Podcasts about difficult child

Have you listened to the FULL EPISODE yet?"Two siblings can grow up in the same home, but have a very different childhood. I was a very, very sensitive child. I picked up on everything." - Jillian TureckiGrowing up as the daughter of a prominent psychiatrist who wrote "The Difficult Child" based on her own childhood, Jillian Turecki's journey through family trauma has shaped her understanding of relationships in profound ways. Despite navigating a complex relationship with her father, who struggled with severe bipolar disorder and narcissistic personality disorder, she emerged with deep insights into how our earliest relationships shape our adult connections. As a relationship coach, she brings a nuanced perspective to the intricate ways childhood experiences influence our choice of romantic partners, often leading us to unconsciously seek out relationships that mirror our earliest emotional wounds.Her personal story of growing up in an emotionally volatile household, where hypervigilance became a survival skill, offers powerful lessons about healing and transformation. Turecki shares her professional expertise on why many people unknowingly marry someone similar to the parent with whom they struggled most, exploring the unconscious patterns that drive our relationship choices. Her approach acknowledges that while forgiveness isn't always necessary or appropriate, especially in cases of abuse, finding peace with our past is crucial for building healthy relationships.Sign up for the Greatness newsletter!

Today we're diving into a topic that's very close to my heart. Along with being a parent of a child often labeled as "difficult," I know that so many other children are unfairly pigeonholed because of their behavior. And I've come to realize: it's not so much about the actual behavior as it is about understanding the root cause of that behavior. To have this conversation with me today on Yoga | Birth | Babies is Nina Essell. Nina is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over a decade of experience as a school social worker supporting children and families. Nina holds a Master's of Social Work from Columbia University and a Master's of Science in Childhood General and Special Education from Bank Street College of Education. Nina is an advanced certified trainer in the Nurtured Heart Approach as well as Kimochis, a social emotional learning curriculum. Currently, she is a parenting coach and consultant, providing 1-on-1 coaching, parenting workshops, and professional training. In this episode, we explore how families can reframe challenging behaviors, the importance of parents finding their own grounding during moments of dysregulation, and practical tools children can use to identify big feelings- before they boil over. My hope is that we, as a society, can get to a place of understanding these kids without judgement. Enjoy this episode. Get the most out of each episode by checking out the show notes with links, resources and other related podcasts at: prenatalyogacenter.com Don't forget to grab your FREE guide, 5 Simple Solutions to the Most Common Pregnancy Pains HERE  If you love what you've been listening to, please leave a rating and review! Yoga| Birth|Babies (Apple) or on Spotify! To connect with Deb and the PYC Community:  Instagram & Facebook: @prenatalyogacenter Youtube: Prenatal Yoga Center Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Family therapy expert Dafna Lender and Dr. Alexandra explore the complexities of the parent-child relationship. With 25 years of experience, Dafna has a deep understanding of how a child's difficult behaviors and a parent's reactivity can clash and land a family into a therapist's office. Dafna explains how to disrupt this cycle by removing blame, exploring the parent's attachment history, and bringing a sense of joy and playfulness back into the relationship.Relevant links:Integrative Attachment Family Therapy: A Clinical Guide to Heal and Strengthen the Parent-Child Relationship by Dafna LenderEngage further with Dafna's work onlineOrder Dr. Alexandra's latest book, Love Every DaySubscribe to Dr. Alexandra's NewsletterSubmit a Listener Question Get 31% off Dr. Alexandra's two e-courses and workbook! Visit http://courses.dralexandrasolomon.com and enter code BDAY31 at checkout from now until August 12th.Join Dr. Alexandra's five-day retreat with the Modern Elder Academy — Get 10% off with code 'GF10'Try Kion Aminos risk-free for 60-days with a money-back guarantee. Get 20% off at https://www.getkion.com/OSLP with the discount code OSLP.

What if you could change your children's lives for the better by simply shifting your focus? Howard Glasser, the brilliant mind behind the Nurtured Heart Approach, joins Kaity and Adriane for a milestone celebration on our 50th episode of The KindlED Podcast. In this special episode, we dive deep into the Nurtured Heart Approach and its transformative power in fostering positive relationships and personal growth. What to listen for:The core principles of the Nurtured Heart ApproachActionable advice for establishing clear, positive rules and the importance of calmness and co-regulation in maintaining healthy relationshipsHow focusing on a child's strengths and building their inner wealth can empower them to tap into their true potentialThe importance of building a portfolio of positive moments to counteract past traumas and the role of personal adversity in sparking a lifelong love of learning and curiosityHow to create boundaries that support and enhance a child's ability to thriveTune in to uncover how the Nurtured Heart Approach can help children thrive by recognizing and igniting their inner greatness.  About the guest:Howard Glasser is the founder and creator of the Nurtured Heart Approach®. He is a voice of greatness for children so that they can ultimately find their own voice of greatness. Howard is the author of 15 books, including Transforming the Difficult Child, a longstanding bestseller on intense and challenging children. The Nurtured Heart Approach has been researched by Rutgers University, the University of Arizona's School of Public Health, and New Mexico State University. He currently teaches at the University of Arizona's School of Public Health and its Integrative Medicine Program. His upcoming book is an unfolding of the Nurtured Heart Approach from the ‘Inside Out' Connect with Howard: WebsiteFacebookInstagramEmail: howardglasser@email.arizona.eduBuy his books.Mentioned in this episode:• NARM• Got a story to share or question you want us to answer? Send us a message!About the podcast:The KindlED Podcast explores the science of nurturing children's potential and creating empowering learning environments.Powered by Prenda, each episode offers actionable insights to help you ignite your child's love of learning today. We'll dive into evidence-based tools and techniques that kindle young learners' curiosity, motivation, and well-being. Got a burning question?We're all ears! If you have a question or topic you'd love our hosts to tackle, please send it to podcast@prenda.com. Let's dive into the conversation together!Important links:• Want more KindlED content?• Connect with us• Subscribe to The Sunday SparkInterested in starting a microschool?Prenda provides all the tools and support you need to start and run an amazing microschool. Create a free Prenda World account to start designing your future microschool today ➡️ Start My Microschool

Teacher, it's time for some strategies! If you missed the last episode, make sure and listen to Part 1 first. If you're ready for actions you can take, this short and sweet episode will get you started.Today, we're talking about how to actively handle this situation.Investigate - Take an honest look at what is going on. Ask people with experience for guidance.Plan - It's going to take some thought to create an environment for this full-sun flower to thrive.Implement - The best plan in the world won't do any good if you don't start (and stick to) it!Teacher, I believe in you. Let's get you ready to navigate having students who make you want to quit!Links mentioned:The Kid Who Makes You Want to Quit: Part 1My Secret Weapon to Nurture Student Connections - Podcast and Blog PostBe a Tiny Human Tamer - Podcast and Blog PostUndeniable Reasons to Quit Teaching - Podcast and Blog Post

Teacher, today's topic is an icky subject, but it's so important. That's because it has, or will, happen to all of us! You know that kid, or kids, that make you want to quit? It hurts my heart to admit it, but it happens!When this kid gains ground in your thoughts so much that your reactions are based more on feelings than thoughts, it's time for a reset. Maybe you can't fix the situation. What you can control is yourself.I'm here to tell you that thoughts are powerful. Come with me for a mindset shift that won't make everything glitter and rainbows, but it will give you motivation, purpose, and help you finish the year with that child with impact.Don't forget to come back for Part 2 for strategies!https://teachertoni.com/

Episode Summary: Carli Anna embarks on a thought-provoking journey, challenging the traditional marketing funnel's relevance in today's dynamic consumer environment. She advocates for a shift towards a marketing ecosystem approach, emphasizing flexibility, understanding, and the integration of fast and slow marketing strategies. Drawing parallels from personal experiences, Carli highlights the importance of adapting to individual needs, both in life and in marketing. Takeaways: The Marketing Funnel is Obsolete: The linear progression of the traditional funnel fails to capture the complex, non-linear nature of modern consumer behavior. Embrace the Marketing Ecosystem: A holistic approach that acknowledges multiple entry and exit points for consumer interaction. Balance Fast and Slow Marketing: Utilize fast marketing for immediate engagement and slow marketing for long-term relationship building. Quarter-Based Planning: A strategic framework that allows for comprehensive, phased marketing efforts. Flexibility and Understanding are Key: Adapt marketing strategies to meet the diverse and evolving needs of the consumer base. Chapters [00:00:00] Introduction: Carli Anna introduces the episode's theme and objectives. [00:03:50] The Downfall of the Marketing Funnel: Discussion on why the marketing funnel no longer serves its purpose in a modern context. [00:10:25] Introduction to the Marketing Ecosystem: Explaining the concept of the marketing ecosystem and its advantages over the traditional funnel. [00:17:40] Personal Anecdote - Learning from Life: Carli shares personal stories, drawing parallels between life lessons and marketing adaptability. [00:25:15] Implementing the Ecosystem Approach: Detailed strategies for adopting an ecosystem approach in marketing plans. [00:33:30] Fast vs. Slow Marketing: Breaking down the differences and how to effectively balance both in your strategy. [00:41:45] Quarter-Based Planning Explained: How to structure your marketing efforts on a quarterly basis for maximum impact. [00:50:20] Conclusion and Call to Action: Summarizing the episode's key points and encouraging marketers to embrace the ecosystem approach. Recommended Resources: Transforming the Difficult Child by Jennifer Eastley and Howard Glasser: A resource highlighting the importance of adaptability and understanding. Vogue's Study on Consumer Behavior: An insightful study providing evidence for the shift towards ecosystem-based marketing strategies. Follow us on instagram and Tiktok Get on the waitlist for 10k Girl Gang for $1000 off marketing funnel, ecosystem, marketing strategies, fast marketing, slow marketing, quarterly plan, goals, authority content, educational content, hot takes, small claims court, damages

In today's booklist episode, Chrissie shares 8 favorite backlist picture books that can be described as dark, weird, and funny.FEATURED TITLES: DARK // WEIRD // FUNNYThe Barnabus Project by the Fan BrothersFortunately by Remy CharlipThe Great Zapfino  by Mac Barnett and Marla FrazeeHow Dinosaurs Went Extinct by Ame Dyckman and Jennifer HarneyThe Incredible Book-Eating Boy by Oliver JeffersThe Pineapple Princess by Sabina HahnPokko and the Drum by Matthew ForsytheThe Rock from the Sky by Jon KlassenBONUS RECSIt's a Secret by John BurninghamDuckworth the Difficult Child by Michael SussmanThe Three Billy Goats Gruff  and The Wolf, the Duck, and the Mouse by Mac Barnett and Jon KlassenHow to Eat a Book by Mrs. and Mr. MacLeodWhat If One Day by Bruce Handy and Ashleigh CorrinDinosaurs Don't Exist by Mark JanssenTen Word Tiny Tales by Joseph CoelhoABSURD // PLAYFUL // WEIRD RECSTOASTY by Sarah HwangCAROL AND THE PICLE-TOAD by Esme ShapiroDIM SUM PALACE by X. FangTHE WELCOME HOME by Amy June BatesINVISIBLE THINGS by Andy J. Pizza and Sophie Miller2024 RELEASESPEPPER AND ME by Beatrice Alemagna (1/16)THE TEENY-WEENY UNICORN by Shawn Harris (2/6)I DO NOT EAT CHILDREN by Marcus Cutler (2/20)PRETTY UGLY by David Sedaris and Ian Falconer (2/27)SPIDER IN THE WELL by Jess Hannigan (3/19)MILLIE FLEUR'S POISON GARDEN by Christy Mandin (7/2)Be sure to subscribe to the show wherever you get your podcasts. You can follow the show on Instagram @bookdelightpod, follow Chrissie on Instagram @librarychrissie, and subscribe to Chrissie's monthly kidlit newsletter at librarychrissie.substack.com. 

I'm bringing you this quick bonus episode on a Thursday because we need to celebrate a big milestone for 3 in 30. This is our 330th episode! And that feels like it should be acknowledged! 330 episodes of 3 in 30, which means over 165 hours of wisdom brought to us by world-class guests and parenting experts, helping us be happier, more intentional, more self-assured mothers. For full show notes visit https://www.3in30podcast.com/330-delight-in-difficult-child To purchase a Flecks of Gold Journal for yourself, or someone you love, go HERE. Episode Sponsors: BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 to get 10% off your first month of online therapy!   *** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emma spends roughly an hour fangirling at bestselling author, Rebecca Yarros, and chats about the highly-anticipated release of Iron Flame. They also discuss work-life balance, the biggest obstacles facing Xaden and Violet, Rebecca's favorite dragon and go-to coffee order, being a Dain apologist, and so much more in this casual, chatty interview. Books mentioned in this episode: Fourth Wing by Rebecca Yarros Iron Flame by Rebecca Yarros In the Likely Event by Rebecca Yarros Undelivered by Jeff Nussbaum Kindred by Octavia Butler Legendborn by Tracy Deonn The History of a Difficult Child by Mihret Sibhat Seven Days in June by Tia Williams Readers can sample and borrow the titles mentioned in today's episode on OverDrive.com or in Libby. Library friends can shop these titles in OverDrive Marketplace. Looking for more bookish content? Check out the Libby Life Blog! We hope you enjoy this episode of the Professional Book Nerds podcast. Be sure to rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen! You can follow the Professional Book Nerds on Instagram, Twitter, and TikTok @ProBookNerds. Want to reach out? Send an email to professionalbooknerds@overdrive.com. We've got merch! Check out our two shirts in The OverDrive Shop (all profits are donated to the ALA Literacy Clearinghouse). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Every child deserves to know that their parents are crazy about them. That is true even for the extra effort kid! On today's edition of Family Talk, Dr. Tim Clinton and Dr. James Dobson conclude their discussion about the strong-willed child. Discover the hope provided by these two experts in psychology on how to regain that critical relationship and overcome defiance in your child. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/707/29

Do you struggle to connect with one or more of your children? Maybe your daughter is strong-willed and every day is a battle, or maybe you don't share your son's interests or hobbies. On today's edition of Family Talk, Dr. Tim Clinton joins Dr. James Dobson to talk about the extra effort kid, and what parents can do to strengthen that difficult relationship. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/707/29

Parenting is tough, and my Mom knows all too well!  Honestly, I wasn't the easiest kid to raise.  I was eccentric, loud, and always getting into sh*t.  But Mom refused to squash my personality and  balanced the scales the best way she knew how.  Today, we dive into some funny childhood stories, and how my parents learned to raise a "difficult child".  THANK YOU PODCAST SPONSORS!Hooga Red Light Therapy Devices 10% off code: MANDYBROOKEHerbal Face Food20% off code: MANDYBROOKELove You Three Luxe Gummies Free Shipping Code: LOVEMANDYFOLLOW MANDY! Instagram TikTok YouTube Facebook Spotify Merch My Amazon Store

The History of a Difficult Child is a beautiful and sprawling family story set in Ethiopia during the Socialist Revolution. It is narrated by a young girl born into a family fighting against the system for their Christian beliefs, while being systematically relieved of their wealth and livelihood due to the oppressive incoming regime. It's riveting, ambitious, and utterly compelling. And you know what else? It's funny. Really funny! Take a journey with debut novelist Mihret Sibhat into The History of a Difficult Child, you will be so glad you did. Books mentioned in this podcast: The History of a Difficult Child by Mihret Sibhat The White Tiger by Aravind Adiga The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao by Junot Díaz Go as a River by Shelley Read Family Lexicon by Natalia Ginzburg Family Sayings by Natalia Ginzburg All our Yesterdays by Natalia Ginzburg A Small Place by Jamaica Kincaid My Garden (Book) by Jamaica Kincaid Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

An update since the first UN TALK episode back in sept. 2021, I expand into the ongoing struggles of dealing with a difficult child custody situation. The more I share the more comfortable I feel with the choices i'm making. Thanks for your listen.

So glad I got to document my incredible sister sharing her courageous and inspiring beginnings with Nurtured Heart. Join the conversation as we discuss going against the norm, advocating for our kids, letting go and trusting our intuition. To reach Mussi: EnergizingHearts@gmail.com or MussiDiskin.com I'm so lucky and grateful to call Chanie my sister! Check her out! She podcasts and is a social media influencer... To reach Chanie: on instragram or Facebook @liveloveinnerpeace Listen to her podcast - reclaim your voice Spotify :https://open.spotify.com/show/6VTAG4EXilIITu4TVmmIK3?si=Q-k1iGpfTDGoqTw6373E5A Apple:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reclaim-your-voice/id1580083156 Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy80YzA4OWI3NC9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwieu66D0_39AhVyPUQIHWVED0kQ9sEGegQIARAC Or anywhere else podcasts are streamed. Email her: reclaimyourvoicepodcast@gmail.com

Do you have a difficult child? As parents, we love ALL of our kids. However, you may find that loving the difficult child isn't as easy as loving the other kids. Join Coach Nove and she shares her learnings on how to love a difficult child even though it's hard. Please let us know if you have any suggestions or questions about any topic you want to discuss. Feedbacks are welcome. If you like this podcast, do subscribe, rate us on our Spotify and stay tuned to the I Homeschool Ph podcast every Saturday at 10 am. For fresh new topics about homeschooling life. Resources that can help you: 1. You can buy my book at https://ihomeschool.ph/collections/all available in hardbound, digital copy. You can also buy it at Lazada and shopee for resellers. 2. Get I Homeschool Life Planner Creating without guilt. https://ihomeschool.ph/pages/planner If you need a Christmas advent this coming Christmas check out https://ihomeschool.ph/pages/rediscoverchristmas 3. Subscribe to our YouTube channel by clicking the link in https://bit.ly/2LEqNxC 4. Follow our Tiktok account https://vt.tiktok.com/yp5ove/ For parents who wants to learn 1 to 3 minutes of tips about parenting. 5. Subscribe to our weekly podcast catering to our parents who loves to learn through listening. Podcast account https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZdopeLB6lbD6sGFCzoLTY?si=sJ-TtOWXSG-BCitQ7mU2kA #homeschooling #homeschoolgoals #ihomeschoolph #familyrhythms #ihomeschoolphpodcast #relationshipmatters #homeschool #pinoyhomeschooling #difficultchild #love #episode131 #parenting --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ihomeschoolph/message

Do you have a child that is more—louder, more energetic, more argumentative, more everything? Intense children can be harder to raise, but their intensity is a gift as well as a parenting challenge. We talk with Howard Glasser, creator of the Nurtured Heart Approach to parenting. He is the author of Transforming the Difficult Child and Transforming the Intense Child Workbook.In this episode, we cover:What do you consider to be an intense child? My child was “more”—more loud, more energy—their reaction to most things was simply more. They go from 5 mph to 60mph in about a second. How to raise the intense child.What are the labels and diagnoses that intense children often accumulate? ADHD, ODD (Oppositional Defiance Disorder), conduct disorder, PTSD, anxiety disorder, depression.What makes some kids more “intense” than others? What do you mean by energy-challenged kids? Unable to handle or effectively control their physical, cognitive or emotional energy. They have a disorder of self-control. They have more energy than they have self-control.Energy is a gift as well as a challenge.You mention in Transforming the Difficult Child that many intense or difficult kids love video games—more so than the average child.  Why? Structure-while I think all children need structure, the high-intensity child really needs structure. Positive forms of structure vs. negative forms of structureTraditional parenting techniques did not work well for my intense little wonder. Your approach to raising an intense child is based on your Nurturing Heart Approach as outlined in your book, Transforming the Difficult Child and Transforming the Intense Child Workbook. What are the basic principles of this approach to parenting? The 3 strands.Strand 1: Refuse to energize the negative. What are some of the challenges parents face when applying this? What are some common ways we might accidentally energize the negative?Strand 2: Energize the positive. active recognition, experiential recognition, proactive recognition, creative recognition.Is there a problem with too much praise?Strand 3: Absolute clarity on limits and consequences. How to set limits?Intensity is not something that a person outgrows.This podcast is produced  by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:Weekly podcastsWeekly articles/blog postsResource pages on all aspects of family buildingPlease leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamilySupport the showPlease leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamily

Episode 22: When God Gives You a “Difficult” Child – Dealing with Toddler Tantrums, Choosing a Parenting Style and More! Do you ever feel like God gave you a “difficult” child? Notice “difficult” in quotes because in this episode we'll uncover how maybe your child isn't being “difficult” on purpose. Maybe their behavior is in fact, very age-appropriate and therefore doesn't necessarily deserve the reaction we tend to want to give. Let's all strive together to handle the tantrums with a calm demeanor, even when that's the last thing we feel like doing. Other Links: Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2665712300374057/?ref=share The awesome, high quality, affordable wellness products that I swear by (affiliate link) https://www.earthley.com/ref/rosiebowden/ My Instagram Profile: https://www.instagram.com/the.crunchy.catholic/  Website: https://www.thecrunchycatholic.com/ Email Sign Up: https://www.subscribepage.com/thecrunchycatholic    ********************************************************************* Background music: Track: Summer Music composed and recorded by Oak Studios Creative Commons Attribution ND 4.0 https://youtu.be/UpRPzujTa7w    

Nicole Raden has much experience in dealing with difficult children with emotional and behavioral challenges. She brings hope and tools to parents who are in the thick of the weeds and don't know where to turn. This week she gives us Love and Logic tools for toddlers/preschoolers. She also talks about priming kids for expectations and what to do when nothing seems to work. 00:00 Introduction01:13 The joy of preschoolers03:02 Opportunity in many small choices04:00 Tantrums and the uh-oh song09:59 When and how to discuss the behavior 12:00 When your child just doesn't cooperate 15:07 The significant learning opportunity 18:37 Priming for expectations20:06 When it feels like nothing is working 22:09 Love and Logic and the gospel24:07 Story of Nicole guiding a child to solve his problem29:11 Final Words This was a bundle of information. It was designed to give you tools to deal with the oppositional child. Listen more than once to get the full benefit. And be sure to subscribe where you like to listen to your podcasts so you don't miss next week. Nicole mentions the Love and Logic books. Here are some of the basic books by Jim Fay and Foster Kline. (affiliate links) Parenting with Love and Logic Love and Logic Magic for Early Childhood: Practical Parenting from Birth to Six Years Parenting Teens with Love and Logic: Preparing Adolescents for Responsible Adulthood I mentioned our Adventure Parenting chats where we can discuss these techniques further. You can sign up here: Adventure Parenting with Grace Community Chats to discuss all things parenting. May you have a terrific week and remember to trust in the Lord this week! You can reach me at Laurie@KidStrength4Life.com or check us out at https://KidStrength4Life.com

Nicole Raden has much experience in dealing with difficult children with emotional and behavioral challenges. She brings hope and tools to parents who are in the thick of the weeds and don't know where to turn. This week she gives us tools we can use to diffuse those very difficult moments when our child might seem unmanageable. And, these tools are great for compliant children as well. 00:00 Introduction01:31 Practical tools01:58 Enforceable statements and the fight for control04:35 How to offer choices07:06 Decision-making skills08:55 Learning from mistakes is better when the price tag is small09:48 Connecting with your child when they are escalated10:08 The quiet voice10:45 The broken record response11:24 How to pray or sing over them13:07 What not to do- reason with them or display anger13:55 Learning authority17:15 Opportunity for heart change18:22 Final Words This was a bundle of information. It was designed to give you tools to deal with the oppositional child. Be sure to subscribe where you like to listen to your podcasts so you don't miss next week. Nicole mentions the Love and Logic books. Here are some of the basic books by Jim Fay and Foster Kline. (affiliate links) Parenting with Love and Logic Love and Logic Magic for Early Childhood: Practical Parenting from Birth to Six Years Parenting Teens with Love and Logic: Preparing Adolescents for Responsible Adulthood I mentioned our Adventure Parenting chats. You can sign up here: Adventure Parenting with Grace Community Chats to discuss all things parenting. May you have a terrific week and remember to trust in the Lord this week! You can reach me at Laurie@KidStrength4Life.com or check us out athttps://KidStrength4Life.com

Nicole Raden has a lot of experience in dealing with difficult children with emotional and behavioral challenges. She brings hope and tools to parents who are in the thick of the weeds and don't know where to turn. This week she introduces the topic and shares a little of her experiences with the Love and Logic approach. 00:00 Introduction01:15 Who is Nicole Raden?03:55 Why a child might have behavioral issues05:57 Investigate causes rather than the source and use tools to approach problems07:42 What is Love and Logic?08:18 How Love and Logic lines up with our Christian faith09:49 Start with love and empathy and then move forward11:34 When parents feel it is hopeless12:53 When situations are extreme15:37 Why small goals are important 17:47 Where do I begin? First steps21:07 Final words This was a bundle of information. It was designed to give you the foundation. Next week we will get into some of the tools so you won't want to miss it! If you subscribe, we will be easy to find again! Nicole mentioned the Love and Logic books. Here are some of the basic books by Jim Fay and Foster Kline. (affiliate links) Parenting with Love and Logic Love and Logic Magic for Early Childhood: Practical Parenting from Birth to Six Years Parenting Teens with Love and Logic: Preparing Adolescents for Responsible Adulthood Next week Nicole will share specific tools and situations. We'll be out of the theory and into the weeks! If you are interested in signing up for my Discipline with Dignity course or our Adventure Parenting with Grace Community Chats to discuss all thing parenting, click either of these links. May you have a terrific week and remember to trust in the Lord this week! You can reach me at Laurie@KidStrength4Life.com orhttps://KidStrength4Life.com

We all go through stages where we struggle with a particular child. Or perhaps you are wondering, could I homeschool with this particular child? This episode is packed with tips, encouragement, and resources for building a healthy atmosphere in your homeschool and home! ABOUT JESSICA Jessica is a wife, homeschool mom of three, author, and blogger. She lives in sunny North Carolina on a big family farm with chickens, goats, cousins, and lots of mud. RESOURCES MENTIONED Homeschool Bootcamp by Jessica Smartt Please Understand Me: Character and Temperament Types by David Keirsey Navigating Personality Differences at Home by Focus on the Family Wheel of Fortunate Behavior Reward System by Jessica Smartt 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos by Jordan Peterson Memory-Making Mom: Building Traditions That Breathe Life Into Your Home by Jessica Smartt Let Them Be Kids: Adventure, Boredom, Innocence, and Other Gifts Children Need by Jessica Smartt CONNECT Jessica Smartt | Instagram | Facebook | Website Homeschooling.mom | Instagram | Website Thank you to our sponsors! Have you joined us at one of the Great Homeschool Conventions? We hope to see you there! For more encouragement on your homeschooling journey, visit the Homeschooling.mom site, and tune in to our sister podcast The Charlotte Mason Show. View full show notes on the blog.

This week on PFAM podcast, we're praying God protects our children during their rebellion and guides us as their moms to help them become the person God created them to be.    Day 1: He/she doesn't give in to sin. Genesis 4     Day 2: Our actions have consequences, good and bad and a little about sibling rivalry. Genesis 25, 26     Day 3: Are we making things better or worse? Genesis 25, 26, 27     Day 4: God is bigger than our kid's bad choices! Genesis: 32-35 (Jacob's Story)     ACTION STEPS:   Print out your FREE Weekly Devo Journal!   Ask God to help you better understand and connect with your difficult child, especially in those areas that frustrate you most. Ask God to help you understand why you are triggered by certain behaviors.   Look for positive things your difficult child does this week and thank God for those things.    Plan some quality time with your difficult child. Start with something you are both interested in.    Join us this week Monday-Thursday as we pray that we can find some balance between work and home life.   FOCUSED PRAYER:   Dear Jesus,    I know I get frustrated with my child more than I should. Help me understand why I get so triggered by certain behaviors and give me healing in those areas. You created him/her as a unique masterpiece and I need your help seeing it. I want to better understand him/her. Help me to see my child the way you do. Give me creative new ways to connect.   In Jesus' Name, Amen!   THIS WEEK'S RESOURCES: HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together.   TRAVEL DATE NIGHTS: Discover the world together from the comfort of your couch! A unique date night experience, delivered right to your front door. *Our listeners get $5 off from Travel Date Nights if you use our affiliate Promo Code: BFAM ADVENTURE CHALLENGE, A way to create fun experiences for the whole family or as a couple! It also makes a Great Gift Idea. Use the Promo Code ENJOYTHEMOMENT at checkout to get 10% off   WANT MORE… New episodes come out every Monday-Thursday at 7:00 AM (CST).  Join our Weekly Newsletter HERE. Join our FaceBook Group family PRAYERS FROM A MOM live Monday-Thursday at 7:00 AM (CST).  Follow me on INSTAGRAM. Check out our website ENJOYING THE MOMENT to read more of our story. You can contact me HERE. 

This week on PFAM podcast, we're praying God protects our children during their rebellion and guides us as their moms to help them become the person God created them to be.    Day 1: He/she doesn't give in to sin. Genesis 4     Day 2: Our actions have consequences, good and bad and a little about sibling rivalry. Genesis 25, 26     Day 3: Are we making things better or worse? Genesis 25, 26, 27     Day 4: God is bigger than our kid's bad choices! Genesis: 32-35 (Jacob's Story)     ACTION STEPS:   Print out your FREE Weekly Devo Journal!   Ask God to help you better understand and connect with your difficult child, especially in those areas that frustrate you most. Ask God to help you understand why you are triggered by certain behaviors.   Look for positive things your difficult child does this week and thank God for those things.    Plan some quality time with your difficult child. Start with something you are both interested in.    Join us this week Monday-Thursday as we pray that we can find some balance between work and home life.   FOCUSED PRAYER:   Dear Jesus,    I know I get frustrated with my child more than I should. Help me understand why I get so triggered by certain behaviors and give me healing in those areas. You created him/her as a unique masterpiece and I need your help seeing it. I want to better understand him/her. Help me to see my child the way you do. Give me creative new ways to connect.   In Jesus' Name, Amen!   THIS WEEK'S RESOURCES: HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together.   TRAVEL DATE NIGHTS: Discover the world together from the comfort of your couch! A unique date night experience, delivered right to your front door. *Our listeners get $5 off from Travel Date Nights if you use our affiliate Promo Code: BFAM ADVENTURE CHALLENGE, A way to create fun experiences for the whole family or as a couple! It also makes a Great Gift Idea. Use the Promo Code ENJOYTHEMOMENT at checkout to get 10% off   WANT MORE… New episodes come out every Monday-Thursday at 7:00 AM (CST).  Join our Weekly Newsletter HERE. Join our FaceBook Group family PRAYERS FROM A MOM live Monday-Thursday at 7:00 AM (CST).  Follow me on INSTAGRAM. Check out our website ENJOYING THE MOMENT to read more of our story. You can contact me HERE. 

This week on PFAM podcast, we're praying God protects our children during their rebellion and guides us as their moms to help them become the person God created them to be.    Day 1: He/she doesn't give in to sin. Genesis 4     Day 2: Our actions have consequences, good and bad and a little about sibling rivalry. Genesis 25, 26     Day 3: Are we making things better or worse? Genesis 25, 26, 27     Day 4: God is bigger than our kid's bad choices! Genesis: 32-35 (Jacob's Story)     ACTION STEPS:   Print out your FREE Weekly Devo Journal!   Ask God to help you better understand and connect with your difficult child, especially in those areas that frustrate you most. Ask God to help you understand why you are triggered by certain behaviors.   Look for positive things your difficult child does this week and thank God for those things.    Plan some quality time with your difficult child. Start with something you are both interested in.    Join us this week Monday-Thursday as we pray that we can find some balance between work and home life.   FOCUSED PRAYER:   Dear Jesus,    I know I get frustrated with my child more than I should. Help me understand why I get so triggered by certain behaviors and give me healing in those areas. You created him/her as a unique masterpiece and I need your help seeing it. I want to better understand him/her. Help me to see my child the way you do. Give me creative new ways to connect.   In Jesus' Name, Amen!   THIS WEEK'S RESOURCES: HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together.   TRAVEL DATE NIGHTS: Discover the world together from the comfort of your couch! A unique date night experience, delivered right to your front door. *Our listeners get $5 off from Travel Date Nights if you use our affiliate Promo Code: BFAM ADVENTURE CHALLENGE, A way to create fun experiences for the whole family or as a couple! It also makes a Great Gift Idea. Use the Promo Code ENJOYTHEMOMENT at checkout to get 10% off   WANT MORE… New episodes come out every Monday-Thursday at 7:00 AM (CST).  Join our Weekly Newsletter HERE. Join our FaceBook Group family PRAYERS FROM A MOM live Monday-Thursday at 7:00 AM (CST).  Follow me on INSTAGRAM. Check out our website ENJOYING THE MOMENT to read more of our story. You can contact me HERE. 

This week on PFAM podcast, we're praying God protects our children during their rebellion and guides us as their moms to help them become the person God created them to be.    Day 1: He/she doesn't give in to sin. Genesis 4     Day 2: Our actions have consequences, good and bad and a little about sibling rivalry. Genesis 25, 26     Day 3: Are we making things better or worse? Genesis 25, 26, 27     Day 4: God is bigger than our kid's bad choices! Genesis: 32-35 (Jacob's Story)     ACTION STEPS:   Print out your FREE Weekly Devo Journal!   Ask God to help you better understand and connect with your difficult child, especially in those areas that frustrate you most. Ask God to help you understand why you are triggered by certain behaviors.   Look for positive things your difficult child does this week and thank God for those things.    Plan some quality time with your difficult child. Start with something you are both interested in.    Join us this week Monday-Thursday as we pray that we can find some balance between work and home life.   FOCUSED PRAYER:   Dear Jesus,    I know I get frustrated with my child more than I should. Help me understand why I get so triggered by certain behaviors and give me healing in those areas. You created him/her as a unique masterpiece and I need your help seeing it. I want to better understand him/her. Help me to see my child the way you do. Give me creative new ways to connect.   In Jesus' Name, Amen!   THIS WEEK'S RESOURCES: HOW TO ENJOY YOUR BLENDED FAMILY: 5 Dates To Discover Fun In Your Step-Family, by the end of these 5 dates you will have a great plan and see more fun in your home, helping build stronger family connections and relationships, all while having more laughs and enjoyment as you make lasting memories together.   TRAVEL DATE NIGHTS: Discover the world together from the comfort of your couch! A unique date night experience, delivered right to your front door. *Our listeners get $5 off from Travel Date Nights if you use our affiliate Promo Code: BFAM ADVENTURE CHALLENGE, A way to create fun experiences for the whole family or as a couple! It also makes a Great Gift Idea. Use the Promo Code ENJOYTHEMOMENT at checkout to get 10% off   WANT MORE… New episodes come out every Monday-Thursday at 7:00 AM (CST).  Join our Weekly Newsletter HERE. Join our FaceBook Group family PRAYERS FROM A MOM live Monday-Thursday at 7:00 AM (CST).  Follow me on INSTAGRAM. Check out our website ENJOYING THE MOMENT to read more of our story. You can contact me HERE. 

"And then I tell myself - he didn't ask to be here."   An obedient  son is an oxymoron. Each one of us has rebelled in our own ways in our youth, and have generally not been worse for it (though who's to say?!). But each story has its  variations. And parents have their own tales to tell. And as one myself, I have my tales - and travails!   A life is a gift in so many ways. And much more when you see the gifts which come unasked for. And the giving to one's child has a tender inevitability to it, which makes it both a duty as also an unburdening - it's a relief to be able to pass on what one has garnered in one's life, for the simple alternative is to take it with oneself to one's grave.   But the corollary which haunts is - why is this passage of rites so fraught?   But then I realise that I generalise, and there are so many imperceptible ways children learn - direct, osmosis, eavesdropping, whilst rebelling, whilst being rejected, when pushed away, when held close irrespective. Our relationship to our children is a lifelong work-in-progress, till the time (and even whilst) they start to tell us what to do.   Because there are no templates for care.   And then we understand the irony that we learn more as we seek to teach. And in that one realisation lies the light which then shines equally on both of us.   If you liked this poem, consider listening to these other poems on children - Daughters Who Don't Listen (and other ways to be brave) Kripa (a blessing from a daughter) My Little Zen Warrior Follow me on Instagram at @sunilgivesup. Get in touch with me on uncutpoetrynow@gmail.com Subscribe to my incandescent and poetic newsletter The Uncuts here - https://theuncuts.substack.com.   The details of the music used in this episode are as follows - End Of Summer by Frank Schröter Link: https://filmmusic.io/song/6633-end-of-summer License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license

So, what constitutes a difficult child? I think we need to start with that and that's even a hard thing to say, because nobody wants to call their kid difficult. Right? I get it. We have a kid that's struggling. Our household feels anything but peaceful. We have a dream that we want our kids to be at peace. We want a calm environment. We want that household that maybe we didn't have but desired when we were growing up. We have all these hopes and dreams. And now you have a child who is “difficult” and you need to figure some things out. So, during today's episode, I break down what I believe constitutes a difficult child. And then I give you some helpful tips, some strategies to help you find a way to find more peace in your household and manage some challenging behaviors your kiddo may be exhibiting. Like I often do, I unpack a real-life situation, one that may be familiar to you and your family. I stumbled upon this Mastermind Parenting method because I was also experiencing the challenges of a difficult child. It was because I couldn't find the exact right resource. I couldn't find the exact right program. I liked this part from one program, but I liked another part from another program, but I actually sort of liked this part from some “old school” methods that didn't seem aligned with the newer styles. And I realized, I was not someone who likes to follow exact recipes, so I threw together what worked for me and my family, and that's what I'm sharing with you now. So, if you're struggling with that difficult child, listen to this episode, and I'll give you my top three tips for finding a way to a better place. Listen to this episode for more of my thoughts and strategies on how you can move toward being a Mastermind Parent! And as always, thanks for listening, and be sure and head over to Facebook and you can join my free group Mastermind Parenting Community where we post tips and tools and do pop up Live conversations where I do extra teaching and coaching to support you in helping your strong-willed children so that they can FEEL better and DO better. Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it! About Randi Rubenstein Randi Rubenstein helps parents with a strong-willed kiddo become a happier family and enjoy the simple things again like bike rides and beach vacays. She's the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the Mastermind Parenting podcast, and author of The Parent Gap. Randi works with parents across the U.S. At Mastermind Parenting, we believe every human deserves to have a family that gets along. Web/Social Links Website: https://mastermindparenting.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mastermindparenting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mastermind_parenting/ Resources Discussed/Links Free 5-Part Video Series for Parents: Setting Limits without Spanking, Time Outs, or Sticker Charts: https://mastermindparenting.com/spanking-series/ Join our Free Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/mastermindparenting

Do you have a child that is more—more loud, more energetic, more argumentative, more everything? Intense children can be harder to raise, but their intensity is a gift as well as a parenting challenge. We talk with Howard Glasser, creator of the Nurtured Heart Approach to parenting. He is the author of Transforming the Difficult Child and Transforming the Intense Child Workbook.In this episode, we cover:What do you consider to be an intense child? My child was “more”—more loud, more energy—their reaction to most things was simply more. They go from 5 mph to 60mph in about a second. What are the labels and diagnoses that intense children often accumulate? ADHD, ODD (Oppositional Defiance Disorder), conduct disorder, PTSD, anxiety disorder, depression.What makes some kids more “intense” than others? What do you mean by energy-challenged kids? Unable to handle or effectively control their physical, cognitive or emotional energy. They have a disorder of self-control. They have more energy than they have self-control.Energy is a gift as well as a challenge.You mention in Transforming the Difficult Child that many intense or difficult kids love video games—more so than the average child. I've noticed this too. Why? Structure-while I think all children need structure, the high intensity child really needs structure. Positive forms of structure vs. negative forms of structureTraditional parenting techniques did not work well for my intense little wonder. Your approach to raising an intense child is based on your Nurturing Heart Approach as outlined in your book, Transforming the Difficult Child and Transforming the Intense Child Workbook. What are the basic principles of this approach to parenting? The 3 strands.Strand 1: Refuse to energize the negative. What are some of the challenges parents face when applying this? What are some common ways we might accidentally energize the negative?Strand 2: Energize the positive. active recognition, experiential recognition, proactive recognition, creative recognition.Is there a problem with too much praise?Strand 3: Absolute clarity on limits and consequences. How to set limits?Intensity is not something that a person outgrows.This podcast is produced  by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:Weekly podcastsWeekly articles/blog postsResource pages on all aspects of family buildingPlease leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamilySupport the show (https://creatingafamily.org/donation/)

Let's tackle this really difficult topic about how to enjoy your difficult child. I'm talking about children who consistently struggle with defiance, emotional regulation and behavioral struggles.  I want to make this really applicable, and I want to make this full of action steps and real practical strategies to try. Forgot your headphones? Head over to my blog for a written summary of today's episode! Thank you for tuning in!! Be sure to subscribe, and join me every Wednesday for a new episode of the Purpose Gathering Podcast. In future episodes I will cover topics pertaining to business, motherhood, and self-care.  I can't wait until next time. xoxo Ashley Resources: Join our Facebook Group: The Purpose Gathering Mamas  The Efficient Mompreneur - Online Course Find me on Instagram: @thepurposegathering Website: thepurposegathering.com Free Download: Productivity with Purpose Masterclass Free Download: Instagram Planning with Confidence Free Download: Preventing Burnout      Complementary Episodes   Episode 10: The 4 Things your Kids Need the Most Episode 35: How to Recover from a Mommy Meltdown Episode 64: Lost Innocence and Why I've Decided to Homeschool Episode 62: Boundaries That Will Reduce Mom Guilt Episode 60: Unlock the Power to Prevent + Handle Meltdowns  

Strangers: Inna Buschell & Lavanya Challa Place: Russia/California & India/Texas Topic: Mothers meet the pandemic with explosive children. Reading Resources: Letting Go of Perfect by Dr. Jill L. Adelson and Dr. Hope E. Wilson Transforming the Difficult Child by Howard Glasser Living with Intensity by Dr. Susan Daniels and Dr. Michael Piechowski The Explosive Child by Dr. Ross W. Greene The Conscious Parent by Dr. Shefali Tsabary Connect with... Inna Buschell Lavanya Challa Subscribe to my YouTube channel and access new and past episodes! To receive episodes and personal 'Connection Challenges' in your inbox, subscribe at www.NotQuiteStrangers.com. #NotQuiteStrangers #ConnectToJoy #Inspiration #Diversity #Inclusion #Culture #Motherhood #Anxiety #Autism

It's Pinot time! Part of a two episode theme where Eric and Adam talk about Pinot and Merlot and the "Sideways Effect" that happened after the movie Sideways changed the public opinion of Merlot and Pinot. Going from the classic Burgundian Pinot to a New World take. Music is in the glass....seriously....they make music with their glasses. Features the new original song: "Just Gimme A Pinot" Educational and entertaining for the amateur wine drinker as well as the seasoned pro. Also delightful for all kinds of music lovers. We challenge you to not be amused!!Support us!: https://www.patreon.com/tastingnotestheshow Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tastingnotestheshow/ Contact us: tastingnotestheshow@gmail.comWines Tasted: (in order) Louis LatourGevrey- Chambertin, Pinot NoirBeaune’ , France, 2016 Domaine Serene “Yamhill Cuvée”, Pinot Noir Willamette Valley, 2017 Belle Glos “Clark& Telephone”, Pinot Noir Santa Barbra County, 2018 Link to Spotify Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/34BpMsN3DvukOlIkEjAeSl?si=Laz742tFSoSZLtiZckSeQQ

This episode of “Mad in the Family” focuses on a non-drug method to bringing out the best in challenging children, particularly those diagnosed with “ADHD.” It is called the Nurtured Heart Approach® and its essence is that, in the words of our guest, “the same intensity that drives people crazy is actually the source of a child’s greatness." He is the approach’s creator, family therapist Howard Glasser.  Glasser has been called “one of the most influential living persons working to reduce children’s reliance on psychiatric medications” and is the author of the bestselling book, Transforming the Difficult Child and more than a dozen other books. Glasser is also the Founder of the Children’s Success Foundation, whose  mission is to advance the work of the Nurtured Heart Approach by conducting training programs to support parents in building Inner Wealth® in their children, educators in formally implementing the approach in school systems, and therapeutic professionals to meet the unique mental health needs of “intense” children. A frequent keynote speaker at conferences  on treatment and education, he currently teaches certification trainings on his method, as well as in Dr. Andrew Weil’s program at the University of Arizona’s School of Integrative Medicine. http://www.howardglasser.com/ https://childrenssuccessfoundation.com/

Humor for Stress (0:00:00) When life gets busy, it can be hard to remember to keep life fun and enjoyable. We start to get bogged down in all the details that we forget to enjoy the journey. And sometimes the best medicine for stress really is a little laughter. Our next guest, Andrew Tarvin, is a firm believer in this idea, which is why he founded Humor That Works, a company based on teaching professionals how to incorporate humor into the workplace to achieve better business results.  Raising a Difficult Child (0:21:43) Every parent and child struggle with discipline at least once. Whether that's in the first few years with tantrums or rebellious teenage years—no child is easy. But some children can be especially difficult to deal with. It doesn't mean that we love them any less, but we want to be able to figure out the best way to help them learn and grow. For one couple, this proved to be incredibly hard when their adopted daughter was showing intense behavior issues from a young age. Here to tell us more about that experience and how we can better raise and understand our difficult children is author Paul Podolsky.   Spot the Bot (0:52:47) We've all had to click those little "I'm not a robot" boxes when using the internet. While it may seem like a ridiculous thing to clarify with your computer that you are in fact human and not a machine, it's actually quite important. Bots are used across all social media platforms, spreading misinformation and political propaganda. And while you might think you can tell real people from robots—online—it's harder than you might think. Here to share with us his advice on how we can spot bots on social media is media forensic expert Darren Linvill.   Mini Book Club: Bullying Books (1:12:57) Rachel Wadham, of BYU Radio's Worlds Awaiting, talks with Lisa and Richie about the best books that teach kids about bullying.   Halloween Costume Ideas (1:27:22) The beauty of Halloween is that you can dress up as much or as little as you want and have a blast either way. And now more than ever, despite the fact that we won't be going to any big gatherings, we deserve to dress up, celebrate and have fun! But we are now only two days away from Halloween. So, for those of you who have procrastinated, it's time to start thinking of last-minute costumes. To help us out we invited fashion designer, celebrity stylist and Lisa's sister—Amanda Valentine.

THE NURTURED HEART APPROACH is a beautiful episode with Howard Glasser, the Founder of the Children’s Success Foundation and creator of the Nurtured Heart Approach®. He likes to think of himself as a voice for children’s greatness so that ultimately children can find their own voice of greatness. Howard’s training background is in family treatment, clinical studies and educational leadership and his body of work has been inspired from his work with some of the most intense and challenging children. He has been referred to as one of the more influential living persons working to reduce children’s reliance on psychiatric medications and his work has been featured on CNN, in Esquire Magazine, as well as in now inspiring a growing number of programs worldwide. Howard is the author of 15 books, including Transforming the Difficult Child, Notching Up the Nurtured Heart Approach, and Igniting Greatness and is a sought after Keynote speaker at conferences in areas of treatment and education. The Nurtured Heart Approach has been successfully adopted by the state of New Jersey’s Coordinated System of Care and is being examined as a model of care by other states as well as being currently researched by both by Rutgers University and the University of Arizona’s Zuckerman School of Public Health with findings soon to be published. He currently teaches certification trainings on his method, teaches at Andrew Weil’s renowned program at the University of Arizona’s School of Integrative Medicine as well as in the new Transformational Wellness program at U of A’s School of Public Health. Howard and I had a moving conversation around ADHD children and our society's need to honor children for who they are and not try to mold them into who we think they should be! For more information on Howard Glasser and The Nurtured Heart Approach, please visit http://www.howardglasser.com For more information on this podcast, please visit www.adhdisover.com

Were our parents good parents? We have no complaints. Well, maybe a few tiny ones. Mentioned: Transforming the Difficult Child by Howard Glasser; The Child with Special Needs by Stanley Greenspan; The No-Cry Sleep Solution by Elizabeth Pantley; psychologist Adele Brodkin.

We talk about raising non-traditional kids and the challenge that goes with them --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/charles-middleton/support

When we think my child is difficult or something is wrong with them, we feel judgement, criticism and negativity.  And those feelings make us act and say negative things to our child.  It doesn't help that the medical world likes to throw labels like 'disorder' on our children.  Heidi will teach you the warning thoughts that you are seeing your child through this distorted lens.  She then shares critical questions to help clean off the lens.  When we honor our children are unique and will bloom in their own season - and that they are ENOUGH, COMPLETE and PERFECT, we see them different.  We are calm and peaceful.

Today's guest is Mary Jordan, a homeschooling mom of 4 kids and one of Bonnie's close personal friends. Mary shares her heartbreaking and beautiful story of infertility including adoption, foster care, IVF and more, as well as some fantastic tips for taking charge of your household. If your role as a mom seems boring or uninspiring, Mary's take on life and motherhood will motivate you and make you cheer! We know you'll love her advice and attitude as much as we do. Follow along on Mary's parenting and IVF pregnancy journey via Instagram @somejordangoodnessTransforming the Difficult Child by Howard Glasser and Jennifer EasleyThe Child Whisperer by Carol TuttleParenting with Love & Logic by Foster Cline & Jim FayWild at Heart by John Eldredge

Proverbs 23 offers some practical and funtional advice on disipling a DIFFICULT hard head unruly child. Listen alomg as Humbledame shares his w she deala with one of her own DIFFICULT kids --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/diamond-chronicles/support

Today I am honored to have Jody Moore on the podcast.  We discuss what it means to have a difficult child and how we as parents can parent them. We also discuss how we define ourselves as moms with difficult children. This was an amazing episode and I know you'll take away exactly what you need to hear. Give it a listen. Show notes: 

The guys at the Shrink Box have a conversation about understanding the range of difficult behaviors in children, providing guidance to parents, future parents and families on how to address them. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shrink-box/support

When Jesse and I got married, I tried so hard to fix him. I saw all of his shortcomings, and I wanted to help him be better. Surprise surprise, this caused a lot of tension. It took a while for me to realize that my job was to focus on myself (and there’s plenty of work to do there) rather than try to change or “fix” other people. This idea goes for our kids, too! In today's episode of The Crystal Paine Show, I'm talking with Jami Amerine about how easy it is to try to fix our kids and how ineffective and stressful this is as a parent. Just recently, one of my kids was really frustrated over their grades. While I was trying to ask them questions to figure out the source of their frustration, they blurted out, “But I NEED to get all A’s!” I stopped and quietly looked them in the eye and said, “Who put that on you?” As in, where did the feeling that you need to get all A’s originate from? Is that something someone else is making you feel like you have to achieve? When I talked more with this child, they admitted that it wasn’t us or their siblings or a friend or a teacher; it was their own self. They felt like they weren’t measuring up to a standard they had set for themselves if they didn’t get all A’s. Mamas, I think most of us have done the same. We’ve created a standard of perfection we feel we must achieve to be a great parent or have a great kid. And if we’re not hitting that self-made standard, we are failing. But, who put that on you?? While we might sometimes feel like there is pressure from outside sources, in most cases, it’s something we’ve put on ourselves. And here’s what I want to gently say to you: “You don’t need to carry that any more.” Lay it down. Let it go. The sooner you stop trying to live up to an impossible standard, the sooner you’ll start experiencing deep joy and fulfillment in being okay with right where you are. As I told my child, “So long as you are doing your best, that’s all that matters.” If you are struggling with parenting or need some encouragement as a mom, you do want to miss today's episode on the secret to being a more peaceful parent (it will likely surprise you!), the importance of raising your kids to be who they are instead of who we think they should be, and how to love a difficult child. In This Episode: [03:26] - What's saving my life this week is my very favorite Apple battery case. I'm constantly asked about this when I'm with people and I am always singing the praises of it! [05:21] - My book pick of the week is an oldie but a goodie: Dear Mr. Knightley by Katherine Reay. [09:50] - Today’s guest was actually recommended by a podcast listener and I'm so grateful this listener took the time to write in and recommend Jami Amerine's book. [11:56] - I ask Jami about her early years of parenting and how she struggled with perfectionism. She shares honestly about the lessons she learned from this. [15:17] - How was Jami able to let go of trying to do everything perfectly? She expresses so much wisdom for all of us -- but especially for those who still have younger kids. [19:04] - I was intrigued by the subtitle of Jami's book and she tells the story behind it and how it wasn't what she picked... but how we both think it fits so well.  [23:20] - What is Jami reading right now? I love her outside-the-box answer! [24:44] - And then she shares how she's giving up sugar (and also gives us a little teaser about her next book that she's writing... that I want to read ASAP!) [27:58] - Today’s listener question is about emotionally adjusting to the reality of giving up being a stay-at-home mom for a new lifestyle. Links and Resources: You Need a Budget (this episode’s amazing sponsor!) Jami Amerine Jami Amerine on Facebook Jami Amerine on Twitter Jami Amerine on Instagram Sacred Ground, Sticky Floors by Jami Amerine Stolen Jesus by Jami Amerine My Favorite Things on Amazon CrystalPaine.com MoneySavingMom.com YourBloggingMentor.com My Instagram account (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal@moneysavingmom.com   Sponsor Spotlight This episode is sponsored by YouNeedaBudget.com — the budgeting software we have personally used for the past two years and absolutely love. We were introduced to this budgeting software by my brother-in-law, Justin, a few years ago. He and my husband, Jesse, are both what I would lovingly refer to as “nerds”. You know the kind of people… those people who think spreadsheets are fun. And who geek out over features in Excel. Yup, those kinds of people. You might as well poke my eyeballs out with a hot iron rod than get to me be giddy over creating spreadsheets. But nevertheless, I love Spreadsheet Nerds because they help keep people like me in line and on track!  Anyway, it was around Christmas time and Justin started telling Jesse about YouNeedaBudget — what we call YNAB for short. Jesse and I had both heard of this software before, but we had been using Quicken for so long that we’d not considered changing to anything else. Well, when Jesse saw the features of YNAB, he was intrigued enough to sign up for the free trial. And it was pretty much love at first sight. Truthfully, I can’t even begin to tell you how often I’ve heard him exclaiming to me, to friends, or just to himself something about, “How cool and helpful YNAB is!” I’m such a pen and paper and cash girl, but after all his raving reviews, I finally gave in and downloaded it on my phone and had him show me how it works. It’s really, really impressive. I love how we can see exactly how we’re doing in every budget in just one glance. And since we have multiple budgets for our businesses and personal, it allows us to track them all in one app. Which is so handy! They usually only offer a 30-day trial, but they are giving you all a FREE 60-day trial so you can really get a feel for it and see how well it works.  Go here to sign up for your FREE 60-Day YNAB trial. Note: This post contains affiliate links. If you click through and make a purchase, we may receive a small commission — at no additional cost to you. Thank you so much for your support!

We all know children that are challenging. Most children are challenging at some point…chances, are we had our moments as well. What can we do when we are working with a child (or adult) that pushes our buttons?

Please won't you be a Patreon?: http://www.patreon.com/theartistathlete Can circus be a vehicle for personal growth? Carrie Heller has spent 30 years in the social circus world, helping clients and creating resources. Carrie and Dr. Lauren Taglialatela show empirical evidence in a data driven study, that circus is good for not just your body, but your brain as well! Shannon sits down with Carrie in her beautiful space in Atlanta to find out how. Carrie's Certifications: MSW:  Masters Degree in Social Work from Tulane University  LCSW: Licensed Clinical Social Worker RPT: Registered Play Therapist   Website: www.circusartsinstitute.com Page about the research paper: www.circusartsinstitute.com/blog/catpublished   READ THE ARTICLE: International Journal of Play Therapy (published by the American Psychological Association):  http://dx.doi.org/10.1037/pla0000068   Social Media Links: https://www.facebook.com/circusartsinstitute/ https://twitter.com/circusartsatl   Regarding positive reinforcement: “The Difficult Child” by Howard Glasser   Research articles on Crossing the Midline http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.2466/pms.1998.86.1.201   Supplemental information: http://blog.sascentre.com/en/midline http://spectrumpediatrics.com/blog/2013/12/crossingmidline/ This podcast is dedicated to CIRCUS. Aerialist, Shannon McKenna interviews guests from acrobats in Cirque du Soleil to circus therapists and everyone in between. Learn the backstage lives of those who flip, twist, sparkle, and shine under the big top. Shannon McKenna is an internationally recognized circus performer and coach. For the past decade, she has been a freelance artist: giving workshops and classes across 7 countries and worked on both traditional and contemporary circus shows in the US, Portugal, Germany, and Australia including the Shrine Circus and SOAP. She holds a BFA from NYU's Tisch School of the Arts with a concentration on post-modern physical theater (how's that for a mouthful?). She founded The Artist Athlete in 2018 as a means to produce educational materials about circus arts including a line of e-books to help aerial artists train safely and a podcast in which she interviews experts in the industry about their careers. If you're reading this, you're probably listening to it. Thank you! She currently lives in whichever circus community is the warmest. Find her online: www.theartistathlete.com Facebook: The Artist Athlete Instagram: @the_artist_athlete

TRACKLIST: 01. Alexander Volosnikov - Air of a New Day (Original Mix) 02. Seven24 & Soty - Today (Original Mix) 03. Vanilla Potatoyes - Juno (Original Mix) 04. Tony Sit - Chillstep of Soul (Original Mix) 05. The Difficult Child - Pyramid (Original Mix) 06. M.Pravda - Taiga (Chill Out Mix) 07. Downtempo Kings - Another World (Original Mix) 08. The Difficult Child - Extravaganza (Chill Out Mix) 09. Downtempo Kings - I'm tired, Trinity! (Original Mix) 10. Vanilla Potatoyes & Anton Seim - Infinity (Original Mix) 11. Virgil Hill - Time of Silence (Original Mix) ▶ Available on Beatport: http://bit.ly/2hJT8Gx ▶ Available on iTunes: Dec. 4, 2017 National Sound Records pooling together 11 exceptional Chill Out and Ambient tracks from highly talented musicians, giving us beautiful journey of relaxing melodies and atmospheric vibes. This new high quality compilation with tracks from M.Pravda, Seven24 & Soty, Vanilla Potatoyes, Downtempo Kings, Alexander Volosnikov, Tony Sit, Virgil Hill and The Difficult Child is one big journey into deep relaxing music. So, sit down, light up and enjoy the trip to new Ambient World 10.0

00:29 Canada Mourns: Nicole is saddened by the loss of two important Canadians, actor John Dunsworth and Gord Downie of The Tragically Hip.06:40 Were Our Parents Good Parents? We have no complaints. Well, maybe a few tiny ones. Mentioned: Transforming the Difficult Child by Howard Glasser; The Child with Special Needs by Stanley Greenspan; The No-Cry Sleep Solution by Elizabeth Pantley; psychologist Adele Brodkin.27:39 Friday Speed Round: Morning Routines: The ability to wake up without an alarm clock is not a universal feature of most kids... or parents.37:33 Roundabout Roundup: Catherine's coloring with the Sandbox app; Nicole's reading SciBabe on Facebook; and Terri recommends these gluten-free goodies: GeeFree puffed-pastry snacks, Lebby Chickpea Snacks, Honey Stinger energy chews, and Garlic Expressions salad dressing.45:04 Shameless Self-Promotion: Terri's tweets from the Gluten-Free and Allergy-Friendly Expo; Star Babies; Nicole's book (again!) on Amazon.Thanks as always to Jon Morin for our fun in-and-out music. If you're reading this somewhere without hyperlinks, come to http://parentingroundabout.com for the full recap experience.

Listen in as Dayna Abraham, Author of the new book The Superkids Activity Guide To Conquering Every Day shares her philosophy on how parents can help empower their children. Be ready to flip your views and see how a child’s struggles and differences  can help them grow. Dayna is full of practical tips and offers a ton of free resources on her Website and Facebook Groups. Dayna is the mother to three totally awesome superkids who inspire her every day to be the best grown-up sidekick they could ask for. When she’s not helping her kids conquer the world, she keeps busy by writing at lemonlimeadventures.com, writing books like Sensory Processing 101, STEAM Kids, and Learn and Play with LEGO®, and drinking lots of coffee. As a little girl, she wished grown-ups and other kids saw her as a superkid, so now she’s made it her mission to inspire kids like you to love who they are and embrace their differences.      

We are so excited to share the beginnings of the Nurtured Heart Approach with our very special guests:  NHA creator, Howard Glasser and co-author of Transforming the Difficult Child, the Nurtured Heart Approach, Jennifer Easley.  Our host for this show will be Josh Kuersten. This podcast was pre-recorded Howard Glasser creator of The Nurtured Heart Approach®  is dedicated to awakening the greatness in all children and in particular the world's intense and challenging children. He is the author of eight books including, Transforming the Difficult Child, currently the top-selling book on ADHD; Notching Up the Nurtured Heart Approach: The New Inner Wealth Initiative, a leading book on school interventions; and All Children Flourishing, on using the Approach with all children, difficult or not. F He is currently working on his latest release entitled Igniting Greatness. Jennifer Easley,  is an elementary school military counselor. Most children I work with are well aware they are at risk of loosing a parent to war or the parent they once knew returns home, forever changed from military trauma. This loss of innocence at such a tender age merits special support and recognition for those small, child warriors! I am deeply gratified to be a part of the child's and families' home support team!  Jennifer co-authored the book that details the Approach with Howard, Transforming the Difficult Child, The Nurtured Heart Approach; and was a huge support and contributor to the book, Transforming the Difficult Child, Stories of Transformaion.  

January Jones-Try Talking to Our Kids? Nationally recognized psychologist and author Dr. James Sutton is a plain-speaking expert who deeply values his early experiences as a teacher. He offers a common sense, relationship-based approach to child behavior and family harmony. His many years of experience and his compassion for young people will come through loud and clear as he shares with your audience ideas that work.  (Many of them are in his latest book, The Changing Behavior Book: A Fresh Approach to the Difficult Child.)

Nationally recognized psychologist and author Dr. James Sutton is a plain-speaking expert who deeply values his early experiences as a teacher. He offers a common sense, relationship-based approach to child behavior and family harmony. His many years of experience and his compassion for young people will come through loud and clear as he shares with your audience ideas that work. (Many of them are in his latest book, The Changing Behavior Book: A Fresh Approach to the Difficult Child.)This show is broadcast live on W4CY Radio (www.w4cy.com) part of Talk 4 Radio (http://www.talk4radio.com/) on the Talk 4 Media Network (http://www.talk4media.com/).