learning to ask for support.And about why thriving parenting always starts with a thriving parent.Jen reflects on:Her early motherhood experiences and birth storiesThe realities of postpartum support (and the lack of it)Learning to trust intuition over noise and doom-scrollingHow connection, humour, and energy shaped her parenting styleWhy perfection isn't the goal, and why rupture and repair matterHow her journey as a nurse, mother, and practitioner led to the work she does todayShe also shares more about her current work supporting families through sleep, nervous system regulation, emotional wellbeing, and airway health, and why a multidisciplinary, compassionate approach matters so deeply.Above all, this episode is a reminder that you matter too.Your needs, your wellbeing, and your nervous system are just as important as your child's.Whether you've been listening from the very beginning or you're new here, this episode invites you to feel less alone, more seen, and supported in your parenting journey.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 100 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

Postpartum rage is rarely spoken about, yet so many mums quietly carry it with shame. In this episode, Jen sits down with Beth Caniglia business owner, brand strategist, speaker, and mum of two to share her lived experience of postpartum rage after her second baby.Beth opens up about the brutal shift from one child to two, the sleep deprivation that tipped her from “thriving” into survival, and the moments that left her feeling scared of her own reactions. Together, Jen and Beth unpack what postpartum rage can look like, why it can feel like it comes out of nowhere, and how awareness and the right tools can help you interrupt the spiral before it explodes.This conversation is honest, warm, and deeply normalising. If you've ever thought “What's wrong with me?” after yelling, snapping, or feeling like you're about to lose it, this episode will help you feel less alone and more supported.About Beth CanigliaBeth is a business owner, mother of two, speaker, storyteller, and brand strategist. She runs Firesauce Creative with her husband and is passionate about speaking honestly about the highs and lows of blending entrepreneurship and motherhood.Find Beth here: Firesauce Creative (firesauce.com.au)In This Episode, We CoverWhy the jump from one to two kids can feel like being “split in two”How sleep deprivation shrinks your capacity and fuels reactivityThe shame spiral that often follows rage, and why it keeps mums stuckThe “bottling it up” pattern: why anger can feel sudden, but isn'tHow postpartum rage can be a nervous system signal, not a character flawTools that helped Beth rebuild regulation and widen her window of toleranceWhy community, support, and honest conversations matter more than everWould like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 99 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this gentle, baby bite-sized episode of Thriving Parenting, Jen explores one of the most powerful and often overlooked parenting tools: the pause.When our baby cries or our child becomes upset, the instinct to fix, stop, or intervene immediately can feel overwhelming. And that instinct exists for a reason. Our nervous system is wired for protection. But when hypervigilance runs the show all day, every day, parenting can start to feel harder rather than easier.This episode unpacks how pausing is not ignoring your baby. It is choosing to respond from safety rather than reflex.Jen explains how a brief pause helps bring our adult brain back online, giving us access to perspective, choice, and intuition. From newborn sleep to toddler emotions, pausing creates space to observe, gather information, and decide what support is truly needed in that moment.You will hear why:Hypervigilance is a normal part of becoming a parent, but can become exhausting when it stays switched on constantlyPausing helps regulate your nervous system so you can co-regulate with your childBabies and toddlers often surprise us when given a small moment to settle, adjust, or problem-solveThe pause supports sleep by avoiding unnecessary overstimulationOur own past experiences shape how we respond to crying, anger, and frustrationAwareness and compassion are key to breaking reactive cyclesJen also shares a simple, tangible practice she uses herself, placing a hand on her chest and breathing, to interrupt knee-jerk reactions and return to intentional leadership.This episode is a reminder that you are not doing less by pausing. You are choosing presence, wisdom, and connection. And that choice matters for both you and your child.

In this episode of Thriving Parenting, Jen is joined by Dr Bianca Mastromanno, perinatal clinical psychologist, for a compassionate, grounding conversation that helps new mums feel seen and less alone. Together they unpack what postpartum anxiety can actually look like, why a degree of hyperawareness is expected, and how to tell the difference between normal maternal vigilance and anxiety that needs extra support.They explore maternal preoccupation (Winnicott's term for the brain shift that happens in motherhood), explaining why your mind may feel intensely focused on your baby's safety, needs, and environment, especially in the first 6–12 months. Bianca reframes this hypervigilance as functional, evolutionary, and often temporary, while also acknowledging that for some parents, anxiety can become self-fuelling and get “stuck” in ways that interfere with daily life.A big focus of the episode is intrusive thoughts: unwanted, automatic thoughts that often involve harm, safety, or worst-case scenarios. Bianca normalises how common they are (often close to universal), why they show up more when you're sleep deprived, and why having intrusive thoughts does not mean you want them to happen. Jen and Bianca share real examples to reduce the shame and silence so many parents carry.They also discuss modern triggers, including how social media can intensify fear and expand the “library” your brain pulls from, feeding postpartum hypervigilance. The conversation offers reassurance, practical tools, and clear guidance on when to reach out for support, especially if thoughts become frequent, intense, or start changing your behaviour in avoidant or compulsive ways.This one is for the parent who's quietly wondering, Am I okay? You're not broken. You're not alone. And help can be gentle, accessible, and deeply supportive.In this episode, you'll hear:Why the question Is this normal? is almost universal in postpartumWhat maternal preoccupation is and why hyperawareness is expectedHow postpartum anxiety can show up as vigilance, scanning, and constant mental checkingWhat intrusive thoughts are, why they happen, and what they do not mean about youThe difference between noticing a thought and acting as if it's a factHow sleep deprivation can worsen intrusive thoughts and nervous system sensitivityThe role of social media in amplifying postpartum fear and threat perceptionPractical ways to “step back” from intrusive thoughts (without battling them)When professional support is recommended, and why it's safe to seek helpResources like PANDA for support, information, and referral pathwaysSmall nervous system supports postpartum: hydration, nutrition, sunlight, movement, music, micro-momentsWould like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more...

Welcome back to the Thriving Parenting Podcast, where we explore the parent behind the act of parenting itself.In this episode, Jen dives into one of the most accessible yet overlooked parenting tools we all already have, even on our most exhausting days: humour.If parenting feels heavy, serious, or like you're just pushing through the afternoons, this episode is a gentle reminder that laughter doesn't have to be loud, performative, or natural right now to be powerful. It's not about being funny or entertaining your child. It's about using small, playful moments to regulate your nervous system, support your child's emotional world, and bring connection back within reach.Humour, even in its tiniest form, is nervous system medicine.Jen explores how laughter helps complete stress cycles, supports emotional regulation, and brings the prefrontal cortex back online for both parents and children. When we laugh, we soften separation, ease transitions, and remind our children through our bodies that they are safe and supported.This episode offers practical, real-life examples of how humour can be woven into everyday parenting without adding more to your plate, including:Using playful connection during bedtime, mealtimes, and transitionsGentle humour for babies, toddlers, and preschoolersHow silliness supports emotional regulation and rupture and repairWhy laughter models safety more effectively than lecturesWays to access humour when it doesn't feel natural or safe for you yetJen also speaks honestly about why humour can feel vulnerable, especially if you didn't grow up with it, and how to rebuild your “humour muscle” slowly and compassionately. From shaking stress out of your body, to laughing at parenting mishaps, to building a “funny bank” of memories, this episode invites you to reconnect with the playful part of yourself without pressure.Because parenting doesn't need to be serious all the time.Your child doesn't need perfection.They need your presence, and laughter helps you return to it faster than almost anything else.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 96 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here.Until next time, Thrivers

In this gentle baby bitesize episode of Thriving Parenting, Jen invites you to pause and reflect on a pattern many parents know all too well. Rushing through the day, counting down to bedtime, and only truly delighting in our children once they are asleep, through photos, videos, or the baby monitor.Jen explores why this happens, especially during busy seasons like Christmas, and how the mental load, invisible to-do lists, and survival mode can pull us away from real-time connection. While this is completely human and deeply common, she offers a compassionate reframe. What if connection didn't have to wait until the day was over?This episode gently reminds us that connection is a core human need, for both parents and children. When children feel seen, heard, and delighted in, it can support cooperation, ease transitions, and make parenting feel lighter.Jen shares five simple, intentional moments of presence you can weave into everyday life. From eye contact during feeds, to fully listening to their stories, to noticing their little hands in the shopping trolley. These small pockets of connection matter more than we realise.This is not about doing more. It is about being more present in the moments you are already in. A beautiful reminder that your presence is the most precious gift you can give your child. Especially at this time of year.Your children need your presence more than your presents.If sleep or parenting feels overwhelming right now, Jen also shares details about her free Sleep Clarity Sessions, offering calm, pressure-free support to help you move from surviving to thriving.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 95 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here.Until next time, Thrivers

Airway health is one of those invisible pieces of the parenting puzzle that can quietly shape everything, from feeding and sleep to behaviour, development, and long-term health. In this episode of Thriving Parenting, Jen dives into what many parents are never told to look for early on: the spectrum of airway dysfunction that often starts long before a child would ever be diagnosed with obstructive sleep apnoea.Jen is joined by Dr Shereen Lim, a pioneer in dental sleep medicine and author of Breathe Sleep Thrive, whose work centres on early intervention and helping families understand how breathing, feeding, tongue function, and jaw development are all deeply connected.If you've ever wondered why your baby mouth breathes, snores, struggles to feed, seems restless at night, or avoids chewing, this conversation will help you connect the dots in a way that finally makes sense.In this episode, you'll learn:Why obstructive sleep apnoea is often the tip of the iceberg, and what can show up years earlierThe early signs of airway dysfunction that can be easily missed, especially in infancyWhy mouth breathing is never “normal”, and how early awareness can change a child's long-term health trajectoryThe powerful “rapid growth window” in the first year, and why jaw and facial development matters for the airwayHow modern feeding patterns (purees, pouches, processed foods) can keep kids stuck in the “suck phase” and reduce jaw strengthWhat parents can do if breastfeeding didn't work out (without guilt), including practical ways to support oral function and chewing from six monthsWhat to look for if your baby is snoring, noisy breathing, or sleeping with an open mouthA grounded, individualised take on tongue ties, why release isn't a magic fix, and why support matters before and afterRed flags beyond sleep, including feeding struggles, “reflux-like” symptoms caused by air intake, picky eating, gagging, speech delays, and teeth grindingWhy airway issues aren't only an ENT problem, and how adenoids and tonsils can be a symptom, not the root causeWhat “good sleep” should actually look like: silent, still, mouth closed, and truly restorativeBook: Discover How Airway Health Can Unlock Your Child's Greater Health, Learning, and PotentialWould like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 93 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at...

Welcome back, Thrivers, to another baby bite-sized episode. This short and gentle conversation is for the parents who don't often feel seen in baby sleep spaces. The ones whose babies settle well with space, sleep independently, and don't always need to be held to drift off, yet somehow feel guilt or quiet shame because of it.In this episode, we explore why it's not only possible, but completely healthy, for some babies to feel safe and secure outside of arms. We unpack the many reasons this can happen, from early exposure to multiple safe sleep spaces, emerging self-soothing skills, and temperament, to regulation, responsiveness, and the emotional tools parents bring into the relationship.This episode gently challenges the belief that secure attachment is measured by exhaustion, constant proximity, or how much a baby needs you at night. Instead, it reframes attachment as responsiveness, trust, emotional availability, and meeting needs when they arise, not forcing closeness when it isn't needed.If you've ever felt triggered by online conversations about baby sleep, questioned yourself because your experience looks different, or wondered whether you're doing it wrong because things are actually going well, this episode is for you.You're not doing something wrong. You're responding to your baby.And that matters more than the noise.Inside this episode:Why some babies genuinely sleep better with spaceHow temperament and regulation influence sleepThe hidden identity shifts that come with easier sleepWhy secure attachment isn't about where or how your baby sleepsLetting go of guilt and trusting your baby as your guideWould like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 93 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this grounding and deeply validating episode, Jen unpacks one of the most misunderstood parts of modern parenting: the difference between co-regulating and controlling. On the surface, our responses can look the same, but underneath, the energy is completely different — and it's often our own nervous system, not our child's emotions, driving the moment.Jen walks you through why young children cannot regulate on their own in the early years, what true co-regulation looks like, and the subtle ways we may accidentally slip into control when our own triggers, childhood patterns, or overwhelm take over.Inside the episode, you'll learn:Why co-regulation was never meant to burn you outHow generational patterns shape the way you respond to cryingWhy trying to “fix” emotions actually makes things harderWhat your child really needs during big feelings (hint: not perfection)Five simple, practical ways to support emotional regulation without losing yourselfJen also explores how our instinct to stop tears — in children and adults — often interrupts the emotional release our bodies are designed for. She shares how shifting from fixing to anchoring can change the entire experience for both you and your child.This episode is full of compassion, clarity, and real-world tools to help you respond with presence rather than pressure, attunement rather than anxiety, and confidence rather than exhaustion.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 92 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this deeply honest and emotional episode, Jen sits down with mindset coach and soon-to-be mum, Breanna May, to unpack the side of IVF that doesn't make it onto the glossy brochures. From being labelled “high risk” after multiple cervical procedures, to navigating distrust in the medical system, fear of needles, and the grief of failed transfers, Breanna takes us inside the reality of trying to conceive when it wasn't supposed to be this hard.Breanna shares how she moved from resisting IVF to finally surrendering to support, the mental gymnastics of reframing daily injections as “baby juice,” and the moment everything changed during her second transfer – from a shooting-star embryo on the screen to reading “pregnant” on a test while camping with her husband. She also reflects on how IVF impacted her identity, body image, relationship, and ultimately, her belief in her own body again.In this episode, you'll hear:Breanna's journey from “I'll fall pregnant easily” to years of unexplained infertilityHow past cervical surgeries turned her pregnancy into “high risk” and complicated embryo transferThe mindset shift that helped her finally accept IVF and reframe injections as an act of lovePractical tips to survive the wait after transfer (and why staying busy matters)The power of surrender and belief: “Whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right.”If you're walking the IVF path, feeling like you “shouldn't” be here or wondering how much more you can take, this conversation is a tender, validating reminder that you're not alone – and that hope can still live inside a really hard story.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 91 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this baby bite-sized episode, Jen breaks down one of the most common modern parenting dilemmas: “Does that quick car nap actually count—and what should I do next?”If you've ever rushed home for nap time only to face a failed transfer, a full-blown nap protest, or a suddenly wide-awake baby, this episode gives you the clarity and calm you need.Jen explains why on-the-go dozes and mini car snoozes can completely reset sleep pressure—especially for babies under six months and why heading straight to the bedroom often backfires. Instead, she guides you through what actually works: slow transitions, gentle interaction, and watching for fresh sleep cues rather than watching the clock.You'll learn:Why a 10–15 minute car nap can wipe out more sleep pressure than you thinkWhen a transfer might work—and when it absolutely won'tHow to create a short “adjustment window” at home so your baby can reset before the napWhat to do differently if they only dozed off versus slept for 20+ minutesHow to honour your baby's nervous system and your own, so naps feel less stressful for everyoneWhy flexibility and compassion matter far more than perfect timingJen also shares her own relatable “please don't fall asleep yet!” car moments because we've all been there, and gives you permission to adapt, reset, and trust the process.You'll walk away knowing exactly what to do after an on-the-go snooze, how to prevent a nap battle, and how to stay grounded when routines don't go to plan.A gentle reminder to take with you:A short car nap doesn't always mean an easy transfer. Give your baby time to adjust, follow their cues, and trust your own instincts. You're not failing—you're finding your rhythm.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 90 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this episode of Thriving Parenting, Jen dives into pram sleep and motion sleep – the good, the tricky, and how to set pram naps up so they support both your baby and your sanity.She starts by revisiting her popular “10–10–10 Rule” for pockets of connection, sharing real stories from families who've used it to transform challenging behaviour and create more harmony at home. From there, she guides you through the world of pram naps: why they work, how they support your baby's nervous system and body clock, and how they can give you some much-needed breathing space in your day.Drawing on her own experience with three children (including seasons of multiple kids under five and life overseas), Jen breaks down practical, compassionate steps to help you feel confident using pram naps without guilt, fear of “junk sleep,” or pressure to get it perfect.In this episode, you'll learn:How the 10–10–10 Rule sets up cooperation, eases tricky moments, and helps you feel more like the parent you want to be.Why naps on the go are not junk sleep, and how motion, gentle rocking and outdoor light support your baby's nervous system, circadian rhythm, and sense of safety.How pram naps looked different with each child, from “nice to have” with her first, to essential with a toddler in tow, to ultra-flexible naps while living in South Korea.Six practical steps to make pra naps workHow to tell the difference between tired/frustrated cries and “this is too much” stress, when to keep gently supporting, and when to pick up, reset, or transfer.Why shorter pram naps as babies grow are normalWhat to expect as your baby becomes more aware, and how to work with changing nap lengths without panicking.How a simple pram nap – a walk outside, a quiet coffee, a few minutes to actually breathe – can reset your nervous system and increase your patience for the rest of the day.Jen closes with a reminder that neither you nor your baby are robots, and that flexibility, repetition, and self-kindness are some of the most powerful parenting tools you have.Get the Free Awake Times Guide: https://sleepthrivegrow.com/ https://lullabump.com/products/lullabump-1?srsltid=AfmBOoqRL11x1LiVd5zU4AOVCS77GEn_anoqdPTUmJSSocJj4JA6owEkWould like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 89 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this heartfelt episode of Thriving Parenting, Jen is joined once again by Dr. Bianca Mastromanno, clinical psychologist and mother of two, to explore one of the most powerful skills we can develop as parents — helping our children (and ourselves) feel safe with big emotions.Together, they unpack why feelings can be so hard to sit with, how our own upbringing shapes the way we respond to emotions, and what it really means to emotionally coach our kids — without trying to fix, rush, or rescue their feelings.From real-life motherhood stories to practical, compassionate insights, this episode helps you embrace imperfection, build emotional trust, and navigate those intense moments with more calm and connection.In This Episode:The impact of our own emotional history on how we respond to our child's feelingsWhy “good girl/boy” or “stop crying” messages affect emotional safetyWhat emotion coaching really means (and why it starts with your own awareness)How to validate your child's emotions without rewarding unwanted behaviourUnderstanding guilt vs shame and how self-compassion transforms parentingThe balance between empathy, boundaries, and allowing healthy discomfortWhy repair after rupture matters more than getting it perfect every timeParenting isn't about eliminating your child's big feelings, it's about being their safe place while they learn to move through them. When you show them that emotions are safe, you teach them resilience that lasts a lifetime.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 88 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

Are you feeling torn between what you “should” do and what actually feels right for your family? In this bite-size episode, Jen shares five powerful reflection questions to help you reconnect with your instincts and find balance when baby sleep feels confusing, overwhelming, or stuck.These questions are designed from real conversations with parents who've been exactly where you are — caught between expert advice, exhaustion, and guilt. Jen helps you gently tune out the noise, explore what you truly want for your family, and discover a version of sleep that feels sustainable for both you and your child.You'll be invited to reflect on:What would you change if there was no guilt or fear?What does sleep look like if it works for everyone?Are your beliefs helping or limiting your growth?What makes change feel impossible?Is your motivation coming from you — or outside pressure?This episode isn't about following a formula. It's about creating space to get curious, honor your needs as a parent, and find a flexible middle ground that feels aligned with your values.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 87 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

Why does bedtime often feel like a battle? In this episode of Thriving Parenting, we explore what's really behind those nightly clashes, and it's not about sleep. It's about connection, capacity, and energy.Jen unpacks the real reason bedtime feels so hard: your exhaustion meets your child's deep need for closeness. You'll learn how to shift this dynamic with simple, realistic strategies that bring calm back into the evening routine. In this episode:Why bedtime resistance is a sign of unmet connection, not “bad behaviour”How to create a calm transition from awake time to sleep timeThe power of small, quality moments of connection before bedChecking your emotional capacity and resetting through the dayPractical tools to make nights smoother (even when you're exhausted)Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 86 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

Feeling cooked, burnt out, and running on fumes? In this conversation, Jen sits down with trauma-informed breathwork facilitator Kellie Blinco to unpack two deceptively simple practices—Yoga Nidra (non-sleep deep rest) and conscious breathwork that can reset your nervous system, sharpen your focus, and help you feel human again. Kellie shares her personal path from chronic dysregulation to healing, why a 21-minute Yoga Nidra can feel like 3–4 hours of restorative sleep, and how different breathwork styles from gentle diaphragmatic breathing to conscious connected breathwork—support real emotional processing (not just “thinking about it”). You'll hear practical tips for mums and time-poor parents, what to expect in a session, how safety and facilitation matter, and why the attempt to outrun pain often creates more of it.Kellie Blinco is the founder of Feather & Sage Bloom studio in Joondalup (WA). Trauma-informed facilitator specialising in Yoga Nidra, gentle breathwork, and conscious connected breathwork.What we cover:Kellie's journey: from nervous system dysregulation to plant-medicine insights and finding breath as a legal, accessible healing pathwayYoga Nidra basics: seven guided stages, accessing theta brainwaves, and why stillness mattersWhy 21 minutes is enough: the science-adjacent rationale for deep mental relaxation in light-sleep statesNon-sleep deep rest (NSDR) for parents: quick recovery when real naps aren't happeningBreathwork 101: box breathing vs. gentle diaphragmatic breath vs. conscious connected breathworkMental vs. body resistance: how to tell the difference and work safelyFinishing stress cycles: releasing stored emotions somatically (not just talking about them)Safety, set & setting: the role of a trauma-informed facilitator and consent-led pacingReal-world outcomes: clarity, energy, lowered mental chatter, and softer reactivity in day-to-day parentingWould like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 85 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this bite-size episode of Thriving Parenting, we're flipping the script on one of the most common bedtime rituals—reading a book before sleep. While storytime is often seen as a cornerstone of early parenting routines, Jen explores why it might actually be too stimulating for some babies and young toddlers.She unpacks the signs that a bedtime book may be delaying rather than supporting sleep—like restlessness, over-engagement, and long settling times—and shares gentle adjustments parents can make to create calmer, smoother nights. From shifting storytime earlier in the evening to toning down animated reading voices, Jen offers practical ways to tailor bedtime to your child's age, temperament, and needs.For parents of older toddlers and preschoolers, she highlights how connection-focused books can still play a beautiful role in filling up emotional cups before sleep. Jen even shares her favourite reads, like More Than by Hayley M. Willis and The Invisible String by Patrice Karst, to nurture security and connection at bedtime.The takeaway? There's no universal right or wrong routine—just what works best for you and your baby. Sometimes, skipping the bedtime story is the kindest thing you can do for a restful night.Key Takeaways:Some babies find bedtime stories too stimulating—watch for restlessness or long settling times.Try moving reading earlier or softening your tone to create a calmer wind-down.For older toddlers, choose connection-rich stories that reassure and soothe.There are no “shoulds” in parenting—trust what works for your family.Recommended Books:More Than by Hayley M. WillisThe Invisible String by Patrice KarstListen now on Thriving Parenting and discover how rethinking your nighttime routine could transform your evenings.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 84 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this episode of Thriving Parenting, host Jen introduces two simple yet powerful practices that can completely transform your family's connection and calm — the 10:10:10 Rule and the 10-Minute Do Nothing Rule.Jen shares how these time-tested tools helped her navigate early motherhood with three kids under five and a husband often away for work. Through small, intentional moments — 10 minutes after waking, 10 minutes when reuniting, and 10 minutes before bedtime. She discovered how meaningful connections can shift behaviour, reduce overwhelm, and bring more joy into the home.You'll also learn why doing nothing for 10 minutes with your child is one of the most productive things you can do — no instructions, no multitasking, just being present.By focusing on connection over perfection, you'll see more calm, more cooperation, and more closeness in your family life. Jen reminds us: “Connection is why we're here — it's what gives purpose and meaning to our lives.”Tune in to learn how just 30 minutes a day can change everything — for you and your child.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 83 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

Snoring in kids is often brushed off as “cute” or “normal” - but did you know it can actually be a hidden red flag for serious health issues? In this episode of Thriving Parenting, we're joined by paediatric ENT surgeon and sleep expert Dr. David McIntosh to unpack the truth about sleep disordered breathing in children.We dive into:Why snoring is never just harmless noise in kidsThe link between sleep disordered breathing and behaviour, focus, and growthHow to spot early warning signs parents often missPractical steps to seek help and treatmentIf your child snores, mouth breathes, or struggles with restless sleep, this conversation is a must-listen. Learn how early intervention can make a life-changing difference to your child's wellbeing, development, and future health.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 82 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

If you've ever found yourself wide awake at 2 a.m. with a baby who is not crying, not hungry, but instead happily babbling, standing in the cot, or ready to start the day—you've met the world of split nights. These long stretches of middle-of-the-night wakefulness can feel confusing and exhausting for parents, especially when your little one seems perfectly content while you're desperate for sleep. In this bite-size episode of Thriving Parenting, we unpack what's really going on during split nights, why they happen, and how you can gently guide your baby or toddler back toward more restful, consolidated sleep.You'll learn:What split nights really are (and how they differ from regular night wakings).Why they happen—from developmental leaps to a mismatch between circadian rhythm and sleep pressure.Why they're actually normal Practical steps to help—including adjusting naps, bedtime, and wake times, plus keeping things calm and boring at night.Real client stories that show how small tweaks can make a big difference.Split nights might be normal, but they don't have to derail your family's sleep. With the right strategies, patience, and consistency, you can support your child back into more restful nights.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 81 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

This episode of Thriving Parent-ing dives beneath sleep tactics into the stories we tell ourselves—especially in hard moments. Through a real Sleep Godmother client case, we surface three common beliefs that stall progress, unpack why they feel so true in the moment, and show how nervous-system-first tools help you move from stuck to steady, with changes that actually last.What you'll learn:The 3 sticky stories that keep parents looping at sleep timeWhy crying with a caregiver present is not harmful—and how co-regulation builds safety and resilienceHow your brain's survival wiring (fight/flight/freeze) makes old patterns feel “safer” than changeThe difference between short-lived stress of change vs ongoing stress of fragmented sleepWorking within your (and your child's) challenge zone so change is doable, not overwhelmingA practical, step-by-step way to pace adjustments and keep momentumWould like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 80 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

Becoming parents is one of the biggest shifts a relationship can ever go through—and yet, no one really prepares you for what happens between you and your partner after kids. In this episode of Thriving Parenting, we sit down with Leonie Akhidenor, relationship coach, mum of two, and host of Parenthood Podcast, to talk honestly about what really changes. Her podcast Parenthood was a 2024 Australian Podcast Awards finalist. You'll hear why even the strongest couples experience comparison, resentment, and disconnection in the early years and how those same challenges can actually build a stronger foundation when navigated with awareness and care.We'll talk about:Why relationships always change after children—and why that's not a bad thingThe comparison game: how sleep deprivation and imbalance fuel tit-for-tat thinkingResentment, guilt, and mourning your old life—normal emotions no one talks aboutThe mental load and why partners aren't mind readersIntimacy after birth and why connection looks different in this seasonHow to ask for help in ways that actually landMicro-moments of reconnection and why they matter more than grand gesturesThe importance of seeking support whether through honest conversations or professional helpIf you've ever found yourself wondering “are we okay?” in the chaos of new parenthood, this episode is here to reassure you that you're not alone. Relationships don't stay the same after kids—and that's the point. With compassion, communication, and a little creativity, they can become stronger than ever.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 79 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this bite-size episode of Thriving Parenting, we unpack one of the most common sleep questions parents ask: Do babies really need a nightlight?Host Jen takes you through the science of circadian rhythms, melatonin, and how light exposure affects sleep. You'll discover why complete darkness is best for little ones under two, why separation anxiety (not fear of the dark) is often behind bedtime struggles, and simple strategies like dimming the house lights, leaving the door ajar, or using hallway light to ease the transition to sleep.For toddlers over two, when imagination and genuine fears of the dark can appear, Jen shares when and how a soft, warm nightlight might help—plus tips for using it without disrupting sleep.This episode is packed with practical advice, personal stories, and gentle reminders that parenting is about experimenting, connecting, and finding what works best for your family.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 78 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

Sleep associations are one of the most misunderstood topics in parenting—often surrounded by guilt, pressure, and myths. In this episode of Thriving Parenting, we're breaking it all down and reframing what sleep associations really mean for you and your baby.You'll learn why sleep associations aren't “bad habits” but instead powerful tools for connection, safety, and trust. From rocking and feeding to sleep, to white noise, bedtime routines, and comforters, these cues are the building blocks of how babies feel safe enough to drift off.We'll talk about:Why every human (babies and adults alike) has sleep associationsThe difference between perspective and perception when it comes to your child's view of safetyHow instinct and biology shape your baby's need for connectionWhen and how to gently shift sleep associations if they're no longer working for you or your childMyths about “bad habits” and why they aren't trueWhy your bond with your baby won't break if things change—it can actually grow strongerIf you've ever worried about creating “rods for your back” with rocking, feeding, or cuddling your baby to sleep—this episode will give you relief, clarity, and confidence. Because sleep isn't about habits; it's about safety, connection, and love.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 77 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this episode of Thriving Parenting, Jen sits down with remedial massage therapist who specialises in nervous system healing Mel Gorry to explore how stress and trauma show up in our bodies—and most importantly, how we can release them. Mel shares her personal journey of living with cystic fibrosis, facing medical trauma, and discovering the healing impact of bodywork. Together, they unpack why the nervous system often holds onto unresolved experiences, how tension hides in our fascia, and the real-life signs that your body might be crying out for release.From birth trauma to childhood anxiety, migraines to “mum overwhelm,” Mel offers compassionate, practical ways to reconnect with your body and bring it back into balance. You'll also hear stories of transformation from her clients and learn simple steps—like breathwork, grounding, and mindful movement—that you can start using today to build nervous system flexibility.If you've ever felt stuck in stress, constantly on edge, or disconnected from your body, this episode is a gentle reminder that healing is possible—and it starts with listening to the wisdom your body already holds.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 76 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this bite-sized episode of Thriving Parenting, we unpack a powerful reframe that could change the way you approach your baby's rest. If you've ever felt the pressure of “getting” your baby to sleep, you're not alone — but that hyperfocus can actually make the process more challenging for both of you.Discover why sleep isn't something we can force, how control can trigger stress responses, and why safety and connection are the real foundations for peaceful rest. Learn practical ways to shift from making sleep happen to creating an environment where it happens naturally — building trust, tuning into cues, and supporting your child's growing independence.If sleep has started to feel like a battle, this episode will help you find a calmer, more connected path forward.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 75 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

When sickness hits your household, especially your little one, it can rattle routines and unearth a wave of panic—especially around sleep. In this heartfelt and informative bite-sized episode, we explore how to navigate your child's sleep during times of illness, leaning into rest rather than fearing regression.Bringing her dual perspective as a nurse and mother, your host shares valuable insights on modelling calm during sickness, understanding how family history impacts our responses, and how different child temperaments—whether orchid, tulip, or dandelion—cope with being unwell. She also breaks down when to let your child sleep more, when to gently guide them back into rhythm, and how to offer support without unraveling the whole sleep routine.From tips on upright contact naps and steam showers to the power of honey, humidifiers, and holding space, this episode is packed with practical strategies to help you surrender the fear, honour your child's needs, and feel more grounded through the healing journey.What You'll Learn:How your personal illness history shapes your parentingWhy your child's temperament matters during sicknessWhen extra sleep is helpful—and when it may be disruptingPractical supports: medications, naps, contact comfort, and sleep routinesWhy 'less is more' when offering sleep support—and how to build it graduallyIllness is part of parenting. But it doesn't have to unravel everything. Learn how to support your child's rest with calm, confidence, and compassion—even when things feel tough.

In this heartfelt and empowering episode of Thriving Parenting, we're joined by community midwife and mother of four, Deyana — founder of Pregnancy Practice Perth. Deyana shares her deeply personal journey from nurse to midwife, and the moment a conversation with two strangers at a restaurant changed her career — and her calling — forever.Together, we explore the full arc of pregnancy and postpartum care, the importance of continuity of care from the moment you wee on that stick through to the raw and beautiful postpartum period, and why every woman deserves personalised, respectful, and holistic support. Deyana opens up about the joys of being with women through labour, the grief of miscarriage, the healing that comes through debriefing birth experiences, and the mental and physical preparation that transforms the birthing journey.Key takeaways include:The power of education and mindset in labourWhy postpartum recovery is often overlookedHow to emotionally and physically prepare for birthWhat women really need after an unexpected outcomeAnd beautiful words of wisdom to remind every mum: “You are not alone. You are doing an amazing job.”Whether you're expecting, healing, or reflecting on your own birth story — this episode will leave you feeling seen, supported, and uplifted.Connect with Deyana:Website: pregnancypracticeperth.com.auInstagram: @pregnancypracticeperthWould like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 73 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this heart-to-heart solo episode of Thriving Parenting, we unpack what really happens when connection slips with our kids—and how it shows up in their behaviour, especially around sleep. Jen shares a raw, real-life story about a rushed evening that left her children unsettled and what it revealed about their individual connection needs.Through personal reflections and practical tools, you'll learn:Why connection is a core human need, not just a “nice-to-have”How different children show their connection-seeking in unique waysThe surprising link between connection and smoother bedtimesThe simple shift that changed both behaviour and sleep for her familyWhy solo parenting days (like FIFO life) can amplify connection gaps—and what helpsA refreshingly honest look at self-care, self-regulation, and their impact on parentingThis episode is a gentle reminder: when your child's behaviour is louder, clingier, or more emotional—chances are they're craving connection, not control.You'll walk away with practical ideas like:— Easy connection rituals before separations like bedtime or drop-offs— The magic of 10 intentional minutes to start your day— How to rethink “bad behaviour” as connection-seeking cues— Using connection as a powerful tool for co-regulation, not just complianceThis conversation will help you shift from frustration to empathy, reconnect with your little humans more intentionally, and even make sleep smoother along the way.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 72 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this bite-sized episode of Thriving Parenting, we dive into the ins and outs of bridging naps—the handy little power naps that can help you survive tricky days with babies and toddlers.You'll learn:What exactly is a bridging nap and how it worksWhen to use it (and when it might backfire)Why it's especially helpful for babies under six monthsReal-life examples for toddlers and older babiesTroubleshooting tips for early risers and nap refusalsFrom newborns waking at 5 AM to toddlers crashing after playgroup, this episode is packed with practical tips and relatable stories (including soggy netball mornings and motocross wins!).You'll walk away with another great tool for your parenting toolbox—perfect for navigating nap gaps, early wake-ups, and overtired little ones.

In this deeply validating and enlightening episode, your host welcomes Emma Snelgar—Mental Health Nurse, ex-midwife, birth therapist, and founder of Empower Matrescence. Emma supports women across Australia in processing difficult, disappointing, or traumatic birth and postpartum experiences, offering in-home sessions in Perth and Telehealth options nationwide.Together, we unpack:What birth trauma really means (and who defines it)How to identify the signs that your birth may still be impacting you—weeks, months, or even years laterThe emotional and physical responses often misunderstood as just “new mum stuff”Why grief, anger, and disappointment after birth are valid, even if you had a "healthy baby"The protective power of birth debriefing and why it's never too lateThe essential but under-discussed transformation of matrescence—the emotional, hormonal, social, and neurological shift from woman to motherEmma shares her professional insights, her personal experiences, and the systemic challenges faced by both mothers and care providers. She also offers empowering suggestions for preparing for birth and reclaiming your story—no matter where you are on your parenting journey.Whether you're a new mum, planning your next birth, or still processing one years later—this conversation is a reminder: your experience matters.Guest Bio:Emma Snelgar is a Mental Health Nurse, birth therapist, and former midwife, specialising in supporting women who have experienced traumatic or emotionally difficult births and postpartum periods. Through her private practice, Empower Matrescence, she offers compassionate, trauma-informed support to help mothers debrief, process, and heal. Emma sees clients in-home across the Perth metro area and via Telehealth for women throughout Australia. She will soon offer Medicare rebates for eligible sessions.Connect with Emma:Website: www.empowermatrescence.comInstagram: @empowermatrescenceWould like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 70 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this heartfelt episode of Thriving Parenting, we explore why co-regulation is more than a trendy term—it's an essential tool to help your child feel safe, connected, and understood. Jen paints relatable scenarios, like calming a baby after vaccinations or soothing a toddler mid-meltdown, to illustrate how your nervous system influences your child's.You'll learn:What co-regulation actually is (and what it isn't)How it wires your child's brain for future self-regulationWhy you can't co-regulate when you're dysregulated yourselfSimple frameworks to anchor yourself before you step in to helpWhy “saying less and being more” is often the best approachHow to handle common barriers like sensory overload, exhaustion, and unhelpful cultural adviceJen also shares powerful reminders: that self-care isn't selfish, and your calm presence is the ultimate gift to your child's emotional development.Key Takeaway:Co-regulation is about lending your steady nervous system so your child learns they are safe in all their feelings. When you prioritise your own regulation first, you create a foundation of trust, resilience, and lifelong emotional strength.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 69 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

Is swaddling a newborn essential—or outdated? In this bite-sized episode, we unravel The Great Swaddle Debate by breaking down the why, when, and how of swaddling. Drawing on expert guidance from Red Nose Australia, personal parenting experience, and client insights, we explore the pros and cons of swaddling, when to stop, and how to make smooth transitions that support both your baby's development and sleep.From the science behind the startle reflex to tips on choosing the right wrap—and what to do when your baby "hates" the swaddle—we cover it all. We also offer step-by-step guidance for transitioning to arms-out sleeping, handling regressions, and navigating those first few months with gentleness and flexibility. Spoiler: there's no one-size-fits-all.Whether you're a swaddle loyalist, a curious questioner, or ready to ditch the wrap, this episode will help you feel more confident in meeting your baby right where they're at—with calm, intention, and care.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why swaddling can soothe an overstimulated nervous systemWhen (and how) to transition out of the swaddle safelyHow to support your baby's sleep while honouring their developmentRed Nose Australia guidelines for swaddling and safe sleepTools and timing for different swaddling stages (wraps, ergo pouch, Love to Dream, etc.)Tips for gradually unswaddling—without chaosWould like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 68 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this refreshingly honest episode of Thriving Parenting, we're joined by the incredible Sarah Chelle, a warm and science-savvy naturopath who helps frazzled, fatigued women feel vibrant and alive again—without fad diets or guilt.Together, we unravel the misunderstood truth about cortisol—a hormone often blamed but rarely understood—and explore how its dysregulation is impacting mums beyond the newborn phase. From why you might feel more tired after finally getting some sleep, to what Sarah calls the “cortisol crash”, this episode brings compassionate insight into the biology behind maternal exhaustion.Sarah breaks down five of the most common (and commonly missed) reasons mums feel constantly drained, including:Sleep deprivationCortisol dysregulation (low cortisol, not high!)Iron deficiencyProtein/calorie deficienciesPostpartum thyroiditisYou'll learn how to distinguish between “normal tiredness” and when it's time to investigate deeper, plus easy, actionable tips for rebuilding energy—like nap strategies, vitamin C & magnesium support, and adjusting workouts to your body's true needs.Whether you're feeling snappy, foggy, or just not quite you, this episode is a permission slip to pause, check in, and finally put your own wellbeing on the priority list.What You'll Walk Away With:A new, empowering understanding of cortisol and its role in your body.Clarity on why sleep isn't always the fix for your fatigue.The signs of deeper energy imbalances—and what to test for.Holistic, mum-friendly strategies to start feeling like yourself again.Connect with Sarah Chelle:Website: sarahchelle.comInstagram: @sarah_chelle_Podcast: The Healthiest & Happy PodcastWould like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 67 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

Welcome back, Thrivers! This episode is your permission slip to finally prioritise you—and not just in theory. This is part two of a powerful two-part series on reclaiming your energy and recharging your parenting battery, not out of guilt, but out of necessity. If you haven't caught part one yet, pause and go back—it's a must-listen foundation on recognising the signs of depletion and why recharging matters.In part two, we get practical and actionable. This is where the real change begins.Host Jen shares her real-life strategies and lived experience as a mum navigating the messy, beautiful chaos of parenthood. You'll walk away with:Quick top-ups that take five minutes or less (think: intentional sips of tea, grounding breathwork, or barefoot moments in nature).Intentional pauses—daily maintenance rituals to prevent burnout before it starts.Long-term deposits like therapy, solo time, and setting boundaries that give your energy back tenfold.This isn't a list of things to "add to your to-do list"—this is an invitation to try what fits you. You'll hear about:The power of dancing in the kitchen with your kidsThe magic of putting your phone down and picking up your joyWhy a red light sauna + ice bath date changed everything for Jen and her partnerCreating a life where joy, presence, and calm aren't a luxury—they're the baselineWhether you're down to your last bar or looking to maintain the charge you've got, this episode will leave you feeling seen, supported, and inspired to give yourself the care you've been giving everyone else.Ready to plug in and fill your cup your way? Tune in now and grab what you need—ASAP.

In this powerful and deeply relatable episode of Thriving Parenting, we ask a surprising but vital question: Are you parenting on 1% battery? Host Jen invites you to reflect on your emotional and physical energy like you would the charge on your phone — and what happens when you try to run everything on empty.Using the clever metaphor of a mobile phone, we explore what it really means to be depleted, how your “body budget” gets drained, and why the constant grind isn't a reflection of your worth — it's a sign you need to recharge.If you've ever snapped at your kids over spilled water, fantasised about bedtime at 3:47 PM, or felt the weight of “mum” for the 50th time in one hour, this episode will feel like a warm, understanding hug. You are not broken — you are just running low.You'll learn:How to recognise the subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs of depletionWhy rest and recharge are not selfish, but essentialHow to shift out of survival mode into sustainable parentingWhat guilt and shame cycles are really telling youPlus, a sneak peek of Part 2 — dropping next Tuesday — where you'll get practical, doable ways to start filling your cup (no, it doesn't require a spa day or hours of free time).Join the Conversation:What's your “low battery” moment? Share with us on Instagram @ThrivingParentingPod or tag us in your stories.

In this bite-sized but powerful episode of Thriving Parenting, we're challenging one of the most common yet misunderstood sleep strategies: “drowsy but awake.” If you've tried this method and it's leading to frustration, short naps, or endless crying fits—this episode is for you.Inspired by a heartfelt email from a mum navigating this very challenge with her four-month-old, we unpack why this method can stop working around the time of sleep maturation, how babies interpret safety in transitions, and why it's not your fault when the method doesn't stick.You'll learn:Why babies wake during transfers—even when deeply drowsyHow their developing brains perceive sudden environmental changesWhy the shift at 3.5 to 5 months makes “drowsy but awake” unravelHow temperament, sleep pressure, and developmental stages impact sleepWhy it's okay to pivot and what to try insteadHost Jen, reassures parents that failing at this method is not failing at parenting. It's a sign of growth—for your baby and for you.Learn more about the Thriving Together Membership and the Arms to Cot Coaching Course, now available at a launch discount. You'll get the step-by-step support to help your baby see the cot as a safe, restful space—without 75 attempts per nap.

In this soul-nourishing episode, we explore the transformative power of music therapy with Tara Del Borrello, a Registered and Neurologic Music Therapist and the founder of Sol Music Therapy. Tara specialises in paediatric healthcare, supporting infants through to adolescents of all abilities—including children with developmental, neurological, and mental health needs, as well as those in oncology and end-of-life care.Whether your child has additional needs or you're simply looking for more meaningful ways to connect at home, Tara offers a wealth of practical tools, heartfelt stories, and professional insights into how music can become a powerful therapeutic tool for families.

In this heartfelt episode of Thriving Parenting, we explore the deep emotional layers often overlooked when trying to solve ongoing baby sleep challenges. If you've ever bought all the guides, tried all the strategies, and still feel stuck, overwhelmed, or on the verge of burnout—this one's for you.Jen unpacks the hidden reason why strategies fall flat: unresolved stress, nervous system dysregulation, and the weight of doing it all while feeling unsupported. Through personal insight, lived experience, and client stories, she explains why you matter just as much as your baby does in the sleep journey—and how recognising your own needs is the missing link to real, lasting change.She also introduces the brand-new Thriving Together Membership—a nurturing, non-judgemental space for stressed parents to heal, grow, and finally feel supported. Expect weekly live Q&As, monthly masterclasses, and a village that gets it.Join now for just $66 for 3 months until 1st June 2025 and lock in this low price for life.

Is bedtime becoming a battle? You're not alone — and there's more going on than just “over tiredness.” In this bite-size episode, Jen unpacks three surprising reasons your baby or toddler might be resisting sleep right now — and delivers five practical strategies to help you shift from bedtime chaos to calm.From misunderstood "over tiredness" to under-stimulation and developmental leaps, this episode dives deep into why your little one might be struggling to settle — and how you can meet them with compassion, cues, and calm.You'll learn:Why “over tiredness” is often mislabelled — and what's really happening in your baby's bodyHow to spot the difference between under tiredness and a growth spurtWhat developmental leaps have to do with sleep resistance5 simple, actionable ways to create smoother sleep transitions (without sleep battles!)Remember: You're not raising a robot. You're raising a beautifully complex human. Jen's gentle reminders and expert tips will leave you feeling empowered — not overwhelmed.→ Join the waitlist for the Thriving Together Membership ($27/month) to grow your self-trust and parenting confidence with ongoing support, deep-dive resources, and a like-minded community.→ Interested in one-on-one help? Explore the Sleep Godmother Program for 3 weeks of tailored support.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 61 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this heartfelt episode, we dive deep into a topic that often gets lost in the busyness of raising children — self-love and relationships. Host Jen welcomes relationship and self-love coach, Lisa Sarayeldin, to explore how parents can reconnect with themselves while nurturing their family relationships.Lisa Sarayeldin is a relationship and self-love coach, author, and former assistant principal with a deep passion for helping people break free from self-doubt and step into their worth. After years of guiding students and educators, she realised the most important lesson wasn't found in a curriculum—it was in learning to love, accept, and empower ourselves.Now, through coaching, writing, and speaking, Lisa helps individuals rewrite their inner narrative, embrace self-love, and build relationships from a place of wholeness. Her work is grounded in the belief that self-love isn't a luxury; it's the foundation for everything. Having walked her own path of growth, resilience, and self-discovery, she's here to guide others to do the same.Lisa shares powerful insights on:Why self-love isn't a luxury, but a necessity during the early years of parentingHow small, intentional acts of self-kindness can transform your energy, parenting, and partnershipsRecognising signs of self-neglect and how to rebuild a loving relationship with yourselfPractical NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) strategies to shift mindset, language, and emotional responsesThe ripple effect of self-love on romantic relationships — and how to rebuild connection through tiny, meaningful gesturesUnderstanding emotional triggers, societal conditioning, and how parenthood can be your greatest teacher for personal growthTips for improving communication with your partner and setting healthy boundaries without guiltWe also unpack the myths of 'big' self-care and highlight how the smallest daily rituals — from drinking water to anchoring affirmations — can rebuild your sense of self and resilience.If you're feeling stretched thin, disconnected from yourself, or longing to strengthen your bond with your partner while navigating parenthood, this episode will give you hope, permission, and practical steps to begin.Connect with Lisa SarayeldinInstagram: @lisa.sarayeldinWebsite: www.lfwlifecoaching.comEmail: hello@lfwlifecoaching.com→ Join the waitlist for the Thriving Together Membership ($27/month) to grow your self-trust and parenting confidence with ongoing support, deep-dive resources, and a like-minded community.→ Interested in one-on-one help? Explore the Sleep Godmother Program for 3 weeks of tailored support.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 60 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow

In this bite-sized episode, I'm diving into one of the most powerful tools I've found in parenting: working with your baby's natural rhythm instead of forcing a rigid routine.I'm not here to give you strict nap schedules or set times. This episode is all about understanding your baby's circadian rhythm—their internal body clock and how aligning with it can make sleep smoother, reduce emotional meltdowns, and bring more ease to your day.Here's what I'll cover:What circadian rhythm actually is and why it matters for your child's sleep, digestion, and moodThe signs that your little one's rhythm might be off (like early wakings, nap battles, and bedtime chaos)Why rhythm offers more flexibility and peace of mind than routine ever couldThree simple ways how you can support your baby's rhythm todayI want you to feel less stressed, more connected, and confident in tuning into your child's needs because when they feel safe in their rhythm, everything becomes easier. Sleep improves. Behaviour softens. And parenting feels lighter.You don't need to do it perfectly. You just need to start paying attention to the natural flow of your baby's day—and yours too.→ Join the waitlist for the Thriving Together Membership ($27/month) to grow your self-trust and parenting confidence with ongoing support, deep-dive resources, and a like-minded community.→ Interested in one-on-one help? Explore the Sleep Godmother Program for 3 weeks of tailored support.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 59 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this deeply personal and powerful solo episode of Thriving Parent-ing, we explore one of the most underrated yet transformational aspects of the parenting journey: Self-Trust.If you've ever felt overwhelmed, second-guessed your choices, or searched endlessly online for validation, this conversation is for you. Your host unpacks what it truly means to trust yourself as a parent — not just to follow your instincts, but to respond in a way that aligns with your values, your child's unique needs, and your long-term goals.What You'll Learn in This Episode:The difference between instinct and self-trust in parentingHow to build and strengthen your self-trust muscleFour key ways to nurture self-trust:Slow down and truly see your childExperiment and reflect without fear of failureSeek the right kind of validation and supportUnderstand emotional and developmental milestonesWhy self-trust impacts your relationship with your child — and how they feel itHow your confidence as a parent creates emotional security for your little oneReal talk, relatable analogies (like driving for the first time), and a reminder that you don't have to be perfect to be present. Self-trust is your parenting superpower, and it's built moment by moment — through presence, practice, and grace.

Welcome back to another fortnightly Baby Bite Size episode – where your questions get answered with heart, humour, and heaps of practical support.In this episode, we're diving deep into one of the most common (and confusing!) parenting challenges: nap transitions. Specifically sparked by a listener's question about the 3-to-2 nap change, we cover all major nap transitions – from three naps to none – helping you understand what's happening at each stage and how to manage it with confidence. You'll learn:The science behind why naps are essential for learning, memory, and regulationThe average ages when nap transitions typically occurThe 5 key signs it might be time to drop a napCommon pitfalls when transitioning too earlyWhy developmental stages like 12 months and 2 years can temporarily throw nap routines out of whackReal-life insights from hundreds of clients supported through nap transitionsResources:Nap-Transition Guide - https://learn.sleepthrivegrow.com/nap-transition-guideFor other sleep guides check out here: https://sleepthrivegrow.com/essential-sleep-guidesTo learn more about Jen and her services: https://sleepthrivegrow.com/Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 57 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

In this enlightening episode of Thriving Parenting, we're joined by Dr Carrie Rigoni - a chiropractor who works with mums and children, to optimise their child's brain development, and set them up for lifelong health. She loves talking about all things vagus nerve, and all the factors that can influence brain development and function. She has a busy practice in Perth WA and is passionate about optimising the vagus nerve, supporting mums through periods of dysregulation, and helping mums understand what they can do to support their child's vagal tone too. As a busy mum of 3, she understands how hard the juggle can be!Together, we explore how understanding your nervous system (and your child's) can completely shift the way you approach parenting.Dr Carrie explains the subconscious patterns we develop from birth, the power of the vagus nerve, why familiar feels safer than regulated, and how simple daily habits can help parents and children thrive emotionally and physically.Dr Carrie is passionate about using the online world to educate mothers on the power of the vagus nerve, and also offers group coaching, 1:1 online consultancy, and a membership all about nervous system regulation. What we cover:What the nervous system actually is – and how it affects your daily parentingWhy 90% of our behaviours are subconscious and shaped in early lifeHow the vagus nerve plays a crucial role in stress regulationThe myth of “fixing” yourself with meditation or yogaWhy control is often a sign of dysregulationSmall, practical tools to build emotional resilience for you and your childThe importance of pausing, co-regulation, and curiosity over reactionHow each child has a unique nervous system and how to parent accordinglyThe truth about healing – it's slow, individual, and deeply connected to your lived experiencesKey message: You're not failing — you're likely just working with the nervous system you were wired with. With support, self-compassion and consistency, your window of tolerance can grow. If this episode resonated with you, please share it with another parent who might need a reminder that thriving starts with understanding ourselves.Would like to access tailored 1:1 sleep support but don't know where to start? Jump on a FREE sleep clarity session with Jen here https://sleepthrivegrow.com/For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 56 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers

Introducing Baby Bite-Size, your go-to fortnightly segment for quick, actionable insights into baby sleep and behaviour! Whether it's answering your burning questions or tackling the most common sleep struggles, this series is all about making parenting a little easier, one bite-sized episode at a time.In this first episode of this new series, we're diving into early rising, why your baby is up before dawn and the key step most parents skip when trying to fix it. If you've tried everything and nothing seems to work, Jen will take you through a step you cannot overlook!In this episode, I talked about:Why not to follow an early rise with an early napHow to gradually stretch wake windows (without meltdowns)Why boredom might be tricking you into thinking your baby's tiredWhat overstimulation and true overtiredness really look likeHow to hold space for your baby during these transitional stretchesAnd how little wins every day can create big shifts over timeIf you've been feeling stuck in the early-to-rise, early-to-bed cycle — this one's for you. And if you know a parent who's struggling with those pre-dawn wake-ups, please share this episode with them. It might be just the thing they need to feel a bit more clarity and a lot more empowered.

Parenting is tough—but when one parent is flying in and out for work, the challenges multiply. This week on Thriving Parenting, I'm joined by Vicky Pellowe, founder and CEO of The FIFO Family Project, to talk about the realities of FIFO (Fly-In, Fly-Out) parenting and how families can find the support they need.Vicky, a former FIFO worker herself, understands both sides of the FIFO lifestyle—the highs, the lows, and the unexpected hurdles that come with raising a family when one parent is away for extended periods. In this conversation, we explore:What FIFO parenting really looks like beyond the stereotypesThe biggest struggles for FIFO parents, partners at home, and kidsWhy isolation is the number one challenge for families and how to combat itThe importance of community, education, and wellbeing for FIFO familiesPractical strategies to make FIFO work for your unique family situationVicky shares the incredible work she's doing with The FIFO Family Project—from community meetups to educational resources and upcoming support programs. Whether you're a FIFO family, know someone who is, or just want to understand the complexities of this lifestyle, this episode is packed with insights and solutions.Want more support? I offer free sleep clarity sessions to help parents navigate stress, sleep, and connection-based changes. Reach out to see how we can work together!Watch my free empowerment video and in less than 20 mins, gain some healthy Instagram perspective to help you to stay clear and become mindful of the Instagram vortex. For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 54 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers!

Welcome to another episode of Thriving Parenting! Today, we're diving into a critical yet often overlooked challenge in parenting—stress and how it affects your ability to truly connect and attune to your baby's needs.Parenting is overwhelming, and stress is inevitable. But what happens when stress takes over? It clouds our judgment, pushes us into survival mode, and makes it nearly impossible to attune to the subtle cues our baby gives us. In this episode, we unpack:What attunement really means and why it's the key to understanding your baby beyond their basic needsHow stress literally rewires your brain, shutting down logical thinking and problem-solvingThe hidden sources of parenting stress—from sleep deprivation and emotional overload to the mental load of managing a householdHow to break the stress cycle, regulate your emotions, and create an environment where both you and your baby thriveThe truth? You know your baby best—but only when you have the capacity to tune in. And that starts with reducing stress, tuning into your own needs, and trusting yourself.If you've been feeling overwhelmed, constantly second-guessing your parenting, or simply running on empty, this episode is for you.Want more support? I offer free sleep clarity sessions to help parents navigate stress, sleep, and connection-based changes. Reach out to see how we can work together!Watch my free empowerment video and in less than 20 mins, gain some healthy Instagram perspective to help you to stay clear and become mindful of the Instagram vortex. For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 53 Show NotesAnd I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Come and connect with me on Instagram at @sleep_thrive_grow.And click the +Follow button to never miss an episode. New episodes are released every Tuesday!To find out more about how I can support you, visit my website here. Until next time, Thrivers—give yourself grace.